I'm an NRA certified crime prevention instructor. One tip I want to share with you guys is too never keep your house key attached to your car keys. If you ever are forced to give up your car to an armed assailant, they will then have access NOT only to your address information in your glove box but they will now also have access to your house. 😳 Keep your house keys and your car keys separate.
Agreed. A car I bought about 10 years ago does not automatically lock when the key is put in the ignition. I had to train myself to learn to click the lock closed and then the click lock for the seatbelt . TWO CLICKS before I step on the accelerator:)
Thank you for this video. We live in a very safe area (20 years no true crimes, until recently). One day after work, I went to Home Depot to purchase and have wood cut for a project. It was late November when it got dark quickly. It was light when I arrived and expected to be in and out but the guy cutting wood was on dinner break and since I was already there, just walked around the store and talking to people until he returned, killing over an hour. I finally got my wood cut and was walking into what was now a dark parking lot and was close to closing time so few people and cars in the parking lot. I was awkwardly carrying my good sized piece of wood to my car when I saw a man in front of my car hiding beside a tree with a black hoodie on with the drawstring tightly around his face to where only his eyes were showing. He looked right at me with that look like he was going to rob me or worse and I felt such a feeling of dread. Then out of nowhere, a nice man who was also walking to his car asked if I needed help with the wood and the guy in the hoodie immediately walked away. I felt this was my guardian angel! it makes me sick to my stomach to think of what could have happened in this dark parking lot had that other nice man not shown up, as it was still light outside when I arrived. How quickly situations can change
@@AnneMolina-c8c there are so many things, but from your story is important to be aware of your surroundings even if your hands are tie. I think when I go to the store, I need to analyze what my weaknesses are if I were going to the store by myself, even though I wanted to go with someone and there was no one available and I needed to get something done, then I had no choice but to do it, but if I had a choice, maybe change the day so there were delays it was still not turned dark. This is safer when you’re able to see better and that is when it is not dark out. Also, if you can bring someone to go with you in the afternoon because you have to prepare that there might be a delay causing you to wait longer and that means you might have to deal with darkness when you leave the store. They say you have a person come with you, but this person is not as strong. You can have this person be the lookout person one person in the store getting the supplies of stuff and one percent outside and you can communicate with yourself and like when you’re about to walk out, let the person know I’m about to walk out. Can you go out and do your thing? The lookout person can be outside and if he sees someone lurking about suspiciously, he can contact you by cell to let you know do not go out to the parking lot. You can stay inside and then the lookout person can come back in and pull up. You can flack down a security guard or someone who works at the store to walk you to the car. This is a good idea because if you were walking to the car carrying something heavy and you see a bad guy you’re not gonna turn around and walk back to the store because then he would be looking at your back and he could attack you from behind. That’s why it’s important to have a lookout person. The person can be near the store and it’s important that you park near the store so that the lookout person can easily see the vehicle from all sides. Generally is not a good idea to park near a tree because people can hide behind or against the tree as if it’s the most natural thing while they’re waiting for you to get out of the store. Also, if you realize that you park pretty far and you are not able to see your car fully in the dark or whether you can’t see your car from the entrance of the store then before you leave the store, ask someone to walk you to your car especially when you come out and you see that that is dark. Do not leave the store fax someone down and if they’re too busy is better for you to wait. Trust your instinct if you send something is not right that day or you had a lot of bad things happened to you that day then just be on the safe side and just wait sometimes waiting or being patient and doing something different like that could end up saving your life.
I used this tactics subconsciously when i lived in Ukraine and it saved my life at least a dozen times! I start using the same alertness and awareness here in US only for the last couple of years. What a difference these 3 years has done to US citizen’s safety
Tip: if you are at a grocery store, you can ask a bagger to help load your car. Great for women shopping alone. Don’t be afraid to ask security for help at other stores either.
I know! People who do this are so annoying, especially when they sit there and blare their headlights into your car and your face without caring or realizing that they're rude.
This lowers the chances of threats, but criminals do not abide by nor necessarily know or care about neighborhood boundaries. They bring the threat, we bring awareness and skills to stay safe.
@@Krispy1011 I agree 1000%. It is better to go to a "safer" area, no doubt. Just don't let that allow you to become complacent and lower your awareness completely, or at all.
One of the biggest problems inherent in all people is denial. People tend to deny that there is a problem and that denial buys precious seconds for their assailant.
Another video called it "normalcy bias" - we assume everything is always fine and normal, so even when something is out of place or someone does something weird that could be a threat, we just make it fit the narrative that it's OK.
For most people I wouldn't call it denial... I would call it "lack of situational awareness". Spec Forces all teach a version of "360 degree awareness at all times"... when living our everyday lives, it is so easy to forget danger can be present anywhere. This vid is a good reminder, for me and my wife. Who knew 7+% of all violent crime happens in parking lots?
@@billderinbaja3883 I’m talking about actual denial that a threat is actually happening. A lot of people, even those who are trained, will automatically tell themselves that something bad just isn’t happening to them. This denial of reality happens because they don’t want to deal with the stress involved with a fight or flight response. Some people snap out of it right away and act accordingly while others seize up for the duration of an assault.
There's something to be said for backing into your parking space. When you're backing in, you are automatically aware of the space around you, and you can leave in a hurry if necessary. When you're leaving, you can create space quickly.
If i have multiple parking spots to choose from i always choose to park by small cars when possible. When i developed that habit years ago, suvs and vans were usually the only vehicles that you couldn't see into due to dark tint on the back windows but now most vehicles are hard to see into. Still cars are usually easier to see through and I try to avoid any vehicles that people could be concealed in because I've heard too many stories of people being pulled into a van and being kidnapped, etc. I also avoid parking by the vans, suvs, and large trucks because that blocks my view around me to one side as well as the view of other people from that side who might help if I were to be in a bad situation. If i have to park by vehicles I can't see in, I've got everything together before i unlock my door, no pausing to pick up my purse, etc. and I quickly move to an open area. And yes like he said on the video, I've often parked farther out in the parking lot so I could have a clear view around me. When im leaving, if in a car I check the backseat before getting in and if I'm in the truck i check the bed of the truck as I'm walking up to it. I live alone and have absolutely no desire to take someone home with me.
@@flyingthesails6801Not afraid, just cautiously aware of my surroundings. From experience ( not in a parking lot) i can say you definitely don't want to let someone catch you off guard. If being observant of your surroundings can help you avoid a potential bad situation, why would you not be?
This is an excellent video. I’ve been teaching self-defense for over 45 years. My number one complaint is people who refuse to put their cell phone away when they walk to their car in a parking lot !
I once seen a TH-cam video where a young guy was walking on a public sidewalk with his eyes locked onto his phone...then...literally a actual 🐻 bear appeared right in front of him! He finally looked up and high tailed to safety lol! I bet he will never forget that...
@@Redeemed-w3g I've seen TH-cam videos of people so focused on their phones as they are walking in public, walk off train platforms and fall onto the tracks, walk and fall into uncovered manhole covers, walk and fall into public fountains....
Part of that I agree with and part I don’t. I feel more secure with my cell phone in my hand in case I need to dial 911 quickly, especially because I’m not the most coordinated and trying to quickly dig through my purse to get it. I’m not on it while walking, but I like to have it in my hand and available in case I need it right away
With the 9 1/2 years stationed in Germany I learned awareness, and my Father (Vet) reminded to be aware of my surroundings. As a child I grew up when we didn’t lock our doors, had gun racks in our trucks, prayed to the national anthem in school, and we could speak our minds without being thrown into jail for it. We live in different times now, and after 43 years in the Air Force I learned there is different layers of TRUST, even from co-workers and supervisors. So I try to be self-aware around me without making a big deal of by body language.
I want to add a few more important things: 1) ALWAYS look UNDERNEATH your car at a parking lot before getting in. Back in the 80's, there were women having their ankles attacked (won't go into details here) by someone hiding under their car, making them vulnerable for other criminal activity. 2) ALWAYS have your car keys out and ready BEFORE you leave the store so that you're not vulnerable standing outside at the car door to get your keys. 3) ALWAYS keep your car door locked until IMMEDIATELY getting OUT & when you get INTO your car. After briefly scanning behind your seat for an un-welcomed passenger, it should be the first thing you do when you get in.
I'm a 72 year old woman and have never carried a purse. I make sure I wear pants with front pockets large enough to carry just one credit card and piece of ID which I keep in a silicone sleeve that can't slip out of my pocket.
All of this makes sense, but it’s precisely why summers are SO inconvenient…. anything kept in a car or in the trunk of a car is going to get melted or at least affected by the heat if it can’t be taken into the store with you air conditioned. Whether that’s sunscreen, lipstick, medication, whatever - too much for pockets!
@@bestiefswlady5251 I live in Hawaii...I have a permanent cooler in my back seat, and I grab an ice pack and put it in there every time I drive anywhere. Even if I'm not anticipating doing any shopping, I put the ice pack in when I get in the car. So it's always ready in case I DO pick up something perishable.
I walked around a corner a car pulled up a guy jumped out grabbed me around my arms threw me in the car the driver took off & I didn't even have a chance to scream until I was already in the car. It happened in SECONDS. Maybe 2? 3? No one saw anything & no one heard me. There were 4 of them. I'm just grateful to be alive to tell the story. That was 51 years ago, & still today I don't know what I could have done to prevent it. I was 14, about 81lbs & less than 5' tall. I didn't have a chance. So, this is all good, but sometimes things happen you just can't do a damn thing about. If I would have kicked up, I would have died that night. I survived. But I couldn't have stopped it.
Survival!?!?!,,, ha,ha,ha,,,damn!! Do live in the Brazilian rain forest or what?,,,, hypervigilance!?!?,,,,,,, you must have the appearance of a " sheep " ......a deer is concerned with being eaten by other animals,,,,,,a lion isnt.....
Great advice. Look low and then high. I used to work as armed security in public and some of my duties required parking structures. I used to look for dirty cars that were not parked between the lines properly like they were hastily parked there and abandoned. ( high probability stolen). Also, were cars that were parked away from the other vehicles...(High probability of illict activities), people just hanging around..usually drug activity But, my advice is park on lowest level next to where the cars are parked...safest. Make sure to scan the area fo these telltale signs before you park some where. Don't park in obscure or lonely places, or where anyone seems to be hanging out. And if people are hiding, they are usually hiding down low. I would always start by looking low, I will be guaranteed no matter HOW they are hiding, I will ALWAYS be able to see at least their shoes or at most their whole body.
