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For anyone thinking about going back to the narcissist and give them yet another chance. Here is a friendly suggestion. Make a list of all the bad things that did for you. Make a list of all the good. Notice which list is longer. For the times, you feel bored or alone. You think to yourself, “it wasn’t that bad?” Take out your list. You will see it was. You deserved better than what you got.
Absolutely, there’s something about their eyes when they say that the eyes are the window to soul this is correct. Unfortunately the person I was with literally looked like they had no soul, and now that he thinks that he’s a living God this makes sense
I noticed after awhile my ex's eyes looked creepy like snake eyes. I even told him that they looked like snake eyes and he got real quiet and weird. Found out soon enough he was a cheater and really was a snake. My new crush has big brown expressive eyes that look into your soul.
No good what so ever will come out of it going back to a totally disturbed narcissist...their childhood trauma is so severe that the mind, body, spirit and soul are so damaged that their character has turned into a coldhearted robot ruled by artificial intelligente...all humanity, honesty and compassion has left them ...an evil and exploitative nightmare to be with
" You tolerated toxicity that you never knew it existed on the planet ". Andrew that absolutely SUMS UP the whole narcissistic experience. That is the ROOT of the whole thing. Karma eventually catches up. Meanwhile, we leave it all behind and evolve for real.
Watching this at 7:00 am from a beach in Vietnam, I’m on my first week alone now. For some reason watching this made me go back to the beginning of the relationship, in the beginning I would never have tolerated the things that were going on by the end of the relationship., the narcissist really did a number on me. I wish you all strength on your journey to your third self, stay strong on your journey to the pinnacle 💪
She’d try to blame shift ME toward the end, like how dare I check in to see if she’s OK? Yet she’d trample over my boundaries with no qualms. The narcissists are hypocrites and self-centered. It’s always a ‘rules for thee, but not for me’ strategy in their little playbook of punishment & manipulation.
I have been back and forth with my ex-boyfriend so many times but this time I have to keep him blocked and not get back together with him again. I can't go through the damage again. It was affecting my health. It was to the point where I was being gas lit on a daily basis and emotionally abused. No more. It's difficult realizing you really meant nothing to these people. 😢
Nothing will ever change with them. I now have a pace maker, my digestive system is riddled with disease. I was in great health when I met him three years ago. I'm almost an invalid now. I'm a mess. These videos are informative and helpful! Reading these comments helps a lot too.
They are groomers, abusers, gaslighters and scammers. If you go back they will groom, abuse, gaslight and scam you all over again. Don't do it ...self care and enjoy the little things in life and bit by bit heal from your horrid experience.
You nailed it Andrew! The narcissist is not stable or empathetic, end of story! You cannot build a life with a person like that. They will throw you under the bus first chance.
I left him, and he has been hoovering me for 3 months now. Excusing himself with big crocodile tears. Telling me he misses me so much and that his whole world has fallen apart ever since I left. It's one big show and all about him.. Again. One big show to get me back and start the whole façade again. He didn't care about me during the relationship. He didn't care when he was devaluating, ignoring and manipulating me. He didn't care when he was giving me numerous silence treatments. He didn't care when he was mentally and physically abusing me. And now finally I don't care about him anymore. It took me 3 years to figure it out and have the courage to leave and stay away, but I made it. And if I can, you can. 💪 Take notes to remember how you felt en think about how you will feel when you'll go back again. It will be the same or even worse. Believe me. They can't and won't change. Thank you Andrew ❤
So true. Narcs don't change. Ever!! The honeymoon phase gets shorter and shorter. Thank goodness we have the tools and support we need to move on!! I wish you many years of genuine happiness!!😊
Why would I want to go back to feeling confused, sad, ugly, old, fat...Like I was never enough. I had no life of my own, was on call for the narcissist 24/7. NEVER going back to that. Over a year since the divorce and almost one year block and no contact. I feel so much better about myself and life since I removed the narcissist from my life.
Thank you Andrew for this message never go back,in my situation it over with us he never going to hoover me again unless I win the lottery or get a new car for him to ran back pretending he didn't mean to hurt me. Everything with him about making him look and feel good for us to ride around he pump my radio up so people can look at him he done that back in the day this just to re-idealize me not cause he care but his image. I realize now I was just the next victim take his responsibility cause he can't care for his self and them siblings not going to help him they love when I did for their brother that why they was so into me so much but when I start call him out on his BS all the time the family didn't like I woke up and start taking up for myself they wanted me to take the abuse let him do him and accept and not say anything to him this why he went and got a new supply and move her in his momma. Yes they all don't ever haven't to speak, connect me,or look for me ever again I be long gone and move back to the quiet country I prefer never ever connecting to these people again it a family cult. And if my ex-husband get ever get down and sick I don't want to know let that half sister, the new supply, the old supply anybody he put before me when I was down for him but he pick them over me can take care of him. I going to live my best life and in peace. Life to short to be around toxic people and being use and abuse for their own games. I can't change people and there decision or how they feel about me but i can change me love myself, be accountable and responsible for my action on what I do in life. Karma hit him long time ago in his childhood as a teenager and n right now as a 58 year old grown man his past and what on his criminal record an felony it there for life and will always haunt my ex-husband for the rest his life until he die, he continues to sit in that shame everyday on the things he done to me, his first wife, and his momma why she gone today he got skeleton in his closet for real. If he get in trouble again he will be gone for life. Never ever will I go back true statement. Love your message ❤
You are my hero Andrew! This video couldn't have come at a more perfect time. I'm FINALLY divorcing my narcissistic husband after 32 yrs. I've got my health back, my head is on straight and in therapy. My husband did exactly what you said, he found God and cried at my feet and begged me not to leave. However, bc he isn't getting his way, he's still abusing me and doing it with a smile. You know the nice narcissist. LOL! I know your not surprised. My divorce is on April 22 if he doesn't drag it out, LOL! As a Christian, I really struggled for a while about leaving him, but then came to my senses! This video just confirms I'm doing the right thing. Thank you Andrew for staying strong and guiding us out of toxic horrible lives!!!! God bless you!
I am a Christian also. I have repented. I left my marriage of 32yrs. How he treated me during my dad’s death was the final straw. My daughter heard the verbal abuse and told me “that is enough “. She finally validated me leaving. It’s hard because I nursed him through cancer naturally and was cancer free. He started chewing hiding it from me. He now has lumps in his throat and is telling me he is going to die without me. God is in control.❤️✝️🙏
At the beginning of the rumination thing, it's flippin' mood altering. Then it recedes and you identify it a lot easier. Makes it way easier to control and send to the cerebral trash bin.
