Paternity Fraud, The Truth - EVERY Man Must Watch This
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- It's estimated that paternity fraud is as high as 1 in 3. Because paternity fraud requires deception from the mother, it's difficult to determine the actual numbers, but in this video, some research from my book revealed some reliable rates.
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Entrepreneurs in Cars have u heard of Emily Wilcox and her book commitment phobe it’s not you it’s him I cannot stand this woman horrible ideas
I can't imagine the pain a man must feel after a decade of fathering, to realise that he is just a pawn in an evil game.
It is funny how women do not empathize with men in that regard - if anything at all... I watched a Stefan Molyneux call in show where a woman cucked her husband. She did not understand why her husband was so enraged.
We men become murderous with something so heinous and vile. Feminism has really destroyed their empathy.
@@yharnamiyhill787 "She did not understand why her husband was so enraged." Just killing such bitches
its ok men don't have feelings just wallets
A lot of guys volunteer for this. Think of all of the guys who get involved with single mommies. Getting involved with a single mommie is volunteering to be cucked. Part of the problem is that most women in their thirties are mommies, and almost all of the attractive women over thirty, and many in their twenties are mommies. About half of these mommies are divorced, or soon will be. So if you want the mommy, you have to take her kids.
This is part of the flaw in many of the arguments one sees here and on other channels. While women in their twenties tend to be chasing after the Chads and riding the CC, by the time they hit their thirties, one or more of those Chads have given them a souvenir. If you get involved with one of these women, you are volunteering to be cucked. JUST DO NOT ADOPT THE KID!
@@yharnamiyhill787 Why would they? They dont give a flying f. about men, dont have empathy and only care about themselves. Men should do the same!
It should be law when a child is born that DNA is drawn to positively identify the father. DNA don't lie
When you think about it with logic and fairness, yes, the DNA tests should be mandatory , but if you think about it from the government's point of view, then it shouldn't.
Because why would the government pay child support to a woman, if it can find some guy and force him to pay or even raise a child who is not his...
I absolutely agree with you sir I seen a dear friend of mine. Go through. Heartache when he found out it wasn't his child. And then she had another. Affair he's paying child support and a child that isn't his This is sad shame. How the system works Thanks for your comment. You have a peaceful evening.
DNA tests do lie when they are poorly handled so you need to get at least three
Don’t need to. Every man should do the test by himself.
@@firstcaptainarenoskarlaen7103
Good point.
There WILL be LEGITIMATE errors whether the mother was faithful or not.
I have a post-vasectomy friend who spent many high value years enjoying the dating market. During that time he had 3 different woman come to him with, "I'm pregnant."
What a joy it must have been to respond, "Congratulations! Who's the father?" :)
I can't understand how stupid all such bitches are. Everybody will see later, that it isn't his child.
@@crni3379 This has been a successful mating strategy for thousands of years for women. My guess is that, unless the differences are obvious, most men would write it off as typical genetic variation. Men create great fictions in their heads to help them believe their relationship is something that it's not. E.g. How many men do you know who continue to court women that show obvious red flags that should disqualify them from long term consideration...?
@@darbyohara ?
JP Colorado would be hella fine get that surgery
😂
My brother got baby-trapped into marriage with a child who isn’t his. Now, he has a granddaughter who isn’t his, it goes on and on. By the way, his wife still cheats on him...
The worse part is in most places, the state make him pay child support for a kid he didn't father if he leaves her...
There are not victims. Only volunteers
@Arlond Ponsohrj True.. It's a secret type of 'emotional 'danger having mindset being geared towards monogamy and love in some of today's worldly cultures... Especially when much of this Western world is throwing hypocritical feminist rhetoric in ones face which is teaching some men how NOT to love women (and themselves at a higher standard) and women how NOT to love men(and themselves at higher standards )
(perhaps what I've said makes more Sense in my head that grammatically clear when written though...lol? )
@Lisa Tosca Yes. The loss of the House, Car, 1/2 of all his assets (if he is lucky), paying her legal fees, Alimony, Child support, homelessness, Prison if he can't pay, is a small price for the humiliation foisted upon him. Further, since the child that he has bonded to as a 'Father' is not his genetic offspring, he cannot even sue for the right to VISIT! If he tries, he gets to pay her legal fees as well as his own. If he complains he is infested with Toxic Masculinity and a Misogynist. Women have no freaking idea. Men do NOT get the support from society women do.
