What up you guys. I hope this video helps you out on how we got married as an #interfaith relationship or #interracial wedding 👰🏾. Life should not be that difficult. Do what’s best for you.
Our wedding was simple, I respected her ways and she respected my ways. Our common denominator is the God of Abraham Isaac and Yakob. We believe Him and we believe in whomever do what's right will see it and whomever do what's wrong will see it.
By the way, for our beautiful boys they have the right to decide for themselves. The almighty as He mention it (SWT) He guide whomever He wish and keep astray whomever He wish. Peace! Assalamu 3ala man ataba3a al Huda.
Thank you for this video,,,I'm a Christian raised in an adventist home and my boyfriend is muslim,we are thinking of getting married but don't know how to do it...
Peace my sister. I consider myself a Muslim Insha'Allah and my wife consider herself a devoted Christian from what she call Pentecostal evangelist church. She is black and I'm white And we have two beautiful boys masha'Allah.
Our innocent children do not bequeath from the fabricated niches, but from the spirit of reverence. PS: 28:56. You cannot guide the ones you love. God is the only One who guides in accordance with His will, and in accordance with His knowledge of those who deserve the guidance.) ( سورة القصص )
@@danielyonas9928: Pente, you mean the Shaytan and his soldiers debates? 😂 PS: And when you draw close to God, God will draw close to you. Wash your hands you sinners, and let your hearts be filled with God alone to make them pure and true to Him.
😳 I don’t see how This can even work? Bible says not to be unequally yoked for a reason. Each religion doesn’t allow you to mix with other religions especially when raising kids. It usually can’t work and works against each other.
Thank you for doing this video. I was raised in a Catholic family and I’m dating a Muslim man. And we’re talking about marriage and this helps a lot, thank you. ❤️
@@briannadsouza6266 I believe I will, I just want to be sure I take it serious and understand everything. I’m still learning about it now. But thank you girl
@@Mulata87 if your bf loves you truly he will love your God too. I don't get it why people think that bf is first then God. I will never disappoint my God for a men!
I'm so proud of you! I appreciate your sharing your story! I'm a Christian whose dating a Muslim man, who grew uo Catholic and Baptist. He is the most phenomenal man that I have ever dated in my lifetime! My relationships with Christian men did not work. For me it's nit about our different faiths only but how we connect with eachother. My faith is extremely important to me and I will mot abandon it or my Savior. Additionally, I will not really hate myself to being with a man just because he's Christian, who's threatened by my accomplishment, and who's emotionally abusive and distant towards me because of his own insecurities and disfunctionality. I have so much more in common with my guy now that I can barely fathom it! He is so far beyond any other man that I've been with. I could group them all together and they wouldn't even come close to him, and for that I thank my Lord Jesus
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so conflicted right now. My bf who proposed to me is Muslim and I’m Christian and he’s cool with my faith and doesn’t make me convert. I’m like you, I’ve never met a man like him and dating Christian men was a big disappointment. I really really wanna marry by bf but we are “unequally yoked” so idk what to do. We don’t want kids either so it’s not like we would be raising a child with two faiths. It’s just us. Help :(
Sister, just consider how will you raise your children (if you have any) should the relationship progress? It is good you are not abandoning your faith in the Lord but will the same be true for how you raise your kids? Will he be hsppy to raise them to believe in Jesus? Wishing you well and God bless!
Thank you for sharing this video. My boyfriend and I are thinking of doing the same. He is Muslim and I Catholic. We are currently talking through how we would work long term and when children come along. I said the same thing as you as far as our children will grow to choose their paths. ❤ this video was a breath of fresh air!
Hello sister ... I am a Solomon Islander, a Black lady as well and my husband is Bangladeshi Muslim... Now I just came back from my Muslim Religious Marriage... Happy to see you and I felt like knowing you someday... Wish you happy marriage ♥️♥️
My bf is Muslim and I’m Christian and he’s proposed already twice and I keep saying wait. No. We aren’t the same faith. It’s KILLING me. He is perfect for me. He’s the male version of me. I won’t find another man like him trust me. I’m super super selective and don’t click much with anyone but him? Yes. Idk what to do
Sister, this is only the beginning. Please never put a man before God. Either let this man come to your faith so you have an agreement or respectfully go different ways before it progresses. Most importantly, how will you raise your children? And if you are born again surely you would not change your faith? I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as followers of Christ when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage. Interfaith marriages work best if neither person is very religious.
This video enlightened me...I also have a Turkish boyfriend. Thank you for making a video like this. God bless you. I am also a Christian and my bf is a muslim
How do you do it? How strong is your commitment to Christianity and Jesus? I wanna marry my Muslim bf but idk. I don’t wanna anger God and sin even more against Him
@@FransceneJK98 if your relationship with God is strong you will never betray Jesus. Be careful there are 2 curses. 1 curse is when God curses and it’s difficult to break and second is when peoples curses you. The one from the people is easy breakable but the other one from God is not, be very very very careful and never turn your back to God no matter what. Ask Him to send you the one He created for you God bless 💕
Sisters, I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as Christians when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals and read the bible? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage
@chayil7489 I was. Lol. I am actually a retired Pentecostal tongue speaking pastor and bishop, world wide evangelist, and missionary. I spent my whole life in ministry and speaking in tongues, “in relationship with Jesus and Holy Spirit”, casting out demons, healing the sick, all over the world on all continents and all the other signs, miracles and wonders that follow and all those things. I also hold ministry theological degrees thru doctoral levels. I pastored churches in many countries for decades. But I now disagree with all that. My beliefs and understandings have changed. Once you actually study church history, and the Bible deeply, and theology and learn the truth. You will also see all the holes and gaps and twisted things that have been added over the centuries. Christianity can’t be trusted and is false. It’s fake news and no Christian can even agree on anything. There’s a reason why it’s failed and that there are so many tens of thousands of church splits and hypocrites and people who have left it. Even thousands of us pastors, priests, clergy and bishops are leaving in droves and becoming Muslim. Allhamdulilah! I’d advise you to learn the truth and get educated. Stop following doctrines of men.
You need to go back to Allah and Islam and re learn it in truth. There’s no faith like it. It’s not a religion but a true and beautiful deep rooted time tested faith and relationship with our creator! Christianity is proven to be a man made twisted religion of Paul.
I'm dating a Muslim man younger than me but I really love him even if we just started. He keeps in asking me for marriage. I'm a single mom. I love him and he did not ask me to convert. I hope it will work for both of the families.
Thank you for making this video, Winifred. I'm Haitian Catholic and my boyfriend is Senegalese Muslim. I know that this is common especially in the Eastern hemisphere, but I'm wondering how this would work for me and him for the long term.
Watch positive videos about other people's relations with muslims. How long have u known this person? How much do you know about the way of life?. Would you move country?
Can you imagine Mary the Mother of Jesus marriying a Druze, or a Hyndu, or a Buddist?. Mary suppose to be the highest example of virtue to Catholic Women. At least get to Know the religion you are claiming
Consider how you will raise your children to follow Christ and if he will accept this. Sticking point for many relationships. You would want your children to be saved after all.
Yea I was dating a Muslim until he told me he is allowed to have 4 wives lol and our kids have to be Muslim lol. I just broke up because we Christians don’t share that belief
Muslim men are abusing this. There are conditions to taking more than one wife that MOST men don't meet, not just financial and treating them equally. It was prescribed to safeguard the rights of orphans (for example during war time), by marrying their mothers, ensuring that dependent women and children were taken care of. But a man can't decide to marry women for social purposes and in doing so, not do justice to his existing wife. So, yes permitted by the Quran but only in conditions of great social hardship and for humanitarian purposes.
To remain in Christian muslim inter faith marriage, both of you must consider to know deep into the knowledge of your spouse religion. What are the similiraties and differences and what is the truth in it, which will really tighten the bonding.
