I just want to add: it’s okay for BM to have fades and BW to style their edges, BUT (huge but) if you aren’t doing it from a cultural/stylistic approach you have to check ur mental FIRST.. for example I’m not wearing foundation until I have more confidence in my skin as is bc it’s a cope/crutch it’s not a stylistic choice. ALSO, I’m FOR black hairstyles but I’m ANTI euro WIGS point blank period. Cornrow me, mini twist me all day!
@@gorlunion nothing wrong with wanting to switch up natural styles! I’ll literally spend hours doing my nails and will be ready to cut them off in 4 days
This! my aunt once said that we were cursed with our hair texture, mind you I was 18 and was the first girl in my grade (I was a senior in HS) who went natural. Fast forward to me and my cousins in our 30s and 40s, my hair is flourishing and my cousins, my aunts daughters, are both bald due to tension alopecia. Recently the same aunt was giving me praise for having thick beautiful hair while my cousins caught strays because she was talking big 💩 about wigs and weaves and how it stole her daughters hair. I looked at her in shock still remembering what she said to me. It hasn't been outside influences that make us hate our hair for a long time now, its members of our family or friend group who will shame you into hair that's not your own.
I stop wearing weaves, it just didn't feel right it all started when I cut my hair thinking it was the fake hair. Because I got the exact color of my hair. 😭😭💔Never again I will place it in my head.
10:20 seriously. they act like washing their hair ONCE a week is too much. How? It's literally once in 7 whole days. You can't find the time once? I know things can happen once in a while but to be consistently not taking care of your hair for months is bizarre to me. Unless there's something mental going on then I can understand that, but if not then you can manage to wash weekly. Also detangling should not take hours. And if it's taking hours it's because you're allowing your hair to become so tangled and matted inbetween washes. A lot of these women complaining don't have long hair so they shouldn't be spending the whole day doing their hair. They have really bad technique and I feel like because of their hair hatred and the fact that they envy other people's hair, they refuse to learn how to take care of their hair correctly.
I think it’s depression, self hate and pure laziness. When I’m active in the gym I’ll wash my hair every 4-5 days. Other races wash more often than we do.
And they are the ones who will spend an excessive amount of time plucking and laying their lace fronts when they could have used that time toward their natural hair.
@@coolida23511 yup I know I would.. not spending hours on my natural hair for me to not even like / wear it.. Ima keep doing it too because that’s what I like. Call it what you want I really don’t care
don’t speak on others people mental health. what is wrong with y’all? having this level of scorn for other black women on a world that is already unkind to us. disgusting.
I was meant to hear this message. I wear Weave/Lace, I’m Puerto Rican. I wore my natural hair in a ponytail yesterday and I had a family emergency last night, but as I caught my reflection in the ER Glass, I instantly put my hair into a bun. I felt shrunken and when I Heard you speaking it really made sense how I’m bonded to some outside source of confidence and meanwhile I’m having a REAL life moment. Thank you Sis 💯
It’s nothing like feeling confident and beautiful in who you truly are! From the hair, to nails, lashes, body etc. looking in the mirror as a black woman and loving what you see is a warfare tactic!!!❤
I'm so glad you did this video. Lately the lace fronts have been bothering me more than usual. I hate that it's becoming the default Black girl look. Natural hair suits us the best and I genuinely believe it protects us (physically like you mentioned but also spiritually)
I’ve wanted to start a YT channel or podcast about issues surrounding black women in the beauty/self-care space but I’m sooooo scared because a lot of my close friends have wig & weave businesses and are big on “slaying the frontal” and I feel like they may feel like I’m coming directly at them when that’s how they make their money…
I think you can promote self-appreciation and healthy beauty practices, and discuss wigs as an option for an occasional switch up, instead of a way of life. We can promote taking good care of ourselves and not yuck the yum or stop the bag for friends doing straight texture installs. This approach is more likely to speak to and support women who are making straight styles their lifestyle over shaming it.
