My ex is a retired marine... infantry. He did three tours when the war on terrorism was at its height. He literally was the man on the roof shooting people from afar. His truck hit a bomb and he survived. He’s a kind man but trust me that brain is wired DIFFERENT different. I never tried to play him but trust me if I did try I would have NEVER won. His ability to mentally win a war before the war even began was beyond my capacity. I’m not built like him on my most crafty day. Listen to Tony... men and women are not the same. Be genuine and that alone will blow men away
Trying to play a man is exactly like repaying evil for evil....not worth it! When you do things the right way no matter who is playing you...in the end the player will reap what they sowed. PERIOD!
Oh this is so true! I used to cheat in revenge on my no good sorry boyfriend who used to beat me, ground his cigarette on me like I was some sort of ash tray and cheat on me. This month I'm one year apart from him, half a year since I broke up with him and now I'm obstaining before I meet my husband. Took an internship in US, now working on my bachelor and working in my field already as a young professional. Got my English skills upgraded too (English is not my native language). Building relationships with God. Tony, if you're reading this! You saved my life and my spirit! Literally. I watch every single video since I found you about one year ago. Now I'm able to show my girls the way out of toxic relationships. I'm so glad you exist, like every day waking up and going to sleep I'm so thankful for this life and the knowledge that you brought to my life. To anyone who thinks they are too deep in this to change: you're not!
Also it helped him to grow, I believe! By staying you stealing not only your growth but also his growth! I see him sometimes because we live in a same small town and he seems to be better then when I was hurting him out of pain and ignorance. I'm so proud we went through this and became two better individuals, overcame our shared trauma.
Tony Gaskins, your message is sent from God himself! Women have to understand that the moment they take Christ out of their relationships it’s destined to fail. God is the ONLY power to change a man and make him truly love and appreciate his wife. 💕
Amen! Yes it is! Thank you Lord for making this powerful and needed message available for all to see... I am oh so incredibly grateful and thankful for that Lord!
The women who do as some men do regarding that man sleeping around loose, just like those men who end up devaluing themselves. Ending up with baby mamas, court cases to that end up in child support cases. Fighting off men or getting beat up because they slept with a mans mate, and lets add disease to the list.
Tony is speaking facts! I learned this the hard way trying to play "get back" doesnt work and hurts you in the long run. We're just not built that way no matter how "sexually fluid/open" you claim to be. It's not natural to us ladies I'm speaking from being cheated on repeatedly and trying to hurt him by doing the same thing, NOT just taking a man's money just bc of hurt or a vendetta against men.
Agreed!! A friend of mine thinks she is playing the game but the dude is actually playing her. She is one of the ones that you can't tell her anything, tho.
We definitely lose when we TRY to play the game that way. Our value goes down the more promiscuous or sexually unethical we are. A man’s value does not - not in the same way at least. The best way to get a man back is to cut him off & get a man better than him!
Be Blessed. Preach on it. I'm not dating anyone that I don't feel that I could see myself introducing to Tony as my man with no explanations or excuses . That's the bar....I am relaxed... .no worries now.....Lol!
Amen. They say hurt people hurt people. That is dumb to actually take your time trying to play a man. For what? Boss up and move on. He gone get his regardless and it isn't your job to make sure it happens. That's not gone help either one of you. All I know is I want a husband and I'm trying to find my way to him by trusting GOD. Currently working on my body,mind and spirit. Be Blessed Tony and thank you. 🙏🏾
Tony!! I have listened to you for a while. There are times I was angered by what you have said but now I am grateful for you, you have been a big brother to me. I have used your advice. It Works!! Thank you for your sacrifice and obedience. Tell your wife I appreciate her sacrifice and her ability to share you with us!!!
Facts! I played that game with my ex-husband, I did it all to make him know "anything you can do, I will do worse", and by the grace of God, I wisened up, really started to seek Christ and started serious spiritual healing from all my childhood trauma and pain. Truly coming to know and understand who GOD is....... I AM A HAPPILY DIVORCED WOMAN OF GOD! Although still co-parenting our one daughter, but wouldn't even dare to look back at that physchological abuse. God blessed my daughter and I with our first home, upon my divorce. Yea ain't never, EVER LOOKING BACK. POINT, BLANK, PERIOD.
