The Power of Habit: Charles Duhigg at TEDxTeachersCollege

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  • In this ingenious talk, Pulitzer Prize winning writer Charles Duhigg seamlessly combines informational facts from research, anecdotes from real events, and personal experience with insightful observations to explain why human behaviors are compelled by habit. Citing research evidence supporting the positive effects of willpower on long-term decision-making, Duhigg encourages listeners to teach willpower by supporting the mindful contemplation of consequences and resisting impulses that otherwise result in persistent habits.
    Charles Duhigg is a renowned author and business reporter for The New York Times, where he has made numerous contributions. Mr. Duhigg is the author of "The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do In Life", recognized as one of the best books of 2012 by The Wall Street Journal and the Financial Times.
    In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)

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  • @ilish6338
    @ilish6338 7 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    "the power of habit" changed my life.

    • @ConsumeristScroffa
      @ConsumeristScroffa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It changed my life too. It's the best investment I ever made. And the irony is that I made it by mere chance and not by habit because I don't usually go into a store to buy whatever book I find in there. lol It was 14 euros well spent for sure.

    • @vish4544
      @vish4544 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jordan Schlansky how?? It's boring for me.. I'm on the first chapter though. No offense intended.

    • @ConsumeristScroffa
      @ConsumeristScroffa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Vish It was life changing because even that basic knowledge the author offers about habits, I lacked. Yes, it's boring because of the many examples I admit. To be honest I stopped reading halfway through and picked it up again after two weeks and finished it just because I was curious to see if there is anything more to learn about the subject.
      It's truly generic and not a self-help book (which I have no problem with that because I don't like them much), but it triggered an interest in me about the subject and I started learning more about it when I finished it.
      I wouldn't recommend anyone to finish the book. I struggled myself many times.
      But if you're in the first chapter, I would suggest to keep reading. There are some interesting facts he describes later. I found them interesting at least.

    • @vish4544
      @vish4544 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jordan Schlansky well, thanks.

    • @saurabhshrivastava224
      @saurabhshrivastava224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      One of the best books I have read till now.

  • @downbntout
    @downbntout 7 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    So that's why I'm so hooked on YT. Routine: look left, scroll down. Reward: entertainment consumed. Cue: brain hungry for more. Quick, easy, endless looping.

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You're automatically cued to watch the next video when you see all those thumbnails you could choose from. But yes the very first video watched would have a different cue.

    • @raymeester7883
      @raymeester7883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let's not forget novelty.

    • @curiouscollectiblesAU
      @curiouscollectiblesAU 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh hey, look a comment. *hastily puts a reply on there*

    • @steveepic5957
      @steveepic5957 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That isn't a cue, more a response/outcome. SRO is the common habitual paradigm

    • @freaders8794
      @freaders8794 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah!

  • @heyitsyc
    @heyitsyc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    This man has literally changed my life with his research and Book.

  • @truelyfine
    @truelyfine 8 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    I've heard that the marshmallow story is incomplete. Followup research showed that children from wealthier backgrounds, where resources were common, were less distressed about leaving the marshmallow alone, accepting the promise of future doubling of the marshmallow. While children from poorer backgrounds, were more insecure about future promises, and would take the one they had on hand since they didn't expect a future additional marshmallow.

    • @nyk4ever
      @nyk4ever 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Nick Radonic I'm not saying this to be rude, but it would be nice to have some additional info on that part of the research. You would normally think that something like that would be either controlled or screened for somehow.

    • @truelyfine
      @truelyfine 8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      +nyk4ever I'm saying that human behavior has many layers of meaning. No single motivation or rational is sufficient to define a behavior. We are not machines. As for the incomplete reference: www.bloomberg.com/bw/articles/2012-10-17/what-does-the-marshmallow-test-actually-test - well, I didn't feel like Googling it at the time....

