Randy Agrees With Mum Who HATES The Dress | Say Yes To The Dress
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Carla immediately falls in love with a Pnina dress, the problem is the mum hates it, and Randy agrees with her.
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I know the dress is not cheap price wise but it sure has a cheap look. She is a beautiful young woman and her mother is trying to guide her to a more classy, glamorous style. In this case, I agree with Mom!
20years from now, she is going to be asking her mother, "How could you let me get such a dress?" lol
I chose the dress my mom picked and after 60 years ,looking at my album, I still hate the dress.Sad.
LMAO will according to Dolly Parton it takes an awful lot of money to look that damn cheap😂❤
Still her wedding
Yeah. I was a bit shocked when they said it was Pnina, her dresses are usually wow and over the top, but also "one of a kind". This one just looks like a lot of different pieces were thrown together without any love or care.
It's not a "wow" dress. It's a "meh" dress.
But the bride loves it, so that is that.
It kind of looks like 4 dresses got thrown into a blender lol
wedding smoothie... how... gross!
"I want it to be classy, but that's not her, that's not my daughter"... probably the most respectful way you could say that you think your daughter usually dresses like trash, lol
not necessarily classy doesnt mean its trash. theres a lot of styles that may be considered "unclassy" for being too revealing or unconventional that are still considered super cute when styled well. (japanese gyaru is a good example)
I think the "that" meant the dress, not the term classy.
Pnina’s dresses always look like they belong on a Vegas show girl. 😬🤦🏻♀️
The second dress was the best.
They look like lingerie too.
I know, I don't know why anyone wears her dresses.
The dress Randy picked has an ethereal feel. Reminds me of the 19th century dresses worn by British aristocracy I saw in my history books. The bride is stubborn and unclassy. She just has bad taste and doesn't listen to honest opinions.
You mean luxury Vegas STRIPPER
The second dress gave her chest an odd concave flat look.
Well, there will certainly be a “wow” moment when she walks down the aisle. “Wow! What was she thinking!”
She's rather petite so the dress was too much for her frame. But, it's the bride who has to wear it. One day she may look back and say "what was I thinking?!"
This comment is spot on!
I think the bride fills the dress out beautifully! She's no shrinking violet, she shines with confidence, a woman who knows what makes her heart happy. She picked the right dress!
She didn't, the second dress was the right choice. The dress was wearing her in this case, it wasn't her wearing the dress. @@deborahwilson8482
Not necessarily. Everyone’s different. Maybe if she got a more simpler one she’d look at it in the future and regret picking something “so plain”.
I don't agree. She loves this dress with no reservations, and I think she would regret not getting this dress. I loved how she stood up to her mother without getting nasty or mean. Despite their disagreement, the bride and her mother show a great deal of respect and love for each other.
Bless her heart but that dress was tacky with a capital “T”.
Exactly and it is a Pnina so I am not shocked.
capital and bold "T"
That bride could pull that dress off!
that is one ugly dress, mom is right
Mom had the same expression that I have regarding that monstrosity!😂
The mother was right, and it's nice she can handle the dress the daughter will wear. I'm shocked someone would even design such a dress.
Heinous
Gypsy wedding taste.
that's honestly pretty tame by pnina standards.
I agree with you, they have to stop with those gawdy pickups, they look trashy.
Designers create such dresses specifically for people like this bride. It over the top & that’s what they want. People can disagree but it’s just their opinion of what they don’t want to wear. If the bride loves it feels it makes her look pretty, why would anyone even a family member try to enforce their opinion?! That’s ludicrous!
Prina designs for the financially wealthy, but tastefully poor...
Couldn’t agree more!! 👏👏👏👏
Even if I were wealthy, I wouldn’t get anything Pnina. They are so ugly!
I haven't read a more accurate description 😂😂
Exactly. They tend to be on the trashy-looking side.
