HOW MY LOW BUY CHANGED MY LIFE | HOW TO STOP SHOPPING 💸

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  • Hello Low Buy Beauties! We are fast approaching an entire year of Low Buy, and I want to share with you every which way my decision to challenge myself to my Low Buy Year has changed my life. My Low Buy is no longer a challenge (even though it's challenging everyday) that will last 12 months -- it's now a lifestyle. It's changed the way I live and view my life and myself, and not a day goes by where I don't use a new strategy I've learned in my finances, in my emotions, in my self-care and in my confidence without using something that I gained just by starting this Low Buy Year.
    Even though it can be hard, frustrating, boring, tempting and so many other things, the benefits of challenging yourself to any sort of Low Buy are so rewarding and worth doing. It truly becomes about SO much more than just not shopping.
    Are you planning to challenge yourself to a Low Buy or a No Buy Year? Month? Week? Day? Make this challenge yours. There's always something to be gained from doing something like this and pushing yourself.
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    Hi, I'm Christina - I'm a blogger slash vlogger slash human on the internet slash pharmacist sometimes, hence the "apothecary" theme in my name. I'm currently living in Toronto, Canada and on my channel you'll find fashion and styling videos, lifestyle content and check-in's on my LOW BUY YEAR. I'm happy to take any requests, too! Your girl is flexible (not physically). Feel free to leave me a comment below - I always make sure to read and respond, and I love chatting with you guys. Be sure to follow me on Instagram too - that's where I post my daily outfits and photography, and where I interact with you guys the most. Thank you SO much for watching and taking the time out of your day to support my teeny little channel. Love xx, Christina.
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  • @Christinamychas
    @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    Are you planning to do a Low Buy this 2020? What will yours look like? Xo

    • @annloftus2141
      @annloftus2141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I feel inspired by your honesty. It is tough to stick to some goals.

    • @AvaTheAdventurer
      @AvaTheAdventurer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I have noticed in myself an urge to shop every time I don’t like my appearance and a belief that new, better clothes will bring the confidence I’m looking for and will make me feel beautiful. Clothes can have that effect, but I’ll never be satisfied until I work on being satisfied with my appearance first. So I’m trying a low buy until my birthday in May and I’ll pursue counseling and fitness in the meantime!

    • @58iksnaS
      @58iksnaS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I will definitely keep no buy year in 2020. I have splurged over 3700 euros to one single online store this year. If I have spend that much only to one online store, how much I've spent all together this year, if I count all my online purchases... I really do need some shopping detox! I have used shopping as an escape from stress and encountering difficult situations. I need to face my fears and take responsibility, like finish my degree and after that try to make progress on my career. Your vlog has confirmed my decision to keep no buy year, so a big thanks to you Christina! 💖 I really do hope that you continue making videos, especially about outfits and possibly about capsule wardrobe. I wish you all the best! 💖
      Best Regards, Sanna from Finland 🇫🇮

    • @joannamaxwell7636
      @joannamaxwell7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I knew I needed to do this and keep having intentions. Having seen this and giving it a name makes me feel more motivated. I am impulsive and emotional when shopping. My goal is to do this in 2020 your video has made me feel less anxious about it taking time! It's a journey not a punishment x

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Joanna Maxwell couldn’t have said it better ❤️

  • @shadesofsky5109
    @shadesofsky5109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    “Too much month left at the end of the money” felt that lol.

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Haha I can’t take credit for that one - that’s tried and true Dave Ramsey jargon 🤗😂

  • @kathleenbarron7654
    @kathleenbarron7654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Not coveting things is a powerful spiritual freedom. You’ve overcome the world’s view on consumerism. That’s amazing!

    • @Casscapri
      @Casscapri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      True!!!

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I don’t think I have a shopping problem because I save money, have no consumer debt, and always find incredible bargains. However, I realize that I constantly find excuses to buy something. If I said no clothes, I’d move on to kitchen stuff. I just bought a portable generator and a solar penal. My area never has power outage and I’ve not done a camping trip in 6 years. YT brought your low buy video to my front page. I listened to your story and realized that I do have a shopping problem, regardless if it affects my finance or not. I am going to stick to no shopping in 2020. I have enough shoes, outfits, craft/art supplies, and skincare to last me 5 years honestly. The high I get from finding and buying incredible bargains is false and never lasts. The cycle is not going to end unless I do something about it.

    • @PlzCa1mDown
      @PlzCa1mDown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jen 33 I am literally the EXACT same way. It is so scary how I will convince myself I need this or that. I have no debt and live comfortably, but instead of saving TONS of money, I only save a little of it and find reasons to spend the rest. How are you doing on your No buy?

    • @NiesLife
      @NiesLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I completely relate.. I'm save invest and don't have consumer debt. Yet I feel like I never have what I want and constantly find an excuse to buy something. Skincare, clothes, kitchen and household, gifts to family members I'm not seeing till next year. This is a new issue for me.. I wasn't like this until recently. My low buy year starts today

    • @noireknight3013
      @noireknight3013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes i feel the same urges to spend.i thought i was over that.

