Apshagun | Hindi Short Film on Infertility | IVF| Motherhood | Drama | Why Not

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  • @ka19kl14united
    @ka19kl14united ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Nice concept . I also suffering form infertility from 9 years. My mom in law also always support me and told if u not get pregnant it's OK don't worry ...just enjoy ur life . I am very lucky to have her .

  • @venkatk1968
    @venkatk1968 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Again another nice and delicate subject. Hats off!
    If I were Avanti, I would have fallen at mother in law’s feet and would have hugged her wholeheartedly.
    Tons of appreciation to entire ‘LIFE Tak’ team.

  • @nupurverma2906
    @nupurverma2906 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Amazing video... I'm just 20 and at the age of 16 i was told I'm infertile, i was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure. When i started growing up i was so afraid that who will marry me and what if people are not gonna accept me and all.. but why tf we even think about them. I'm infertile, but there is nothing i can do about it, and this doesn't mean that I'm less of a women. I don't know how my future will be, but i know i will be happy.
    Thank you so much life tak ❤for this video, hope i don't relate to it in future, and people educate themselves from this wonderful video. People need to understand infertile women are also human.

    • @gayathrimanoj1617
      @gayathrimanoj1617 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's really sad that the society reduces our identity and value to our reproductive abilities. That's the reason we feel scared about such diagnosis. At the end of the day, much like you said, it's just one part of your life and it's not something you had a say in. But our conditioning makes us question our worth and makes us feel like we're somehow less lovable now.
      I'm super glad to see that you've emerged from those thoughts and decided that no matter how life takes you forward, you're going to be happy.
      It also makes me feel sure that you won't let yourself feel pressured to "settle for less" or "compromise" on your life and its decisions just because of a diagnosis.
      I hope you live the happy life you intend to.
      Much love and power to you, Nupur.

    • @surbhi.s
      @surbhi.s ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤❤❤ Hugs ❤❤❤

    • @chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443
      @chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hugs

    • @Shubham-et8qk
      @Shubham-et8qk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just like women need to understand that unemployed guys or very dark skinned guys or specially short heighted guys are also human but they failed to understand 😇 #hypocrisy😀

    • @Ananna700
      @Ananna700 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me also like u sis...when i was 17 i heard i never be a mother....now i am 20....but my thinking and ur thinking is same...me from Bangladesh

  • @mamathabanna
    @mamathabanna ปีที่แล้ว +56

    The MIL’s acting is from her heart. She just fits into every role given🙌🏻

  • @theShireennasir
    @theShireennasir ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every girls deserves a mother in law like that ❤.. beautiful understanding

  • @vsrig
    @vsrig ปีที่แล้ว +27

    LOVED the bit - you used modern words like baby shower but are old fashioned in your thoughts. So true!!

  • @LifeTak
    @LifeTak  ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you for all the love! Glad to have viewers like you!🥳

  • @ReginaPhalange_561
    @ReginaPhalange_561 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    idk what's the problem in adoption. god will be so happy if a child gets a home...jitna kharcha ivf ya surrogacy me hota hai utne me adopted bache ka education ho jaae

    • @HRHKamal
      @HRHKamal ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Its a personal choice, & that's fine.

    • @prachiraizada
      @prachiraizada ปีที่แล้ว +33

      People want"apna khoon"😏

    • @Winterisnofun
      @Winterisnofun ปีที่แล้ว +19

      In India adoption is not accepted that easily. Big surprise 🙄

    • @preetiyadav-vo6yq
      @preetiyadav-vo6yq ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sachme..... Sooo so so true. I mean being in parenthood naturally is great but apart from the monetary burden, it comes with so much of health risks later post treatment or delivery like side effects on health which is again different on each person

    • @CookingWithExploring
      @CookingWithExploring ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hn that's true but what abt hamare khoon k bacche ye wala tagline ka kya kare.

  • @meenakshiverma4829
    @meenakshiverma4829 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    WOW...liked the way mom in law is portrayed....so understanding...amazing!Relevant concept portrayed beautifully.