Wow! This video is intense! Love it! I am a woman who just walks away, and blocks! i find myself saying , “im tired of walking away from men” but at least I am peaceful, I am in a position of power! Tony is right! Again and again! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tony said “that’s why I went crazy”. He’s so funny and relatable. He’s a gift from God to us women to be able to give us these life changing messages. I never knew men were wired like that. Your client in her 50’s is doing the dang thang. I’m in my late 40’s and I can relate. The three B’s is where it’s at ladies.
Thank you for this message, Tony. I've tried explaining this on my blog page on Instagram and the women came at my throat! Maybe it'll be better understood with it coming from a male perspective. Blessings to you and yours.
I don't ever try to play anyone nor try to get revenge on someone that plays me. When you do good and they play you, they play themselves. Vengeance is mine thus said the Lord 🙌🏼 God got it
True facts I am grateful I was raised better than that. I have zero tolerance for that and will drop a man like A Bad cold for cheating and let God handle it God got it.
For Women Who Don’t Know This, It’s A Shame. Never Have I Had A Desire To Be With Multiple Men. I Never Thought Being With Multiple Men Was Lady Like. I Just Need One, One Body, I’m So Good and May That Man Be A Man Of God...Amen! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It’s good that we know this but don’t judge the women who don’t know. You never know what someone has been through. A lot of women were molested touched and exposed at an early age, which woke something up in them.
"If he won't elevate to your level he is not your husband, if he is being a dog, he is not your dog." Queen Sheri did not stoop, she walked away, queen moves.
Let me take my bag off, Tony keeps me laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣. I’ve been really enjoying these videos. Broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago. Little did I know watching your videos while being in that relationship, I walked away immediately when he called to tell me, he couldn’t move to Denver cause he might’ve gotten a girl pregnant. I was also praying to God to remove him if he wasn’t my husband. And now I’m focusing on starting a business next month.
You never lied. You better know who you are and what you want. Because someone will create it for you. I guarantee you wouldn't like it. Then you wake up one day and realize you have been living someone else's life. I can not thank for all your wisdom. I thank God for introducing you into my life. God bless the Gaskin family
That’s me I thought I can play the game. I knew he wasn’t into me but, I figured I’d get what I can for the time being. Caught feelings and now I’m looking like who shot John and forgot to kill him. Yes I can tell he knew my motive and yes I believe he did a lot of intentional stuff to me. Afterwards I did mostly everything he did I did if I thought or had a strong intuition that he was cheating I went out on dates. When I thought he was having sex with someone, I eventually yrs later went and he sex with someone got home he was there waiting did not say anything. Stuff got so bad and I am so hurt he still says he’s in love with me but he has not been home for a mth but calls everyday. I think it’s just to keep my mind messed up and keep me in limbo I’m now seeking therapy. This is a very good message I’m living proof. Thank you so much to bring this to light. I was with him because of money I loved him but, I knew he did not invite me in his life totally. I stuck around for the money the dates vacations it all backfired. I should’ve just left when I knew he did not see me as his forever I thought I things would change .Thank you for this message
I have been subscribed to u for a while now, but I wasn't watching all of your uploads yet because I wasn't ready. Now I am ready, and I have been binge watching your vids since yesterday. I am loving the knowledge... God bless u and thank u.
One of the saddest things I ever heard a woman say was "eff love. You might as well just get their money." The main thing that came to mind in my head was "wow, you really are hurt." This is why counseling is so important.
Where's the logic and forgiveness in trying to "play" someone? In the end we always play ourselves if we don't handle such a situation the right way, i.e. forgive and live. Move forward with your life, God has your best days and opportunities ahead!
Tony I hope you read these comments sometimes, I appreciate you so much. Thank you for these videos, some of us can’t afford to have sessions yet, I wouldn’t have made it these last 2 months without your videos. I’m stronger as a person bc of you. Thank you. I look forward to your videos everyday!!!!
Amen! Love this message. There’s a lot of women that need to hear this but in the same token they are the same ones who will deny the reality of this message.
Hi Tony. A friendgirl of mine needs to hear this. She really thinks that she is getting over on him but its the other way around. She thinks that by acting like she dont care about him, he is going to fall in love. She is hooked, not him.