@@cybersuperior2077 “The paranoid survive” is a phrase I once heard. The police in general are trained to “expect the worst and hope for the best.” That way, you will not be overwhelmed. That advice came from CPD (Chicago).
@@cybersuperior2077Stop it with these dum azz comments bro. His info might save someone’s life. I don’t understand people like you, grow up, touch grass, and live and learn, it might happen to you..
@@DG-ie5ip I loved my job and helped a lot of people. I was good at it, and learned to be a people person. I was very sorry to retire, that was 15 years ago. I feel I did a lot of good for a lot of people. Now, I don't get that chance. And it does hurt a little;.
Also be mindful of the myriad of scams to distract you and don't fall for it. Notes on windshields, zipties on door handles, a shopping cart pushed up against your car, someone talking to you to distract you, etc. Stay focused and not distracted. If there's a note on your car or something drive away and look at it somewhere safer.
Good except I want to add a few more important things: 1) ALWAYS look UNDERNEATH your car at a parking lot before getting in. Back in the 80's, there were women having their ankles attacked (won't go into details here) by someone hiding under their car, making them vulnerable for other criminal activity. 2) ALWAYS have your car keys out and ready BEFORE you leave the store so that you're not vulnerable standing outside at the car door to get your keys. 3) ALWAYS keep your car door locked until IMMEDIATELY getting OUT & when you get INTO your car. After briefly scanning behind your seat for an un-welcomed passenger, it should be the first thing you do when you get in.
I do that too because of exactly the incidents you mentioned. I'm NEVER on my cell when walking into or out of the store, and I have my keys pointed outward between my fingers, so I can jab at the eyes if I have to.
@@DeafEcho27 The point is to be aware, alert, and vigilant of your entire environment and surroundings, especially when in vulnerable situations as your life could be at stake.
@@truthseeker3031 I think his point is that you would be doing the opposite of those things by crouching low to the ground to look under your car. You won't be able to keep your head up, quite literally, to be aware of your surroundings if you do that.
@@jamesshives5679 You don't need to "crouch low to the ground to look under your car". People can stand at a distance soon before they reach the car and slightly bend to look underneath. I do it all of the time WITHOUT "bending low to the ground". It is effective.
@@thisisme3238 when you leave the store, you can always ask a security person to go with you to your car. You can always make up an excuse like oh there’s a weird guy that was hovering around your car when you left it and tell them that you just want to, be on the safe side.
This is some excellent info. I own an expensive Beemer and worry about being carjacked when I stop. Especially getting out in parking lots. I do the 5 yard check looking for suspicious folks approaching me. I know to use the car as both a barrier and a weapon. If you are a female remember one other important point, always run towards - people. Do not act as depicted in movies and tv series and run into forests, alleys, or into dark areas or open spaces where few people can be found. Those who assault hate attacking where there are groups. Even if you see only one other person, run towards them and scream for help.
Common sense tips without a lot of hype and good tips to AVOID trouble. When at all possible AVOID confrontation. NEVER NEVER underestimate a person who wants to cause trouble.
I change up my routines and have two different gym memberships. Sometimes I go in the evening or middle of the night, sometimes in the morning. I'm not sure what information the desk people have, but I'm pretty sure it at least gives out your phone/address/ maybe how many times you've been that week . Kind of creepy. If they are a "bad guy " they could easily phone a friend and tell them "hey xyz lady is here at the gym she's not home".
@@gigi9301 One of my neighbors has to me, a noticeable routine. She goes for a walk with her dog and a small child around the same time every day. Every time I see her, I think if l’ve noticed this routine, I wonder who else has!
@@cherylT321 Yes, and you're just a normal person. Imagine if you were a bad guy and it was your "career" to look for these things and take advantage. Heck, if you try and think like a "bad guy" might, it's pretty scary.
Some people think I'm too paranoid. I'm always looking around. So the one day when I exited my car to go into the store, I did notice the group of people that look like we're doing drugs about 50 ft away but they were too busy to give me mind... So I exited my car and then I hear a male voice behind me saying excuse me ma'am... I turn and see him and before he could get two words out of his mouth to ask me for money I turn in Sprint into the door. I didn't care about offending him because I didn't know his intent. I think he really was just a panhandler because he had sort of a look of shock on his face and screamed I'm so sorry!
Yes. A beloved co-worker walking to her car at night in a parking ramp, in a shopping center - kidnapped, thrown in the trunk of a car, driven to a deserted area, raped, throat slit - murdered. You never think it is going to happen to you. This was decades ago. It still haunts me - wondering what went through her mind during the horrific ordeal. I can just imagine what her family has gone through all of these years. I’m getting sick thinking about it.
I always insisted that we all walk out together, and make sure everyone's engine starts. No Clerk Left Behind. On the nights when I was working alone (!) I hired the neighbor who lived above the shop to walk me to my car.
@whereisyourhumanity7557: That is a very good strategy. Parking ramps these days scare me so I avoid them. I even changed doctors to avoid having to park in a ramp. Stay safe.
I live in the Los Angeles area, can't carry but take pepper spray, when I see a dude just walking around in a hoody on a hot day I know he's up to no good, I would leave or park somewhere else, if they are walking behind me I always think of a way out or what I can use to defend myself, (shopping cart, belt, pen or even my cell phone) I hate having to live this way but that is our new way of living or staying alive.
Being a woman I’ve been in several scary situations. I’ve always been aware in parking lots especially. I know !00% I’ve thwarted off a robbery, carjacking or kidnapping. My scariest moment was when I noticed 2 extremely sketchy guys in a store. I kept an eye on them because I didn’t want to end up in the parking lot with them. I saw them leave the store and proceeded to check out. Before I go to leave the store I looked to see where they were. I saw them walking to the left about 25 yds. I was parked to the right, so I thought perfect it’s safe to go. Well the second I walked out they immediately turned and started following me. I began walking like a speed walker and accepted the fact I was probably going to be a victim. As they closed in on me I was almost to my car when this suv pulled up and parked directly in front of me. I looked directly at the 2 guys and in a strong tone said, what do you want!? They looked at the suv driver and then each other and turned around and walked away. I was shaking for hours. I believe the person in the suv was a perfect witness that made these guys change their minds. I thought I did everything right but was given a really tricky scenario. I guess I should’ve waited till they were completely gone.
As a founding member of AWG (number 10), I got a chill up my spine when you mentioned 5 & 25. That was one of our earliest efforts in Iraq, getting that ingrained in the brains of everyone that went outside the wire. Thanks for the flashback!
Another thing that I will add is that if a potential attacker senses that you are scared this will make him even more confident that you are weak and an easy target. These thoughts are no substitute for common sense, but is something to keep in mind.
Biggest issue is people tend to not want to appear impolite or even imply racist and this can delay solid tactical choices. Predators count on you being indecisive or unaware. Not paranoid but realistic and willing to assess and act faster regardless of social pressures and “appearances” is the only way to stay truly safe.
@@minxella12 A pretty and cleanly dressed girl once approached me in a parking lot and calling herself stupid for running her car out of gas and asked me if I could give her a few dollars. She was standing next to a parked car she was implying was hers. I told her to get in her car and follow me across the street to the gas station and I would fill up her tank for her. She left without getting into the car she was pretending was hers and gave some hand signals to a guy that drove up. She got in the car and drove off with him. I briefly followed them from afar and their first stop was a drive through McDonalds and then onto another parking lot. I broke it off from there and continued on with my day. So what I am saying is, they don't necessarily have to look _menacing._
@@im1who84u That was more of a con game, people tend to come off a bit nicer. Just a thought you have to beware of that as well as she could have lured you to a place where she wasn't alone if you know what I mean. I'm talking about outright predators that are going to attack for whatever reason. Con artists usually back off if you tell them ugh, ugh.
@@minxella12 I figured it was a con and that's why I told her to follow me to the gas station right across the street and I would fill up her tank. I didn't really expect her to do it, and she didn't. Her and her _boyfriend_ were just hustling money and he put her out there dressed up real nice, clean, looking pretty, and implying that she was just a stupid girl that had ran her car out of gas. I saw her out there hustling guys when I went in the store (Home Depot) and she was still out there when I came back out. So I was already wise to her and was toying with her.
For those who have a red panic button on their vehicle remote, can buy you time by activating your car alarm with a 3 second hold on the red button. They usually have a pretty long range from your vehicle. This can also be used for an intruder breaking in your home activating tour car alarm. Check out the range, it's longer than you think.
Thank you for this excellent video! As a private pilot, the importance of situational awareness was drilled into me in my flight training. Appreciate your reminder to use it everywhere.
I have made it a habit to carry my purchases in my left hand ( I'm right handed dominant) so my gun hand is kept free whenever possible and if need be I push a grocery cart the same way and it can be used to keep distance between you and your attacker for at least for a few seconds, pushing the panick button on your key fob will often be enough to deter an assualt. I have installed a remotely operated air horn installed in my vehicles lol you would be surprise how efficiently a air horn changes peoples mind when used responsibly.
I get front row, handicap parking. I also carry a three pound, solid aluminum cane. I pop the trunk from the building, and walk with the key in my clenched hand, pointing out past my pinky. Everything I buy always goes in the trunk, and every time I turn toward the shopping cart, I'm looking around, and over my shoulder, noticing where everyone is. If there was ever an issue with multiple assailants, I can close myself in the trunk, pull a lever, push the back seat down, and have access the rest of the vehicle. At that point, unless I get shot, someone is getting run over.
@@lindah.1104 next next car I get I’m gonna make sure I have this past due little door that I can access from the trunk so I can like crawl through. I hope I’m didn’t have to go through the hole or whatever maybe pull lever and have to backseat like fall down or whatever but that’s something to consider. Thanks for sharing.
I try to carry any bags in one hand, leaving the other one free. Also, if you’re using a shopping cart, you can use that to keep an assailant away, or even use it as a defense.
I forgot to add, when you are done shopping and you get in your car to lock your doors right away. This is good practice because you may want to check your phone for messages or emails or are doing anything in your car before leaving so while you are doing this someone can go to your car and get in to rob you. Always protect yourself when you know you are being distracted. Too many blindspots when you are inside a vehicle.
