I agree to always pray for God’s guidance in everything we do. We should always put God in the center of our lives. When we wish for something, it may take time for it to come true, but God always hears us and knows when is the right time to give it to us. Great interview! Take care and God bless.🥰
I kinda get what she is saying. But I don’t think that the wife should love the husband (or the husband the wife) more than the kids. However, the wife and the husband should prioritize each other over the kids. Your partner should always come first when it comes to decision making, meeting needs, etc. But that doesn’t mean you love the kids less.
If you really love your husband or wife, you understand what it means that she love more his husband more than her children. And that's true expression of love.
I disagree with her and everyone who agrees with her. It's the stupidest thing I've ever heard that the parents actually love each other more than their kids. Most Fathers or Mothers are willing to sacrifice their lives to protect their children first before their spouse. I just don't get it. If ever their house gets burn they'll probably going to save each other first because you know, they love each other more than their kids, while the helpless kids are left inside the burning house. And it's also because they can replace them if they couldn't save them all. What a freakin great mentality, isn't it? You never ever tell your kids that you love your spouse more than them. You could just say that you're inlove with their father or mother in a different way, as A HUSBAND OR A WIFE, DUMBA$$ES!!!
The secret of a good and happy relationship is TRUE LOVE, HONESTY and RESPECT> It's not simply give and take or one being one-sided. It's should be equal. Each one really have to understand each other and work hard or even sacrifice to make the relationship lasting. I also believe that unmarried couples who are in a harmonious relationship is better than a married couple living like hell.
Smart and beautiful Filipina who knows her worth ❤️ I would not know how i handle kids‘ tantrums because i fortunately have not experienced that when my kids were smaller, they were always happy babies 🤭 only crying when sick, now when they feel sad and crying or even just having pre-teenage drama i make sure i am there for them and they see they are not alone dealing with their emotions (because i know how it feels), but i do the same discipline, i also let them kneel when it’s necessary. But i love my kids more or equally to my husband ❤️ although we prioritize „us“ because in the future kids will go it’s gonna just be me and him left. Good conversation 😊
For me kneel is something unbelievable what can't be practiced in our family. 🙈🙈 I heard that actually for a first time in my life and that was a schock for me.. I cannot imagine that you also practice that. What German husband say about that? Call jugendamt?
@@MsJelena lol no he doesn’t 😂 And i did it probably 3x so far, only when it’s too much. And i don’t do it long, maybe 2mins maximum, i can’t take it too. It’s just for them to learn i am not making a joke. And i don’t put salt to make it harder. He even say i am too easy to them.
@@VanessaSedayaJelena, can you believe that when I was a child in the 80's, my mother made me kneel in salt? and hung me upside down with a belt? After that, my mother kept crying and said, "don't be stubborn". And the truth is, I am spoiled by my mother and I feel her love.
Jelena, can you believe that when I was a child in the 80's, my mother made me kneel in salt? and hung me upside down with a belt? After that, my mother kept crying and said, "don't be stubborn". And the truth is, I am spoiled by my mother and I feel her love.
@@federicolaridojr2371 and how is your life now? Statistics tell us that kids who experience physical punishments grow up and end up in abusive relationships... or became abusive and aggressive themselves..😪
Marriage should be a partnership especially if both go out to work for a living. A wife should not be so subservient that she allows herself to be treated like a servant. Shayne and her husband obviously have found the right formula to a successful partnership.
Good conversation, but women have different beliefs in life for me you must love your children more than your husband. May kasabihan na ang asawa pwede palitan kahit ilan pero ang anak hindi mapapalitan kahit kailan...
Agree, not good to tell ur children u love ur husband more than them even if u do. Just tell them u love them and ur husband, and just tell them to love their children and husband too when they grow up and have a happy family life.
Agree to that also i also said to that to my wife everyday thats why she is so positive always to her hardwork stay positive trust god always dont forget to pray always and ask god to have stress free day everyday surrender all to god❤❤❤❤❤
For me, there is no perfect relationship.. If you both still together from now and then, then youe lucky..failed relationship is part of gods will, he gaves us the wrong person to makes us stronger.. To learn.. No can say hes/shes the right person..
I'm not married but after I hear here story and reason it made me realize the fearsome truth behind why Filipina called Commander on every household and not through fear respect is much more fearsome 😊
You can't find the right one it will find you for sure 😊❤ I think to be in a relationship with a foreigner its so hard long distance its hard the time difference when its night here in the Philippines its early in the morning there... When morning here its night there. But when you love someone there is no distance no language barriers. By the help of God be the center of your relationship it will work...
