The book that you and your wife authored together has more info than people think. This book has historical, spiritual, relational, motivational content. This book is deep.
I’ve been following Tony for approximately a year & I just started dating again. I actually enjoy dating now & I constantly get told that my thinking is “different.” 🤷🏽♀️ After listening to Tony, men barely make it past a few weeks before I cut them off. Like he mentioned in this video, with the legs remaining closed I have no attachments to these men & move on to one man closer to “the one.”✌🏽
I started watching Tony after getting out of a relationship. Not ready to date yet, but excited to see how different I will be. My mindset has completely shifted and I feel more prepared to meet someone that is meant for me :)
Yeah he is a cutie. He looks just like Tony; but with curly hair. Lol. 😁They have the same smile, and look. Tony's little twin. Lol. 🤣😂🤗. Thanks for sharing, and thanks for sharing all your messages. God bless you Tony, and your family.🤗🤗🤗
I am a 22 year old male, and I remember a few years back I was so happy to get into my adult years, but then I realized there are a lot of grown ass kids out there. People who cannot articulate themselves in a self controlled manner. Point is ladies, finding a good man is hard and this is coming from a straight dude, and I can't even be around half of them so I can only imagine what ya'll are going through, good video Tony!
@@Demigod8ether That's subjective, also not every man believes in religion. And despite what Tony teaches, reality is, not every good man is religious. And all of the good men are focusing on their passion and trying to find themselves. So you will be waiting forever, that's the reality, especially nowadays where religion is becoming less practiced.
@@Demigod8ether Everything you are saying is what you believe, there are definitely just as many good men out there who aren't religious but is spirtual, met many myself. But, everyone has their own way of thinking, much love queen!
No matter how much this man puts up his disclaimers and says "I've made these mistakes," "I wasn't always a good man," "I used to be a dog, that's why I know," "I see it all the time, that's why I can tell you," people STILL keep trying to discredit this man. Listen, I know it can be difficult to hear the truth when you're not in a space to be truthful with yourself, but the knowledge that this man is dropping is SAVING LIVES. So if your insecurity and your blissful ignorance keeps you in a space that doesn't allow you to receive truth, that's you and God's business, but give yourself a fair chance and pray before you watch these videos and ask God to allow you to receive the messages that are for you. You're blocking your blessings by being combative and ignorant. "Get somewhere and set down"
AMEN SIS! PREACH I'M 29 AND WAS ABOUT 5 SECONDS FROM TROLLING ANY WOMAN THAT WAS COMING FOR TONY! TRUTH HURTS AND HE RIGHT, PERIOD! but after reading your comment I calmed down, cause you just said it all, and they do need to go sit down somewhere. That's why this family is blessed beyond measures. It seems like in today's time you can't tell a person shit without it being a problem. Hurt my feelings with the truth so i know where to heal and fix MY life. Tony helping me understand my fiance and giving me insight on how to help heal him as a woman. Keep spreading the word Tony 😔.
This is actually great information that Tony Gaskins, give. I trust and believe the advice that he gives wether people want to or not. He's doing something he doesn't have to do, stepping in the place of illicit men who made children, yet still walked away or afraid to say anything cause they don't want to be found out, cause they may lose what they have.
What you're saying in this video is so true, Tony. My BF (soon to be fiance) was a grown boy when we met. We butted heads for months over things I wanted him to change. He wanted to make the changes too but he was stubborn and wanted to have his cake and eat it too, which caused a lot of pain for both of us. Finally, I got tired of putting in the effort and having the same conversations over and over again, so I backed off. I continued to love him from a distance and pray for him and for us but I knew that the work to salvage our relationship would have to come from him. The distance did wonders for him because it allowed him time to reflect and to grow and to begin his own relationship with God. Now he prays daily, with me and on his own. He respects me and doesn't argue with me over petty things. He's a completely different person now, so full of joy and he can now see how he was destructive in the relationship. And I can honestly say that he's becoming the man that I deserve and the man that I've always wanted. But it wasn't until I backed off and let him have the alone time with God that he needed, that he was able to change. And now, he's changing so rapidly that it's really amazing to see God working in his life. And I agree that the person has to want to change, like my BF. You cannot plant that desire in their heart or do the work for them. He wanted to change, he wanted a healthy, loving relationship with me, but he was just too stubborn and prideful to change whenever I'd hold him accountable. But once he knew I was tired of being the only one trying, he made the choice to grow. It's a beautiful thing to watch.
I am doing this right now. I am not talking to my man for minimum of 30 days. Like you I am tired of making all the effort. I have been praying for him and I will continue to. He has a lot of communication problems. He is still not over his ex girlfriend of 6 years.
