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- Men and women are wired differently. And this rule is no exception in the department of love. Therefore, women also fall in love differently than men. But, what are these unique differences that set them apart?
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Psych2Go the starting premise here is slightly flawed. You gave examples of different behavior and said it was hardwired without mentioning socialization. For instance, boys and girls are trained to use the bathroom differently, not that either is physically incapable of doing it the other way.
Psych2Go I think that some men express emotions differently cause toxic beliefs about masculinity.
Gleb Strelets in other words, socialization. Same point I made :)
@ShauntSerelu, yes you have a point. Socialization plays a big role in our behaviour. We will cover more about gender differences separately in another video and include your point. Thanks for bringing it up. In this video, it pertains more to the biological differences, not that male and female's brains are any different. @Gleb, definitely. @Caroline, you mean like a compare and contrast?
Psych2Go That's great :)
To sum up, she needs to:
1. get to know you as a person.
2. know how you think.
3. know you're a good conversationalist.
4. know that you're reliable
5. know that she can be herself in front of you.
Cheers lol I could not be asked to go through the entire video
So be a decent hooman thing
She also needs to know you have money.... u forgot #1 women are vain in the heart and always will choose to be with someone that can make them feel as secure as they need emotionally but most importantly with stuff they can brag about and stuff down the throats of other women. If they cant make their female friends jealous of them, they look for another.
@@killbotfelwick you've never dated a woman have you?
Brad K pretty sure they won't worry about that if they like the guy enough... but well it's your choice to believe what you want to believe.
Her physical appearance gets me interested.
Her personality gets me hooked.
Steven Lewis you get it my guy
Steven Lewis finally aww thats sweet. I hope you get a girlfriend.
Exactly.
Now that's the way to go bro😆
I can get on board with that
Why fall in love when you can fall asleep?
LOL
Good sex.
Thanks Bill Gates, very cool
Cause it's much better to fall asleep with the person you love?🤔
@@emilionaire I was literally going to write that exact comment
Honesty I’m starting to think that the “love of my life” or my “soulmate” is in fact... mYseLF🙃
F
Love it Me too.
Me me and me to be safe.
I pressed F cuz it is same here..
Facts
narcissist
Everyone in the comment section being normal and talking about relationships and I'm just wondering how men and women eat differently?
9CrystalDragon2 ikr XD I see no difference
I think they're going based off of stereotypes :\
Karina Peters lol me too, and I’m a woman
But only when I’m home or when I’m not around strangers/acquaintances. But with my parents/friends/partner, I eat as if I hadn’t eaten for a decade
Simple. Women eat more fats so that they can have softer, sexier bodies; while men eat more protein so that they can harder, stronger bodies.
This comment made my day XD
"You need to be a good conversationalist" I'm doomed.
You aren't alone haha
Ya boy Roy I know that feeling, I can talk to anybody about most anything if i'm not emotionally invested, but if I like someone I turn into the village idiot lol.
Same
Same here man
Ya boy Roy just like me😂
As a girl in a committed relationship, I think the first one is arguably the most important. When you’re really invested in a person you want to know what life is like in their shoes, how life was before you met and the things that they experienced to shape them into the person you fell for. That to me is the best type of intimacy tbh. Also honesty and being up front communication is key.
there's 2 reasons you fall in love; it's to either get resources from a guy that has lots of them, and/or to get seed from a guy with good genes(=good looks). btw your looks are the only reason guys go for you, it's because your looks signal to the opposite sex your FERTILITY, that means; the ability to produce healthy offspring. and your looks will go rapidly downhill from 26, so lock a guy down WHEN YOU'RE YOUNG, because that's the only reason why a guy would want to be with you. nature doesn't give a shit about anyone's feelings, we must adapt to it or die. choose for yourself
Yeah woman only love what you can do for them .they don't love men
Fanda , evolution and all that is more complicated than merely looks!
@@38Fanda No, that's not how it works at all. But you're probably just a brainwashed incel or MGTOW, so I won't waste my time trying to explain to you that women aren't how your fellow incels told you.
@Rehaan Aamir If you really think you will get more attractive when you get older, you are delusional. No woman will want your grandma ass unless you're wealthy or famous, and they won't be high quality women.
Reasons for falling in love change as you get older. Just thought I would throw that out there.
Maybe true love is all about falling in love unreasonably.
Totally agree... when I was around my 20's, I was all about looks and all, but nowadays, around my 33's, I always look for personality first, what type the person is, etc, etc...
Most Women: Personality first then Attraction.
Most Men: Attraction first then Personality.
If a woman likes your personality, then she will start to notice your physical features. If you don't meet her tastes then she will think you're not the real deal. Just friend zone you.
If a man likes your features, he will try to figure out your personality and if it does not match or balance his, he will move on to the next woman he finds attractive.
In the end both care about Appearance and Personality.
PoutineProductions I think you have it backwards all women care about is if you are good looking and rich men actually want someone who’s caring and nice
it could go vice versa. it really depends what they see first, not the gender
@@sabereaseera1384 so the route is this:
work on yourself till you are productive, good looking, educated and earning lot of money. Then women will be easier to get. Personally I find this very very life/energy/time consuming and makes me depressed. I hope in a global economic collapse so I can be free from this corrupted and fkd up society. All heil true freedom.
Autarchyan how does one work on being good looking?
@@sabereaseera1384 eating on a good diet, hitting gym everyday, being always well dressed, clean and scented... and other things like these
Instructions unclear: Head stuck in a fence
Everything is fun and games until someone sees you in that position...
wHaT aRe yOu dOiNg, sTeP bRo??????
Underrated Comment 😂😂😂
I mean, if it's good or bad would depend on the kind of relationship...