    • @tushar1971ify
      @tushar1971ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow

    • @tushar1971ify
      @tushar1971ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Long term follow-up study is always different

    • @khalidbornaparte6250
      @khalidbornaparte6250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Also it might have been because poor children cant afford the marshmallow

  • @codinginflow
    @codinginflow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This is the really important stuff. Research like this is what can really influence your life.

  • @KrisKehasukjaren88
    @KrisKehasukjaren88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    This guy wrote a book to explain to himself why he shouldnt eat more cookies. Well played sir

    • @user-ev1jv7bs6c
      @user-ev1jv7bs6c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hahahaha, that's what we call passion!

    • @AlejandroDuh
      @AlejandroDuh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for actually making me laugh about his cookie “joke”

    • @AlejandroDuh
      @AlejandroDuh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As soon as he made that joke, it immediately made me think, is his book actually only trying to sell us an experience. And joke is on us?

    • @Hoax711
      @Hoax711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whatever it takes to change a habit, right?

    • @VIGITAL
      @VIGITAL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Is more than that. Habits shaped your life . If you understand how the habit loop work you will transform your relation with money, people, love, your body, brain. The book is a treasure.

  • @mindsetmastery4167
    @mindsetmastery4167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Some habits have the power to start a chain reaction and change other habits. In other words, some matter more than others in remaking businesses and lives. These are keystone habits, and they can influence how people work, eat, play, live, spend, and communicate. Keystone habits start a process that transforms EVERYTHING.
    For example, my keystone habit was waking up early every morning. This caused me to be more productive, allowing me to create a morning routine full of other good habits.
    For more on this, I summarized the book into 7 key lessons.

  • @EricPomert
    @EricPomert 10 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    When I get into an obsessive mental knot over a creative problem, I get up and go outside, despite the self-repudiating inner dialogue. I love taking in the fresh air and scent of blossoms. Five minutes later, I return to my desk without the mental knot and a pleasant feeling of starting fresh.

  • @simonray4713
    @simonray4713 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This book changed my thinking , my behavior and my life, forever.
    Thank you and respect this guy who write great book to share his knowleage.

  • @voleanhtu
    @voleanhtu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What I learn here is that you should have a cue and rewards to build your habit. And to resist the temptation, you should not focus on it, distract yourself from it. Also, try to plan ahead of time because soon you will fail your own challenge when you get hot-blood. Fail to plan is plan to fail.

  • @EunaJ
    @EunaJ 9 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Groundbreaking and refreshing nueroscience behind our habit forming loop, I strongly recommend this book for everyone who is struggling to achieve any goal! Love this Tedtalk!!

    • @jphande77
      @jphande77 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Euna J , yes madam. I am too . its great book

    • @30guarino
      @30guarino 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Euna J let's go on a date

    • @patrickprendergast9589
      @patrickprendergast9589 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@30guarino how was the date

    • @30guarino
      @30guarino ปีที่แล้ว

      @@patrickprendergast9589 we both ended up being busy...I was watching paint dry and she had to watch her grass grow

    • @spacesax1
      @spacesax1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@30guarino assertive, respect

  • @christinenoel4502
    @christinenoel4502 9 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    I was in the middle of eating a cookie when I started watching this...

    • @sopnarahman4683
      @sopnarahman4683 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @twopaddles1
      @twopaddles1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Coco Noel lol same here

    • @addycool444
      @addycool444 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christine Noel ohhhhhhh

    • @adrienne2838
      @adrienne2838 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not lying, I too was in the middle of eating a cookie 😂

    • @angelap813
      @angelap813 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL!

  • @alexandriagachuhi7718
    @alexandriagachuhi7718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I started reading his book (The Power of Habit) today. I'm excited to learn (or re-learn) something new... here's to acquiring new value- adding habits 🥂😀👏🏽🤞🏽💃🏾

    • @mohamedabdou9812
      @mohamedabdou9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯just try another book " Atomic Habits " by James Clear even listen to it as an audio book.

