I started watching your videos recently and I know how hard this must be for you . I had a miscarriage but then conceived my 9 year old and was blessed with a healthy pregnancy, but things got very difficult when we started trying for a second child. First I was having major issues conceiving (we later found out my prolactin levels were elevated) once we got treatment and testing we started trying again but started having recurrent miscarriages and chemical pregnancies (with unknown causes). my testing always came back "normal" but it seemed anything but normal to me. after several miscarriages we were blessed with our second long term and healthy pregnancy 5 years ago. over the last 5 years alone I have had 10 miscarriges and 5 chemical pregnancies, every single one I have ever had was devastating and ripped my heart to pieces but I didn't give up hope that I would start and expand my little family. it was so hard to push through the pain while grieving but continuing to try helped me through the process. I had my 3rd child 2-1\2 years ago and with 2 miscarriages in between I am currently pregnant with my fourth and final addition to our family. if I had given up hope and stopped trying, I would never have been blessed with the 4 amazing children I have now. try to stay strong, everything happens for a reason and I will pray for you that you are blessed the same way I was. I will never forget all of the children I never got the chance to hold but I have comfort in knowing that when my time is up, I will see them all one day. I will pray for your miracle and for you to have the extra strength and support you need during this time. best of luck to you.
Thank you so much for sharing your amazing & inspiring journey! I'm so sorry for all of the heartache you have had to endure- that number of losses is just unimaginable to me! You are one incredible woman, & I want to thank you for giving me hope! Congratulations on your precious children, & thank you again
I'm so upset that you guys have to go through this, it is truly unfair. I believe with all of this suffering there HAS to be something beautiful ahead for you two.
the same thing happened to me with my daughter who will be 2 months in a couple days. my hcg levels rose very slowly and they also saw a body of fluid in my uterus surrounding her, they asked if i had been bleeding (i hadn't) they thought for sure i was going to miscarry very soon. that didn't happen. it took her awhile to grow also, after week 10 is when she finally started growing fast and on time.
New subscriber here 😊 I have binge watched your videos and wanted to say I am praying for you and sending good thoughts your way. I hope today little turtle was able to prove the nurses and the doctor wrong. Each baby is unique and it bothers me how doctors can be so quick to come to conclusions. Too much information can be bad sometimes. Hang in there and try to stay positive. If anything, this pregnancy came to show that you are perfectly able to conceive and maybe you don't need to put your body through the stress of IVF. Sending love and baby dust your way!
Oh, thank you so much for your kind words! You're absolutley right- too much information can be bad sometimes. Yes, we are so glad we are perfectly able to conceive naturally after believing otherwise. We're just not sure whether IVF will still need to be done in order to do PGS on our embryos.. I'd like to think we can create a healthy baby naturally, but it's hard to know how many more miscarriages we will need to go through in order to get there. Thanks so much for the love & baby dust!
You are such an amazing person Celeste. You are not alone on this journey because we are all with you. Sending you all the strength and love to help you through this xxx
I wish the best for you! I did ivf due to male factor and we did the testing on ourselves and our embryos everything looked good but after that I lost 4 babies all early in pregnancy... I got tested for everything and the tests came back normal but my Dr. said there are more immune issues than there are tests for them and she treated me as if I had an immune issues I was on immune suppressors and blood thinners and we transferred our last embryo and it worked now I'm close to delivery.... I would talk to your Dr. about that if your tests come back normal because so many losses isn't normal regardless of what the tests say hugs I'm sorry your going through all of this
Thanks so much for sharing your experience- I didn't realise that about immune issues, so will be sure to mention it to my OB. I'm sorry for all of your losses, but so thrilled to hear you're close to welcoming your precious rainbow! Wishing you all the very best
Celeste, I am so sorry you have to go through this horrible pain of miscariages. I have never has one, but I can only imagine how you feel. God has a plan, and keep your chin up.
Thanks for the update. You have been in my thoughts and prayers. You seem so sweet and amazing. I know that God is going to bless you with a baby. Keep being strong and keep the faith/hope.
Wow Coops!! 😳 cats make such weird noises sometimes! Haha. Such a weird place to be in... You want answers but at the same time you want everything to be fine so that you still have a chance of being able to conceive naturally, as well as being able to put hope into your little frosty!! As always you guys are forever in our thoughts and prayers 💕 one day Celeste, you'll have your little bub to cuddle 🌈 P.s. So glad you're changing clinics!! X
They really do! It was so unlike him- he's just clearly very territorial! lol Yes, it is a weird place to be in- we've now come to realise that it's clearly possible for us to conceive naturally, but now uncertain as to whether we should be doing IVF in order to get our embryos tested to avoid future miscarriages.. It's so hard to know. Thank you
Ooh, Celeste, :c So, so SAD to hear You're going thru' this.. I really didn't expect this happening, again.. You poor thing. You are so Brave & Courageous having to go through all of this... Your Strength will help You persevere, doesn't seem like the kind to give up.. Thank God & The Universe You, Two, have each other at this time... You are very Intelligent n' Resourceful of all that's going on with You n' Your body... (Have You ever thought about doing any Modeling? Your are gorgeous n' Your complexion is flawless. You put Your make-up on so professionally. (I use to be a make-up artist years ago.) Celeste, You, really could be a Model. It pays very well. At least, the young women I worked for did... Bright Blessings.
Thank you so much for your kind & encouraging words, and also for your compliments. I haven't thought about doing modelling- not sure I'd be confident enough for it.. Tim & I are definitely very thankful to have each other at this time. Thanks again
Just found your channel today and I went through the same terrible things you are. I'm am so sorry! My first miscarriage baby would be graduating this year. I did have two healthy boys! I've not heard you talk about taking progesterone. Making sure they are having you take it daily! It saved my babies lives. I didn't produce it on my own. God bless you!
I also had to take Clomid to prepare my eggs before conception bc my estrogen levels were in the "normal range" but not enough to properly prepare my eggs.
I agree with you 100% that all testing should be done prior to starting any treatment to eliminate possible failure. Seems like such a money grab to do IVF or any treatments without Drs knowing what the problems are. I had the same problem with my clinic that after the fact and multiple losses they decided to do further testing, which also cost so much. It's disheartening & sucks a lot! But at the end of the day us in the TTC community will do everything to have a healthy rainbow baby in our arms. You are strong 🙏💋
It sure does seem like such a money grab..! It just makes no logical sense. And surely they see this kind of thing happening all the time! You're absolutely right- at the end of the day we will do everything we can to have our healthy baby in our arms. You are strong too- keeping you in our thoughts!
I just came across your channel today. Thank you, to you and your hubby, for sharing your journey with so many. It should not be taboo but unfortunately, it is. I went through a miscarriage last year November. Nearly two weeks ago, my son died. The pain is excruciating. I hope you and your husband get your dreams fulfilled. I sincerely hope you continue to be fruitful and every pregnancy is completed with a healthy, ful-termed baby. Blessings and continued peace.
