Hey @ursulaann694, I just want to say that I admire your vulnerability in sharing your struggles. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal challenges, and I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling this way. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and take care of yourself. If you're looking for guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class that can provide you with tools and resources to navigate through tough times. Wishing you all the best on your journey towards healing and growth. Take care.
You are 100% describing my situation. He is blaiming me and he is always the victum eventhough he is the one sabotaging everything. Respect is gone long time ago.
I have been in survival mode through my entire 20 year marriage. The inconsistencies were endless. After finding your videos last summer it put everything I have dealt with into perspective. Joining your Self-Crown VIP Inner Circle has been the answer to my prayers!!! The rollercoaster ride is finally coming to an end. Thank you Big Brother🙏🏼❤
I let him know that he deserved a standing ovation, because I knew l was a good woman. I was light to his darkness! Everything he done to me, is already done to him.
Inconsistency does affect you mentally. You start doubting yourself in everything you do. He pulled away to see if I would keep waiting until I decided to stay away. I’ve been wanting someone to bring this up. Thank you for the clarity. 👏👏👏👏👏
The inconsistencies make me go ghost...I am NOT wasting my time! I know my self-worth, and I will stay single! 7 years and unfortunately still counting. Dating 😢
I’m going through that now. He wants to be with me, but the road to me is not straight and he can’t be bothered to make the effort to upgrade. So I think he is trying to sabotage his way out. Told me we need to talk and then went quiet, but I have news for him. When or if he circles back he will wonder if I ever existed.
You a real one Derrick! Appreciate your videos foreal. They heal something in me and on top of that give me confirmation on what I used to be in. That’s wassup. Someone like me who’s Lowkey hard on the inside and still learning how to be a woman sadly internally your videos soften me up 😭. I appreciate it a lot 🙏🏽. God bless you❤️ and give you more wisdom and abundance. Thank you God and thank you too again 🙏🏽
so true derrick..i was to be soft...these guys just make me hard and always angry/unapproachable. im always soft in the beginnning but all the games they play changes me
Hi Derrick, "Thank you" is not enough to give back in exchange for your effort and message. What your saying and the manner you relay is perfect for us to receive the wisdom.
I have met my King 👑. Unfortunately, he passed away 4 years ago. And now, I am back to the dating game and omg! A lot of cowards 😂. I’m glad I get to experience how King protect and love his Queen 👸 for 17 years. Therefore, I am not settling down. Ladies - don’t settle for a rookie wait for your King and I tell you, there is nothing more like a Kings’s love, protection and love 💕
You're so right, my ex don't wanna spend be with me he rather spend time with men, he comes rarely talk to me but someone calls him he leaves, I kicked him out ,
I cherish the part where you said "He's NOT ready for a relationship." Women, from early childhood are also groomed to populate religious and social thoughts that they have to preform their best to be the greater valued investment. This often causes them to shine their halo to be noticed rather than be aware who might share the halo on a day they need rest.😊 "Some" aren't cultured to VIEW whoes ready and whoes not. IF TAUGHT appropriately we would all have a better resume to follow so to speak And less Emotional "Flu" to fight yearly. Great post Derrick! I truly appreciate every devoted post.
I am going thru this right now!! I finally got the I love you I have been waiting for.. then in the dame breathe I got.. I need space I have to process my feelings so we are done.. WTH..
Although I loved, I did not allow myself to fall in love because I new for 2 years, as I like to say, 1+ 1 didn't=2. Without saying a word, he let me know he let me know how he felt. I kept leaving
Thank you. I am an empath. 39 year old divorced woman of 19 years of marriage. Dating after being divorced- has been interesting and not what I expected. I have held my boundaries and expectations, but still open within reason, while listening to my intuition.
I'm waiting to see the downfall my husband actions has on his life! He never cared enough to work on his bad habits. The marriage has broken down and now to only thing left to see is him trying to find a woman who will put up with his crap!
