9 months of dating and now he wants kids... | THERAPY THURSDAY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ส.ค. 2024
- We brought back a fan favorite and decided to do a couple of THERAPY THURSDAY entries. WE ARE NOT LICENSED THERAPISTS. We just like giving friendly advice.
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This is just a suggestion but can you do more Therapy Thursdays here and there about different things not just relationship maybe friendships and even just advices in general you both pretty great at it so...
Oh just more in general 😫 I miss these
i agree! i sent in a therapy thursday about one of my friends and it kind of saddens me when they only choose ones about relationships :(
@@urphatluva cause I got one for a friend to submit!!!! A few actually so let’s hope they open up submissions soon cause my story is burning a hole in my fingers.
Distance is not the reason why he cheated on you. People who are close by with their partners gets cheated on too. He cheated because he wanted to.Leave and love yourself because he will do it again .You have eyes and “weaknesses “ and didn’t cheat, so why would he? Your trust was broken by this disrespect sugarcoated as “weakness “ . He disrespected you and he will do it again . Leave love
Well said. I agree!
Periodttt
Your advice is so on target!!👍🏽
I die at Isi’s reactions every time Josh reads a story about a couple not being compatible or having issues and then he hits her with “oh and they cheated on me”
“It’s a wrap”😭
I was just thinking about you guys and then you uploaded! QUALITY intuition at its finest😂❤️
The girl whose bf wants a baby tell them to get a dog first to see how y’all work together on that first.
🤣🤣!
I mean this is a pretty good idea.
Yup! How he’ll raise the dogs will tell you all you need to know. Coming from a dog owner, people think its easy whew chile, vet bills, food, take the dog at least once a month to get washed and groomed, the puppy stage….. you get my point lol 😩
Yall really be on a roll as of late im livingggggg!!!
Yesss guys!! loved this. I love Josh’s energy when he speaks about being a future father. My husband and I are a little older than you guys (27&29) and this is the same sentiment we felt prior to getting married and then deciding to start our family.
My husband is the BEST daddy to our daughter (super hands-on, involved, patient, loving, etc.) using the ‘blueprint’ he learned of what not to do.
Bc of this self growth and intentional conversations as we moved into parenthood, my primary emotion when I describe my experience is that I love it. It does feel like a higher purpose and that centers me.
Is it perfect and am I perfect? Of course not lol but it’s not supposed to be and I love it. You guys will be amazing parents!! 🤎
3 videos in one week and it’s only Thursday?? Okayyy look at y’all serving us!! Loved this relationship advice video but I do agree that an advice video for general life and not just relationships would be pretty great too!!
the lightning and the set up is giving 🥰❤
I gotta say, these first two submissions really dug in. But that first one spoke to me so much cause that moving on in any relationship where you really cared about someone always hurts.
I love how loving and communicative they are. Just in one accord in mindset. #Jisi 💖💖
Jisi......❤ it
I absolutely love you guys! I’ve been watch Josh and Ise since Beaute and Bo! I love watching you guys grow. I’ve watched you guys through my breakups and hardships in relationships and subconsciously manifested the man I knew I deserved. We are now happily married. Thank you guys for paving the way of what GENUINE Black love looks like! 💗
*This is probs the longest comment I've ever made on this channel so bear with me lol*
As a person who's been in a relationship for 2 and 1/2 years and the first year was long distance, we always made plans together and we were on the phone almost every day. He made the effort to always check in when he's free, tag me in memes and do a lot of things virtually. I've also went over to visit him and spend time with me and we've went places together. I say this saying that that mans who cheated on you, will find a way to do it again if there is no actions. Like if he's not like at least checking in and validating you, then sis make your moves, go through the grieving process and make moves.
ALSO for the sweet bean who wants to live her best life, do just that and stand your ground honey. You should not have to be forced to pause your live for pressing play on someone elses. Experience life and just like Josh and Isi said, you need to just show him this video lol. If he gets huffy, betta head out love.
