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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 มี.ค. 2023
- In this episode of our podcast where we will be discussing the topic of overcoming trauma and the experience of being in a toxic relationship. Our guest for today is Rakshanda, a survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship who has come out of it stronger and more resilient.
Rakshanda will be sharing her story with us, the challenges she faced, and how she was able to overcome the trauma she experienced. Our host will be guiding the conversation, asking questions that will help us gain a deeper understanding of what it means to be in a toxic relationship and how we can support survivors.
We will be exploring how Rakshanda was able to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship, the impact it had on her mental health and well-being, and the steps she took to heal and move forward. We will also be discussing the importance of seeking help and support from friends, family, and professionals in times of crisis.
Through this conversation, we hope to shed light on the struggles of survivors and raise awareness about the importance of speaking out and seeking help. We want to inspire and empower our listeners to overcome their own trauma and be a source of support for others who may be going through similar experiences.
This podcast is already pov and a story please don't be inspired or influenced in any way possible
time stamps:
0:00:05 - Introduction
0:04:44 - story of Assault
0:09:45 - Court case
0:15:35 - Problem with speed of justice and psychological issues
0:19:03 - People and comments
0:21:45 - Porn searches now a days
0:22:40 - Learning consent
0:24:54 - submission of power
0:25:24 - Male molestation issues
0:30:07 - Prenatal trauma and Facing the issues
0:32:50 - Corporate environment and harassment
0:35:14 - Relationship Story
0:37:05 - getting back to your ex
0:39:17 - Phone call of confirmation and food blogging
0:41:21 - Entry of third person
0:42:21 - Girls and insecurities
40:00 food hut
40:40 third wheel in relationship
43:20 fights and family
43:45 cafe date and meet ups
46:14 new projects of the another girl
47:44 judging over period craving
48:12 other side of the man, gifting hampers to someone else
49:23 u turn in the story
49:57 confronting the other girl
51:30 trusting him again
52:50 his family's support
53:40 improving the man
54:26 involving other girl in personal plans
55:34 unbelievable twist in the story
57:28 her friends getting pissed off by his boyfriend's actions
58:57 left vila without telling her
1:01:03 psychological sense of the situation
1:02:25 his explanation over situation
1:04:00 meeting the third girl personally
1:04:26 current situation of ex and other girl
1:05:46 conversation between the girl her best friend and her boyfriend
1:06:51 physical abuse and hitting
1:08:11 anxiety attacks and fear of loneliness
1:08:36 trust issues and losing friends
1:11:00 scariest night for her
1:12:20 again giving chance to her ex
1:16:25 again involving other girl
1:18:36 accepting him that way
1:22:44 hitting her again
1:23:25 overcoming from the trauma
1:24:07 general conversation about relationship
1:26:39 raise voice against physical abuse
1:28:00 her perspective about love after all
Join us as we embark on this powerful journey of healing and growth with Rakshanda
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Actually watched 'coz of Instagram reel.
Bro really every teenager have to watch this. And didi you have made it so clear how people are turning worse in our country.
And everyone take it positive. Things in these video are to bring awareness in everyone out there.
Came from instagram to see the whole episode 😅 and I am OG watched the whole episode ❤
OG gang🗿✨
Me tooo frm insta 😅😅
I came from fb 🙂
Mi to from Insta😃
Same!
Damn her relationship situation was totally like mine...I saw her reel and I came to watch her video on YT...I think I was destined to watch this video and realize that we shouldn't give chances to someone who already hurt us
Exactly mine relationship also like her
Even I am also thinking like that ki I was destined to also
Same.
Well sis , this kind of situation is bad , like the way she was reacting is because she was traumatized in her past and she loved him fully and that's why she didn't wanna lose him because it's hard for her to find someone with trust , it u r facing the same pls pls move on , trust me there are 7 billion ppl in this world, someone who's right for u would possibly come now or then , don't suffer such situations just go on ahead and also never criticise yourself for someone never and u deserve the best , everyone deserves the best so never let anyone treat u like u don't deserve the best , have a nice day
@@anahidasiddiqui3883
"Do not marry polytheist (mushrik) women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though she may look pleasant to you.