  • @joshuabarnes242
    @joshuabarnes242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Thank you Ben Affleck!

    • @Splooie010
      @Splooie010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't know, I'm waiting more for him to bust out with the Joker voice during this Ted talk. Am I the only one that sees Mark Hamil?

    • @freecoffee7072
      @freecoffee7072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      XD

    • @maryclaudiapitman
      @maryclaudiapitman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Splooie010 good call

    • @shwetasuri5622
      @shwetasuri5622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do i see Jason Sudekis ?!!

    • @30gsp
      @30gsp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bit closer to Casey Affleck, now that you mention it

  • @vukhiempham7213
    @vukhiempham7213 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nice presentation, friendly speaker with fully delivered content.. just exactly what I was looking for. Thank yoi Charlie!

  • @danielsilva-us3zn
    @danielsilva-us3zn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    His book is wonderful.

  • @Lena-eo5xx
    @Lena-eo5xx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And the power of habit is the will to change. The words I remember from the book and has impacted my life in a positive way. Thank you Charles Duhigg!!

  • @StevenHanekroot
    @StevenHanekroot 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this lecture and the book. Love that the science shows through so you can make your own reasoning and combinations. Very insightful and helpful in my quest to understand the working principles of human health.

  • @shondellwelcome9956
    @shondellwelcome9956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This is a perfect example of being successful to follow the three components cue, behavior and rewards.
    Habits related to behavior
    Behavior related to obedience
    Obedience related to success
    This will definitely changes someone's life

    • @mohamedabdou9812
      @mohamedabdou9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great words 👏and I invite everyone to build a good habit for life which will change his life for better standards and even his children, family, relatives...etc
      " Listening to audio books is one of the greatest habits that enable you to learn brilliant new ideas of great thinkers and authors. Just try Listening to " Atomic Habits " by James Clear

  • @souffled
    @souffled 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such an eloquent and affable speaker with knowledge and a heart to share.

  • @chrispullinger509
    @chrispullinger509 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Such a great talk and I absolutely love that book. Thanks Charles

  • @phillipuchen
    @phillipuchen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've read this book for a couple of times, and it totally changed my life.

  • @sidneyq9128
    @sidneyq9128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I read his book, and it had a great impact on my life

  • @ingles200h
    @ingles200h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love it!!

  • @ryanbaldonade7257
    @ryanbaldonade7257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "The Power of Habit" is without a doubt one of the most influential and influential books ever published.

  • @sintiakartikanurf2959
    @sintiakartikanurf2959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love the book 💖 it's such a useful guide to change my bad habits

  • @gertj363
    @gertj363 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I loved his book!

  • @GoCanucks2011
    @GoCanucks2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everything you do -
    Everything you encounter -
    Everything you experience -
    ------- is changing your brain --------

  • @audiostoriesforall124
    @audiostoriesforall124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "The power of habit" book is really good, initiates to bring changes...

  • @florentinaosoeanu
    @florentinaosoeanu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I stumbled upon this book, as random as possible, and I must say - once I started reading the book I was so absorbed. I started reading summaries, I started looking for interpretations, recommend it to every person, talk about it - that's how much I love this book. There's an example with a girl biting her nails, and not only her nails, he explains in detail. THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I DID MY ENTIRE LIFE. And that's right - it's just physical sensation. And for the first time in my life I started believing that I can finally get rid of this annoying habit - and this is a HUUUUUGE accomplishment. I'm really happy that I finally made it to create a habit for me that doesn't imply biting the skin around my nails. Anyhoo, this just confirmed that if i did this (I fought with this habit via multiple ways), I can change the way I want - got me really motivated.
    I don't agree with all the example, but mostly yes. Great book, I love it!

