Yeah, I just put my resignation letter in at my job a few days ago, to step into a job that aligns more with me tutoring. My boss was heartbroken HER BOSS was heartbroken and neither of them wanted to turn in my resignation letter. It’s really one of those things like you said when you get older(because I’ll be 50 in a few months) you lean towards a more simple life. My daughter is now a college student, I’m not married my daughter goes away to college, so for me working crazy hours feeling like a hamster is not cool. I’m starting a different career working with pre-k students vs working with teens. Working only 4 days a week with the kids. They take naps, and I have the summer OFF if I choose to, and it’s actually MORE money 🤯who knew. lol It frees my days up to get my business online instead of tutoring in person then I can come and go as I please. So yeah, you know when it’s time to make changes, your body will tell you. EVERYONE at my job was like 😟WHAT, WHY are you leaving. My bosses said, this will truly be a void not having you here…. We have to remember that, Sometimes we have to move out the way to make room for others. Amen
Your story is so empowering! It’s incredible how you’re stepping into a role that aligns with your values and offers balance. What a gift to yourself and your family. Wishing you success and joy in this next chapter. Amen to making room for new blessings! ❤️
why give notice? when they fire u they don't give notice. don't care if.... u can't pay your bills. if your credit score goes down. if it takes MONTHS to find another job. why care about how they feel about NOT giving them 2 weeks to tell them u hate their crappy bs?
I retired five years ago at the age of 54. Many told me that I would be bored. As of this moment I have not experienced boredom at any time. I do what I want, when I want, if I want. That is living.
I love this! Living life on your own terms is the ultimate freedom. You’re proof that retirement doesn’t mean boredom, it means choice! Thank you for commenting. 👏🏽🩷
Good for yuo there’s a lot Yuo can do keep yuo busy daily if yuo get bored volunteer there so many places Yuo can fo that I still work and on my day s off it’s not enough so I can’t wait to retire I know I won’t get bored I don’t understand why some people hate their retirement enjoy it
@@Jazz-fg2dm Retirement doesn't mean doing nothing. I made sure I had other interests and built a life outside of my career, and not made my career my whole identity- so that when I retired it was an easy transition. I went back to school for cinematography the last 5 years before I planned to retire. And the friends and family I have here also keep me busy with enjoying life outside of work, I always realized my coworkers were not my friends, just coworkers, as soon as you retire- they forget about you. I can see how though, if someone moves to another country, and can't integrate into the society well because of language barriers or what not, they could start to feel isolated. I also deliberately chose not to live in an expat bubble, so I would be forced to live among the locals. Like, there are a bunch of expats in Prague, but they all live in a certain place and some are here for many years, and never even learned the language.
New here.. I’m 54 and I’m here… I keep saying I’m retiring at 55 whether my 401k says I should or not. I’ve worked since I was 14, I’m tired. I need to enjoy my life b4 I can’t!!
It's that last line...I hope you are in good health. Being chronically ill, I now wish some of the things I decided could wait til later, that I had actually moved on before my health tool a turn. I'm grateful to just be on this side of Heaven. Whatever you can do that you desire, I encourage you to do it now!! Many blessings ❤
@SteffaniesJourney, I love your determination to put yourself first! Life is meant to be lived, and I’m cheering you on as you make the most of every moment. ❤️
Wow! Same here! It seems like 55 will never get here...i started working a paper route and then at 15, worked in an icecream shop. After 30 years of teaching, i have to wait until 55 for a full pension.... i wanna quit every other week. I am tired.
50 year old blk male here. I became exhausted with all the battles i had to fight at work. It wasn't enough to be good at my job (which i was). I realised spending the rest of my life in the corporate world would be a waste of the rest of my life. I got laid off in November of 2023 and I haven't gone back
I completely understand that feeling. Corporate life can take so much from us. I’m glad you’re giving yourself the freedom to choose what truly matters now. Wishing you peace and purpose on this new path my friend! 💪🏾💙
Got laid off on Election Day from a corporate job that was very racist and was so happy to be free from the slave ship. I'll figure out my life going forward but as for now I am feeling much happier.
@@eyeshaveit591 Congratulations on being free of the racism ! I feel you on that. Being happier with your every day life is much more important than a job will ever be. We only get one life. We have to make the most of it
I am a 50-year-old black male, former executive, and I resigned from my job in Sept of this year. Burnout is real and I feel so relieved. I have a 5-year-old daughter, and she couldn't be happier. I launched my own business, and it feels great to be able to control my time and my days.
Congratulations on taking that step to reclaim your time and energy! Burnout is so real, and I’m glad you’re finding joy with your daughter and your new business. Wishing you all the best in this exciting chapter! 💙
I am 52 and leaving my corporate job next year. The date has already circled on the calendar. I am going to focus on building my vision. My business. Time to live for me.
You'll get so much fulfilment from that ...the kind a corporate job could never give you. I'm currently building a tourism business in east africa and its the best decision i ever made.
Very similar story here. I'm a 59 year old black male and officially walked away from working earlier this year. I was a caregiver for my mother while also working as an IT consultant and also running a very successful side business with 20+ employees. I made a ton of money but was slowly dying inside especially after my mother passed without me being by her side due my "other commitments". My drive also helped kill my marriage after nearly 30 years together. Today, I'm living by the beach overseas with a different wife who is 15 years my junior, speaking a different language, and living like a king due to the much lower cost of living and very favorable currency exchange rate overseas. I bike ride the beach boardwalk everyday, eat the right foods, and have an immensely close relationship with my non english speaking wife. I've never been happier in my life. We are now in the youth of our senior years. The "go-go" years. We have paid our dues. Now is the time to start living the life of our dreams.
I love your story! Thank you for that. It’s so inspiring to hear how you’ve created a life that brings you joy and fulfillment after so many challenges. Wishing you continued happiness in this new chapter. 🙏🏽
Many blessings to you! It takes courage to step away, and it sounds like you’re ready for this next chapter. Wishing you rest and healing as you move forward. You’ve earned it! 🙏🏽
Good for you! I recently retired at 56, and I absolutely love it. I'm excited to see what God has planned for me next. Too often, people burden themselves with materialistic or worldly pursuits, leaving no space for the moves essential to their spiritual growth and development. In our consumer-driven society, it’s a vicious cycle: working unfulfilling jobs with people they dislike, just to earn money to buy more things, often resulting in perpetual debt while trying to "keep up with the Joneses." During an argument, my son once said to me, "All you have is a car," mistakenly equating material possessions-like his house, car, and other belongings-with self-worth. But as the old adage goes, with age comes wisdom. The things I valued in my youth no longer hold the same importance. Now, my priorities have shifted toward self-preservation and well-being. When I was younger, I prayed for wealth. Now, I pray for health, so I can enjoy the fruits of my labor. In this capitalistic, "spend now, pay later" society, I can't help but wonder how many of us end up paying with our health. Simplicity creates space to breathe. If you have the means to retire now, do it! You’ll never regret prioritizing what truly matters. Sincerely, A servant to no man, but the man above!
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and inspiring reflection! I love how you’ve embraced the wisdom that comes with age and shifted your focus to self-preservation and well-being. Your journey is a beautiful reminder that simplicity truly creates space to breathe and live out loud. I couldn’t agree more! Wishing you continued fulfillment in this next chapter! 🙌🏽
I took an early retirement at 55 because I was tired. A few years later I took care of dad who lived with me for about 4 years until passed from dementia. More power to you girl for working and being a caregiver. It was the hardest thing I’ve done in my life.
Karen, your story is so touching and inspiring. And agree, It takes immense strength to step into the caregiving role, and I’m so glad you’re finding power and purpose through it all. Thank you for sharing your background, my friend. ❤️
Congrats! I, at 49 years old in 2021, retired and now write children's books. My series is called Angelina Honey Bee. Now on my 7th book. Working on my first novel. I also became celibate. I don't go out on dates, but that doesn't mean that I don't want to date. It's just not a priority anymore. My novel I hope also helps the world. My life has been filled with making others happy. I don't mind being on a budget because I don't need much. I don't have debt, thank goodness. So, I am able to be more free. Loving this new journey.
In June 2024 I sold my house and moved to a small town. Health was good then I went back to work. After 2 weeks my physical and emotional health had fallen. I quit and decided to take a early retirement. I'll be 60 in In February and I'm truly loving life! I'm working on a side hustle I believe in and I'm trusting God to take care of me!
What a beautiful transition, Sylvia! I really love your story! Trusting God, prioritizing health, and building a side hustle sounds like a strategy for happiness and purpose. Wishing you continued peace. 🌟🩷
@cynthiabiel7714 my suggestion is to seek what you love the most. What comes naturally to you. I just started doing body butters. I plan to get back to doing my handmade jewelry as well. Think of your health in your decision as well. Some crafting can hurt the back and hands.
I remember 10 years ago I said that I'm going to retire at 55 and then I stopped saying that because my peers kept saying that's to young. Fast forward my 89 year old mom had a health scare and I remember giving God an end date and I said, God, I need you to give me a sign that the date I have chosen is the correct date. My mom stayed two weeks in the hospital. I walked into the hospital on her release date and she was telling the doctor, my daughter's going to retire and she's going to be my caregiver. And I said after the doctor left, Mom I told you I was thinking about it. And God whispered in my ear, you asked for a sign and there it is. It has only been two weeks. I am looking forward to the months and years to come. God truly answerers prayers. God, family, and time is so precious we can't afford to waste it🙌🏽🙏🏽
Your story is so moving and truly highlights the power of faith and listening to God’s guidance. Cherish this precious time with your mom and continue to lean into the blessings of family and purpose. Time is indeed a gift we can’t waste! 🩷🩷
I’m retiring January 2026. at the age of 56. I understand and agree with this video and a lot of the comments. I am tired of asking someone can I take a day off. My employer can control my pay, but not my Income. I am going to start my business and make as much as I see fit. My time is valuable. My happiness, peacefulness and purpose is most important. My father passed away in May of 23 and also in 23 After taking care of my aunt and watching her take her last breath in June that did it for me. I am responsible for everything and everyone. It’s time for me to take care of me.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your father and aunt - your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. 🙏🏽❤️ and you have the right mindset for your new chapter my friend. Thank you for commenting. ❤️
Love this!! I quit corporate to go on a self funded sabbatical for 3 years & to date I have traveled to over 81 countries. So glad I made that pivot years ago, now I am a caregiver to my wonderful mom. This journey after 50 is not what I expected, but nonetheless beautiful! Keep the faith and love what you are doing. 100% doc approved!!
I can totally relate Reggi. I had to retire at age 48 (I'm 59 now) due to having a disabled adult daughter that I care for with my husband's help. Between my stressful career and my daughter's constant hospital visits I decided enough was enough. It is one decision I don't regret and would do it again not just for my daughter's health but my own. My daughter is now 31 and totally disabled diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. I'm sooooo thankful to the Lord that she has Long term care and with the help of caregivers (when they're here, because there are times when they're not). The rat race is not worth it!
Pam, your story touches my heart. You’ve shown such strength and love for your daughter, and I admire your decision to choose what truly matters. Wishing you continued peace and health. You’re an inspiration! 🩷
Congratulations on your choice. I became my mom caregiver full time 8 years ago. She passed away this January 2024. My support has been God and my husband that was forced into retirement himself at age 66. Taking care of my mom for her dementia was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but it also was the best and satisfying thing I have done. It was a privilege having her in my home and as well in keeping me at peace that I knew exactly how she was being taken care of. My husband loved her and also had a hand in her care. I took time for myself after her death and now that her 1 year anniversary is coming up, it’s time for me to decide what I want to do. I wish you all the best in your new path.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, Lilly. Your story reflects such incredible strength, love, and dedication, not just to your mom, but to yourself and your family. I can feel how much of a privilege and challenge it was to care for her, and your peace of mind at the same time. You’re a great daughter. As you approach this new chapter, I hope you find clarity and joy in deciding what’s next for you. I know you’ll continue to shine. 💛✨
NOT THIS IS VALUABLE CONTENT!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story. On Nov 1st. at the age of 51, I walked away from my 15 year career in Media. I was burnt out, stressed and at the end of my rope. I didn't have a job and I didn't care. Fast forward a few weeks later ... I have so much peace and I'm feeling more like myself again. I also realized that I wanted to help those who are experiencing the same in their career. I just became certified as a professional life coach with emphasis on career and personal development. We still have so much to offer. Thank you again! New subscriber here! I will definitely support you!