Don't believe me? Ask the otherwise homeless man living in my basement.
😂 they truly are fucking evil
Heard this joke on some other video,..".I thought a vasectomy prevented pregnancy,it turns out that I was wrong,it just changes the color of the baby".
Lmao
😂😂🤣🤣 You know you're crazy for that one.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
My mom taught my brothers and I this: "When you're ready to have kids, make sure they're yours. Don't get trapped into paying for a kid that's not yours." My mom was a G like that. My brother did this - on the advice of my mom - when he had my nieces and nephew. Yes, they were 100% his kids. Another great quote she told us was this: "Just because she's doing that thing you like now doesn't mean she won't do it to Juan down the street."
Sounds like she says it from experience lol
Okay did you make sure Holly never got pregnant when she went to LA , and left you in New York .
@@nactd
Damn, yeah I'd have to get an Ancestry test after that...
I like your mom.🙂
Juan!
The state doesn't want too many on welfare. Thats why they don't like who's the father tests. The guy will leave if he is not the dad. She will go on welfare.
The state wants everyone on welfare. This is why fathers are taking out of the picture but government pushes on female fears. Females in fear/need with no man (father/spouse) in the picture beg for government to save them and everyone else (won't some one thin of the children mentality). No strong families means stronger, more powerful government.
@@jessecortez9449 It would make more sense for corporations to want that outcome rather than government.
You could always just ABOLISH welfare to begin with.
That's why France ban paternity test. Paternity test is a crime in France
@@Makyura43 It's the people who own both. Long term thinkers not concerned with people like you or me.
Just a thought. I stayed single while most of my friends got married. I spent more time in the bars in Toronto having fun instead. The number of married women, usually mothers, who would aggressively flirt with me, an average looking guy, was shocking. They were "working late" while their husbands were home looking after the kids. A friend of mine and I would see how many would agree to come back to our downtown apartment after several drinks. Married guys don't want to know the results of that experiment. Rest easy in the knowledge, that I never crossed the infidelity line, as I had too much compassion for the men they were planning on betraying. I could easily see myself in their shoes. We need to stop throwing each other under the bus guys. We already have the deck stacked against us. Bros before hoes.
Finally a real one. Good shit bro
A real bro. You could take it a step further and shame these women for cheating on their husbands at the very last minute and leave them on the roadside for them to call their husbands to pick them up xD
I was one of those naive married men who never wanted to know the truth. Not until the marriage broke down (thankfully no kids) that I learnt female nature and opened up to her what I know and who she is as a female that she opened up to me to tell me she was out fu cking some other dudes at a time she told me she was working late while I wad holding the family in every way. She did get pregnant one time and lost the baby (thankfully) that I’m sure wasn’t mine. Things would have been messier then cos she would have destroyed my life and that of another innocent child. Now she is free to go destroy another man’s life. Evil women exists, any denier of this is likely to meet a bad faith. Any woman who frowns upon paternity test has an evil at heart or just dump unless the man doesn’t care if he is the biological father in which case it’s fair. I’m all for rights. Everyone (man or woman) has a right to the truth, periodt.
Andrew Kong they will still not call their husbands. All they need to do is stop a car at the road side and get banged like animals as they please or just look at their phone contacts and pick one work mate etc. cheating isn’t hard for women. Best is for the man to be smart and leave if he spots a single red flag
Bros over hoes, love it. Well played.
In my divorce proceedings, the case prior to mine, was a young man arguing he shouldn’t pay child support because drum roll please: The child wasn’t his. Her lawyer’s argument was basically no big deal, we like the financial arrangement as it is, keep paying her. The judge agreed with her lawyer. This wasn’t something I heard second hand, I watched this happen real time.This stuff is very real and very, very predatory.
