Tank - I Can't Make You Love Me (Official Video)

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  • @atlanticrecords
    @atlanticrecords  4 ปีที่แล้ว +537

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  • @GODSPRINZES2
    @GODSPRINZES2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3982

    I found a letter my husband wrote to me after his passing & I’ll never forget this statement... “There will be many men who want you, but one man will DESERVE you”!!!!!!! That took me out!!! 😭😢🕊❤️💋

    • @tameekaharris6425
      @tameekaharris6425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      So sorry for your loss, wow powerful words💗🌹

    • @GODSPRINZES2
      @GODSPRINZES2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Tameeka Harris Thank you Doll! 💖

    • @tameekaharris6425
      @tameekaharris6425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@GODSPRINZES2 yw💗

    • @thepoupetina
      @thepoupetina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      So so sorry for your loss oh the pain is just 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

    • @GODSPRINZES2
      @GODSPRINZES2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      stephanie parsons Thank you Sis! It’s really been hard. But he wanted me to live my life. I miss my husband daily. He was everything I could’ve asked for in a man/husband. 😢😭❤️Be blessed! 🙏🏽

  • @iamshatricerenee5342
    @iamshatricerenee5342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2549

    It’s hard to let go. Lord knows I know. Prayers for anyone going thru, may the right person come into your life❤️

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Going through this right now

    • @iamshatricerenee5342
      @iamshatricerenee5342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@monishajefferson4352 I’m sorry you’re going thru it. I still have my days. Sending love & light and healing energy your way. May you grow thru what you’re going thru🤍🤍🤍

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      It hurts soo bad I have sleepless nights

    • @iamshatricerenee5342
      @iamshatricerenee5342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@monishajefferson4352 Grief comes in waves feel the feelings. You’re human. The storm won’t last always.

    • @monishajefferson4352
      @monishajefferson4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for the encouragement

  • @theofficial_ghenghischan2383
    @theofficial_ghenghischan2383 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    To all the broken hearts...its time to let go and set yourself free. It's not worth holding on if they don't feel the same. Keep your pride, love yourself, know your worth. Things will get better.

    • @venus1990able
      @venus1990able 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It's just so hard😢

    • @theofficial_ghenghischan2383
      @theofficial_ghenghischan2383 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@venus1990able in the beginning its hard but time will grant you the chance to heal. Find your hobbies and enjoy the shit out of it lol. Eventually, you'll find someone compatible. Diamonds are formed through extreme pressure. You got this!

    • @zen_mindset1
      @zen_mindset1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It is unfair tho 😢

    • @lisayoumans1321
      @lisayoumans1321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thanks a lot I needed heart this

    • @LadyNStreet
      @LadyNStreet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I've been waiting 20 years for someone (anyone) to love me right 😔😟😢

  • @JJKA360
    @JJKA360 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1168

    Who is here in 2024? ❤❤

  • @thatauthormommychic2139
    @thatauthormommychic2139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3304

    It's 2020 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?

  • @dicedpineapples9423
    @dicedpineapples9423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1574

    t's 2021 and I'm still here listening to this song. Who's with me?

    • @robinlady4360
      @robinlady4360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes throwbacks are the best 🙌 timeless!

    • @thandekangubane4663
      @thandekangubane4663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm crying!!!! but I hope you're good and safe

    • @theazrael4423
      @theazrael4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👀

    • @motrainer888
      @motrainer888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm here and crying as Im listening to it. It's a hard pill to swallow but you'll be better in the end.

    • @samiehugh5066
      @samiehugh5066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      2021 listening

  • @soblessed_21
    @soblessed_21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5269

    I was in love with someone who didn't love me the way I loved them. I accepted it, allowed God to heal my heart and in return he sent me someone who loved me better than I could have ever imagined.

    • @daydayboo3300
      @daydayboo3300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Nikkie Gooden god is great

    • @stacy_hisdaughter7261
      @stacy_hisdaughter7261 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Nikkie Gooden wow God is good! I am going through the same thing. I just have to learnt to let go fully.

    • @ledenejohnson3893
      @ledenejohnson3893 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nikkie Gooden listen to Curt Green.. it’s more emotion in his version th-cam.com/video/SPXCH2ewzNE/w-d-xo.html

    • @soblessed_21
      @soblessed_21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Stacy_HisDaughter you will in time...moving forward didn't happen overnight but I am so happy God got me thru that pain!

    • @efrainduran2597
      @efrainduran2597 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nikkie Gooden Awe

  • @leticiarichardson-grinuva4372
    @leticiarichardson-grinuva4372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +997

    This song always reminds me how important self love is. Love is one of the most painful feeling in this world but one of the best feeling ever to experience. #2022 who is listening with me?

  • @ThePino31
    @ThePino31 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5470

    There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t even jump puddles for you

    • @APC-yr5fi
      @APC-yr5fi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yesssssss

    • @soniashort7594
      @soniashort7594 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Dammmm you Hit it right on the Head with that Quote...Thank you

    • @arygibson7409
      @arygibson7409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Amen!!

    • @3pclocal161
      @3pclocal161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I like that 1

    • @jjosborneable
      @jjosborneable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Great quote

  • @Msshortyjc
    @Msshortyjc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    This song speaks to the Soul. If someone doesn’t love you there’s no need to hold on to them. Remember you deserve better

  • @javondahouse8691
    @javondahouse8691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    I'm so tired of crying. God please help me let go of this man that don't want me. Im tired of trying to make it work by myself... 😭

  • @davidscott5257
    @davidscott5257 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    This song DEFINITELY hits different when you feel a certain way about someone but they don’t feel the same. Feels like a prison

    • @Angela_J0607
      @Angela_J0607 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts 😢

    • @sue30785
      @sue30785 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢😢😢

    • @markmark1604
      @markmark1604 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @loveyouthemost88
      @loveyouthemost88 ปีที่แล้ว

      😢😢😢

    • @3422dave
      @3422dave ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m on the opposite side of this I have someone who loves me really hard but I don’t her but I don’t want to hurt her I have tried my best but I can’t 😢😢😢

  • @Quaqua0097
    @Quaqua0097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2341

    It hurts like hell to love someone who dont love you only love what you do for them.

  • @XtremeSportX247
    @XtremeSportX247 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2114

    It's really tough when your feelings are stronger than the other person. Be true to your heart and move on before you end up hurting yourself. When someone loves you, it is the most visible and evident action possible. A simple touch, a smile or a thinking of you text takes no effort when it's true love. No Love Should Ever Hurt or cause you to question yourself!

  • @xp0sh
    @xp0sh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    It hurts so bad when someone you put first always puts you last.

    • @AR-nt5qe
      @AR-nt5qe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      xp0sh......Sweetheart never make someone your priority when they're making you an option. Know your worth and claim it. When you know your worth and you stand on it, it's harder for others to mistake your value.....

    • @ericabuchanan8430
      @ericabuchanan8430 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xp0sh sp true

    • @nikkisaffo5766
      @nikkisaffo5766 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U so right I feel that way

    • @yasminewatson4234
      @yasminewatson4234 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      xp0sh girlll I know the feeling

    • @5minconeltalibancr691
      @5minconeltalibancr691 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      too deep lyrics

  • @nomalangamapurisa8846
    @nomalangamapurisa8846 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Misplaced affection is one of the most painful experiences, wishing true love to everyone going through this experience❤️

  • @barryzuckercorn8646
    @barryzuckercorn8646 8 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    The best/worst song ever created, realizing you were never good enough for another human being that you love may be the worst feeling in the world. This shit brings me back to the worst moment in my life but it brings me clarity because it spews reality and the truth that you never see when you're blinded by love.

