Dekh Dikhayi | Short Film on Traditional Marriage in India | Women Empowerment | Why Not | Life TaK
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- In a clash between traditions and modernity, Gunjan, 28, a successful software engineer, agrees to participate in the ‘Dekh Dekhai’ tradition for her mother’s happiness. Watch this short film to know how she finds herself navigating through the labyrinth of patriarchy and uncomfortable situations. However, when Gunjan’s mother add a twist to the event, it sets off to unravel the fabric of marriage norms.
#traditions #marriage #whynot #modernfamily #dekhdekhai
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Excellent... It's the women who are pulling down women... There is a bigger need for all moms to teach equality to their sons.. Then only society will change.
Totally Agree
So true, my friend was 28 when she decided to marry and she was told by the boy's mother that she is only suitable to marry a widower or divorcee.
To be honest that is the real problem even much educated people still treat their son like a prince and their daughters as a burden and especially mothers and grandmothers.......I have tried to explain my family that you must not do such things and literally mere bhai ko sar pe chadha rakha hai.....ghar me khana tak uske pasand ka banta hai baithe baithe khana pani milta and and nani / dad is toh lad pyar hi karti rehti hai even after him throwing a tantrum ..shouting and being disrespectful towards them or even me ..I mean you guys don'thave self respect let it be i have mine..happy to be going soon from this house for studies.
Yes,of course 👍
A MAN should be TAUGHT that HE is going to be responsible(for the rest of his life) for a person who was LOVED,CARED and BROUGHT UP SAFELY 👍.HE should DEFINITELY be a good PARTNER, IF He wants to bring a " PARTNER " into HIS HOUSE 👍
😏😊☺️😍
@@lj6079what the heck. My cousin is 25 and a 27 year old boy’s parents said she is too old for their son
It's better to be single than to marry into such family 😢
Wow mother ho to aisi, tabhi ladkiyan equality pa sakti hain society me. Nirupama aunty rocks in every role 🤘
Inki soch se to bada hi hai humara ghar - What a dialogue! I 👍
Mu pr bolna chahye tha
@@indiangirl001sahi kaha❤
I was shocked when the guy’s mom rubbing the girls palm said she has soft hands with the fear of her not having experience in doing any household chores!😮
Very nice video. Boys have to become men now n realise they are marrying a life partner not a ready maid-cook-caretaker.
I remembered my dekh-dikhai n my poor hubby was so nervous but very honest in giving all information about himself that I fell in love on first day itself. Just like the girl in the video, I was more qualified than my husband and couldnt cook. but he never made me feel bad about it n I learnt slowly.
All traditional marriages are not horrible nor scary ! It depends on the families n your future spouse. I am married for 15 years now n cant imagine a single day without my husband. It doesnt matter HOW you meet but rather you SHOULD meet the right person.
As a boy, it is an excellent film in my opinion. We need more of such open minded mothers.
And btw I can make Biryani 😋🍗🍚🍛
Veg biryani 🥺
Wait u r marathi right?
@@Moon-ng9dt No I Don't believe in Veg Biryani. There is no Biryani without Meat 🍗
Yes I am Marathi
@@prathamgodbole5055 you look like an open minded boy with good upbringing. How old are you ?
@@dollys9936 I'm 17
@@prathamgodbole5055haha so true biriyani doesn't feels biriyani without meat
Awesome. If parents trust, understand and support their daughters , the daughter will be stress-free and far away depression
In this short film , Gunman’s mom is very supportive standing by her daughter’s side otherwise there are many parents who do not think abt their daughter and place them in the hands of anyone
Exactly
I can see my mommy in her. My mom is my strength ❤
Highly appreciated..why these questions are only for girls... nowadays both men and women works and contribute in the home expenses,so responsibility of domestic chores also need to be managed together and not just left for women
Mam can marry a unemployed girl can girl do so
@@cauhanronakpadhi likhi naukrani chahiye
@@cauhanronak sir can you stop taking dahej
@@AffectionateRocketShip-tv9kb Absolutely
@@cauhanronak oh c'mon dahej in name of 'gifts' is also dahej. You can become a greater person by telling here that you will not take but when the girl family is giving, no one denies. Everyone is like if they don't have problem in giving then why should we say no. Right??