I mean this with all respect. I don’t know how you or other Christians have got passed the conviction of the Holy Spirit. I’m Christian and have dated Muslim men(and men w no religion) Even men who claimed Christianity but not walking w God. Every time the Holy Spirits been like NOPE. (And yes it is forbidden for Muslim women to marry other religions. Muslims men can marry Jewish and Christian women.)
Thank you for this video! I'm Japanese. I'm an atheist. I'm dating with muslim man. He is Malay. We don't talk about marriage that much because we are still students. Even if I can't get marry him in the future, I want to live with him. I wanna be positive like you＾＾ you look so happy☺️ Thanks! (I'm still studying English. I'm sorry if my english is werid.)
Why don’t you believe in God if I may ask?? The fact that we are breathing today shows the power of God don’t you think?? Or do you think it’s by your own power that you’re alive??
guys don't convert because of someone(husband or wife) but start learning each others religion before marriage, if you share the same religion that's the best for you both.
Did your husband's family welcome you into their family. The reason why I'm asking is my boyfriend is Muslim and I'm Christian and I want to have a relationship with his family
Hello beautiful family 👋 Aiiiiiideeeeen OMG he's such a cutie 💖mashAllah !!!! And the fact that he calls you "anne" and you guys speak Turkish with each other 💖 oh my, this is sooo adorable 😍😍😍 Thank you so much for encouraging people to be open-minded 👏 I appreciate it a lot ! I love your hairstyle and your makeup - you are beautiful as always 💖 Concerning the religious marriage: no, in the Coran it is not forbidden to marry someone outside your religion, neither for women nor for men. It's the sunni believe creating that kind of "misleading rules". It has nothing to do with the content of the coran. And regarding the henna night : it's like a symbolic "good-bye" to your mom and also your parents house showing that you, from then on, are going to take care of the family you are going to build and to be aware of your new responsibility. Peace and love guys 😘
I found your videos helpful and fun. Did you get to invite your Christian family and friends to your Turkish wedding, and if yes do have any advice on how to incorporate them in on the muslim wedding customs
This is encouraging. I just need to know how you handled it with parents. If they declined at first and how you were able to convince them. I'm also dating a Muslim guy
Which verses from the Quran and the Bible . Such a beautiful detailed video best wishes to you and your beautiful family . May God protect you all today and always .❤️
The the Bible we did “love is patient love is kind bla bla” I forget what verse that is. And my husband picked from the Quran so I’m not sure what that was. Amen
First of all i really want to thank you Ma'am 💞 I was raised by a Christian Mother and a Muslim Father. I am now in love with a Christian man. He gave me marriage proposed multiple times but i delayed because i was not confident enough as we were from different religion. Thankfully, i was able to accept his proposal freely and confidently More Love to you 💞 Thank you once again
Sister, this is only the beginning. Please never put a man before God. Either let this man come to your faith so you have an agreement or respectfully go different ways before it progresses. Most importantly, how will you raise your children? And if you are born again surely you would not change your faith? I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as followers of Christ when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage. Interfaith marriages work best if neither person is very religious
I am a Black American Woman raised Christian but my estranged father was a member of the Nation of Islam. My current partner is also Black American, was raised Jehovah's Witness but has converted to Sufi Islam when he reached adulthood(we are both in our thirties) He's never married; no kids. I am divorced with a 17 year old. I am not a regular church going person, but I want us to have an interfaith wedding. Oh...he's also in the military*cackles*. So we are are trying to have a relaxed interfaith military wedding. Crazy right?
Hi am dating a Muslim from Egypt this video has really helped we are talking about getting married but my family is divided on the issue mostly my father. How did you convince your family in letting you marry your husband. Thanks
It's not really about convincing your father, but rather about if this right before the God you believe as a Christian! Is God leading you into marriage with this guy of a different faith, if the answer is yes then will lead your family to a place of understanding as they will see the good fruit of your union. You need to ask yourself is this God's will for me? And often our feeling isn't the best thing to listen to!
@@winifredHarry Thanks for the reply...I also wanted to ask ..I am Muslim dating a Christian ...we promised to marry each other but am not sure where the marriage will be contracted.... Where do such marriage contacted....for your case you hired someone... but normally where are they contacted...is it in court?
This may sound petty but what do you all do about holidays? I’m really interested in knowing because as a former teacher I know it’s hard on the children. And I’m currently in the same situation as you and I love holidays especially birthdays. So with potential future children I was trying to figure out how to navigate around that
6months/ 3 years don't matter. What matters is trusting your INSTINCS. In my case I knew him for 2 months arranged then got engaged after 7 months got married - my 1 and only soulmate the love of my life- but satan was planning , trying his best to make me change my mind about my fiance as soon we were engaged i started having suicide thoughts. then when there were 2 months before the wedding day I looked up and asked am I doing the right thing? The 2nd time I asked that question again I saw many beings like they were on a mission. Their ground started from 6ft high. Didn't see wings on them but similar face loads of them- took it as a sign and 10 years later happily married Through the Grace Of God. Ask God for help . Pray salah ( learn the Prayers). God Bless You All and those of you who are on the GOOD PATH. PEACE
My heart bleeds,my husband accepted to become a christian before i married him now he says he is going back to lslam.my feel betrayed.... I really don't know what to do.
@@winifredHarry :: how can they be Christians if they have two wives? Where in the Bible does it say you could have two wives?🤦🏾♂️ on the other hand, Islam allows you to have four wives without even your husband telling you he got other wives.
im african american women and prefer an african muslim man. i know all about the green card and international stuff and have met people all of the world and im multilingual in cooking and food haha....im considering marrying a christian african man because i dont know many african muslim man..im a revert...family doesnt suppport me at all...i have told the community i want to get married and no prospects for african muslim men......i wonder are there any african / african american muslim women seeking marriage but cant find it....i also live in st. louis so is tough...im looking to relocate to NY or Senegal or UK in a few years...have 1-2 friends in NY and Senegal and visiting this year !
Hey sis, what did you end up deciding? I'm a revert as well and my fiance is from a Christian family (so am I), believes in and loves God, but I wouldn't necessarily call him a Christian. He's Nigerian and lives in Lagos...I met the worst "Muslim" men when I was still looking in the US and in Nigeria.
For those saying they are Christian, the holy Bible is your point of reference for that is the Word of God. Even God abides by His word and does not change it for anybody (Psalms 138:2). Please refer to 2 Corinthians 6:14 for guidance on those who are unsure in the comments - may you be led by the Holy Spirit. Amen 🙏🏾
I have been revert muslim for 3 years and I had a Christian wedding because I have only 1 muslim friend and both my wife and I family are Christian.but it didn't feel right in my heart and i dont regard my wedding day as true.my wife is catholic. My question is..even though I've been married for a year..is it too late to get an umman to bless our marriage to bring me to peace?and who do I ask at my mosque?
If you did a Christian wedding with a real pastor ordained by God to bless your wedding then you are fine. It’s all Gods plan to bring you to Christ 😊.
I’m in the same situation I do have a question he is okay with me being Christian but he wants me to cover myself out of respect for him . I’m not against it to cover up I’m just in between has this happened to anyone or do you have any advice
Covering up should be something you’re comfortable with. If you’re ok with it then do it, if not, do not change for anyone, especially your faith and religion. I stand on being a Christian for ever. Covering up might be a start of converting religion
@@winifredHarry I was thinking the same thing. I’m a Christian and I can keep my faith with still covering up but I don’t wanna seem like I’m In Between to religions but I wanna respect his wishes as well . Thank you
Sister... I'm Christian..my husband is a muslim..at first we got married in Christian rules..but after 10years of marriage he want to remarriage in muslim rules..what should I do...is not wrong for us Christian got married in another religious rules??