I But only with the inconsistency with his time. Works all the time. Everything else is wonderful. However, after almost 2 years, I’m not feeling the same about him. Sadly bc I really like him.
not minr he changed ang got vert disrespectful mean nasty talking 100% change he got a nre woman , i am 100%an empath and loved him so much, it was like he pilled the reg out from under me
Hey @Heavensarmies41, thank you for sharing your struggles with us. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and seek help. Remember, it's okay to not be okay sometimes. You are stronger than you think, and you have the power to overcome whatever challenges come your way. I want to remind you that you are not alone in this journey. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support. And if you're looking for more guidance, feel free to check out my new master class that delves deeper into building healthy and fulfilling relationships. The link is in the description of this video. Take care, and keep pushing forward. You've got this!
Dear TamikaCooper-ue1so, I can hear how overwhelmed and frustrated you're feeling right now, but please remember that you are strong and capable of overcoming any challenge that comes your way. It's important to prioritize self-care and set boundaries in your relationships. Remember, you deserve to be treated with love and respect. If you're looking for additional guidance, I invite you to check out my new master class that dives deeper into creating healthy relationships. You can find the link in the description below. Remember, you are deserving of love and happiness. Keep pushing forward. Warm regards, [Male Relationship Coach]
His actions dont match his words...empty promises. Says one thing does the opposite, i seriously think he has mental issues but NOT at the expense of my feelings . I left, and have gone silent. Working on loving ME.
And this is why it's just easier to be single.
I've wondered about this at least a few times in my life, sadly. 😐😒😔🤔🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤦♀️
Factz
Thank you
1000pct :-)
I hear that! Celebrate it!
Im 49 and been in survival mode since childhood. Ladies do not let these people take your best yesrs.
Hey @ursulaann694, I just want to say that I admire your vulnerability in sharing your struggles. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal challenges, and I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling this way. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and take care of yourself. If you're looking for guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class that can provide you with tools and resources to navigate through tough times. Wishing you all the best on your journey towards healing and growth. Take care.
I hear that.
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Safe People by Henry Cloud
he has no idea what he lost
He is not lying about the self-sabotage💔
You are 100% describing my situation. He is blaiming me and he is always the victum eventhough he is the one sabotaging everything. Respect is gone long time ago.
Indeed. Victimhood. Accepting ownership is emotional maturity.
I have been in survival mode through my entire 20 year marriage. The inconsistencies were endless. After finding your videos last summer it put everything I have dealt with into perspective. Joining your Self-Crown VIP Inner Circle has been the answer to my prayers!!! The rollercoaster ride is finally coming to an end. Thank you Big Brother🙏🏼❤
Same baby girl 20 plus years here too hun..
I let him know that he deserved a standing ovation, because I knew l was a good woman. I was light to his darkness! Everything he done to me, is already done to him.
He claimed that I was his light in the midst of his darkness. Sounded good until the actions didn't match
@@babydii3487 😭😬😬
Inconsistency does affect you mentally. You start doubting yourself in everything you do. He pulled away to see if I would keep waiting until I decided to stay away. I’ve been wanting someone to bring this up. Thank you for the clarity. 👏👏👏👏👏
The inconsistencies make me go ghost...I am NOT wasting my time! I know my self-worth, and I will stay single! 7 years and unfortunately still counting. Dating 😢
Yup, your time is your greatest asset …. let nobody waste it.
@@BrendaBaBoomexactly 😢
5 years for me 🤷♀️ I'm just enjoying the freedom and peace ☮️ ❤️
Time is valuable. We don't have time to waste.
I’m going through that now.
He wants to be with me, but the road to me is not straight and he can’t be bothered to make the effort to upgrade.
So I think he is trying to sabotage his way out. Told me we need to talk and then went quiet, but I have news for him.
When or if he circles back he will wonder if I ever existed.
@@sherriflemming3218
Great reply!