So proud of such a mom. And the lovely lil sister ❤❤
Har Ladkiyon ki Maa ko thik aise hi behavior karna chahiye, .........Nice 😊
Excellent depiction of equality between men & women. It tells that it’s time we broke the stereotype that burden and break women with age-old expectations.
Kudos to the mother.
I just love this lady..we need these type of women in our life and society..
This reminded me of my dekhdikhai. When my mother in law asked me what all can you cook. I said very basic rice daal . She replied “no worries “ my son knows how to cook other things. You both can manage well. And that’s when I got fidaa on my MIL without even seeing who is the guy.
But later on, when my marriage was fixed, some relatives had come to see me just for formality, and what they did was still shocking for me. They said “saree utne ache se pehni nahi hai, aao hum thik se pehna de.” And their real intention was to check my body.. and see if I have any lacking anywhere.
I was so angry. I would have said No to the marriage. But my would be fiancé said, they are not even family. Some formality wale relatives. Why bother them. I also had such sweet experience with MIL I went ahead with marriage.
It’s going to be 10 years now. My husband and MIL have been blessings for me in my life.
You are also a blessing to them
Stay happy❤
I wish all mothers support there daughters like this ❤
100% agree.Both r working so both should share equal responsibility.लडका जैसे थका हुआ घर आता है तो लडकी भी तो काम करकें थकती होंगी. पर नहीं, बहुसे ही सारा expect किया जाता है.बेटा बैठा रहेगा बहु आते ही काम पे लग जायेगी.
कहीं न कहीं थोडा.......सा बदलाव आ रहा है.
पर और थोडा ज्यादा की उम्मींद रख सकते हैं ?
My husband can't cook, so after marriage I faced some household chores problem. Then we hired a cook maid and managed it well. Till date I have househelps who take off a lot of burden and helps in the smooth running of household. My husband helps me all out of house works including weekly rations, groceries etc.
Fabulous! It has been a while since Life Tak added something like this (after many “shorts”)
Wonderful film. I loved the end “going to prepare the next set of questions” 😅😅😅
One thing very good about Lifetak channel is that it keeps the climax like reality while it lacks in other channels. Very nyc video and younger sister acting is so cute... especially when she says Google 😂
Ladka ya ladki both are equal. When a woman is working and sharing the financial burden of the family equally to a man then a man should also share the households. Well presented.
Amazing video... I'm full agree with girl's mom.. Now a days all r equal.. Everyone should learn every works
Good message. It is important for the guy to also know what goes on into making a home. By becoming equal partner he will be giving a life lesson in equality to his kids too. Saksham is suave and cute as always.
I love this lady. She is soo graceful and good with her acting.❤
Everyone should do this, my mom also faced the same thing when she got married so she taught my bro to know how to do household chores and cooking simple dishes so that he can stay by himself and take care of his future wife if she is sick
A woman need not be sick for a man to contribute equally in the household chores
@@tiat3456 Hey yes she also thought me simple dishes only to help because if we want to cook smthin special we can see the recipe and do it as we know the basis of cooking and she never told him not help equally and i was talking bout the vid so why r u so frustrated and plus my mom did not comment so why r u scolding her?
This was such a fulfilling episode ❤ loved it. I also want this kind of support from my family instead of getting pushed into an unwanted marriage. Soon from next year, i will be going through this kind of ordeal - dekh dikhai.. and i wish to meet someone humble and kind to be my life partner ❤❤
Western culture is all sharing in a way... Slowly we are learning to adopting it but that' how it should be... Can't pile everything on the woman....?! Beautiful content and msg @LifeTak transforming mindset...👍😍
Excellent to see Nirupama ji ....what a natural actress.....
Amazing concept of the video 👌🤘. Here daughter' s mom is shown broadminded & supportive but usually we don't get to see these types of Mom in person . Either they show forcefully marriage or Emotional blackmail things . But these things end to need soon as possible.
We need more such people in the society who are broadminded...I hope our generation becomes one
@@meghnamandawra9075 Yes, we definitely need more people like this .
