Same! And if i'm not able to keep it in check it manifests as paranoia. Basically i mistake them for my gut feeling, the "overthoughts" (dunno what to call them lol)
Same here! And that's exactly why I end up accomplishing nothing in the end. AND because I've always listened to other people's opinions too much! And not mine.
I’ll get these bad feeling about people, when I just know there bad news or somethings wrong. Like this one girl in one of my maths classes a while ago. I just knew something was up with her, she was just spacing off, and kept rubbing her arm. I have know this girl since like preschool, we grew up together (I lived in a small city, everyone knew everyone) And something just seemed so off with her, it just wasn’t right. So I kept an eye on her throughout class, just watching her. And suddenly her sleeve slipped down a little, and there I saw just what I thought I would, self harm marks. She quickly pulled up her sleeve and didn’t see that I noticed, but I knew I had to do something. So I wrote her a note, giving her some general tips and offering her a safe space. She came to me after class and we talked for a while. A few days later she told me that she talked to her parents and she was moving forward to get help. She started wearing short sleeves a few weeks later, and I have never been so happy that I trusted my gut.
I wish the world had more people like you. Years ago, I had a coworker who (at that time) was just an acquaintance. One day when I came in to work, I had a feeling to just go say hi and ask how he was doing. Over several weeks I got to know him just by having conversations five minutes or so at a time. After a couple of months, the subject of my ADD came up, and we had some deep conversations about mental health. He started getting checked out. Later on he told me that when we met, he thought he had demonic possession and was getting ready to kill himself. He ended up having a traumatic brain injury from Iraq, PTSD from two combat tours and a very abusive family life in his childhood, and ADD on top of it all. He went from being suicidal, depressed, and alone to actually being happy, having friends, making goals, etc. He retired years ago, but ever since then, I try to be much more aware about the feelings I'm having about whether someone is in trouble or just needs a friend or a smile so that they know someone gives a crap that they're still breathing in and out. Because God may just be telling you that He needs you to reach out to one of His children. It can save a life. “When you meet someone, treat them as if they were in serious trouble, and you will be right more than half the time.” - Henry B. Eyring.
first name last name same here and I been told by my family,friends , partners that I over analyze or overthink things . My gut feeling is in shadow because of anxiety
@@Psych2goyes please, I've had days where I've been cooked up at home for fear that if I went out sth bad would happen, I was able to tell that was anxiety and ignore it but I also find myself ignoring my gut thinking its that same anxiety.... I always realize later when sth bad happens that that was my gut....but its too late
I feel like for a gut feeling it's supposed to just be there and takes much effort to recognize besides anxiety which makes you think alot. That's just how i see it, but it could differ from person to person.
1) being in danger of something 2) others being in danger of something 3) a gut instinct that you're making a mistake 4) suddenly not feeling well physically 5) "this will be bad in the long run" 6) feeling excited about something 7) something feels right
1 : I am in danger of something. 2 : Others are in danger of something. 3 : I am making a mistake. 4 : I am not feeling well. 5 : This will be bad in long run. 6 : This is exciting. 7 : This feels right.
1. I'm in danger from something 1:12 2. Others are in danger from something 1:43 3. I'm making a mistake 2:15 4. I'm not feeling well 3:11 5. This will be bad in the long-run 3:38 6. This is exciting 4:12 7. This feels right 4:55
this upload came just in time. A year ago today, I realized my dad's car was gone when I woke up in the morning. This actually wasn't unusual, as many times he'd work late or be at the store before coming home. However, this time didn't feel right for some reason. To this day, I really can't explain that feeling of dread I got in my tummy when I woke up and saw his car was gone. I had received a missed call from both him and an unknown phone number. I started calling the local jails and hospitals, and at first the closest hospital to us said he wasn't there when I said his name. I spelled it out for them just to make sure because I just had a feeling he was there, and they said he was in the ER. He had gotten into an accident a couple hours prior and was about to go into emergency surgery that they actually couldn't perform without family consent. When I got to the ER, the nurse told me I came just in time to sign the forms of consent since my other family members missed the calls from the hospital as well. Today, my dad is healthy and able to walk again and 100% recovered. I don't know if that would be the case had I not relied on that gut feeling that guided me like a candle in a dark forest.
Here's my story. In 2019 I met this guy and I immediately fell for him. It was love at first sight, but it felt "off" . I had a difficult time understanding my emotions because he was perfect, I loved him...yet, my gut was against him. This was the first time I went against my gut on such a major decision. One year down the line I was messed up, I had been through an abusive relationship, I had lost my spirituality and I was broken. But the worst part, I lost the ability to hear my gut. It was the most empty and dark I ever felt. Going into 2020 COVID helped because I had lots and lots of time to be alone, and reflect and forgive myself and heal. This took the whole year. I finally got back my gut feeling in 2021 and at the moment, I listen to every inkling of intuition and follow it. I know it's hard to believe, but it is possible to lose your gut feeling, and I was so empty for so long. I'm glad I'm ok now 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you for sharing your story, because I can personally relate, and I'm happy to know that you're okay now. Back in 2012, I got into a relationship with a guy who I thought could be "the one". But even from the beginning I had this odd feeling that something was "off". I stayed involved with him even as things got darker and darker. Fast forward 3 years later.. I was a shadow of my former self. I became so lost and confused and started neglecting myself more and more. That small voice inside of me that knew I had to cut ties with him--got dimmer and dimmer. 5 years later that chapter of my life was finally over, but I was left broken and traumatized by it all. Relationships with other people, friends and family were affected in a bad way after that because I was messed up. I didn't know how or when to trust my intuition anymore, so I made a lot of poor decisions and mistakes that could have been prevented, creating further damage along the way. I feel that I learned a lot from my experiences and it's been quite a healing journey, trying to recover my self worth and trust. I still have a way to go, but I believe the key is re-discovering one's sence of self, and purpose. Self care is so important. It's when the voice in the head gets calmer and quiter, then we can really know and understand what our gut insticts are telling us, and also to hear and trust what our hearts truly want and needs. ~ Blessings to You and All, and Stay Safe ~ : )
I would like to share my story and would like to have your opinion about it. I met a very nice gentleman, and we both felt in love. A few months later I don't feel the same. Something deep down inside keeps telling me that I made a mistake. I don't feel love and safe around him anymore 😢. Sometimes, his behavior and his eyes scared me😢 I took 2 weeks break and next weekend I will end my relationship. 1 month ago suddenly I got anxiety 2 hours before our meet-up, I realized I can't deal with it.
7 Gut Instincts Never to Ignore: 1. I'm in danger 2. Someone else is in danger 3. I'm making a mistake 4. I don't feel well 5. This will be bad in the long run 6. This is exciting 7. This feels right
Beast Master 64 okay but youre missing the point. a person made this video because it could be their source of income. you stripping them off a view is detrimental to their earnings. it is disrespectful as hell. how would you like it if you spent hours working on a video only for someone to just summarise all your main points in the comment section? you’re just rude mate
I think it's very helpful. It helps summarize what you've learned and then you can remember why you should remember them after hearing the explanation in the video.
[ • P H O E N I X • ] it is but God has you!!! The prince of lies tell y’all that y’all are not good enough and useless, God says y’all are wonderful and amazing!!!
Always pay attention to your Spidey Sense. In my experience you can tell it apart from just anxiety, and if you're feeling really anxious it may be better to avoid that situation anyway. Your safety matters more than someone else's feelings.
7 Gut instincts I always ignore: 1. Something is wrong 2. Something is so very wrong 3. Something is deeply wrong 4. Something is incredibly off 5. Nothing is safe 6. Something is wrong 7. Something is wrong 7. Something is wrong 7. Something is wrong 7. Something is wrong
I’ve been having a feeling that some thing is wrong with my health but I don’t know weather it my gut feeling or just an excuse I made to pity myself, so I usually ignore it...
"This will go wrong in the long run" is what my gut tells me when I procrastinate on schoolwork. I know it's right, but procrastination makes me ignore it. -Someone who watched this video while they should have done homework
Always follow your gut feelings. Don't let your head talk you out of it. It could save your life. Any strong feeling you suddenly feel is a warning...you just have to not let your head talk you out the safety your being led to. 100%
That inner voice tells you often times about the reassessment of what you are experiencing and feeling in the moment. Intelligence that acts faster than thoughts, before it can be rationally analysed. Don’t ignore it.
Multiple times I've stopped myself from doing something for no reason and then just shrugged it off. I regretted all of them. For that exact reason I make 5 mistakes IN A ROW, from now on I'm listening to that feeling
Sometimes it’s really hard to distinguish a gut feeling from anxiety, because in the moment, they can feel very much the same. But looking back, you realize just how different they are, and this video emphasizes that. Thank you! :)
Juan Javier Martinez - Maravilla I guess the best way I can describe it is that instinct feels more like a superpower, and anxiety feels more like a kryptonite. With instinct, thoughts manifest themselves almost with more certainty, and in my experience, it’s easier to keep a cooler head under the mental pressure. Whereas with anxiety, thoughts are more chaotic and uncertain, and the mental pressure causes irrational and painful thinking. Again, when you’re in the moment it’s hard to distinguish them, as both are very rooted in the subconscious. I’m not a psych expert, I just say this from my observations as an empathetic and anxious person. lol
It's a soft clear & concise voice, not very intense or loud. It doesn't ramble on, it doesn't editorialize. It's the feeling you get when a friend or loved one gives you a heads up. I feel anxiety and paranoia voices are louder, harsher, editorialized and polemic.
I totally overthink everything and can't tell if the bad feeling I might have about something is a gut feeling, paranoia or just me overdramatizing a (future) scenario.
I think another good one is knowing when to do nothing. Most of the time we act and overreact to tense situations because we feel compelled to do something. This can often exasperate the tension. Sometimes when you're not sure what to do, it's better to stay still and do nothing.
My gut was never wrong about anything. Some examples I can remember: 1. I didn't like my friend's boyfriend from the moment I met him. Everyone around me adored him and said I'm crazy. We ended up hanging out a lot with him and he became part of the group. Long story short, he is a sociopath. Everyone hates him now because of the things he ended up doing. This would turn into a book if I started writing every bad thing he did to each of us. 2. Since I started dating my ex I had a gut feeling about him that was literally screaming inside of me and I brushed it off as my fears and insecurities. Whenever he would say anything in my head I would just be like ''you're lying'' even though I had no proof. It lasted for a month, I broke up with him because I couldn't ignore my gut and anxiety anymore. It ended up being all lies. My gut also told me to snoop a little when we started dating so I did. There was this girl that stood out to me on his profile. A week later he is showing me pictures on his phone and there was her picture that he obviously forgot he had. He said it was his ex and said all kinds of nasty things about her. Two days after I broke up with him he started dating her again. 3. Nice story - When I started my freshman year I started a month later than everyone else because I was working and when I came to class I didn't know literally anyone. I met a few people but I didn't really feel any connection with anyone. After a week or two, there was this girl that I saw for the first time and when I saw her I felt like I've known her and knew she would be my friend. A few days later she sat next to me, made a joke and she's my friend since. We are like the same person :)
when i dated my narcissist i had the same gut feeling. mine also started dating a new person around 3 days after dumping me. now none of *my* friends like them either. funny how stuff works in your favor socially when youre genuinely just nice and yourself 💛💛
I also had the gut feeling and I was always right... It's just so true that others say you're wrong, when you're not, example, I met someone who supposedly cared for me but didn't, it was like he was the victim of all his girlfriends, always them, and told me to look for a man like him if I wanted a boyfriend 😐 I know, that's kinda toxic and I could see the lies, so people, If someone lies about something small, that one is willing to do the same but with big things.
@@ainhoasanchez03 that's true. I noticed little lies from the start that made no sense to me so I thought why would he lie about something so stupid and unimportant. Gut is always right. I think we subconsciously notice little red flags and that something is off but our ego doesn't want to admit that someone could lie like that to our face.
i was in flight school at one university to be an airline pilot. i’ve recently listened to my gut and transferred to study meteorology and professional storm chasing!! i am very happy with that decision
I've always wanted to be a singer. For years everyone has said I'll never make it and shouldn't even try. I had started doubting myself and was considering staying in my hometown to get a normal job. Watching this video helped me realize that I shouldn't listen to them. My gut has been telling me that I should try. I think I have a chance, so I'm gonna give it my all!