Government Law doesn't want to be responsible for the sexual proclivities of hypergamous women. They shovel that onto the woman's blue-pilled work mule husband, regardless of DNA.
@@miketeeveedub5779 But the governantal Law is the origin of the problem. The Bitch seems to just aim on the child support at least. I think, it should leave the problem to nature.After a few years non of this fucking bitches would doing this shit like others before.
The state won't pay for the kid and making the mother pay for her decisions is political suicide.
@@JohnSmith-ox3gy take away election right from women... problem solved
This shit is fucking disgusting. Thank God men are slowly waking up to this shit though. This can't continue to go on forever. An unjust system has no right to continue existing.
This is true!
As a medical student, I would agree. One day at the medical school at D.E.Ü in Turkey came this family with a son who was sick.
The woman was in full Islamic gear, dressed like Saudi Arabia women and her husband was this strongly build Turkish man.
After the tests and everything, the professor said that the patient (son)needed blood. And the professor chose the father as a right donor, but before the transfusion, we had to check blood type match...OMG.
Blood type didn't match so we told to the specialist about the results. He came in and asked the woman if the father was the real daddy, she said yes and he did the test himself again but the blood type was not matching.
The professor came in to ask the woman if the father was '' the true father of the son'' she said she needed to talk to the professor.
She revealed that the father was'' not the true father.'' but she asked for confidentiality...and also for the fear of the reaction from the Turkish man who would most likely have killed both, the woman and the son, the professor played her game.
So the professor proceeded with the treatment by getting blood from the father so that it should appear that he gave blood to his son, yet the blood which was given to his fake son was taken from the blood bank...
The lesson of the story here:
The bombs in this video are true even amongst religious appearing women out there.
Check out, Peace!
Jesus, are you serious?? That's insane
What the hell? So, you were there to see the whole thing? Did you say anything??
Dude it is a blood test
What is it's realition to dna
Prince William did not father Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. Kate’s 6’10” blonde bodyguard did. 🎭🩰🎨
Disney movies never included scenes about this issue.
Lol! Beast wondering why he and Belle's child looks like a grandfather clock:)
HAHAHAH!!!! xD
I bet the next Disney movies will have some story where the male character will be a hero for being a cuckhold.
@@migueruta All too believable, I'm afraid.
@@Sensorium19 I know what you mean! Probably, it will happen in the next captain marvel movie or even in a animation.
This happened to me actually. I got her pregnant, she allowed another man to sign the BC. 6 months after the child was born, she told me the kid is mine. She ended up getting cold feet eventually, didn't want to let the fake father know the kid wasn't his. I had to convince her sister to babysit the kid so i could do a store bought DNA test. I sent it to the lab, results came back with matching DNA.
I attempted to get rights but i needed consent from both her legal parents which they refused. I could have pressed the issue further but the legal costs were extremely outrageous and i knew they'd hit me with child support right after. I decided it wasn't worth the financial risk to push the topic any further.
So i gave her an ultimatum..i agreed to be in my kids life if they'd allow it and that i'd help buy the kid things she needs but only if i could see my kid. She refused, it's been 7 years now and my kid still calls someone else dad. She left the guy that signed the BC, and now he pays child support on a kid he knows isn't his. Lol
The brotherhood sure is shit. Do the right thing. Approach the guy and tell him the truth.
I have told him, he just refuses to acknowledge it and has blocked me. He wasn't aware at first but he found out within the first year.
He has a lot of resentment for me, she would break up with him everytime he started acting beta and i was the one she'd call to fuck while she took "breaks" from him periodically. For what it's worth, i don't know the guy personally. Think i've been around him twice and both times in the store.
Same thing happened to me, except she won't do the DNA test. So I said if you won't do a DNA test, don't even talk to me about it.
@@louiewatson9389 My curiosity got the best of me. I was intrigued by the idea of creating a child so i had to find out.
A mixture of them being extremely uncooperative and resentful towards me and a huge legal/financial crisis happening made my decision a lot easier. They didn't want me involved and i figured i dodged a bullet financially speaking.
