I lived in a house for 20 years and I never talked to my neighbors, just a hi and good morning or afternoon, but not more than that and never had problems with them. When I cut my grass I always cut theirs too and never cared for a thank you or anything, it just felt good. They started doing the same thing for us and at the end of my staying almost the whole block was taking care of each other. That was really sweet.
I've lived next door to our neighbors for about 20 years, too. Couldn't tell you their names. They have a basketball goal right on the property line and the ball rolls in to our yard occasionally. The kids retrieve the ball and all is well. Every Independence Day, they have fireworks. The next morning, they're out picking up the resulting trash - including what landed in our yard. They have three dogs that bark at me every single time I step out on my deck. They shush the dogs, I tell them it's fine, the dogs don't bother me. The dogs quiet down after a minute, and everything's good. People just need to relax and get along.
There are so many nice people in the world, and most of them are neighbors. We had neighbors moved in across the street last year, and they bought us Christmas cookies. It was such a nice gesture, and a wonderful way to get to know them a bit. Now they’re taking our kids out to the movies and having them over for supper. Good for you! You guys found out that you are great people. I love that.
I had an upstairs neighbor who’s children stayed up late and were extremely loud keeping my toddlers up. I went to her and asked nicely to just have them quiet down around 8pm so as not to disturb my kids sleep schedule. Not only did she do what I asked but she baked us cookies and left a nice note telling me how grateful she was I went to her and didn’t make it into a huge deal! This was 12 years ago and were still friends to this day 😁.
Plaintiff: Our dog escaped because they took the fence down. Defendant: We didn't even know they had a dog! Also Defendant: Their dog's poop is on our porch
HOMEOWNERS…ESP new home owners: I’m a Property surveyor. Let me tell you one thing. Getting a boundary survey and a pre-existing structures survey is so incredibly important when you have neighbors close to your property. It will establish a LEGAL boundary and it will be filed with the courthouse. Get a survey BEFORE you get a fence. And when you put up s fence…build it at LEAST 1 FOOT INSIDE YOUR PROPERTY LINE. So that if you have to fix it/paint it/maintain it….you will still be on YOUR PROPERTY if you have to do anything to the side of the fence facing the neighbors.
I agree. My neighbor insists that he owns 18” from his fence line so I hired a surveyor. The surveyor was here on the 24th, and it appears like he found the original stakes which are by the neighbors tree in the front and the other one in the rear is by the neighbors fence, right on the property line. Im just waiting for the surveyor to place the 18” irons to mark the corners of my property and the drawing before I notify the neighbor.
@@shelbyw7967 Smart idea calling in the surveyor. Too many ppl waste time arguing instead of having math and lasers prove the truth. And don’t worry, Surveyors are insured and they are considered expert witnesses if you ever have to go to court or file against your neighbor. It’s part of our job to be expert witnesses. Good luck with everything!
Hell no! I live in the city, and I would never give up that much land for my neighbor to enjoy. Get it surveyed and marked certainly. Speak with your neighbor to share the cost and put the fence right on the line. Now you both agree on the boundary, and you both have a shared interest in maintaining the fence.
Danielle Waked....I find that a very strange thing to do, that would mean that there are two fences next to each other (if the neighbour wants a fence as well). Why can't people just get together, decide on a fence and build it on the boundary line and each pay half the cost.
Sadly, that's only half of the problem. The reality is that there are neighbors out there who do like to start problems, especially with people who keep to themselves. Ill intended people will always look for (or find) ways to cause problems.
@@uacbpa I've had my fair share of this even in apartment complexes. I was the neighbor that was friendly, but mostly kept to myself and I had issues with neighbors that thrived on drama and conflict. Bad thing about it was most of the people causing problems were people in their 50-60s. I was in my early and mid 20s. Was really mind blowing
No they both took the judges advice and took the high road, no shame in that. Not sure about the husband's, sounds like you might fall in that category 🤔
@@MrStudo67 They were pretending to get along and downplayed Judge Milan's comments. "There has not been much nastiness at all... You can have a disagreement among friends." That was said just to tell off the judge and pretend for the world. Look at both men stare each other down in the back. The women just did not want to seem petty on TV like the judge showed them that they were.
I didn't want to like the defendants for several reasons, but I will admit, when the plaintiff hugged the defendant and she responded back nicely, I thought, they are all decent people. That said- a simple survey to show the property line would have settled this years ago.
The problem was that because they didn't talk, the litigants didn't know the fence was coming down and the defendants a) claimed they didn't know there was a dog there and b) unfortunately took it down when the neighbours were away. Although having said that last comment, the dog surely wasn't 'home alone' and it was the daughter's dog so she should have been looking after it. While the fence was up and secure and not bothering anyone, it didn't matter much which side of the line it is even though technically it was wrong. The problem only arose when the defendants wanted a new fence to match their landscaping and because the fence was on their land, they were perfectly entitled to take it down. Now go back to to the bit at the end when they are being interviewed (all together) and look at Mr defendant's face. Looks like he's sucking lemons - he is not a happy man and the other husband's not much better. The wives may think it's all alright now but maybe not after they get home.
@@laceandbits You are right. I think the women were putting on a show for Doug because they got a dressing down by the judge and wanted to prove on TV that the judge was wrong. "You can have disagreements among friends..." Yeah, you are not friends lady.
soooo you didn’t want to like the defendants and you’re just watching a video lolol you must be a horrible neighbor lololol you hate your neighbors just because WOW !! you’re brutal
Having a good relationship with your neighbors makes your life so much better. The neighbors my mother has at her house are basically family. They help each other and exchange gifts for birthdays and Christmas. It makes for a happier home life!
yeah, i think the defendant will ruin that friendship at some point. you can’t take the rude out of people. it always surfaces because it’s not in them. she can’t control herself, because she can’t control herself lololol
At the end, the defendant sounded like she was going to throw the plaintiff under the bus (even tho she had just won) that's when the plaintiff came over and hugged her. Hope the "good feelings" continue to last, but I kind of doubt it.
Love the advise by the judge to just get along and leave peacefully. They don't even know each other yet they hated each other so much. Life is too short, be kind to each other ✌.