    • @lookingatdaisies9901
      @lookingatdaisies9901 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is me and I only realised after a forced time of being broke, that I could have saved more, just because I had savings doesn't mean the rest of the money was going to good things.

    • @starbuggle
      @starbuggle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can relate 100%. I actually swore off buying clothes for 3 years and felt really good about it, but then I went to get new jeans and ended up picking up a whole bunch of other clothes (that were nice, and that I did end up wearing a lot, but honestly didn't need). And that started this whole spiral of looking for more things to buy. The power of spending "therapy" is insane! I am rooting for you and for me too - here's to more intentional buys and more savings 🙏🏽

  • @Courtney6
    @Courtney6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    I’ve done low/no buy for almost 3 years now. I just bought myself 2 new shirts, the first clothing items I’ve bought for myself in over 2 years!

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amaaaaazing!!!

    • @ajen1270
      @ajen1270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow!!!!!

    • @carlypickard4962
      @carlypickard4962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s incredible!!

    • @miryreina925
      @miryreina925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow!! Bravooo! Make a video ans teach us!

    • @Courtney6
      @Courtney6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Miry Reina Thank you! I should think about it 😅

  • @chercher4679
    @chercher4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I bought so many clothes this year to mask that I hate my body. Every item I buy is to make me feel better and then I’m still sad afterwards. 2020 I’m focusing on changing myself so I don’t need new clothes for self esteem.

    • @Ramya519
      @Ramya519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So relate to this.

    • @GrayWithMe
      @GrayWithMe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do the same thing but with jewelry not clothes

    • @gerlindelang
      @gerlindelang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      o man can i relate!

    • @olagerta8199
      @olagerta8199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Therapy?

    • @rach5516
      @rach5516 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is me completely x

  • @josephinewinter
    @josephinewinter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    i realised i'm sick of my greed, that's why i want to stop shopping, just constant munch munch munch want want want, not food but things, greed greed greed, it's just like being a mindless stomach instead of a heart and brain

  • @Sistacurls
    @Sistacurls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    “Bought stuff on the toilet!” Yep. Guilty too. Love your honestly and frankness. You’re inspiring me to get a handle on my own emotional shopping. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💩💩 yup 😅 - thank you! And I’m so honored you’re inspired!

    • @GwenMotoGirl
      @GwenMotoGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here!

  • @temporarilyblond
    @temporarilyblond 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I’m planning a lowbuy for 2020, at the moment I’m the person you were last year, I hope to be the person you are now in 1 year’s time.

    • @OpponensMusic
      @OpponensMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mara R I am exactly the same 🙌

    • @cristinamagurean
      @cristinamagurean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mara R Same here!!!!!! Good luck!!!

  • @carlairons3573
    @carlairons3573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m so proud of you. I use to shop to ignore loneliness.

  • @SimoneS1000
    @SimoneS1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I have been watching a lot of videos about decluttering, organising and minimising. However you made me realise that my focus needs to be on not buying crap in the first place! Thank you for this video and your openness.

  • @marionkine
    @marionkine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I just discovered your channel.
    I'm french, 44 years old, and started a more minimalist way of living (moving, ending a long and toxic relationship, working on re-finding my own self ...)
    I used to be a makeup addict and buy everything i would find beautiful. I ended owning more than i could ever put on my face and it made me feel very guilty and anxious. So i first stopped buying makeup. And then i felt the need to own only what i really loved and used, for personal and environmental reasons.
    I feel better this way. I feel true to myself and love it although it's not all a bed of roses. I will still buy only what i really need, mostly second hand.
    Thank you for your honesty around the impulse of buying 🙏

    • @yoritrance
      @yoritrance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with you, especially on the makeup and skin care products. I’m sure many women are in this situation. The industry is making us believe we “need” a lot of products to be beautiful. But many can be replaced with more natural or homemade alternatives.

    • @marionkine
      @marionkine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yoritrance to me it was more like "it's so beautiful, so unique, i have to have it !" Although it doesn't really fit me, or i don't need it, or i already have something similar. Anxiety is so targeted with limited éditions too ... i never really believed in the best mascara or the anti wrinkle cream. now i can see something nice wothout feeling the need to own it

    • @lindsb3541
      @lindsb3541 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yoritrance Absolutely - many of these habits are fostered and encouraged by companies that stand to profit immensely from it. I really applaud the ability for her to take responsibility for her choices, though I do think that the crippling debt from post-secondary education (that many North American's have acquired) is unnecessary as there could be much more government investment/priority in developing education programs that build the capacity of citizens, and give them the ability to save and reinvest rather than throwing into the 'debt hole'.

  • @Aida_aj
    @Aida_aj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've been in a low buy for almost 2 years. I only buy something new to replace something else. Many things that I use up or finish won't even get replaced because I never needed them in the first place. Instead of shopping, I've been spending my time with crocheting or knitting.