And do not marry your women to polytheist (mushrik) men until they believe; for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite you to the fire while Allah invites you to paradise and forgiveness by his grace. He makes his revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful." (Al-baqarah 2:221)
Please share this verse with every muslim girl in your contact list so as to save their EMAAN and emaan of their coming generations just for the sake of Allah 🙏
I don’t understand how can a person be so blind throughout the relationship, the moment he met the girl behind my back is the moment im done and dusted
She actually knew everything but she didn’t want to detach hope she is okay now
Sometimes we think that we are bob the builder
Yrr ye done and dusted bahut experience ke bad aata hai. First relationship me nahi samajh aata hai yrr mtlb kya batau LTR me toh it becomes shitty. Because after 9-10 years aap chuodna nahi chahte
It was because she had a traumatized past , she can't be normal , she have trust issues and it took her a lot of times to believe in someone, that's why she believed in him , and their families were involved too , she loved her so much that the thought of loosing him and finding someone else threatening her , look not everyone is so strong and brave to leave someone they love.
@@ashiyanakhan63 Buddy, May be you don't have the difference b/w 1-2 mistakes and 1-2 red flags clear in your head. While leaving for 1-2 mistakes isn't wise and kind, leaving for 1-2 red flags is absolutely normal(& the sooner you leave however tough it gets the better it'll be for your mental health)! And it's only when you know this difference & love yourself enough, it is then you'll also be able to realise the difference b/w you loving a person & you being addicted to the toxicity that person brought to your life. I've been there, bhaut bhaut zada himmat lagti hai, ek baar iss toxicity ki latt lag jaye toh, insaan iss ladki ki hi tarah khud ko bewakoof banane lagta hai, in the name of "but oh I love this person, how can I leave them? I can't live without them!"..But ek baar aap himmat karke, unki toxic harkate ko as an outsider dekhte ho or thaan lete ho, that no I'm not going back to this person & you cut all your ties with them and start with therapy, trust me! Within a month you realise for yourself, you actually lost the love for them long back because of their toxic action and it was just this toxicity of theirs that made you addicted to the victim cycle which we ourselves eventually started calling as love and feeling! But, surely love doesn't pain like toxicity does. You'll soon realise for yourself, if you'll seek help and wanna help yourself. Sending prayers your way🙏.
She deserves the whole world 🫶🏿
@manaal
"Do not marry polytheist (mushrik) women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though she may look pleasant to you.
And do not marry your women to polytheist (mushrik) men until they believe; for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite you to the fire while Allah invites you to paradise and forgiveness by his grace. He makes his revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful." (Al-baqarah 2:221)
Please share this verse with every muslim girl in your contact list so as to save their EMAAN and emaan of their coming generations just for the sake of Allah 🙏
She doesn't deserve sh*t !
this is why it’s so important to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. I learnt this the hard way myself, love and respect yourself enough to walk out on a person who doesn’t value you. WALK OUT. if you still choose to stay, then I’m sorry that’s on you.
4:45 the story start ❤️
obviously he was an culprit . The only suggestion to the girl here is you could have prioritize your self respect at the very first instance itself. goes without saying you have got ample of patience . more power to you
First time in my life watched a full podcast .. These are the kind of situation that most of the people in our country go through .. just don't fall for someone that hard that they can manipulate you .. these scars are life long so take stand for yourself coz at the end of the day no girl or boy gonna be there for you
She should reveal his name.....more power to you girl. She is so brave👏👏👏
How well I could relate, the person I loved always went around with other person behind my back, my whole relationship was a cheating phase , the thing that broke me the most was that , he never gave me any surprises, on my birthdays , one year he didn't even meet me , never bought cake for me the first year , but gave another girl surprise on her birthday, a boy who never blown a balloon for me stood on road to blow balloons and decorate his car for someone else who even had a bf , and he barely knew her for not even 2 months, and I was there for him even when he gave nothing to me , that day my real feelings for him died, that day all the emotions for him was dead 😌
Glad you came out it,you deserve better anyways,more power to you🙌
Never sat through any podcast throughout but i just can't get my eye's and ears from this podcast. It touched my heart. And the most that put a smile on my face at one point was her strength and the way you guys made her feel throughout the podcast she was on the verge of crying but u managed to keep her stable at that time and i as a girl can say it out that it is a thing a girl would appreciate throughout her life💗🌻 your work makes a change in the hearts and minds💗 i hope this keeps going through 🫂
We try our best to make someone smile that is our duty 😊
Just want to appreciate the podcast team for talking to such people letting other know what's wrong.
