CONFIDENT BODY LANGUAGE TIPS - BODY LANGUAGE TIPS FOR MEN AND WOMEN
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ก.ค. 2017
- Confident body language is something that can really transform your social life and the quality of your life in general. There are certain rules and guidelines that are not imposed by men, but by evolution itself, that can literally change how people perceive you in your day to day life.
Amy's Talk at TED: • Your body language may...
Confident body language or alpha body language is all about dressing as best as you can, opening yourself up and taking space so that you feel comfortable. Also doing slow and controlled motions, non verbally telling people that you have everything under control.
About 90% of the communication is made through non verbal elements and only a small portion of the communication is made verbally, so focusing on the words to improve your appearance as a confident person is the wrong way to do it. Instead focus your energy on your body language and tonality so you can see a real change in your life.
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imagine ur in a pool, me:
*starts drowning in a middle of conversation
😂
I just used this tips for a phone call and they surprisingly worked
How does body language translate into a phone call? It's non-verbal
@@SupahSmashBrotha96 uts a joke haha
@@SupahSmashBrotha96 bro that joke flew over your head like a basketball bro
Totally agreed. The "eye contact" one worked the best for me!
How
1. Look your best .
2. Use power poses .
3. Slow yourself down .
4. Eye contact .
5. Smile .
...............
6. Open body language not crossed .
7. Don't cross arms or hide them .
8. Chest and shoulders should not lean .
You are a hero
Thx, my homework is to jot notes of this video
Me 2
Thank you from my heart 🥰🥰🍫🍫
I just screenshoted this ! 👏🏾
Crossing your hands isn’t a show of being scared or nervous. It’s a sight of self comforting. It being called a sign of shutting someone out is a farce.
Yes but only if you know that almost all of the actions are self comforting but to other people they look like unconfident actions
@@notcyfhr Exactly. What he said is bullshit. It's just losers that don't know where to put their hands that do that in a conversation
I have been told that I do not look like I am confident, when I do not feel un-confident at all. It is just how I look when I am feeling normal. But I will make sure to work on my body language. Thank you for this video, I am sure that it will help me.😁
I can appreciate this. When I'm deeply content, I look more neutral than positive.
Omds same - I feel literally so happy however my co-worker thinks I’m miserable
It's because you watch Anime, STOP WATCHING ANIME.
i can relate to this a bit too much!!
I don't even look down do to not being confident i look down because the city that i live in has so many dog shits on the floor i have to be looking down at all times😂
Lol where u from😂
@@cyraxxx8041 San Francisco. I just don't know that he knows that it's not dog shit.
Finally a video that acually helps and not a vid full of men yelling about vincero watches and shave products
lol Very True! Still... those guys still give some good info every once in a while...
I had a dream where I was outgoing and talking to people and even my posture was self assured, I wasn't afraid to take up space! Since that dream I've been taking notes on how I can achieve that confidence, so thank you for this video! It's helpful
Thank you very much for these tips! Will definitely keep in mind.
Needed this reminder. Thank you!
Great video. People sometimes ask, is it that good body language creates confidence or that confidence creates good body language and I always say, they create each other! I have done some videos on confidence myself and I really like this one.
Conclusion:
Confident body language is all about opening yourself up, doing slow and controlled motions, speaking with calm and confident voice, having a straight posture with your shoulders back and your chest up, not being afraid to take up space, and looking and feeling comfortable, a rule of thumb is if you feel comfortable you look comfortable. Give yourself 10-15 minutes in front of the mirror after this video, correct some of the things you think need to fixed with your posture, walking or talking. Practice some of the power poses, because those 15 minutes may change how people perceive you. You can literally become more confident, attractive and successful in your social life and in your life in general if you apply these concepts.
Thank you
Well i found out i always had confident posture except the shoulders. This was probably the most useful tip
😊Thanks so much for this informative video. Keep it up and always bring such amazing videos for us. We're always supporting you 👍🏻
That was excellent. Thank you
Absolutely true.It works
I appreciate that you emphasize actionable, relevant tips in your videos. It makes your advice feel real and achievable.
Thanks to one of your videos, I've been waking up at 5:30 for 4 months now and have been enjoying quiet morning homework and excerise.
Keep it up!
im a girl and it’s the fact that guys stare at me but im crossing my arms, leg is behind the other, staring at the floor or avoid eye contact and walking rlly fast and then i wonder why no guy asks me out in public 😭 why did no one tell me abt this lmaoo
thanks for your tips
100% agree with all of it
+Julio Chao Awesome Julio, stay tuned!
Check the tension in your shoulders and make sure your shoulders aren't up but down and relaxed and your neck is aligned properly with your back
Why people judge confidence on body language... some people has poor posture...but that's doesn't mean he is not confident..