Shout out to the hater who disliked a 25 min video 2 mins after they posted it 😂
Lmao they were on time and Still gave a view so 💁🏾♀️👏🏾
y'all just out here blessing my screen! 🤌🏾🤌🏾
Yesss, I’m glad y’all back with this. I watch and support anything you two post, but this is my favorite part. I missed it.
Yes yes yes!!!!! More therapy Thursday I really admire how you guys cherish our 20s it makes me want to cherish mine and matter fact I AM!!!!! I love you guys!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm super happy y'all uploaded 🥰 i love y'all. Y'all don't even understand
Been enjoying your relatable content … feels good when you tubers break down that wall like you guys do in your pod cast like videos.
Y’all get straight to the m’f quality point, thank you! 🙌🏽
Throwback I’ve missed it love you guys 💙
Love this angle. Idk what it is but it gives me couch conversation/couch therapist vibes. 🛋🛋🛋
It’s more intimate that’s what it is! Y’all should do this angle every once in a while.
You guys give such amazing advice! I agreed with all of it. 💯 I love seeing you happy, your relationship is so healthy and goals and you also give me hope that one day I'll find someone who loves me for who I truly am
Ugh I miss tea time Tuesday. The gems, the advice and the energy is unmatched
Yeeeesssss quality video and content!!!!! Everyday after work I look forward to yall videos my fav Chicago TH-camrs!!!!!!
Isi in that dress😍😍😍
Missed therapy Thursday’s so much 😩💕
The advice that you guys gave on childhood trauma, I am taking it for myself even though the trauma is different.This Therapy Thursday was fosho one of the best.#weneedmore
I swear you guys are it 😍😍
For the girl that is trying to leave a toxic relationship but doesnt one to lose the other friend that has been good to her i just wana say that maybe she should be honest with the good guy. Tell him she values his friendship and wants to date but not at the moment. What I did with my current bf was I warned him I got out of a toxic relationship and I needed time. I wanted to keep our friendship but to slow into the relationship because I was carrying alot of baggage from the previous relationship. We were building a friendship before I decided to end up dating him. Because I warned him ahead of time that I was going to have a lot of issues (anxiety, trust issues, etc) he was patient and it gave him a heads up if I threw him off. It took alot of self healing and self character building but while I was doing that, my bf was willing to pursue the friendship and relationship. So it was a year long friendship process and then the next year we decided to officially date once I felt ready and healed from the abusive relationship. What I can say now is I'm grateful he was willing to take his time and wait for me to heal. So hopefully that guy is willing to be supportive too. But I know not everyone is like that. I hope it works out.
I like the new setup ♡
AHHHH THEY READ MINE FINALLY 😭😭😭
Thankyou so much for the advice and everyone in the comments who are adding on too🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The way I thought about when you were gonna post today and you did!! You both be looking so beautiful
the quality vid, and quality camera really love y'all channel
y'all gon be some great parents
This quality though 🔥🔥🔥 unmatched 🔥🔥🔥👌lovin it
The girl with the boyfriend who doesn't want kids. I think he needs to decide on his own without any pressure if he wants kids. No one should be pressured to have kids, that's how kids end up with bad parents
He didn't even hit a year mark yet and he already talking about kids.. you need to make a move when your ready, not when he is.. I was married once to someone I was in a relationship for 10 years and it ended because she tried to tell me she wanted kids.. I was 25 when we broke up.. I told her "look I want kids but not now, I want to live in my 20s and just want it to be just us right now. Once we get to our 30s then we can talk about it".. she was mad at me and got drunk and cheated one me.. after that my heart was broken and raw.. I left.. the best thing you need to do is stay ready for yourself and move on that when your ready.. your body belongs to you, so you have to make the right decision that is right for yourself
I luv y’all so much
Yall give really good advice. I almost cried when Josh was talking about being a father😭
Love y’all !!❤️
Watching this made me feel so much better I have food poisoning today so I def needed this
Ughhh the background is sooo nice😍😍😍
Love you guys❤️🌻
I love it. I know y'all are trying to boss up in content which is why we have the microphones now, but when it's like this it just feels so much more personal!
