@@cronic932they realized it wasn't their daughter they had to protect. They had to protect others from her. I hope the OP, grandparents, baby and baby daddy all spend time together. It would be great to know that terrible woman has to think about that happening regularly without her.
The one thing that weirded me out on his side was how he said her taking birth control was a red flag(which is odd because birth control can be used to things like periods and such) when they were only 6 months in, and then proceeded to not tell her about his vasectomy for like years. Other then that, I feel horrible for op.
For the first part I’m pretty sure it’s bc she didn’t tell him, and the second I think it’s like when your body knows something is wrong but u you oh don’t and so he just never thought about it. Just my opinion tho, not tryna start a fight.
being on BC or having a vasectomy is his/her business and no one else's his/her body his/her choice. it is not the having birth controll that is the red flag, it is saying that she is and that it is okay to cum inside. that is the red flag. to emphasize that you are on birth control typically means that you are lying and that you aren't. the action of taking some form of BC, not a red flag Saying that you are using it, is a red flag. he thought nothing of it at first, but he was looking back in hindsight.
The red flag was that she hadn’t mentioned it prior to the condom breaking. Usually you have that conversation very early on in relationships, but because it was never mentioned, it sounds almost like an excuse.
Yeah, I understand that’s a red flag as well, I just think it’s strange that he didn’t see his failure to tell her as a red flag, too. I’m not trying to be controversial , I just think it’s a little odd
I feel bad for what happened to op and the baby. But I’ll tell you this: that dad will raise the kid better than the momma ever could. Yeah I know the dad could be a dick too but it seems like he got shit together besides from loneliness.
kids and pets are a girls best friend, just parade him around and he'll get lots of chics wanting to date him for the baby, bonus points of he also has a cute little dog
She thought she could get away because 90% of people doing big shit like that get away. Especially women! I was that wasn't true but it is and thay case is the minority where someone had to face consequences...
social media has been exposing these women who baby trap men, falsely accuse men of SA, and these ridiculous crap in paternity court of men finding out that the baby is not his this entire time. These women must be held accountable.
Like some others have said I find it super weird that OP thinks being on Birth Control is a Red Flag but not telling your partner you got snipped is totally fine. Birth Control is used by many women to help regulate their cycles. I actually know someone who had sever, hospitalization level migraines every month until she went on BC. Obviously the whole situation is still shitty, but based on that assessment Im willing to bet we are missing a few details about the relationship somewhere.
It's a big deal to be on birth control? I think it'd be a bigger deal if they weren't on it whilst fuckin when they haven't had a conversation about Kids
if real, I agree some parts are missing/contorted. Not saying cheating is ok, or baby trapping, but this dude wrote this in a way that would get him sympathy. i bet you this guy is real pathetic. he could have just walked away but decided to conconct this plan, a real man does not do that.
My ex-girlfriend was so inconsistent with her BC pills, when we dated I would never do it without a condom. She would urge me, saying that it was no problem because she has BC. but I never trusted her. 3 months after we split up, she started dating some bloke, and close to 10 months into their relationship, she got pregnant. I never warned the dude that she was a babytrapping hazard. AITA?
You did the correct thing. Also make sure that you never leave any condoms in her trash bin if you are visiting her and don't let her dispose of the condom for you. Never ever trust a woman when she says she's on the pills. Women will occasionally go to the depravity of digging trough the trash to flip the condom inside out and inserting it in the hopes of babytrapping. Someone I was with was desperate to have me fuck her without a condom even though we had only been together for like a week. It screamed red flag. There was some low tier subhuman woman cleaner who did this to a rich guy, and because family courts are heavily biased towards women, she won the case and he was forced to pay crazy millions of dollars in child support and still does to my knowledge.
@@sixthcairnyea but if I got the opportunity to tell him I would not to be a good 0erson lol it's ti stop her fuck up plans destroying her happiness in the process bc fuck her for trying that
Not this time, and I have no direct reports or evidence that a vasectomy can self-reverse, but I do know that a felopian tube ligation, the women's equivalent, can given enough time. As such, I'd suggest OP talk to a doctor and have the vasectomy rechecked to see if the snip has healed over if and when he starts dating again.
When you get snipped they typically recommend to initial tests to confirm it's good and then annual checks thereafter. It's crazy long odds but does happen.
Fun fact tho: even with a vastectomy, you CAN get someone pregnant, as some sperm may be produced and released. It has happened to a lot of ppl over the years, remember that there is still a small chance! Stay safe and wear protection
I'm glad someone mentioned this! It's honestly crazy how people think that it can't happen just because they had a vasectomy. There's still that small chance it might happen
Bruh. Imagine the amount of modification one would physically need to have that fast of a gestation period startup. Basically a human incubator at that point...
@Blurgamer17 yeah...that's why sex Ed and human reproduction education is important. If he knew this much then she wouldn't have gotten away with it. He would have found out 6 months into the relationship and dumped her.