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      agree

    • @jeneel_theaquarius7493
      @jeneel_theaquarius7493 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so true....

    • @nigerianamericanqueen6941
      @nigerianamericanqueen6941 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      your right. the feeling is so awful and dreadful. just a seething burning pain of almost total dark and emptiness. I can't forget it. its a terrible feeling. like labor. its unforgettable.

    • @ShaNellC326
      @ShaNellC326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're exactly right..I know this type of heartache all too well💔

    • @edenbandele189
      @edenbandele189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      😢..I feel like I'm living this song and your comment right now.... I'm not perfect but I know I work at it everyday. Although we're still together, Im feeling exhausted from all the energy I've put into our relationship but things just aren't changing and I can't seem to wrap my mind around the fact that my efforts just hasn't paid off as much as I would have liked to see. I can't understand why so many people (females) favor me but the one person I'm in love with doesn't see the qualities others see in me...(Sorry I'm an introvert and this is the closest I've ever come to venting to anyone about my current situation)

  • @espanolagilliam9354
    @espanolagilliam9354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +924

    I learned today to give all my love to God. God is the only man who will not break my heart. Thank you God for loving a sinner like me.

    • @jacquelineallenmingo8435
      @jacquelineallenmingo8435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Amen "Beautiful"❤️✨

    • @sandrafogarty2992
      @sandrafogarty2992 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen 🙏

    • @DreiSkins101
      @DreiSkins101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you are delusional god dont love anyone b ut himself

    • @soyinicraig9753
      @soyinicraig9753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never understood this statement and probably never will.

    • @smpiano6605
      @smpiano6605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@DreiSkins101 Don't ruin it for them. If it helps them cope with things then let them be(although let's just hope they don't learn about the book of Job).

  • @latishalewis1946
    @latishalewis1946 8 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    I remember when my boyfriend sang this to me...I miss him sooo much rest in heaven honeybun!!!

    • @carternation3249
      @carternation3249 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      what happened, if you don't mind me asking

    • @l.amccallister9163
      @l.amccallister9163 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Latisha Lewis

    • @latishalewis1946
      @latishalewis1946 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He had stage 4 cancer went through chemo the cancer spread to his brain and it took him 4 months later😭

    • @carternation3249
      @carternation3249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      awwwweee I'm so sorry 🙏

    • @latishalewis1946
      @latishalewis1946 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aaliyah Carter Thank you i appreciate it!!!

  • @nikitakelly6473
    @nikitakelly6473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    This song makes me cry everytime. It's hard trying to find that right one, only to end up getting hurt everytime 🥺

  • @brendamumbi5130
    @brendamumbi5130 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7490

    Worst feeling ever......when you love someone who doesn't love you back

    • @notinuse33
      @notinuse33 7 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      You damn right... it harts like hell

    • @niriariveloravoninjatovo8942
      @niriariveloravoninjatovo8942 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Brenda Mumbi it hearts. really hurts. bad feeling :(

    • @lushtv7155
      @lushtv7155 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Brenda Mumbi so true

    • @corinacanez9741
      @corinacanez9741 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      yes- it is the worst feeling...it. hurts so much it becomes paralyzing! I've had the misfortune of being on both ends....💔

    • @lifewithindie3596
      @lifewithindie3596 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      i agree i have been in that position 😭😭😭😭

  • @QuixoticUkulele
    @QuixoticUkulele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I gave up the fight today. I fell in love with a friend who either wouldn't or couldn't love me back. This man helped me get through such an extremely difficult time in my life and things just happened. I fell hard and unapologetically, but all he could say was how flattered he was. He has every right to not love me, but I have every right to be with someone who can and will love me. This is to all of the tender-hearted people who love exponentially and without regret: your love matters. It might not matter to the person who you want, but it matters. That longing and constant yearning - give that to someone who longs and yearns to be with you. Don't give your love to a person who will not love you back. Preserve your love for that right person - they will come.

    • @ricardoperez4187
      @ricardoperez4187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I felt your words........

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Giving up on love. My heart is broken beyond repair 😢😢💔💔. I feel that real love isn't for me.

    • @khandilousw4291
      @khandilousw4291 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you found the love you were seeking...because I'm starting and it's kicking my ass already.

    • @QuixoticUkulele
      @QuixoticUkulele ปีที่แล้ว

      @@khandilousw4291 It's going to be cheesy and cliche and we've heard it a million times, but the best relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself. My catharsis helped me heal childhood trauma and brokenheartedness. Then you meet people that are attracted to that energy, that wouldn't do anything to hurt you and help you continue to heal. You want to find someone that pours into you like you pour into them. It's definitely out there!! 💜💜💜

    • @jeromekern5159
      @jeromekern5159 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks, For that. 10 yrs Wasted,Jerome

  • @littlewhisper1045
    @littlewhisper1045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1749

    *The most annoying thing is trying when you know it won’t change anything* 🙁

    • @djrenee27
      @djrenee27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I feel so alone and sad. I've messed up in the past as have he but I thought we were past all that. We've been together 16 years and now, this past year we are like roommates. We share Bill's and chores but not each other. He doesn't even want to have sex. Heck...he doesn't even sleep In the same room. Idk what's going on and when I ask he makes excuses. I feel like ending it all sometimes. The way he speaks to me is aplorable. He looked my in the eyes today and said "fuck you" over a ball cap. I'm so so sad and lonesome.

    • @aprilsherell9105
      @aprilsherell9105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural
      @AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@djrenee27 you are worth more than what you're accepting sis. Wishing you better in the future. But you've got to claim it for yourself, too.

    • @djrenee27
      @djrenee27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnasthiaAmosNew2Natural thank you.

    • @bernicefelix9075
      @bernicefelix9075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Deanna Bland inbox me if u have FB Messenger... Annie May Bullock

  • @waltercamperiii6137
    @waltercamperiii6137 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is the ultimate heartbreak song. Put this song on repeat, grab some dark liquor, cry, and then move on.

  • @londonprice79
    @londonprice79 7 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    Crazy how loving someone can mean absolutely nothing in the end!😢

    • @christyrogers857
      @christyrogers857 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      right

    • @estesua84
      @estesua84 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know what you mean!!

    • @IdeeIsang
      @IdeeIsang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yeah, i know how that is. But I actually don't think it is love i'll take that as infatuation

    • @TheFashionWhisperer
      @TheFashionWhisperer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      right

    • @dianaari7057
      @dianaari7057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ouch

  • @infamousnekka6920
    @infamousnekka6920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    2nd day in 2020.. I’m here.. It hurts.. but I’m determined to let go of my situation and NEVER look back! I’m ready to love me like I loved him and never lose that feeling. God give me strength!

    • @antwanlee31
      @antwanlee31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      keep pushing... remember you always have the next day to start over again. Thats the beauty of going to sleep and waking up refreshed and ready for what the day brings. It will get better

    • @dremckinney7877
      @dremckinney7877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm sorry to hear this. Seen ur previous comment!!! And I'm there with you also!!!! Been 4yrs to long!!!