@@TotalImmort7l uncle bill likes that pose 😏
Someone said before:
"You have to love her, to know her"
"You have to know him, to love him"
Tina James the Bible says, “you need to love yourself to love everybody else,” what if I don’t love myself but love everybody else, am I as confuzzling as you? Probably not, just a statement, I’m still confuzzled
Reverse Uno
MageBurger that is confuzzling, but I understand
Jordyn Hill
I would say the opposite.. if you wanna build up a healthy relationship you have to love yourself first so that you know for yourself that you‘re a loveable person and that you understand why people could fall in love with you. Otherwise you would have no possibility in understanding your partner. BUT your point of viewing yourself could change and your self confidence could grow with the right person if he makes you feel better.
k a t h i I hate that about 5 people like me but I hate myself, I have a big heart, if anything, my heart is the biggest thing I have, yet I can’t love the one thing everyone else loves, myself. Loving myself may change the way I love others, but I feel like if I learn to love myself I might only love myself, so I forgot how to do it
You don't fall in love, love grows.
Well, I *fall* in love everytime time
@@badizzl Then it's probably infatuation, limerance.
@@PhoenixtheII yep sure. But this is what falling in love means for me. Growing love is the next step. Sadly I don't have much experience with that...
But when these points are positive it starts to develop :)) ! It amazes me how different people are... some fall in love instantly for me it takes time, time to get to know each other so that is why I think with these points mentioned in video it starts to develop.
And love leaves, usually taking half your stuff and alimony with it..... because feelings......
I really hate myself because I fall in love too fast
Toi Toilet dude me too.
Me too man. Your not alone. I feel the same way
That's so cute 😆❤
Dont worry man you will find love ! Maybe it's a cat that cuddles with you . Maybe a old friend witch want to meet up with you . This thots dont deserve you ! Try to travel to other places :D
Same. Except I'm a guy. Something as simple as making a girl laugh makes me infatuated
I'm male but I find your description of what a woman wants in a romantic partner to match very well what I want in a romantic partner.
I can relate
So i guess you're not just any male, but a man of culture as well.
Although I usually like these videos this one is seriously sexist and not very inclusive.
@@AlisounLink How is it sexist and not very inclusive?
Maybe you are girl in a mans body I suggest you to become transgender.😁
I go into a relationship before knowing the man in a deeper level. I guess that's why all my relationships fail. Now I know that love needs not to be rushed.
girl
fuckin
same
LMFAO DICKSON LICKSON 😂
It's true that you shouldn't rush love, but, and I may be completely wrong here, it sounds like you might have very vague definitions for, "love," and "relationships," etc.
It kind of sounds like you're looking for only one thing (no, not the one thing that men are stereotypically looking for), and you may be excluding yourself from other experiences because you are hoping only for that, and it may be lowering your odds of success.
To be clear, when you say, "I go into a relationship before knowing the man in a deeper level. I guess that's why all my relationships fail," that is impossible because a relationship involves two people and just as it takes two to start one it takes two to end one--so it's never 100% your fault. But what I do wonder is, for you, where does a relationship start, and what defines it? Looking at love rationally (I know, sounds like a terrible idea, right?), how can you possibly know someone at a deep level if you're NOT in a relationship with them? Isn't part of the point of a relationship to GET to that deeper level of understanding? It's not like you can be expected to be psychic, right? And when it comes to worrying about your relationships failing, there's two pretty obvious things it sounds like you might be ignoring when you say that:
1.) Most relationships fail. Statistically, it just doesn't work out the overwhelming majority of the time. It's comparatively really rare for a relationship to NOT eventually fail.
2.) and speaking of failing eventually, the real question is not about failure, but about success--what is success? What does it look like to you? Happy marriage until the day you die? Is that most extreme form of a relationship the only form that you define as successful? If so, maybe think about why you feel that way for a bit. If most relationships are going to fail eventually, and if a person is lucky they'll get exactly one "success," in the relationship department in their lifetime, does that mean everyone is bad at relationships, or that everyone is using the wrong method of measuring the success/meaningfulness of those relationships?
Anyway, that's what I felt like I had to say. I'm not any kind of expert or anything, so don't worry too much about what I think, especially if it sounds like I'm way off base with my guessing at how you see things, but thanks for taking the time to read it nonetheless. Best of luck to you in the future.
Love can't be left too late either. Life is too short to F around with someone
Good Conversationalist,....
Introverts has left the room...
Bs, introverts are often times way better conversationalists
I lefted lol
@@maxe2820 yea they think a lot,just let em take time
We just need to feel comfortable enough and then we’re actually really good at it
Introverts are 1v1 experts bro
Peer pressure.
Believe it or not this is a thing, I personally liked this guy but I stopped, my friends and family would tease me and say how cute we'd be and overall seemed to force the feeling onto me, I felt pressured to like them, so I did. At the time, I didn't recognize that was happening but I believe that is what happened now, having no longer been in that situation.
Yeah, I have friends who a relate. But I am cautious on who I tell who I like. The first time I told a friend I liked someone, she kept teasing me and even lied to my crush that this other guy likes me (he doesn't really) will beat him up if he sees him talking to me. We're still friends, but I haven't forgiven her, especially since she said "it's what I HAD to do."
Laix Takes Exactly! My ex friend had also told the person I liked at one point I liked them, it's upsetting to see what friends or anyone can pressure you to do or do to change your view on them and things.
E I understand how that feels. I was peer pressured by a senior at my school to go out with one of my good friends. Of course this senior doesn’t really have the best judgment, but she would constantly annoy me about it. She would bug me so much, to the point where my friend acted strange and awkward around me for a while. Luckily, we’ve gone back to normal, and the senior has stopped bugging me. I think she stopped because my art teacher may have talked some sense into her.......Which officially made her my favorite teacher :)
I swear I've been pressured by my friends whenever someone likes me or if I have a phase on liking someone they've pressured me into dating people and it's because I don't really wanna get married, and people simply don't understand that. Hell, even parents don't understand it they always think it's a phase or something even though I've been saying it for over several years now, at this point in time I give up on humanity what gives a person a right to think not getting married is socially unacceptable or it's simply a phase?
