She Persevered Even Though Her Family Failed Her

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  • In today's episode, our guest Vanessa Canteberry shares her personal story with us. Vanessa grew up in a challenging family environment, facing significant difficulties from a young age. She experienced mistreatment on multiple occasions during her childhood, which deeply impacted her life.
    Despite the traumatic nature of these experiences, Vanessa demonstrated remarkable resilience and strength. She emerged from these hardships with a determination to reshape her narrative through courage and a journey of self-discovery. Join us as we listen to Vanessa's story and gain insight into how she has worked to overcome the adversity of her past.
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  • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
    @UnfilteredStoriesYT  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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  • @hannahm1223
    @hannahm1223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Anyone who chooses their lover’s company over their child’s SAFETY deserves a place in **** 💔

    • @JanJanNow
      @JanJanNow 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts

  • @stellabellafontay9366
    @stellabellafontay9366 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    It pains me that in so many of these crimes against children, the parents or guardians are in denial. Worse is when they accuse the victim of being a liar. 😢

    • @classifiedinfo9853
      @classifiedinfo9853 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Even worse still, the parent is still with the person who violated their kid. Using that old ,"I'm going to live my life with or without you!" Its disgusting how parents in these situations can go to sleep and wake up still believing they're parents after what they allowed their partners to do to their kids.

  • @user-yt8hm4oc5r
    @user-yt8hm4oc5r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    it saddens me when I hear how her childhood was so sad. All children need love, respect. and most of all to feel safe. Her parents failed her, society failed her. You are a strong woman, don't let your history hold you back. May God Bless You and protect you!

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Sounds lie her mom sold her

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like

    • @YourSecretIsSafeWithMe
      @YourSecretIsSafeWithMe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I did not fail her. I don’t know this lady from Eve.🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Zeramey
      @Zeramey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ceceprincess4758yes was thinking the same thing

  • @vivio2852
    @vivio2852 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Vanessa what a beautiful woman you became, you raised yourself right.

  • @tracytaylor1893
    @tracytaylor1893 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Your brother is looking down smiling and so proud of you. It was not your fault you didn't deserve it you probably know that but it needs to be said sometimes you are so inspiring

  • @ceceprincess4758
    @ceceprincess4758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    We need to teach kids to tell and stop letting our kids be around ppl we dont know

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even people you DO know will be inappropriate.

  • @ErenMora-le4eh
    @ErenMora-le4eh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Don't give up ...Your brother gave wise advice

  • @bigdaddyfellowsh
    @bigdaddyfellowsh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    These predators do these things. But don't want anyone except their victim to know

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. Once you have been violated as a child there is a spirit on you that pedos can pick up. Their demons are attracted to your broken spirit. 😢😢

    • @JanJanNow
      @JanJanNow 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I've said this in all these videos posted here. It's a spiritual thing.

    • @LilithsCosmicLounge
      @LilithsCosmicLounge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I also think you can tell when a child doesn’t have a support system at home. Especially if you see how kid’s are when they have one. Children can’t hide their hurt very well. That is what abusers pick up on.
      I hope all women and children heal from their trauma’s ❤
      Don’t give up hope❤

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JanJanNow ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LilithsCosmicLounge ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @kathydavis2764
      @kathydavis2764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry to hear that I would think my life should be at some peace

  • @magicman124
    @magicman124 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Sic all who played a roll

  • @Jaya-zn7vr
    @Jaya-zn7vr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Vanessa you are a rockstar! The strength you have to survive then thrive through the oppression and abuse... I wish I had %10 of that survival that you have. 1st step, I'm going to buy your book ⭐ 🦋 🌱 🧡

  • @denisedawson1085
    @denisedawson1085 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is one of the stories that has made me cry. These are some horrible situations to have been in

  • @tiadekattu9096
    @tiadekattu9096 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    God Bless you Vanessa 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @mstt3530
    @mstt3530 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for sharing your story with us! God bless you and your children!

  • @miraclesforus
    @miraclesforus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Deepest gratitude for sharing this incredible trauma you survived. You are a living testament to the power of the human spirit and the power of God. I am weeping at hearing this as my son survived unimaginable trauma and yet I did everything to protect him once I found out what he endured and were both victimized by a corrupt court system, professionals,clergy , family and fake friends. My condolences on the loss of your brother who is now in the arms of God waiting for your reunification one day. I wish you were my daughter. God has blessed you with a special annointing.Rejection is protection. That is why you and your brother were annointed .You both were of a different spirit, as the gate is narrow. I am sending you a heart full of love and prayers for strength, provision, wisdom, provision,joy and health in the resurrected power of Christ Jesus. Lovingly, Susan

  • @OneGoodWoman84
    @OneGoodWoman84 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes! Break generational curses 🙌🏾🫶🏾👊🏾 you got this, don't give up! 💯‼️

  • @deowil1
    @deowil1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Vanessa I am so very sorry that you lost your brother, but you stayed strong through all of this dysfunction. Remember the saying, that God does not allow you to experience situations that you can't bear. Praying for you and your children as you continue to 'break that cycle."

  • @VanessaCanteberry
    @VanessaCanteberry 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you all for your kind words. I hope my story can help somebody else to know it's possible to change the narrative of your trauma and turn it into a powerful story. Feel free to stay connected as we go on this journey of forever healing in our purpose.

  • @daisything1006
    @daisything1006 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love you Queen, I’m so sorry this happened to you.

  • @saraspringer9489
    @saraspringer9489 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “keep fighting sis”
    😢❤

  • @Warrior_1673
    @Warrior_1673 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm so happy and proud of your strength

  • @kimberlyhill9498
    @kimberlyhill9498 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Look at God!!! What a powerful woman of God!!! I soooooooo love you!! Yessssssss trust God, awesomeness

  • @ronin8402
    @ronin8402 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you girl always.