That is awesome. The Lord will direct your paths. Just keep praising Him and thanking Him. You can truly trust Him. All things are possible with the Lord. Place all trust in Him, and He will lead you where He needs you.
Go for it youtube/instagram/snapchat are thing now so you're in a much better position than any singer 20 years ago, if you can find some sort of popular yet lowkey niche where you can make music then that's a good place to start getting a following and then grow from there
I just broke up with my Bf. I ALWAYS feel I was in danger and that was. One morning I woke up crying because I dreamed he cheated on me with his ex. I cried and asked him if he had contact with her. He said “No babe, I would let you know when that happen” Some moths later, I still had that gut feeling, I kept having that nightmares, I knew something was wrong. I got really anxious one night and took his phone and... there it was 💔 He was texting his ex and in some times saw each other. ☹️ TRUST YOUR GUT always
@@uzihammad8922 I’m writing 6 months later and it was the best decision I took!!! I have my new apartment, a kind bf and a beautiful pup. Not usually, but some times I remember him, but I never felt so empowered and realized. Trust your gut, don’t be proud.
@Anna S. if someones in a relationship, they shouldnt be letting people do things with their body, and i think the person was upset cause the bf lied and he wouldnt have to lie, but if they didnt do anything then i agree that theyd be possessivee
I never ignore the ' others are in danger ' one because once I had a very strong feeling like this about my friends going on a trek so I told them to wait a few days . turns out there was a landslide the day they were supposed to trek .
I had a negative gut feel after meeting someone new, no matter what I did, I couldn’t shake it off, I told him about it until he suggested we pray about it and 1 day he said there was something he needed to tell me & he told me about his positive HIV status & I kid you not, as soon as I heard that “my negative gut feeling immediately left me”, it was instant.
I literally have never felt gut instincts in my life, but yesterday I watched this video and so I learned what not to ignore. Today I found myself in a very dangerous situation with my friend and my gut instantly told me this wasn’t okay. Thankfully because of that instinct I was able to get me and my friend out of that situation in time. I’m really thankful for this video🥺💗
The feeling of being in danger : When having anxiety this might seem irrevelant as you very often feel in danger. But you ARE in danger actually. In your mind. Some things aren't right in your environment or in your past and you haven't dealt with it fully yet and your body thinks anxiety. So yes you are in danger. Try to change it for real even if it's really difficult. It will help you :) Good luck 💗
Just keep praising Him and thanking Him. He has already provided you with everything. The Lord knows all and sees all. He provided the tools necessary for the anxiety to subside.
There were instances when I feel irritated whenever my mom calls in the middle of the day to ask how I have been and stuff. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just being rude and being a 'bad kid' to my mom cause I don't answer her calls when I feel that way. I finally understood where that feeling came from as my mom has narcissistic tendencies and I was a source of her narcissistic supply. It was always so draining to talk to her about things and other people and her manipulating the conversation into making me agree that she's better than most of them. I got to work my way around it and recognising the flow before it happens really made a difference to my mental health. This channel helped a lot too. So thank you 💕
This is so true. After graduation I was looking for a job in my degree. I got one. After the interview I had a bad gut feeling. After every step of the recruit process I had a worse and worse gut feeling. But the salary was good and I thought I can’t turn down a job offer. My family & friends was so proud of me getting a well paid job from my own degree. I thought I have to do this and ignored my feelings. In the first day of work I knew that it was a mistake. Every day I heard and saw more alarming stuff. I quitted after three months and was really ashamed because of this.. but I’m happy that I got the courage to get out even though the pressure from leaving a well paid job is horrible, I feel like people think I’m crazy.
I once met this person who was with a group of my other friends, immediately something didn't feel right about him. So i keot my distance and didn't tell him anything about me but my nickname. So night comes and i need ti back home. I ask one of my male friends to walk me back and they did. About 3 weeks later that same group of friends sends me a link to a news article. He had sexually assaulted a friend of his, then killed her. Never since have i doubted my gut feeling about someone.
When I was younger my mother and her current husband separated, but they couldn't afford an actual divorce so they kinda just acted like they were. This is important to know because, as part of this me, my older sister and my younger brother would all go to visit my mother's husband every weekend. One day, for a reason I couldn't understand at the time, I didn't want to go see him. He tried everything to get me to go with him, even offering to take us all to see the, at the time, new Airbender movie that I'd been wanting to see for ages. Still, my gut told me to stay home so I did... Two days later my mother went to go pick up my brother and sister and they all came back a couple hours later really upset and my mother's arm was badly bruised. Her ex-husband didn't want to let my brother and sister go and when my mother tried to get them to come with her, he grabbed her arm and nearly broke it. It took my little brother screaming and crying that he wanted to go home with our mother to make the man stop and they all rushed home. I'll never forget that day or how my gut instinct saved me from a very traumatic experience.
Amanda's voice is like a nice, warm and fuzzy hug that gives me strength to validate my feelings, to get up and going again to tackle the world! Also, gut instinct, in my opinion, is a blend of subjective and objective knowledge/experiences as well as factoring in the known and unknown phenomenon and it's always looking eternally (ie. Long term) - hence why, understandably, it is seen as our true essence/soul/spirit or the mediator/representation of our soul (because... who knows... it could very well be - there's so much phenomenon of existentialism that we don't understand yet). That's why it can be so accurate. It's like the moral compass that doesn't judge with moral high ground. It may seem incorrect sometimes but it just means that it's not yet fully articulated and clear yet and so, to improve that nagging concern of inaccuracy or "offness", you need to go out there and take action by investigating it some more and the more sophisticated answers lie within. I say start doing this in the smallest, baby step-by-step increments you can think of and manage - especially if it's too overwhelming emotionally at first, as well as to keep yourself protected from unprepared radical changes that can do psychophysiological damage if unmanaged with some organised structure in place.
The first time I fell in love I knew he wasn’t “the one.” Something just felt off whenever I thought hard about it or we were together, but I ignored this feeling because well.. I was in love. But now years later I see he was meant to teach me a lesson, and we’ll probably never see each other again but that’s okay, because I know the right one is out there somewhere, and I appreciate what I learned and experienced from the situation.
Or vice versa when it feels like it’ll be right for my future but feels wrong currently. Always having that problem. I feel like I think nothing will satisfy me so I try to be comfortable with what I have and then I go into the cycle again where it doesn’t make me happy so I keep throwing away good opportunities. :/
@@maysen77 if you think it'll be fine in the future but never is now, you're probably holding something back from yourself - a mental block that you know exists but isn't "big" enough to threaten you long term but you haven't processed properly yet
the power of intuition is very strong...i didnt listen to my gut feelings and dismissed them as anxiety. all the times i dismissed them, very bad things happened to me. never ignore them
For 15 years when visiting my daughter I felt anxious but I persisted to see my grandchildren . Finally the message became clear when she told me not to come anymore.
Something that I really learned is: If there’s a situation that involves risk in which leads to a negative consequence, then go with your gut instinct to avoid taking a bad risk, but if there seems to be no risk/danger, then don’t jump to indirect conclusions.
I was once in the living room as a child, watching cartoons on the TV. I was sitting beside my sister and my mom was in her room taking a nap. I suddenly had a bad feeling and knew that someone was in danger. I ran to my moms room without saying anything to my sister and my mom had thrown up in her sleep while laying on her back and she was chocking to death. If I hadn’t gotten that sudden urge to check on her, my mother would be dead right now. I always listen to my intuitive instincts now, as I saved someone’s life.
A year ago I had reconnected with my high school sweetheart/first real love. He seemed like the same person I fell for when we were teens at least in the beginning. Weeks later things between us became more official and he changed. Our first disagreement took place over the phone. I wanted to talk it out but he hung up in the middle of the conversation. My gut told me not to call back then, it was still early and I should get out of the relationship. I ignored my gut because I thought I owed it to myself to at least try. He was still the same person. It was just a fight, right? I still don't know if that was true. It only got worse and my doubts about not trusting my gut never made it easy. Almost a year later I listened to my gut and I've never been happier. If only I listened sooner.
Finally! Someone bringing it up! I always listen to my gut, as much as possible. I’m a very instinct driven person and I trust those instincts, even if it seems nonsensical or unimportant. Like for example: taking a different road home because I have a bad feeling about my normal route for some reason. I always listen to that.
I had a bed feeling about my ex when we had started dating, and my friends shared the same thing. I ended up with him, and it was NOT a good experience... Needless to say, I trust my friends, and my gut more
I learned a long time ago not to ignore that voice inside. When it has reared its head, it’s significant. When I brushed it aside, that’s when I learned hard lessons. Always trust your inner voice. You will never go wrong when you do.
I defiantly believe in gut feelings, I felt my last relationship ending before it did a week before out of no where and I had a major car accident a year ago and before I turned on my car something felt wrong and my gut literally sank... I ignored it and almost died that day. Take you gut feeling serious, its actually never failed me!
Guys listen to your inner self. For days I was feeling like I was being stalked and woke up one morning with someone impersonating me on social media. This shit is real
When I got together with my first gf: I was horribly depressed, but my gut told me it was a good thing. It dragged me out of the deep hole that I've been in for the most part of my life and made me feel happy. Even though it only lasted for 2 weeks I still see it as the best thing to have happened to me in years.
@@andir8119 the length of a relationship doesn't make it more or less impactful, I just said that by following my gut feeling my life got turned around. I will never forget what it did for me.
Some times some people don't mean to stay forever in our life but they sure play role of an angel in your life. They give you the best moments to cherish thruout the life. They give you so much love in so less time. I m happy that you're being sad or anything but you're out of your depression or anxiety. Stay happy and stay healthy :)
I’m going through a terrible break up from a 4 year relationship with a really shallow-minded person (lying/cheating/the works), whom I actually used to always feel bad around in the beginning when we met. I thought I was just being shy. I wish I listened to that feeling
I just got cheated on after 3,5 years, I always had a gut feeling I couldn't trust her and that she was really shallow. I never felt like she actually spoke what she really felt but rather what she thought I wanted to hear. In the end she blamed me for her deceit because I had "a screw loose" for not trusting her. Yes she actually said that right after cheating on me. Im curios what the red flags were in your situation and how you're feeling about it now?
@@gordonrussell7137 i had a bad gut feeling about my bff it was about she was a fake friend and how i should stop the freindshipp the next day i decided to end the friendship she started to gaslaight me ortry to show how much she appreciates me i was stupid enough to stay in the friendship and the feeling didnt go so after a few dayss past we made a group her and my sister got into an argument over a stupid drawing (she had mad anger issues was depressed/ shallow not all the time tho but smart she always acted so special ) then she said i have other friends anyway she blocked me and never speacked to me again i wish i ended that freindship and trusted my gut turns out she was manipulating by pretending to care when she never ever texted me now i will countine to trust my gut
It's funny 'cause I went through the exact same thing. There was this test I didn't prepare for, and I was just answering through the sheets in a hurry 'cause I was late too. There was this one question that I answered c at first, then read the question again and decided to go with a, but my gut was telling me to keep the c. When our papers were returned to us, I had the highest score for the first time in such a long time that my classmates must've thought I cheated. I was only one point off, and guess what the mistake was... :/
One night a couple months ago, I was feeling weird, like something terrible was going to happen. I did things that usually make me feel better but nothing worked, and that bad feeling just kept growing. The next morning, I was feeling even worse. I was texting my friend before our online math class when my dad called me. He said my grandfather had passed away.
Brother I struggle with the same disorders and it's so hard to manage th gut feelings and recognise the adhd over-excitement and cptsd over-paranoia from the gut feeling! Do you have any tips on this that work for you?