Why do these ppl come to court without an updated survey?!?!? The defendants didn't pay for one either. They found one at county it went their favor. At least they did that much.
In Australia, dividing fences belong to BOTH people. If a fence needs fixing or replacing, BOTH parties are required to pay HALF each, unless only one side damages the fence.
I own a few residential homes USA, and one property actually has 3 fences near a property line...installed by different owners over the years. Rule of thumb in America, if it's on your property, then you can do as you wish (assuming following city/gov't regulations). If I don't want a fence, and you do, then you'd need to build within your property lines.
As a fence builder for many years, the "ugly" side towards the fence owner is the standard way fences are installed. This will give you a clue as to who owns the fence but can't be used as the only proof. I would estimate roughly 95% of our customers prefer "pretty" side out for curb appeal but we always explain the option of having the better looking side facing their property before we begin. It makes no difference in price to the customer or effort for us as the builder. The bottom line is the customer paying for the job gets their fence built exactly the way they want it as long as it's on their property and meets local codes. And HOA requirements where applicable of course.
It's code here to put the pretty side facing out and our neighbors left the ugly side face us, with nails sticking out. Nothing about it fits to code (it doesn't follow the land, they built it straight across on a slope with all the same size planks and it's completely empty at the bottom down the hill. They literally stacked old bricks and rocks underneath it. All to prevent us from 'looking on their property" because they built a pool. But they only built the one side, facing us. Nowhere else.
The fences between my house and my neighbors' houses looks exactly the same on both sides, and both sides are pretty. Why don't people just install fences like that?
Man it would suck to have trouble with neighbors. We are fortunate to have wonderful neighbors that we get along really well with. Always a good idea to establish a friendship, if not at least a friendly relationship early on.
Actually, only one person filed suit. The defendants have to respond, and then you find out they did exactly what the law says they can do. So, how are the defendants jerks?
The defendants look like the "neighbours from hell", she just wouldn't shut up, most neighbours get on well when it comes to fixing or renewing the intermediate fence, but this woman would drive you nuts!!
It was established it's THEIR fence, they can remove it whenever they wish. How are they to know the neighbors they don't socialize with are on vacation? The neighborly thing to do would be to give them advanced notice though. But from a legal standpoint, they were well within their rights.
Coward, WTF? If it's on owner's property, and they want an open yard, then that's their prerogative and their right to do so. Defendants can install their own fence.
This case is a mess. Sounds like a case of dueling Karens doing what they do best. This could've easily been resolved with a pack of beer. Sad that not many people have that ability to get along with others nowadays
Defendant's husband reminds me of a concert pianist who is about to perform the entire works of Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Brahms, or Johann Sebastian Bach to an auditorium packed with over 5000 people. He's got that "mad musician" vibe.
Most cities have laws about public parking. Our neighborhood only allows visitor parking 8 hours per year. Code enforcement will ticket cars parked too long.
My introduction to my neighbour was him complaining that birds were pooping in his grass and that was my fault. Then it was my fault that rats had been seen (turned out the rats were nesting in his garden under the decking). Then ‘when are you getting rid of the bees’…a swarm had formed on my eaves…like they do before they move on. Meanwhile they systematically got rid of all living things in their garden…replaced the grass, removed all real plants and put fake ones in and every other inch was asphalted or concreted. It’s always struck me as odd because we back straight into the country park and fields full of wildlife. Weird !
Watching this again, I'm reminded how grateful I am for my neighbors. After my car accident a month ago, one of them (no one will take credit!) came and cut my overgrown bushes. I'm really up on my yard maintenance, I'm out there nearly everyday to check that my flowers & everything are doing well... so they all see me, out there in the billion degree heat. Clearly someone knew that it was going to drive me crazy that the bushes were getting funky. I was blown away when I saw them the next day. I literally gasped and stopped in my tracks. When I can use my hand again, I'm going to make plates of yummy stuff for all neighbors around me with a note expressing my thanks to the anonymous person/people. Other than to thank the anonymous gardener, I want to let the others know that one of our neighbors was incredibly thoughtful, too! Be good to your neighbors, even if they're weird, grumpy or even if they ignore you. You never know what crap they're going through. I'm pretty private, but someone's kindness made recovering from the accident, having my car totalled, etc. a little less painful. ❤
My new upstairs neighbors accidentally rang my bell when they were moving in. They brushed past me, and their Cuban friend said: "Sorry, they don't speak English."😳 (Not a reason to act like I didn't EXIST.) They didn't use garbage bags, so their trash from the dumpster blew all over the BLOCK, resulting in a warning from the city for the whole building! They let their kid run the shower for 90 minutes, until it *flooded my bathroom.* We've had 2 other tenants since last March in that unit, but these are the only tenants that the *whole building* despises; and the whole building is also Latino, so that says a lot! Sometimes, people are just inconsiderate!!
I loved the look on the plaintiffs husband at the end in the hallway talking to Doug. He knew that hug was phony and it's clear they hate each other. 😂
After I first saw this episode, I had a run in with my neighbor who I thought was cool, but turns out she’s been holding a grudge against me for past 5 years and refused to tell me why even after I confronted her. She chased my workers from parking in front of her house. She yelled at me for trimming her trees that overhung into my driveway. She wouldn’t answer me. I tried to solve it but I guess she was okay with living in a hostile environment. Weird.