MAN SO MANY RED FLAGS WE JUST IGNORE IT ALL BECAUSE WE THINK ONE DAY HE'S GONNA CHANGE AND WE LITERALLY WASTE OUR ON TIME. I HAD TO STOP SLEEPING ON MYSELF. WISHING HE WOULD TREAT ME RIGHT BUT I WASN'T TREATING MYSELF RIGHT. SO I HAD TO PICK A SIDE AND STAY THERE. I CHOSE ME. A GROWNBOY WILL CHANGE WHEN HE'S READY. BEING A GOOD PERSON WON'T CHANGE HIM. I HAD TO LEARN THAT THE HARD WAY. THANK TOU TONY FOR YOUR WISDOM. YOU HAVE INFLUENCED MY LIFE IN A MAJOR WAY THESE PAST MONTHS. YOU MADE IT MAKE SENSE. THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME THE WAY. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Oh hey Tony, all BS aside, thank you for teaching us all about soul ties. If it wasn't for you I still wouldn't know what I was going through earlier this year for the whole dang month of February. I was sick literally all month and kind of got worried because it came out of nowhere, but then after a month I was fine so I just kept it pushing. Him and I last slept together in the very beginning of January, February I was suddenly sick, then in April I found out my ex got married on April 4th. I saw on his Facebook that they pretty much got engaged in February so it made perfect sense that I wasn't sick myself, just breaking the soul tie. Thank God!! And I have felt better ever since. I didn't even realize just how not myself I've been for YEARS. I forgot about this happy, fun loving woman I am, and now stronger and wiser. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you for teaching me about what happened so I don't have to live in fear thinking something is wrong with me.
Amen Brother Tony. Your so right in everything u said. A man will only change if he wants to change. And like u said it doesn't take years. If he loves a woman enough he will change right away. In my last relationship there were things I needed to change. Though it failed I still made changes. Heck even after the relationship I'm making changes. And u have a great wife that held u accountable. A vreat God fearing woman will do that. And it's up to the man to prove his worth and sincerity. But no woman should settle for 5/10 with a man on things that matter to her. Like settling on his beliefs. If he doesn't believe in God that's a huge red flag. That's a sign for EXIT NOW. In all honesty a man should not want to change just for a woman. We as men should change for God before meeting a woman. But a woman has a special influence on a man. And we can see God through a God fearing woman and change. Lastly thank u Brother Tony for being truthful and honest with your experiences and early beginnings with your wife. Who am I or anyone to judge. Plus u made the right changes and are a living example of change. If anything we ALL have skeletons in ar closet. Some just keep theirs more hidden than others. So thank u for being brutally honest in trying to share your life to help us. God bless u Brother Tony. Thank u!🙏
Excellent Post Jamie Levinsky. I'm so glad as your ex I was able to introduce you to him , Stephen Darby , Kevin Samuels and more . You would also like Myles Monroe . Tony Gaskins videos are a gem especially his one about social media and even domestic violence. Amazing the changes Tony Gaskins made at 23 to be able to be faithful to his wife and allow her to see his phone , not even lusting after Beyonce lol. wouldn't it be nice if some men like yourself Jamie could change at 23, 33, 43 even delete social media or purse higher career growth. God bless. From your ex Wendi 😊. Great content and I CONTINUE TO MAKE CHANGES TOO
I had an experience with a guy I dated who was eager and willing to “change” habits just for me. I did not like that. I felt I can not be the only reason you will change these things. It did not feel right or healthy to me. A man has to have a higher purpose that will also call him to change. I felt if it was just for me he will eventually resent me or bait me into long term and then switch back up. This comment is just for the women who get a thrill or high off getting a man that will “change for them”.
Thank you so much Tony. We as women must get that out of our minds about changing a man. If we have the power to change people then we wouldn't need the Holyspirit to change and help us in our daily lives. I spent 13 years trying to change a man, it never happened. He left me brokenhearted and hurt to the core to be with the next best thing. I've learned from that experience not to ever put myself through that pain again.
@@buzzingbee9499 We spent all these years with someone who wasn't for us and placed our lives on a path that wasn't in the Lord's plan. It was a life lesson for me and I don't want to find myself back in that situation again and I pray the same for you...
@@buzzingbee9499 The downside is that hurts like hec but the upside is that when you keep looking to God he will strengthen you and move you into a whole new direction. Keep your eyes on the prize and continuing pressing toward the mark. God Bless you and remember, What's to come is better than what's been.
AMEN sis...lm working on ME...which is something that requires my daily attention...l watch how l talk, act, listen and the INPUT l allow in my life...l pray God gives me guidance in everything l do...smile
I never cry on your u tube videos, but I cried on this one. Because I’ve been in fornication, and yes, I don’t feel good doing it. For the longest. I hope I can change my ways, I don’t want to live in sin like this. Keep up the good work! You’re reaching many.
