"Are you 100% sure?"

This is one the top questions that creates anxiety for my engaged clients, but it can really affect anyone in transition on the precipice of a major life decision. It's simply unrealistic to believe that you'll feel 100% sure about anything in life, and this video explains the reasons why. conscious-trans...

[@MysteriousDibalo]

Thank you so much for this. I am a perfectionist and I recently got married and my anxiety is off the roof. This kind of calmed me down so thank you.

[@emmaberrellezaobrien2443]

I stumbled upon your videos today, and this is seriously a God send. Thank you so much for the work you're doing, the wisdom you speak..bringing some awesome perspective for me. thank you

[@wisdomofanxiety]

I'm so glad you found your way here :).

[@jujiboy]

Hello. First I'd just like to say thank you for your work. I stumbled upon it recently and it has been such a refreshing counterpoint to the vast majority of material I have seen thus far. Everything from the engagement nearly 2 years ago until this point roughly 3 months before the wedding has been tough (in part due to my anxiety but also because of multiple life transitions that have occurred during this period as well). I guess what I was wondering is if you would support continuing with a wedding if one felt like their relationship were less than 80% (say 70% just as an example) on a friendship scale and if I found myself more hopeful for the future than content with the present? Also, I was wondering how you define friendship (since being romantically engaged carries with it more intimacy than being strictly platonic). Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks again for all that you do!

[@markobrien4332]

Sheryl, are you related to Margaret Paul in any way?
I'm new here.

[@desertshadow72]

Very well said

[@gopikamaniprasad7089]

what about your own feelings towards your partner?

[@harmony7134]

Very common! research R-OCD.