The stoics taught that a man should be able to sit in a room alone and enjoy his own company. Solitude is a superpower for drawing inspiration for your best work.
@@JadenBanks lol I thought I heard you say that. Maybe you should then Mr Banks. If you are a Projector of the Human Design system then the studies never end bro.
Never do business with a man who you know is cheating on his wife. This person has no self control and can’t build his own most important investment. How can he long term expand or build a business?
If I were a man I’d never divorce even if there was no love remaining. Imagine losing half of everything that you’ve worked for at the age of 50 or 60. It’s sad to me. I wish them some pleasure and joy that they can’t get at home.
no thats facts. i was talking to a guy who became very abusive to me. he would humiliate me in public and play up to other men and literally came out of his mouth and said "bros before hos" and started laughing. before i stopped talking to him, i asked him how he could sit around guys who would enable his behavior. he thinks he's on top of the world but is misunderstanding the bigger picture. i told him, "you know that's the same type of guy who is gonna f**** you over right?". men and would both should be careful of those who pride themselves on disrepect. these people have no loyalty and no boundaries and you are absolutely right. one would be a fool to engage with such a person.
well said. I notice it in some of my friends too, they cheating on their wives, they are also the same guys who broke some deals with me and are not reliable enough to loan them money too.
@@PreparewithRealEstate Women also share 50% of their property after divorce. Also during the marriage, it's women who take the burden of giving birth, childcare, and household labor while sharing their paycheck, women have more risk to their career when they marry. Many companies don't like to hire married women since married women have less time for work.
I appreciate this video! As a woman myself questioning the duality of our mind within relations it’s nice to see what a man who cares about his presence accepts and doesn’t accept. It’s common for our world as individuals to say we want peace and balance but not truly do the work to change our history for generations to come.
Mhmmm! This is a deep comment, thank you for this Queen! This is spot on. Those who talk about the work & study it, to not apply it. More blessings to you 🙏🏾💙
I have plenty of hobbies that I love doing, and I love my profession as well. Most men are intimidated by that, or try to talk down on me as it was a cutesy thing that I just do, because there's no man to fill up the void in my life, and I can't wait to give up everything for a dude. Effing annoying.
I took mn out of my focus completely and I take myself out for dates. Single woman here and the peace this decision brought to my life is just priceless.
There is an addictive sadness to it. Like a hunger they cannot ever satiate. If you learn to love people, it is a longer lasting satisfaction than quick flings.
Even having the decency to put a candy wrapper into the trash barrel on the street is important. If I see someone throwing sh!t on the sidewalk, and cutting in line at the bus stop, I don't want to meet them. I also find it useless to hang out with people who don't have a plan in their lives except to hang out. They could be going through training for a better job, learning to play a musical instrument, engaging in spiritual growth or fixing a broken leg on a table that is about to fall over. If you don't move forward, you fall behind, because life is not about standing in place. Also, we all (if male and heterosexual) have a sex drive and appreciate a pretty women, but to go on about how hot she is with no thought of building a real bond or communicate with women, screams of disrespect and emotional shallowness. Everything you said is right on the mark.
14:21 not quite. Remember, some of the world's most profound serial k's, and other various criminals come from a 2-parent household. The importance is: what type of 2-parent household do they cut from, and more importantly, what does that individual subscribe towards in life, be it a 1, or 2-parent situation.