Thank you so much for sharing, Monique! Walking away after 15 years takes courage, and I know burnout is no joke. Here’s to finding peace, freedom, and a fresh start on your terms! And thank you again for subscribing to the channel! ❤️
Congratulations!! Walking in your purpose. Can you imagine if we as women put that same energy into what fulfills US as we do or did into corporate?? Many blessings on your next chapter. ♥
My sentiments exactly from Atlanta. I was fortunate to retire 4 years ago during the pandemic from a thankless job. My health got so much better, even my feet look better because I am not wearing heels everyday. I have more money now than I did working 40 hours a week. You do not realize how much your finances revolve around a job and commuting daily. America's work world is run by essential workers which we found out during the pandemic. The dedicated, talented burnout workers have quit, and America has felt the impact. Now the upper class are begging and demanding that people come back to work. Not going back! Corporate America realizes that a big shift has happened in work America. The younger generations are not going to perform the work grind we did for years. So I salute and support you in your new endeavor. When you close one door, another opens. Love and light prayers to your dear mother.
I was a firefighter/medic for almost 20 years and medically retired at 52, due to injuries. I have never looked back! I was the ONLY black female on my department! You can imagine some of the BS that I had to deal with! Good luck to you! I know you’ll be fine, you have a great perspective on things! 🙏🏾
Oh my! I'm 52, was an LCSW 1st, then became an RN for the last 14yrs and I medically retired this yr, 2024, d/t work place injuries. I don't miss any of it.
I was just talking to the Lord today about what should I do regarding my corporate job. I’ve reached the limit of what I can accomplish there. I know in my heart it’s time to take a leap of faith . That salary is keeping me from following my passion for building my music school. I am so ready to quit but I was going to wait a year to quit when I turn 55. Have been feeling this way for a very long time and yet I stick with it out of fear that I can’t replace my salary in my own business. I know that’s a lie I’m telling myself bc I know I can succeed in my own business. It’s leaving the comfort of a fixed salary is what’s kept me stagnant. Today I prayed and asked the Lord what should I do. How can I get unstuck? And your video came up. Thank you for sharing your story! It’s what I needed. Thank you!
I'm in the same place, except I just turned 42. I have my own publishing and community development company and have been working full-time in my J-O-B. I'm single and have experienced severe homelessness over the years. Letting go of a stable, consistent job is scary. I have stability (roof over my head) because of my consistent income. I've worked on my business part-time over the years, but one of my business mentors says I have a hobby because I'm not giving it my all. I know I'm capable of successfully building my company and being financially stable. It's just taking the leap in the beginning to let go of what seems consistent and just do it. I'm right there with you. I feel like we need a support group lol.
@jonesy795 what a beautiful prayer and reflection with the Lord. Taking that leap of faith is hard, but it sounds like your heart knows the right path. And I completely understand leaving that paycheck is scary although if you have your plan and execute it, I am sure it will be a blessing to you and others. 🩷💪🏽
@poet82n I completely understand…it’s so tough to let go of stability, but you’re right: sometimes we just have to leap. I’m rooting for you and your vision. It’s clear you’re ready for the next step and whatever that looks like for you! 💪🏾 🩷
I'm 55 now, exhausted from nearly 40 years of full-time work and burned out for sure. I'm starting to need medical appointments too, for various things. Unfortunately I didn't save, and cannot quit my job anytime soon. It doesn't pay much, but I am desperate to do something meaningful with my life instead of wasting away at this job that doesn't care about me. I have been thinking about starting my own channel as well, and just now trying to figure out what it is that I can offer that people will want. Thank you for the video!
I hear you, and I know how tough it can feel when you’re stuck in burnout. Starting your own channel sounds like a wonderful idea to explore! Sharing your story and skills could connect you with so many others who need to hear it. You’d be surprised how much you have to offer. Cheering you on as you figure it out!🩷💪🏽
Omg I feel you, I’m caring for my mom who had a stroke at 56 and now she’s 76. My husband had a stroke year and a half ago so I’m caring for him also and I’m tired. I work also
Oh, I feel this so deeply my sister…you are doing so much, and I know that exhaustion all too well. Caregiving for your mom and husband while working takes incredible strength. I checked out your channel, and I see your heart and dedication shining through. We’re on this journey together, and I’m sending you so much love and encouragement. Stay strong my friend and know you’re not alone in this. ❤️
Praying that God gives you strength. I hope you have family and friends who can give you a respite. I was a caregiver, too. It's important to take care of yourself or you won't be able to help anyone.
No regrets here. I retired at the end of 2023. I am a RN, worked at VAMC for 21 years, I was tired, burnt out and unfilled. Now, Im free, travel when I want to and love being home, my home. I thank God everyday for taking care and providing for me.
Fellow nurse here...I have always said that nurses should have a retirement set up through the government, like state workers, firemen and etc ...I am 61 trying to push to 62 to retire I am burned out! I have been working since I was 8 yo-tobacco fields. Sadly none of that time will be considered for social security .
I retired at 53. It’s been one year! It was a state job, very, very stressful, alone with menopause, being there for my elderly mom as needed, and a child with special needs. I cried too much at work, stayed uptight, and I had to do what’s was best for my family and me! I feel so much better now. Although the income change is a lot different. I will survive! Thank God! Thanks for sharing your truth!!!
Thank you for sharing your story! It sounds like you’ve been through so much, but I love that you prioritized yourself and your family. The transition can be challenging for sure, especially with the income changes, but your strength and faith are so inspiring. 🩷🙏🏽
I retired at 56 to take of my Mom with breast cancer, God bless me to take care of her, I was a UPS driver and a Union Shop steward very stressful my Mom pass in January 2023 the greatest gift I gave my Mom was being with her she was so excited that I was able to do that last year was my first Thanksgiving and Christmas without rushing back to work and what every she wanted I was able to provide, I miss both of my parents but I’m so glad that God gave me a gift and now I’m traveling I’ve lost weight I’m doing what ever I want and it took time to realize that because I was always taking care of my parents but the sad thing is I have a sibling, someone should make a video about that, why is it there’s always one sibling left to do everything. ? God will always make a way.
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt journey. The time you gave your mom is such a priceless gift, and I admire your strength. I can relate to being the one sibling left to handle everything…it’s not easy. Sending you love as you embrace this new path, and yes, God always makes a way. ❤️
I feel so encouraged watching this video and reading the Comments. Thank you all for being so transparent. I’m a 54 year old Black female, and an Educator, by profession. I left my public school teaching job of 16 1/2 years, September 2023. I couldn’t go back as it was sucking the soul out of me. I had not been taking proper care of ME, and my Middle School teaching job only amplified my stress level. I’m single, no kids, and help care for an aging mom and a slightly older sister who’s dealing with Parkinson’s plus a Breast Cancer survivor. And did I mention that I’m also the bread winner; they live with me. I worked hard, saved and spent less than I earned. Since December 2023, I’ve been living off of my savings and loving the freedom to BE! Self-care is optimal. I’m doing me and deciding on the next chapter of my life with the grace of God. No Fear, no more!
Suzette, your courage to prioritize your well-being and embrace a new chapter is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey of strength, self-care, and faith. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and trusting in the process. ❤️
Thank you for subscribing! I completely understand that longing for retirement, it’s a big step. Take it one day at a time, and start planning what’s possible for you. It may look different from what you might visualize, but it’s very doable with planning income streams. I am rooting for you!🙏🏽🩷
I'm a caregiver too and it's hard not having time off during the black out dates for the holiday but I asked for Christmas week off and got it. On my days off, I'm continuing to do what I do during the week, it's just less stressful because I'm not working. Two days is never enough time to recover but I'm thankful I can care for my Daddy, he's 90 and I'm 53.
Being a caregiver is no small feat, and I completely understand how hard it is to find time to recover. I’m so glad you got that Christmas week off! You deserve it. Taking care of your Daddy at 90 is such a blessing, and you’re doing an incredible job. Sending you strength and peace for the journey. ❤️👏🏽
So sorry to hear about your journey and about your Mother. I can relate so much to your mask statement. All my it made me cry because I lived the same way in your shoes on my job for over 25 years. It was high stress. I had the most highest education didn’t matter if you didn’t look a certain way …It was not what you had but who you were that got you promotions. My situation I retired at 57 right before the pandemic with full benefits so I ran for the door! My self-worth begins, then define myself and my happiness from that point. Thank you so much for sharing your journey…❤
Your story is truly inspiring and finding happiness and self-worth after such a long journey is powerful. Thank you for sharing, and I’m so glad you could relate to mine. Wishing you continued peace and joy in retirement! ❤️
I resonated with all of this and made a plan to exit Corporate America within 3 years, but I was laid off at 55 instead. Everything happens for a reason because it happened at a time when both of my in-law's health started to decline, so I became free to coordinate their care and start my channel to motivate others to plan for aging...because you need to do more than just save for retirement.
Everything truly does happen for a reason, and I admire how you turned a challenging time into something so impactful. Starting a channel to motivate others takes real courage, and I’m cheering you on! Your message about planning for more than just retirement is so needed. Wishing you so much success! 🙌🏽🎉🩷
Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.
I applaud you my sister for stepping out on your faith and prioritizing you and your family! In 2022 I was blessed to make the choice to retire early at the age of 58 after 36 yrs at the same company. The last 2 yrs of working is what pushed me to do so. The demands of being a middle manager were extremely exhausting and starting to impact my well being. Everyone please do not let life become your work or work become your life. These companies will fill your seat before your body is cold should you fall over dead today, harsh but true.
Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony! Prioritizing health and family over work is a courageous step that inspires so many of us. You’re absolutely right; jobs will replace us, but we only have one life. 🩷
I’m going to be 50 at the end of this month and I am so tired of being in the rat race of America living. Both my kids are in college and I feel as if I have done my job as a parent. I can now focus on ME! I tell everyone I want to go off and spend the rest of my days by the beach. They call me crazy, but I’m okay with that. I’m originally from the islands and I plan to move back to the peace and slower lifestyle of island living. I’m solely focused on retiring in the next 5 years. Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏🏾
I love your comment here, my friend! Your plan to focus on YOU and return to the peaceful rhythm of island life is so amazing. It’s not crazy, it’s bold and intentional. Wishing you all the best on this beautiful journey back to yourself! 🙏🏽🩷
What a blessing that you showed up in my algorithm. I'm ready to make a change and work on it every day. I crave time and freedom from my corporate job which is not fulfilling. I plan is to replace my current salary with my own business by the end of 2025.
Thank you for confirming my thoughts of moving forward. I am 58 and single. I’m currently living paycheck to paycheck. However, I have made the decision to walk away from my job as a teacher. I’m going to step out of Faith and open an infant through 12 y/o learning center in my home. I have decided to educate our children of tomorrow. I’m not a believer of children learn through play. However, I do believe we need to teach the whole child mentally , physically , emotionally and spiritually and academically, as well as socially and emotional… I believe in our children and I want to see them excel and succeed with the educational experiences to be lifelong learners and world leaders that bring positive changes. My dream before I am to old to make the transition. Thank you for sharing. I was a caregiver to both my parents and they’re no longer with us. I’m enjoy your time life is short. Keep smiling and much peace to you on this journey.
Your vision is so beautiful, and stepping out on faith to pursue it is so courageous. Our children truly need educators like you who care about nurturing the whole child. Wishing you every success with your learning center and peace as you move forward on this path! ❤️
Janeen, I see you, and I feel you. Being a caregiver is one of the toughest and most important roles we can take on. You’re doing an incredible job, and I hope you find moments to take care of yourself as well. Blessings to you. ❤️
Corporate America will burn you out if you sit in it long enough. I always had great hobbies during my work career. My corporate executive bosses admired that and purchased over $5000. Of my book. They redesigned their entire HR on boarding orientation around me. Work was never my life. It paid the bills but my book is still bringing in finances 4 years later. I was a care provider for my grandmother but always had time for me and creative nature. I just moved from New York on August 30th. Now in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. I plan to work online part time hopefully for a Christian film company. It’s beautiful creating a new life the way you want it. So much to explore and discover about ourselves. I’m sure you will too, will do awesome things. God bless you Sistah!