All mothers are not same
@@meenaiyer5856 Ya , that's true 👍
We both r working,my husband always helps in house work,but many time he says ... मैने तेरा काम करवाया,,,n मेरा जवाब की थैंक्स,but बच्चे आपके भी हैं और घर आपका भी हैं तो काम आपने अपने घर का किया है😊 ,मिल के काम करें,मिल के बच्चो को संभाले,मिल के पैसे कमाए, एक दूसरे को आदर दे,,,bs खुशाल जीवन यही है, अहंकार नही लाए,n special thanks to life tak bhot acche content banate h aap ,hats off to u all guys,love u
Loved this video and the way girl's mother responded❤
Bahot vadia concept tha...ladki bahar bhi kam karey aur ghar ka bhi....ab time ye aa gya he...bete ki mummy ko betio jese beto ko bhi sare kam sikhaye tabhi married life achhi chalegi
Such a brilliant concept beautifully written and directed 🥰😘 and Kudos to the team which perfomed so well to justify the characters 🥰🥰
Great..❤
Marriage is a man-made institution to run the society..end goal should be satisfaction God
Mom kitni supported h 😊👏👌
Proud of such moms ❤
Many of my college mates who are working women and are earning a good salary.......are still single and there parents don't force them to get married also. I think that if the girl is financially independent in today's times then she is doesn't requires a male figure or a husband in her life much 😊😊
Good job done by makers and actors . Brilliant concept . 👍
Every girl deserve such family and esp. her mother🙏
I always say my boyfriend to learn household works. If I want to work and earn, then he also need to do chores at home. That's mandatory for both.
Every girl deserves this kind of parents...even me too.....but unfortunately we all are criticised behalf of our gender.
Nice concept, equality. No difference between boy or girl.
@@-zeusalmighty-2812 can you hunt in a wild forest?
Ishaan ka puri pariwar hi shadi material nhi tha such a powerful line❤
In the end I am also smiling...🤗perfect blend of story,emotions as well as casting...that 1 chutki lil sister..overall mind blowing short muvie..
Nirupama ji... Aati raha kariye. Aaj bahut dino baad Life Tak ka koi episode poora dekha ❤🙏
The best story for equality 😂😂❤❤
Girl is lucky to have mother like that!
I am soo happy to see this short film soo amazing ❤❤
Beautiful 🥰 Hope this happens in reality at appropriate places and appropriate times 👍👏
It's totally true..every mother should be like that
Nice to see such a supportive family❤
😂super..reminds me how my FIL asked me to sing a song...I burst out laughing...Being a surgeon I don't sing...but operate..
Such me bhoat hi Achha sabk sikhaya aapne ladke wale ko 👍👍👍👍❤🌹
unka ladka ladka OR humari ladki khuch nahi ye Himmat Dikhani bahot hi jaruri hai 😊😊❤😊😊
Excellent ,, always love ur messages given to society, hope we all in together will change our mentality
In India, the boys are brought up as Raja Beta 😊 Although I have tried my best not to make my sons of that kind, with full support of my husband who is my best partner in crime for maintaining the households
Great ! Very true. Bold Mom. Congratulations
Well said mom hats off to every mothers of girls to stand with there daughter
Very True, both should do the work at home equally.
Wow 😲 it's such a nice concept.... Just loved it😊
I think we need the second part of this video i really like it ❤❤ and actually this topic jise hamesha ya to daba diya Jaya hai ya fir jock me le kr chd diya jata hai
Hit the nail on the spot! Perfectly delivered.
Great answers by a mother.. excellent video
Such a lovely episode. Beautifully written and executed❤
Nyc n natural story of life❣️🌹❤️👌🙏👍
It's superb yaaarr.... Your content is so well... Well done
Google me kaam karti he... That was amazing 😂😂😂😂 ekta kapoor k serial jese uss scene ko 3 se 6 baar repeat dekhne ka mann kar raha he
Main aajkal zindagi ke isi padav se gujaar rahi hu..bhut different hota hai...bt abhi hmari society me in aunty jaise logo ko Kami hai...jaldi se logo ki mentality change hona bhut zaruri hai 🙃🙃 i wish ke jaldi ho🙏🙏
Superb great kash hr ladki k parents aisa hi sochte apni padki k liye🙏
Nicely scripted and nicely presented short film.. Congratulations to the entire team..
Excellent script ❤😊
Best part was didi Google mein kaam karti hai waala😂
POV - when you have a loyal partner and your family balckmail you to see the prospective groom this hits differently and painful!!