Thanks for creating this
I watched the entire episode and all I have to say is thank you so much for coming out and standing up for yourself.
You have no clue how many people you are helping including me by showing us the pattern of such toxic relationships and toxic guys and making us realise that there’s only one outcome coming from all this.
Thank you again.
This gave me immense amount of strength to go through something similar in my life.
You guys have really a great job by featuring out this beautiful soul Rakshanda.Girl, I must say you have a very brave heart. We, as an audience, consider ourselves very lucky to hear,know and to learn so much things in this great video. Healing is definitely tough but its worth it. More peace and power to you. Stay strong.
I cried badly after listening to this..... my husband was concern that why are you crying like this ...... and he made me comfortable this broke me ..... I pray almighty to bless you with a man who bring the world to your feel girl you deserve to be treated like a queen after all these ....... and seriously you guys really handled her so well and not let her cry ..... coz even here she didn't mentioned about how worst a panic attack is but you made her feel good ...... hope you'll be safe
@atiqua
"Do not marry polytheist (mushrik) women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though she may look pleasant to you.
And do not marry your women to polytheist (mushrik) men until they believe; for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite you to the fire while Allah invites you to paradise and forgiveness by his grace. He makes his revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful." (Al-baqarah 2:221)
Please share this verse with every muslim girl in your contact list so as to save their EMAAN and emaan of their coming generations just for the sake of Allah 🙏
This girl is so so so brave.. she through so much things bro..omg . She deserve lots of love, praying for you sweetheart.
Saw a snippet on Instagram and had to watch this. This video is the epitome of how childhood trauma, abuse and assault shapes a person well into their adulthood. And how important it is for everyone to work on themselves if not atleast try. It is absolutely terrifying I agree but if you're self aware of the fact that you have issues you've won half the battle. Also that must've taken so much of strength and bravery because in hindsight it must look so ridiculous that you stood by that guy for so long and for that I have nothing but respect for you. I wish you heal from what you've been through And obviously great work guys chan vatla tumhala bagun like the way you guys handled the entire episode is commendable. Much love!
This podcast really deserves Million views a must watch to every single person. Didn't even expect these many plot twists in a single story. Rakshanda is very strong to go through all these things and come out stronger than ever.
Thankyou guys for sharing this story. This is going to help many people out there including myself ❤
I have never been into this kind of relationship but still I cried while listening to this podcast...she is so strong.
This podcast should reach as many people as possible like seriously!!
Came from Facebook..couldn't stop myself watching this full episode❤
Feels like I'm listening my own story my own trauma.....
More power to you guys....
Same 😣
I had seen the reel for this video on insta while scrolling and I was like lets check what more this has and I couldn't stop listening even tho I was working. Be it a man or a woman no1 should treat their partner this way. If people just don't want anything serious they should just mention it that they r here only for sex. Saves the person so much trauma. Let the other person decide if they wanna stay or not in a sex only relationship or want something real. I really wish such people get their karma in even more worse ways. Healing n getting over trauma is never easy. Been there done that and haven't healed ever since. It puts a huge impact on our lives if for even once such an incident happens in our life. May you have a happy life ahead Rakshanda and every girl who has ever been through this kind of main be it physical, emotional or mental sometimes even financial. Please take care girls ♥️
Loved the way she said- " intuition se mere itna pyaar hai na bro" ❤️
It's really appreciative that you guys are talking about the actual problems💯
Honestly, listening to this. Many might think this doesn't happen but it does and I have had a guy like that in my life. Thank God I got away before it went to far😢. More power to all going through it, please don't let this happen to yourself.
