We Need To Talk About Jojo Siwa Coming Out

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  • @victorlannister5606
    @victorlannister5606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15532

    Jojo Siwa’s coming out was the way I found out my mom was an ally so I could safely come out as bi to her!

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +421

      that’s so nice!!

    • @callumleaning655
      @callumleaning655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      Yeah my mum nows I’m Bi she still is homophobic

    • @Firegen1
      @Firegen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      That's amazing! @Victor Lannister

    • @AbrarKhan-pt8tx
      @AbrarKhan-pt8tx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      @@callumleaning655 I told my mom I was gay and she held my hands and started sobbing........

    • @rainy1835
      @rainy1835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

      @@AbrarKhan-pt8tx god, that fucking sucks dude :((( i hope she comes around, or that you get to a better place soon

  • @Tom-fi7xt
    @Tom-fi7xt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10390

    I admire Jojo for not shedding her bubbly persona. Being a teenager doesn't have to be tragic

    • @bubblegumbitch2191
      @bubblegumbitch2191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

      Yeah I think people don’t like her for that fact for her brand still being child like innocence and feel like people don’t like her for it because they don’t like how she gets to keep it and monetise it and in someways be praised for it while a lot of people may envy and resent her because they didn’t get that chance because of social expectations but those who love her even if their older sort of live vicariously through her while offering a positive outlet for kids I hope that makes sense and doesn’t seem to much like projecting:)

    • @jarrodedson5441
      @jarrodedson5441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@bubblegumbitch2191 I never really liked her ....I mean good for her being gay...but I just don't like her persona...but hey that's just me

    • @hungryhungryhippos1116
      @hungryhungryhippos1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@jarrodedson5441 same, and hate me all you want for this but I’m not gonna like her any better just because she came out as gay, that would basically be backwards homophobia.

    • @peppinoandweskerfriendsfor3450
      @peppinoandweskerfriendsfor3450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Never got why so many people got mad at that. Honestly, don’t know why so many people hate her in general. She makes content that children enjoy. Like who cares. No one is getting mad at Pingu.

    • @robylopezvi
      @robylopezvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@hungryhungryhippos1116 isn’t backwards homophobia just not homophobia?

  • @hannahloiacano4107
    @hannahloiacano4107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4794

    My little sister loves Jojo, and she was always taught that gay people were gross and sexual. When she heard that Jojo was gay, that changed her perception of things. This is why her coming out is important, even to her young audience.

    • @honeysweet4804
      @honeysweet4804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      ahhh that makes me so happy that her perspective was changed 🥺

    • @dinosaur___7209
      @dinosaur___7209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Omg I’m so glad to hear that 🥺

    • @cxndycxrn6011
      @cxndycxrn6011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      @squiddy if she thought they were " gross " and " sexual " and her perspective changed it changed for the better. She's teaching young kids it's okay to be gay ❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @moej3386
      @moej3386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      "girls should be allowed to have their own political opinions when they grow older" p-pardon?? excuse me?? i dont even want to get into all that. jesus christ.
      secondly, exposed to what? genuinely, what's bad about it? exposing kids to a harmless, realistic truth will teach them to be more open minded, and will, most importantly, prevent people like you from existing.

    • @froggy6496
      @froggy6496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @Variety_Vids here this is for you 🥇🤏 a award for the stupidest comment I have ever seen with my own eyes. I have never see. something so idiotic that I had to take a break to read this again.

  • @Michirin9801
    @Michirin9801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3176

    "There's pretty much nothing that a teenage girl can be genuinely interested in that she won't be belittled for"
    *Oof* I felt that one >.>

    • @seirahikari3386
      @seirahikari3386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pripara?

    • @Michirin9801
      @Michirin9801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@seirahikari3386 Is this about my pfp? :3
      If so, glad someone recognised the style ^^
      I LOOOOOVE PriPara~♥

    • @Nyabot-mh2zi
      @Nyabot-mh2zi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Michirin9801 pripara was one of my introductions to anime :0000

    • @Sillyfishart
      @Sillyfishart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      wilbur soot said the same i agree

    • @Michirin9801
      @Michirin9801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Nyabot-mh2zi PriPara is like, my favourite anime!

  • @kiraakakitsune7786
    @kiraakakitsune7786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7607

    If my father was able to explain to me what gay and lesbian means when I was almost 5 without traumatizing me, teachers can as well.

    • @maebh2462
      @maebh2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +405

      i agree (obvs 😅) if my cousins who were 4 and 2 can go to a gay wedding and not be traumatized, then anyone can learn at any age

    • @mothsforeyes
      @mothsforeyes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

      My father did the same for me, gave me the "birds and the bees" talk the next day after I found a porn magazine at his friend's house and was really upset with what I saw, but he made sure to explain to me how gay anf lesbian relationships and sex worked. It really helped me understand things I was confused about with myself quite early in my development.
      I later found out he didn't give my brother and sister the same talk (unfortunately), but my parents (who both passed last year) told me in my teens after I came out as gay that they always suspected I was from very early on.
      I love them so much for having so much acceptance and foresight (especially in the mid 90s), and I miss them both dearly.

    • @danielaardila5081
      @danielaardila5081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      When my ex girlfriend's nephews (5 and 7 years old) asked her if I was her friend she said that I was her girlfriend... they didn't care and moved on with their lives... like it can usually happen. On the other hand a few years ago a little cousin of mine asked me where I was going when I was getting ready to go out with my, at that time, girlfriend and I told her that, she had this confusion in her face and of course, most of my family is Christian, from Latin America, and she was like 5 at that time, a few days passed and other aunt asked me not to tell her that kind of things because we might get in trouble with my little cousin's mom to put it simply I said that I was not going to hide myself from anyone.
      And this is why it is still hard to come out and/or talk about sexuality without some people thinking that kids are just going to become awful beings or something as ridiculous as that.

    • @KateeAngel
      @KateeAngel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      If I was watching Sailor Moon when I was 7, with Neptune and Uranus being lesbians (but I actually totally thought Uranus was a trans/non-binary who turns into a girl when transforms and then back into a boy), then it shouldn't traumatize anyone to know about LGBT+

    • @joshuajackson4742
      @joshuajackson4742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      it isn't your teachers responsibility.

  • @SpaztasticSheep
    @SpaztasticSheep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1195

    My favourite thing about Joao is how non-sexual she is. That might sound weird but, she was a child who acts like a child and that is so important these days.

    • @endieisded
      @endieisded 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      I'm just glad she is being who she truly is. She hasn't fallen under pressure and "grown up"

    • @whytsuh
      @whytsuh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Who tf is joao? 🤠

    • @ziahood5003
      @ziahood5003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      While I totally agree with you on that, it’s important to note that teenagers (not young children) are in that age of realizing their sexuality, hormones, and all that stuff, which is totally normal (and expected). It’s extremely important to not shame them into doing the opposite of just exploring themselves and others their age (while being somewhat guided in the right direction ofc), but also make it known that it’s ok if they haven’t reached that stage yet either.

    • @otakumangastudios3617
      @otakumangastudios3617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah but being sexual doesn't equal being adult and mature, and acting like a child doesn't mean acting glitzy and over the top either.

    • @demonscythe7544
      @demonscythe7544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I still find it funny she's almost 20 she still gonna do the bow thing😑
      GO SIWA✊🏿️🌈👆🏿🤣

  • @Ellbat
    @Ellbat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3886

    2021 is the year I became a Jojo Siwa fangirl

    • @mysan9905
      @mysan9905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same lol, also btw I love you Ellbat!