Wow, what an inspiring story! It’s amazing how you’ve woven creativity and caregiving into your life while staying true to your purpose. Your move to Myrtle Beach and plans to work in Christian film sound so beautiful! What a new chapter of freedom and exploration. Thank you for sharing this, and God bless you too, Sis! 🙏🏾❤️
I’m in the same boat. I quit my job almost two years ago at 60 to follow my path. I am loving the freedom. Keep doing what you’re doing, you are making a difference. ❤
You and your hair look beautiful!!! I left my 9-5 in Sept 2019. I physically felt unhappy & unfulfilled. I was also perimenopausal, and that made it worse. BE ENCOURAGED! I wish you much success, happiness & prosperity as you navigate your new normal. I'll be along on your ride. p.s. I, too, am fasinated by Cecilia😊
I am so happy you’re on this adventure with me! I’m excited to continue connecting with amazing women like you! 💗 p.s. yes Cecilia is my calm in a world of noise. 😉
Baby, I can't thank you enough for this video, I quit my job 3 months ago and before that I took FMLA. The reason, I didn't like how those people were treating me, I will get back to work next year, but before I allow a job to stress me out, I'm going to clock forever. Take care❤
Wow, Tutu, what an empowering decision! Prioritizing your peace and well-being over a stressful environment is such a bold and admirable move. I’m wishing you all the best as you reset and prepare for what’s next. 🩷
You look amazing for your age, and the best is yet to come! God bless you. I was a caregiver for my mom and dad for some years and it is so hard, but so worthwhile in the end. Mine both passed within 6 months of each other and the grief was very strong for 2 years afterwards. Then I had the strength to make a big change and move somewhere with sunshine, which I had been missing for years. Now I am ready to start planning my next adventure, at 58 years on this earth. You give me inspiration.
Thank you for sharing your powerful story! The resilience you've shown is truly inspiring, and I'm excited for you to create a new path that fills you with sunshine. ✨🩷
The divine timing of this video! I just spent the past week working 40 hours remotely while taking care of my 15 year old son while he was in the hospital with a sickle cell crisis. I was on the phone with my manager earlier this week from the ER and she basically told me that my son’s cries were a distraction. I’m exhausted and I’m only 42 years old but my sons will always have sickle cell and my job has been so stressful to balance for the last 14 years. I’m ready to walk away for my own peace of mind. I’m tired of feeling as if I have to choose between my family and me and my job.
Your strength and resilience are truly remarkable. No one should ever have to choose between their family and a job. Your peace of mind and your family’s well-being are so important. Sending you so much love and encouragement as you make decisions that serve you best.❤️
I left my position as a full time Pharmacist at 62. It’s been 3 years now and I’m so happy! I’m now enjoying hobbies that I did when I was much younger. Now I’m learning a new language and learning how to play the guitar 😊. Subscribed 😊
Wow, that means so much! Thank you! I’m cheering you on to get that book done because the world needs your story. Let’s keep inspiring each other and making moves. Cheers! 🩷🥂
Thank you. I am in my 57th year and full-time employed. I keep telling my family, if God spares my life to 60 years old I am done with work. Hanging in just to help kids finish college in 2 years. Good for you. Too many of us women work ourselves to death or so sick have no fulfillment in our latter years. Thank you for addressing the right priorities
Thank you for sharing! Your dedication to your family is inspiring, and I agree it’s so important for us to prioritize our well-being. Wishing you strength as you reach your goals! Many blessings your way! 🩷
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I quit my job & retired myself as an administrative assistant at a high school in 2017, where my son graduated in 2014, I was 53. I developed high blood pressure while working there so leaving was always in the back of my mind. I loved to write so I started writing children’s books and poems in my spare time during the 7 years I worked there and ended up with at least 25 book ideas. I self-published 2 books while I was there and after I quit I self-published 2 more and I’m working on lots more and a poetry book. I was able to get them in our public library, a family owned bookstore and I’m a vendor for our school region. God ordered every step I took and I’m still following my heart at age 60 and the book ideas & other business ideas just continue to flow. I also take my elderly mom to lots of Dr visits and my brother who had a stroke at 51 this year, so I can relate to you so well because having a job would not be beneficial because I’d have to take off so much. I know you will thrive and soar in this new season of your life, you’ve already made one step, God will do the rest. Peace, Love & Continued Blessings to You❤
Wow, what an incredible story! Your dedication to writing and caregiving is so inspiring. I love how you’ve turned challenges into creativity and purpose. What a blessing to your family and community. Keep soaring! 🙌🏽🩷
Self care is so important. I m 43 and I started my journey 3 months ago and I'm loving it. Been working every since I was 14. So it's a blessing 🩷 I'm now a content creator on TH-cam and enjoying life.
58 here and so very tired of working for someone else now. Im very grateful that its a work from home job but it's time to make my own income and leave the 9-5. I just have to find a way to balance simple, peaceful with creating that income. Have subscribed, love your vibe :)
I hear you! It’s definitely a journey to find that balance of peaceful simplicity while building something for yourself. You’ve got this, and I appreciate your support and subscription so much. Sending positive vibes your way also! ✨❤️
Lou Rawls said it best in one of his famous songs. “You have one life to live. Live it in peace, truth, and love.” I retired at 55 a few years ago and no regrets. The stress was really bad. I have much more peace in my mind, I love life more than ever before, and I focus on my priorities instead of the corporate agenda. It also allows me to give my family members an extended break who are in closer proximity to my family members. Proud of the step you took!😊
Wow, that Lou Rawls quote is so fitting and powerful! Your story is incredibly inspiring-choosing peace and prioritizing family is such a beautiful example. Thank you for sharing and for the encouragement! ❤️
I stopped working at 43 to raise my grandson who is now thirteen. I didnt hesitate 💯 I homeschooled him and he continues to be homeschooled. I am considering my employment options now that Im 55 ❤ I have learned to live an unhurried life by living in grace by faith. Great post ❤
Retired @ 53 with State of Florida. I was so stressed @ work I would put clients on hold to eat a snack, knew it was time to leave, my health has gotten so much better, less anxiety, feel @ peace.
I retired at 57, which seemed too early, but I simply couldn’t continue. Having time to take care of myself has been wonderful. I don’t have as much money as I’d hoped to save but I have enough. I’m not bored, I’m relaxed. I may do something else, but until then, I think I’ll just enjoy my life
Wow! I really identified with this video. I am standing at a crossroads myself. My mom had a stroke in March. I am an only child who works in a CHAOTIC school environment, out of town! You already know the challenges and stress levels I am experiencing. I submitted my intent to retire on my birthday in August but later rescinded it thinking I should just try to hold on until the end of the school year. Sitting here on Christmas Break and thankful The Algorithm recommended your video! Thank you!🙏🏾
Thanks for your transparency. I’m 51 and seriously assessing my current journey. I just completed my doctoral study & I realize personal alignment is a priority as I move toward 2025. I have worked since the age of 12. 🙏🏽❤️
The problem with quitting jobs at this age is that no other company will hire you in your 50s. they will think you are too old and can't learn new things or get with the time. This is what I am afraid of and it's a scary thought if others things don't work out, then you are out of income and a good job.
I understand where you’re coming from. Change at this stage can feel overwhelming, and fear of the unknown is real. But I truly believe that our skills, experiences, and talents don’t expire, even if the world tells us otherwise. Quitting a traditional job doesn’t mean you stop working…it means you start working differently. Sometimes, stepping out of the familiar takes faith, and for me, trusting God has been everything on this journey. You’re never too old to create something new or follow a different path. I hope this inspires you to see what’s possible, even if it feels uncertain.
@reggisweat thank you for the kind words. This does give me hope and you are right, I need to put my faith in God. What do you do for health insurance? Thats the other scary thing about US. I thought about going abroad to start my business cause health insurance would be very expensive
Being laid off at 62. This is the second time in 10 years. I’m not interested in working for another company. They pushed me out the door. Now I can do what’s in my heart to bring true satisfaction in life. Be careful what you pray for. 🌼🌸🌺
Writing this at 2:05 am December 31st 2024...LITERALLY stumbled upon ypur channel while working on my new Law of Attraction planner (there are no coincidences). Thank you so very much for sharing this specific content. I was a care assistant/caregiver for 10+ years to my mother who passed away 2 years ago. The 1st year after her passing I was numb handling the logistics and this last year I've started creating my "new normal". I met with a financial advisor just today to assess my best time to walk away from the JOB. It was refreshing knowing that IN THE MEANTIME I will be making my health and JOY factor priorities so that when 60 comes, yeah I'll be ready to full embark on my next chapter! Thanks again and prayers of strength in giving your Mom the blessing of your attention and sacrifices which are true expressions of LOVE!
Your path is so beautifully shared. Thank you for opening up here. It sounds like you’re creating a meaningful and thoughtful new normal for your next chapter. Meeting with a financial advisor is such a smart move. 💯 Your comment truly resonates, and your kind prayers and words about caregiving mean so much to me. 🙏🏽🩷
Commenting for the algorithm and subscribing to help out! I pray you are blessed with more followers and success on this journey. Take good care of yourself and your mom!
Thank you soooooo very much. I've recently turned 57. I'm at "THAT POINT " now. I've been in corporate video for 25 years, and it's taken a toll on me both mentally and physically. Your video spoke directly to me. Thank you for the encouragement and the "real talk." Be Blessed and continued Peace and Prosperity to you in all you endeavors.
I’m so glad this resonated with you. Corporate life can be overwhelming, and stepping into change takes courage. Wishing you strength, peace, and prosperity in this next chapter. Thank you for watching! 🩷
Congratulations on having the courage to Make this change. Carrying for someone daily can be challenging, yet rewarding. I will be praying for Gods equipping and that his peace will be with you.
We are on the same journey. I quit my job a few weeks ago due to the soul sucking work demands and stress. Drawing closer to God and seeing what the next adventure will be. Kudu's to you for taking loving good care of your Mom. God Bless You.
It sounds like we’re walking similar paths indeed! Letting go of that weight to focus on what truly matters. Thank you for your kind words, and I pray your next chapter brings peace and fulfillment. God bless you too! 🙏🏽🩷
God Bless You and Your Momma. I am so proud of you for realizing that you create the life around AROUND the things that matter not the reverse and God will give you the grace to get through it. You dont let circumstances dictate your Matters what matters to You. You get One Momma although you may be blessed to have mom like figures you get One Momma. If she is good momma you will be blessed for a lifetime of her fond memories her input her values. She can never be replaced.
Thank you so much for this beautiful message! You’re so right, our loved ones are irreplaceable, and creating a life around what matters is everything. Blessings to you! ❤️
I’m 57 and really understand. I have been seeking something sustainable for myself outside of the grind. I was at one nonprofit for 24 years that I loved, scaled and merged with a larger one. I have changed jobs twice since in a quest to find something that doesn’t exhaust me and allows me to be present in my life. I realized at the rate I was going I was not going to enjoy the last years of my parents lives nor enjoy my Grandkids when they come. Wishing you the best.
I resonate with this so much! Lord willing, I will be 57 this year, and I am reexamining everything from my job in HR as a department of one, to taking my health back. A toxic job tried to take me out last year with a severe Lupus flare that I am STILL recovering from. I am also going to give this TH-cam endeavor a go. I pray you much success and peace.
I truly appreciate your kind words and prayers! I’m rooting for you as you take this leap into TH-cam and focus on your health. Wishing you success and peace as well! 🙏🏽🩷
My soul resonated so deeply with this. I am so exhausted and tired from tolerating toxic work environments just to look forward to a weekend. I always feel like I am wearing a mask at work. I wish I could retire but that won't be poosible as far as I can see right now. Thanks you for this. God Bless.
I completely understand that feeling of exhaustion and the weight of a toxic work environment. Take it one step at a time. You deserve peace and fulfillment in your journey. Stay strong and keep believing. God bless you! ❤️
I feel so seen! I'm 52, I quit my job this past July to take a career break and chill a little. In August, my mom had 2 emergency surgeries that took away all of her independence. The last 5 months have been a roller coaster and she's getting much better but still very much dependent on me and my sister. I'm starting to feel a little panicky about not working and wanting to look for another remote job-don't miss work, just the steady paycheck/ health insurance. Also dealing with the programming that GenX was taught- to work, work, work. Caregiving is HARD and I was super tired even before my mom got sick. But after listening to you, maybe I should really learn to embrace this time and work on some of the things I've been putting off and taking care of myself...bet on myself for a change. Finding the balance is tough but I'm glad I found your channel❤
I’m so glad you feel seen…that means everything to me! Caregiving is hard, and balancing it all takes a lot of grace. Remember, taking care of yourself is just as important. You’re doing an incredible job, and I’m so glad you found the channel. Sending you love and strength! ❤️
Hello! I was referred to your channel from my husband. He was a client of yours (Chris) in your corporate career. I love watching TH-cam videos that inspire me, so he suggested I follow you. I recently retired as well from the same industry, and I could not be happier! I wish you all the best on this next chapter. You will not regret this decision, family always should be first and you are an example of a perfect daughter!
