@@wafaaibrahim9020well that's a good dad, I know it may not seem fair for a lot or ppl, but she barely recovered from the labor pain and she still can't have a decent night of sleep, plus changing a baby's diapers is the last thing I'm planning to do in my life, not even the last, that's impossible for me, I'll probably vomit after that (I know i was baby once too but I just can't-) anyways even if she gets day time sleep it's not as near benifictal as night sleep one, but still I appreciate the husband's effort if he truly does all that, he's not just a good husband or man but a good father too
Why does she need to wake up, if the baby start crying at night time. Why cant she just sleep through the noght and handle the baby problems at 7 o’cock at the morning, when she wakes up.
My mom always told me a man works from dusk to dawn but a woman's work is never done,, she was a great mom and I was very proud to walk in her foot steps..
My grandpa who I cared for 6 years used to say that to me. He always got so worried and would be like “Would you sit down for 5 damn minutes!” 😂 But he said that same quote to me. I miss him dearly.
Yo jamas me desvele así con mis niños, mi suegra me enseñó como acomodarme al bebé para darle el pecho acostada, comían y luego me los cambiaba de lugar y a seguir durmiendo. No padecí desvelos solo que estuvieran enfermos
@@jasonseaton3905sorry for what lol😂 who said youre destinated to be Mooom just because you are a woman , nobody right ? A ok 😅 And in my opinion it's much better say the truth instead of doing 10 children and abandon him or not have to give them the love they supposed to need 😊
The first month, my husband woke up every night and brought me our baby for feeding and took it right away to put him down to sleep. And I never asked him to do that. And I am very grateful.
That's how it's supposed to be!!! We should be able to recover. I got stiched up 5 times on my VV and I could barely walk or even sit or even think about it 'cause it would hurt so much. My doc recommended to stay in bed for the next 8 weeks and focus on recovery. But how?? There is noone looking after me, my baby or the household. My fiancé says "I'm bringing the money home. It's your duty to do the rest!"
@@anastasijachantalkunstner1893that’s a pretty rough situation to be in do you have other family that’s willing to help you out and physically be in the house with you to try and help out a bit so you don’t have to do everything alone.
I work 50 hours a week so my wife and I decided to have me sleep in our spare room during my work week and I take care of our 7 year old. On my days off we switch so she can catch a break and actually sleep. But yeah pretty much wake up every 3 hours hehe, help each other whenever possible helps a ton. 😊
@@LivinLaVidaLokaa I want to see you work 50 hours a week for 50 years. There is not a single woman on this planet who would trade raising children for working 10 hours days doing back breaking labor until you're pushing 70.
@@jhkk1269that's no excuse to not help out with your child that took 2 people with responsibility to make. I'm sure feeling a bit sleep deprived won't hurt if it's something worth helping out for or doing. That's what marriage is about, committing and helping through thick and thin, you are clearly not in the state of a mature person.
@@aishaaa-17 have you considered his job may pose a threat to life to himself and others if he is on an hours sleep a night for a year? And if he then loses his job because he is sleep deprived how long before the house is taken away
@@aishaaa-17first of all he has a job to do to pay off, secondly who said that he doesn't help in child rearing? Have you even seen other reels to vent out like that?? I am a woman too ...but we should understand his part too...his life and health also matter too..he is also a human being... This baby is not their only child...who takes care of the other kids?? She even mentioned her husband helps out in household chores...even her in-laws are helpful..Yes, marriage means commitment and understanding so it takes two...so assuming like this is only gonna hurt both of them...peace out
А почему папаша спит, пока мама гуляет с ребенком ночью? Ребенка грудью покормили, мужу отдала, пускай скачивает. Я как-то с 12 ночи, до 4 утра не спала. Муж встал, ребенка забрал, меня спать отправил. Когда на работу стал собираться, ребенок уже уснул ) я даже не слышала как он уходил, только почувствовала, как поцеловал и снова уснула ) Мужчины, берегите своих женщин! И принимайте участие с детьми с самого их рождения.
Ты серьёзно? По квартире видно как он впахивает, они оба устают, давай ещё на каждого дополнительно обязанности скинь. Отец работает, мама охраняет очаг дома!!!!
Heart warming story time So once my cousin was watching a video of a mother struggling with your new born baby and he immediately started crying and my aunt turned around and said what's wrong and my cousin while crying said you worked so hard for all of us and you deserve to be treated right and he kept saying he loved her so than his dad said what about me I also helped when you were young and I go to work for you and than my cousin said to his dad was it you who carried 5 kids for 9 months I don't think so and than he turned back to my aunt and started hugging her with appreciation and my aunt also started crying Respect to all mothers
But don't fathers deserve appreciation too (Only the committed, present , diaper changing, sleep sacrificing fathers who contributed to not only conception and financial aid but also raising the children tho, those are rare but still there are some out there)
the problem with this society tradition is putting the baby away from you. of course he gonna wake up every hour he miss his mom. animals keep theyr puppyes always close the first weeks
@@LarryBonson how does that prove anything? yes men did some society building stuff (because women were treated like slaves and property in history and weren't allowed to do it themselves) but all of those men are dead now. what have you done to build society? your argument is nonsensical
I know how she feels as a man . My wife got extremely sick after an infected caesarean wound and remained in hospital for another 3 weeks . I did all that looking after my son alone for those 3 weeks . While mine was a rare case , my consideration and respect to all mothers ! God bless you all
Precious bonding time for you both also. I had the same issue after birth, but it took a month and loads of trips to the hospital to tell them something wasn't right. In that month, as I suffered agonising headaches/muscle aches and fever, I was up with my son for feeds, expressing when he went down, which left me exhausted. That experience let me know how strong both myself & my pain threshold were 😅
Аналогично. Один раз чувак не выронила пока сидела кормила, поняла мы будем спать вместе. Жизнь наладилась. Ребенок спал хорошо, муж высыпался и я в целом нормально
А кто-нибудь может объяснить зачем сцеживать при грудном вскармливании? У меня 2 года разницы у детей и фактически перерыв между кормлениями был 3 месяца, и 5 лет общего: всегда считала что это отлично, никакой стерилизации бутылочек, еда всегда в нужной температуре и в нужном количестве. А тут и кормят вроде, а гемор весь как у искуственников🤦♀️
@@user-xx4xe2ht7y Мне обсалютно всë равно кто и как делает это личное дело каждого. Мне, как человеку интересно почему. Вдруг я отстала от жизни и в грудном вскармливании изобрели что-то новое.
The hard part for me was my baby wouldn't even cry when he was hungry. He is non verbal and was not gaining weight. The Dr. Said we'd have to set an alarm every 2-3 hrs to feed him. He's now 8 and a very healthy and a perfect lil boy in 3rd grade. He now can communicate with dad and I or whoever is there when he's hungry thru sign language. I have respect for all mothers who do everything to keep our babies healthy and happy.
That's crazy, I didn't even know that could happen. It must have been so stressful, not knowing if he was OK or not because he gave no indication. Glad he's OK now, thanks for sharing.