Andrew is 💯 % right Well some people think they change ; I delayed my divorce for one year and it was the worst year of my life - narc wanted to triangle me - lie and pretend with me like working on our marriage incl Christian counseling and used married harlot with false cover ‘play date’ - no turning back now with physical abuse on top of all that! My Exit plan was executed two days later - bc I had it for one year --- So even if you don’t leave - be ready to do so bc you never know what will transpire in a relationship with a narcissist
don't waste the best years of your life, being loyal to a toxic person. one of the biggest mistakes people make in life is, thinking we have unlimited time. time is free, but it's priceless. you can't own it, but you can use it. you can’t keep it, but you can spend it. and once it's lost, you can never get it back. the problem with time is, eventually it always runs out. the only thing a narcissist ever improves is their age. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
Of all the things you can endeavor into, not many have a predictable outcome. A relationshit with a malignant narcissist is the exception. Everyday out of it is like going from a fog to clarity journey. We as people whose vulnerability , caring & generousity were ensnared in a trap. Thats not self pandering. Its true of everyone here. As the days of zero contact clear the mind, it also escalates the zero tolerance of the past experience and any future exploitation becomes obvious quickly. It will cost possible relationships and / or friendships. Future and past. That is not the tragedy it once was. To further that thought, it will take you to a self taught immunity that some people already had that do not get caught up in this. They werent always immune. They just learned before you / I did.
I enjoy listening to this man, don’t forget. They will repeatedly call you a lair when you remember things. Saying you have to remember ever detail because your a liar. I’m starting to really think once you see hear or understand your dealing with a nut job? Cut your losses and disappear. You’ll never have enough money or time to get back at them. They like the chaos and drama more than we like to eat and sleep.
It was a strong video‼️ I will never go back, that is for sure ‼️ I’m being silent to the others and the result seems to be good😊Thank you for your guidance all the time, Andrew❤️🌸
Once you’ve seen it, you can’t unsee it. 💯💯 Thank you for talking to us so adamantly about this. Us as victims have hearts, and when we are hovered we want to give narcs second, third chances, I am speaking for myself personally. But as you say don’t do it! Thank you😊
having broken the 4 ties has changed my life. there will be no regrets having made the decisions and removing myself out of that spider web/trap/broken soul. the best thing you can do is close that door and seal it shut and walk away from it it's over done go do your life❤
No, No, and No… and “if you didn’t hear me the answer is NO.”. Love this 💯 and I should make an emoji that adds 8 more zeros 😆😆😆 I’m celebrating my WINS.
Hi Andrew. You are such a fresh breath of air!😊 I felt like crying when I saw the cover title of this video cause it's exactly what I've been struggling with on and off since yesterday. So this video appeared at the perfect time. I will be saving it and will replay it whenever I feel tempted to go back to the torturous friendship that I had with my ex-best friend. So far, it's been 4 months that I have not spoken to her but I am trusting that my Jesus will continue to help me through this process. Because He has confirmed that it is His Will that I stay away from her. I will also continue to pray for everyone on this channel to receive healing and deliverance from the narcisstic people in their lives and also salvation for them if they do not know Jesus as their Lord & Savior. For He is The Way, The Truth and The Light. No man can come to The Father but only through The Son.🌝🕊 I'm also praying for you Andrew.😊God bless you and everyone on this channel. There is Hope in Jesus Christ! 🤗❤🙏🕊🔥⏰️
Such a great description of the cycle of narcissistic abuse. After you have left the relationship and are trying to heal, they come back and turn on their FAKE niceness and FAKE love, for a short period until they re-start your devaluation yet again.
Narcissist don't have compassion or a heart i believe people get it confused and use the word narcissist as a person that doesn't apologize.. It's more to it.. When you dont want to help a person anymore..they will reverse psychology it and call you crazy and a narcissist will have whole their whole family and friends obsessively monitor you 24/7! Thanks Andrew
I was a magnet for narcissists. Thank you for helping me get to the mountaintop of indifference which is peace. No more contact and no more chances is the only path to healing.
Never go back. I did because I didn’t know what I was dealing with. Covert narcissists are some of the worst people you will ever have to deal with. I regret so much. If you are dealing with one please get out before you have children. I am one of those survivors who shares children with a narcissist. I was discarded and would never file for divorce while my children were young because I couldn’t imagine my children being alone with that demon. But that is exactly what happens now during his custody time. I have tried to think of every way in my mind and research to fully move on and I am convinced it’s impossible until my children are older. I have very firm boundaries in place but having to deal with a demonic possession on a regular and routine basis forces me to revisit the abuse again and again and again. So videos like this - although I have been told I need to stop watching them - I can’t because they are a lifeline to help me validate this ongoing experience and bring my reality back to me. And even with all of that - I am so much better off out of that “marriage” than I was while I was in it. Blessings to all who endure this trauma and indescribable pain.
My husband drained our savings, locked me out of the house. Couple months later found a tracking device on my car. And this video comes at the perfect time. Questioning my decision because my daughter in law is making my life hell.
It is so sad to see there are 180K subscribed and I'm sure more are coming ....too many people dealing with these demon attached weak shallow souls, clearing out their residue is extremely hard as well!! Even past the dark night of the soul thing.. Super Ugh on that experience. Nope Nope Nope can't do it again! Peace Everyone XXOO
I’ve been watching these videos for 49 days now. 46 days ago I ran away from that narcissist demond. The reason I left besides the relationship being a nightmare, was because of your advice. Call my situation a reverse discard because maybe that person wanted me to move. It was not easy. Listening to your words helped me get through it and kept reminding me why I did what I did, and break contact. Everything you talk about is exactly what I went through. Today is the first day that I finally feel like I broke away from the soul tie and all ties. I finally don’t care and thank you for what you are doing
Go back to what ?? More abuse. Ya no thanks. Yes it was that bad and the worse relationship ever in every way. 😈Holy crap one more chance is like giving them a - bullet cause they missed their target prior. - - To finish you off !! -life ain’t a game. Thanks Andrew fir your words of wisdom. ❤🎉
Yes, like being transported to another dimension..you feeling like sn outsider looking in and only seeing a very disturbed person, not the person you had such decent times with in the beginning..
I think the more you heal, the more i am healing. Listening to you since 2021.. you have healed so much and i am happy that i am benefiting from it. I hope everyone understands how healed you are and wishing everyone here the same.
I escaped early one morning, no exit plan, walked away with just the clothes on my back. No Contact 3 years now. My "Why I won't/can"t go back list" has helped me stay away. After 48 years, he is dragging out the divorce like crazy. I'm patient, and I refuse to play his game.
Don't go back now or ever. Silence forever. Block on every platform. Don't peek at them on social media (aka frankly my dear, I don't give a damn), refuse to listen to flying monkeys, and just look ahead. What's ahead or what should be ahead is loving yourself through self care. it's all about you now. Exercise, get outside, laugh, and live again. Because with the narcissist you weren't living, you were stuck in purgatory...the land of the dead. 💪
Andrew, the timing of this video is mind boggling, it's exactly what's going on in my life right now. You are 100% right in all your bullet points. Even though in a way I still care about my ex-wife, I could not live another minute with her.