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful message! It’s amazing how paths reconnect, and I’m so glad your husband referred you here. Tell him ‘hello’ for me as well! Congratulations on your retirement as family truly is everything, and your kind words mean so much to me! 🩷✨
Just found your channel. I'm going through the same with the future of my job. Focusing and analyzing my options. Thank you for sharing. Btw, love Cecelia Blomdahl too! Take Care.
I can truly identify with your situation. I did the same thing with my mom in 2005, 19yrs ago. I am now 73, my mom has passed, I’m alone, but not lonely. God will see you through it all. I now have a few difficulties, some would call them “life” challenges, while others might call them problems. I am thankful to God and I call them strengtheners. It’s another part of the journey of life. You choose whether or not it is good or bad. I choose to believe it’s doable.😊 God Bless your journal.
My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2008. I started working out of the house in order to care for her. She died 89 days after the diagnosis. The firm I worked for only gave three bereavement days. I took five which still wasn't enough. My head was no longer in the game. I was helping people around me, but no one could see I was drowning--not even my husband. Intercessors prayed that I could leave the firm. Finally, seven years later they offered me a severance package due to restructuring. It was the happiest day of my life. I retired that day. In 2022 my husband and I relocated to coastal GA for warmer weather and a slower pace. I see a need in our new town for broader educational opportunities for minorities and those making near or below a living wage. So, I'm believing to somehow enter into that sphere.
Your story is both heartbreaking and inspiring. The love and dedication you showed your mom are beyond admirable, and I’m so glad you’ve found peace and a slower pace in your new chapter of life. Your vision to help provide opportunities in your community is incredible, and I know you’ll make a meaningful impact. ❤️
Your video brought tears to my eyes as it reminded me of my mom. Her health declined over 13 years, eventually requiring constant care. She passed away four years ago, and my sisters became her caretakers. Their support allowed me to focus on my career, relationship, and business. I’m so grateful to them for ensuring her final days were filled with love and dignity-something that mattered deeply to her. Women like you are truly saints and often don’t receive the support you deserve as caregivers. Although your mom isn’t my kin, she’s an elder, and I deeply appreciate everything you’re doing for her. Thank you.
Your story moved me. Caregiving is such a profound act of love, and your reflections are deeply inspiring. Thank you for sharing your heart and for your kind words. Blessings to you and your family! 🙏🏽💙
Sister I applaud you for taking control of you time. I so can relate to your story and look forward to exiting my whenever to whenever corporate prison👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Thanks for sharing!
God bless you Reggi. As I'm currently taking some time to pamper myself with a Mani/pedi now, I was going through in my mind everything you mentioned in this video. I just turned 54, also a full time caregiver to both my parents, I have a remote full-time job and I promised myself to reflect on those plans of change going into 2025 for myself in my physical and mental health, career change and enjoying life. Similar to you, I desire to create in many facets and quitting my job is definitely a thought at the forefront of my mind. I would love an opportunity to connect with you to discuss some prospects. I am blessed to have heard your video this afternoon to know that I'm not alone in this journey of seeking my deeper self and living my best life. A million thanks.
Thank you for sharing your journey and kind words! I’m so glad the video resonated with you. If you’d like to connect and discuss further, I offer 1-on-1 coaching sessions. You can find all the details and schedule a session via the link stan.store/regedited. Wishing you all the best as you step into 2025 with new intentions! 🩷
I am burnt out right now. I have bad anxiety and stress and suffer from depression. I decided to become a caregiver for vets in my own home and this will allow me and wife to work from home. I have a background of senior care so this will be great for me. I made a plan that starting next year im going to beat anxiety and stress and depression. That im gonna be a better spouse to my wife and not be so cranky all the time. Altho i look young for my age i can see the stress on my face and feel it in my body. We are growing our own food and showing people how to do it so that we can reverse all of the damage to our bodies from the low quality food at the stores. We now live in the country to slow down from the hustle and bustle of the city. Its time for us as a whole to take better care of ourselves, because when everything needs to be done asap we tend to neglect our self care. 2025 is our year to get back to finding us i hope more people follow along too.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s inspiring to see how you’re turning challenges into positive steps for yourself, your spouse, and others. Growing your own food and focusing on self-care are such powerful changes. Wishing you strength and success in this journey. You’re already making a difference! 🩷
I am already a subscriber. I clicked on this video because your hair is so beautiful. I laud your courage and transparency. I support you and believe God for the best for you. I read some of the comments before leaving mine and am filled with gratitude to be in a community of like minded women who also are courageous. I am heartened by your story and delighted to co-journey (I too am poised to begin, to chart a different course)along with you. The Bible says, Honor your Mother and Father so that your days will be long AND that all will be well with you. God be with you, Sis. With love and respect,
Thank you so much, LaDonna, for your heartfelt message and your support! I’m so grateful to be part of a community with smart, like-minded women like you. Wishing you all the best as you step into this new journey-we are traveling the path together! Blessings to you, Sis. 🩷
Your video popped up in my feed. Wow, what a beautiful woman... I can relate having to take care of elderly parents.. my parents are 82 and 83 as well... serving others is powerful, and doing it for the right reasons...
Thank you so much for finding me! Agree with you, Caregiving is such a powerful act of love, and I truly admire your heart for your parents. Sending you strength and peace. 🩷
I dropped to 4 days, that extra day has kept me sane. I asked myself how much I would need to be paid to go back to 5 days and the figure I came up with was double my salary. That extra day off has improved my family life, given me time to pay extra attention to and heal my ailments without pharmaceuticals, keep a better eye on finances, the list goes on. I am so happy now that expensive cars and clothes will never sway me, I don't want or need them. As I move to a simple life I feel real contentment. There's so much wonderful knowledge and wisdom to learn out there and not enough time ! ❤
That extra day sounds life-changing! I love how it’s allowed you to simplify, heal, and focus on what really matters. Contentment is such a gift! Keep thriving! ❤️
I plan to retire early . At work you really do have to put on a mask . I’m young but I think younger people should watch this video while we are young plan to retire early ! (Save your money ) I only work a few days a week and I keep it that way . I don’t overwork myself and outside of Work I focus toward my true goals . Be happy ♥️
I needed to hear this. I resigned from my position a month ago. I was the Director of the school that I worked at. For the past 6 years I’ve given 200%. Nothing I did was enough. The owner would find petty stuff to complain about, and I had become miserable. I left the job to put everything into me. It’s time for me to win! What I did for her, I can do for me, and be much happier. Please pray for my journey.
It takes so much courage to step away and invest in yourself. I’m praying for your journey! You absolutely deserve to thrive and find happiness on your own terms. This community is here for you. ✨🩷
@@reggisweatthis is wonderful! I don’t even know how this video ended up on my page, and I had no idea that commenting would connect me to a community of support. I’m very grateful! God definitely orders our steps!
Happy to walk this journey with you. Your story really resonates, particularly snatching your health back before it's too late, caused by years of neglect - in my case whilst sole parenting. I'm coming out the other side now but 2yrs out of the workplace has allowed me to find my own step, and breathe. Wishing you so much peace, joy and fulfillment. Turning on notifications now x
Your story touched me deeply and thank you for sharing. Rebuilding your health back is so critical, and I’m so glad you’ve found your own rhythm again. Wishing you joy and peace! 🌿
Thank you for sharing this! I'm also 55 and have walked away from two jobs in the past 2 years where I was earning six figures. Working long hours, managing people in today's society, and just being unhappy with the jobs took a toll on my health and happiness. I've also had the privilege of traveling abroad and following dozens of expats who live a middle class life in other countries with better, affordable health care, less political division, and happier citizens. Being able to retire abroad and live on two social security incomes is becoming more and more appealing to my wife and I every day.
Your story is incredibly inspiring. Exploring life abroad sounds like such an enriching experience. Thank you for sharing your wisdom; it’s a reminder to all of us that well-being is priceless. ✨💪🏽
Yeah, I just put my resignation letter in at my job a few days ago, to step into a job that aligns more with me tutoring.
My boss was heartbroken HER BOSS was heartbroken and neither of them wanted to turn in my resignation letter. It’s really one of those things like you said when you get older(because I’ll be 50 in a few months) you lean towards a more simple life.
My daughter is now a college student, I’m not married my daughter goes away to college, so for me working crazy hours feeling like a hamster is not cool. I’m starting a different career working with pre-k students vs working with teens. Working only 4 days a week with the kids. They take naps, and I have the summer OFF if I choose to, and it’s actually MORE money 🤯who knew. lol
It frees my days up to get my business online instead of tutoring in person then I can come and go as I please. So yeah, you know when it’s time to make changes, your body will tell you. EVERYONE at my job was like 😟WHAT, WHY are you leaving. My bosses said, this will truly be a void not having you here….
We have to remember that, Sometimes we have to move out the way to make room for others. Amen
Your story is so empowering! It’s incredible how you’re stepping into a role that aligns with your values and offers balance. What a gift to yourself and your family. Wishing you success and joy in this next chapter. Amen to making room for new blessings! ❤️
@@reggisweatthank you, and I feel so much PEACE with this decision. Blessings to you, your family and your online business ❤
Sounds good ❤
@@reggisweat I agree❤
why give notice? when they fire u they don't give notice. don't care if.... u can't pay your bills. if your credit score goes down. if it takes MONTHS to find another job. why care about how they feel about NOT giving them 2 weeks to tell them u hate their crappy bs?
I retired five years ago at the age of 54. Many told me that I would be bored. As of this moment I have not experienced boredom at any time. I do what I want, when I want, if I want. That is living.
I love this! Living life on your own terms is the ultimate freedom. You’re proof that retirement doesn’t mean boredom, it means choice! Thank you for commenting. 👏🏽🩷
Yep! Me too! I'm so busy I can't finish all the things I want to do!
Sounds awesome to me!
Good for yuo there’s a lot Yuo can do keep yuo busy daily if yuo get bored volunteer there so many places Yuo can fo that I still work and on my day s off it’s not enough so I can’t wait to retire I know I won’t get bored I don’t understand why some people hate their retirement enjoy it
@@Jazz-fg2dm Retirement doesn't mean doing nothing. I made sure I had other interests and built a life outside of my career, and not made my career my whole identity- so that when I retired it was an easy transition. I went back to school for cinematography the last 5 years before I planned to retire. And the friends and family I have here also keep me busy with enjoying life outside of work, I always realized my coworkers were not my friends, just coworkers, as soon as you retire- they forget about you. I can see how though, if someone moves to another country, and can't integrate into the society well because of language barriers or what not, they could start to feel isolated. I also deliberately chose not to live in an expat bubble, so I would be forced to live among the locals. Like, there are a bunch of expats in Prague, but they all live in a certain place and some are here for many years, and never even learned the language.
New here.. I’m 54 and I’m here… I keep saying I’m retiring at 55 whether my 401k says I should or not. I’ve worked since I was 14, I’m tired. I need to enjoy my life b4 I can’t!!
It's that last line...I hope you are in good health. Being chronically ill, I now wish some of the things I decided could wait til later, that I had actually moved on before my health tool a turn. I'm grateful to just be on this side of Heaven. Whatever you can do that you desire, I encourage you to do it now!! Many blessings ❤
Such a powerful reminder to prioritize what truly matters. Thank you for sharing your wisdom…wishing you continued blessings and strength. ❤️
@SteffaniesJourney, I love your determination to put yourself first! Life is meant to be lived, and I’m cheering you on as you make the most of every moment. ❤️
Wow! Same here! It seems like 55 will never get here...i started working a paper route and then at 15, worked in an icecream shop. After 30 years of teaching, i have to wait until 55 for a full pension.... i wanna quit every other week. I am tired.
I agree with you. Since young, I planned to stop working at 55, so I can still enjoy my kids, which are now young adults.