    • @lxxsh2093
      @lxxsh2093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LOVE U ELBAT

    • @rairwqy
      @rairwqy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And 2021 is the year my sibs can't watch jojo siwa since there young aka banned and they can't know this stuff lol

    • @bluiessa2022
      @bluiessa2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@rairwqy wait but they can watch shows w heterosexual people in them? dang

    • @popita5709
      @popita5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I think we can all agree to that

  • @juliawilkie8420
    @juliawilkie8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2247

    I find it hilarious that this is an academic format

    • @HeyRowanEllis
      @HeyRowanEllis  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1762

      i am a doctor of gay shit phd

    • @juliawilkie8420
      @juliawilkie8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

      @@HeyRowanEllis I have nothing, to add, this is on point and accurate

    • @aliceis9068
      @aliceis9068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@HeyRowanEllis can i get this degree also

    • @lxlamayw
      @lxlamayw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@aliceis9068 i’m sure rowan won’t mind being out professor :)

    • @minerliton2481
      @minerliton2481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I need a treatment

  • @Clisare
    @Clisare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4900

    I literally cannot wait for the defence of Fangirls video! 😍 🙌🏻

    • @lauryn2868
      @lauryn2868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Fangirls like myself are what I would say misunderstood, but then again as women when is anything we like understood or respected 😅

    • @aislynnmari
      @aislynnmari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same
      Lindsay Ellis influenced me a lot with the twilight video she made

    • @McCelu
      @McCelu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      same! online spaces sometimes aren't safe not only for girls, but also for women who get ridiculed for having hobbies that won't include chores and having children. im really curious about rowans take

    • @auldthymer
      @auldthymer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I cannot remember who said it, but there is the amazing idea that Frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, the Beatles, etc. were all discovered and championed by teenage girls before the establishment deigned to notice these artists.

    • @alexba1ley
      @alexba1ley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes! The most groundbreaking sci fi and fantasy wouldn't even exist without the support of fangirls who are also the most likely to be ostracized from the fandoms they created in the first place.

  • @lucypreece7581
    @lucypreece7581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6641

    This is truly a positive thing because it breaks down the barriers and stops all the over sexualisation of the LGBTQ community. Jojo is a young girl. She is a teenager. She met her girlfriend and had strong feelings for her. That's a beautiful thing. She wanted to share her love and happiness to the world. Not only will t help so many kids and young people who are struggling with their sexuality but it will show adults that we are just the same as straight people. When we meet someone we get that giddy feeling where we have butterflies and it is cute and sweet. She is happy. She is just living her life as her authentic self and she has someone in her life that makes her smile and good people around her. That's all that matters. I truly with Jojo all the love and good vibes in the world

    • @brianbellsutibaddie2562
      @brianbellsutibaddie2562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      exactly! also her audience is mainly children and she came out in a way that they would understand and i love that and i’m proud of her :)

    • @lucypreece7581
      @lucypreece7581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      @@brianbellsutibaddie2562 exactly. She broke down barriers by proving that being LGBTQ is about your own sense of self and also about falling in love. It isn't about sex or politics. Its about the feelings. It's about the person.

    • @IsomerMashups
      @IsomerMashups 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I'd hestitate to call her a "young girl," because she is one year off from being a legal adult and that seems a tad infantalizing, but she IS still comparatively young.

    • @lucypreece7581
      @lucypreece7581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@IsomerMashups well she is young compared with most public figures that openly come out and i used the word young and emphasized her age to make my point. There is a problem of over sexualisation of the LGBTQ community which is the main thing that homophobes use you justify their own thought process. By Jojo coming out publicly at the age she has it removes that sexualisation because of course it would be wrong and inappropriate and disgusting to sexualise a teen girl of her age. Jojo breaks down that part of the homophobes thought by proving that being LGBTQ is about a persons sense of self and their own personal identity and that it is about feelings and emotions and. While yes i may be slightly infantilizing her i am using it to prove a point.

    • @MerlinPrismriver100
      @MerlinPrismriver100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@IsomerMashups I think maybe "young lady" would be better

  • @MissMercyKay
    @MissMercyKay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    They swatted a literal child. Essentially waiting outside her home and stalking her. A child.

    • @user-jn1wm3tb8v
      @user-jn1wm3tb8v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I have no clue what these replies are what is happening

    • @gaeancastillo9020
      @gaeancastillo9020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@user-jn1wm3tb8v some coward deleted their comments bc they didn’t wanna look bad

    • @sabrinarosario6499
      @sabrinarosario6499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@user-jn1wm3tb8v *touches ground* something terrible happened here.

    • @alexandramcginnis8872
      @alexandramcginnis8872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How does the police not know who it is from?! They should be tracking calls when someone make a report! Especially something this illegal

    • @ocmillion3667
      @ocmillion3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Hannah Sonenberg what did they say

  • @kate-qy4xh
    @kate-qy4xh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    I don’t like that people made fun of her endlessly UNTIL she came out and those same people are now calling her “queen” and such.

    • @Lu4455
      @Lu4455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      THIS

    • @crystal-ho7ov
      @crystal-ho7ov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Boost

    • @notjack2093
      @notjack2093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mmhm

    • @AJ-wx3oo
      @AJ-wx3oo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      This is what I always see in media for some reason. A famous person will be harassed, teased, bullied, etc., until they come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc. and then they’re all of a sudden a “queen” and etc.
      It’s weird to see that in media, especially when they’re getting an abundant amount of teasing and harassment before the coming out.

    • @crystal-ho7ov
      @crystal-ho7ov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@AJ-wx3oo to be fair the gays are calling her queen they didn't care for her before but now that's she's gay they do

  • @thefunnyman8073
    @thefunnyman8073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4430

    I think it's important because she is introducing homosexuality to many millions of young and impressionable children in a healthy and normal way. I just hope that she is careful with her image in the future, to continue raising healthy acceptance.

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      same! i think it’s so amazing that she is able to do this, and teach young kids that this is ok!!

    • @233377kg
      @233377kg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

      While I agree it is awesome that she’s a great form of positive representation for the LGBTQ+ community, I hope she can live her life true to herself. I wouldn’t want her to be in a position where she feels she has to choose between being herself and maintaining a perfect image.

    • @davontekh
      @davontekh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I mean twinkie winkie did so first

    • @daylightbright7675
      @daylightbright7675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      She's Jojo Siwa, if her brand is anything it's wholesome lmao

    • @auldthymer
      @auldthymer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@233377kg I agree. Most important is that this young woman be able to live true to herself.

  • @KoreJoestar24
    @KoreJoestar24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +835

    "Jojo is gay"
    jjba fans: "We know"
    "I meant the teenage star"
    jjba fans: "WE KNOW"

    • @yulljagarcia4773
      @yulljagarcia4773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yessssss omg

    • @ch999n
      @ch999n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lore Olympus xd

    • @oreo_.bunny_
      @oreo_.bunny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I love how in the eyes of the fandom the jojos are gay when they really arent

    • @ArtisticAnanya
      @ArtisticAnanya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love Persephone ❤❤❤

    • @cheesedog68
      @cheesedog68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yasss

  • @strawbself
    @strawbself 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1872

    she posted a tiktok with her girlfriend today!!

    • @HappyTrees_
      @HappyTrees_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      W h a t is this true I don't have tiktok so I don't know

    • @strawbself
      @strawbself 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@HappyTrees_ yes it’s true! i don’t have a reason to lie hahaha i’m genuinely so happy for her

    • @HappyTrees_
      @HappyTrees_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@strawbself OMG YASSSSSSS

    • @maebh2462
      @maebh2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      its true!!! and it was adorable

    • @lostotter1956
      @lostotter1956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Can you put the link here, please? 🥺

  • @Firegen1
    @Firegen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2846

    Putting Jojo's experience and coming out in chronically was a really great idea. A lot commentary I've seen kind of only angled on the most recent update but truly her story is one of expressing herself at her own pace with confidence. That's aspirational.