Perfect after school activity * grabs popcorn * this Gon be good ☺️☺️☺️
The energy tho 🔥🔥🔥
Y’all be speaking so much facts i be trynna hit the like button like this is Instagram 😭🥰…but I love that I have you guys as like the grown up healthy in love big cousins…. God knew what he was doing when I found y’all ❤️
Love you guys!
QUALITY CREW WHAT STATE YALL IN (or country) drop it down in the comments? 👇🏾 Also to anyone who needs the encouragement, it’s gonna get better. REMEMBER life is temporary and so is the pain. No emotion last forever. Endure the season, and don’t grow weary in well doing. For in due time you will reap a harvest if you faint not👏🏾💕❤️🩹
Thank you and I'm in KY from TN
New Orleans 😄
Such a sweet message💛 and I’m in England :))
Canada
I'm engaged to my guy best friend I waited a year after dating another guy to get into the relationship with my best friend ☺️
# quality crew
Therapy Thursday😍😍
I need moreeeee
hey yall!!!
Josh & isi 🥰❤️❤️
You guys give good advice.
Isi skin😍
I love how Isi looks at Josh everytime after they say 'another quality video' 😢😢
I agree with Isi about the girl and her best friend. Just be honest and let him know you have feelings for him but you're not ready and you both can talk it out. If you never say anything he might move on to someone else
5:44 - 5:46 had me tripping you guys are so in sync
omg so close to 200,000
Im hereeeeee
Even tho I like this, I really miss the Tea Time Tuesday
Love you guys!!!! #og #qc
I never comment on videos ,but here early today
I can’t wait till y’all have kids😭🥺
Not me being a little early !!!!
never never neverrrrr!!! 🤣👍🏾!
Yessss I'm early
Damn i clicked so fast
Both of you have been giving me jump scares having kids in your titles
To the second girl who got cheated on, just leave him he’s not worth it, it wasn’t a mistake and why would the girl feel comfortable kissing him?
Can we get more #storytimes 😂
Ayeeeee
Y’all should do the best friends forever tik tok dance lol
#beautygang
My boyfriend wants kids now and we just made a year. I told him that I want to get my bachelors degree and move out or my moms house before I even think about having kids. He understands that but he want to have kids before he hits a certain age & he’s 2 years older than me. I’m 21 & he’s about to turn 23 next month. I told him once I have my degree in hand and I’m out of my moms house, then we can legitimately talk about having kids. Plus I want to enjoy my 20s like he is lol. I don’t want to be in my early 20s with a baby 🙄 even though it’s nothing wrong with that, it’s just my preference.
Girl! Get that bachelor’s degree and don’t answer him. You’re still very young and have a lot to live for. Enjoy your 20s. Y’all barely just made a year and not married . Don’t have kids with anyone if you’re not ready to. Get a dog together instead
You're both still very young, don't let him rush you into kids esp since you've both not been dating that long. It's not a good idea. Focus on your goals, you'll be my happier and settled for when you finally decide to have kids. Good luck
@@angelieoz right, thanks for the advice!
The deal breaker?
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And isi, is that the skims dress???
yes
This video is too short 🥲🥲💔
Let me just say I'm from the caribbean so that culture excuse dead it. Sis no is no. Im tired of all these women becoming baby mamas to men who leave them by the wayside after acting right for a minute till a child gets here. Ya'll ain't learned from safaree? That child is to make sure they still have an attachment to you and can still keep a connection with you. Now look you at home with the baby while he out looking for his next victim. IM TIDE OF SEEING IT! LAWD! Ya'll were being nice about it but that's a aint ish man.. HE GETS IT.. HE UNDERSTANDS WHAT YOU'RE SAYING.. sis he wanna stump that growth and dull that brain in your head! He doesn't like that "independant" ish you're on! This type of man thrives off of dependency and knowing he can control you! SNAP OUT OF IT!
Does your IG have to be public for you guys to get the DM?
nope