Wales - Rediscovering My Homeland. 2: Talacre Beach ~ A tale of a date & unrequited love…

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  • In the summer of 2015 after the finalisation of my divorce in the January I met, dated and fell hopelessly in love with a girl. I dearly wanted to marry this girl, but sadly it was never to be. She found someone else, and subsequently so did I, although i never quite forgot about her. And then out of the blue, six years later and both of us newly once again single she found me on social media, got in touch and suggested we meet up. This is the story of that evening…
    My most sincere thanks go to ​⁠my best friend ‪@TheRealCaptainMustard‬ for accompanying me on this journey down memory lane and for helping with the filming. Without his friendship, time and generosity i doubt this would ever have got made. My deepest thanks also go to all the stalwart members of my TH-cam community who have also been incredibly generous with their encouragement and support during community livestreams in the planning and build up to doing this. I couldn’t be more grateful.
    This film is dedicated to ‘the one that got away’. I will always love you.
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  • @mystichare8924
    @mystichare8924 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Quite emotional Boaty. Revisiting your past can be quite cathartic. Having Mustard accompanying you helped I’m sure.

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup, Mustard was the perfect company for the day, and I’m really grateful to him for doing it…

  • @thatguyfromcetialphaV
    @thatguyfromcetialphaV 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I hate to admit this as a Welshman but I've on;y ever driven through north Wales. Dad always wanted to take me to Cwmbran so he could show me his stomping grounds, but we never got around to it. Clare (Kung fu Mistress) was from Caerphilly but I never got to visit her parents. It's one of the only regrets that I've never been to the land of my ancestors.

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s never too late mate. To be fair I forgot that North Wales existed for many many years…too busy gadding around the world. Hence the whole revisiting/reconnecting thing I guess…

  • @carriesparks8434
    @carriesparks8434 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dear Boaty you could see the heartache on your face ....wonderful video .....

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aw, thank you so much, I’m so glad you enjoyed it. And thank you for the lovely comment…😊🙏❤️

  • @Paul_Tandy
    @Paul_Tandy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Boaty, excellent video, thanks very much for sharing this with us. I found this quite emotional, and rooting hard for you despite knowing it probably wasn’t to be. I really enjoy listening to your livestreams a few hours later on the way to work in London in the very early hours of the morning. See you soon mate. Thanks again for sharing. Best wishes to all.

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Paul, so glad you enjoyed it and it’s good to know that the sense of emotion of the memories did come across in the film. I was a bit concerned about getting the balance right, but it seems it turned out ok. I really appreciate the support and encouragement, and especially the feedback particularly when we chat in person. I love the idea that you listen to my semi-drunken late night ramblings on your horrendously early morning commute! Look forward to catching up with you and the chaps very soon…😊

  • @lordrichy1065
    @lordrichy1065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very touching and really enjoyed to watch good sir, nice to have old mustard along also, God bless

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad you enjoyed it, and thank you for the lovely comment…😊🙏❤️

  • @sophierichardson4976
    @sophierichardson4976 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What lovely memories boaty and what nirce times to rember with you really good friend ❤

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes indeed my lovely. Hope you enjoyed the video…😊🙏❤️

  • @TPerry2828
    @TPerry2828 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That was almost poetic in places, Boaty 👍

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s kind of you to say…thank you! 😊🙏

  • @dreammaker730
    @dreammaker730 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brilliant video Boaty , bravo 👏.
    The atmosphere, the philosophy, the banter and the pics at the end .👍👍👍👍👍👍.
    Not so sure about the Bernard stand in though 😉.

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw, thank you so much! I am really happy with the way it came together, it’s exactly what I was hoping for. So glad you enjoyed it and thank you so much for the lovely comment…😊🙏❤️

  • @nameme-1
    @nameme-1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Still say you should have got mustard a white dress even if it was just for the carpark scene.

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately there were budgetary constraints! It was either the white dress or lunch, and my stomach won the vote…😉🍽

  • @Emmajozxyqk
    @Emmajozxyqk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lovely video Boaty. Gorgeous peaceful scenery set to very moving words and music. You have created something beautiful from your bittersweet memories. I love the peppering of humour throughout and your co-star did great! Editing was on point too 💕

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw, bless you for the kind words! You’ve highlighted all of the exact things that I set out to achieve, so that’s absolutely fantastic to read. Thank you so much, and so glad you enjoyed it…😊🙏❤️

  • @jimmyquinn9639
    @jimmyquinn9639 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent and moving video boaty 👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Jimmy, and as always thank you for the continual support and encouragement…😊🙏❤️

  • @John_stoodley
    @John_stoodley 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A very moving video boaty m8 another great video of your past .john

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you John, really appreciate your lovely comment and all of your support and encouragement…😊🙏❤️

  • @GottaBeME2
    @GottaBeME2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay.. I had to finish it now...WOW! BEAUTIFUL! I JUST WISH THE ENDING WENT FOR A LITTLE LONGER BUT JOB WELL DONE!💯👍

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you my lovely. So glad you enjoyed it. Catch you soon on a live! 😊🙏❤️

  • @AshleyStewart-lw3eb
    @AshleyStewart-lw3eb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video really enjoyed it. Have a great weekend 🙂👍🏻

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You too mate! So glad you enjoyed the video, and thanks as always for the continued support, it means the world…😊🙏❤️

  • @alansimpson835
    @alansimpson835 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did anyone else almost spit their tea out laughing when Boaty, the intrepid explorer, very matter of factly exclaimed "Someone's drawn a pair of boobs on the lighthouse door"? Quote of the day.
    Seriously though, I agree. There is something very cathartic about being by the sea, especially when you have the beach pretty much to yourself. A lot of my best thinking takes place just strolling along the beach.
    Sorry to hear that things didn't work out with the lady in question but hopefully it's true that what's for you won't go past you and other opportunities will present themselves. Plus, now you have a fleet of Rovers and MGs, rather than a Galaxy, who could refuse?

