I felt/ thought that too. And it feels nice it coming from Europe. I don't exactly know why it bothers me that Marshall was from the United States. He was so wonderful, but for me as a younger person, female, from Europe - Marshall is kind of "far away". Like icons sometimes feel. In those videos here with Marianne, it feels "closer to home" & I like that feeling. Thank you for giving it ❤❤❤❤
Hi! I watched some of your other videos and really enjoyed. Thank you for making these. Do you have a copy of this video without the music? I am noticing that it sounds a lot like the music used in commercials and I think my brain might have learned to tune out what is being said when that music is playing. I've tried watching several times and then thought I would just ask if you would be willing to share a version without the music.
thank you for discussing this. Background music is crucial to me too. For example, I like to play videos with 0,75 speed. As English is not my native language. At 0,75 speed I understand the spoken words more easily, but the music sounds very strange and it s no good listening experience. Which is a shame because I love the content and Mariannes voice, cute accent and overall presentation of nvc with such clarity and insight. ❤ Thank you for living and embodying it - for me - and others. ❤
thank you to everyone, who is discussing the background music on TH-cam Videos. Background music is crucial to me too. For example, I like to play videos with 0,75 speed. As English is not my native language. At 0,75 speed I understand the spoken words more easily, but the music sounds very strange and it's no good listening experience. Which is a shame because I love the content and Mariannes voice, cute accent and overall presentation of nvc with such clarity and insight. ❤ Thank you for living and embodying it - for me - and others. ❤
Marianne, this video is amazing. I love your editing to make it clear when you're explaining versus role-playing. I'm using this framework today to communicate a feeling with my manager :-) Dankjewel!!!
Thank u thank u! One of my favorite teachers as you are so clear and inspire me to refine the art of communication ever more ;) ❤I help spread the word passionately.. for me nvc is top priority for bringing our world to the matriarch path.. were so ready😇
Found you accidentally while searching for NVC, a term used in the Gateway program through Monroe Institute. Short for Non-Verbal Communication.. I work weekly with a group in Shadow work and your model here is similar to our clearing model.
Love the simplicity of the video and the example was really awsome! I also enjoy the chilled way you express feeling and needs in a more natural way :)
I love your Videos ❤❤❤❤. And it feels nice it coming from a woman & coming from Europe. I don't exactly know why it bothers me that Marshall was from the United States. He was so wonderful, but for me as a younger person, female, from Europe - Marshall is kind of "far away". Like icons sometimes feel. In those videos here with Marianne, it feels "closer to home" & more fitting for nowadays. And I like that feeling. Thank you for giving it ❤❤❤❤
Well done !!! verry easy to follow NVC is WORLPEACE healing Globally !!! I an hear from your accent your Dutch ? is that true ? and who was YOUR NVC teacher ? X
thank you for discussing background music on TH-cam. I'm afraid, background music is crucial to me. For example, I like to play videos with 0,75 speed. As English is not my native language. At 0,75 speed I understand the spoken words more easily, but the music sounds very strange and it s no good listening experience. Which is a shame because I love the content and Mariannes voice, cute accent and overall presentation of nvc with such clarity and insight. ❤ Thank you for living and embodying it - for me - and others. ❤
Loved the new video! I have a question: So, when I'm trying to get a point across with my girlfriend and she feels like she already knows what I'm going to say, she tends to cut me short, interrupts me or asks me to get to the point. How can I NVCingly tell her that I feel sad about this?
Use the method: notice that you feel/observe she’s cutting you off and not letting you share your point. Express how you feel when this happens, and that you feel a need to be respected and heard fully. Request that she let you fully express yourself without cutting yourself off. And most importantly, find out what unmet needs she has, that may be promoting this behaviour. At least, that’s my understanding of how you can use nvc to create a new dynamic based on meeting needs and caring for each other. I wonder, how’s it going with your relationship since the year ago you asked this question?