    • @mohamedabdou9812
      @mohamedabdou9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great 👍just try listening to " Atomic Habits " as an audio book .it is worth your time

  • @delpenano7608
    @delpenano7608 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to his Audio Book, "The Power of Habit" Highly recommend and now to apply. Pivot my behavior

  • @vonbayernDE
    @vonbayernDE 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally my favourite book. It gave me a fresh framework.

  • @eltoncumbane434
    @eltoncumbane434 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man chances my life With his research, the book is mind blowing ❤❤❤

  • @anniedavis97
    @anniedavis97 8 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    read the book all the way..learned more about history than how to solve my bad habits.

    • @user-dmytro92
      @user-dmytro92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      was it helpful?
      I want to quit smoking and to change some other habbits
      wanted to read it

    • @anniedavis97
      @anniedavis97 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      my opinion, no it did not help me at all, it keeps talking about history and keeps telling stories that maybe will motivate you but no information at all how to solve your problem,
      try brian tracy he is more unto business but he teaches well on how to properly enhance your good habits

    • @user-dmytro92
      @user-dmytro92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you!) I guess, I will read Tracy's books too

    • @vannamarly
      @vannamarly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Дима Чубрей it's worth the read. Reading is about taking that information and applying it to your life. Definitely worth the read.

    • @user-dmytro92
      @user-dmytro92 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vanna In thank you, I've started already;)

  • @johngabriel23
    @johngabriel23 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this book so much. There are many scientific studies that are very interesting. Must read!

  • @pirualado47
    @pirualado47 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The power of habit is an awesome book

  • @rajg7342
    @rajg7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    1. Habit Loop: Cues, Routine, Rewards. (Rat+Chocolate Experiment)
    2. Improve Will power: Choosing a reaction ahead of time. Be aware of my Hot-Blooded and Cold-Blooded emotional states. (Marshmallow Test).

    • @borntodoit8744
      @borntodoit8744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THE HABIT LOOP: CUE ->ROUTINE ->REWARD
      Changing Habits starts with improving Will Power.
      Pre-empt the temptation by deciding what you will do
      HABIT TO DISCOURAGE BEHAVIOUR: Decide on the cue and the reward to help you avoid a temptation X.
      HABIT TO ENCOURAGE BEHAVIOUR: Decide on the cue and the reward to help you complete a new task Y.
      I've also read EIGHT HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE by Stephen Covey.
      He asserts
      PRINCIPLES & VALUES ->Create CHARACTER ->character builds HABITS ->highly effective habits build SUCCESS (GREATNESS)
      I'm thinking the cross over is substitute WILLPOWER with CHARACTER or keep BOTH
      PRINCIPLES & VALUES ->CHARACTER ->HABITS ->SUCCESS (GREATNESS)
      PRINCIPLES & VALUES ->WILLPOWER ->HABITS ->SUCCESS (GREATNESS)
      PRINCIPLES & VALUES ->CHARACTER|WILLPOWER ->HABITS ->SUCCESS (GREATNESS)

    • @corkkyle
      @corkkyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Choosing a reaction ahead of time seems to be key. Priming the pump, so to speak. 💪

  • @popojamesforreal5667
    @popojamesforreal5667 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the books inspiring me when I in the deepest dark. Thanks

  • @felixngari4481
    @felixngari4481 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Extremely helpful for what I am working on... Brand story telling can borrow a lot from this. Help people make decisions ahead of time.

  • @a3uu
    @a3uu 8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Great talk, dude had a great book as well. Easy read, insightful, and entertaining to boot.

    • @beeayeembeeeye
      @beeayeembeeeye 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Clifford Wu what book is this you talk about?

    • @jatuphon_9799
      @jatuphon_9799 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beeayeembeeeye Power of Habit

  • @bon12121
    @bon12121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Marshmellow test was performed with 90 individuals from stanford preschool. Recently it did not reproduce with a sample of 900 individuals.