That's because it wasn't conceived in a week from their intercourse... It was much earlier with a different man, the condom and birth control stuff was all likely a plot to cover the fact she had already begun to feel the effects. A sort of "oh shit, I need to make an excuse for this asap"
I get that OP was mad, but if he had just confronted her off the bat, maybe she would've gotten an abortion and the kid wouldn't have been born into such a messed up situation.
ye but the kid didn't ask for any of it. It ended up well this time but baby could live in an abandon shelter or with a druggy mom. @@ranger_savage8406
and then what? forgive her for cheating on him plus even if he somehow would've forgiven her she still was a drug user and a thief and a two faced cheater who framed people(by this made people who might have family to feed lose their job and made their lives harder by making them having a hard time finding a job), can you forgive that? and for the information the baby WAS born into a messed up situation now he is with his bio dad who sounds like a good man just lonely and OP is still in contact with him so we can understand he is not such a horrible person at that
if she got an IUD doesnt that mean she doesnt want a baby, i get that he shouldve told her and he was wrong for that but doesnt change the fact that she cheated and pretended the baby was his. Also im not saying you said that she was ok for cheating :)
@@grbrah1198 Yeah, I commented before finishing the video so that's on my part to blame. her getting the IUD I suspected she got it before she was even pregnant or in the early stage of pregnancy. and naw she is a straight cheater and junkie. I don't feel bad for her, I just thought him getting snipped didn't work until.....he said I was calm. I just got caught up with him saying he wanted to tell her ASAP and then he doesn't until the baby is born. sweet justice
a vasectomy technically is 99.99% effective But if she actually got an IUD it's probably because she was letting so many other guys raw dog her. I mean I don't know how else you convince a guy to slam his hand in a car door break some bones then not take pain killers while it heals.
Yeah just casually find out you're dealing a career criminal, this one is a little bit beyond the usual betrayal or breaking of social contract. I sure hope I would be able to sniff it out, but the stories make it look so hard.
I don’t know I’m kinda happy he waited but at the same time sad he wasted the little time he has on this earth with her after finding out about the baby.
Two things.... 1.) This happened to a friend of mine too 2.) Vasectomies can reverse themselves. Had a friend where he had a baby 11yrs after he had his done. He went to the doctor to verify, and sure enough his vasectomy didn't hold.
Whenever I hear these type of revenge stories it makes sense how these people ended up together in the first place, like bro something is wrong with you
A lot of abusive, toxic people are really good at hiding their true face. If OP didn't low-key get snipped, he probably would've fallen for it until it was way too late to pull the ripcord.
That very much seems a "suspected her of something, but couldn't prove it," and "unresolved issues in your own life that your not mentioning" kind of thing. It took me about two and a half years years to get a vasectomy, to think about life and my situation, whether I was okay with permanently never having kids, whether or not my situation would improve and then I might want kids and more. There's certainly people who don't think that deeply and get vasectomies for less, but damn, it's certainly a bigger decision than many people make it out to be.
If a woman has no obligation to tell a man she's getting an abortion, then a man has no obligation to tell anyone they've had a vasectomy unless directly asked.
There are so many things that do not make sense. He intended to tell her that he had a vasectomy. Gets caught in work and forgot for TWO AND A HALF YEARS. Then he knew it wasn’t his child still waited for the baby to get delivered. WHY? He should have walked out immediately. If she was selling meds, there’s a heavy chance that she’s connected to some shady people. Why did he take that risk?
No, it's not. It's just sad, nothing more. That kid is the most innocent party in all of this and they got to start life with an irresponsible mother that can't be there for them.
@@T3n50rhilarious for the mom because not everyone should be parents, the kid wasn’t asked to be born though. I’ll never really understand why people bring kids into this world knowing they aren’t fit to take care of them mentally and physically.
@@T3n50r Well its a crack baby at should consider itself Lucky that it might not be mentally disabled ( you can only telll afew years later) and got a father with a house. The Mother is a fking Joke though and does not just belog to the streets but should also live in a garbage dump. Even though she had a smart and loving partner she chosed to become trash. Thats Peak Joke and well deserved ending.
I don’t know how true this story actually is but for any story that is even closely related to this. I’ll still always feel bad for the child. There are a lot of innocent children in this world that are born into a shit show. I was lucky enough to have both my parents in my life but I even have a friend who doesn’t even know what a mom or dad is. He was constantly moved to new custody as he grew up. It was quite depressing to learn about this because for me to be lucky to have both parents in my childhood, I couldn’t imagine the issues I’d have if they weren’t in my life.
She's obviously way worse. Not gonna dispute that, but it takes a certain type of person to be able to lie to a good lier the way this guys did. I don't like this guy either. Again, she's obviously way worse, but the way the dude acts screams sociopath
getting a vasectomy is not "cringe," it's responsible. It shouldn't be on women to handle all of the birth control, and sexual partners need to have all their bases covered and have safety discussions. there should be more vasectomies, even if they are not a guarantee for pregnancy prevention.