@@saradecapua3264 Yes, she has actually been quite "smart" in finding her "niche market" that guarantees her maximum, long-term profits.
I'm a qualified Counsellor & personally, I wouldn't trust her opinion, or want her as a friend myself. I see & get some very unsettling "vibes" from her.
Watch her eyes (the mirrors of the soul) when she "interacts" with would be, or actual clients...
As soon as heard ‘Pnina’, I knew it was going to be a doozy. Her prices are Saks, design and quality is SHEIN.
Quality is SHEIN lol
😂
I gotta say, it doesn't happen often, but this was one of those times where I really disliked what the bride chose. That dress only looked good on her because she was beautiful already, but she wasn't wearing the dress - it was wearing her. I almost always have a "Wow" moment when they walk out in the one - and I didn't get that with any of the dresses she had on.
Totally agree with the mom!
That first dress was too much for her, it over powered her
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I didn’t like any of them. Good thing I’m not involved!
My thoughts exactly. All the dresses were horrendous!
As a wedding manager, I always thought the really beautiful brides presented better in simple graceful styles that brought attention to themselves rather than the dress.
Well, I'm glad I don't have such an opinionated b**** is my wedding planner. It's not your job to have an opinion on what the bride wears. That's not what they pay you for. You should post your business link here so everybody knows to avoid you. I don't like the dress either but when I go in to do a job when my patients come to me and they have issues and I'm their therapist, it's not my job to have an opinion. Just like it's not your job to have an opinion. Gross real gross.
lol.. the pom poms on the front. Seriously? Not to mention the duvet wrapped around her waist.
Like a '57 Chevy. Pom Poms?
It's fugly beyond belief. The pom poms are so out of place.
Every bride deserves to wear exactly what she wants... SHE loves it, and she can afford it, so I'm so happy for her!!
She wants to look cheap in an expensive dress! I feel bad for the mother... 😢
Its horrendous
@@bhquilterwhy feel bad for her? She should prefer the bride to pick a dress she likes, not one everyone else likes.
@@gabbycraft7035 I feel bad that she's going to look back on the wedding photos and go.. oh..
Yes thank you
I like that her Grandma stepped in to remind her mother that it was the bride's dress.
Then maybe the grandma should have paid for it. Or the bride herself. When you expect someone else to pay thousands of dollars for you, then they get a say. Period.
I've already voiced my negative opinion about Pnina designs. Who the heck decides who is an elite designer? Big prices don't mean good taste. But you have to go with what the bride wants. It's their day.
I think it’s a mix of being expensive and only being wearable for a certain body type. Makes it aspirational for a lot of brides.
Duh
Though it isn't my preference in bridal gowns, it the right dress for this bride. When we look at some of the gowns Pnina makes, as well as some other designers, with a lot of skin showing, Mom should be glad her daughter wasn't attracted to them! Grandma was right.
That's a good point. At least the dress isn't see through like so many Pnina dresses. As for "plain and boring," that second dress seemed pretty "complicated" to me and the dress she chose would be my nightmare. It has so many different elements it's like noise to the ears, but for the eyes. It's overwhelming, but that's me. To her it's perfect and it's her wedding.
Not really… you could barely see the bride in all that fabric
That is why I loved Paris Hilton dress. It was so classy
"Everyone will look at her and say "my goodness Bernadette has such elegant and good taste, and you know, look at her daughter."" Nice motivation right there. Even if that's the way you really feel, one could attempt to frame it in a manner that's not dripping with narcissism.
I respect the mother for sticking to her guns. She's allowed to have an opinion and a taste. She got overruled but she was gracious about being overruled.
Yes she can have an opinion but can't force it.
Can we just stop for a second and appreciate the beauty and class of the 2nd dress?
yes it was classy and gorgeous!
NO!!! 😳🤯
honestly, all the dresses were kind of ugly, but the bride liked the first one.
I thought the second dress was really boring.
@@eeriecraft1797I thought they were all ugly.