50 year old blk male here. I became exhausted with all the battles i had to fight at work. It wasn't enough to be good at my job (which i was). I realised spending the rest of my life in the corporate world would be a waste of the rest of my life. I got laid off in November of 2023 and I haven't gone back
I completely understand that feeling. Corporate life can take so much from us. I’m glad you’re giving yourself the freedom to choose what truly matters now. Wishing you peace and purpose on this new path my friend! 💪🏾💙
I identify with this completely. Best of luck to you on your future; may it be filled with contentment and peace.
Got laid off on Election Day from a corporate job that was very racist and was so happy to be free from the slave ship. I'll figure out my life going forward but as for now I am feeling much happier.
@@reggisweat Thank you ! And blessings to you and your Mom.
@@eyeshaveit591 Congratulations on being free of the racism ! I feel you on that. Being happier with your every day life is much more important than a job will ever be. We only get one life. We have to make the most of it
I am a 50-year-old black male, former executive, and I resigned from my job in Sept of this year. Burnout is real and I feel so relieved. I have a 5-year-old daughter, and she couldn't be happier. I launched my own business, and it feels great to be able to control my time and my days.
Congratulations on taking that step to reclaim your time and energy! Burnout is so real, and I’m glad you’re finding joy with your daughter and your new business. Wishing you all the best in this exciting chapter! 💙
@@reggisweat Thank you! And I am wishing you all the best in your journey too.
I'm 59 and retiring 12/27/2024. I figure I have 10 good health years and want to live my life on my terms 100%.
Congratulations on your upcoming retirement! Please take care of you for a long and happy life. ☺️🩷
Love this. Good for you and congrats on taking control
Exactly!
I am 52 and leaving my corporate job next year. The date has already circled on the calendar. I am going to focus on building my vision. My business. Time to live for me.
Love that you’re prioritizing your vision and happiness, Sharon! Cheers to a new chapter filled with purpose and freedom! 🩷
You'll get so much fulfilment from that ...the kind a corporate job could never give you. I'm currently building a tourism business in east africa and its the best decision i ever made.
Many people are beginning to see the light and it’s a good thing!
I soo.......proud of you I am struggling with the same and more I can't even express in words so I am happy for YOU!!!
May I add you look FABULOUS ❤
Very similar story here. I'm a 59 year old black male and officially walked away from working earlier this year. I was a caregiver for my mother while also working as an IT consultant and also running a very successful side business with 20+ employees. I made a ton of money but was slowly dying inside especially after my mother passed without me being by her side due my "other commitments". My drive also helped kill my marriage after nearly 30 years together. Today, I'm living by the beach overseas with a different wife who is 15 years my junior, speaking a different language, and living like a king due to the much lower cost of living and very favorable currency exchange rate overseas. I bike ride the beach boardwalk everyday, eat the right foods, and have an immensely close relationship with my non english speaking wife. I've never been happier in my life. We are now in the youth of our senior years. The "go-go" years. We have paid our dues. Now is the time to start living the life of our dreams.
I love your story! Thank you for that. It’s so inspiring to hear how you’ve created a life that brings you joy and fulfillment after so many challenges. Wishing you continued happiness in this new chapter. 🙏🏽
Great story young man. I just wish the first wife had enjoyed this “latter years” benefits of love and life. Hmmmmmm.
@@skqq3250You know how it goes, build a man and he’ll thank you by leaving.
I retired this past June 2024. I am physically able to have continued working but I didn’t want to. I have found peace and purpose. No regrets!😊
That’s beautiful. Finding peace and purpose is everything! No regrets, just joy in this next chapter. Agree my friend. ☺️🩷
Self care is so important. I retired at 57. I'm now 62 and focusing on getting healthy. Great video.
Wow…I love how you took the leap! Very inspiring. I hope to engage more with you in the community and thank you for the positive feedback! 🩷
Peace, purpose and time. Amen. My last day of work is Dec 31st. I’m done and tired. I have no new job and I’m okay with that….bravo. Congratulations.
Many blessings to you! It takes courage to step away, and it sounds like you’re ready for this next chapter. Wishing you rest and healing as you move forward. You’ve earned it! 🙏🏽
Blessings Reggi. Thank you.
Yesssss
Congrats,I want to do this so badly, I just don't understand the basics. How will you pay your bills, medical etc?
Keep is posted.
Good for you! I recently retired at 56, and I absolutely love it. I'm excited to see what God has planned for me next. Too often, people burden themselves with materialistic or worldly pursuits, leaving no space for the moves essential to their spiritual growth and development. In our consumer-driven society, it’s a vicious cycle: working unfulfilling jobs with people they dislike, just to earn money to buy more things, often resulting in perpetual debt while trying to "keep up with the Joneses."
During an argument, my son once said to me, "All you have is a car," mistakenly equating material possessions-like his house, car, and other belongings-with self-worth. But as the old adage goes, with age comes wisdom. The things I valued in my youth no longer hold the same importance. Now, my priorities have shifted toward self-preservation and well-being.
When I was younger, I prayed for wealth. Now, I pray for health, so I can enjoy the fruits of my labor. In this capitalistic, "spend now, pay later" society, I can't help but wonder how many of us end up paying with our health. Simplicity creates space to breathe. If you have the means to retire now, do it! You’ll never regret prioritizing what truly matters.
Sincerely,
A servant to no man, but the man above!
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and inspiring reflection! I love how you’ve embraced the wisdom that comes with age and shifted your focus to self-preservation and well-being. Your journey is a beautiful reminder that simplicity truly creates space to breathe and live out loud. I couldn’t agree more! Wishing you continued fulfillment in this next chapter! 🙌🏽
Seek first the kingdom of God and all these will be added, you are a light
I took an early retirement at 55 because I was tired. A few years later I took care of dad who lived with me for about 4 years until passed from dementia. More power to you girl for working and being a caregiver. It was the hardest thing I’ve done in my life.
Karen, your story is so touching and inspiring. And agree, It takes immense strength to step into the caregiving role, and I’m so glad you’re finding power and purpose through it all. Thank you for sharing your background, my friend. ❤️
Congrats! I, at 49 years old in 2021, retired and now write children's books. My series is called Angelina Honey Bee. Now on my 7th book. Working on my first novel. I also became celibate. I don't go out on dates, but that doesn't mean that I don't want to date. It's just not a priority anymore. My novel I hope also helps the world. My life has been filled with making others happy. I don't mind being on a budget because I don't need much. I don't have debt, thank goodness. So, I am able to be more free. Loving this new journey.
What an inspiring story, thank you for sharing! I love your focus on writing, creating, and living intentionally. 🩷
In June 2024 I sold my house and moved to a small town. Health was good then I went back to work. After 2 weeks my physical and emotional health had fallen. I quit and decided to take a early retirement. I'll be 60 in In February and I'm truly loving life! I'm working on a side hustle I believe in and I'm trusting God to take care of me!
What a beautiful transition, Sylvia! I really love your story! Trusting God, prioritizing health, and building a side hustle sounds like a strategy for happiness and purpose. Wishing you continued peace. 🌟🩷
I need a side hustle....can you suggest anything to me? I am in desperate need .
@cynthiabiel7714 my suggestion is to seek what you love the most. What comes naturally to you. I just started doing body butters. I plan to get back to doing my handmade jewelry as well. Think of your health in your decision as well. Some crafting can hurt the back and hands.
Amen
I remember 10 years ago I said that I'm going to retire at 55 and then I stopped saying that because my peers kept saying that's to young. Fast forward my 89 year old mom had a health scare and I remember giving God an end date and I said, God, I need you to give me a sign that the date I have chosen is the correct date. My mom stayed two weeks in the hospital. I walked into the hospital on her release date and she was telling the doctor, my daughter's going to retire and she's going to be my caregiver. And I said after the doctor left, Mom I told you I was thinking about it. And God whispered in my ear, you asked for a sign and there it is. It has only been two weeks. I am looking forward to the months and years to come. God truly answerers prayers. God, family, and time is so precious we can't afford to waste it🙌🏽🙏🏽
Your story is so moving and truly highlights the power of faith and listening to God’s guidance. Cherish this precious time with your mom and continue to lean into the blessings of family and purpose. Time is indeed a gift we can’t waste! 🩷🩷
I’m retiring January 2026. at the age of 56. I understand and agree with this video and a lot of the comments. I am tired of asking someone can I take a day off. My employer can control my pay, but not my Income. I am going to start my business and make as much as I see fit. My time is valuable. My happiness, peacefulness and purpose is most important. My father passed away in May of 23 and also in 23 After taking care of my aunt and watching her take her last breath in June that did it for me. I am responsible for everything and everyone. It’s time for me to take care of me.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your father and aunt - your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. 🙏🏽❤️ and you have the right mindset for your new chapter my friend. Thank you for commenting. ❤️
Love this!! I quit corporate to go on a self funded sabbatical for 3 years & to date I have traveled to over 81 countries. So glad I made that pivot years ago, now I am a caregiver to my wonderful mom. This journey after 50 is not what I expected, but nonetheless beautiful! Keep the faith and love what you are doing. 100% doc approved!!
Wow, what an incredible journey you’ve had! You’re living proof that life after 50 can be filled with amazing experiences. Thank you for sharing! 💖
Do you have a TH-cam blog. I would love to hear more about your story.
I can totally relate Reggi. I had to retire at age 48 (I'm 59 now) due to having a disabled adult daughter that I care for with my husband's help. Between my stressful career and my daughter's constant hospital visits I decided enough was enough. It is one decision I don't regret and would do it again not just for my daughter's health but my own. My daughter is now 31 and totally disabled diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. I'm sooooo thankful to the Lord that she has Long term care and with the help of caregivers (when they're here, because there are times when they're not). The rat race is not worth it!
Pam, your story touches my heart. You’ve shown such strength and love for your daughter, and I admire your decision to choose what truly matters. Wishing you continued peace and health. You’re an inspiration! 🩷
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Congratulations on your choice. I became my mom caregiver full time 8 years ago. She passed away this January 2024. My support has been God and my husband that was forced into retirement himself at age 66. Taking care of my mom for her dementia was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but it also was the best and satisfying thing I have done. It was a privilege having her in my home and as well in keeping me at peace that I knew exactly how she was being taken care of. My husband loved her and also had a hand in her care. I took time for myself after her death and now that her 1 year anniversary is coming up, it’s time for me to decide what I want to do. I wish you all the best in your new path.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, Lilly. Your story reflects such incredible strength, love, and dedication, not just to your mom, but to yourself and your family. I can feel how much of a privilege and challenge it was to care for her, and your peace of mind at the same time. You’re a great daughter. As you approach this new chapter, I hope you find clarity and joy in deciding what’s next for you. I know you’ll continue to shine. 💛✨
Thank you. All the best to your journey as well.
NOT THIS IS VALUABLE CONTENT!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story. On Nov 1st. at the age of 51, I walked away from my 15 year career in Media. I was burnt out, stressed and at the end of my rope. I didn't have a job and I didn't care. Fast forward a few weeks later ... I have so much peace and I'm feeling more like myself again. I also realized that I wanted to help those who are experiencing the same in their career. I just became certified as a professional life coach with emphasis on career and personal development. We still have so much to offer. Thank you again! New subscriber here! I will definitely support you!
Thank you so much for sharing, Monique! Walking away after 15 years takes courage, and I know burnout is no joke. Here’s to finding peace, freedom, and a fresh start on your terms! And thank you again for subscribing to the channel! ❤️
Congratulations!! Walking in your purpose. Can you imagine if we as women put that same energy into what fulfills US as we do or did into corporate?? Many blessings on your next chapter. ♥
❤️ You make 55 look amazing! 😻
Oh thank you! 🩷
My sentiments exactly from Atlanta. I was fortunate to retire 4 years ago during the pandemic from a thankless job. My health got so much better, even my feet look better because I am not wearing heels everyday. I have more money now than I did working 40 hours a week. You do not realize how much your finances revolve around a job and commuting daily. America's work world is run by essential workers which we found out during the pandemic. The dedicated, talented burnout workers have quit, and America has felt the impact. Now the upper class are begging and demanding that people come back to work. Not going back! Corporate America realizes that a big shift has happened in work America. The younger generations are not going to perform the work grind we did for years. So I salute and support you in your new endeavor. When you close one door, another opens. Love and light prayers to your dear mother.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! It’s inspiring to hear you’re thriving after making such a big change. I love it! 🩷
The younger generation took note and learned earlier.
