Carly Simon - "You can't have 2 bosses in a relationship"
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Chantal Westerman talks with Carly Simon at her home on Martha's Vineyard while promoting her new album, Film Noir and her children's book, Midnight Farm. Air date 9/11/97. Carly talks about her husband, Jim Hart, being able to remain even-keeled while her moods swing wildly. - เพลง
She had to have had one of the greatest and most beautiful Smiles in history.
Carly has too many teeth showing.
@@ibosquez5238 She's still attractive. But in her prime she had an amazing smile, never seen anything like it..
What an enchanting human being: a beautiful, peaceful voice bringing Joy for all of us and she writes still to children. Carly, this world needs more human beings like you!
As a young teenager, my family listened to such amazing artists as Carly Simon, Carole King, Andy Williams, and Barbra Streisand. Simon is an iconic artist and a tremendous role model for young women.
A very smart and talented lady. I have admired Carly for many years and i say thank you for all the wonderful music
Carly is one of the most genuine artists out there. For someone who suffers from stage fright she has always had amazing stage presence. Seems so at ease on stage. Reminds of Agnetha/ABBA who also suffered stage fright but just wow'd every audience.
Streisand is another. Terrible stage anxiety
it is amazing how articulate and well educated she is compared to today's artists.
She was upper class. Her father was Simon in Simon & Schuster. That’s why she was well educated. It had nothing to do with today’s entertainers.
@@ravenel2 Exactly!
@@ravenel2 and she also attended the elite Sarah Lawrance College for women
@@ravenel2 There are likely entertainers & others today who have wealthy famous parents who did not pursue secondary educations. Sadly more common across the board now..just party hard on parents' money.
Oh I completely agree, so many of our famous artists were so articulate, David Bowie and Freddie Mercury for example. The lyrics were outstanding, and the use of grammar and creative writing is incredible to hear.
You can be equal partners. One person does not have to be a "boss."
Carly your beauty is timeless
Carly you are beautiful inside as well as outside. You are blessed beyond measure and your music has blessed me as well !
As long as there is ANY boss in a relationship, there is no Relationship, Communication, Connection, Communion in each and every moment of daily life.
DELUDED.......🙄
Two people of equal ambition who want to be in charge is one poweful attraction but that intense passion then kills the Connection burning it out. Tragic.
@@davidaston5773 Where there is any ambition there is no Relationship, Communication, Connection, Communion with everyone and everything, in each and every moment of daily life.
@@michaelepstein2570 You mean it's almost like a stepping stone and dishonest?
@@davidaston5773 Ambition: Eager or inordinate desire for some object that confers distinction, as preferment, honor, superiority, political power, or literary fame; desire to distinguish one's self from other people.
Amazingly talented lady.
Blessed Interviews. Carly is Amazing. Beautiful Soul.
"Bull**** artist". So funny. You gotta love Carly! I love this interview. And OMG, does she look absolutely gorgeous here or what?
When she Carly Simon In her own words says I AM A B ---S--t Artist or I AM PHONY she to my surprise is Being Totally Honest because ALL music Industry is planned Staged and PROGRAMED by the OCCULT CULT RELIGION whose Deciples of which miss Simon is a devout follower and Servant Control the Entire Music Industry and HollyWood and ALL Music Artists and ACTORS And as Carly Simon just told you THEY are ALL BS actors for their Occult Religion which is the Main reason Apart from the exchange of their Integrity and honesty For FAME and FORTUNE is to control and Influence and Seduce me as they and miss Simon has done for years? I worship my Music Idols and movie Stars and they ONLY Worship the Diety or God of the industry that Rules them?
@@patriciagilligan2628 +ah cnn nwe2q
@@patriciagilligan2628 Absolutely NO truth in your bull **** understanding.
Music is a realm of wonder that all humanity and the animal kingdom have access to. These beautifully structured sound waves are for health and serenity.
I thank all the wondrous talent that provides us all with this.
Awesome interview beyond gifted family!
She really did a lot of promos in 97'. Loving it. Never tire of hearing her speak..or sing.
Beautiful person.
Beautiful lady.
SHE IS WONDERFUL
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Yes I also have been informed to my refer only in the the sense that I was seduce d and deceived or did I decide myself in worshiping false IDOLS just because I live music and impressed by appearances Ect. BUT to the point I am informed and evidence is Clear to me Now they Carly SIMON is Indeed A CASTRATI Probably from baby and this explains her remarkable voice and her unique physical appearance among other things?
You should never envy someone because you may not know what they have been through.
On another note, relationships should be 50/50 with mutual respect.