This is me and in the end when he finds who he really wants or meets someone else he is into more than her he is gonna be gone don’t know the exact story and hopes it works out for her because I don’t wish it on anyone but This is my story and a few other women
I have tried this a few times...got so sick of his mess and wanted to show him. It's all a choice. I got tired of being hurt and played. He sleep good and people just love him meanwhile he was doing the most
Tony IS being gentle, when he is sharing this God given wisdom with us. Because any woman who has been a savage and who ventured in a man’s game, is extremely fortunate to live and tell her story after the fact. The stories are horrific. Those women learn it the hard way. Those emotional and sometimes unfortunately those physical scars are anything but gentle. I feel that Tony is giving us very practical information that we can be aware of and we can apply this knowledge in our interactions with men. Major Scientific evidence behind this. The Amygdala is naturally bigger in a man’s brain than a woman’s brain. This because of high testosterone naturally in a healthy man. If a woman suffers some type of trauma (childhood or adult), the Amygdala in her brain starts growing/expanding in size. And if it was a sexual trauma her brain releases far more greater testosterone, almost similar to the testosterone levels in men. This happens unnaturally. I don’t want to generalize this, however many researcher studies show that a lot of sex workers have a larger Amygdala than most average women. The larger Amygdala in women increases promiscuity and a higher pursuit of sex, almost similar to men. There’s also evidence that the Amygdala can shrink with calmness in the brain especially with counselling, coaching, meditation, retreats etc.
Tony this is one of your best videos yet!! There are a lot of people with influence That encourage others to live the world’s way but thank you for always encouraging us to live with integrity!
TRUTH, people have to see what they are doing. I have been Single for about 4 years now and look forward to the next relationship. Although, I saw what I did in my more recent past relationships. Listening to you has caused me to see even more my part. I do look forward to the next relationship so I can see what I have learn and where I am with myself while interacting with the male. Additionally I want to see where I have grown and need to grow. Interacting with another always shows you where you are, in all relationships.
You got literally crying am so glad I always took care of myself and didn't depend on a man for nothing you can't play with a man at all this is so much knowledge this bless my soul.. i never heard it like this before Omg this here is the best knowledge ever yes lord.. this help me in a way can't stop crying this set my soul fee God bless you
Many are called but few are chosen. Thank you God that I'm chosen by you. Help us as women to realize our worth and our value. In Jesus name. Thank you Tony for allowing the Lord to speak through you. The Blessed Tribe!
Tony this last part wasn't what I expected from this message. When I say this hit me like a ton of rocks. I gotta bless you on tomorrow 💯 I am chosen to live a life of integrity I am chosen to live a life of strength, of peace, of wisdom, of clarity, of blessings even if I gotta do it alone! 💪🎯🅿👌
Tony is always on point and everything he is saying is very true I’ve tried too play mind games with men and it didn’t end well because I felt like I was getting some pay back for what was done to me but ended up playing myself now I’m just gaining new knowledge and learning from my mistakes Thanks a lot Tony this video was very helpful!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊
I CANNOT WITH YOU TODAY MR. TONY! When you threw that cord over your shoulder and started talking in that "cray cray women voice....then, let me take my BAG OFF" I fell out laughing and this was a Serious topic....it's nice/healthy to laugh! THANK YOU
It’s these young 20 and 30 year olds playing these men for their money! The streets have taught them to do as men do, over being the lady God called them to be! Sadly, the bad men that have done some of these women wrong, have turned them into the messes they are! I think older men who prey on these younger women get what they get! They choose the younger woman thinking they can control and manipulate them, and in turn she plays the man for his money 💰! Men over 40 need to grow up, and stop trying to prey on younger women! Young women need to stop taking advantage of the man with the money! Older men get it in your head: what do you think a woman more than 5 years younger than you wants with you? To get in your pockets!!! What else could you offer her??! Start dating women your age and stop preying on them! Get what you get and don’t throw a fit! If you try to play, then you be ready to get played! A man WILL reap what he sows, and vice versa!
Tony thank you so much for this gem. Wow!! It spoke life in me. Not because I’m that type of woman but because you spoke real truth about Men. I had an ex describe the exact same thing to me once upon a time. I thank you for opening my eyes and for seeing the bigger picture. You are heaven sent sir!!!🙏🏽❤️
Thank God I'm living this truth, God put too much empathy on my life that I cant even get back at a person even if my life depends on it. I just let God deal with you cos I came all the way correct so its ur loss and I see it as God bit letting me end up with less than I deserve, its beneath me to use my body to get back at anyone, that's too much power to give anyone over your life,mind and decisions, you'll be hurting urself and getting soultied to crazy ppl in d name of getting even, it's not worth it. Stay true,stay real, God is a rewarder and only Him sends d best gifts.