@@elbandito5411 Or better yet, just leave the phone alone for a little while. Anything less than an urgency can wait until you're home and not in a transitional space. When you're at your car, get in and go.
True! My Jeep Cherokee locks doors about 1 minute after driving! Not when I get in and start the car. I did the one month habit of physically hitting the lock button when I get in. It’s a habit now. I have no idea what they engendered the car to lock a minute after driving away…dumb
Nope. No checking. I have dairy products. Get outta my dam way. Gotta get to the fridge. 😊 Nothing like a bout of food poisoning to motivate you regarding food safety.
Another tip: Modern cars seem to always automatically unlock all your car doors when you put the car in park. So as soon as I put my car in park upon arrival to a parking lot, I immediately push the lock button before continuing to scan for suspicious persons.
I kept noticing a dark complected guy in Fred Myers, Portland, OR. He had a light colored raincoat on and every time I looked up i saw him. Finally, I left the store, headed out the parking lot and yup, there he was again. I turned around and went back into the store. I was a 21 year old college student. I wish i had still called the police eventhough nothing happened. That's the only thing I would have done differently.
I have had someone follow me in Walmart, I reported them to the manager and they confirmed they're not loss prevention. They reported them to the police.
It's good to alert police even though nothing happened....the girl was smart to be alert and noticed something or someone that didn't feel right, trust your gut! It could be a real bad dude waiting for another opportunity...better safe than sorry, alerting the police or store manager will cause people to be on high alert...like the saying goes- if you see something, say something, and if it's nothing, it's okay, better safe than sorry
I had a guy pretend to be a store employee and help me carry stuff to my car. At some point I noticed what he was wearing looked like the T shirts the employees wear but wasn’t one. When we got to the car he demanded I give him a ride. It was an active parking lot so I just decided to make a scene and just started shouting “no I’m not giving you a ride” etc, until so many people were looking that he started to back off, I was able to get into the car, lock it, and back out quickly. I figured he give up for the day because after that scene the real employees had spotted what was going on.
Because so many people are herd animals. If you park your car by itself, even a distance away from a store, etc. Soon someone will come and park right, tight next to you. It never fails.
Lol...herd animals...that's funny but true in alot of cases. Yeah. I always park at the back of the lot, and sure enough someone else just has to park near me. Back of the lot parking affords me to scan the area as I slowly am walking up from the distance...yep, got my thang on me too if ever needed.
Don't forget that your car's alarm system can be activated with your key fob to attract attention. It could serve as a deterrent or even buy you an extra two to three seconds to possibly draw your weapon. Potentially reverse the element of surprise.
5 to 25 is a Damm good projection. I focus on the 5 steps , so yeah one needs to look beyond that . Criminals come in pairs . Thank You ,for the tips !!!
8:33 - all great points. I'd add that you IMMEDIATELY lock your car doors as soon as everyone is inside. Modern glass takes a lot to break, so you've bought yourself time in case someone runs up once you're inside. I agree, this isn't a hyper awareness training; it's all about building good security habits that creates a "defense in depth" strategy; layers. Most crimes are crimes of opportunity; it is everyone's job to reduce that opportunity. You don't have to be the strongest, toughest SOB out there; just don't be the slowest inattentive one. Good luck and God bless. The secondment is more than having the "right" to keep and bear arms; it's a mentality of responsibility. It is everyone's job (right) to be cognizant of their surroundings and de-escalate situations before force is necessary. The first step is practicing habits where conflicts don't happen.
Always know your location for a 911 call. If you are sitting in your vehicle make sure it's locked. Look for suspicious vehicles parked near you. Blacked out windows etc. most criminals drive cars with blackouts.
EV charging stations are a safety nightmare. It's such an easy target for criminals, your car is dead and you're sitting in it, how much more vulnerable can you get!
Situationally thats what I see every time I pass most of them. Most isolated, away from direct line of sight. No or poor overhead lighting. No attendant or even a cashier to call police. Some are even tucked into sketchy alleys because thats the spot the lot owner decided to lease out. Basically a phone keyosk that holds you and you car there with an outside tether locked on for 20 to 45 minutes.
And it's not a 3 to 5 minute gasoline pump stop ... it 30 minutes ... then a line forms .. then stuck in a line ... when EVs finally take over its gonna be a Criminal Hoodrat buffet of easy pickins FJB
Most EV owners don't pull into a charging station at 0% SoC with no ability to drive. Standard is they still have 10-30% at least left. Plenty of juice to bug out
@@drewlong3929 however if you've hooked on, then to release without damage you must exit the vehicle. That delay of thinking about that may get you. Any place where money gathers at lonely unattended places are going to be violent crime magnets eventually when homie figures it out. ATM machines were like this in the 70s. Lots of stickups and some killings. The banks had to add video security, machine reprogramming and lighting. When you get stations that look like Buc-ees or WaWa or Tisco for typical EV charging the industry will have matured.
Great tips! Just having your head up and looking around is a great deterrent on it's own. I'd advise two more steps on car re-entry... as I slide into the seat with keys in hand, hit the door locks, insert key and start engine. Now if I need to I can drive away or use my car as a weapon if I have to.
Great video. Some people mention in the comments that they carry their keys with a key sticking out between their fingers to use as a weapon. I now always carry a small pepper spray in my hand. I don't take my keys out until I'm at the door or the trunk of my car and I've looked all around me to see that it's safe. When you do your 5/25 it looks like you're only scanning about 180°. I always look 360°.
Don't carry your keys that way, sticking out as a weapon, if you have small hands. A larger hand can cover and grip your fist with the keys and that will mess up your own hand.
I went to the gas station once and when I opened the door there was a stranger right in my face. He was so close I couldn’t fully stand up and if he wanted more than pocket change I would have been in trouble.
Paranoid, constantly on edge, and always suspicious-living in fear of being robbed isn’t healthy. Please, take care of yourself and consider seeing a doctor. It’s time to find peace.
Valid post. Returned my rental car and there was a 15 car line of rentals with windows shattered at the return location in San Francisco. Same thing at the Golden Gate Bridge parking lot, only 30 minutes coming back, several windows broken in at 2pm broad day with a security officer making rounds.
@cybersuperior2077 wow, really? 🤭 Do you have a fire extinguisher in your kitchen? The chance of a kitchen fire is pretty low but we still prepare for a fire. Same thing here.
Great video. Lots of good things to practice when shopping with your car. It will probably be better not to put in the statistics and percentage part. These things happen so randomly and can happen anywhere and at any time. I would add that to look around while you are driving toward the spot you are parking at and check the cars that are close by because there can be people in them just waiting to ambush you once you are in a vulnerable position. But you are absolutely right. Don't be paranoid. Just be aware of your surroundings always.
Learned from my dad, don’t wait inside your car. Or if you have to, like if your waiting to pick up your child be aware of the comings and going’s and be super vigilant. Also have the habit of start the engine and go.
Thanks for doing this video with this Prius. So often I see carjacking prevention videos being done from inside a big a$$ truck. Everyone doesn’t own a big a$$ pickup nor wants one. To each his own, but showing how to defend yourself from different vehicles, hence different angles is very helpful.
Best thing to do is be aware of your surroundings while you are packing heat, look around and see what's happening, look at everyone in the parking lot to see any clues to deviant behavior - get in your vehicle then get the heck out of their
Thank you. Situational Awareness is key. 5 yds to 25 yds, and the 21 foot rule. Apply regular practice to make it AUTOMATIC. Avoid approaching or passing by another parked car with somebody inside. If you get too close, that person could percieve YOU as a threat.
What's sad about all of this is that some people really do need help, but some are faking it. So we never know. So then we are put into a position of not trusting anyone.
The Color Code Of Awareness…..What Color Code Are You In When Out In Public? Self-Defense Colonel “Jeff” Coopers, Color Code of Awareness, developed for Special Forces / U.S. Military but useful for everyday life for everyone and essential if you regularly and responsibly carry a concealed pistol. 1. Condition White : You are totally unaware of your surroundings and totally unprepared for even the prospect of danger. 2. Condition Yellow : You are relaxed but alert. You are not expecting trouble, but you are aware of your environment, so you would recognize a problem if it arose. 3. Condition Orange : You are aware that there seems to be a problem and your body is reacting (e.g.: Some one has picked you out and you know it.) 4. Condition Red : The problem has occurred and you are facing one or more opponents you reasonably believe might do you harm. You should be taking cover and actively performing the appropriate defensive tactics. If already under attack, you are willing to neutralize the threat. 5. Condition Black : You are in a blind state of panic where you are unable to react to the situation because you have developed neither the inner tools nor the outer skills with which to react. (e.g.: It happens, you had no raised awareness it was coming, are unprepared, unaware, untrained, and under their control and influence.) What Color Code Are You In, When Out In Public? Me, I am in Yellow and Orange.
Better Tips: Da, use your car horn to alert others or disrupt the bad guys thought process. Act like you are on your cell phone as you move through the parking lot. Bad guys want 1-on-1, not 1-on-1.5. Climb on a car. People will see you better, and the bad guy will think that you are a tough get and a car alarm might get set off too. Best tip is the stare and glare. Take off the sun glasses long enough to look at sketchy people in the eyes to let them know that you know they are sketchy.
Now I'm even more scared to leave the house, go shopping, go to church or just plain go anywhere. Yes, I believe I really am getting paranoid, seems danger lurks no matter where you go nowadays.
That’s a good start to developing your situational awareness instincts. Now go through different scenarios in your head to visualize how you would prevent dangerous situations. Think of the places you frequent. This will empower you. Practice walking straight with your head up high making sure everyone knows you are alert. Practice locking your key as soon as you get in or out of the car even if it’s just filling up gas tank. Practice practice practice and you’ll soon feel it comes naturally. It’s muscle memory. If you can find a self defence class near your home go ahead and sign up.
I grew up in South Africa. If you are not doing all these SA techniques you will be toast and quickly. This is an excellent presentation. Your not paranoid, you’re re in Conditioin yellow
I like to back into parking spaces versus pull in wherever I go. When you open the passenger door, it's harder for someone to rush right up to you. Plus, it makes driving out of a space a breeze as visibility is better.