I'm glad to see this isn't just my troubles but also its upsetting to see and hear the different stories of getting pressured to like someone. I don't understand why people do it really but at least I know it isn't just my problem and friends or family or even strangers that have done this
What is Love?
BABY DONT HURT ME!!!!
No more. *Commence the head bobbing*
Wow im surprised there are jaymes fans here, hello hello!!!!
Lol
Just checked out ya channel pretty cool
It's a little too late to say that you're sorry now (Yeah)
You kicked me when I was down, but what you say, just (Don't hurt me)
Dude I used to carry the conversation with my boyfriend while he texted other people 🙄 it was a problem to say the least
That's not a good material even for a friend :p
Maybe the problem is you actually choosing him to be your boyfriend. Just looking at the other side of the coin here
I'd leave him disrepect is not acceptable
Ayyyyy do I spot another phan
That would be a huge problem for me as well.
How I fall in love
Someone: *showes human affection*
Me: *developes a crush*
Hmmm.
Sounds like I need to get my hands on a giant magnet.
Want a t-shirt with that?
XD
soo true
The lowkey advertisement lmao
Y'all should make a t-shirt with a design like that
I had no initial attraction to my current girlfriend, we started talking and immediately hit it off as amazing friends, and once we knew each other better we both fell in love, and we’ve been together over a year.
Smoke Weed
You realize if someone actually did kill themselves because of this comment, you could wind up in prison for involuntary manslaughter.
TH-cam records your IP address, which law enforcement can use to trace you down and come knock on your door. It has happened to me before when I threatened a school.
Smoke Weed A billion? I guess that says a lot about how you believe the world is.
Smoke Weed All?
Smoke Weed I've never told anyone to kill themselves. Quite frankly it's an idiotic thing to say.
You clearly don't care what I or anyone thinks, so this is probably gonna go in one ear and out the other.
You have a problem, an insecurity, that makes you want to tell other people hurtful things to validate yourself, make you feel powerful.
Please, get help man.
Now do one for why people have crushes on fictional charcters!
1. be 2D
2. be the best girl
end of list.
@@aub6120 i thought you meant 2D from Gorillaz lmao
WEEABOO DETECTED
Easy, fictional characters can't deny them, so they only have to fantasize they accept them exactly as who they are, regardless how perverted they might be.
@@eyrist1369 sAME
Sounds a lot like how a cat gains trust and love for a person.
Well, it's been said that men are dogs and women are cats XD lol.
cats are way easyier. Just give them a treat, and/or leave them alone. 99% chance they will like you.
Meow :3
@@TANMAN9095 well if a man gives me chocolate I would definitely consider them 😂
@@Keziah_2004x 😂😂😂
Anyone passing through this comment I wish you best of luck for your future love. Although I failed to win over my crush, I just hope you guys succeed.
Thank you
Not giving up when someone already said they don't love you is actually a horrible idea.
I just rap to girls I like,my sparkling mind create instant love.
i'd say don't give up unless you're hurting/bothering someone with it
@@fairy7524 What if I'm hurting myself ?
"Eat differently"?
How do dudes eat?
Light Artemis yeah true i am a dude and i eat quietly asf but i think i eat cringily (facial expressions)
I usually use a 7 stomach regurgitation system.
I like to regurgitate and dilute my food before using enzhymes to degrade it
Kaiya 。。 Men can eat fancy and woman can eat sloppy but usually men arnt to concerned about how they look so they will usually eat faster (which can cause more of a mess) while woman can be more polite and eat slower so they dont dirty themselves. However this does not apply to everyone. I am male and although I eat slowly I'm still pretty sloppy but my brother eats quickly and is only a little sloppy, meanwhile my mom eats slowly and isn't sloppy. However it's possible the most common is that men eat more fast and woman more slow. Personally I'm not completely sure
hormones levels can impact a woman's sense of smell and taste more...simply put my wife eats like a cautious house cat...I eat more like a careless dog. both are unique survival adaptations
*_-SO WHY DO GOOD GIRLS LIKE BAD GUUUYYYSSS-_*
Ashley Pennington *_-I’VE BEEN A BAD BOY AND ITS PLAIN TO SEE-_*
Because humans are crazy
Exciting 😜 at times and scary too 😩
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-E-D-I-T-
-B-A-D-B-O-Y-A-R-E-B-A-D-
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As a woman myself i think some girls go after "bad guys" because they were raised by a helicopter parenting style and have become sick of everything they do being prejudged and monitored and decided for them. By choosing a man or boy that is opposite of what their parents would choose they feel they are making an empowering choice by choosing for themselves when they are really sinking their own ship. Obviously that is not the only reason but it seems like often it is a really big one.
I agree so much with the first one... I find someone so much more attractive when I know their personality
Damn, this comment section is toxic.
DICKSON LICKSON Says the person who cared so little that they spent the time to reply to my comment.
I'm so tired of this.. seriously
J H only men are both dumber and way smarter it all depends.
J H you are one of those fucking preschool girls with no brain that say girls rule boys drool gtfo
Robertas Vaicius begone ligma
Comment section:
*High school 14 years old kids*
Aahhh fuck
DON'T YOU CALL ME OUT DUDE WHAT THE FUCK
cause they’re tryna learn
Plus "nice guys" and incels
@@trappnest4490 bruh I'm just here to see the most important part of a relationship, smh
I’m a woman an my boyfriend just called me bro
Can we get an f in the chat
FFFFF , shit that sucks 😬🤣
F, respect 👌👌👌✨
f
K bro
I swear i see you everywhere
Their intro sounds like someone sniffing, summoning a devil then stabbing him twice in the chest with an accelerator pedal
Oddly specific but ok
U weird bro
Hahaha
lmao what??