I was listening to this while getting ready for work and had to pause to comment. This video is a gem!!!! You are so right about us being the chosen people. We’re so broken mentally and spiritually it’s heartbreaking but it’s time to overcome that. Christ’s hair was wooly just like ours yet we hide it. It’s a shame. “His head and his hairs were white like wool, as white as snow; and his eyes were as a flame of fire;” Revelation 1:14 KJV
HEAVY ON THE NOT FEELING CONNECTED when I see the women not being real about who they are…it gets deep and dark real fast. It hurts when you get ostracized too b/c you don’t want to participate either-I’ve had that happen more than enough times. I cowash my hair DAILY in the shower as I’m washing up. Takes 20-ish minutes top to bathe and cleanse my hair. If your hair is detangled and moisturized EVERYDAY, there is no additional work you have to put in trying to make it cooperate. I have 4b hair and I don’t have nearly as much problems with my hair like they try to claim type 4 does. I’ve been doing it for 6mos and baby my hair has been FLOURISHING! I get soooo many compliments but when I tell ppl what I do (which is basically nothing) they tell me it’s “too much.”
Started daily cowashing last week and it's changing my life. 🎉 It took me 10 years of being natural to figure out that my hair just likes water and oil. No braids, no twists, no nothing, just being clean, water and oil.
I never got a chance to have the human hair buss downs. But I’ve always loved the ease of having natural hair….plus I like being able to do different colors as well.
Im on my mini braids journey im over knotless braids paying $300 every 3 months i just had a feeling that i dont want to put anything in my hair besides my own I noticed i think so much clearly when i dont have any hair in my hair besides mines ❤
You are definitely not the only one with the thinking more clearly notion when I’m not wearing added hair and I also weirdly feel more “free” and confident.
Preach sis! If I wear wigs it’s for a week to give me a break. But I know women who do back to back wigs and braids and I’ve never seen their real hair, it’s sad. Save the wigs for when your an old woman 👵🏽 😮💨
I’ve been weave free since January and I love it and it’s only “hard” when I’m home. My 5 sisters and mom all wear weave and are never natural. Yesterday my mom was like, you don’t want xyz to do ur hair? And I’m like no… cuz it’s already done to me🙃
I go back and forth between mini twists and wigs…I corn rolled my hair to wear a wig today but your videos inspired me to take these braids down and wear my twists today instead 🫶🏿 All my wigs are kinky straight but it’s ninety degrees today and I know it’s too damn hot to be wearing a dense kinky straight wig lol
I dont wear any extensions or wigs or weaves anymore and it was difficult cause after my second child i had alopecia and all my edges were gone but i force myself to cover my hair. And God bless me my edges are coming back and all the whole i had are being filled.
😢 omg I feel this! I love Afrocentric hair. But laying our baby hairs came from us, even when we wore Afros we created that trend though. But this has empowered me to wear my hair more.
A lot of Black women truly have a dysmorphia about their hair. I remember my friend told me that my hair is never done just because I don't wear weaves! They jump from straight weave to straight weave and they don't have a sense of their true identity.
I agree but when it comes to the edges and laying it down I don’t think so that’s just a art expression and the same with the boys fades I wear my hair all the time and sometimes I lay my edges to just add to the style
Im lowkey struggling w the lashes girl 😭 I was doing so good and then I cried and my eyes got puffy and I immediately made a lash appointment when I looked in the mirror 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@gorlunionHey girly😊, I think I saw you make another comment on your eyelashes in another video of urs as well, lashes really do a number on our natural eyelashes🙃🥲, I know applying cold pressed castor oil every night worked wonders for growing out my eyelashes. I had to be very consistent with it though. Idk how you feel about oils but, different oils work differently for everyone. Love your videos, keep up the great work😊x
Hearing the excuses is so taxing. And since im lighter skin, ppl think I can’t speak on this. Even my husband says I’m condescending when I talk exactly like you. They like, but you got “good hair.” Honey I have 4b hair. It’s long cause I trim my ends and take care of what’s mine.