@@mel90212m Wish I had a straight forward answer but I don't. I'm winging it daily!! One thing that has helped was was this video by Eckhart Tolle. Learning to meditate and being able to control the mind became a lot easier after watching this video...I get it though. Anyone in our situation understands. Sadly, also a part of our journey - dealing with all the neuro-typicals of the world that a) don't understand and b) aren't willing to understand. Wishing you well on your journey! th-cam.com/video/eGH6sdODcOw/w-d-xo.html
I feel you. I was raised to not have my needs met, to be shamed for having needs, to numb myself so I stop having needs. As an adult, I felt like the last person I can trust is myself. I was the source of so much of my family’s suffering after all (classic scapegoat). It took the longest time to start rebuilding that trust and awareness of my gut feelings. I still find myself being on the receiving end of bad behaviour or abuse and thinking maybe _I_ am the problem, when my instinct is screaming out that isn’t the case. I also find myself needing so much validation from others coz I can’t trust what I feel is true. But then I get paranoid that others will think that I’m too high maintenance coz I need validation all the time - stuff that we should all have had as kids 😔
There is a guy in my building who gives me this overpowering urge to run every time I see his face. He lets on he's all nice and helpful. A harmless old, uncle type. Yea, he gives off a predatory vibe. I never ignore my gut.
Run everytime you get a predatory vibe,a feeling of uneasiness,don't dismiss your instincts or you'll regret it,don't neglect your health,don't need the drama of an accident💲
Thank you so much for making this video. This one guy laughed at me when I told him that my gut told me not to date him and asked if I had a stomach ache. The thing is that intuition is never wrong. People just don't know how to get themselves in touch with themselves so they think that there's something wrong with them when it's not even them. An individual's body will feel that something is wrong way before the individual consciously does.
One gut feeling I'm trying to abide to right now: "You're not spending enough time with/for yourself." I'm focusing so much on others and their well-being that it's led me to neglect my own, I'm living to fulfill others wishes and hopes and not my own. I want to devote my life to helping others, but it's like being a rusty tool trying to sharpen others if I don't get the right help...
@@ZIMA.RECORDS Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way. It's hard because you almost feel guilty having to put away others' request in order to care for yourself. I'd always rather live a worse-off life knowing that I helped make others' lives better-off than not make a difference at all, but when I can't answer simple questions like "What do you like?" and "What makes you different/special?" then something needs to be done.
@@delta_worried_jupiter110 Thank you for your concern and your kind comments, Delta--I don't really know how to respond to that so, sorry if this is a little awkward...
Seriously don't press your self to reply you don't have to,I just like giving support to people,I'm thankful that you read my comment and that's enough for me ^^
After being in an abusive relationship and having to deal with my recovery. My gut feelings have gotten so strong, it becomes very physical. My body shakes or I become anxious.
"I'm making a mistake" I felt that when i let someone kiss me, knowing that person didn't loved me that way. I feel like if i hadn't ignored that gut feeling at the moment... now i wouldn't be so scared of love.
Does anyone also have that one feeling where you just know that you forgot something? For example, I left my house and on I'm my way to school and suddenly i get this feeling where i feel like I've forgotten something at home And then minutes later, when I arrive at school I realize that I flippin forgot my homeworkkk Please excuse my bwad engrish
YES!!! In the car I’m like “hmm maybe it’s just a feeling. don’t think I forgot anything” *arrives at school* *2 min later* “Oh yeah I forgot my socks for PDHPE”
I needed this four days ago, Everyone always follow your gut instinct if something feels fishy it is fishy and dont proceed further especially over purchases.
My gut always has my back... At a younger age, I used to doubt about it constantly. As I got older, I learn to ALWAYS trust my gut about a person, a situation etc. Especially about other people, I was always right. Of course, that was something that took time to realize.
Axel K. Got me too lol I’m starting to feel like less and less depressed because I was starting to get to know myself more... depressed people are just misunderstood people... dayum
@Ace Six I wouldn’t say “misunderstood”, necessarily. It’s more of “not a full knowledge on how to treat/speak to this person because I don’t want to make them sad/offended”. However, I’m too tired to elaborate, plus, I don’t want this to turn into an argument.
@Ace Six Oh, Yeah, I eventually got to sleep that day, I think it was close to midnight though. I’m a partial insomniac, so sometimes I stay up later than others. And when you’re an insomniac, it gets to a certain point in the night where you’re in that daydream phase. You know? The one where you *feel* and *think* you’re tired, but your brain’s like, “Lol, nope! Not today!”. When I’m in that phase, it’s like I get high off of tiredness. It becomes difficult for me to type, because my arms/fingers are flimsy from exhaustion. So, think of that reply as me trying to at least *seem* sober.
I appreciate that there were gut feelings about positive things in here, too. Too often have I seen and heard them be about something bad, so I almost forgot that there could be some good to come out of it. Gave me a smile 😊
When I went into his apartment, i had like a big this-is-going-to-be-bad gut feeling. I was 100% sure that I had to go back. I should've gotten out of his apartment, and never looked back. But I stayed. Got high off things I've never tried before. Drank. Lost my virginity. I still had a bad feeling after that, but I told myself I was just being crazy. The day after, I went to school, and told my teacher (specialized in behavioral problems) what had happened. She knew what his name was. She knew who he was. Even though I didn't even tell her his name. The school knew who he was, since he had had problems with the police and students of this school before. He was a pimp. The place where I met him, was the place where he recruited young teens to be prostitutes. Lmao fuck McDonald's. He was there the first time I got drunk, and the first time I got high. He was always there. And I didn't follow my gut feeling, and I really should've. I don't know if it was just me being dumb, or being naive. But I lost my virginity to a pimp when I was 15 years old. Follow your gut feeling, people! And don't sleep with people you met at McDonald's. Speaking from experience.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Im so glad you didn't get forced into a far worse situation these types get girls addicted and use them like slaves. Thank you for sharing your story in hopes more young woman are saved from the dark dangers out there. God bless you and continue to listen to your instincts!
Cuz you didn't follow your gut crap happened I had something like this happen to me as well and I've never been the same. I know that took alot to post for you. I hope you listen know to your gut. I know that your story can save other kids from having that happen to them you should advocate around the area (if you still live there) to kids
Butter Scotch honestly idk why I said this but... To make this short, if you're friends with someone, don't trust them wholly. Even if they're your best friends. There's a high chance that they don't really like you and they're just going with the flow.
Can't tell if my anxiety's saying it, or if it's that yellow nigga wavin his arms in the video-either way, if I listened to it I wouldn't have any friends
@@ziana9513 I had a big revealing one month ago about my 'friend'. Trusted her fully...discovered she was a nasty manipulator who would send our chats around to talk s*** about me. That has been my mantra since then ...never trust anyone else fully
When I was in sixth grade, I met two girls. Let's call them Carla and Katie. Carla seemed nice to me, intelligent, responsible and calm. She was very close with Katie. I befriended both of them but I thought something was off with Katie. I felt uncomfortable around her and I had a feeling she wasn't any good. I ignored that feeling telling myself it probably was nothing. Skip to first year in highschool, Katie and Carla started arguing more and more. Carla told me Katie was too possessive and she started shouting at her in the library in front of her cousin because she was taking too much time talking with her cousin. She also told she tried emotionally sabotaging her saying things like "if you go with her (me) I'll get mad and sad" or "why are you always spending time with her (me)? You always leave me alone" it got so bad that Katie told her mother a twisted version of what actually happened and her mother called Carla's parents. They started shouting through the phone and arguing. Katie was convinced that it was my fault that Carla didn't want to spend time with her and that I was telling her to stop being her friend. They eventually stopped being friends and Carla went with me. One day during exchange program, we were on a trip. Carla wasn't there because she didn't participate and I didn't know anybody there so I was the lone kid. Katie took advantage of this and with 2 of her "friends" she started taking photos of me without me knowing. One in particular showed a bad angle of me and she started laughing in front of my f*cking face. She made stikers with the photos she took and sent them to almost all her contacts and even made a group chat solely for insulting me. Though none of the participants were interested and were forced by her. She also got the combination of my locker and stole the paints I used in my arts class. At first I thought I lost them or forgot them somewhere. And the teacher told me someone forgot their paints and gave them to me. When class ended, I left the paints in my locker and went home. The next day, they were gone. Idk if it was actually Katie but it was really probable since she knew the password. I told the teacher and she said she would change it, but she didn't. Fortunately, Katie knew that I knew she was the one that opened my locker and she stopped. Fast forward a year, I've moved on idc about her anymore, Carla and I met a new friend who was a wonderful person etc. You might think Katie was already over it, but no she wasn't. She tried everything to get us expelled and when that didn't work, she started spreading rumors about us. People refused to interact with Carla and I but time went on I they eventually discovered the truth. I am still in the same class as her, and tbh idrc, I've gotten over it (Carla still hasn't) I've decided that my time is worth more than that and focused on my studies. Katie still gives us dirty looks in class (well, before the lockdown happened) but I just treat her like thin air. Sorry for the long comment but it feels refreshing to talk about it. If you've made it here, congrats!
Uve done well it’s not always easy. I feel like Karla hasn’t gotten over it bc they’ve been in a long friendship so it is hard. But with time I hope she can heal.
I remember I too used to have a very manipulative bitchy friend back in 8th grade. What a nightmare. Just being around her was unpleasant. Thankfully we got put in different classes and I never had to hear from her again.
Some years ago, My gut feeling almost saved me from getting in trouble. I just felt that something's not right and for some reason I paid attention to it and acted upon! I like this channel! Good going! Psychology needs a spread! Thank you!
My gut feeling told me "this relationship is not gonna last long", I still went with him, he "promising" to prevent that or at least make the time joyful. During those months I got so many times the feeling, that I was not valued, something is off, this is not right. I couldn't explain where it was coming from, we had a good time. Still I felt like that. 7 months later he left me, but we got back together. The feeling still continued, I tried even more to ignore it. After 11 months he left me again, telling me he just cannot value me and many more things, like lies etc. Things I knew he was doing, intentions which he tried to make up, although I understood them correctly since the beginning. I was questioning myself if I am sane or even too stupid to understand what he meant. I could see through him, I knew when something was off and he didn't wanted to tell me. I felt he wanted something different, so I worked on me, tried hard to please him. For nothing. It wouldn't even have needed the "gut" feeling. He told me in the beginning that, if I cannot give him what he wants, he will get it somewhere esle. HUGE red flag. To say something so respectless, arrogant.. In the end I would have been better not entering the relationship, but this also taught me the lesson to always listen to my inner voice and most imprtantly I am developing now, being self aware, where it felt like I was stuck before. So I just can look back and say this kick in my butt was needed.
I had the exact same feeling with my ex. He said he loved me and wanted to marry me, but something inside me told me that something wasn't right. My parents were worried about our relationship, they thought he was hiding something. One day, I told him I wasn't sure if I loved him, but that I still really cared about him. He got upset and dumped me right there. I found out he got over the relationship in a day.
Just got out of a relationship with an ex where I had the exact same issue. I regret not listening to myself as she manipulated and hurt me pretty badly. Even at the start of our relationship she wanted a yes or No answer out of me on whether or not I was going to date her (not even get to know her first) big red flag. Next time I’m going to listen to myself and choose someone better next time. Sometimes being alone but happy is better than in love and hurt.