Such cuteness however how will you balance 2 different lifestyles?It's not just about liking or loving someone.there is already conflict even before marrying of interfaith s and to ignore it based on love blindness for it to become a matter latter in marriage is something that can be avoided all together.two people strong in their faith and lifestyle will have to have separate lifestyles like idea of riba just one example. Or someone is bound to give up some of their beliefs and naturally adopt the other beliefs .Many couple shared bank account so I can promise you if the Muslim man is genuine in his faith he is NOT going to participate in any institution tha will compromise his religion. More than likely it going to be eithertou 2 have separate accounts because is a big sin to participate in Riba or tou will be encouraged to adapt to Riba free account.
In the bible it says you should be equally yoked. I'm just curious is it against Christianity to marry a non-Christian? It's difficult to find a direct answer. I figured to ask you since you are living in a interfaith marriage. Also, thanks for making this video. You have a beautiful family.
Thank you. There is no rule in the Bible that says who you have to be with. But yes it says you should be equally yoked. So I say only God has the answer so ask him for guidance
Thanks for your reply. And there is no rule in the bible that states that. After praying in tears about it. I looked on my cell and seen that you replied to me. Be blessed.
I am so happy that you are a Christian. I pray God continues to guide your every step. My children and husband are covered by my faith. Like the paralyzed man that Jesus told that he can get up and walk because the faith of his friends has made him whole. Or the guy that needed Jesus to just speak the words of healing so his daughter will be healed. There are so many stories in the Bible that shows that one person faith can bring healing or salvation to others. So I believe that my faith will cover my family
Hello dear, I am dating a turkish guy and we are planning to get married soon but he wants to do religious marriage but i am not sure that does the religious marriage in turkish wants to get convert to muslim or we can person religious marriage without conversion? Please help sister🙏🏻
Thank you sister, yes I am Hindu, and Its really sad to know this that a muslim cannot marry a Hindu, but in my country there are many muslim men who marries a Hindu girl without any conversion.
@@studywithme1819 Hey.. I am coming from a liberal family background so they don’t have any problem with muslims.. But they will not allow me to convert my religion thats why i wanted to confirm before marrying to a turkish guy.
@@deepshikagupta951 Oh! That's great. You don't have to convert to marry a Turkish. Turkey is very modern in terms of an islamic country and there is no such thing that a hindu cannot marry a Turk. Best of luck 🍀
@@winifredHarry okay. Just wondering because Michigan has the largest Muslim population in the western world and it is more common to see Muslim and Christian marriages here without conversions involved
Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite ˹you˺ to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace.1 He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful.
I'm gonna say that ur both in=ly yoked unfortunately! And if ur a Christian u should know this! Of course it's possible but it will not work unless u want to convert to become a Muslim? I can only pray in Jesus name that ur husband need to convert and believe Jesus is God only begotten son and that Jesus came to save our souls and died and rose again on the 3rd day. God bless u & ur beautiful family!
@@VirtuousOyinda u def want to be in love or interest in another of course dear. But I'm a Christian and I would not take on a man that is muslim absolutely not. We would be unequally yoked as per holy bible. Ur right God can only judge but I must go by my teachings and do as God himself would want for me to do so. I'm certainly not here to offend or hurt any1 but I shall tell the truth. I love u and God bless u.
@@VirtuousOyinda yes but there God isn't my God. If u know the word than surely u would know that unfortunately they r worshipping & praising a false God, PERIOD! They don't recognize Jesus being God's only begotten son@all and that he came to save and died for us and rose again on the 3rd day. I'm not judging anyone but I do have to tell ppl especially those that have been taught incorrectly such as urself. And this goes For any1 that goes outside to another religion especially muslim. If u have 2 different religion involved and 2 different God we worship then u ur unequally yoked true fact! I have a friend that's in same position nobody told her she couldn't marry the guy but she was warned about being unequally yoked. Until today their religion continues to separate them both and they have 3 beautiful daughters. But cuz he is so not bout God's work he constantly rebukes reject Jesus. This hurts my friend dearly and guess what they r no longer a couple and she has moved on. I'm not saying this is there fate but that she and her husband r unequally yoked. It is a strain on any relationship cuz u do not accept Jesus, PERIOD. Nobody shall be able to go near God w out speaking to Jesus first and Even then they still may be told NO u cannot enter these here Pearly gates😁. I pray in Jesus name that this couple makes it & that her husband can be converted b4 it's too late! Remember Jesus is coming any day now! I'd luv to c this family in heaven r u serious?! I said I'd luv to c this family in heaven together! God bless u too.
@@VirtuousOyinda correct it did happen to my friend and others who happen to be unequally yoked. That was just an example and Allah is not my Father at all and they r not the same. Ask any noticable Apostle, they shall kindly break everything down. Jesus says no man shall get to his Father which is Yahweh(God). Muslims totally disregard Jesus and know that he existed but not as God only begotten son. Furthermore, I obviously must be correct cuz u keep coming back trying to explain that Allah is Jesus, trying to say that ur marriage is = when it just isn't! Ppl should make sure always that they're mate is and do believe Jesus is God only begotten son and that he gave us Jesus so that the world may be saved. Ur husband must convert so that u all shall be together in heaven that Jesus himself has prepared. God bless u & GN😇!
@@VirtuousOyinda ok now u soon like a converted Muslim or a really confused Christian. Goodness even a Muslim will tell u Allah & Jesus r def not the same and would get upset hearing u say that. Again don't take my word 4 it research it. It's been a month already since I've told you u both r unequally yoked. Surely u know Apostles of a Christian Church that shall answer all or any questions. I'm not trying to get u angry or whatever but I do feel like ppl need to know the truth especially when looking for a husband or a wife. It should be ur # 1 goal and best interest to do so. Girl it's late here in New Jersey,USA good night lovely.
@@VirtuousOyinda Dear I'm replying to u and ur friends/family who came 4 me stating that it was nothing wrong here or that Allah is the same as Jesus'so what's the difference. Now what I'm not about to do is go back n fourth about me now putting words in ur mouth. This all stem from me stating a mere fact u r unequally yoked in ur marriage. It's already done in ur case. But, perhaps their r others that shall come after u. They need to also know. It's not wise to do this. Especially when one knows the truth about Jesus. Then u sit there day after day seeing ur Muslim hubby so faithful & praising to his God not Jesus so therefore a false God, yes. Basically don't shoot messenger! I didn't tell u to marry outside of Jesus! And we as Christians marry one another, did u know that the woman stops going to her Church home and shall now go to her husband Church home. Which is perfectly fine after all they both seek Jesus not Allah. Allah cannot do anything for any1 PERIOD! R at least telling ur husband about Jesus or have u turned away? I sure hope u don't turn the other way cuz Jesus shall surely do the same when u approach the gates! Again do ur research, don't get angry or play tic for tax! Face facts and ask Jesus to guide ur footsteps and ask him to save ur husband and therefore ur marriage. God bless u to!
Hi! I'm a Born-Again Christian from the Philippines, and I also have relatives who are pastors. I'm planning to be in a relationship with a man who is a Muslim. He was born an Adventist, but was converted to Islam when a Muslim couple adopted him. I was already falling for him when he admitted that he's a Muslim, he was afraid that I would stop entertaining him when he told me the truth. He was crying when he was telling me about it, and he was worried that I wouldn't accept him, and I also cried because I didn't expect that revelation from him. However, I still let myself fall for him. He's willing to meet my family despite tha fact that he's worried that my family would not accept him. I told him that I'm willing to fight for him tho. He fell for me because he sees me as a decent woman. My friends keep on telling me to think about our future multiple times. I started to stop eating pork, because I value him more than my cravings, however, I'm praying that he will not ask me to convert into Islam. We've talked and agreed that we'll not ask each other to convert into our religion, but I'm still worried. I don't know what to do, I love him, but I'm worried that we'll have a difficult time when we're already married. What should I do? 😔
I am currently married to a Muslim man though he was not Muslim when we got married but made that choice a year later. It was extremely hard for me to accept and I was surprised because I am a Christian women and had hopes on him accepting Jesus Christ into his life but that's not what happened..he doesn't seem fully devoted I say this because he does not pray the five a day I believe he did the first two weeks of becoming Muslim. So because he has not been extremely devoted I kind forgot. But for the past year my heart has been having conflict because though I love him not to be able to share my God with him is something I don't think I can continue to live with. I want a man I can pray with and go to church with and he's shows no interested we just don't seem to connect spiritually. Wrestling with thoughts of divorce 😔
HELP !!!! did you also do a chirstian wedding or just the muslim wedding. We had agreed that i would have a proper muslim ceremony and her a proper christian wedding. Now my family (and most of my research) says i can not get married in church. just the muslim wedding, but we had decided to do both. the muslim wedding make my union legal in front of my god, and the christian wedding would make it legal in her religion. I am so lost
I respect and honor the institution of Marriage... but a christian converting to Islam via marriage is disheartening. The fact that a muslim guy can marry a christian women is Law in Islam, but a Muslim girl can not married a Christian Man is a hypocritical double standar. It shows how Islamic men are in full control of their religion and of their women. You said not to comment on your marriage, if you made your desicion its fine , its your life. Jeshua, Issa, Jesus is the way, not one of the ways.
