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- What does an inclusive society look like, and how inclusive are we as Indians? What does inclusion mean, and where should we start?
‘Tum Baat Toh Karte’ is my attempt to raise questions we need to ask ourselves as a nation and people. These questions may be uncomfortable, and it may be politically incorrect to ask them these days. However, I believe that a conversation done with the intent to grow as a community will find participants.
While building these conversations, I’ve imagined a set of close friends and family who may be in the same room when this conversation is happening. The larger intent is to invite more people to engage with us, as well as each other, about the kind of country we want to build together.
In this episode, there are references to:
1. Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore’s poem "Where the Mind is Without Fear": www.thegoodpoetryproject.com/...
2. 'Ambar' Kharbanda’s Ghazal, used as the title of the series as well as in the content: www.rekhta.org/ghazals/mushki...
3. Reference to Matt Langdon’s work on everyday heroism: • How to be a Hero by Ma...
4. Multiracial Singapore: Cultivating a Harmonious Society: lkyspp.nus.edu.sg/gia/article...
5. About me: www.VineetPanchhi.com
- Intro: 00:04
- Recap of Episode 1: 01:10
- Case study: What if China Attacks Us? 05:41
- The way we train ourselves to hate: 08:30
- What can we learn from Singapore: 12:26
- My Bombay Experience: 13:15
- Learning from Singapore continued: 14:49
- Modi, Rahul, Kejriwal - Who is the problem? 15:55
- Our strengths as Indians: 17:02
- What can we do as Indian Citizens: 18:05
- A poem to wrap up things: 20:00
#TumBaatTohKarte #VineetPanchhi #TheWire
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हमें आपकी तरह ही समझाने वाले शिक्षकों की जरूरत है। आपसे मिलकर अच्छा लगा, शुक्रिया सर।
Meri zaroorat nahi hai, Pooja. Aap bhi bhakhoobi kar saktee hain. Apne ghar pe baat keejiye, ke hamen kisi se nahi ladna. 🤗
@@VineetPanchhi जी हां सर। आपने जवाब देने के लिए समय निकाला, इसके लिए धन्यवाद सर।
बहुत अच्छा लगा आपको सुनकर 👌👌🙏🙏🥰
This is absolutely brilliant! Why are we, "apparently" an intelligent nation, not able to grasp this simple idea? The quotes around "apparently" are by design because I believe we lack the humility to admit we are not as great as we think we are. We blame various ministers and heads of state, the government, the police, the judiciary forgetting that we are the people who are responsible for putting the power in sub-standard hands. If only we uphold the principles of Equality, Fraternity, and Justice for all of us, no two-bit politician will be able to divide and rule us. At any rate, I have only two more words for you, and I hope you will appreciate the depth of emotion that these words convey... "Thank you"
कोई नहीं समझेगा, पर आपके प्रयास की सराहना करता हूं।
Aapne dekha. Yahi bahut hai. Hum apna kaam karte hain. Big hugs.
Being politically correct is not a bad thing. It's about caring and being sensitive to differences and diversity. That doesn't mean we will not take on divisive forces spewing venom all around. We have to engage anyway. Thank you.
My eyes filled with tears listening to this sane, compassionate voice
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@@VineetPanchhi ask them are they loyal to constitution or Quran …. You will get reality check about his tears 😂😂😂😂
Article 370 supporter
Do continue with such social messages. So important in today's India environment! Thank you
Wow....I was touched by your poetry "Mujhko apne sapno ka aisa hindustan chahie"❤
❤️ *बहुत ही साधारण मगर बेहद गहरी बातें, जो हर व्यक्ति को ना केवल वीडियो के अंत तक बांधे रखती है, बल्कि ख़ुद के व्यक्तित्व का पुनः निरीक्षण करने के लिये मज़बूर करती हैं। बेहतरीन! देश के मौजूदा सूरतेहाल पर बहुत ही बेहतरीन अंदाज़ेबयाँ।* 🫡🇮🇳🫡
Yes, travel is important. i am glad I studied in 7 different states due to my father's job. It makes one more compassionate and open minded.
I agree. :)
Travel is the best teacher. It is during one's travels that one learns to appreciate the lifestyles of different cultures. It is this lack of appreciation that has led to the current unholy segregation and social division. And perhaps a poor education system has not helped.
We need to change the national discourse. WE need good , decent show , News where we need talk about things which matter to every Indian
Its a pleasure to watch your show. Thanks for making people realize that discussion should not always be confrontational and bitter.
Aapne dil Khush kar diya. We certainly need more people like you.
I liked the mention of the song, Mile Sur Mera Thumara.. Crazy downward spiral from those days.. My biggest worry today is how retired army officials are spewing venom in social media. That was expected to be the strongest bastion of secularism.
That is sad indeed. I do not however blame them alone. They come from the same society and are prone to the same influence.
