Dear Future Wifey S4, E420 - Guard Your Mouth (Pastor Eben Conner)

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  • We’re quite sure you’ve said something before that you wished you could take back. Right? Well, the old adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” is the biggest lie. Today’s guest is Pastor Eben Conner and he’s keeping it L.I.T. during our discussion, “Guard Your Mouth.”
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ความคิดเห็น • 614

  • @blueskiesarelovely
    @blueskiesarelovely 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I have a similar testimony....
    I went back to college in my late 30s with my best friend and our first class was Algebra. Math in the past was never our strongest area so when we got in the class she said I'm not gonna pass this class. I said well I'm gonna make an A. She looked at me crazy and I said watch what you say. So then she changed it and said well maybe I'll make a C. She made her C and I made an A. She said I'm gonna do like you from now on I'm making all A's from here on out. I said good. We both graduated at the top of our class.

  • @gck_replayzz1029
    @gck_replayzz1029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    'Jesus go to the car, I'll be there in a minute' LOL 😆 Right!!! Love the transparency and episode!!! The angels 😇 have to harken to God's Word. They don't know the difference between us saying it and God saying it. 'His Will is His Word' #Chills 👏 🙌 👏 🙌 👏 🙌 God!!!!! Amen

    • @ranaebarker1443
      @ranaebarker1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @msvanessaceo
      @msvanessaceo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @K_PE
      @K_PE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is definitely what I tell Jesus and I need to stop but that was very funny!!

    • @Elizabeth-ti4wb
      @Elizabeth-ti4wb ปีที่แล้ว

      I loved it!!!! He’s got a twin here!!! 😂😂😂 took words right out of my hot mouth😂😂😂!!❤

  • @neliswajokweni5872
    @neliswajokweni5872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I am literally at a place where I am just operating on faith when it comes to a specific issue. This episode was so reassuring that God will come through for me, I don’t know how but he will. I will come back to testify.
    Edit: Jesus did it. Wow I am in awe of God!

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      God will come through for you! Keep the faith!

    • @five5jamaica
      @five5jamaica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Where two or three are gathered...we are in agreement with you!!! Do it Jesus!!!!

    • @bazemoretanisha7283
      @bazemoretanisha7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God will do it for you

    • @radiance4923
      @radiance4923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @elizabethboateng5467
      @elizabethboateng5467 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm believing too. Can't wait to come back to this comment.

  • @justinaragland3025
    @justinaragland3025 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I SO GRATEFUL YOU CHOSE HIM AS YOUR PASTOR! REAL ANOINTING!

  • @Ladi1198
    @Ladi1198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I CAN CHANGE MY LIFE….BY CHANGING MY WORDS!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @chanyg1013
      @chanyg1013 ปีที่แล้ว

      Say it! 🙌

    • @venessatymes7306
      @venessatymes7306 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @misstee922
      @misstee922 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love this!

  • @tylynn256
    @tylynn256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love that you said we can marry the person God chose and still fail at it. That's good word. I hear so many ppl say if it ended in divorce, it WASN'T of God.

  • @TM-se5jf
    @TM-se5jf ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I tell you this message was for me I'm not joking!!! I keep keeping myself down due to my mouth and God sent this!! God please guard my lip gate!!! That's now my daily prayer 🙏

  • @schenikasmith7430
    @schenikasmith7430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    The Starbucks story is just too funny but a very valuable lesson.

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it is! lol!

    • @christinadates4387
      @christinadates4387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It was funny..but the lesson!

    • @t7cooley420
      @t7cooley420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So relatable 😆

    • @MsFayt
      @MsFayt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wotfc 1q¹q

  • @christinehenry3817
    @christinehenry3817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can totally relate to how sharp your tongue can be. I too could cut someone with my words without a care on how they felt. Well, it’s been 5 years now since I’ve made a total change with everything in my life, it’s such a breath of fresh new attitude. ❤️👍🏾💪🏾🙏🏾

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s amazing! A sign of spiritual maturity.