Totally agree with mom on this one.
The bride is an over-the-top and in-your-face type of personality, and that dress suits her personality to a tee. She won't change her personality and she will still love that dress on her 25th wedding anniversary.
RIGHT ON !!
Yep.
I'm glad the bride stood up to her mother. You could see the difference in her face and body language when she wore the more understated dresses. She'd have forever regretted it if she'd worn her mother's choice of gown.
that dress is hideous
Most Pnina dresses are....ugly, gaudy, tacky, and overpriced.
Pnina’s dresses always look like they belong on a Vegas show girl.
@@ToLoveIsToLive89 Vegas show girls generally have better taste.
@@MrsBrit1I was about to say that!
@@ToLoveIsToLive89Yup and a number of them look like nightgowns and lingeries.
Still not the right dress with #3, I don’t think any of the dresses suit her.
Yeah, it was getting closer as they went, but still not spectacular. I would have put her in something more form fitting to flatter her petite frame. A simple silhouette to please mom, but the fabric could be a beaded lace to please the bride. Idk, I guess the consultants mainly just want that commission, if a bride is ready to drop almost $8k on a Pnina dress, they won't stop her no matter how bad it looks.
I agree.
Dress 3 was dress 1 again.
I fall in love with the dresses that's behind the people speaking everytime!! They're só beautiful!! 🤍🪽
The mother was right 🙈
Still is her wedding 😂
Mother knows best.
The Pnina dresses are always costume-y and they tend to wear the bride rather than the other way around.
The silhouette was nice on her but the design is like the glitter and flowers exploded onto the dress. A lot of unnecessary details thrown on it…like Pnina doesn’t know when to stop detailing her dresses. 🤦♀️
I have to admit i don't like the dress, but, it's her day... congrats.
that dress that she chose … well, I’m not a PT fan, her dresses are far too over the top and I just don’t get it. If I wanted a costume, I’d have a costume designer do it.
Not a PT fan, but just to point out that you are not her target client 😮
@@Nina01. so? What’s your point? To argue with me? Bye!
@@jeswainstonloser
Trusting she nixes the over skirt. The actual dress portion, looked great on her figure...not a fan that design either, but if you remove the fluff you can see an actual wedding dress shape. NIX THE OVER SKIRT. For MOM! Meet us all in the middle. *Use the skirt for the cake table tablecloth. WIN WIN save on catering expense.
That dress is awful!
I agree and most of Pnina’s dresses are awful.
At least this one doesn't have see through panels.
Awww I like it you can wear such a dress when you are a real beauty and young her face is glowing in it .... ♥its all about love ♥
When I was a kid i would watch this show all the time and was convinced that someday I would want a Panina Tornay dress. But NOW as an adult i can't believe how tacky and cheap her dresses look. And the price is such a rip off.
@avacadotoast5492 Pinina Tornei is more about sexual dresses than dresses appropriate for weddings.
It's always a matter of taste. Everybody likes different styles! I personally don't like many Pnina Tornai dresses, and even this one not in all parts. But I find it really special and made for this bride's beautiful figure. I'm really really she chose it despite of it all. She wears it beautifully, and am positive she will like her wedding photos even after many decades ⚜
The other two dresses were so dull.🤦♀️ I'm so glad she took the first one.
*I’m actually shocked Randy didn’t take the bride’s side* Even her Nona just wanted her granddaughter to be happy & let the bride wear what she wanted to wear 🙈
Maybe it's because that dress is hideous
Maybe he wants the focus on the bride and that dress would be all about the dress
Randy, one of the MOST fun and appealing aspects of watching these videos is your unassuming humility. 😂😂😂
Fits her like a glove, though
Im pretty sure this is an old episode 10+ years ago, I wonder what she feels about her wedding dress after looking back 🫣😀
Not a fan of dress #2 either…
Conflicts like this are asinine. You know you and your mother have different tastes. You've likely known this for several years. You are an adult and can pick the dress you like. Your mom who you know has different tastes doesn't love your dress. You shouldn't try to make her love it. She gave her opinion and said she wants you to be happy. Anything beyond that is moronic to even try for
The brides choice was stunning without the added skirt.