Great advice like in most (all?) of your videos. One small issue though that comes up in many videos. You keep referring to clicking on the upper left screen. On the iPhone TH-cam app that doesn't do anything. If it isn't too much work for you, you might want to start adding those links to the video description as most content producers do. Thanks! ♥️
So I am trying to use that for my actual problem: Observation: My boyfriend smokes. He stopped, but started again this year Feeling: This makes me feel sad Need: I think it's basically because I love him and I would like to see him healthy. Maybe it's because I can imagine a future with him, but our age difference makes me think about that he will die more quickly, and cigarettes will make that worst. --> Is that a need? How or what can i request from him? Till now I was a few jackal in that point, my sad face just made him feel guilty, this can not be the correct way... :(
So, WHAT DO YOU OBSERVE EXACTLY? You boyfriend smoking? And seeing that leads you to feeling sad, because you need WHAT? You need him not to die? Why do you need that?
@cupofempathy i am struggling to find need behind pocessiveness, jealous when i speak to a lady my wife fealing it. She or me unable to find the need behind her feeling of pocessiveness
Brilliant short video. thanks!
so helpful!!! thank you!!!
Glad to hear that!!
Thank you Marianne for this gift ! Serious and light at the same time!
thanks François!
Thank you! This was very clear & helpful. Thank you for keeping it simple, and using a good example.
so clear, thank you! I value al the other links for giving direction for more learning.
Such an excellent sum up!
Best explanation and use case of NVC I've seen - thank you
Very nice. I feel you are even deepening Marshall Rosenberg's vision in a feminine way.
I felt/ thought that too.
And it feels nice
it coming from Europe.
I don't exactly know
why it bothers me
that Marshall was from the United States.
He was so wonderful,
but for me as a younger person, female,
from Europe
-
Marshall is kind of "far away".
Like icons sometimes feel.
In those videos here with Marianne,
it feels "closer to home"
& I like that feeling.
Thank you for giving it ❤❤❤❤
i was looking for national visa center steps lol, ended up looking at this beautiful lady
haha thanks! hope you also found the visa steps :-)
I find your videos really clear and easy to understand, thank you!
I love you break it down and thanks for preparing the sheets!
Hi! I watched some of your other videos and really enjoyed. Thank you for making these. Do you have a copy of this video without the music? I am noticing that it sounds a lot like the music used in commercials and I think my brain might have learned to tune out what is being said when that music is playing. I've tried watching several times and then thought I would just ask if you would be willing to share a version without the music.
No, sorry I dont have that... This is an older video, nowadays I leave out the music or put it on very low volume :-)
thank you for discussing this.
Background music is crucial to me too.
For example, I like to play videos with 0,75 speed.
As English is not my native language.
At 0,75 speed
I understand the spoken words
more easily,
but the music sounds very strange
and it s no good listening experience.
Which is a shame
because I love the content and Mariannes voice,
cute accent
and overall presentation of nvc
with such clarity and insight.
❤
Thank you for living and embodying it
-
for me
-
and others.
❤
thank you to everyone,
who is discussing
the background music on TH-cam Videos.
Background music is crucial to me too.
For example, I like to play videos with 0,75 speed.
As English is not my native language.
At 0,75 speed
I understand the spoken words
more easily,
but the music sounds very strange
and it's no good listening experience.
Which is a shame
because I love the content and Mariannes voice,
cute accent
and overall presentation of nvc
with such clarity and insight.
❤
Thank you for living and embodying it
-
for me
-
and others.
❤
This is perfect! I'm using this with friends, family and colleagues. Thank you for creating this video!
Thank you for a clear and useful example. Also the inner connection to clarify. Holstee was my link to you.
Such a great approach thank you very much
Thanks a lot!
Perfect clarity and simplicity. Thank you!! 🙏🦋💝
Glad it was helpful!
Marianne, this video is amazing. I love your editing to make it clear when you're explaining versus role-playing. I'm using this framework today to communicate a feeling with my manager :-)
Dankjewel!!!
Glad it was helpful!
Fantastic.
Plz explain more the connection request. Thank you 🙏
For example: 'how is this for you to hear?'