Wow…..thank you forever Tony, God bless you & your family 🤍💜 Words can’t describe the importance of your work in my life and thousands of other womens lives. Been abstinent for two years soon, used to be really lost and living out there in the trenches and it takes time to get over that lifestyle and cleanse your body and spirit. Was divinely guided to your channel that’s for sure. Sending love and strength to everyone out there, we got this♥️
I thank God for me being the chosen one , and Thank God for you also Bro Tony for how God place you on U tube for such a time like this to bring healing and Deliverance in my life. Am very appreciative of your teaching and your life experience and transparency to help me to grow and redirect my life.
My ex is a retired marine... infantry. He did three tours when the war on terrorism was at its height. He literally was the man on the roof shooting people from afar. His truck hit a bomb and he survived. He’s a kind man but trust me that brain is wired DIFFERENT different.
I never tried to play him but trust me if I did try I would have NEVER won. His ability to mentally win a war before the war even began was beyond my capacity. I’m not built like him on my most crafty day.
Listen to Tony... men and women are not the same. Be genuine and that alone will blow men away
Yes indeed
Agreed
You are speaking the truth right there about ex military folks, wired totally different
No lies here...
thank you (him) for his service.
Trying to play a man is exactly like repaying evil for evil....not worth it!
When you do things the right way no matter who is playing you...in the end the player will reap what they sowed. PERIOD!
Truth
Oh this is so true! I used to cheat in revenge on my no good sorry boyfriend who used to beat me, ground his cigarette on me like I was some sort of ash tray and cheat on me.
This month I'm one year apart from him, half a year since I broke up with him and now I'm obstaining before I meet my husband. Took an internship in US, now working on my bachelor and working in my field already as a young professional. Got my English skills upgraded too (English is not my native language). Building relationships with God.
Tony, if you're reading this! You saved my life and my spirit! Literally. I watch every single video since I found you about one year ago. Now I'm able to show my girls the way out of toxic relationships. I'm so glad you exist, like every day waking up and going to sleep I'm so thankful for this life and the knowledge that you brought to my life.
To anyone who thinks they are too deep in this to change: you're not!
So happy for you. May all work for you
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You go girl!!!!!
taйga so proud of you!!! God bless you hunni🥰
Also it helped him to grow, I believe! By staying you stealing not only your growth but also his growth! I see him sometimes because we live in a same small town and he seems to be better then when I was hurting him out of pain and ignorance. I'm so proud we went through this and became two better individuals, overcame our shared trauma.
God bless you
“When you play mind games, everybody loses.” This is so true.
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I agree Anna; it's pointless.
Tony Gaskins, your message is sent from God himself! Women have to understand that the moment they take Christ out of their relationships it’s destined to fail. God is the ONLY power to change a man and make him truly love and appreciate his wife. 💕
Yes exactly 💯
Amen! Yes it is! Thank you Lord for making this powerful and needed message available for all to see...
I am oh so incredibly grateful and thankful for that Lord!
True
Selah
He is desperately trying to help the dating world out here. He gives good knowledge.
I am lovingly telling you it's stupid.
Who favorite Tony saying is, "point blank peer-ree-odd"
Dr Z Divine so you shouldn’t date?
My mom always says you can’t do what a man do. She is absolutely right and so are you Tony.
The women who do as some men do regarding that man sleeping around loose, just like those men who end up devaluing themselves. Ending up with baby mamas, court cases to that end up in child support cases. Fighting off men or getting beat up because they slept with a mans mate, and lets add disease to the list.
Tony is speaking facts! I learned this the hard way trying to play "get back" doesnt work and hurts you in the long run. We're just not built that way no matter how "sexually fluid/open" you claim to be. It's not natural to us ladies
I'm speaking from being cheated on repeatedly and trying to hurt him by doing the same thing, NOT just taking a man's money just bc of hurt or a vendetta against men.
Agreed!! A friend of mine thinks she is playing the game but the dude is actually playing her. She is one of the ones that you can't tell her anything, tho.
@@ButterCookie1984 smh she'll learn the hard way. It's just not worth it
@@ogLynnloc Yes. You are right
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We definitely lose when we TRY to play the game that way. Our value goes down the more promiscuous or sexually unethical we are. A man’s value does not - not in the same way at least. The best way to get a man back is to cut him off & get a man better than him!