  • @leelee6369
    @leelee6369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love Charles,I went vegan after reading his book💚

  • @poindeckster2
    @poindeckster2 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a simple and beautiful question. This guy is suscinct

  • @OtodidakwithKangAdit
    @OtodidakwithKangAdit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For the first time see the famous writer Charles Duhig, after a long time his book become reference of many people in youtube of motivation channel :D

  • @grahamkeil2253
    @grahamkeil2253 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks very much
    Very informative interesting and motivating!

  • @salaamletstalk
    @salaamletstalk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant talk and so informative. Thank you.

  • @shaunyu4517
    @shaunyu4517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a most impressed lecture. Thank you, Mr. Duhigg. We share your insight.

  • @VeronicaLaMonica
    @VeronicaLaMonica ปีที่แล้ว

    Never knew so much went into a habit. Interesting correlations. Good speaker.

  • @Retro2Classic2Modern
    @Retro2Classic2Modern 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great to meet the author of the "Power of Habit" book. All thanks to Technology. I'm talking about Smart devices and Internet networks that made this possible. Someone Working on technology is rewarding for me.

  • @masterphotog4131
    @masterphotog4131 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great and useful information, keep up the good work!

  • @exilednomad1444
    @exilednomad1444 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely brilliant book. Half way through.

  • @notagain3732
    @notagain3732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I made a habit of watching yed talks daily. Also writing comments like this one , well i hope to improve the quality of my comment writing skills ... Im still working on that

  • @abilashvb6653
    @abilashvb6653 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks a lot...great piece of information on building habbits

  • @faizuddinahmad5376
    @faizuddinahmad5376 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best ted talks

  • @diewahrestulle
    @diewahrestulle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Outstanding presentation, great presentation skills

  • @syedjafferimam5789
    @syedjafferimam5789 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Power of Habits is a masterpiece.

  • @ntandozuma901
    @ntandozuma901 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a proper video on habits!

  • @vastvexproductions
    @vastvexproductions 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This book changed my life.

  • @gaceqkos
    @gaceqkos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this guy and I have his book, now time to actually read it ;)

    • @YssaMD
      @YssaMD 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      gaceqkos i just finish it after 2 weeks of slowly reading it between my commute. Its one of the best book I’ve ever read ☺️

  • @christinemolnar3328
    @christinemolnar3328 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Overall, very engaging talk about habit with interesting clips from the classic marshmallow experiment. When the young boy who resisted eating the 1st marshmallow to get the 2nd actually got the 2nd one he binged on both - classic abstinence violation effect which is actually problematic! Also important to note: the brain does not "turn off" when we get to the point of automatically exhibiting new habits. Automatic behaviors just get encoded in different regions of the brain - lots of brain activity in many different regions is needed to both form and activate habits!

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christine Molnar he can't put his whole book into a 16-minute talk.

    • @jphande77
      @jphande77 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christine Molnar , hey is it you read from any book or you did any experiment or PhD on this dear ?

  • @alexandrawalker9931
    @alexandrawalker9931 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a reaction planned out that works. As someone who previously was poor at receiving a compliments, now I say "What a great compliment! Thanks"

    • @jphande77
      @jphande77 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alex Walker , that's great dear. It will make better.

  • @robarthur3534
    @robarthur3534 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Solid talk! That said, did I miss something, or did he totally not tell us what Starbucks did to increase their employees' willpower?

    • @iivanov86
      @iivanov86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Literally asking myself the same question!! He totally did not answer that question... What did starbucks do??

    • @kyupified2440
      @kyupified2440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have you tried reading the book? It was on the book

    • @toukun4163
      @toukun4163 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      its in the book

    • @benneil6848
      @benneil6848 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anticipate the problems you will encounter and plan you reaction ahead of time

  • @yesewkne6016
    @yesewkne6016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the book "the power of habit" changed my life.

  • @sherylcastro5688
    @sherylcastro5688 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks. That's pretty effective for me!!!