My gut feeling caused me to tell my mom “I don’t feel good” right before I passed out from dehydration and heat while inside a greenhouse Not that it made a difference because she looked confused as I passed out
Same lol when I was at the doctor’s doing bloodwork, I told her I was gonna faint and she was like nahhh and then I went down under then she started to get worried. I was still conscious but I was unconscious at the same time. It was like I can hear everything around me but I couldn’t move
For anyone this may help: I know there’s probably way too many comments on here you might not even read this, but I want to tell you I went through depression last summer. I had just gone through a breakup with a guy that meant a lot to me and the death of my grandpa and deciding not to pursue the degree I was on the path for 3 years of getting, I was feeling that worthless no point feeling. And I understand it might not have to be dramatic events that happen to cause this thinking, some times it just happens. But what I do know is that I took some time to not care what I “thought” was making me happy. I didn’t care anymore because I was desperate to feel something again and so at this point I really wanted to try to figure out what made me happy whether it be the dumbest thing and the littlest things I still tried them because I have no idea whether or not it would make me happy. I went on TH-cam and just started looking up random things and when I found a girl on TH-cam who truly inspired me because she was getting a degree in something that sounded very exciting when she explained it because it was all things that I could potentially be good at, it made me see a light. It wasn’t all at once it was slow but the happy feelings eventually came back and the nothingness subsided day by day more and more. And with that I say, don’t give up. Never give up on hope, because the minute you do is when you shut your brain off to possibilities you didn’t know could work for you. :) I hope this helps. Have a nice day! Take a walk, smile, list things you’re truly grateful for and just get some perspective, because it can always be worse, but it doesn’t have to be 😊
This is kinda relatable, I was 2 years in on getting a degree when my dad passed during the 2nd year, and my mom was struggling with bills so I picked up a job and took a break from school for a while and since the company went bankrupt at the end of that year I've been going job to job barely getting 10 h/r or low hours, mom's working 40 hours a week making 8 bucks and I can't find her a solid job yet cause her English needs work and my relatives from my dad's side have something against my mom and by proxy me so they don't help us get on our feet either so I've been trying to grow something online like an art page and working on my skills with digital art, currently i only have my phone to work with since i cant get a new computer or tablet but whatever ill use this for the meantime i can start doing commissions and make some dough from that maybe build a portfolio to approach some companies with in the future, wish me luck
DESTRAKON DESTRAKON I do wish you all the luck! And idk where you are but if you’re in the US I know there’s food banks and shelters and charities that are willing to help. Especially right now there’s a lot of ways to get some help. I would start googling in your area. Just so y’all don’t have to worry about those bare minimum things and whatever money you do get you can save for bills, shelter, etc. There’s amazing people in this world sometimes you just have to find them. And I know there’s a lot of churches that would be willing to help if you let them know your situation and stuff. Just have to google and see what’s near you ❤️ best of luck with every single thing you’re going through but you’ve made it this far and you’re still kicking ass so I think you’ll do great ❤️
I’m suffering depression right now. I started suffering depression last year. I may sometimes feel happy around those that I cherish, but those feelings don’t really last longs. What makes it worse is that there is like more than a million insects in this world right? Well, I have entomophobia, the fear of insects. I don’t self-harm myself though, but I feel as if I’m a disappointment to this world and don’t deserve to live. I can’t explain this situation to my family as they won’t understand, as they are Vietnamese. I can’t explain it in Vietnamese. I’m not abused. It’s just one of my cousin’s friends kept teased me last year when I was in Year 5 continuously about shipping me with someone I hate. I guess that made me go in depression. I’m really emotional, so I can’t contain my feelings. I get angry and tears start falling rapidly. I can’t help being emotional. Now it’s worse because I can’t see my friends and loved ones, making me more in depression.
“I am making a mistake.” - Wish i have watched this one year ago, i already made a mistake i wish i didn’t. Worth remembering it for the rest of my life.
It's important to know that some of our "gut feelings" tend to keep us in a vicious cycle. For example, I often felt fear for no reason and as if things are going to go bad, but it was just my anxiety stopping me from doing something new. Most of the time, that thing ends up being a good thing and not a thing to fear. Also, there's the fear of standing up for yourself. If you're afraid of being rejected, you forget that the people that reject you are the people who are bad for you, and the people who understand your statement are the people that will have a positive impact in your life. I guess make sure that you're able to reason that gut feeling, to see whether you should follow it or not.
I can relate to this. A lot of people in my grade always seem so bubbly and happy most of the time. But a lot of stuff told me that deep down, they were the opposite. One of my biggest regrets to this day is that I never tried to help any of them
I’ve had an ex so badly gaslight me I don’t know when to trust my gut feelings, but before the gaslighting I was always so intuitive and even my ex admitted that.
Remember WHO you are. Always. That INTUITIVE person. Life saving books by and interviews of GAVIN DE BECKER has saved many Lives and sanity. GIFT OF FEAR FEAR LESS BEAUTY BITES BEAST -AWAKENING THE WARRIOR WITHIN
I ignore mine most of the times I always regreat it and still dont learn the lesson. Last time was during holidays last december prior to my Bday and I got family visit I was to excited for them and I just feet I wanted to quite my job that it was enough and it was time but how I'm going to do that in this time? I really suffer working leaving my family (I did have some time off) working graveyards shift in those occassions is even harder. January 2th this year they just fired me I should had follow my inner voice but God is incredible because in January 4th I receive a work opportunity and I was even able to keep working during this pandemic times. If someone took the time to read this I hope you are happy knowing somebody loves you and you deserve everything 🤗 and please listen to your 6th sense it feels horrible the regreat for not listening to yourself!!
Yes, this is very easy to do. I have been so so so close. I feel like I been saved many times by cheer luck or on very last minute my gut-instinct has activated. But it's been very last minute and it could have gone both ways! Extremely difficult to trust your gut instinct with men, because it seems that half of the time you should be running.
He chose to assault you. He could have stayed in the creep zone giving off bad vibes but he decided to violate you. It's not your fault for thinking better of people.
4) I'm unwell. I've felt this way since age 12 but my family ignored it and told me I was being soft or it was growing pains. Was also told I need to get over it and stop letting it take over my life as I'd never keep a job or I'd fail my courses by staying home so much. I lost an ovary to a cyst, failed a course, lost my job to chronic pains, got warnings before at previous jobs, failed other courses. Turns out I have endometriosis and PCOS. Finally diagnosed at age 31. Now I can freaking manage them.
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Another instinct to never ignore when you're a kid or a teenager is "This adult should not be talking to me like this".
FUCK YES !!!!
Well yes, but actually
DID YOU REALLY THINK I WOULD OBJECT TO THAT THOUGH
Yes the most important thing is to recognize how others behave with you even if they are elder!
My mom taught me that even if someone is older, there is a line of patronization they cannot cross.
I'm 21 and I still have this mindset, but instead it's more like "Nobody should even be able to talk to me, I'm trying to be invisible!"
*7 Gut Instincts You Should Not Ignore:*
1. Hunger
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Edit:omg thx for 66 likes guys i never had that many likes (don't get to 666 is a number of a devil k O-O)
lol
yes
The most important one
You just had to😂
I’m an over thinker and have self-doubt problems so this happens like MOST OF THE TIME
Ikr
Same! And if i'm not able to keep it in check it manifests as paranoia. Basically i mistake them for my gut feeling, the "overthoughts" (dunno what to call them lol)
Same here! And that's exactly why I end up accomplishing nothing in the end. AND because I've always listened to other people's opinions too much! And not mine.
same,and its getting annoying, some times i get panic attacks from that 😔
The gang of over-thinking and self doubt RISE-
I’ll get these bad feeling about people, when I just know there bad news or somethings wrong. Like this one girl in one of my maths classes a while ago. I just knew something was up with her, she was just spacing off, and kept rubbing her arm. I have know this girl since like preschool, we grew up together (I lived in a small city, everyone knew everyone) And something just seemed so off with her, it just wasn’t right. So I kept an eye on her throughout class, just watching her. And suddenly her sleeve slipped down a little, and there I saw just what I thought I would, self harm marks. She quickly pulled up her sleeve and didn’t see that I noticed, but I knew I had to do something. So I wrote her a note, giving her some general tips and offering her a safe space. She came to me after class and we talked for a while. A few days later she told me that she talked to her parents and she was moving forward to get help. She started wearing short sleeves a few weeks later, and I have never been so happy that I trusted my gut.
The world needs more people like you!! No one wants to get involved anymore. You probably saved that girls life!! Great job!! ❤❤
Aww, this is an amazing story! So wholesome!
thats so sweet that you saved the girl's life ❤️💕 💝 :)
I wish the world had more people like you.
Years ago, I had a coworker who (at that time) was just an acquaintance. One day when I came in to work, I had a feeling to just go say hi and ask how he was doing. Over several weeks I got to know him just by having conversations five minutes or so at a time. After a couple of months, the subject of my ADD came up, and we had some deep conversations about mental health. He started getting checked out. Later on he told me that when we met, he thought he had demonic possession and was getting ready to kill himself. He ended up having a traumatic brain injury from Iraq, PTSD from two combat tours and a very abusive family life in his childhood, and ADD on top of it all. He went from being suicidal, depressed, and alone to actually being happy, having friends, making goals, etc. He retired years ago, but ever since then, I try to be much more aware about the feelings I'm having about whether someone is in trouble or just needs a friend or a smile so that they know someone gives a crap that they're still breathing in and out. Because God may just be telling you that He needs you to reach out to one of His children. It can save a life.
“When you meet someone, treat them as if they were in serious trouble, and you will be right more than half the time.” - Henry B. Eyring.
That takes guts to do. I respect that
sometimes i just can't tell a difference between gut feeling and my anxiety
Me too. It can be tricky sometimes. What do you think we can do the differentiate them better? Would you like a video on gut feeling VS anxiety?
Psych2Go yes plss!! I wanna know if it’s just my anxiety and overthinking or if it’s really my gut feeling
first name last name same here and I been told by my family,friends , partners that I over analyze or overthink things . My gut feeling is in shadow because of anxiety
@@Psych2goyes please, I've had days where I've been cooked up at home for fear that if I went out sth bad would happen, I was able to tell that was anxiety and ignore it but I also find myself ignoring my gut thinking its that same anxiety.... I always realize later when sth bad happens that that was my gut....but its too late
Psych2Go please do!
Anxiety: everything is a gut feeling now
I see yea but, Nah
Anxiety: "welcome to the REAL world, kid"
Pretty much also keeping drinking the milk....
I feel like for a gut feeling it's supposed to just be there and takes much effort to recognize besides anxiety which makes you think alot. That's just how i see it, but it could differ from person to person.
Yes
Sometimes I’m not sure if it’s my instincts or my insecurities talking...
I'd be betting on insecurities, why because i've been brutally honest with myself and that was my problem.
Good thing you know that.
Yeah same and now it’s telling me don’t post this I already erased this once
Zephyrdian Same here anybody have insight on past relationship experience.
Yeah...
My dad told me as a child "it's very easy to confuse excitement and fear." He also raised me to trust my gut feelings.
Love this and your profile pic
Well that's not how I see. I see that as a form of gaslighting and emotional abuse.
1) being in danger of something
2) others being in danger of something
3) a gut instinct that you're making a mistake
4) suddenly not feeling well physically
5) "this will be bad in the long run"
6) feeling excited about something
7) something feels right
Thanks m8
Thanks
"I have a bad feeling about this" -Every Star Wars Movie
Thx bro
Notice how 5 out of 7 instincts are really fucking bad? Play the odds and shit will look good for you in the end.
Basically your gut feeling is the real version of “I sense a disturbance in the force”
Lmao if you wanna put it that way yeah😂😂
I like the fluffy reference bro 👍👍👍
Hahaha
Lol
The only gut feeling I feel is when am hungry🤣😂
1 : I am in danger of something.
2 : Others are in danger of something.
3 : I am making a mistake.
4 : I am not feeling well.
5 : This will be bad in long run.
6 : This is exciting.
7 : This feels right.
TY 😊
Gut feeling when hear 80s song or 2000s and watch their makeup... Ia everyone feel that
I always ignore number 3....and instantly regret it...
😘
th-cam.com/video/dQw4w9WgXcQ/w-d-xo.html Just press it you know u want to :>
1. I'm in danger from something 1:12
2. Others are in danger from something 1:43
3. I'm making a mistake 2:15
4. I'm not feeling well 3:11
5. This will be bad in the long-run 3:38
6. This is exciting 4:12
7. This feels right 4:55
Thanks ❤
Thank you!!!
I'm always 1-5. Not sure if that means anything, or if it's my anxiety or CPTSD amplifying it.