Be Blessed. Preach on it. I'm not dating anyone that I don't feel that I could see myself introducing to Tony as my man with no explanations or excuses . That's the bar....I am relaxed... .no worries now.....Lol!
Amen. They say hurt people hurt people. That is dumb to actually take your time trying to play a man. For what? Boss up and move on. He gone get his regardless and it isn't your job to make sure it happens. That's not gone help either one of you. All I know is I want a husband and I'm trying to find my way to him by trusting GOD. Currently working on my body,mind and spirit. Be Blessed Tony and thank you. 🙏🏾
When Tony threw those headphones over his shoulder like a purse... I forgot where I was 😂😂😂 I'm done
"Y'all think a tough guy sexy, nah a tough guy crazy".
Gurl, that tickled Me!!
Definitely fun facts 🤣🤣🤣
Chile let me tell y'all about it. Straight facts
No lies told 😂😂😂 I've seen it.
Tony just admitted he didn't change when he got married his wife had to leave him and he had to change by himself.
Tony!! I have listened to you for a while. There are times I was angered by what you have said but now I am grateful for you, you have been a big brother to me. I have used your advice. It Works!! Thank you for your sacrifice and obedience. Tell your wife I appreciate her sacrifice and her ability to share you with us!!!
Same here Tarshal. He has angered me in the past but deep down, I knew it was the truth
God bless you
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I can't receive what he's saying all of the time, but Lorddddddd have I learnt!
I think I have a Masters in Menology
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@@womanofgod2948 haha
Facts! I played that game with my ex-husband, I did it all to make him know "anything you can do, I will do worse", and by the grace of God, I wisened up, really started to seek Christ and started serious spiritual healing from all my childhood trauma and pain. Truly coming to know and understand who GOD is....... I AM A HAPPILY DIVORCED WOMAN OF GOD! Although still co-parenting our one daughter, but wouldn't even dare to look back at that physchological abuse. God blessed my daughter and I with our first home, upon my divorce. Yea ain't never, EVER LOOKING BACK. POINT, BLANK, PERIOD.
Wow! This video is intense! Love it! I am a woman who just walks away, and blocks! i find myself saying , “im tired of walking away from men” but at least I am peaceful, I am in a position of power! Tony is right! Again and again! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tony said “that’s why I went crazy”. He’s so funny and relatable. He’s a gift from God to us women to be able to give us these life changing messages. I never knew men were wired like that. Your client in her 50’s is doing the dang thang. I’m in my late 40’s and I can relate. The three B’s is where it’s at ladies.
@Ocean Flower Brand, Body, Brain.
Don’t get weak and weary on well doing 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 God speaking through you today!
36:40 Minutes felt like my strength was coming on. I’ll remain abstinent until God sends my spouse. Thank you Tony.
Thank you for this message, Tony. I've tried explaining this on my blog page on Instagram and the women came at my throat! Maybe it'll be better understood with it coming from a male perspective. Blessings to you and yours.
“QUEENS AND KINGS DON’T COMPETE”🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I don't ever try to play anyone nor try to get revenge on someone that plays me. When you do good and they play you, they play themselves. Vengeance is mine thus said the Lord 🙌🏼 God got it
Amen
Nothing but truth I agree wholeheartedly. Amen
Amen
True facts I am grateful I was raised better than that. I have zero tolerance for that and will drop a man like A Bad cold for cheating and let God handle it God got it.
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For Women Who Don’t Know This, It’s A Shame. Never Have I Had A Desire To Be With Multiple Men. I Never Thought Being With Multiple Men Was Lady Like. I Just Need One, One Body, I’m So Good and May That Man Be A Man Of God...Amen! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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AMEN!
💯💯💯✅✅✅👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾My sentiments EXACTLY!!!
It’s good that we know this but don’t judge the women who don’t know. You never know what someone has been through. A lot of women were molested touched and exposed at an early age, which woke something up in them.
"If he won't elevate to your level he is not your husband, if he is being a dog, he is not your dog." Queen Sheri did not stoop, she walked away, queen moves.
Let me take my bag off, Tony keeps me laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣. I’ve been really enjoying these videos. Broke up with my ex 3 weeks ago. Little did I know watching your videos while being in that relationship, I walked away immediately when he called to tell me, he couldn’t move to Denver cause he might’ve gotten a girl pregnant. I was also praying to God to remove him if he wasn’t my husband. And now I’m focusing on starting a business next month.
