COZY DAYS in November I Tips to SURVIVE DARKNESS

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  • @BenitaLarsson
    @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +19

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    • @emmariveragarcia2072
      @emmariveragarcia2072 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful and mindful video Benita. As always plenty of love, creativity and conscious.
      God Jul 🥰dear Benita
      Feliz Navidad 🎁 🎄 🌟💗

  • @RedCapWoodpecker
    @RedCapWoodpecker ปีที่แล้ว +212

    everything is so effortlessly elegant and peaceful here in this channel ... the colours and textures of everyday objects seem ever so beautiful and inviting ... thank you for such inspiring videos, Benita!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm so happy you enjoy them!

    • @ivaristovskaiva
      @ivaristovskaiva ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely agree with this comment! I love your video aesthetic and especially in this one, your video production talent is showing off ❤

    • @jessiemacleod6100
      @jessiemacleod6100 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well said..and so true. Beautiful calm videos

    • @lowwastehighmelanin
      @lowwastehighmelanin ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think calling it effortless ignores all of Benita's hard work! She's certainly done a lot of foundational tasks to get things like this 😂

  • @dianebruno3811
    @dianebruno3811 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    As a professional life coach I admire your quiet sense of self and inner peace. You have mastered how to live in a noisy world with grace and tranquility! Happy holidays!

  • @tinalemna7998
    @tinalemna7998 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    All the shops are beautiful where you live, even the charity shop was clean and organized. I love when you take us along on your walks and we get to see a bit of beautiful Stockholm. ❤

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Charity shops really are well organized here! Love the color coding😅

  • @kmmorrin
    @kmmorrin ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That chest is a piece of art. $20 is a steal! I'm so appreciative of the video, this is a like a window into Sweden you just can't get from a book!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so happy you enjoy my videos!

    • @aniazurek7258
      @aniazurek7258 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said' 👌🏻

  • @mlg8398
    @mlg8398 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Unlike most Americans, I love fall/winter. You highlight how these seasons can be cozy. Love your candles and especially the whimsical bunny light. Only tip I would add is to slow cook something good in the oven, like a hearty stew, to fill the house with a comforting scent. Very much look forward to the unfolding story of your summer house.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      If I cooked I would add that😅

  • @BloomRHCP
    @BloomRHCP ปีที่แล้ว +91

    As an Italian who has recently moved to Stockholm your videos are so helpful for embracing and understanding a Scandinavian's perspective on how to face the dark and cold months, thank you!
    I've also been to Skogskyrkogården during All Saints and it was magical

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So magical, right? I'm so happy if my videos are helpful!

  • @spoly8139
    @spoly8139 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Oh Benita this was one of your most beautiful videos ever! It certainly motivated me to get out more and enjoy the beauty of nature and the season rather than sitting at home alone feeling sad this time of the year. The chest for your summer home is really a work of art...and for $20..what a bargain. You see the beauty all around you and that is such a gift and helps so many of us. Thank you for your wonderful tips which are so helpful.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so happy if the video is helpful!

  • @allieblank5992
    @allieblank5992 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    What a beautiful video. Peaceful and uplifting. A wonderful reminder to see the dark season with quiet beauty. 🌌

  • @Snitzler4710
    @Snitzler4710 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Benita, Thank you for sharing the cemetery footage because it is very personal and the loss of loved ones is something many of us share in common. Peace, love and serenity is all we pray for. Have a wonderful cozy November. I really loved your new outfits. You look great! ❤

  • @agnesdp1855
    @agnesdp1855 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you for this lovely reminder to embrace the seasons as they go. I used to be so very depressed in November (my month of birth), but over the years, I've learned to appreciate this moment in time where everything seems to slow down. I can spend more time indoors, knitting, cooking and reading, and sleep more. And going out at least once a day is a must to get the fresh air and the natural light. Looking forward to see how your country house evolves next year.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, embrace it and spring will come with light!