I was a firefighter/medic for almost 20 years and medically retired at 52, due to injuries. I have never looked back! I was the ONLY black female on my department! You can imagine some of the BS that I had to deal with! Good luck to you! I know you’ll be fine, you have a great perspective on things! 🙏🏾
Wow, what impressive background you have…your perseverance is very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate your encouragement! 🩷
Oh my! I'm 52, was an LCSW 1st, then became an RN for the last 14yrs and I medically retired this yr, 2024, d/t work place injuries. I don't miss any of it.
I was just talking to the Lord today about what should I do regarding my corporate job. I’ve reached the limit of what I can accomplish there. I know in my heart it’s time to take a leap of faith . That salary is keeping me from following my passion for building my music school. I am so ready to quit but I was going to wait a year to quit when I turn 55. Have been feeling this way for a very long time and yet I stick with it out of fear that I can’t replace my salary in my own business. I know that’s a lie I’m telling myself bc I know I can succeed in my own business. It’s leaving the comfort of a fixed salary is what’s kept me stagnant. Today I prayed and asked the Lord what should I do. How can I get unstuck? And your video came up. Thank you for sharing your story! It’s what I needed. Thank you!
I'm in the same place, except I just turned 42. I have my own publishing and community development company and have been working full-time in my J-O-B. I'm single and have experienced severe homelessness over the years. Letting go of a stable, consistent job is scary. I have stability (roof over my head) because of my consistent income. I've worked on my business part-time over the years, but one of my business mentors says I have a hobby because I'm not giving it my all. I know I'm capable of successfully building my company and being financially stable. It's just taking the leap in the beginning to let go of what seems consistent and just do it.
I'm right there with you. I feel like we need a support group lol.
@jonesy795 what a beautiful prayer and reflection with the Lord. Taking that leap of faith is hard, but it sounds like your heart knows the right path. And I completely understand leaving that paycheck is scary although if you have your plan and execute it, I am sure it will be a blessing to you and others. 🩷💪🏽
@poet82n I completely understand…it’s so tough to let go of stability, but you’re right: sometimes we just have to leap. I’m rooting for you and your vision. It’s clear you’re ready for the next step and whatever that looks like for you! 💪🏾 🩷
@@reggisweat thank you for taking the time to respond! Blessings 🙏
I'm 55 now, exhausted from nearly 40 years of full-time work and burned out for sure. I'm starting to need medical appointments too, for various things. Unfortunately I didn't save, and cannot quit my job anytime soon. It doesn't pay much, but I am desperate to do something meaningful with my life instead of wasting away at this job that doesn't care about me. I have been thinking about starting my own channel as well, and just now trying to figure out what it is that I can offer that people will want. Thank you for the video!
I hear you, and I know how tough it can feel when you’re stuck in burnout. Starting your own channel sounds like a wonderful idea to explore! Sharing your story and skills could connect you with so many others who need to hear it. You’d be surprised how much you have to offer. Cheering you on as you figure it out!🩷💪🏽
You are gorgeous.
Thank you so much! You just made my day! Sending that love right back to you. ❤️
She is.
…so are you.
Omg I feel you, I’m caring for my mom who had a stroke at 56 and now she’s 76. My husband had a stroke year and a half ago so I’m caring for him also and I’m tired. I work also
Oh, I feel this so deeply my sister…you are doing so much, and I know that exhaustion all too well. Caregiving for your mom and husband while working takes incredible strength. I checked out your channel, and I see your heart and dedication shining through. We’re on this journey together, and I’m sending you so much love and encouragement. Stay strong my friend and know you’re not alone in this. ❤️
Whew my sister.. that’s a lot . My prayers are with you .
DMSO may be helpful in healing your husband.
Praying that God gives you strength. I hope you have family and friends who can give you a respite. I was a caregiver, too. It's important to take care of yourself or you won't be able to help anyone.
God bless you. You are an angel 😇
No regrets here. I retired at the end of 2023. I am a RN, worked at VAMC for 21 years, I was tired, burnt out and unfilled. Now, Im free, travel when I want to and love being home, my home. I thank God everyday for taking care and providing for me.
Wow! Congratulations on your retirement! Much deserved and encouraging. 😊. I thank you for your service for us Veterans also! 🫡💙
Fellow nurse here...I have always said that nurses should have a retirement set up through the government, like state workers, firemen and etc
...I am 61 trying to push to 62 to retire
I am burned out! I have been working since I was 8 yo-tobacco fields. Sadly none of that time will be considered for social security .
I retired at 53. It’s been one year! It was a state job, very, very stressful, alone with menopause, being there for my elderly mom as needed, and a child with special needs. I cried too much at work, stayed uptight, and I had to do what’s was best for my family and me! I feel so much better now. Although the income change is a lot different. I will survive! Thank God!
Thanks for sharing your truth!!!
Thank you for sharing your story! It sounds like you’ve been through so much, but I love that you prioritized yourself and your family. The transition can be challenging for sure, especially with the income changes, but your strength and faith are so inspiring. 🩷🙏🏽
I pull away from my Job at the age of 56 . I don’t say retired because I still keep busy. Looking forward to go to Africa !
That’s amazing. Staying busy and planning a trip to Africa sounds so fulfilling. Wishing you all the best on your journey!
I retired at 56 to take of my Mom with breast cancer, God bless me to take care of her, I was a UPS driver and a Union Shop steward very stressful my Mom pass in January 2023 the greatest gift I gave my Mom was being with her she was so excited that I was able to do that last year was my first Thanksgiving and Christmas without rushing back to work and what every she wanted I was able to provide, I miss both of my parents but I’m so glad that God gave me a gift and now I’m traveling I’ve lost weight I’m doing what ever I want and it took time to realize that because I was always taking care of my parents but the sad thing is I have a sibling, someone should make a video about that, why is it there’s always one sibling left to do everything. ? God will always make a way.
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt journey. The time you gave your mom is such a priceless gift, and I admire your strength. I can relate to being the one sibling left to handle everything…it’s not easy. Sending you love as you embrace this new path, and yes, God always makes a way. ❤️
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I feel so encouraged watching this video and reading the Comments. Thank you all for being so transparent. I’m a 54 year old Black female, and an Educator, by profession. I left my public school teaching job of 16 1/2 years, September 2023. I couldn’t go back as it was sucking the soul out of me. I had not been taking proper care of ME, and my Middle School teaching job only amplified my stress level. I’m single, no kids, and help care for an aging mom and a slightly older sister who’s dealing with Parkinson’s plus a Breast Cancer survivor. And did I mention that I’m also the bread winner; they live with me. I worked hard, saved and spent less than I earned. Since December 2023, I’ve been living off of my savings and loving the freedom to BE! Self-care is optimal. I’m doing me and deciding on the next chapter of my life with the grace of God. No Fear, no more!
Suzette, your courage to prioritize your well-being and embrace a new chapter is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey of strength, self-care, and faith. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and trusting in the process. ❤️
@@reggisweat Thanks Reggie.
I’m 52 and I want to retire so bad 😢. I’m feeling everything you have said
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Thank you for subscribing! I completely understand that longing for retirement, it’s a big step. Take it one day at a time, and start planning what’s possible for you. It may look different from what you might visualize, but it’s very doable with planning income streams. I am rooting for you!🙏🏽🩷
I'm a caregiver too and it's hard not having time off during the black out dates for the holiday but I asked for Christmas week off and got it. On my days off, I'm continuing to do what I do during the week, it's just less stressful because I'm not working. Two days is never enough time to recover but I'm thankful I can care for my Daddy, he's 90 and I'm 53.
Being a caregiver is no small feat, and I completely understand how hard it is to find time to recover. I’m so glad you got that Christmas week off! You deserve it. Taking care of your Daddy at 90 is such a blessing, and you’re doing an incredible job. Sending you strength and peace for the journey. ❤️👏🏽
So sorry to hear about your journey and about your Mother. I can relate so much to your mask statement. All my it made me cry because I lived the same way in your shoes on my job for over 25 years. It was high stress. I had the most highest education didn’t matter if you didn’t look a certain way …It was not what you had but who you were that got you promotions. My situation I retired at 57 right before the pandemic with full benefits so I ran for the door! My self-worth begins, then define myself and my happiness from that point. Thank you so much for sharing your journey…❤
Your story is truly inspiring and finding happiness and self-worth after such a long journey is powerful. Thank you for sharing, and I’m so glad you could relate to mine. Wishing you continued peace and joy in retirement! ❤️
You are too cute lady! I hope to look like you at 55. I’m on a similar journey and I thank you for sharing your story. God bless us all!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad we’re on similar journeys. God bless us both as we continue to embrace this season of life. 💛
I resonated with all of this and made a plan to exit Corporate America within 3 years, but I was laid off at 55 instead. Everything happens for a reason because it happened at a time when both of my in-law's health started to decline, so I became free to coordinate their care and start my channel to motivate others to plan for aging...because you need to do more than just save for retirement.
Everything truly does happen for a reason, and I admire how you turned a challenging time into something so impactful. Starting a channel to motivate others takes real courage, and I’m cheering you on! Your message about planning for more than just retirement is so needed. Wishing you so much success! 🙌🏽🎉🩷
@reggisweat Thank you for the encouragement. I am really glad your channel popped up in my feed. 😊
Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.
I love this for you!
I love hearing this! Your story is inspiring! ❤️
I applaud you my sister for stepping out on your faith and prioritizing you and your family! In 2022 I was blessed to make the choice to retire early at the age of 58 after 36 yrs at the same company. The last 2 yrs of working is what pushed me to do so. The demands of being a middle manager were extremely exhausting and starting to impact my well being. Everyone please do not let life become your work or work become your life. These companies will fill your seat before your body is cold should you fall over dead today, harsh but true.
Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony! Prioritizing health and family over work is a courageous step that inspires so many of us. You’re absolutely right; jobs will replace us, but we only have one life. 🩷
I’m going to be 50 at the end of this month and I am so tired of being in the rat race of America living. Both my kids are in college and I feel as if I have done my job as a parent. I can now focus on ME! I tell everyone I want to go off and spend the rest of my days by the beach. They call me crazy, but I’m okay with that. I’m originally from the islands and I plan to move back to the peace and slower lifestyle of island living. I’m solely focused on retiring in the next 5 years. Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏🏾
I love your comment here, my friend! Your plan to focus on YOU and return to the peaceful rhythm of island life is so amazing. It’s not crazy, it’s bold and intentional. Wishing you all the best on this beautiful journey back to yourself! 🙏🏽🩷
What a blessing that you showed up in my algorithm. I'm ready to make a change and work on it every day. I crave time and freedom from my corporate job which is not fulfilling. I plan is to replace my current salary with my own business by the end of 2025.
You are going to do amazing things! I'm sending you all the positive vibes for achieving your goal! 🩷
Thank you for confirming my thoughts of moving forward. I am 58 and single. I’m currently living paycheck to paycheck. However, I have made the decision to walk away from my job as a teacher. I’m going to step out of Faith and open an infant through 12 y/o learning center in my home. I have decided to educate our children of tomorrow. I’m not a believer of children learn through play. However, I do believe we need to teach the whole child mentally , physically , emotionally and spiritually and academically, as well as socially and emotional… I believe in our children and I want to see them excel and succeed with the educational experiences to be lifelong learners and world leaders that bring positive changes. My dream before I am to old to make the transition.
Thank you for sharing. I was a caregiver to both my parents and they’re no longer with us. I’m enjoy your time life is short. Keep smiling and much peace to you on this journey.
Your vision is so beautiful, and stepping out on faith to pursue it is so courageous. Our children truly need educators like you who care about nurturing the whole child. Wishing you every success with your learning center and peace as you move forward on this path! ❤️
I too am a caregiver for my mom as well as work, the struggle is real. Thank you
Janeen, I see you, and I feel you. Being a caregiver is one of the toughest and most important roles we can take on. You’re doing an incredible job, and I hope you find moments to take care of yourself as well. Blessings to you. ❤️
Corporate America will burn you out if you sit in it long enough. I always had great hobbies during my work career. My corporate executive bosses admired that and purchased over $5000. Of my book. They redesigned their entire HR on boarding orientation around me. Work was never my life. It paid the bills but my book is still bringing in finances 4 years later. I was a care provider for my grandmother but always had time for me and creative nature. I just moved from New York on August 30th. Now in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. I plan to work online part time hopefully for a Christian film company. It’s beautiful creating a new life the way you want it. So much to explore and discover about ourselves. I’m sure you will too, will do awesome things. God bless you Sistah!