Period! And you are so right about us being the chosen people because we are. We are the Hebrew people that the Bible talks about and prophecies about. I love your content and I’m glad that more of us are waking up. ❤ Keep it going.
@@gorlunionthis is my exact thoughts when I see lil girls wearing wigs like the natural hair movement has been around for 10+ years now there’s no way you don’t have enough hair to have to wear a wig like what 😭
You are making so many good points! Could you post an email address? I wana share a story about how I learned when to wear wigs as protection for myself and when to wear my natural hair when I feel empowered and untouchable.
The callout at the end is a truth that resonates with me so hard! Yes, Of course, our hair takes work, moreso than white hair. But is that a bad thing? Good things take hard work, they require persistence & dedication; so terrible to imply our hair/heritage isn't worthy of such attention and effort! Of course modern day life is not merciful, many, if not all our surroundings drain so many black/afro-american people from loving themselves and investing in their bodies and spirits. But the dream is- the goal is, to live a life where wash days are frequent and even cherished. Entire days dedicated to investing in our hair is a lovely and uplifting concept & i'm tired of going online & seeing our people run away scared of it. We're not going to make it into a meaningful practice if nobody starts to mean it. Also, i love your setup. the phone up in the mirror is such an authentic sight I'm lowkey obsessed
idk if we disagree but I think pursuing waves (As long as the pursuit of short hair isn't done out of a fear of our natural curl pattern) can be seen as "pro-black". It's such a uniquely black hairstyle, I love waves. V good takes, good video.
What about embracing wearing natural hair and NOT putting extensions or fake lashes on the eyes. I do think that is a challenge for modern women today, especially in the black community. I think natural beauty is the best, but whatever makes people happy is not a problem.
Of course it is. You can ease yourself into wearing your hair without a headwrap, if that’s what you want. Give it time, I’m sure you’ll want to show off your established locs
I dont mean any shade, just confused: why are you wearing fake hair but talking about wearing our own natural hair? As a natural woman myself, my protective styles is my own hair twisted up - no extensions added. The plastic-derived hair used for extensions is not only damaging to our hair, but its also massively terrible for the natural environment. Other than that, this is a good message.
Hey mama I’m not the type to get offended I can take the heat 😉😂 but ok 1. I’m not anti extensions/weaves I’m anti euro/Asian weaves n wigs 2. When all this came to me I was mid hairstyle and I wasn’t abt to have wasted all that time twisting my hair 💀 3. I’m actually new to the natural journey bc I’m a cornrow girl but I’m trying to get out of that bc for me cornrows have to be perfect no frizz and that’s jus not how MY hair works 4. Im jus now hearing abt how bad synthetic extensions r but there r plenty black owned companies that make plant based hair so I’m open to trying that 5. I love me some Marley twists 6. Im willing and wanting to try regular twists, I’m working on my self esteem bc I have fine hair so if I wear my hair out I prefer to let it poof up to pretend to look thick !
@@ToniOne03 Aw thx girl 💗 I’m tryna grow into my black womanhood but it’s not as easy as it looks so I accept if I seem a hyprocrite, I’m jus tryna work it out fr
this is a good vid i too wear my natural hair proudly i never worn weave, a lot of brown skin women i see daily are always in wigs or weaves and of course i’ve had my negative experiences with hearing them speak on how they don’t like their natural hair while looking at someone with natural hair uncomfortable as if their throwing. but i just want to say that a lot of women in north america whom you may think are black american like myself don’t identify as black or african american, for example my family we all identify as american because our american ancestry has always been here… i hope you don’t take offense
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I just want to add: it’s okay for BM to have fades and BW to style their edges, BUT (huge but) if you aren’t doing it from a cultural/stylistic approach you have to check ur mental FIRST.. for example I’m not wearing foundation until I have more confidence in my skin as is bc it’s a cope/crutch it’s not a stylistic choice.