    • @sil9023
      @sil9023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In Germany nothing is going on slowly in november. People began to stress themselves for christmas. Its going on earlier and earlier from year to year.😢

  • @lynby2108
    @lynby2108 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    As someone who’s just got back from a walk in the torrential rain with my dog I totally agree we need to walk no matter what the weather. As a Walker yourself have you never considered a doggy companion.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I grew up with dogs and love them!

  • @frithbarbat
    @frithbarbat ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I visited a friend and his wife in Stockholm many years ago. I was surprised at how many oil lamps and candles they had. "We couldn't survive without them", his wife said. I think the difference in attitude towards these gentle lights (and lamps etc) is so telling - they are not luxuries, the indulgences that they are to those of us that grew up in the tropics. They are essential. Consider them mental-health aids. Cheaper than therapy and lovely to look at!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Mental-health aids. Cheaper than therapy and lovely to look at!" Nailed it!

  • @margaretbrooker9744
    @margaretbrooker9744 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Your previous video prompted me to indulge my love of twinkly lights at this time of year - bought two small sets today and one is already lighting up our Garden Room. “Isn’t it a bit early to decorate for Xmas ?” Asked my husband. Yes - but it’s not too early to celebrate Autumn turning into Winter !

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Here in Sweden there’s a newish trend Novent, it’s about starting to decorate in a small way in November! You’re so on trend!

  • @Sarah_C68
    @Sarah_C68 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    wow ....the woodland cemetery shot at dusk was really beautiful

  • @ingaurban404
    @ingaurban404 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I think it is a wonderful custom to light all the lights and remember the dead. We do that here in Germany as well, but everyone puts one light on each relative's grave. I think it actually much nicer to put them all together in one place as you seem to do it in Sweden❤ I loved Skansen very much when I visited Stockholm in 2008 with my then young daughters. We have to come back, I can't believe that it's already been 15 (!!!) years.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Those who have graves locally place them there but if your relatives are far away you can put your candles on a memorial plot. It's so beautiful!

  • @gr8summer
    @gr8summer ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Rain and cold weather is no bad weather at all! I find fall and winter to be the most beautiful seasons, specially in countries like yours where the scennery is so magical 🤩 Here in Spain it’s still over 20ºC and I can’t bear it no more 🙈 I am longing for chilly days in my cozy knitwear 🙏 In the meantime, your videos transport me to beautiful Scandinavia, so thank you!! 🙌🤗

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so happy if I can deliver a slice of Scandinavia to you!

  • @catherinedouglas8049
    @catherinedouglas8049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The candles in the cemetery on All Saints Day was absolutely beautiful and also seeing all the people about honoring their loved ones like that. Wish we had a tradition like that here in the USA.

  • @Helenemonblogdefille
    @Helenemonblogdefille ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The part in the cemetery was so beautiful ! I didn’t know that in Sweden people would light candles in them for All Saints, quite like in Mexico.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      The woodland cemetery is the most beautiful place!

  • @iriswelch3553
    @iriswelch3553 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I also enjoy being outdoors this time of year and we have had the most amazing Fall leaf colors lately. It's cozy to come home to a hot cup of tea with my cat. Greetings from Oregon!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The changing of the leaves for fall is just so pretty!

  • @fiddlersthree8463
    @fiddlersthree8463 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    'Bob's your uncle!!!" Benita, you're the best!!

  • @nicolevollmer2749
    @nicolevollmer2749 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Such a nice and cozy video! As an absolute summer girl I am suffering tremendously from the dark and rainy season here in Germany. It is so frustrating and I miss the lovely spring and summer season. However, we have to make the best of it as we have no other alternative. Thank you for this inspiring video, dear Benita!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Like you say, we can’t choose so might as well make the best of it!

  • @marygeibel40
    @marygeibel40 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love your inspiring videos. Thank you for being authentic, generous and full of lovely ideas. My mother used to say ‘simplicity is elegance’ and I see that in your surroundings, your city and your filmography. 🙏🏼❤️

  • @ShenanK
    @ShenanK ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved the darkness when we lived in Denmark. I understand that some people suffer, but for me it was 100% hygge.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s so cozy if you let it be!