@@hayley8907el bebé no tiene que dar ninguna indicación. A los bebés hay que alimentarlos cada 2 o 3 horas, sin importar si lloran o no, porque cuando lo hacen significa que están HAMBRIENTOS. No hay que permitir que lleguen a ese estado, porque sino les cuesta ser alimentados o regurgitan la leche
@@kerstieamiya4880i mean you did say she tried… it could always be worse she could have succeeded. 😢. A lot of bad things happened to me and my siblings (not ready to finishing dealing with it all so I’m not going in to detail but it was BAD ) the thing that really helped me was to realize- Your mother is not some all powerful being … not a super hero and has problems of her own with no help and we’re too young to help back then AND the only thing she has to go off of is what her mother taught her. So i thought about grandma (her mom) who was 6 days old and given to a family member for years because her mother was very sick grandma was taken care of by an aunt for many years but sent home at 13 to take care of her (still stick) mother who basically taught her nothing of being a mother. My great great grandma was beaten all the time. Even while she was pregnant with everyone of her children (even lost a few bc of it). My great grandma was being beat by her father and taught very little of being a mother by her mom. My grandma was very abusive to my mother who beat us until she gave us up for adoption. I haven’t had babies yet but the cycle will be BROKEN with me. When and if i ever have babies they will never know what it is to be beaten by your mother for no reason. You can teach lessons with out laying a finger on your children. Edit: the old saying “ you only know what you’ve been taught”. IS NOT AN EXCUSE TO STOP LEARNING NEW THINGS especially if it’s going to improve your life and the lives of those around you.
Such a loving 🥰 mother ! I am 49 no kids .. I can barely take care of my cat !! lol 😂 Mothers are the strongest people on earth !!! They can do anything !!❤
Yeah and before someone start raging because of this, we know fathers work hard too, but they're mostly not even with their kids, so it's kinda not fair for the first word to be otherwise than who spent nights waiting for the next cry to calm them out
I also have twins and it is still soo tough 4 months in. You learn to feed them both at the same time even if ones still sleeping. You have 2 nursing pillows and one baby sitting in each. And then after a 1-1.5 hour feed you hope that they both sleep for atleast 2 hours so you can also get some rest. Can't wait for them to sleep in 5-7 hour stretches!!🤣🤣 With one baby it's still super tough and you're doing great mama!!❤️❤️
I'm a twin. My mom was fortunate enough for her mom to help her, she lived with us the first 6 weeks. Pregnancy was so rough on her. She also had to have an emergency C-section, so she was also recovering from surgery. My dad was working overtime to cover the costs due to my mom having to take off work at 7 months due to being high risk, and then having to be home with us 24/7. She didn't go back to work until we went to preschool because 1. Expensive and 2. she didn't trust anyone enough to watch us every day as babies, aside from her own mom but she lived in another state so that wasn't possible. Now we're both 27 and we love our mom. I still live with her because of money and she's not in the best health.
So true the hard part is what makes the women mothers and it will strength the bonds between the moms and the babies and don't forget that babies need to survive by crying asking for milk or for changing nappies cuz their are weak poor creatures😁❤. if it was an easy task some women will care less about their babies and act reckless that's what called bonds and starting a family with attached emotions.we all were babies in the past and did the same to our moms and dads.😁
The hard part is what makes the women mothers and it will strength the bonds between the moms and the babies and don't forget that babies need to survive by crying asking for milk or for changing nappies cuz their are weak poor creatures😁❤. if it was an easy task some women will care less about their babies and act reckless that's what called bonds and starting a family with attached emotions.we all were babies in the past and did the same to our moms and dads.😁
@@Kayd2111 yes, being up all night feeding and caring for my new born babies was a very precious and exhausting time. I enjoyed my babies more once I slept a little more and I wasn’t a zombie in auto pilot.
With my second daughter, I was the ONLY one that could hold her. By the time we had her, we had 2 other kids. So my husband was well versed in newborns by then. But no one, not my mom or mother in law or anyone- could hold my daughter without her screaming for the first 6 months of her life. My husband would hold her while I showered and she would scream the entire time. She nursed every hour and a half for the first few weeks. It was brutal, but no one else could do it but me. You don’t know the dynamic of their relationship. Maybe he husband had to get up early and work at a demanding job. Maybe they previously agreed that she’d get up with the baby. Maybe the baby won’t take a bottle from the husband.
I had preemie twins with low birth weight. They had to be fed every 2 hrs & being a FTM with PPD/suicidal tendencies it was extremely difficult to manage everything. I had a lot of help from my husband & my parents but still everything seemed difficult. I know I was doing nothing different from other women. Hence the newborn phase was extremely tough.
Wish i could had experienced this. But naaah my baby boy was too good for me the whole newborn stage. But now hes a toddler, my gad alwayssss 4am awake till 8am
This reminds me of how when I was up with my babies I'd think to myself that there were millions of other moms out there in the world up doing the same thing. Then I'd think how some moms were doing it in very very hard situations and environments, and that was humbling. It was a comforting thought then and somehow comforting to know that the cycle continues. What you're doing is a GOOD THING. All the moms doing this right now are doing a very good thing.
I used to sit there feeding my baby wondering how many other mums were up right now. Sounds strange but I kinda miss it now that she’s 13 months and only wakes up once some nights and goes back to sleep quite quick, I miss it but I also love getting a full nights sleep again 😂
I was dirt poor in an attic apartment filled with black mold with no money in July heat and no family or vehicle, no washer or dryer. I'd never held a baby and had no internet to teach me. It is hard to watch these TH-camrs who have so much. Not to take away from the beautiful mother that she is, but there is more than one kind of tired. I wish I had been this wonderful mother kind of tired. Please understand, no offense meant but it does bring back memories.
Her body needs a warm hug and good sleep even though she is not getting it but she is giving it to child So love the mother of your child more than you love her as your wife.😌💖
@@user-mb4ls9bd1uно вы думаете, если кормить грудью не нужно вставать, переодевать и укладывать, единственное не нужно быть молокоотсос потом и вме6🤷♀️
Its really good that your child is sleeping with you unlike other peoples whose child is sleeping in another room and then the parnets watch over with baby monitor (i find it creepy) like your child can sleep alone when they turn 8 or 9... Love the child take care of yourselvess❤❤
And they’ll have the nerve to say, “you don’t even do anything. You got it so good to stay home with baby all the time, stop being lazy!” Lmaoooo mothers are super human. She did it with ease. 💅🏼
@@notskelton2670 meu pai só trabalhava (4-6h) e vegetava em casa, minha mãe trabalha (8-10h por dia), cuidava de mim (e ainda cuida) e ainda tinha que cuidar e fazer os serviços em casa, minha mãe é uma super humana, meu pai só era humano
This man makes me appreciate my husband soooooooo much more. Bcuz he does get up in the night and do all of these things. Or he will take the baby in another room with him for about 6 hours so that I can sleep. I love you more and more everyday C!
Even when my husband has work, he gets up with me. He goes to the kitchen to make her bottle and hand her to me so I can feed her, then he goes back to sleep. And that little extra step he does to help me is so much. He also does her first feeding and changing in the morning so I can catch up on the sleep I lost from her middle of the nights. Ladies, these men are really out here. Just gotta hold out for the right one.
There is no need to speak without knowing, the man takes care of the other children and also the baby in the afternoon so that the girl sleeps during the day and can do her things.
@@belujk.97 I’m not saying her man doesn’t help her. I didn’t speak on her man at all. I’m speaking to the ladies who will inevitably see this video, and either be reminded and resentful of their men who don’t assist, or be discouraged because that mentality is so normalize. I’m speaking to those women and saying there ARE hands-on fathers out there. There are great men who will be happy to help you and be an equal parent to the child they helped create, but women need to be more intentional when dating to look for those qualities.
@@mf7269cada quien vive su vida como quiere y nadie es perfecto, porque siempre se tiene que juzgar a los demás sin saber 😢 si ella lo hace sola, si el le ayuda o no y al final ellos viven bien y felices y otros criticando lo que ni saben por ver 1 video que dura unos segundos y creen que así es toda sus vida....
@@mf7269 Of course yes, but you bring your husband in when he has nothing to do with it and it looks horrible because it's as if you were comparing him, and no, at no time did you say what you're telling me now. Because it can be taken in many ways.