    • @mrbibchucky
      @mrbibchucky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      STAY STRONG

    • @rozelliamatthews8598
      @rozelliamatthews8598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm sorry that you are hurting, I've been there. When you truly learn to love yourself, you will value you and realize that your love is priceless. Wishing you the best God has to give you.

    • @mrbibchucky
      @mrbibchucky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rozelliamatthews8598 You speak the Truth

  • @mamawama2k482
    @mamawama2k482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    Finally closing the chapter ...It's been tough I'm letting go.

    • @WritingIZlykBREATHING2moi
      @WritingIZlykBREATHING2moi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Congrats on taking the first step towards self reflection and purpose. May the tears of last chapter water the seeds of love, hope, determination, resilience, faith, peace, strength, etc for the next chapter!

    • @theferrellsloclifelivingbb8110
      @theferrellsloclifelivingbb8110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      siphokazi damana me too

    • @zikhonamtandana2780
      @zikhonamtandana2780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wish I can let go 😭😭😭💔I’m trying so hard but it really is not easy,there’s nothing left to fix I’ve tried everything dear God

    • @pragyasaxena744
      @pragyasaxena744 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're brave

    • @mamawama2k482
      @mamawama2k482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zikhonamtandana2780 kuzodlula I had to be strong for my kids...after 13years I had to let go...he didn't have feelings for me anymore...he was my first I had to let him go ...tough journey but it gets better everyday ...I'm stronger and I'm learning new things..back on dating it's nice..
      I was a loyal wife and that chapter is closed I'm not regretting it if was part of my journey....nyamezela kuzolunga 😘

  • @shanaepatton1128
    @shanaepatton1128 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Most underrated singer. If you don’t feel nothing after hearing this something is wrong! This man is definitely talented and gifted.

    • @sharaelltreloar2826
      @sharaelltreloar2826 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He definitely has one of the best versions of this song. I love Tank!

    • @markhartung
      @markhartung ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you heard Bonnie Raitt?

    • @SakuraMoonflower
      @SakuraMoonflower 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He definitely brought great honor and beauty to Bonnie Raitt's song.

    • @SMPMS8389
      @SMPMS8389 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SakuraMoonflower She didn't write the song

  • @marlathomas3373
    @marlathomas3373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +751

    It hurts when u love someone who is damage so bad that they don't know how to love and trust the one person who would do anything for them....it hurts like hell no lie

    • @gregorybrown2539
      @gregorybrown2539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen ....... You spoke a ton of wisdom, when you made this statement.

    • @kandiedorian667
      @kandiedorian667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I understand you clearly

    • @atticus5748
      @atticus5748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because it takes time for them to heal...

    • @kimtamani1870
      @kimtamani1870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😢

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is what Malcolm feels trying to love me and I keep pushing him away cause iam so scared of getting hurt my heart been through the ringer and he is trying to love me and I keep pushing I ask God to plz help me cause I didn't know what's real from fake and all Malcolm wanna do is love me.. God plz take the past away

  • @dezyd3048
    @dezyd3048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    Loving someone who doesn’t love you.. HURTS. True pain.

  • @nitram7555
    @nitram7555 6 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    This song is truly a heartbreaker, it brings back all the pain you could ever feel from a one sided relationship 😢😢

    • @milesmatheson1142
      @milesmatheson1142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's not a real relationship- that's unrequited love. And I'm still going through that shit right now. Hardest part is accepting that I'll never see her bright smile, look into her deep eyes, or hear her infectious giggle, ever again. God help me, I still love her, and I don't know what to do with myself.

    • @letinaday3933
      @letinaday3933 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that the key its one sided & you (deserve) more ❤️

    • @tonywalker2748
      @tonywalker2748 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miles Matheson that touch me 😢

    • @kellythomas385
      @kellythomas385 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      SO MANY ARTISTS HAVE COVERED THIS SONG, INCLUDING PRINCE.

  • @kianacarter3198
    @kianacarter3198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    You can hear the surrender and the despair linger in his voice as if he’s succumbing to the loss. Such moving lyrics and a such powerful voice. Tank is most certainly underrated. One of my absolute favorites by Tank. Def vocally gifted 👏🏾💐

    • @SharleyPaul
      @SharleyPaul ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think that's the only way through it. To succumb to the loss 💔

    • @septbaaby
      @septbaaby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SharleyPaul❤

  • @realtarotchyina1137
    @realtarotchyina1137 8 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    when u love someone soooo much and they dont that shit hurts soooo bad...😟😟😥😥

    • @realtarotchyina1137
      @realtarotchyina1137 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      one day someone will love me the right way....at least i hope so.....i miss him but i have let go 4 good

    • @adawn7301
      @adawn7301 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Danna Primers. Girlfriend yes that shit hurts so much!

    • @vdot757thewolfpackofficial5
      @vdot757thewolfpackofficial5 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      it really does Facts

    • @tashamaktm
      @tashamaktm 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      the heart isn't made to endure this kind of pain...

    • @lalelu2010100
      @lalelu2010100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I could love you very much😘

  • @Stephysteph_
    @Stephysteph_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    I feel this. I am slowly getting out of a situationship and I feel so broken. I tried so hard to make him realized how special I was and to show him that I truly loved and cared for him. But I guess when it's the wrong person, there's NOTHING you can do.

    • @adrianvelazquez8112
      @adrianvelazquez8112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Best wishes to u👏🙏🙏

    • @ariellecartwright1948
      @ariellecartwright1948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      when it's the right one, you won't have to show him how special you are - he'll just know.

    • @tubadlamini1653
      @tubadlamini1653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If he doesn't realize on his own how special u are,he doesn't deserve u angel😘

    • @maryannndungu8746
      @maryannndungu8746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If it's hard then it's not right.

    • @pamtorres3693
      @pamtorres3693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know what you mean, their loss

  • @mi2andme4
    @mi2andme4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1048

    Sometimes the best thing you can do is find the strength to walk away. As bad as it hurts.

  • @fruitypebbles393
    @fruitypebbles393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    DANG, IT'S 2022 AND THIS SONG STILL HITS LIKE THE 1ST TIME I HEARD IT. AT THE MOMENT, I'M LISTENING TO THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I'M OVER HERE SUFFERING IN SILENCE BCUZ MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS DON'T BELIEVE I'M EVER GOING TO LEAVE. BUT, HONESTLY AND TRUTHFULLY, I'M ASKING YOU LORD GOD TO GIVE ME THE COURAGE TO FINALLY END THIS NIGHTMARE I'M IN. IT STARTED AS A FAIRYTALE AND IS ENDING A NIGHTMARE. I'VE SPENT A DECADE LOVING CATERING AND FOLLOWING THIS MANS LEAD, AND, IDK HOW TO WALK AWAY 'FOR GOOD.' LORD, I PRAY, PLEASE HELP ME. 🙏 GIVE ME THE 💪TO LEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW I CANT DO THIS ON MY OWN, SO, I'M CALLING ON YOU. LORD, GIVE ME THE STRENGTH NOT JUST TO LEAVE BUT TO STAY AWAY. EVEN IF I HAVE TO GIVE HIM THE HOUSE AND THE CARS, I'M COOL WITH THAT. AS LONG AS I HAVE MY CHILD, I KNOW I'LL BE OKAY! AMEN

    • @phyllislowe3942
      @phyllislowe3942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jesus give her the strength, courage and wisdom to make the right decision.