Thanks Tony!!! You are a great life coach. I have learned so much. And guess what? I published my book last month and started a TH-cam channel. Thanks living in your purpose. You are impacting a lot of lives. I love the new office. Nice Branding 😊
Doing some daily bible reading and I wanted to share these scripture with you all. Ephesians 4:14-15 says "So we should no longer be children, tossed about as by waves and carried here and there by every wind of teaching by means of the trickery of men, by means of cunning in deceptive schemes. But speaking the truth, let us by love grow up in all things into him, who is the head Christ." I just thought this was such a beautiful and encouraging passage from Gods word, because like Tony, many of us started as naive children, being tossed here and there either living in sin or not even realizing the mistakes we were making. But A healthy fear for God means we really care how God feels about the way we live our lives, because God does have feelings, therefore we have to make changes. We grow up in ALL things, we start living for God, keeping ourself morally and spiritually clean. Trust me you avoid so much craziness just doing it his way. With Christ as our head, we can be built up in love, ready for any test that comes our way.
listen!!! 🗣 im tryna see can we get tony a humanitarian award, nobel peace prize because these talks deserve a award!! The lord is with tony gaskins!! period! it dont even make sense how good these talks be man!
Only God can change him. He has to accept God and ask for his help to help change him. You never want to be led by a man that isn't led by God. But yes, you CANNOT change a man. He has to 1st want to change for himself and then let God take the wheel.
"I knew I was living beneath my potential.." Yes! I can pick out any video no matter the topic and take something from it - even if it´s one sentence- and apply it to some part of my life. Very grateful for this channel, thank you!
When his son came in & he gave him that forehead kiss, I melted! This love right here is what is missing, y'all! We need this for our sons, so that they can grow up & not "feel right" when they are loving women wrong. Noone is perfect. We don't need perfection, in our families. We need fathers to stop teaching their sons that they have to be so tough & play with trucks all the time, stop teaching them to have 3 & 4 girlfriends at a time and teach them to pick up a book and read! Put that cellphone and tablet done! Turn that unbecoming rap noise off, because it is not music! We need this, so when the boys grow up and turn into the legal age of being a man & they start living wrong & mistreating women, they will turn around & start living right. We need this, so the men will know how to gently love & kiss their women's head, out of love, & not beat her head & heart in, out of the hurt they have endured by their fathers. We need this, in order to break these generational curses. We need this, for the survival of our families. We need to really comprehend & understand (two different meanings) that God really & absolutely WILL NOT "bless no mess". Satan blesses his, until he gets them where he wants them, & then he drops them face down on the ground & then crushes them into the ground (their grave...physically, emotionally, mentally and/or financially). Satan is not faithful to his servants; however, God is faithful to his! How doo I know? It's because I'm living proof! That song, that goes a little something like this.... "I should have been dead & sleep in my grave", that's me, but I'm not dead! "Still, I rise!"
👊💯 I’ve been with a grown boy for a year and 4 months due to “man and his social media,” I walked away “closure” - I prayed for him and surrender him to God.
I’m sure God is telling you about what just occurred in my life. I had to make this decision earlier of letting a man go who refused to help himself. This video is only confirmation that me going with my gut instinct was the right decision.
I saw somewhere where a person tweeted they want the responsibility of an Adult but the accountability of a child. Some woman say they want a grown man but that comes with responsibility and accountability some don’t want to take. So the grown boy is fun. He’s easily impressed and strokes your ego a little but pain in the end. I also say that if you can change him and he can change you. You can’t make people do things they don’t want to do no matter how good it may be for them. They have to really want.
Okay Tribe, who watched again to see the 'wonderful Father/Son dynamic"!!!!! Pure Joy TG!!! Ladies, a man that does not believe in GOD.....got to go, put on your track shoes.
Unless a man wants to change his mind, heart, soul, & spirit on his own, EVERYTHING you try to do to change/impress him is a waste of time! Your son is so precious! God bless you & your family brother Tony.
You making sense now that I look back over my life I see all of what your talking about . I use to wonder why all the time but I’m a Christian and didn’t do what others do that’s why I was overlooked 😩. I’ve always been afraid of what God would think of me so I was the nerd in the crowd. But I thank God b/c most of the ppl I grew up with they kids living there life now . God I Thank You for loving me .
@@tiffanydiggs7625 yup!! Today i heard something that is part of my deliverance from lack of self love / self esteem. Because the Lord said that I was fearfully and wonderfully made.(psalm 119:14) But by not believing so, I am disobeying the Word😳. Time to bath in the Word in order to heal for real🙏🏾
Boaah... Tony you be having me bussin' up! 😂 I Dont even know how I happened upon you but Ive been tuning in for Laffs/TRUTH before bed for 2mos. ***BLESSINGS to ya Big Bruther!💛💛
Thank you so much still working on getting right with God .Started reading the Bible on July 12 Proverb 18 about to be in Lamentations Tomorrow morning. Staying on the path .
Your channel is really incredible Tony. It seems like the main problem is the lack of quality men. Ladies... I’d like to say, I found a quality God fearing man. This is the only hope in my humble opinion. Wishing all of you tons of ❤️ in your lives.