  • @tarandeepsingh5044
    @tarandeepsingh5044 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Avanity is. Very lucky to have mother in law like her who don't care about what people say or society say about her family , but there are many avantiy in our society who are very unlucky to get family like this they just care about what people say or how society react or say about them, we all should support our family without listening anything negative from the people whom they know or about the society .

  • @sugandhadogra1781
    @sugandhadogra1781 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    M getting married this year. Me and my bf had decided 5 years back that we wnt uv our kidof our own. Only adoption. A girl child, I wanted this since I was a teenager. N our family know this and has happily supported our decision. BDW I am also a mother of 3 cats ❤

  • @rabiyaalameen9631
    @rabiyaalameen9631 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Look at the supportive husband. ❤

  • @sutapasenchowdhury9515
    @sutapasenchowdhury9515 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really, till date such people r really dere to support dere daughter in law.....great respect

  • @karismatripathy1813
    @karismatripathy1813 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a beautiful concept, Every Mother in law should be like this

  • @sghosh2437
    @sghosh2437 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really like the acting of mother in law....!!! I think every daughter should get a mother in law like her...!!! Hats off to the mother in law.... I appreciate her thinking...!!!

  • @vsrig
    @vsrig ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Excellent once again! I am proud to say that as a mom in law I NEVER asked my sons and daughters in law about having / not having kids. And both went thru IVF and we supported them fully - it was their choice. If their choice was adoption - we would have supported that too. My brother and a cousin both adopted kids.
    Not all parents / aunties / uncles are old fashioned 😊😊😊

    • @lifeofchandras6714
      @lifeofchandras6714 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amazing ...❤glad toh see this!👍

    • @deeparaghu1356
      @deeparaghu1356 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You're are great ma'am!!! And an understanding parent too. But not all are like that. My husband's cousin, she had enough because of not having a child. But, Thank God now she's pregnant after 11 years.. I'm really happy for her. There are many parents even now who talk ill about their daughters in law who cannot give birth..

    • @sonakshimalviya535
      @sonakshimalviya535 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am so happy to read this❤I understand that motherhood is beautiful but it should not be imposed. Raising a life is no joke. I appreciate your thoughts. Modernisation is just not by clothes but by mindset. Hope u inspire many parents ❤❤

    • @ravneetkaur2151
      @ravneetkaur2151 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U are a blessing to ur all kids. God bless ur thoughts. loved ur understanding level.

    • @vsrig
      @vsrig ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you all for your appreciation for my comment. Interestingly as a young adult I also took time to conceive. Though I got all help and no taunts or any such thing, I had another problem… too many different kinds of advice!! That was stressful - having to change doctors and more. Finally my husbands older colleague - to whom he confided - told him… See in these matters let your wife go to the doctor she likes. Don’t let others interfere: And - I managed that!
      So i understood the stresses well

  • @vandanasingh1338
    @vandanasingh1338 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Too good ,absolutely correct ,i support adoption 100%

  • @surinderkaur5442
    @surinderkaur5442 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aisi Mother in law sirf Life Tak ki videos mein hi nahi hoti real life mein bhi hoti, real life mein bhi hoti hain...Mine was the same...loving, understanding and adorable.

  • @pankajamshivkumar4500
    @pankajamshivkumar4500 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    What a beautiful concept , I’m
    So proud of LIFE TAK TEAM for all the conceptualisation that they do ❤❤

  • @sukirtiverma3345
    @sukirtiverma3345 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Amazing video 👌🤘 Avanti ' s problem is faced by many women in today's time but not all mother - in - law are supportive like hers . Society pressure is the worst thing happened 😢in today's time, we all need to break the tabbo & let others live 👍.

    • @naveebudwal1762
      @naveebudwal1762 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In reality, not only women face infertility but men do too. I’m this case it was the female but there are also many cases where the man has the issue but our society is such that it always blames the woman. That attitude also needs to change.

    • @sukirtiverma3345
      @sukirtiverma3345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@naveebudwal1762 Yes , u r absolutely correct 👍 Society always blames women no matter it's not their fault or not . Their level of understanding, stubbornness & narrow minded thinking is the major cause.