  • @gayliljaehyun
    @gayliljaehyun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9063

    “straight people are in fact allowed to dance to lady gaga” dont remind me

    • @MrDupligon
      @MrDupligon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

      Honestly I think that was the only false statement in this whole video

    • @kiki8792
      @kiki8792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      @USCAN14 it's a joke..

    • @salvadoralirodriguez8994
      @salvadoralirodriguez8994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Heterophobic

    • @chestersnap
      @chestersnap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @USCAN14 yeah. It's an easy fun way to clue everyone in to the fact that we aren't straight. It's great. The sense of community is really nice. I made the joke myself even as a fellow ace person

    • @ineedsomrmilk
      @ineedsomrmilk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@salvadoralirodriguez8994 yeah because straight people are just so oppressed

  • @jazzajohn
    @jazzajohn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1748

    Who knew today I, a 31 year old man, would be turned into a JoJo Siwa stan.

    • @cxndycxrn6011
      @cxndycxrn6011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      I laughed so hard reading this comment. When I was younger a few years ago I absolutely loved her and while I am not a fan of her , hearing she's part of the lgbtq community made me so happy for all the young girls at there that will learn to accept the community. I hope it's a major step for the community.

    • @DontEatYourMicrowave
      @DontEatYourMicrowave 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Such poet, wow

    • @Jakeee108
      @Jakeee108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very happy for u lmao😂❤️

    • @user-fh3tu9yy9z
      @user-fh3tu9yy9z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@DontEatYourMicrowaveI will take the advice from your username and not eat my microwave. (Currently canceling all of my plans for today.)

    • @tyunniez
      @tyunniez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@user-fh3tu9yy9z Don’t let em’ stop your desires!! Go and eat that microwave like you mean it, Champ!

  • @moomoomackandcheese3405
    @moomoomackandcheese3405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1418

    My little brother is 6 and I was talking to him one day and he told me that two girls couldn’t be together romantically. At first I was worried that some kid at school had spread him these lies, however, he continued to tell me that two boys could fall in love and he knows that because he saw it on TV but he hadn’t seen two girls fall in love. So then I told him that I wanna marry a girl one day. But it was in this moment that I really had a reflection on all of these arguments that children won’t understand anything besides straight or that being gay is somehow inappropriate. They understand just fine, it isn’t confusing to them, they just need to see it. It’s representation like this that matters because for little kids they see and they understand. The reason why a lot of us grow up never knowing that gay was a thing you could be is because all we’ve been surrounded by is straight, not because we don’t understand it. And of course I’ve always known this but this one instance with my brother was a great example. I told him I want to marry a girl one day and he understood and went right back to playing his games, he didn’t ask questions, he wasn’t confused. And while I don’t think little kids have a complete or correct understanding of any relationship straight or otherwise it shows that for a kid a relationship is a relationship as long as you show it as such.

    • @aleka..
      @aleka.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      yeah, general public doesn't really understand kids, but "we" do.
      (humanity accumulated that knowledge, some time ago. we're still learning nuances, ofc)
      just, nobody cares for science... especially psychology
      look at pandemic, and ppl are regularly comfortable to "know stuff" even tho scientists are not sure.
      Imagine lifelong frustration of a psychologist, where everyone talks confidently - but often pure nonsense, because "they know people" 🤷🏻
      We have pedagogy too, and teaching kids sexuality related stuff will surely be age appropriate, both in what they need to know, what they can understand, and the way to get them to understand
      *like everything else!* we teach them.
      I'm very angry, lol,
      tl: feel free to skip the rest. :)
      /I needed to get it of my chest/
      ...
      as in my country conservatives and anti-vaxxers are gaining popularity and equating mandatory vaccination (no one proposed, btw scary mongering 101) with sex&relationships education.
      It was already prevented before in similar way.
      I have a 10 yo nephew, soon to be 11, year or so ago he asked parents about being gay and they sent them to my mother (grandma) to explain.
      Lol, that's ~good, as she was good and accepting when she was explaining to me and my brother at... maybe 6 and 8, (in the 80ies, we're old!). We came home throwing f-slur /equivalent/ at each other, that we heard playing outside. She sat us, asked if we knew what it meant ("when someone doesn't want to give you something", not sharing, selfish- was our idea, lol) then proceeded to lecture us about what it really means. She used proper words for body parts, drew some pictures (that was too much, in hindsight, but nothing bad), was clear it's relationship and love too, and told us how it's not something to use to insult people, ever.
      Also, that society isn't accepting and that ppl are hiding it.
      Fast forward, doesn't seem we progressed much,
      getting worse even.
      Knowing they're still teaching literally nothing in school, I bought a book by some Scandinavian, rewarded author, I forgot his name, book's called _Respect_ to send to my nephew.
      I read it, it's very good, this feminist approves :) and is gay friendly.
      I also talked with my sil about trans issues long ago, as it's not even on the radar to most ppl here, to make sure she's ready to react normally if he or his younger brother (now 6) happen to show any signs of not liking their assigned gender.
      I'm loving this news, it's such a ray of hope for current and future generations!
      #skeptimist

    • @wllyfht
      @wllyfht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@aleka.. well, you're amazing

    • @aleka..
      @aleka.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@wllyfht
      :blushes:
      oh, thank you!
      you too!
      (obvious, as you like what I wrote, lol, but seriously)

    • @hanac5586
      @hanac5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I don't even know when I acknowledged that lgbt people exist. I remember my mom and dad telling me about their cool british friend, who happened to be gay, and I just accepted it lol. I like what you said about representation; new things are scary and weird to people, especially if they're considered "taboos." If our society wasn't so heteronormative there would be less homophobics.

    • @wllyfht
      @wllyfht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hanac5586 indeed

  • @doctora.snakeman1427
    @doctora.snakeman1427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +966

    Considering how popular JoJo is and has been with young girls, I think this will do a lot of good not only for JoJo but for many other girls as well. Proud of her for coming out, even knowing how many eyes are on her 🙂
    (Oh, also, your hair looks really cool)

    • @davontekh
      @davontekh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shes popular her music is.................obnoxious

    • @Harrison_J_T
      @Harrison_J_T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Someone in this comments said this made her realise their mum was an ally and came out as bi as a result!

    • @davontekh
      @davontekh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Harrison_J_T if it does good thats fine without a doubt. Jojo coming out at 17 is incredible. The thing I worry about is when teens come out its lovely but take it from me. Coming out to my family was easy. Telling one friend and my business spreading like wild fire is something i fear for us.... our coming out stories are constantly made into spectacles. By the media and people who only are being nosy. If i have a child who comes out in anyway ill warn them that thier turth is thier own share it only with those you love. Not random people. Jojo Siwa is drifferent shes always in the spotlight so that was only a matter of time before rumor mill would speculate. Its something i feel like alot of queer celebities face. Im proud of jojo.

  • @angelkato1401
    @angelkato1401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    im not interested in jojo at all, i am way outside her target demographic (although she is older than i thought she was). But I am supportive not only of her brand but her coming out!
    I remember 10 year ago, trying to talk to my nieces about me having my girlfriend, and very soon getting yelled at by their parents for "exposing them" to such concepts. I was yelled by them in front of their children, and i was crying. later, the older one was comforting me, saying that it didnt seem her father in particular didnt really seem comfortable with the idea of "love".
    All this to say a popular child idol coming out as having a girlfriend, yet very bubbly and "family friendly" is amazing. Letting children think about who they might be comfortably is so important to me, and I am so happy that (American) society is slowly pulling towards that.