Wonderful thoughts. You never lack behind in inspiring others🙏🏻🌻
नमस्कार सर , आज के समय में इस प्रकार के कार्यक्रम की अत्यंत आवश्यकता है। आज जहां इतनी ज्यादा अराजकता फैली हुई है, हर कोई चिल्ला रहा है। वहां आपकी यह पहल " तुम बात तो करते " बहुत सटीक है। धन्यवाद सर कानों और दिमाग को तन्दरूस्त खुराक देने के लिए।
Thank you Tanuja ji.
I think the message should come across, "Baat Karan" includes Baat Sunana bhi. Tum Baat to sunate , kuchh muzebhi samaz lete, raasta Nikal AATA.
A must watch video, also need to feel, realise and practice these feelings. Respect only.
Dushmani by product Nafrat ...Well said sir
Sir
Thank you for the speech
It will stick to minds who wants question everything that is common sense
thank you
Very Refreshing! VIneet Bhai... Stay Blessed.... A must watch by all Indians...
Very deep meaning... Thank you so much....sir 🍀
Sachch me mujhe ek eisa Hindustan chahiye ❤❤
Thanks Vineet Panchi. Great effort and lovely series. Building the conversation around a literary piece is better, like you did in the first episode.
Jee, I'll keep that in mind. Thank you.
Very impressive ❤ to you and Thanks.
सिंगापूर का उदाहरण बहुत अद्भुत है । सबके लिए अनुकरणीय । क्या सिंगापूर की इस व्यवस्था और अप्रोच को शब्दबद्ध नहीं किया जा सकता है ?
Ye sab hum ko deeply sochna chahiye. Great thought sir👍
Sir, I highly revere you for the subject and the way it is put forth. Its gives a great sense of hope and I understand, belive and trust that change is constant and we would definitely bring in change that we have been dreaming of.
The highlights of your video in short I would like to put in short.
1. Let's choose to be responsive than reactive.
2. The difference is never hatred.
3. Let's not be judgemental.
4. Let's fight prejudice
5. Accept
6. Food, attire, custom religion faith and favourite hero actor minister or party are personal choices.
7. Above all question everything we see or hear.
Let's give a better country to our next generation not a vulnerable country where they lose the right to speak or express.
Waiting for the next episode.
Bricks build a house. Values build a nation. Can hatred ever be a desirable value? To rule, someone may want to divide. But to serve, we have to unite.
This choice is with us.
Sri Aurobindo and the mother talk about a lower vital which is the seat of power, hate, jealousy, rage, divisiveness, ego. And the higher vital that is the seat of love, compassion, unity, harmony, soul.
Lower vital can be more easily activated and the fire can spread quite rapidly.
We have to choose which vital to operate from.
Thank you for this open and reflection inducing fireside chat dear @vineet, and for articulating a vision of the Bharat we really need.
We can't call ourselves developed based on our GDP and Infrastructure. We can only call ourselves Developed based on the human centred values we exhibit, the culture we embody, the spirit of win win that we espouse, and the leadership we role model.
God bless India.
People normally react more to not what is said but how it is said - yes, it is a proven fact :)
बेहद जरूरी बात।
Waooo amazing👍 after a long time the HEART TALK=HUMANITY.....
Waah! Bht sundar, thank you
we will love to move ahead,learn,grow and RETHINK on our understanding of Bharat with this beautiful initiative of your Vineet Sir! As a responsible youth,I strongly look forward to such dialogues that empower us to rethink,question and critically think on the issue and situations..Grateful to be able to listen to this and know about this..Looking forward to unveil the conditioned layers maybe which we subconsciously inherent along the journey..
This is a great initiative. We must learn to talk, to discuss, to critically engage with one another in a calm, dispassionate manner. That is the only way forward . Or else we'll continue to remain a divisive, violent, intolerant nation.
Beautiful thought
This episode should be a part of curriculum of every course in every college across India. Let people become better Indians first.
Really? That is quite a heartening thing to hear. Thank you.
Vineet ji.... what you have raised is so close to my heart. Aaj hum is manzar per aa gaye hai ki diversity dhabba(blot) hai... Every one is becoming so homophobic of all sorts. it is impossible to even discus this over a chai with friends... coz if you do so by the time you finish the chai...friends could be foes! Hum kabhi bachpan mein sochte tak nahi the ki samne wala kis dharam ka hai, today children have that as the first indicator from the names of their friends, classmates and whoever they meet! it is so sad. pata nahi...aur kitna neeche girengey hum!!! Alas!...but ofcourse I grab all opportunity to fan the spirit of diversity which is the crux of our country...our beautiful customs , communities and communions.