Thank you of your kind words. I am so sorry for your loss last year, & for your most recent incredibly tragic loss.. Our hearts break for you & your family. Sending you so much love & strength. We will be sure to keep you in our prayers
My heart just aches for you!! I pray that you and Tim will be blessed with a precious baby soon!! I don't know what your finances are but I can recommend an amazing doctor and clinic in California!! I've done IVF twice and gong for our third next year! I pray that you find the right clinic and medical staff!!! Negative people can really affect ones hopes and dreams of having a baby and they totally suck! I wish so bad that I could reach through this screen and hug you!!! Sending you love and hugs from Texas!!!
You will continue to be in my prayers!❤️ if I was in your situation I would not do a D&C until no heart beat was confirmed! Your baby might need extra time ✨ either decision you make I am praying for you 🙏🏼
I had the sound turned up and the cat screaming sent my dogs into a frenzy lol. You are so strong and you will find that reason. Whatever it may be, it will be worth it. I hope and pray that you will get your happy ending soon. Until then, I will continue to pray for peace that passes all understandings. For Christ to strengthen you both and carry you through this time of sorrow. Your time of rejoicing will come, it may not come in the way you think or want but it will come. Be strong, Be brave, be faithful and he will give you your hearts desire. ❤❤
Been thinking of you today. I'm glad doctor will give you antibiotics this time, as you mentioned yourself it's a small risk but why would you take the risk. I wish you a quick recovery from D&C and I hope you and Tim will decide on what to do next tests wise. I also glad you won't use your clinic for IVF next time. I'm sure there are some other places with great caring nurses also it's always good to get a second opinion. PS poor Cooper!!! He was almost speaking English! And that cat outside showing off was so funny.. I hope they cheered up you a little bit. I'm praying for your happiness xx
Yes, I felt a lot better having antibiotics this time- one less thing to worry about! Haha I know! Cooper WAS almost speaking English lol And the other cat wasn't paying any attention- couldn't care less! Poor Coop's.. Hope Jeffrey didn't get worked up hearing it! Thanks so much lovely
Celeste, I've told your story to so many people and they all say how strong of a woman you are. You'll get your baby one day, and I promise you'll be the best mother ever. I can only imagine how you feel, thinking it's you're fault because of your tubes. It's not you fault. You're doing everything right. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you get your baby very soon. Don't let your nasty nurses who don't believe in miracles get to you. You'll get it one day, I promise ❤️💜💙
aww hun. ive been praying for u all. ive been looking for update everyday. you are an amazing strong woman. i know you dont feel it right now. i know how you feel and its so heartbreaking. ill keep praying. xoxo and hugs and lots and lots of baby dust your way everyday
I have been thinking about you Celeste. Immediately watched your video for an update. I'm still going to pray everything goes well for you. I know how you feel. I felt numb and didn't want to do anything during the day's leading up to my medical intervention d&c. My heart goes out to you and your hubby. hugs and kisses girl!! I'll be thinking about you tomorrow.
I hope today went as well as it could for you both. Genetics would be the next thing i would look at as well. I am sure there would be further tests they can do for you both after your history and getting it all done before your next transfer sounds like a great plan! Sending good vibes your way hun
Been thinking of you guys! Hope the procedure goes well xx There is a light at the end of this dark tunnel, you guys will be holding your baby one day, one way or another. Praying for answers in the near future
I am so sorry you and Tim are going through this very difficult time in your life. I think like you and would want to get tested before another IVF. I love that Cooper was protecting his home. Good boy! Hugs, Jill
Your such a brave and inspiring person I am very sorry that u are going threw this I am praying this is ur little bean and all goes well. I have been an ectopic pregnancy and 3 miscarriages. I have 2 beautiful boys and have been trying again for baby 3 for 5 years. I have my right tube and ovary no left side. Baby dust our ways and stay strong hun
I'm so sorry for your losses.. Sounds like your journey to baby #3 has been a very long one- praying your baby is just around the corner! Thanks for your lovely words
i didn't have a d&c and i was 12 weeks pregnant when my baby died , i went through it naturally with a drug called misorostol it took over 6 weeks to fully clear my uterus bit now im 6 months pregnant with my baby boy , ask your doctor about misoprostol it also promotes a healthier uterus lining by completely shedding your last one xx
I'm still praying for you guys.....what will be.....will be I guess....I'm so glad that you won't be dealing with those nasty nurses moving forward.....I've been a nurse since 2005.....I've never come into contact with any quite as heartless as what you've been dealing with....its a shame really....most of us have chosen this career to be of help in a persons time of need......bless you and Tim and your unborn little turtle baby......I hope you find the strength to get through this together....whatever "this" may be.....much love and hugs!!!!!
It is a shame, & quite shocking to have had to deal with a number of nasty nurses. Like you said, most nurses do chose their career with a desire to help people.. Thank you so much for your kind words & prayers
I am so so very sorry and will be hoping that you can find the strength to keep going on this journey. I started watching you in preparation of my own TTC journey. So thank you for being so brave and posting such a private matter online. Have you ever encountered immune testing? there is another youtube user who was experiencing many miscarriages also. She was finally able to conceive after immunological testing and therapy with a reproductive immunologist. In particular, it was her elevated natural killer cells activity, amountg other things that was problematic. Dr. Kwak in Chicago IL is very well known for this therapy.
Thanks for your kind words. I have been tested for natural killer cells, & it all come back normal. Thanks so much for the suggestion though. Wishing you all the very best in our TTC journey!
I see. This must be so disheartening not to have any answers. I was also looking into the Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine because their freezing technique is very advanced allowing for many embryos to survive PDG testing. Perhaps you are already at a facility like this. I pray that you find your answers soon. My heart is with you.
When your time comes for your special Lil one you will be an amazing mom. I hope you find comfort today as you find out the results to your ultrasound. God bless you Celeste and Tim.
Oh Celeste, I was hoping for better news for you and Tim. My heart just breaks for you. Hopefully you'll get the answers you need and can move forward to a healthy baby in your arms. I'm sending you so much love and positive thoughts. Hugs ❤❤❤
Wtf i fell asleep and woke up to your cats screaming and thought my cats were fighting omg Also, you are such an strong woman. What an inspiration, celeste ❤
You and Tim are such strong people with beautiful souls. I really hope that you find the answers to all of your questions and eliminate whatever the causes behind this miscarriages. We did our IVF in Melbourne IVF and the staff are just lovely. Just in case you might want to check it. Good luck to whatever your next steps would be. We will be thinking of you always. ❤️
U are making sense, and I think u are right. Why not test for everything before spending so much money on ivf. I feel like medicine is all about business and not about the patients as it should be. Keep moving forward u are strong. I read a quote this morning that touched my heart. When it rains look for the rainbow. When its dark look for the stars. This really isnt easy, and only time can heal these wounds. Ill keep u in my thoughts.
Yes, I think you might be right.. Probably comes down to money making unfortunately. Thanks so much for your kind words & the beautiful quote! Loved it
Lots of prayers and love still praying there will be a heartbeat tomorrow god bless y'all and your beautiful family #prayerforbabyturtle 🐢👶🏼❤️💛💚💙💜🌈🐢🐢🐢🐢
If you had to go for D&C would you have the scratch done too? (At least I think it is completely different procedure to D&C) My thoughts are with both of you. Glad to hear you have some great friends near by. xxx
so sorry for what u and Tim go through. it is very emotional and exhausting. but I pray u will have your miracle baby. don't give up. but yes I agree to change clinics..they seem so rude. u want nurses to uplift your spirits and be there for you.they seemed awful. but much much prayers for you and the miracle baby u will receive.