Your office is looking fabulous, congratulations 👏🏼👏🏼🎉 Mr. Gaskins omg sometimes you really have me laughing, cause it’s like you’re speaking directly to me😬🥺thank you GOD for pouring into Mr Gaskins and that you sir are filling your purpose🙏🏼 be blessed upon blessed THANK YOU
Whatever time I get the video, I get it. I'm thankful for it, and if none on a particular day, then that also is ok..I'll just go re-watch the others. Be blessed
Ohhhh... Wellllll... I know when i met my kids' dad, One of the elders in the church told me that if i continued with the relationship i would stunt his growth in the Lord. My response was "you and your wife got 2gether b4 you were saved, right?" Well, long story short... HE WAS RIGHT! Lol. I'll never 4get that day and his words of wisdom. If only i knew then what i know now. Im as single as they come recovering from a broken heart. You're preaching the right thing. I am a witness. God bless! 🙏
Tony the new wall looks amazing! Tell Sheri she did that! Also, your son is adorable looks like a perfect mix of you and his mom. Looks so much like you with her smile! Blessings to you guys.
The book that you and your wife authored together has more info than people think. This book has historical, spiritual, relational, motivational content. This book is deep.
which book?
@@BevBelove I'm guessing she is talking about "A Woman's Influence".
BEVERLINE BARON “A Woman’s Influence”
For a Man to Change:
-He has to desire it
-Respect the woman he's with
-Fear God
-Have a purpose bigger than himself
Spoken like a true God fearing woman. Amen!
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True Facts
Amen 👏🏽👏🏽
"You can't change a man that don't believe in God......You can't change a man that does not believe what he is doing is out of line." TG
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Velvet Simmons
Tony tells the truth!
Shameful how many men have turned their hearts away from our Creator. There's wisdom in the good book and the beginning of wisdom is to fear the Lord.
I’ve been following Tony for approximately a year & I just started dating again. I actually enjoy dating now & I constantly get told that my thinking is “different.” 🤷🏽♀️ After listening to Tony, men barely make it past a few weeks before I cut them off. Like he mentioned in this video, with the legs remaining closed I have no attachments to these men & move on to one man closer to “the one.”✌🏽
Love your attitude!
I started watching Tony after getting out of a relationship. Not ready to date yet, but excited to see how different I will be. My mindset has completely shifted and I feel more prepared to meet someone that is meant for me :)
Facts sis facts
AMEN!
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Saw Tony's son in the still and clicked immediately! He's too cute!
Sameeeee!
Me too! He looked super adorable. And like a combo of his parents. He definitely has his dad’s smile ☺️.
lol..girl we all did..so precious.
Yeah he is a cutie. He looks just like Tony; but with curly hair. Lol. 😁They have the same smile, and look. Tony's little twin. Lol. 🤣😂🤗. Thanks for sharing, and thanks for sharing all your messages. God bless you Tony, and your family.🤗🤗🤗
C.G.graygray and he’s born close to Tony’s bday too...he’s literally raising himself 😄
I am a 22 year old male, and I remember a few years back I was so happy to get into my adult years, but then I realized there are a lot of grown ass kids out there. People who cannot articulate themselves in a self controlled manner. Point is ladies, finding a good man is hard and this is coming from a straight dude, and I can't even be around half of them so I can only imagine what ya'll are going through, good video Tony!
Great advice sir.
Telling it like it is bro.Keep on being REAL.
Yaas, Dave Ramsey! I'm paying off debt for me, but hoping to find a like minded mate someday.
@@Demigod8ether That's subjective, also not every man believes in religion. And despite what Tony teaches, reality is, not every good man is religious. And all of the good men are focusing on their passion and trying to find themselves. So you will be waiting forever, that's the reality, especially nowadays where religion is becoming less practiced.
@@Demigod8ether Everything you are saying is what you believe, there are definitely just as many good men out there who aren't religious but is spirtual, met many myself. But, everyone has their own way of thinking, much love queen!
"You can't change a man that don't fear God..."
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No matter how much this man puts up his disclaimers and says "I've made these mistakes," "I wasn't always a good man," "I used to be a dog, that's why I know," "I see it all the time, that's why I can tell you," people STILL keep trying to discredit this man. Listen, I know it can be difficult to hear the truth when you're not in a space to be truthful with yourself, but the knowledge that this man is dropping is SAVING LIVES. So if your insecurity and your blissful ignorance keeps you in a space that doesn't allow you to receive truth, that's you and God's business, but give yourself a fair chance and pray before you watch these videos and ask God to allow you to receive the messages that are for you. You're blocking your blessings by being combative and ignorant. "Get somewhere and set down"
AMEN SIS! PREACH I'M 29 AND WAS ABOUT 5 SECONDS FROM TROLLING ANY WOMAN THAT WAS COMING FOR TONY! TRUTH HURTS AND HE RIGHT, PERIOD! but after reading your comment I calmed down, cause you just said it all, and they do need to go sit down somewhere. That's why this family is blessed beyond measures. It seems like in today's time you can't tell a person shit without it being a problem. Hurt my feelings with the truth so i know where to heal and fix MY life. Tony helping me understand my fiance and giving me insight on how to help heal him as a woman. Keep spreading the word Tony 😔.
This is actually great information that Tony Gaskins, give. I trust and believe the advice that he gives wether people want to or not. He's doing something he doesn't have to do, stepping in the place of illicit men who made children, yet still walked away or afraid to say anything cause they don't want to be found out, cause they may lose what they have.