    • @cxndycxrn6011
      @cxndycxrn6011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exactly! I'm straight but I'm very sorry for your experience you did NOT deserve that. I wish the whole world could love everyone.

    • @oreo_.bunny_
      @oreo_.bunny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im so sorry for your experience thats truly horrible! Also is that a killua pfp?

  • @anav390
    @anav390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +870

    I've always had a huge respect for Jojo despite not being a fan. And man...as a bi person who was met with backlash from my family I found all this VERY comforting :')

    • @farahanshaik8860
      @farahanshaik8860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Moonbyol fighting!!

    • @auroramoon_draws16
      @auroramoon_draws16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same, ngl, and I’m younger than her

    • @anav390
      @anav390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@auroramoon_draws16 we're both in the exact same situation then 😀

    • @auroramoon_draws16
      @auroramoon_draws16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@anav390 whoo! Childhood trauma causing family disapproval club! There are so many members (._. )

    • @anav390
      @anav390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Annika Hubbard yes Jisoo ;)

  • @toosolidcuuj
    @toosolidcuuj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    A year ago I came out to my friends and family on Facebook as simply "not straight." I think I would've come out sooner if I'd settled on a label, because for the longest time I thought I had to know before I could come out. I'm glad JoJo Siwa is normalizing being out and proud while still questioning your sexuality.

  • @everfluctuating
    @everfluctuating 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    i never really cared about jojo siwa either way: i didnt appreciate all the adults using her for a cheap joke, but she was too obnoxious for me to be interested in anything she does (im probably just too old for her whole deal). but when she came out, i felt like i could relate to her a lot more. regardless, i wish her all the best

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Same. I feel it helps us remember that she is a human not just a caricature to be made fun of.

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Variety_Vids ok

    • @male5993
      @male5993 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theab3957 p

  • @zanthiablue5254
    @zanthiablue5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    The fact that she has openly said she's not settled on a label is really powerful to me. I remember I came out as gay to my parents when I was 14 before realising not long after that I didnt really identify with that label, not in the way that straight people use it at least. I felt so much regret and felt like for anyone else I came out to I needed to be 100% sure I used the right label. It caused me a lot of stress, and meant I was stuck as presumed straight to a lot of people. Worst is that my mum spread the wors about me coming out at the time (without my permission may I add) so much of her friends and my extended family have the wrong idea about me. I wish I had known I was allowed to not be so specific.

    • @Melanie-jy2nw
      @Melanie-jy2nw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Why did I think you were talking about an entertainment company label 🤦‍♀️

    • @hayoonpark7454
      @hayoonpark7454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Melanie-jy2nw LMAOO SAME

    • @zanthiablue5254
      @zanthiablue5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Isobel McGovern Dont feel you need to rush yourself, but also you should need to "confirm" your sexuality/romantic orientation to talk about it. Find people you trust enough to just talk it over with. You're far from alone in those feelings.

    • @hanac5586
      @hanac5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel the same way. So far, if I have to give myself a label, I'd be aromantic asexual, but I find it easier just to live and see what happens lol.
      But it's okay if you do label yourself and later find out that "nah, that's not me." That's a normal part of finding yourself. How else are you going to find your identity if not by searching and trying :)

    • @pending3815
      @pending3815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At my house we don't use labels unless told by the person but we make 100% sure
      I don't settle for a gender
      So

  • @jujunew6003
    @jujunew6003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +749

    Jojo coming out helped one of my students feel more comfortable with him having a crush on a boy in his class. He is 8. His mom showed him Jojo's video and it very much reassured him that its okay.

    • @aleka..
      @aleka.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      that's awsome to hear ♥️

    • @RegstarRogstar
      @RegstarRogstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Im trying rly hard rn to not cry youre not helping

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Coming out, at eight?

    • @xchiflxzy1757
      @xchiflxzy1757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@i.m.watching5536 What do you mean? It's normal for kids to have a crush whether it's a boy or girl

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@xchiflxzy1757 Really? Where is your proof?

  • @Arakhor
    @Arakhor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    Even reading about Section 28 is infuriating. I was at school during the 90s, so I barely even knew that gay people *existed* - let alone any other gender/sexual minority.

    • @abp8723
      @abp8723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      My father grew up in Sowjet Russia and he didn't even know that homosexuality existed until he fled in his late twenties :/

    • @BambiTrout
      @BambiTrout 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I was in school in UK the 2000s and it was exactly the same. I sometimes wonder if I had known about gay and trans people sooner it would have made things so much easier for me. I hid my desire to be seen as female for years and even now I really struggle to break out of the mindset that I am not "normal", because for so long I had no idea it was even a possibility, and I spent my entire childhood trying to hide not just my gender identity, but my identity as a whole because I didn't want to risk slipping up.

    • @D0MiN0ChAn
      @D0MiN0ChAn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Huh, that's weird. I'm a 90s (technically '89s) kid from Germany and we had a bunch of comedians and even politicians who were openly gay on television (not that they'd display anything vulgar or indecent, they just didn't hide their identity). Add to that the airing of Sailor Moon in the mid-90s, where Uranus & Neptun were explicitly shown to be a lesbian couple. I never once questioned it, it was completely normal to me that men could love men and women could love women (basically, that anyone can love anyone, regardless of stupid labels). We even had basic, age-appropriate sexual education in 3rd grade, which only deepened the older we got and were repeatedly told that homesexuality was nothing to be ashamed of. I really don't know what happened since then (maybe our teachers were very progressive in that particular regard) but I feel like society is taking huge steps back from being as open-minded as we once were 😕

    • @mslightbulb
      @mslightbulb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I only learned about them because of Modern Family.

    • @RariettyC
      @RariettyC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@mslightbulb Similar to me, except I learned through Glee instead. It's honestly even more insane because my great-aunt (my grandfather's sister) is a lesbian with a partner she has been with for multiple decades and my parents didn't tell me about either of them until I was in my late-teens

  • @Tayet4Buri
    @Tayet4Buri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Coming out with 13 didn't mess me up. What messed me up was being asked if I was sure about my "inclinations" at 25 yo. 12 years long, my family didn't accept me, they just played along, waiting for me to "stop joking".

    • @luuuuux_
      @luuuuux_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Oh my gods, that sounds so terrible. I hope it gets better soon ❤️

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dude WHAT, that sounds terrible, I wish you the best because that sucks.

    • @westerfrost3701
      @westerfrost3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s awful!

    • @Tayet4Buri
      @Tayet4Buri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks guys ❤

  • @constantreader1422
    @constantreader1422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    my step daughter is nine, and was jojo for this past halloween, and while she doesn't really care about siwa coming out, but I'M excited. the songs get annoying in that way that any music for younger kids is annoying, but the message is always cute as hell. there's one that gets suck in my head lately where she says "i don't care about what you say, i'mma come back like a boomerang" and i don't really have a point, other than this is wholesome & sweet & i love it.

  • @ichikimura8132
    @ichikimura8132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    "It's hard to misinterpreted that" me who thought that Jojo Siwa cousin was gay

  • @hannahyamauchi839
    @hannahyamauchi839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I actually cried when you said she has a loving family and friends and that she's happy with a girlfriend that cares about her. I hope nothing but the best for this kid.

  • @rabnerd28
    @rabnerd28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    I only vaguely know about JoJo because my sister rewatched all of Dance Moms in quarantine, like a normal person, but now I have to protect this tiny non-straight child with my whole being.
    Additionally: My favorite description of JoJo's style comes from tumblr where someone said that she dresses like an entire Claire's store threw up on her and they mean that in a positive way.

    • @onijester56
      @onijester56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      And then her brand became sold primarily at Claire's! So, it's like recursiveness of rainbows and glitter and balloons that would make Lisa Frank giddy with joy!