It does!! Lmao
Men and women are more similar than most people think.
Chad Atchison in what ways Chad ? I'm just curious
We both want to love and be loved, we both can be equally petty and generous, for every man I know there is a women that acts and thinks just like him. Men and women being diametrically different is a stereotype. It might have been different in the past when people were forced into their roles but now people can pretty much be whoever they want. Everything she said in this video can be applied to both sexes so it's good for women to know these things about men too. :)
Chad Atchison I like you lol
you said it in a much better way i would have
Thank you. I just watched several of your videos and I have to say they are quite good, I really like your music so I subbed. :) Btw where did you come up with the idea of the Hydra Treflalium?
Chad Atchison Thanks a lot ! I like flowers, and i like mythology haha so i made a combination of these two
I can see all of these points applying to all genders honestly. Many guys want a lot of these things too.
Gabbi yeah i don't know where this thing of women and men being different comes from… i think that the things you want from a relationship depend on your personality and experience, rather than gender.
Gabbi thank you, just thought the same.
Did you mean all 69 genders? Just Joking lol, now on the serious side of this subject yes I agree with you
Gabbi Thank You! This & the other video are so fucking not true or specific to any gender. It makes me sick! They act like it's all black & white. The stereotyping in this video is soooooooooooo fucking revolting, like, it's 2018, OPEN YOUR DAMN EYES! 😑😒😤
Seriously, whoever wrote this script deserves to be slapped with a fucking dictionary or something. OMFG. Smh. 💢💢💢
CoolMintMC This lady's and gentlemen, is another reason to support abortion
I can just imagine every single guy go: "Ohhhhh, so *that's* why she doesn't like me..."
"...yet"
DreamEagle queue evil laugh lol
Not me, I just ask "wtf did I do wrong if I did everything it just said" like dude I'm not that bad and yet they just like oh yeah uh sorry I take back everything and I'm leaving but I don't have a good reason so here's a dumb ass excuse followed by mixed signals and prolonged attachment that I only show when I'm drunk
@Lil Niggy ...you know some girls like cute guys too, right?
People with anime profile pictures don’t have opinions yeet
My personal list:
1) Personality
2) Ambition + Reliability (don't want no scrubs)
3) Hygiene
4) Physical Attraction (I fell in love with his crooked smile, but his eyes are beautiful to look at too).
5) Independence (doesn't rely any one to solve their own problems)
I like your list
More honest than the BS in the video but I know item 1 is defined by item 2, sweetie
I'm sure you love men with really rich personalities
Even though I am a man, I fall in love similarly to a woman. Yay introversion!
I think the process of falling in love is different for each personality type, regardless of gender.
Meee too
Saaaaameeeeee!!!!!
Same
I think I find people who could possibly deal with my introversion attractive.
I have a crush but I'm an introvert, crap, HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO OPEN UP???
Spottus same problem 😭😭😭😭
sucks to suck. don't worry being a teenager only lasts couple of years after that you'll be less of an emotional mess
Lol give em a written note might only work if your a girl though if your a guy that could been seen as insecure but if your girl he might find it cute . Sorry just speaking from personal experience before people tell at me for being " sexist " which I don't think I am but 🤷🏻♂️
give him/her hints
Nowadays easiest way is to start by talking on social media, go for it it's just typing a text and clicking on send ☺
Well, this is going to be interesting
I forgot to edit this, now, 2 weeks later: yes, yes it was intresting:)
Was it? Hope it was!
I'm a guy, and oddly enough, I relate more to this video than to "how males fall in love."
I suppose it goes without saying, but not everything is cookie cutter.
I am the same as you.
@@arrok.3592 I find that the video "How guys fall in love" to be far more detached and, in some ways, far more carnal, which, in some ways, I find to be a bit stereotypical and a bit out of date... but, again, not everything is cookie cutter.
GlitteringFork interesting, I’ve come to hear frequently the whole ‘carnal’ behaviour men have, but perhaps men fall in love in a mix of ways from the videos?
@@glitteringfork7315 It can be for a general amount of guys
I fall in love if someone accepts everything about me and puts the same energy as I do and that’s exactly how the person I love falls In love and I’m a boy so I think it all depends on ur personality and what type of person you want in ur life will change how you fall for someone and I’m still struggling to ask her out and so is she it’s so difficult:c
The only thing I retained from this video: "She needs to know"
😂😂😂😂😂
True😂😂
Literally
lollll
Love it when there is more to one's interest in another than appearance. My older brother complains how women are shallow and it's merely idealistic to him otherwise. Women are human too. It's a shame for people to generalize an entire group of individuals based on the bad experiences of a few.
How women fall in love:
1. See guy
2. “I think I love him”
TheCraftyPanda YT Disney women in a nutshell
XD
I used to be like this when I was 12. But now I can't find a man I have attraction for. Wish I could return to that time XD
I'm french what do you mean by ''substance''?
Juicy Panpan men fall in love physically if anyone disagrees they lying to themselves
1) She needs to get to know you first
Me: Instantly crushes on a kinda cute guy from across the playground 👁👄👁
Alwayssss fall like this
You sound like my bestie at the moment😂
That's infatuation/lust
@@sesshonuyasha OK, fair point. For real love, I agree that I really need to know someone first.