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The boobs really threw me! 🤣
      Yep, a deserted beach is pretty hard to beat as a place for quiet contemplation and soul searching. And yes, what will be will be. I always kind of presume that the universe knows what it’s doing and things will work out as intended. Thanks so much for the support and encouragement and for taking the time to leave a comment, it’s really appreciated…😊🙏❤️

    • @alansimpson835
      @alansimpson835 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mr_Boaty the boobs were absolute comedy gold and the timing was exceptional, especially after we were all in a very reflective state, listening to your story.

  • @GottaBeME2
    @GottaBeME2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have never even seen a skylight that in Florida all the years I've been here.. unless there was a storm coming!😮

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s Wales for you! Spectacular…😍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

  • @johnmoruzzi7236
    @johnmoruzzi7236 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mustard and Boaty as Patrick Swayze and Keanu Reeves filming Welsh high adrenaline surf action movie “Point of Ayr Break”…. 😅

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thtmotoring
    @thtmotoring 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovely video Boaty! Especially loved your chat with Mustard about perspective and routine, really resonates. Are the daily diaries making a comeback? Been missing them!

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it. And that little chat was actually totally unexpected and unplanned, it was just off the cuff and fortunately I’d left the camera running. The Daily Diaries are still a thing, but I’ve had to put them in the channel members area. The reason being that continually putting out videos aimed at the most regular viewers which therefore got low views was killing the channel in terms of the algorithms which decide whether to promote your videos or not. My impressions rate is through the floor so new videos aren’t being seen and I’m going to have to try and fix that. However the algorithms don’t take account of videos for channel members, so I can stick what I like in there!

    • @thtmotoring
      @thtmotoring 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mr_Boaty Sometimes off the cuff is the best! Looks like I'll be subscribing to membership then! Where do I do that?

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @thtmotoring from the home page of the channel or the link is in the descriptions of the videos. You do need to be on a browser though rather than an app…

    • @thtmotoring
      @thtmotoring 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mr_Boaty all done!

  • @tripemonger8916
    @tripemonger8916 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fabulous! A star is born - The (Lady)Man in off-White A very poignant ending 💞

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s definitely got a bright future as a Hollywood leading lady! 😉

  • @kevincraven4038
    @kevincraven4038 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very brave of you showing up for a date... in a Ford Galaxy... No wonder your love is unrequited! 😅

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Au contraire, I’d say it’s the perfect vehicle! Swivel the seats round for a comfortable dining area to enjoy wine and a picnic…and of course those seats in the rear can be folded down to form a perfectly serviceable bed…😉

    • @kevincraven4038
      @kevincraven4038 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah! But is the object of your affection not thinking "How many wives and kids has this kn*b got already?" 😅

  • @GottaBeME2
    @GottaBeME2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG.. I'm only a few minutes in &was loving it so much... I didn't expect this kind of real movie format... Love story no less... And then comes along whom I'm seeing clearly for the first time.. the long-haired blonde... Whom I do admit is another cutie.. like you! Truly I was somewhat disappointed because I expected the real life story feeling to continue! Stop watching but will continue later because I must see where this goes and I'm already chuckling but I had hoped to be mushy! BTW.. YOU USED A WORD CAN I HAVE NO IDEA WOULD STILL BE IN THE MODERN ENGLISH LANGUAGE or British language..."selfsame"! I happened to recognize this word from Shakespeare's Macbeth... I once started to write what was to be a comedic MUSICAL version of Macbeth & a line in the play is..."to the self same tune and words"which was going to lead into the song.."You've got to have heart"which I think is from the Broadway show "Damn Yankees"! Macbeth is speaking to someone I believe about having courage and now I will have to look it up! YOU do have a talent! Full review next time!😅👍💯

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I must admit that I really enjoyed experimenting with a different format for a video, and it’s super interesting to get feedback from an interim point of watching it as well as having seen the whole. It was intentional, my idea was to have a mushy beginning and end relating back to the actual night itself, but with a mix in the middle representing the here and now…so thank you, I really appreciate this comment!

  • @johnmoruzzi7236
    @johnmoruzzi7236 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think you probably got fined over the new Mersey Gateway bridge since the 60s Runcorn “Silver Jubilee” bridge was shut down for years getting refurbed…..

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Quite possibly! It just says the Silver Jubilee Bridge Southbound on the penalty notice…

  • @Dino_Dad.
    @Dino_Dad. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boats, you've done a fantastic job here. I hope you got permission from the third party. Either way a nice poignant look at life , love and friendship...apart from that camp jesus bloke 😂

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aw, thank you Ross. You and the rest of the BOGGS inner scrotum know just how much I was hoping that it would all come together to make something half decent and I think it did. Thanks for all the support and encouragement mate…😊🙏❤️

  • @paultaylor9652
    @paultaylor9652 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Quite deep this one Boaty, men need time to think more. I think you're looking across at the Wirral from Talacre or maybe Southport but not Liverpool, sorry Paul.

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you’re right. On both counts! Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment, I really appreciate it…😊🙏

  • @skik6313
    @skik6313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice story

    • @Mr_Boaty
      @Mr_Boaty  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks mate…😊🙏