ALSO, I’m FOR black hairstyles but I’m ANTI euro WIGS point blank period. Cornrow me, mini twist me all day!
“Wearing your hair is wearing your heritage.” Oh! You just said a WORD
💯❤️💯
I had to start being honest with myself about my hair when I realised back to back braids were also damaging
Same, w me but small cornrows and then taking them out after 5 days cuz I’m “bored” w it. I also think that’s some psychological disorder
@@gorlunion nothing wrong with wanting to switch up natural styles! I’ll literally spend hours doing my nails and will be ready to cut them off in 4 days
I’m literally about to sell my part wig fr😭
I think it starts from the home. A lot of the people in our family bring us down about our own hair- it’s sick. :(
This! my aunt once said that we were cursed with our hair texture, mind you I was 18 and was the first girl in my grade (I was a senior in HS) who went natural. Fast forward to me and my cousins in our 30s and 40s, my hair is flourishing and my cousins, my aunts daughters, are both bald due to tension alopecia. Recently the same aunt was giving me praise for having thick beautiful hair while my cousins caught strays because she was talking big 💩 about wigs and weaves and how it stole her daughters hair. I looked at her in shock still remembering what she said to me. It hasn't been outside influences that make us hate our hair for a long time now, its members of our family or friend group who will shame you into hair that's not your own.
It really started with slavery and the mental enslavement. Our parents didn’t know better either.
*BUT THEY DON’T WANNA HERE IT THOOOO!!!!* 👏🏾🙌🏿🙏🏾💯 I’ve _never_ worn someone else’s DNA on this head 🙅🏾♀️🤷🏿♀️
I stop wearing weaves, it just didn't feel right it all started when I cut my hair thinking it was the fake hair. Because I got the exact color of my hair. 😭😭💔Never again I will place it in my head.
You are free !!
10:20 seriously. they act like washing their hair ONCE a week is too much. How? It's literally once in 7 whole days. You can't find the time once? I know things can happen once in a while but to be consistently not taking care of your hair for months is bizarre to me. Unless there's something mental going on then I can understand that, but if not then you can manage to wash weekly. Also detangling should not take hours. And if it's taking hours it's because you're allowing your hair to become so tangled and matted inbetween washes. A lot of these women complaining don't have long hair so they shouldn't be spending the whole day doing their hair. They have really bad technique and I feel like because of their hair hatred and the fact that they envy other people's hair, they refuse to learn how to take care of their hair correctly.
I think it’s depression, self hate and pure laziness. When I’m active in the gym I’ll wash my hair every 4-5 days. Other races wash more often than we do.
And they are the ones who will spend an excessive amount of time plucking and laying their lace fronts when they could have used that time toward their natural hair.
@@coolida23511 yup I know I would.. not spending hours on my natural hair for me to not even like / wear it.. Ima keep doing it too because that’s what I like. Call it what you want I really don’t care
don’t speak on others people mental health. what is wrong with y’all? having this level of scorn for other black women on a world that is already unkind to us. disgusting.
Why do you sound so hateful though? And towards someone that’s NOT you!? Smh we are so negative to each other. I hope you do better!