Muslim women are not allowed to marry non Muslim men for many reasons. Apart from that, it's very hard to marry a man who believes in the total opposite from the Truth as we Believe and know. In Islam, the ONLY sin that is not forgiven is: Worshipping anything or anyone other than the 1 and ONLY God. Associating partners whether it's through idol worshipping...trinity...or any other associations is totally forbidden and negates the concept of 1 God who has no son..mother..father..daughter or any other "er". I have non Muslim friends and because I care about them....I do my best to share the knowledge so that they can be guided by Allah and not die with having the ONLY SIN THAT GOD DOES NOT FORGIVE.....unless they repent and recognize the truth. So it's confusing to me that if a man really loves you, he doesn't just care about u here, he wants to be with you in the next life as well. Usually, Muslim men marry non Muslim women and give them TIME to revert. If in time that doesn't happen, he usually marries another woman and still keeps his duties towards them both. May God guide us all.
@@winifredHarry ya tht's their sin. Allah is very clear and so are HIS rules. People will choose to do what they want, but they will also face the consequences....in this life and the next.
That's not a Muslim thing. Muslim brides were different types of dresses according to the country they are from. Those from India, Pakistan and neighbouring countries wear red. Its nothing to do with the religion.
hey sorry i disagree, if you love your spouse you will educate them and convey the message of the Prophets, that there is but one God and to obey that God. In most cases, you will notice that the beliefs they speak of are personal beliefs and not religious as to what was ordained and what is true, if there is only one God yet two paths (Islam and Christianity) and you love your wife of husband, you will discuss this and come to comman terms to find the one true path. Then marry and follow that path, however this is all based on personal belief, and honesty is respect, so search the truth sister.
Christian did not come first. I think u should read first before putting this on TH-cam. Prophets Abraham came before Jesus and he was preaching Islam. I love Jesus too. But just be carful what u say about other person religion. But congratulations to your wedding .
Well if you read the Bible it tells you that Jesus said before Abraham I am. Which clearly says Jesus was there before anything and anyone. And fyi Abraham was not a Muslim. Islam came 600 years after Jesus died, so I guess you need to do some reading before commenting on people’s videos
What up you guys. I hope this video helps you out on how we got married as an #interfaith relationship or #interracial wedding 👰🏾. Life should not be that difficult. Do what’s best for you.
Our wedding was simple, I respected her ways and she respected my ways. Our common denominator is the God of Abraham Isaac and Yakob. We believe Him and we believe in whomever do what's right will see it and whomever do what's wrong will see it.
By the way, for our beautiful boys they have the right to decide for themselves. The almighty as He mention it (SWT) He guide whomever He wish and keep astray whomever He wish.
Peace! Assalamu 3ala man ataba3a al Huda.
Thank you for this video,,,I'm a Christian raised in an adventist home and my boyfriend is muslim,we are thinking of getting married but don't know how to do it...
Thank you so much for this video you have literally saved everything I needed help with god bless you, your truly a blessing 💕
Are you from Michigan USA?
Peace my sister. I consider myself a Muslim Insha'Allah and my wife consider herself a devoted Christian from what she call Pentecostal evangelist church. She is black and I'm white And we have two beautiful boys masha'Allah.
How do you do in raising the kid
Our innocent children do not bequeath from the fabricated niches, but from the spirit of reverence.
PS: 28:56. You cannot guide the ones you love. God is the only One who guides in accordance with His will, and in accordance with His knowledge of those who deserve the guidance.) ( سورة القصص )
@@wahnano:: Check out Christian Prince live debate on youtube ISLAM 🕋☪️ Muslims. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
@@danielyonas9928: Pente, you mean the Shaytan and his soldiers debates? 😂
PS: And when you draw close to God, God will draw close to you. Wash your hands you sinners, and let your hearts be filled with God alone to make them pure and true to Him.
😳 I don’t see how This can even work? Bible says not to be unequally yoked for a reason. Each religion doesn’t allow you to mix with other religions especially when raising kids. It usually can’t work and works against each other.
Thank you for doing this video. I was raised in a Catholic family and I’m dating a Muslim man. And we’re talking about marriage and this helps a lot, thank you. ❤️
Wishing you all the best
You need to convert gurl
@@winifredHarry Thank you 🙏🏽
@@briannadsouza6266 I believe I will, I just want to be sure I take it serious and understand everything. I’m still learning about it now. But thank you girl
@@Mulata87 if your bf loves you truly he will love your God too. I don't get it why people think that bf is first then God. I will never disappoint my God for a men!
I'm so proud of you! I appreciate your sharing your story! I'm a Christian whose dating a Muslim man, who grew uo Catholic and Baptist. He is the most phenomenal man that I have ever dated in my lifetime! My relationships with Christian men did not work.
For me it's nit about our different faiths only but how we connect with eachother. My faith is extremely important to me and I will mot abandon it or my Savior. Additionally, I will not really hate myself to being with a man just because he's Christian, who's threatened by my accomplishment, and who's emotionally abusive and distant towards me because of his own insecurities and disfunctionality.
I have so much more in common with my guy now that I can barely fathom it!
He is so far beyond any other man that I've been with. I could group them all together and they wouldn't even come close to him, and for that I thank my Lord Jesus
God is Good. Wishing you all the best
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so conflicted right now. My bf who proposed to me is Muslim and I’m Christian and he’s cool with my faith and doesn’t make me convert. I’m like you, I’ve never met a man like him and dating Christian men was a big disappointment. I really really wanna marry by bf but we are “unequally yoked” so idk what to do. We don’t want kids either so it’s not like we would be raising a child with two faiths. It’s just us. Help :(
Am in same situation…Same as you are describing the Christian men you once dated.Your story gives me hope .God bless you for sharing
Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
Sister, just consider how will you raise your children (if you have any) should the relationship progress? It is good you are not abandoning your faith in the Lord but will the same be true for how you raise your kids? Will he be hsppy to raise them to believe in Jesus? Wishing you well and God bless!
Thank you for sharing this video. My boyfriend and I are thinking of doing the same. He is Muslim and I Catholic. We are currently talking through how we would work long term and when children come along. I said the same thing as you as far as our children will grow to choose their paths. ❤ this video was a breath of fresh air!
Hello sister ...
I am a Solomon Islander, a Black lady as well and my husband is Bangladeshi Muslim...
Now I just came back from my Muslim Religious Marriage...
Happy to see you and I felt like knowing you someday...
Wish you happy marriage ♥️♥️
Did the child say "anne" omg that is amazing. I hope you guys will happy forever. Loves from turkey. Sevgiler yenge✋🏻🌹
Yes he did. N yes he speaks Turkish. Thank you so much
My bf is Muslim and I’m Christian and he’s proposed already twice and I keep saying wait. No. We aren’t the same faith. It’s KILLING me. He is perfect for me. He’s the male version of me. I won’t find another man like him trust me. I’m super super selective and don’t click much with anyone but him? Yes. Idk what to do
Follow your heart. Pray about it and let God lead you. Maybe you will be the one that leads him to Christ lol.