I had tears in my eyes hearing your story and heartbreak.. I just can't imagine the pain u must have faced at that time all by yourself... And yes i watched the whole podcast till end and it was worth it!!!!
Og ✨
This girl right here is the strongest and prettiest inside out. May you achieve everything that you want from life. ❤
The way she narrates everything ..impressive🙌🙌 Hats off
Immense strength to her and I sat down to watch the entire series.. and the point where y'all say that we should never get into a relationship until and unless we are mentally and emotionally fully into it, we shouldn't, hit me a lot.. Great work guys..
More power to you girl!💗
No one means no one can tolerate the nonsense for the love but this girl man...
More respect to you and more love to you!✨
She really deserves the whole world out there! 🙏🏻❤️
My story is almost similar. It was a 8 year relationship and he cheated on me for almost an year with another girl. Manipulated me, I was taking therapy and when I was moving on he came and begged for a chance. Gave him one cos my love was so strong for him. Now he left me cos he met another girl in whom he sees glimpses of his late mom itsmz.. He was doing almost everything similar to me and her and it was all behind my back... I was so forgiving that I lost my self respect to the core . He started blaming me and said that he doesn't want me... 😂😂😅
Hope Karma hits him one day that he ll really understand how painful a breakup is and how bad u feel when someone u love walks away
God bless you yr🫂🫂🥹
Stay blessed 💝
God bless you
The moment she said huh KARMA i literally got goosebumps 😭🤣
I have been in the same abusive relationship. And we got seperated 6 months ago but still this video gave me goosebumps 🥲More power to you girl ❤️
I have been through the same kind of manipulation in my past relationship. I can really feel her. More strength to you girl. I wish that guy will get his karma!
What exactly happened
She is angel ❤️
Strongest girl i have ever seen like the way she handles everything and carries a grace and a cute smile on her face
She deserves best !! She is helping so many people to heal themselves .I literally cried at the end of video🥺
Huge applause to the best podcast ever kissey ❤️❤️
You guys are amazing , keep posting and keep growing .
She is soo strong... She deserves someone better ❤️
Girl …YOU ARE STRONG….be strong like that always…
This podcast is going to be so helpful for many people out there. I've gone through this too I could relate to what you've gone Through.
Really saying tht living through it wasn't easy for her, and her accepting the fact and now talking about it openly has to be the bodest moves❤❤❤ proud of you may this be an eye opener to many
How do you say you were FINE? God!! This guys doesn't deserve shit!!
More power to you, you're such an inspiration to each and every victim here.❤
Truly felt like,happened with me too that the more traumatized a person gets the stronger your initiutions are...
So heart touching 🥺❤️ same yrr mere sth bhi isse milta julta chize horhi h... Firstly I was harrassed at school days.. or itne mushkil trust Kiya kisi bnde ko tho vo aise toxic nikala... Thankyou for this podcast🥺 I think ye podcast mujhe courage dega move on krne ka.. thankyou a lot🥺🙏
i really cried after listening her story 🫠 I've also faced some similar moments like that... photograph part in the video....i really appreciate this girl for being strong 🫶
All of them passed the vibe check.❤
So i watched this video on Instagram and watched it @3am like i was relating it & she's so brave & i had roller coaster of emotions you guys were not making her emotional great❤
I was in class 7 a girl in my class once accused me of saying that I wanna squeeze her breasts while I never said anything like that and actually my parents were good friends with theirs....the teacher slapped me without listening to me once will all that bullshit and crap my father listened and he never retaliated that no my son can't do this shit ever.... point to be noted I came in contact with internet when I was 17 that is 2021 and this incident is from 2016 so I knew less that woman can false accuse u.She flew to Canada and I am still rotting here in this fucking district
As a girl I feel so sorry for you...💔😢
Hope you does not encounter these types of girls in future.