  • @briansplace1978
    @briansplace1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    For the past year God has been telling me that "You can have whatever your faith will go shopping for. I believe that everything that God has for us is either within our reach, or its within the reach of our faith

  • @denden8326
    @denden8326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Ur mouth is going to bless you or curse you" that is powerful. Thank you for another inspiring podcast.

  • @terrabrown2188
    @terrabrown2188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    That’s good! And a whole word….”your mouth is either going to bless you or, curse you”…..SO true….and something I needed to hear. Right on time! Jesus!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @sbarr51
    @sbarr51 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so so on point. Thank you. Its so great to see black Kings supporting homeless black future Kings. Thank you and may God continue to bless you 🙏

  • @movingtomastery4190
    @movingtomastery4190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wow, this episode just stirred my faith, I paused just after your discussion on declarations to declare what I would like to see, to recall the promises that are yet to come to pass. Awesome 👏🏽

  • @thesacredhealher
    @thesacredhealher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This episode is a confirmation on my intentions to speak life out of my mouth at all times. If I’m not speaking life, then it doesn’t need to be said. Whew, this series is speaking to my cells!!

  • @cycyblue
    @cycyblue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This one is such a blessing! I laughed, hollered amen multiple times, all while being pierced with The Word of God causing me to reflect on what comes out of my mouth!!! whew!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @kscourt21
    @kscourt21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Change your life by Changing your words"
    "My heart controls what I say" Pastor !!..... My God....If this podcast didn't force you to pay attention to your mouth and heart, you missed the whole meaning of of GUARD Your Mouth. Thank you Gentlemen for your transparency. Thank you genuinely for speaking on how you need to honor GOD more in our mouth and heart. And how it will help you identify where you are in your walk! Maturity and wisdom over time should change your perspective and how you speak over your life! Feelings do tend to get us in to trouble and cause us to speak out of emotion instead of self-control and alignment with the word! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Your authenticity is awesome and much needed!! Another one Laterras, you gave us what is needed in this season!! Keep doing what you doing!! Kingdom Royale is coming to full fruition!! Blessings to you both!! 👏🙏😁🙌👏🙋‍♀️ "What if the words of your mouth can shift your life!!"

  • @MrApex04
    @MrApex04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Pastor Eben You've been a blessing to my friend JP and his family. Seeing his maturation ministered to me, now you minister to me online. Thank you for your diligence to the Lord.

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So glad to hear this. Glad to have you as part of our online family!

  • @patriciapatricia3586
    @patriciapatricia3586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The Starbucks story 🤣🤣🤣🤣!!
    I do struggle with negative words spoken to me when I was young. A cycle I'm trying to break - please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️.

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We will definitely be praying for you!

    • @patriciapatricia3586
      @patriciapatricia3586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wotfc Thank you so much! I really appreciate your prayers 🙏🏾❤️

    • @Elizabeth-ti4wb
      @Elizabeth-ti4wb ปีที่แล้ว

      Blessings!!!!!🎉❤😂

  • @cherwallace6026
    @cherwallace6026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This brother is emotionally mature and wise. Bleed up, not down. Awesome mindset. How wonderful to have people in your life to bleed up to.
    I need that. It’s been a CHALLENGE during the pandemic. I am online every Sunday, and most Tuesdays and Wednesdays, however I miss the fellowship, engagement of being in church in person, and having those Godly, wise people I can reach out to for council…

  • @lareinawhatley9509
    @lareinawhatley9509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This episode is soooo enlightening! I skipped over it so many times...but I finally said let me see what it's about because EVERY episode this season has been absolute FIRE. And this one exceeded my expectations by far. So much wisdom!!!! I am spiritually full and overflowing. I need to sow some seeds.