Да мамой быть тяжело... А особенно тяжело когда мужчина не помогает ей. У самого есть ребёнок (5 месяцев) И на протяжении всех этих 5 месяцев Я (папа ребёнка) встаю ночью кормить своего ребёнка, а жене даю спать ночью , Ведь я уйду на работу (12часов смена ) а она останется на это время одна с ним, Да я прихожу домой, и вижу как мой сын лежит на животе и смотрит на меня и улыбается мне, я беру его на руки, похожу с ним пол часа по дому, потом меняю памперс не ночной, навожу смесь и кормлю сына, и укладываю спать. Любите свою жену и своего ребёнка ❤
Ненавижу слова «настоящий мужчина» «настоящая женщина» … но вы правда настоящий благородный мужчина, который проявляет уважение и заботу о своей семье🙏🙏🙏 Счастья вашему дому, спасибо за комментарий 🤍
Wym? The father provides money and everything for the family. He works his ass off to provide for them. No one sees the the things the father does. A woman gives birth and suddenly gains alot of respect and this is what the father has to face. People like you are ruining the world and making a imbalance.
Ничего нет геройского в том, что по факту заложено анатомией. Каждый сам решает рожать или нет. Каждый сам решает вставать ночами или нет. Есть няни, сурогаты и еще куча возможностей облегчить жизнь. Но лучше же записать видео, какая ты жертва.
@@teshatesha3489 прямое, милый человек. Мы с вами говорим и материнстве.. Лучше всех знают о воспитании детей и родительсве в целом, люди у которых нет детей, как бы это не было абсурдно!🤣
@@kari_nasи таким обязательно нужно вставить свои пять копеек про то, что "никто вас не заставлял рожать" 🤷ну не хотите детей, раздражает эта тема, проидите мимо молча. Нет блин надо обесценить все
@@Nobody91795it doesn’t matter if u have 12 kids this newborn phase is tough when they aren’t sleeping through the night yet. Being a parent is tough period but it’s worth it forced or not. It all pays off in the end.
Lo bueno de hoy en dia es que las mamás actuales tienen todas las comodidades para atender a sus bebés, todas las mamás hemos madrugado, algunas noches enteras sin dormir, lo peor, si ninguna comodidad o sin ayuda de un compañero 🥺. Saludos a todas madres en especial a las madres que tienen la doble reponsabilidad, de ser padres y madres a la vez ❤
My daughter will be 3 months this week, and the first couple of weeks was extremely the hardest. No sleep, crying of frustration, still recovering from birth, barely ate, and low self esteem about my body made me wonder how I even survived. But looking at her smile now and cooing at me reminds me everyday that she was and IS worth it ❤️
I understand the body insecurity but you literally just did something amazing you brought life into the world so please don't be hard on yourself. I wish you good rest ❤
When I get a little bit annoyed with my mom, I find videos like this helpful. I remind myself of the sacrifices of my mother so I will remember that I don't have any rights to be annoyed with her. Mothers are real superheroes. Thank you Mama for everything
When she ticks you off, puts you on the line, knocks you around bc she's in menopause, Remember it was she who chose to lay down and get knocked up; you didn't ask to be born.
Los hombres son así, quieren tener hijos pero no se les cruza por la mente cuidarlos. Juro que si está situación fuera al revés, todos estarían insultando a la mujer si estuviera en el lugar de ese tipo. El sacrificio que hace una madre es de corazón y totalmente abnegado, todos lo ven como algo súper normal, pero si un padre da respeto básico o tiene una presencia mínima en la vida de su hijo, ya es un héroe. Mi papá era así, el solo estaba para la foto y nada más, pero quién me crío verdaderamente fue mi madre
Muchos comentarios están insultando al hombre por flojo y que no es excusa el hecho de que va a trabajar para no ayudar a su esposa e hijo, deja tu hipocresía, además el vídeo está cortado no sabemos si el se ofreció a ayudarla y ella dijo que no que descansará, el vídeo y el canal lo maneja ella obviamente va a querer mostrar el proceso de mamá y bebé
@@mergymeloni3901i knew comments like “he goes to work, cut him some slack” will be here. i don’t know if the woman in this video has a job or not, but many mommies out there also work. taking care of a child is not your wife’s full responsibility, husbands should also help. it takes two to make a baby so why does it takes one to take care of it?
@naddy3632 that's not what the person fully said. But seriously. Sometimes the dad has to go to work for the baby. Alot of men use it as an excuse but some men really do have work over night and barely sleep. When they get a break they help the mama with the baby. Yes it does take two. But it also takes two to understand the struggles to take care of that baby. To take care of a baby is to have money to put toward taking care of the baby. I have parents who work hours and hours a day to take care of me. I'm 15 and homeless with both my parents helping. I cannot get a good job even though I try. I'm half Blind,struggle with man things and still no one understands. Everyone says my mother should rest her feet and should let my father figure do all the things.nut they both work hard for their little girl to have a good life in this messed up world.
Муж так недовольно ворочается в постели😢 Мой муж тоже много работал, но он вставал по ночам к малышу, сам кормил его и менял подгуздники, чтобы у меня было время поспать. Так же, вечером после работы, он сам брал малыша, чтобы у меня было время заняться домашними делами. Папы должны участвовать в воспитании детей не меньше мам и работа- это не оправдание.
Врубить свет на всю, дёргаться в кровати, это пипец, когда спать мужу, если на работу? Камеру таскает на показуху. Я давала мужу спать, а теперь и он мне даёт спать, занимаясь с детьми, которые уже от сиси не зависят!
Недовольный может ему на работу через 2 часа, а это показуха что она возится с ребенком, но эта женская работа, а муж добытчик в семье.На самом деле она не даёт ему спать, лучше бы он спал в другой комнате.
Salut kepada ibu. Seorang ibu rela bangun jam 2 pagi dan tidak tidur sampai jam 6 pagi agar anaknya tdk kelaparan. Begitulah tulusnya kasih seorang ibu buat anaknya.
No te lo creerás pero mi hijo con cinco días ,le daba la toma a las nueve de la noche y le tenía que despertar yo a las 8 y media por tenía que llevar a su hermano al colegio y no se a muerto de hambre. No sabes lo que dijo el pediatra? Madre mía qué suerte tienes ni te se ocurra despertarlo que el sueño teniendo su peso le alimenta más.
Dad’s are parents as well and there’s no way they can call themselves a day her without helping the mother by taking turns not by the mommy’s request but by the kindest of his Fatherhood
@@user-ku5vy4kx2m No I mean you still pay bills when you live alone, if you have a house or apartment or whatever. But paying bills doesn’t make you a parent.
I know this feeling im a sister to to brothers one is 2 years younger than me and the other one is 12 years younger than me and i practically raised him for 3 years and at one point he started calling me mom and my dad said my mom was gonna have to stop this and step up as a mother and I love my brother to death and when he does start school i already know that im going to be protective of him even more so then what i am now.
My gosh, the father is so helpful! He should get an award! No seriously. Can't he wake up too and carry the kid around the house too at night when they're crying?
@@sheabae8315his role is to bring in money for the house so she can buy all the stuff needed to take care of the baby. Look at their house, it’s rich af. Cause he got to work.
@@obaidirfan4401and she handles the entire fucking house. Does the chores and everything and still take care of baby at night. That man can do that too
@@Shaik_Ruqayyah there would be no fucking house without him. They are rich af based off their house, you don’t think he buys maids to come in a few times a month. You don’t think he takes them all on vacation or simple stuff like the park. Stop assuming someone doesn’t do anything based off a 60 sec clip.
