Shannon Sharpe & Chad Johnson debate if cheaters can ever get their partner's trust back | Nightcap
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- Shannon Sharpe and Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson answer a fan's question about how someone can regain their partner's trust after cheating, and if that is even possible.
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No. Once someone cheats even if you let them come back, it always lingers.
Especially in arguments
@@dontbeaglizzygobblerplz5961 Yeah I could never let a cheater come back. It would just be in my head the whole time.
@@iomis2001 Yeah it is never the same! I know a dude that cheated on his girl, she cheated back for revenge. They called it "even" for whatever it's worth, in response for her cheating as her get back, he then goes on to cheat again lol!
I told him y'all called it even for something you started, idk what to tell you now. Looking back i knew way too many men and women that were cheaters, they always tried to get you to understand but I couldn't.
I'm not the moral police but that I just can't understand, just be honest and call it quits.
You cheat on me and I'm not taking you back no matter how much I love you
I cheated on my wife prior to us being married. This was over five years ago. It never happened again, but it still comes up every so often and she does occasionally question my whereabouts or who I’m texting. It will always come up if the argument gets heated enough.
They might say they trust you again, but deep down, THEY DON'T!
And they can’t. It’s human nature
That kind of betrayal may be somewhat forgiving, but never forgotten. OCHO right. That relationship.may start over, but never the same as before. She will always believe you may cheat again. A woman never forgets. But there is room to heal if you both go all in.
I've matured enuff to no one the trust is violated I personally need to move on. Creates a different version of who and what I want in a relationship
Cheating isn't a mistake it's a choice. Once it's done things are never the same. I wouldn't take someone back.
So what if I chose not to
These two have hit a groove: Shannon is the older brother, Ocho is the younger brother, and the audience is all over the shop: those that acknowledge (older), those that agree/identify (same age), and those that can learn (younger). What a fantastic channel to be a part of.
Holy glazer 😂🤣 lls
@@HonorableHabibigo back to pat mcafee lil bro
😂was it good sounds like my grandmother and grandfather argument
I don't take cheaters back, no matter how much I love them.
Trust has been violated, safety issues are now a concern, etc. No thanks.
No lies detected. You better believe that they will repeat the cheating
Exactly you cheat on me you don't EXIST!! Any longer 😢
@lashondarochell7584 the women that Chad and Unc mess with are not every woman.
Ever!! Once they cross the line ain't no coming back
Facts!! I’ve learned the hard way.
Ocho %1000 right when she come back start over from stratch she already had her fun
"Miss B Nasty still waiting on you"😂😂😂
I’ve been cheated on before and got back with the girl that cheated on me.
Mistake because It’s always in the back of your mind when you get back with the person. Lesson learned but the trust is broken as soon as it happens
Once a cheater always a cheater
Learn from your mistakes. Her loss. FTB
Good one David.
I think there's another element that is destroyed once you cheat in a marriage. The respect is gone. That part will inevitably doom the relationship.
Yeah, men don't get over it. I told my brother's ex fiance that.
Just don’t cheat
Bruh you can be seasoned without being 50-60 bodies in 😂
Facts these boys talking crazy if she had two long term relationships of a couple years she’s seasoned. She doesn’t need 50 dudes to get seasoned LMAO
Right cuz u gotta imagine ...durin them few two year relationships u know that man hittin hittin way way more than once so she definitely seasoned
I look at it like this, if I’m in business with a partner and I find out that they’re doing side deals with others, would I continue to keep them as a business partner? No
That's a really good analogy
Once someone cheats on you, if you let them back…Then you’re just cheating yourself.
I love your statement....it's so underrated 🦋🙏
I cheated on my lady but it was because of miscommunication. I thought we was done done 🤷🏾♂️
You guys should consider taking live calls.🤔
Bruh when ocho puts down his glasses got me crying ☠️☠️☠️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Once you get caught cheating, the trust is gone, it's over. If you stay together, soon as one of you get out of pocket, you gonna start wondering where she's at or where he's at. Then the stress and drama starts. 💯
for me nope. once you do me wrong I can't shake the feeling that if you chose to do that to me once, you'll do it again.
