Soul ties will take you further than you intend to go and make you stay longer than you intend to stay. I thank God for delivering me from soul ties. Trust me it wasn't easy, but God broke the chains that had me bound! Thank you Pastor Blake's for your words of wisdom.❤
What I love is that you address how guilt keeps many of us trapped so we try to hold on to the individual we were never intended to be with in hopes of redeeming ourselves with marriage this here has Satan written all over that thing ...”REPENT AND MOVE ON “
1. You have to take ownership of your ears. Block access to your ears from his words (written or said) (changing phone numbers, blocking,etc.) 2. Break physical addiction to sex in the mind AND the spirit (the mind have to be preoccupied by something meaningful to distract the flesh) Replace that person with goals and vision. Busy yourself 3. Your spirit must filled by the Holy Spirit. You need to be controlled by the Holy Spirit to overcome the désires of the flesh 4. Purge your heart of all the residue
After 5 years of abstinence I fell in the trap again but got out of it quite quickly because I am stronger. I am still very angry after myself cause I am better than that. I have been better than that in the past as well ! I find this so difficult! Thanks to your videos I am getting stronger !
I'm in the same boat... over 5 years of abstinence now, I thought it cured me from lust only to find out that I fell for the 1st man really chasing me and playing mental games... I feel ashame but like the pastor said, we're only humans and make mistakes. I see now how that I need to take my spirit and faith to the next level so next time I don't fall for a temptation. And I can do it only if close to God and with the knowledge of how men try to manipulate, which I didn't know before. I was naive and uneducated on the subject, but not anymore.
@@GoldChocobo77 Same here. I was celibate for seven years, and thought I did all work to avoid another toxic situationship. Then I fell into a trap on and off for 2 years. I thank God that he took out me out of this in June. Now I realize this has been the pattern in all my prior relationships. Now that I know the truth about this, I can work on breaking the cycle. So despite my hurt, I praise God that I can now be truly free.
I have a Vision ... Getting my life straight, get healthy for a “healthy relation”, not now, in the future. Thank you Lord. I cannot turn a clown into a king in my life. I submit this to be my truths to the Holy Spirit!
This was amazing!! I took notes and will be going back to them over and over. The best part for me is the self condemnation. I was asking myself this morning why do I keep getting into this toxic relationship soul ties. I just got my answer. I don't Restore my soul to accept God's forgives and stay in a place of condemnation so I never get to a point of believing I deserve better!! Well......I am going in hard on step 3 for sure~!
Jesus Jesus Jesus, The Word and Prayer, Soul Tie, Sex, Drugs, Tell God the Truth, When I started telling the Truth, God delived me after Years Years Years. I finally said Lord Jesus I Love Sex, and Everything else and If You don't Help Me I'm gonna keep doing ir. No it didn't stop overnight, but it did Stop, I one day said I haven't had sex and other things, Five years had passed, Want he do It, Yes Jesus Christ will do it, Thank You Jesus that while I was in Sin, Jesus Died for Me. Amen
I've been homeless before. I thought I was helping someone. Now knowing of the narcissist, I'm free. Now I must help myself. Thank you pastor. Please pray for me to stay focused.
Yes....I've had to flee from the Narcissist...I was fortunate that it did not make me homeless...but it could have, I was lucky. I'm sending love to you Terri. My name is Terry also. May God bless and keep you and make you stronger as you heal.
First let me start by saying, THANK YOU! It was no mistake at this very moment that you came up. I broke the Tie last night from a narcissistic toxic 8 years of mind control. Tysm 😢💗🙇
Wow this is so true! I lost myself and I have had to forgive myself over and over again! God has freed me from this sick world and I had to ask Him for forgiveness and He has given me that!
@Miss Love I agree totally. I am in the same situation and the struggle is so hard. My children are suffering, too, and it breaks my heart. I pray for your strength. Feel free to contact me for support. We all need to help each other. Stay strong.
Unfortunately I had 2 kids with a demonic person my kids are a wreck. I walked away from all the above. My life and sanity depended on it. I'm here for my kids but they ignored my warnings and went with a man that literally tried killing me through emotional and physical abuse. My own parents and sister supported this. My kids went to live with him because he gives them money and let them do whatever. So I walked away from them all. I was delivered and everything is falling into place
Recently my narcissist husband moved out and filed divorce acting like 4 years of marriage is nothing. This video has opened my eyes and Im blessed to have come upon R.C. Blakes videos. I need to heal and somedays I can barely cope. I gave him every part of me and lost myself. I still love him and I married him for better or worse so divorce was never my option.
6 weeks out of a narcissistic abuse situation and it is the hardest issue I have ever dealt with. But you, Pastor Blakes, have been the biggest help. Following you on TH-cam, Periscope, and watching any and all videos you have. Thank you so much for your words and direction! Life changing for me.