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Then husbands be like “I was awake with you all night babe” 😩
Sooooooo damn true😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
“I gotta WoRk”
Hahaha yes
Nailed it going through this rite now
Husbands be like : "WE" had a tough night babe 😭
She mentioned somewhere that the dad do all the household work, cleaning, cooking, etc... besides his work.
@@wafaaibrahim9020 not even 50/50... where can I get a man like that
@@wafaaibrahim9020well that's a good dad, I know it may not seem fair for a lot or ppl, but she barely recovered from the labor pain and she still can't have a decent night of sleep, plus changing a baby's diapers is the last thing I'm planning to do in my life, not even the last, that's impossible for me, I'll probably vomit after that (I know i was baby once too but I just can't-) anyways even if she gets day time sleep it's not as near benifictal as night sleep one, but still I appreciate the husband's effort if he truly does all that, he's not just a good husband or man but a good father too
Why does she need to wake up, if the baby start crying at night time. Why cant she just sleep through the noght and handle the baby problems at 7 o’cock at the morning, when she wakes up.
@@jout738bro...
My mom always told me a man works from dusk to dawn but a woman's work is never done,, she was a great mom and I was very proud to walk in her foot steps..
My grandpa who I cared for 6 years used to say that to me. He always got so worried and would be like “Would you sit down for 5 damn minutes!” 😂 But he said that same quote to me. I miss him dearly.
The baby is so cute
Yo jamas me desvele así con mis niños, mi suegra me enseñó como acomodarme al bebé para darle el pecho acostada, comían y luego me los cambiaba de lugar y a seguir durmiendo. No padecí desvelos solo que estuvieran enfermos
@user-hr3oz9ri4z her baby has colic... not everyone has/had such an "accommodating" newborn. 😉
Una pregunta si ella hacía todo y de amanecida quien filmaba...el verdadero padre mientras un payaso dormía....a pensar
You have so much patience. I'm 40 and no kids, still don't know how some make it look so effortless when I know it's anything but. Hats off to yall!
Sorry for you
@@jasonseaton3905sorry for what lol😂 who said youre destinated to be Mooom just because you are a woman , nobody right ? A ok 😅
And in my opinion it's much better say the truth instead of doing 10 children and abandon him or not have to give them the love they supposed to need 😊
@@jasonseaton3905 why do u men always assume every woman wants to be a mother? its not for everyone and thats ok
@@corsicanlulutrust me we don't assume but if you look around majority of you may not want to be a mother but you sure as heck may want a baby
This doesn't make sense, how can a person want a baby if that means being a mother?@@dawn78145
国や言葉は違えど、どこのお母さんも素晴らしい！
Вы правы
❤
ほんとそうですね！
Nie wszystkie. Ale 80% jest wspaniałymi matkami
♥당신 말이 맞아요
The first month, my husband woke up every night and brought me our baby for feeding and took it right away to put him down to sleep. And I never asked him to do that. And I am very grateful.
Sounds close to my hubs
That's how it's supposed to be!!! We should be able to recover. I got stiched up 5 times on my VV and I could barely walk or even sit or even think about it 'cause it would hurt so much. My doc recommended to stay in bed for the next 8 weeks and focus on recovery. But how?? There is noone looking after me, my baby or the household. My fiancé says "I'm bringing the money home. It's your duty to do the rest!"
My husband helped as well. He always took the 4am feeding. And on weekends he would let me sleep in and he would have time with our daughters.
@@anastasijachantalkunstner1893that’s a pretty rough situation to be in do you have other family that’s willing to help you out and physically be in the house with you to try and help out a bit so you don’t have to do everything alone.
thats a good hubby!!!
Being a mother is the hardest thing in the world
Im so proud of our mothers🥲🤍
Being a father is just as hard as being a mother.
@@bennydevries539 HARDEST THING IN THE WORLD JAJAJJAJAJAJAJAJA.
@@justmyopinion5763 You must be used to freeloading.
@@bennydevries539id say being a mother is a bit harder though. . But okay
I work 50 hours a week so my wife and I decided to have me sleep in our spare room during my work week and I take care of our 7 year old. On my days off we switch so she can catch a break and actually sleep. But yeah pretty much wake up every 3 hours hehe, help each other whenever possible helps a ton. 😊
Считаешь, что должен помогать жене со СВОИМ ребёнком?🤦🏻♀️
@@natulya6828lmao, I guess not
He’s acting like 50 hr work weeks somehow are more than 24 hrs a day?
@@LivinLaVidaLokaa I want to see you work 50 hours a week for 50 years. There is not a single woman on this planet who would trade raising children for working 10 hours days doing back breaking labor until you're pushing 70.
@@natulya6828 Do you think you should be on the front lines if a war breaks out and your whole existence is threatened?
@@bennydevries539 пиши по-русски
Mothers are strong angels❤️
Yes
The strongest, dads are too☺️
@@lilnugget5961definitely they are not at all😂
No.
@tokam.01782 as far as I know, a man didn't give birth to you.
I love how much her husband contributed 💀
He has a house to pay off in the morning
@@jhkk1269that's no excuse to not help out with your child that took 2 people with responsibility to make. I'm sure feeling a bit sleep deprived won't hurt if it's something worth helping out for or doing. That's what marriage is about, committing and helping through thick and thin, you are clearly not in the state of a mature person.
@@aishaaa-17 have you considered his job may pose a threat to life to himself and others if he is on an hours sleep a night for a year? And if he then loses his job because he is sleep deprived how long before the house is taken away
@@aishaaa-17first of all he has a job to do to pay off, secondly who said that he doesn't help in child rearing? Have you even seen other reels to vent out like that?? I am a woman too ...but we should understand his part too...his life and health also matter too..he is also a human being... This baby is not their only child...who takes care of the other kids?? She even mentioned her husband helps out in household chores...even her in-laws are helpful..Yes, marriage means commitment and understanding so it takes two...so assuming like this is only gonna hurt both of them...peace out
Both parents are important but I only have my mom so I have to act like a dad😢❤
А почему папаша спит, пока мама гуляет с ребенком ночью? Ребенка грудью покормили, мужу отдала, пускай скачивает.
Я как-то с 12 ночи, до 4 утра не спала. Муж встал, ребенка забрал, меня спать отправил. Когда на работу стал собираться, ребенок уже уснул ) я даже не слышала как он уходил, только почувствовала, как поцеловал и снова уснула )
Мужчины, берегите своих женщин! И принимайте участие с детьми с самого их рождения.
Работает
Если ему на работу это логично. Мама может днем поспать с ребёнком. У мужа шанса уже не будет.
Ты серьёзно? По квартире видно как он впахивает, они оба устают, давай ещё на каждого дополнительно обязанности скинь. Отец работает, мама охраняет очаг дома!!!!
Не обязан. Да и кто сказал, что он не помогает ей иногда. В семье всегда распределены дела - один с ребёнком, другой работает
Спит, потому что работает.
Heart warming story time
So once my cousin was watching a video of a mother struggling with your new born baby and he immediately started crying and my aunt turned around and said what's wrong and my cousin while crying said you worked so hard for all of us and you deserve to be treated right and he kept saying he loved her so than his dad said what about me I also helped when you were young and I go to work for you and than my cousin said to his dad was it you who carried 5 kids for 9 months I don't think so and than he turned back to my aunt and started hugging her with appreciation and my aunt also started crying
Respect to all mothers
But don't fathers deserve appreciation too
(Only the committed, present , diaper changing, sleep sacrificing fathers who contributed to not only conception and financial aid but also raising the children tho, those are rare but still there are some out there)
@@SKS17100 yea I guess but my cousin is young so he doesn't really know much. But I'm not like him appreciate my father
mothers are literally so amazing! respect to all the mothers out there. 💕
the problem with this society tradition is putting the baby away from you. of course he gonna wake up every hour he miss his mom. animals keep theyr puppyes always close the first weeks
Men just is sometimes mean to women
@@Anaylnn_HerIf men was as mean as you say to women then we would have never built a society to make them fell safe.