Never allow someone to stab you in the back twice.
Man these 2 are so fucking funny 😂
I've cheated on my girl and she humbled me by taking me back when i expected her to leave. Im more honest now than ever and knowing how much trust you show she can give, the more you'll be rewarded.
And you probably continue to cheat 😂
🤣🤣🤣
We all know u kept that side chick 🤣🤣, well done
@@jasonchristopher5928 she knows about em.
I didn’t cheat but I did some fd up things bruh ngl , went through every relationship doing the same bull until this one set my ass straight . Hell nah she ain’t put up with no shit and I love her so much for it god damn . The lessons she’s taught me … there’s no telling what I’d do for her
I cant even lie . When i came back to the crib and caught my ex with another dude.. i never looked at her the same.
That trust is gone . Its a wrap
Unc Face when Ocho mention Ms Nasty B 😂😂😂
Nah she's getting her back blown out as you were writing that question. Its over, don't cheat on your woman if you don't want to share.
😂😂
If u say that way lol
Straight blown out !!! He gotta move on.
If a woman cheats on me, it's over. Period. I can never trust her again, plus the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Someone who cheats once, probably cheated before, and will probably do it again. Plus to me that says she doesn't truly love me, so why would I want to stay with someone who doesn't love me enough to stay faithful?
Okay but now let’s answer this in the vice versa, answer it then. If you were to cheat like dude that asked the question, would you expect or hope for the possibility of salvaging the relationship
@@user-hg4hz1lx2hI'm a man and never cheated. I divorced my ex wife because of cheating. I hold myself to a standard. My woman has to live by that standard too.
@@user-hg4hz1lx2hNo chance. She should never take him back to be honest. He fucked up irrevocably, you don’t cheat by accident.
@@user-hg4hz1lx2hYou can try but you always have to remember she will never forget it, even if she dont ever bring it up.
Facts
Lmao them body counts MATTER at a certain age. Y’all in y’all 50s lmao it’s different for y’all. I’m 23 I’ll be damned if I’m dating a chick with 30 bodies
30 is about average for your age group. There is a ton of 304s of different kinds around that age mid 20's
Even a few is gross... I married a woman who had slept with 1 guy. Her innocence was very obvious in more ways than one. VERY WORTH IT. Girls who slept with lots of men have completely different attitudes and their morals are usually horrendous. Body count matters SO MUCH more than we can fathom.
@@owenson7969Not all 304s are bad people. But you're definitely more likely not to get cheated on if she aint been sleeping around a lot/ isnt still texting dudes she slept with etc...
@@GOATZELWARDBANDWAGON. All 304 is bad ppl
@@GOATZELWARDBANDWAGON. Exactly. My wife slept with 1 guy and had a long relationship with him. She learned early on that all of that should be meant for marriage. Ive dated girls who slept with a ton of guys and it was so difficult. You just can never trust them. Too many pieces of their heart have been given away to loser guys who just wanted to have sex with them... very sad. But it's the world we live in.
10:23 I absolutely love when Unc hits us with the “ohhh nooo”
When one is married, there can be no side pieces. That is a promise before God. Trust is out of the window when one spouse or both spouses decide to cheat
Once you cheat the relationship is tainted.
Not the looking over the glasses 👀 👓…Go off Ocho…😂😂 dropping gems
Unc and Ocho stellar duo 💯✨
The question is , WHY WOULD YOU GO BACK TO a CHEATER???
Even if your mate takes you back, He or She will NEVER EVER LOVE YOU THE SAME......NEVER.
Don't fool yourself just cause you got a 2nd chance, that love is never the same. Absolutely not
Kids, sex 🔥, rent/mortgage, etc. People have all kinds of real life reasons
@thatguy2.09 if that's your personal reasons to stay, that's your choice. All choices have consequences. Lol. Do you
Shiii Kray I Don't Why People Even Take Cheaters Back 😂
@@prettybrowngirlfl2692 not me. Other people. People like frontin saying theyll leave Reality is they don't.
@thatguy2.09 I can agree with that. But ultimately staying with a CHEATER is a daily reminder of betrayal. That's just a ball of toxicity about to explode.