  • @penny3767
    @penny3767 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It’s always a pleasure to visit Skansen with you. The cemetery footage is absolutely beautiful. Hugs to Bonus, as always. 💐

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much for following along! Hugs are being distributed as we speak😊

  • @carrie2258
    @carrie2258 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When the beautiful chest came into view 😍, I thought 'that has been really expensive!!' But $20!!! Fantastic buy! It will look lovely in your holiday home 😍. The silk head bands look good on you Benita, you should wear them more often 😍

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prices on these traditional Swedish items is really low considering the craftsmanship that went into them. This one is huge and heavy so you need space for it. Which we have luckily!

  • @ChristineSalzer
    @ChristineSalzer ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6:01 this smile made my day, thank you

    • @teresa5007
      @teresa5007 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. I like to see Benita smile. She usually smiles when she’s with Bonus but Skansen can also do the trick.🌹

    • @ChristineSalzer
      @ChristineSalzer ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teresa5007 Es ist ihre Arbeit. Sie muss nicht beweisen, dass es ihr Spaß macht, nur weil sie sie gut macht.

  • @sabinegoetz1448
    @sabinegoetz1448 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hello Benita. This was such a beautiful reminder of ways we can embrace the season. Thank you for including the All Saints images. Such a beautiful way to gather and remember loved ones 🤍 Your new LS sweaters are lovely on you. 🌼

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Embracing the seasons is a game changer!

  • @kathrynp7595
    @kathrynp7595 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thanks for taking us along on your day, the shops are so clean and curated 🌺

  • @allisonspeer649
    @allisonspeer649 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow that chest is gorgeous. I struggle with Winter but I'm changing my mental attitude, making a lot of simple daily plans and getting in exercise 5 days a week. All of those candles were so beautiful and so moving. Love your videos.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so happy you enjoy them!

  • @sf2studios
    @sf2studios ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will definitely burn more candles this winter. I can see how they can help make a space feel cozy and warm when it's so dark and gray outside. I also need to take your advice about getting outside. My instinct is to stay warm and dry inside but it ultimately affects my mindset - I have a big problem with cabin fever. Thanks from Alaska for all your hygge tips.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, I can see you'll get some use of some tips, Alaska, how cool!

  • @annrubino6252
    @annrubino6252 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your videos feel like a warm blanket and a good book. Lovely that you maintain a healthy interest in nature and history. Thank you for these beautiful moments.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, so happy you enjoy my videos!

  • @jeanwhite2705
    @jeanwhite2705 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello Benita from Nova Scotia , Canada. I so enjoy your videos especially the fall and winter ones. Today we have some sunshine but I love my candles also and use my battery powered ones as well as my beeswax ones. I made my candle drawer after watching a fall video of yours several years ago now. It’s my private stash drawer. Loved your visit to the cemetery.so many in my country think cemeteries are depressing. I think their wonderful and So peaceful. We don’t celebrate All Saints’ Day the same way here. I think your way is wonderful. Thanks so much for the lovely video💞🇨🇦

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so glad you enjoy them! I agree with you, cemeteries are beautiful and I love walking through them!

  • @phoenixjones660
    @phoenixjones660 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Well, winter days would be so much easier if they were as peaceful and cosy as your videos Benita! ❄️ That All Saints vigil was truly special and must help those who take part. I feel you are correct, get outside as much as possible, especially in nature. 🍁Our local churchyard is stuffed with 🐿️, they chase one another and their antics are very funny! The darker days see the slow cooker used on repeat with soups and stews, which both warm the kitchen and fill our home with tempting scents.
    Those sweaters are fabulous, the colour block one very much suits you 🌼 Thank you for bringing a super cosy break to enjoy with my ☕☺️

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww, squirrels are the cutest! 🌰🐿

  • @pucheumaureen1487
    @pucheumaureen1487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Benita. Just to say that you look great wearing a Lilysilk headband. You should do it more often. I also liked the Fisherman knit. I will look more closely at Lilysilk collection and the Fisherman knit.
    Enjoy your cosy minimalistic interior created by candles, during the coming winter months.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I’ve been loving these pieces from them!