@@phatcat3705I'm having same issue tell me solution plzz 😢
Usually when i ignore my gut feelings, i chose the wrong answer in a multiple choice test.. That sucks🙃
Omg same that is the worst
I could relate to you
Relatable
Ugh. I rmbr once my I was literally explaining to myself why I should choose an ans but end up not choosing it and it turned the ans was correct
It always happens to me☹️
this upload came just in time. A year ago today, I realized my dad's car was gone when I woke up in the morning. This actually wasn't unusual, as many times he'd work late or be at the store before coming home. However, this time didn't feel right for some reason. To this day, I really can't explain that feeling of dread I got in my tummy when I woke up and saw his car was gone. I had received a missed call from both him and an unknown phone number. I started calling the local jails and hospitals, and at first the closest hospital to us said he wasn't there when I said his name. I spelled it out for them just to make sure because I just had a feeling he was there, and they said he was in the ER. He had gotten into an accident a couple hours prior and was about to go into emergency surgery that they actually couldn't perform without family consent. When I got to the ER, the nurse told me I came just in time to sign the forms of consent since my other family members missed the calls from the hospital as well. Today, my dad is healthy and able to walk again and 100% recovered. I don't know if that would be the case had I not relied on that gut feeling that guided me like a candle in a dark forest.
It was the Lord.
The Lord told u it was the Lord
It was an instinct- a worry, not the lord.
@@basically280 We all have our own beliefs.
Deja vu
Well the most important is when the gut says : " you are being stabbed"
Damn wish I'd listened when my gut said that
@@ghostie-8089 well.
Thanks for the advice :)
I think the adrenal glands would be at work there
Maybe Darth Maul should've looked into that.
Here's my story.
In 2019 I met this guy and I immediately fell for him. It was love at first sight, but it felt "off" . I had a difficult time understanding my emotions because he was perfect, I loved him...yet, my gut was against him. This was the first time I went against my gut on such a major decision. One year down the line I was messed up, I had been through an abusive relationship, I had lost my spirituality and I was broken. But the worst part, I lost the ability to hear my gut. It was the most empty and dark I ever felt. Going into 2020 COVID helped because I had lots and lots of time to be alone, and reflect and forgive myself and heal. This took the whole year. I finally got back my gut feeling in 2021 and at the moment, I listen to every inkling of intuition and follow it. I know it's hard to believe, but it is possible to lose your gut feeling, and I was so empty for so long. I'm glad I'm ok now 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you for sharing your story, because I can personally relate, and I'm happy to know that you're okay now. Back in 2012, I got into a relationship with a guy who I thought could be "the one". But even from the beginning I had this odd feeling that something was "off". I stayed involved with him even as things got darker and darker. Fast forward 3 years later.. I was a shadow of my former self. I became so lost and confused and started neglecting myself more and more. That small voice inside of me that knew I had to cut ties with him--got dimmer and dimmer. 5 years later that chapter of my life was finally over, but I was left broken and traumatized by it all. Relationships with other people, friends and family were affected in a bad way after that because I was messed up. I didn't know how or when to trust my intuition anymore, so I made a lot of poor decisions and mistakes that could have been prevented, creating further damage along the way. I feel that I learned a lot from my experiences and it's been quite a healing journey, trying to recover my self worth and trust. I still have a way to go, but I believe the key is re-discovering one's sence of self, and purpose. Self care is so important. It's when the voice in the head gets calmer and quiter, then we can really know and understand what our gut insticts are telling us, and also to hear and trust what our hearts truly want and needs. ~ Blessings to You and All, and Stay Safe ~ : )
I would like to share my story and would like to have your opinion about it.
I met a very nice gentleman, and we both felt in love. A few months later I don't feel the same. Something deep down inside keeps telling me that I made a mistake. I don't feel love and safe around him anymore 😢.
Sometimes, his behavior and his eyes scared me😢
I took 2 weeks break and next weekend I will end my relationship.
1 month ago suddenly I got anxiety 2 hours before our meet-up, I realized I can't deal with it.
Thank you for sharing your story, it matters ❤
@@LeeBee1111Thank you, reading this is really helpful...
7 Gut Instincts Never to Ignore:
1. I'm in danger
2. Someone else is in danger
3. I'm making a mistake
4. I don't feel well
5. This will be bad in the long run
6. This is exciting
7. This feels right
actionchaplain1 Don’t summarise someone’s video in the comments. That’s very disrespectful as they put a lot of work in the video...
@@kingofthesands Now someone doesn't have to watch the video, saving time. It's not disrespectful, it's efficient
Beast Master 64 😂😂😂😂facts
Beast Master 64 okay but youre missing the point. a person made this video because it could be their source of income. you stripping them off a view is detrimental to their earnings. it is disrespectful as hell. how would you like it if you spent hours working on a video only for someone to just summarise all your main points in the comment section? you’re just rude mate
I think it's very helpful. It helps summarize what you've learned and then you can remember why you should remember them after hearing the explanation in the video.
Anxiety: *Everyday is a Gut feeling day*
Exactly...honestly can't tell the two apart anymore. It's a nonstop war
Hate it
True
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[ • P H O E N I X • ] it is but God has you!!! The prince of lies tell y’all that y’all are not good enough and useless, God says y’all are wonderful and amazing!!!
My gut feelings helped me pass some of my exams :'D
When i didnt trust it i got a wrong answer
@@sevgi6026 well i trusted it and i got it wrong XD
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You know that you failed to learn anything when your gut is giving you all the answers.
Well this blew up
Always pay attention to your Spidey Sense. In my experience you can tell it apart from just anxiety, and if you're feeling really anxious it may be better to avoid that situation anyway. Your safety matters more than someone else's feelings.
So true
This is horrible advice, if you’re afraid of leaving your house, staying inside is not good.
Thank you! I agree 100%
I'm so obsessed with this channel and my gut feeling says,"it's alright."
I literally comment and like on every video lol
shineee it’s aight
Oh my god finally someone relatable
Yeah same... I've been now over a year addicted to these videos and I feel that it's one of the best things that happened in my life! :D
listen to your bowels :) and
I'm new too, I would appreciate if you support me.
7 Gut instincts I always ignore:
1. Something is wrong
2. Something is so very wrong
3. Something is deeply wrong
4. Something is incredibly off
5. Nothing is safe
6. Something is wrong
7. Something is wrong
7. Something is wrong
7. Something is wrong
7. Something is wrong
Same here
😅🙋♀️
I’ve been having a feeling that some thing is wrong with my health but I don’t know weather it my gut feeling or just an excuse I made to pity myself, so I usually ignore it...
This gave me ANXIETYYYYYYYYYYY
I totally just paused the video and was prepare for the summary lol
"This will go wrong in the long run" is what my gut tells me when I procrastinate on schoolwork. I know it's right, but procrastination makes me ignore it.
-Someone who watched this video while they should have done homework
Cooky literally me right now
omg me
You got meee
Cooky oh that’s so accurate
Why you gotta attack me like that-
Always follow your gut feelings. Don't let your head talk you out of it. It could save your life. Any strong feeling you suddenly feel is a warning...you just have to not let your head talk you out the safety your being led to. 100%
That inner voice tells you often times about the reassessment of what you are experiencing and feeling in the moment. Intelligence that acts faster than thoughts, before it can be rationally analysed. Don’t ignore it.
Especially when I’m hungry.. oh boy
Multiple times I've stopped myself from doing something for no reason and then just shrugged it off. I regretted all of them. For that exact reason I make 5 mistakes IN A ROW, from now on I'm listening to that feeling
But doesn't people have to think in order to act rationally?
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Sometimes it’s really hard to distinguish a gut feeling from anxiety, because in the moment, they can feel very much the same. But looking back, you realize just how different they are, and this video emphasizes that. Thank you! :)
Mermaid Gem yess! they (as in Psych2Go) should make a video on how to tell these two feelings apart.
A ViRGO I agree, that would be awesome!
How different are they? Can you elaborate?
Juan Javier Martinez - Maravilla I guess the best way I can describe it is that instinct feels more like a superpower, and anxiety feels more like a kryptonite. With instinct, thoughts manifest themselves almost with more certainty, and in my experience, it’s easier to keep a cooler head under the mental pressure. Whereas with anxiety, thoughts are more chaotic and uncertain, and the mental pressure causes irrational and painful thinking. Again, when you’re in the moment it’s hard to distinguish them, as both are very rooted in the subconscious. I’m not a psych expert, I just say this from my observations as an empathetic and anxious person. lol
I can’t tell the difference between a gut feeling and anxiety or paranoia
dude same
Bruh same
Ah... me
It's a soft clear & concise voice, not very intense or loud. It doesn't ramble on, it doesn't editorialize. It's the feeling you get when a friend or loved one gives you a heads up. I feel anxiety and paranoia voices are louder, harsher, editorialized and polemic.
I totally overthink everything and can't tell if the bad feeling I might have about something is a gut feeling, paranoia or just me overdramatizing a (future) scenario.
I think another good one is knowing when to do nothing. Most of the time we act and overreact to tense situations because we feel compelled to do something. This can often exasperate the tension. Sometimes when you're not sure what to do, it's better to stay still and do nothing.
*There have been so many times where I ignored my gut feeling and later regretted it so much*
yessssss
Yep. Been there, done that.
Yes, happened to me a few days ago, now I'm trying to turn this into a lesson, but it's not that easy.
My gut was never wrong about anything. Some examples I can remember:
1. I didn't like my friend's boyfriend from the moment I met him. Everyone around me adored him and said I'm crazy. We ended up hanging out a lot with him and he became part of the group. Long story short, he is a sociopath. Everyone hates him now because of the things he ended up doing. This would turn into a book if I started writing every bad thing he did to each of us.
2. Since I started dating my ex I had a gut feeling about him that was literally screaming inside of me and I brushed it off as my fears and insecurities. Whenever he would say anything in my head I would just be like ''you're lying'' even though I had no proof. It lasted for a month, I broke up with him because I couldn't ignore my gut and anxiety anymore. It ended up being all lies. My gut also told me to snoop a little when we started dating so I did. There was this girl that stood out to me on his profile. A week later he is showing me pictures on his phone and there was her picture that he obviously forgot he had. He said it was his ex and said all kinds of nasty things about her. Two days after I broke up with him he started dating her again.
3. Nice story - When I started my freshman year I started a month later than everyone else because I was working and when I came to class I didn't know literally anyone. I met a few people but I didn't really feel any connection with anyone. After a week or two, there was this girl that I saw for the first time and when I saw her I felt like I've known her and knew she would be my friend. A few days later she sat next to me, made a joke and she's my friend since. We are like the same person :)
@Matt Ludwig Thank you!
when i dated my narcissist i had the same gut feeling. mine also started dating a new person around 3 days after dumping me. now none of *my* friends like them either. funny how stuff works in your favor socially when youre genuinely just nice and yourself 💛💛
I also had the gut feeling and I was always right... It's just so true that others say you're wrong, when you're not, example, I met someone who supposedly cared for me but didn't, it was like he was the victim of all his girlfriends, always them, and told me to look for a man like him if I wanted a boyfriend 😐 I know, that's kinda toxic and I could see the lies, so people, If someone lies about something small, that one is willing to do the same but with big things.
@@pepedomingo4061 it is funny! Those two would make great friends 😂 glad you got through it! 🧡
@@ainhoasanchez03 that's true. I noticed little lies from the start that made no sense to me so I thought why would he lie about something so stupid and unimportant. Gut is always right. I think we subconsciously notice little red flags and that something is off but our ego doesn't want to admit that someone could lie like that to our face.
this art style’s really cute!
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I agree !
Definitely. :D
Yeah definitely
YESH! The people look so sqwuishie o-O✨
hjonk I know it’s so soothing.
i was in flight school at one university to be an airline pilot. i’ve recently listened to my gut and transferred to study meteorology and professional storm chasing!! i am very happy with that decision
I've always wanted to be a singer. For years everyone has said I'll never make it and shouldn't even try. I had started doubting myself and was considering staying in my hometown to get a normal job. Watching this video helped me realize that I shouldn't listen to them. My gut has been telling me that I should try. I think I have a chance, so I'm gonna give it my all!
good luck with your career! ❤️
@@lan12121 Thank you!!!
That is awesome. The Lord will direct your paths. Just keep praising Him and thanking Him. You can truly trust Him. All things are possible with the Lord. Place all trust in Him, and He will lead you where He needs you.
Go for it youtube/instagram/snapchat are thing now so you're in a much better position than any singer 20 years ago, if you can find some sort of popular yet lowkey niche where you can make music then that's a good place to start getting a following and then grow from there
Go for it !
*every time I catch feelings for someone* brain: haha, ur in danger
Drake Merwin being loved and loving someone else is for fools, your gut is telling you this
@@deviljho4260 true
Danger of what,please describe it🏳️🌈💲
Soooo were you in danger?