Andrew, this is truly one of your best! I'm living my best life as I continue to put in the work and heal. All 4 bonds ( emotional, physical, spiritual, financial) have been broken! I WILL NEVER ACCEPT A HOOVER; I WILL NEVER GO BACK! Hallelujah! Thank you for the knowledge, Andrew. NAMASTE ❤
Journaling helps peel the layers away....as it happens the goodness that was originally inside of you refills your system and heals. Gives you a chance to get things out and quietly cleanses. 😊❤
8:39 When is the narcissist not in my mind? I do not love her, I am not trauma bonded... but she lives in my mind because I want another hoover (which I will reject... again) only to reassure myself that I mattered to her... which I did not. This is why I ruminate. I want to matter and I want her to hurt the way that I hurt.. and she doesn't and she didn't... not even right after I asked her to vacate my home. And two years later I can't seem to let go that the loss of me didn't phase her in the slightest.
@@barrys7515 I understand all that cognitively. I know I did the right thing leaving her. What hurts is that I was so easily replaced... interchangable like throwing out an old pair of shoes for new. She has no conscience, no soul, she has no ability to love. Why do I obsess over a person like this? "I will find a center in you. I will chew it up and leave. I will work to elevate you just enough to bring you down." Sober by Tool
@@gangGreenthumbVery good song by Tool. Interesting how that song can relate to a toxic person/Narcissist. When in these relationships, you want validation and a "hit" or "fix" from the Narcissist. They SEEM like the answer to everything. But, as we ALL have learned, they are toxic as hell and bad for Us! You must stay away, go no-contact, block, get over & stay "sober" from the Narcissist. Forreal
I called my ex husband a Narcissist back in 2013 before I even new what a Narc was ! He was so cruel to me , and I divorced him after 9 months of marriage ! I did want to do it , but I had a tiny amount of self Love , respect & courage left ! One year later he came back begging and pleading with me to take him back , that things would be good and he still loved me and had learned from his mistakes ! He begged me to marry him again and I DID ! We even bought a house , After 5 years of the second marriage I was forced to divorce him again , he was worse the 2nd time and was very bitter against me for divorcing him the first time ! I have no regrets Thank God ♥
Wow you went through it twice and you survived. You are very strong to endure it twice over. Once was enough for me as it nearly took me and my kids down. I worked with a guy who was done over for all his possessions twice by the same woman. Even after he was done over he fell for it again a few years later. Then after all that he was done over by another woman. Now I'm listening to him tell me all about his new partner who I know and he is being done again for the 4th time. I'm so glad you are a survivor and are here learning and growing. Take care 😊
Thank you Andrew. I did accept the hoover in the past and you’re right, it only gets worse! Thank you. I know better now and declined the last attempts. The narc I was with fancies himself as a writer and artist. He told me he would never write about people he had negative experiences with or create characters and stories based on them because he doesn’t want to immortalise them! Imagine! I’ve never heard a more psychopathic reasoning around creative work. We all get affected by our experiences and write about them but a sociopath thinks differently. He also told me that people like me are a slave to our emotions and that feelings are a weakness!
There's a Pennywise and Myth of Antaeus component to these toxic creatures. The more you succumb to their intimidation tactics, the stronger their egocentricity becomes.
Hi Andrew, hope life's treating you kind. Just wanted to say am 14 months no contact, and feeling so much better, thanks so much to you, you taught me very well. it's certainly been a very long and difficult journey, but its certainly been worth.it .Had therapy I discarded him, best thing I ever did he done me a huge favour, I sing now in shower, I smile now where I hadn't done these things for so long, I feel more like me, thank the lord. And yesterday I got word of my new home, get the keys this week, can't wait n it's so exciting, this new chapter in my life.Will never break no contact, it works believe me. Everyone listen to Andrew, he speaks volumes, keep safe n keep strong, you can do this if I can, you can too. Much light n love to you all Avril 💕🏡🙏😇😊😘🏡
Forgive...not forget! I must remember this! The narcissist is patient and believe time will heal all wounds. I hope 10,15, 20 years from now, I won't forget what the ex narc did. Very tricky. They will never change
"You need to remember who these people are. They're not like you". This is an important point. A narcissist may be very persistent & convincing if they are looking to draw you back in. Great video Andrew. Very thorough. I resonate with all of it. Have a good night 🙂. Love your background 🌿 God bless ☀️
After the 2nd time of rekindling with the Narcissist, he kept asking me if I saw the good change in him. He was extra nice at first, then biti by bit, the more he talked the more the old him revealed. My trust in him was broken, I was acared to break off with him for fear of retaliation. Eventually, I said something to him that revealed I knew he hadn't changed..then .he ran for the hills. Good riddance! Smear campaign?? I asked God to handle that;!! Freedom is fantastic and Noooooo, I will never go back!
I’m sick of thinking about this woman every waking moment. It’s been almost 10 months of no contact since the most sudden bizarre breakup ever. I wish my mind would just stop and quit obsessing.
I learned that the grief process is different for everyone and has no timeline. With narcs, we grieve the pain for the personal slaughter and damage they put us through, the time lost and the what could have been had you not been abused bc let's face it.. We were in love with them at one time.The truth is hard as hell realizing they were never in love with us. Positive energy, support and healing your way 🙏🙌✨💫☀️
Thanks everyone, it’s nice to get some positive feedback. My friends and family think I should just get over and move on but they didn’t go through what I did.
I’ll never go back I’m still like wow how can person get that because envy etc sickening to be gangstalked by serval for one person just tells me that they is weak Ill let God have his way in this he do more than I can ❤thank you for your knowledge because I didn’t know such things thinking there for you but there not 😢
A narcissist is the worst evil and destructive force on this planet ...my big concern is I have a child with a monster. And i am stuck 12.000 km away to save and help my child from being destroyed by this terrible monster..so heartbreaking
Yes dont go back !!ever After 20 years ,I went back to look after my mother who had signs of dementia, society and others guilt tripped me I thought I could renew my life in a village I grew up in I was studying, looking after her ,planning to start A business , My mother didnt protect me my brothers with her Help ,took over after 5 years of caring for her ,not paid as a carer ,I was evicted ,I had no where to live , in 2 weeks my brothers took over ,put her in a home ,I lost everything I owned I didnt know my mother was a covert Narcissit I didnt know my brothers were Narcissistic They took away everything I wasn't invited to my mothers funeral 😔
Sorry to hear that..had same thing happen to me..looked after someone for years did all the hard work and along came the other narc family members ,bang they just throw u under the next bus..u walk away with not so much as a Thankyou.ltheres some sick evil fkers out there.lthe devil team..they are everywhere. I think we share hell down here with them..I will be in guard from now in,I don’t like living my life like that but wasted too much time helping others only for them not to be thankful..or just dump u out of their life.
I wanted to be a good person because that was the example that was shown to me by my dad. Regardless of what anyone says about him or what his past says about him. I still saw him as a good man who did good things
My exit plan was not having a plan. I just knew I needed to leave. And now I find myself in my current situation. I left that previous situation of my own accord because I could see that it was only suiting them. As long as I was there, they had control of how the story went. Now I'm writing a different story of how things actually were and actually went that can't be disproven by more lies and cover-ups. I was only in that previous situation as a form of control over me. Now they no longer have any control except the people in my surroundings. Which is still happening. It's been probably close to or about 2 months now since I left that situation. And they still refuse to accept that they lost. Still trying to assert their dominance. All while I'm still just doing my own thing. Happy to not be affected by them
So timely. My ex bf/co worker.has been trying to wear me down for months. Letters, empty promises, “work in progress”, triangulation. I resisted. Then he stopped, and I found myself disappointed. Nope, Staying on track
I really needed this message … I went from no contact with my mom for years to recently going low contact/ grey rock after years of Hoover/stalking tactics. She is an aging narcissist and has deteriorated. The first few interactions she kept her mask on but her manipulative and vindictive ways are showing and makes me feel regret and remorse for breaking no contact. It’s really tough regressing on my healing journey and Not knowing how to be strong when I feel so weak at this moment because lack of close personal relationships but a “relationship “ with a narc is no relationship at all it’s just another chance to hurt me again.