@@eirwena.5381 Character develepment oh my...... i look for a bunch of compatibility and that overall feeling -- of time slipping away/we have our own language = blooming love
Wow, this comment section is toxic af
True
@@dicksonlickson1024 no u
@@dicksonlickson1024 Woah dude wasn't even trying trying too; you should probably calm down
@Gareth Morgan Honestly though, fam
copypasta lmao
It's good to see that they talked about having ''good silences'', it's a great reminder to see if you're comfortable with someone or not. I think a lot of us know the difference between a good silence and an awkward silence.
the real number 1: woman falls off cliff, guy catches her, she's falls in love
Mustapha23eagles lmao movies be like
She literally fell for him
XD
Agent New York First, that's smooth af. Second, I'm glad no girl has punched you or shouted at you for saying that line.
Suzy292002 i mean, if the girl punch him wouldnt it be rude /overreacting? Idk but i think if they did punch him they will be called bad words
Yes!!! These are all so incredibly important in a relationship! And the key word is “time”. I’m not capable of falling in love with someone in a couple of weeks...consistency and reliability is key!
"She needs to know that you're reliable." reliable with THE LADIES
WAIT THIS ISNT HAMILTON
CRAP
Mkat Art and idiotic ideas XD MEEE
Mkat Art and idiotic ideas Love this comment
Mkat Art and idiotic ideas tru
Kathy Simon well that escalated quickly.
It all circles back to theatre.
All things circle back to theatre.
I feel like these can apply to pretty much any person under the right circumstances.
Well I just fell in love and that can’t be helped, there wasn’t to many stages, just we were friends and I love his personality
when your a guy and all the things said are true mostly for you.
Sure many other guys could relate! These points are not meant to be exactly too gender specific.
Does this mean I'm a woman? Have I been lied to all my life?!?!
Jovial Jared I'm sorry for keeping it a secret, I hoped you'd find it out this way instead of us telling you
Jovial, you're a woman at heart.
Ugh, that's not true. Someone isn't a "woman at heart" just because they have behaviors that are stereotyped as belonging to women. And it's not clear from the video that "these points are not meant to be exactly too gender specific". The video starts out explicitly stating that it's *obvious* that women and men are wired differently, and that this is how women are wired.
Im not seeing how these needs are unique to women. They are more like universals for male , female, hetero, gay, whatever.
bunberrier well but males might focus other things more than those that are on the list.
KJ L Yeah, like looks.
YES. Thank you
Hillary Clinton is that you?
Laura Baptiste Thats a very sexist comment. Perhaps, hon, its just the ones you know. Im serious. Sounds like you are self-selecting guys who want to do you, and then projecting your experience onto the gender as a whole. It must be quite discouraging to have such a low opinion of roughly 50% of the global population, and its tragic because its not true. You are missing out.
As a female I can say this is 100% accurate but all this stuff is pretty obvious anyway
Annalise Scott Concurred, not obvious.
I thought these things were obvious too..guess that's just because I'm a girl
Smoke Weed this is accurate for ME and at least you know this would work for one girl
As a male, these are requirements for me to fall in love too. I do not appreciate having my emotional depth demeaned by having the claim made that my love boils down to initial attraction. In fact, it’s downright insulting, and it makes me angry.
Had this been a video on 5 ways PEOPLE fall in love, it would have been accurate, and had the initial attraction been labeled as a necessity for anyone in a relationship, this video would also be more accurate. Instead this video makes the implicit assumption that men are purely sex driven. Which is dead wrong. Men are emotional creatures too. However many men have been torn to shreds for being emotional and vulnerable, and therefore repress these emotions and their expressions as a means of protecting their physical wellbeing. Sadly this comes at the expense of their mental and emotional wellbeing.
Sure, some men are purely sex driven, but let’s not set such horrible expectations of men anymore. It sets expectations that are emotionally imbalanced, such that men do not have their emotions pursued, and instead this sets the expectation of providing sex in exchange for love, as opposed to approaching love and sex in their own respective places, each from a place of mutual interest.
Furthermore this video makes the assertion that men and women have differing fundamental emotional functions, which is also dead wrong. Love isn’t a different kind of love because of a difference in gender. Love is just love, like anger is just anger, or happiness is just happiness, or lust is just lust. Ultimately the line drawn between genders that is used to define differences in people, can not stop there. The more accurate truth is that this line defines the differences between two individuals, regardless of gender.
Stop setting women up to believe that men are emotionally stupid. Instead set up people to know the difference between love and lust, and how to effectively communicate desire and intent.
Very well put. today, women are more sexually driven than most men. Feminism has ruined most women and I fear that won't change. Men are not sex obsessed as we fund the relationship we need many other assurances first as the courts are so focused on serving women and billing men all the costs, so emotionally we need to know whom we are entering into a relationship with.
This video is not complete, there's another whole video on how guys fall in love. It's only comparing that men in general on average tend to put a bit more weight on the initial attraction than women in general.
Finally someone else understands!! Sometimes I think I'm the only one who does lol.
@@youtubeaddict6344 If that statistically were true women would be swiping right on most men and men would be swiping right on only the attractive women when using apps like Tinder. Guess what? The opposite is true.
I think you got the videos reversed psyche2go.
Well written Nat !!!!
I’ve watched too many sad anime and now I have been feeling empty for about a month now
Blue same;-;
You use them incorrectly. You should watch them to get away from this emotional state, that at least what i am trying to do ;)
LOL then watch good animes with happy endings stupid
This is not the subject we should talk about, be gone
Blue oh im sorry.i hope you feel better emotionally
They do things differently, they eat differently
Me: HOW DO MEN EAT STEAK?
Me personaly, I rip it apart with my teeth and apparently growl
Maybe ill try it sometime!
Sounds like your compensating.
steak? oh! i like mine uncooked, uncut, and alive
anna ._.