  • @LexiDarcel
    @LexiDarcel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The part where you spoke about how much you think about shopping is exactly how I feel about eating. I would eat for any occasion for any reason pretty much all the time

    • @jessicadelgado8473
      @jessicadelgado8473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too, especially this year. Now, I’m eating in a more healthy way but not wanting to cook at home. It’s a work in progress!

  • @Angelized1st
    @Angelized1st 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I feel like you're reading my mind! Shopping is how I deal with stress and depression. I now have so much clutter, things I don't need, and no savings. I'm planning a no buy year for 2020, to rewire my thinking. Your videos are inspiring.

    • @olagerta8199
      @olagerta8199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that cognitive-behavioral therapy would help you with depression.

  • @impossiblenonsense
    @impossiblenonsense 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    My husband and I are on a no buy this year because we want to buy a house for cash at the beginning of 2021. Thank you for your inspiration!

  • @BerlynSteffey
    @BerlynSteffey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You have encouraged me to do low buy. I realized I had a shopping problem when I didn’t need all the things I bought.

  • @druannahunt3590
    @druannahunt3590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    This year is going to be MY year! 2019 was the worst year of my life. I lost my father, I gained weight, my diet spiralled out of control alongside my mental and physical health. I went into major debt, I got sick a lot... I want to live a more intentional and sustainable life. I want financial freedom so I don’t feel trapped. I want to get healthy and focus on self care. I want to have a better relationship with myself as a whole, to learn and grow as well as invest my time and money on building healthy relationships with others. To explore my passions and talents, to go outside of my comfort zone. To limit my use of social media and electronics. Look out 2020, this gal is coming out of hibernation! This year I will invest in myself! Thank you for your inspirational video. It honestly has given me a lot of confidence in my goals for the new year!

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      SO MUCH YES! You can DO IT! I’m so sorry for your loss - I can’t even imagine the gap that loss makes in ones life. Make 2020 yours and keep it yours. Much love - I’m rooting for you. ❤️

    • @sslilac
      @sslilac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I relate to your post and what you wrote got me super excited. I wish you best of luck and success on your endeavor. Stick to your goals and I'm sure you can do it 🖤

    • @erikaroldan4889
      @erikaroldan4889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I resonate with your post on so many levels and I am here to cheer you on! You got this!!! Cheers and all the best in the new year 💛

    • @carolelylewhite
      @carolelylewhite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤗

    • @druannahunt3590
      @druannahunt3590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you everyone for all of your love and support! Look at the beautiful safe and supportive space you have created! 💕 I’m rooting for you all too! It’s amazing to know I’m not alone.

  • @annebrown3538
    @annebrown3538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have had an epiphany, I am a spender not a saver... my New Years resolution is to flip this, thanks so much 🙏

  • @terrilowe3530
    @terrilowe3530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I am a retired lady who is going on a journey this year to see where my money is going. Will do a low buy especially on books, clothing and skin care. Have just created a real working budget system for the first time in my life. Will hone my library skills instead of using Amazon and happy wanders in book stores. It feels kind of scary, but I know it will bring freedom and joy in the long run. I really have just discovered uTube and all you encouraging counter-cultural ladies. (And listening a little more to Dave Ramsey.) so, here we go 2020!

    • @pamcamcris
      @pamcamcris 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I absolutely love my library! I was still borrowing physical book then started borrowing audiobooks via CDs and listened to them while commuting and have transitioned to online borrowing through my library! Also, if you're an Amazon Prime user, they offer a free book a month so I don't even subscribe to Kindle Unlimited or Audible. I love books but don't feel the need to have to subscribe monthly just to read because hello, they're free from the library! 😁📚❤

    • @gerlindelang
      @gerlindelang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      so, how is it going?

    • @terrilowe3530
      @terrilowe3530 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So much has happened since then! have been working more on getting rid of things I don't use anymore than being concerned about my budget issues.

    • @user-dq2ym1nn9k
      @user-dq2ym1nn9k 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@terrilowe3530 Love this Terri!

  • @lyndseynorman9366
    @lyndseynorman9366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Buying clothes all the time was my problem too. Thank you for your encouragement, and you sound just like me! It's hard to admit that we have an addiction or that we are using something to fill a void or to mask our perceived inadequacies. That realisation is life changing though. I honestly really thought I NEEDED some of the things I've purchased in the past, but usually ended up selling them on or the novelty wore off almost immediately. I ended up with so many striped tops, white shirts etc etc because I needed the perfect one (quite funny isn't it?). I still find it difficult when I see someone looking amazing on social media though, so I am working on that. However, through minimising my spending on meaningless things I don't need, paying off the balance of my credit cards and saving properly, I have just purchased my first car with no help!! The pride I feel and the independence I will have is priceless. "if you change nothing, nothing changes' - I was feeling stuck and masked it with buying things, not realising it was perpetuating the cycle of being stuck! Thanks again from a new subscriber in the UK!