@@LarryBonson how does that prove anything? yes men did some society building stuff (because women were treated like slaves and property in history and weren't allowed to do it themselves) but all of those men are dead now. what have you done to build society? your argument is nonsensical
Some mums are terrible. Not every women who give birth is amazing
I know how she feels as a man . My wife got extremely sick after an infected caesarean wound and remained in hospital for another 3 weeks . I did all that looking after my son alone for those 3 weeks . While mine was a rare case , my consideration and respect to all mothers ! God bless you all
You're already a great father! Good for you!
@@CyberMachine Thank you . We need to support all families
As a mother I respect you man.... really u r a good man....
Precious bonding time for you both also.
I had the same issue after birth, but it took a month and loads of trips to the hospital to tell them something wasn't right. In that month, as I suffered agonising headaches/muscle aches and fever, I was up with my son for feeds, expressing when he went down, which left me exhausted. That experience let me know how strong both myself & my pain threshold were 😅
❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️
Как хорошо, когда дети с 3х месяцев по ночам спят, мне повезло.
Eso en mi caso fue imposible,salvó que no le calentaba mamadera le daba pecho y mis hijas igual,pero toda la noche,no,cada tres horas eran un reloj😩
У нормальной мамы ребенок ночью всегда спит. Просто в шоке от ежечасного кормления, бедный ребенок, там не то что колики, там кол, когда мама дура
Wow! Up every hour.😊moms are super heroes.
Moms are the ones we usually forget to appreciate but yet they've gone through so much and done so much for us. be grateful
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks for the likes🤗
Adevarat
lol you spelt through wrong
They are never forgotten, there are literally pushes to abolish fathers day
Damn us women are strong!!❤
Damn we really are!!... Raised 4 on my own... ❤
Ye right
You’re a pro! You got this. My kids are grown adults but now my doggie wakes me up
Absolutely 💯
Yes it is
А мы спим вместе , ребёнок у груди в тепле . Я кайфую с материнства ❤
Аналогично. Один раз чувак не выронила пока сидела кормила, поняла мы будем спать вместе. Жизнь наладилась. Ребенок спал хорошо, муж высыпался и я в целом нормально
А кто-нибудь может объяснить зачем сцеживать при грудном вскармливании? У меня 2 года разницы у детей и фактически перерыв между кормлениями был 3 месяца, и 5 лет общего: всегда считала что это отлично, никакой стерилизации бутылочек, еда всегда в нужной температуре и в нужном количестве. А тут и кормят вроде, а гемор весь как у искуственников🤦♀️
@@nessielyasina9497А вам какая разница? Не ваших же детей так кормят
Дааа ;) тоже самое
@@user-xx4xe2ht7y Мне обсалютно всë равно кто и как делает это личное дело каждого. Мне, как человеку интересно почему. Вдруг я отстала от жизни и в грудном вскармливании изобрели что-то новое.
Life as a mother is not easy 😢
We all need to respect our mothers on this earth ❤
thx for the likes 👍
Right on cue 😍💗
Menos as narcisistas!
What about respecting our fathers too?
The hard part for me was my baby wouldn't even cry when he was hungry. He is non verbal and was not gaining weight. The Dr. Said we'd have to set an alarm every 2-3 hrs to feed him. He's now 8 and a very healthy and a perfect lil boy in 3rd grade. He now can communicate with dad and I or whoever is there when he's hungry thru sign language. I have respect for all mothers who do everything to keep our babies healthy and happy.
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That's crazy, I didn't even know that could happen. It must have been so stressful, not knowing if he was OK or not because he gave no indication. Glad he's OK now, thanks for sharing.
@@hayley8907el bebé no tiene que dar ninguna indicación. A los bebés hay que alimentarlos cada 2 o 3 horas, sin importar si lloran o no, porque cuando lo hacen significa que están HAMBRIENTOS. No hay que permitir que lleguen a ese estado, porque sino les cuesta ser alimentados o regurgitan la leche
@@Minakitonyu oh true... I dont have kids and never thought of it like that... thank you so much for this comment
@@Minakitonyuthanks ❤
Very good mama! A lot of truth in these little clips. Very realistic view while still being fabulous. Wonderful 🫶🏼❤️
Girly had the camera all ready for her to wake up
Great mom though ❤
Mothers love is everything can’t be compared ❤
I have 6 kids and it's a blessing ❤
@@Alice-bb5itmy mother tried to sell my older sister and I for crack & $. I was 1 my sister was 10
Can’t stand when ppl say this but I get it it’s a me problem lol
@@kerstieamiya4880i mean you did say she tried… it could always be worse she could have succeeded. 😢.
A lot of bad things happened to me and my siblings (not ready to finishing dealing with it all so I’m not going in to detail but it was BAD ) the thing that really helped me was to realize- Your mother is not some all powerful being … not a super hero and has problems of her own with no help and we’re too young to help back then AND the only thing she has to go off of is what her mother taught her.
So i thought about grandma (her mom) who was 6 days old and given to a family member for years because her mother was very sick grandma was taken care of by an aunt for many years but sent home at 13 to take care of her (still stick) mother who basically taught her nothing of being a mother.
My great great grandma was beaten all the time. Even while she was pregnant with everyone of her children (even lost a few bc of it).
My great grandma was being beat by her father and taught very little of being a mother by her mom.
My grandma was very abusive to my mother who beat us until she gave us up for adoption.
I haven’t had babies yet but the cycle will be
BROKEN with me. When and if i ever have babies they will never know what it is to be beaten by your mother for no reason. You can teach lessons with out laying a finger on your children.
Edit: the old saying “ you only know what you’ve been taught”. IS NOT AN EXCUSE TO STOP LEARNING NEW THINGS especially if it’s going to improve your life and the lives of those around you.
@@kerstieamiya4880 Damn!! I'm so sorry!! (((Hugs))) hope you can find a positive maternal figure. I cherish mine.
Hat's off to all the mother after newborn who are staying up all night ❤
Such a loving 🥰 mother ! I am 49 no kids .. I can barely take care of my cat !! lol 😂 Mothers are the strongest people on earth !!! They can do anything !!❤
この時本当に苦痛を感じないんだよね😊愛しくてしかたない😊
Imagine baby’s first word to be *Daddy* 😂
God bless all patents ❤
Yup God bless all patents and intellectual property rights
well it bcz they heared their mom saying it say Daddy that why
@@dustybrubaker2257😂 je te dis façon c'est énervant 😂😂
They always are 😭
Yeah and before someone start raging because of this, we know fathers work hard too, but they're mostly not even with their kids, so it's kinda not fair for the first word to be otherwise than who spent nights waiting for the next cry to calm them out
If a mother is so dedicated, she stays awake for four hours, imagine having twins or triplets, mothers like that are worth gold.
I also have twins and it is still soo tough 4 months in. You learn to feed them both at the same time even if ones still sleeping. You have 2 nursing pillows and one baby sitting in each. And then after a 1-1.5 hour feed you hope that they both sleep for atleast 2 hours so you can also get some rest. Can't wait for them to sleep in 5-7 hour stretches!!🤣🤣 With one baby it's still super tough and you're doing great mama!!❤️❤️
I m a mother of 8 month old twins.. life is really busy and tiring with them..