Once you cheat, the trust is gone, I’m out..
Cheating is a character flaw, so cheaters can never be trusted.
The Tom Brady example has to be the craziest way I’ve heard someone talk about Tom Brady 😂😂
It’s no debate
The answer is NO!
It will never be what the potential could have been before
Better off getting a divorce and finding someone else. She’s obviously not the one if you cheated on her.
If you got away with it. You’ll do it again.
@@craigman7262 doesn’t matter if you cheat 100 times and never get caught. Cheating itself means the person you are committed to is not enough for you
@@khalilwilson2586big facts!!!"
@@khalilwilson2586Preach brudder
Tip #1: DONT ask a TH-cam podcast how to win your wife back 🤣🤣🤣
Don't ask them ANY relationship advice 😂 Especially rich famous people 😂
Their morals and values are shot they’ve been in the socilaite lifestyle too long.
Facts best advice is if know your partner then you know how to deal with her but cheating is owit
They actually gave good advice tho 😂
Chris Rock spoke the truest words in the history of Earth. “A man is only as faithful as his options.”
Or the amount of integrity he has.
Truer words have never been spoken by a man with no integrity
@@willawentertainmentSpoken like a man with few options lol
@@AntTurnernah people justify or rationalize bullshit all the time. If you have no self control just be honest with yourself. Has 0 to do with options.
That's true for a man who never had options. I've always gotten any woman I wanted so when I commit, I commit. I've noticed dudes who never had women is as faithful as his options.
I've had this happen to me before and It will always be on your mind and will torment you. Walk away, there are too many people in this world to stay in a relationship with a cheater.
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A simple warning:
"If ya mess up ya 4sho'
Fa some mo'
You gon be
Out the doe"
Love it!
Word
It’s true…Made that mistake before of forgiving them, then as time went on it was always pestering in my mind and more and more arguments broke out.
In the end, the relationship didn’t workout but I’m glad to say that I was able to get out rather than stay in a toxic relationship. Men and women, best to be alone than to have bad company around you.
I've never doubled back. Do better for the next person, cause I will always choose my peace. Because once I don't trust you, I'll never trust you for me
Ocho why compete with a past just be you in the NOW😂
The tom brady reference is epic in this.
Trust is all we have in a marriage and once it's broken, its possible to get back to 98... 99% but it will never be 100.
Cheating is murdering the trust. The trust is dead. Dead things don't come back.
apparently jesus did 😂😂 😂😂
“If she got you levitating” @ 6:30 got me dead
You all are messy with your umbrella. I can't stop laughing.
Even if y'all do get back together the aura and energy of the relationship will not be the same; I've went through this and when we got back together the relationship felt lifeless and not genuine anymore.
I’m thankful that the girl I met in highschool was raised right by her family. Puerto Rican girl that would never play with anything like that. 7 years together & I’ve seen my boy get cheated on and even when they tried it was never the same. They ended up breaking up later than they should have.
Ocho funny asf 😂
I’m with you UNC ! No Drama or heartaches.. 😅Work hard ,enjoy life and spend that CASH ON YOU AND UR FAMILY
Trust can be won back but you will have to be patient man and deal with the consequences
You lose something to the energy of relationship after cheating. Trust she going or is still getting her lick back. Smh
8:40 “that good ole cat” unc a trip😭😭😭
Luv these two
Come on now … stay wit me… ocho says
"I'm wit you when you're right" 😆
Damn I love this podcast!! 😂
I listen these guys every day absolutely entertaining and knowledge!!!!
She had to have a lot of practice 😂😂😂😂
Ocho keeping it real. Cheating comes with consequences. And that’s how you know Shay and Ocho is GROWN. Who cares about a damn body count?
Body counts matters truth hurts
@@JACQUEZJOHNSON23it doesn’t ultimately. That’s a societal stigma, you don’t innately consider someone’s “body count” when making any real decisions. It’s exactly what they said it is, ego.
@@sunnydreux that's not Ego it's called making smart if u ask what her body count and she say she been with 50 body's that's is no go truth hurts that get rejected
@JACQUEZJOHNSON23 but you will never get the truth..do you tell the truth when asked that question?