Celeste I know you and Tim have been through so much and heart goes out to y'all. Trust that you will receive a blessing soon. I will continue to pray for you both. Much love
I'm praying for y'all! I'm still hoping for good news for you today. My mother in law had a miscarriage and the doctor's mistakenly took out one of her ovaries. She went on to have 3 more miscarriages but she had 4 beautiful children all out of one ovary. My mother had a miscarriage in between my older sister and me. The day that baby was supposed to be born, she felt me move for the first time. I don't have any kids yet. My husband and I would love too. I'm praying for y'all. Please don't give up hope. Have faith that it will happen.
I have never heard a cat scream soo loud before omg!🙈 i have two cats myself one hardly makes a sound and the other not so loud.... Bless your heart Celeste, this journey is incredible hard but i pray you get all the answers you need through the chromosomes testing, i pray for a miracle for you both. Always love your little quotes at the end😙💕💛
I wish this wasn't the outcome :( Sometimes things just make no sense, and it's especially frustrating when there is no explanation. Hugs! ps - I'm glad to hear you won't be subjected to those nurses anymore in the future. And I hope poor Cooper recovered from the upset with the stray cat lol
It's always so hard to see you talking. It makes me so emotional. The PGS testing only has 1% rate of harming embryos now - as I was told by Consultant, so maybe get more information about PGS? The PGS will certainly tell you more about your embryos. Have you tested for C4M2? Using clexane through the transfer could dramatically reduce miscarriage rates - i am using it next FET. Sending you love and hugs as always xx 💕
Oh that's good to know- I didn't realise that about PGS testing. I'm assuming C4M2 will be tested & included in the Karyotype testing? I'm not sure.. I did mention Clexane to my OB after you mentioned it to me, but he said it wouldn't usually be given if we have had tests that have come back normal. Perhaps I'll have to do some research, & ask him about it again.. Thank you lovely
Hugs and I am so sorry that this keeps happening to you. I will continue to pray for you and hope that you can find the reason for the miscarriages so that u can correct the issue at hand or find another alternative. Please take care of youself and give Tim a hug too! I imagine this is hard on him too.
Stay strong ask ur OBGYN more questions and what u can do To prevent another miscarriage.their most be away for u ,ur such A beautiful person wish u luck keep praying
I had Karyotyping done due to 3 previous early losses and my doctor said the chance of something being wrong was extremely low. Well, as it turns out my husband was normal and I have what is called an inversion on my 9th chromosome. Basically it puts me at an increase risk for future losses. The outcomes can be a) a normal embryo b) an embryo with my exact inversion with no health effects from it c) an embryo with problems that miscarries. d) a baby born with birth defects. I have been told IVF with PGS testing is our best option. I hope your tests come back ok and that you don't have to worry about chromosome issues :)
Both Tim & I got our blood taken this morning to get the Karyotype testing done.. Our doctor said the same thing to us- that the chances of something being wrong was around 1%... But we could easily be that 1%, you just never know.. I'm sorry your results weren't what you were hoping for.. It must be a bit of a relief that with PGS, there is still a chance of creating a normal embryo. It's still a lot to have to go through though.. I am quite nervous about what the results will be, but I guess we'll just have to wait & see. Wishing you all the very best with your journey towards a healthy baby
You are so beautiful 😍 can I ask what kind of mascara you use ? I pray, and wish you all the best of luck in the future! Baby will come to you, I'm sure of it ! ❤️❤️❤️
I've only just recently found your channel, so I don't know the whole story and what all you've had tested so far, but have you considered your thyroid? Thyroid disorders can directly affect fertility and cause trouble conceiving as well as miscarriages. I've heard of plenty of women who've gone years thinking there's some other fertility problem just to come to finally find that it's been a thyroid disorder the whole time. Your levels need to be within a very specific range in order to safely conceive and carry a pregnancy, so someone who has a thyroid disorder will need to have their levels monitored closely while TTC and during pregnancy to ensure that thyroid medication is working how it should. Whatever the issue may be, I hope you get answers soon so you won't have to keep going through these losses. ❤️
Hang in there hun praying all will go well and this is just a hiccup in your fertility journey. It can be such an emotional journey especially when you wonder why me. I just had a laprioscopy surgery done today to see if I had endometriosis due to having poor egg quality . Thankfully all clear however knowing I poss have poor egg quality is stressful in it self. your not alone hun stay strong.😁
First of all so sorry to hear about your miscarriage, heart breaks for you both god willing your time will come. In relation to egg quality I rang my doctor after laprioscopy to get feedback she then told be my right ovary was smaller than left and had a lot of scarring on right side possibly from having an appendicitis when I was 10. Hence not producing alot of eggs during ivf cycle. Praying for all us ladies to have preggy bellys soon . 😁
Good luck 🍀 We haven't been lucky enough to get past a beta...I would imagine it's more heartbreaking to have a loss after that. Wow. You are so strong!
Tim and Celeste thank you, and thanks for subscribing. We will follow your journey as you go along now instead of playing catch up :) Lovely couple!! Cheers -Brandi
I have waited for your update video I prayed for you and your family. God has a plan for you baby. Stop crying and before you go to bed say I'm pregnant the baby is healthy I'm healthy. It's so sad your dr are not positive but we are. So let's get this baby !!!!!!!
Celeste I am so sorry that this keeps happening, I wish I easy your pain. I know in the States when you have a D&C they can test embryo for genetic issues. Maybe this is a first step in finding out if there is another problem. Because if it comes back yes this might mean you might have to have PGS/PGD testing if you do IVF again.
Yes, we're hoping they will be able to test the embryo for genetic issues. Our last missed miscarriage the baby was tested and came back with the chromosomal abnormality Triploid. We're definitely preparing ourselves for the possibility of having to do IVF again in order to do PSG/PGD, despite being able to conceive on our own. Thank you for your kind words
love you guys❤❤ haven't watched this yet as it is very late in Australia at the moment but i will watch it first thing when i wake up and leave a comment.
I wish I could bake something for you! I believe baked goods have some healing power. But Texas is pretty far away unfortunately. Anyways I hope you get some answers soon and find out why this keeps happening to you. I believe you will get your precious baby some day and it will be worth the wait! Hugs to you!!
Oh you're so lovely :) I agree- they do have some healing power! We had our friends drop off caramel slice today also- we're being very spoilt! Thank you so much for your kind words
Seems like a good plan to test people prior to IVF if they've had multiple miscarriages, especially if the cause is still unknown and other tests come up normal. I agree with you there. So sorry this couldn't be your rainbow baby. Holding hope that the one will happen quite soon. My thoughts are with you at this so difficult time. Keeping you both in my prayers. xo
My heart breaks for you, I see myself in you, I'm so sorry sweetie. it's hard it really is, I understand. it's even worse when you don't have signs because it makes you want to hold on to hope. I literally spotted one time in my miscarriage which made it harder to believe I was having a miscarriage. I wish you the best of luck. I hope tomorrow goes well for you. I'll be praying.