I'm a twin. My mom was fortunate enough for her mom to help her, she lived with us the first 6 weeks. Pregnancy was so rough on her. She also had to have an emergency C-section, so she was also recovering from surgery. My dad was working overtime to cover the costs due to my mom having to take off work at 7 months due to being high risk, and then having to be home with us 24/7. She didn't go back to work until we went to preschool because 1. Expensive and 2. she didn't trust anyone enough to watch us every day as babies, aside from her own mom but she lived in another state so that wasn't possible.
Now we're both 27 and we love our mom. I still live with her because of money and she's not in the best health.
They are typical Russian mams❤❤❤
I mean they dont have a choice anymore lmfao
Mothers always be awake the whole night for their babies or childrens❤
Мама с большой буквы!❤
They’re only little for a little while. You’re such a sweet Mom ❤
So true ❤❤❤❤ perfect comment
💯
Looking at my 2 month old in amazement that she used to be that size
@@celiag7253yes perfect comment!
So true the hard part is what makes the women mothers and it will strength the bonds between the moms and the babies and don't forget that babies need to survive by crying asking for milk or for changing nappies cuz their are weak poor creatures😁❤. if it was an easy task some women will care less about their babies and act reckless that's what called bonds and starting a family with attached emotions.we all were babies in the past and did the same to our moms and dads.😁
When you wish you had another baby and then you remember this part. Those were hard times!! You are doing great!
The same…. I literally forgot and just got reminded 😅😅
Right!!! 😂😂😂 Then the more you have the less sleep you get.
The hard part is what makes the women mothers and it will strength the bonds between the moms and the babies and don't forget that babies need to survive by crying asking for milk or for changing nappies cuz their are weak poor creatures😁❤. if it was an easy task some women will care less about their babies and act reckless that's what called bonds and starting a family with attached emotions.we all were babies in the past and did the same to our moms and dads.😁
Really? I have a 23 month old and this gave me severe baby fever 😅 I love the newborn stage ❤❤
@@Kayd2111 yes, being up all night feeding and caring for my new born babies was a very precious and exhausting time. I enjoyed my babies more once I slept a little more and I wasn’t a zombie in auto pilot.
يارب ارزقنا هذه اللحظات ❤❤❤❤
Wonderful memories of being the mom of an infant. Funny how you smile now while watching and don’t remember how tired you were!
Husband was such a great help, you definitely picked the right one.
Such a women comment
what did u mean by that@@iliketowatchnfl3515
With my second daughter, I was the ONLY one that could hold her. By the time we had her, we had 2 other kids. So my husband was well versed in newborns by then. But no one, not my mom or mother in law or anyone- could hold my daughter without her screaming for the first 6 months of her life. My husband would hold her while I showered and she would scream the entire time. She nursed every hour and a half for the first few weeks. It was brutal, but no one else could do it but me. You don’t know the dynamic of their relationship. Maybe he husband had to get up early and work at a demanding job. Maybe they previously agreed that she’d get up with the baby. Maybe the baby won’t take a bottle from the husband.
Wanna cry ?
she explained later that he helps a lot during the day but he has to be well rested for work so he doesnt take the night shift
I had preemie twins with low birth weight. They had to be fed every 2 hrs & being a FTM with PPD/suicidal tendencies it was extremely difficult to manage everything. I had a lot of help from my husband & my parents but still everything seemed difficult. I know I was doing nothing different from other women. Hence the newborn phase was extremely tough.
It is difficult for only a second lol the terrible twos is what's always gotten me....and oh boy teen years 😭 not ready for that 🥺
@@tinakinz123the teen years have me depressed most days...I wouldn't change it for the world tho...that's my headache 😂
Wish i could had experienced this. But naaah my baby boy was too good for me the whole newborn stage. But now hes a toddler, my gad alwayssss 4am awake till 8am
I hope things are better now.
Same pero sin ayuda del papá (ignorenme yo también quería desahogarme 😢)
Single dad here. I miss those sleepless nights so bad. Best thing I'll ever do hands down.
He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals😊
This reminds me of how when I was up with my babies I'd think to myself that there were millions of other moms out there in the world up doing the same thing. Then I'd think how some moms were doing it in very very hard situations and environments, and that was humbling. It was a comforting thought then and somehow comforting to know that the cycle continues. What you're doing is a GOOD THING. All the moms doing this right now are doing a very good thing.
I used to sit there feeding my baby wondering how many other mums were up right now. Sounds strange but I kinda miss it now that she’s 13 months and only wakes up once some nights and goes back to sleep quite quick, I miss it but I also love getting a full nights sleep again 😂
It’d be cool if there was moms only social media where moms could hang out and cheer each other on during those late night feedings
@@GymclarkI think there is one.
@@GymclarkThere are many mom groups on Facebook. They really helped. Especially as I was a first time mom.
I was dirt poor in an attic apartment filled with black mold with no money in July heat and no family or vehicle, no washer or dryer. I'd never held a baby and had no internet to teach me. It is hard to watch these TH-camrs who have so much. Not to take away from the beautiful mother that she is, but there is more than one kind of tired. I wish I had been this wonderful mother kind of tired. Please understand, no offense meant but it does bring back memories.
Her body needs a warm hug and good sleep even though she is not getting it but she is giving it to child So love the mother of your child more than you love her as your wife.😌💖
Кто виноват?? Дала бы грудь, вместо того, что бы сцеживать, в какие то бутылочки переливать, и ребёнок сыт и мама спокойна
@@user-mb4ls9bd1uно вы думаете, если кормить грудью не нужно вставать, переодевать и укладывать, единственное не нужно быть молокоотсос потом и вме6🤷♀️
Its really good that your child is sleeping with you unlike other peoples whose child is sleeping in another room and then the parnets watch over with baby monitor (i find it creepy) like your child can sleep alone when they turn 8 or 9... Love the child take care of yourselvess❤❤
A good person brings a good life😊
And they’ll have the nerve to say, “you don’t even do anything. You got it so good to stay home with baby all the time, stop being lazy!” Lmaoooo mothers are super human. She did it with ease. 💅🏼
guys work all day to provide then still protect the familly fathers are super humans
@@notskelton2670 Ok... Not degrading a father's work but this is not abt him.
yeah ik but fathers get no aprectiation at all bcz girls think womans job is harder both are equally hard@@hopeworld134
@@notskelton2670 meu pai só trabalhava (4-6h) e vegetava em casa, minha mãe trabalha (8-10h por dia), cuidava de mim (e ainda cuida) e ainda tinha que cuidar e fazer os serviços em casa, minha mãe é uma super humana, meu pai só era humano
@@notskelton2670my mom worked full time as an equine vet right after a c section. Moms work too ya know
This man makes me appreciate my husband soooooooo much more. Bcuz he does get up in the night and do all of these things. Or he will take the baby in another room with him for about 6 hours so that I can sleep. I love you more and more everyday C!
Does he work
@@lawman8877absolutely! What kind of question is that? He sacrifices for our family just like I do.....
@@lawman8877you think they’re sleeping during the day?? it’s not like working and sleeping are at the same time
😢😢
That’s so cute 🥺
The dad: huh what’s that? Oh I’m going back to sleep
Бесконечно смотрела бы, так трепетно, ни единого нерва. ❤
Mothers are real heroines. ❤❤❤
A true mother...what a beauty......may god bless you and your child
God bless you
Euh non, refaite et pas réussi
Such a tough gig with a newborn. Respect to all mums! I did it with twins. 😮😊
Omg mothers are so caring ❤❤❤❤
When ur baby says what have you done for me then show this video to him 😂😂 in future
😂😂😂
Even when my husband has work, he gets up with me. He goes to the kitchen to make her bottle and hand her to me so I can feed her, then he goes back to sleep. And that little extra step he does to help me is so much. He also does her first feeding and changing in the morning so I can catch up on the sleep I lost from her middle of the nights. Ladies, these men are really out here. Just gotta hold out for the right one.