@@oneskillpoint4669 Well you can answer by not giving an answer. I work with high net worth men and all of them tell me that they never ask because they don't want the question asked of them. Men with money overlook a lot of things when t ocomes to women that they want.
This conversation was a perfect definition of positive masculinity
I agree
Don’t mess up the fasho for somo 🔥
Love Shannon's t-shirt, that's badass. I've got huge respect for anyone rockin' that shirt.
“When I go to the restaurant I already know what I’m gonna order”😩😂😂. All she needed was the opportunity lmao
Single ladies! Ochocinco gave you guys a gold nugget! There are a whole bunch of Brothers in the hood and in the country that love women with one or two children because that means you're not after running them streets if you are a real down home good hood girl that has a head on straight and got an education😅
The same guy who said he don't care about woman's body count?? Don't take Ocho word for all or most men.
There is a reason there are many single mothers and single women in general...most have too many bodies and most men ain't dealing with that.
And Very few men are trying to be a step dad, raising other men children...I have never met a man with such a goal in life
@@truthiscensoredas soon as Chad said nothing wrong with a corn star it wasn't listening no more
Me: I will never take dating advice from Unc and Ocho
Also me: watches the full video cause I still love the content anyway
The relationship is never the same after you catch someone cheating. It’s best to go your separate ways afterwards and as time goes if you two make it back to one another then maybe your relationship is meant to last.
The Answer to that is no you cheat on me and I'm not taking you back.
“I ain’t leavin that cat….let that cat out?” 😂
when unc pull those glasses down 😂
LOVE YOU SHANNON SHARP
🗣️ SHANNON LOL OHHH C'MON OCHO
Some real conversations must take place before healing can begin.
These two some certified smpz.
I agree with you so much Ochocinco it's always those that is of no class or caliber have unrealistic expectations
Never thought this would be 🔥 like this
8:58 Unk w the smirk 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was thinking of you...😅😅😅 unc laughed like the witches around the pot
My new favorite podcast. These two are on opposite ends of the spectrum. That's what makes this show so great.
Ocho that last part was 💯
Ocho is realistic and understand ppl have a past.
“Hold, I ain’t say I’m leaving “😂
The way Ocho looked off at first while he was talking 😂
Unc went crazy!!!! Spoke truths
Trust is lost in buckets but earned back in drops. It’s rare people will do it takes to earn trust back. The pain of the loss often has folks writing checks their behavior can’t cash but I’m sure their are some exceptions…🤷🏾♀️
Strongly disagree. The Bodycount of a person tells you a lot especially if that person is in a certain age. To say it’s not important or Egoistic is dumb.
No hell no hell to the no once they cheat they true colors was shown
Once trust is gone, it never feels the same. Doesn't matter how much you want it to work, it will never feel the same ever again. Doing that to your wife is unforgivable.
Shanon crazy, I was thinking of you the whole time 😂😂😂😂😂
In this day in age a lot of bodies means there are too many of them dudes within range. This is not like back in the day when you didn't have social media.
“ Ocho don’t do that” 😂
You damn straight Ocho!
Once trust is broken it’s broken
Once a cheater always a cheater 🤷🏽♂️
If someone lies, you move on.
If someone cheats, you move on.
Naaaaa Unc killed me. I already know what I wanna order ahahahahah
If you cheat and she takes you back, she's cheating too. On God
Come on Unc and Ocho!! Where’s the merch? Yawl got the most fire 🔥 tag lines and sayings on every darn show can yawl get this cracking
As a therapist, yes you can come back from infidelity. Other party has to be open to it. Go to counseling by yourself AND together.
F that. That's a scar that you will be remind of everyday. Nah, I'm good.
@@coollibra3644 Do you
This is true.
The correct answer is no. No matter how hard you try, its always in the back of your mind. The trust is gone. I consider myself pretty strong and I couldn't trust her anymore after gettinh back after cheating. Outwardly I was the most loving partner and showed conviction, but deep down my brain couldn't trust her. Even if though i loved her. The brain and the heart were at odds and the brain is gonna eventually win that battle...
5:11 So you see no difference between a woman who has a 100-200 body count, versus 5 ? Come on.