12 months ago, I left, went full No Contact. What I experienced you couldn’t make up. He was the most disordered man I’d ever known. Go back? Nope, nada, not today, not EVER!! Had I not figured him out and broken the trauma bond I would’ve ended up in a psychiatric hospital. I’m feeling so much better after processing the trauma and pain. I’ve wisdom and discernment now, happily single. I’m not trading my peace for just anyone 🕊 Thank you Andrew 🙏🏼
They start every sentence with the word l,I want,I want..I have. Video of them saying this at least 7 times in about ten seconds..they really have a sense of entitlement and everyone owes the,..if unhave a different opinion from them go into a instant sulk ,and take it personally cause u see something differently ..they must win at all costs ,all costs ,I think my ex was autistic and narcisstic rolled into one ..he would line up oven chips in a row on a baking tray …stack things in rows ,like complete control..he constantly would do stuff ,he didn’t like u doing ,yet do it himself and berate u for doing it..I got blamed for everything that went wrong in his sad little life..the last straw was him controlling me when I could or could not eat..the sad thing is u just can’t make them understand the error of their ways and that their behaviour is not acceptable to other people..I may write a book on this one day ..no one would be leave his nasty ways .they really wouldn’t.
Going backwards has never served me well in life. Going forward with clear thinking, healthy living, goal directed choices, with focus on the tasks at hand is the only way. Controlling well what I control produces amazing results. It doesn’t depend upon someone or something else. And living a life I choose is free of torture. Ultimately I’m better for this world.
Im trying to process everything my entire life i’ve been lied and manipulated. Everything was my fault . ive been walking on eggshells my whole life. Im depressed and struggling to get motivated. I miss enjoying life and the weather . Thank you Andrew ❤
I have been there. Total break down. I wasn't even able to get to work. I wished I was dead. But after watching all that videos and getting help from a Psychologist, I was able to break that emotional bond. But I have to say that the videos were more valuable. Most Psychologists are of little help, they don't really understand. Andrew does! It took me 2 years to leave! But now I even managed to go on vacation and was surprised that I didn't miss him and I had the best time since years. It was so peaceful and enjoyable. I finally understand that I am still able to enjoy life and that it is only possible without him. Please stay strong, pull through that. It is unbelievable hard, but you will be happy again! Trust me. Trust Andrew and all the people who went through the same hardships. You are valuable and loved ❤❤❤❤
@@zg6045 So many commenters ( Like You) have validated my thoughts, that videos on this channel are something extraordinary. It did change my thinking, perceptions and best of all, bolstered strength and a belief in myself.
@@zg6045 That’s amazing to hear .. Yes i need therapy don’t have money or health insurance to cover it been struggling to find work and get out of the house .
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For anyone thinking about going back to the narcissist and give them yet another chance.
Here is a friendly suggestion.
Make a list of all the bad things that did for you. Make a list of all the good. Notice which list is longer.
For the times, you feel bored or alone. You think to yourself, “it wasn’t that bad?” Take out your list. You will see it was.
You deserved better than what you got.
That’s exactly what I did to keep me grounded and to NEVER go back ❤️🩹
Excellent results speak for themselves
Abbbbbbsolutely works! The bad line is extra more longer....
That's exactly what i did 😂
Good advice. I'm on it.
When you look into the eyes of pure evil, you NEVER forget it. Don't ever take them back. Nothing good will come from it.
Absolutely, there’s something about their eyes when they say that the eyes are the window to soul this is correct. Unfortunately the person I was with literally looked like they had no soul, and now that he thinks that he’s a living God this makes sense
I noticed after awhile my ex's eyes looked creepy like snake eyes. I even told him that they looked like snake eyes and he got real quiet and weird. Found out soon enough he was a cheater and really was a snake. My new crush has big brown expressive eyes that look into your soul.
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I have a PURE EVIL BROTHER -IN LAW. HE LIVES IN FLORIDA!
No good what so ever will come out of it going back to a totally disturbed narcissist...their childhood trauma is so severe that the mind, body, spirit and soul are so damaged that their character has turned into a coldhearted robot ruled by artificial intelligente...all humanity, honesty and compassion has left them ...an evil and exploitative nightmare to be with
" You tolerated toxicity that you never knew it existed on the planet ". Andrew that absolutely SUMS UP the whole narcissistic experience. That is the ROOT of the whole thing. Karma eventually catches up. Meanwhile, we leave it all behind and evolve for real.
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Watching this at 7:00 am from a beach in Vietnam, I’m on my first week alone now. For some reason watching this made me go back to the beginning of the relationship, in the beginning I would never have tolerated the things that were going on by the end of the relationship., the narcissist really did a number on me.
I wish you all strength on your journey to your third self, stay strong on your journey to the pinnacle 💪
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Thank you for sharing..🇻🇳🌊☀️💜
The narcs sure are good at pulling numbers on people....good people!
Blessings
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Enjoy you day on the beach..
STAY STRONG!!! DON'T GO BACK!!!
No no no. To repeat things over and over expecting a different result is not a sign of being smart to quote Albert Einstein.
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To repeat things over and over expecting different results is the definition of insanity.
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone it was Mark Twain
INDIFFERENCE IS THE FINAL RELEASE.
I need to reach the indifferent phase, but I am new to this journey and it started a month ago
That's funny, (well not really) because i have often said the way my narcissist treated me was with indifference - - - the opposite of love.
please, do not go back to the narc. you CAN do life without them. break those ties. be true to yourself❤
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The bullying is insane, what a nasty thing to endure. Blame shame and constant upheavals. Andrew helping us so much!!!
Blame shame ….it was you! your actions are why I don’t mess with you blah blah blah
She’d try to blame shift ME toward the end, like how dare I check in to see if she’s OK? Yet she’d trample over my boundaries with no qualms. The narcissists are hypocrites and self-centered. It’s always a ‘rules for thee, but not for me’ strategy in their little playbook of punishment & manipulation.
Thank you. Possibly the hardest time of any empath’s life is healing past these relationships.
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💯 You become different in a better, stronger, and wiser way. But, healing is extremely hard and takes time.
I have been back and forth with my ex-boyfriend so many times but this time I have to keep him blocked and not get back together with him again. I can't go through the damage again. It was affecting my health. It was to the point where I was being gas lit on a daily basis and emotionally abused. No more. It's difficult realizing you really meant nothing to these people. 😢
Nothing will ever change with them. I now have a pace maker, my digestive system is riddled with disease. I was in great health when I met him three years ago. I'm almost an invalid now. I'm a mess. These videos are informative and helpful! Reading these comments helps a lot too.