There is no need to speak without knowing, the man takes care of the other children and also the baby in the afternoon so that the girl sleeps during the day and can do her things.
Thank you for your words, they inspired me!
@@belujk.97 I’m not saying her man doesn’t help her. I didn’t speak on her man at all. I’m speaking to the ladies who will inevitably see this video, and either be reminded and resentful of their men who don’t assist, or be discouraged because that mentality is so normalize. I’m speaking to those women and saying there ARE hands-on fathers out there. There are great men who will be happy to help you and be an equal parent to the child they helped create, but women need to be more intentional when dating to look for those qualities.
@@mf7269cada quien vive su vida como quiere y nadie es perfecto, porque siempre se tiene que juzgar a los demás sin saber 😢 si ella lo hace sola, si el le ayuda o no y al final ellos viven bien y felices y otros criticando lo que ni saben por ver 1 video que dura unos segundos y creen que así es toda sus vida....
@@mf7269 Of course yes, but you bring your husband in when he has nothing to do with it and it looks horrible because it's as if you were comparing him, and no, at no time did you say what you're telling me now. Because it can be taken in many ways.
Fr being a mom is a hard work
You are the best mother in this world❤
Да мамой быть тяжело...
А особенно тяжело когда мужчина не помогает ей.
У самого есть ребёнок (5 месяцев)
И на протяжении всех этих 5 месяцев Я (папа ребёнка) встаю ночью кормить своего ребёнка, а жене даю спать ночью ,
Ведь я уйду на работу (12часов смена ) а она останется на это время одна с ним,
Да я прихожу домой, и вижу как мой сын лежит на животе и смотрит на меня и улыбается мне, я беру его на руки, похожу с ним пол часа по дому, потом меняю памперс не ночной, навожу смесь и кормлю сына, и укладываю спать.
Любите свою жену и своего ребёнка ❤
Вот это я понимаю мужчина чтобы вас дало побольше берегите своего ребенка и жену❤
Настоящий мужчина, вот бы как вы было побольше
There are very few men like you left, who help their wives. Congratulations to your wife for having such an attentive husband.
sama semuah di berbagai negara punya anak kecil mah gak bisa tidur malam hari
Ненавижу слова «настоящий мужчина» «настоящая женщина» … но вы правда настоящий благородный мужчина, который проявляет уважение и заботу о своей семье🙏🙏🙏 Счастья вашему дому, спасибо за комментарий 🤍
This is why mother is valued more than mother, mother, father❤
Both parents are equal. Doesn't matter if she's up with him at night as a baby.
Wym? The father provides money and everything for the family. He works his ass off to provide for them. No one sees the the things the father does. A woman gives birth and suddenly gains alot of respect and this is what the father has to face. People like you are ruining the world and making a imbalance.
@@MaxiineX_X kunde mucchu me adabe yaavu ninna abatara nai da maga malla batthe paterre ☹️
@@MaxiineX_Xbro mothers are better u can't change that
@@nidhirao776 what?
It's ok your an amazing beautiful mom with a beautiful baby boy ❤❤🎉🎉
Ur a hero!!
Imagine your mom went through all this for you too, treat her like a QUEEN 👑👑
Мамочки, кому сейчас сложно в эти первые месяцы жизни вашего малыша, хочу сказать что, каждая из вас героиня!! Я обнимаю каждую❤
Ничего нет геройского в том, что по факту заложено анатомией. Каждый сам решает рожать или нет. Каждый сам решает вставать ночами или нет. Есть няни, сурогаты и еще куча возможностей облегчить жизнь. Но лучше же записать видео, какая ты жертва.
@@teshatesha3489 у вас дети есть?
@@kari_nas какое отношение это имеет к моему комменту?
@@teshatesha3489 прямое, милый человек. Мы с вами говорим и материнстве.. Лучше всех знают о воспитании детей и родительсве в целом, люди у которых нет детей, как бы это не было абсурдно!🤣
@@kari_nasи таким обязательно нужно вставить свои пять копеек про то, что "никто вас не заставлял рожать" 🤷ну не хотите детей, раздражает эта тема, проидите мимо молча. Нет блин надо обесценить все
so proud of you mama, keep pushing through ❤️❤️
You are a perfect mother❤❤❤
Darn I feel for her 😢 it's such a blessing but it's extremely hard at times Hope you're okay Mama ❤️
Feel for her… like she was forced and like she is the first time mama. 😂😂😂😂
Don't worry about the negativity on this page, it's nobody. Get it "nobody". 😂
@@Nobody91795 she’s not a first time mom, the baby is her 5th child..
@@Nobody91795it doesn’t matter if u have 12 kids this newborn phase is tough when they aren’t sleeping through the night yet. Being a parent is tough period but it’s worth it forced or not. It all pays off in the end.
@@Chaniechan777I needed to hear that. My little one is six weeks. It's tough.
Mothers deserve the world ♥️♥️
Fathers deserve the universe, They do all this and still go to work while the mother naps all day.
@@topherh5093 lmao...the father is literally sleep the entire video but go off
@@goodnessgracious777and does all the house work
@@iliketowatchnfl3515 literally! don’t even get me started 😭
Aí cada a paz ninguém recebe levantar na madrugada com esse som de choro nunca mais ter paz 😅😅😅😅😅
Mommy, I understand how hard it was for you to raise four children. ❤❤❤
Mother love is pure and she never felt tiring to bring her children up ❤
Lo bueno de hoy en dia es que las mamás actuales tienen todas las comodidades para atender a sus bebés, todas las mamás hemos madrugado, algunas noches enteras sin dormir, lo peor, si ninguna comodidad o sin ayuda de un compañero 🥺. Saludos a todas madres en especial a las madres que tienen la doble reponsabilidad, de ser padres y madres a la vez ❤
verdad con esa pedazo de casa y todas las comodidades crío yo 4
@@montsecastellcaro4208bueno pero también entre más cosas más gastos. Alguien tiene que trabajar mucho para que puedan tener esas comodidades 🤷🏻♀️.
Πολύ ωραίο το κείμενο σου👏👏💯💯❤❤
lo que no tenemos es alguien que se trasnocho con nosotras 😣
Respect to all the mothers who is hardworking 😢❤❤
My daughter will be 3 months this week, and the first couple of weeks was extremely the hardest. No sleep, crying of frustration, still recovering from birth, barely ate, and low self esteem about my body made me wonder how I even survived. But looking at her smile now and cooing at me reminds me everyday that she was and IS worth it ❤️
I understand the body insecurity but you literally just did something amazing you brought life into the world so please don't be hard on yourself. I wish you good rest ❤
That's the spirit!
You are strengthened and encouraged by GOD!
When I get a little bit annoyed with my mom, I find videos like this helpful. I remind myself of the sacrifices of my mother so I will remember that I don't have any rights to be annoyed with her. Mothers are real superheroes. Thank you Mama for everything
When she ticks you off, puts you on the line, knocks you around bc she's in menopause,
Remember it was she who chose to lay down and get knocked up; you didn't ask to be born.
@@sunshineandwarmth abusers not included in normal considerations. Get help, get out! Gl!
2nd
How about you tell her how grateful you are to have her instead? One day you got and her and the next you don't.