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I just broke up with my Bf. I ALWAYS feel I was in danger and that was.
One morning I woke up crying because I dreamed he cheated on me with his ex.
I cried and asked him if he had contact with her. He said “No babe, I would let you know when that happen”
Some moths later, I still had that gut feeling, I kept having that nightmares, I knew something was wrong. I got really anxious one night and took his phone and... there it was 💔 He was texting his ex and in some times saw each other. ☹️
TRUST YOUR GUT
always
I hope you’re ok now ❤️❤️❤️
@Anna Sichla preach!!!!
@@uzihammad8922 I’m writing 6 months later and it was the best decision I took!!! I have my new apartment, a kind bf and a beautiful pup. Not usually, but some times I remember him, but I never felt so empowered and realized.
Trust your gut, don’t be proud.
@@GaryQuiensabe woo so happy for you my situation was just like yours and im still tryimg to get over his cheating
@Anna S. if someones in a relationship, they shouldnt be letting people do things with their body, and i think the person was upset cause the bf lied and he wouldnt have to lie, but if they didnt do anything then i agree that theyd be possessivee
I never ignore the ' others are in danger ' one because once I had a very strong feeling like this about my friends going on a trek so I told them to wait a few days . turns out there was a landslide the day they were supposed to trek .
When I meet someone new I always try to remember the first impression I had, to analyze their behaviour through that lense. I've never been wrong.
Gut: * *Starts Talking* *
Me: What the hell
💀💀
"The fetus tasted pretty good. hit me up with another one!"
Made me laugh cuz my gut is really making noises right now and it’s not cuz im hungry i just ate
Ur pfp is GOLD 😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀
What in the god diggity hot damn
*Gut feeling on a test* : hey pick this one
**me not picking it**
*Gut feeling* : Dang, you could have got that one right
True >:(
*Gut feeling on a test:* pick this one.
*Me:* Okay.
*Also gut feeling:* Wait, actually pick this one.
*Me:* 👁-👁
Giyū Tomioka good one
Maybe try learning
K Cleymans i do learn
I had a negative gut feel after meeting someone new, no matter what I did, I couldn’t shake it off, I told him about it until he suggested we pray about it and 1 day he said there was something he needed to tell me & he told me about his positive HIV status & I kid you not, as soon as I heard that “my negative gut feeling immediately left me”, it was instant.
I literally have never felt gut instincts in my life, but yesterday I watched this video and so I learned what not to ignore. Today I found myself in a very dangerous situation with my friend and my gut instantly told me this wasn’t okay. Thankfully because of that instinct I was able to get me and my friend out of that situation in time. I’m really thankful for this video🥺💗
The feeling of being in danger :
When having anxiety this might seem irrevelant as you very often feel in danger. But you ARE in danger actually. In your mind. Some things aren't right in your environment or in your past and you haven't dealt with it fully yet and your body thinks anxiety.
So yes you are in danger. Try to change it for real even if it's really difficult. It will help you :)
Good luck 💗
Just keep praising Him and thanking Him. He has already provided you with everything. The Lord knows all and sees all. He provided the tools necessary for the anxiety to subside.
There were instances when I feel irritated whenever my mom calls in the middle of the day to ask how I have been and stuff. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just being rude and being a 'bad kid' to my mom cause I don't answer her calls when I feel that way.
I finally understood where that feeling came from as my mom has narcissistic tendencies and I was a source of her narcissistic supply. It was always so draining to talk to her about things and other people and her manipulating the conversation into making me agree that she's better than most of them.
I got to work my way around it and recognising the flow before it happens really made a difference to my mental health. This channel helped a lot too. So thank you 💕
This is so true. After graduation I was looking for a job in my degree. I got one. After the interview I had a bad gut feeling. After every step of the recruit process I had a worse and worse gut feeling. But the salary was good and I thought I can’t turn down a job offer. My family & friends was so proud of me getting a well paid job from my own degree. I thought I have to do this and ignored my feelings. In the first day of work I knew that it was a mistake. Every day I heard and saw more alarming stuff. I quitted after three months and was really ashamed because of this.. but I’m happy that I got the courage to get out even though the pressure from leaving a well paid job is horrible, I feel like people think I’m crazy.
This fires us up!
I once met this person who was with a group of my other friends, immediately something didn't feel right about him. So i keot my distance and didn't tell him anything about me but my nickname. So night comes and i need ti back home. I ask one of my male friends to walk me back and they did. About 3 weeks later that same group of friends sends me a link to a news article. He had sexually assaulted a friend of his, then killed her. Never since have i doubted my gut feeling about someone.
oh my god
Oh my goodness, I hope you and your friends are okay now!
Holy shit that took an awful turn.
Sometimes the evil are hard to hide themselves. It is often us who don't obey our own instincts when they come into our radar. Glad you did.
Omg
When I was younger my mother and her current husband separated, but they couldn't afford an actual divorce so they kinda just acted like they were. This is important to know because, as part of this me, my older sister and my younger brother would all go to visit my mother's husband every weekend. One day, for a reason I couldn't understand at the time, I didn't want to go see him. He tried everything to get me to go with him, even offering to take us all to see the, at the time, new Airbender movie that I'd been wanting to see for ages. Still, my gut told me to stay home so I did...
Two days later my mother went to go pick up my brother and sister and they all came back a couple hours later really upset and my mother's arm was badly bruised. Her ex-husband didn't want to let my brother and sister go and when my mother tried to get them to come with her, he grabbed her arm and nearly broke it. It took my little brother screaming and crying that he wanted to go home with our mother to make the man stop and they all rushed home.
I'll never forget that day or how my gut instinct saved me from a very traumatic experience.
oof
I am so proud of you. This is great
@@skyeking7135 I am proud of the great human being you are too ;_;
My gut feeling told me to not read you, then i saw your profile pic and thank god i listened to it becouse furries are shit
@@hamboharambe9982 Not all bronies are furries. Just saying. Also, I'm a girl so I'm even more in my rights to like mlp.
Amanda's voice is like a nice, warm and fuzzy hug that gives me strength to validate my feelings, to get up and going again to tackle the world! Also, gut instinct, in my opinion, is a blend of subjective and objective knowledge/experiences as well as factoring in the known and unknown phenomenon and it's always looking eternally (ie. Long term) - hence why, understandably, it is seen as our true essence/soul/spirit or the mediator/representation of our soul (because... who knows... it could very well be - there's so much phenomenon of existentialism that we don't understand yet). That's why it can be so accurate. It's like the moral compass that doesn't judge with moral high ground. It may seem incorrect sometimes but it just means that it's not yet fully articulated and clear yet and so, to improve that nagging concern of inaccuracy or "offness", you need to go out there and take action by investigating it some more and the more sophisticated answers lie within. I say start doing this in the smallest, baby step-by-step increments you can think of and manage - especially if it's too overwhelming emotionally at first, as well as to keep yourself protected from unprepared radical changes that can do psychophysiological damage if unmanaged with some organised structure in place.
@u hate eggs Wtf
@u hate eggs I-
Mate, I gotcha. Stay ontop. You're an overthinker like alot of people.
I'm sry, but I hate her voice coz she's doing asmr. I hate asmr
Feng Magic Gadget do you even know what asmr is because this ain’t it.
The first time I fell in love I knew he wasn’t “the one.” Something just felt off whenever I thought hard about it or we were together, but I ignored this feeling because well.. I was in love. But now years later I see he was meant to teach me a lesson, and we’ll probably never see each other again but that’s okay, because I know the right one is out there somewhere, and I appreciate what I learned and experienced from the situation.
When I met my last ex my gut feelings were
1. This is bad for the long run
And
2. This feels right.
🤷
Tbu - well , it really do be like that sometimes
So the question is... which feeling are we supposed to trust when we feel both at the same time? (Because trust me I’ve been there too)
Or vice versa when it feels like it’ll be right for my future but feels wrong currently. Always having that problem. I feel like I think nothing will satisfy me so I try to be comfortable with what I have and then I go into the cycle again where it doesn’t make me happy so I keep throwing away good opportunities. :/
He was a lession you needed to learn
@@maysen77 if you think it'll be fine in the future but never is now, you're probably holding something back from yourself - a mental block that you know exists but isn't "big" enough to threaten you long term but you haven't processed properly yet
the power of intuition is very strong...i didnt listen to my gut feelings and dismissed them as anxiety. all the times i dismissed them, very bad things happened to me. never ignore them
How did you know ?
For 15 years when visiting my daughter I felt anxious but I persisted to see my grandchildren .
Finally the message became clear when she told me not to come anymore.
Something that I really learned is: If there’s a situation that involves risk in which leads to a negative consequence, then go with your gut instinct to avoid taking a bad risk, but if there seems to be no risk/danger, then don’t jump to indirect conclusions.
It's not an instinct, it's an intuition. Humans don't have instincts
I was once in the living room as a child, watching cartoons on the TV. I was sitting beside my sister and my mom was in her room taking a nap. I suddenly had a bad feeling and knew that someone was in danger. I ran to my moms room without saying anything to my sister and my mom had thrown up in her sleep while laying on her back and she was chocking to death. If I hadn’t gotten that sudden urge to check on her, my mother would be dead right now. I always listen to my intuitive instincts now, as I saved someone’s life.
U probably just heard her choking but ignored it.U monster...XD
@@Ugh718 Well, Sesame Street was on XD
Espy_alitrix xD. For real though, it’s pretty cool what you did :) you should be proud of you her you. I know I’m proud and I don’t even know you T-T
@@lemoncholy3264 Thank you :)
A year ago I had reconnected with my high school sweetheart/first real love. He seemed like the same person I fell for when we were teens at least in the beginning. Weeks later things between us became more official and he changed. Our first disagreement took place over the phone. I wanted to talk it out but he hung up in the middle of the conversation.
My gut told me not to call back then, it was still early and I should get out of the relationship. I ignored my gut because I thought I owed it to myself to at least try. He was still the same person. It was just a fight, right? I still don't know if that was true. It only got worse and my doubts about not trusting my gut never made it easy. Almost a year later I listened to my gut and I've never been happier. If only I listened sooner.
Finally! Someone bringing it up! I always listen to my gut, as much as possible. I’m a very instinct driven person and I trust those instincts, even if it seems nonsensical or unimportant. Like for example: taking a different road home because I have a bad feeling about my normal route for some reason. I always listen to that.
gut feeling: I am here to keep you safe!
anxiety: I am here to be *overly* safe (and paranoid)
Your instincts about someone's vibes speaks much louder than their words!...#Trustyourinstincts
True!
True I made a big mistake trusting someone blindly
Okay Im so lonely that I shed a tear when the narrator said "this feels right"
Sathvika brooooooo
Then I will shed a tear for you :( Hang in there buddy!
I had a bed feeling about my ex when we had started dating, and my friends shared the same thing. I ended up with him, and it was NOT a good experience... Needless to say, I trust my friends, and my gut more
I learned a long time ago not to ignore that voice inside. When it has reared its head, it’s significant. When I brushed it aside, that’s when I learned hard lessons. Always trust your inner voice. You will never go wrong when you do.
I defiantly believe in gut feelings, I felt my last relationship ending before it did a week before out of no where and I had a major car accident a year ago and before I turned on my car something felt wrong and my gut literally sank... I ignored it and almost died that day. Take you gut feeling serious, its actually never failed me!
That's the problem with me, whenever I had a gut feeling; I always ignore it then something will go wrong...
Guys listen to your inner self. For days I was feeling like I was being stalked and woke up one morning with someone impersonating me on social media. This shit is real
BIG FACTZ ‼️🤝💯, Go With The FLOWW #listen
When I got together with my first gf: I was horribly depressed, but my gut told me it was a good thing.
It dragged me out of the deep hole that I've been in for the most part of my life and made me feel happy.
Even though it only lasted for 2 weeks I still see it as the best thing to have happened to me in years.
incrediman25
Now imagine that for months or years.
@@andir8119 the length of a relationship doesn't make it more or less impactful, I just said that by following my gut feeling my life got turned around.
I will never forget what it did for me.