They are groomers, abusers, gaslighters and scammers. If you go back they will groom, abuse, gaslight and scam you all over again. Don't do it ...self care and enjoy the little things in life and bit by bit heal from your horrid experience.
You nailed it Andrew! The narcissist is not stable or empathetic, end of story! You cannot build a life with a person like that. They will throw you under the bus first chance.
Be your own best friend,your loneliness will end😎
*THIS*
I left him, and he has been hoovering me for 3 months now. Excusing himself with big crocodile tears. Telling me he misses me so much and that his whole world has fallen apart ever since I left. It's one big show and all about him.. Again. One big show to get me back and start the whole façade again.
He didn't care about me during the relationship. He didn't care when he was devaluating, ignoring and manipulating me. He didn't care when he was giving me numerous silence treatments. He didn't care when he was mentally and physically abusing me.
And now finally I don't care about him anymore.
It took me 3 years to figure it out and have the courage to leave and stay away, but I made it. And if I can, you can. 💪
Take notes to remember how you felt en think about how you will feel when you'll go back again. It will be the same or even worse. Believe me. They can't and won't change.
Thank you Andrew ❤
PHYSICAL ABUSE LEADS TO DEATH SOME TIME.
@@MattyNelson-rs3ikexactly. That was the day I knew I had to run and never go back.
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So true. Narcs don't change. Ever!! The honeymoon phase gets shorter and shorter. Thank goodness we have the tools and support we need to move on!! I wish you many years of genuine happiness!!😊
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Why would I want to go back to feeling confused, sad, ugly, old, fat...Like I was never enough. I had no life of my own, was on call for the narcissist 24/7. NEVER going back to that. Over a year since the divorce and almost one year block and no contact. I feel so much better about myself and life since I removed the narcissist from my life.
Thank you Andrew for this message never go back,in my situation it over with us he never going to hoover me again unless I win the lottery or get a new car for him to ran back pretending he didn't mean to hurt me. Everything with him about making him look and feel good for us to ride around he pump my radio up so people can look at him he done that back in the day this just to re-idealize me not cause he care but his image. I realize now I was just the next victim take his responsibility cause he can't care for his self and them siblings not going to help him they love when I did for their brother that why they was so into me so much but when I start
call him out on his BS all the time the family didn't like I woke up and start taking up for myself they wanted me to take the abuse let him do him and accept and not say anything to him this why he went and got a new supply and move her in his momma. Yes they all don't ever haven't to speak, connect me,or
look for me ever again I be long gone and move back to the quiet country I prefer never ever connecting to these people again it a family cult. And if my ex-husband get ever get down and sick I don't want to know let that half sister, the new supply, the old supply anybody he put before me when I was down for him but he pick them over me can take care of him. I going to live my best life and in peace. Life to short to be around toxic people and being use and abuse for their own games. I can't change people and there decision or how they feel about me but i can change me love myself, be accountable and responsible for my action on what I do in life. Karma hit him long time ago in his childhood as a teenager and n
right now as a 58 year old grown man his past and what on his criminal record an felony it there for life and will always haunt my ex-husband for the rest his life until he die, he continues to sit in that shame everyday on the things he done to me, his first wife, and his momma why she gone today he got skeleton in his closet for real. If he get in trouble again he will be gone for life. Never ever will I go back true statement. Love your message ❤
You are my hero Andrew! This video couldn't have come at a more perfect time. I'm FINALLY divorcing my narcissistic husband after 32 yrs. I've got my health back, my head is on straight and in therapy. My husband did exactly what you said, he found God and cried at my feet and begged me not to leave. However, bc he isn't getting his way, he's still abusing me and doing it with a smile. You know the nice narcissist. LOL! I know your not surprised. My divorce is on April 22 if he doesn't drag it out, LOL! As a Christian, I really struggled for a while about leaving him, but then came to my senses! This video just confirms I'm doing the right thing. Thank you Andrew for staying strong and guiding us out of toxic horrible lives!!!! God bless you!
I am a Christian also. I have repented. I left my marriage of 32yrs. How he treated me during my dad’s death was the final straw. My daughter heard the verbal abuse and told me “that is enough “. She finally validated me leaving. It’s hard because I nursed him through cancer naturally and was cancer free. He started chewing hiding it from me. He now has lumps in his throat and is telling me he is going to die without me. God is in control.❤️✝️🙏
He would hide and/,or break my belongings.
Freedom rocks.❣️
Yes please never take them back,,,💪💪🌟🦋💜🕊️🙏🕯️
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I’ll never take him back, I’m so done blocked him and I’m solid. 💪🙏
6:40 Winning is instrumental for the narcissist. REMEMBER THAT!
Winning, at ALL COSTS !!!
Imagine it being your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins 🤦🏾♀️ people that do not care at all about your well being
It’s my maternal aunts and grandparents… very hard to come to terms with for sure.
The bells are a confirmation 🙏🕉️
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I really needed to see/hear this video at this very moment!!! I've been ruminating today 😢.
At the beginning of the rumination thing, it's flippin' mood altering. Then it recedes and you identify it a lot easier. Makes it way easier to control
and send to the cerebral trash bin.
Stay strong Amy, its hard I know.
Give it time, that will all go away I promise. Hang strong stay firm. There is better for you in the future. Stay positive.
Remember this mantra...
" loneliness lasts an hour or two, but Abuse, Nagging lasts a lifetime "...
Andrew is 💯 % right Well some people think they change ; I delayed my divorce for one year and it was the worst year of my life - narc wanted to triangle me - lie and pretend with me like working on our marriage incl Christian counseling and used married harlot with false cover ‘play date’ - no turning back now with physical abuse on top of all that! My Exit plan was executed two days later - bc I had it for one year ---
So even if you don’t leave - be ready to do so bc you never know what will transpire in a relationship with a narcissist
Powerful share...thanks 👍
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don't waste the best years of your life, being loyal to a toxic person.
one of the biggest mistakes people make in life is, thinking we have unlimited time.
time is free, but it's priceless. you can't own it, but you can use it. you can’t keep it, but you can spend it.
and once it's lost, you can never get it back. the problem with time is, eventually it always runs out.
the only thing a narcissist ever improves is their age.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
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@writeousone8749 thanks for your support.
-cheers, steven
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thanks for informative video.
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Right On Steven...
So lets make wise choices.now that the jig is up...because it's "TIME" to CARRY ON.
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I’m so glad I went no contact.
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Me too....Cheers 👍
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Of all the things you can endeavor into, not many have a predictable outcome. A relationshit with a malignant narcissist is the exception. Everyday out of it is like going from a fog to clarity journey. We as people whose vulnerability , caring & generousity were ensnared in a trap. Thats not self pandering. Its true of everyone here. As the days of zero contact clear the mind, it also escalates the zero tolerance of the past experience and any future exploitation becomes obvious quickly. It will cost possible relationships and / or friendships. Future and past. That is not the tragedy it once was. To further that thought, it will take you to a self taught immunity that some people already had that do not get caught up in this. They werent always immune. They just learned before you / I did.