Wow, what an inspiring story! It’s amazing how you’ve woven creativity and caregiving into your life while staying true to your purpose. Your move to Myrtle Beach and plans to work in Christian film sound so beautiful! What a new chapter of freedom and exploration. Thank you for sharing this, and God bless you too, Sis! 🙏🏾❤️
I’m in the same boat. I quit my job almost two years ago at 60 to follow my path. I am loving the freedom. Keep doing what you’re doing, you are making a difference. ❤
Thank you, Sonya! I love hearing how you’re embracing freedom…such an inspiration. Here’s to making a difference together! ❤️
You and your hair look beautiful!!! I left my 9-5 in Sept 2019. I physically felt unhappy & unfulfilled. I was also perimenopausal, and that made it worse. BE ENCOURAGED! I wish you much success, happiness & prosperity as you navigate your new normal. I'll be along on your ride. p.s. I, too, am fasinated by Cecilia😊
I am so happy you’re on this adventure with me! I’m excited to continue connecting with amazing women like you! 💗 p.s. yes Cecilia is my calm in a world of noise. 😉
Baby, I can't thank you enough for this video, I quit my job 3 months ago and before that I took FMLA. The reason, I didn't like how those people were treating me, I will get back to work next year, but before I allow a job to stress me out, I'm going to clock forever. Take care❤
Wow, Tutu, what an empowering decision! Prioritizing your peace and well-being over a stressful environment is such a bold and admirable move. I’m wishing you all the best as you reset and prepare for what’s next. 🩷
You look amazing for your age, and the best is yet to come! God bless you. I was a caregiver for my mom and dad for some years and it is so hard, but so worthwhile in the end. Mine both passed within 6 months of each other and the grief was very strong for 2 years afterwards. Then I had the strength to make a big change and move somewhere with sunshine, which I had been missing for years. Now I am ready to start planning my next adventure, at 58 years on this earth. You give me inspiration.
Thank you for sharing your powerful story! The resilience you've shown is truly inspiring, and I'm excited for you to create a new path that fills you with sunshine. ✨🩷
The divine timing of this video! I just spent the past week working 40 hours remotely while taking care of my 15 year old son while he was in the hospital with a sickle cell crisis. I was on the phone with my manager earlier this week from the ER and she basically told me that my son’s cries were a distraction. I’m exhausted and I’m only 42 years old but my sons will always have sickle cell and my job has been so stressful to balance for the last 14 years. I’m ready to walk away for my own peace of mind. I’m tired of feeling as if I have to choose between my family and me and my job.
Your strength and resilience are truly remarkable. No one should ever have to choose between their family and a job. Your peace of mind and your family’s well-being are so important. Sending you so much love and encouragement as you make decisions that serve you best.❤️
What she says is very true here 👍🏾I hope her husband looks after her as she looks after others ❤
I left my position as a full time Pharmacist at 62. It’s been 3 years now and I’m so happy! I’m now enjoying hobbies that I did when I was much younger. Now I’m learning a new language and learning how to play the guitar 😊. Subscribed 😊
Wow! You sound like you are really in an excellent place! Keep playing that guitar. It seems to warm the soul in many ways. 🩷
Good for you queen this is so inspiring. may god take you to your best self
Thank you so much for the kind words my friend. 🩷
You’re welcome
It takes a heck of a lot to inspire me and to make me move my butt and get my book done,THIS IS VIRAL CONTENT
Wow, that means so much! Thank you! I’m cheering you on to get that book done because the world needs your story. Let’s keep inspiring each other and making moves. Cheers! 🩷🥂
Thank you. I am in my 57th year and full-time employed. I keep telling my family, if God spares my life to 60 years old I am done with work. Hanging in just to help kids finish college in 2 years. Good for you. Too many of us women work ourselves to death or so sick have no fulfillment in our latter years. Thank you for addressing the right priorities
Thank you for sharing! Your dedication to your family is inspiring, and I agree it’s so important for us to prioritize our well-being. Wishing you strength as you reach your goals! Many blessings your way! 🩷
I quit and retired early at 59, I had had enough. Then I moved abroad.
You are my hero! I love your creativity and finding your own stride! 🩷🙌🏽
@@reggisweat Thank you! You are on your way. Subbed!
This is a important message but I cannot listen that well because of your FABULOUS, BEAUTIFUL HAIR. It takes all of the attention.
Thank you for the sweet compliment! I’m glad the message resonated with you, and I hope you continue finding value in my videos. Stay fabulous! 🩷
I’m not gonna lie, I was drawn in by that lucious mane, but stayed for the powerful message and subbed. The camera work is impeccable as well🎉
I am so happy you’re here! Thank you for your support, and I’m always working to improve, so I’m glad you liked the video quality! 🙏🏽🩷
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I quit my job & retired myself as an administrative assistant at a high school in 2017, where my son graduated in 2014, I was 53. I developed high blood pressure while working there so leaving was always in the back of my mind. I loved to write so I started writing children’s books and poems in my spare time during the 7 years I worked there and ended up with at least 25 book ideas. I self-published 2 books while I was there and after I quit I self-published 2 more and I’m working on lots more and a poetry book. I was able to get them in our public library, a family owned bookstore and I’m a vendor for our school region. God ordered every step I took and I’m still following my heart at age 60 and the book ideas & other business ideas just continue to flow. I also take my elderly mom to lots of Dr visits and my brother who had a stroke at 51 this year, so I can relate to you so well because having a job would not be beneficial because I’d have to take off so much. I know you will thrive and soar in this new season of your life, you’ve already made one step, God will do the rest. Peace, Love & Continued Blessings to You❤
Wow, what an incredible story! Your dedication to writing and caregiving is so inspiring. I love how you’ve turned challenges into creativity and purpose. What a blessing to your family and community. Keep soaring! 🙌🏽🩷
I wanna be just like you. I write poetry
Self care is so important. I m 43 and I started my journey 3 months ago and I'm loving it. Been working every since I was 14. So it's a blessing 🩷 I'm now a content creator on TH-cam and enjoying life.
That’s amazing! So glad you’re embracing your journey as a content creator-self-care truly makes all the difference. 💕
58 here and so very tired of working for someone else now. Im very grateful that its a work from home job but it's time to make my own income and leave the 9-5. I just have to find a way to balance simple, peaceful with creating that income. Have subscribed, love your vibe :)
I hear you! It’s definitely a journey to find that balance of peaceful simplicity while building something for yourself. You’ve got this, and I appreciate your support and subscription so much. Sending positive vibes your way also! ✨❤️
I’m 55….Wishing you the best on your new journey!
Thank you so much for the well wishes! It's exciting to be on this new adventure, isn't it? 🙏🏽
Lou Rawls said it best in one of his famous songs. “You have one life to live. Live it in peace, truth, and love.” I retired at 55 a few years ago and no regrets. The stress was really bad. I have much more peace in my mind, I love life more than ever before, and I focus on my priorities instead of the corporate agenda. It also allows me to give my family members an extended break who are in closer proximity to my family members. Proud of the step you took!😊
Wow, that Lou Rawls quote is so fitting and powerful! Your story is incredibly inspiring-choosing peace and prioritizing family is such a beautiful example. Thank you for sharing and for the encouragement! ❤️
I stopped working at 43 to raise my grandson who is now thirteen. I didnt hesitate 💯
I homeschooled him and he continues to be homeschooled.
I am considering my employment options now that Im 55 ❤
I have learned to live an unhurried life by living in grace by faith.
Great post ❤
You are such an example of working mindfully and intentionally. Thank you for sharing your story such a blessing.🩷
@reggisweat ✌❤
Retired @ 53 with State of Florida. I was so stressed @ work I would put clients on hold to eat a snack, knew it was time to leave, my health has gotten so much better, less anxiety, feel @ peace.
Retiring for your peace and health is such a wise choice. Glad to hear you’re feeling better and at peace. Cheering you on! 🙌🏽🩷
I retired at 57, which seemed too early, but I simply couldn’t continue. Having time to take care of myself has been wonderful. I don’t have as much money as I’d hoped to save but I have enough. I’m not bored, I’m relaxed. I may do something else, but until then, I think I’ll just enjoy my life
Wow! I really identified with this video. I am standing at a crossroads myself. My mom had a stroke in March. I am an only child who works in a CHAOTIC school environment, out of town! You already know the challenges and stress levels I am experiencing. I submitted my intent to retire on my birthday in August but later rescinded it thinking I should just try to hold on until the end of the school year. Sitting here on Christmas Break and thankful The Algorithm recommended your video! Thank you!🙏🏾
You can do this and I’m rooting for you, my friend! You are a great daughter and smart lady from what I can tell. Keep creating!❤️🙏🏽
Thanks for your transparency. I’m 51 and seriously assessing my current journey. I just completed my doctoral study & I realize personal alignment is a priority as I move toward 2025. I have worked since the age of 12. 🙏🏽❤️
I actually just got my license as a LPCC, and now I am struggling to complete my goal of getting my doctorate. Congratulations to you!!!.
Congratulations on completing your doctoral study-that’s such a huge accomplishment! 🙌🏽❤️
Congratulations!
The problem with quitting jobs at this age is that no other company will hire you in your 50s. they will think you are too old and can't learn new things or get with the time. This is what I am afraid of and it's a scary thought if others things don't work out, then you are out of income and a good job.
I understand where you’re coming from. Change at this stage can feel overwhelming, and fear of the unknown is real. But I truly believe that our skills, experiences, and talents don’t expire, even if the world tells us otherwise. Quitting a traditional job doesn’t mean you stop working…it means you start working differently. Sometimes, stepping out of the familiar takes faith, and for me, trusting God has been everything on this journey. You’re never too old to create something new or follow a different path. I hope this inspires you to see what’s possible, even if it feels uncertain.
@reggisweat thank you for the kind words. This does give me hope and you are right, I need to put my faith in God. What do you do for health insurance? Thats the other scary thing about US. I thought about going abroad to start my business cause health insurance would be very expensive
@@reggisweatamen and I concur and 👍🏾 agree
@@reggisweatI also love your message because FAITH never gets old and people need to push forward despite fear….
I quit my job March 2023 and it took a minute but I started a new position a few months later I’m 57.
Being laid off at 62. This is the second time in 10 years. I’m not interested in working for another company. They pushed me out the door. Now I can do what’s in my heart to bring true satisfaction in life. Be careful what you pray for. 🌼🌸🌺
I feel you. It’s amazing that you’re finding your purpose after such a challenge. Sending you so much love as you build your new path. 💗
Writing this at 2:05 am December 31st 2024...LITERALLY stumbled upon ypur channel while working on my new Law of Attraction planner (there are no coincidences). Thank you so very much for sharing this specific content. I was a care assistant/caregiver for 10+ years to my mother who passed away 2 years ago. The 1st year after her passing I was numb handling the logistics and this last year I've started creating my "new normal". I met with a financial advisor just today to assess my best time to walk away from the JOB. It was refreshing knowing that IN THE MEANTIME I will be making my health and JOY factor priorities so that when 60 comes, yeah I'll be ready to full embark on my next chapter! Thanks again and prayers of strength in giving your Mom the blessing of your attention and sacrifices which are true expressions of LOVE!
Your path is so beautifully shared. Thank you for opening up here. It sounds like you’re creating a meaningful and thoughtful new normal for your next chapter. Meeting with a financial advisor is such a smart move. 💯 Your comment truly resonates, and your kind prayers and words about caregiving mean so much to me. 🙏🏽🩷
Commenting for the algorithm and subscribing to help out! I pray you are blessed with more followers and success on this journey. Take good care of yourself and your mom!
You're the best! Thank you for being such a support! I really appreciate the love! Many blessings to you also! 🙏🏽🩷
Thank you soooooo very much. I've recently turned 57. I'm at "THAT POINT " now. I've been in corporate video for 25 years, and it's taken a toll on me both mentally and physically. Your video spoke directly to me. Thank you for the encouragement and the "real talk." Be Blessed and continued Peace and Prosperity to you in all you endeavors.
I’m so glad this resonated with you. Corporate life can be overwhelming, and stepping into change takes courage. Wishing you strength, peace, and prosperity in this next chapter. Thank you for watching! 🩷
Congratulations on having the courage to Make this change. Carrying for someone daily can be challenging, yet rewarding. I will be praying for Gods equipping and that his peace will be with you.