I laughed so hard
Too much effort, better go gay
LMAO
HAHAHAGA
Go ahead
lol same
Trump turned my frogs gay due to chenicals in water
Damn I relate to “the ways guys fall in love” video more 😭 but I can relate to the “need someone to rely on” part , I can already be myself in front of everyone, I’m charismatic and can talk to anyone. I met my boyfriend bc of his looks and golden retriever energy lol he’s def more feminine and uptight than me but he has depression so my high energy helps, everyone’s diff! He’s super caring & a sweetheart 🥰🧸
Sounds like all of it applies both ways.
The comments section sounds like it's filled with Incels and Nice Guys TM.
Probably is.
Jon Showen hey screw you man
Some people aren't meant for relationships. I have social anxiety, grew up without a father but had a mother who is bipolar, and I can be mentally abusive to others at times.
I walk very stiffly everywhere with my shoulders high up, and look very arrogant even though I'm not, so maybe you have seen someone like this before?
Even worse is that I have somewhat attractive looks so women like to smile at me, but I cannot bring myself to smile back and turn my head away quickly.
I also get sweaty and shake in social situations but I like to think that I'm good at hiding it by now.
I honestly wish that I was ugly so women wouldn't try to flirt with me, and I wouldn't have to make them feel bad about themselves and/or have them hate me.
Anon E Moose, being ugly is no picnic, either. In my case, women are ok with me and even friendly right up until they learn that I'm interested. You want to see someone's personality turn on a dime? That's how you do it.
@@daveincognito I'm sorry man. I would rather be attractive than ugly. At least you have confidence though based on what you're telling me, so I think you'll get someone eventually if you keep trying.
Edit: Just never forget that they aren't better than you. Nobody is inherently better than anyone, and looks are just a small part of someone.
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After looking over them, the forgotten art of love seems good. I feel like I need the 6 tricks to stay positive. I don't get jealous, but being an introvert, it would be nice to see how other introverts deal with jealousy.
Also, can't believe I forgot the two videogame videos. I play them regularly, so it would be nice to see how helpful they really are.
0:45 1. She needs to get to know you
2:05 2. She needs to know what you think
3:35 3. She needs to know you're a good conversationalist
4:42 4. She needs to know that you're reliable
5:23 5. She needs to know that she can be herself in front of you
thank me later maybe...
Honestly somebody probably did this earlier but it got lost somewhere since it was posted 3 years ago, so thanks for the new one 😁
Anyone gonna just anonymously send this to their crush?
I don't even have her number
Holy shit I've liked her for a year and haven't said a word to her
I need to rethink my life
Rebel Assassin you're taking too long, make a move or you'll regret you didn't , better late than never
Cyber Or better never than never. If he doesn’t have the guts to do it he better just move on instead of waiting for things to happen themselves
Mr.Moon yeah I guess that's another option available
How do you send this anonymously?
This is so true and sad at the sAme time because this proves my man is not the one.
Dragonvow me too.
How do you know he isn't the one?
Well girls, keep your chin up! This is only a TH-cam video, after all; you don't have to take it to heart. Make a decision on what to do with your own judgement. If you think it's time to breakup, go for it! If not, stay with him. I'm sure all will work out of you in the end. ♡
Ditch him, fam
Gina Jones Anybody could be the one
Hm ok, my crush's progression checklist:
1 - nope
2 - nope
3 - kinda
4 - kinda/yes
5 - seems like yes
Calculating about 70% success. *sighs* gotta dig deeper! Cya on the other side everyone :|
Foxtoned good luck
Been in love with my best friend for 3 years
Today he told me he had a crush on my friend
F
how have you been holding up?
Sorry 😞
you gotta confess it before love turning to hate
You’re a boy?
I'm gonna be lonely for the rest of my life.
“I’m lonely” - 13 yo Teru.
You can find love in many other ways . When a friend send you a funny meme ore your mom make your favourite food ore a old lady smiles at you . Yeah finding a girl that fall in love with is becouse of female ridiculous high standers impossible! But maybe you need to travel in different places ore even country's wher women like guys like you :D ! Dont worry if you women give you at least one chance , she is stupid bitch that's its 😎
And it's okay. If you have few genuine people around you, you'll be okay.
@Κωνσταντίνος Ζαχάκης I have done absolutely nothing about it since I commented it.
Not only U
The first one is honestly the most true thing about how I fall in love with people
I had to get to know my best friend and start sharing things about me with her before we had become a couple recently
I love her so much UwU
She's the first female I've been with and the first one in 4 1/2 years
The Rumproast Lucky you! I'm happy to have a friend of over ten years but I wish we could be closer.
Wait, so you're gay? :3
Haha sorry for cussing
HumansAreDumb Uh no I'm a guy and my friend is a girl. We're both straight.
Don Wald - pretty sure HumansAreDumb was asking The Rumproast because I also get that impression that Rumproast is gay
HumansAreDumb
"Gay" is not a curse word, some people treat it like it is one but its just a term to say if someone is homosexual (likes the same gender)
Ayyyyyyy, when you relate more than you should have
Kathy Simon ARMY
...and you're also a man.
i thought this was my comment but then I was like wait a minute.
I’m 13 and this really helped me to learn about the opposite gender. I study in a boys school so I rarely get to interact with females. My crush is my neighbour that lives two stories apart from me...I honestly don’t know what my next step is... ;-;
(Correction I had never interacted with a girl...)
Just go talk to her and get to know her mate, then ask her on a date. Not necessary she'll say yes, you'll just learn to accept and move on, rejection is a part of life
@@manaspradhan8041 yeah I’m not gonna do that _now_ at this age and especially when my final exams are coming soon but thanks bud
@@Jeremy_Y My advice is to do it while you can. Cause crushes can have a place in your heart and when they move, it can hurt you. Tests are a priority but romance is a chance.