  • @TalkingWithTasja
    @TalkingWithTasja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The angels don’t know the difference between us saying it and God saying it!!! WHAT???!!! Sir, you just made me happy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Awesome message and word. I like how the Pastor's transparency reaffirms how we are mankind, before we are Christ like in a lot of instances. We will never be so Holy where we can cover up those flaws and imperfections. And with this, God gives grace🙏 Keep bringing that fire brother.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said!

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true! We all fall short of God’s glory, but thank God for His grace!

  • @carolnorman235
    @carolnorman235 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    THIS IS ONE OF THE BESTTTTTTT PODCAST, HOLYSPIRIT IS DEALING WITH ME WITH MY HEART & MOUTH. THANK YOU FOR SHARING. GLORRRRY TO GOD.

  • @CandaceKamille
    @CandaceKamille 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This episode is powerful! Our words hold so much power! Thank you 💚✌🏾

  • @caroutherstc
    @caroutherstc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This whole message is a small window into lessons learned in my life. Over the years in my life, the Lord has often humbled my heart, spirit, and tuned my conscious so sharp that when I am contiplating in my head to speak on a topic that I felt well within my right to do so, the Lord would mute me with peace and tell me to remain humbled because that isn't your battle, it is his. And this too shall pass.....This was another positive life message for me and so full of joy and laughter. I love the many blessings from this podcast. To God be the glory.

  • @bonniehill6956
    @bonniehill6956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I truly enjoyed Pastor Eben. He is my brother's pastor. When he said to guard your mouth no matter what I see. God has been on me about Proverbs 3:5-6. Thank you for the confirmation to shut up and trust God. I am not married but it blessed me.

  • @briansplace1978
    @briansplace1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so good, Had to watch this again!!! That is soo true. When I was going through my divorce my Pastor told me no matter how much I may want something to work, I can't force someone to stay in something they dont want to be in anymore....And with God's help and with no anger nor bitterness nor resentment in my heart towards my ex, I was able to let her go, and release her back to God...That was two years ago. And since then my life has catapulted to another level with my relationship with God, and in every area of my life

  • @pearlhunter2440
    @pearlhunter2440 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I think he needs the cup too." 😂🤣😂🤣 "I saw them dial three numbers & I knew I had to leave. SMH 🤣😂🤣
    And yeah, culture shock is real. Just like when I move to Georgia (& Texas in 2000) back 2004. I'd NEVER seen so much black people & Hebrew Israelites in my life, except on T. V. & magazines. It was TOTALLY different from me having been born & raised in Phoenix, Arizona. It took some getting used to. 💯💯💯

  • @timewithmabel2752
    @timewithmabel2752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woaw amazing episode and I just can’t stop watching it because I have been believing God for $3700 so that I can evaluate all my credentials as a foreign trained nurse and register and start my nclex review classes and go to South Africa and write the exams..God have mercy on me because this will change my life and also help me to change my mothers life,this will be a great win for my family 🙏🙏🙏🙏Thank You Lord for You are able and that You are still in your miracle business🙏🙏 Lord I am going to stop crying because this episode has given more reasons not to cry because $3700 is not bigger than Your throne. Lord I pray for divine connections beyond human understanding and I know that whatever I am going through is nothing before your throne,thank You Lord 🙏🙏🙏

  • @olgagordonministry4423
    @olgagordonministry4423 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Greetings Kings 👑 thanks for the wonderful message and transparency. Mr. Laterras I sent a Zelle donation from my ministry for Kingdom Royale! Your Vision is a Legacy that’s already impacting lives!
    Grace, Peace and Blessings to You, Pastor Eben and Kingdom Royale!

  • @sandrabraziel8271
    @sandrabraziel8271 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this pastor! Funny , honest, and a Man of God! Exactly what my husband will be! Love this Word, say and believe what you want to manifest.,Another great podcast! Amen

  • @tishainnis
    @tishainnis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This guard your words series is getting my thoughts, actions and words ALL together. 😫 This will be on repeat 🔂.

    • @chanyg1013
      @chanyg1013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen! I said the same thing.