Have u ever been tested for MTHFR? I had multiple miscarriages and after many years I was finally diagnosed with it. Some doctors believe it does not have an impact on pregnancy but it seemed to be our problem. It's a vitamin deficiency which I now take Folgard for. It's worth asking about. I know mine was confirmed by blood work. Fingers crossed for u and Tim :)
Dear Celeste, I only want to tell you that there is going to be an end to this story. A happy one! I've been there...you are not alone in this journey. Try to stay optimistic, visualize yourself with the baby in your arms...it will happen.
I'm sure that your going to film pregnancy videos and kids later. Please try to keep you head up. As I told you, I'be been there, I've lost pregnancies, than chemical, than ectopic.....a lot of investigations. I found out I had some trombophilia mutations ( I don't know the word in English)....so go ahead with medical investigation and pray. I will do it also.
Is there a way to unblock Fallopian Tubes? Naturally or with Surgery. My Gynecologist never gave me any antibiotics, yet alone recommend me to make sure I don't catch an infection.
Well when I had the Laparoscopy last year, dye was flushed through my tubes to determine whether they were blocked. The left had no flow, & the right had sluggish flow. Just 4 weeks after that surgery I fell pregnant, so the flushing of my right tube definitely helped clear some kind of blockage! Yeah, I've come to realise antibiotics isn't commonly offered for some reason..
- Thanks for your help, and does the blockage increase throughout the years or it stays the same i was never warned about receiving infections and it's a little over 2 years since this happened to me. Although I have been trying to conceive for about a year and nothing seemed to happen, so I left it in gods hands and there's still no change. Every now and then it just comes to mind that not even a (woops) happened.
With my pregnancy I went in and they couldn't find anything until I was around 12 weeks I bled and they told me to get a d&c I refused and I went back a week later and my levels went from 188 to 8000. now I have a beatiful daughter who is 7 months old now.
I've heard a few success stories with woman doing the caster oil massage to unblock their tubes, I don't know if you've heard of it but worth a little research. I've seen some videos on here for it. Good luck for tomorrow. Xx
im sure you are careful but just be safe not to handle the cat litter that can cause miscarraiges if the cat has a specific bactria but im sure you are aware of that im praying yall have a happy cycle and get that bfp that sticks
watch follow the hills theyre having problems w infertility she also just had a procedure done to fix her tubes mayb something u should look into to help unclog the tube thats blocked. best of luck.
I do watch follow the hills- Priscilla had the same procedure that I had in November last year. However a Laparoscopy is not a procedure that will fix the tubes- it's a procedure to see if there are any blockages in the tubes, as well as to check for any signs of endometriosis. The dye that was flushed through my tubes did help to unclear my left tube, as I conceived 4 weeks after that surgery, & twice more since. Thanks for the luck!
thinking of you guys I am totally shocked that you did not have Karyotyping tests before even starting IVF the is a standard test before even starting IVF in most clinics, I think you need to be on at least perdnisole and blood thinners for the next transfer, as not asll auto immune issues are tested for that can cause early loss and implantation failures, I wish you guys all the very very best but I think you need a new clinic I really do. x
Hun have you thought removing both your tubes? I did for mine and I got pregnant because the tubes are blocked with toxins and scar tissue that it might leak through the tubes and into the blood stream just putting it out there hun
Why do they recommend a d&c? Can't it happen naturally ? Doesn't that ruin your uterus ? And cause more problems with miscarriages, that's what I've learned
It could take many weeks for my body to miscarry naturally, & a natural miscarriage can be a very long recovery & very physically taxing. You're also at more risk of infection if your body doesn't pass all of the pregnancy tissue on it's own, which often happens. A D&C is a very safe & common procedure, & the risks of complications are rare. Scar tissue to the uterine wall happens more often when the D&C is done after a miscarriage has tried to happen naturally. I was also meant to have an endometrial scratch done before my FET, so I won't have to do that now as the D&C acts similarly. Everyone obviously has different preferences as to which option they choose- I guess it just comes down to what the individual feels most comfortable with doing, & the D&C was the best option for us.
loopy76 loopy they do D&C due to her body not kicking out the miscarriage. Not sure where you learned that D&C leads to additional miscarriages, but that is absolutely NOT true. D&Cs are mostly safe procedures and are fairly routine.
I was given antibiotics after this D&C, to prevent infection. A natural miscarriage can actually put you at higher risk of infection and/or haemorrhaging, which is the main reason they recommend D&C's.
I started watching your videos recently and I know how hard this must be for you . I had a miscarriage but then conceived my 9 year old and was blessed with a healthy pregnancy, but things got very difficult when we started trying for a second child. First I was having major issues conceiving (we later found out my prolactin levels were elevated) once we got treatment and testing we started trying again but started having recurrent miscarriages and chemical pregnancies (with unknown causes). my testing always came back "normal" but it seemed anything but normal to me. after several miscarriages we were blessed with our second long term and healthy pregnancy 5 years ago. over the last 5 years alone I have had 10 miscarriges and 5 chemical pregnancies, every single one I have ever had was devastating and ripped my heart to pieces but I didn't give up hope that I would start and expand my little family. it was so hard to push through the pain while grieving but continuing to try helped me through the process. I had my 3rd child 2-1\2 years ago and with 2 miscarriages in between I am currently pregnant with my fourth and final addition to our family. if I had given up hope and stopped trying, I would never have been blessed with the 4 amazing children I have now. try to stay strong, everything happens for a reason and I will pray for you that you are blessed the same way I was. I will never forget all of the children I never got the chance to hold but I have comfort in knowing that when my time is up, I will see them all one day. I will pray for your miracle and for you to have the extra strength and support you need during this time. best of luck to you.
this is beautiful... what an incredible journey! congratulations on your 4 beautiful kids!
thank you so much.
Thank you so much for sharing your amazing & inspiring journey! I'm so sorry for all of the heartache you have had to endure- that number of losses is just unimaginable to me! You are one incredible woman, & I want to thank you for giving me hope! Congratulations on your precious children, & thank you again
I'm so upset that you guys have to go through this, it is truly unfair. I believe with all of this suffering there HAS to be something beautiful ahead for you two.
Thank you so much- I sure hope so
the same thing happened to me with my daughter who will be 2 months in a couple days. my hcg levels rose very slowly and they also saw a body of fluid in my uterus surrounding her, they asked if i had been bleeding (i hadn't) they thought for sure i was going to miscarry very soon. that didn't happen. it took her awhile to grow also, after week 10 is when she finally started growing fast and on time.
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have binge watched your videos and wanted to say I am praying for you and sending good thoughts your way. I hope today little turtle was able to prove the nurses and the doctor wrong. Each baby is unique and it bothers me how doctors can be so quick to come to conclusions. Too much information can be bad sometimes. Hang in there and try to stay positive. If anything, this pregnancy came to show that you are perfectly able to conceive and maybe you don't need to put your body through the stress of IVF. Sending love and baby dust your way!
Oh, thank you so much for your kind words! You're absolutley right- too much information can be bad sometimes. Yes, we are so glad we are perfectly able to conceive naturally after believing otherwise. We're just not sure whether IVF will still need to be done in order to do PGS on our embryos.. I'd like to think we can create a healthy baby naturally, but it's hard to know how many more miscarriages we will need to go through in order to get there. Thanks so much for the love & baby dust!