Nice conversation. ..aaj bhi kayee parivaaro me larke aur larkiyo ke liye alag alag mindset hain
Current topic of conversation🙌
All my cousins and my sister had arranged marriage. Everyone is happy. After horoscope matching and boy and girl liking each other it has happened. All are very happy and have great families. The way it is shown here if someone spoke this way, they wouldn't be entertained to sit longer and speak more
Kisi ne toh sahi topic pr dhyn diya h 👏👍
When it will b change that only girl 👧 is responsible for cooking, caring and all household with a job....may b its bcoz of us, we women never learned our boy to help in household
We act differently always as mother and as mother in law
Just loved it.... One of the best short films that I have ever watched.... This is what I call equality...... Why shud boys have all the fun....? ... Keep it up..... The concept was just too good👍👍👍😂😂 ....
Excellent video.....just Amazing 👌👌
On personal i appreciate it n want this change,jaha dono parties work both office n household...but sadly can't find it..
Ur content is very good, but really very difficult to imagine happening in real life. Hope seeing ur videos people and people mentality changes, then only purpose such videos are successful
That is the whole idea. Women need to raise other women instead of bringing them down.A mother should start by teaching both her daughter and son how to cook, clean, throw out trash, manage money, etc. These are called LIFE SKILLS that both genders need to survive in the world.
I guess ab zamaana ithna progressive ho gaya hai and women are being empowered all around, toh ab ladki dekhne ke bajaaye ladka dekhne ka custom shuru hona chahiye...agar ladki ladke se twice acha earn karr sakthi hai, apne professional and personal life ko ache se balance karr sakthi hai toh ye ladki dekhne waali rasam bass ladke waale hi kyun karein...team life tak , would like to see something drastic like this in your upcoming videos....i truly think it would be fun to watch....shaadi ke age ke ladke abundance mein Hain but ladkiyan kamm ( thanks to the Indian pratha of boy baby ki ummeed kyunki kul ka Deepak toh ladka hi hoga vansh toh aage wohi badhayega) toh ladkiyon ke paas ladka choose/ reject karna ka option hona chahiye na....content writer jee - pls think about it.... looking forward for a next exciting- eye opening video from you guys
Woman is still expected to sacrifice her career to become a dolled up servant ,,, I really liked this fresh perspective
Beautiful concept
Liked that dialogue...Nishant ka poora pariwar hee shadi material nahi tha!
After so long it's a heart Wreatching video .....
So so so goood
#inlovewithlifetak💌
Good message
Purane sbi actors ko bahut miss krte h hm, Nirupama ji aap mt jana chhod kr please
Very brilliant concept with witty dialogues..
Ek dum sahi 🎉❤
Nice content👌👌👌👌👌👌 it's a long time i was waiting for such video
No words extra...just loved it♥️
What a supportive mom.❤
Marriage itself is a team work. A good tit for tat material, with all women team of three on driver's seat. Girls are not "Material" but humans just like normal beings. Life Tak as usual is hit with just 6.50 min episode full of zest and life.
Thank you for showing reality of arrange marriage
Great concept
This is how We should proceed
Very nice superbbbbb🥰🥰🥰👌👌👌👌
Excellent 👌
Ladki ki mummy is savage 🔥
Yaaaaaarrrrrrrrr.....content writerrrrr ji....vidushi swaroop ji..... 👏 Bravo....team life tak Kahan se story line sochthe ho aap log....kudos...jithni tareef ki Jaye kamm hai....nirupama ji u rocked as usual...maa ho toh aisi....bilkul sahee seekh dekar parvarish ki hai aapne apni betiyon ki iss video mein....gunjan are you apologetic towards the end of the video....pls ye soch badlo aaj ki daughters...darthe rahoge toh Roz marthe rahoge....gunjan be bold and assertive yet polite like your mother in this video....Aisa na karne par ladkiyan Roz kuchli jayeingi mentally if not physically ....ishaan jaise ladke doob kyun nai marthe....u guys really need to grow up....parents like ishan's need big time councelling on how to bring up their boy and how not to teach them inequality in gender....there is only one thing unequal in the 2 genders which is natural and irreversible that is a female can reproduce and a male cannot.....would be great justice if we could go by the nature and not discriminate and allocate work on the basis of gender....team life tak ✋ high five
Great video! Respect is a two way street... Both sides have to show it for each other