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Well, She does really needs guidance with her mental issue. She should never ever tell her kids that she loves their father more than her children because that's the moronic imbecile things to say about her children. She could've just said that she is in love with their father as her HUSBAND and that she's also in love with her Kids as her CHILDREN. So, yeah... She definitely needs an enormous and humongous mental guidance.
You’re right girl put God first ask him what you want and he will give you whatever is good for you you by the way if he will not give you a man maybe he thinks that you’re better off alone
FUN FACT: Its sad to see that others are ashamed of the ‘’Flat’’ nose and have to put photos of several celebrities (who are mostly mixed with Caucasian) who don’t fit the norm just to deny that telling feature in Southeastern Asians. Just because a few have high nose bridge doesn’t mean that it is a Southeastern Asian feature. The question is all about Southeast Asians as a whole and while there are some exceptions but the fact is, the vast majority of Southeast Asians do have ‘’flat’’ noses and there’s nothing wrong with it. In fact one must be grateful for having ‘’flat’’ nose because without it, you wouldn’t be alive today. Its simply because of their ancestor’s adaptation to warm, humid climate and without it, Southeast Asians would be extinct. Evolution favors ‘’Flat’’ noses (small, broad nose width with low nasal bridge and wide nostrils) because since the early Southeastern Asians were already absorbing heat and moisture from air so they don’t need the extra length, extra nose bridge height and narrower nostrils which were designed to create heat and moist for the body to absorb. That said, a high-bridged narrow nose of the Caucasians is an adaptation to colder or less humid climate. Eskimos and Native Americans are of the same genetic pool as Southeastern Asians but because of their exposure to colder climates, they have noses similar to Caucasians.
One anxiety a filipina young girls posssess is their fear of gigantic size. You know what I mean? "I AM SHORT LIKE 4'11" AND HE IS 6 FT TALL with a 12 inch toy", etc. That is their common concern. Can anyone answer and defend this
No perfect relatioship even how much u tried! Ur adjustment along the way is part of the journey but at least u can know a man at least 50% of that man during courtship!! Based on family background & feedbacks! Theres akways risk in everything!!
I am glad she found her love of her life. but I don't think it is good to be focused on only one kind.. she really was focused of having a foreign partner.. even if she was still playing around with Filipinos because that's how you can interpret it. Like it's crazy, only because of her dream of cholate from a foreigner guy and later so being so overwelmed to see foreigner guys lol. why so focused of having a non-Filipino partner, It's super crazy.
I get what she is saying about loving her husband more than her kids but saying that directly to your kids is cruel! 😅 I mean where they all just having a random chat about who loves who more? (If so that is strange but to each their own). However put it this way, you cannot predict the future. Your husband/wife might be perfect now but anything can happen, that is life, nothing is guaranteed. What if (and god forbid) the husband leaves her. Then what, imagine the kids going to her and asking “so who do u love more now?” 😂😂😂
Her advices sound so good but whats right is the biblical principles of having a man!! First you dont look for a man, you have to pray for him! God will never make a mistake in giving you one! And Secondly God did not advice live in before marriage God said stay pure before marriage! Your purity is ur gift to the man God gave you!otherwise u commit fornication!!
I felt I am watching the t.v program "The View" it was just funny and it was a bit too much to digest. Too much of colonist attitude and racist. This is my opinion and I am not trying to insult others who have this mental attitude.
We have trains before...I drove trains 1978-2004 from San Fernando La Union to Bicol Region... when Pres cory takes the Philippines...WORST TAKES PLACE !!! I resigned in the Phil. Nat'l. Railways
After my untimely graduation in 1986, I found myself jobless because Cory suspended gov't hiring and installed mostly OICs nationwide. In Ilocos region, if you said you oppose the KBL Marcos Political machine, you will be installed as pro-Cory as a town executive.
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Enjoy watching and learning how parenting shayne do to her children, learning different kind of disciplining and raising children, part three please😊❤
I agree to always pray for God’s guidance in everything we do. We should always put God in the center of our lives. When we wish for something, it may take time for it to come true, but God always hears us and knows when is the right time to give it to us.
Great interview!
Take care and God bless.🥰
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What a beautiful and intellectual conversation. Super love it. Thank you, Shayne❤. God bless.
I kinda get what she is saying. But I don’t think that the wife should love the husband (or the husband the wife) more than the kids. However, the wife and the husband should prioritize each other over the kids. Your partner should always come first when it comes to decision making, meeting needs, etc. But that doesn’t mean you love the kids less.
If you really love your husband or wife, you understand what it means that she love more his husband more than her children. And that's true expression of love.
That's her take, to each his own
@@ping41 exactly. That is my take, too. To each his own.