  • @nancychestnut8928
    @nancychestnut8928 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Another beautiful video! That trunk was a fantastic score! Typically they get passed down to the next generation. I envy you the wonderful shops and bakeries you visit. The All Saints day acknowledgment was a beautiful tribute. Your videos help to keep me going no matter the subject matter. Thanks.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so happy you enjoyed it!😊

  • @franciscamoreno8996
    @franciscamoreno8996 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How peaceful your videos are, how happy the rain is, I live in the city of the 1992 Olympics, here we don't have so much nature to take those walks in the morning, plus we have had little rain for three years throughout the year and when it does It is to do damage to fields, crops and harvests, now they are already warning us that they will lower the water pressure and that they will have to include purified water from the sea. The tradition of CANDLES in cemeteries is very beautiful.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @melissareid640
    @melissareid640 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very Very Helpful. I struggle with my moods in the winter.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so happy if you found it helpful!

  • @taniatbach6335
    @taniatbach6335 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really enjoy your videos, thank you so much for posting! That antique chest was beautiful, and will be perfect in your summer home. And that All Saints vigil was so special to see.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad to hear you enjoyed it!

  • @dimaisa4590
    @dimaisa4590 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never seen someone impressing the single-life as much as you in ur videos 😊 all the love 💗

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha, I really enjoy single life😄

    • @teresa5007
      @teresa5007 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BenitaLarssonI’m looking forward to enjoying it too, one day! 🌹

  • @lonademoro6877
    @lonademoro6877 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi there from france. Nobody does cozy like the scandanavians and you make it all so lovely. I have been following you for several months now and took time during august to watch all your videos. So much inspiration to be found and i’ve used several of your suggestions for minor home improvements. Excellent! Now, when i need a kickstart, I watch one of your videos and then tell my little french bulldog that we are going to have a Benita’ day. I love your new flat and the view across the courtyards. Beautiful architecture. 😮 many thanks . I’am already looping forward to next time.

  • @donnanancekivell9430
    @donnanancekivell9430 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s always so lovely to see your vlogs Benita, especially this time of year…….I love it when we change over to day lights saving , I’m probably the only person that does ! To me it is just such a cozy time of year and as I’m such a homebody it suites me…..like you I have candles going all the time and enjoy the ambiance it brings to my condo…….that chest is absolutely stunning and I can’t believe what you got it for, I’m a huge fa; of charity shops and auctions….I still have my Moms Hope chest which is cedar lined, it was in pretty bad shape when I got it but I’ve had it refinished and use it to store off season clothes and linens………hope this finds you well and looking forward to the holiday season……..😊Donna In Toronto

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for always watching and all the sweet comments!

  • @Are_We_Having_Tea
    @Are_We_Having_Tea ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loooove my lilysilk comforter! It’s heavier than down, but not as heavy as a weighted blanket, and it doesn’t just rest on top of you like down, but rather hugs you. I have a summer weight and a winter one and I’ve never slept better.
    Now that we are in Solar Winter you really need to make sure you get outside for a little bit each day. Remember there is no bad weather, but rather bad clothing choices. If it rains a lot - waterproof pants jacket and shoes or boots mean you can splash right through puddles! Which is just as fun for an adult as it is for a child! If you live in the US, the REI “garage sale” is a great place to get gently used, returned gear at a great price.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s a great tip, thank you!

  • @grammarnazi12
    @grammarnazi12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your Miffy lamp! Such an unexpected but cute decor piece in a very minimalistic home.

  • @aprillr2158
    @aprillr2158 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Living in this climate is a challenge. If you embrace the beauty as you have you find the peace in it. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @Susan-nm3sx
    @Susan-nm3sx ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Benita, I sometimes wonder how you are doing? Christmas time and winter always make me a little melancholy I feel, but honestly, seeing the cemetery all lit up, busy and full of people just remembering, warmed my heart. Very special. Love to you and bonus. Suze 🕊️🤍✨🇬🇧

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The woodland cemetery is a very special place!