So her being on birth control and not telling him when they are only six months into the relationship is a red flag but having a vasectomy and not finding the time to tell her in 2,5 years is not? Don't get me wrong, she is a horrible person. But if a woman you dates uses bc and doesn't mention it the first time you eff doesn't mean she is a red flag.
The failure rate for a vasectomy is much less than condoms or IUDs. Yes, it still does happen but it's already rare for IUDs to fail, let alone a vasectomy. (Source: vasectomy paperwork I got 9 weeks ago.)
2:53 well given no one consents to being born and all life contains suffering. Having a biological child is an imposition of unnecessary suffering without consent on another being/ person... so its actually likey the most ethical action OP has taken in his life. Also the planet is dying, so even if your a moral antirealist (idiot) it just makes sense to acknowledge its cruel af to bring a person into this Hellhole. I also have a vesectomy. Age 23M
Baby trapping is a term a didnt know, but often came to the same conclusion. Makes sense why child support supports more often female than men. Makes sense why you have to pay when they are the ones who said "i like it raw" (that should be able to be used in court). Makes sense they wanna throw all responsibility at men when they dont do birth control (remember, YOU are the one getting pregnant).
The responsibility is on both sides, once the baby is there, even if through an accident, there responsibility will be there no matter what either parent's original intentions were, so safest bet is if you don't want kids, do literally everything in your power not to have them.
@google1030 Men only have three ways of "disabling" pregnancy on our side: - Condoms, virtually the only viable method - Vasectomy, has life-long consequences, mostly irreversible - Celibacy, shouldn't even be considered since it's obvious. Females have multiple, what do they choose to do? They don't wanna be on birth control for whatever reason, so the man has to use Condoms, putting all the weight of chances on a glove of latex. Let's say it breaks because she's _tight_ , or because she wasn't lubed enough so the was more friction. After the sexual revolution females normalized hook-ups, but "opsies" they can still get pregnant, solution? Charge a man they barely know 18 years of their salary. I don't know how are the laws where you live, but here the child support fee is proportional to the man's income. That's outrageous! Any female could baby-trap a rich man and not have to work again (the latest news I read on the topic was one taking 50K from the man and still calling it not enough). I feel it's a little unfair to put that weight on a random man, while females should have accountability and be conscious of their biology, or when they didn't put any effort into protecting themselves. If a man is the target of chances, he is brutally milked for years. So, my solution, since strong independent females won't give up hook-up culture (after all, they fought for it), is giving them abortion rights, I do believe its killing, but hey at least that would teach them some responsibility by living with guilt, but remove any unfair child support laws. After all, men mostly have no say when it comes to abortion, and even the states where it is legal have child support laws. In all scenarios, females are unfairly and biased benefited.
To make this story more predictable, op's girlfriend shouldn't have been pregnant the first time and only thought she was. Then op talked himself into getting snipped cause he didn't want kids.
So the girl tried one of the most dangerous scams she can do to ruin her “baby daddy’s” life at the same time selling drugs and being a “free” escort, she should’ve realized her actions would’ve caught up with her sooner than later.
These stories are not just fake, they are almost all written by ai. I can tell because if the constant “style”, i say that as a writer. Its annoying honestly. That said, im still gonna watch cause its mindless lol.
So you're saying people posting on a popular website that's been around for 18 years sound similar? Do you know how many "-said calmly" and "-hold my beer" memes I see in TH-cam comments? Are those all bots too?
I just get so jealous how a man can get a vasectomy at 21 yet a woman has to be 30+ with 3-4 kids before a doctor burns her tubes. Just not fair at all. I wanted a tubal done when I was 22 I went to 4 doctors. One was a woman. They all said the same thing they wouldn’t help me because I might want kids later. I never did. When I got (R) it ended in pregnancy. To this day I hate every single doctor for telling me no. I gave the kid up for adoption. I was to far along to get rid of it. This was 9 years ago. No I have never met the kid it was a closed adoption and I want nothing to with him. I always blame the doctors for trapping me like that
That's strange because I looked it up, and at the 21, a woman can get a tubal ligation. I looked up "your situation," and this is what I got: "If you're in your 20s, your doctor may not take your request for a tubal ligation seriously. Keep in mind that in most instances, they're simply coming from a place of concern that you will regret your decision someday. Even so, you don't have to accept their refusal to do the procedure as final." I'm sorry that happened to you.
@@ChestRockwell24what??? It’s the exact opposite. So many dads get away with not paying child support and just leave and never see the kids again. Women are the ones that usually have to raise the kid on their own.
How can you have sex (willing or not) Then suddenly time skip to "too far along for abortion", you were in a coma during the abortion window? Docs wouldnt let you tie the tubes which would have prevented it? that sucks. You chose to not abort but now you complain? that part makes no sense, take responsibility for your inaction.