I was meant to hear this message. I wear Weave/Lace, I’m Puerto Rican. I wore my natural hair in a ponytail yesterday and I had a family emergency last night, but as I caught my reflection in the ER Glass, I instantly put my hair into a bun. I felt shrunken and when I Heard you speaking it really made sense how I’m bonded to some outside source of confidence and meanwhile I’m having a REAL life moment. Thank you Sis 💯
I love your TH-cam channel!!! It’s giving LIP GLOSSS before she disappeared on us. I love young women like your embracing this
Best compliment I ever received in my life 😭😭😭💗💗💗💗💗💗ilyyyy
“If you scared go to church” NO FR 😂😂
Took me out 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
It’s nothing like feeling confident and beautiful in who you truly are! From the hair, to nails, lashes, body etc. looking in the mirror as a black woman and loving what you see is a warfare tactic!!!❤
I'm so glad you did this video. Lately the lace fronts have been bothering me more than usual. I hate that it's becoming the default Black girl look. Natural hair suits us the best and I genuinely believe it protects us (physically like you mentioned but also spiritually)
When I tell you chills went up my back. They really did. Reasons why Ive locd my hair. Thank you for this video
I’ve wanted to start a YT channel or podcast about issues surrounding black women in the beauty/self-care space but I’m sooooo scared because a lot of my close friends have wig & weave businesses and are big on “slaying the frontal” and I feel like they may feel like I’m coming directly at them when that’s how they make their money…
I think you can promote self-appreciation and healthy beauty practices, and discuss wigs as an option for an occasional switch up, instead of a way of life. We can promote taking good care of ourselves and not yuck the yum or stop the bag for friends doing straight texture installs. This approach is more likely to speak to and support women who are making straight styles their lifestyle over shaming it.
I was listening to this while getting ready for work and had to pause to comment. This video is a gem!!!! You are so right about us being the chosen people. We’re so broken mentally and spiritually it’s heartbreaking but it’s time to overcome that.
Christ’s hair was wooly just like ours yet we hide it. It’s a shame.
“His head and his hairs were white like wool, as white as snow; and his eyes were as a flame of fire;”
Revelation 1:14 KJV
How to snap us out of it ??
Girl! I love your content. You are so entertaining. You tell the truth though! I love it!
HEAVY ON THE NOT FEELING CONNECTED when I see the women not being real about who they are…it gets deep and dark real fast. It hurts when you get ostracized too b/c you don’t want to participate either-I’ve had that happen more than enough times. I cowash my hair DAILY in the shower as I’m washing up. Takes 20-ish minutes top to bathe and cleanse my hair. If your hair is detangled and moisturized EVERYDAY, there is no additional work you have to put in trying to make it cooperate. I have 4b hair and I don’t have nearly as much problems with my hair like they try to claim type 4 does. I’ve been doing it for 6mos and baby my hair has been FLOURISHING! I get soooo many compliments but when I tell ppl what I do (which is basically nothing) they tell me it’s “too much.”
Started daily cowashing last week and it's changing my life. 🎉 It took me 10 years of being natural to figure out that my hair just likes water and oil. No braids, no twists, no nothing, just being clean, water and oil.
Me watching at 36 with my twa 🧐 lol
@@Austinflwrz girl I think I wanna big chop I’m bouta be right w u 🙊😭😭😭
BM also who get waves to resemble a less coiled texture
Waves are natural all they doing is brushing their hair.
@@joyceg7859and putting the durag on as well as product. I have a brother, its not just brushing. Some of yall even get texturizers.
I never got a chance to have the human hair buss downs. But I’ve always loved the ease of having natural hair….plus I like being able to do different colors as well.
“Glob of anything” 😂😂 so true
I be telling my brother boy that’s shea avocado mask u not even reading the bottle 😭💀💀💀
Im on my mini braids journey im over knotless braids paying $300 every 3 months i just had a feeling that i dont want to put anything in my hair besides my own I noticed i think so much clearly when i dont have any hair in my hair besides mines ❤
You are definitely not the only one with the thinking more clearly notion when I’m not wearing added hair and I also weirdly feel more “free” and confident.