  • @AJ-jl5eo
    @AJ-jl5eo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oohhh my word - that CHEST!!!🥰🥰🥰

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's pretty stunning! And SO heavy!😅

    • @AJ-jl5eo
      @AJ-jl5eo ปีที่แล้ว

      I was just having visions of you dragging it onto the the bus to take to your summer house🤣 Thank goodness your son & girlfriend has a car!@@BenitaLarsson

  • @tiffany5064
    @tiffany5064 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Moro no Brasil, mas não gosto muito do verão. Amo o outono e inverno. Acabei de retornar das minhas férias na Europa e amei o clima de outono, dias chuvosos,frio …. Tenho uma energia incrível nessas estações. Sinto uma alegria tão grande! 🤩

  • @docentofdeLight
    @docentofdeLight ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As long as Bonus gets his brushing, all is right with the world…at least that’s my opinion 😊

  • @jackiepenner-lourdes3374
    @jackiepenner-lourdes3374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the cemetery scene. I wish I lived closer to my mom and dad's grave. I would visit often.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      The woodland cemetery is stunning!

  • @dusty1754
    @dusty1754 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your sweet cat is so precious. Lilysilk looks great on you!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's my main man 😊🐈‍⬛ And thank you!

    • @teresa5007
      @teresa5007 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BenitaLarsson🐈❤️

  • @opodobed
    @opodobed ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've got inspired by your cozy videos, so I've got a city bike and took all my pillows for a refreshment service and then bought some new pillowcases with a gift certificate I've got on my birthday in june 😅
    I love running errands really.
    And i live near park too, walks help me to stay sane really!
    The other day I've decided to take a challenge and put my dumbbells into a backpack and barely made it back home i was so tired.
    I work a corp job, thanks to management i only have to be twice a week at the office. There is another lovely park ther and i alway walk around during lunch break and when weather is nice i eat lunch outside too.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky you to be able to work from home part of the week!

  • @berlinorama
    @berlinorama ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just came in from walking my dog in the dark, gloomy and rainy Berlin afternoon and this was a good reminder to light some candles!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay for a nice return home with doggie and candle light!

  • @reginaldloggins3618
    @reginaldloggins3618 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so very sorry to hear about your mom. Condolences. I love your thrift shop finds, and can’t wait to see what you do with them.

  • @olgaminina
    @olgaminina ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The cat has a beautiful apartment😂🩵🤌

  • @annechappee8825
    @annechappee8825 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where was this when I arrived in Finland in October 1985?:I got quite depressed, being from Texas and 6 months pregnant! No internet back then. I just cried myself through it. 😊

  • @suada3852
    @suada3852 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Benita,
    Thank you for this beautiful video. Although I am originally from a hot country, I love autumn and winter, it's my favourite seasons, there is something magical about it, not to forget, lighting candles, getting cosy, wearing wool and cashmere, making stews, baking, just being happy with family and friends as the holidays come. So yeah, just beautiful 😍 😊

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for watching it!

  • @Gaylafay
    @Gaylafay ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ooh! That headband looks so cute on you! I love it!

  • @terryleemurphy7727
    @terryleemurphy7727 ปีที่แล้ว

    The woodland cemetery was so beautiful I have never seen anything like it. All the lights for All Saints was spectacular.... what a wonderful tradition

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the most stunning place, a Unesco World Heritage site for a reason!

  • @manzar42
    @manzar42 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    stockholm is so beautiful in winter, i love yellowing trees, you are a lucky lady!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do feel lucky to live here!

  • @degunver7672
    @degunver7672 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved ❤the headband on you 🤩 so cute 🥰
    Thank you for a wonderful 15:30 escape. The music, scenery, and narrative are absolutely perfect.
    I’m always calmer and inspired after watching.
    🍃 🍁 🍂 🕯️

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so happy if my videos are calming!