Carly Simon seems to be so down to Earth, and I am glad she has branched out to writing children's books. 👍
Anyone who envy’s her for the great life she has is doing it wrong, because happiness comes from within and a wise person can find joy and happiness whether living with little or a lot. She deserves to be happy , but it has nothing to do with another persons happiness. Don’t envy it’s a waste of time.
Never knew about Ben! TY for the video Carly! Love you!
4 years & 30 minutes from this airing...the world changed irrevocably.
The interview part was very good. I liked the direct questions. and of course carly's answers are breathtaking.
Nobody does it better
what a great soul she has
They are ALL ACTORS unfortunately And yes TOTAL to my Great distress B LL SH t Artists Literally As I IDOLISED this false lady for a lifetime as they are really Bought and SOLD ACTORS as she admits and I now listen carefully to what my Idols say for any truth as most time they pretend to be genuine BUT it is ONLT YOU WHO I S the REAL HUman and they merely use their TALENT to copy and MANIPULATE our feelings and Unique HUMAN qualities so we love and adore them and perceive them to be more human than us. this is not so they serve and worship for fame and fortune the OCCULTCULT Religion that Controls everything they present to me? even if I believed in the same religion they are still not genuine and only deliberately DECIEVE M e ?it is a total Fake Industry that uses our Love of Music to CAMAFLARGE the Occult CULT Religion that is the REAL Truth I am told behind all musicians and their Music? this is the sad Disturbing real truth I am told so don't be taken in Like me
That's AWESOME!
Part of this video showed her performance at Grand Central Station in New York City in 1995. I watched that on PBS.
She’s something different always has been ..and so beautiful
Carly beautiful? Oh come on now!She's a beautiful singer , sure. Pity her parents didn't notice she needed braces when she was young.Maybe it's not too late to get her teeth fixed ?
Love her talent anyway
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Her teeth are big part of her beauty and the amazing sounds that pass through her teeth
I always thought James Taylor was very jealous of Carly's; talent engaging personality natural beauty writing ability that voice!
@@marsenarichmond2208 Agree...if she had her teeth fixed she wld have looked like everyone else. I have seen her live on stage and she's stunning.
@@tarnsand440 Seems to be some of that. I think she pressed him to marry when he was too young also and he resents it Blames her for him not being a better dad. He's my favorite singer but she's the more talented vocalist imo. His songs make you feel healed. Hers make you relate. I love Carly but James is my fav singer and favorite songs (esp his 70s released greatest hits).
Wow her son sounds like James! Didn't know she wrote children's books. Cool awesome songs No Body Does it Better and Your So Vain 💗
omg the son sounds just like his dad
I heard him sing at one of his dad's concerts about 20 years ago!
She's real beautiful
A true Artist.... an American great
Love her.
Great woman
This guy is on TV... and doesn't know what "film noir" is??!
He sounds like James!!! So much! Im gonna check out his stuff too ! What great genetics he has!
She is very beautiful and her mouth and those teeth gave her a great smile.
She is really a wise women..I did'nt knew this..I knew that she was funny but..she has some wisdom..She is pleasant..
You can't have two bosses in a relationship. How very true.
I was thinking I would love her life too...
Love Carly
There doesn’t need to a be a “boss” because no one can control another. I’ve never needed to boss around a girlfriend and I wouldn’t tolerate it the other way. All you need to do is draw a line and be honest with each other.
" TEAM " ....Life is a team sport !!
I think she's talking about a mature relationship and commitment, such as in marriage. Whether running a business or a home, there needs to be an ultimate authority. And like Carly said, there may be a division of who's in charge of what, but she is absolutely correct about this.
I may have already mentioned this but where she defends her son not sounding so much like James I think she is in denial, to any of us out here in the world we would think that they were nearly the same person singing. I understand her wanting to stand them apart for her own sake.
And for his......
Film noir is an easy one. They should already know that! 😎
Indeed they should.. unreal that neither one did..
Really. That surprised me, too.
Carly Simon simply put is an "Earth Child". :-)
Carly Simon and Melanie are not yet inducted in the Rock&Roll Hall Of Fame.. So sad and pathetic .Bobbie Gentry suffered the ultimate 'boys club' backlash for writing and producing her last album in 1971. She retreated to Vegas, made a huge fortune and retired early on her own terms..
Nooo, thats interesting, but bad
she's there now. she really pushed her fans to vote for her, & i was happy to. so unfair she hadnt made it earlier, & a joke that dolly parton deserved that honor. i love dolly, but she's no rock legend
Everyone falls in love with Carly Simon
She’s still hot as ever.