I also think it's fine to be old and not have a family in this day and age of you're trying to build a legacy through important work like starting a business you really believe in or creating something that will empower a lot of people
thanks for saying this. I was beginning to think i was one of a few ppl in my generation who wasnt sex crazed 24/7. I seen quite a few older guys 40+ who lives in that sex crazed mode too. Girls girls girls all day.. They look at you like u crazy for not lusting all day like them. If im talking to someone and walk off, theyll flag u down like, bruh u aint tryin to get that or ik u got that #!... What? I was having a conversation...thats it... They sit around talking about girls and who they tryin to get with or ppl they slept with... Its not that deep. Its their personality at this point. Yikes! Sheesh! Thank you for helping me see everyone doesnt think like this. ❤❤
I love having a hobby that allows me to improve my mechanical knowledge and skills in restoring old cars. Unfortunately my hobby is expensive and has prevented me from becoming more serious with relationships. 😅
Love that an some men see this stuff as overtop. I love hearing a lot of you younger men lol saying this. So true. There is hope. Insightful and I’m 40 year old married white woman lol
8:38 this part confuaed me a little. What do you mean by green alcohol? 😂 Are you talking about: aftershave, hand sanitizer like purell or store brand, or listerine(green antiseptic mouth wash)?? Edit: i just searched green alcohol and damn they actually make green colored isopropyl rubbing alcohol. 😂 normally it's clear at my house.
1s one in a nutshell: "It's your fault you can get no chick and the product of that (staring at random women) is also your fault, bro" Guys, the hole is much deeper
you are using only 10% of the audio dynamic range. i have to turn up my speakers and leave my finger on the volume adjust for ever loud sound in between.
@@malhunt7 I see why you'd think that but what I meant was usually the men who preach this stuff and who consume this have deep rooted feelings of inadequacy which drive men like him to isolate from society. This whole hustle culture, especially in the black community is driving people to not connect and unite with others despite their financial or social status. Apparently those who "worthy" are the only ones who are deemed to have friends, girlfriends and such. I'd stay far away from this kind of advice and these self-help types
i dont think that sounded like a projection at all. are you just paranoid or not sure what a projection is? he's saying that out of his observation, he is describing the types of people he wants to warn others about. what he means by EGO DEATH is that the person who lives so carelessly hasn't had a prominent point of EVOLUTION in their life yet. I'm curious to how you got projection from the phrase ego death. you supposedly go through an EGO DEATH before you experience transformation. how is talking about transformation projecting? you would have to experience a sense of self awareness to even understand this process of maturity. so even if he IS projecting, it would mean that he at least thinks about what it takes to evolve himself as a man. like am i missing something here or are you?
![Megan Thee Stallion - Neva Play (feat. RM) [Official Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/TpYTyAaTRts/mqdefault.jpg)
I hate being around people who let their sexuality define who they are and how they behave. Whether they are male or female, female gay or straight.
Toxic masculinity and toxic feminity are all real. People just keep denying it
The stoics taught that a man should be able to sit in a room alone and enjoy his own company. Solitude is a superpower for drawing inspiration for your best work.
🎉
But they are all dead now, arent they? Ha! Ha!
The same applies to women. A woman should be able to sit in a room alone and enjoy her own company.
Bro got a point. "Never be ruled by your desires."
🎯🎯🎯
Exactly.
Do the opposite.
Restrain.
Never again will I trust anyone.
The sooner you learn this the better
Never trust a man who has a gaming chair...
@@makutumafwa7496 😂😂😂😂 good one
lmaoooooooooooooooooo
At least he's sitting there making videos and studying online courses lol
@@Ninishiningleaf not studying online courses, but thank you for the compliment 🫡
@@JadenBanks lol I thought I heard you say that. Maybe you should then Mr Banks. If you are a Projector of the Human Design system then the studies never end bro.
That first point is so true. I can’t stand being around guys like that, there is more to life than the pursuit of lust and short term pleasure. SMH.
Never do business with a man who you know is cheating on his wife. This person has no self control and can’t build his own most important investment. How can he long term expand or build a business?
If I were a man I’d never divorce even if there was no love remaining. Imagine losing half of everything that you’ve worked for at the age of 50 or 60. It’s sad to me. I wish them some pleasure and joy that they can’t get at home.
no thats facts. i was talking to a guy who became very abusive to me. he would humiliate me in public and play up to other men and literally came out of his mouth and said "bros before hos" and started laughing. before i stopped talking to him, i asked him how he could sit around guys who would enable his behavior. he thinks he's on top of the world but is misunderstanding the bigger picture. i told him, "you know that's the same type of guy who is gonna f**** you over right?".
men and would both should be careful of those who pride themselves on disrepect. these people have no loyalty and no boundaries and you are absolutely right. one would be a fool to engage with such a person.