All great advise with good practical points. While I think there is value is the view that "It's not worth it," so do not confront the evil doer, you do have to keep in mind that we are not all built the same mentally/emotionally. For certain people, this passive stance of total submission to the aggressor is not a behavior they can life after the fact. That is to say, there people who look beyond the immediate situation and consider the bigger picture, that they cannot live with memory that they coward down to criminals, especially if they allow this to happen more than once, The realization that they did not confront evil or stick up for themselves chips away the their soul, their self image, their sense of justice, an find they can more easily live with the knowledge that they stood up to evil. This is MORE important than cowering in order to simply survive--even if it means they experienced a good death doing the right thing with their soul and self respect intact. Life (including a life of wisdom) consistent more that doing whatever it takes to survive another day. Put another way, how far should you go in humiliating yourself in the face of a threat? This general idea should be taken into consideration when discussing the notion of defending ourself and/or your friends or family. Jesus said: "No greater love has a man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." and in another place in the bible, when speaking of those who were killed for their convictions, says; "They loved not their lives onto death." So what kind of person are you, compliant or defiant?
1st situational awareness tip, park somewhere else if you see an "Angel" standing in the middle of a large empty parking lot looking suspiciously at you with no one around. 🤣
Thank you for this video. I employ some of the tactics you suggest. I’m a 69 year old lady who is surrounded by the homeless in North Seattle. I’m always on high alert when I go to the stores closest to me. I’ve actually left a parking lot because someone scares me. I grudgingly say I do feel lucky because now these two stores are employing security guards. It’s grudgingly said because that is a sad state of affairs. I have had to ask for a guard to walk to my car with me when I depart and I’m not the least bit embarrassed about it. I am now following your site. Once again, thank you. 👏👏👏
Another tip is to look under your car from a distance for people or things. Look in the backseat of the car before getting in. If it’s dark, hitting the lock or unlock button will light up your car at night. Criminals are looking for weak/distracted victims. Walk to or from the car with confidence & head up. Thank you for pointing out that best defense is just being aware of threats before getting out of the car or leaving the store.
Had a situation the other day coming out of the grocery store, guy parked next to my vehicle just sitting in his car. Not sure why he was there so I rolled my shopping cart between the cars (his driver door and my passenger door) to start unloading groceries into my rear seat (rather than my car trunk) and to block him possibly exiting towards me through his driver door. No issues, he was probably waiting for someone who went in to get a few things, but just be aware of situations like that.
As a single woman I often thought nothing of walking out to my car at shopping malls and then stopping at my car door juggling my shopping bags while digging in my handbag searching for my car keys. A mall security guard patrolling the lot saw me and took the time to explain why I should have my keys out and ready before I leave the shopping mall. I've followed his advice ever since no matter where I go. I only wish I could go back in time and thank him for such valuable advice.
A very dangerous time is while inattentively loading groceries into the trunk. Many kidnap or carjack victims were facing into the back of the car and totally unaware as the perp jumps them, the van pulls up and grabs them, etc.
I live in a super rough neighborhood. hyper paranoid? well I stay hyper aware. been in a convenience store twice that were either being in the midst of a robbery just robbed. once the bad guy just ran out the door and the other was an "express" robbery. the latter being engaged by L.E. he was already being followed by the cops. saw him before I walked in. I thought he was just high "spun out". he was yelling at the clerk to turn the gas pump on. the cops stormed in right past me. he turned to face in my direction. he saw the cops. ren out to his car. at that point the police boxed him in. bashed his window open and yanked his 100 pound tweaker butt out the window. I grabbed the clerk to stop him from running out the door and ducked us behind cover/concealment. he really wanted to go see the action up close. dumb idea. in the end no shots were fired. he only had a Rambo knife and we were simply interviewed and sent on our way. we both get to go home to our loved ones. I'd rather be a hero to my kids to be in their lives as long as possible. not stopping a corner store robber. where I live, you need to be super vigilant. once I save up enough, were out this poophole! stay safe and alive guys. be the right kind of hero to your fam!
Great video Mike on situational awareness. God bless you brother, thank you for fighting for our country.✝️🙏🏻 I like that 25, 5 rule to know your surroundings, not many people think the lot is a dangerous place for crime to happen but it’s better to be safe than sorry and be aware of your surroundings!
I was in Russian military many years ago and I can tell you your video is a great lesson for everybody. I do have a weapon every day on me and I did stop a crime in USA 3 times.
Try to shop and fuel up during daytime (still things can happen but easier to visually clear). Take someone with you that could help defend. If kids present they are last to get out until you exit vehicle and visually clear area. Age appropriate training on how to react (role play). Sadly something you have to train nowadays. Don’t buy a vehicle that will stop your vehicle if someone is in front of you (sometimes you will need to use it to protect yourself). Trust your spidey sense. Pull through parking space or back into space so you are ready to boogie. Consider ordering online and do a pickup of order.
My car is an older Honda that uses a chipped key to allow regular starting. I keep the chipped key by itself in my right front pocket. I also keep a non-chipped key by itself in my left front pocket. The non-chipped key will unlock the door, the trunk and turn on the ignition, and it'll crank the starter, but it won't allow the engine to start. Once I'm safely inside the car and the doors are locked I start the car with the chipped key and I'm good to go. Another advantage of the non-chipped key is if someone ever pulls a weapon and demands the car key I'll give them the non-chipped key and get away as quickly as I can. They can crank until the battery goes dead but they won't be going anywhere.
I'm an NRA certified crime prevention instructor. One tip I want to share with you guys is too never keep your house key attached to your car keys. If you ever are forced to give up your car to an armed assailant, they will then have access NOT only to your address information in your glove box but they will now also have access to your house. 😳 Keep your house keys and your car keys separate.
Uh-oh. I need to fix that.
That's a really great idea! Thank you. I am going to fix this tonight.
But that pesky garage door opener in the car...
I don’t keep anything that has information on it in my car. Lol jokes on them
Also cars / ID register to a PO Box not physical address.
Also, lock the door as soon as your in the car.
And while outside the car pumping gas. That’s how many people get car jacked / kidnapped
I told my loved ones this but they don’t listen
Yep. Absolutely! Always situationally aware.
Agreed. A car I bought about 10 years ago does not automatically lock when the key is put in the ignition. I had to train myself to learn to click the lock closed and then the click lock for the seatbelt . TWO CLICKS before I step on the accelerator:)
BS, take karate lessons and ... fight! Goju ryu is the best !
Thank you for this video. We live in a very safe area (20 years no true crimes, until recently). One day after work, I went to Home Depot to purchase and have wood cut for a project. It was late November when it got dark quickly. It was light when I arrived and expected to be in and out but the guy cutting wood was on dinner break and since I was already there, just walked around the store and talking to people until he returned, killing over an hour. I finally got my wood cut and was walking into what was now a dark parking lot and was close to closing time so few people and cars in the parking lot. I was awkwardly carrying my good sized piece of wood to my car when I saw a man in front of my car hiding beside a tree with a black hoodie on with the drawstring tightly around his face to where only his eyes were showing. He looked right at me with that look like he was going to rob me or worse and I felt such a feeling of dread. Then out of nowhere, a nice man who was also walking to his car asked if I needed help with the wood and the guy in the hoodie immediately walked away. I felt this was my guardian angel! it makes me sick to my stomach to think of what could have happened in this dark parking lot had that other nice man not shown up, as it was still light outside when I arrived. How quickly situations can change
Thanks for sharing. It actually gave me a new idea to keep safe.
@@IVvOOvVI I'm glad it could help :) Would love to know your new idea
@@IVvOOvVI I'm also wondering what your new idea is? Please share. Thanks!
@@AnneMolina-c8c there are so many things, but from your story is important to be aware of your surroundings even if your hands are tie. I think when I go to the store, I need to analyze what my weaknesses are if I were going to the store by myself, even though I wanted to go with someone and there was no one available and I needed to get something done, then I had no choice but to do it, but if I had a choice, maybe change the day so there were delays it was still not turned dark. This is safer when you’re able to see better and that is when it is not dark out. Also, if you can bring someone to go with you in the afternoon because you have to prepare that there might be a delay causing you to wait longer and that means you might have to deal with darkness when you leave the store. They say you have a person come with you, but this person is not as strong. You can have this person be the lookout person one person in the store getting the supplies of stuff and one percent outside and you can communicate with yourself and like when you’re about to walk out, let the person know I’m about to walk out. Can you go out and do your thing? The lookout person can be outside and if he sees someone lurking about suspiciously, he can contact you by cell to let you know do not go out to the parking lot. You can stay inside and then the lookout person can come back in and pull up. You can flack down a security guard or someone who works at the store to walk you to the car. This is a good idea because if you were walking to the car carrying something heavy and you see a bad guy you’re not gonna turn around and walk back to the store because then he would be looking at your back and he could attack you from behind. That’s why it’s important to have a lookout person. The person can be near the store and it’s important that you park near the store so that the lookout person can easily see the vehicle from all sides. Generally is not a good idea to park near a tree because people can hide behind or against the tree as if it’s the most natural thing while they’re waiting for you to get out of the store. Also, if you realize that you park pretty far and you are not able to see your car fully in the dark or whether you can’t see your car from the entrance of the store then before you leave the store, ask someone to walk you to your car especially when you come out and you see that that is dark. Do not leave the store fax someone down and if they’re too busy is better for you to wait. Trust your instinct if you send something is not right that day or you had a lot of bad things happened to you that day then just be on the safe side and just wait sometimes waiting or being patient and doing something different like that could end up saving your life.
Thank you for watching!
I used this tactics subconsciously when i lived in Ukraine and it saved my life at least a dozen times! I start using the same alertness and awareness here in US only for the last couple of years. What a difference these 3 years has done to US citizen’s safety
Tip: if you are at a grocery store, you can ask a bagger to help load your car. Great for women shopping alone. Don’t be afraid to ask security for help at other stores either.
Also don't sit in your car after entering it, checking your phone, email, adjusting your makeup, START THE CAR AND GO!!!
I know! People who do this are so annoying, especially when they sit there and blare their headlights into your car and your face without caring or realizing that they're rude.
Why its not ok if my car is locked?
@@usa2342 somebody could run up nd do harm
The best advice yet.
@@KayyPaidd you can step on petal and likely you'll be fine
One thing I remember from a self defense video was Never allow yourself to be taken to a secondary crime scene.