    • @flyingcactae5080
      @flyingcactae5080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aside all she rewatched ALL OF DANCE MOMS WHAAAATT?¡???!!!

    • @onijester56
      @onijester56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @squiddy I think she means she has to protect Jojo. Which, Jojo gives me "little sister" vibes so I totally get where the "momma bear" sentiment comes from.

    • @raiinefall
      @raiinefall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@onijester56 if you consider 5'9 tiny then sure JoJo Siwa is tiny

    • @onijester56
      @onijester56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@raiinefall As the oldest and shortest of three sons, a "little" sibling doesn't have to be physically shorter.

  • @jessica23claire
    @jessica23claire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I really like how you criticise her toxic positivity, especially because you don't jump straight down her throat for it, but rather take a step back and realise that it obviously wasn't her intention to minimise anyone. It's a very mature take.

  • @sheeps_
    @sheeps_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Me: it’s just a 17yr who came out idc too much good for her
    Me watching this: *tearing up*

    • @heatherlee2967
      @heatherlee2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm tearing up too

    • @fearingmusic
      @fearingmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah gosh, at that age I was still closeted to *myself* fhfhfhhdhd

    • @sheeps_
      @sheeps_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I came out too young when I didn’t fully know who I saw because of “toxic positivity” I’m so glad she can just say she doesn’t know. That’s such a huge deal.

    • @sheeps_
      @sheeps_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Aniah Rose ............. what

    • @leonswifee
      @leonswifee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Aniah Rose no one cares that you're straight

  • @emmacouperus
    @emmacouperus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Growing up in the Netherlands, I was 7 when the Kids News (Jeugdjournaal) reported on the legalisation of gay marriage. They showed a lot of couples getting married and kissing each other after saying yes. I just thought it was sweet and nice, and didn't understand at all how monumental it was. For me, gay people were just a fact of life, and I didn't think anything of it. There was also a song by a popular children's choir (they mostly made popsongs) called 'I have two dads'. It was just so normal for me that gay people existed and that they could just marry and start a family if they wanted(and I know that that doesn't reflect everyone's experience in the Netherlands). Honestly, if people say: 'I have no problem with gay people, but it's just not for kids', it means they have a problem with gay people. Because if they would really accept gay people and not think being gay is strange or bad, there is no reason at all to keep it from kids.
    (side note: strangely enough, sex ed in my memory didn't mention gay people at all. It was all about men and women, STDs and reproduction. It didn't talk about gay sex nor about pleasure or consent. So much for inclusivity I guess)

    • @KryaTheEgghead
      @KryaTheEgghead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love that song, it's one of my favorite songs from when I was smaller

  • @Cherri_Stars
    @Cherri_Stars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    "If I lost everything that I've created because of being myself and because of loving who I love, then I don't want it". Wow. I still don't live like that, and hide my identity when I'm worried someone will judge me. This is such inspiring and mature statement, and one I'm going to try to centralize more in my life.
    Rowan you always handle these subjects so well 💖Other news I've seen about Jojo talk about her like a character or something. You give her the humanity and autonomy she deserves.

  • @midtemperature
    @midtemperature 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    ok ... but why am I crying rn???

    • @Rain-np7tk
      @Rain-np7tk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me- me too

  • @v4leree
    @v4leree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    It's sad seeing all the moms who say they won't let their kids follow her anymore :/ we have a long way to go still...

    • @jarrodedson5441
      @jarrodedson5441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If humans haven't changed to this day....they sure as hell not changing

    • @KatKore
      @KatKore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@jarrodedson5441 theyre changing, just REALLY slowly

    • @theabyss4450
      @theabyss4450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@jarrodedson5441 I think you’re forgetting how recent everything is when it comes to the LGBTQ community, it wasn’t that long ago that same sex marriage was allowed. These things take time since the people who lived in the time where this type of stuff was to be shamed/ considered taboo are still around. Just be patient 😋

    • @v4leree
      @v4leree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Плакать totally get it, it's difficult for sure.

    • @kennethfajardo9102
      @kennethfajardo9102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think ANYONE ever thinks about the fact that world-changing ideas (i. e. feminism, BLM, LGBTQ+ positivity) is that progress is NEVER easy.

  • @kboombite
    @kboombite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I have a young cousin who loves JS, she told me about her coming out and asked because she didn't completely understood the news. I basically said 'some people love girls, some people love guys' and she just tilted her head confused. I forgot she was 7 so I said it in 7 year old language and I think I made her more confused because she went 'I know people like other people but why is it so special?'

    • @kboombite
      @kboombite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I didn't know how to tell her about homophobia, so I said 'some people don't like girl loving girls and boys loving boys' and she just replied 'that's not very nice'

    • @saoirse.pen15
      @saoirse.pen15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kboombite awh thats cute of her :)

  • @RiverWoods111
    @RiverWoods111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    When my daughter came out to me, my only concern was for her safety and the discrimination she might encounter. You see I am albino, and as such I have endured a huge amount of discrimination and I still have to deal with people walking up to me and saying stupid stuff, like leaning forward and asking, "Are YOU an ALBINO?" Or "You know if you just painted your face such that you look normal I would feel more comfortable" (okay it is stated as "Wow, you would be pretty if you wore makeup especially eye makeup as it would give you color!" Or when I go to the beach I get told, "Girl, you need to get out in the sun more and get yourself some color!" Ummm? What is wrong with that statement? As an albino sun is my enemy. I swell up and break out in hives from the sun. Also... Wait? What? Why is it okay for people to tell me to change the color of my skin? Some people don't see my albinism and just think I am a blond hair blue eyed girl and don't have any understanding of what I go through.
    All that said, when my daughter came out I was very fearful that she would experience discrimination even worse than I do or even equal to what I do. As people with albinism in other countries are at risk of being murdered and their body parts sold on the black market for cultural rituals. That to me is a scary thought! I absolutely love and support my daughter being gay and love her wife. I am a huge ally, and I get very angry when people are discriminatory against gays. Well I get very angry when anyone discriminates against any person who is even slightly different. When I was in high school I used to step between bullies and disabled kids and tell the bullies they would have to fight me if they wanted to fight. I never had to fight one of those fights, probably because I was a gym rat with muscles clearly defined and a bit of an anger issue from my life of being bullied and mocked.
    I say this because I wonder how many parents might be thinking this way when they struggle with their kids coming out? Maybe not, because most people don't grow up albino.
    By the way, I use the term albino here because people understand that, but it really isn't appropriate to use that term to describe us. We have albinism, we are not the totality of the condition an Albino. Just as a cancer patient isn't a cancer, I am not an albino (I can use that term because... well I am one, but don't call someone with albinism and albino. That is just rude. For many of us, who were told from birth we would never amount to anything other than being a freak in a freak show the word albino has a bad connotation.

    • @luuuuux_
      @luuuuux_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s so terrible that you had to go through such a thing. I hope your daughter is not discriminated against and loves herself and accepts the way she is. You are an amazing parent.

    • @RiverWoods111
      @RiverWoods111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@luuuuux_ Thank you, my daughter is a very strong force to be reckoned with! She got her first management job at 19 and would be a director in her company by now if the pandemic had not happened. Because of who I am, I was able to teach my kids how to handle bullies. There is a rainbow in every situation, and this one has several rainbows.

    • @luuuuux_
      @luuuuux_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RiverWoods111 your daughter seems so cool. Could you tell her that she’s awesome?

    • @justamikee
      @justamikee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude your an amazing mum, well done! Your daughter is so lucky to have you, stay safe :)

  • @symphonysonic8643
    @symphonysonic8643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I love how comfortably she handles keeping her private life separate from her public appearance 😌 it’s rare for someone who’s been in the spotlight her whole life, good for her!!!