@@winifredHarry:: Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
Sister, this is only the beginning. Please never put a man before God. Either let this man come to your faith so you have an agreement or respectfully go different ways before it progresses. Most importantly, how will you raise your children? And if you are born again surely you would not change your faith? I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as followers of Christ when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage. Interfaith marriages work best if neither person is very religious.
@@annelarm9492 hi. We both don’t want children. So there’s no problem in that regard. :)
🥲 we are in the same situation sis, but i broke up with him 🤧
That is a beautiful way of being a parent. Respecting your child's choice of religion.❤
I've just found your channel today and you are such an amazing mum.
Really enjoy your videos. Lovely family 💕
Thank you so much and welcome
This video enlightened me...I also have a Turkish boyfriend. Thank you for making a video like this. God bless you. I am also a Christian and my bf is a muslim
How do you do it? How strong is your commitment to Christianity and Jesus? I wanna marry my Muslim bf but idk. I don’t wanna anger God and sin even more against Him
@@FransceneJK98 if your relationship with God is strong you will never betray Jesus. Be careful there are 2 curses. 1 curse is when God curses and it’s difficult to break and second is when peoples curses you. The one from the people is easy breakable but the other one from God is not, be very very very careful and never turn your back to God no matter what. Ask Him to send you the one He created for you
God bless 💕
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@@danielyonas9928 He's not a prophet but a known liar who can't debate in aneutral place and only behind a screen shouting lying and muting people
@@FransceneJK98 You know that being with a non-Christian bf is unbiblical and that marrying your bf would worsen your sin. Why continue?
Sisters, I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as Christians when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals and read the bible? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage
@@zealousideal what is your belief about God?
@chayil7489 I was. Lol. I am actually a retired Pentecostal tongue speaking pastor and bishop, world wide evangelist, and missionary. I spent my whole life in ministry and speaking in tongues, “in relationship with Jesus and Holy Spirit”, casting out demons, healing the sick, all over the world on all continents and all the other signs, miracles and wonders that follow and all those things. I also hold ministry theological degrees thru doctoral levels. I pastored churches in many countries for decades. But I now disagree with all that. My beliefs and understandings have changed. Once you actually study church history, and the Bible deeply, and theology and learn the truth. You will also see all the holes and gaps and twisted things that have been added over the centuries. Christianity can’t be trusted and is false. It’s fake news and no Christian can even agree on anything. There’s a reason why it’s failed and that there are so many tens of thousands of church splits and hypocrites and people who have left it. Even thousands of us pastors, priests, clergy and bishops are leaving in droves and becoming Muslim. Allhamdulilah! I’d advise you to learn the truth and get educated. Stop following doctrines of men.
@mustafaadeolgbtcia6371 Allhamdulilah. Best decision I ever made!
You need to go back to Allah and Islam and re learn it in truth. There’s no faith like it. It’s not a religion but a true and beautiful deep rooted time tested faith and relationship with our creator! Christianity is proven to be a man made twisted religion of Paul.
@@zealousidealyou are going to come back to Jesus Christ in due time. Jesus is the one true God
As long as you love each other.i love your videos girl.Godbless
chef mem thank you
This was very insightful! Thank you so much!
You are welcome
Thanks for the video, my bf is muslim and we're planning to get married next fall 🙏🥰
Congratulations in advance
You need to convert gurl!!!
@@briannadsouza6266 it's not gonna work
Gunnel that's what I am trying to say. That leaving your religion will not let you live in peace. But this people choose love more then God
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc but can't they do both?
Thank you so much Winifred. I am so happy for you . Thank you so much lm so happy that l found this vedio.
This was helpful to me. Thank you. Best to you & your family. 💜
Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
Congratulations on your pregnancy 🎉🎊🧸🎈👶🏼!
Dorisene Frazier thanks
I'm dating a Muslim man younger than me but I really love him even if we just started. He keeps in asking me for marriage. I'm a single mom. I love him and he did not ask me to convert. I hope it will work for both of the families.
Wishing you all the best
I would love hear updates on your story, same here I can relate
@@FOYTherapies Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
Congratulations on the pregnancy! Did your in-laws come to your wedding? When was the first time you met them and what was your impression of them?
Shaima El-Elaimy good questions I will have to cover all of that in a different video
I’m hoping him and I work out. He is Muslim and I’m Christian.♥️🙏🏾
Omg your voice is super cute
🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for making this video, Winifred. I'm Haitian Catholic and my boyfriend is Senegalese Muslim. I know that this is common especially in the Eastern hemisphere, but I'm wondering how this would work for me and him for the long term.
Watch positive videos about other people's relations with muslims. How long have u known this person? How much do you know about the way of life?. Would you move country?
Can you imagine Mary the Mother of Jesus marriying a Druze, or a Hyndu, or a Buddist?.
Mary suppose to be the highest example of virtue to Catholic Women. At least get to Know the religion you are claiming
Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
Consider how you will raise your children to follow Christ and if he will accept this. Sticking point for many relationships. You would want your children to be saved after all.
Sak ap fèt?!
Im just curious abut intermarraige between christian and muslim just learning something,thank you so much for the share
Pls tell me more am a Christian girl and am in a relationship with a Muslim boy
Same
@@tryempathy2day349 k
You need to get convert😞
@@briannadsouza6266 k sis
@@beautytiktok5313 what k sis? Will you leave your religion (relationship with God) for a boy?
Yea I was dating a Muslim until he told me he is allowed to have 4 wives lol and our kids have to be Muslim lol. I just broke up because we Christians don’t share that belief
Muslim men are abusing this. There are conditions to taking more than one wife that MOST men don't meet, not just financial and treating them equally. It was prescribed to safeguard the rights of orphans (for example during war time), by marrying their mothers, ensuring that dependent women and children were taken care of.
But a man can't decide to marry women for social purposes and in doing so, not do justice to his existing wife.
So, yes permitted by the Quran but only in conditions of great social hardship and for humanitarian purposes.
😂😂😂😂😂
To remain in Christian muslim inter faith marriage, both of you must consider to know deep into the knowledge of your spouse religion. What are the similiraties and differences and what is the truth in it, which will really tighten the bonding.
Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
@@danielyonas9928 Why would anyone watch a known liar?
I mean this with all respect. I don’t know how you or other Christians have got passed the conviction of the Holy Spirit. I’m Christian and have dated Muslim men(and men w no religion) Even men who claimed Christianity but not walking w God. Every time the Holy Spirits been like NOPE. (And yes it is forbidden for Muslim women to marry other religions. Muslims men can marry Jewish and Christian women.)
I tried 😢
No conviction here because this was ordained by God.
Thank you for this video! I'm Japanese. I'm an atheist. I'm dating with muslim man. He is Malay.
We don't talk about marriage that much because we are still students.
Even if I can't get marry him in the future, I want to live with him.
I wanna be positive like you＾＾
you look so happy☺️
Thanks!
(I'm still studying English. I'm sorry if my english is werid.)
Why don’t you believe in God if I may ask?? The fact that we are breathing today shows the power of God don’t you think?? Or do you think it’s by your own power that you’re alive??
@I speak what is on ma mind same here I believe only in Jesus Christ
Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
I thank God I found this video,am in tht point I feel Soo stressed,Abt this currently dating a Muslim
Stay with your faith, if he loves you he won’t let you change. And pray for him
guys don't convert because of someone(husband or wife) but start learning each others religion before marriage, if you share the same religion that's the best for you both.