But
It is also possible that some guy told her that u said that
Because why she will accuse u without any reason
@@apoorvasuryawanshi7889 she liked me this is the confession of her so called bestfriend that I happened to bump around recently ahhhh world is filled with people u don't wanna encounter woman
It was really moving. I hope she will overcome it in her respective time.
Good luck to you too.
Really insightful.
This is so relatable. This has happened to me, but the other girl was his ex who was happily married with a child. They were sleeping over and unapologetic about it. He convinced me that his husband beats her, and she is not doing well health-wise. So she needs help and that's how I got into the scene to help her. Both of them manipulated me that it's just a matter of time and there's nothing between us. But enduring all this has put me in so much of trauma later on. I would suggest all the girls not be ok and endure cheating in any which way, because you are going to have trauma for long time.
She deserves the world❤️
She's so pretty ❤ and her voice ❤
Anyway stay happy and strong. Don't let anyone else manipulate you to that extreme that it starts triggering your self esteem. Best wishes ❤
Never ever settle for abusive relationship
More to power to you guys while hearing her story! You guys should include more such true stories! You both did not let her feel she had self respect or self awareness issues ! The girl is so strong must be so different to come and talk about her personal love and betrayal story!she is finally happy ! Self love is so important people need really love themselves!❤
Hey!!! I don’t know what made me watch this video because when I saw the duration.. I went from one point of time saying “such a long duration video, I think it will be very boring” to the point where I became the OG❤ These KISSEY were meant to come out!! And thank you guys for making sure she does not cry till the end❤️❤️❤️
Came from facebook just to watch this full podcast. It's 2.45 in the morning just completed watching this✌🏻
I am speechless guys. I can relate to her. Although I have never been in a relationship but I still see that I would've done the same if I was in her situation. I am just gonna say that I'm so proud of you Rakhshada for smiling so brightly even after going through so much.I wish you all the happiness in future. Love you.
Please its a humble request for you guys please bring more such podcasts about relationships . You guys dont know how much its helping others by them. I overthink a lot and by watching your podcasts i am becoming more aware about people and i am feeling a certain type of maturity after watching these podcasts please bring more people with real life stories on relationships❤ you are doing a great work❤ i look ahead for more such podcasts from you...❤
When someone cannot respect his sister. He can never improve.
Loved her perspective for love after all the trauma she gone through 😭watched till the end ❤️
Girl you literally have my heart❤
My heart ached and i legit cried to even think and imagine what you’ve been through. Imagining it caused me so much pain just thinking the amount of pain that person caused you. It’s common and easy to say but girl YOU DESERVE BETTER like so much better.
So much love to you and obviously KISSEY🫶🏻
Keep growing guys y’ll are doing just amazing!!🤝🏻
Just watched this at Instagram... And searched ah lot for this... And u guys done a good job ..this is very important for us to know about what we actually want in ur lives
@gulshan
"Do not marry polytheist (mushrik) women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though she may look pleasant to you.
And do not marry your women to polytheist (mushrik) men until they believe; for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist (mushrik), even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite you to the fire while Allah invites you to paradise and forgiveness by his grace. He makes his revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful." (Al-baqarah 2:221)
Please share this verse with every muslim girl in your contact list so as to save their EMAAN and emaan of their coming generations just for the sake of Allah 🙏
I see myself in her, you deserve the best 💓
So much love to this woman ❤
I had the same experience except that it was in a marriage. I don't know if there was cheating involved, maybe not. But the accusation of being insecure and controlling was so much. There was so much gaslighting that I was scared even to ask any basic question. It was certified hell.
I cried listening to this. I am so sorry this happened to you
What a patience man this girl have 🙂hatts off
Watched on Instagram on Rakshanda's profile and came here finding that only... Didn't watch any other and now I'm looking forward to it... Good going guys
this podcast gave goosebumps while listening.
I just came all the way from fb to see this episode and after hearing the story I was shocked.
More power to u girl..!! And a great job..!! ❤️🤲
Somehow you portrayed my relationship story too, idk what has happened to some people out there being like this, more power to you, for telling the world your story and encouraging,motivating and telling others what we should not do in a relationship or whatever it is!