@@roxassora2706 mmmm thanks
Treat a human like you would treat a human. The difference is not that big. Also, if you watched this Video, watch the counterpart about men, too. Learn something about yourself.
Love is a very interesting concept since people can try to explain it, yet no one ever completely agrees. Love is different for all people just like many things in life. It is an extremely beautiful thing when found and extremely heartbreaking when lost. People who are in love generally wish to understand each other, want to know if they are a friend who can always stay true to them, and even though it can be difficult, they try their best to resolve a conflict when it arises. Conflict will always arise even when love is present. Though some may experience a kind of temporary blindness to some issues, the realization of those issues will always arise sooner or later, or they will somehow (though very rarely) fade away over time.
Dreamer of Fire Yes! Exactly :)
Okay, I'm screwed...
I can't do any of these things.
Don't worry it's just sexist bullshit.
Are you saying you can't be yourself so she can get to know you?
Are you not capable of deep thinking?
Can you not hold a conversation?
Are you not reliable? Can't you hold a job for longer than a year and keep your finances tied up? Can't you be there for your friends?
If you can't do any of these, you won't succeed on anything in life mate. I hope this has changed since you commented here!
Ana G. Can’t hold a conversation for sure
@@chrisding1976 oh ok. Phew! Haha
See? If it's just that, you're fine!
@@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788 for the record.. im just a being clown. Attempting humor 😉 laughing is free, blow Jobs are 20 dollar
I guess this is why I'll never have a girlfriend.
Mane Nikoloski youre better off tbh
why
Mane Nikoloski this is not necessarily accurate 100%. Every girl is different😊
SN Then why do all girls want guys with lots of money and big dicks?
Majority of wemen are in it for themselves and no one else. It's all about what they get out of it.
Me and my friend talk about mental traumas we have been through, I get attached, then I push her away as a defence mechanism to not let anything overpower what my priorities demand from me. Earlier I had expressed and confessed it, my friend left me, I became so scared and vulnerable for this time that I distanced myself so as to control the attraction as well as stay in touch.
I'm a female. And I have a hard time finding anyone remotely attractive if I don't know them personally or if I don't know them well enough. I tend to think that everyone is an ugly slob, but as I get to know them, they turn into the most beautiful and magnificent person ever. Am I just weird?
Thai Jean I'm a man who has a hard time trying to get to know a girl because they don't want to get to know me. Try to look Pleasant try to be nice however I cannot click with a lot of people due to being introverted reserved and very pessimistic. Not to mention that I'm more jaded and angry who grew up being hated for who I am by women so I have more resentment
Thai Jean
Noup... well im a male but its the same for me too
Nope. You're just not too easily impressed. But when you get to know the people more closely, You reveal your magnificent side in acknowledging them as really good. You're perfect :D
Thai Jean EXACTLY! Just like me lol
Same with me
Well I'm so glad I meet these things with my girl bc this is exactly what happened with me building what I had with her until she found that physical attraction after a period of uncertainty. Im so glad I know she's in love with me And this video made me even more confident about myself in this part of the relationship
Or ya know, “5 ways to get a woman to fall in love with you”
Haha you seriously think a 6 minute video could break the mechanism of making someone fall for you? XD
Mansi Mishra the video talks about what women like in a man so it could maybe be used to better yourself in a relationship or better yourself in dating. Idk really, it was late XD
5:30 Her being herself in front of me is something I enjoy.
Not sure why but its just nice.
So how's it going so far my man??
I would never have been able to verbalize this but looking at my life; this is SO FREAKING TRUE!! But i saw, that it was all because my partner was patient. This video isn't a guys guide but a girls insight in how crazy careful we actually are with love! So good, so simple.
can you do another video talking about how men fall in love?
Artist's Vlog *Ass tits and THICC* + a hint of personality
Yep!
SirLemming damn! thanks for the answer 😅
Not every man Falls in love that way you know a Woman with Good Personality is far more Worth. than Model with the Personality of a Rock.
Artist's Vlog intelligence, compatibility, a big thing for me is knowing they want and care about spending time with me, loyalty,honesty and looks matter but not nearly as much as you think
My ex was completely and utterly unwilling to discuss relationship problems, have any emotional conversation and basically shunned small talk, yet we somehow stayed together for over 2 years and through a deployment. In other words, not all women are emotionally there.
I tell my friends 5 things they need to start a relationship they are in no particular order: interest, availability, respect, honesty, and forgiveness. I’m gonna add open hearts to the list
I love like a girl would, then. I have already been in love with a very special girl and it is the first time I feel this emotion towards another person. I will give us both more time to get to know each other, while I continue to love her more each day, before I make a move.
I had a few problems with this video, but I think all relationships- regardless the genders involved- need to follow step one. Sure, you can't control initial attraction based on preference and the vibe someone sends out, but honestly, the best relationships I've seen have been along the lines of "We were friends for a while and then realized there was something more." It's best for all relationships to go in with the goal of mutual appreciation (friendship ya dorks) and then move forward from there. This doesn't even have to take long (maybe even as little as a few hangouts), and depending on both parties' preferences you can jump into official romance. Key word(s): BOTH PARTIES. If you really want a relationship to work, you need to consider the other side's comfort. Anyone who thinks ur picky/manipulative/stuck up for wanting to change pace is not worth your time. If you really want a relationship to work, you'll talk through it and see what each person can do to make the other happy. That's love man.
"We eat differently..."
Dunno about the rest of you, but I have seen humans only use the mouth to eat: man, woman, helicopter, and everything not listed.
Some "differences" aren't real differences. We complicate things.
Myself I use the butt to consume my nutrients. Your mileage may vary.