@@FractalPrism. "How can you have sex (willing or not) Then suddenly time skip to "too far along for abortion", you were in a coma during the abortion window? Docs wouldnt let you tie the tubes which would have prevented it? that sucks. You chose to not abort but now you complain? that part makes no sense, take responsibility for your inaction." You're focused on the wrong issue. Her main complaint was not the inability to get an abortion because it was too far along. Her complaint is the fact that *four* doctors refused to give her the tubal ligation she requested, which would have avoided the entire issue of the R pregnancy. So even if she had gotten the abortion, she would have still been rightfully pissed the f**k off because there were 4 dumbass doctors who refused to give her the procedure she wanted, which would have prevented her from having to through a very uncomfortable abortion procedure.
This is what most men don't understand is could you have a vasectomy does it mean you can't have kids a vasectomy your little guy is can actually still get through from time to time it's a 1% chance but it can happen also your vasectomy can become undone so you have to be checked every 2 to 5 years to make sure that it's still in place just like a for a woman and you get your tubes tied you can still get it at the top a topical pregnancy or you can get pregnant in general because your tubes can become untied and the guys little guys can still slip through so nothing is guaranteed I totally hate when I say I can't be the baby's father because I had a vasectomy that doesn't mean anything all it means is there's a lower chance of getting pregnant does it mean you can't get somebody pregnant
Love that OP still hangs out with the parents when they originally were ready to kick him out at a moment's notice.
Don’t really blame them for wanting to keep their daughter safe (obviously that is no longer a concern)
@@cronic932they realized it wasn't their daughter they had to protect. They had to protect others from her. I hope the OP, grandparents, baby and baby daddy all spend time together. It would be great to know that terrible woman has to think about that happening regularly without her.
@@cronic932 "for wanting to keep their daughter safe"
Dude their daughter is a horrible person...
@@Digger-Nick Parents didnt know that way back when
Bro those stories are completely made up
The one thing that weirded me out on his side was how he said her taking birth control was a red flag(which is odd because birth control can be used to things like periods and such) when they were only 6 months in, and then proceeded to not tell her about his vasectomy for like years. Other then that, I feel horrible for op.
For the first part I’m pretty sure it’s bc she didn’t tell him, and the second I think it’s like when your body knows something is wrong but u you oh don’t and so he just never thought about it. Just my opinion tho, not tryna start a fight.
The birth control is a red flag to him. Most men don't know the extra shit it does for women.
being on BC or having a vasectomy is his/her business and no one else's his/her body his/her choice. it is not the having birth controll that is the red flag, it is saying that she is and that it is okay to cum inside. that is the red flag. to emphasize that you are on birth control typically means that you are lying and that you aren't.
the action of taking some form of BC, not a red flag
Saying that you are using it, is a red flag.
he thought nothing of it at first, but he was looking back in hindsight.
The red flag was that she hadn’t mentioned it prior to the condom breaking.
Usually you have that conversation very early on in relationships, but because it was never mentioned, it sounds almost like an excuse.
Yeah, I understand that’s a red flag as well, I just think it’s strange that he didn’t see his failure to tell her as a red flag, too. I’m not trying to be controversial , I just think it’s a little odd
Dude needs to take an STD test since she was passed around more than a deck of cards in a casino.
The fact that he didnt thought about that or left that out of the story.
probably did if this story is real
I hope so
Even a deck of cards isn't passed around because they swap them out after a few games lmao.
Getting baby trapped almost makes you wish for a nuclear winter.
FUCK THE NCR!
What were you going through bro 😭🤣
Geez...
True, thanks god now it is getting illegal
Lets us hope they do not live in the Mojave.
Her: "What should we name our baby?"
Him: "The game was rigged from the start."
Weird that they didn't discuss that first
@@MashamazziSome people are like that
"We should name him after his real dad."
@@Mashamazzi I usually believe these stories but this one seems really fake.
@@AStaff-gh4voThis comment got me CRACKING up 😭😭
I feel bad for what happened to op and the baby. But I’ll tell you this: that dad will raise the kid better than the momma ever could. Yeah I know the dad could be a dick too but it seems like he got shit together besides from loneliness.
maybe having the kid around might help with the loneliness
kids and pets are a girls best friend, just parade him around and he'll get lots of chics wanting to date him for the baby, bonus points of he also has a cute little dog
Really? What if dad is like?
Wtf? This is was a one stand scort, why did I have to be the u lucky one in the 10 she attended that night..
she really thought she could get away with this shit, but life had different plans for her.
She thought she could get away because 90% of people doing big shit like that get away. Especially women!
I was that wasn't true but it is and thay case is the minority where someone had to face consequences...
From the streets she came and to the streets she shall return
Amen, Father Future
Amen
Amen
"I looked like the Cheshire Cat" has to be the most amazing description ever
My man was smiling like an absolutely unhinged menace
social media has been exposing these women who baby trap men, falsely accuse men of SA, and these ridiculous crap in paternity court of men finding out that the baby is not his this entire time.
These women must be held accountable.