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lyndsey Norman that is AMAZING! Congratulations on your car purchase and coming to all these realizations. I’m so proud of you from all the way here in Toronto. You remind me of me and I’m sure a lot of us on this channel. Congratulations ❤️❤️❤️ you rock

  • @prva846
    @prva846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Finally, a TH-camr with substance! Your sincerity (not just in your revelations and vulnerability, but in your style of expression) are refreshing.
    I truly hope that you and others who relate to you aren’t too hard on yourselves...a lot of mindless consumer behaviour is dictated by greedy corporations who evangelize the shopping experience as a basic need. Sadly, we will always be bombarded by messages marketing the latest “it” thing. But like you remind us, we can take control over our finances (and our time+labor)...it’s not easy but it’s worth it.

  • @wildflower2462
    @wildflower2462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I was never a spender until I got my baby in 2019. The amount of stuff and the cost of it, the shoving down the throat of educational, healthy, fashionable, developmental, "must have" items, without which my baby would just wilt like an unwatered flower, descended upon me like an avalanche. I got anxious, got some those items, but I don't feel better nor see any benefits. That makes even more insecure & want to buy different things! But really, my baby still plays with kitchen utensils and scrap cardboard. I believe the lowliest form of marketing is te one geared to/for children, and influencers (moms themselves) from their insta playrooms are shamelessly cranking up mom insecurities and fragility, as we know that is the time when all the shits and voids resurface. I'm looking forward to the budgeting video, as I need to know where the money's going. When it was just me, it was easy. I love how eloquent and sincere you are about the real causes. That is what we need on YT!

    • @Kiyonce.Kartier
      @Kiyonce.Kartier 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If this is your first, it’s almost inevitable because you’re so excited and you want them to have everything. If you decide to have more, the spending will be more restrained.

    • @lilydinh6059
      @lilydinh6059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I stopped following social media recently, it was the most freeing thing in my life, I stopped spending money.

    • @Victoriacariad
      @Victoriacariad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't be afraid to ask extended members of your family for clothes etc?
      Frequently my (big, extended) family group chat is just my cousins, second cousins aunties and uncles trying to give away things, mainly baby stuff. The last one was a very nice cot!

  • @cf3779
    @cf3779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I realized I had a shopping problem when I started to hate opening packages..left unopened (amazon)boxes in a room for months..just realized my issues are more emotional will evaluate what the real issues are...starting a new me!!!

  • @hayze13
    @hayze13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know I am late to the game, but this video is JUST what I needed for my life reset. I love how you focused on hobbies to add something with positive value rather than just "eliminating" shopping. It makes it much more attainable and appealing, as well. You rock!

  • @jennyherzog9872
    @jennyherzog9872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm trying a low buy until May and my trick is making list of the things that I think I need and wait a month. After that time I usually forget about them so they were wants. I do not let myself buy duplicates or clothing that I'm not wanna wear next day (not special occasion clothing). Also I signed up for the gym and every time I need the urge to shop I just go to the gym. I love your videos, they're really expiring! Thank you for making them!

  • @panpan6222
    @panpan6222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am planning to do a low-buy year in 2020. Same reasons as to why you started yours. I could never work full time because of health challenges, but now that I have had my surgery, I am working a lot now. I used to be really good with not buying in excess or making myself wait, and saving money.. but once I stopped working all together I felt deprived. When I started working again, I felt like I needed to spend money on things I couldn't have when I was unemployed. I have had nothing to show for my job, that I love and put hard work into. I am a minimalist, so it made me wonder, "I am practicing minimalism in every area of my life except my finances." and I just felt this weight of 'how did I not see this?'. I mean, I should have thousands of dollars in my savings, but I don't.
    So this year, I'm going for it. I already had a budget and I am pretty good at it, but sometimes I don't get my paycheck right away and it hurts me bc I still spend too much. I am going to have less categories in my budget, and essentially only buy what a need with a few exceptions. I am really excited and glad that you made this video. It encourages me more that this is the right decision.
    xx

  • @emmabown9751
    @emmabown9751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We was more careful last year spending. So much so we saved enough to pay our mortgage off early buy 9 and a half years! I am 43 and have 2 children. Budget, budget, budget and one tip is in the budgeting make sure you put 25% of your earnings away if you can. If not even the smallest amount mounts up and don’t have credit cards, store cards, catalogues, loans extra. You can do this!

  • @madeleinepousar
    @madeleinepousar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My low buy year of 2020 is soon about to start! I am decluttering as I am moving on january 4th! :)

    • @sherrih55
      @sherrih55 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been thinking about this the past 2 months and I really needed to see your video. This has been me and i have gotten out of control! Thank you so very much for taking the time to share!! I just found you and cant wait to hear more.