Well this was in 97. 23 years ago. So things have changed. :)
tall32guy Carly has the kind of hot that can never age.
Kat 🥂😉
Carly Simon - You Can't Have Any Bosses In A Relationship! 1 Or 2 Bosses Destroys Relationships!
thats why everyone is so depressed these days...booble heads with no direction
You ARE the Boss!
That is the truth. My mother ran the house, but the worst words we could ever hear from her was, "Wait til your father comes home!"
When we were younger she took care us on the spot with quick wack, or worse (for the older brother) with a bar of soap in his mouth.
They were in 100% compliance, towards us kids, and it worked to perfection, but concerning all matters, my dad was the boss.
You certainly can't have two narcissists.
One is enough to destroy any relationship.
0:41 Pretttayy Pretttttaaaaaaayyyy good.
Most intelligent thing I ever heard a lady say. Cant work for 2 bosses either.
Explains why most celebrities end up divorced, can’t have two bosses!
Well, at least she said you can both be bosses but in different areas. I could never let somebody always be the boss.
Lisa D. .........
How is that working out for you?
She killed both marriages. So much for "the boss". There is another story here - and two colossal failures should make you want to dig in on her lifestyle a little more. Reality bites.
@@michaelantoniotti2738 Begging your pardon Sir, it takes two to make a marriage work and two to tear it apart. It is never all one person's fault. Maybe at the precise moment it is falling apart, one may blame the other, but it takes two!
@@jackierave no arguement there.
How could you NOT know what : Film Noir is?
There should NEVER be a hierarchy in any human relationship. That is a very archaic view. No human should have to answer to another human. Relationships broke down in patriarchal societies as well. There should never be a boss because it creates imbalance and allows for bullying and spousal abuse. It also puts pressure on a man. Each person should being their strengths to a relationship. I am very surprised at this woman to make such a statement who is an influential figure but if that works in her marriage so well and good but it must not be advocated for everybody. I think this is her second marriage though
Damn! The guy is just like JT!
wow! what a woman.
You can't have two bosses - been saying that all along
GRACIAS TH-cam.
There is no power struggle if the man understands the woman is the boss in the home.
He executes her desires. Who's the boss? She is not commanding him, he just wants her to be happy. Equality is not the same as being identical. Identical is more likely to lead to conflict. Complementary is specifically not identical.
To 50hellkat2 : Good luck having a relationship with that attitude. :-/
God did not set it up that way. That idea is a brainwashing of the American culture.
I dont need a boss. Sounds awful. Who wouldn't want to live like that.
she still does
A relationship can have 2 bosses, provided that none of the 2 is a dictator.
The boss comment is so spot on. Men wallowing at every venture... trying to understand what women want. I'm going to look up s Bible study tonight on this.
Ephesians, chapter 5 (I think) would be a good start. Maybe chapter six? Proverbs chapter 31 gives a description of what is a wonderful wife. We all want to be loved, but a woman NEEDS to be loved, and a man NEEDS to be respected. Hope something I've written helps a little bit.
Maybe that’s why they say, opposites attract.
In my younger days I thought she was about 6' tall, but now is she even 5'5"
She is nearly 6' tall, at 5'10".
Just like a company never has two presidents someone has to make the final decision!
Call me - boss.
Given who her father was, not surprised she's into books.
Yes, her father was co-founder of publishers Simon and Schuster.
Not a lot of people know that.
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 I thought most everyone did!
@@dumfriesspearhead7398, I've been a big fan since I was 12, and I am 60 now, and always have known that. I wrote a letter to her when I was 12 and didn't know her address, so I sent it to Simon and Schuster, hoping someone would pass it along to her. I laugh about that now.
She's realized the failure of the feminist lie. Her great strength is her tonality. Her voice and phrasing are a great compliment. She's learned a lot expressed at the interview's end.
What would you call her type of music?
Jupe367 good question. I wonder how Carly would answer this! To me it is such an amazing combination: folk-rock, jazz, easy - listening, pop, soft rock, ballad, it's just Carly!😊💖
Folk-pop.
Soft Rock/Adult Contemporary, Soft Classic Folk-Rock, Easy Listening
The interviewer asked about why people are not better at relationships . .? I was walking with some people and they were carrying on and on about how a community Doctor was busted with a mistress , . I broke in and said- All of you are carrying on as if adultry was just discovered. It has been going on for e v e r and people still react as if it was a newly invented crime. It has been going on a n d accepted/condemned for all this time, with equal fervor.