Preach😂
well said. I notice it in some of my friends too, they cheating on their wives, they are also the same guys who broke some deals with me and are not reliable enough to loan them money too.
@@PreparewithRealEstate Women also share 50% of their property after divorce. Also during the marriage, it's women who take the burden of giving birth, childcare, and household labor while sharing their paycheck, women have more risk to their career when they marry. Many companies don't like to hire married women since married women have less time for work.
The first one is correct. They do take the joy and excitement out of everything... Very disappointing.
I appreciate this video! As a woman myself questioning the duality of our mind within relations it’s nice to see what a man who cares about his presence accepts and doesn’t accept. It’s common for our world as individuals to say we want peace and balance but not truly do the work to change our history for generations to come.
Mhmmm! This is a deep comment, thank you for this Queen! This is spot on. Those who talk about the work & study it, to not apply it. More blessings to you 🙏🏾💙
I brought this brotha a dinner and he threw away the broccoli😮...I told him where I come from we don't waste food... not even the vegetables!
The man speaks true! As much as it personally cuts like a knife, thank you for this grand insight!
Mad respect man. Mad respect.
@@SleightWryder not just talking about it, living by it 🔥
I greatly appreciate this video, especially from a Black man.
Yes ma’am.. thank you for watching 💙🙏🏾
Dudes really be so brainwashed it’s sad
Thank you for your transparency
I have plenty of hobbies that I love doing, and I love my profession as well. Most men are intimidated by that, or try to talk down on me as it was a cutesy thing that I just do, because there's no man to fill up the void in my life, and I can't wait to give up everything for a dude. Effing annoying.
I took mn out of my focus completely and I take myself out for dates. Single woman here and the peace this decision brought to my life is just priceless.
Lust is spiritual and some of my friends have almost no control
Bingo 🎯
There is an addictive sadness to it. Like a hunger they cannot ever satiate. If you learn to love people, it is a longer lasting satisfaction than quick flings.
Even having the decency to put a candy wrapper into the trash barrel on the street is important. If I see someone throwing sh!t on the sidewalk, and cutting in line at the bus stop, I don't want to meet them. I also find it useless to hang out with people who don't have a plan in their lives except to hang out. They could be going through training for a better job, learning to play a musical instrument, engaging in spiritual growth or fixing a broken leg on a table that is about to fall over. If you don't move forward, you fall behind, because life is not about standing in place. Also, we all (if male and heterosexual) have a sex drive and appreciate a pretty women, but to go on about how hot she is with no thought of building a real bond or communicate with women, screams of disrespect and emotional shallowness. Everything you said is right on the mark.
I don’t trust the talkers. I don’t trust the do’ers either.
I like where this is going.. so whom do you trust?
Great video man, keep speaking the truth!
Thank you for watching & supporting bro 💙🙏🏾
14:21 not quite. Remember, some of the world's most profound serial k's, and other various criminals come from a 2-parent household. The importance is: what type of 2-parent household do they cut from, and more importantly, what does that individual subscribe towards in life, be it a 1, or 2-parent situation.
5:21 Great Video. Great Value with Timestamps! You are tha Man! Thank you!
I also think it's fine to be old and not have a family in this day and age of you're trying to build a legacy through important work like starting a business you really believe in or creating something that will empower a lot of people
thanks for saying this. I was beginning to think i was one of a few ppl in my generation who wasnt sex crazed 24/7.
I seen quite a few older guys 40+ who lives in that sex crazed mode too. Girls girls girls all day..
They look at you like u crazy for not lusting all day like them.
If im talking to someone and walk off, theyll flag u down like, bruh u aint tryin to get that or ik u got that #!...