  • @sandral5342
    @sandral5342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow I just came across your channel and I am 7 minutes in and every single thing you’ve said I resonate with it all. Sounds like my exact situation and I too want and need to change. So happy I found this video and your channel ❤️

  • @retiredbooknerd
    @retiredbooknerd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We embraced minimalism in 2017 and we continue to learn and grow from our experience. I must say, since I watch TONS of videos of this type, that this is the most heartfelt video that I have seen. I often see people that are still looking at this type of thing as some “gimmick” for views or just a way to make any video. But, I can see that it has truly been a life altering one for you. This warms my heart.😊I think that we all have so much more than we need and after a time we start to believe that we deserve it ALL! The key is learning that we are more than our “stuff.” Thanks for sharing this! I’m a new subscriber now and will be keeping up with you as you learn and grow! Happy New Year! 🎊🎆🤗

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Retired Book Nerd omg thank you so much for this beautiful comment and for noticing ❤️❤️ I’m slowly embracing minimalism and see the value in that viewpoint on stuff and happiness - thank you so much! Congratulations on your own journey and happy new year! Xo

  • @Mimi-cq4bg
    @Mimi-cq4bg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So stoked to start my low/no buy2020 I started early.... haven't spent a penny since December 27th.
    It has shaken me, how much I think about spending money on non essential needs. My weakness is the gigantic dollar store next to the grocery.... its five or six bucks.... every time.
    Not this year. I got a new laptop last summer. Finally got around to it and reset my old laptop and sold it online.... had bought it on sale (40% off) for 375 and am selling it for 400. Am considering selling my wedding dress too. Instead of what I can buy.... what do I have that i can sell? I can surely find one thing a month that I can part with... even if only for the first six months of the year.

  • @gayleritter1199
    @gayleritter1199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thank you, thank you, this has been wonderful. You've given us alternatives rather than just saying "stop". I see myself in so many of your comments. I'm looking forward to saving that shopping money. Mentally, I can see how much better I'd feel and the benefit of not shopping. Thank you again.

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gayle Ritter thank you gayle! ❤️❤️

  • @casenglish
    @casenglish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    2020 is going to be my low buy year - and you have been the biggest inspiration for it. Thank you for all that you do, you’re literally changing lives ❤️

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      casenglish I’m honored and YES YOU CAN! 2020 is yours ❤️

  • @hypefine
    @hypefine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Everybody: let’s lose weight and have more meaningful relationships in the Roaring Twenties
    Me: it’s a low buy detox for me. (Share video to FB) (click)

  • @rachaelgraziotto686
    @rachaelgraziotto686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m starting a low buy this year so I can save enough for my first down payment by the end of 2020! Can’t wait to save my money so that I can be a homeowner in the next 12 months!

  • @brittney1950
    @brittney1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Christina for updating us on this year’s low buy. Your motivation determination to pay down debt keeps me accountable on my journey

  • @carolinebennett5615
    @carolinebennett5615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I so enjoyed this video. I’ve been approaching the same thing from a different direction - decluttering - but your story fits where I need to go next. As I get rid of “stuff” it’s increasingly clear I can’t just replace it with more so was exploring my own sort of ‘low buy’. But so helpful to learn from someone else’s journey so thank you so much for sharing this. I fell into the patterns you describe much later in life after years of successful self sufficiency but am now finding my way back. Thank you again from a new sub.

  • @faqu529
    @faqu529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for taking us on this journey with you. we love seeing you WIN.

  • @pugluvnapril79
    @pugluvnapril79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This spoke to me on so many levels. I was definitely living the life of too much month and not enough money. I was forced to quit my job and move 1,000+ miles away in December and here we are at the end of Jan and I am still jobless. This has forced me into a shopping detox. I am 40 with no retirement and that needs to change. I’m job hunting now and the goal is saving, saving, saving. Thank you so much for this video!

  • @PritySingh
    @PritySingh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so courageous of you! You’ve done great so far and you’ll be great ahead too. The moment we start taking responsibilities for our own wrong choices, we are capable to fight them too. I’ve already started a low buy from this year only and will continue it through out my life hopefully.
    Love prity xx

  • @soniavelez1478
    @soniavelez1478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YES budgeting is key! So much of my anxiety revolved around money and I didn’t realize it until I started budgeting.

  • @chereemechelle5308
    @chereemechelle5308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You go girl! No seriously... thank you for being so authentic and candid. I’m inspired and ready for my no buy year!!!! Thank you!

  • @cristinamagurean
    @cristinamagurean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just found your video and I feel it is going to change my life. I decided to go on a low buy year because I am a spender and I am sick of it. I am a new subscriber and I felt so inspired by your journey that I am decided to follow your lead. I can resonate with 90 % of what you are saying in this video...and how amazing that I just "stumbled" on your channel by accident....or not...Thank you !!!!!!

  • @faeriesmak
    @faeriesmak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love your content. A lot of what you say really resonates with me and makes me really think about things that I have not considered before. Thank you! Plus you are just the nicest and truthful person ever.

  • @nataliehill9056
    @nataliehill9056 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm just finding your video. Thank you for sharing your story and being candid. I think a lot of people can relate to this, but don't know where to start. I personally related to feeling ashamed of my overspending, knowing that there are long term needs that have to be addressed and wanting to break the wheel, but being so emotionally involved you can't stop. Rock bottom. Thank you for helping me realize I am not alone and that it is possible to get out of the cycle.

  • @acw2022
    @acw2022 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You've helped inspire me this year to kick my student loans out of my life, so thank you so much for continuing to share the ups and downs that your low buy brought you this year. You've helped to keep me motivated, and I will be debt free in March of 2020!