Honestly if I was your neighbor and you are understand it's on your side the tree part and everything but sometimes we don't like people touching their things I'm one of those people and if it's your friends who parked in front of their house they should park in front of your house don't know why you think no one's going to be upset about that I want those people who will probably be upset about that I'm the nicest person ever but certain things do make me upset like it sounds like some of the things you put on yourself
I've owned my house since 2008. I've had some of the same neighbors and some come and go. I've had issues with very few, one who was a creepy dude that wouldn't leave me alone & the other was his wife who left him for his best friend that lived across the street from them (& diagonal from me).. she only didn't like me because I was friends with her new man's wife 🤦🏼♀️ other than that everyone on our street minds their own business & if they have issues with someone for whatever reason they either talk it out like adults or they just don't speak. It's really not hard to avoid conflict and treat others with respect. And thats the best thing you can do when you're going to be living next to or close to someone!
i am so thankful i have great neighbors!!! my dog is off leash trained and he would chase squirrels in my neighbors yard behind us….i recalled him and apologized that he was in their yard he was so nice and said not to worry…he noticed the dog pooped and we immediately picked it up and didn’t leave it that’s all he cares about now my dog goes to his door daily to get treats and pets from them!! they are awesome
Judge Milian is absolutely right life is too short for all this hatred & all the other extra issues life is stressful enough 💯 our homes should be our castles I hope they can be civil with each other for their own sanity 👏🏾 maybe they can all go out for dinner or something and put this behind them but,there’s definitely some issues amongst them all whether they want to admit it or not I can see it in the defendant’s husband’s face 💯
Not one word from the judge penetrated their heads. She gives them a well-deserved dressing down and gets, "Let me show you pictures." They love all this stupid, petty drama.
Maybe thats a reason why the Bible is so into loving your neighbors. The new law is all about loving your next . My neighbors live really close! And they have party outside almost every week. He asked me to tell him if the music was to loud. I said "It is ok, you guys go having a good time while your young!" And they all SO happy for my answer. If the music is to loud I usually sing along or dance in my livingroom or at the balcony. It's fun to hear songs from 70-80 just a bit changed 😁
@@sosad9381 Thank you so much! 🙏 I am from Norway, and really north! The ppl north in Norway are known for being open, directly, generous and more relaxed. I dont feel I am, but I am always polite and I smile and say hi when having a walk. Ppl often lightens up if they get a "helo" and some words, espesially elder ppl. (I am a nurse, and my heart is into lighten ppl, build them up, cos that makes me really "alive" and happy!) Bless you so much 🙏🇧🇻 💛
They brought the judge in NOT for a friendship decision but a legal decision. They wanted an objective decision on who should if so replace the fence. Judge Milan is trying so hard to be philosopher on top of judge. I got the sense at the end that they were okay friendship wise, just need legal decision on the property. Sad Judge.
I am glad all my nieghbors. 24 of them get along like family and help each other out when in need. . I mow there lawns and clear snow for most of the them. People need to get along.
When I was a kid growing up we had absolutely horrific neighbours. They literally tried to sue my mom and dad about everything & anything like the music, being too loud during the day in the summer, planting flowers against the fence that they didn’t like, just everything & anything you could think of they were just horrible people & thank God after 3 years of them living next to us they moved, but as an adult with my house now, I have fantastic neighbours right next to me and across the street. When we moved in, 3 of my neighbours brought us welcome to the neighbourhood gifts. 1 neighbour made brownies, 1 neighbour made cookies & the 3rd neighbour actually went out and bought us a housewarming gift, so I’m very lucky to have the neighbours I do now & we all help each other out like in the winter, when it snow is, we will actually shovel their front walk for them, or they will do it for us. If we don’t get to it 1st but as a kid, my parents didn’t even want us going in our own backyard because they didn’t know what the deranged Sue happy neighbours were gonna do.
I have to admit, I HATE when neighbour’s visitors park in front of my house; my next door neighbours stay having ppl over and everyone has to squeeze into spaces by their homes; I would NEVER call the police or say anything to him. He’s not breaking the law and really he’s not disturbing anyone, just a bit obnoxious
Anytime I’ve become friendly with neighbors it always ends in disaster lol. I now keep to myself but will say hi if they seem like they want the interaction
same here. neighbors are weird. i had a neighbor for years and years, always friendly, knew her whole family. plowed her driveway, she’d bake me cookies. just normal stuff. til one day she turned on me, called me an idiot for making a dog nervous by making noise while i was working and the dog could go pee. she could have said, hey gino the dog wants to go pee, that easy. i never saw the dog. but heyyy wellll. excuse me, i didn’t know the dog was mor important then me getting my work done. dude know i was blessed by living next door to a dog with ties to royalty. shit, next time i’ll wear a tux and walk the dog and wipe his ass after he’s done. i’ve got some nerve. other side are chinese family. they said hi for six months then called it quits and stated shoveling snow in front of my other driveway. wtf lol across the street are people that cone and go so fast there’s not time to say hi. the other house across, you never see, or they they get in the car and go. the other house, i offered a special tool for siding to make his life really easy….wanted nothing to do with it lololol. he has a dog that barks really loud and bothers allll the neighbors. he loves that of course. it’s not worth getting to know some neighbors, what for. lol too much weirdness. or it’s rudeness, i don’t get it.
This past snow storm, we all came out and shoveled each other’s driveways and cars. Not to sound corny, but when I got home, I felt a really warm feeling in my heart
8:13 “What’s it like to hate your neighbor?” So she puts that vitriol out there but doesn’t let them say they don’t hate their neighbor? That was shady and shameful on JM’s part.
In the end, the snOOty defendant wearing a white scarf to match his white hair was the only snoTTy one. He has a very long nose to look down on everyone, because in his small mind everyone is BELOW him. On the other hand, the plaintiff hubby grudgingly shook the hand of his enemy neighbor's wife- only because She extended her hand to him. But anyway, three cheers to the women. It was heartwarming watching them hug-it-out. Loved that!
We had a partial fence (in the back) but us 6 kids never ever crossed over into the neighbors yard (mom constantly made sure of that). Neighborly respect. Not everyone shows it.
I remember as a kid my parents fussing with the neighbors about fencing and which way it should face… Lol! Eavesdropping on my parents talking, I thought it was an odd argument to have. Now, after watching some of these shows, I see it is a lot more frequent of an argument than I’d thought.
Black guy that answered Harvey was on point ❤️ with all the HATRED in our world the small stuff doesn’t matter. We’re getting ready for a POSSIBLE WAR THAT COULD END ALL OF US!