    • @AB-bt9pd
      @AB-bt9pd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You have got this. Take time to prepare your exit. Refrain from fights and explanations . Get busy to distract yourself. I have been there. Planning my exit since 2015. I’m leaving in two days. You can do it to. Meditate every day and remind yourself what’s your goal. God is with you

    • @christinachambers4513
      @christinachambers4513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It takes courage and strength and something we are stronger than we know, I'm going through the same thing, I left but relaps a few times but no more will I do that, you can't make ppl love u if they don't no matter what u do. Wish u all the best queen 👸

    • @amarihayes1070
      @amarihayes1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's hard to leave and I've been where you are at I promise. 9 years before I left. Planned to leave since 2015. I left June 29, 2021. Heal yourself first. Always have it in the back of your head no matter how good it may seem at the moment. Remember who they are. Play your role.

    • @kaygee7323
      @kaygee7323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lord Jesus hear her cry. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹 I praying for you strength to do what you may think is the unthinkable. I pray for strength and smooth transition. May Lord be bring a PEACE that surpasses ALL understanding. You can do it! LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANY UNHEALTHY SITUATION! ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @MrSiauthin
    @MrSiauthin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5347

    Anyone still listening to this in 2018??❤
    Edit : how about this year in 2019??
    Edit : i'm here 2020 ❤️❤️
    Edit : 2021
    and always ...

  • @yellowfeverize
    @yellowfeverize 7 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    Loving someone who doesn't love you back is the worst feeling ever. No matter what you do or sacrifice for them, they'll never see it and appreciate your effort.......they'll treat you like shit but you'll keep coming back thinking they'll love you back but you'll get hurt more. Why do we get to fall for people who don't treat us right? very sad

    • @kaylacarey8429
      @kaylacarey8429 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      M James That is more true then you will ever know. My heart breaks when listening to this song.

    • @yellowfeverize
      @yellowfeverize 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kayla Carey. And I too 😔 thanks

    • @dyedyebruce5250
      @dyedyebruce5250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them..cause the people who loves the most are the most vulnerable persons to get hurt

    • @yellowfeverize
      @yellowfeverize 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      diana bruce That's absolutely true, you've just described me.

    • @michellerivera7806
      @michellerivera7806 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      M James it so true

  • @abdulomooba3995
    @abdulomooba3995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Just realising after 18 years of relationship that I've been trying to make someone luv me then after been awoke realise that the person is soo damage themself they can never luv you the way we are meant to luv....... It hurts! 😭 But with God's strength, I'll be fine. 👌😊

    • @marlysuur
      @marlysuur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Be strong. You gave it all! That energy will find its way back to you one day. Best from the Netherlands!

    • @smithsonna035
      @smithsonna035 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏💪

    • @evedek07
      @evedek07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Trust me when I say it gets better and you'll find happiness again within yourself...

    • @ashleylopez7003
      @ashleylopez7003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow i loved this

    • @selenawilliam8573
      @selenawilliam8573 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣......

  • @timothymercer849
    @timothymercer849 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    It's a hard but necessary lesson to learn that you can't make anyone love you no matter how hard you try. Love Tank's cover of this amazing song.

    • @jonelle94
      @jonelle94 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who’s the original by?

  • @antwanlee31
    @antwanlee31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    this song hits different when its actually you in this situation.... "i'll close my eyes and i wont see, the love you don't feel when you're holding me, morning will come and i'll do whats right, just give me till then to give up this fight...and i will giveeeee upppp this fightttt" man that shit hits the soul GOOD GAWD

    • @mafalalucia1119
      @mafalalucia1119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Antwan Lee what a great message! Must be hard giving up this fight

    • @antwanlee31
      @antwanlee31 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mafalalucia1119 definitely is

    • @sassydiva7821
      @sassydiva7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Antwan Lee WOW!, thanks for some of the lyrics, that’s deep...sometimes you like a song so much, you don’t really listen to the lyrics unless you’re going thru something specific...I just liked it because of the melody and the person’s voice (which I love by the original singer, Bonnie Raitt) but if you want to hear a really fantastic cover of this song, check out Rueben Studdard’s rendition of this song...it will make you say, Bonnie who?? 😊

    • @antwanlee31
      @antwanlee31 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sassydiva7821 wow really? never knew Reuben did it too.

    • @DesiNicole1234
      @DesiNicole1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

  • @289dancer
    @289dancer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    I came across this by accident. To me its such a great analogy to God singing to us. He gives us the free will to love Him. And He can't make us love Him but just like Tank was by that car and saw Keisha Pulliam-Knight coming towards him, God is waiting for our decision to turn back to him...and He is so ready to embrace us. Before I knew the agape love of Christ I didn't understand how to appropriately engage in the other types of love. And now with God I am functional as a wife, mother, and sister.

    • @oonahnri5901
      @oonahnri5901 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Love your analogy,it's so on point......

    • @playrewindff
      @playrewindff 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen! God's love is unconditional. He loves those who hate him just the same.

    • @zwanetsietsi4046
      @zwanetsietsi4046 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's True

    • @ersarva3587
      @ersarva3587 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +289dancer This is beautiful.

    • @madtownband
      @madtownband 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +289dancer "He gives us free will to love him"....but if you don't you burn in a lake of fire for eternity. Doesn't really sound like much of a choice does it?

  • @nanibarnes2111
    @nanibarnes2111 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    2022❤ few weeks from 2023 I’ll never let this song die

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💓

  • @shaitown6692
    @shaitown6692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    One of the songs that's helping me get over all the pain, hurt, bull shit and more!! Trying to fight and hold on sometimes it's not even worth it anymore!! Heart Broken 💔 2022!!

    • @fabianisammi6608
      @fabianisammi6608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hang in there!

    • @kclark3923
      @kclark3923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are not Alone, Keep It Moving, Love will come

    • @kaygee7323
      @kaygee7323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This right here!!! I felt ALL of this!!! This song helping me too, "I can't make you Love me, I can't make your heart feel something it won't!!!!" Whooowee them some Powerful words! But I realize it's their loss not mine.

    • @kristiancampbell1170
      @kristiancampbell1170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hope your heart has healed since your post...you deserve to be happy!

    • @thandiestax5748
      @thandiestax5748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You not alone 💔

  • @melvinjones1424
    @melvinjones1424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +841

    god says i will always love you no matter what..put your love and trust in christ ...flesh will always let you down but christ will never stop loving you...amen

  • @epluribusunum9236
    @epluribusunum9236 10 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    If this song has ever brought tears to your eyes you know what it is to have truly loved and to have truly lost.

    • @thabangmsibi6462
      @thabangmsibi6462 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It has and deeply

    • @harrykatunda9547
      @harrykatunda9547 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      KnotsofVessels oceanblue very true

    • @ericagreen89
      @ericagreen89 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      KnotsofVessels oceanblue you are so right BUT GOD

  • @dr.jayscott4854
    @dr.jayscott4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This is the most beautiful song ever. Before Tank, Bonnie Raitt was a genius. Like it's bigger than pain..this song cleanses the soul.