  • @Iamlismoore
    @Iamlismoore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im not a christian or religious but I love and enjoy your Podcast.....thank you

    • @rotimia6869
      @rotimia6869 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jesus loves you all the way😊

  • @hannahsmall1349
    @hannahsmall1349 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This episode has encouraged me to be consistent with what I confess, and to believe in my heart that what I'm confessing will come to past. My husband and I are going trusting God with our finances due to a job loss. However, I confess that we are more than conquerors. Not only will we have provision to meet our needs, but we will have more than enough to meet the needs of others!! Also, I confess that my husband and I will be able to be a great blessing in helping your vision to help our young black boys. I claim it in Jesus Name!! Amen!!

  • @sherryedwards2810
    @sherryedwards2810 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This one was an eye opener, a lot of what was said I've recently been convicted of. I came across this episode just in time, may seem like just another episode but this is life changing for me. Thank you Laterras for your 'yes'. God bless you.

  • @antoniapinnix8321
    @antoniapinnix8321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was a great testimony on faith as well as guarding your mouth. I appreciate it. I'm struggling in an area, but this is truly helping me to stay focused. "Change your words."

  • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
    @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love his Jamaican story. Yeeees, that's awesome....He sounds like Pastor Colleen and Dennis Rouse, the highest giving was during Covid.At Victory World Church.... When I visit Texas, I'm coming to this Church.. Such an awesome story....Love it.

  • @Rach706
    @Rach706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The Starbucks gift card is brilliant because people who don’t attend, usually have a view of the church as always wanting money from them so to have a church give something to them(other than a track or a quick sermon to convince them to come) is powerful.

  • @shellyseeker4246
    @shellyseeker4246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really appreciate this pastor wisdom I'm going through a divorce myself my husband call it quite.I refuse to bleed down I didn't know that what I was doing I was listening to the Holy Spirit thank you for this man of God 😇

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you were blessed by this!

  • @vickyjohnson9765
    @vickyjohnson9765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every episode of Dear Future wifey is an eye opener so much that you have to reflect and change your path all in God's name...🔥🔥 Therefore I pray that all of us in this comment section is unconditionally loved,protected,anointed with his blood...Amen

  • @anitaatkins2557
    @anitaatkins2557 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! I thank God for this particular podcast because it helps me to be more like God and less like the culture. I have been very dogmatic about somethings I say by saying (you) always!!! But now I try to stop and say things that will build you up and not tear you down. I don’t like people who tells me I think I am perfect, no I am not perfect but I just don’t do the things that you do! I am praying and asking God to help me to speak life and not death in any situation that I face. I can admit that it is my defense because I am tried of being your target because of your pain. I will continue to pray for those who have and will persecute me for I know who I am and whose I am! I thank God you both men of God for helping me as I continue to wait on my man of God. Peace and Blessings to you both. I will keep hope alive🙏🏽🫶🏽.

  • @joywbrown25
    @joywbrown25 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jesus go to the car, I'll be there in a minute 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Flo2Litt
    @Flo2Litt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Listen! Listen! When I say I am just staying plugged into this podcast!! There has been so much meat and potatoes in EVERY SINGLE ONE!! This episode has come at the best time for me as I have just had my birthday! I took notes when Laterras came with the scriptures. (Psalms 141:3; Proverbs 21:23; Proverbs 13:3; 1 Peter 3:10; James 1:19) I have some Homework to do frfr! The one nugget I took was “what I’m saying needs to match what I’m praying!!” 🔥🔥🤯🤯 Today I change what I am praying and saying going forward!! Intentionality is key! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you Laterras!! God bless you so much sir! 100 fold!! May you stay in overflow! 🙏🏽🗣♥️

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We’re so glad you were blessed by this!

  • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
    @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such an awesome episode....Getting black families back together again for the great wealth transfer and Kingdom dominion. When he talked about the coffee, I, laughed so hard. Even though I really don't have a problem with my mouth and attitude. My parents were married for 61 years. But I've experienced it before. The episode with RC & Lisa Blakes was the bomb.