  • @ShayonceEpperson90
    @ShayonceEpperson90 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    15:59 she wanted to file your daughter on her taxes

    • @deowil1
      @deowil1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She probably wanted to get some public assistance and food stamps too for this baby and spend it all on herself.

    • @ShayonceEpperson90
      @ShayonceEpperson90 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@deowil1 yeah true but when I heard her say January I immediately thought about taxes

    • @jessicathomas22717
      @jessicathomas22717 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@deowil1 exactly all her mother seen was 💲💲💲💲

  • @charlenetolar9470
    @charlenetolar9470 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In never ever give up darling 🙏😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😭

  • @homeamaze9129
    @homeamaze9129 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing your story God bless you and others with similar stories 🙏🏼 you're a warrior

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your resilience through all the pain and trauma you went through. I’m happy you found your self worth and the ability to make things happen despite being failed by so many who should’ve been there for you. Blessings to you and your children💜

  • @kathydavis2764
    @kathydavis2764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Prayers sent to u u deserved so much more remember that there's always someone who has worser life than u u have had such a sad life prayers sent out to u

  • @Dwh1960
    @Dwh1960 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So powerful!❤

  • @rethablair6902
    @rethablair6902 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank u for ur strength 🤗 I sometimes wonder why God allows us to go thru such🤔

  • @elaibesummers906
    @elaibesummers906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am so sorry for what you had to endure in your childhood. As a child you have no words and if your being threatened by an adult, of course you are not going to say anything. Thanks for sharing such a difficult story and sharing your truth. You are such a strong lady. Your story has really helped me. Like you my mum knew and never protected me. I cannot understand to this day. It was not your fault. There are some people out there walking this earth like humans but they are demons. I am sending you a virtual hug Venessa. I identify with a lot of what you said. For me, I trust no-one and I tell people, to this day, not to trust anyone. People say I am paranoid, they don't know why. So sorry for the loss of your brother. Most definitely your brother is looking down and is saying "keep fighting sis, don't give up"🤗. I pray love, light, peace, blessings and continued healing over your life.❤💜🙏🏾

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so sorry that you weren't protected when you were a child I totally understand why you don't trust people I too was abused when I was a child I hope you find a way to heal from your trauma

  • @kathydavis2764
    @kathydavis2764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel soo bad for u 😢 u deserve soo much bette😢

  • @willow_jayde
    @willow_jayde 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't say it very often at all. But God bless that teacher who showed this young woman what love compassion and care really was

  • @donnapalmer-colomitz3166
    @donnapalmer-colomitz3166 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kudos to you after all that !

  • @kimberbrown2858
    @kimberbrown2858 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sry hun!😢

  • @roho8143
    @roho8143 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow what a heartbreaking childhood. What the devil meant for evil GOD turned it around for good. May God continue to bless you and your family!

  • @hottiegurl16c
    @hottiegurl16c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤
    I am working on changing my story.
    I am in a very dark place right now. Working to get out and to be ok.

  • @tracymaragh483
    @tracymaragh483 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so sorry what happened to u sending you hugs ❤

  • @indigofay
    @indigofay 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praise God Sis!

  • @solyluna3345
    @solyluna3345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing I want to have the courage to share one day
    Means a lot to a lot of us

  • @wandasanders4924
    @wandasanders4924 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lived with a teacher😮😮😮 NEVER heard of that.

  • @tamaram.payton6487
    @tamaram.payton6487 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @brittneysperspective8433
    @brittneysperspective8433 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    @7:00 I’m beginning to get the feeling that her mother was selling her. Her mother knew something. And why were all of those men her mother knew being so inappropriate with her, no fear of her mother. With all that access to her. Yeah, her mother was in on it.

    • @MSSHARIII
      @MSSHARIII 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So sick 😣😣😣

  • @carolynmitchell7189
    @carolynmitchell7189 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯💯💯👍👍👍

  • @sandrapalmer4354
    @sandrapalmer4354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏

  • @delphineblue
    @delphineblue หลายเดือนก่อน

    HOW are there this many monsters in one community who had access to a child?!!

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vanessa mother truly failed her but im glad that she had a good relationship with one of her brothers sad what happened to him

  • @krissarasexydiva1781
    @krissarasexydiva1781 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😭

  • @judysmith2997
    @judysmith2997 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @elderlypoodle9181
    @elderlypoodle9181 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ❤️🙏🏻👍!!!

  • @jessicathomas22717
    @jessicathomas22717 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That mother failed her big time look like she did not want them at all

  • @lorimchann5075
    @lorimchann5075 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is God who has walked with you the whole way.

  • @tias.6675
    @tias.6675 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It wasn't that her mother didn't believe her. She was trying to force that sick behavior under the rug and wanted you to do so as well. I've heard these stories so many times.

  • @candygirl9923
    @candygirl9923 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These mom’s are weak and failed to protect their children

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And always want to be called "strong".

  • @9cardigan
    @9cardigan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you enable it you are just as bad! Shame on your mother 😢

  • @YourSecretIsSafeWithMe
    @YourSecretIsSafeWithMe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your life is full of twists and turns. How exciting.

    • @ctt3475
      @ctt3475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Stop typing rude messages. People are really hurting. This is not a joke. I hope descendants of you don’t experience this. Find something productive to do.

    • @miraclesforus
      @miraclesforus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your secret..you are a very sick person

    • @Poetic.rectum
      @Poetic.rectum 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your life is filled with misery, hatred, and a disgusting perversion for hurting people. How exciting! You just emanate joy and kindness you must be so happy!

    • @YourSecretIsSafeWithMe
      @YourSecretIsSafeWithMe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ctt3475 What I stated wasn’t rude. I will do the best that I can.