That guy is a loser. They both are getting what they deserve.
Why paternity tests aren’t standard hospital operating procedure I don’t know.
So woman can pull this off everybody is better of if a man takes care of the kid even if it isnt his well except the man but who cares
Because it's better for the government...
Feminists argue that requiring paternity tests will lead to domestic violence. They sorta skip over the fact that women are committing fraud en masse.
I think they often are. But hospital not passing it to parents, to "protect the happy family" as they say 👌 not to expose the CC rider in other words.
it would hold woman accountable....that will never happen.. politicians are scared of losing womans votes.
I'm a therapist, and I've had people in my office for this reason, even in middle age, they are very rattled when they find that the man they've been calling "dad" all their lives is not their actual father. It's understandable; it upsets someone's sense of self to find that something so basic as who one's father is has been a lie.
LPC, LMFT or LCSW?
@@DIVISIONINCISION LPC
It's not basic that you have been lied to, your entire life by what you though what a 'good mother'. It's more than just identity crisis, it's also looking at everyone that raised you differently, including your mother
@@camelio10 I think we mean about the same thing. We're just saying it differently. It shakes up how a person view themselves. They ask "who am I? why did this happen? who else knows? does the man who has been acting as a father know?"
The bird is a Cuckoo. Lays its eggs in another birds nest leaving its own eggs after throwing the other eggs or chicks out.
I agree on that. I learned that in school as a child in Germany. We even call those paternity fraud children "Kuckuckskinder" or roughly translated "Cuckoo-kid(s)".
This is of no tangible importance, but it's actually the baby cuckoo chick that pushes the other eggs out of the nest. They hatch more quickly than their hosts young and have an instinct clear the nest of other eggs immediately. They are rather morbid creatures.
And people wonder why the Abrahamic religions were so strict on sexuality
Turns out thousands of years of "fairytales" actually had some REAL sense.. who knew
"believe all women"
yeah right....
All my kids are getting a DNA test within the first week of life in addition to other tests.
Thank goodness I am a physician, so let me see who will object if I wanna run a test on my kids.
Can you do one on me and my future kids? I'll make the flight to a doc in the manosphere and not one in the sisterhood lol.
you may be a doctor but those kids are hers and the governments...you have no rights when it comes down to it.
Too late if you're already married to her.
@@jw8544 im my state you only have exactly one year after birth to contest paternity...she of course will stall and get a lawyer and fight you every step of the way to run out the clock...after that you are screwed keep on paying..
@@workingshlub8861 per the state of Arizona, if the woman wants to get pregnant and have a child, then once you relieve yourself off of your sperm, it's by law hers as she technically is given preference by Arizona law, due to her right to motherhood
1 in 3 is disgusting.
I was shocked when he said that.
It's not that in the US it is 16 percent unexpected and 25.5 suspected
Just read the book ''Sperm wars'' Everything that this guy is talking about is true.
Great book! Really eye-opening.
I knew a Single Mother ® who refuses to date men with kids. She was always saying "Why do I have to raise another women's kid?" I guess this is a good example of what Rich C and Rollo would call solipsism.
She's right, why does she have to raise a man's kids when that man isn't even sure that those kids are his ? xD
Imagine being the guy that had a vasectomy and suddenly your girlfriend who doesnt know about this tells you she is pregnant :D
As if it makes a difference if its your wife, your girlfriend or whatever you wanna call it.
She will never be yours anyway, its only your turn.
ALF Raydough
The state will not change the decision even if it's your neighbor, your family doctor or your sister.
Soon enough even with a vasectomy, the state will spin some kind of law to make you the provider if you were the guy most present during her pregnancy or some shit.
Unlimited Piss I can imagine that happening. And society suggests that we as men have “male privilege”....
@@guyheavengym Then I just hope men would be wise enough to take necessary actions like never to have long term relationship on any women and just do the pump and dump method.
It can be mentally, emotionally and financially distressful to any man to know later in life he fathered a kid from a low value woman he doesn't care anymore.