    • @patriciamitchell9365
      @patriciamitchell9365 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bonnie didn't write this song - an NFL player wrote this song 30 years ago - Bonnie was the first to record it

  • @angelicapintogonzalez4359
    @angelicapintogonzalez4359 9 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I give up this fight...
    I've reached the point in my life where I do not believe in love. Well I mean don't get me wrong I believe in love towards my children, family, friends but not in that love which we all dream about. Don't believe in the happily ever after, finding you're better half. Noooo that does not exist... society is so mess up now a days. People play with others feelings like nothing. Makes me so sad to see how can you let someone that loves you so much down. Cheating, lying is so normal now a days! :(

    • @dimpstyler6142
      @dimpstyler6142 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Feeling the same way. I wish it was like that.

    • @ladynastailgic
      @ladynastailgic 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Angélica Pinto González I so understand how you feel. I use to feel the same way. But I've resolved that just because it has not happened for me the way I would have liked it to, does not mean that it doesn't exist. What I do know is that it is a blessing to have when and if we find it. I've known of some couples that have been together 50+ years, so I know that true love and the longevity of it really does exist. Keep your head up. I pray God send you the love of your life and that he blesses the two of you with the happily ever after :)

    • @whocanitbeifitaintme
      @whocanitbeifitaintme 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ladynastailgic Yeah 50 years ago though. Not nowadays.

    • @ladynastailgic
      @ladynastailgic 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      whocanitbeifitaintme
      With God, all things are possible. And as for nowadays...........yes nowadays. My parents, my brothers and their wives, my sister and her husband and even my son and his wife, have all found longevity in their marriages. There is a common denominator for them all. and that is they chose there mates for other reasons than the ones I've listed below. I'm guilty of choosing the wrong person for the wrong reason, so I am in no-way trying to judge. Unfortunately, as men and women we have a tendency to reach for the shallow (looks, money, image, lust good sex and for some, the fear of being without a mate.) all those things are fleeting because whenever they are weigh against the strength it takes to be committed to a thing, none of those are able to stand the test of time. When we chose wrong we wont have the relationship long. We changed God didn't. Oftentimes our view and feelings about a thing is a result of what we have or have not experienced so it is easier to believe that it no longer exist because the only other option is harder to accept.

    • @whocanitbeifitaintme
      @whocanitbeifitaintme 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ladynastailgic IM LOVING YOUR PROFILE PIC. LONG LIVE BLACK LOVE

  • @superstevetosmooth4075
    @superstevetosmooth4075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    A broken heart hurts beyond the soul. I pray all broken hearts get healed and meet their soulmate one day. Stay strong and overcome but please love again. Being in love is the greatest feeling ever, that’s why it hurt like it hurts when the love is broken.

    • @BreDemon-
      @BreDemon- 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤

  • @PoppTv23
    @PoppTv23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4563

    To the person that loves hard , this song will hit hard but also makes you realize how good of a person you are

    • @valentinomiller6251
      @valentinomiller6251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      What does loving hard have to do with being a good person? One has nothing to do with the other.

    • @OriginalJuicey007
      @OriginalJuicey007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Yes. .Stephan Stewart... gotta be there or been there to understand.

    • @motrainer888
      @motrainer888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes!!

    • @kemeishasmith5580
      @kemeishasmith5580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I do agree

    • @anjabowers4804
      @anjabowers4804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👍✔

  • @shardemcqueen3071
    @shardemcqueen3071 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    In tears knowing it’s OVER and this song brings so much PEACE 🤍 I am so glad I have this music 🎵 TANK is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @joyfulaughs1330
    @joyfulaughs1330 7 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    Imagine a man that talks to God about you

    • @niquasciafire4240
      @niquasciafire4240 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      exactly. wolves in sheep clothing..smh

    • @sherialcooper3250
      @sherialcooper3250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG best feeling

    • @tynacoleman1542
      @tynacoleman1542 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FRICK N FRECK POWERFUL!! MANY BLESSINGS TO COME 🙏🙏🙏🙏 PRAISE HIM... GOT AN ANGEL 😇😇😇 UR TRULY BLESSED HONEY 😭😭👋👋🙏🙏

    • @0326hkim
      @0326hkim 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eh that’s stupid

    • @doraleanbrown9358
      @doraleanbrown9358 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love that

  • @aedreannaperiod2002
    @aedreannaperiod2002 6 ปีที่แล้ว +927

    Who still listen to this in 2018 beside me ? 😍

    • @ericagreen89
      @ericagreen89 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aedreanna Lockett I love this and when you been through it some how it becomes soothing ❤️ they really underrated this version he did is the best I’ve herd!

    • @viwebontsa720
      @viwebontsa720 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aedreanna Lockett u not alone

    • @Avosmari
      @Avosmari 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aye right here 👐🏻

    • @marilynnfulton5411
      @marilynnfulton5411 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Viwe Bontsa no not alone

    • @timdogg6032
      @timdogg6032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aedreanna Lockett me

  • @aniyahbell2455
    @aniyahbell2455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    this song already make me sad.. but these comments make me want to cry 😢

    • @crownmeking305
      @crownmeking305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Listen to this back 2 back thinking how i pour my heart in tears out for that special person i though I had. She only for herself

    • @aniyahbell2455
      @aniyahbell2455 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mickey Johnson right 😔

    • @ladyteka2430
      @ladyteka2430 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me toooo!!!

    • @queensheenz8400
      @queensheenz8400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too I just saw that one where the lady husband wrote to her

  • @robertescoto4387
    @robertescoto4387 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This man doesn’t get the respect he deserves. Top tier music

  • @Claire-yt6xx
    @Claire-yt6xx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1008

    Meeting your soulmate and realizing they don't love you.Or aren't ready to love you.Or don't realize what true love is....is the worst pain I have ever felt.I never got an explanation.My heart was just....butchered.

    • @laahundrae2697
      @laahundrae2697 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A

    • @KellGlamourous
      @KellGlamourous 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Claris-Ann Horn wasn’t him then babe. Just hold on... God is faithful 💓

    • @jaysinheffee5476
      @jaysinheffee5476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth

    • @dazzaj1672
      @dazzaj1672 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Claris-Ann Horn awww huni x

    • @camilliawilkins3151
      @camilliawilkins3151 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Claris-Ann Horn I know exactly how that feels after 14yrs

  • @iccycartel7632
    @iccycartel7632 6 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    This song makes me cry so hard loving this man for 6 years and he doesn't feel any way i do and it seems so hard to walk away cause he is all i want 😭😭😭

    • @youngmoney9549
      @youngmoney9549 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I completely understand no other comments. 💯💯💯💯

    • @jacklinebwoga5889
      @jacklinebwoga5889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I feel the pain coz am going through that right now after 7 yrs

    • @daughterofGod86
      @daughterofGod86 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😢😢😢😢

    • @disheliahoward8049
      @disheliahoward8049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I know the feeling 😢😢

    • @unconventionalafrican2698
      @unconventionalafrican2698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dishelia Howard I’m going through it right now . 8 damn years and he’s still all I want. Pray we all get through it

  • @habibibrahim1459
    @habibibrahim1459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Who else listen to this song more than once ❤❤

    • @otombafred1983
      @otombafred1983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Habid!..I keep coming back..was so unappreciated which somehow affected my self esteem like I was never good enough but I am healed and Gof sent me someone who adores me

    • @otombafred1983
      @otombafred1983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God healed me

    • @joycedale140
      @joycedale140 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Habib Ibrahim i can listern to it now. At first i couldnt. Because i felt in love with someone who didnt love me at all..👣👣

    • @duckbeallakingthon9050
      @duckbeallakingthon9050 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Habib Ibrahim ... i got hear it more then one then one time its real love

    • @charlesrankins9954
      @charlesrankins9954 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I listen to this song 5 to 10 times a day begging and to God to heal my heart ❤ and give me the strength to leave and not look back

  • @thomassohayda3375
    @thomassohayda3375 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My mom was a singer and I've heard her sing songs barely anyone could sing through to the end without breaking down. This song was always the exception.