Best to believe the same or at least very similar
For sure
Did your husband's family welcome you into their family. The reason why I'm asking is my boyfriend is Muslim and I'm Christian and I want to have a relationship with his family
Hello beautiful family 👋
Aiiiiiideeeeen OMG he's such a cutie 💖mashAllah !!!! And the fact that he calls you "anne" and you guys speak Turkish with each other 💖 oh my, this is sooo adorable 😍😍😍
Thank you so much for encouraging people to be open-minded 👏 I appreciate it a lot !
I love your hairstyle and your makeup - you are beautiful as always 💖
Concerning the religious marriage: no, in the Coran it is not forbidden to marry someone outside your religion, neither for women nor for men. It's the sunni believe creating that kind of "misleading rules". It has nothing to do with the content of the coran.
And regarding the henna night : it's like a symbolic "good-bye" to your mom and also your parents house showing that you, from then on, are going to take care of the family you are going to build and to be aware of your new responsibility.
Peace and love guys 😘
Iz Ley thank you so much for the love. It’s greatly appreciated
@@winifredHarry thank you 🙊🌹
I found your videos helpful and fun. Did you get to invite your Christian family and friends to your Turkish wedding, and if yes do have any advice on how to incorporate them in on the muslim wedding customs
Yes at my wedding we had every one. You plan according to what works for both of you
This is encouraging. I just need to know how you handled it with parents. If they declined at first and how you were able to convince them. I'm also dating a Muslim guy
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I have a video on that on my channel
Which verses from the Quran and the Bible . Such a beautiful detailed video best wishes to you and your beautiful family . May God protect you all today and always .❤️
The the Bible we did “love is patient love is kind bla bla” I forget what verse that is. And my husband picked from the Quran so I’m not sure what that was. Amen
It’s 1 Corinthians 13 : 4❤️
First of all i really want to thank you Ma'am 💞
I was raised by a Christian Mother and a Muslim Father. I am now in love with a Christian man. He gave me marriage proposed multiple times but i delayed because i was not confident enough as we were from different religion.
Thankfully, i was able to accept his proposal freely and confidently
More Love to you 💞 Thank you once again
Did u convert
God is good
Iam a Christian and my man a Muslim. We are talking Marriage. This did help. Thanks again for sharing your experience with us
Check out CHRISTIANITY & ISLAM DEBATES. Very informative for Muslims and non-Muslims.
Sister, this is only the beginning. Please never put a man before God. Either let this man come to your faith so you have an agreement or respectfully go different ways before it progresses. Most importantly, how will you raise your children? And if you are born again surely you would not change your faith? I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as followers of Christ when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage. Interfaith marriages work best if neither person is very religious
Any time
my fiance is muslim ❤ were going to get married in egypt his home country
So glad I found you im just dating a Muslim guy from Turkey.
I am a Black American Woman raised Christian but my estranged father was a member of the Nation of Islam. My current partner is also Black American, was raised Jehovah's Witness but has converted to Sufi Islam when he reached adulthood(we are both in our thirties) He's never married; no kids. I am divorced with a 17 year old. I am not a regular church going person, but I want us to have an interfaith wedding. Oh...he's also in the military*cackles*. So we are are trying to have a relaxed interfaith military wedding. Crazy right?
That is crazy lol but I wish you guys all the best. I hope you guys both will find your way to Jesus Christ. Because he is the way.
Hi am dating a Muslim from Egypt this video has really helped we are talking about getting married but my family is divided on the issue mostly my father. How did you convince your family in letting you marry your husband. Thanks
Where is the guy living now?
It's not really about convincing your father, but rather about if this right before the God you believe as a Christian! Is God leading you into marriage with this guy of a different faith, if the answer is yes then will lead your family to a place of understanding as they will see the good fruit of your union. You need to ask yourself is this God's will for me? And often our feeling isn't the best thing to listen to!
That's nice...my Muslim Turkish teacher in Kenya married a Christian lady and they are living güzel...😊😊😊
That’s great
@@winifredHarry Thanks for the reply...I also wanted to ask ..I am Muslim dating a Christian ...we promised to marry each other but am not sure where the marriage will be contracted.... Where do such marriage contacted....for your case you hired someone... but normally where are they contacted...is it in court?
@@KiswahiliWithAbdulkarimhi, did you guys get married? I said yes to a Muslim but I'm scared
This type of marriage is just trying to fuse two beliefs together that just dont mix. 2nd Cor 6:14 and 2nd Cor 6:15 says it all.
Thanks
This may sound petty but what do you all do about holidays? I’m really interested in knowing because as a former teacher I know it’s hard on the children. And I’m currently in the same situation as you and I love holidays especially birthdays. So with potential future children I was trying to figure out how to navigate around that
I would also really love to know the answer to this question please. Thank you in advance.🌹
Read & study your Bible, on what is not explicit ask the Holy Spirit.
How long did you guys dated before getting married?
6months/ 3 years don't matter. What matters is trusting your INSTINCS. In my case I knew him for 2 months arranged then got engaged after 7 months got married - my 1 and only soulmate the love of my life- but satan was planning , trying his best to make me change my mind about my fiance as soon we were engaged i started having suicide thoughts. then when there were 2 months before the wedding day I looked up and asked am I doing the right thing? The 2nd time I asked that question again I saw many beings like they were on a mission. Their ground started from 6ft high. Didn't see wings on them but similar face loads of them- took it as a sign and 10 years later happily married Through the Grace Of God. Ask God for help . Pray salah ( learn the Prayers). God Bless You All and those of you who are on the GOOD PATH. PEACE
My heart bleeds,my husband accepted to become a christian before i married him now he says he is going back to lslam.my feel betrayed....
I really don't know what to do.
Well the Bible condemns divorce, so the only thing you can do is pray.
@@winifredHarry thanks sis
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@@danielyonas9928 right away dear.
Thanks
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Winifred Harry, I have a question for you would you let your husband marry a second wife since he believes in ISLAM
No. Just because someone is or believes Islam doesn’t mean he has to marry two wives. I’m from Nigeria where some Christians have two wives.
@@winifredHarry :: how can they be Christians if they have two wives? Where in the Bible does it say you could have two wives?🤦🏾♂️ on the other hand, Islam allows you to have four wives without even your husband telling you he got other wives.
@@winifredHarry :: How can they be Christians if they have two wives? 🤦🏾♂️
im african american women and prefer an african muslim man. i know all about the green card and international stuff and have met people all of the world and im multilingual in cooking and food haha....im considering marrying a christian african man because i dont know many african muslim man..im a revert...family doesnt suppport me at all...i have told the community i want to get married and no prospects for african muslim men......i wonder are there any african / african american muslim women seeking marriage but cant find it....i also live in st. louis so is tough...im looking to relocate to NY or Senegal or UK in a few years...have 1-2 friends in NY and Senegal and visiting this year !
Hello have hopes everything will work out
Hey sis, what did you end up deciding? I'm a revert as well and my fiance is from a Christian family (so am I), believes in and loves God, but I wouldn't necessarily call him a Christian. He's Nigerian and lives in Lagos...I met the worst "Muslim" men when I was still looking in the US and in Nigeria.
This video was helpful. Me and my fiance are in this position.
Glad to help
For those saying they are Christian, the holy Bible is your point of reference for that is the Word of God. Even God abides by His word and does not change it for anybody (Psalms 138:2). Please refer to 2 Corinthians 6:14 for guidance on those who are unsure in the comments - may you be led by the Holy Spirit. Amen 🙏🏾
I just tried all these christian sis didn't take there life serious what a pity
I have been revert muslim for 3 years and I had a Christian wedding because I have only 1 muslim friend and both my wife and I family are Christian.but it didn't feel right in my heart and i dont regard my wedding day as true.my wife is catholic.
My question is..even though I've been married for a year..is it too late to get an umman to bless our marriage to bring me to peace?and who do I ask at my mosque?
If you did a Christian wedding with a real pastor ordained by God to bless your wedding then you are fine. It’s all Gods plan to bring you to Christ 😊.