  • @daeyangshi
    @daeyangshi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    My mom mentioned jojo coming out when we were in the car together, and we were kinda just laughing at how stupid it is that so many parents are probably enraged to have their kids looking up to somebody apart of lgbt

    • @maudelisbm
      @maudelisbm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y’all and y’all’s parents: *laughing about how stupid it is that some people are homophobes.
      My parents: ughh people these days are making their lives too complicated with the lgbtq and the gender identities.
      Me: 🤦‍♀️

    • @todorokisfavouriteobject9109
      @todorokisfavouriteobject9109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maudelisbm
      Literally, my face whenever my mum had something to say about the LGBTQ+ community is : 😑🤦‍♀️

  • @Ryan-mm1oj
    @Ryan-mm1oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I woke up to that Twitter post with the T-shirt on my birthday and let me tell you it was the best birthday present my lil gay heart could wish for

    • @luuuuux_
      @luuuuux_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Belated happy birthday! That seems like an amazing birthday gift.

  • @franksonatra
    @franksonatra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I have no idea who Jojo Siwa is but I'm glad she came out, and it makes me happy as a queer, autistic person that she dresses "like a kid" until she is 17 (?) right now. I'm in my 20s and have been criticized by family for dressing "like a kid" (I'm very GNC and tacky lol)... so it's great to see her rocking her style. Makes me feel a little solidarity.

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same. I'm autistic too. My family kinda jokes about me still watching the same shows from when I was a little kid now that I'm an adult. I think i like to watch all those old familiar shows though because they are comforting, and I know what to expect and I can feel safe.

    • @calciumstealer2448
      @calciumstealer2448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theab3957 same!

    • @SairinEarthsea
      @SairinEarthsea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You might be interested in Lolita and harujuku style clothes, they have a childlike airy-ness to them.

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@calciumstealer2448 glad I'm not alone :)

  • @emeliasversion
    @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    i go so happy when i found out that she did this. although i don’t follow her a ton, i’m so proud of her!

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your profile pic!

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rosieg6989 thank you!! solangelo is definitely one of my OTP’s

    • @rosieg6989
      @rosieg6989 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emeliasversion I love them so much, Nico coming out as gay was a big moment for me and I love him and Will's relationship so much!

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rosieg6989 same!! and yes, him coming out was really important to me as well because it was the final push to have me come out as well, so it had meant a ton to me since

    • @emmahoppmann9353
      @emmahoppmann9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      wonderful profile pic!

  • @siljapeters2836
    @siljapeters2836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    I don’t know a lot about JoJo Siwa, because I’m not her main audience.
    Her main audience is younger kids, and I hope them seeing an idol who embraces their sexual orientation like that, will make the young lgbtq+ feel more accepted.

    • @davontekh
      @davontekh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean kurt. From glee did it better

    • @bubbles000
      @bubbles000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@davontekh Glee isn’t for kids tho...

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How young should kids be when they come out as gay? Five?

    • @siljapeters2836
      @siljapeters2836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@i.m.watching5536 there’s no age limit. Some know when they’re four. Some know when they’re 30.

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siljapeters2836 No age limit? Dear God, help us.🙏

  • @elizabethcarr3574
    @elizabethcarr3574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I was a part of the LGBT community in high school, even if I wasn't confident about my own sexuality at the time. At no point did anyone try to convert me or pressure me into deciding who I was. I've come out since then over the last couple years, and I'm proud now.

    • @ellabanchieri8114
      @ellabanchieri8114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sorry if I misread this, but why did you say "was"?

    • @elizabethcarr3574
      @elizabethcarr3574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ellabanchieri8114 I was meaning the community at my school. Not the at large community. I've always been an ally even when I wasn't explicitly LGBT.

    • @ellabanchieri8114
      @ellabanchieri8114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elizabethcarr3574 oh ok!! sorry I misread

    • @elizabethcarr3574
      @elizabethcarr3574 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ellabanchieri8114 it's a ok, glad to clarify.

  • @saraquill
    @saraquill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Seeing this video reminds me of the first few times I came out to older people. My orientation was meet with “no you’re not,” “lusting after girls is a very heterosexual female activity,” and “you must date a cis man before you get confused.” I hope she gets and continue to get lots of support.

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      all of those sayings are absolute bull crap, I hope you get the support you deserve!

    • @westerfrost3701
      @westerfrost3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry you had to go through that. That’s terrible.

  • @KatieLazo
    @KatieLazo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    wow I have a lot of thoughts about this. first I want to preface this by saying I identify as a
    bi woman... but when I was a child Prop 8 was a huge deal in my christian school. I said a lot of homophobic things because I was parroting what I heard from hateful adults. luckily, while I was repeating all that garbage my grandma asked me “well what if they’re in love?” and that question blew my mind. It humanized this issue for my Barbie Brained kid self who loved love.
    I’m so lucky to have my grandma in my life to stop me from heading down that ugly path... but I can’t help wonder what it would be like to have a role model like Jojo when I was a kid.
    I’m an artist, and I’ve been sketching out comic ideas on this topic. I think I have a lot more to add on to my story now.

  • @233377kg
    @233377kg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    One more thing I remember from JoJo’s coming out timeline was that she posted a video of her dancing to “Born This Way” on TikTok on June 6th, 2020. I remember seeing a lot of people on Gay TikTok suggesting she was a member of the LGBTQ+ community after this. However, because it was during pride month and she didn’t follow up with confirmation at the time, it could be interpreted as a show of allyship rather than a coming out.
    Edited to add:
    I really wish the best for JoJo. I know coming out has its challenges. I am certain becoming a celebrity, especially from a young age, has its challenges. I can only imagine the unique challenges she may face as an openly LGBTQ+ celebrity who is the face of her own brand that is geared towards children. It sounds like she is aware of how fortunate she is to have so many people supportive of her coming out but I hope she knows that hurdles she may face as a result are not her fault and she will be supported even if she chooses not to put a positive spin on things.

  • @isagrey7289
    @isagrey7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I come to you, Lindsey Ellis, and Strange AEons whenever something blows up on Tumblr and I don't understand it :)

    • @lynh.1214
      @lynh.1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Also, Sarah Z.

    • @isagrey7289
      @isagrey7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lynh.1214 Ahh yes of course

    • @chuchubit
      @chuchubit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Here to say Sarah Z! Tumblr historian

  • @n.2706
    @n.2706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I know this isn't the point of the video but the fact that Millie Bobby Brown is younger than Jojo Siwa is mind boggling. I hope she's allowed to continue living her life as she wishes.

    • @Cheekylol686
      @Cheekylol686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And Charli is the same age

  • @晶-c7i
    @晶-c7i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I had only meant to watch a few minutes and then go to bed and finish tomorrow. But you sucked me in! Your delivery is always so engaging and the topic so interesting. Going to bed late but not mad about it 🥰

    • @kimreni
      @kimreni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same :D

  • @bastianhirmann7714
    @bastianhirmann7714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Finally, I’ve been on someone to talk about this (-:

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ok but same

    • @doctora.snakeman1427
      @doctora.snakeman1427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cops Hate Moe also has a nice video on this

    • @Firegen1
      @Firegen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@doctora.snakeman1427 Was about to say. Watching Moe's with Rowan's tells the whole story really nicely.

    • @kkfaller
      @kkfaller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got first

  • @lolno2091
    @lolno2091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    i still cant belive she is 17 it feels like yesterday she was still 10 years old, i am so glad she came out, she will be role model for all these young Lgbtq+ kids

  • @bellac6311
    @bellac6311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    Homophobes: shows their kids films where a woman falls in love with a bee, a frog, also showing love stories between two lions and two dogs.
    Also Homophobes: But the kids will be cOnFuSeD if they see a gay couple in film!!!