  • @marciajames9434
    @marciajames9434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Never heard those true words before "the devil spoke to me first" LOLOL but thank you pastor for being so real; stay encouraged and let's all keep following God's path for our lives. Thanks to you too as always LW.

  • @andreajohn3574
    @andreajohn3574 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great teaching… as a teacher, i have to rephrase my thinking n words. I have to tell my students what I want them to do.

  • @brilliantclasses8835
    @brilliantclasses8835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was powerful 👌🏾 I will pray that I take care of my words. I like when the pastor mentioned that our words can was destroyed us or lifted us up 🆙. Thank you for reminding me to be careful with the words that comes out of my mouth 👄

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! A lesson we al need to remember at all times.

  • @dhaimasimon3764
    @dhaimasimon3764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God shall supply All my needs according to his riches in glory. Thank you Lord 🙏🙏🙏

  • @joeninabrown
    @joeninabrown ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is truly sent from God .I have been sharing his episodes with everyone. If you come hungry you will leave full! I come expecting something every episode. Never dissatisfied I've learned so much to add to my own relationship and life .. Truly a Blessing!

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is what having faith and moving in obedience looks like. Partial obedience is total disobedience. The amount of Wisdom here 🙌🏿 👏🏾 🙏🏿. Wheeeeewwwww!!!!! Let me go get marinated. I know I will come back here to take notes 📝

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I absolutely enjoyed this episode.
    So profound. So hilarious. So encouraging.
    Gotta speak it in order to see it!

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That coffee dash to the chest for Carmel on the cup's side Testimony, That's transparency 😂 Stay Humble and This podcast PREACHED betta than we shouted🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Pastor Eben and Laterras for this one! Keep speaking into Kingdom Royale's future and manifestation Laterras!!!💕👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This really Blessed me, the Word and the words❣

  • @CynthiaLipsey
    @CynthiaLipsey ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this episode. I really needed this. I watched the episode with Pastor Connor and his fiancé this morning, and I had to find this one.

  • @gcburchell
    @gcburchell 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just re watched this episode and it spoke to me so profoundly. Especially that letter to your future wifey. Amazing I had the same thought about my attitude in responding to others. I had a personal conversation with God about this and hope that my word will take action. I do need a change and thank God for this confirmation.
    Great work.

  • @msvanessaceo
    @msvanessaceo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for reminding me to obey God when he says open my mouth and speak his word, pray the petition, and receive it! Awesome thanks for sharing!

  • @nataliarichelle4962
    @nataliarichelle4962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was such an uplifting and hope-filled conversation!❤ It will be on repeat!! Thank you 🙏🏽
    The stories were hilarious 😂 chicken foot soup is a staple Caribbean dish 🇧🇧
    Some time ago, I developed a burning desire to open a school. I finally wrote this vision down at the beginning of 2020 I envisioned the doors opening to students September 2025. I'm not YET in possession of the finances, resources or connections nevertheless I am still believing God for this.
    I have some serious work to do around guarding my mind, my heart and my mouth. I gave up my job in March 2020 to pursue a more meaningful life and I've felt lost, confused and uncertain over the last two years. It's been a struggle at times but God has consistently showed up for me so I know I only need to keep stepping and trusting. Thank you once again for sharing this conversation with the world. I certainly needed to hear it. Please pray for me 🙏🏽

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep believing and stepping out on faith! Pastor Eben has more messages on faith that can help you in this season. God bless!

  • @thyrajoseph2720
    @thyrajoseph2720 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode was very timely. God has been speaking to me about the power of my words. He's showing me how my words are blocking my blessings! The article you read was right on point! I picked up so many gems in this episode. God is so amazing! Nothing happens before its time! Your letter was so beautiful, Laterras! ❤

  • @kaneshamayo1517
    @kaneshamayo1517 ปีที่แล้ว

    My God, my God. You are mighty and wonderful. I appreciate this message so much as I wasn't going to watch it because I don't talk to anyone crazy so I figured guarding my mouth was the least of my worries. Low and behold life and death is in the tongue. I definitely need to change my words. Thank you Jesus for continuing to feed me.