Как правильно вы сказали! ❤
That's what they call a fighting mom. ❤
Such a good parent god bless you
Los hombres son así, quieren tener hijos pero no se les cruza por la mente cuidarlos. Juro que si está situación fuera al revés, todos estarían insultando a la mujer si estuviera en el lugar de ese tipo. El sacrificio que hace una madre es de corazón y totalmente abnegado, todos lo ven como algo súper normal, pero si un padre da respeto básico o tiene una presencia mínima en la vida de su hijo, ya es un héroe. Mi papá era así, el solo estaba para la foto y nada más, pero quién me crío verdaderamente fue mi madre
Muchos comentarios están insultando al hombre por flojo y que no es excusa el hecho de que va a trabajar para no ayudar a su esposa e hijo, deja tu hipocresía, además el vídeo está cortado no sabemos si el se ofreció a ayudarla y ella dijo que no que descansará, el vídeo y el canal lo maneja ella obviamente va a querer mostrar el proceso de mamá y bebé
@@mergymeloni3901i knew comments like “he goes to work, cut him some slack” will be here. i don’t know if the woman in this video has a job or not, but many mommies out there also work. taking care of a child is not your wife’s full responsibility, husbands should also help. it takes two to make a baby so why does it takes one to take care of it?
الاب عنده مسؤولية والام ايضا
War bei mir genauso! 😅
@naddy3632 that's not what the person fully said. But seriously. Sometimes the dad has to go to work for the baby. Alot of men use it as an excuse but some men really do have work over night and barely sleep. When they get a break they help the mama with the baby. Yes it does take two. But it also takes two to understand the struggles to take care of that baby. To take care of a baby is to have money to put toward taking care of the baby. I have parents who work hours and hours a day to take care of me. I'm 15 and homeless with both my parents helping. I cannot get a good job even though I try. I'm half
Blind,struggle with man things and still no one understands. Everyone says my mother should rest her feet and should let my father figure do all the things.nut they both work hard for their little girl to have a good life in this messed up world.
Муж так недовольно ворочается в постели😢
Мой муж тоже много работал, но он вставал по ночам к малышу, сам кормил его и менял подгуздники, чтобы у меня было время поспать. Так же, вечером после работы, он сам брал малыша, чтобы у меня было время заняться домашними делами. Папы должны участвовать в воспитании детей не меньше мам и работа- это не оправдание.
Ого у тебя прекрасный муж
Бедный ваш муж. Вы же кроме ребёнка ничем не заняты
Можно и снимать спать
@@maryanamekerova7428её муж не бедный, а настоящий отец и любящий муж.
Врубить свет на всю, дёргаться в кровати, это пипец, когда спать мужу, если на работу? Камеру таскает на показуху. Я давала мужу спать, а теперь и он мне даёт спать, занимаясь с детьми, которые уже от сиси не зависят!
Недовольный может ему на работу через 2 часа, а это показуха что она возится с ребенком, но эта женская работа, а муж добытчик в семье.На самом деле она не даёт ему спать, лучше бы он спал в другой комнате.
As a momma who has done this stage 3 times, i am so glad it doesn't last long!
Thank you for every beautifulllll mom in this world, you are an angel without wings ❤
The work of a mother never ends. That's why we give birth! We're the strongest species out there!
I couldn't arrange with you more.
Salut kepada ibu. Seorang ibu rela bangun jam 2 pagi dan tidak tidur sampai jam 6 pagi agar anaknya tdk kelaparan. Begitulah tulusnya kasih seorang ibu buat anaknya.
Проверьте, если ребенок не будет спать с 2-х до 6-ти, то он не умрет с голоду😅
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
No te lo creerás pero mi hijo con cinco días ,le daba la toma a las nueve de la noche y le tenía que despertar yo a las 8 y media por tenía que llevar a su hermano al colegio y no se a muerto de hambre. No sabes lo que dijo el pediatra? Madre mía qué suerte tienes ni te se ocurra despertarlo que el sueño teniendo su peso le alimenta más.
realmente mãe é mãe.
Respect to all mothers in the world
Mothers are angels on earth ❤
Dad’s are parents as well and there’s no way they can call themselves a day her without helping the mother by taking turns not by the mommy’s request but by the kindest of his Fatherhood
So then they should take turns paying the bills 💀
@@JohnycandyI’m pretty sure paying the bills doesn’t automatically make you a parent?
@@Sippinteawithsugar Then you don't mind living on the street and becoming homeless
@@user-ku5vy4kx2m No I mean you still pay bills when you live alone, if you have a house or apartment or whatever. But paying bills doesn’t make you a parent.
@@Nio.nio.nio.nio.nio. wait I can’t translate it.
I love how honest she is about motherhood. Not everything is unicorn and rainbows as the other TH-camrs pretend to be. Love this
❤❤❤
Exactly!
Mother and child… it’s so beautiful
when I was that baby i would cry a lot.
La paciencia y el amor de las madres es insuperable
si porque la del padre👎
Alguien debe mantener ese estilo de vida....
True
Y la ausencia del padre también. Coge,preña y duerme tranquilamente. El producto del embarazo es asunto de ella,que tal?
Это точно,как вспомнишь эти бессонные ночи🤦🤦🤦
Я сам отец двух годовалого ребёнка, это правда большой труд матери. Нам мужикам не справиться никогда
БОЛЬШОЙ ПОКЛОН ВСЕМ МАМАМ
We are very much thankful for those mothers for their unconditional love ❤ towards their children👶👧👦
I feel your struggle! It's so hard! You did a great job!
Moms are the truest powerhouse of the world. I cannot wait to be one and experience the strength and love that comes of it. You are amazing.
Team no sleep
No you don’t!!😅😂😂❤❤lol
@@robinettebattle3029 lmao true I’ll be ready after about 5 more years of quality me time 🤣🤣
❤
Lost my babies earlier this year. This brings tears to my eyes. I miss this stage.
I'm SO incredibly sorry for your devastating losses. May you somehow find strength and comfort moving forward. Sending you prayers and love. 😢❤❤❤❤❤
Omgosh I'm so sorry
I’m sorry ❤
i'm so sorry to hear that
Prayers ❤
HOW IS SHE SO PRETTY WHEN SHE WAKES UP
I know this feeling im a sister to to brothers one is 2 years younger than me and the other one is 12 years younger than me and i practically raised him for 3 years and at one point he started calling me mom and my dad said my mom was gonna have to stop this and step up as a mother and I love my brother to death and when he does start school i already know that im going to be protective of him even more so then what i am now.
My gosh, the father is so helpful! He should get an award!
No seriously. Can't he wake up too and carry the kid around the house too at night when they're crying?
They most likely take turns unless he’s just an asshole
@@AtlasMusiqa don’t have kids then if you don’t have time for them lmao it’s not that hard
@@sheabae8315his role is to bring in money for the house so she can buy all the stuff needed to take care of the baby. Look at their house, it’s rich af. Cause he got to work.
@@obaidirfan4401and she handles the entire fucking house. Does the chores and everything and still take care of baby at night. That man can do that too
@@Shaik_Ruqayyah there would be no fucking house without him. They are rich af based off their house, you don’t think he buys maids to come in a few times a month. You don’t think he takes them all on vacation or simple stuff like the park. Stop assuming someone doesn’t do anything based off a 60 sec clip.
Mom did not sleep all night. This makes me appreciate my mom even more.❤
Dats y in islam your mother have rights on u three times more den father
全世界のお母さんに感謝しましょう❤
Poor thing. Good luck to you and congratulations on your amazing motherhood even tho it feels horrible rn.
I'm a single mom so it was hard and tiring... but now that he's 7 Im proud that I did it all on my own ... it's so fulfilling and amazing to be a mom
Wow I love your energy super mom❤
Am a single mom too n am thankful that my son is almost 10 😊
What happened to the father, though?