What? I was having a conversation...thats it...
They sit around talking about girls and who they tryin to get with or ppl they slept with... Its not that deep. Its their personality at this point. Yikes!
Sheesh!
Thank you for helping me see everyone doesnt think like this. ❤❤
Subscribed
Excellent video, absolutely on point
Before I even clicked this ily 😂
I love having a hobby that allows me to improve my mechanical knowledge and skills in restoring old cars. Unfortunately my hobby is expensive and has prevented me from becoming more serious with relationships. 😅
What you desire to make time for will open itself up to you! In divine timing brother, thank you for watching 🙏🏾💙 keep carrying your heart
Cant say that i identify with everything said, but.. man, just for thinking about this? You get thumb up
Salute bro! Thank you 🫡🙏🏾
Love that an some men see this stuff as overtop. I love hearing a lot of you younger men lol saying this. So true. There is hope. Insightful and I’m 40 year old married white woman lol
1:36 seconds in, already subscribed lol
8:38 this part confuaed me a little. What do you mean by green alcohol? 😂 Are you talking about: aftershave, hand sanitizer like purell or store brand, or listerine(green antiseptic mouth wash)??
Edit: i just searched green alcohol and damn they actually make green colored isopropyl rubbing alcohol. 😂 normally it's clear at my house.
Haha yup the green alcohol helps shaving bumps and clear your face quicker. Just gotta make sure you hydrate your face a lot. It dries out your skin
wtf XD
Nice room what did I use tissues. ?
Probably 😂😂 what you see is what’s real
1s one in a nutshell: "It's your fault you can get no chick and the product of that (staring at random women) is also your fault, bro" Guys, the hole is much deeper
you are using only 10% of the audio dynamic range. i have to turn up my speakers and leave my finger on the volume adjust for ever loud sound in between.
Thank you for this 🔑🔑
Factualz
2:08 real, and also to get some like 80% of men need to do a lot of work so it's pathetic plus a waste of time to get basically nothing lol
Watch one of my videos I did on shadow work. This would clear that up for you & those 80% of guys 🙏🏾💙
true shit
@@JeromeProductions thank you for watching bro 🙏🏾💙
Dont go to the gym from 4pm to 9pm thats when the women are there.
You don't have to run away from women lol they are essential to life, just be aware of your lustful nature to have a better experience with them
Just learn how to control yourself
There's something about this video that gives off the vibes that it's simply a cope for loneliness.
It's okay to admit you're lonely
I have people around me whom I love deeply & who love me deeply.. I’m not lonely, (slightly alone) but never lonely. Thank you for watching bro 💙🙏🏾
Projecting?
@@malhunt7 I see why you'd think that but what I meant was usually the men who preach this stuff and who consume this have deep rooted feelings of inadequacy which drive men like him to isolate from society.
This whole hustle culture, especially in the black community is driving people to not connect and unite with others despite their financial or social status. Apparently those who "worthy" are the only ones who are deemed to have friends, girlfriends and such. I'd stay far away from this kind of advice and these self-help types
😂@@malhunt7
usually M who are lonely are angry at one gender, thus they consume red pill content etc.
New 🆕 Sub ❤
Thank you 🙏🏾💙
W no cap I aint like dem dudes in da vid
2:25 Ego death? Sounds like projection yo
i dont think that sounded like a projection at all. are you just paranoid or not sure what a projection is?
he's saying that out of his observation, he is describing the types of people he wants to warn others about. what he means by EGO DEATH is that the person who lives so carelessly hasn't had a prominent point of EVOLUTION in their life yet. I'm curious to how you got projection from the phrase ego death.
you supposedly go through an EGO DEATH before you experience transformation. how is talking about transformation projecting? you would have to experience a sense of self awareness to even understand this process of maturity. so even if he IS projecting, it would mean that he at least thinks about what it takes to evolve himself as a man.
like am i missing something here or are you?
Simp