Letter E- Engage with their responses! An analogy I learnt recently to keep the conversation going is to think of a hacky sack! When the little sack is dropped pick it up again by asking another question or comment to restart the hacky sack conversation!
One of my biggest problems when talking to someone new is going on the ‘self-monitor’ - almost by reflex. That tends to get eroded very quickly when talking around a subject in which I feel I’m in my ‘element’ and the smoothness of the conversation ramps up and I feel pretty good about it. But at the start I have this apprehension that the person will be rude out of nowhere and more importantly, not being able to deal with it. In a nutshell it’s the fear of humiliation and dejection which I think the self-monitor reflex is ‘protecting’ me from.
Hi Dr Grace, Thanks for being a communicator coach in this channel .I am still not confident in the topic on listening skill. Ability to listen and anticiptate. Thank you Dr Grace .
Be careful, sometimes people are to friendly , we must have red flags. I work in Jeffersonvill Indiana, Shepardvill Kentucky which growing up I learned judo, kendo , aikido and jujutsu These skill have protected me especially working in the south California. 🇲🇽🇯🇵🇺🇸🏄🏽♂️🌊🌊🌊🌊
Hi Dr Grace! I was wondering what you would do if someone was aggressively flirting with your boyfriend or acting destructive toward you out of jealousy? Especially someone louder than you. I've met quite a few people who seem histrionic and ended up affecting my self confidence or personal life. I don't want to have my worth and regard be at the will of an aggressive, jealous, disrespectful attention seeker. Long winded description, but part of me feels there must be a formula for this I will understand with age. I have seen this kind of behavior in academic, work, and personal settings - competitive women trying to bury me or exclude me to advance themselves, take something from me, or just feel better about themselves. I am introverted, socially anxious and have se self esteem issues but I actively work on these things.
I always kill the conversation. Person: Hi Me: Hi Person: How's it going? Me: Good, bye. Person: (wtf?) Me: Hi, how's it going? Person: Good, you? Me: OK, bye Person: ...... Person: Hi, how's it going? Me: Good, bye. People can't answer me back after I say "bye". No matter what you ask, I'll always add "bye" at the end. Sometimes when people ask me for something, I always answer with "No".
I’ve been looking for a channel like this for so long! Great content
Letter E- Engage with their responses! An analogy I learnt recently to keep the conversation going is to think of a hacky sack! When the little sack is dropped pick it up again by asking another question or comment to restart the hacky sack conversation!
One of my biggest problems when talking to someone new is going on the ‘self-monitor’ - almost by reflex. That tends to get eroded very quickly when talking around a subject in which I feel I’m in my ‘element’ and the smoothness of the conversation ramps up and I feel pretty good about it. But at the start I have this apprehension that the person will be rude out of nowhere and more importantly, not being able to deal with it. In a nutshell it’s the fear of humiliation and dejection which I think the self-monitor reflex is ‘protecting’ me from.
I'm going to comment twice. This video and your articulation videos are so helpful! I really appreciate your thoughts and direction!!
Hi Dr Grace,
Thanks for being a communicator coach in this channel .I am still not confident in the topic on listening skill. Ability to listen and anticiptate.
Thank you Dr Grace
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Great stuff! Thank you 😁 my favourite is declaring my experience.
Great tips....I like the way you speak. It's a pleasure listening to you. My favourite tip is D. Dive in with a handshake. Thank you.
Be careful, sometimes people are to friendly , we must have red flags. I work in Jeffersonvill Indiana, Shepardvill Kentucky which growing up I learned judo, kendo , aikido and jujutsu These skill have protected me especially working in the south California. 🇲🇽🇯🇵🇺🇸🏄🏽♂️🌊🌊🌊🌊
I still introvert, but I try how to be more active person so that. I able faster to develop my skill.
Not a md but great intuition
2:16 Ask in context
4:42 Emotional Context
6:35 communicate your experience in the moment
Thank you 😊Dear Dr.grace Lee.i am glad find your video I am from Nepal 🇳🇵...STAY safe STAY happy 😊
Hi Dr Grace! I was wondering what you would do if someone was aggressively flirting with your boyfriend or acting destructive toward you out of jealousy? Especially someone louder than you. I've met quite a few people who seem histrionic and ended up affecting my self confidence or personal life. I don't want to have my worth and regard be at the will of an aggressive, jealous, disrespectful attention seeker. Long winded description, but part of me feels there must be a formula for this I will understand with age. I have seen this kind of behavior in academic, work, and personal settings - competitive women trying to bury me or exclude me to advance themselves, take something from me, or just feel better about themselves. I am introverted, socially anxious and have se self esteem issues but I actively work on these things.
So practical and so clear
Great
Hi Dr. Grace, excellent advice. Thanks.
Thanks for the content
Good
Thank you ❤️
You're welcome, Matsaw.
Do people still shake hands?
Thank you Dr. Grace. All the tips are great. Love viewing your videos. They are very helpful..
Glad that you find my videos helpful. It's a pleasure to have you here in this space!
How can we talk to strangers in virtual setting of office
With COVID no one like to shake hands
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I always kill the conversation.
Person: Hi
Me: Hi
Person: How's it going?
Me: Good, bye.
Person: (wtf?)
Me: Hi, how's it going?
Person: Good, you?
Me: OK, bye
Person: ......
Person: Hi, how's it going?
Me: Good, bye.
People can't answer me back after I say "bye".
No matter what you ask, I'll always add "bye" at the end.
Sometimes when people ask me for something, I always answer with "No".
i wach yuor vidio becos yuo speak so. nicly i praktic my Englsh
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