Guys, this video is SO true. We just found out in our family a situation that shocked us to the core. Be careful out there men. xo
Thanks for sharing and your support.
We need more female allies like you.
I have handled many child abuse cases where paternity is in issue. Mom shows up in Court along with Dad 1, Dad 2 and Dad 3. The Court must determine paternity, if for no other reason to figure out whose parental rights to terminate. Mom will invariably choose the stable employed nice guy as the dad. The paternity testing invariably shows that the tattooed, unemployed, drug using bum is the real father.
What most guys don't understand is that the Uniform Parentage Act, which is the law In most states, creates a number of presumptive fathers. If paternity testing shows you are the bio dad, you are presumed parent. If you were married to the mother when the child was born, you are a presumed parent. If you name appears on the birth certificate, you are a presumed parent. If the child lives in your home and you hold the child out as being yours, you are a presumed parent. All presumptions are equal; on presumption does not trump another. So when you have several presumed daddies, the Court will determine who the father is based on the best interest of the child. Thus, the guy who was married to the woman may be determined to be the father, even if he is not the bio dad. This could be because he is the employed and stable provider type, while bio dad is the tattooed, unemployed, drug addicted guy who got lucky one night.
Get paternity testing, if you like, but it does not necessarily get a guy off the hook. Guys need to understand that getting involved with females almost always involves babies. They may not be your babies; they can be another guy's babies; but with women it's all about babies.
I saw about 2 weeks ago a UK DHS (healthcare) official accidentally let slip 10% of births the "dad" isn't the actual father. This is just the nominal amount of paternity fraud. When infidelity is suspected and the kid is tested then it shoots up to about 33%. Let that sink in. There's a 1 in 10 chance your kid isn't yours, and if you have a gut instinct that they're not yours then there's a 1 in 3 chance that... "You are NOT the father!" /Maury
Paternity fraud apologists will say it's only 2-4% similar to what you hear from false rape apologists. No, Virginia, that's how many are PROVEN false. The actual rate is MUCH higher, as this DHS official accidentally let out.
Mum's baby, Dad's maybe
Kingpin Status That’s awesome.
Strange how most other kinds of financial frauds are illegal and often come with a prison sentence.... but in this instance it isn't??
Because we live in a matriarchy
That's because of femonicratic regimes...
The father goes to jail if he doesn’t pay support
It's so hard to believe some women would do this to a guy. It's emotionally devastating.
I don't get it either
You find it hard to believe? 😭 they played you
Prince William did not father Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. Kate’s 6’10” blonde bodyguard did. 🎭🩰🎨
In France it is illegal. Also it is illegal for a French man to seek such a test outside of the country. The legal claim is that such tests are harmful to the children. I suspect they never asked what the children want
French culture supports extramarital relationships. Sad but true. It’s deep seeded in their culture...
I guess in France men have no value and are seen only as plow mules. It's so sad.
also in germany
If you have any doubts, give your child a paternity test. I believe in France it is illegal, but there are always ways around it.
I always laugh when I hear France. That nation is the definition of soyboy nation.
I always laugh when I hear France. That nation is the definition of soyboy nation.
Having 3 grown sons I really appreciate this !!!
This channel is great for professional men, as they seem to be the prime target for this kind of behaviour. I see a lot of the warnings here play out in real life all the time.
"Why does my kid have a different skin color than me?" - the Cuckold
"Because you always drank so much coffee" -The "wife"
The moment when the cuckold decided diversity wasn't so good
@@cardenasr.2898 well. you're diverse going by that name
@@camelio10 you say it like it's a bad thing. My country ain't that diverse by the way, we are all mexicans here
The wife: That's genetic variation, hon!"
Happened to a mate but luckily he listened to his mates to get tested before he signed the birth certificate. Dont sign until you do a DNA test
It should be standard practice to DNA test BEFORE you sign the birth certificate
If somehow the tables were turned, I bet you that they will be a law that mandates a maternity test to protect women from raising kids that are not their own.
@Alex Not saying your right... but, your not wrong.