    • @SairinEarthsea
      @SairinEarthsea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Those are furries and they're in a whole other category.

    • @cinnabonbon
      @cinnabonbon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Dot forget Beauty and the Beast which literally is about glamorizing someone who falls in love with her kidnapper

    • @abaddon2148
      @abaddon2148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@SairinEarthsea also ironic bc like 80% of furries polled are lgbt... 🤣

    • @nikkibella1607
      @nikkibella1607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      And to kiss a presumed dead woman that you found in the woods.

    • @Danyyssy
      @Danyyssy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      But the lady and the tramp is beautiful
      👁️👄👁️💕.

  • @Arlothed1no
    @Arlothed1no 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I'm just glad that I can openly like Jojo without people calling me cringey.

    • @shelbymachado8712
      @shelbymachado8712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fellow ace just poppin' by to say, rock on, bud!

    • @oreo_.bunny_
      @oreo_.bunny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg i love that pfp

    • @oreo_.bunny_
      @oreo_.bunny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @mae_09 danganronpa pfp?

    • @oreo_.bunny_
      @oreo_.bunny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @mae_09 who is it? Sorry i just cant tell.

    • @oreo_.bunny_
      @oreo_.bunny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @_Shumxii_ ohhhh thats what i thought i just didnt wanna seem dumb since ive only seen the black and white version of the betas

  • @zednott688
    @zednott688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    jojo is the embodiment of high camp you cant change my mind

  • @kagenoo1084
    @kagenoo1084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    jojo was one of my first celerity crushes since she was the same age as me, incredibly beautiful, and was always really happy and positive and i am so happy that she gets to be herself and love who she wants publicly.

  • @Coco21212
    @Coco21212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Jojo Siwa coming out is important but also the least surprising thing ever.

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      FACTS

    • @davontekh
      @davontekh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Let’s normalize “okay, I already knew.”

    • @xxxmaysilssss690
      @xxxmaysilssss690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Perfect explanation. It’s not because Jojo necessarily gave off “gay” vibes, it’s just because a huge portion of Gen Z is LGBT.

    • @bubbles000
      @bubbles000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@xxxmaysilssss690 more like they feel more comfortable and safer than before but ok

    • @xxxmaysilssss690
      @xxxmaysilssss690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bubbles000 what are you talking about lmao? It’s literally a known fact that a lot of Gen Z is openly LGBT, so there’s nothing surprising about it when someone who’s in that generation comes out

  • @flamejob4260
    @flamejob4260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    thinking about my younger cousin who told me that jojo made her feel comfortable coming out to me

  • @everfluctuating
    @everfluctuating 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    ill argue that lil nas xs coming out wasnt *exactly* on his own terms, it was spurred by the revelation of an old nicki minaj fan twitter

    • @HeyRowanEllis
      @HeyRowanEllis  3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      by "his own" i didn't mean like his own *choice*, more "his own" in that his experience was different to siwa's and doesn't need to be put in competition with hers

    • @everfluctuating
      @everfluctuating 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@HeyRowanEllis ahh, gotcha.

  • @J_C_90s
    @J_C_90s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My daughter loves Jojo, although she doesn't know a ton about her other than her vibe. The fact that Jojo came out makes her another positive rolemodel for my kiddo, which makes my heart sing. We are an LGBTQIA+ affirming family and have loved ones who identify in the alphabet gang. Here's to creating an open, loving, affirming environment so all kids can live their fullest lives. 🌈❤🌈🎉

    • @Caterpillars_Are_Life
      @Caterpillars_Are_Life 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve just found out jojo was gay and I feel so stupid lol. But to be honest, I never liked jojo because I thought she was kinda weird. (I thought she was weird when she got her own show which was like in 2017 so I’m not calling her weird because she’s gay, that would be dumb.)

  • @carmenmercedes9903
    @carmenmercedes9903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was (am) struggling with my sexuality, but JoJo Siwa coming out has done a lot for me. Her "my person" line is kinda what made me realize what I am. I 100% agree with what she said about " if my person's a girl, great. If they're a boy great." and I want to add that if my person's gender neutral or gender fluid, or any of the other genders, great.
    While i don't call my self bi or pan, I can definitely see myself being one.
    Update: I identify as a pansexaul demigirl, and JoJo's coming out really helped me get here!!

  • @charlotteice5704
    @charlotteice5704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Representation has also been shown to increase support for lgbtq+ rights in the general popultion so yeah, it's huge

  • @lynnburch261
    @lynnburch261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I am *HYPE* for the Jennifer's Body vid (also I really liked this video and found it very informational while entertaining😊)

  • @xx_3m0j1n_xx
    @xx_3m0j1n_xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    "after all, straight people are allowed to dance to lady gaga" you sure about that

    • @davontekh
      @davontekh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yea they are my uncle dances to it

    • @chestersnap
      @chestersnap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@davontekh well then he's breaking the law

    • @jikij2626
      @jikij2626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@davontekh ur uncle's goin' 2 disappear

    • @lauryn2868
      @lauryn2868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Damn there must have been a glitch cuz I’m still here😶

    • @frostyskeletons8950
      @frostyskeletons8950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@lauryn2868 👮🚨🚓 💨

  • @pierceh9555
    @pierceh9555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The young audience she has means this has an insane ammount of impact, what a legend

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really?

    • @pierceh9555
      @pierceh9555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@i.m.watching5536 yeah dude really

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pierceh9555 I am not a dude. Or trans. Or gay.

    • @pierceh9555
      @pierceh9555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@i.m.watching5536 i found dude to be a fairly neutral term, so sorry about that if it upset you Miss, i also never said you where trans or gay. This does have a big positive impact, its teaching her young audience to accept queer people and to not discriminate, it also lets any kids watching feel more comfortable about themselves if they where trans or gay because they have someone to look up to. Its obvious you have some aversion to gay people because of the other comments youve put and thats fine, but i dont see why you would click on a video about someone coming out on a youtube channel ran by a lesbian to talk about it.

    • @i.m.watching5536
      @i.m.watching5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pierceh9555 Thank you for your good manners. The reason I looked into this is because younger and younger children are having their lives greatly impacted by all this....not in a good way. As a parent, it concerns me....because it's no longer live and let live, that line has been crossed.

  • @grinch56
    @grinch56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a fellow 17 yo girl (also bisexual) i've always admired her and i'm super proud of her

  • @callumjones5666
    @callumjones5666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I really appreciate how we have JoJo siwa coming out and being her authentic self in a healthy way like you said Rowan I hope that the homophobes can look at an this and say "hmm maybe this coming out isn't being sinful maybe it is just about being yourself and loving who you love, maybe those people who are different from me can have a healthy and happy lifestyle" because that would be revolutionary!! 💖🏳️‍🌈✨

  • @jostefans4719
    @jostefans4719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    i aggressively tried to fit different labels within the lgbt+ when i came out (multiple times) as a young person. (~11-21y/o)
    if i had had the type of representation that Siwa is giving kids now, i would probably have been a lot more comfortable with just knowing /i’m not cis or straight/ without trying to force labels.
    i’m not really a fan of her although i’ve casually defended her from “haters” from time to time, but you may now consider me fiercely protective of ms Siwa and her legacy👏🏻

  • @LWeOAreVOneE
    @LWeOAreVOneE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I JUST started watching She-Ra, and now I've been spoiled. Oh, well. I should expect that given it has been going for a while, and at least it's just a small thing to look forward to and not a massive story thing.