  • @Woeschhuesli
    @Woeschhuesli ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always love your footage of Skansen, I hope I will be able to visit some day. I actually live pretty much like your footage in our little old washhouse with antiques inherited from my grandmother and in-laws, so it's the opposite of you - we go to a modern minimalist café or restaurant sometimes for the contrast!!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Contrast is great! I love that you do that!

  • @cathybaird7207
    @cathybaird7207 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Benita, you are an inspiration. If I am ever fortunate enough to visit outside the U.S., Sweden will be my destination.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sweden and Stockholm is definitely worth a visit!

  • @chromegirl2175
    @chromegirl2175 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this time of the year, especially cold, rainy days. The scenery is so beautiful in this video!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so happy to know you enjoyed it!

  • @iahorvath
    @iahorvath ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I live in Canada and the darkness starts early here too in winter. Your tips are well received and I will definitely take a few of them. Wonderful looking chest! It looks beautiful and the price was amazing considering it was hand painted. The musty smell can be removed by giving the inside one coat of varnish.

  • @Karincl7
    @Karincl7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love all saints day, my parents and a lot of my relatives have past away some time ago and that s their day with flowers and a candle, beautiful tradition

  • @smila351
    @smila351 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Benita, thank you for inspiration❤
    this year I really enjoy the fall, no matter what the weather outside

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yay, tat's the right attitude!

  • @eileennoel5672
    @eileennoel5672 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One of your most beautiful videos.

  • @dianadriverasbury9130
    @dianadriverasbury9130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the darkness of winter.

  • @jackiepenner-lourdes3374
    @jackiepenner-lourdes3374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That chest you bought for $20..what a steal!

  • @AlysVanS
    @AlysVanS ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A beautiful video and very poignant seeing the tradition there is a the cemetery - a lovely way to remember those who have passed on. Thank you so much for your ideas and positivity 🥀🌻

  • @22jo222
    @22jo222 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Benita, you’re always so inspiring! It’s interesting the idea of ‘bad’ weather, I don’t think they use this in every language ? I love all the seasons (although spring is my favourite) and it’s definitely not depressing if you’re outside a lot and properly clothed. Bisous, as they say here in France .

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We have a saying that rhymes that there is no such thing as bad weather only bad clothes😅

  • @juliebrown3720
    @juliebrown3720 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Actually I don’t mind the Dark Nights. I love my candles have Wax and Battery Faux Wax Candles. Love the Shops Cake Cheese etc looks fabulous. 🌸

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Embracing the dark is the way to go for sure!

  • @jan-ss1br
    @jan-ss1br ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love your Miffy lamp 😊❤️

  • @daniellekorneliussen4244
    @daniellekorneliussen4244 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a transplant from America to Norway, I really get a kick out of hearing you say things like: “I’m going to get me some…” or “Bob’s your uncle”! I find this so charming - just as I do all your delightful videos!❤️

  • @KAZEBi91
    @KAZEBi91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful Impression of swedish November. Very emotional. I like it a lot.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @jennyfulcher8035
    @jennyfulcher8035 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    While we don't have the long dark season of Sweden it can be gloomy and gray in the Pacific NW/Seattle, WA USA. You provided some wonderful tips to survive the winter months. I learned a new word--"Mys"--too, as well as enjoyed your walks, local shops, and eateries. Have a Mys Day! (I hope that's a proper way to say it). Jenny

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish you a MYSIG day too!

    • @jennyfulcher8035
      @jennyfulcher8035 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BenitaLarsson Thank you. I'll add "Mysig" too. 🐦🍁🍂

  • @laurahart2250
    @laurahart2250 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am I the only person in the world who watches your videos twice in a row because they are so beautiful and relaxing? And that's despite the days lengthening and the heat building for me here in the Southern Hemisphere...

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww, that's so sweet, thank you!