You are such an amazing person Celeste. You are not alone on this journey because we are all with you. Sending you all the strength and love to help you through this xxx
Oh thank you so much for your kind words- it means so much
I wish the best for you! I did ivf due to male factor and we did the testing on ourselves and our embryos everything looked good but after that I lost 4 babies all early in pregnancy... I got tested for everything and the tests came back normal but my Dr. said there are more immune issues than there are tests for them and she treated me as if I had an immune issues I was on immune suppressors and blood thinners and we transferred our last embryo and it worked now I'm close to delivery.... I would talk to your Dr. about that if your tests come back normal because so many losses isn't normal regardless of what the tests say hugs I'm sorry your going through all of this
Thanks so much for sharing your experience- I didn't realise that about immune issues, so will be sure to mention it to my OB. I'm sorry for all of your losses, but so thrilled to hear you're close to welcoming your precious rainbow! Wishing you all the very best
Celeste,
I am so sorry you have to go through this horrible pain of miscariages. I have never has one, but I can only imagine how you feel. God has a plan, and keep your chin up.
Thanks for the update. You have been in my thoughts and prayers. You seem so sweet and amazing. I know that God is going to bless you with a baby. Keep being strong and keep the faith/hope.
Oh thank you so much for your lovely comment
Wow Coops!! 😳 cats make such weird noises sometimes! Haha.
Such a weird place to be in... You want answers but at the same time you want everything to be fine so that you still have a chance of being able to conceive naturally, as well as being able to put hope into your little frosty!! As always you guys are forever in our thoughts and prayers 💕 one day Celeste, you'll have your little bub to cuddle 🌈
P.s. So glad you're changing clinics!! X
They really do! It was so unlike him- he's just clearly very territorial! lol
Yes, it is a weird place to be in- we've now come to realise that it's clearly possible for us to conceive naturally, but now uncertain as to whether we should be doing IVF in order to get our embryos tested to avoid future miscarriages.. It's so hard to know. Thank you
Ooh, Celeste, :c So, so SAD to hear You're going thru' this.. I really didn't expect this happening, again.. You poor thing. You are so Brave & Courageous having to go through all of this... Your Strength will help You persevere, doesn't seem like the kind to give up.. Thank God & The Universe You, Two, have each other at this time... You are very Intelligent n' Resourceful of all that's going on with You n' Your body... (Have You ever thought about doing any Modeling? Your are gorgeous n' Your complexion is flawless. You put Your make-up on so professionally. (I use to be a make-up artist years ago.) Celeste, You, really could be a Model. It pays very well. At least, the young women I worked for did... Bright Blessings.
Thank you so much for your kind & encouraging words, and also for your compliments. I haven't thought about doing modelling- not sure I'd be confident enough for it.. Tim & I are definitely very thankful to have each other at this time. Thanks again
Just found your channel today and I went through the same terrible things you are. I'm am so sorry! My first miscarriage baby would be graduating this year. I did have two healthy boys! I've not heard you talk about taking progesterone. Making sure they are having you take it daily! It saved my babies lives. I didn't produce it on my own. God bless you!
I also had to take Clomid to prepare my eggs before conception bc my estrogen levels were in the "normal range" but not enough to properly prepare my eggs.
I agree with you 100% that all testing should be done prior to starting any treatment to eliminate possible failure. Seems like such a money grab to do IVF or any treatments without Drs knowing what the problems are. I had the same problem with my clinic that after the fact and multiple losses they decided to do further testing, which also cost so much. It's disheartening & sucks a lot! But at the end of the day us in the TTC community will do everything to have a healthy rainbow baby in our arms. You are strong 🙏💋
It sure does seem like such a money grab..! It just makes no logical sense. And surely they see this kind of thing happening all the time! You're absolutely right- at the end of the day we will do everything we can to have our healthy baby in our arms. You are strong too- keeping you in our thoughts!
I just came across your channel today. Thank you, to you and your hubby, for sharing your journey with so many. It should not be taboo but unfortunately, it is. I went through a miscarriage last year November. Nearly two weeks ago, my son died. The pain is excruciating. I hope you and your husband get your dreams fulfilled. I sincerely hope you continue to be fruitful and every pregnancy is completed with a healthy, ful-termed baby. Blessings and continued peace.
Thank you of your kind words. I am so sorry for your loss last year, & for your most recent incredibly tragic loss.. Our hearts break for you & your family. Sending you so much love & strength. We will be sure to keep you in our prayers
My heart just aches for you!! I pray that you and Tim will be blessed with a precious baby soon!! I don't know what your finances are but I can recommend an amazing doctor and clinic in California!! I've done IVF twice and gong for our third next year! I pray that you find the right clinic and medical staff!!! Negative people can really affect ones hopes and dreams of having a baby and they totally suck! I wish so bad that I could reach through this screen and hug you!!! Sending you love and hugs from Texas!!!
Thanks for the suggestion! Yes, the right clinic & medical staff is so important. Thank you so much for your kind words & prayers
You will continue to be in my prayers!❤️ if I was in your situation I would not do a D&C until no heart beat was confirmed! Your baby might need extra time ✨ either decision you make I am praying for you 🙏🏼
Thanks so much for your prayers
A little love, a little prayer he keeps you in his loving care. Xxx
Thank you
I had the sound turned up and the cat screaming sent my dogs into a frenzy lol. You are so strong and you will find that reason. Whatever it may be, it will be worth it. I hope and pray that you will get your happy ending soon. Until then, I will continue to pray for peace that passes all understandings. For Christ to strengthen you both and carry you through this time of sorrow. Your time of rejoicing will come, it may not come in the way you think or want but it will come. Be strong, Be brave, be faithful and he will give you your hearts desire. ❤❤
Oh I'm so sorry! I should've put in a warning before the screaming cat clip! Thank you so much for your kind & encouraging words
Oh no it was quite funny lol. and you are so welcome.
Been thinking of you today. I'm glad doctor will give you antibiotics this time, as you mentioned yourself it's a small risk but why would you take the risk. I wish you a quick recovery from D&C and I hope you and Tim will decide on what to do next tests wise. I also glad you won't use your clinic for IVF next time. I'm sure there are some other places with great caring nurses also it's always good to get a second opinion. PS poor Cooper!!! He was almost speaking English! And that cat outside showing off was so funny.. I hope they cheered up you a little bit. I'm praying for your happiness xx
Yes, I felt a lot better having antibiotics this time- one less thing to worry about! Haha I know! Cooper WAS almost speaking English lol And the other cat wasn't paying any attention- couldn't care less! Poor Coop's.. Hope Jeffrey didn't get worked up hearing it! Thanks so much lovely
Celeste,
I've told your story to so many people and they all say how strong of a woman you are. You'll get your baby one day, and I promise you'll be the best mother ever. I can only imagine how you feel, thinking it's you're fault because of your tubes. It's not you fault. You're doing everything right. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you get your baby very soon. Don't let your nasty nurses who don't believe in miracles get to you. You'll get it one day, I promise ❤️💜💙
Oh, you're so lovely- thank you so much for your kind & encouraging words!
aww hun. ive been praying for u all. ive been looking for update everyday. you are an amazing strong woman. i know you dont feel it right now. i know how you feel and its so heartbreaking. ill keep praying. xoxo and hugs and lots and lots of baby dust your way everyday
Oh you're so kind- thank you so much for your prayers
Celeste, don't give up! You are so brave! Try to keep your mind busy. And live one day at a time. Kisses and hugs!