Just the way the plaintiff was acting when she walked in you could tell she was the controlling one in that family. She had it in her head that she was right and NO ONE was gonna change her mind. The female defendant was told they won and she was pissy about not being able to talk. JM was correct, there is something behind the scenes that created something and both parties no matter that they hugged at the end will nitpik the other at every chance they get. I would not be surprised to find out one of them went out with a ruler to measure the height of the others grass JUST to create drama. There is a show on ID channel called "Fear Thy Neighbor", the title says it all and I wouldn't be surprised at all if these 2 wind up as an episode.
I feel for the husband on the plaintiff's side. When the woman you love won't listen to you from the get go, you try to support her from afar because she's still your wife yet you don't want the humiliation of being wrong at the plaintiff's lectern, the judge emasculates you because she is the same way with her husband, and then your wife is all smiles and laughter after she embarrassed you both and seems to feel no remorse about it because of her foolish ego, it's like you've been tied to a fence post and the whole town threw tomatoes at you. You feel resentful toward your wife, resentful toward the judge who condescended you by diminishing the knowledge you had about the situation, and resentful that you had to waste your time in court when you knew the case wouldn't go anywhere.
But he just stood there and said I knew the fence was on their land which completely undermined her case. Surely he should have mentioned this before she paid out the court fees?
@@laceandbits I'm 100% sure he told his wife that in many arguments before she wanted to sue. She didn't listen, wasted both of their time, and humiliated them both on national television.
I lived in a condo in calgary in the early 2000's. I didn't know my neighbours, one or two. My mom lived with me for awhile [I would not recommend it] however she made friends with all of them. give them cards. gifts for their pets. etc. One said to me. your mom is a really nice lady...I looked around me then said. YOUR TALKING TO ME! lol.
Just be nice to each other stay in your own yard.don't throw things in someone's just say hello chit chat little don't piss each other off that simple.
I lived in my house for 24 years, the first 14 years were wonderful, but sadly my neighbor died and his house was sold to some ghastly people who made my life a misery for 10 years, they poisoned my chickens, they stole the eggs and their verbal abuse was relentless, so I ended up having to move for my own sanity...
I lived in a house for 20 years and I never talked to my neighbors, just a hi and good morning or afternoon, but not more than that and never had problems with them. When I cut my grass I always cut theirs too and never cared for a thank you or anything, it just felt good. They started doing the same thing for us and at the end of my staying almost the whole block was taking care of each other. That was really sweet.
Everybody was paying it forward! Nice job,, Way to make the world a better place
I've lived next door to our neighbors for about 20 years, too. Couldn't tell you their names. They have a basketball goal right on the property line and the ball rolls in to our yard occasionally. The kids retrieve the ball and all is well. Every Independence Day, they have fireworks. The next morning, they're out picking up the resulting trash - including what landed in our yard. They have three dogs that bark at me every single time I step out on my deck. They shush the dogs, I tell them it's fine, the dogs don't bother me. The dogs quiet down after a minute, and everything's good. People just need to relax and get along.
There are so many nice people in the world, and most of them are neighbors. We had neighbors moved in across the street last year, and they bought us Christmas cookies. It was such a nice gesture, and a wonderful way to get to know them a bit. Now they’re taking our kids out to the movies and having them over for supper. Good for you! You guys found out that you are great people. I love that.
My neighbor is a p.o.s
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The plaintiff husband looks like he is sick of all of them. 😭😭😂😂 Even his own life
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Both husbands on tha koo 😅😅
Obviously… he didn’t even stand next to his wife in court lol
He wanted no parts of it 🤣
@@The2Coolest2 no grill
I had an upstairs neighbor who’s children stayed up late and were extremely loud keeping my toddlers up. I went to her and asked nicely to just have them quiet down around 8pm so as not to disturb my kids sleep schedule. Not only did she do what I asked but she baked us cookies and left a nice note telling me how grateful she was I went to her and didn’t make it into a huge deal! This was 12 years ago and were still friends to this day 😁.
You’re lucky! ☺️
That's what happens when both neighbors are kind, decent people. It's the way it should work.
what kind of cookies?
That was really nice!!!
@@ginoasciI guess Chocolate Chip. 😂😂😂
Plaintiff: Our dog escaped because they took the fence down.
Defendant: We didn't even know they had a dog!
Also Defendant: Their dog's poop is on our porch
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"A race to civility, you just won the case and that's not enough for you".....I love this judge.
HOMEOWNERS…ESP new home owners:
I’m a Property surveyor. Let me tell you one thing. Getting a boundary survey and a pre-existing structures survey is so incredibly important when you have neighbors close to your property. It will establish a LEGAL boundary and it will be filed with the courthouse.
Get a survey BEFORE you get a fence. And when you put up s fence…build it at LEAST 1 FOOT INSIDE YOUR PROPERTY LINE. So that if you have to fix it/paint it/maintain it….you will still be on YOUR PROPERTY if you have to do anything to the side of the fence facing the neighbors.
I agree. My neighbor insists that he owns 18” from his fence line so I hired a surveyor. The surveyor was here on the 24th, and it appears like he found the original stakes which are by the neighbors tree in the front and the other one in the rear is by the neighbors fence, right on the property line. Im just waiting for the surveyor to place the 18” irons to mark the corners of my property and the drawing before I notify the neighbor.
@@shelbyw7967 Smart idea calling in the surveyor. Too many ppl waste time arguing instead of having math and lasers prove the truth. And don’t worry, Surveyors are insured and they are considered expert witnesses if you ever have to go to court or file against your neighbor. It’s part of our job to be expert witnesses. Good luck with everything!
Wow! Great info".......thank you, 🙏👍👏
Hell no! I live in the city, and I would never give up that much land for my neighbor to enjoy. Get it surveyed and marked certainly. Speak with your neighbor to share the cost and put the fence right on the line. Now you both agree on the boundary, and you both have a shared interest in maintaining the fence.
Danielle Waked....I find that a very strange thing to do, that would mean that there are two fences next to each other (if the neighbour wants a fence as well). Why can't people just get together, decide on a fence and build it on the boundary line and each pay half the cost.
The plantiff showed total class after the verdict, defendents need to take lessons from her.
The plantiffs lost and felt stupid.
@@danyellg3079 the ones who should feel stupid are the defendants.