  • @shamekiajohnston4948
    @shamekiajohnston4948 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    He just woke up one morning and decided he didn't love me anymore. That I wasn't worth fighting for anymore. He held on to every negative moment instead of the love that grew from those difficult times. But As a woman you have to be strong and let go....

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Shamekia Johnston Hun dont give him that much credit. He didnt just wake up one morning and decided he didnt love. Those were feelings faded over time. The signs were there unfortunately but when we love it truly can be blind. You may be hurting now but you can and you will get through this. Some people arent meant to be in our lives but for a moment. My nanna always said people are a blessing or a lesson. I truly understand that now. You deserve the best and if you will close that door God can open new ones for you. Praying for you

    • @daydayboo3300
      @daydayboo3300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shamekia Johnston sorry to hear that I'm going through the same I lost my fight as well but gotta move on

    • @zolekamayeza148
      @zolekamayeza148 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shamekia Johnston l

    • @darkflowerchild8620
      @darkflowerchild8620 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will not cry. Shamekia I promise I feel you. Felt like that was exactly what he did to me. Peyton, thank you for your response. It gives me perspective even though it's a VERY hard truth to swallow. Praying that we all will receive that man built by God's design, that we are to spend the rest of our lives with.

    • @jodipalmer4616
      @jodipalmer4616 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that

  • @brendatoomer4001
    @brendatoomer4001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    Cry everytime...all I want is real love it hurts 😢😢

    • @Andrea-wk9ws
      @Andrea-wk9ws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Don't worry...love will find you. God bless you.

    • @brendatoomer4001
      @brendatoomer4001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Andrea-wk9ws Thank you I hope so

    • @mzsmalls2628
      @mzsmalls2628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Real love shouldn't hurt

    • @janellemoxey9818
      @janellemoxey9818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here thought I found it

    • @derysu8053
      @derysu8053 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur parents love ya. Your friends love ya. And we all do luv ya. Dont feel alone. We re wichu. We wont lechu down. Aight? We re here wichu. Especially me. I come from.the middle east. Our hugs re kinda tight and strong. Lemme hug you 🤗

  • @taviatavia6796
    @taviatavia6796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    💘 this song makes me cry that people no longer value love marriage family its sad ...love is so beautiful

    • @weirdwannabediva3096
      @weirdwannabediva3096 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tavia ohyea omg yes!!!!

    • @quentinforbes9785
      @quentinforbes9785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought only me felt like that sometimes I think that love is just a fairytale is so hard to find someone to love you the way that you are willing to love them but as he say can't make the heart feel

    • @TylerTripsTunes
      @TylerTripsTunes 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some still do ❤️

    • @ledenejohnson3893
      @ledenejohnson3893 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tavia ohyea u gotta hear Curt green!!! th-cam.com/video/SPXCH2ewzNE/w-d-xo.html

    • @TimashaBernice
      @TimashaBernice 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @freidadunn25
    @freidadunn25 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is a bitter sweet song , sometimes love hurts and you must find the strength to walk away . Love hurts when it's not reciprocated , allow yourself to feel the pain and move on . We are all deserving of love that's felt by both parties don't ever sell yourself short .

  • @adrianjackson4807
    @adrianjackson4807 9 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I listen to this song almost everyday. I was in a ten year relationship and married to her for the last four years. When women get tired, they actually get tired. I just never thought I would go thru so much hurt and didn't kno I would have so much love for a woman because I was HARD, but that changed when she told me she was seeing someone else. It broke my heart and it took over a year to heal. God does things for reasons. Although we hear this a lot and don't wanna accept the fact because of the love we have, but love hurts and it also makes u grow. She's moved on and so have I . She's with another guy and has a baby on the way and that's just fine with me. I'm saying to say this. Us men need to feel, listen and respect our women before it's too late cause a fed up woman is hard to sustain.. God has opened my eyes and the next lady I'm with will be treated like a queen, cause my last one was treated like trash. Thank God for growth...

    • @whocanitbeifitaintme
      @whocanitbeifitaintme 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good to know. Seems like you have manned up.

    • @sandraritah
      @sandraritah 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your right.. Finally you got there

    • @deemac8231
      @deemac8231 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow! Adrian Jackson, You said a mouthfull and it's good you recognize your mistakes through your pain. When you find her, she will feel more special than a queen!

    • @mrdontpl8y
      @mrdontpl8y 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fasho

    • @kathyhallsss
      @kathyhallsss 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree you can't make someone love you if they just don't anymore.

  • @dizzyness786
    @dizzyness786 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1207

    You don't have to play with a persons heart. You can say goodbye. And let them find someone who will love them the way they need. It's horrible to see or realize that you don't love them/or that they don't love you. But be brave enough to let go of a love that doesn't love you/ or you don't love. Life is short enough. Why waste the time.

  • @daneishashaw2418
    @daneishashaw2418 7 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    hardest thing is loving someone unconditionally who dont love u...

    • @tamikabell52
      @tamikabell52 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @rodricksimmons4578
      @rodricksimmons4578 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

    • @naomielouifaite8537
      @naomielouifaite8537 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daneisha Shaw morning l I was going home now I have a couple of my friends coming in the day so I can go get some food and I’ll go get back some lunch I love you bye baby love mom I hope o well I have some time to call him I love him

    • @antoniohawkins3756
      @antoniohawkins3756 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol no it’s not. If it was truly unconditional then it wouldn’t hurt. It only hurts because your love is conditional.

    • @dreday77764
      @dreday77764 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      There’s no such thing as loving someone unconditionally in a relationship. Stop watching Hollywood movies and come back to reality

  • @mokgadimanyapye707
    @mokgadimanyapye707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know wht went wrong, I blame myself for loving him too much and pray God helps me

  • @brionamayfield9742
    @brionamayfield9742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I just wanna know why I'll never be good enough? 😭😭😭😭😔😢💔💔

    • @rikadenise5815
      @rikadenise5815 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Briona Mayfield. they're not good enough...

    • @lickemlow5deuce203
      @lickemlow5deuce203 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Briona Mayfield you'll always be good enough. Don't let noone make you feel any different. Sometimes the one we think is for us isn't the one for us. So if he makes you feel that you're not good enough he's just not the one. Not speaking down about your person I'm just speaking the truth. So that person is just not good enough for you

    • @naveahandebonytyson7643
      @naveahandebonytyson7643 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ur good enough there not good enough

    • @tamekamcduffie9150
      @tamekamcduffie9150 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rodriquez Carpenter very good answer!!!