Amen. U couldn't have said this any better!🙏
😄 Yes ma'am. Love it!
@@javon8082 thank you.
🤣🤣 High pitched voice, butt pads, giving yourself a headache. Tony be cracking me up.🤣🤣
Busy Body Handmade I really be cracking up!!! 🤣
Busy Body Handmade I’m dying of laughter... but he’s speaking nothing but the truth
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🤣🤣🤣 I look forward to hearing his funny comments
What you're saying in this video is so true, Tony. My BF (soon to be fiance) was a grown boy when we met. We butted heads for months over things I wanted him to change. He wanted to make the changes too but he was stubborn and wanted to have his cake and eat it too, which caused a lot of pain for both of us. Finally, I got tired of putting in the effort and having the same conversations over and over again, so I backed off. I continued to love him from a distance and pray for him and for us but I knew that the work to salvage our relationship would have to come from him. The distance did wonders for him because it allowed him time to reflect and to grow and to begin his own relationship with God. Now he prays daily, with me and on his own. He respects me and doesn't argue with me over petty things. He's a completely different person now, so full of joy and he can now see how he was destructive in the relationship. And I can honestly say that he's becoming the man that I deserve and the man that I've always wanted. But it wasn't until I backed off and let him have the alone time with God that he needed, that he was able to change. And now, he's changing so rapidly that it's really amazing to see God working in his life. And I agree that the person has to want to change, like my BF. You cannot plant that desire in their heart or do the work for them. He wanted to change, he wanted a healthy, loving relationship with me, but he was just too stubborn and prideful to change whenever I'd hold him accountable. But once he knew I was tired of being the only one trying, he made the choice to grow. It's a beautiful thing to watch.
I am doing this right now. I am not talking to my man for minimum of 30 days. Like you I am tired of making all the effort. I have been praying for him and I will continue to. He has a lot of communication problems. He is still not over his ex girlfriend of 6 years.
MAN SO MANY RED FLAGS WE JUST IGNORE IT ALL BECAUSE WE THINK ONE DAY HE'S GONNA CHANGE AND WE LITERALLY WASTE OUR ON TIME. I HAD TO STOP SLEEPING ON MYSELF. WISHING HE WOULD TREAT ME RIGHT BUT I WASN'T TREATING MYSELF RIGHT. SO I HAD TO PICK A SIDE AND STAY THERE. I CHOSE ME. A GROWNBOY WILL CHANGE WHEN HE'S READY. BEING A GOOD PERSON WON'T CHANGE HIM. I HAD TO LEARN THAT THE HARD WAY. THANK TOU TONY FOR YOUR WISDOM. YOU HAVE INFLUENCED MY LIFE IN A MAJOR WAY THESE PAST MONTHS. YOU MADE IT MAKE SENSE. THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME THE WAY. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Yes preach, once time has passed and you realize it it becomes so clear.
Your wife and children are truly blessed.
Oh hey Tony, all BS aside, thank you for teaching us all about soul ties. If it wasn't for you I still wouldn't know what I was going through earlier this year for the whole dang month of February. I was sick literally all month and kind of got worried because it came out of nowhere, but then after a month I was fine so I just kept it pushing. Him and I last slept together in the very beginning of January, February I was suddenly sick, then in April I found out my ex got married on April 4th. I saw on his Facebook that they pretty much got engaged in February so it made perfect sense that I wasn't sick myself, just breaking the soul tie. Thank God!! And I have felt better ever since. I didn't even realize just how not myself I've been for YEARS. I forgot about this happy, fun loving woman I am, and now stronger and wiser. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you for teaching me about what happened so I don't have to live in fear thinking something is wrong with me.
Facts only, they can hold someone bound, but God
Yes. Congratulations 👏
Yay go girl
“Ignorance over intellect” - is the perfect phrase for today’s society, unfortunately 🤦🏾♀️💯 Keep speaking truth Mr. Gaskins!
So true!🙏
Amen Brother Tony. Your so right in everything u said. A man will only change if he wants to change. And like u said it doesn't take years. If he loves a woman enough he will change right away. In my last relationship there were things I needed to change. Though it failed I still made changes. Heck even after the relationship I'm making changes. And u have a great wife that held u accountable. A vreat God fearing woman will do that. And it's up to the man to prove his worth and sincerity.
But no woman should settle for 5/10 with a man on things that matter to her. Like settling on his beliefs. If he doesn't believe in God that's a huge red flag. That's a sign for EXIT NOW. In all honesty a man should not want to change just for a woman. We as men should change for God before meeting a woman. But a woman has a special influence on a man. And we can see God through a God fearing woman and change.
Lastly thank u Brother Tony for being truthful and honest with your experiences and early beginnings with your wife. Who am I or anyone to judge. Plus u made the right changes and are a living example of change. If anything we ALL have skeletons in ar closet. Some just keep theirs more hidden than others. So thank u for being brutally honest in trying to share your life to help us. God bless u Brother Tony. Thank u!🙏
Jamie Levinsky mm
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Amen!