I thought this was going to be another story of a failed vasectomy...Nope couldn't be further from the truth.
That was my first thought too.
really?? i thought it was gonna be exactly what it was!🤣
Like some others have said I find it super weird that OP thinks being on Birth Control is a Red Flag but not telling your partner you got snipped is totally fine. Birth Control is used by many women to help regulate their cycles. I actually know someone who had sever, hospitalization level migraines every month until she went on BC. Obviously the whole situation is still shitty, but based on that assessment Im willing to bet we are missing a few details about the relationship somewhere.
yeah, tbh, it's fucking weird to not have meaningful conversations /pretty early on/ with a steady partner about contraception.
It's a big deal to be on birth control? I think it'd be a bigger deal if they weren't on it whilst fuckin when they haven't had a conversation about Kids
if real, I agree some parts are missing/contorted. Not saying cheating is ok, or baby trapping, but this dude wrote this in a way that would get him sympathy. i bet you this guy is real pathetic. he could have just walked away but decided to conconct this plan, a real man does not do that.
@@orlandopizano9432real men cry all day while their wives have fun with others
I think he did it to understand weather she was cheating or not
My ex-girlfriend was so inconsistent with her BC pills, when we dated I would never do it without a condom. She would urge me, saying that it was no problem because she has BC. but I never trusted her. 3 months after we split up, she started dating some bloke, and close to 10 months into their relationship, she got pregnant. I never warned the dude that she was a babytrapping hazard. AITA?
He's not your responsibility.
You did the correct thing.
Also make sure that you never leave any condoms in her trash bin if you are visiting her and don't let her dispose of the condom for you. Never ever trust a woman when she says she's on the pills.
Women will occasionally go to the depravity of digging trough the trash to flip the condom inside out and inserting it in the hopes of babytrapping.
Someone I was with was desperate to have me fuck her without a condom even though we had only been together for like a week. It screamed red flag.
There was some low tier subhuman woman cleaner who did this to a rich guy, and because family courts are heavily biased towards women, she won the case and he was forced to pay crazy millions of dollars in child support and still does to my knowledge.
@@sixthcairnyea but if I got the opportunity to tell him I would not to be a good 0erson lol it's ti stop her fuck up plans destroying her happiness in the process bc fuck her for trying that
I woulda told him bro read my explanation above this if you see my reply
@@Luka21010 there is no explanation above this. you're gonna have to type it
Still hangout with the parents???
This guy is a menace.
Not this time, and I have no direct reports or evidence that a vasectomy can self-reverse, but I do know that a felopian tube ligation, the women's equivalent, can given enough time. As such, I'd suggest OP talk to a doctor and have the vasectomy rechecked to see if the snip has healed over if and when he starts dating again.
I heard a story like this before. Guy went and got tested to confirm he was firing blanks. Then had a notary witness and sign it.
When you get snipped they typically recommend to initial tests to confirm it's good and then annual checks thereafter. It's crazy long odds but does happen.
Her telling him she's on birth control & him being too busy with fallout new vegas to pay attention absolutely makes sense 😂😂😂
She must have thought "The game was rigged from the start" before OP told her he knew and OP quite literally dropped a nuclear winter on her life.
Fallout: New Vegas was a great game.
OP is kinda shady too. Don't get me wrong it's all good what happened to her though.
Exactly
"The P stands for pregnant" 😂
Still hanging out with her parents. savage
He calls them Mommy and Daddy now.
Fun fact tho: even with a vastectomy, you CAN get someone pregnant, as some sperm may be produced and released. It has happened to a lot of ppl over the years, remember that there is still a small chance! Stay safe and wear protection
i think some women have even gotten pregnant with there tubes tied as well so makes sense
I'm glad someone mentioned this! It's honestly crazy how people think that it can't happen just because they had a vasectomy. There's still that small chance it might happen
Am sorry but no one gets pregnant enough to experience morning sickness within a week of conception.
Bruh. Imagine the amount of modification one would physically need to have that fast of a gestation period startup. Basically a human incubator at that point...
@Blurgamer17 yeah...that's why sex Ed and human reproduction education is important. If he knew this much then she wouldn't have gotten away with it. He would have found out 6 months into the relationship and dumped her.
That’s because the entire story is false.
That's because it wasn't conceived in a week from their intercourse... It was much earlier with a different man, the condom and birth control stuff was all likely a plot to cover the fact she had already begun to feel the effects.
A sort of "oh shit, I need to make an excuse for this asap"
What man has a vasectomy and continues to use condoms into a committed relationship and on top of that not bringing it up.
I get that OP was mad, but if he had just confronted her off the bat, maybe she would've gotten an abortion and the kid wouldn't have been born into such a messed up situation.