    • @evrythngbynaj
      @evrythngbynaj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel the same way. :(

  • @mafalalucia1119
    @mafalalucia1119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1272

    Why do we fall inlove with people who don’t love us back😭😭

    • @Whey2lovely
      @Whey2lovely 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm sure it's not intentional...to be perfectly honest I dont believe the choice is ours to make

    • @cathyt144
      @cathyt144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mildred Kimberly Dawn Lee WRONG We all have the power to make choices that affect us and others as well. some people are just too selfish to even be in a relationship because all they do is take take take,never giving anything in return.

    • @cathyt144
      @cathyt144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Mafala lucia because love is blind and we dont know how to love ourselves first and see oyr own worth. we "settle" instead of taking our time to "choose"

    • @deerob6741
      @deerob6741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good question

    • @Quaqua0097
      @Quaqua0097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I ask myself that alot

  • @pameladrummond2837
    @pameladrummond2837 10 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This is just one of those songs that makes you miss ...wish...hope...dream...sad

    • @pameladrummond2837
      @pameladrummond2837 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Donald Aubry its only sad because you can't make someone love you if they don't.

    • @kclark3923
      @kclark3923 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeesssszzzzaaaaa

  • @krisjohn9999
    @krisjohn9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Easily the best version/interpretation of this song I've ever heard. Perfect balance of vocals and instruments. Incredible!

    • @flatearthfatboy9589
      @flatearthfatboy9589 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right never knew tank was this good

    • @cessaly100
      @cessaly100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too! ALMOST better than Bonnie..!

    • @jessicamarie2662
      @jessicamarie2662 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes so emotional

  • @moosatsita7353
    @moosatsita7353 8 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I remember when I first had the lyrics to this song and I just broke down and cried cos at that moment, I realised that the man I choes to love with my whole being will never love me the way I do him. It hurt so bad but over time, everytime I listened to this song I git the strength to teach my heart to heal and move on despite the pain of losing your bestfriend, first love and your world. I gave up the fight to make him love me.

    • @looseburger4515
      @looseburger4515 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      your comment was so touching. so heartfelt and poetic like. I was nearly in tears because I also know your kinda hurt and pain

    • @mpumithwala4421
      @mpumithwala4421 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Moosa Tsita its never easy to let go but yah time heals and sometimes you have to lose to win again

    • @wonderfulcogicgirl08
      @wonderfulcogicgirl08 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Modekes Modekes I agree.

    • @VinnyLogz
      @VinnyLogz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Moosa Tsita sucks, some people Love hard and wear their heart on their sleeve and the more we show it the more comfortable we get showing it and it snowballs, its an unstoppable force. its rare, not everyone can feel that. its also very dangerous bc if you get hurt that unstoppable force turns to pain. and just like love you cant control it, it takes its own course.

    • @markporter8196
      @markporter8196 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Moosa Tsita had the same effect on me

  • @ruthanngreen7715
    @ruthanngreen7715 7 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    its so fucked up that you put your life on hold just to make someone else's better and in the end no matter how hard you tried you will never be good enough

  • @DAEEEEEETAYYYYY
    @DAEEEEEETAYYYYY 8 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    man u truly feel like crap when u know someone loves u but u can't love them back the way they deserve to be loved or the way they want to be loved because.... U can't make your heart feel something it wont.....sooo true

  • @margaretharris4639
    @margaretharris4639 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love too hard and I'm tired of hurting. Realize maybe I should be by myself.

  • @josephljohnson
    @josephljohnson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    I can truly watch this video without feeling pain. I recently got married to a beautiful woman who found something in me to love. Not to long ago, I used this platform to express my hurt of a 12 year relationship break up. Writing about it and reading the feedback was helpful and therapeutic. Now, this is a beautiful song!

    • @wendyf4827
      @wendyf4827 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So glad to hear that you found love again as I just read your earlier comment and thread.. You sound like such a lovely guy, your new wife is a very lucky lady. Hope you have a lifetime of happiness together. xx

    • @airzoom090
      @airzoom090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💔💖 time heals wounds. Glad you didn't give up on love

    • @maganoiitula9552
      @maganoiitula9552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Look at God ♡♡♡♡

    • @oshnoohav3
      @oshnoohav3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats

    • @angelhall2467
      @angelhall2467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Joseph Johnson sorry for that i hope you find someone to love you forever😜😀

  • @tumeloseadira8224
    @tumeloseadira8224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    If you've never found yourself relating to this song, count yourself lucky and appreciate your partner

  • @lateishawhite6063
    @lateishawhite6063 8 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    when u feel like u making someone love you the love ain't real so just let it go

  • @corporalbrig
    @corporalbrig 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The part where she runs to him and they embrace always chokes me up. Going through a break up and I still love her no matter what 😢

  • @holidaydavis5799
    @holidaydavis5799 6 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    You cannot ever make someone love you who don't know what love is in the first place...

    • @dustincoleman3133
      @dustincoleman3133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We all know what real love is some just choose not love 💯

  • @onelovev4174
    @onelovev4174 7 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    i am done with love..cant take the pain anymore.

    • @guardianangelyouthcenter1955
      @guardianangelyouthcenter1955 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's exactly how I feel right now!! Will someone please take this dagger out of my heart already!!!!

    • @Chazzi25
      @Chazzi25 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      it is then when they say you'll find your prince.

    • @memecooper3351
      @memecooper3351 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mane this how I feel

  • @skylersmomma827
    @skylersmomma827 8 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I've been with my bf for 6 years, time after time hes cheated lied, hit me, I've left and came back to many times, just this last time, I have finally gave up, Love doesn't hurt, Love makes you smile and be happy, not scared to ask something or just say something, It's time.....

    • @maatwadjet9641
      @maatwadjet9641 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I understand your pain and what you went through. Keep your head up and just know there are brighter days ahead. You'll get through it. Be strong. Wish you the best.

    • @vanessawalker5366
      @vanessawalker5366 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sometimes the one that needs to love us the most is ourselves

    • @sandrew313100
      @sandrew313100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Vanessa Walker Amen!.. and sometimes as human we get in our own way ...but when one thing we can be sure of is that our future is already been written ..we just have fight t2 things ...and it's patience and faith ..easily said but damn our worst enemy

    • @temekamiller1584
      @temekamiller1584 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You will be just fine in due time! Praying for your strength'n

    • @neya292
      @neya292 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You deserve more than him & that. Don't go back to him, no matter how lonely you may feel. There is much better for you out there! Keeping you in prayer! Check out +Bronzegoddess01 on youtube for more support. I love her motivational videos and God fearing spirit. Trust me, she allows God to use her, to strengthen & share wisdom!

  • @dameka6312
    @dameka6312 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you God for healing me helping me understand that I am infinitely Loved by you 💜

  • @micaharlon9998
    @micaharlon9998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Daaaaamn. Better than any cover that I have EVER heard. And I've heard plenty. Teddy Swims is excellent. This one is on another level. The "soul" level is a twelve on a scale from zero to ten.

  • @inspirationwithgeorge
    @inspirationwithgeorge 6 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Pain! It teaches us how to live, how to love, how to forgive...

    • @WeNeed2TlkTv
      @WeNeed2TlkTv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check out my (Cover) I Can't Make You Love Me th-cam.com/video/koF14M3zXY8/w-d-xo.html

    • @BaKheru
      @BaKheru 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So does joy!