Journey starts from nearest school. Let CCTV cameras speak about teaching practice and behaviour of students in class rooms and school. Preserve the best lectures of the best teachers on dedicated portal so that students can watch these videos lesson as per their convenience to understand their subjects.
वाह! सर क्या कहूं. हम मिल कर जादू कर रहे हैं! बस ये क्रमागत रहे....
Head is not solely responsible - it may not even be responsible - for the Headache!!
Great work by THE WIRE
विनीत! यूं लगा कि मैं अपने आप से बात कर रहा हूं। धन्यवाद।
Thank you BhaiJee
Please keep doing this show, really liked it the way you have put it across the very important point.
Muito obrigado senhor! Deus te abençoe ^ Parabéns! 🫡
Muito obrigado !
Vineet ji. Welcome back!
It's always a pleasure listening to the 'real talks' with you!
Thank you. 🤗
Keep it up, a good initiative. Love episode
Thank you.
Panchhi sb , your effort is praiseworthy! But some people got the genie out of the bottle, and it can't be put back again ! Your effort is praiseworthy, but a drop in the ocean !
We let it out, and we need to bring it back in...Nahi?
Very good episode
It's just a wonderful experience 👍
Superb❤
This is therapeutic!
Excellent 👍👍 presentation.
You are doing a brilliant work Vineet Bhai!
The topics that you are picking up are exactly the ones, that people do not talk about. Wishing much success to 'Tum Baat to Karte' and happiness to you. Keep up the good work.
#GodBlessYou
19:10 yes. it takes a whole village to raise a child
Brilliant initiative to build bridges and move on towards inclusive growth with a साँझा agenda 👏 👍
Jee, bilkul. Thank you.
People normally react more to not what is said but it is said - yes, it is a proven fact :)
Liked the way spoke keep it the same way
Agree completely with your sentiments. A government however has to be practical and deal with issues relating to a community. I don’t mean that this justifies spreading hatred towards a community 4:13
A government should deal with everyone in the same way, that is the whole point. When we apply the law, we do not see the person.
@@VineetPanchhi Minority communities have special needs and require more support. If there are child marriages for example then the community leaders should be encouraged to look into these issues.
Coming back to the issue I had raised in your first episode, namely, having the programme in Hindi (more correctly in Hinglish) perforce excludes half the country, since your programme is designed to be a 'conversation' in a relaxed fashion, sans the breathless immediacy of 'breaking news', why don't you think of putting subtitles in English?
I think your conversations are interesting in the sense they provide a fresh perspective to see mundane things in a different light, and this is why perhaps you should aim to include a larger audience, particularly people like me residing to the south of the Vindhyas.
I can't agree more. Will try and add subtitles this time. Thanks.
Sir you are sounding good
Arre wah! Suna poora ya, sirf awaaz suni. Kya samajh mein aaya? Ab kya alag karoge?
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'Us versus Them' is an age-old tribal practice. In modern times these divisive tribal tendencies are superseded by a more egalitarian value of unity in diversity. Unfortunately, in quest for power there are putative 'leaders' who deliberately provoke and exploit our tribal instincts; to divide people so as to shore up their power base. In recent times this phenomenon of differentiating people has gained momentum, particularly when our 'leaders' have very little to show on the ground.
In the early 70s I went to an elite institute (IIT) where students came from every corner of the country, from every layer of our population but never did it once occur to us to harp on differences; in fact, we were true egalitarians believing in fraternity of the alumni. We still basked in the lofty ideals that were the founding ethos of modern, independent India.
Today, it is most depressing to see how toxic hatred is being spewed and spread to destroy the very fabric of our society; it is frightening to see how hatred has become the new addiction of the masses peddled in the name of some misplaced 'nationalism.' To me a true patriot is someone who loves his or her country so much that she or he doesn't hesitate to question everything, to make the country even better, and never boast it is the best.
My heartfelt thanks for bringing up this for us to introspect on.
बढिया 👌🏼
Only 5.2K views? Yeh programme nehi chalega .
:)
Our planet Earth is the only known celestial body in the Solar System that supports life. It is also the most visually stunning and vibrant planet in the cosmos, as far as our current understanding goes.
Humanity stands out as the most intriguing and intellectually gifted species on Earth.
Our inherent nature compels us to seek a fulfilling life characterized by love, peace, and happiness.
Regrettably, we often overlook our better judgment and allow ourselves to be swayed by immediate, short-term gains, losing sight of the larger, sustainable picture.
Gratitude to you and your team for your efforts in igniting the spark of awareness and consciousness
9:59 🤣🤣🤣
❤ur on da✅path
Glad that you are trying to prompt people into thinking, talking & discussing issues sensibly and cordially 👍
Incremental and systematic rise of corporate-funded, aggressive #Hindutva politics in #India has vitiated the entire social environment and, I'm afraid, our future generations may end up growing up in an atmosphere of terribly bigotry, if we don't find ways to stop this tsunami.