Collectivelly, people have evolved regarding wrong/right. Individually however, people still try to get away with the s a m e o l d things. , and do! Just not so much.
Cool. Known her and her man since I was a boy.
3:55 wtf. If my mom ever did that to me I'd be freaked out.
lol why
@@frans7995 She's rubbing her ass on him and laying her head on his soldier. That's something you do to a lover, not your son.
@@BlGGESTBROTHER lol shes just laying her head on his shoulder
@@frans7995 If you and your mom want to grind on eachother, who am I to stop you.
@@BlGGESTBROTHER hahahaha
What a jaw she has !
I said the same thing when I saw the movie "Jaws". Just kidding. I agree with you.
thats what gives her the sound
Occupation = Creator
These are OLD clips!!
How on earth can someone working in the media no know what film noir is? My 10 yo granddaughter could explain it. Lordy.
It’s easy to become successful when you come from the kind of money that Carly comes from. It’s easy to take all of the time that you need on your artistry because money is no object.
Her father was voted off the board of the co that bore his name. There was a time when he struggled very much financially. Don’t make assumptions just because of the name. And it’s not necessarily easily. And she suffered from all sorts of emotional problems...stage fright, manic depression, anxiety, that all lead to huge mountains she had to climb
That puts the responsibility on you to make the most of that time. I think she did.
Money does not mean happiness..success or a love for others
she had All..
bosses - wtf get real
And she hardly mentioned the word “ like “
LOL the anchor states on live network TV he does not know what Film Noir is. Showbusiness people !!!
No spiritual being willingly gives up choice and freedom unless theyre abused and forced, mentally ill, or indoctrinated under threat of social attack. Masochism and the denial of your autonomy is only attractive to the self-righteous or mentally deranged. If you can't harmonize and function in equal respect and love for each other don't get married.
what happened to her nose?
What a beautiful woman; James just messed up losing her.
her songs are scary she sings telling how a woman feels.
just to see the total eclipse of the sun.
Wow, good for her to not buy the PC feminism line. She's conveying some real wisdom here.
What was the bleep?? F-artist!?
Sam S4567 Bullsh*t Artist
Occupation, POET.
Her voice is beautiful !!!!! James Taylor doesn’t come close to what she has !
A good relationship has nothing to do with being boss or not. The notion itself is a contradiction.
He doesn't know what film noir means? Wow.
So what? You figure that YOU know everything? Whatever.
did her kids like singing that stuff? those were the only albums of hers i didnt like: torch and film noir. i knew the music, but so much prefer her own music, alone or w jac
Carly way more interesting than James Taylor
She definitely took more creative risks. He's made the same album thirty times.
James peaked in the early 70s but he's managed to peddle that same sound for his entire career. And it's all about him.
It's never been a business because she came from LOADS of money- "SIMON & SCHUSTER!! The "SIMON" part is her FATHER!!
She worked on her craft her entire life. I don't recall her father wrote, produced,played any instruments or mixed any of her albums.
Why the outrage? It’s how the world works.
Some people are born with advantages.
I wish you beauty and love wherever you are- and a sense of joy in who you are.
Crap-- her son is "talented," but her daughter is "beautiful." Girls are just there to look good I guess.
I didn't catch that casual sexism. You're talented to call it out :)
That's interesting that you picked up on that. I wonder if I would have noticed if you hadn't said anything.
ding..ding..ding.. correct... winner!!
Miranda Spencer I noticed it too. Yes she is. but I saw earlier interviews with him and he looked "handsome". Don't guess they would call him that so much as his obviously hereditary "male pattern baldness" seems to have started early for him. But they both sing with her as well as on their own. couldn't they just refer to them as very talented? Or beautiful offsprings? I mean, it makes Sally sound brainless, and Ben sound ugly to put it that way. it's like huh?
Well I think Miranda, that if you think you can accurately judge peoples long term relationships by a couple of adjectives, then you're doomed to be forever passing superficial judgements. Ever heard of the term "triggered"?
It's interesting to me, if a father said in an interview my children are not happy unless I am happy, that would be considered shameful and incredibly self-centered. Yet Carly Simon says it like a badge of honor. Hmm, no wonder James Taylor wanted very little to do with her after their divorce.
Although it came out grammatically awkward, I think what she meant was that her mood at a given time was influenced by whether her children were experiencing happiness or difficulties, which is a common parental trait.
she prioritized her kids. james did not. i dont blame him for distancing himself now, tho i still love both. she has told way too many stories about him.
Wow! The modern feminist is not going to like to hear that
black eyes