Thank you so much
I have been thinking about you Celeste. Immediately watched your video for an update. I'm still going to pray everything goes well for you. I know how you feel. I felt numb and didn't want to do anything during the day's leading up to my medical intervention d&c. My heart goes out to you and your hubby. hugs and kisses girl!! I'll be thinking about you tomorrow.
I'm sorry to hear you had to go through this also.. Thank you so very much for your kind words & thoughts. Hugs & kisses to you too!
I hope today went as well as it could for you both. Genetics would be the next thing i would look at as well. I am sure there would be further tests they can do for you both after your history and getting it all done before your next transfer sounds like a great plan! Sending good vibes your way hun
Thanks so much lovely
I am still really hoping for a miracle for you hun. Fingers crossed hun X
You are incredibly brave. It's so unfair that you have to be this strong so many times. I will be thinking of you tomorrow x
Thank you so much for your kind words & thoughts x
fingers crossed for a miracle today
Thank you so very much
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. As always, peace be with both you and Tim.
Thank you so very much
Been thinking of you guys! Hope the procedure goes well xx There is a light at the end of this dark tunnel, you guys will be holding your baby one day, one way or another. Praying for answers in the near future
Thank you so very much
Praying for you best wishes and encouragement for your scan!
Thank you
Oh hun my heart goes out to you and your family - and you are in our thoughts
Thank you so much
I am so sorry you and Tim are going through this very difficult time in your life. I think like you and would want to get tested before another IVF. I love that Cooper was protecting his home. Good boy! Hugs, Jill
He is a good boy- I felt so bad though, because he was getting so worked up! Thanks so much
Your such a brave and inspiring person I am very sorry that u are going threw this I am praying this is ur little bean and all goes well. I have been an ectopic pregnancy and 3 miscarriages. I have 2 beautiful boys and have been trying again for baby 3 for 5 years. I have my right tube and ovary no left side. Baby dust our ways and stay strong hun
I'm so sorry for your losses.. Sounds like your journey to baby #3 has been a very long one- praying your baby is just around the corner! Thanks for your lovely words
i didn't have a d&c and i was 12 weeks pregnant when my baby died , i went through it naturally with a drug called misorostol it took over 6 weeks to fully clear my uterus bit now im 6 months pregnant with my baby boy , ask your doctor about misoprostol it also promotes a healthier uterus lining by completely shedding your last one xx
Hang in there Celeste! Good things come to those who wait
I'm still praying for you guys.....what will be.....will be I guess....I'm so glad that you won't be dealing with those nasty nurses moving forward.....I've been a nurse since 2005.....I've never come into contact with any quite as heartless as what you've been dealing with....its a shame really....most of us have chosen this career to be of help in a persons time of need......bless you and Tim and your unborn little turtle baby......I hope you find the strength to get through this together....whatever "this" may be.....much love and hugs!!!!!
It is a shame, & quite shocking to have had to deal with a number of nasty nurses. Like you said, most nurses do chose their career with a desire to help people.. Thank you so much for your kind words & prayers
My heart is with you. Much strength your way.
Thank you
I'm so sorry for all that you are going through. my thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
Thank you so much for your kind words & prayers
I am so so very sorry and will be hoping that you can find the strength to keep going on this journey. I started watching you in preparation of my own TTC journey. So thank you for being so brave and posting such a private matter online. Have you ever encountered immune testing? there is another youtube user who was experiencing many miscarriages also. She was finally able to conceive after immunological testing and therapy with a reproductive immunologist. In particular, it was her elevated natural killer cells activity, amountg other things that was problematic. Dr. Kwak in Chicago IL is very well known for this therapy.
Thanks for your kind words. I have been tested for natural killer cells, & it all come back normal. Thanks so much for the suggestion though. Wishing you all the very best in our TTC journey!
I see. This must be so disheartening not to have any answers. I was also looking into the Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine because their freezing technique is very advanced allowing for many embryos to survive PDG testing. Perhaps you are already at a facility like this. I pray that you find your answers soon. My heart is with you.
When your time comes for your special Lil one you will be an amazing mom. I hope you find comfort today as you find out the results to your ultrasound. God bless you Celeste and Tim.
Thank you so much for your lovely comment
Been thinking of you. Hope you are feeling well. God bless you.
Oh Celeste, I was hoping for better news for you and Tim. My heart just breaks for you. Hopefully you'll get the answers you need and can move forward to a healthy baby in your arms. I'm sending you so much love and positive thoughts. Hugs ❤❤❤
Thank you so so much
Wtf i fell asleep and woke up to your cats screaming and thought my cats were fighting omg
Also, you are such an strong woman. What an inspiration, celeste ❤
Oh sorry! I should've put a warning prior to the clip..! Thank you so much
It's okay it was a pretty funny situation in the end hahahaha
You and Tim are such strong people with beautiful souls. I really hope that you find the answers to all of your questions and eliminate whatever the causes behind this miscarriages. We did our IVF in Melbourne IVF and the staff are just lovely. Just in case you might want to check it. Good luck to whatever your next steps would be. We will be thinking of you always. ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words
Thinking of you my dear. Struggling with secondary infertility and struggling to understand why but like you said one day it will all make sense
Thank you so much.. I'm praying you get your healthy baby very very soon too!! Thinking of you & sending love
U are making sense, and I think u are right. Why not test for everything before spending so much money on ivf. I feel like medicine is all about business and not about the patients as it should be. Keep moving forward u are strong. I read a quote this morning that touched my heart.
When it rains look for the rainbow. When its dark look for the stars.
This really isnt easy, and only time can heal these wounds. Ill keep u in my thoughts.
Yes, I think you might be right.. Probably comes down to money making unfortunately. Thanks so much for your kind words & the beautiful quote! Loved it
Lots of prayers and love still praying there will be a heartbeat tomorrow god bless y'all and your beautiful family #prayerforbabyturtle 🐢👶🏼❤️💛💚💙💜🌈🐢🐢🐢🐢
You also look very pretty in this video
If you had to go for D&C would you have the scratch done too? (At least I think it is completely different procedure to D&C) My thoughts are with both of you. Glad to hear you have some great friends near by. xxx
so sorry for what u and Tim go through. it is very emotional and exhausting. but I pray u will have your miracle baby. don't give up. but yes I agree to change clinics..they seem so rude. u want nurses to uplift your spirits and be there for you.they seemed awful. but much much prayers for you and the miracle baby u will receive.