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I enjoy listening to this man, don’t forget. They will repeatedly call you a lair when you remember things. Saying you have to remember ever detail because your a liar. I’m starting to really think once you see hear or understand your dealing with a nut job? Cut your losses and disappear. You’ll never have enough money or time to get back at them. They like the chaos and drama more than we like to eat and sleep.
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So true, I don,t feel safe anymore.
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Ok trust in the lord not man. Amen
This is the main thing it isn't Safe.. if there is No Trust =No Love =No empathy nor genuine connection.🙄🚫🚫🚫
Thank you for this advice! You are helping so many people.
The book of Proverbs 26:11 in the Bible says,
As a dog returns to eat his vomit, so a fool returns to his folly.
Do not look back, only forward.❤
It was a strong video‼️
I will never go back, that is for sure ‼️
I’m being silent to the others and the result seems to be good😊Thank you for your guidance all the time, Andrew❤️🌸
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I went back to just get punched in the face again and my cell phone smashed on the concrete. Yeah, I went back !
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They never change they just move onto the next victim
Once you’ve seen it, you can’t unsee it. 💯💯 Thank you for talking to us so adamantly about this. Us as victims have hearts, and when we are hovered we want to give narcs second, third chances, I am speaking for myself personally. But as you say don’t do it! Thank you😊
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Just got kicked down today from him. Came back to get his things and wow wee it was a dark day. Coverts are exactly as you described.
Coverts are the worst...just as my ex did.
@@beskarman38they are! And they’re so vengeful! They won’t rest until they destroy you. Mine destroyed his ex and has done the same to me now as well.
I'm really not sure how they work trying to blame and shame me when they locusted me and left me for dead.
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having broken the 4 ties has changed my life. there will be no regrets having made the decisions and removing myself out of that spider web/trap/broken soul. the best thing you can do is close that door and seal it shut and walk away from it it's over done go do your life❤
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After watching your videos and getting the wisdom I have been Zero Contact and my life is getting better each day! Don’t go back to your abuser!
No, No, and No… and “if you didn’t hear me the answer is NO.”.
Love this 💯 and I should make an emoji that adds 8 more zeros 😆😆😆
I’m celebrating my WINS.
Hi Andrew. You are such a fresh breath of air!😊 I felt like crying when I saw the cover title of this video cause it's exactly what I've been struggling with on and off since yesterday. So this video appeared at the perfect time. I will be saving it and will replay it whenever I feel tempted to go back to the torturous friendship that I had with my ex-best friend. So far, it's been 4 months that I have not spoken to her but I am trusting that my Jesus will continue to help me through this process. Because He has confirmed that it is His Will that I stay away from her. I will also continue to pray for everyone on this channel to receive healing and deliverance from the narcisstic people in their lives and also salvation for them if they do not know Jesus as their Lord & Savior. For He is The Way, The Truth and The Light. No man can come to The Father but only through The Son.🌝🕊 I'm also praying for you Andrew.😊God bless you and everyone on this channel. There is Hope in Jesus Christ! 🤗❤🙏🕊🔥⏰️
Such a great description of the cycle of narcissistic abuse. After you have left the relationship and are trying to heal, they come back and turn on their FAKE niceness and FAKE love, for a short period until they re-start your devaluation yet again.
Accountability is the New Era.
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Narcissist don't have compassion or a heart i believe people get it confused and use the word narcissist as a person that doesn't apologize..
It's more to it..
When you dont want to help a person anymore..they will reverse psychology it and call you crazy and a narcissist will have whole their whole family and friends obsessively monitor you 24/7!
Thanks Andrew
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I was a magnet for narcissists. Thank you for helping me get to the mountaintop of indifference which is peace. No more contact and no more chances is the only path to healing.
I can,t unsee it.
Consider that a blessing ❤
Congratulations, you just inherited discernment 😊
@LuckiestStarByFar knowledge is power! 😉
I was just terrible at the Hoover - grade F for sure but now I know better - don’t accept ; don’t text ; don’t email ; don’t talk about anything
Never go back. I did because I didn’t know what I was dealing with. Covert narcissists are some of the worst people you will ever have to deal with. I regret so much. If you are dealing with one please get out before you have children. I am one of those survivors who shares children with a narcissist. I was discarded and would never file for divorce while my children were young because I couldn’t imagine my children being alone with that demon. But that is exactly what happens now during his custody time. I have tried to think of every way in my mind and research to fully move on and I am convinced it’s impossible until my children are older. I have very firm boundaries in place but having to deal with a demonic possession on a regular and routine basis forces me to revisit the abuse again and again and again. So videos like this - although I have been told I need to stop watching them - I can’t because they are a lifeline to help me validate this ongoing experience and bring my reality back to me. And even with all of that - I am so much better off out of that “marriage” than I was while I was in it. Blessings to all who endure this trauma and indescribable pain.
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My husband drained our savings, locked me out of the house. Couple months later found a tracking device on my car. And this video comes at the perfect time. Questioning my decision because my daughter in law is making my life hell.
It is so sad to see there are 180K subscribed and I'm sure more are coming ....too many people dealing with these demon attached weak shallow souls, clearing out their residue is extremely hard as well!! Even past the dark night of the soul thing.. Super Ugh on that experience. Nope Nope Nope can't do it again! Peace Everyone XXOO
I’ve been watching these videos for 49 days now. 46 days ago I ran away from that narcissist demond. The reason I left besides the relationship being a nightmare, was because of your advice. Call my situation a reverse discard because maybe that person wanted me to move. It was not easy. Listening to your words helped me get through it and kept reminding me why I did what I did, and break contact. Everything you talk about is exactly what I went through. Today is the first day that I finally feel like I broke away from the soul tie and all ties. I finally don’t care and thank you for what you are doing
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Excuse me, but I live vicariously through your triumph! Well done!💪👍🙏
I hope that I never trust him again. I went no contact, blocked everything i could. It is difficult, but I am now getting stronger.
Go back to what ?? More abuse. Ya no thanks. Yes it was that bad and the worse relationship ever in every way.
😈Holy crap one more chance is like giving them a - bullet cause they missed their target prior. -
- To finish you off !! -life ain’t a game.
Thanks Andrew fir your words of wisdom. ❤🎉
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When you finally see their true nature its like waking up from the matrix
Certainly is!!! 👍
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That's exactly what it is 👍
Yes, like being transported to another dimension..you feeling like sn outsider looking in and only seeing a very disturbed person, not the person you had such decent times with in the beginning..
They are liars....they will hurt you again. They lie.
Don’t ever go back!!! Their true assignment is to Destroy you!! It’s very spiritual. Choose you! 🥰❤️🌹
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Thank you for the heads up Andrew! Almost 5 years no contact!
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Good job, Phil! 💯👏👏👏❤️☺️
I so needed to hear your voice and the sound of the rain falling in this video. Very comforting! Thank you, Andrew! 💙
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I think the more you heal, the more i am healing. Listening to you since 2021.. you have healed so much and i am happy that i am benefiting from it. I hope everyone understands how healed you are and wishing everyone here the same.