@@serpentoftheshire it's a matter of opinion
If the judge had let her talk, she was trying to say that they didn't hate each other.
How much class did it show to sue when she had the survey and knew the fence was on the defendant's property?
Just keep to yourself and dont let people in your business. Sometimes the friendliest neighbors are the worst kind of snakes behind your back.
Sadly, that's only half of the problem. The reality is that there are neighbors out there who do like to start problems, especially with people who keep to themselves. Ill intended people will always look for (or find) ways to cause problems.
@@uacbpa I've had my fair share of this even in apartment complexes. I was the neighbor that was friendly, but mostly kept to myself and I had issues with neighbors that thrived on drama and conflict. Bad thing about it was most of the people causing problems were people in their 50-60s. I was in my early and mid 20s. Was really mind blowing
watch out for this person if you're their neighbor lol
Yes, it was Agatha all along. After all, she killed Sparky too!
The plaintiffs husband is so over this BS😂😂😂
I feel the fire coming off of his body! lmao
Yeah, they're trying to act all cool because they found a common enemy; the judge calling them out for being a bunch of toxic jerks.
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exactly, they didn't want to look like schoolchildren being told by the principle to behave
No they both took the judges advice and took the high road, no shame in that. Not sure about the husband's, sounds like you might fall in that category 🤔
@@MrStudo67 They were pretending to get along and downplayed Judge Milan's comments. "There has not been much nastiness at all... You can have a disagreement among friends." That was said just to tell off the judge and pretend for the world. Look at both men stare each other down in the back. The women just did not want to seem petty on TV like the judge showed them that they were.
good one
Karen must talk. Karen must interrupt the judge.
Karen needs to learn to SHUT UP and listen when someone else is speaking.
I-am-Karen. I-cannot-help-it.
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I'm very pleased with how that ended. Neighbors didnt wait until they got home but immediately hugged at end of case. Love it.
I didn't want to like the defendants for several reasons, but I will admit, when the plaintiff hugged the defendant and she responded back nicely, I thought, they are all decent people. That said- a simple survey to show the property line would have settled this years ago.
The problem was that because they didn't talk, the litigants didn't know the fence was coming down and the defendants a) claimed they didn't know there was a dog there and b) unfortunately took it down when the neighbours were away. Although having said that last comment, the dog surely wasn't 'home alone' and it was the daughter's dog so she should have been looking after it. While the fence was up and secure and not bothering anyone, it didn't matter much which side of the line it is even though technically it was wrong. The problem only arose when the defendants wanted a new fence to match their landscaping and because the fence was on their land, they were perfectly entitled to take it down.
Now go back to to the bit at the end when they are being interviewed (all together) and look at Mr defendant's face. Looks like he's sucking lemons - he is not a happy man and the other husband's not much better. The wives may think it's all alright now but maybe not after they get home.
That hug back was for show. You could see she was taken aback and awkward. She had a gloating expression on her face.
The boy with the 9 on sweatshirt looks like he wants to throw something at the couple. 😂😂
@@laceandbits You are right. I think the women were putting on a show for Doug because they got a dressing down by the judge and wanted to prove on TV that the judge was wrong. "You can have disagreements among friends..." Yeah, you are not friends lady.
soooo you didn’t want to like the defendants and you’re just watching a video lolol
you must be a horrible neighbor lololol
you hate your neighbors just because WOW !!
you’re brutal
I've never met my neighbors. I prefer it that way.
Me too… I actually avoid stepping outside if I see them out there, oops? I just want peace and privacy!
Exactly 💯
Lee;O Gone Wild
I do the same thing...
The husbands are looking at their wives like what a bunch of BS
I noticed that. I think they were just saving face. Not necessarily a bad thing I guess. Better if it was sincere.
Well the older guy isn’t coz he kept notes on his iPhone . Quote
No, defendant’s hubby is in it 100%
Having a good relationship with your neighbors makes your life so much better. The neighbors my mother has at her house are basically family. They help each other and exchange gifts for birthdays and Christmas. It makes for a happier home life!
I love when the Judge says you won and it's still not good enough for you.
yeah, i think the defendant will ruin that friendship at some point.
you can’t take the rude out of people. it always surfaces because it’s not in them.
she can’t control herself, because she can’t control herself lololol
At the end, the defendant sounded like she was going to throw the plaintiff under the bus (even tho she had just won) that's when the plaintiff came over and hugged her. Hope the "good feelings" continue to last, but I kind of doubt it.
The plaintiff's husband had a sour face. Come on dude, just try.
Our town has an ordinance that does not allow you to put the “good” side facing in. You have to give the good side to the neighbor.
I pray they can just grow up, have a nice BBQ, get nicely drunk and laugh about all of it!
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Me too. You're a good person
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Awesome advice Judge Milian!! Love her so much. This was all a big misunderstanding and I'm so glad they made up at the end ❤
Yesssss! I loved how she told them to “race to civility” that was cool
"a race to civility" Excellent advice!
haha the Defendants reminded me of a young Thurston Howell III, and his wife, Lovey....
😂😂😂
Lol
Judge Milian with the verbal slay in the final seconds of the case!!!
Love the advise by the judge to just get along and leave peacefully. They don't even know each other yet they hated each other so much. Life is too short, be kind to each other ✌.
My older age I’m changing drastically. Now why did this bring tears to my eyes. I wish we all could get along. At least just enough to have PEACE!
I like how Judge Milian often gives wise “mini lectures” to the litigants in her courtroom to instil some common sense in them.
Why do these ppl come to court without an updated survey?!?!? The defendants didn't pay for one either. They found one at county it went their favor. At least they did that much.
Why does it need to be updated? Property lines don’t move.
In Australia, dividing fences belong to BOTH people. If a fence needs fixing or replacing, BOTH parties are required to pay HALF each, unless only one side damages the fence.
I own a few residential homes USA, and one property actually has 3 fences near a property line...installed by different owners over the years. Rule of thumb in America, if it's on your property, then you can do as you wish (assuming following city/gov't regulations). If I don't want a fence, and you do, then you'd need to build within your property lines.