  • @angelahegarty5438
    @angelahegarty5438 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have really given me hope. You addressed every single issue I have been struggling with. My 2020 started with decluttering just my stuff, not buying, and deciding what's important to me. Thank you.

  • @ThyNguyen-gw4xl
    @ThyNguyen-gw4xl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so proud of you Christina! I believe in you and am so inspired of following your financial journey alongside you. Congratulations for being another step closer to being debt free! Wishing you all the best!

  • @SonyaandSidney
    @SonyaandSidney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You've been an inspiration to me. I am finishing a 6-month shopping ban. I wasn't 100% successful in following it, but it did change my shopping habits, so I'm considering it a success! I'm not sure if I'll do a low buy next year or not. I'm going to keep trying to follow the "do I need it and will I use it" questioning which has become a habit, but not specifically keeping myself to a no-buy other than that and staying within my budget.

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sounds perfect to me! ❤️❤️

    • @s.b.5591
      @s.b.5591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even if it wasn't 100 percent perfect that sounds like a success. To me 30 percent better sounds like a great success. Congrats

  • @tanyabaldwin9707
    @tanyabaldwin9707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad I came across this video or TH-cam suggested it, more like it! I will be doing a low-buy year. So much of what you mentioned resonated with me and I am looking forward to being financially balanced. I honestly do not have any debt however, I am a spender and it is tied to; boredom and lack of self control. I want to be able to not constantly think about what my next purchase is going to be and how “happy” I will feel once I have that item. I want to purchase with intention. Thanks for sharing this video! 🥰

  • @deborah7121
    @deborah7121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This has been the best video that I have watched on TH-cam in a very long time. Thank you for this. Thank you.

  • @amiraloves04
    @amiraloves04 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been tracking every purchase I have made in the past 6 months and most definitely need to have a low-buy year. I have created a detailed spreadsheet with categories and budgets for food, needs and wants. I definitely need to detox. This sounds very much like me, "I need to treat myself." I have student debt as well, so I definitely need to get out of that. I have been watching your journey for the past year and its amazing! Good for you girl, keep going!! Can't wait to see where else your finances and shopping goes xo!

  • @celire888
    @celire888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU for such a raw and honest video - especially about that crushing feeling from student loans and how it infiltrates your headspace and life. Appreciate you putting this kind of much needed message out to the world. "You are not stuck, every choice you make is yours!"

  • @gerlindelang
    @gerlindelang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    a hundred times YES! my low buy year 2020 has done a lot for my sanity. thank you for being a role model.

  • @alicedotkay
    @alicedotkay 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your point about wanting to shop when you feel good/bored/awful/etc. really rang with me because that's exactly what I'm going through right now. Everytime I'm bored or feel anxiety, I immediately feel this need to purchase something. It's awful! I'm trying to be more mindful of how I spend my money this year - big new year resolution for 2020!

  • @kkouz45
    @kkouz45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Already had my low buy mapped out for clothes and makeup. Think I need to take it a step further. Great video!

  • @finchenzo104
    @finchenzo104 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so amazingly candid and introspective. This video was the catalyst I needed. Thank you.
    I look forward to your future content.

  • @csikomas8910
    @csikomas8910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, I just love the way you articulate the points. I've found this vid very useful and inspiring. You've obviously landed on something suited to you, that is building a life for you, which also benefits others. Good for you. For myself and since you asked, I am doing a no buy lo buy for the exact reasons you mentioned. I am tired of all the stress of minimum payments on credit cards and STILL not having the one thing I wanted, which is I don't even know anymore. The debt really stops me from enjoying any aspect of my life. I think the worst thing is its made me a super liar, not only to myself, as I never am honest with myself about the damage I've done, but towards my partner, who has no idea I carry/deal with this debt every single day. I want to live authentically. I really do. I hope replacing my time dreaming of stuff to spend money on with vids like this will help to change my mindset. Thanks. Will follow you. C

  • @caitk6016
    @caitk6016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have motivated me to do a no buy/low buy in 2020. I have similar shopping habits to what you have explained and I also have student debt that I need to work on paying off to work on financial freedom. Thank you for the motivation! 💗

  • @jessicatalpai925
    @jessicatalpai925 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Very informative video.
    I am continuing with another low buy year. I started late in 2019.
    I am loving how my cabinets, drawers, shelving, and tables are clear, not stuffed with nonsense.
    Now that I don’t spend $ on products, knick knacks, the “must have” kitchen gadgets, etc... I am more conscious on our level (globally) of consumption and the effects it has on the environment, like the ocean.
    It’s amazing the perspective you take when consumption is cut down. But I just wanted to do even best this year.
    It’s so cool you’re almost done paying off that student loan. Can’t wait to get there.

  • @lizziebkennedy7505
    @lizziebkennedy7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re just starting from a much higher base and to be honest I find that really inspiring.

  • @zabindhanji
    @zabindhanji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your inspiration, courage and honesty. Have a blessed new year.