Nothing good happens at a second location.
Even if it kills you, right?
@@Turco949 Absolutely. Never let them take you.
Another good piece of advice is to shop in neighborhoods that have little crime - drive the extra 15 - 30 minutes or so to be safe!
This lowers the chances of threats, but criminals do not abide by nor necessarily know or care about neighborhood boundaries. They bring the threat, we bring awareness and skills to stay safe.
@@AndiRose21 Agreed - but its better to jump into the water wearing a life vest than not wearing a life vest!
More affluent areas may be somewhat safer than less affluent areas, but more affluent areas are also targeted by criminals for that reason.
Like Fashion Island in Newport Beach. Don’t delude yourself, the hood is mobile and there are no “good” neighborhoods
@@Krispy1011 I agree 1000%. It is better to go to a "safer" area, no doubt. Just don't let that allow you to become complacent and lower your awareness completely, or at all.
One of the biggest problems inherent in all people is denial. People tend to deny that there is a problem and that denial buys precious seconds for their assailant.
Another video called it "normalcy bias" - we assume everything is always fine and normal, so even when something is out of place or someone does something weird that could be a threat, we just make it fit the narrative that it's OK.
I agree with both of you 👍👍
For most people I wouldn't call it denial... I would call it "lack of situational awareness". Spec Forces all teach a version of "360 degree awareness at all times"... when living our everyday lives, it is so easy to forget danger can be present anywhere. This vid is a good reminder, for me and my wife. Who knew 7+% of all violent crime happens in parking lots?
Expect the best but prepare for the worst.
Be optimistic but be cautious.
@@billderinbaja3883 I’m talking about actual denial that a threat is actually happening. A lot of people, even those who are trained, will automatically tell themselves that something bad just isn’t happening to them. This denial of reality happens because they don’t want to deal with the stress involved with a fight or flight response. Some people snap out of it right away and act accordingly while others seize up for the duration of an assault.
There's something to be said for backing into your parking space. When you're backing in, you are automatically aware of the space around you, and you can leave in a hurry if necessary. When you're leaving, you can create space quickly.
If i have multiple parking spots to choose from i always choose to park by small cars when possible. When i developed that habit years ago, suvs and vans were usually the only vehicles that you couldn't see into due to dark tint on the back windows but now most vehicles are hard to see into. Still cars are usually easier to see through and I try to avoid any vehicles that people could be concealed in because I've heard too many stories of people being pulled into a van and being kidnapped, etc. I also avoid parking by the vans, suvs, and large trucks because that blocks my view around me to one side as well as the view of other people from that side who might help if I were to be in a bad situation. If i have to park by vehicles I can't see in, I've got everything together before i unlock my door, no pausing to pick up my purse, etc. and I quickly move to an open area. And yes like he said on the video, I've often parked farther out in the parking lot so I could have a clear view around me. When im leaving, if in a car I check the backseat before getting in and if I'm in the truck i check the bed of the truck as I'm walking up to it. I live alone and have absolutely no desire to take someone home with me.
Good ideas. Thanks for your input!
@@ritazimmelman4769 Ditto.
Great idea! Thanks
Now I know why all those SUV's and lifted Pick-up trucks park next to my little Honda Civic. They are all scared of the boogie man.
@@flyingthesails6801Not afraid, just cautiously aware of my surroundings. From experience ( not in a parking lot) i can say you definitely don't want to let someone catch you off guard. If being observant of your surroundings can help you avoid a potential bad situation, why would you not be?
This is an excellent video. I’ve been teaching self-defense for over 45 years.
My number one complaint is people who refuse to put their cell phone away when they walk to their car in a parking lot !
Especially if they walk in front of me. How are young people so slow? They're moving at the speed of a glacier pre global warming.
I once seen a TH-cam video where a young guy was walking on a public sidewalk with his eyes locked onto his phone...then...literally a actual 🐻 bear appeared right in front of him!
He finally looked up and high tailed to safety lol!
I bet he will never forget that...
@@Redeemed-w3g I've seen TH-cam videos of people so focused on their phones as they are walking in public, walk off train platforms and fall onto the tracks, walk and fall into uncovered manhole covers, walk and fall into public fountains....
Part of that I agree with and part I don’t. I feel more secure with my cell phone in my hand in case I need to dial 911 quickly, especially because I’m not the most coordinated and trying to quickly dig through my purse to get it. I’m not on it while walking, but I like to have it in my hand and available in case I need it right away
@@Redeemed-w3g OMG where do you live lol
With the 9 1/2 years stationed in Germany I learned awareness, and my Father (Vet) reminded to be aware of my surroundings. As a child I grew up when we didn’t lock our doors, had gun racks in our trucks, prayed to the national anthem in school, and we could speak our minds without being thrown into jail for it. We live in different times now, and after 43 years in the Air Force I learned there is different layers of TRUST, even from co-workers and supervisors. So I try to be self-aware around me without making a big deal of by body language.
That is not America.
You prayed to the national anthem?
If your wanting to know if I prayed to the American Flag... Yes I did... remember I was born July 1957.
We always locked our doors. You pay for the lock, you may as well use it.
It takes only ONE person with ONE bad idea ONE minute to ruin your life.
That's today... not 60 years ago...
As a 5ft single mother of two small children, this is exactly the type of information I’m seeking! Thanks for posting!
I want to add a few more important things: 1) ALWAYS look UNDERNEATH your car at a parking lot before getting in. Back in the 80's, there were women having their ankles attacked (won't go into details here) by someone hiding under their car, making them vulnerable for other criminal activity. 2) ALWAYS have your car keys out and ready BEFORE you leave the store so that you're not vulnerable standing outside at the car door to get your keys. 3) ALWAYS keep your car door locked until IMMEDIATELY getting OUT & when you get INTO your car. After briefly scanning behind your seat for an un-welcomed passenger, it should be the first thing you do when you get in.
Find a good pocket flashlight.
Get a CCW
@@AshGreen359 already applied. My appointment is in a couple of months. 💪🏿❤️🔥
@AshGreen359 The problem is that you can't carry firearms in many places. A gun does you no good if you have to leave it in the car.
I'm a 72 year old woman and have never carried a purse. I make sure I wear pants with front pockets large enough to carry just one credit card and piece of ID which I keep in a silicone sleeve that can't slip out of my pocket.
I carry a decoy purse. My real stuff is in my inner pockets.
All of this makes sense, but it’s precisely why summers are SO inconvenient…. anything kept in a car or in the trunk of a car is going to get melted or at least affected by the heat if it can’t be taken into the store with you air conditioned. Whether that’s sunscreen, lipstick, medication, whatever - too much for pockets!
@@bestiefswlady5251 I live in Hawaii...I have a permanent cooler in my back seat, and I grab an ice pack and put it in there every time I drive anywhere. Even if I'm not anticipating doing any shopping, I put the ice pack in when I get in the car. So it's always ready in case I DO pick up something perishable.
I walked around a corner a car pulled up a guy jumped out grabbed me around my arms threw me in the car the driver took off & I didn't even have a chance to scream until I was already in the car. It happened in SECONDS. Maybe 2? 3? No one saw anything & no one heard me. There were 4 of them. I'm just grateful to be alive to tell the story. That was 51 years ago, & still today I don't know what I could have done to prevent it. I was 14, about 81lbs & less than 5' tall. I didn't have a chance. So, this is all good, but sometimes things happen you just can't do a damn thing about. If I would have kicked up, I would have died that night. I survived. But I couldn't have stopped it.
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The good Lord spared your life so that one day you could find Him and be saved. Acts 2:38 is God's Bible Plan of Salvation
Love this type of random information that most people don't think about but can have a great impact. Great content!
Hyper Vigilance and Paranoia are survival skills.
Math is very important too
You're going to die from something.
Get Jesus insurance!
@@JP-ec9rlAs John Correa says "Have spiritual fitness and have a strong and good relationship with Jesus"
It's certainly a way to survive but is it really any way to live?
Survival!?!?!,,, ha,ha,ha,,,damn!! Do live in the Brazilian rain forest or what?,,,, hypervigilance!?!?,,,,,,, you must have the appearance of a " sheep " ......a deer is concerned with being eaten by other animals,,,,,,a lion isnt.....
Space buys time, time buys options
Great advice. Look low and then high. I used to work as armed security in public and some of my duties required parking structures. I used to look for dirty cars that were not parked between the lines properly like they were hastily parked there and abandoned. ( high probability stolen). Also, were cars that were parked away from the other vehicles...(High probability of illict activities), people just hanging around..usually drug activity
But, my advice is park on lowest level next to where the cars are parked...safest. Make sure to scan the area fo these telltale signs before you park some where. Don't park in obscure or lonely places, or where anyone seems to be hanging out. And if people are hiding, they are usually hiding down low. I would always start by looking low, I will be guaranteed no matter HOW they are hiding, I will ALWAYS be able to see at least their shoes or at most their whole body.
Living in constant paranoia must be ALWAYS exhausting. It seems like city life, with its hustle and bustle, might not be the best fit for you.
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“The paranoid survive” is a phrase I once heard. The police in general are trained to “expect the worst and hope for the best.”
That way, you will not be overwhelmed.
That advice came from CPD (Chicago).
@@cybersuperior2077Stop it with these dum azz comments bro. His info might save someone’s life. I don’t understand people like you, grow up, touch grass, and live and learn, it might happen to you..
@@DG-ie5ip I loved my job and helped a lot of people. I was good at it, and learned to be a people person. I was very sorry to retire, that was 15 years ago. I feel I did a lot of good for a lot of people. Now, I don't get that chance. And it does hurt a little;.
@@dason8024 Not a bit paranoid.
Also be mindful of the myriad of scams to distract you and don't fall for it. Notes on windshields, zipties on door handles, a shopping cart pushed up against your car, someone talking to you to distract you, etc. Stay focused and not distracted. If there's a note on your car or something drive away and look at it somewhere safer.
Thanks...what's with the zipties on the car handles?
@@lydiapetra1211 I recall it's just a distraction technique. Draw your focus on the curious zip tie or other tricks and then grab you.