Awww that was nice ... thanks to the judge being more than a judge 🤎
Random, but I’m really into the male defendant’s shirt collar! Looks nice 👍🏾
Its literally the reason I clicked on the video. That white collar and that white hair are everything!
That's a thing that goes over his neck because his arm is in a cast. Look at his hand - he has a cast.
It’s a cravat… a man’s scarf.
As a fence builder for many years, the "ugly" side towards the fence owner is the standard way fences are installed. This will give you a clue as to who owns the fence but can't be used as the only proof. I would estimate roughly 95% of our customers prefer "pretty" side out for curb appeal but we always explain the option of having the better looking side facing their property before we begin. It makes no difference in price to the customer or effort for us as the builder. The bottom line is the customer paying for the job gets their fence built exactly the way they want it as long as it's on their property and meets local codes. And HOA requirements where applicable of course.
re-doing our fence and nice side is inside because it's easier to put it in with the boards on our side.
It's code here to put the pretty side facing out and our neighbors left the ugly side face us, with nails sticking out. Nothing about it fits to code (it doesn't follow the land, they built it straight across on a slope with all the same size planks and it's completely empty at the bottom down the hill. They literally stacked old bricks and rocks underneath it. All to prevent us from 'looking on their property" because they built a pool. But they only built the one side, facing us. Nowhere else.
The fences between my house and my neighbors' houses looks exactly the same on both sides, and both sides are pretty. Why don't people just install fences like that?
@@Geronimo2Fly the biggest reason is cost.
yup
Man it would suck to have trouble with neighbors. We are fortunate to have wonderful neighbors that we get along really well with. Always a good idea to establish a friendship, if not at least a friendly relationship early on.
All they needed to do was get a property survey that will tell you where the line is. They are all jerks and made a mountain out of a mole hill
Actually, only one person filed suit. The defendants have to respond, and then you find out they did exactly what the law says they can do. So, how are the defendants jerks?
I'm surprised they hugged lol. Everyone should be nice and leave their weird neighbors alone. Hello and goodbye is more than enough for me!
The defendants look like the "neighbours from hell", she just wouldn't shut up, most neighbours get on well when it comes to fixing or renewing the intermediate fence, but this woman would drive you nuts!!
These people (defendant) TOTALLY look like trouble. Worst kind of neighbors.
esp how he speaks
Defendants should have had to pay. Anyone who would remove a fence while their neighbors are on vacation is a coward
It was established it's THEIR fence, they can remove it whenever they wish. How are they to know the neighbors they don't socialize with are on vacation? The neighborly thing to do would be to give them advanced notice though. But from a legal standpoint, they were well within their rights.
Coward, WTF? If it's on owner's property, and they want an open yard, then that's their prerogative and their right to do so. Defendants can install their own fence.
This case is a mess. Sounds like a case of dueling Karens doing what they do best. This could've easily been resolved with a pack of beer. Sad that not many people have that ability to get along with others nowadays
One is wearing a cheap wig one forgot to wash her hair for a week he needs a diaper
And a BBQ.
Both sides seem like they haver a bit of a nasty edge to them.
Defendant's husband reminds me of a concert pianist who is about to perform the entire works of Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Brahms, or Johann Sebastian Bach to an auditorium packed with over 5000 people. He's got that "mad musician" vibe.
Its the collar.
Certainly mad
Stuffy is going to figure out anyone can park on a Street
That's true! I too hate that people park in front of my house, but don't make a big fuss out of it!!
The street doesn't belong to me
Most cities have laws about public parking. Our neighborhood only allows visitor parking 8 hours per year. Code enforcement will ticket cars parked too long.
@@AP-uo7sp 🤣
That is pathetic
you can disagree amongst friends and then sue them?!...that is not my friend!
She said “the dogs from the hood aren’t in your yard” ☠️😂
My introduction to my neighbour was him complaining that birds were pooping in his grass and that was my fault. Then it was my fault that rats had been seen (turned out the rats were nesting in his garden under the decking). Then ‘when are you getting rid of the bees’…a swarm had formed on my eaves…like they do before they move on. Meanwhile they systematically got rid of all living things in their garden…replaced the grass, removed all real plants and put fake ones in and every other inch was asphalted or concreted.
It’s always struck me as odd because we back straight into the country park and fields full of wildlife. Weird !
Watching this again, I'm reminded how grateful I am for my neighbors. After my car accident a month ago, one of them (no one will take credit!) came and cut my overgrown bushes. I'm really up on my yard maintenance, I'm out there nearly everyday to check that my flowers & everything are doing well... so they all see me, out there in the billion degree heat. Clearly someone knew that it was going to drive me crazy that the bushes were getting funky. I was blown away when I saw them the next day. I literally gasped and stopped in my tracks. When I can use my hand again, I'm going to make plates of yummy stuff for all neighbors around me with a note expressing my thanks to the anonymous person/people. Other than to thank the anonymous gardener, I want to let the others know that one of our neighbors was incredibly thoughtful, too! Be good to your neighbors, even if they're weird, grumpy or even if they ignore you. You never know what crap they're going through. I'm pretty private, but someone's kindness made recovering from the accident, having my car totalled, etc. a little less painful. ❤
The look on the plaintiffs husbands face in the interview...too good
My new upstairs neighbors accidentally rang my bell when they were moving in. They brushed past me, and their Cuban friend said: "Sorry, they don't speak English."😳 (Not a reason to act like I didn't EXIST.) They didn't use garbage bags, so their trash from the dumpster blew all over the BLOCK, resulting in a warning from the city for the whole building! They let their kid run the shower for 90 minutes, until it *flooded my bathroom.* We've had 2 other tenants since last March in that unit, but these are the only tenants that the *whole building* despises; and the whole building is also Latino, so that says a lot! Sometimes, people are just inconsiderate!!
Defendants look like those from the neighborhood of Edward Scissorhands. That looks like a fake hug.
Wonderful advice from the judge.