Some times some people don't mean to stay forever in our life but they sure play role of an angel in your life. They give you the best moments to cherish thruout the life. They give you so much love in so less time.
I m happy that you're being sad or anything but you're out of your depression or anxiety.
Stay happy and stay healthy :)
Instinct, Intuition and Intellect, you cannot go wrong, you will always be guided to right connections, circumstances etc
I’m going through a terrible break up from a 4 year relationship with a really shallow-minded person (lying/cheating/the works), whom I actually used to always feel bad around in the beginning when we met. I thought I was just being shy. I wish I listened to that feeling
クロナCrona So glad you’re out of that situation.
Goodluck to both of you, and me too!! xD
All the best ❤
I just got cheated on after 3,5 years, I always had a gut feeling I couldn't trust her and that she was really shallow. I never felt like she actually spoke what she really felt but rather what she thought I wanted to hear. In the end she blamed me for her deceit because I had "a screw loose" for not trusting her. Yes she actually said that right after cheating on me. Im curios what the red flags were in your situation and how you're feeling about it now?
@@gordonrussell7137 i had a bad gut feeling about my bff it was about she was a fake friend and how i should stop the freindshipp
the next day i decided to end the friendship she started to gaslaight me ortry to show how much she appreciates me i was stupid enough to stay in the friendship and the feeling didnt go
so after a few dayss past we made a group her and my sister got into an argument over a stupid drawing (she had mad anger issues was depressed/ shallow not all the time tho but smart she always acted so special )
then she said i have other friends anyway she blocked me and never speacked to me again i wish i ended that freindship and trusted my gut turns out she was manipulating by pretending to care when she never ever texted me now i will countine to trust my gut
Now comes the task of determining if im feeling anxiety or instinct
There was one time on a test, my gut told me to go with “c” (it was multiple choice), but I answered “a”. Turns out my gut’s answer was correct
It's funny 'cause I went through the exact same thing. There was this test I didn't prepare for, and I was just answering through the sheets in a hurry 'cause I was late too. There was this one question that I answered c at first, then read the question again and decided to go with a, but my gut was telling me to keep the c. When our papers were returned to us, I had the highest score for the first time in such a long time that my classmates must've thought I cheated. I was only one point off, and guess what the mistake was... :/
I know right that always happens 🤣👏👏
I saw a comment just like this,
They thought it was C, but had a feeling it was A.
Turns out they were wrong and it was C!
When in doubt, always c.
One night a couple months ago, I was feeling weird, like something terrible was going to happen. I did things that usually make me feel better but nothing worked, and that bad feeling just kept growing. The next morning, I was feeling even worse. I was texting my friend before our online math class when my dad called me. He said my grandfather had passed away.
*sending a virtual hug to everyone in the comment section who can use one!*❤
Having ADHD and cPTSD make paying attention to the gut feelings a lot more challenging but I'm working on it. Thanks for the video!
Brother I struggle with the same disorders and it's so hard to manage th gut feelings and recognise the adhd over-excitement and cptsd over-paranoia from the gut feeling! Do you have any tips on this that work for you?
@@mel90212m Wish I had a straight forward answer but I don't. I'm winging it daily!! One thing that has helped was was this video by Eckhart Tolle. Learning to meditate and being able to control the mind became a lot easier after watching this video...I get it though. Anyone in our situation understands.
Sadly, also a part of our journey - dealing with all the neuro-typicals of the world that a) don't understand and b) aren't willing to understand.
Wishing you well on your journey!
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I feel you. I was raised to not have my needs met, to be shamed for having needs, to numb myself so I stop having needs. As an adult, I felt like the last person I can trust is myself. I was the source of so much of my family’s suffering after all (classic scapegoat). It took the longest time to start rebuilding that trust and awareness of my gut feelings. I still find myself being on the receiving end of bad behaviour or abuse and thinking maybe _I_ am the problem, when my instinct is screaming out that isn’t the case. I also find myself needing so much validation from others coz I can’t trust what I feel is true. But then I get paranoid that others will think that I’m too high maintenance coz I need validation all the time - stuff that we should all have had as kids 😔
@@mel90212mI'm having same issue tell me solution plzz 😢
I'm having same issue tell me solution plzz 😢
There is a guy in my building who gives me this overpowering urge to run every time I see his face. He lets on he's all nice and helpful. A harmless old, uncle type. Yea, he gives off a predatory vibe. I never ignore my gut.
Kären Sjöberg You have good instincts.
Run everytime you get a predatory vibe,a feeling of uneasiness,don't dismiss your instincts or you'll regret it,don't neglect your health,don't need the drama of an accident💲
move away
Thank you so much for making this video. This one guy laughed at me when I told him that my gut told me not to date him and asked if I had a stomach ache. The thing is that intuition is never wrong. People just don't know how to get themselves in touch with themselves so they think that there's something wrong with them when it's not even them. An individual's body will feel that something is wrong way before the individual consciously does.
One gut feeling I'm trying to abide to right now: "You're not spending enough time with/for yourself." I'm focusing so much on others and their well-being that it's led me to neglect my own, I'm living to fulfill others wishes and hopes and not my own. I want to devote my life to helping others, but it's like being a rusty tool trying to sharpen others if I don't get the right help...
I'm feeling this comment dud
@@ZIMA.RECORDS Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way. It's hard because you almost feel guilty having to put away others' request in order to care for yourself. I'd always rather live a worse-off life knowing that I helped make others' lives better-off than not make a difference at all, but when I can't answer simple questions like "What do you like?" and "What makes you different/special?" then something needs to be done.
Hello soulmate QuQ
DYDIE TRY YOUR BEST,PLZ WORK ON ITTTT U DESERVE YOUR SELF AS WELLLLLLLL
@@delta_worried_jupiter110 Thank you for your concern and your kind comments, Delta--I don't really know how to respond to that so, sorry if this is a little awkward...
Seriously don't press your self to reply you don't have to,I just like giving support to people,I'm thankful that you read my comment and that's enough for me ^^
I always know when people are bad. I don’t know why but I do and it’s always right
"Is there an inner voice?"
*_Gurl I have twenty-three, who you wanna talk to?_*
Shinzō Rhonda please
@@randomram3n i can list them if you want.
Can you list them for me ? I named all mine - there's about 123546597975053748468475364775867565664758484477484+ for me !
Hey, can I talk to the one that constantly says “You are nothing, give up”? Or do you not have that one yet?
@@theletterh6011 they're more like separate souls, like a whole community in a single embodiment.
After being in an abusive relationship and having to deal with my recovery. My gut feelings have gotten so strong, it becomes very physical. My body shakes or I become anxious.
"I'm making a mistake"
I felt that when i let someone kiss me, knowing that person didn't loved me that way. I feel like if i hadn't ignored that gut feeling at the moment... now i wouldn't be so scared of love.
Does anyone also have that one feeling where you just know that you forgot something?
For example, I left my house and on I'm my way to school and suddenly i get this feeling where i feel like I've forgotten something at home
And then minutes later, when I arrive at school I realize that I flippin forgot my homeworkkk
Please excuse my bwad engrish
Yeah, most of the time I feel that gut feeling.And it works really.
Imong Mader are you making fun of commenters on TH-cam who actually are bad at English? -.-
YES!!! In the car I’m like “hmm maybe it’s just a feeling. don’t think I forgot anything”
*arrives at school*
*2 min later*
“Oh yeah I forgot my socks for PDHPE”
If that feeling hits me, im double checking
That's really normal and frustrating. It happens almost every day.
I needed this four days ago, Everyone always follow your gut instinct if something feels fishy it is fishy and dont proceed further especially over purchases.
My gut always has my back... At a younger age, I used to doubt about it constantly. As I got older, I learn to ALWAYS trust my gut about a person, a situation etc. Especially about other people, I was always right. Of course, that was something that took time to realize.
an alternative title for this video: 7 Gut Instincts That Further Confuse Trauma Survivors And Overanalytical People With Trust Issues
Overanalytical people with trust issues lol dat one got me
Axel K. Got me too lol I’m starting to feel like less and less depressed because I was starting to get to know myself more... depressed people are just misunderstood people... dayum
@Ace Six I wouldn’t say “misunderstood”, necessarily. It’s more of “not a full knowledge on how to treat/speak to this person because I don’t want to make them sad/offended”. However, I’m too tired to elaborate, plus, I don’t want this to turn into an argument.
Love & Light well... now that you put it that way lol not bad. It’s just me 😂 I’m tired too... how’s it going?
@Ace Six
Oh,
Yeah, I eventually got to sleep that day, I think it was close to midnight though.
I’m a partial insomniac, so sometimes I stay up later than others. And when you’re an insomniac, it gets to a certain point in the night where you’re in that daydream phase. You know? The one where you *feel* and *think* you’re tired, but your brain’s like, “Lol, nope! Not today!”. When I’m in that phase, it’s like I get high off of tiredness. It becomes difficult for me to type, because my arms/fingers are flimsy from exhaustion. So, think of that reply as me trying to at least *seem* sober.
I appreciate that there were gut feelings about positive things in here, too. Too often have I seen and heard them be about something bad, so I almost forgot that there could be some good to come out of it. Gave me a smile 😊
Me: I’m going to do x thing
My gut: No, you’re making a mistake!
Me: Okay, I’m not doing x thing anymore
My gut: No, you’re making a mistake!
same-tho
When I went into his apartment, i had like a big this-is-going-to-be-bad gut feeling. I was 100% sure that I had to go back. I should've gotten out of his apartment, and never looked back.
But I stayed. Got high off things I've never tried before. Drank. Lost my virginity.
I still had a bad feeling after that, but I told myself I was just being crazy.
The day after, I went to school, and told my teacher (specialized in behavioral problems) what had happened.
She knew what his name was. She knew who he was. Even though I didn't even tell her his name.
The school knew who he was, since he had had problems with the police and students of this school before.
He was a pimp. The place where I met him, was the place where he recruited young teens to be prostitutes. Lmao fuck McDonald's.
He was there the first time I got drunk, and the first time I got high.
He was always there.
And I didn't follow my gut feeling, and I really should've. I don't know if it was just me being dumb, or being naive. But I lost my virginity to a pimp when I was 15 years old.
Follow your gut feeling, people! And don't sleep with people you met at McDonald's. Speaking from experience.
Fuck man... That's kinda tragic
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Im so glad you didn't get forced into a far worse situation these types get girls addicted and use them like slaves. Thank you for sharing your story in hopes more young woman are saved from the dark dangers out there. God bless you and continue to listen to your instincts!
geez
bless you dud...
i hope you're doing well💝
You realised these things... It matters the most for your future... Have a nice life ahead👍🏼
Cuz you didn't follow your gut crap happened I had something like this happen to me as well and I've never been the same. I know that took alot to post for you. I hope you listen know to your gut. I know that your story can save other kids from having that happen to them you should advocate around the area (if you still live there) to kids
Gut instict that you should not ignore:
He/She doesn't really like you. It's fake.
Could you elaborate?
Butter Scotch honestly idk why I said this but... To make this short, if you're friends with someone, don't trust them wholly. Even if they're your best friends. There's a high chance that they don't really like you and they're just going with the flow.
starZ I agree
Can't tell if my anxiety's saying it, or if it's that yellow nigga wavin his arms in the video-either way, if I listened to it I wouldn't have any friends
@@ziana9513 I had a big revealing one month ago about my 'friend'. Trusted her fully...discovered she was a nasty manipulator who would send our chats around to talk s*** about me. That has been my mantra since then ...never trust anyone else fully
When I was in sixth grade, I met two girls. Let's call them Carla and Katie. Carla seemed nice to me, intelligent, responsible and calm. She was very close with Katie. I befriended both of them but I thought something was off with Katie. I felt uncomfortable around her and I had a feeling she wasn't any good. I ignored that feeling telling myself it probably was nothing.
Skip to first year in highschool, Katie and Carla started arguing more and more. Carla told me Katie was too possessive and she started shouting at her in the library in front of her cousin because she was taking too much time talking with her cousin. She also told she tried emotionally sabotaging her saying things like "if you go with her (me) I'll get mad and sad" or "why are you always spending time with her (me)? You always leave me alone" it got so bad that Katie told her mother a twisted version of what actually happened and her mother called Carla's parents. They started shouting through the phone and arguing. Katie was convinced that it was my fault that Carla didn't want to spend time with her and that I was telling her to stop being her friend. They eventually stopped being friends and Carla went with me.