I disagree with her and everyone who agrees with her. It's the stupidest thing I've ever heard that the parents actually love each other more than their kids. Most Fathers or Mothers are willing to sacrifice their lives to protect their children first before their spouse. I just don't get it. If ever their house gets burn they'll probably going to save each other first because you know, they love each other more than their kids, while the helpless kids are left inside the burning house. And it's also because they can replace them if they couldn't save them all. What a freakin great mentality, isn't it? You never ever tell your kids that you love your spouse more than them. You could just say that you're inlove with their father or mother in a different way, as A HUSBAND OR A WIFE, DUMBA$$ES!!!
The secret of a good and happy relationship is TRUE LOVE, HONESTY and RESPECT> It's not simply give and take or one being one-sided. It's should be equal. Each one really have to understand each other and work hard or even sacrifice to make the relationship lasting. I also believe that unmarried couples who are in a harmonious relationship is better than a married couple living like hell.
Smart and beautiful Filipina who knows her worth ❤️
I would not know how i handle kids‘ tantrums because i fortunately have not experienced that when my kids were smaller, they were always happy babies 🤭 only crying when sick, now when they feel sad and crying or even just having pre-teenage drama i make sure i am there for them and they see they are not alone dealing with their emotions (because i know how it feels), but i do the same discipline, i also let them kneel when it’s necessary.
But i love my kids more or equally to my husband ❤️ although we prioritize „us“ because in the future kids will go it’s gonna just be me and him left.
Good conversation 😊
For me kneel is something unbelievable what can't be practiced in our family. 🙈🙈 I heard that actually for a first time in my life and that was a schock for me.. I cannot imagine that you also practice that. What German husband say about that? Call jugendamt?
@@MsJelena lol no he doesn’t 😂 And i did it probably 3x so far, only when it’s too much. And i don’t do it long, maybe 2mins maximum, i can’t take it too. It’s just for them to learn i am not making a joke. And i don’t put salt to make it harder. He even say i am too easy to them.
@@VanessaSedayaJelena, can you believe that when I was a child in the 80's, my mother made me kneel in salt? and hung me upside down with a belt? After that, my mother kept crying and said, "don't be stubborn". And the truth is, I am spoiled by my mother and I feel her love.
Jelena, can you believe that when I was a child in the 80's, my mother made me kneel in salt? and hung me upside down with a belt? After that, my mother kept crying and said, "don't be stubborn". And the truth is, I am spoiled by my mother and I feel her love.
@@federicolaridojr2371 and how is your life now? Statistics tell us that kids who experience physical punishments grow up and end up in abusive relationships... or became abusive and aggressive themselves..😪
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Marriage should be a partnership especially if both go out to work for a living. A wife should not be so subservient that she allows herself to be treated like a servant.
Shayne and her husband obviously have found the right formula to a successful partnership.
Good conversation, but women have different beliefs in life for me you must love your children more than your husband.
May kasabihan na ang asawa pwede palitan kahit ilan pero ang anak hindi mapapalitan kahit kailan...
Agree, not good to tell ur children u love ur husband more than them even if u do. Just tell them u love them and ur husband, and just tell them to love their children and husband too when they grow up and have a happy family life.
I liked this vedeo,good conversation between Filipina and Russian girl.
She's not a Russian. She's from Latvia and resides only in Germany.
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Thank you 😊
@@samdim3746 tama po,hindi siya russian, she is latvian woman fro
She is latvian woman from latvia..
Agree to that also i also said to that to my wife everyday thats why she is so positive always to her hardwork stay positive trust god always dont forget to pray always and ask god to have stress free day everyday surrender all to god❤❤❤❤❤
So nice conversation..i will able to feed my mind this before we got married..
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Hi Jelena,i hope you upload the full video of your guesting singing Muli,we want to watch it full video
For me, there is no perfect relationship.. If you both still together from now and then, then youe lucky..failed relationship is part of gods will, he gaves us the wrong person to makes us stronger.. To learn.. No can say hes/shes the right person..
I'm not married but after I hear here story and reason it made me realize the fearsome truth behind why Filipina called Commander on every household and not through fear respect is much more fearsome 😊
You can't find the right one it will find you for sure 😊❤
I think to be in a relationship with a foreigner its so hard long distance its hard the time difference when its night here in the Philippines its early in the morning there...
When morning here its night there.
But when you love someone there is no distance no language barriers.
By the help of God be the center of your relationship it will work...
Agree to that trust gods plan to us with hard work and be positive everything is flow smooth
Yes “ HAPPY WIFE MEANS HAPPY LIFE “
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I admire Shayne for being a good role model to her kids and for asking God for guidance in her decisions in life.