  • @courtneyfalconer9526
    @courtneyfalconer9526 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my opinion, this is the best and most impactful video I’ve seen from you! Wow! At least the most relatable and inspirational for me, personally. I have this saved everywhere and you repeatedly hit the nail on the head with every reason why your low buy changed your life. I’m currently doing a low buy for the first time and I’m loving it! So happy for you and grateful to have found this, thank you!

  • @sophiecroteau211
    @sophiecroteau211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gosh I relate to everything you’ve explained so much. Maybe not necessarily the money concept because I’ve been working on that well but my perspective and how I treat myself. This was very well done and prepared, thank you.

  • @christineforbes2877
    @christineforbes2877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for inspiring me to commit to a no-buy/low-buy year in 2020. Ahead of the challenge, I cleaned out all of my closets to see what I have and to organize it. I also did got a major reality check by scouring through my 2019 bank statements, credit card statements, and my 2019 Amazon purchases. Yikes!!! I did put 20% of my income into retirement savings last year, but that doesn't address the wasted money I have been shelling out in credit card interest and I have no liquid savings for emergencies. Next step, make a budget on Everydollar. It's very emotional 😭😭😭

  • @andreab9351
    @andreab9351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You described how your low-buy year has changed you so eloquently. You have made me more determined to have a go myself in 2020 although I know that I will find it very challenging as I am like you were a year ago. I’m intelligent enough to realise why I shop, particularly for clothes and jewellery (many of the same reasons you talk about), but yet I still find it so difficult to stop myself. Thanks for sharing your experiences. It does help to know we’re not on our own in this consumerist world which targets us from all angles.

  • @haileyqueen6115
    @haileyqueen6115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm currently doing a no buy month, but I've been really inspired by your no buy/low buy year and others that I've seen and I'm really considering it!

  • @bethyant1192
    @bethyant1192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just happened to stumble across this video and I seriously feel like you were telling my story! I have struggled with this for years and continue to struggle with it. Sadly my husband does too! We have actually had "housechurch" in our home where Financial Peace Uni was being taught and did not adhere to Dave Ramsey's teaching because it was "too restrictive". 13 years after being in our home we are losing it. I no had I and my husband made better decisions we would not be in this predicament. I just wanted to say that your story or testimony is amazing

  • @drumnbasskim
    @drumnbasskim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to replay this right after finishing it to let it sink in deeper for myself. Thank you for opening up about this issue. It's so taboo & your dealing with it in the open gives others the courage they need to do the same & tackle the same issue with you :)

  • @aval6601
    @aval6601 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my go to video when I have a moment of weakness. Thank you so much for your honesty.

  • @danielleargent9064
    @danielleargent9064 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Christina. I have been binge watching your videos for about two weeks now. It's unbelievable how relatable your videos are to me!! - Dani 32yo Australia

  • @kathycrawford4719
    @kathycrawford4719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome! I am starting a no buy year in 2020. Your videos have encouraged me to start. Thank you!

  • @rachelmcauley
    @rachelmcauley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such an inspiration! Every time I 'think' I need to buy something, I just re-watch this video and I think to myself, what's really more important, financial freedom or more 'stuff'!!!
    Thank you for sharing your story. Keep the videos coming! I also love the FB page you set up too! Great advice there and helps me to feel motivated 👍😉😘

  • @sarahthatcher123
    @sarahthatcher123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Amazing transformation...so much growth, awareness and responsibility taking...you are such an inspiration. I really appreciate your videos,.

  • @wyrdwitch13
    @wyrdwitch13 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Christina! Your content has been invaluably inspiring & helpful for me. I am doing a low buy this year. I am excited to create positive conscious change in my life through this as you have! Wishing you the best this new year :)

  • @insertnamehereee
    @insertnamehereee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just discovered this channel and love it! Goes against everything else I watch on TH-cam always telling me to buy, buy, buy!

  • @emersimic9022
    @emersimic9022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a complete inspiration to me!! I identify with all of your old shopping behaviors and have been struggling with how to stop for the last year without much success. I am finally going to create a budget and face my money head on - the anxiety from not knowing where it goes and at the same time the shame of knowing that it is my fault is overwhelming and I’m done with it. Please keep making these videos - you are helping yourself and helping other people!! You should be so proud! Any tips for the cold turkey no buy stage? I think I need to do that to change my habits - I find myself shopping unconsciously and need to change my behavior patterns. Thanks and Happy New Year!!!

  • @apg7639
    @apg7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I still come back to this video, it is a really good reminder!

  • @andreapoulieva6717
    @andreapoulieva6717 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Christina. First of all, thank you for sharing your journey with us. Last year, I discovered Hannah's channel and she sparked something in me. You do too. 2020 will be a 6 month no buy for the first half of the year and then 6 months of low buy, replacements only. My goals is to love, use and enjoy what i already have - skincare, make up & clothing -, find what I truly love, need and declutter the rest and finally and most importantly, to save up to reach my goals : continue with the renovations of the house my partner and I bought this year, and be confortable enough in our home and finances to have the second child we so desire. I wish you a tremendous new year, new decade, even. Thank you girl. Sending love and hugs from Belgium 💗

  • @kimberlylee48
    @kimberlylee48 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I began my journey 8 years ago. I live on a budget/life plan that transformed my thinking and way of looking at money. I'm so thankful for Dave Ramsey and his ministry. I cannot imagine going back to living without intention. I'm new to your channel and enjoyed your inspiring video.