I completely agree.There seems to be a lack of empathy and answering of questions.🙏🙏
Yes, they were awful & should've provided me with much for support.. Thank you so much for your kind words & prayers- it means so much
Sending you lots of love , hope and hugs. Try and keep faith. Xoxo
Thank you so very much
Celeste I know you and Tim have been through so much and heart goes out to y'all. Trust that you will receive a blessing soon. I will continue to pray for you both. Much love
Thank you so very much
I'm praying for y'all! I'm still hoping for good news for you today. My mother in law had a miscarriage and the doctor's mistakenly took out one of her ovaries. She went on to have 3 more miscarriages but she had 4 beautiful children all out of one ovary. My mother had a miscarriage in between my older sister and me. The day that baby was supposed to be born, she felt me move for the first time. I don't have any kids yet. My husband and I would love too. I'm praying for y'all. Please don't give up hope. Have faith that it will happen.
Wow what an amazing story! Incredible. Wishing you & your husband all the best, & thank you so much for your prayers
I have never heard a cat scream soo loud before omg!🙈 i have two cats myself one hardly makes a sound and the other not so loud.... Bless your heart Celeste, this journey is incredible hard but i pray you get all the answers you need through the chromosomes testing, i pray for a miracle for you both. Always love your little quotes at the end😙💕💛
Yes, I don't think I've ever heard him scream that loud before! Clearly he's a little territorial! lol Thank you so much for your lovely words
I wish this wasn't the outcome :( Sometimes things just make no sense, and it's especially frustrating when there is no explanation. Hugs! ps - I'm glad to hear you won't be subjected to those nurses anymore in the future. And I hope poor Cooper recovered from the upset with the stray cat lol
Thank you
Oh Celeste. It's awful to deal with such a loss. This will happen. You will have a sweet baby I'm your arms one of these days. 😔
Thank you so much
It's always so hard to see you talking. It makes me so emotional. The PGS testing only has 1% rate of harming embryos now - as I was told by Consultant, so maybe get more information about PGS? The PGS will certainly tell you more about your embryos. Have you tested for C4M2? Using clexane through the transfer could dramatically reduce miscarriage rates - i am using it next FET. Sending you love and hugs as always xx 💕
Oh that's good to know- I didn't realise that about PGS testing. I'm assuming C4M2 will be tested & included in the Karyotype testing? I'm not sure.. I did mention Clexane to my OB after you mentioned it to me, but he said it wouldn't usually be given if we have had tests that have come back normal. Perhaps I'll have to do some research, & ask him about it again.. Thank you lovely
My heart is with you guys through this trying time Celeste. I'll be thinking of you guys and praying for you.
Thank you so much
Hugs and I am so sorry that this keeps happening to you. I will continue to pray for you and hope that you can find the reason for the miscarriages so that u can correct the issue at hand or find another alternative. Please take care of youself and give Tim a hug too! I imagine this is hard on him too.
Thank you so much for your kindness. We are definitely supporting each other through this emotional journey
Stay strong ask ur OBGYN more questions and what u can do
To prevent another miscarriage.their most be away for u ,ur such
A beautiful person wish u luck keep praying
Yes, we have started to put a list together. Thank you so much
I had Karyotyping done due to 3 previous early losses and my doctor said the chance of something being wrong was extremely low. Well, as it turns out my husband was normal and I have what is called an inversion on my 9th chromosome. Basically it puts me at an increase risk for future losses. The outcomes can be a) a normal embryo b) an embryo with my exact inversion with no health effects from it c) an embryo with problems that miscarries. d) a baby born with birth defects. I have been told IVF with PGS testing is our best option. I hope your tests come back ok and that you don't have to worry about chromosome issues :)
Both Tim & I got our blood taken this morning to get the Karyotype testing done.. Our doctor said the same thing to us- that the chances of something being wrong was around 1%... But we could easily be that 1%, you just never know.. I'm sorry your results weren't what you were hoping for.. It must be a bit of a relief that with PGS, there is still a chance of creating a normal embryo. It's still a lot to have to go through though.. I am quite nervous about what the results will be, but I guess we'll just have to wait & see. Wishing you all the very best with your journey towards a healthy baby
I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you! I also follow you on Instagram. Mine is @ttcbabyc.
You are so beautiful 😍 can I ask what kind of mascara you use ? I pray, and wish you all the best of luck in the future! Baby will come to you, I'm sure of it ! ❤️❤️❤️
I use Estee Lauder sumptuous extreme mascara. Thank you for your kind words & prayers!
I've only just recently found your channel, so I don't know the whole story and what all you've had tested so far, but have you considered your thyroid? Thyroid disorders can directly affect fertility and cause trouble conceiving as well as miscarriages. I've heard of plenty of women who've gone years thinking there's some other fertility problem just to come to finally find that it's been a thyroid disorder the whole time. Your levels need to be within a very specific range in order to safely conceive and carry a pregnancy, so someone who has a thyroid disorder will need to have their levels monitored closely while TTC and during pregnancy to ensure that thyroid medication is working how it should. Whatever the issue may be, I hope you get answers soon so you won't have to keep going through these losses. ❤️
I have had my thyroid checked and all has come back normal, but thanks so much for the suggestion
Hang in there hun praying all will go well and this is just a hiccup in your fertility journey.
It can be such an emotional journey especially when you wonder why me. I just had a laprioscopy surgery done today to see if I had endometriosis due to having poor egg quality .
Thankfully all clear however knowing I poss have poor egg quality is stressful in it self.
your not alone hun stay strong.😁
Thank you so much for your prayers
First of all so sorry to hear about your miscarriage, heart breaks for you both god willing your time will come.
In relation to egg quality I rang my doctor after laprioscopy to get feedback she then told be my right ovary was smaller than left and had a lot of scarring on right side possibly from having an appendicitis when I was 10. Hence not producing alot of eggs during ivf cycle.
Praying for all us ladies to have preggy bellys soon . 😁
Good luck 🍀 We haven't been lucky enough to get past a beta...I would imagine it's more heartbreaking to have a loss after that. Wow. You are so strong!
Thank you. Praying you soon get well past a beta & have a beautiful healthy baby in your arms soon!
Tim and Celeste thank you, and thanks for subscribing. We will follow your journey as you go along now instead of playing catch up :) Lovely couple!! Cheers -Brandi
sending you lot of love and virtually hugs hugs 😚 Keep your strength and hopes 😙😚😙
Thank you so much
I have waited for your update video I prayed for you and your family. God has a plan for you baby. Stop crying and before you go to bed say I'm pregnant the baby is healthy I'm healthy. It's so sad your dr are not positive but we are. So let's get this baby !!!!!!!
Thanks so much for your prayers
Celeste I am so sorry that this keeps happening, I wish I easy your pain. I know in the States when you have a D&C they can test embryo for genetic issues. Maybe this is a first step in finding out if there is another problem. Because if it comes back yes this might mean you might have to have PGS/PGD testing if you do IVF again.
Yes, we're hoping they will be able to test the embryo for genetic issues. Our last missed miscarriage the baby was tested and came back with the chromosomal abnormality Triploid. We're definitely preparing ourselves for the possibility of having to do IVF again in order to do PSG/PGD, despite being able to conceive on our own. Thank you for your kind words
i had a miscarriage at 16.... it was one of the hardest things to go through especially when no ones believes in you! your inspirational
I'm so sorry for your loss.. It really is one of the hardest things to have to go through.. Thank you
I have watched all your videos sending you good thoughts
Thank you so much
love you guys❤❤ haven't watched this yet as it is very late in Australia at the moment but i will watch it first thing when i wake up and leave a comment.