Babe what the hell please please please dont let this happen again. thankfully when i was with someone just like this i realised it very soon that he is the person who should b thrown out of my life…please please value yourself please…please value yourself..to all girls …you r so precious❤
you guys really doing great things. you are guiding people that's really amazing. i really appreciate it. keep it up guys!❤❤❤❤
Our pleasure!
She's so an angel❤❤❤
The 1st ever podcast that actually made me cry.
Bro 😢 that girl has seen SO MUCH, she’s ready for the world!
I was watching reels and suddenly that part of this video in the reels i see then i think i have to watch and after watching this video i realise that yahh we have never being in that relationship where at a point we find things toxic we have to stop there this story of your life gives me a lot of knowledge thankyou so muchh 🥺🥺🥺
Came from insta, to see full episode...and it was gud that she told these things....
Thank uh so much for sharing this bruh....its 2:26 am and I just finished this podcast...this was like touching my soul...and I got to know from this that I am not alone in this world who is facing problems there are lots of people who are struggling more than me and facing all the situations with a smile...that gave me enough strength...A VERY BIG THANK YOU BRO ❤
Tbh Me also being a sufferer of these toxic relationship.. i can relate to this!
More power to you ❤️!
Came from Instagram to see whole episode 😌
Can totally relate to this,more power to you girl,he lost a gem
Oh God! I'm so late to watch this podcast but this really Mad me cry 🥺 More Power to You Girl 💪💯 And You both guys are amazing who made this to come out and let people know about such type of trauma and The people who is facing this type of situation 🥺🙏
Watched the complete episode...a big thanks for these type of content🙏🙏🙏. More power to you..keep growing
More power to her and you guys❤️
The very first podcast i completed in my entire existence.. the experience must be terrible bc and we girls really need to understand what to and what not to tolerate in a relationship. The slaps aren't for in 'LOVE'. Get the hell out of this relationship which has physical or even vocal abuse guys(all the genders).
After a long time heard and watched the whole podcast which related so much to my story from the childhood haunting memories till a toxic relationship and plus the name of the person too.
Overpower to the whole team of Kissey and the most courageous and strongest woman i have ever seen you have my heart bro❤
Where are those fake masculinity wale???
Omg I loved this podcast.....I could relate so much to this girl...ty for coming out n speaking..it did make me feel not alone in this situation...ty ❤
I think love is blind but not this much… hitting and talking to other girl.. how can she still keep on talking to him and no showing him his place… i don’t understand why!!!!
The cooker wala part in Marathi just shoes how raw the podcast is
Came from insta couldn't stop myself watching this full episode ❤
She literally deserve the whole world!🫶🏻
I want to say something......jo aap log beech beech me gaali de rhe ho na please or do bht ache se do ye mat socho ki kon aapke liye kya bolega kya nahi bolega jisko Jo bolna h bolega bhad me jaye but shyd aapke videos un logo tak jaye jo y chiz karte h .......mahakal bless you brothers😌❤️
Sending love and support for her ❤
I am here after watching that small reel on Instagram. I loved this podcast.
I know you are watching it, Raj & that bimboo. You both are a terrible human being. Raj, you lost a gem & one day even you will be there rakshada was & that is when you will realise what she went through.
I just wish this podcast reach more and more people ❤️
Came from Facebook to watch episode
I can feel you I am also going through this type of relationship
Thanks for watching 🙌🏻✨
came from seeing insta clip bcz i want to listen whole part...& at the end i cried alot ... relatable too much😢 found where was thing goes wrong.. thankyou guys really❤❤
I can totally feel you girl... was full of tears while listening this...felt like listening my own story with advanced version😅.....nd the moment u said Mera Shahrukh dhund rhi thi ye krk nikala felt that too...i think girls like us need to make some NGO or place where we cn stay happily nd support each other 😊 maybe it will happen in future... kaliyug hai kuch nhi ho sakata hai u never know 🤞
Bro lets do this
@@anjalirai2949 yes... let's do this