Excellent Post Jamie Levinsky. I'm so glad as your ex I was able to introduce you to him , Stephen Darby , Kevin Samuels and more . You would also like Myles Monroe . Tony Gaskins videos are a gem especially his one about social media and even domestic violence. Amazing the changes Tony Gaskins made at 23 to be able to be faithful to his wife and allow her to see his phone , not even lusting after Beyonce lol. wouldn't it be nice if some men like yourself Jamie could change at 23, 33, 43 even delete social media or purse higher career growth. God bless. From your ex Wendi 😊. Great content and I CONTINUE TO MAKE CHANGES TOO
@Leslie Taylor Thank you😇🙏
“You think you’re gonna convince him to choose Jesus at the cross and you can’t even get him to take a good quality bath.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ruby L 😂😂😂😂😂
WatchAmber Girl, I cracked up SO HARD! 🤣
Whew Chile!
So true !!!
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I had an experience with a guy I dated who was eager and willing to “change” habits just for me. I did not like that. I felt I can not be the only reason you will change these things. It did not feel right or healthy to me. A man has to have a higher purpose that will also call him to change. I felt if it was just for me he will eventually resent me or bait me into long term and then switch back up. This comment is just for the women who get a thrill or high off getting a man that will “change for them”.
Tayden is your twin! He’s adorable
He is indeed
Thank you so much Tony. We as women must get that out of our minds about changing a man. If we have the power to change people then we wouldn't need the Holyspirit to change and help us in our daily lives. I spent 13 years trying to change a man, it never happened. He left me brokenhearted and hurt to the core to be with the next best thing. I've learned from that experience not to ever put myself through that pain again.
15 here with a narcissist
@@buzzingbee9499 We spent all these years with someone who wasn't for us and placed our lives on a path that wasn't in the Lord's plan. It was a life lesson for me and I don't want to find myself back in that situation again and I pray the same for you...
@@alexisalford735 Thank you, it hurts real bad but healing is a process. 2.5 years post discard💞🙏
@@buzzingbee9499 The downside is that hurts like hec but the upside is that when you keep looking to God he will strengthen you and move you into a whole new direction. Keep your eyes on the prize and continuing pressing toward the mark. God Bless you and remember, What's to come is better than what's been.
@@alexisalford735 😭 Thank you, 💜💞💝🙏🙏🙏
Tony you always on point.
Coach Rod my other coach supporting my other coach🥰😍😍
@@Jaztoti lol yes mam. I will always support Tony
Coach Rod and I will always support you both💯❤️
@@Jaztoti thank you I'm so grateful
You are the best relationship coach! Thank you for all of your words of wisdom! Much appreciated!
No matter the title/subject, I’m always learning something. Thanks brother, Tony. God bless you all. 🙏🏽
"It doesn't take a man 5 years to change." Change is instant. It is a decision Amen!
I want one that’s already changed that’s why I’m working on me. If it’s GOD will things will fall in place ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯💯💯💯📌
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AMEN sis...lm working on ME...which is something that requires my daily attention...l watch how l talk, act, listen and the INPUT l allow in my life...l pray God gives me guidance in everything l do...smile
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I never cry on your u tube videos, but I cried on this one. Because I’ve been in fornication, and yes, I don’t feel good doing it. For the longest. I hope I can change my ways, I don’t want to live in sin like this. Keep up the good work! You’re reaching many.
Thanks Tony!!! You are a great life coach. I have learned so much. And guess what? I published my book last month and started a TH-cam channel. Thanks living in your purpose. You are impacting a lot of lives. I love the new office. Nice Branding 😊
He’s definitely your twin.. Handsome young fella
Amen 👏🏾😩 “ our society praises IGNORANCE not INTELLIGENCE. “ Lord 👏🏾😌
Awwww look at the baby. Your son is adorable. Love that Father and Son bond. Lessons and Laughter with Tony Gaskins.
Doing some daily bible reading and I wanted to share these scripture with you all.
Ephesians 4:14-15 says "So we should no longer be children, tossed about as by waves and carried here and there by every wind of teaching by means of the trickery of men, by means of cunning in deceptive schemes. But speaking the truth, let us by love grow up in all things into him, who is the head Christ."
I just thought this was such a beautiful and encouraging passage from Gods word, because like Tony, many of us started as naive children, being tossed here and there either living in sin or not even realizing the mistakes we were making. But A healthy fear for God means we really care how God feels about the way we live our lives, because God does have feelings, therefore we have to make changes. We grow up in ALL things, we start living for God, keeping ourself morally and spiritually clean. Trust me you avoid so much craziness just doing it his way. With Christ as our head, we can be built up in love, ready for any test that comes our way.
Beautifully written words. God bless you.
listen!!! 🗣 im tryna see can we get tony a humanitarian award, nobel peace prize because these talks deserve a award!! The lord is with tony gaskins!! period! it dont even make sense how good these talks be man!
That’s what I’m saying! Like he is amazing!