It's so sad how men in the Manosphere make jokes about this even though it's men who are primarily effected by this on a physical and emotional level. That's the problem with men nowadays. They throw each other under the bus and say "Oh glad that didn't happen to me... just LOL@ that guy!".
SAD
We are dirty rotten scoundrels to the end🙁
if 30% childs come from cheating than I can assume that 90% of women cheat. It's just that most of them don't keep children from their cheating partners.
Just found out I’m a victim, it’s was thanks to your video that lead me to go and find out thanks for the knowledge you have provided to open my eyes
I want to say that even with men knowing that the kid isn't their they're starting to take on the responsibilities of another woman's kids. Let that sink in. We're in an age where men have been blinded by women, and some of them are comfortable living this way. I steer clear of men like this around me.
Prince William did not father Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. Kate’s 6’10” blonde bodyguard did. 🎭🩰🎨
Damn thats depressing
Thank you for recommending the book: Myth of Male Power. REALLY opened my eyes.
Reading the book '100 Things You're not Supposed to Know' talked about this almost 20 years ago. Among other things, the book mentions that in more economically depressed regions the percentage jumps to 30 percent.
Her response was "I'm not surprised".
I know getting a high N count is the alpha thing to do, but the more I see videos like this, the more I'm convinced that sleeping around is too risky of a business.
Same here... Imagine yourself walking around alone and relax then all of a sudden you cross path with one of your old notches and she tells you her kids is also yours but she never told you. What if the kid is not yours? What if it is yours and you owe her child support for all the time you didn't financially supoort her and the kid? What if you already moved on and already started a family with someone else?... What if, what if, what if?....
I don't think a high count is something to aspire to. If it's what you want I get that. I think their are more fulfulling things. What I want is a society or environment that enforces high-integrity behavior and the formation of families. Probably won;t get it, but can't stop a guy from aiming at it.
This is awesome. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
Buy a 23andme kit, It goes on sale on Amazon very often.
She's got him for 18 years. And on the 18th birthday he found out it wasn't hiiiiis?
Vinny Haddad now i aint saying shes a gold digger but she aint messin with no broke n*gga
I am going to try and keep this short. I am 51. When i was 18 my girlfriend showed up pregnant. Me and her mom raised her for 2.5 years. Then we broke up. A year later she wanted to talk Felicia my kid out of state for good. I voiced my disapproval. And went to court. When we got to court. She said that Felicia wasn't mine. After a blood test. It was true she wasn't mine biologicly. But in NV at that time. Their were no laws to protect men who weren't bio dads. I fought for 4.5 years in court. I lost. What happen to me cant happen to another guy in NV. Because now theirs case law to protect men. It has been very hard to live with out her in my Life. Even now Its still hurts a great deal after 30 years. Men please get a test.Protect yourself. Thanks
I remember being about 12 yrs old and someone said to my dad one day when we were together, Wow he really looks like you, Gene. My dad replied, well I sure hope he doesnt look like the mailman. This is old knowledge, recently, and somewhat always well hidden.
It has been about 1 in 3 in all of recorded history. The medical profession is/has been aware of this, and are kept tight lipped about it.
Never seen snow. I would love to spend just one winter in a place like that.
By this logic "23 and Me" has been great to divorce lawyers!
What's "23 and Me" ?
@@myerst52 its a DNA testing company. People use it to perform geaneology research. There are others like Ancestry.
JUST GET SNIPPED!!!! I did it 2 years ago and it is not bad to recover from...One of the best things I ever did.
I am woman and i agree. My hubby going thru this with even a fake test from dcse.
Another sad fact is these women are NOT sorry for having their children out of wedlock. They're only sorry when they're caught. In fact, many of them are proud to carry the Alpha's seed, and for deceiving their Beta partners for as long as they have.
A vicious beating would be in order......
'There are problems in these times
But *wooooh* none of them are mine.'
Lou Reed, with the Velvet Underground, in Beginning to See the Light.