I escaped early one morning, no exit plan, walked away with just the clothes on my back. No Contact 3 years now. My "Why I won't/can"t go back list" has helped me stay away. After 48 years, he is dragging out the divorce like crazy. I'm patient, and I refuse to play his game.
Protect your energy and your peace. 😊
Don't go back now or ever. Silence forever. Block on every platform. Don't peek at them on social media (aka frankly my dear, I don't give a damn), refuse to listen to flying monkeys, and just look ahead. What's ahead or what should be ahead is loving yourself through self care. it's all about you now. Exercise, get outside, laugh, and live again. Because with the narcissist you weren't living, you were stuck in purgatory...the land of the dead. 💪
Brilliant writing and so true
Man, that's deep! And, so very true.
Andrew, the timing of this video is mind boggling, it's exactly what's going on in my life right now.
You are 100% right in all your bullet points. Even though in a way I still care about my ex-wife, I could not live another minute with her.
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When you know, you know !!!
"Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their disrespect. ( Read That Again!)"
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Great Share Sylvia.❣️
Ain't that THE TRUTH!!! 👍
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Andrew, this is truly one of your best! I'm living my best life as I continue to put in the work and heal. All 4 bonds ( emotional, physical, spiritual, financial) have been broken!
I WILL NEVER ACCEPT A HOOVER; I WILL NEVER GO BACK! Hallelujah! Thank you for the knowledge, Andrew. NAMASTE ❤
Beautiful message of empowerment and healing..💜🙏😊🙌
my mother is a narcissist and she tried to kill me(poisoned) for my house , now I shake when in the proximity of evil / narcissists
Journaling helps peel the layers away....as it happens the goodness that was originally inside of you refills your system and heals. Gives you a chance to get things out and quietly cleanses. 😊❤
No i will never go back to my ex narc. That i know for sure. Only moving forward to a much better life. 🤗💜
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8:39 When is the narcissist not in my mind? I do not love her, I am not trauma bonded... but she lives in my mind because I want another hoover (which I will reject... again) only to reassure myself that I mattered to her... which I did not. This is why I ruminate. I want to matter and I want her to hurt the way that I hurt.. and she doesn't and she didn't... not even right after I asked her to vacate my home. And two years later I can't seem to let go that the loss of me didn't phase her in the slightest.
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THIS 2 SHALL PASS.BE GENTLE TO YOURSELF..
@@barrys7515 I understand all that cognitively. I know I did the right thing leaving her. What hurts is that I was so easily replaced... interchangable like throwing out an old pair of shoes for new. She has no conscience, no soul, she has no ability to love. Why do I obsess over a person like this?
"I will find a center in you. I will chew it up and leave. I will work to elevate you just enough to bring you down." Sober by Tool
@@gangGreenthumbVery good song by Tool. Interesting how that song can relate to a toxic person/Narcissist. When in these relationships, you want validation and a "hit" or "fix" from the Narcissist. They SEEM like the answer to everything. But, as we ALL have learned, they are toxic as hell and bad for Us! You must stay away, go no-contact, block, get over & stay "sober" from the Narcissist. Forreal
Go no contact, and dont give them ANY in. Block them from your phone and mind as well.
I called my ex husband a Narcissist back in 2013 before I even new what a Narc was ! He was so cruel to me , and I divorced him after 9 months of marriage ! I did want to do it , but I had a tiny amount of self Love , respect & courage left ! One year later he came back begging and pleading with me to take him back , that things would be good and he still loved me and had learned from his mistakes ! He begged me to marry him again and I DID ! We even bought a house , After 5 years of the second marriage I was forced to divorce him again , he was worse the 2nd time and was very bitter against me for divorcing him the first time ! I have no regrets Thank God ♥
Rochelle, please stay out and safe.⭐❣️
@@roslyncerro1263 Thank you
Wow you went through it twice and you survived. You are very strong to endure it twice over. Once was enough for me as it nearly took me and my kids down. I worked with a guy who was done over for all his possessions twice by the same woman. Even after he was done over he fell for it again a few years later. Then after all that he was done over by another woman. Now I'm listening to him tell me all about his new partner who I know and he is being done again for the 4th time. I'm so glad you are a survivor and are here learning and growing. Take care 😊
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So true i was warned you musnt go back
Went back for my children .Big mistake they want revenge and final disgard..never go back
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Thank you Andrew. I did accept the hoover in the past and you’re right, it only gets worse! Thank you. I know better now and declined the last attempts.
The narc I was with fancies himself as a writer and artist. He told me he would never write about people he had negative experiences with or create characters and stories based on them because he doesn’t want to immortalise them! Imagine! I’ve never heard a more psychopathic reasoning around creative work. We all get affected by our experiences and write about them but a sociopath thinks differently. He also told me that people like me are a slave to our emotions and that feelings are a weakness!
There's a Pennywise and Myth of Antaeus component to these toxic creatures. The more you succumb to their intimidation tactics, the stronger their egocentricity becomes.
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I feel so silly for letting her back into my life. Kindness being taken for weakness is spot on. Gave me nothing but misery.
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❤Thank you Andrew you help keep me strong 💪 ❤❤❤❤😘
Hi Andrew, hope life's treating you kind. Just wanted to say am 14 months no contact, and feeling so much better, thanks so much to you, you taught me very well. it's certainly been a very long and difficult journey, but its certainly been worth.it .Had therapy I discarded him, best thing I ever did he done me a huge favour, I sing now in shower, I smile now where I hadn't done these things for so long, I feel more like me, thank the lord. And yesterday I got word of my new home, get the keys this week, can't wait n it's so exciting, this new chapter in my life.Will never break no contact, it works believe me. Everyone listen to Andrew, he speaks volumes, keep safe n keep strong, you can do this if I can, you can too. Much light n love to you all Avril 💕🏡🙏😇😊😘🏡
this is why vour videos are so helpful, I watch them to remind me of just how toxic these evil people are.
Forgive...not forget! I must remember this! The narcissist is patient and believe time will heal all wounds. I hope 10,15, 20 years from now, I won't forget what the ex narc did. Very tricky. They will never change
"You need to remember who these people are. They're not like you". This is an important point. A narcissist may be very persistent & convincing if they are looking to draw you back in. Great video Andrew. Very thorough. I resonate with all of it. Have a good night 🙂. Love your background 🌿 God bless ☀️
Thank you Andrew!!!! So on point it’s not even funny.
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After the 2nd time of rekindling with the Narcissist, he kept asking me if I saw the good change in him. He was extra nice at first, then biti by bit, the more he talked the more the old him revealed. My trust in him was broken, I was acared to break off with him for fear of retaliation. Eventually, I said something to him that revealed I knew he hadn't changed..then .he ran for the hills. Good riddance! Smear campaign?? I asked God to handle that;!! Freedom is fantastic and Noooooo, I will never go back!
I’m sick of thinking about this woman every waking moment. It’s been almost 10 months of no contact since the most sudden bizarre breakup ever. I wish my mind would just stop and quit obsessing.