I loved the look on the plaintiffs husband at the end in the hallway talking to Doug. He knew that hug was phony and it's clear they hate each other. 😂
After I first saw this episode, I had a run in with my neighbor who I thought was cool, but turns out she’s been holding a grudge against me for past 5 years and refused to tell me why even after I confronted her. She chased my workers from parking in front of her house. She yelled at me for trimming her trees that overhung into my driveway. She wouldn’t answer me. I tried to solve it but I guess she was okay with living in a hostile environment. Weird.
Honestly if I was your neighbor and you are understand it's on your side the tree part and everything but sometimes we don't like people touching their things I'm one of those people and if it's your friends who parked in front of their house they should park in front of your house don't know why you think no one's going to be upset about that I want those people who will probably be upset about that I'm the nicest person ever but certain things do make me upset like it sounds like some of the things you put on yourself
I've owned my house since 2008. I've had some of the same neighbors and some come and go. I've had issues with very few, one who was a creepy dude that wouldn't leave me alone & the other was his wife who left him for his best friend that lived across the street from them (& diagonal from me).. she only didn't like me because I was friends with her new man's wife 🤦🏼♀️ other than that everyone on our street minds their own business & if they have issues with someone for whatever reason they either talk it out like adults or they just don't speak. It's really not hard to avoid conflict and treat others with respect. And thats the best thing you can do when you're going to be living next to or close to someone!
i am so thankful i have great neighbors!!! my dog is off leash trained and he would chase squirrels in my neighbors yard behind us….i recalled him and apologized that he was in their yard he was so nice and said not to worry…he noticed the dog pooped and we immediately picked it up and didn’t leave it that’s all he cares about now my dog goes to his door daily to get treats and pets from them!! they are awesome
Judge Milian is absolutely right life is too short for all this hatred & all the other extra issues life is stressful enough 💯 our homes should be our castles I hope they can be civil with each other for their own sanity 👏🏾 maybe they can all go out for dinner or something and put this behind them but,there’s definitely some issues amongst them all whether they want to admit it or not I can see it in the defendant’s husband’s face 💯
Defendant: I never had one.... I didn't get to talk... what a witch of a lady
Well we don't know what she wanted to say.
Not one word from the judge penetrated their heads. She gives them a well-deserved dressing down and gets, "Let me show you pictures." They love all this stupid, petty drama.
The male defendant looks like a Dollar General version of Jerry Springer, and his wife looks like a muppet.
😅😅😅 at the end she like "o yea we always been koo" meanwhile both they husbands faces saying "fukk all this ish" 😭😭😭
Maybe thats a reason why the Bible is so into loving your neighbors. The new law is all about loving your next
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My neighbors live really close! And they have party outside almost every week. He asked me to tell him if the music was to loud. I said "It is ok, you guys go having a good time while your young!" And they all SO happy for my answer.
If the music is to loud I usually sing along or dance in my livingroom or at the balcony. It's fun to hear songs from 70-80 just a bit changed 😁
What part of the world do you live? You sound like a great neighbor!
@@sosad9381 Thank you so much! 🙏
I am from Norway, and really north! The ppl north in Norway are known for being open, directly, generous and more relaxed. I dont feel I am, but I am always polite and I smile and say hi when having a walk. Ppl often lightens up if they get a "helo" and some words, espesially elder ppl. (I am a nurse, and my heart is into lighten ppl, build them up, cos that makes me really "alive" and happy!)
Bless you so much 🙏🇧🇻 💛
They brought the judge in NOT for a friendship decision but a legal decision. They wanted an objective decision on who should if so replace the fence. Judge Milan is trying so hard to be philosopher on top of judge. I got the sense at the end that they were okay friendship wise, just need legal decision on the property. Sad Judge.
Yes. It’s the People’s Court. It’s called entertainment.
Yeah...the judge is obnoxious and rude. The more I hear her talk the more I dislike her. She's full of herself.
@@glumberty1 I think you're the one who is so full of yourself.
I am glad all my nieghbors. 24 of them get along like family and help each other out when in need. . I mow there lawns and clear snow for most of the them. People need to get along.
When I was a kid growing up we had absolutely horrific neighbours. They literally tried to sue my mom and dad about everything & anything like the music, being too loud during the day in the summer, planting flowers against the fence that they didn’t like, just everything & anything you could think of they were just horrible people & thank God after 3 years of them living next to us they moved, but as an adult with my house now, I have fantastic neighbours right next to me and across the street. When we moved in, 3 of my neighbours brought us welcome to the neighbourhood gifts. 1 neighbour made brownies, 1 neighbour made cookies & the 3rd neighbour actually went out and bought us a housewarming gift, so I’m very lucky to have the neighbours I do now & we all help each other out like in the winter, when it snow is, we will actually shovel their front walk for them, or they will do it for us. If we don’t get to it 1st but as a kid, my parents didn’t even want us going in our own backyard because they didn’t know what the deranged Sue happy neighbours were gonna do.
Kudos to the ladies hugging and chatting after. Yay!
I have to admit, I HATE when neighbour’s visitors park in front of my house; my next door neighbours stay having ppl over and everyone has to squeeze into spaces by their homes; I would NEVER call the police or say anything to him. He’s not breaking the law and really he’s not disturbing anyone, just a bit obnoxious
That Defendant husband thinks he's really something. I've seen thousands of pretentious prats like him before.
Anytime I’ve become friendly with neighbors it always ends in disaster lol. I now keep to myself but will say hi if they seem like they want the interaction
same!
same here. neighbors are weird.
i had a neighbor for years and years, always friendly, knew her whole family. plowed her driveway, she’d bake me cookies.
just normal stuff.
til one day she turned on me, called me an idiot for making a dog nervous by making noise while i was working and the dog could go pee.
she could have said, hey gino the dog wants to go pee, that easy.
i never saw the dog.
but heyyy wellll. excuse me, i didn’t know the dog was mor important then me getting my work done.
dude know i was blessed by living next door to a dog with ties to royalty.
shit, next time i’ll wear a tux and walk the dog and wipe his ass after he’s done.
i’ve got some nerve.
other side are chinese family.
they said hi for six months then called it quits and stated shoveling snow in front of my other driveway.
wtf lol
across the street are people that cone and go so fast there’s not time to say hi.
the other house across, you never see, or they they get in the car and go.
the other house, i offered a special tool for siding to make his life really easy….wanted nothing to do with it lololol. he has a dog that barks really loud and bothers allll the neighbors. he loves that of course.
it’s not worth getting to know some neighbors, what for. lol
too much weirdness. or it’s rudeness, i don’t get it.