Your prayers and encouragement mean so much to me, thank you! Caregiving truly is a challenge and a blessing, and I’m grateful for this season. 🙏🏽🩷
We are on the same journey. I quit my job a few weeks ago due to the soul sucking work demands and stress. Drawing closer to God and seeing what the next adventure will be. Kudu's to you for taking loving good care of your Mom. God Bless You.
It sounds like we’re walking similar paths indeed! Letting go of that weight to focus on what truly matters. Thank you for your kind words, and I pray your next chapter brings peace and fulfillment. God bless you too! 🙏🏽🩷
You are Awesome speak to people. you’re speaking to me. Exactly what’s happening with me now . Thank you! God Bless.
Thank you so much, Brenda! I’m so glad my words could speak to you in this moment. God bless you on your path! ❤️
God Bless You and Your Momma. I am so proud of you for realizing that you create the life around AROUND the things that matter not the reverse and God will give you the grace to get through it. You dont let circumstances dictate your Matters what matters to You. You get One Momma although you may be blessed to have mom like figures you get One Momma. If she is good momma you will be blessed for a lifetime of her fond memories her input her values. She can never be replaced.
Thank you so much for this beautiful message! You’re so right, our loved ones are irreplaceable, and creating a life around what matters is everything. Blessings to you! ❤️
I’m 57 and really understand. I have been seeking something sustainable for myself outside of the grind. I was at one nonprofit for 24 years that I loved, scaled and merged with a larger one. I have changed jobs twice since in a quest to find something that doesn’t exhaust me and allows me to be present in my life. I realized at the rate I was going I was not going to enjoy the last years of my parents lives nor enjoy my Grandkids when they come. Wishing you the best.
It takes real courage to step away from a familiar path to find something that truly fits! I admire your commitment to presence and family. 🩷
I resonate with this so much! Lord willing, I will be 57 this year, and I am reexamining everything from my job in HR as a department of one, to taking my health back. A toxic job tried to take me out last year with a severe Lupus flare that I am STILL recovering from. I am also going to give this TH-cam endeavor a go. I pray you much success and peace.
I truly appreciate your kind words and prayers! I’m rooting for you as you take this leap into TH-cam and focus on your health. Wishing you success and peace as well! 🙏🏽🩷
You are worthy and valuable.Thank you for sharing and blessings to you and your mom.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for such encouraging words and your support. My mom and I appreciate the love. 🙏🏽❤️
My soul resonated so deeply with this. I am so exhausted and tired from tolerating toxic work environments just to look forward to a weekend. I always feel like I am wearing a mask at work. I wish I could retire but that won't be poosible as far as I can see right now. Thanks you for this. God Bless.
I completely understand that feeling of exhaustion and the weight of a toxic work environment. Take it one step at a time. You deserve peace and fulfillment in your journey. Stay strong and keep believing. God bless you! ❤️
I feel so seen! I'm 52, I quit my job this past July to take a career break and chill a little. In August, my mom had 2 emergency surgeries that took away all of her independence. The last 5 months have been a roller coaster and she's getting much better but still very much dependent on me and my sister. I'm starting to feel a little panicky about not working and wanting to look for another remote job-don't miss work, just the steady paycheck/ health insurance. Also dealing with the programming that GenX was taught- to work, work, work. Caregiving is HARD and I was super tired even before my mom got sick. But after listening to you, maybe I should really learn to embrace this time and work on some of the things I've been putting off and taking care of myself...bet on myself for a change. Finding the balance is tough but I'm glad I found your channel❤
I’m so glad you feel seen…that means everything to me! Caregiving is hard, and balancing it all takes a lot of grace. Remember, taking care of yourself is just as important. You’re doing an incredible job, and I’m so glad you found the channel. Sending you love and strength! ❤️
Hello! I was referred to your channel from my husband. He was a client of yours (Chris) in your corporate career. I love watching TH-cam videos that inspire me, so he suggested I follow you. I recently retired as well from the same industry, and I could not be happier! I wish you all the best on this next chapter. You will not regret this decision, family always should be first and you are an example of a perfect daughter!
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful message! It’s amazing how paths reconnect, and I’m so glad your husband referred you here. Tell him ‘hello’ for me as well! Congratulations on your retirement as family truly is everything, and your kind words mean so much to me! 🩷✨
Just found your channel. I'm going through the same with the future of my job. Focusing and analyzing my options. Thank you for sharing. Btw, love Cecelia Blomdahl too! Take Care.
Welcome to the channel! Analyzing your options is such a smart move. Take your time and trust the process. And yes, Cecilia Blomdahl is amazing! 🩷
I can truly identify with your situation. I did the same thing with my mom in 2005, 19yrs ago. I am now 73, my mom has passed, I’m alone, but not lonely. God will see you through it all. I now have a few difficulties, some would call them “life” challenges, while others might call them problems. I am thankful to God and I call them strengtheners. It’s another part of the journey of life. You choose whether or not it is good or bad. I choose to believe it’s doable.😊 God Bless your journal.
I'm so glad your journey has brought you to this place of peace and serenity. God's blessings to you as well. 🙏🏽❤️
My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2008. I started working out of the house in order to care for her. She died 89 days after the diagnosis. The firm I worked for only gave three bereavement days. I took five which still wasn't enough. My head was no longer in the game. I was helping people around me, but no one could see I was drowning--not even my husband. Intercessors prayed that I could leave the firm. Finally, seven years later they offered me a severance package due to restructuring. It was the happiest day of my life. I retired that day. In 2022 my husband and I relocated to coastal GA for warmer weather and a slower pace. I see a need in our new town for broader educational opportunities for minorities and those making near or below a living wage. So, I'm believing to somehow enter into that sphere.
Your story is both heartbreaking and inspiring. The love and dedication you showed your mom are beyond admirable, and I’m so glad you’ve found peace and a slower pace in your new chapter of life. Your vision to help provide opportunities in your community is incredible, and I know you’ll make a meaningful impact. ❤️
Your video brought tears to my eyes as it reminded me of my mom. Her health declined over 13 years, eventually requiring constant care. She passed away four years ago, and my sisters became her caretakers. Their support allowed me to focus on my career, relationship, and business. I’m so grateful to them for ensuring her final days were filled with love and dignity-something that mattered deeply to her. Women like you are truly saints and often don’t receive the support you deserve as caregivers. Although your mom isn’t my kin, she’s an elder, and I deeply appreciate everything you’re doing for her. Thank you.
Your story moved me. Caregiving is such a profound act of love, and your reflections are deeply inspiring. Thank you for sharing your heart and for your kind words. Blessings to you and your family! 🙏🏽💙
Sister I applaud you for taking control of you time. I so can relate to your story and look forward to exiting my whenever to whenever corporate prison👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Thanks for sharing!
You can do it! Keep the faith! I like your phrasing btw! 🩷
You say you’re “getting older.” I’d like to think that you’re “getting better.” And…you look gorgeous doing it!
I needed this message/reminder. Thank you!
I’m so glad this message reached you when you needed it. Thank you for letting me know! 🩷
God bless you Reggi. As I'm currently taking some time to pamper myself with a Mani/pedi now, I was going through in my mind everything you mentioned in this video. I just turned 54, also a full time caregiver to both my parents, I have a remote full-time job and I promised myself to reflect on those plans of change going into 2025 for myself in my physical and mental health, career change and enjoying life. Similar to you, I desire to create in many facets and quitting my job is definitely a thought at the forefront of my mind. I would love an opportunity to connect with you to discuss some prospects. I am blessed to have heard your video this afternoon to know that I'm not alone in this journey of seeking my deeper self and living my best life. A million thanks.
Thank you for sharing your journey and kind words! I’m so glad the video resonated with you. If you’d like to connect and discuss further, I offer 1-on-1 coaching sessions. You can find all the details and schedule a session via the link stan.store/regedited. Wishing you all the best as you step into 2025 with new intentions! 🩷
I am burnt out right now. I have bad anxiety and stress and suffer from depression. I decided to become a caregiver for vets in my own home and this will allow me and wife to work from home. I have a background of senior care so this will be great for me. I made a plan that starting next year im going to beat anxiety and stress and depression. That im gonna be a better spouse to my wife and not be so cranky all the time. Altho i look young for my age i can see the stress on my face and feel it in my body. We are growing our own food and showing people how to do it so that we can reverse all of the damage to our bodies from the low quality food at the stores. We now live in the country to slow down from the hustle and bustle of the city. Its time for us as a whole to take better care of ourselves, because when everything needs to be done asap we tend to neglect our self care. 2025 is our year to get back to finding us i hope more people follow along too.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s inspiring to see how you’re turning challenges into positive steps for yourself, your spouse, and others. Growing your own food and focusing on self-care are such powerful changes. Wishing you strength and success in this journey. You’re already making a difference! 🩷
@reggisweat thank you , so are you .
I am already a subscriber. I clicked on this video because your hair is so beautiful. I laud your courage and transparency. I support you and believe God for the best for you. I read some of the comments before leaving mine and am filled with gratitude to be in a community of like minded women who also are courageous. I am heartened by your story and delighted to co-journey (I too am poised to begin, to chart a different course)along with you. The Bible says, Honor your Mother and Father so that your days will be long AND that all will be well with you. God be with you, Sis. With love and respect,
Thank you so much, LaDonna, for your heartfelt message and your support! I’m so grateful to be part of a community with smart, like-minded women like you. Wishing you all the best as you step into this new journey-we are traveling the path together! Blessings to you, Sis. 🩷
Your video popped up in my feed. Wow, what a beautiful woman... I can relate having to take care of elderly parents.. my parents are 82 and 83 as well... serving others is powerful, and doing it for the right reasons...
Thank you so much for finding me! Agree with you, Caregiving is such a powerful act of love, and I truly admire your heart for your parents. Sending you strength and peace. 🩷
I dropped to 4 days, that extra day has kept me sane. I asked myself how much I would need to be paid to go back to 5 days and the figure I came up with was double my salary. That extra day off has improved my family life, given me time to pay extra attention to and heal my ailments without pharmaceuticals, keep a better eye on finances, the list goes on. I am so happy now that expensive cars and clothes will never sway me, I don't want or need them. As I move to a simple life I feel real contentment. There's so much wonderful knowledge and wisdom to learn out there and not enough time ! ❤
That extra day sounds life-changing! I love how it’s allowed you to simplify, heal, and focus on what really matters. Contentment is such a gift! Keep thriving! ❤️
I plan to retire early . At work you really do have to put on a mask . I’m young but I think younger people should watch this video while we are young plan to retire early ! (Save your money )
I only work a few days a week and I keep it that way . I don’t overwork myself and outside of Work I focus toward my true goals . Be happy ♥️
Well said and totally agree! You are wise! Thanks for commenting! 🩷
I needed to hear this. I resigned from my position a month ago. I was the Director of the school that I worked at. For the past 6 years I’ve given 200%. Nothing I did was enough. The owner would find petty stuff to complain about, and I had become miserable.
I left the job to put everything into me. It’s time for me to win! What I did for her, I can do for me, and be much happier. Please pray for my journey.
It takes so much courage to step away and invest in yourself. I’m praying for your journey! You absolutely deserve to thrive and find happiness on your own terms. This community is here for you. ✨🩷
@@reggisweatthis is wonderful! I don’t even know how this video ended up on my page, and I had no idea that commenting would connect me to a community of support. I’m very grateful!
God definitely orders our steps!
Happy to walk this journey with you. Your story really resonates, particularly snatching your health back before it's too late, caused by years of neglect - in my case whilst sole parenting. I'm coming out the other side now but 2yrs out of the workplace has allowed me to find my own step, and breathe. Wishing you so much peace, joy and fulfillment. Turning on notifications now x
Your story touched me deeply and thank you for sharing. Rebuilding your health back is so critical, and I’m so glad you’ve found your own rhythm again. Wishing you joy and peace! 🌿
Thank you for sharing this! I'm also 55 and have walked away from two jobs in the past 2 years where I was earning six figures. Working long hours, managing people in today's society, and just being unhappy with the jobs took a toll on my health and happiness. I've also had the privilege of traveling abroad and following dozens of expats who live a middle class life in other countries with better, affordable health care, less political division, and happier citizens. Being able to retire abroad and live on two social security incomes is becoming more and more appealing to my wife and I every day.
Your story is incredibly inspiring. Exploring life abroad sounds like such an enriching experience. Thank you for sharing your wisdom; it’s a reminder to all of us that well-being is priceless. ✨💪🏽