Thank u thank u! One of my favorite teachers as you are so clear and inspire me to refine the art of communication ever more ;) ❤I help spread the word passionately.. for me nvc is top priority for bringing our world to the matriarch path.. were so ready😇
thank you so much. Very clear :)
The links that you mention are not there.
Found you accidentally while searching for NVC, a term used in the Gateway program through Monroe Institute. Short for Non-Verbal Communication..
I work weekly with a group in Shadow work and your model here is similar to our clearing model.
Is there a way to get pdf's of the files shared in the video?
Love the simplicity of the video and the example was really awsome! I also enjoy the chilled way you express feeling and needs in a more natural way :)
I love your Videos ❤❤❤❤.
And it feels nice
it coming from a woman
& coming from Europe.
I don't exactly know
why it bothers me
that Marshall was from the United States.
He was so wonderful,
but for me as a younger person, female,
from Europe
-
Marshall is kind of "far away".
Like icons sometimes feel.
In those videos here with Marianne,
it feels "closer to home"
& more fitting for nowadays.
And I like that feeling.
Thank you for giving it ❤❤❤❤
Well done !!! verry easy to follow NVC is WORLPEACE healing Globally !!!
I an hear from your accent your Dutch ? is that true ? and who was YOUR NVC teacher ? X
You’re lovely. Thanks for doing this. I’m benefitting from it. X
Wonderful!
thank you for discussing background music on TH-cam.
I'm afraid, background music is crucial to me.
For example, I like to play videos with 0,75 speed.
As English is not my native language.
At 0,75 speed
I understand the spoken words
more easily,
but the music sounds very strange
and it s no good listening experience.
Which is a shame
because I love the content and Mariannes voice,
cute accent
and overall presentation of nvc
with such clarity and insight.
❤
Thank you for living and embodying it
-
for me
-
and others.
❤
Loved the new video! I have a question: So, when I'm trying to get a point across with my girlfriend and she feels like she already knows what I'm going to say, she tends to cut me short, interrupts me or asks me to get to the point. How can I NVCingly tell her that I feel sad about this?
Use the method: notice that you feel/observe she’s cutting you off and not letting you share your point. Express how you feel when this happens, and that you feel a need to be respected and heard fully. Request that she let you fully express yourself without cutting yourself off. And most importantly, find out what unmet needs she has, that may be promoting this behaviour. At least, that’s my understanding of how you can use nvc to create a new dynamic based on meeting needs and caring for each other. I wonder, how’s it going with your relationship since the year ago you asked this question?
I tried to get the tough sheet and when I put in my info and hit Get It it didn’t seem to work
Would you send us an email at info@cupofempathy.com? Then me or my assistant can send it to you!
Let me know what you thought of this video!
Great advice like in most (all?) of your videos. One small issue though that comes up in many videos. You keep referring to clicking on the upper left screen. On the iPhone TH-cam app that doesn't do anything. If it isn't too much work for you, you might want to start adding those links to the video description as most content producers do. Thanks! ♥️
Yes. Same issue here on Opera, Brave and Firefox...
So I am trying to use that for my actual problem:
Observation: My boyfriend smokes. He stopped, but started again this year
Feeling: This makes me feel sad
Need: I think it's basically because I love him and I would like to see him healthy. Maybe it's because I can imagine a future with him, but our age difference makes me think about that he will die more quickly, and cigarettes will make that worst.
--> Is that a need?
How or what can i request from him? Till now I was a few jackal in that point, my sad face just made him feel guilty, this can not be the correct way... :(
So, WHAT DO YOU OBSERVE EXACTLY? You boyfriend smoking? And seeing that leads you to feeling sad, because you need WHAT? You need him not to die? Why do you need that?
❤🎉❤
May the Spirit of Jesus Christ bless you, Cup of Empathy.
I'll be honest. I often listen to content without the need to watch it. This time it was the opposite.
:-) :-) :-)
literally so boring like im sorry but wow
@cupofempathy i am struggling to find need behind pocessiveness, jealous when i speak to a lady my wife fealing it. She or me unable to find the need behind her feeling of pocessiveness