Preach sis! If I wear wigs it’s for a week to give me a break. But I know women who do back to back wigs and braids and I’ve never seen their real hair, it’s sad. Save the wigs for when your an old woman 👵🏽 😮💨
I’ve been weave free since January and I love it and it’s only “hard” when I’m home. My 5 sisters and mom all wear weave and are never natural. Yesterday my mom was like, you don’t want xyz to do ur hair? And I’m like no… cuz it’s already done to me🙃
You have freed yourself, hopefully they will do the same, for now continue loving on your beautiful self and beautiful hair💖
@@kaylabean3693 thank you ❤️
@@Opinionatedcancerof course💖💖
I agree, my family owns several hair salons and I had to break free of that mind block
Girl, I’m living for this message. You inspire me to get back on TH-cam and speak on it too🤍
I love that you are strong enough to be yourself and speak your mind.
I love how where your mindset
I go back and forth between mini twists and wigs…I corn rolled my hair to wear a wig today but your videos inspired me to take these braids down and wear my twists today instead 🫶🏿
All my wigs are kinky straight but it’s ninety degrees today and I know it’s too damn hot to be wearing a dense kinky straight wig lol
I'm so glad I found your channel✊🏽
A whole word!!💖💖💖
I dont wear any extensions or wigs or weaves anymore and it was difficult cause after my second child i had alopecia and all my edges were gone but i force myself to cover my hair. And God bless me my edges are coming back and all the whole i had are being filled.
I wear my natural hair all the time and I get shady looks but idgaf. I’m gonna wear my real hair them wigs are itchy✌🏽
Really? I just recently gained the confidence to wear my own hair and I feel like I get a good reaction as opposed to when I was wearing weave.
😢 omg I feel this! I love Afrocentric hair. But laying our baby hairs came from us, even when we wore Afros we created that trend though. But this has empowered me to wear my hair more.
You’ve got a new subscriber❤️ Whatever God puts on your mind, please keep speaking on it!
A lot of Black women truly have a dysmorphia about their hair. I remember my friend told me that my hair is never done just because I don't wear weaves! They jump from straight weave to straight weave and they don't have a sense of their true identity.
I hate the.... "Natural hair is too hard" argument .. like how? I don't get it? .. just say you prefer someone else's hair texture.
I agree but when it comes to the edges and laying it down I don’t think so that’s just a art expression and the same with the boys fades I wear my hair all the time and sometimes I lay my edges to just add to the style
I totally agree with you about the hair, but I also feel the same with the eyelashes.
Im lowkey struggling w the lashes girl 😭 I was doing so good and then I cried and my eyes got puffy and I immediately made a lash appointment when I looked in the mirror 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
ngl they look so good on you 😔@@gorlunion
@@gorlunionHey girly😊, I think I saw you make another comment on your eyelashes in another video of urs as well, lashes really do a number on our natural eyelashes🙃🥲, I know applying cold pressed castor oil every night worked wonders for growing out my eyelashes. I had to be very consistent with it though. Idk how you feel about oils but, different oils work differently for everyone. Love your videos, keep up the great work😊x
I love this message ❤️
Thank you for this video you are so right
Thx for watching 💗💗
i found your channel td, and i do love it! you're so real, you're so good x
Hearing the excuses is so taxing. And since im lighter skin, ppl think I can’t speak on this. Even my husband says I’m condescending when I talk exactly like you. They like, but you got “good hair.” Honey I have 4b hair. It’s long cause I trim my ends and take care of what’s mine.
This was a great video!
Period! And you are so right about us being the chosen people because we are. We are the Hebrew people that the Bible talks about and prophecies about. I love your content and I’m glad that more of us are waking up. ❤ Keep it going.
yes we are the hard headed and infamous Israel
@alexiabowen4035 That’s right!
Amen sisters ❤ God bless you
God bless u too💗
You’re so right!!
Let’s work this mess out girl I’m tireddddd
3:04 😭😭😭😭😭
Girllllll 😭😭😭like what
@@gorlunionthis is my exact thoughts when I see lil girls wearing wigs like the natural hair movement has been around for 10+ years now there’s no way you don’t have enough hair to have to wear a wig like what 😭
BEST VIDEO OF THE YEAR 🔥🏆🏆🥇🏆🥇👑. 👸🏾💋 ❤❤
You my fav 💗💗
You are making so many good points!