@winifred Harry christ as in the second to last prophet Isa?yes he is a very beloved prophet 😊
Thank you sister, . ♥️♥️🙏
You are a kind hearted person thank you for the information
Thank you
Winnie I am a Catholic girl dating an agnostic man.Can you say anything about this?..lots of love💞
I say it’s way easier to date someone of the same faith
I would like to ask who was your officiating officer? A judge or priest?
A judge
I’m in the same situation I do have a question he is okay with me being Christian but he wants me to cover myself out of respect for him . I’m not against it to cover up I’m just in between has this happened to anyone or do you have any advice
Covering up should be something you’re comfortable with. If you’re ok with it then do it, if not, do not change for anyone, especially your faith and religion. I stand on being a Christian for ever. Covering up might be a start of converting religion
@@winifredHarry I was thinking the same thing. I’m a Christian and I can keep my faith with still covering up but I don’t wanna seem like I’m In Between to religions but I wanna respect his wishes as well . Thank you
Am here because I and my boyfriend Don know how we will do ur wedding..its hard though
Pray about it and God will show you
Sister... I'm Christian..my husband is a muslim..at first we got married in Christian rules..but after 10years of marriage he want to remarriage in muslim rules..what should I do...is not wrong for us Christian got married in another religious rules??
Is it. And there are reason why!
Is there a reason why he wants to remarry in his belief?? I think pray about it and God will show you the way
Im also currently in your situation. Pls di tell me whether this is applicable in kerala , india. Cause im an indian
Sorry dear I don’t know much about your culture to give ideas
th-cam.com/video/hehPLxK9B0s/w-d-xo.html I am sorry for you if you are really a Cristian
6 Cristian from Kerala went to afganistan isis after converting in Kerala . please don't be that kind of sheep
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If Kerala it is love jehad. Back off marry a Christian.
Such cuteness however how will you balance 2 different lifestyles?It's not just about liking or loving someone.there is already conflict even before marrying of interfaith s and to ignore it based on love blindness for it to become a matter latter in marriage is something that can be avoided all together.two people strong in their faith and lifestyle will have to have separate lifestyles like idea of riba just one example. Or someone is bound to give up some of their beliefs and naturally adopt the other beliefs .Many couple shared bank account so I can promise you if the Muslim man is genuine in his faith he is NOT going to participate in any institution tha will compromise his religion. More than likely it going to be eithertou 2 have separate accounts because is a big sin to participate in Riba or tou will be encouraged to adapt to Riba free account.
We make it work
Same situation here 🙂
So did you have to sign anything stating your Muslim even though you’re Christian to receive inheritance?
No
In the bible it says you should be equally yoked. I'm just curious is it against Christianity to marry a non-Christian? It's difficult to find a direct answer. I figured to ask you since you are living in a interfaith marriage. Also, thanks for making this video. You have a beautiful family.
Thank you. There is no rule in the Bible that says who you have to be with. But yes it says you should be equally yoked. So I say only God has the answer so ask him for guidance
Thanks for your reply. And there is no rule in the bible that states that. After praying in tears about it. I looked on my cell and seen that you replied to me. Be blessed.
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I am ex ☪️ converted to ✝️. You risk salvation of your kids with this marriage 😢Why to do believe these marriages are forbidden for ✝️?
I am so happy that you are a Christian. I pray God continues to guide your every step. My children and husband are covered by my faith. Like the paralyzed man that Jesus told that he can get up and walk because the faith of his friends has made him whole. Or the guy that needed Jesus to just speak the words of healing so his daughter will be healed. There are so many stories in the Bible that shows that one person faith can bring healing or salvation to others. So I believe that my faith will cover my family
My fiancee Is a Muslim and he said we are having it in a Muslim way and pastor would also be present but I'm suggesting for court wedding 😞
It’s hard but I’m sure you guys will figure something out. Do whatever best for you.
😮so no christian love cover ur face
Hello dear, I am dating a turkish guy and we are planning to get married soon but he wants to do religious marriage but i am not sure that does the religious marriage in turkish wants to get convert to muslim or we can person religious marriage without conversion? Please help sister🙏🏻
Thank you sister, yes I am Hindu, and Its really sad to know this that a muslim cannot marry a Hindu, but in my country there are many muslim men who marries a Hindu girl without any conversion.
@menal ohh I am sorry brother, Thank you so much for your good wishes. 💐💫🌟🙂
@@studywithme1819 Hey.. I am coming from a liberal family background so they don’t have any problem with muslims.. But they will not allow me to convert my religion thats why i wanted to confirm before marrying to a turkish guy.
@@deepshikagupta951 Oh! That's great. You don't have to convert to marry a Turkish. Turkey is very modern in terms of an islamic country and there is no such thing that a hindu cannot marry a Turk.
Best of luck 🍀
@@studywithme1819 Thank you so much dear❤️🙂
Thank you.
2 Corinthians 6:14
Are you from Michigan USA?
Nope
@@winifredHarry okay. Just wondering because Michigan has the largest Muslim population in the western world and it is more common to see Muslim and Christian marriages here without conversions involved
Sis can we connect I'm dating a Muslim now and I would love to see if we can connect. And any tips you have!❤
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Hello, I do have a question. Can a woman Muslim convert to Christianity?
She can but it’s close to impossible. Her family might disown her.
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Yes absolutely if she values God the most. Anyone can convert to anything. It's choice.
@@annelarm9492Lol! Christians don't have a monopoly on God. The Almighty is the Creator and sustainer of everyone and not only christians.
Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite ˹you˺ to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace.1 He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful.
I'm gonna say that ur both in=ly yoked unfortunately! And if ur a Christian u should know this! Of course it's possible but it will not work unless u want to convert to become a Muslim? I can only pray in Jesus name that ur husband need to convert and believe Jesus is God only begotten son and that Jesus came to save our souls and died and rose again on the 3rd day. God bless u & ur beautiful family!
@@VirtuousOyinda u def want to be in love or interest in another of course dear. But I'm a Christian and I would not take on a man that is muslim absolutely not. We would be unequally yoked as per holy bible. Ur right God can only judge but I must go by my teachings and do as God himself would want for me to do so. I'm certainly not here to offend or hurt any1 but I shall tell the truth. I love u and God bless u.
@@VirtuousOyinda yes but there God isn't my God. If u know the word than surely u would know that unfortunately they r worshipping & praising a false God, PERIOD! They don't recognize Jesus being God's only begotten son@all and that he came to save and died for us and rose again on the 3rd day. I'm not judging anyone but I do have to tell ppl especially those that have been taught incorrectly such as urself. And this goes For any1 that goes outside to another religion especially muslim. If u have 2 different religion involved and 2 different God we worship then u ur unequally yoked true fact! I have a friend that's in same position nobody told her she couldn't marry the guy but she was warned about being unequally yoked. Until today their religion continues to separate them both and they have 3 beautiful daughters. But cuz he is so not bout God's work he constantly rebukes reject Jesus. This hurts my friend dearly and guess what they r no longer a couple and she has moved on. I'm not saying this is there fate but that she and her husband r unequally yoked. It is a strain on any relationship cuz u do not accept Jesus, PERIOD. Nobody shall be able to go near God w out speaking to Jesus first and Even then they still may be told NO u cannot enter these here Pearly gates😁. I pray in Jesus name that this couple makes it & that her husband can be converted b4 it's too late! Remember Jesus is coming any day now! I'd luv to c this family in heaven r u serious?! I said I'd luv to c this family in heaven together! God bless u too.
@@VirtuousOyinda correct it did happen to my friend and others who happen to be unequally yoked. That was just an example and Allah is not my Father at all and they r not the same. Ask any noticable Apostle, they shall kindly break everything down. Jesus says no man shall get to his Father which is Yahweh(God). Muslims totally disregard Jesus and know that he existed but not as God only begotten son. Furthermore, I obviously must be correct cuz u keep coming back trying to explain that Allah is Jesus, trying to say that ur marriage is = when it just isn't! Ppl should make sure always that they're mate is and do believe Jesus is God only begotten son and that he gave us Jesus so that the world may be saved. Ur husband must convert so that u all shall be together in heaven that Jesus himself has prepared. God bless u & GN😇!