  • @blessbeloved
    @blessbeloved 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whew wee! This was some good stuff! I remember over 30 years ago I was pregnant with my daughter and had just moved into my first apartment. Through a blessed set of circumstances my mom ended up moving in with me. I told her I wanted to move into a house. We was good and comfortable in our beautiful apartment and she couldn't see why we should move. I was a new Christian and I believed that God wanted us to move... so that's what I kept telling people. Exactly 1 year to the day later we moved into our townhouse in the city with a front and backyard close to all the major exits and walking distance to stores, metro etc. Less than 2 years later we purchased that house and it was and continues to be one of the biggest material blessings God gave us! This message reminded me of that because now we have some major stuff in the works, but I've been sufficiently reminded that the God who did THAT THING is well able to do THESE THINGS!😊

  • @pamsweat7492
    @pamsweat7492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had to watch this twice. Hilarious! The words that come out of my mouth can shift my life - that's a word right there. FACTS 💯! Pastor Eben 🙌🏽 If I ever have to bleed, I'm bleeding up - not down. Great podcast!

  • @kimberlyturner4065
    @kimberlyturner4065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So many gems in this podcast! Laterras may your son see himself as God sees him!!!

  • @kymwashington7703
    @kymwashington7703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WOW! This was exactly what I needed yesterday before I open my mouth😮‍💨 I pray going forward...LORD! HELP ME PLEASE w/this tongue of mine🤐 Laterras your podcast and the guest you bring give life🌱 for me. Thank you for allowing GOD to use you as a vessel and being in Obedience to HIS WORD🙏🏾

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you were blessed by Pastor Eben and this interview!

  • @lhaynes4548
    @lhaynes4548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The power of the tongue - definitely an area I'll improve on, in Jesus' name.

  • @michellejennings673
    @michellejennings673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I am watching this episode now and it blessing me so much thank you so much. Side note chicken foot soup is good for the soul.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL! So glad you were blessed by it!

    • @five5jamaica
      @five5jamaica 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🗣🗣With the foot 🤣🤣

    • @michellejennings673
      @michellejennings673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@five5jamaica yes

    • @Asante_Child_Of_God
      @Asante_Child_Of_God ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was screaming "I love chicken feet!" in my mind 😂😂

    • @kadianbrown3193
      @kadianbrown3193 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best thing ever

  • @ckks0nyoutube
    @ckks0nyoutube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man, I needed this! I am lining up my mouth, I will be testifying soon!
    ‘Human factor....’ talk about it
    GOD has faith, the way He trusts us....amazing to me!
    The Pastor put his phone down

  • @blissfulmom21
    @blissfulmom21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, each time I am afforded the opportunity to hear someone story through Dear Future Wifey. I gain so much insight. This one was not only needed but requires for growth not only for me but for the generations to come!❤

  • @jHEISplace
    @jHEISplace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok...just finished it and it was actually a life saver and changer...when I say life saver. I paused as I watched to actually seek God to repent, correct the contradictory speech and to speak what not only God promised, but my desires. I love the addition of so much word that navigates these discussions. Thank you to both of you for sharing so transparently. I appreciate you!

  • @clairelashaun4886
    @clairelashaun4886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This conversation was WONDERFUL!!!!! Such a great Word!! THANK YOU SO MUCH to you both!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥💙💚💜

  • @butterflyj08
    @butterflyj08 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wowww this definitely made me think think differently on how I say things. This is reminder that I needed to guard my mouth and that my mouth can ruin what God has for me.

  • @tks9367
    @tks9367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Let your words be seasoned with salt that you’ll always know what to say. (excerpt from Colossians 4:6)

  • @shaywatts6338
    @shaywatts6338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Word of Truth Fam here!!! The September marriage & singles services are always so good!! Pastor Eben is the truth!! ❤️❤️ Glad to see him on one of my favorite podcasts.