Thank you!
these really work
It really works in my dream
I have a club presentation tomorrow, wish me luck!
thankyou 💓
How do you create the video
*_Summary!_*
*Look your best* - be clean, wear appropriate & well-fitted clothes, smell nice
*Power poses*- for 2 minutes, watch ted talk in description for those poses
*Slow down* - your movement, speech, arms, as if you're underwater
*Practice smiling and holding eye contact correctly*- look at eyebrows if you can't, don't look down, wear a smirk
*_Stance & Posture_*
Feet- shoulder width apart, toes outward
Shoulders- first bring them _back_ , then _down_
Love yhu bitch❤️
Where is part 2? Thank you
It's hard to slow down your speech if your Northern irisb
Awesome
I have a question if I don't have a presentation just answering in front of class where do I put my hands?
I have this biggest problem with eye contact🥺☹️ i cant look people in the eye for more than 5 seconds.. I tried to look at my self in the mirror to overcome this but ALL IN VEIN.
This is like legit a very good video
Wow, thanks!
Great video, very very great, I hope you get more views bc you deserve it
Viktor KC11 Haha thanks! It means a lot!
Viktor KC11 oh yeah yeah
I got all of them
What programs do You use to do this great videos?
I need it.Cause shyness ruin my life.
stoppp fr! it’s so annoying whenever i tell myself this time i’m going to stare at people walking past me RIGHT IN THE EYE and then i end up staring at the wall behind them 😂 but we can do this if we keep practicing
Good video good tips. Thank you bro👍🏼
Local doctor: Hi there, I've had a look at your blood samples/ x-rays etc and will need to see you as soon as possible
Me: Ok
Doctor: So yeah, we need to talk about body language
Me (in my head): This is gonna be long day
Awesome, thanks :)
+Angelica Marie Colon Agront Glad to see you liked it Angelica :)
the video is not loud enough, although i really enjoy it
If i brush against some guy not moving in the left lane of an escalator, they don't tend to move, and if i add some emotion showing my displeasure with their failure to follow the rules, people tend to blame me for that. Perhaps i should grin and ask them to move?
could just ask them to move? otherwise you'll come across and passive aggressive and self righteous
That's what i suggested. It appears that body language isn't everything, nor are "Walk left, stand right." stickers.
@1:21 NO I haven't! Wether it's: New haircut, clothes, shoes....I still feel the same
I've only been communicating 7%. No wonder everyone thinks I'm a robot or an alien. Thank you this is very helpful you saved my life.
I cant have good straight posture when i walk because i have gyno so they will be more noticeable. I have to slouch almost every time and its sucks it hurts my confidence with girls 😔😔😔🥵🥵
Man boobs? Hit the gym and read Esterogeneration. There are things you can do to fix that.
i do keep eye contact but I suck at body language
Omg same
What if you fake the body language but you are still confident.
It's hard to keep your head up if the person you are talking to is 20cm shorter.
Good tips. However, I just noticed on the decrease/increase scale, the picture of decreased side was wearing Vietnamese hat, and the picture of increased side is wearing a crown like European King. It's a small detail, but it looks very offensive and biased. Please get rid of racial bias. Let's respect everyone.
My English is not good but I love your videos
Fake it till you make it!!!
Don't forget the most dominating pose of them all
T-POSE
Great
Here is a tip of how to look like that
Feel like that
I thought the reason why I cross my legs was because it's more comfortable... Guess I'm wrong 🤣
Gucci lauv 🤘😎
Get good at this and people will believe any rubbish you say. It really works
You have done what most people incorrectly do when it comes to Mehrabian's communication theory surrounding body language and the spoken word. You have neglected to include that his research into communication pertained to feelings and attitudes, not communication in general. That would be too simplistic. Mehrabian's research provided the basis for the widely quoted and often much over-simplified statistic for the effectiveness of spoken communications.
Here is a more precise (and necessarily detailed) representation of Mehrabian's findings than is typically cited or applied:
• 7% of message pertaining to feelings and attitudes is in the words that are spoken.
• 38% of message pertaining to feelings and attitudes is paralinguistic (the way that the words are said).
• 55% of message pertaining to feelings and attitudes is in facial expression.
I have scoliosis lol
This is what I need CAN U BE MY HELPING BRO
Research on google: Janine Driver= body language expert.
4:37 Bet you automatically sit up straight 😝
-is it boneless- Good video great info
Thanks, new videos coming soon.
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What if I dress emo?
I'm dead 😭 at least smell nice
First, your all of your videos are really great and helpful. Thank you for that. But, I'm quite disturbed by the narrator voice. The words and terms sometimes were not properly or clearly pronounced as the results, i tend to can't really stay focus to finish any of your videos. So, I'm so sorry at first, but can you change the person who in charge to be the narrator? With all of my regard, Thank you.
there are english captions so use them
I love your videos but your typos really bother me sometimes.
With any app
If you have a smirk it would make you less likeable th
Don't slow down. Speed up and show you are in control
slowing down (in speech) shows that you value what you say and that you think what you say is worth paying attention to. 'course speaking too slowly will just make the listener get bored but speaking too fast will also make the listener think you aren't so confident because you seemingly don't value your words. hope i helped.
kids ignore everything in this video - just be rich , that it and they will come
I don’t think the power poses work for ladies xD
I don't mean to be rude.. but seriously...!! You should take your own advice and address the tone of your voice buddy haha..
After hearing the first five seconds, I don't want advice from you because of the insecure tone in your voice!
Bald & Bearded 😂😂😂😂😂