  • @smitaray1893
    @smitaray1893 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Surely Life Tak is trying it's level best to make this world a better place to live in.
    God bless......

  • @merlynmenezes_0106
    @merlynmenezes_0106 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The pblm is with mindset which needs transformation.... Adoption is a good choice, some childs life will become better and meaningful.... But then everyone has their own choice.... Thank you @lifetak for such amazing content a platform everyone, shares, guides, appreciates.... ❤️😍👌👏👍

  • @prabhakrishnan56
    @prabhakrishnan56 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Even some people nowadays are opting for being a childfree couple I mean it's there own choice and they are not concerned about the society

  • @salonitambi4982
    @salonitambi4982 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This channel is so damn under rated
    I can't believe such cheap videos get views and likes but not such good content..
    Highly Appreciat it Guys👏🏻🙌🏻
    Keep up the Good Work

  • @ushasharma7936
    @ushasharma7936 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very understanding lady mother in-law always

  • @kiaansamraatofficial
    @kiaansamraatofficial ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a beautiful film. With the kind of lifestyles and stress taking over its becoming difficult to conceive and its still a taboo in our society. People have changed but some fears and narrow thoughts still hold a lot of people back. Hope it will reach the people who need to know that it's OK if somethings don't work out.

  • @Archana_Pritish
    @Archana_Pritish ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really so emotional concept... Loved❤ it

  • @shahshruti1715
    @shahshruti1715 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best thinking for such situation is... God job...👍

  • @Kingfisher11-k2i
    @Kingfisher11-k2i ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Another stigma which women face in society called infertility. There is a dire need to change the thoughts and ideologies of our so-called society. We are still imbuing on 'what others think' noting ! Unfortunately, we fail to realize our own choices and ideas.

  • @sandhyakrishnan3361
    @sandhyakrishnan3361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what an amazing concept....if every motherin-law is so brad minded then...

  • @priyaanandkol
    @priyaanandkol ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really look fwd to your episodes. Pls post everyday. It's so inspiring. They we are so fabulous content so emotionally played. I have never seen any character deviating from acting. Pls post everyday

  • @nikitafernandes461
    @nikitafernandes461 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    We should respect a married couples choice whether they want to have kids or not

  • @suryalekhathungavaloo7993
    @suryalekhathungavaloo7993 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Respect 🙏 and thanks 😊🙏 from South Africa 🇿🇦❤️🙏. Excellent video by your team and you, very informative 👍❤️👌

  • @MissofmyMister1621
    @MissofmyMister1621 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lathaji(mummyji) is so talented actress... She fits in every role given to her👏🏻

  • @uzmaambrin9169
    @uzmaambrin9169 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really ,mam apne sahi bola.Aise smjhne wale log ho to har rishte me kahi bhi koi problems nahi hoti hai.🥺❤️

  • @cdm0707
    @cdm0707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful.. what a message to society ...❤

  • @TheSubrama
    @TheSubrama ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done! Pls keep bringing such concepts out. This is how society will change.

  • @prachiraizada
    @prachiraizada ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I love it. Definitely when we'll support our family members then who the hell is society to say something. If her mother in law would have agreed and would have said something wrong, then other woman definitely must have said more wrong but when MIL supported her Dil, the other woman accepted her mistake

  • @swagatasaha9406
    @swagatasaha9406 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marvellous concept.. really ppl should change now... and start thinking in a proper way....

  • @rupalisalaskar9192
    @rupalisalaskar9192 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tears in my eyes .....feels like,its my story 😥
    nice❤

  • @harikeshav7269
    @harikeshav7269 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Le Yamini aunty :- beijatti bhi karwali aur mithayi baant ke bhi aagayi 😂😂

  • @louloua5252
    @louloua5252 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lovely!! nirupa ji acting is lovely

  • @bigtrinabhcubing4800
    @bigtrinabhcubing4800 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaas sare parent inlaws aise hote , appreciate the concept

  • @yura5577
    @yura5577 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Always excellent concept 🎉