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi fam!

  • @AnaEdelinda
    @AnaEdelinda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "So many ppl put God inside the actions of man" The Devil uses man's actions to keep ppl away from God" This right here. I literary repented today because the holy spirit made it clear that I had been treating /seeing God like my ex, ppl who had hurt me. Played me etc. I had to change my perspective and focus on The Lord's character. His word says my thoughts are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are not my thoughts. I was being so cautious and protective of myself that I was not allowing God to be a father. I had to pray to God to help me see him with fresh eyes and a new heart to see Him like the Loving God He is. What a great interview. 🙌

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s a powerful revelation. Glad you were blessed by the interview!

  • @aquilacornwall9201
    @aquilacornwall9201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I haven't watched any uploads in a while. This episode has blessed me so much, especially when LW shared how he wanted to back down when God spoke. I've been there, some of the times I was disobedient. I am really blessed by this.

  • @TheOmegaGamer339
    @TheOmegaGamer339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God has a great sense of humor. I was laughing to my heart’s content. And of course LT’s laughter and the many nuggets are a bonus.

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate this Pastor's transparency, wit, & hilarity while administering the WORD. He's so zeroing in on "our mouths" sometimes we more often than not can activate our own "Undoing" by allowing our emotions to high jack our mouths. I fully agree because one of my primary gifts 🎁 involves my mouth, it can be an amazing tool 🔧 😀 for His Glory. However, when 🤔 I yield to my emotions instead of choosing to bury my head in a pillow screaming 😱 into it, and/or just to go hard in tongues no English, no French, no Spanish but ONLY Tongues for my sanity and peace to be restored. I really am grateful for this WORD, est in dignifying an answer to complete foolishness, lies, or false accusations. Because Satan always personally enjoys strife, confusion, & offense. I have to regularly speak out to myself Proverbs re: Walking 🚶‍♂️ in self-control, being quiet 🤫 not responding, and simultaneously scriptures on guarding my heart because I have to be accountable for what I take in.

  • @SweetCaroline9
    @SweetCaroline9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is giving me life right now. So convicting, so many valuable lessons here. Had to pause it and pray & repent for my words. Thank you again L.W. for a great episode.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a good practice. Many of us need to reflect and repent on the words we say. So glad you were blessed by the podcast.

  • @princesswilkerson1804
    @princesswilkerson1804 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Laterras R. Whitfield. This podcast is blessing me in so many ways.

  • @blessedchild1981
    @blessedchild1981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed to hear this right Now! I've been going through it this week and I've been staying positive but I need to speak more positively. This is 💯💯💯 true. We were created in God's image and just like he spoke things into existence. We have the same ability! Amen! Amen! My brothers! 🙌🏾

  • @adriennelloyd1734
    @adriennelloyd1734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This blessed me greatly and was right in time! Praise God!

  • @JoJoInHouston1982
    @JoJoInHouston1982 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am I wrong for thinking Pastor Eben is fine?🙈 Lord...let me close my eyes and just listen🤣

  • @karenhatchett590
    @karenhatchett590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great for the transparency and vulnerability of Pastor Conner!! Thank you for extending the liberty of acknowledging my words. As I begin to reflect on my words past and presence, I see how crippling the have left me and the negative effects they have produced in my children, I'll even go further than that...the negative effect within my students. In me thinking I'm saying what would eventually cause a positive change, has left scars. But I'm so glad and thankful that today's podcast has spoke volumes in my spirit to make an immediate adjustment to the way I speak and even think about words before I release them. To God be the glory for placing me in the mist of your podcast!!! Laterris, May God continue to enlarge your territory of blessings and greatness (hope I spelled your name correctly 😊)
    Looking forward to coming to the singles podcast in September!