Good except I want to add a few more important things: 1) ALWAYS look UNDERNEATH your car at a parking lot before getting in. Back in the 80's, there were women having their ankles attacked (won't go into details here) by someone hiding under their car, making them vulnerable for other criminal activity. 2) ALWAYS have your car keys out and ready BEFORE you leave the store so that you're not vulnerable standing outside at the car door to get your keys. 3) ALWAYS keep your car door locked until IMMEDIATELY getting OUT & when you get INTO your car. After briefly scanning behind your seat for an un-welcomed passenger, it should be the first thing you do when you get in.
I do that too because of exactly the incidents you mentioned. I'm NEVER on my cell when walking into or out of the store, and I have my keys pointed outward between my fingers, so I can jab at the eyes if I have to.
You realize that requires bending over..? You can’t fit under most cars these days without a jack anyway unless its a truck.
@@DeafEcho27 The point is to be aware, alert, and vigilant of your entire environment and surroundings, especially when in vulnerable situations as your life could be at stake.
@@truthseeker3031 I think his point is that you would be doing the opposite of those things by crouching low to the ground to look under your car. You won't be able to keep your head up, quite literally, to be aware of your surroundings if you do that.
@@jamesshives5679 You don't need to "crouch low to the ground to look under your car". People can stand at a distance soon before they reach the car and slightly bend to look underneath. I do it all of the time WITHOUT "bending low to the ground". It is effective.
Never go shopping at night. Unless you are at least a pair, but even then. Don’t go shopping at night.
Sure, thats ridiculous, never go shopping at dark? Some have no choice. or how bout, just stay home? Don’t ever shop?
Especially if you are a single woman...shopping at night can be a hazardous experience.
Sad commentary on life in America now.
@@thisisme3238 when you leave the store, you can always ask a security person to go with you to your car. You can always make up an excuse like oh there’s a weird guy that was hovering around your car when you left it and tell them that you just want to, be on the safe side.
@brucehuddler7518: If you can go during the day - better than going at night.
This is some excellent info. I own an expensive Beemer and worry about being carjacked when I stop. Especially getting out in parking lots. I do the 5 yard check looking for suspicious folks approaching me. I know to use the car as both a barrier and a weapon. If you are a female remember one other important point, always run towards - people. Do not act as depicted in movies and tv series and run into forests, alleys, or into dark areas or open spaces where few people can be found. Those who assault hate attacking where there are groups. Even if you see only one other person, run towards them and scream for help.
Get a different car.
Common sense tips without a lot of hype and good tips to AVOID trouble. When at all possible AVOID confrontation. NEVER NEVER underestimate a person who wants to cause trouble.
I change up my routines and have two different gym memberships. Sometimes I go in the evening or middle of the night, sometimes in the morning. I'm not sure what information the desk people have, but I'm pretty sure it at least gives out your phone/address/ maybe how many times you've been that week . Kind of creepy. If they are a "bad guy " they could easily phone a friend and tell them "hey xyz lady is here at the gym she's not home".
@@gigi9301
One of my neighbors has to me, a noticeable routine. She goes for a walk with her dog and a small child around the same time every day. Every time I see her, I think if l’ve noticed this routine, I wonder who else has!
@@cherylT321 Yes, and you're just a normal person. Imagine if you were a bad guy and it was your "career" to look for these things and take advantage. Heck, if you try and think like a "bad guy" might, it's pretty scary.
@@gigi9301 Exactly!
Some people think I'm too paranoid. I'm always looking around. So the one day when I exited my car to go into the store, I did notice the group of people that look like we're doing drugs about 50 ft away but they were too busy to give me mind... So I exited my car and then I hear a male voice behind me saying excuse me ma'am... I turn and see him and before he could get two words out of his mouth to ask me for money I turn in Sprint into the door. I didn't care about offending him because I didn't know his intent. I think he really was just a panhandler because he had sort of a look of shock on his face and screamed I'm so sorry!
Yes. A beloved co-worker walking to her car at night in a parking ramp, in a shopping center - kidnapped, thrown in the trunk of a car, driven to a deserted area, raped, throat slit - murdered. You never think it is going to happen to you. This was decades ago. It still haunts me - wondering what went through her mind during the horrific ordeal. I can just imagine what her family has gone through all of these years. I’m getting sick thinking about it.
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Prayers. The evil Biden has done and his vp
I always insisted that we all walk out together, and make sure everyone's engine starts. No Clerk Left Behind.
On the nights when I was working alone (!) I hired the neighbor who lived above the shop to walk me to my car.
@whereisyourhumanity7557: That is a very good strategy. Parking ramps these days scare me so I avoid them. I even changed doctors to avoid having to park in a ramp. Stay safe.
@@lilybond6485 That's a good tip. Thank you! And to you, also, sister. Stay safe!
Always be vigilant. Complacency kills.
And pack heat.
Paranoia kills too
@@Madworld_NZ How?
I live in the Los Angeles area, can't carry but take pepper spray, when I see a dude just walking around in a hoody on a hot day I know he's up to no good, I would leave or park somewhere else, if they are walking behind me I always think of a way out or what I can use to defend myself, (shopping cart, belt, pen or even my cell phone) I hate having to live this way but that is our new way of living or staying alive.
You can't carry? We have a saying in Texas. I'd rather have my friends come to my trial than my funeral.
@@jbl7092Texas diff 😊
@@jbl7092 Better judged by 12 than carried by 6 ?
FIY some people wear hoodies on a hot day to avoid neck/shoulder burns.
Welcome to California.
Maybe you personally didn't vote for this, but the majority did.
Being a woman I’ve been in several scary situations. I’ve always been aware in parking lots especially. I know !00% I’ve thwarted off a robbery, carjacking or kidnapping. My scariest moment was when I noticed 2 extremely sketchy guys in a store. I kept an eye on them because I didn’t want to end up in the parking lot with them. I saw them leave the store and proceeded to check out. Before I go to leave the store I looked to see where they were. I saw them walking to the left about 25 yds. I was parked to the right, so I thought perfect it’s safe to go. Well the second I walked out they immediately turned and started following me. I began walking like a speed walker and accepted the fact I was probably going to be a victim. As they closed in on me I was almost to my car when this suv pulled up and parked directly in front of me. I looked directly at the 2 guys and in a strong tone said, what do you want!? They looked at the suv driver and then each other and turned around and walked away. I was shaking for hours. I believe the person in the suv was a perfect witness that made these guys change their minds.
I thought I did everything right but was given a really tricky scenario. I guess I should’ve waited till they were completely gone.
I wouldn't recommend asking them what they want but there was a witness so I guess it's ok
As a founding member of AWG (number 10), I got a chill up my spine when you mentioned 5 & 25. That was one of our earliest efforts in Iraq, getting that ingrained in the brains of everyone that went outside the wire. Thanks for the flashback!
The war is here now. Sorry about that.
my 5 and 25 is 5 guns with 25 rounds each. Glad to live in Texas where everyone has a gun, not just criminals.
Boom
100% situational awareness
Another thing that I will add is that if a potential attacker senses that you are scared this will make him even more confident that you are weak and an easy target. These thoughts are no substitute for common sense, but is something to keep in mind.
I agree. My husband was a police officer and told me to "walk with an attitude, my head straight up, and use my 'serious face'.
That's true. I was so tough when I was younger. Two male attackers backed off.
On several occasions I asked the store security to escort me to my car. At a Home Depot, the staffer carried a club.
My husband works at a Home Depot, and at his store they are told to watch for folks who need an escort to their car.
Biggest issue is people tend to not want to appear impolite or even imply racist and this can delay solid tactical choices. Predators count on you being indecisive or unaware. Not paranoid but realistic and willing to assess and act faster regardless of social pressures and “appearances” is the only way to stay truly safe.
If ANYONE looks menacing or suspicious PHOOEY! My life is too valuable.
@@minxella12 A pretty and cleanly dressed girl once approached me in a parking lot and calling herself stupid for running her car out of gas and asked me if I could give her a few dollars. She was standing next to a parked car she was implying was hers. I told her to get in her car and follow me across the street to the gas station and I would fill up her tank for her.
She left without getting into the car she was pretending was hers and gave some hand signals to a guy that drove up. She got in the car and drove off with him. I briefly followed them from afar and their first stop was a drive through McDonalds and then onto another parking lot. I broke it off from there and continued on with my day.
So what I am saying is, they don't necessarily have to look _menacing._
@@im1who84u That was more of a con game, people tend to come off a bit nicer. Just a thought you have to beware of that as well as she could have lured you to a place where she wasn't alone if you know what I mean. I'm talking about outright predators that are going to attack for whatever reason. Con artists usually back off if you tell them ugh, ugh.
@@minxella12 I figured it was a con and that's why I told her to follow me to the gas station right across the street and I would fill up her tank.
I didn't really expect her to do it, and she didn't.
Her and her _boyfriend_ were just hustling money and he put her out there dressed up real nice, clean, looking pretty, and implying that she was just a stupid girl that had ran her car out of gas.
I saw her out there hustling guys when I went in the store (Home Depot) and she was still out there when I came back out. So I was already wise to her and was toying with her.
@@im1who84u I'd say so lol, her car was out of gas and you asked her to follow you!
Third rule of fight club: never underestimate drivers of Toyota Prius
Camrys too
Yeah, I have a Prius. Go ahead, judge me.
*Bill Burr
I have a FORD C-Max
Silver haired Prius owner....locked & loaded, dear. Trump 24❤
"You see, my Prius don't like people laughing. He gets the crazy idea you're laughin' at him."
Angel can be a good character in a horror movie. Whenever the camera or scene snaps he is there just standing looking at you 🙃💀
Angel has the sweetest expression on his face. He doesn't look very intimidating. Except for his well muscled arms, etc.
lol Jason vorhees & Micheal myers eat your hearts out! We got angel 😈
For those who have a red panic button on their vehicle remote, can buy you time by activating your car alarm with a 3 second hold on the red button. They usually have a pretty long range from your vehicle. This can also be used for an intruder breaking in your home activating tour car alarm. Check out the range, it's longer than you think.
Great idea 💡
Thank you for this excellent video! As a private pilot, the importance of situational awareness was drilled into me in my flight training. Appreciate your reminder to use it everywhere.