    • @seaofmadness2622
      @seaofmadness2622 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pain can also change us too. Believe it or not a person can die from heartbreak.. Just heartbreak

    • @kukuselegiven1258
      @kukuselegiven1258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I recently broke my girls heart. I hate myself for doing such. She loved me and placed so much effort to make our relationship work. But I never new how to embrace her love. This song reminds me of her concerns.

    • @lesliemarshall5980
      @lesliemarshall5980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

  • @martinrobinson7939
    @martinrobinson7939 8 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    this song is so hurtful

    • @lisabeee1098
      @lisabeee1098 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Caribbean Snow makes me emotional haha

  • @brendanwilson2847
    @brendanwilson2847 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Such a beautiful song….

  • @lmariap14
    @lmariap14 9 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Dont patronize...
    I have always enjoyed listening to this song. We can not make anyone love us. We must set them free and love ourselves. IMHO.

    • @alfredoaceves5655
      @alfredoaceves5655 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good song.... But "if you don't"...
      Don't get me pizza???
      What is it?????
      :))))

    • @lmariap14
      @lmariap14 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alfredo Aceves Yes I really like this one..
      No Pizza = no love....
      LOL :-)))))

    • @missezcarter2394
      @missezcarter2394 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      ISN'T THAT KESHA KNIGHT PULLIUM.. OR LIL RUDY????

    • @sibusisothungo8454
      @sibusisothungo8454 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't make you love me (Real songs

    • @lmariap14
      @lmariap14 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      sibusiso thungo True.. We can not make anyone feel anything for us. We Must accept their feelings and move on with our lives. :-/

  • @shanaethompson8861
    @shanaethompson8861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    it's tough but we can't give up. Get back up and keep fighting. We'll find someone who can love us the way we deserve to be loved one day

  • @kimbabishop7202
    @kimbabishop7202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1919

    Who listening at this time and reading the comments. Lol

  • @ericamartin6472
    @ericamartin6472 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just wanna heal I pray I find who love me

  • @DavidLee-xd1cx
    @DavidLee-xd1cx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    Hang in there Everyone.... God will send you someone special just for you. Pray and keep him with you. Miracles do happen for reasons. Remember they were never really yours in the 1st place.
    Love yourself! God Bless

    • @marshajames6679
      @marshajames6679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so right... our plans are not God's!!

    • @milesmatheson1142
      @milesmatheson1142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's easy to say stuff like "lean on God", but when the same shit (unrequited love) has happened for the third time, it's kind of hard to put into practice.

    • @neecieowens705
      @neecieowens705 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I pray so....

    • @Ladylance
      @Ladylance 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TheGDEventI
      @TheGDEventI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@milesmatheson1142 I agree... and there are people who live their whole life and die single, without ever receiving the love they deserved

  • @davioncoombs5615
    @davioncoombs5615 8 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    😢😢😢😞😞
    don't mind me...I'm just crying over my ex that I barely had

    • @joshw0927
      @joshw0927 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hang in there bro. atleast you dont feel like your trying and the other person is barley hanging on

    • @davioncoombs5615
      @davioncoombs5615 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +josh in bama ikr...

    • @jeffreyalbrittain
      @jeffreyalbrittain 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'll treat her well don't worry man

    • @Sqillyam
      @Sqillyam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Daniel Albrittain flaw lmao

    • @adrienne0122aw
      @adrienne0122aw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Daniel Albrittain u wrong for dat!

  • @Daaaaalise
    @Daaaaalise 9 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    I am the girl who came everyday for months for weeks for years. Even though i know he doesnt love me the way i do. Cause i believe that someday he'd see, that my love is true and that im the only girl who would went through all the kind of pains he gave me and the messes he put me in, who would listen to his lie forever. I did all those things but isnt it the saddest thing to say? That your best is never enough to someone like him. I know he looks further to prettier women, smarter women, and else. So im giving this up. Cause i've tried my best, and still cant make him love me. Nobody in this world that belong to us, its just our turn. So here i am. Even its the hardest to do.

    • @krisdavis9962
      @krisdavis9962 9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Stay strong. I'm sure the he is not the right one for you. You be surprised to see when GOD brings you your other half. You will love him and he will love you back. Not 50 / 50 but 100 !. Sending you all blessing and keeping you in prayers.

    • @Daaaaalise
      @Daaaaalise 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kris Davis thats so lovely and that make my day. And that calms me at lease for now. thanks you :)

    • @ritaokere9396
      @ritaokere9396 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True and real words Dalise, I've been there when u do d very best u can to make them happy and yet it feels like they care very less about u, it's time to give up this fight and just move on...there r better days and better love ahead.

    • @arilee2005
      @arilee2005 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dalise God bless your heart. I think we've all been there. I'm there now and I'm scared to death. Fear of the unknown

    • @Daaaaalise
      @Daaaaalise 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      arilee2005 I know how you are feeling now. nobody in this world could help you beside yourself. believe me it is just a phase. you gotta learn something from this. always tell yourself that there is always a rainbow after the rain. so stay strong. god will write you another love story.
      im not happy either. but what can you do ? you have done your best.

  • @AnthonyAnderson-yo4kt
    @AnthonyAnderson-yo4kt ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This song is definitely for the real queens out there salute to the real one's 🙏🏿✊🏿

  • @latressa84
    @latressa84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    Sometimes a broken heart can kill you faster than physical abuse. 😭

    • @family561
      @family561 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Latressa if you need someone to talk message me @solterotravel on ig. My business caters to ppl going through break ups

    • @manastalksessions
      @manastalksessions 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've been through heart break AND abuse. Hunny that's not true at all! There is healing through the pain from heart break but the only relief from abuse and staying is death!

    • @indra94546
      @indra94546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Singing Lyrics what the hell are you saying!!

    • @manastalksessions
      @manastalksessions 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      indrae what?

    • @jflowthespitta
      @jflowthespitta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Singing Lyrics there is other ways around physical pain other than death but mental abuse is harder to get by it can stay for years figuratively, if you stub your toe or get cut it scars and the pain is gone in a few days to a week tops some people edont recover from mental abuse especially from someone you love and put all your time and energy on

  • @deletedthis4538
    @deletedthis4538 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3446

    This song will have you crying about a situation that never even happened lol

    • @mxsade88
      @mxsade88 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Chenaiya B. 😂😂😂😂

    • @gamingwithlaunaalauna_yt3680
      @gamingwithlaunaalauna_yt3680 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chenaiya B loll solo funny

    • @colsomemiah6095
      @colsomemiah6095 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Chenaiya B. The power of superb poetry put to song

    • @gelicabean
      @gelicabean 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Chenaiya B. now..I have gone through a situation and it hurt...But THIS COMMENT IS SUPER TRUE...OR have u crying over something SOOOOOOOO old it ain't even relavent...KMSL

    • @nicholasjonesoconnell9523
      @nicholasjonesoconnell9523 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chenaiya B. so true

  • @jazminm2467
    @jazminm2467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    For the person that's doing the hurting, .. LET THEM GO.. 🤦‍♀️

  • @Rodtang-x5z
    @Rodtang-x5z ปีที่แล้ว +3

    17 years together...then out of nowhere she gave her heart to somebody else, I never saw it coming...I can only hope she is happy with the choice she made...