  • @pratibhapanghal
    @pratibhapanghal ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't have children and I remember some of my colleagues and a few parents taking this as an excuse to malign me. Whenever a student complained about me they said that she doesn't have a child hence doesn't know how to behave with children. Called me lawaris too. Am now a senior citizen but my in laws still have this desire for a grand child

  • @sonapaul5198610
    @sonapaul5198610 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really very good message to our people today still there is so many home where these thought is alive in people mind one these type of thought gone it give peace to many homes

  • @ankitjain9999
    @ankitjain9999 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great concept and everyone understood this almost but there is still something left to make understand others that if after marriage male person also not able to her wife pregnant then people should understand this too there are many ways to so people should judge or wife shouldn’t divorce and many others things too bad sadly that person also got many labels..
    Cheers to lifetak ❤

  • @Pkafa
    @Pkafa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful story ❤

  • @justaksh
    @justaksh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me cry 😭

  • @aishwaryasingh-wp9dx
    @aishwaryasingh-wp9dx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ye shagun apsaghun kuch nahi hota hai..kaash ye baat humari society ko samajh aa jaye ..👍👏👏

  • @nikitafernandes461
    @nikitafernandes461 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So true any man and society should not ask such questions to women when ur planning
    Everyone has very high expectations from a daughter in law for a baby
    They cannot take away hee happiness from a woman just because of the reason of not having a child

  • @sushmahande4994
    @sushmahande4994 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st like 1st comment. ..I like this channel. ..

  • @ankita3558
    @ankita3558 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Life tak channel
    Aap bahut sareee subscribers & like deserve karte ho 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @amritamuttoo6397
    @amritamuttoo6397 ปีที่แล้ว

    Parents always understand.Youth are stressed and confused and not willing to take the responsibility at the right time.

  • @justchill7073
    @justchill7073 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    लताजी की Positivity देखते ही बनती हैं!

  • @rajanikumari8953
    @rajanikumari8953 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very good concept 👌🧡👍

  • @lilly1w3
    @lilly1w3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mere ek dur ke rishtedar hn unko bhut saalon se baby nhi ho ra tha....shyd 6 ya 7 years ho gye the to unhone adopt kr liya baby girl....
    Meri ek aur relative hn unko bhi baby nhi ho ra tha bhut saalon se... aunty chahti thi adopt krna lkin uncle ko nhi krna tha adopt...agr uncle man gye hote to mera bhi ek aur cousin hota/hoti....

  • @kavyayb1544
    @kavyayb1544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for bringing such concepts👍

  • @Samir-gp2oh
    @Samir-gp2oh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nirupama ji is really a class actor

  • @vibhutigala1448
    @vibhutigala1448 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like all your videos all your concepts are really nice.
    Thanks...

  • @HRHKamal
    @HRHKamal ปีที่แล้ว +3

    GOOD video!
    We truly need to break away from silly taboos.

  • @divynkaguptaofficial8553
    @divynkaguptaofficial8553 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kash har saas Avanti ki saas jaisi ho...Bahu ko apni maa ki Kami nhi khalegi....I salute u Mom

  • @vandana2524
    @vandana2524 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good one ❤

  • @aish0072
    @aish0072 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤support of family so important

  • @desigirl29
    @desigirl29 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Adoption is ok
    Trying to have ur own child is also ok
    Its personal choice either way is correct

  • @roopa8042
    @roopa8042 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    missing old Actor & Actress ❤️kaha gayab ho Gaye hai wo Log 🧐

  • @ektajha9213
    @ektajha9213 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice message 🙂

  • @anjankumarsarkar6243
    @anjankumarsarkar6243 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet as ever

  • @sayahnikamishra8583
    @sayahnikamishra8583 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This type of mother in law exists in the alternate universe.

  • @PRINCEYADAV-v1g
    @PRINCEYADAV-v1g ปีที่แล้ว +1

    best channel ever seen

  • @sangeetakulkarni8770
    @sangeetakulkarni8770 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very well said.We need to change out thinking.😊

  • @divyamanek4794
    @divyamanek4794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey as usual acting was awesome!!! Please make a series on courtship in marriage!!!