I have made it a habit to carry my purchases in my left hand ( I'm right handed dominant) so my gun hand is kept free whenever possible and if need be I push a grocery cart the same way and it can be used to keep distance between you and your attacker for at least for a few seconds, pushing the panick button on your key fob will often be enough to deter an assualt. I have installed a remotely operated air horn installed in my vehicles lol you would be surprise how efficiently a air horn changes peoples mind when used responsibly.
I used to own a vacant Chicano stab bar. I learned to only drink coffee left handed at 5am when checking on the vacant building.
Spatial Awareness - space is your friend! It applies to everything.
I get front row, handicap parking. I also carry a three pound, solid aluminum cane. I pop the trunk from the building, and walk with the key in my clenched hand, pointing out past my pinky. Everything I buy always goes in the trunk, and every time I turn toward the shopping cart, I'm looking around, and over my shoulder, noticing where everyone is. If there was ever an issue with multiple assailants, I can close myself in the trunk, pull a lever, push the back seat down, and have access the rest of the vehicle. At that point, unless I get shot, someone is getting run over.
Wait! you can hop into the trunk, crawl over the front seat to drive away, and your eligible for a handicap parking space? 😀
@@lindah.1104 next next car I get I’m gonna make sure I have this past due little door that I can access from the trunk so I can like crawl through. I hope I’m didn’t have to go through the hole or whatever maybe pull lever and have to backseat like fall down or whatever but that’s something to consider. Thanks for sharing.
@@lindah.1104lol😂
Once safely in the car, drive away! Don’t be texting, playing music, checking tiktok
Great info. You forgot one thing - checking the back seat for Angel's friend.😅
That's why you lock your doors and keep your windows up
Oh yeah, don't forget to activate that alarm
I try to carry any bags in one hand, leaving the other one free. Also, if you’re using a shopping cart, you can use that to keep an assailant away, or even use it as a defense.
Yes, good reminder, thank you.
I forgot to add, when you are done shopping and you get in your car to lock your doors right away. This is good practice because you may want to check your phone for messages or emails or are doing anything in your car before leaving so while you are doing this someone can go to your car and get in to rob you. Always protect yourself when you know you are being distracted. Too many blindspots when you are inside a vehicle.
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Or better yet, just leave the phone alone for a little while. Anything less than an urgency can wait until you're home and not in a transitional space. When you're at your car, get in and go.
True! My Jeep Cherokee locks doors about 1 minute after driving! Not when I get in and start the car. I did the one month habit of physically hitting the lock button when I get in. It’s a habit now. I have no idea what they engendered the car to lock a minute after driving away…dumb
@@AndiRose21. Exactly! Forget that phone till your home
Nope. No checking. I have dairy products. Get outta my dam way. Gotta get to the fridge. 😊 Nothing like a bout of food poisoning to motivate you regarding food safety.
@@user-ov4wr5yu4r You're safety for not wanting to just do a few seconds look around? Very unwise. Unfortunately some have to learn the hard way.
Another tip: Modern cars seem to always automatically unlock all your car doors when you put the car in park. So as soon as I put my car in park upon arrival to a parking lot, I immediately push the lock button before continuing to scan for suspicious persons.
I kept noticing a dark complected guy in Fred Myers, Portland, OR. He had a light colored raincoat on and every time I looked up i saw him. Finally, I left the store, headed out the parking lot and yup, there he was again. I turned around and went back into the store. I was a 21 year old college student. I wish i had still called the police eventhough nothing happened. That's the only thing I would have done differently.
I have had someone follow me in Walmart, I reported them to the manager and they confirmed they're not loss prevention. They reported them to the police.
They still wouldn't do anything because nothing happened
It's good to alert police even though nothing happened....the girl was smart to be alert and noticed something or someone that didn't feel right, trust your gut! It could be a real bad dude waiting for another opportunity...better safe than sorry, alerting the police or store manager will cause people to be on high alert...like the saying goes- if you see something, say something, and if it's nothing, it's okay, better safe than sorry
I had a guy pretend to be a store employee and help me carry stuff to my car. At some point I noticed what he was wearing looked like the T shirts the employees wear but wasn’t one. When we got to the car he demanded I give him a ride. It was an active parking lot so I just decided to make a scene and just started shouting “no I’m not giving you a ride” etc, until so many people were looking that he started to back off, I was able to get into the car, lock it, and back out quickly. I figured he give up for the day because after that scene the real employees had spotted what was going on.
Never use a , ATM machine that's not inside the bank
Because so many people are herd animals. If you park your car by itself, even a distance away from a store, etc. Soon someone will come and park right, tight next to you. It never fails.
Lol...herd animals...that's funny but true in alot of cases. Yeah. I always park at the back of the lot, and sure enough someone else just has to park near me.
Back of the lot parking affords me to scan the area as I slowly am walking up from the distance...yep, got my thang on me too if ever needed.
Same thing happens when you go camping too. Never fails.
Don't forget that your car's alarm system can be activated with your key fob to attract attention. It could serve as a deterrent or even buy you an extra two to three seconds to possibly draw your weapon. Potentially reverse the element of surprise.
Oh right; a great reminder.
Yes, but be careful. I accidentally pushed mine the other day and then my car wouldn't start. (It shouldn't have done that.)
When I walk out of whatever public place I am, I take a second or 5 to scan the parking lot before heading to my vehicle.
5 to 25 is a Damm good projection. I focus on the 5 steps , so yeah one needs to look beyond that . Criminals come in pairs . Thank You ,for the tips !!!
8:33 - all great points. I'd add that you IMMEDIATELY lock your car doors as soon as everyone is inside. Modern glass takes a lot to break, so you've bought yourself time in case someone runs up once you're inside. I agree, this isn't a hyper awareness training; it's all about building good security habits that creates a "defense in depth" strategy; layers. Most crimes are crimes of opportunity; it is everyone's job to reduce that opportunity. You don't have to be the strongest, toughest SOB out there; just don't be the slowest inattentive one. Good luck and God bless. The secondment is more than having the "right" to keep and bear arms; it's a mentality of responsibility. It is everyone's job (right) to be cognizant of their surroundings and de-escalate situations before force is necessary. The first step is practicing habits where conflicts don't happen.
Always know your location for a 911 call.
If you are sitting in your vehicle make sure it's locked. Look for suspicious vehicles parked near you. Blacked out windows etc. most criminals drive cars with blackouts.
EV charging stations are a safety nightmare. It's such an easy target for criminals, your car is dead and you're sitting in it, how much more vulnerable can you get!
Situationally thats what I see every time I pass most of them. Most isolated, away from direct line of sight. No or poor overhead lighting. No attendant or even a cashier to call police. Some are even tucked into sketchy alleys because thats the spot the lot owner decided to lease out.
Basically a phone keyosk that holds you and you car there with an outside tether locked on for 20 to 45 minutes.
And it's not a 3 to 5 minute gasoline pump stop ... it 30 minutes ... then a line forms .. then stuck in a line ... when EVs finally take over its gonna be a Criminal Hoodrat buffet of easy pickins FJB
@@Leftoftheslash have a gun and you're good.
Most EV owners don't pull into a charging station at 0% SoC with no ability to drive. Standard is they still have 10-30% at least left. Plenty of juice to bug out
@@drewlong3929 however if you've hooked on, then to release without damage you must exit the vehicle. That delay of thinking about that may get you.
Any place where money gathers at lonely unattended places are going to be violent crime magnets eventually when homie figures it out. ATM machines were like this in the 70s. Lots of stickups and some killings. The banks had to add video security, machine reprogramming and lighting.
When you get stations that look like Buc-ees or WaWa or Tisco for typical EV charging the industry will have matured.
Great tips! Just having your head up and looking around is a great deterrent on it's own. I'd advise two more steps on car re-entry... as I slide into the seat with keys in hand, hit the door locks, insert key and start engine. Now if I need to I can drive away or use my car as a weapon if I have to.
Great video. Some people mention in the comments that they carry their keys with a key sticking out between their fingers to use as a weapon. I now always carry a small pepper spray in my hand. I don't take my keys out until I'm at the door or the trunk of my car and I've looked all around me to see that it's safe. When you do your 5/25 it looks like you're only scanning about 180°. I always look 360°.
Don't carry your keys that way, sticking out as a weapon, if you have small hands. A larger hand can cover and grip your fist with the keys and that will mess up your own hand.
Always try to peek inside the stores you are going to enter also. As to not Walk into a robbery.
I went to the gas station once and when I opened the door there was a stranger right in my face. He was so close I couldn’t fully stand up and if he wanted more than pocket change I would have been in trouble.
I hope you learned from that and now stay alert when you’re out and about!
As a motorcycle rider, situational awareness also saves your life (many times over) at intersections regardless of the signal color! 👍😎✊
While your electric car is charging in a strange part of town for two hours, polish your AR.
Another reason I’ll never buy an EV
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I see what you did there. Lol.
this film should be shown on ALL flights coming to California, particularly from foreign countries..... it may save lives.
Paranoid, constantly on edge, and always suspicious-living in fear of being robbed isn’t healthy. Please, take care of yourself and consider seeing a doctor. It’s time to find peace.
Valid post. Returned my rental car and there was a 15 car line of rentals with windows shattered at the return location in San Francisco. Same thing at the Golden Gate Bridge parking lot, only 30 minutes coming back, several windows broken in at 2pm broad day with a security officer making rounds.
@cybersuperior2077 wow, really? 🤭
Do you have a fire extinguisher in your kitchen? The chance of a kitchen fire is pretty low but we still prepare for a fire. Same thing here.
@@cybersuperior2077it’s the reality of our modern society. It’s not healthy, but I’d rather be unhealthy and alive rather than at peace and a victim.
@@DG-ie5ip He, she, or it is probably an AI troll bot.
Great video. Lots of good things to practice when shopping with your car. It will probably be better not to put in the statistics and percentage part. These things happen so randomly and can happen anywhere and at any time. I would add that to look around while you are driving toward the spot you are parking at and check the cars that are close by because there can be people in them just waiting to ambush you once you are in a vulnerable position. But you are absolutely right. Don't be paranoid. Just be aware of your surroundings always.
If there is people inside them you can't really know if they're bad or not, are you gonna stay in your vehicle all day
@@ashleyrose424 obviously no but my point was to be aware that it is a possibility. Do not assume that they are ok.
Learned from my dad, don’t wait inside your car. Or if you have to, like if your waiting to pick up your child be aware of the comings and going’s and be super vigilant. Also have the habit of start the engine and go.