:) It was a bit of a late upload- don't blame you!
all good!!! its uploaded, do not worry :) i am just watching it now.. delayed as life happened and stuff popped up!
Keeping you in my thoughts. Sending lots of lot. This is so tough.
Thank you
You and your wonderful spouse are in my thoughts. My path has been similar and I am reaching out to embrace you both.
Thank you. I'm sorry your path has been similar.. Sending love
I wish I could bake something for you! I believe baked goods have some healing power. But Texas is pretty far away unfortunately. Anyways I hope you get some answers soon and find out why this keeps happening to you. I believe you will get your precious baby some day and it will be worth the wait! Hugs to you!!
Oh you're so lovely :) I agree- they do have some healing power! We had our friends drop off caramel slice today also- we're being very spoilt! Thank you so much for your kind words
😞 oh love... we're sending you and Tim ❤️
Thank you
Seems like a good plan to test people prior to IVF if they've had multiple miscarriages, especially if the cause is still unknown and other tests come up normal. I agree with you there. So sorry this couldn't be your rainbow baby. Holding hope that the one will happen quite soon. My thoughts are with you at this so difficult time. Keeping you both in my prayers. xo
Thank you so much for your lovely words- you're so kind
Sending hugs and prayers your way!❤
Thank you
Praying for you! 💖
Thank you
My heart breaks for you, I see myself in you, I'm so sorry sweetie. it's hard it really is, I understand. it's even worse when you don't have signs because it makes you want to hold on to hope. I literally spotted one time in my miscarriage which made it harder to believe I was having a miscarriage. I wish you the best of luck. I hope tomorrow goes well for you. I'll be praying.
Thank you so much for your lovely words & understanding. Your prayers are so appreciated
Thinking of you. ❤️❤️
Thank you
Stay strong
Praying for you
Thank you
Have u ever been tested for MTHFR? I had multiple miscarriages and after many years I was finally diagnosed with it. Some doctors believe it does not have an impact on pregnancy but it seemed to be our problem. It's a vitamin deficiency which I now take Folgard for. It's worth asking about. I know mine was confirmed by blood work. Fingers crossed for u and Tim :)
I'm not sure if I have, but I will definitely be asking! Thanks so much for the suggestion!
Dear Celeste,
I only want to tell you that there is going to be an end to this story. A happy one! I've been there...you are not alone in this journey. Try to stay optimistic, visualize yourself with the baby in your arms...it will happen.
Thank you so very much for your kind & encouraging words- I needed them!
I'm sure that your going to film pregnancy videos and kids later. Please try to keep you head up. As I told you, I'be been there, I've lost pregnancies, than chemical, than ectopic.....a lot of investigations. I found out I had some trombophilia mutations ( I don't know the word in English)....so go ahead with medical investigation and pray. I will do it also.
Is there a way to unblock Fallopian Tubes? Naturally or with Surgery.
My Gynecologist never gave me any antibiotics, yet alone recommend me to make sure I don't catch an infection.
Well when I had the Laparoscopy last year, dye was flushed through my tubes to determine whether they were blocked. The left had no flow, & the right had sluggish flow. Just 4 weeks after that surgery I fell pregnant, so the flushing of my right tube definitely helped clear some kind of blockage! Yeah, I've come to realise antibiotics isn't commonly offered for some reason..
- Thanks for your help, and does the blockage increase throughout the years or it stays the same i was never warned about receiving infections and it's a little over 2 years since this happened to me. Although I have been trying to conceive for about a year and nothing seemed to happen, so I left it in gods hands and there's still no change. Every now and then it just comes to mind that not even a (woops) happened.
With my pregnancy I went in and they couldn't find anything until I was around 12 weeks I bled and they told me to get a d&c I refused and I went back a week later and my levels went from 188 to 8000. now I have a beatiful daughter who is 7 months old now.
Wow- that's extremely rare not to find anything until 12 weeks! Glad you listened to your gut instinct. Congratulations on your miracle
I had three losses. I finally went on progesterone and had my rainbow baby 9 months later.
Thanks for sharing your experience, & congratulations on your precious rainbow baby
I've heard a few success stories with woman doing the caster oil massage to unblock their tubes, I don't know if you've heard of it but worth a little research. I've seen some videos on here for it. Good luck for tomorrow. Xx
Thanks for the suggestion!
Praying for you
Thank you
im sure you are careful but just be safe not to handle the cat litter that can cause miscarraiges if the cat has a specific bactria but im sure you are aware of that im praying yall have a happy cycle and get that bfp that sticks
Yes, Tim's been in charge of the kitty litter since I found out I was pregnant. Thanks for your prayers
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do you have a Facebook account? Prayers for you and husband hopefully good news.
No we don't, but we have an Instagram account- link is in the description. Thank you so much
watch follow the hills theyre having problems w infertility she also just had a procedure done to fix her tubes mayb something u should look into to help unclog the tube thats blocked. best of luck.
I do watch follow the hills- Priscilla had the same procedure that I had in November last year. However a Laparoscopy is not a procedure that will fix the tubes- it's a procedure to see if there are any blockages in the tubes, as well as to check for any signs of endometriosis. The dye that was flushed through my tubes did help to unclear my left tube, as I conceived 4 weeks after that surgery, & twice more since. Thanks for the luck!
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thinking of you guys I am totally shocked that you did not have Karyotyping tests before even starting IVF the is a standard test before even starting IVF in most clinics, I think you need to be on at least perdnisole and blood thinners for the next transfer, as not asll auto immune issues are tested for that can cause early loss and implantation failures, I wish you guys all the very very best but I think you need a new clinic I really do. x
Oh really?! Well that's interesting! Thank you so much for your suggestions- I will be definitely be making a note of them
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Hun have you thought removing both your tubes?
I did for mine and I got pregnant because the tubes are blocked with toxins and scar tissue that it might leak through the tubes and into the blood stream just putting it out there hun
I don't understand the need for a dnc this early along. There is some risk for scarring.
have you considered going to see a different doctor????
Why do they recommend a d&c? Can't it happen naturally ? Doesn't that ruin your uterus ? And cause more problems with miscarriages, that's what I've learned
It could take many weeks for my body to miscarry naturally, & a natural miscarriage can be a very long recovery & very physically taxing. You're also at more risk of infection if your body doesn't pass all of the pregnancy tissue on it's own, which often happens. A D&C is a very safe & common procedure, & the risks of complications are rare. Scar tissue to the uterine wall happens more often when the D&C is done after a miscarriage has tried to happen naturally. I was also meant to have an endometrial scratch done before my FET, so I won't have to do that now as the D&C acts similarly. Everyone obviously has different preferences as to which option they choose- I guess it just comes down to what the individual feels most comfortable with doing, & the D&C was the best option for us.
Especially after having an infection after the first D&C!
loopy76 loopy they do D&C due to her body not kicking out the miscarriage. Not sure where you learned that D&C leads to additional miscarriages, but that is absolutely NOT true. D&Cs are mostly safe procedures and are fairly routine.
I was given antibiotics after this D&C, to prevent infection. A natural miscarriage can actually put you at higher risk of infection and/or haemorrhaging, which is the main reason they recommend D&C's.