0:57 with this i had the opposite learning experience, the more time spent to get to know each-other the more the guy ends up in the friend zone
*reads title*
*sees Love in a hole*
*trips and falls inside*
Well that’s one reason...(I’ll go home now ;-;)
Precious X3 how will you go home when you're in a hole?
she lives in the hole
Correction: "Sees love in A-hole, trips and falls inside (his head games)"
Go home?.... or go homo
D Cez lmao!
don't ask a fish how to catch it,ask the fisherman 😏
I don't know why but i found this really funny haha
Haris Kolar Bahaha oh my god ( so true though)
Andreas DLuffy its funny cause its true my beautiful nigga
Bihhh 100% true preaching
Camila Lucena Lima I eat them so I don't know about that 😉
Gosh, women fall in love so logically! So CLEARLY high I.Q. guys are constantly getting lucky, but those poor buff gym rats are so alone...
haha right? Never take advice from woman.
gym rats have High E.Q. tho
They are talking about love not one night stands.
LOL! There was a time 30, maybe as few as 20 years ago when I would have believed the bullshit in this video. Thank the Internet for Red Pill wisdom.
@@adznz11 You just need to do the opposite of all they "teach"
Lovely and applies in some cases, yet a bit superficial I must say:
1. Not all men are 'investing' emotionally just based on physical attraction
2. People in general (not just women) are beautiful
3."This is not a formula" should be a disclaimer - people are different, not all are built same. While from a natural standpoint what you claim is true, we live in days where the neocortex sometimes takes over mammalian brain(responsible for emotions) hence things are a little more complicated...
I enjoyed the video, please do more and take my feedback with a pinch of salt - it's meant to help :)
List can go on,
I definitely agree with you. I would love to see how men fall in love.
Nice hentai profile pic.
Scientifically most of us guys fall in love usually off of physical attraction first. (That's just how we're wired sorry :( ) After that well for me if you're just a really cool person to be around that's a very good start. Basically if you really get and understand me, help/care for me when I need it without fuse, take care of my needs and don't add any drama to my life. Honestly just do that and at least 70% of men will fall deeply in love and probably do anything to keep you. That's the *short answer* of what most men really want.
Here's the *long answer* . I may ramble here a bit but these are just the bonuses that would make you irreplaceable. Everything in the video also applies a lot of us too just add in loyalty, sharing the same interests (like you being a good business partner in whatever field I'm in would be amazing) and dude who aren't jerks always want someone that knows how to keep up and challenge them to be better intellectually and/or psyically when they need it.
Me and my guy friends can talk and theorize about world events for hours. If she's willing to keep up with that and challenge me if I'm wrong. Awesome 😊 If she plays and is good at video games too and if she's willing to have fun, travel and explore things in a million different ways double awesome 😊😊 Oh I'd love the hell out of a girl like that 😍😍😍
I am emotionally broken in my childhood, that makes me a avoidant , that means I can't open up in personal level. Hence I never had any kind of relationship in my life
Trust me, your life is free of complicated, unnecessary emotional drama. Peace of mind trumps everything; even sex itself.
Same here, unfortunately I'm just too messed up to to do something,I have anxiety and depression, fortunately they don't hit me constantly,it depends, sometimes a few times a day or after a few days. So I can do basic stuff at home with no problem but I'm too weak to have a girlfriend or to open up myself to someone. I wanted to suicide myself many times,but I don't want to die,so I just stopped and looked at myself, maybe is hope,at least I'm healthy,I don't have a mother to support me and my father is not normal mentally. So I'm alone in this world. Still, sometimes I'm impressed that I can still laugh,I can eat and I enjoy what I have. I love music a lot,so I want to invest in audio equipment,I want to have an entire room just with audio gear, that's what makes me very happy. That's it,not everyone is lucky to have a family or a girlfriend or a true friend to play games with,like Minecraft,or to do a small party at home,there are people that will stay alone,humans adapt though,you can live alone with no problem but don't forget, especially if you have traumas and depression,these will hit unexpectedly and they will destroy you slowly.
Problem: very bad conversionalist and very low social skills, a lot of attempts to fix it, but all attempts failed....
Alex X People can sense it what you are lacking. You are trying but they can sense it. Practice makes you perfect which comes after many heart-breaking failures.
Get money
Me.
I'm sure you have charms like everyone. But if you force youself to have a conversation and talk a lot, people will smell there is something not natural so they might be less attracted. They get the message that you're not confident.
Alex X same here ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ
I fall in love when a boy smiles at me 😔✌️
Me too, given she has a nice smile tho
You can’t call me out like that
me too its so cute
The profile pic and this comment combined had me laughing
I look like sh** when I smile 😁
For #3, read how to win friends and influence people. It’ll be a game changer. For those who have read it please provide an example to demonstrate its effectiveness to others
Yes I have read it its amazing. the bbest part is listening skills.
Now I know why I'll be forever alone
Satvik Tejasvi Indian men are demonized and ridiculed. No wonder! We are new blacks nowadays even when we are browns.
This is only relevant to decent men and women, which accounts for like... .07 percent of the population.
Revolution Insignia Finally, some common sense.
Revolution Insignia That's what I'm saying! How many men see the panties without doing ANY of this, it's just PC shit. Oh yeah let her be herself or tell her *everything* about you. LOL oh you mean give a damn about her? Yeah do some of that up front like I use too LMAO or even do that in certain a relationships. It will only make her see you as boring, clingy or a pussy if she didn't feel you made her earn it first. That's just how it is.
The only type of men women have sex with and have relationships with today, is the type of guy that act like they have better things to do then be bothered with them. Every guy knows that's true. Once you're at a relationship point, maybe be nice and do these things but unless she is doing cartwheels for you already, just forget it.
dodopoopinpoop depressing but true
This is BS
tom senick In what way? If you have an insight feel to share.
This is true. I did these before I got in a relationship with my boyfriend and it took time but it was worth it.