Exactly mom. It's not about you, it's about your daughter and what makes her feel the most beautiful despite what others think. Even though the overskirt is a bit much it's only going to be worn for the ceremony. She's taking the overskirt off for the reception and the dress underneath suits her well.
You know what I think the bride said it best. It’s not about certain standards it’s about what you like and aesthetics are essentially subjective. All the dresses looked beautiful she chose the one she felt most special in.
Oh, you poor people who think this Pnina dress is bad. This video is from YEARS AGO. Try searching for Pnina's 2024 collection and you'll have something to be shocked about. She's really not giving up on the wedding night as a wedding dress look + she's got some weird pointy shoulder pad thing going on now. It's ghastly.
I would lose the overlay skirt. It’s too much.
3:04 "Oh, gaudy? I'm all about gaudy, Ma!
😂
I love this bride even tho my tastes are more in line with her Mom's.
This is the best comment
I'm glad she chose the 1st dress. She stepped out with her shoulders back and with so much confidence. I think the top bit framed her chest a lot nicer. The second dress felt like a big clump of duvets. First dress fit her figure so beautifully and the design is a bit more unique. ❤ :)
I saw this episode years ago and it’s my favourite As a mother of two brides, I know the stress of dress buying and trying to be positive about the bride’s choices.
I hope the wedding was fun for all and that the couple have a happy, over the top life.
Great comment. That’s the way it should be.
Tornai was having a bad day or perhaps a hangover when she designed that dress.
Everyone has an off day sometimes.
Wish we'd see more mom's realize that neither the dress their daughter's choose or the wedding day isn't about them it's their daughter's day not theirs!
I don’t think she meant to take away from her daughter’s day. She just truly didn’t like the dress and didn’t think she looked her best in it. If the daughter didn’t want her opinion then she should have gone shopping by herself.
They asked the mom her opinion and she very graciously gave it. I don’t get all this mom dissing
I thought even dress #2 was too much, but Carla found it "boring". Dresses #1 and #3 were ugly. The bride picked the ugliest of the two. I'm with Mom on this. Carla has _no_ taste.
Watching this, I kept wondering what Carla's home decor looks like.
I'm pretty sure the bride does not care what you or anyone thinks of her home decor. She likes it.
And who cares?
Cry
I never would want a dress that my mom hated.If you respect your mom taste you should think twice.But for my senior prom I had my heart set on a wearing a white gown.My mom fell in love with a pink one which was gorgeous .I wanted white.When I got to prom there were about 12 girls wearing that pink dress! By the way I met my future husband that night and we were married for over 63 years!!He told me that he was bowled over at what I looked like that night!!.
Bride you are beautiful and its a beautiful dress. Have fun you only get to wear it one day. As for Randy, not many dresses stand the test of time or we’d all be wearing the same dresses. I loved my dress when I wore it but I wouldn’t choose it now. Its for who you are at this time in your life.
I can't lie here i agree with the mum yes it''s her dress but it's a horrible dress
The mother has beautiful taste.
It's wonderful that her mother let her have the dress she wanted. Too many mothers think their opinion is more important than the bride's, and it isn't. It the bride's day. I agree that the dress looked cheap and was overwhelming for her petite frame.
Mother is too invested let her daughter choose
Randy bout to hire that grandma 😂
It looks like a messy duvet cover.
The only opinion that ultimately matters is the bride! Her day, her dress. We all have different taste. She loved it so she was happy & glowing. Sweet & wise grandma!!
I love Randy 😂❤
Bernadette should not care what guests think about her at her daughter’s wedding. What awful people she must know to criticize a bride on her wedding day.