Well, She does really needs guidance with her mental issue. She should never ever tell her kids that she loves their father more than her children because that's the moronic imbecile things to say about her children. She could've just said that she is in love with their father as her HUSBAND and that she's also in love with her Kids as her CHILDREN. So, yeah... She definitely needs an enormous and humongous mental guidance.
Lovely conversation 😊
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Ms Jelena If how the Filipina to take care and love their foreigner husband..The Filipino is the most taking care of their foreigner wife also😊😊
You’re right girl put God first ask him what you want and he will give you whatever is good for you you by the way if he will not give you a man maybe he thinks that you’re better off alone
Secret to marriage have sturdy sandal around
I miss ur vlog in Samal Island...😊
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You should insert your photo, Jelena with Shyne. I did not notice that this is your vlog. 😂
Done 😅🤭🫰❤️
FUN FACT: Its sad to see that others are ashamed of the ‘’Flat’’ nose and have to put photos of several celebrities (who are mostly mixed with Caucasian) who don’t fit the norm just to deny that telling feature in Southeastern Asians. Just because a few have high nose bridge doesn’t mean that it is a Southeastern Asian feature. The question is all about Southeast Asians as a whole and while there are some exceptions but the fact is, the vast majority of Southeast Asians do have ‘’flat’’ noses and there’s nothing wrong with it. In fact one must be grateful for having ‘’flat’’ nose because without it, you wouldn’t be alive today. Its simply because of their ancestor’s adaptation to warm, humid climate and without it, Southeast Asians would be extinct.
Evolution favors ‘’Flat’’ noses (small, broad nose width with low nasal bridge and wide nostrils) because since the early Southeastern Asians were already absorbing heat and moisture from air so they don’t need the extra length, extra nose bridge height and narrower nostrils which were designed to create heat and moist for the body to absorb. That said, a high-bridged narrow nose of the Caucasians is an adaptation to colder or less humid climate. Eskimos and Native Americans are of the same genetic pool as Southeastern Asians but because of their exposure to colder climates, they have noses similar to Caucasians.
ignoring the skin tone, you two actually look alike. Could for sisters. 😀😀
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@MsJelena I don't think so; their accent is a dead giveaway! 😂😂😂
One anxiety a filipina young girls posssess is their fear of gigantic size. You know what I mean? "I AM SHORT LIKE 4'11" AND HE IS 6 FT TALL with a 12 inch toy", etc. That is their common concern. Can anyone answer and defend this
Very nice conversation with your friend Shane... real talk 👍
Hi Jolens, you might be considering a Filipino.
No perfect relatioship even how much u tried! Ur adjustment along the way is part of the journey but at least u can know a man at least 50% of that man during courtship!! Based on family background & feedbacks! Theres akways risk in everything!!
Though most of the advices are sound espc on discipline thing!
I am glad she found her love of her life. but I don't think it is good to be focused on only one kind.. she really was focused of having a foreign partner.. even if she was still playing around with Filipinos because that's how you can interpret it. Like it's crazy, only because of her dream of cholate from a foreigner guy and later so being so overwelmed to see foreigner guys lol. why so focused of having a non-Filipino partner, It's super crazy.
I get what she is saying about loving her husband more than her kids but saying that directly to your kids is cruel! 😅 I mean where they all just having a random chat about who loves who more? (If so that is strange but to each their own). However put it this way, you cannot predict the future. Your husband/wife might be perfect now but anything can happen, that is life, nothing is guaranteed. What if (and god forbid) the husband leaves her. Then what, imagine the kids going to her and asking “so who do u love more now?” 😂😂😂
Masarap 😅
Her advices sound so good but whats right is the biblical principles of having a man!! First you dont look for a man, you have to pray for him! God will never make a mistake in giving you one! And Secondly God did not advice live in before marriage God said stay pure before marriage! Your purity is ur gift to the man God gave you!otherwise u commit fornication!!
I felt I am watching the t.v program "The View" it was just funny and it was a bit too much to digest. Too much of colonist attitude and racist. This is my opinion and I am not trying to insult others who have this mental attitude.
We have trains before...I drove trains 1978-2004 from San Fernando La Union to Bicol Region... when Pres cory takes the Philippines...WORST TAKES PLACE !!! I resigned in the Phil. Nat'l. Railways
After my untimely graduation in 1986, I found myself jobless because Cory suspended gov't hiring and installed mostly OICs nationwide. In Ilocos region, if you said you oppose the KBL Marcos Political machine, you will be installed as pro-Cory as a town executive.
Malas talaga yan si Corykong Isa nanamang walang kwentang legacy ang iniwan ng yumao na Chinese descent
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