  • @mauvaiseherbe
    @mauvaiseherbe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this talk, but I can’t deal with the constant beep that sounds under it

  • @annapotpot
    @annapotpot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His book, The Power of Habit, and of the psychologist he mentioned in the video, Angela Duckworth's Grit, are life-changing. If you are fed up with your life and you feel a lack of passion and perseverance is preventing you from reaching your fullest potential, I highly recommend that you read both of their books. Seriously. Go get yourself a copy of each. The science behind them will break it down for you, and will make you realize that real change is achievable.

    • @sidneyq9128
      @sidneyq9128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      On the other hand Robert Cialdini's Influence is like the holy grail of human behavior....

  • @hebafallatah9231
    @hebafallatah9231 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I highly recommend his book it will open your eyes about your habits.

    • @jphande77
      @jphande77 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heba Fallatah , hey thank you dear. I an reading now

  • @k3250
    @k3250 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Make decisions ahead of time-
    Choose reaction ahead of time - hot blooded(Bina soche) and cold blooded(soch kar) emotional states
    Predimating cues and reward

  • @alexandraulanday7091
    @alexandraulanday7091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reading this book now and I love it!!!

  • @tedtreble7048
    @tedtreble7048 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a good book. 🔥

  • @MissVasques
    @MissVasques 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Deciding ahead of a time what to do I think falls into that Mel’s 5-2-3-2-1, breaking the body autopilot mode.
    Or perhaps in this case, tweaking what you do on autopilot. You need Less willpower in deciding as you allready have decision.
    Instead of being hungry & forcing yourself then and there to choose a healthier option, especially more difficult if it takes longer time.

  • @wakaspatel8405
    @wakaspatel8405 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am reading his book The power of habit.

  • @megmullins2368
    @megmullins2368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just finished his book "The Power of Habit"... MUST READ!

  • @healthierish
    @healthierish ปีที่แล้ว

    Just completed the book. The power of habits. I recommend.

  • @meganmccrory9492
    @meganmccrory9492 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am glad I bought this guy's book!

  • @PieEater
    @PieEater 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best book I've read all year

  • @jaredhighlands4604
    @jaredhighlands4604 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am reading his book right now

  • @spectaterahul
    @spectaterahul 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing concept!

  • @xcatyg
    @xcatyg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love him!

  • @weseleychambers4436
    @weseleychambers4436 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Long live behaviorism!!!

  • @xixinh6711
    @xixinh6711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You so much for Your sharing. I enjoy very much. And I wonder which program were used to present ?

  • @BlessingMvurain
    @BlessingMvurain 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know who need this ,but you can build great habits in your life ,and not just any habits that aligns you with your purpose.

  • @attu89
    @attu89 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't wait to get to his book! :D

  • @jessicagillespie1591
    @jessicagillespie1591 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I think the professor from Stanford who discussed how to create habits was more evolved than this one. He also said that a cue or trigger and consequential reward is necessary to perform the action you want to make a habit. The difference with his model is that you don't have to create cues. That's really hard! All you have to do is put the action after something you already do (put on the dogs leash before a walk, brush your teeth, eat a meal, use the bathroom, etc). It seems much more effective because that way your brain doesn't have to do the extra work of remembering the cue. Also, it doesn't make since to equate willpower with a habit because that implies that the former can be automatic instead of something that has to be trained just like the kid had to adjust in order to avoid eating the marshmallow. He was building his willpower to accomplish the goal at hand, but after the 150th test, he would need very little willpower if any at all to complete the action and get the reward that he knows and loves!

    • @maureennjerin.5552
      @maureennjerin.5552 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel like most of what you have written above is essentially what is in the book. However, if you have not been able to develop a new habit despite the 'things that you already do' you need a trigger.

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He talks about it in the book. He can't put his entire book into a 15-minute talk. But he does have a habit of using the wrong words for things I have noticed. He shouldn't be using the word willpower. The book is better than this talk and is way more detailed

    • @whatfuckinwaster
      @whatfuckinwaster 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      whos that professor? any video or something plz

  • @Roenazarrek
    @Roenazarrek 8 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Worked for Starbucks for 2 years. Can confirm.