  • @SHENA75051
    @SHENA75051 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad that I listen to this episode in this moment. Gems have been dropped and knowledge was recognized and appreciated

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hallelujah 🙌 Hallelujah Hallelujah 🙌 Hallelujah Hallelujah 🙌 The LORD is working 💪 mightily thru you to help these young men have a Blessed future via being adopted... No its so much greater than that its actually "Being Chosen" "Already Approved" "Being Claimed as possessing priceless Worth and Value" !!!!!!! GLORY to GOD.

  • @KayJay79
    @KayJay79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thank God for the way he uses different methods to speak to us and teach us. This episode hit me directly between the eyes and straight through my spirit. I'll have listen again. God bless you mightily LRW!

  • @K_PE
    @K_PE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is absolutely amazing!! This message was made just for me as I do have a potty mouth. I am where I am because of my attitude!! I was definitely convicted. I desire to open a business but my mindset is keeping me from doing it. This was absolutely good!! I need to hear more of him. WOW!!!

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We have more messages on faith and the power of words from Pastor Eben on our site wordoftruth.org!

    • @K_PE
      @K_PE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wotfc Thank you! I will be viewing.

  • @amberbspence
    @amberbspence ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here I am a year later listening to this and it’s an on time word! 🙌🏽

  • @lexihayes6261
    @lexihayes6261 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Starbucks story is HYSTERICAL!
    I needed that laugh 😂

  • @jashawndathompson5059
    @jashawndathompson5059 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so good! I’m praying God continues to work with me and my mouth and thoughts 🙏🏽❤️

  • @enjoli9132
    @enjoli9132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another powerful episode that spoke to me. I'm in a place of transition and this is exactly what the Lord has been revealing to me. Thank you!!! ❤

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad to see you’ve gotten revelation. God bless!

  • @kishma4527
    @kishma4527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great podcast... Yes, monitor your words and speak life not death into it.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People really got to seek GOD if marriage is for them or not.If it's not its ok.

  • @pksensation
    @pksensation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At time stamp, on about 1:01:01 (approx) I had to stop the video because I felt something when I heard you say "I want to know the land better than anyone else" I had to replay that part a couple of times. I cannot put my finger on it but it is directly related to your future wife. Either way, a great session with Pastor Conner he is an out-of-the-box leader. Will put September on the calendar!

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Follow us on social media so you can be notified when we begin! It’s a church wide favorite series!

    • @pksensation
      @pksensation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wotfc done

    • @t7cooley420
      @t7cooley420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wotfc will follow too… looking forward to the information coming out.

  • @keishat3267
    @keishat3267 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this Pastor..he is refreshing. Owning your faults is powerful. Lors help me to own my faults so that you can help me fix them.

  • @CanithaReme
    @CanithaReme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen!!! I needed it this, especially the part about believing in God when it comes to receive. I kept having dreams about receiving some big gift…anyone who reads this comment; please agree with me. 🙏🏾

  • @katinawhite4208
    @katinawhite4208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a great episode “Guard your mouth” I have been working on guarding my tongue. Thank you so much for the amazing wisdom 🙏

  • @blazinleotexas8562
    @blazinleotexas8562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so powerful! Thank you Pastor Conner!

  • @serenityp2872
    @serenityp2872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greate convo, definitely made it plain! Increase prayer life, faith talk, and words of edification to yield the harvest God promised!

  • @nicolelee4837
    @nicolelee4837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THIS is my new FAVORITE episode of 2022🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Laterras & Pastor Conner for this WORD!!!!! I needed this more than even I KNEW!!!! Glory to God for you both!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @wotfc
      @wotfc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you were blessed!

  • @stacy-annbarnett9038
    @stacy-annbarnett9038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Laterras I needed a good laugh and this Pastor was very real and very hilarious. Episode with a lot of lessons. Keep on doing a good work. Shouting you out from Jamaica 🇯🇲

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it

    • @dredayful
      @dredayful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey yadie, I love my chicken foot soup. 2% of these Yankees be sleeping, the rest love and can’t get enough of what Jamaica has to offer.