Could you post an email address? I wana share a story about how I learned when to wear wigs as protection for myself and when to wear my natural hair when I feel empowered and untouchable.
Yes pls share! ashleighzrober3@gmail.com
Great video. Form follows function.
The callout at the end is a truth that resonates with me so hard! Yes, Of course, our hair takes work, moreso than white hair. But is that a bad thing? Good things take hard work, they require persistence & dedication; so terrible to imply our hair/heritage isn't worthy of such attention and effort! Of course modern day life is not merciful, many, if not all our surroundings drain so many black/afro-american people from loving themselves and investing in their bodies and spirits. But the dream is- the goal is, to live a life where wash days are frequent and even cherished. Entire days dedicated to investing in our hair is a lovely and uplifting concept & i'm tired of going online & seeing our people run away scared of it. We're not going to make it into a meaningful practice if nobody starts to mean it.
Also, i love your setup. the phone up in the mirror is such an authentic sight I'm lowkey obsessed
I love your content! Keep it going love 💗
SO TRUE
These videos is not tf long ENOUGH ! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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TEA
idk if we disagree but I think pursuing waves (As long as the pursuit of short hair isn't done out of a fear of our natural curl pattern) can be seen as "pro-black". It's such a uniquely black hairstyle, I love waves. V good takes, good video.
I feel like waves have been reclaimed. Same thing with headscarves:)
What about embracing wearing natural hair and NOT putting extensions or fake lashes on the eyes. I do think that is a challenge for modern women today, especially in the black community. I think natural beauty is the best, but whatever makes people happy is not a problem.
I have starter locs and only wear headwraps😢 is that okay?
Of course it is. You can ease yourself into wearing your hair without a headwrap, if that’s what you want. Give it time, I’m sure you’ll want to show off your established locs
I dont mean any shade, just confused: why are you wearing fake hair but talking about wearing our own natural hair? As a natural woman myself, my protective styles is my own hair twisted up - no extensions added. The plastic-derived hair used for extensions is not only damaging to our hair, but its also massively terrible for the natural environment. Other than that, this is a good message.
Hey mama I’m not the type to get offended I can take the heat 😉😂 but ok
1. I’m not anti extensions/weaves I’m anti euro/Asian weaves n wigs
2. When all this came to me I was mid hairstyle and I wasn’t abt to have wasted all that time twisting my hair 💀
3. I’m actually new to the natural journey bc I’m a cornrow girl but I’m trying to get out of that bc for me cornrows have to be perfect no frizz and that’s jus not how MY hair works
4. Im jus now hearing abt how bad synthetic extensions r but there r plenty black owned companies that make plant based hair so I’m open to trying that
5. I love me some Marley twists
6. Im willing and wanting to try regular twists, I’m working on my self esteem bc I have fine hair so if I wear my hair out I prefer to let it poof up to pretend to look thick !
@@gorlunionI am subscribing. You are a breath of fresh air in how you respond to your comments without being defensive. ❤
@@gorlunion Makes sense now. I appreciate your transparency - it's def a journey. Godspeed :)
@@ToniOne03 Aw thx girl 💗 I’m tryna grow into my black womanhood but it’s not as easy as it looks so I accept if I seem a hyprocrite, I’m jus tryna work it out fr
@@adjoaayye thank u sm 💗 good luck on ur journey as well
this is a good vid i too wear my natural hair proudly i never worn weave, a lot of brown skin women i see daily are always in wigs or weaves and of course i’ve had my negative experiences with hearing them speak on how they don’t like their natural hair while looking at someone with natural hair uncomfortable as if their throwing. but i just want to say that a lot of women in north america whom you may think are black american like myself don’t identify as black or african american, for example my family we all identify as american because our american ancestry has always been here… i hope you don’t take offense
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I think it starts from the home. A lot of the people in our family bring us down about our own hair- it’s sick. :(