I'm 2 days in...im in so much pain right now...but I'm ok. I have a business and I also work 40 hours. So I'm trying to keep business.
4th week and still going strong and my business is good
He Sleep around so I'm going to sleep around
Tony: "That's STUPIT"😂
Lol
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“When you play mind games, everybody loses”🙌🏾
You never lied. You better know who you are and what you want. Because someone will create it for you. I guarantee you wouldn't like it. Then you wake up one day and realize you have been living someone else's life. I can not thank for all your wisdom. I thank God for introducing you into my life. God bless the Gaskin family
That’s me I thought I can play the game. I knew he wasn’t into me but, I figured I’d get what I can for the time being. Caught feelings and now I’m looking like who shot John and forgot to kill him. Yes I can tell he knew my motive and yes I believe he did a lot of intentional stuff to me. Afterwards I did mostly everything he did I did if I thought or had a strong intuition that he was cheating I went out on dates. When I thought he was having sex with someone, I eventually yrs later went and he sex with someone got home he was there waiting did not say anything. Stuff got so bad and I am so hurt he still says he’s in love with me but he has not been home for a mth but calls everyday. I think it’s just to keep my mind messed up and keep me in limbo I’m now seeking therapy. This is a very good message I’m living proof. Thank you so much to bring this to light. I was with him because of money I loved him but, I knew he did not invite me in his life totally. I stuck around for the money the dates vacations it all backfired. I should’ve just left when I knew he did not see me as his forever I thought I things would change .Thank you for this message
Omg gurl I’m praying for you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 !! Now you can save others with your story.
@@kenishalperkins amen
I hope things get better or find true love
It takes a strong person to recognize her mistake. Thank you for sharing, hope therapy and time heals your pain.❤
marla c thank u
I have been subscribed to u for a while now, but I wasn't watching all of your uploads yet because I wasn't ready. Now I am ready, and I have been binge watching your vids since yesterday. I am loving the knowledge... God bless u and thank u.
God bless you
Sister you will come up MISSING 🤣😂🤣😂. Tony you are hilarious, but truthful. I look forward to your videos and lives. Man you are a blessing to US
“what women want to do is emulate the trauma of a man.” DEEP, sir! never ever thought of it like that.
One of the saddest things I ever heard a woman say was "eff love. You might as well just get their money." The main thing that came to mind in my head was "wow, you really are hurt." This is why counseling is so important.
Where's the logic and forgiveness in trying to "play" someone? In the end we always play ourselves if we don't handle such a situation the right way, i.e. forgive and live. Move forward with your life, God has your best days and opportunities ahead!
Amen playing games is so childish I just leave
@@louiseottley4995 That is the best alternative....just leave!!
@Porscha Taylor Thank you 🙏👑
So True
@UC5AiBHQsOO0dFbrViSANSfg Players are players of themselves in the end. God always bring it back around.
Tony I hope you read these comments sometimes, I appreciate you so much. Thank you for these videos, some of us can’t afford to have sessions yet, I wouldn’t have made it these last 2 months without your videos. I’m stronger as a person bc of you. Thank you. I look forward to your videos everyday!!!!
Amen! Love this message. There’s a lot of women that need to hear this but in the same token they are the same ones who will deny the reality of this message.
Be blessed!
Tony this is from God and I’ve been praying for exactly what you’re delivering in this video! God bless you !!! Thanks for your obedience!
Hi Tony. A friendgirl of mine needs to hear this. She really thinks that she is getting over on him but its the other way around. She thinks that by acting like she dont care about him, he is going to fall in love. She is hooked, not him.
This is me and in the end when he finds who he really wants or meets someone else he is into more than her he is gonna be gone don’t know the exact story and hopes it works out for her because I don’t wish it on anyone but This is my story and a few other women
@@MrsLC-tp8oj Thanks
Be blessed. Your ministry is a true anointing from the Most High!
“When you play mind games, everybody loses!”- Tony Gaskins
Great word! Thank you, be blessed Tony!
I have tried this a few times...got so sick of his mess and wanted to show him. It's all a choice. I got tired of being hurt and played. He sleep good and people just love him meanwhile he was doing the most
"Don't try to beCOME a dog when you MEET a dog..."