One day during exchange program, we were on a trip. Carla wasn't there because she didn't participate and I didn't know anybody there so I was the lone kid. Katie took advantage of this and with 2 of her "friends" she started taking photos of me without me knowing. One in particular showed a bad angle of me and she started laughing in front of my f*cking face. She made stikers with the photos she took and sent them to almost all her contacts and even made a group chat solely for insulting me. Though none of the participants were interested and were forced by her. She also got the combination of my locker and stole the paints I used in my arts class. At first I thought I lost them or forgot them somewhere. And the teacher told me someone forgot their paints and gave them to me. When class ended, I left the paints in my locker and went home. The next day, they were gone. Idk if it was actually Katie but it was really probable since she knew the password. I told the teacher and she said she would change it, but she didn't. Fortunately, Katie knew that I knew she was the one that opened my locker and she stopped.
Fast forward a year, I've moved on idc about her anymore, Carla and I met a new friend who was a wonderful person etc. You might think Katie was already over it, but no she wasn't. She tried everything to get us expelled and when that didn't work, she started spreading rumors about us. People refused to interact with Carla and I but time went on I they eventually discovered the truth.
I am still in the same class as her, and tbh idrc, I've gotten over it (Carla still hasn't) I've decided that my time is worth more than that and focused on my studies. Katie still gives us dirty looks in class (well, before the lockdown happened) but I just treat her like thin air.
Sorry for the long comment but it feels refreshing to talk about it. If you've made it here, congrats!
Katie seems so toxic my whole body gets tense 🙄
Uve done well it’s not always easy. I feel like Karla hasn’t gotten over it bc they’ve been in a long friendship so it is hard. But with time I hope she can heal.
Drop Katie's dets, ima hex a bitch
well Katie’s a bish
I remember I too used to have a very manipulative bitchy friend back in 8th grade. What a nightmare. Just being around her was unpleasant. Thankfully we got put in different classes and I never had to hear from her again.
Some years ago, My gut feeling almost saved me from getting in trouble. I just felt that something's not right and for some reason I paid attention to it and acted upon! I like this channel! Good going! Psychology needs a spread! Thank you!
nobody:
my anxiety: that car is gonna hit u and u know it
I swear ! 😂
Aaaagghh yeess I hate ITT
💀💀
Me in 4th grade: *crosses road slowly to try and get drivers mad^
Me now (8th grade): *runs across road because im scared ill get run over*
My gut feeling told me "this relationship is not gonna last long", I still went with him, he "promising" to prevent that or at least make the time joyful.
During those months I got so many times the feeling, that I was not valued, something is off, this is not right. I couldn't explain where it was coming from, we had a good time. Still I felt like that.
7 months later he left me, but we got back together.
The feeling still continued, I tried even more to ignore it.
After 11 months he left me again, telling me he just cannot value me and many more things, like lies etc. Things I knew he was doing, intentions which he tried to make up, although I understood them correctly since the beginning. I was questioning myself if I am sane or even too stupid to understand what he meant.
I could see through him, I knew when something was off and he didn't wanted to tell me. I felt he wanted something different, so I worked on me, tried hard to please him. For nothing.
It wouldn't even have needed the "gut" feeling. He told me in the beginning that, if I cannot give him what he wants, he will get it somewhere esle. HUGE red flag. To say something so respectless, arrogant..
In the end I would have been better not entering the relationship, but this also taught me the lesson to always listen to my inner voice and most imprtantly I am developing now, being self aware, where it felt like I was stuck before. So I just can look back and say this kick in my butt was needed.
I had the exact same feeling with my ex. He said he loved me and wanted to marry me, but something inside me told me that something wasn't right. My parents were worried about our relationship, they thought he was hiding something. One day, I told him I wasn't sure if I loved him, but that I still really cared about him. He got upset and dumped me right there. I found out he got over the relationship in a day.
Oh sweetie. I did the sane thing.
You can't be self aware without an evolved brain.
Just got out of a relationship with an ex where I had the exact same issue. I regret not listening to myself as she manipulated and hurt me pretty badly. Even at the start of our relationship she wanted a yes or No answer out of me on whether or not I was going to date her (not even get to know her first) big red flag. Next time I’m going to listen to myself and choose someone better next time. Sometimes being alone but happy is better than in love and hurt.
@@livewirecowley When they ask questions like that, for me, it seems that there is someone else in the picture and they are trying to be sure.
My gut feeling caused me to tell my mom “I don’t feel good” right before I passed out from dehydration and heat while inside a greenhouse
Not that it made a difference because she looked confused as I passed out
Bepee Likes Pi you ok?
Super Sana yee it was just that one day lol
Glad to hear
Same lol when I was at the doctor’s doing bloodwork, I told her I was gonna faint and she was like nahhh and then I went down under then she started to get worried. I was still conscious but I was unconscious at the same time. It was like I can hear everything around me but I couldn’t move
For anyone this may help: I know there’s probably way too many comments on here you might not even read this, but I want to tell you I went through depression last summer. I had just gone through a breakup with a guy that meant a lot to me and the death of my grandpa and deciding not to pursue the degree I was on the path for 3 years of getting, I was feeling that worthless no point feeling. And I understand it might not have to be dramatic events that happen to cause this thinking, some times it just happens. But what I do know is that I took some time to not care what I “thought” was making me happy. I didn’t care anymore because I was desperate to feel something again and so at this point I really wanted to try to figure out what made me happy whether it be the dumbest thing and the littlest things I still tried them because I have no idea whether or not it would make me happy. I went on TH-cam and just started looking up random things and when I found a girl on TH-cam who truly inspired me because she was getting a degree in something that sounded very exciting when she explained it because it was all things that I could potentially be good at, it made me see a light. It wasn’t all at once it was slow but the happy feelings eventually came back and the nothingness subsided day by day more and more. And with that I say, don’t give up. Never give up on hope, because the minute you do is when you shut your brain off to possibilities you didn’t know could work for you. :) I hope this helps. Have a nice day! Take a walk, smile, list things you’re truly grateful for and just get some perspective, because it can always be worse, but it doesn’t have to be 😊
This is kinda relatable, I was 2 years in on getting a degree when my dad passed during the 2nd year, and my mom was struggling with bills so I picked up a job and took a break from school for a while and since the company went bankrupt at the end of that year I've been going job to job barely getting 10 h/r or low hours, mom's working 40 hours a week making 8 bucks and I can't find her a solid job yet cause her English needs work and my relatives from my dad's side have something against my mom and by proxy me so they don't help us get on our feet either so I've been trying to grow something online like an art page and working on my skills with digital art, currently i only have my phone to work with since i cant get a new computer or tablet but whatever ill use this for the meantime i can start doing commissions and make some dough from that maybe build a portfolio to approach some companies with in the future, wish me luck
DESTRAKON DESTRAKON I do wish you all the luck! And idk where you are but if you’re in the US I know there’s food banks and shelters and charities that are willing to help. Especially right now there’s a lot of ways to get some help. I would start googling in your area. Just so y’all don’t have to worry about those bare minimum things and whatever money you do get you can save for bills, shelter, etc. There’s amazing people in this world sometimes you just have to find them. And I know there’s a lot of churches that would be willing to help if you let them know your situation and stuff. Just have to google and see what’s near you ❤️ best of luck with every single thing you’re going through but you’ve made it this far and you’re still kicking ass so I think you’ll do great ❤️
@@maysen77 thats cool of you to say, thanks
I’m suffering depression right now. I started suffering depression last year. I may sometimes feel happy around those that I cherish, but those feelings don’t really last longs. What makes it worse is that there is like more than a million insects in this world right? Well, I have entomophobia, the fear of insects. I don’t self-harm myself though, but I feel as if I’m a disappointment to this world and don’t deserve to live. I can’t explain this situation to my family as they won’t understand, as they are Vietnamese. I can’t explain it in Vietnamese. I’m not abused. It’s just one of my cousin’s friends kept teased me last year when I was in Year 5 continuously about shipping me with someone I hate. I guess that made me go in depression. I’m really emotional, so I can’t contain my feelings. I get angry and tears start falling rapidly. I can’t help being emotional. Now it’s worse because I can’t see my friends and loved ones, making me more in depression.
I like her voice
So clear
So transparent
“I am making a mistake.” - Wish i have watched this one year ago, i already made a mistake i wish i didn’t. Worth remembering it for the rest of my life.
Sometimes its good to make mistakes. And most likely you will never ever make that mistake again :-)
Same
Me catching feelings for anyone: “I’m in danger”
It's important to know that some of our "gut feelings" tend to keep us in a vicious cycle. For example, I often felt fear for no reason and as if things are going to go bad, but it was just my anxiety stopping me from doing something new. Most of the time, that thing ends up being a good thing and not a thing to fear. Also, there's the fear of standing up for yourself. If you're afraid of being rejected, you forget that the people that reject you are the people who are bad for you, and the people who understand your statement are the people that will have a positive impact in your life.
I guess make sure that you're able to reason that gut feeling, to see whether you should follow it or not.
Well said
I can relate to this. A lot of people in my grade always seem so bubbly and happy most of the time. But a lot of stuff told me that deep down, they were the opposite. One of my biggest regrets to this day is that I never tried to help any of them
Don't feel bad. They train lifeguards for a reason - drowning people can take their rescuers down too.
I’ve had an ex so badly gaslight me I don’t know when to trust my gut feelings, but before the gaslighting I was always so intuitive and even my ex admitted that.
It could be the trauma that's clouding your intuition. Give yourself some time. May you heal from it all and have even better intuition :)
Sounds like he was a predator type.
@@vineetha6942 great reply. You sound very mature. I like that. I'd like to learn more.
Remember WHO you are. Always. That INTUITIVE person. Life saving books by and interviews of GAVIN DE BECKER has saved many Lives and sanity.
GIFT OF FEAR
FEAR LESS
BEAUTY BITES BEAST -AWAKENING THE WARRIOR WITHIN
@@vineetha6942 that's very nice of you. Thank you
I ignore mine most of the times I always regreat it and still dont learn the lesson. Last time was during holidays last december prior to my Bday and I got family visit I was to excited for them and I just feet I wanted to quite my job that it was enough and it was time but how I'm going to do that in this time? I really suffer working leaving my family (I did have some time off) working graveyards shift in those occassions is even harder. January 2th this year they just fired me I should had follow my inner voice but God is incredible because in January 4th I receive a work opportunity and I was even able to keep working during this pandemic times. If someone took the time to read this I hope you are happy knowing somebody loves you and you deserve everything 🤗 and please listen to your 6th sense it feels horrible the regreat for not listening to yourself!!
I took the time to read it. Thanks for sharing, and you are so loved too :D
@@edina4499 thank u beautiful have a great day! :D
(TW: mention of sexual assault) I ignored my gut instinct telling me not to see someone and got sexually assaulted by him when I ignored it
Yep
Are you ok now? I’m so sorry. You’re really strong ❤️
Yes, this is very easy to do. I have been so so so close. I feel like I been saved many times by cheer luck or on very last minute my gut-instinct has activated. But it's been very last minute and it could have gone both ways! Extremely difficult to trust your gut instinct with men, because it seems that half of the time you should be running.
He chose to assault you. He could have stayed in the creep zone giving off bad vibes but he decided to violate you. It's not your fault for thinking better of people.
Same here.
4) I'm unwell.
I've felt this way since age 12 but my family ignored it and told me I was being soft or it was growing pains. Was also told I need to get over it and stop letting it take over my life as I'd never keep a job or I'd fail my courses by staying home so much.
I lost an ovary to a cyst, failed a course, lost my job to chronic pains, got warnings before at previous jobs, failed other courses.
Turns out I have endometriosis and PCOS. Finally diagnosed at age 31. Now I can freaking manage them.
May universe give you strength ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️... although you are damn strong already yet i wish you to be always powerful and strong 💖💖💖💖