Tiara Caldwell yes!!!
Only God can change him. He has to accept God and ask for his help to help change him. You never want to be led by a man that isn't led by God. But yes, you CANNOT change a man. He has to 1st want to change for himself and then let God take the wheel.
This is such good teaching I really enjoy listening to him . God is using him in a mighty way
So true! He has to want to change. You can't control no one but yourself.
Tony is so funny. “Signing on the microphone” and “Eating the peach cobbler” will always make me giggle. 😂😂😂
"I knew I was living beneath my potential.." Yes! I can pick out any video no matter the topic and take something from it - even if it´s one sentence- and apply it to some part of my life. Very grateful for this channel, thank you!
This probably was THEEE MOST FUNNIEST VIDEO W/ THE MOST PROFOUND MESSAGE!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Your are send by God to tell people to do the right thing 🙏. God bless you.
When his son came in & he gave him that forehead kiss, I melted! This love right here is what is missing, y'all! We need this for our sons, so that they can grow up & not "feel right" when they are loving women wrong. Noone is perfect. We don't need perfection, in our families. We need fathers to stop teaching their sons that they have to be so tough & play with trucks all the time, stop teaching them to have 3 & 4 girlfriends at a time and teach them to pick up a book and read! Put that cellphone and tablet done! Turn that unbecoming rap noise off, because it is not music! We need this, so when the boys grow up and turn into the legal age of being a man & they start living wrong & mistreating women, they will turn around & start living right. We need this, so the men will know how to gently love & kiss their women's head, out of love, & not beat her head & heart in, out of the hurt they have endured by their fathers. We need this, in order to break these generational curses. We need this, for the survival of our families. We need to really comprehend & understand (two different meanings) that God really & absolutely WILL NOT "bless no mess". Satan blesses his, until he gets them where he wants them, & then he drops them face down on the ground & then crushes them into the ground (their grave...physically, emotionally, mentally and/or financially). Satan is not faithful to his servants; however, God is faithful to his! How doo I know? It's because I'm living proof! That song, that goes a little something like this.... "I should have been dead & sleep in my grave", that's me, but I'm not dead! "Still, I rise!"
Aww He looks just like your wife he smiles just like her
Thank you Tony for another great video
I think me and you are the only women that said Tayden looks like his mother! Lol
👊💯 I’ve been with a grown boy for a year and 4 months due to “man and his social media,” I walked away “closure” - I prayed for him and surrender him to God.
❤️strong woman
Any updates??
Aww! Little man is so adorable
Tony when you said, he gonna have her sangin' on a microphone... & the Michael Jackson he heeeee had me crying!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🎤🎙
I’m sure God is telling you about what just occurred in my life. I had to make this decision earlier of letting a man go who refused to help himself. This video is only confirmation that me going with my gut instinct was the right decision.
Thanks for sharing. God Bless
Sis this was me too ❤️you aren’t alone . It took me 365 days to see it ain’t neva gone change and he was over 30 at the time .
I saw somewhere where a person tweeted they want the responsibility of an Adult but the accountability of a child. Some woman say they want a grown man but that comes with responsibility and accountability some don’t want to take. So the grown boy is fun. He’s easily impressed and strokes your ego a little but pain in the end. I also say that if you can change him and he can change you. You can’t make people do things they don’t want to do no matter how good it may be for them. They have to really want.
Okay Tribe, who watched again to see the 'wonderful Father/Son dynamic"!!!!! Pure Joy TG!!! Ladies, a man that does not believe in GOD.....got to go, put on your track shoes.
Yes. 😆. So adorable
You change for yourself instead of for others.
Tayden in the house lol!
Yup, this society promotes ignorance over intelligence! I promote God...
Moral of the story: You can't change him...but, you can influence him if God says yes.
“A man wanting to change and a woman’s influence go hand in hand” T.G.
Gold!!💯🔥
Tony you be having me in stitches when you be imitating your wife throwing the purse over her shoulder with that extension cord! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The Creator has the power to change man, we have the power to embrace those changes.
That's your twin in the thumbnail ! Be blessed !
Omg right!!
Your son is so cute, the way he said goodnight to you omg so adorable 🤗
Clicked so fast!!! I just know I need this 🙌🏽
Unless a man wants to change his mind, heart, soul, & spirit on his own, EVERYTHING you try to do to change/impress him is a waste of time!
Your son is so precious! God bless you & your family brother Tony.
The "butt pads" took me out!! 🤣🤣🤣
Shanice I’m weak 😂😂😂
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Your son is your twin.😊 Such a little cutie.
You are such a blessing Tony. Anointed, educated, and super funny 😂😂😂!
You making sense now that I look back over my life I see all of what your talking about . I use to wonder why all the time but I’m a Christian and didn’t do what others do that’s why I was overlooked 😩. I’ve always been afraid of what God would think of me so I was the nerd in the crowd. But I thank God b/c most of the ppl I grew up with they kids living there life now . God I Thank You for loving me .
Tony is so real!! Love this and i understand why he loves the Queen so much.