Keep watching 🙃you’re on the path
I believe that is the spiritual bond we have with them. I do deep breathing exercise and exhale that lingering obsession. Remember that smirk! 💪🏃🏾♂
I learned that the grief process is different for everyone and has no timeline. With narcs, we grieve the pain for the personal slaughter and damage they put us through, the time lost and the what could have been had you not been abused bc let's face it.. We were in love with them at one time.The truth is hard as hell realizing they were never in love with us. Positive energy, support and healing your way 🙏🙌✨💫☀️
Thanks everyone, it’s nice to get some positive feedback. My friends and family think I should just get over and move on but they didn’t go through what I did.
Write an ick list. A List of all the crappy things she did or behaved.. this will remind you of why you left..
I’ll never go back I’m still like wow how can person get that because envy etc sickening to be gangstalked by serval for one person just tells me that they is weak Ill let God have his way in this he do more than I can ❤thank you for your knowledge because I didn’t know such things thinking there for you but there not 😢
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A narcissist is the worst evil and destructive force on this planet ...my big concern is I have a child with a monster. And i am stuck 12.000 km away to save and help my child from being destroyed by this terrible monster..so heartbreaking
It’s suicidal to think you should work on it, and it is dangerous!
☝️☝️😁❤️💜❤️💜 Hope you’re having a WONDERFUL Friday Andrew and friends!!!
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Yes dont go back !!ever
After 20 years ,I went back to look after my mother who had signs of dementia, society and others guilt tripped me
I thought I could renew my life in a village I grew up in
I was studying, looking after her ,planning to start
A business ,
My mother didnt protect me my brothers with her
Help ,took over after 5 years of caring for her ,not paid as a carer ,I was evicted ,I had no where to live , in 2 weeks my brothers took over ,put her in a home ,I lost everything I owned
I didnt know my mother was a covert Narcissit
I didnt know my brothers were Narcissistic
They took away everything
I wasn't invited to my mothers funeral 😔
Sorry to hear that..had same thing happen to me..looked after someone for years did all the hard work and along came the other narc family members ,bang they just throw u under the next bus..u walk away with not so much as a Thankyou.ltheres some sick evil fkers out there.lthe devil team..they are everywhere. I think we share hell down here with them..I will be in guard from now in,I don’t like living my life like that but wasted too much time helping others only for them not to be thankful..or just dump u out of their life.
I wanted to be a good person because that was the example that was shown to me by my dad. Regardless of what anyone says about him or what his past says about him. I still saw him as a good man who did good things
My exit plan was not having a plan. I just knew I needed to leave. And now I find myself in my current situation. I left that previous situation of my own accord because I could see that it was only suiting them. As long as I was there, they had control of how the story went. Now I'm writing a different story of how things actually were and actually went that can't be disproven by more lies and cover-ups. I was only in that previous situation as a form of control over me. Now they no longer have any control except the people in my surroundings. Which is still happening. It's been probably close to or about 2 months now since I left that situation. And they still refuse to accept that they lost. Still trying to assert their dominance. All while I'm still just doing my own thing. Happy to not be affected by them
3 years post narc, no contact. Good reminder video!!!
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So timely. My ex bf/co worker.has been trying to wear me down for months. Letters, empty promises, “work in progress”, triangulation.
I resisted.
Then he stopped, and I found myself disappointed.
Nope,
Staying on track
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I really needed this message … I went from no contact with my mom for years to recently going low contact/ grey rock after years of Hoover/stalking tactics.
She is an aging narcissist and has deteriorated. The first few interactions she kept her mask on but her manipulative and vindictive ways are showing and makes me feel regret and remorse for breaking no contact.
It’s really tough regressing on my healing journey and Not knowing how to be strong when I feel so weak at this moment because lack of close personal relationships but a “relationship “ with a narc is no relationship at all it’s just another chance to hurt me again.
Solid video for the narc relationship as a whole
12 months ago, I left, went full No Contact.
What I experienced you couldn’t make up. He was the most disordered man I’d ever known.
Go back?
Nope, nada, not today, not EVER!!
Had I not figured him out and broken the trauma bond I would’ve ended up in a psychiatric hospital.
I’m feeling so much better after processing the trauma and pain.
I’ve wisdom and discernment now, happily single.
I’m not trading my peace for just anyone 🕊
Thank you Andrew 🙏🏼
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💯💯💯 same WE DID IT!!! miraculous xo💜🙏
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I've been listening to you videos for 3 years. Thank you for helping me understand what happened. God bless ❤
Another great video, Andrew. Thank you for sharing. Even after doing the work and healing. Sometimes, we (I) need to be reminded. Thank you again. 😊
Welcome always 🙌💜😊
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The narcissist is poison.
I remember Once.. Her words Were.... to me.. ONCE.. there Are.. Plenty of People out There..!
100%!!!
They start every sentence with the word l,I want,I want..I have. Video of them saying this at least 7 times in about ten seconds..they really have a sense of entitlement and everyone owes the,..if unhave a different opinion from them go into a instant sulk ,and take it personally cause u see something differently ..they must win at all costs ,all costs ,I think my ex was autistic and narcisstic rolled into one ..he would line up oven chips in a row on a baking tray …stack things in rows ,like complete control..he constantly would do stuff ,he didn’t like u doing ,yet do it himself and berate u for doing it..I got blamed for everything that went wrong in his sad little life..the last straw was him controlling me when I could or could not eat..the sad thing is u just can’t make them understand the error of their ways and that their behaviour is not acceptable to other people..I may write a book on this one day ..no one would be leave his nasty ways .they really wouldn’t.
So true
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Going backwards has never served me well in life. Going forward with clear thinking, healthy living, goal directed choices, with focus on the tasks at hand is the only way. Controlling well what I control produces amazing results. It doesn’t depend upon someone or something else. And living a life I choose is free of torture. Ultimately I’m better for this world.
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Excellent!
Im trying to process everything my entire life i’ve been lied and manipulated. Everything was my fault . ive been walking on eggshells my whole life. Im depressed and struggling to get motivated. I miss enjoying life and the weather . Thank you Andrew ❤
I have been there. Total break down. I wasn't even able to get to work. I wished I was dead. But after watching all that videos and getting help from a Psychologist, I was able to break that emotional bond. But I have to say that the videos were more valuable. Most Psychologists are of little help, they don't really understand. Andrew does! It took me 2 years to leave! But now I even managed to go on vacation and was surprised that I didn't miss him and I had the best time since years. It was so peaceful and enjoyable. I finally understand that I am still able to enjoy life and that it is only possible without him. Please stay strong, pull through that. It is unbelievable hard, but you will be happy again! Trust me. Trust Andrew and all the people who went through the same hardships. You are valuable and loved ❤❤❤❤
You have every right to deserve to live life fully. It's never too late to start over to live well again. You can do this and do it!! 😊❤🙏
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@@zg6045 So many commenters ( Like You) have validated my thoughts, that videos on this channel are something
extraordinary. It did change my thinking, perceptions and best of all, bolstered strength and a belief in myself.
@@zg6045 That’s amazing to hear .. Yes i need therapy don’t have money or health insurance to cover it been struggling to find work and get out of the house .