Tony IS being gentle, when he is sharing this God given wisdom with us. Because any woman who has been a savage and who ventured in a man’s game, is extremely fortunate to live and tell her story after the fact. The stories are horrific. Those women learn it the hard way. Those emotional and sometimes unfortunately those physical scars are anything but gentle.
I feel that Tony is giving us very practical information that we can be aware of and we can apply this knowledge in our interactions with men.
Major Scientific evidence behind this. The Amygdala is naturally bigger in a man’s brain than a woman’s brain. This because of high testosterone naturally in a healthy man.
If a woman suffers some type of trauma (childhood or adult), the Amygdala in her brain starts growing/expanding in size. And if it was a sexual trauma her brain releases far more greater testosterone, almost similar to the testosterone levels in men. This happens unnaturally. I don’t want to generalize this, however many researcher studies show that a lot of sex workers have a larger Amygdala than most average women. The larger Amygdala in women increases promiscuity and a higher pursuit of sex, almost similar to men.
There’s also evidence that the Amygdala can shrink with calmness in the brain especially with counselling, coaching, meditation, retreats etc.
Your videos help build my confidence to where I recognize that I'm a QUEEN who has been design only for a KING.
Tony this is one of your best videos yet!! There are a lot of people with influence That encourage others to live the world’s way but thank you for always encouraging us to live with integrity!
yay thx tulip
This really resonated and it was an "eye opener" Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all the effort you put into these videos.
Be Blessed 💞
AMEN ! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
TONY, I so APPRECIATE that you tell it raw, well as raw as you can on TH-cam.
TRUTH, people have to see what they are doing. I have been Single for about 4 years now and look forward to the next relationship. Although, I saw what I did in my more recent past relationships. Listening to you has caused me to see even more my part. I do look forward to the next relationship so I can see what I have learn and where I am with myself while interacting with the male. Additionally I want to see where I have grown and need to grow. Interacting with another always shows you where you are, in all relationships.
MORNING. THIS IS GOING TO BE GOOOOOODDDD !!!
You're so wise Mr. Gaskins!
God Bless you dear man and God bless your beautiful family too! May you keep being blessed everyday of your lives 💗
I wish I had this sooner because I really been through it and my heart was cold thank God for this
You got literally crying am so glad I always took care of myself and didn't depend on a man for nothing you can't play with a man at all this is so much knowledge this bless my soul.. i never heard it like this before Omg this here is the best knowledge ever yes lord.. this help me in a way can't stop crying this set my soul fee God bless you
Another winner! This video is something serious. Keep em coming Tony G., we need to hear this.
Many are called but few are chosen. Thank you God that I'm chosen by you. Help us as women to realize our worth and our value. In Jesus name. Thank you Tony for allowing the Lord to speak through you. The Blessed Tribe!
Tony this last part wasn't what I expected from this message. When I say this hit me like a ton of rocks. I gotta bless you on tomorrow 💯
I am chosen to live a life of integrity
I am chosen to live a life of strength, of peace, of wisdom, of clarity, of blessings even if I gotta do it alone! 💪🎯🅿👌
The squeal took me out! God bless you and the Queen Tony .
LMBO! That had me too. Tony tickles me
😂 me too
This message was a blessing to me today.
You speaking Da Truth Tony. Women Listen. Much Love 💕 Be Blessed!!
Uh oh this is going to be good! The title alone says it all🤣
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“There’s no rules in love and war. You’ve got to have your own rules.”- Tony Gaskins
Thank you for sharing all the positive information to help women.
AMEN ! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
Tony is always on point and everything he is saying is very true I’ve tried too play mind games with men and it didn’t end well because I felt like I was getting some pay back for what was done to me but ended up playing myself now I’m just gaining new knowledge and learning from my mistakes Thanks a lot Tony this video was very helpful!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊
“You can’t beat a man at his game.“ TG
GOD MADE U WOMAN NOT A MAN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! My 2021
.....This is exACTLY what I needed to hear, Tony.
BE BLESSED. This was a POWERFUL message rat hea!
I CANNOT WITH YOU TODAY MR. TONY! When you threw that cord over your shoulder and started talking in that "cray cray women voice....then, let me take my BAG OFF" I fell out laughing and this was a Serious topic....it's nice/healthy to laugh! THANK YOU
Why I started singing "Don't save her She don't wanna be.." LOL Tony crazy
Be blessed I wish the whole wide world could’ve heard this! Knowledge is power.