  • @bassoonrckr
    @bassoonrckr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thanks for giving me time to watch Jennifer’s Body before your next video!

    • @HeyRowanEllis
      @HeyRowanEllis  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I hope you like it - it is a chaotic wonderland of a movie haha

  • @terpsidance.
    @terpsidance. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jojo was born at the right time. Early enough that her coming out is momentous, and late enough that she actually can be famous and come out.

  • @gabrielmaroto18
    @gabrielmaroto18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The US government most definitely has the ability to find out who called the police and sent them to her house. omg that is a different thing here in America. To send the police to someone house under a false claim of danger.

  • @dolcebelcanto3626
    @dolcebelcanto3626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I've never been a fan of JoJo really, but I got so excited when I heard of her coming out!! it's amazing, and I wish her and her gf all the happiness 💕

  • @ava130
    @ava130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ever since she came out it’s really all I’ve talked about. As someone who is gay myself, having such an influential person be open about their sexuality to inform others and try to end stigma in the lgbt community is fantastic.
    I used to not really like her, and for no real reason, either.. but once she came out was when it dawned on me that we are much more similar than I thought and I was treating her differently for absolutely no reason, and that is unfair and wrong; it makes me really sad to think about how I dismissed such a cool genuine person. And at the end of the day I would have loved to grow up with a Jojo Siwa role model, so I’m really happy for all the kids out there who feel validated.
    GO JOJO! I’m excited to see what’s next for you!

  • @siljapeters2836
    @siljapeters2836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I JUST DISOVERED THAT I WAS NOT SUBSCRIBED YET. I FEEL ASHAMED OF MYSELF

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OH NO ITS A TRADGEDY

    • @siljapeters2836
      @siljapeters2836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emeliasversion I JUST SUBSCRIBED I HOPE YOU CAN ALL FORGIVE ME

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@siljapeters2836 ITS OK I FORGIVE YOU!!! NOW STAY SUBSCRIBED!!

    • @kaviweaver5152
      @kaviweaver5152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME FAM BUT I FIXED IT

    • @emmahoppmann9353
      @emmahoppmann9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AAAHHHH!!!! ME TOOO NOW!!!!!

  • @ilikechez5775
    @ilikechez5775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is completely off topic, but my name is also Rowan, and I saw your name was Rowan and it took me a good 30 seconds to figure out where I'd heard it before

  • @erinokay9991
    @erinokay9991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I work at a Christian school-infants to 8th grade. Needless to say Jojo has been a long time hit. How amazing for this to be a thing.

  • @brigittesantos3260
    @brigittesantos3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I get really surprised that exactly one year ago, one contestant of Canada's Drag Race decided to make an impersonating of her and literally had to explain to the whole cast who she was.
    And now she's everywhere in LGBTQ media.

  • @scoobybag1072
    @scoobybag1072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Can I be honest with y'all
    she is so pretty. No even kidding.

  • @pennyw2226
    @pennyw2226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m so happy for Jojo, I never was a big fan of her bc I find her annoying (granted, she’s a kid) but this is awesome for her

  • @DaniPopplio
    @DaniPopplio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was so excited when I saw she came out, even when I'm not a follower I knew how big this was and you explained everything perfectly, thank you for this 💖

  • @K-PopVibes1
    @K-PopVibes1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love the fact that it was her girlfriend who motivated her to come out!

  • @katierose7345
    @katierose7345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was not a fan of jojo siwa as a brand before. She seemed like this perpetually hyper 7 year old and it felt uncomfortable knowing she's growing into an adult. She didn't feel like a person, just a brand. Her coming out story displayed her humanity and growth and really reminded people that she's not just a brand. It sucks that is was definitely a risk for her but so awesome that she feels her own life and happiness is worth it.

  • @invisiblue3212
    @invisiblue3212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I explained lgbtq+ to my children as part of the various 'growing up' talks. I never introduced heterosexuality as something separate from lgbtq+, just another facet of being human. When people bring up other's sexuality, my kids have a very 'why does that even matter?' response, unless the words are hateful, then my children will vigorously defend someone's right to love and happiness. We love and respect others for their minds, not their gender preference.

    • @l4ur4na
      @l4ur4na 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I wish every parent was like you! Thank you so much for doing this.

    • @invisiblue3212
      @invisiblue3212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@l4ur4na Thank you 🥰 You cant solve ignorance with hate, and you cant solve hate with anger.

    • @invisiblue3212
      @invisiblue3212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Armando Martinez You're entitled to your opinion. It doesn't mean you are right. Have a gay day 🌈🌈🌈😙😙😙

  • @flutenanyidk1806
    @flutenanyidk1806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    From her statement, I think she's probably Pan. She doesn't seem to care about gender, she just cares about the person. That's what I understand from my pan friends.

    • @supercalime
      @supercalime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well, many people take some time to settle on a label. Please don’t put YOUR interpretations on her sexuality if she’s in fact gay or whatever other sexuality. It’s not your place to tell. She’s not a fictional character where you can headcanon her sexuality based on experience. She’s a real person

    • @Twiti47
      @Twiti47 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@supercalime the fact that you're taking this so personally makes me believe you're one of the people that have their sexuality as their main personality trait

    • @katatat2030
      @katatat2030 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Could also be bi, depends on what specific label you use. But yeah, we shouldn't really be trying to give her a label if she doesn't want to

  • @wendyschwartz7455
    @wendyschwartz7455 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Fascinating to see this in contrast to her current personal

  • @animevampierangel131
    @animevampierangel131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I never really knew much about her besides she was really successful and way to many adults liked to mock or harass her. The latter always makes me uncomfortable like she is a minor adults need to stop harassing minors. I am really happy that she has such a supportive fan base and I am truly happy that more Younger people are able to come out and get support.

  • @TexTheBest
    @TexTheBest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    "straight people are allowed to dance to lady gaga" they are???

  • @swain-Ix1tv
    @swain-Ix1tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I used to think she was cringey and weird but looking back, she's actually a really great role model for young children.

  • @juliaava104
    @juliaava104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Unrelated to the content, but your hair looks super cute today!

  • @shamidkpzd
    @shamidkpzd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Swatting is a thing?! That’s just eww. And to a child at that. Ugh.

  • @lux279
    @lux279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Another smash-hit of a video!! Thanks for your hard work in making these!!

  • @luciesai4448
    @luciesai4448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She used to be my idol when I was 8 years old. I guess I chose the right person to idolize...

  • @reversidly
    @reversidly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Years ago, when Jojo was famous because of her hairline, my friends circle liked to gossip/mock her. I looked her up because of that and honestly couldn't find any reason to hate her. Now she really proves herself as an awesome role model for young audiences and tbh I'm very glad I didn't join my friends back then.

  • @youngandretro5137
    @youngandretro5137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    okay irrelevant comment, but your chair with the blanket thingy, it gives me such Squirtle vibes. i love it!

    • @flyingcactae5080
      @flyingcactae5080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Person:...and tha how I ended cancer
      You: lmao your chair looks like squirtle

  • @c0d3_888
    @c0d3_888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've never been a big fan of Jojo, but her coming out was so inspiring. She was willing to come out to thousands and thousands of people, despite knowing what she would have to go through afterwards. She's very brave and I'm glad that she was willing to do that.

  • @pink_croissant
    @pink_croissant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So, the education thing, when we were learning about sexuality the first thing my teacher said was that everybody deserves to be loved and accepted in a group they feel comfortable with. He then proceeded to explain the lgbtq, he also explained that he has a sexual friends, and that it's okay and you should love everyone. He was my favorite teacher, and probably the only teacher who was never homophobic to any of the kids, but only saw them for how they acted.