N🚫 Contact is a superpower. No value in a relationship warrants no contact.
me right now, spaceI just got the we will talk, not even 24 hours ago.
@@staejaye1910 How's the relationship going?
Space has different connotations.
To all my sisters just work on yourself point blank period focus on you that is self love thank you
You're speaking facts 🔊👏 🙌 All I wanted to be was soft but they made it difficult 😔
Just because I love you don't mean I won't disappear 😊 yes we should be safe together
🔥 preaching the truth. God sent you for us women and empaths. ❤❤❤
Yup growth never stops its something that has to be worked through daily in relationships
Yes you're right. I'm looking for the peace and anyone that brings out the overthinking in me brings out my deamons.
D nailed it once again. Thank you Sir.
You a real one Derrick! Appreciate your videos foreal. They heal something in me and on top of that give me confirmation on what I used to be in. That’s wassup. Someone like me who’s Lowkey hard on the inside and still learning how to be a woman sadly internally your videos soften me up 😭. I appreciate it a lot 🙏🏽. God bless you❤️ and give you more wisdom and abundance. Thank you God and thank you too again 🙏🏽
Yes you’re making a LOT of sense 👍👍👍
You're making a lot of sense.I'm being reminded here of what I went through without knowing.
This saved me! Thank you while I hurt in my pain 😢
Yes been together 40 plus years it's about being able to communicate through up and downs
so true derrick..i was to be soft...these guys just make me hard and always angry/unapproachable. im always soft in the beginnning but all the games they play changes me
Hi Derrick, "Thank you" is not enough to give back in exchange for your effort and message. What your saying and the manner you relay is perfect for us to receive the wisdom.
He completely change complete 180 and he cant remember anything or remembers it completely different then what really happened..
Cognitive dissonance or selective memory.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
@@sherriflemming3218 thanks i shall look into it..
So true ! Thank you for this video ❤
Been there.....done that and done with it.....
Thank you for this message!!!
Number 5 is STRAIGHT FACTS.
I have met my King 👑. Unfortunately, he passed away 4 years ago. And now, I am back to the dating game and omg! A lot of cowards 😂. I’m glad I get to experience how King protect and love his Queen 👸 for 17 years. Therefore, I am not settling down. Ladies - don’t settle for a rookie wait for your King and I tell you, there is nothing more like a Kings’s love, protection and love 💕
God is My Everything. My Jehovah Jireh.
Amen
That's the exact situation. He was sure. Now it's been 9 days of inconsistent.
This was so on point
I can relate to this inconsistency
You are my small bro but I've learnt alot from you. Thankyou.
Great message❤
Was trying to find fault in what you were saying but I couldn’t. When I say you’re on point… 👏🏽
'Thirst check' always end up with me blocked them. Hard Stop!!!!! ... And they will be like - 😱where this is come from??????
Me: From you dum dum
You're so right, my ex don't wanna spend be with me he rather spend time with men, he comes rarely talk to me but someone calls him he leaves, I kicked him out ,
Bravo! 👍 You did the right thing!
Yes becomes depressed and withdrawn
I cherish the part where you said "He's NOT ready for a relationship." Women, from early childhood are also groomed to populate religious and social thoughts that they have to preform their best to be the greater valued investment. This often causes them to shine their halo to be noticed rather than be aware who might share the halo on a day they need rest.😊 "Some" aren't cultured to VIEW whoes ready and whoes not. IF TAUGHT appropriately we would all have a better resume to follow so to speak And less Emotional "Flu" to fight yearly. Great post Derrick! I truly appreciate every devoted post.
I needed this
Need the contact. It's a must. I was listening, he wasn't. He talked. I didn't. self absorbed.
It's shown through your parents relationship what they grew up with
True Facts! 🙌
Definitely, all facts❤
I am going thru this right now!! I finally got the I love you I have been waiting for.. then in the dame breathe I got.. I need space I have to process my feelings so we are done.. WTH..