  • @deepalivikrant488
    @deepalivikrant488 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    IVF process is not that easy. It has lot of side effects, health hazards. Don't know why people paint a rosy picture of IVF. People should promote adoption more than IVF.

    • @rajanishintodia-xx6ld
      @rajanishintodia-xx6ld ปีที่แล้ว

      Why

    • @naveebudwal1762
      @naveebudwal1762 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So many people do it. Some have no issues others have lots. Do you have stats and facts to support your claims?

    • @deepalivikrant488
      @deepalivikrant488 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@naveebudwal1762 I am not saying people shouldn't go for such treatments but it is not an easy process as they claim to be. There are many who have shared their experiences which are quite alarming.

    • @rakeshsah7144
      @rakeshsah7144 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is people's choice
      If they want their own biological children then what is wrong in it.

    • @geethau7266
      @geethau7266 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is not a easy process.. That is what she is trying to tell.. It drains you physically, financially and emotionally too.. And everyone don't get baby in the end in ivf

  • @pv754
    @pv754 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is actually the major problem of woman of not giving birth to a child she faces many problems from family..relatives ..neboughers she stops attending any gatherings as people will poke her with questions and some suggestions that life is like a hell to her when husband also don't supports she feels sad when other women is with her child and she know more value of kids as she don't have

  • @jayashreevijayaraghavan9194
    @jayashreevijayaraghavan9194 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well said!

  • @usharamesh5263
    @usharamesh5263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good concept To day we have various options Adoption is good

  • @dasmadhusmita
    @dasmadhusmita ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent job

  • @gayatripadhihary9015
    @gayatripadhihary9015 ปีที่แล้ว

    This parallel world doesn’t exist even in this era..

  • @urvashishah1630
    @urvashishah1630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice concept

  • @kumarvipinverma
    @kumarvipinverma ปีที่แล้ว

    Kachta videos per log khoob like and comment karte hai but kutch acche message dene wale videos ke saath kabhi kabhi bhedbhaw kar dete hai.

  • @teddybunny6807
    @teddybunny6807 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super concept.

  • @hanshidhani8493
    @hanshidhani8493 ปีที่แล้ว

    So overwhelming ❤

  • @Paponaddicted
    @Paponaddicted ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kas aise shos sabhi ka hota to kitna acha hota...jo lady maa nahi ban sakti usko pata hai aisa dard😢

  • @SushmaKumaraswamy_121
    @SushmaKumaraswamy_121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful

  • @lathaangara4588
    @lathaangara4588 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful concept.

  • @meera1860
    @meera1860 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best video

  • @darshnasharma6848
    @darshnasharma6848 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos & concepts

  • @pompasenmazumdar1147
    @pompasenmazumdar1147 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice concept❤

  • @sarikathakre315
    @sarikathakre315 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice 👍👍

  • @pearltreenagashreej
    @pearltreenagashreej ปีที่แล้ว

    Not easy in society...

  • @dimplesingh4554
    @dimplesingh4554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice

  • @ThejeshwiniRamesh
    @ThejeshwiniRamesh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make video on adoption and surrogacy

  • @umanarayanan4928
    @umanarayanan4928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cute❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jyotisoni8934
    @jyotisoni8934 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First 😊

  • @littlekrsnabhakta7946
    @littlekrsnabhakta7946 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am just going through the same and have a MIL who is just the opposite.. Kya aisi understanding & loving MIL's sirf short films me hi hoti hain ? or they do exist?😢

  • @sairamsharma6185
    @sairamsharma6185 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    nice video 😊😊

  • @LegalBird369
    @LegalBird369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 woooooooooow ❤❤

  • @asamakhan1067
    @asamakhan1067 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hm 2 month se try krry h pta nhi kb khush khabri aaygi

  • @neelkamalbaldawa250
    @neelkamalbaldawa250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow nice video

  • @Infinitesouls83
    @Infinitesouls83 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful one. Why is having a baby a must. Marriage is not to have babies. If you want to have babies, without a marriage also you can have thru different methods or by adopting. You can also live as a couple deciding to not have babies. Marriage is for two people to love and care and support and be there until they both want to. Babies are just an addition if both want.