  • @DCupcake58
    @DCupcake58 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A beautiful video. I actually don’t mind this season and enjoy the coziness of it. Since it gets dark earlier it’s a reminder to me to slow down and enjoy crocheting, quilting and needlepoint. We have a dog so walks are twice daily regardless of the weather. But I make a point during the walks to pay attention to the beauty of trees and birds in our suburban neighborhood. The weather in NE Ohio has been mild so it’s not unusual to start the day in winter gear but by afternoon a sweatshirt is even too warm in the sunshine.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you enjoyed it! Doggies are great for getting you out of the house, rain or shine!

  • @sheilahenderson5973
    @sheilahenderson5973 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you. I so enjoy your videos sitting with a cup of tea, always perfect timing for that ☕ 👍 🇬🇧

  • @michazieba
    @michazieba ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your "travel" vlogs are beautiful and therapeutic - thank you.

  • @katharineamin6066
    @katharineamin6066 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoyed this video! It was so relaxing, with my favourite things about Sweden- cinnamon rolls, cheeses. little shops etc. The antique chest is gorgeous too. Thanks so much !

  • @klarab84
    @klarab84 ปีที่แล้ว

    Åh, dina videor denna höst har verkligen hjälpt mig att omfamna hösten och försöka skapa mys och på ett sätt "leva med" mörkret, regnet och kylan istället för att "kämpa emot". Tack för alla idéer, inspiration och allt mys som dina videor ger!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Vad kul att du blivit inspirerad!

  • @lindal3966
    @lindal3966 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A most beautiful video, thank you! I have always embraced each season wholeheartedly. To me, there is a joy in every day, from the dank autumnal to the sweltering summer ones plus everything in between! Much love to you and your beautiful cat x

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel very lucky to have four distinct seasons!

  • @kate-mg8or
    @kate-mg8or ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh....Benita, the trunk for your summer house is GORGEOUS!

  • @boostersonenergievitale
    @boostersonenergievitale ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The cemetery was crazy beautiful!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s the most stunning place!

  • @saralongman179
    @saralongman179 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    15:02 I so love watching your relaxing, peaceful and inspiring vlogs, thank you so much for sharing your life in Sweden, I visited a loved travelling from Gothenburg to Malmo and Stockholm in the late 1960’s which is many many years ago but I still have happy memories.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sweden is worth a second visit😉

  • @alisonsneed3707
    @alisonsneed3707 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you celebrate All Saints with all those candles and plants is LOVELY!

  • @elizabethermenyi6478
    @elizabethermenyi6478 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Benita, thank you for another beautiful video, I’m so glad I found your channel!
    I’ve been to Stockholm a few times, first time in November 1984. Loved the weather and the Swedish lifestyle. I have close relatives there who immigrated in the 1970s from our native Hungary. I ended up living in the US, in Los Angeles, for decades, but always wanted to go back to Sweden and every time I did, I felt home. Just recently found out from a DNA test that my family on my mother’s side is originally from Scandinavia - no wonder I feel a strong connection 😊.
    Please, continue with your videos, I enjoy every one of them!
    Have a wonderful autumn 🍂! 🤗
    Love, Elizabeth

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So interesting! I feel the same way about Finland where I was born. Every time I go I feel right at home despite the fact that I was four when I moved away!

    • @elizabethermenyi6478
      @elizabethermenyi6478 ปีที่แล้ว

      We can’t fool our roots and our genes, I guess, no matter where we end up living 😊

    • @teresa5007
      @teresa5007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand both of you. I grew up in Sydney, Australia but I was born in a little village south of the Hungarian border. To this day, I am always thinking of my Hungarian childhood and the community life in my old village. I just can’t forget it! ❤️

  • @veronikavydarena1965
    @veronikavydarena1965 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Zdravím z Česka :-) Nedokáži být tak ukázněná v minimalismu, ale ten váš obdivuji a moc se mi líbí. Hezké dny přeji

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Have a nice day, you too!

  • @wephotogal
    @wephotogal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cozy soft lighting, pastry and Bonus sounds like a dream. Thank you for sharing.