Thank you Derek Jaxx please forgive if I spelled your name wrong 😢 but I want to thank you 🙏🏿 you helped me out at a lot thank you my brother ❤
On point again
Oh my gosh, I didn’t realize that’s what my ex-husband was telling me when we were supposed to go to the gym that he was cruising for other women
You are correct!
Although I loved, I did not allow myself to fall in love because I new for 2 years, as I like to say, 1+ 1 didn't=2. Without saying a word, he let me know he let me know how he felt. I kept leaving
Thank you. I am an empath. 39 year old divorced woman of 19 years of marriage.
Dating after being divorced- has been interesting and not what I expected.
I have held my boundaries and expectations, but still open within reason, while listening to my intuition.
👍. Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Yes! No you're not delusional you're talking truth!
Thanks for letting this b known
Yup ITS Easier To Be Single‼️
Thankyou for making these videos as I don’t know what I would do with out your help and Shera seven. ❤
💯 Been there
Yes you're right
Yes. Making sense. I guided. I want a King.
Yes sir! Been there unfortunately
Bravo!
Facts period
absolutely!
Amen ❤️ 🙏🏿 ❤️
Very true
I'm waiting to see the downfall my husband actions has on his life! He never cared enough to work on his bad habits. The marriage has broken down and now to only thing left to see is him trying to find a woman who will put up with his crap!
Yep, love on me to reap my all.
For real, for real 💯💯💯💯!!!!!
I But only with the inconsistency with his time. Works all the time. Everything else is wonderful. However, after almost 2 years, I’m not feeling the same about him. Sadly bc I really like him.
❤ Just wish they could get it.
Peace is #1
FACTS!
Yes!
i am an empath but got along with all good men i dated,, this was the first one like this
Facts 😊😊😊
oh god yeh its like an emotional rollarcoaster. thats what takes away the softness..never knowing the mood how he'l be from one day to another
Hot and cold is for faucets. Not healthy relationships.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Yep!
Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
It's there
❤Facts❤
Oh yeah they are definitely different
not minr he changed ang got vert disrespectful mean nasty talking 100% change he got a nre woman , i am 100%an empath and loved him so much, it was like he pilled the reg out from under me
I he never yook me anywhere not even a coffee shop i was a secret!!!!!! mo fo
Completely untrustworthy. End of story
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
You are right. 😢
Hey @Heavensarmies41, thank you for sharing your struggles with us. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and seek help. Remember, it's okay to not be okay sometimes. You are stronger than you think, and you have the power to overcome whatever challenges come your way.
I want to remind you that you are not alone in this journey. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support. And if you're looking for more guidance, feel free to check out my new master class that delves deeper into building healthy and fulfilling relationships. The link is in the description of this video. Take care, and keep pushing forward. You've got this!
Yup uses these exact I did this I did that
Yes that is me right now 🇧🇧
Strewth - and I thought we ladies could be complicated.
Been there 😮
Dear TamikaCooper-ue1so,
I can hear how overwhelmed and frustrated you're feeling right now, but please remember that you are strong and capable of overcoming any challenge that comes your way. It's important to prioritize self-care and set boundaries in your relationships. Remember, you deserve to be treated with love and respect.
If you're looking for additional guidance, I invite you to check out my new master class that dives deeper into creating healthy relationships. You can find the link in the description below. Remember, you are deserving of love and happiness. Keep pushing forward.
Warm regards,
[Male Relationship Coach]
I want a king.
i can't get him to see me after he rainchecked me saturday!!!!!
There's another one
I wish I would’ve found you when I was married. Maybe I would’ve gotten out sooner and less harmed.
I want to be myself, a feminine woman.
Yes🇧🇧
Going through a mid life crisis effects of
His actions dont match his words...empty promises. Says one thing does the opposite, i seriously think he has mental issues but NOT at the expense of my feelings . I left, and have gone silent. Working on loving ME.
Sho’ you right
Bingo😊
Facts