It is interesting that by marriage you are responsible for a child ( possibly not yours) but the genetic father has no responsibility, even if he is identified! If a "father" is made to pay child support, why can't a defacto father ask for compensation to cost for the child? Doesn't this happen in marriage breakups? The whole law is two faced, they say the father needs to provide for a child, but only by LTR, not by genetics. Then their is the whole discussion on fraud that a women knowingly lies to access monies not associated with the real father. If this was a business transaction, you would go to prison! Amazing how things are perceived differently in different circumstances.
Poor kids as well.
I know a guy that did not want a test at the hospital even with the pleading of nurses......shocking.
I remember reading an article on paternity issues raised on the victims of 9/11. DNA testing on victims showed 28% had paternity other than that expected. Not sure how accurate this stat was, however, those involved in the 9/11 victim ID will know the actual numbers.
My daughter's class used ancestry test, it was a cluster fuck 12 out of the 28 couldn't figure out why their dads family wasn't on there tree.
😨 Yikes!
It is unjust for men to have to pay child support for children who are not their biological children!
Yes, but not in America...
Someone said that it relieves the welfare burden to place the responsibility on any available male, however, this will end up as a strong case for DNA programs.
Paternity tests at birth should be required.
Women would fight to the death against it.
I heard the 1 in 3 figure about 10 years ago if it's not you its one of your neighbors, there was this Maury Povich show a while back the whole show was about working out who the father of these women's kids was, so these women would accuse up to five possible men of being the father and each man, in turn, would find out through DNA tests if they were the father, many times none of the men accused were the father.
Mommy,
I opened the AncestryDNA email.....why did it say the FedEx man is my Daddy?
Such test is a MUST nowadays
It's crazy how after you have a kid some women just do whatever knowing if you leave you have to pay them but fuck that just piss them off until they beat you in front of the children
If one lives in the U.S and is saddled by child support due to paternity fraud, then one can establish residency in the State if Oklahoma and under bill 2270 one can challenge the paternity and child support payments as it eliminates the time window to challenge for paternity, your native state might challenge it but the risk is now xferred to the state
It’s getting ever harder to love women.
There really is no point in paternity fraud in this day and age, ladies.
Whether by accident or purpose, the truth WILL out eventually.
That bird is called a kuku bird in my country!
I would think that somewhere along the way the Dad will notice that the kid doesn't look like him and figure it out...Then again how many of these guys are clueless. Go figure
I was married for 7 and a half years and found out after the divorce and paying child support that my first born out of two is not mine. Ask me any questions
Why did u get married??
How did you find out? Did you always have doubts?
@@yoman3150 I was wondering why this little girl had nothing me. Every female except my mother lied to me talking about genetics are funny. Do you have dark people in your family, well it happens like that. A reverse albino B.S. and I was hoping my instincts were wrong. I was praying because if it is true that she is not mine that means that she has been lying to me since the beginning of our marriage. I felt hurt, betrayed, and robbed. I paid full price as in marriage, when another man got it for free. I am forced to take care of another mans child, as he goes free into the wind and my life gets raped. She can now be absolved with whatever lie she tells herself, and my paycheck is still taken to support a child I did not make.
@@jonathansmith4725 is there anything you can do legally to stop paying as its not your kid? Did you talk to lawyers?
@@yoman3150 bro, I have paid and talked to lawyers, around 7 times and 7 different lawyers. Because I was already married its automatically yours and your name goes on the birth certificate. Then when you go to the courts and you say what your greviences are the judge says this is different case, we are not here for that. Been through it man....poeple keep saying go to court but it does not solve anything. What's also messed up, is that people just insult you, troll you, put you down. You just did not f***n know. I did not know, I do not know everything.
The coocoo is the bird that lays its egg in other bird's nests. When the coocoo's egg hatches the first thing the chick does is push backwards against anything touching its back until nothing touches its back. This eliminates all competing chicks, and eggs from the nest, killing the chicks of the bird in whom the coocoo's egg was laid.