The two of you will have absolutely gorgeous children.
That was literally some cartoon level content 😂
SO ADORABLE BABY. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Am I the only one that likes the dress she picked? I think it looks great on her and she's so happy in it!
ME TOO
Me too.
I liked it.
I thought it was better in the reception form but I've way worse.loo it definitely wasn't the right price for what it was though
The bride is the one wearing it, her opinion is the one that matters.
The clips of Randy in this are pieced together from who knows how many different filming days. He's wearing at least 3 different suits with at least 4 different tie/pocket-square combos.
Randy rarely looks less than fabulous, but the tie at 3:58 is a definite miss.
mother was smiling even though she couldnt see without herglasses
Can we normalize the bride gets to pick what she wants to wear.
“ all I know is what I like , not what fits this standard or that standard”.
Moms need to shut up. Grammas got my vote.
Mom, that’s not her! What? She gets to decide what is her not mom.
Pnina dresses look like white prom gowns not bridal.
I thought it was nice on her. Mom had her chance to choose her own gown for her wedding & now it’s daughter’s turn to do the same.
The Grandma is adorable she's thinking about what makes Carla happy... now, the Mom is more difficult...one thing is giving your opinion in a decent way without being ugly about it!
“I know what look well on her” GOOD ON HER, it’s good on her
This video is from several years back. I hope the mother chose her own dress. Bet she got the compliments.
Good choice it's a beautiful original dress.
That's right!!!!!!! It is NOT about what the mother wants! She had her day sooo let your daughters pick their dress, it's their day!!!!
I actually like the dress she picked-for her. She has the figure to pull anything off. The straps suit her. I thought it was prettier than that hideous Little Bo Peep dress with the weird apron thing. She’s not a classic girl so she is not going to enjoy a classic style dress.
As long as the bride picks out the perfect groom - the dress is - not important.
That dress is just wayyy too much of everything, listen to your mother
Last time I checked it wasn't "mother's day" it's not her WEDDING. Not wearing the dress no opinion.
Why does a bride need her mother's approval for a gown? even if Mom is paying for it, as long as it is in good taste, it should be the bride's decision!
LOL. The mother is paying for it. Unless you think that you should FORCE someone to pay thousands of dollars that they don't approve of, then the mother will get a say.
If the bride doesn't want anyone's input, then she can pay for it. Only a selfish, entitled ADULT would expect someone else to pay for something that she is wearing but not get an opinion. That is all.
😊 love this family, they are so adorable
I have to agree with the mother about the first dress...so much going on in the design of it that it lost its integrity of design. But likewise the daughter has to have the final say. At her budget of $7k, you'd think there would be lots of dress options.
Agree with Randy & mom.
Without worrying about the actual look of the dress, I will say I think this mother did a great job of walking that line between giving honest feedback but still supporting her daughter. A lot of the entourages get a lot of flack for giving honest feedback, especially the mothers, but brides bring an entourage to the fitting for a reason. It's good for a bride to get multiple reactions so she has a good feel of how the audience will react to the dress. It's a big day and a big investment, and it's also quite overwhelming trying on so many dresses in a row. The entourage might think of things the bride wouldn't consider (such as can you dance in this dress, or that dress is beautiful, but it's wearing you rather than you wearing it, or it's beautiful, but it's not really appropriate for the venue, etc.). Even the bride who thinks the dress is absolutely gorgeous in the moment may try on the dress later, and she herself may wonder why she ever thought the dress was beautiful when she was trying it on.