Your effort seems a step in that direction #DilBadaaKarteyHain
Good luck
Thank you for taking the time to leave this message, Sanvat. Dil Bada Karte hain. :)
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Hello sir great video. Lets talk about war for the next topic. To be precise war between same ethinicities. Like when people from Punjabi, bengali and tamils, fight among themselves they are fighting their own brothers just the difference is that their religion and countries have changed and so is their thoughts due to their government propaganda. They have the same culture but their govt. has made them believe such that if they do not speak against or attack them in a certain way they would not be a true deshbakt.
Tell me more about what you have in mind. Sounds like something we should explore.
@@VineetPanchhi like we will be fighting with our own people when a war between pak and india will happen. I see a lot of news in punjabi media that two brothers which were seperated in partition still love eachother even though they have been separated for so long one has been converted to the other religion which is majority in that country still they dont care, both countries spew so much hate for eachother but still they love eachother. I believe that for them its just been over 75-80 years for most of us in border states but inner india who hate each other just because they have a different religion may be their ancestors were also the same its just been 10-times longer i believe, we are just fighting, lynching and killing our own brothers. This hate machine is working just as much inside india as it works between two countries. Lots of love and respect to you sir, thank you for considering this topic.
@@mandeepsingh-bk2ye Abhimujhe jaana hai, kal ya parso, thoda soch ke jawab deta hun. Big hugs, Mandy.
@@VineetPanchhi🫂
I want to join it for being honest.
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Please post link to episode 1 can't find it.
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Leejiye.
Wahshi darinda baatkarna nahin jaante insaan hotae tou samajhta
Aisa lagta hai, jab aas paas lagi ho. Insaaniyat par se yakeen kam ho jaata hai. Is sab ke bawajood hamen yakeen rakhna padega, Khan Saab. Aur apni insaaniyat ko barkaraar rakhna padega. Hugs.
Modiji cleared my minds confusion on how putin can become dictator of a developed country like Russia
Sweet poison
Very good ....talk muslim women not to wear burkha ....make them friendly with hindu men....
I think the linguistic basis of organising our nation was wrong. Gave rise to xenophobia.
Adopting English as a national language , like Singapore would also help unite us as one people.
I don't have a clear answer for this, Gautam, and thank you for sharing your perspective. The question of linguistic diversity and national unity is indeed a complex and multifaceted one. While adopting English as a national language could facilitate communication and unity in a diverse country like ours, it's essential to approach such decisions with careful consideration of the cultural, historical, and linguistic diversity of our nation. Finding a balance that respects and celebrates our linguistic heritage while promoting unity is a significant challenge...iske liye kisi expert of dhoondhta hun. Mujhe nahi aata.
भयशून्य चित्त जेथ (मराठी)
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Sir don't take me wrong, but you quite look alike modi 😅😅😅😅
Jee, mujhe maloom hai, par maa kaqam, maine ye look tab rakhi thee, jab main Modi saab ko dhang se jaanata bhi nahi tha. ;) Ab jo hai, so hai.
सह अस्तित्व जिनके ज़ेहन में न हो केवल दूसरे से उम्मीद क्यों करते हैं ज़रूरत है तो संविधान नहीं तो सरिया ऐसे के साथ कैसे और जो उपदेश दे रहे हैं देना आसान है एक देशी कहावत है आन के पांडे दिन दिखावे अपने करे घमौनी
नफ़रत के बारे उनके लिए परोक्ष रूप से क्यों कहते हैं सीधे कहिए घुमाकर न कहे
ये चिज मोहन भागवत जिको बताऐऔर अमित शाह को परधानमंत्री अलाही हीफाजतफरमाऐ अलाहूअकबर
Exmuslim sahil
Adam seeker
Ganga jamuna kya hota hai, Jake Pakistani Hindus, Afghanistan Hindu, kashmiri Hindu se puch looo. Jake 9 29 padh loo aasmani kitab ka samaj me aa jayega mazhab kya sikata hai.
Atleast let there be peace here.
Hope you succeed in cultivating your thought in people who follow one man thought and condemn other thought process. Our nation believes in रुचीनां वैचित्र्यादृजुकुटिलनानापथजुषां
नृणामेको गम्यस्त्वमसि पयसामर्णव इव|
कल एक महफ़िल में मैंने खुद को बड़ा अकेला पाया
जब मेरे दोस्तों ने ही मुझे काफ़िर का मतलब समझाया
मैंने तो पूछा नहीं था कोई भी सवाल उनसे लेकिन
उनके जवाबों में मैंने खुद को पाया तो बस काफिर पाया
मेरी बुतपरस्ती है खराब बात हर शख़्श वहॉं ये दोहराया
कल एक महफ़िल में मैंने खुद को बड़ा अकेला पाया