Naw. Once a cheater always a cheater
ye but the kid didn't ask for any of it. It ended up well this time but baby could live in an abandon shelter or with a druggy mom. @@ranger_savage8406
@@ranger_savage8406 they're saying don't let the kid suffer because of the mother
@@ranger_savage8406this doesn't affect only the mom.
and then what? forgive her for cheating on him plus even if he somehow would've forgiven her she still was a drug user and a thief and a two faced cheater who framed people(by this made people who might have family to feed lose their job and made their lives harder by making them having a hard time finding a job), can you forgive that? and for the information the baby WAS born into a messed up situation now he is with his bio dad who sounds like a good man just lonely and OP is still in contact with him so we can understand he is not such a horrible person at that
so he didnt tell her he got clipped, they stopped using bc and condoms and then got IUD. bro you still didn't tell her!
Edit: ohh the ending was sweet
if she got an IUD doesnt that mean she doesnt want a baby, i get that he shouldve told her and he was wrong for that but doesnt change the fact that she cheated and pretended the baby was his. Also im not saying you said that she was ok for cheating :)
@@grbrah1198 Yeah, I commented before finishing the video so that's on my part to blame. her getting the IUD I suspected she got it before she was even pregnant or in the early stage of pregnancy. and naw she is a straight cheater and junkie. I don't feel bad for her, I just thought him getting snipped didn't work until.....he said I was calm. I just got caught up with him saying he wanted to tell her ASAP and then he doesn't until the baby is born. sweet justice
a vasectomy technically is 99.99% effective But if she actually got an IUD it's probably because she was letting so many other guys raw dog her. I mean I don't know how else you convince a guy to slam his hand in a car door break some bones then not take pain killers while it heals.
This was some light yagami shit
True no better way to describe it
correct, both are fiction
Yeah just casually find out you're dealing a career criminal, this one is a little bit beyond the usual betrayal or breaking of social contract.
I sure hope I would be able to sniff it out, but the stories make it look so hard.
You dropped this, king 👑
I don’t know I’m kinda happy he waited but at the same time sad he wasted the little time he has on this earth with her after finding out about the baby.
Im impressed with P’s ninja skill
love more long form content. Keep up with the great videos
Two things....
1.) This happened to a friend of mine too
2.) Vasectomies can reverse themselves. Had a friend where he had a baby 11yrs after he had his done. He went to the doctor to verify, and sure enough his vasectomy didn't hold.
i love this channel, no opinions from creator, nothing, just story updates and edits, its nice as backround while i play games or while im at work...
Damn, what a roller coaster ! The ending was very satisfying ! 😈👌
Whenever I hear these type of revenge stories it makes sense how these people ended up together in the first place, like bro something is wrong with you
A lot of abusive, toxic people are really good at hiding their true face. If OP didn't low-key get snipped, he probably would've fallen for it until it was way too late to pull the ripcord.
Like I always say: "Shit attracted and are attracted by shit!"
There are NO expectations! Glad you made this comment!
I always tell my son's.. learning how to screen a person, is morn important than learning how to "get" a person.
i see it as an absolute win
In what way
because she was utterly destroyed@@osamaKareem2
@@osamaKareem2 Revenge is ofter very appetising in these situations. Compared to the potential outcome, this was optimal
Junkie!304 returned to THE STREETS !!!
...bro literally stayed in that relationship for 9-10 months for revenge. Although people will take his side, that's not healthy.
"I still hang out with her parents"
Bro is the son in law they Always wanted 😂
Still don’t get how getting a vasectomy never came up
That very much seems a "suspected her of something, but couldn't prove it," and "unresolved issues in your own life that your not mentioning" kind of thing. It took me about two and a half years years to get a vasectomy, to think about life and my situation, whether I was okay with permanently never having kids, whether or not my situation would improve and then I might want kids and more. There's certainly people who don't think that deeply and get vasectomies for less, but damn, it's certainly a bigger decision than many people make it out to be.
Having a vasectomy is like a super power.
If a woman has no obligation to tell a man she's getting an abortion, then a man has no obligation to tell anyone they've had a vasectomy unless directly asked.
Fallout New Vegas? Damn. He did an absolute:
"The game was rigged from the start"
Props to him 👍
I am so glad cheater got caught.
Well, the chances of both the vasectomy, as well as her own countermeasure failing simultaneously is very, very, very, very, very, very slim.
This is exactly the sort of shit why paternity tests need to be mandatory.
I hope he gets tested for STDs if he didnt yet. Other than that just feel sad for the baby really, it was good
There are so many things that do not make sense. He intended to tell her that he had a vasectomy. Gets caught in work and forgot for TWO AND A HALF YEARS. Then he knew it wasn’t his child still waited for the baby to get delivered. WHY? He should have walked out immediately. If she was selling meds, there’s a heavy chance that she’s connected to some shady people. Why did he take that risk?
She went Naruto on everyone, "that's my nindo my ninja way" 😂
This some anime plot
I'm glad the baby ended up alright. In a lot of these stories the babies end up staying with the cheating parent or in foster care
NAH BRO IM PLAYING FALLOUT WHILE LISTENING TO THIS LMAOOOOOO
Too good to be true. Damn I hope that this is true
it's always hilarious when the single mother is such a loser she has her child taken from her 🤣😂
No, it's not. It's just sad, nothing more. That kid is the most innocent party in all of this and they got to start life with an irresponsible mother that can't be there for them.