  • @MyAndromedanCheese
    @MyAndromedanCheese ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve never seen All Saint’s Day in Sweden. How beautiful! Thank you for showing us. I live in the US and I’ve seen some lights placed on graves in November and wondered which culture it came from (we have so many here). I also heard that oh so slight waver in your voice about your mom. So human. I’m so sorry for your loss. How loved she was and is!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      The woodland cemetery is such a beautiful place! Especially this time of year!

  • @rosettagrey2851
    @rosettagrey2851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would also love to embrace the season in Stockholm, it's a lot more scenic and welcoming than were I am 😂 This was charming and cosy, thank you for sharing with us. The chest is a beauty, it'll look perfect in the summer house. x

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I'm sure there's beauty to find where you are too, just look for it in unexpected places!

  • @judithmelanson2460
    @judithmelanson2460 ปีที่แล้ว

    The lights in the cemetery were so beautiful and peaceful!
    Thank you!

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a stunning thing to see in person!

  • @carpediemsrce
    @carpediemsrce ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew up in Canada, lived in Moscow for the past 5 years (but moved back to Serbia where I am originally from, where there is more sunshine haha), and I also used to take daily walks outside even during the dreary winter months. In Moscow there are a lot of great parks and I would sometimes spend hours there even in -20 weather. All you need is good clothing! It really helped a lot. But I also had to start taking vitamin d, which helped with mood too.
    I love having as much light as possible in my room.
    I love watching your videos, I have been trying to declutter my space and it has been better. My mother always buys me many things and I had to learn to say no, it is very overwhelming at times.😅
    I am too chatty.😶 Thanks for the videos!

  • @EvaSolveig
    @EvaSolveig ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I understand totally about the dark and the cold it is the same here in Iceland. So I also try to have it mysigt😊 Love the chest you bought, what a beauty ❤ thank for this as usual lovely video ❤

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for watching again!

  • @nazishatif976
    @nazishatif976 ปีที่แล้ว

    You remind me those days when I was in Sweden. I am missing Rain drops and fresh air of those calm streets in forests. There was something which I missed a lot and will always

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      A walk in the rain with fresh air👌🏻

  • @darlenechandler2403
    @darlenechandler2403 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another wonderful video. I too embrace the darkness and cool weather and do walk daily, light candles still on my balcony, as I can see them from my sofa and gives me calmness. I also at times put the fireplace channel on my tv, so reminds me of my former fireplaces in my homes, that I don’t have now. I also bought myself white roses. I have to cover my garden furniture soon, but hesitate, because still like having the candles at nigh tout there and when I do cover, I know it will be the closure of that space. What a lovely day out for us at the Museum and the shops and your purchases; and the flowers and pastry. I really loved that chest you bought. Loved the colour for your summer home. I wish we had charity shops here, you certainly have some nice things for you to purchase for your summer home. Love when you take us out on your daily routine, even to the food and bakery shops. Thank you.

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for watching again!

  • @elena_a-2023
    @elena_a-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful video. I love your message of embracing what is in front of us; in this case, the dark months which are also beautiful in their own way. I also love how we can find peace and beauty in all things. Nature is the force of it all…

  • @irishussong8197
    @irishussong8197 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Benita! Another lovely cozy and joy bringing video with lots of inspiration, as I suffer quite a lot from the pouring rain here in southwest Germany. Impossible to move for more than six weeks after a broken ankle, I now recover and start to go back to similar rituals as yours . I really enjoyed your visit at Skansen, it’s so beautiful there! And so lovely to see you with sweet Bonus😻a cat can help so much to feel cozy at home♥️I wish you a good week and I am quite intrigued what new ideas you will have for your summer 🏠, lots of love from Iris from southwest Germany

    • @BenitaLarsson
      @BenitaLarsson  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish you the speediest recovery so you can start to enjoy the outdoors again!

    • @irishussong8197
      @irishussong8197 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BenitaLarsson thank you so much!😍😘