Great vid ! I have a pat fraud vid on my channel as well. I came across the same #'s . They do NOT want to do a formal study and get some better #'s
So 10 - 15 % got caught. Scary when you factor in law of averaging.
imagine how many men are out there not knowing it's not his child.. i'd even do a test if my wife was mother theresa
I think they are restrictions here in NY. Something about having a "certified" doctor's permission and both parents consent.
Not one mention of the actual father of the child or his family whom
were lied to and deprived of the life of their child.And worse,The child
was deprived of true blood family
In Britain the numbers provided by the testing labs show between 30-40%, depending upon the region. These #'s are probably statistically skewed since most tests are likely initiated due to raised suspicions.
Ye my dad is a Research professor who specializes in the genes involved in Arthritis and he said that this phenomena is interestingly linked to how poor a neighborhood is. In fairly wealthy neighborhoods its between 5-10% but in poorer areas of the UK it gets to around 25%... fucking insane. Paternity test all the way no matter how much you trust the woman IMO. That stat scared the hell out of me.
Im really considering to just freeze some of my swimmers (in case I ever want to procreate) and get snipped. With every paternity fraud story I read, this decision becomes a lot easier.
My whole family thinks my cousin's first child isn't his. He and his wife were the type of people who slept around a lot. They have been married for a long time and have several kids together so it doesn't do anyone good to find out for sure.
Awesome video rich
In Nigeria and other 3rd world countries, it’s the US embassy that tells you if you’re the father or not when you apply for green card for your kids. Yeah, one importance of the American embassy in those regions.
I got to find out my first born wasn't mine the same way.
I almost killed myself :(
The species of bird you referenced is called a Cowbird. They are brood parasites. The female will find another nest, remove one or more eggs any lay her own in place of the removed ones.
I just purchased a, "DO THE WORK" tank top. It fits well but it's the black print on dark blue. It makes it a little hard to see the letters/print. Just some fyi/feedback for ya Rich.
Just tell the ladies to come in close and read it and while they're in that area, "Do the work!" ;)
Shhhhh Rich.. they don't want us to see this!
Dad: Who's your daddy?
Child: Not you,for realz.
So, I believe I am a victim of this. When I was thrown out of the relationship (for not complying with the scam, btw...she (to this day) still tells the child I abandoned her. So, being that it is a case of child abuse, fraud, exploitation (past tense) of a child for money, is it my responsibility to press charges?
34% of the time when kids are tested thru the courts the assumed father is not the biological father.
The fact maybe is that the children don't know is because the parents never mentions it to the child. I.E. The biological father leaves the relationship and the new man swoops in to the rescue, adopting the child.
That being said, I know of cuckolding stories and they are more common than one would like to think.
All cultures should be able to conduct paternity tests. If not for the men, then do it for the children. Lots of stories out there with ancestry and 23 and Me, where the child finds out the truth and the family shatters apart.
Me, Myself and Irene movie scene is classic cuckoldry
That's the movie I was trying to remember. Thanks. Major cocoldry in that movie.
It's called wearing a jacket....somebody else's jacket!!!💯
My ex gf has three kids to three different fathers. The third father only found out after his kid was born. I feel bad for all the kids. Knowing that mum has three kids to three different dads. Mum doesn't care. Men you have been warned.
Here, here.. This happened to me. My wife got pregnant from her boss, divorced me, then attached my salary for a house payment (child support, daycare, medical, and Alimony). After 3.5 years she only came out with the truth because my daughter liked being with me more than her, and she wanted her boss to leave his wife.... for her. After the DNA came out, she told my daughter I was not her "daddy", that I was misleading her.... Then she refused to let me see my daughter again (despite a court order). She said, go ahead, "take me to court"... After she poisoned my daughter to thinking I'm not her "daddy", I was fighting a losing battle..... Guys, my ex-wife was a sweet girl. I I never suspected would do this. Do not trust them, any of them......
Especially the sweet girls.
Im 27, dont want kids. Should inget a vasectomy?
I have 2 nephews (so far) to teach how to be strong men i dont need my own.
Do it. It is super cheap to reverse as needed when and if you decide to.
Yes
Alternatively, only drill arseholes, then you can blow your load with impunity.