Thank you Tony for saying to remove yourself and not compete with the man or another woman!!
I really appreciate you, you’ve made me smarter! I’ll never like a man for his money tho, Thank God!
“Don’t be a reflection of him” -TG
🤣🤣🤣this was Great love the messages. Humor and All. Stay blessed Tony. Thanks again.🙋🏽♀️
Glad to be in the chosen circle! Y'all be blessed!
“Let me take my bag off.” TG 🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Be Blessed I listened and took nots as usual! You have changed my life and for that I would like to say thank you 🙏🏾
It’s these young 20 and 30 year olds playing these men for their money! The streets have taught them to do as men do, over being the lady God called them to be! Sadly, the bad men that have done some of these women wrong, have turned them into the messes they are!
I think older men who prey on these younger women get what they get! They choose the younger woman thinking they can control and manipulate them, and in turn she plays the man for his money 💰! Men over 40 need to grow up, and stop trying to prey on younger women! Young women need to stop taking advantage of the man with the money! Older men get it in your head: what do you think a woman more than 5 years younger than you wants with you? To get in your pockets!!! What else could you offer her??! Start dating women your age and stop preying on them! Get what you get and don’t throw a fit! If you try to play, then you be ready to get played! A man WILL reap what he sows, and vice versa!
@Hawa Fuseini
Stated more than 5 years younger.
You are Right
Homeless spiritually! Amen for that blessing and gem
One thing I appreciate is that you are real and not waterings the messages down. I'm still binge watching and learning so much from you.
Tony thank you so much for this gem. Wow!! It spoke life in me. Not because I’m that type of woman but because you spoke real truth about Men. I had an ex describe the exact same thing to me once upon a time. I thank you for opening my eyes and for seeing the bigger picture. You are heaven sent sir!!!🙏🏽❤️
Thank you, Tony.
Absolutely excellent from beginning to end!
Look after your back! Please take care of yourself, too.
God bless.
Tony Thank you I needed this word today! I'm a happy celibate single woman working on me and waiting on God for my husband!🙏
Good Talk this morning Coach Tony! Women can't play a men games.
She didn't turn into Griselda Branco🤣🤣🤣. Thank god she didn't.
"Let the wrath of God put him on his knees" by Tony Gaskins....that's all I needed to hear......Don't play games....POINT BLANK PERIOODDDDD
BE BLESSED
Hey Toni! Thanks for doing these videos. I've been watching you consistently for about 2 weeks now. Bless you
Speaking the truth all praises go to you...
Stay blessed
Be blessed Tony, you are truly gifted.
Be blessed, I made it to the end! And, I was blessed!💞
Be blessed your message was deep
I can’t wait to meet my Husband..
Me tooo 😆😆
Dr Z Divine you do the same!
I can't wait to meet mine!!
Tony the truth is gut wrenching. You giving me the game thank you!
By far my top favorite Tony Gaskins videos. Motivational and full of the spirit of the Lord. Be Blessed!!!
Blessed rising my people 💜💜💜
Thank God I'm living this truth, God put too much empathy on my life that I cant even get back at a person even if my life depends on it. I just let God deal with you cos I came all the way correct so its ur loss and I see it as God bit letting me end up with less than I deserve, its beneath me to use my body to get back at anyone, that's too much power to give anyone over your life,mind and decisions, you'll be hurting urself and getting soultied to crazy ppl in d name of getting even, it's not worth it. Stay true,stay real, God is a rewarder and only Him sends d best gifts.
Wow…..thank you forever Tony, God bless you & your family 🤍💜 Words can’t describe the importance of your work in my life and thousands of other womens lives. Been abstinent for two years soon, used to be really lost and living out there in the trenches and it takes time to get over that lifestyle and cleanse your body and spirit. Was divinely guided to your channel that’s for sure. Sending love and strength to everyone out there, we got this♥️
Yes just leave in peace..there's power when you get your own stuff
Be blessed! Best one yet. This one really hit home. Thank you Tony!
Be blessed Mr Gaskins! This message is truly edifying!
😂😂😂😂when you start mimicking women it cracks me up so much 😂😂😂
I thank God for me being the chosen one , and Thank God for you also Bro Tony for how God place you on U tube for such a time like this to bring healing and Deliverance in my life. Am very appreciative of your teaching and your life experience and transparency to help me to grow and redirect my life.
Be blessed! Listening again! He went there today! lil ugly😩