Depression and Gay Men

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 พ.ค. 2022
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    Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions in the United States that affects an estimated 17.3 million adults and 3.2 million adolescents according to the National Institute of Mental Health.
    Research shows that gay and bisexual men are at a higher risk for: Major depression, Bipolar disorder, and, Generalized anxiety disorder, and are more likely than heterosexual men to attempt suicide.
    In today's episode, host Calan Breckon unpacks the heaviness around depression with guest and therapist, Jacob Monkarsh.
    Together they explore questions like:
    1. What is depression and how does it affect a person?
    2. Is it possible for someone to be depressed without knowing it? What are the signs and symptoms someone should be aware of?
    3. What are the biggest triggers for gay men struggling with depression?
    4. How can someone currently struggling with depression work to get out of the cycle?
    5. How can people best support someone struggling with depression?
    During the episode, Jacob asked a very important question concerning gay men and our childhood experiences: "What happens when someone can't connect with themself?" and as children, we often can't connect with ourselves fully once we realize something is "different" about us and we begin hiding who we truly are, but is that creating disassociation within us and our community?
    Listen to his answer and more in today's episode.
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  • @GayMenGoingDeeper
    @GayMenGoingDeeper  ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you ever struggled with depression?
    Tell us about it in the comments 🔽🔽

  • @VanamaliDas482
    @VanamaliDas482 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have depression. My ex didn't understand what depression is. He eventually left me, he said he was "tired of holding" me up, which he never did. He left me after my emotionally supporting him through 6 years of medical school. He actually waited until he finished school to leave. What a f***ing jerk!

  • @kevincook8888
    @kevincook8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah ... that's the thing about depression. You don't want to talk to people, so getting help is not an option.

  • @johneonas6628
    @johneonas6628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you very much for your video.

    • @CalanBreckon
      @CalanBreckon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed it John!

  • @Tyreeleslie
    @Tyreeleslie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This much needed discussion

  • @--..__
    @--..__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    never had too many issues being gay. But after pandemic and all the crazy stuff that has happened, thinking things through, being gay and becoming conservative... Never felt more isolated. Nowhere to turn. Been pulling out of it tho.

    • @CalanBreckon
      @CalanBreckon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear. It’s been tough for a lot of people so it’s really important to reach out to those support systems and therapists (or getting one) to help readjust to the new normal of life.

  • @Christopher_hall_theatre
    @Christopher_hall_theatre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing. Very informative. I really got a lot of value out of this. Mental health is health and it’s good to know that we aren’t alone.

    • @CalanBreckon
      @CalanBreckon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed and got a lot out of this episode. Thanks for watching and supporting!

  • @emersonsoares3106
    @emersonsoares3106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are amazing!
    Congratulations on the project. Love from Brazil 💜

    • @CalanBreckon
      @CalanBreckon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for the love! ❤️

  • @Spooncuddler
    @Spooncuddler ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting pt about not building memories. I grew up in a very abusive and dysfunctional household but hold few memories before early elementary school; and similarly to Calan, only about the 8-10 mark did I start to get a memory base. I've done EMDR and NET trauma treatments and my NET therapist always commented he had to go back to the little kids book for me; which was not true for most of his other patients. I also don't remember my dreams; never have.
    And thank you for the impromptu review of Heartstoppers. Definitely need to add to my 'to see' list. Thanks for another great conversation!

    • @GayMenGoingDeeper
      @GayMenGoingDeeper  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it! and YES! Heartstoppers is so good!

  • @deanrussell466
    @deanrussell466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good job..... very much needed resource for millions of people!

    • @deanrussell466
      @deanrussell466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤💛💗💚💜💙

    • @CalanBreckon
      @CalanBreckon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed the episode and we agree!

  • @KJFILM19936
    @KJFILM19936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow. This gave so much breakthrough for me!!! Divine!! Ty!!!

    • @CalanBreckon
      @CalanBreckon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe YAY! I’m so glad we could help you with your breakthrough Kyle!! Thanks for watching and for the support!

    • @KJFILM19936
      @KJFILM19936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CalanBreckon its beyond words. was delivering for my job while listing to TH-cam, and this video popped up. it just played and brought so much confirmation and freedom and read my like a book and revealed things I wasn't even aware.. you don't even know. thank you for your works! new sub here

  • @stevemoore9509
    @stevemoore9509 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fantastic video I agree with you one thousand percent. Most if us have gone through this.

  • @kamills1119
    @kamills1119 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very important convo for everybody to hear, thanks!

  • @jaxster212
    @jaxster212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let him answer your questions before asking him another question. 🤦🏻‍♂️ his interview style reminded me of Kelly Clarkson, talking over guest 😂

  • @wardyladohaye
    @wardyladohaye 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd guess it's a lot easier when ur young and good looking like all u guys seem to be