Stay blessed bro🙏🏾
@@tiffanydiggs7625 that's why the Lord keep blessing them. There is life in Jesus, for sure🙏🏾
@@tiffanydiggs7625 yup!! Today i heard something that is part of my deliverance from lack of self love / self esteem. Because the Lord said that I was fearfully and wonderfully made.(psalm 119:14) But by not believing so, I am disobeying the Word😳. Time to bath in the Word in order to heal for real🙏🏾
You cant change a man period
Boaah...
Tony you be having me bussin' up! 😂
I Dont even know how I happened upon you but Ive been tuning in for Laffs/TRUTH before bed for 2mos.
***BLESSINGS to ya Big Bruther!💛💛
Thank you so much still working on getting right with God .Started reading the Bible on July 12 Proverb 18 about to be in Lamentations Tomorrow morning. Staying on the path .
Wow he looks like the perfect mix of you and your beautiful wife
That young smile of your son is so precious!!!! Thank you for your time when making videos
Loved the book!! Changed my perspective! Your son is so handsome, he has your wife's beautiful smile!!
Tony is a natural born actor he just didn’t know it 😁 love his skits they are spot on!!!
This is by far one of the best Tony Gaskins segments funny and very informative... Thank you Tony for teaching us the truth. Your family is beautiful.
Your channel is really incredible Tony. It seems like the main problem is the lack of quality men. Ladies... I’d like to say, I found a quality God fearing man. This is the only hope in my humble opinion. Wishing all of you tons of ❤️ in your lives.
You are exactly right Tony about being faithful to receive blessings. Walk on the right road to receive favor. Listen and pay attention to the signs.
You are very empathetic and transparent! People run from the truth! Keep speaking TRUTH!! Amen , Amen, Amen!!
You are very funny and real. You know so much about women that is so refreshing 💌
Woman looked like Kevin Hart! LMBO Oh my goodness! You got me cracking up Tony!
Awww Tayden is so cute.💛💛💛🥰🤗
Your son is so handsome. Aww bless his heart
OMGosh! Your son is adorable! What a BEAUTIFUL family you have! 💗
Omg😭 your son!! Adorable 😍
Omg how cute! He’s a perfect mix of you and your wife ☺️ bless you guys ✨✨✨
Thanks for the lessons Tony, you're dropping some real gems 💎 👌. Sending you much love from London 🇬🇧🇬🇧💕.
Your office is looking fabulous, congratulations 👏🏼👏🏼🎉 Mr. Gaskins omg sometimes you really have me laughing, cause it’s like you’re speaking directly to me😬🥺thank you GOD for pouring into Mr Gaskins and that you sir are filling your purpose🙏🏼 be blessed upon blessed THANK YOU
Yesss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tony know what he talking about !!!
Thank you so much Tony for this message, it really needed be said for us Women to help us realize that we can’t Change a Man!
Another Tony Gaskins video....ON.👏🏾 POINT! 👏🏾
First 2 minutes “you got ya butt pads in...”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Wait I gotta start the video back up😂😂😂
Tony I can’t with you!!!!
Whatever time I get the video, I get it. I'm thankful for it, and if none on a particular day, then that also is ok..I'll just go re-watch the others. Be blessed
Cute lil boy. Thanks for all that you do.❤️
Ohhhh... Wellllll... I know when i met my kids' dad, One of the elders in the church told me that if i continued with the relationship i would stunt his growth in the Lord. My response was "you and your wife got 2gether b4 you were saved, right?" Well, long story short... HE WAS RIGHT! Lol. I'll never 4get that day and his words of wisdom. If only i knew then what i know now. Im as single as they come recovering from a broken heart. You're preaching the right thing. I am a witness. God bless! 🙏
Thank you for your honesty. I appreciate you sharing.
AMEN!!! YOU ARE A WISE YOUNG MAN. BE BLESSED.
you r really transparent, i can feel it gracias!!
Oh yes Sir I'm ready 📝✍🏾️ hello Blessed Tribe
I was cracking up when he starting singing “ha heeee” 😹😹😹😹
Same sis, same 😂
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Thanks for your honesty and vulnerability Tony. Much appreciated
I needed this word! I’ve settled far too long, and have been shown continuously he’ll never change
Tony the new wall looks amazing! Tell Sheri she did that! Also, your son is adorable looks like a perfect mix of you and his mom. Looks so much like you with her smile! Blessings to you guys.
😩😩😂😂😂 Mr. Gaskin you’re hilarious! I agree with you 100% great video.
Me too I definitely agree this is too funny but true facts
😂😂😂 love it!! 3 years later and still blessing!!
So precious son and daddy and momma too. We need more of this prayer for revival 💝🙏
I'm weak!!!! Tell us tony. I don't know where to start with you... changed my life 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌
I know that's right his advice has helped me so much on my walk with God and has changed me and so many ways I see Life clearly now
Thank you for today's HUMOR! How many times did I laugh. "Can U turn down the heat?!" ROFL Another great video. Thanks and blessings! 😊☮