    • @jphande77
      @jphande77 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Roenazarrek , thank you dear.

    • @ashikpaul345
      @ashikpaul345 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did Starbucks finally fix the issue?

    • @PuppyTheTiny
      @PuppyTheTiny 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ashikpaul345 TH-cam: calling out on the jobless Bitches that torture cheap workers
      Does the trick

    • @ashikpaul345
      @ashikpaul345 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PuppyTheTiny whaaaaatttttt

    • @jasminejones9058
      @jasminejones9058 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PuppyTheTiny Lol well said !

  • @rottnlove
    @rottnlove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my reply to the starbucks part of this video:
    Sometimes you get bad customer service, because you are a bad customer.
    we teach our children to not bully others, yet we bully others in customer service positions when we dont get our way from the "false sense of entitlement" best summed up as The Customer is Always Right.

    • @borntodoit8744
      @borntodoit8744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      See you are talking about a straw man argument.
      IT IS NOT CORRECT TO SAY: Sometimes you get a bad customer service because you are a bad customer.
      If you had been trained correctly or even understood Customer Service....CS is not a response to Customer action, its part of your job "deliver product with good customer service".

  • @aviationshow2158
    @aviationshow2158 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The book influenced me so much

  • @sarthakmohapatra3738
    @sarthakmohapatra3738 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thnx for reminding

  • @noelkinz
    @noelkinz ปีที่แล้ว

    it does not matter if it's good or bad, everything that you repeat you become good at.

  • @embodiedauthenticity
    @embodiedauthenticity 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    super powerful talk!

  • @ehudkrispil
    @ehudkrispil 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk!

  • @ScienceOfSuccess
    @ScienceOfSuccess 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This book is amazing. I made animated summary to never forget core message.

  • @MarkFilipAnthony
    @MarkFilipAnthony 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is how u end up onlineshopping so much,
    u brows the internet, find something nice, stops
    then think about all the situations or moments ur going to benefit having this item,
    when you've justified enough things for the item for you to own it, u buy it
    Then u wiat for it to arrive, until u get the reward in the post,
    and most likely don't use the item as often as you thought u would. Becaus ethe reward of the shopping was reciving and opening the package, not the item itself
    Then u go back to the internet, and look for a new instant reward you can give yourself in the mail

    • @queenmuskaan2868
      @queenmuskaan2868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So many companies use this tactic it’s crazy

  • @JimmieHammel
    @JimmieHammel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have his book and I assumed he would be an old grey haired guy, but he's a cutie!
    And the book is really good. You should all buy it.

  • @_joejoe_7863
    @_joejoe_7863 ปีที่แล้ว

    13:57 really important when I see a cue (this will help me aLOT) helps you fight cue. Needs to be specific on what you will do to fight against cue. WHATCH THIS PART

  • @dwitigaggar4918
    @dwitigaggar4918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it !

  • @syedmohammadsaif8344
    @syedmohammadsaif8344 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every morning i wake up & take thyroid tablet but i didn't find any reward , sometimes when medicine finished i didn't take few days so no affect on my body no reward ,but still i m taking it from 8 yrs since i test thyroid as i feel sleepy during office

  • @tarkanlakurt
    @tarkanlakurt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    great talk!

  • @limitless1692
    @limitless1692 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Actualy you are not changing the habit
    instead
    create a new habit WOW THAT IS A COOL SECRET ! ;)

    • @funkdoc94
      @funkdoc94 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      obviousely. that's what it's all about🙄

    • @brendalg4
      @brendalg4 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you read his book, you will see that it is better to change the routine.

  • @ibrahimmaki176
    @ibrahimmaki176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The book is a life changing.. (i thank God everyday that i bought it.😍😍😍)
    It's extremely priceless.