Thanks for doing this video with this Prius. So often I see carjacking prevention videos being done from inside a big a$$ truck. Everyone doesn’t own a big a$$ pickup nor wants one. To each his own, but showing how to defend yourself from different vehicles, hence different angles is very helpful.
Classic HOLLYWOOD. JUST STOP WATCHING 😂
Best thing to do is be aware of your surroundings while you are packing heat, look around and see what's happening, look at everyone in the parking lot to see any clues to deviant behavior - get in your vehicle then get the heck out of their
"there". Great tips
Never take your eyes off the threat after it has been identified.
Well yeah, but also keep checking in case he brought "help."
@@chipsawdust5816 Agreed!
Thank you. Situational Awareness is key. 5 yds to 25 yds, and the 21 foot rule.
Apply regular practice to make it AUTOMATIC.
Avoid approaching or passing by another parked car with somebody inside. If you get too close, that person could percieve YOU as a threat.
What's sad about all of this is that some people really do need help, but some are faking it. So we never know. So then we are put into a position of not trusting anyone.
The Color Code Of Awareness…..What Color Code Are You In When Out In Public?
Self-Defense
Colonel “Jeff” Coopers, Color Code of Awareness, developed for Special Forces / U.S. Military but useful for everyday life for everyone and essential if you regularly and responsibly carry a concealed pistol.
1. Condition White : You are totally unaware of your surroundings and totally unprepared for even the prospect of danger.
2. Condition Yellow : You are relaxed but alert. You are not expecting trouble, but you are aware of your environment, so you would recognize a problem if it arose.
3. Condition Orange : You are aware that there seems to be a problem and your body is reacting (e.g.: Some one has picked you out and you know it.)
4. Condition Red : The problem has occurred and you are facing one or more opponents you reasonably believe might do you harm. You should be taking cover and actively performing the appropriate defensive tactics. If already under attack, you are willing to neutralize the threat.
5. Condition Black : You are in a blind state of panic where you are unable to react to the situation because you have developed neither the inner tools nor the outer skills with which to react. (e.g.: It happens, you had no raised awareness it was coming, are unprepared, unaware, untrained, and under their control and influence.)
What Color Code Are You In, When Out In Public? Me, I am in Yellow and Orange.
Thank you for this.
Better Tips: Da, use your car horn to alert others or disrupt the bad guys thought process. Act like you are on your cell phone as you move through the parking lot. Bad guys want 1-on-1, not 1-on-1.5. Climb on a car. People will see you better, and the bad guy will think that you are a tough get and a car alarm might get set off too. Best tip is the stare and glare. Take off the sun glasses long enough to look at sketchy people in the eyes to let them know that you know they are sketchy.
I like all this except as I'm 70 yrs, and 5'8" I am not tiny, but only 145 lbs. I might get a baton or something.
Now I'm even more scared to leave the house, go shopping, go to church or just plain go anywhere. Yes, I believe I really am getting paranoid, seems danger lurks no matter where you go nowadays.
That’s a good start to developing your situational awareness instincts. Now go through different scenarios in your head to visualize how you would prevent dangerous situations. Think of the places you frequent. This will empower you. Practice walking straight with your head up high making sure everyone knows you are alert. Practice locking your key as soon as you get in or out of the car even if it’s just filling up gas tank. Practice practice practice and you’ll soon feel it comes naturally. It’s muscle memory. If you can find a self defence class near your home go ahead and sign up.
If you live in California or New York, I suggest not parking anywhere in public!
I grew up in South Africa. If you are not doing all these SA techniques you will be toast and quickly. This is an excellent presentation. Your not paranoid, you’re re in Conditioin yellow
I like to back into parking spaces versus pull in wherever I go. When you open the passenger door, it's harder for someone to rush right up to you. Plus, it makes driving out of a space a breeze as visibility is better.
Wow, I didn’t even realize that Navy SEALs were experts on parking lot safety! The more you know.
All great advise with good practical points. While I think there is value is the view that "It's not worth it," so do not confront the evil doer, you do have to keep in mind that we are not all built the same mentally/emotionally. For certain people, this passive stance of total submission to the aggressor is not a behavior they can life after the fact. That is to say, there people who look beyond the immediate situation and consider the bigger picture, that they cannot live with memory that they coward down to criminals, especially if they allow this to happen more than once, The realization that they did not confront evil or stick up for themselves chips away the their soul, their self image, their sense of justice, an find they can more easily live with the knowledge that they stood up to evil. This is MORE important than cowering in order to simply survive--even if it means they experienced a good death doing the right thing with their soul and self respect intact. Life (including a life of wisdom) consistent more that doing whatever it takes to survive another day. Put another way, how far should you go in humiliating yourself in the face of a threat? This general idea should be taken into consideration when discussing the notion of defending ourself and/or your friends or family. Jesus said: "No greater love has a man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." and in another place in the bible, when speaking of those who were killed for their convictions, says; "They loved not their lives onto death." So what kind of person are you, compliant or defiant?
1st situational awareness tip, park somewhere else if you see an "Angel" standing in the middle of a large empty parking lot looking suspiciously at you with no one around. 🤣
Thank you for this video. I employ some of the tactics you suggest. I’m a 69 year old lady who is surrounded by the homeless in North Seattle. I’m always on high alert when I go to the stores closest to me. I’ve actually left a parking lot because someone scares me. I grudgingly say I do feel lucky because now these two stores are employing security guards. It’s grudgingly said because that is a sad state of affairs. I have had to ask for a guard to walk to my car with me when I depart and I’m not the least bit embarrassed about it. I am now following your site. Once again, thank you. 👏👏👏
Just one more final thing ..once you safely get back into your vehicle, LOCK THE DOOR IMMEDIATELY
Wouldn't they target you as you're getting in your car
Another tip is to look under your car from a distance for people or things. Look in the backseat of the car before getting in. If it’s dark, hitting the lock or unlock button will light up your car at night. Criminals are looking for weak/distracted victims. Walk to or from the car with confidence & head up. Thank you for pointing out that best defense is just being aware of threats before getting out of the car or leaving the store.
Excellent, excellent tips to keep you safe.
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Had a situation the other day coming out of the grocery store, guy parked next to my vehicle just sitting in his car. Not sure why he was there so I rolled my shopping cart between the cars (his driver door and my passenger door) to start unloading groceries into my rear seat (rather than my car trunk) and to block him possibly exiting towards me through his driver door. No issues, he was probably waiting for someone who went in to get a few things, but just be aware of situations like that.
When Carrying Stuff Keep Your Fighting Hand Free.
Always Armed.
Seeing Angel just standing there was really creepy. Great video, thanks!
And who were the weirdos up on the roof?
It's a shame one has to live like this with danger at any moment ......
Thanks for these tips and video greatly appreciated
As a single woman I often thought nothing of walking out to my car at shopping malls and then stopping at my car door juggling my shopping bags while digging in my handbag searching for my car keys. A mall security guard patrolling the lot saw me and took the time to explain why I should have my keys out and ready before I leave the shopping mall. I've followed his advice ever since no matter where I go. I only wish I could go back in time and thank him for such valuable advice.
A very dangerous time is while inattentively loading groceries into the trunk. Many kidnap or carjack victims were facing into the back of the car and totally unaware as the perp jumps them, the van pulls up and grabs them, etc.
I live in a super rough neighborhood. hyper paranoid? well I stay hyper aware. been in a convenience store twice that were either being in the midst of a robbery just robbed. once the bad guy just ran out the door and the other was an "express" robbery. the latter being engaged by L.E. he was already being followed by the cops. saw him before I walked in. I thought he was just high "spun out". he was yelling at the clerk to turn the gas pump on. the cops stormed in right past me. he turned to face in my direction. he saw the cops. ren out to his car. at that point the police boxed him in. bashed his window open and yanked his 100 pound tweaker butt out the window. I grabbed the clerk to stop him from running out the door and ducked us behind cover/concealment. he really wanted to go see the action up close. dumb idea. in the end no shots were fired. he only had a Rambo knife and we were simply interviewed and sent on our way. we both get to go home to our loved ones. I'd rather be a hero to my kids to be in their lives as long as possible. not stopping a corner store robber. where I live, you need to be super vigilant. once I save up enough, were out this poophole! stay safe and alive guys. be the right kind of hero to your fam!
Really helpful way to articulate awareness. 5/25s is a nice tip I heard years ago. Nice adaptation. Superior video!!
Me eyeing the guy walking in the background 🧐
Yeah, like "what's that guy doing up on the roof?"
@@davidcoiner-b7q just got this mate... Those sloped roofs are such miss information
Great video Mike on situational awareness. God bless you brother, thank you for fighting for our country.✝️🙏🏻 I like that 25, 5 rule to know your surroundings, not many people think the lot is a dangerous place for crime to happen but it’s better to be safe than sorry and be aware of your surroundings!
I prefer to back into a space or take the "pull through". It makes for a safer easier exit.
Usually those thugs come in sets of two or more…. The walking around the car wouldn’t work.
I was in Russian military many years ago and I can tell you your video is a great lesson for everybody. I do have a weapon every day on me and I did stop a crime in USA 3 times.
7:30 *But you missed that SNIPER BEHIND YOU!!! LOL!*
Try to shop and fuel up during daytime (still things can happen but easier to visually clear).
Take someone with you that could help defend.
If kids present they are last to get out until you exit vehicle and visually clear area.
Age appropriate training on how to react (role play). Sadly something you have to train nowadays.
Don’t buy a vehicle that will stop your vehicle if someone is in front of you (sometimes you will need to use it to protect yourself).
Trust your spidey sense.
Pull through parking space or back into space so you are ready to boogie.
Consider ordering online and do a pickup of order.
My car is an older Honda that uses a chipped key to allow regular starting. I keep the chipped key by itself in my right front pocket. I also keep a non-chipped key by itself in my left front pocket. The non-chipped key will unlock the door, the trunk and turn on the ignition, and it'll crank the starter, but it won't allow the engine to start. Once I'm safely inside the car and the doors are locked I start the car with the chipped key and I'm good to go.
Another advantage of the non-chipped key is if someone ever pulls a weapon and demands the car key I'll give them the non-chipped key and get away as quickly as I can. They can crank until the battery goes dead but they won't be going anywhere.