That "hhmphh" at the very end tho 😂
Some neighbor feuds can't be solved, but usually it's two people that just anger each other and that can be solved.
Dude seems incredibly pompous.
This past snow storm, we all came out and shoveled each other’s driveways and cars. Not to sound corny, but when I got home, I felt a really warm feeling in my heart
Had the plantiff just checked the survey, she would've saved herself some embarrassment for coming across like a Karen
You can’t be a Karen to another white….
@@mdgamble - another white what? CAN WE PLEASE STOP RACE BAITING? It will never go away unless we just STOP.
@@mdgamble It is clear you don't understand how that word is used.
@@yepitsme3336 the term Karen is literally about a WHITE WOMAN! I’m just responding to the comment
@@mdgamble Even IF it was, why would the fact that they’re both white mean a damn thing 😂😂 make it make sense. Two wrongs don’t make a white?
The defendant looks like he is dressed like Return of the Jedi, its an off looking outfit....
Is that the most fake hug in history?!
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“What’s it like to hate your neighbor?”
So she puts that vitriol out there but doesn’t let them say they don’t hate their neighbor? That was shady and shameful on JM’s part.
@Annie497
Telling your neighbor you don’t hate them isn’t “dribble.” Our words have power.
@@thebalderthor4884 I think it's because she didn't want their denial. Because people do that too often.. they act one way and then deny deny deny
@@sosad9381
Denial? They hugged in the hallway. She didn’t want to be challenged you mean.
In the end, the snOOty defendant wearing a white scarf to match his white hair was the only snoTTy one. He has a very long nose to look down on everyone, because in his small mind everyone is BELOW him. On the other hand, the plaintiff hubby grudgingly shook the hand of his enemy neighbor's wife- only because She extended her hand to him. But anyway, three cheers to the women. It was heartwarming watching them hug-it-out. Loved that!
We had a partial fence (in the back) but us 6 kids never ever crossed over into the neighbors yard (mom constantly made sure of that). Neighborly respect. Not everyone shows it.
I remember as a kid my parents fussing with the neighbors about fencing and which way it should face… Lol! Eavesdropping on my parents talking, I thought it was an odd argument to have. Now, after watching some of these shows, I see it is a lot more frequent of an argument than I’d thought.
Inquiring minds want to know where you shop for your wigs at 😵💫
Ronald McDonald store
😂😂😂the husband was sitting in the crowd. Didn’t want no parts of this case!!
Black guy that answered Harvey was on point ❤️ with all the HATRED in our world the small stuff doesn’t matter.
We’re getting ready for a POSSIBLE WAR THAT COULD END ALL OF US!
Why do the defendants look like they're in disguises?
Just the way the plaintiff was acting when she walked in you could tell she was the controlling one in that family. She had it in her head that she was right and NO ONE was gonna change her mind. The female defendant was told they won and she was pissy about not being able to talk. JM was correct, there is something behind the scenes that created something and both parties no matter that they hugged at the end will nitpik the other at every chance they get. I would not be surprised to find out one of them went out with a ruler to measure the height of the others grass JUST to create drama. There is a show on ID channel called "Fear Thy Neighbor", the title says it all and I wouldn't be surprised at all if these 2 wind up as an episode.
Their husbands are lovers 😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
He made sure she was doing this case by HERSELF. YOU are suing them, YOU handle it.
The plaintiff's husband face while she's talking to Doug says it all😤😂
the way he was staring down the male defendant means he was pissed.
I feel for the husband on the plaintiff's side. When the woman you love won't listen to you from the get go, you try to support her from afar because she's still your wife yet you don't want the humiliation of being wrong at the plaintiff's lectern, the judge emasculates you because she is the same way with her husband, and then your wife is all smiles and laughter after she embarrassed you both and seems to feel no remorse about it because of her foolish ego, it's like you've been tied to a fence post and the whole town threw tomatoes at you. You feel resentful toward your wife, resentful toward the judge who condescended you by diminishing the knowledge you had about the situation, and resentful that you had to waste your time in court when you knew the case wouldn't go anywhere.
But he just stood there and said I knew the fence was on their land which completely undermined her case. Surely he should have mentioned this before she paid out the court fees?
@@laceandbits I'm 100% sure he told his wife that in many arguments before she wanted to sue. She didn't listen, wasted both of their time, and humiliated them both on national television.
I would never want to see the red head woman, be behind me when I turn on the light in my bathroom at night. She looks so creepy.
Keep loving your neighbors as self💕
The defendant wife still had to say something by going humpfff. Kudos on plaintiff wife
Thankful I do not have neighbors 😂🤣😂
She treats these litigants much differently than the average.
I'm not trying to be facetious, I'm just curious... what do you mean?
I lived in a condo in calgary in the early 2000's. I didn't know my neighbours, one or two. My mom lived with me for awhile [I would not recommend it] however she made friends with all of them. give them cards. gifts for their pets. etc. One said to me. your mom is a really nice lady...I looked around me then said. YOUR TALKING TO ME! lol.
Heck yeah, everyone loves a good FENCELAW case 🤘🏼🤘🏼🤘🏼
There certainly isn't a "Welcome Wagon" anymore in neighborhoods🙈
Just be nice to each other stay in your own yard.don't throw things in someone's just say hello chit chat little don't piss each other off that simple.
I lived in my house for 24 years, the first 14 years were wonderful, but sadly my neighbor died and his house was sold to some ghastly people who made my life a misery for 10 years, they poisoned my chickens, they stole the eggs and their verbal abuse was relentless, so I ended up having to move for my own sanity...
I like the judge because she is more than just a judge.
The female defendant be giving me Thelma vibes , scooby Dooby Doo
Husband's at the end all look like they wanna murk each other lol
Once again, I am *so* glad that I don’t have neighbors anywhere near my home. 😂