It's true that sometimes entourages are too brutal and not helpful in their feedback. For me, there are two places that the feedback crosses the line. The first is when the feedback basically becomes too personal. There's a difference between saying that of the last three dresses Dress #2 flatters your figure the most and saying the bride can't pull off Dress #3 because it was made for a gorgeous woman and the bride needs to accept that she is fat and disgusting or doesn't have an attractive bust size, etc. The entourage is there to help the bride find the dress that brings out her beauty and highlight her best features and (perhaps gently) criticize the dresses that cover up her beauty and emphasize her features in an unflattering way. It is not to criticize a human bride simply because she has features that can be emphasized in an unflattering way. Always criticize the dress and not the bride. And the second is where the entourage try to be controlling and don't recognize that at the end of the day it is the bride's dress, and she should get what makes her happy even if the entire entourage hates the dress. The entourage is there to give feedback, but not to make the actual decision (other than perhaps being allowed to limit cost if they are paying for it).
Or putting that last point more simply, personally I have zero problem with a bride who wants to wear a dress that 90% of the audience at the wedding are going to think is ridiculous, over-the-top, hideously ugly, etc. It's her day, (and also the groom's day, but hopefully he wants his bride to be happy as well), and if a specific dress makes her feel amazing and will let her have fun that is all that matters. But even with those dresses it's still helpful to have the feedback of the entourage. If nothing else, it means they are going to go into the ceremony knowing that some people are going to think the dress is over the top and are going to react to that. But they have already experienced that reaction before they even bought the dress. They are ready for it and already know they love the dress enough to wear it in spite of that reaction. As a result, the bride is not going to have a meltdown when she walks into the room in a dress that she thinks EVERYONE is going to love on her special day only to be blindsided by a room of people who instead of gasping in awe are all obviously trying to hide their shock to not hurt the bride's feelings.
Bottom line, an entourage that refuses to give any honest feedback at all are not doing the bride any favors. She brought them for a reason and she needs that feedback. But at the same time, except in extreme situations such as a bride trying to buy a dress that is 10 times the budget with Mommy's money or a bride who is trying to buy a dress that makes her look practically naked that she plans to wear for a wedding in an extremely conservative church, the other job of the entourage is once the dress has been purchased to let go of their opinions of the dress and focus on how happy the bride looks wearing the dress and to support her whatever decision she made. This mother did this so well. She didn't lie about her opinion, which wouldn't have been helpful at all, but she also completely supported her daughter's choice even when she chose the dress that the mother didn't personally particularly like.
At the end of the day it should be the brides choice, it is her day. Saying that I thought the dress she chose, wore her and not the other way round, way too much going on and it engulfed her.
Glad the bride stood her ground and the mom knew when to back off. It makes me sad when a bride lets someone else's preference run them over because the other person is selfish.
When my kids are getting married and dress shopping, whatever makes them feel good is what matters. Period.
I would of told my daughter it was ugly too! But! If that's what she wanted, then I would agree to it, its her day, she will be wearing the dress, and that makes her happy. I don't have to be happy with the dress, just happy for her😊
I would have too
Duh that's the whole point. To be happy for your daughter lol
Maybe the bride was a cheerleader in a Las Vegas show? Cause the dress has pom-poms, extreme glitz, and tackiness galore.
You did good Mom, and grandma loves both of you but also says Go For It!! Love so you can Live a Good Life!
I love her dress on her!! ❤
I actually love the first dress with and without the skirt!
I didn't think any of the dresses were right for the bride. What happened to narrowing it down to find a dress both Mom and daughter would, at least, like a lot? Some bling on a classy style?
Agreed with the mom...dress was horrible. She should've kept shopping. Consult was happy with a designer commission. She can careless what the mom thinks. 😢
Point here is: the bride should NEVER wear something she doesn't like or feel herself in to please someone else, a mother or anyone else should NEVER even think to pressure her daughter to wear something she as unhappy in on her important or any day. Ultimately, it is not about her mother but ONLY about the bride, no metter if it is a commonly seen as a tacky dress, not your problem! I too hate pnina tornei's dresses and style, but i find this one to be one of her most beareable and cutest dresses.
She looked fresh with design!good job!
Glad she got her dress but I happen to agree with Mom. That dress is singularly hideous