It’s very sad not hilarious
@@T3n50rhilarious for the mom because not everyone should be parents, the kid wasn’t asked to be born though. I’ll never really understand why people bring kids into this world knowing they aren’t fit to take care of them mentally and physically.
@@T3n50r Well its a crack baby at should consider itself Lucky that it might not be mentally disabled ( you can only telll afew years later) and got a father with a house.
The Mother is a fking Joke though and does not just belog to the streets but should also live in a garbage dump. Even though she had a smart and loving partner she chosed to become trash. Thats Peak Joke and well deserved ending.
@@T3n50r the kids is now with his father, so whats the sad part about it? Would be much worse if he had stayed with his mom.
One of the few times I've been absolutely convinced that this was NOT written by AI.
“Best of all” 😂😂💀
I don’t know how true this story actually is but for any story that is even closely related to this.
I’ll still always feel bad for the child. There are a lot of innocent children in this world that are born into a shit show. I was lucky enough to have both my parents in my life but I even have a friend who doesn’t even know what a mom or dad is. He was constantly moved to new custody as he grew up. It was quite depressing to learn about this because for me to be lucky to have both parents in my childhood, I couldn’t imagine the issues I’d have if they weren’t in my life.
I wish who ever is using this please stop moving just stay in the same spot it gives a headache
She's obviously way worse. Not gonna dispute that, but it takes a certain type of person to be able to lie to a good lier the way this guys did. I don't like this guy either. Again, she's obviously way worse, but the way the dude acts screams sociopath
getting a vasectomy is not "cringe," it's responsible. It shouldn't be on women to handle all of the birth control, and sexual partners need to have all their bases covered and have safety discussions. there should be more vasectomies, even if they are not a guarantee for pregnancy prevention.
So her being on birth control and not telling him when they are only six months into the relationship is a red flag but having a vasectomy and not finding the time to tell her in 2,5 years is not? Don't get me wrong, she is a horrible person. But if a woman you dates uses bc and doesn't mention it the first time you eff doesn't mean she is a red flag.
She thought she could screw over someone with a 10 on perception and intelligence
Too many holes in this story to believe. Biggest one being how was she not imprisoned for illegally selling drugs and stealing.
This... this is one of the reasons we've stopped dating.
Busted cooter is my new favorite word 😂😂
Many men have had children after a vasectomy.
The failure rate for a vasectomy is much less than condoms or IUDs. Yes, it still does happen but it's already rare for IUDs to fail, let alone a vasectomy. (Source: vasectomy paperwork I got 9 weeks ago.)
i was so scared that it would end up being his kid lol
2:53 well given no one consents to being born and all life contains suffering. Having a biological child is an imposition of unnecessary suffering without consent on another being/ person... so its actually likey the most ethical action OP has taken in his life. Also the planet is dying, so even if your a moral antirealist (idiot) it just makes sense to acknowledge its cruel af to bring a person into this Hellhole.
I also have a vesectomy. Age 23M
Oi that is CRUELLLLL I am on the floor laughinggggg
Yeahhh I feel him, I would've forgotten about what she told me. That game's better LOL
Bros one step ahead
1000% deserved
That was too much work for revenge
Oh maaaaan must be hard to have no home, no job, no carrer, no wife and no kids. :)
Devious revenge A+
Since when has women taking birth control been a red flag lmaoo
Fun fact: a cooter is a snapping turtle.
“I was busy with fallout new Vegas at the time”. Real
That’s one epic story
That is wild bro
All this is an AI story 😂😂
Baby trapping is a term a didnt know, but often came to the same conclusion.
Makes sense why child support supports more often female than men. Makes sense why you have to pay when they are the ones who said "i like it raw" (that should be able to be used in court). Makes sense they wanna throw all responsibility at men when they dont do birth control (remember, YOU are the one getting pregnant).
The responsibility is on both sides, once the baby is there, even if through an accident, there responsibility will be there no matter what either parent's original intentions were, so safest bet is if you don't want kids, do literally everything in your power not to have them.
@google1030 Men only have three ways of "disabling" pregnancy on our side:
- Condoms, virtually the only viable method
- Vasectomy, has life-long consequences, mostly irreversible
- Celibacy, shouldn't even be considered since it's obvious.
Females have multiple, what do they choose to do? They don't wanna be on birth control for whatever reason, so the man has to use Condoms, putting all the weight of chances on a glove of latex. Let's say it breaks because she's _tight_ , or because she wasn't lubed enough so the was more friction.
After the sexual revolution females normalized hook-ups, but "opsies" they can still get pregnant, solution? Charge a man they barely know 18 years of their salary. I don't know how are the laws where you live, but here the child support fee is proportional to the man's income. That's outrageous! Any female could baby-trap a rich man and not have to work again (the latest news I read on the topic was one taking 50K from the man and still calling it not enough).