@@VirtuousOyinda ok now u soon like a converted Muslim or a really confused Christian. Goodness even a Muslim will tell u Allah & Jesus r def not the same and would get upset hearing u say that. Again don't take my word 4 it research it. It's been a month already since I've told you u both r unequally yoked. Surely u know Apostles of a Christian Church that shall answer all or any questions. I'm not trying to get u angry or whatever but I do feel like ppl need to know the truth especially when looking for a husband or a wife. It should be ur # 1 goal and best interest to do so. Girl it's late here in New Jersey,USA good night lovely.
@@VirtuousOyinda Dear I'm replying to u and ur friends/family who came 4 me stating that it was nothing wrong here or that Allah is the same as Jesus'so what's the difference. Now what I'm not about to do is go back n fourth about me now putting words in ur mouth. This all stem from me stating a mere fact u r unequally yoked in ur marriage. It's already done in ur case. But, perhaps their r others that shall come after u. They need to also know. It's not wise to do this. Especially when one knows the truth about Jesus. Then u sit there day after day seeing ur Muslim hubby so faithful & praising to his God not Jesus so therefore a false God, yes. Basically don't shoot messenger! I didn't tell u to marry outside of Jesus! And we as Christians marry one another, did u know that the woman stops going to her Church home and shall now go to her husband Church home. Which is perfectly fine after all they both seek Jesus not Allah. Allah cannot do anything for any1 PERIOD! R at least telling ur husband about Jesus or have u turned away? I sure hope u don't turn the other way cuz Jesus shall surely do the same when u approach the gates! Again do ur research, don't get angry or play tic for tax! Face facts and ask Jesus to guide ur footsteps and ask him to save ur husband and therefore ur marriage. God bless u to!
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Hi! I'm a Born-Again Christian from the Philippines, and I also have relatives who are pastors.
I'm planning to be in a relationship with a man who is a Muslim. He was born an Adventist, but was converted to Islam when a Muslim couple adopted him. I was already falling for him when he admitted that he's a Muslim, he was afraid that I would stop entertaining him when he told me the truth. He was crying when he was telling me about it, and he was worried that I wouldn't accept him, and I also cried because I didn't expect that revelation from him. However, I still let myself fall for him. He's willing to meet my family despite tha fact that he's worried that my family would not accept him. I told him that I'm willing to fight for him tho. He fell for me because he sees me as a decent woman. My friends keep on telling me to think about our future multiple times. I started to stop eating pork, because I value him more than my cravings, however, I'm praying that he will not ask me to convert into Islam. We've talked and agreed that we'll not ask each other to convert into our religion, but I'm still worried.
I don't know what to do, I love him, but I'm worried that we'll have a difficult time when we're already married. What should I do? 😔
I am currently married to a Muslim man though he was not Muslim when we got married but made that choice a year later. It was extremely hard for me to accept and I was surprised because I am a Christian women and had hopes on him accepting Jesus Christ into his life but that's not what happened..he doesn't seem fully devoted I say this because he does not pray the five a day I believe he did the first two weeks of becoming Muslim. So because he has not been extremely devoted I kind forgot. But for the past year my heart has been having conflict because though I love him not to be able to share my God with him is something I don't think I can continue to live with. I want a man I can pray with and go to church with and he's shows no interested we just don't seem to connect spiritually. Wrestling with thoughts of divorce 😔
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Muslims believe in Christ
I have the same dilemma
Then youre not really a Born Again Christian because you will choose other faith over Christianity or marry him without converting.
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HELP !!!! did you also do a chirstian wedding or just the muslim wedding. We had agreed that i would have a proper muslim ceremony and her a proper christian wedding. Now my family (and most of my research) says i can not get married in church. just the muslim wedding, but we had decided to do both. the muslim wedding make my union legal in front of my god, and the christian wedding would make it legal in her religion. I am so lost
Did both
Although what about the kids? Are you raising them islamically or christianity?
Christian all the way 😂😂😂.
I respect and honor the institution of Marriage... but a christian converting to Islam via marriage is disheartening. The fact that a muslim guy can marry a christian women is Law in Islam, but a Muslim girl can not married a Christian Man is a hypocritical double standar. It shows how Islamic men are in full control of their religion and of their women. You said not to comment on your marriage, if you made your desicion its fine , its your life. Jeshua, Issa, Jesus is the way, not one of the ways.
Well I didn’t convert to Islam. I’m still a Christian
@@winifredHarry She is still a Christian
@@meggykarimi9982 I will always be a Christian lol. My Instagram name is the same. Winifred_Harry
Yes bro good thinking this is a horrible video
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Very helpful.
Anytime
Muslim women are not allowed to marry non Muslim men for many reasons. Apart from that, it's very hard to marry a man who believes in the total opposite from the Truth as we Believe and know. In Islam, the ONLY sin that is not forgiven is: Worshipping anything or anyone other than the 1 and ONLY God. Associating partners whether it's through idol worshipping...trinity...or any other associations is totally forbidden and negates the concept of 1 God who has no son..mother..father..daughter or any other "er". I have non Muslim friends and because I care about them....I do my best to share the knowledge so that they can be guided by Allah and not die with having the ONLY SIN THAT GOD DOES NOT FORGIVE.....unless they repent and recognize the truth. So it's confusing to me that if a man really loves you, he doesn't just care about u here, he wants to be with you in the next life as well. Usually, Muslim men marry non Muslim women and give them TIME to revert. If in time that doesn't happen, he usually marries another woman and still keeps his duties towards them both. May God guide us all.
Times are changing and some women are now marrying Christians.
@@winifredHarry ya tht's their sin. Allah is very clear and so are HIS rules. People will choose to do what they want, but they will also face the consequences....in this life and the next.
Muslim men can marry Jews and Christian...the ruling doesn't apply towards Muslim women
Yes
Why do Muslims wear red dresses during weddings?
That’s like a bridal shower/party.
That's not a Muslim thing. Muslim brides were different types of dresses according to the country they are from. Those from India, Pakistan and neighbouring countries wear red. Its nothing to do with the religion.
Interesting.....Do me a favor sister ....start researching more into Islam...
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hey sorry i disagree, if you love your spouse you will educate them and convey the message of the Prophets, that there is but one God and to obey that God. In most cases, you will notice that the beliefs they speak of are personal beliefs and not religious as to what was ordained and what is true, if there is only one God yet two paths (Islam and Christianity) and you love your wife of husband, you will discuss this and come to comman terms to find the one true path. Then marry and follow that path, however this is all based on personal belief, and honesty is respect, so search the truth sister.
Thank you
Christian did not come first. I think u should read first before putting this on TH-cam. Prophets Abraham came before Jesus and he was preaching Islam. I love Jesus too. But just be carful what u say about other person religion.
But congratulations to your wedding .
Well if you read the Bible it tells you that Jesus said before Abraham I am. Which clearly says Jesus was there before anything and anyone. And fyi Abraham was not a Muslim. Islam came 600 years after Jesus died, so I guess you need to do some reading before commenting on people’s videos
@@winifredHarryword! 👏
That must be hard
Not really. We make it work
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Did you guys married in Church
No
@@winifredHarry Masjid?
@@jayed_hussain17 Muslims dont get married in mosques, we only pray in them. Getting married in a place of worship is a christian thing.
@@emanhussein6882 Mosque has many functions apart from prayers...The prophet's mosque had many functions
Hi Aiden
You are in trouble
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Children's religion
Christian all the way
Islam came first Christianity came second it’s a rip off, do the research 🔬 first.
You are so backwards. I thought you guys believed that Islam is last that’s why it’s the best lol
😂 typical ☪️ believes