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kimberly Lee Dave is the best! Intention is the key I’m learning. I love it. Thank you!

  • @anacedres4566
    @anacedres4566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2020 is going to be my no buy year! Thank you for your advice and perspective on this ♥️

  • @jo.a.sia.
    @jo.a.sia. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been binge watching your videos lately. You have helped me kick start my own low buy /minimalism journey. Thank you so much for creating such inspiring content.

  • @OpponensMusic
    @OpponensMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so courageous of you! Shopping is definitely my default as well...I’m bored; I shop, I’m happy; I shop, I’m angry; I shop, I want to procrastinate; I shop. I spent $30k on handbags last year. 😳🤦‍♀️ I’ve officially started my LOW BUY YEAR and I already have discovered things about myself I didn’t realize. Thank you for voicing our inner thoughts and allowing us to not feel alone. 💞🙌

  • @OfficialJaclynSteele
    @OfficialJaclynSteele 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this! I think this message is so important to be sharing. This is very inspiring so thank you for sharing!

  • @a91170
    @a91170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're an inspiration. I identify with so many things you've done...

  • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
    @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am at that - I just dont know what to do now time in life. I hear you. It sounds like me 💯
    I just need to jump in, baby steps is not working for me anymore. 2020 is my year of control with a no buy. Thank you for being so raw and truthful 🤟💜🇨🇦

  • @daniellecharming
    @daniellecharming 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You've quickly become my favorite TH-camr. So grateful for your channel. And you are absolutely gorgeous 💕

  • @libraryminnie7674
    @libraryminnie7674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How motivating this is! Can you imagine how many ways you can use that money to build a fabulous future? I did the Ramsey plan, except I allowed myself to work on my emergency fund while I paid off the last 10k. I still had more to save to complete my emergency fund once I erased my consumer debt. The $1000 made me nervous and seeing money grow in an account gave me that extra kick to make it over the finish line with my emergency fund. You are a bright star for the masses who struggle with student debt. Looking forward to following your progress!

  • @kitzgfiskitz
    @kitzgfiskitz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg! Just what I needed after spending too much money for clothes and skincare in just a month. 😭

  • @brie93
    @brie93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, I relate so much to everything you're saying. Besides the student debt. Don't have that.
    But I'm definetly living paycheck to paycheck- or even beyond my means- and every time I save anything I deplete it again when I spend too much on my credit and then have to pay it off. I think about shopping non stop and I love to buy stuff. But I often just end up feeling the same or worse after all my money is spent. And so even though it terrifies me I'm going to tiptoe into change by making January a no spend month. Pray for me. Lol.

  • @laurenromeo6954
    @laurenromeo6954 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am already doing a low buy year and have started tracking any expense in my daily journal/calendar. Great video of how this way of living effected your future life...thanks!

  • @tank5932
    @tank5932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have so Incredibly much respect for what you are saying here!!!!!!
    We need much more youtubers like you Who really change the World :))

  • @silverfish2341
    @silverfish2341 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being so honest and open. I went thought something similar myself. I m recovering and doing well. Dave Ramsey helped me, pushed me and made me realize what I m doing and why I need to stop

  • @rebeccahellwig5821
    @rebeccahellwig5821 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are absolutely amazing! Way to go! So honest and sincere to others and yourself. Whoever feels superior for owning more stuff to brag about should truly be ashamed. Love from Germany *Rebecca*

  • @marcelata8078
    @marcelata8078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank your!... This is my goal for 2020 and you are a GREAT inspiration 😃

  • @ARMYprinncess
    @ARMYprinncess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so inspirational. This is my first low buy year so I’m researching now. Thanks for the tips. Honestly I’m not where I’m happy with my emergency savings and that’s my motivation.

  • @user-pp1bq5rl3t
    @user-pp1bq5rl3t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm new to your channel but thanks for sharing.
    It's gonna be my 3rd year of low buy in 2020!!! Feeling so good about it. And yes, at first it was just an experiment and just wanna see if I can actually control my desire of shopping, but gradually it turns out to be a lifestyle and I'm definitely enjoying living this way.

  • @dianeowen7314
    @dianeowen7314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you I just found you and I really like what you discovered about yourself. You did an awesome job be proud of yourself I am going on a low buy and no buy year for 2020 my danger things is craft stuff, jewelry, some makeup that I end up not using

  • @SldGrl24
    @SldGrl24 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad I ran across your video. You clearly articulated how shopping has become my norm. I live a very comfortable life, however the amount of money I spend on sneakers and outfits is ridiculous. Today I'm going to set some milestones so I can cut back on my spending and start saving money. Thank you for posting these videos.