I feel it's a little unfair to put that weight on a random man, while females should have accountability and be conscious of their biology, or when they didn't put any effort into protecting themselves. If a man is the target of chances, he is brutally milked for years.
So, my solution, since strong independent females won't give up hook-up culture (after all, they fought for it), is giving them abortion rights, I do believe its killing, but hey at least that would teach them some responsibility by living with guilt, but remove any unfair child support laws. After all, men mostly have no say when it comes to abortion, and even the states where it is legal have child support laws. In all scenarios, females are unfairly and biased benefited.
This story feels fake.
starting to think that getting a vasectomy is a baby trapped resistance
To make this story more predictable, op's girlfriend shouldn't have been pregnant the first time and only thought she was. Then op talked himself into getting snipped cause he didn't want kids.
It sounds like they’re both liars lmao
You don't get those symptoms after one week...
litteral sociopath
Lol, this is the dumbest piece of fiction out of these Reddit stories.
I don't read these for realism, I read these for entertainment.
So the girl tried one of the most dangerous scams she can do to ruin her “baby daddy’s” life at the same time selling drugs and being a “free” escort, she should’ve realized her actions would’ve caught up with her sooner than later.
SHE TRYNA SELL HER WHAT????
These stories are not just fake, they are almost all written by ai. I can tell because if the constant “style”, i say that as a writer. Its annoying honestly. That said, im still gonna watch cause its mindless lol.
So you're saying people posting on a popular website that's been around for 18 years sound similar? Do you know how many "-said calmly" and "-hold my beer" memes I see in TH-cam comments? Are those all bots too?
Most of these stories were written long before chatGPT existed. If anything, chatGPT was trained on these stories.
Correct me if I'm wrong but doesn't it take more than 1 week for morning sickness to start?
Fallout: New Vegas do be distracting people
I just get so jealous how a man can get a vasectomy at 21 yet a woman has to be 30+ with 3-4 kids before a doctor burns her tubes. Just not fair at all. I wanted a tubal done when I was 22 I went to 4 doctors. One was a woman. They all said the same thing they wouldn’t help me because I might want kids later. I never did. When I got (R) it ended in pregnancy. To this day I hate every single doctor for telling me no. I gave the kid up for adoption. I was to far along to get rid of it. This was 9 years ago. No I have never met the kid it was a closed adoption and I want nothing to with him. I always blame the doctors for trapping me like that
Us men are jealous of how a woman can shirk all responsibility for a child if she doesn't want it but the man has no such option.
That's strange because I looked it up, and at the 21, a woman can get a tubal ligation.
I looked up "your situation," and this is what I got:
"If you're in your 20s, your doctor may not take your request for a tubal ligation seriously. Keep in mind that in most instances, they're simply coming from a place of concern that you will regret your decision someday. Even so, you don't have to accept their refusal to do the procedure as final."
I'm sorry that happened to you.
@@ChestRockwell24what??? It’s the exact opposite. So many dads get away with not paying child support and just leave and never see the kids again. Women are the ones that usually have to raise the kid on their own.
How can you have sex (willing or not)
Then suddenly time skip to "too far along for abortion", you were in a coma during the abortion window?
Docs wouldnt let you tie the tubes which would have prevented it? that sucks.
You chose to not abort but now you complain? that part makes no sense, take responsibility for your inaction.
@@FractalPrism.
"How can you have sex (willing or not)
Then suddenly time skip to "too far along for abortion", you were in a coma during the abortion window?
Docs wouldnt let you tie the tubes which would have prevented it? that sucks.
You chose to not abort but now you complain? that part makes no sense, take responsibility for your inaction."
You're focused on the wrong issue. Her main complaint was not the inability to get an abortion because it was too far along. Her complaint is the fact that *four* doctors refused to give her the tubal ligation she requested, which would have avoided the entire issue of the R pregnancy.
So even if she had gotten the abortion, she would have still been rightfully pissed the f**k off because there were 4 dumbass doctors who refused to give her the procedure she wanted, which would have prevented her from having to through a very uncomfortable abortion procedure.
Why so much hate against her ? Just let her go with her problems
This is what most men don't understand is could you have a vasectomy does it mean you can't have kids a vasectomy your little guy is can actually still get through from time to time it's a 1% chance but it can happen also your vasectomy can become undone so you have to be checked every 2 to 5 years to make sure that it's still in place just like a for a woman and you get your tubes tied you can still get it at the top a topical pregnancy or you can get pregnant in general because your tubes can become untied and the guys little guys can still slip through so nothing is guaranteed I totally hate when I say I can't be the baby's father because I had a vasectomy that doesn't mean anything all it means is there's a lower chance of getting pregnant does it mean you can't get somebody pregnant
Op forgot to say this story was fake.
Yo new vegas is the shit no wonder u wasn’t paying attention 😂😂