Woooooowwwww. "I dont care how much you polish that crown, or how nice of a throne you have for him, You cannot turn a clown into a king." 😮😮😮👌🏻🙈🙉🙊 TALITHA KUM!! Get up and WALK guurrlllll!!!!!!!! Sweet Lord, God bless us all!!!! In Jesus name, Amen, Amen, Amen!!!! Thank you 🙏🏻😇❤
P.s. 🙋🏻♀️ YES! I can testify that one of the links is self condemnation!!!!! I was caught in a rage of sadness and anger towards myself for allowing this to happen when I found your videos!! Its so relieving to hear this ish and know I'm not weak and crazy!!!! God Bless you! Keep um coming! 🙏🏻
Ok last comment 🙈 First one was overt.... I almost took my life. it took me 5 YEARS to get him out of my system because I couldn't accept it or forgive myself. Then in comes the second, a covert... he had a different face... one that was going to help "heal me" BS!!!!!!!!! If I didn't have the knowledge and strength I do now I prob wouldn't have been able to get out and it prob would have killed me. Almost 10 years spent on 2 lizards. No more! Pastor you are SO spot on!! Thank you. Lack of self love builds a cathedral of confusion...You must take back your heart and soul!>> rebuild your temple of divine infusion!!! 👌🏻❤🙏🏻
Pastor you are such a blessing, i thank God for using you to touch so many of us who have been dealing with this for years and not able to understand what and how soul ties can influence your live/mind. I would like to personally thank you as a man of God for standing in and filling in the gap for some of us fatherless daughters like me who really need words of wisdom and encouragement. Please keep teaching us🙏🏾
God has annointed you to help set those that are captivated, and bound by the desire to be loved so strongly that they loose themselves, and become deceived by the spirit of lust. You can only be delivered from bondage by the Holy Ghost. I commend you for allowing the Lord to use your experiences to help others whom are where you've been. I believe when we seek the Lord with our whole heart we shall find him. He will heal our souls.
Lately that person coming over trying to get in my place 🏡 Pastor you are so right about 🙏🏾 keeping your ears and your eyes covered until I get stronger. Blocked them in every way 🙏🏾 My dopamine got to get strong 💪🏾
You’re one of the realest Pastor, that I’ve heard in a long time. I appreciate your boldness in speaking on sex. Thank you!!!! I pray that God blesses 100x over for pouring into us.
Thank you for being so frank. God forgive me for making another mistake with the wrong man. An emotionally abusive man with many narcissistic traits. I thought he was from God because I met him in church. But if he was from God he'd never have treated me the way he has.
I am so glad to see you say the words "of God" I had never heard that until just a year ago. I can remember many times throughout my life asking God to please send me a good man. When He was right there all along, I just wasn't paying attention. I know it now, that God is breaking my heart to really get my attention and keep it this time.
Pastor... You are speaking to me with this one and I going on year no contact but the aftermath is overwhelming. I so grateful for your words. Bless you.🙏
This is first class teaching Pastor Blakes. This ministers so deep. I need to register, and this needs to be shared. This is a liberating message. God bless you mightily. I'm praying for your continued increase in Godly wisdom, and Godly prosperity in the spiritual and physical areas of your life 🤗🙏😊
Ask yourself about your mind set when entertaining these soul ties. Especially if you're attracting different bodies but it's still the same person. Be single love yourself and heal. It gets easier over time you will make it. I'm a survivor of narcissistic parents, sister, ex husband and 2 lovers. You'll be blind to it if you've been around narcissist demonic ppl your whole life. Men need to hear this as well.
Just wanted to pop in and tell you I really enjoy all your videos. You are so wise, and the things you say make people think. Helpful and informative. Some have given Chase to deeper thought level under a perspective that this mind hadn't quite thought of. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. Praying God protects and blesses you and your family in this crazy viral times.
This brought a lot of clarity help to my situationship. Thank you so much pastor Blakes for impacting our generation. God bless you immensely. Pls keep doing what you are doing. I need to get some of your books to educate my young adult children. Thank you
Always appreciate your words! I think the hardest part for me when I was stuck in this cycle was understanding I was a “joke” to them as you put it. It can be hard to accept that when you’re already feeling down and out. Bless you :)
Yes! Seeing myself through his eyes has been the biggest blow to my ego. All this time I was coming from a genuine place and making an earnest effort, but he knew from the beginning that he was only there to destroy me.
You are amazing. God created you always be grateful for you. 💛 People who are mean to you are only showing their characters. Its not a reflection of you. Peace love and many blessings good one. 💚
15 Minute Workout amen!!! Omg always coming from a genuine place. It’s heartbreaking to realize people will see that and take advantage. We’re good hearted :)
This is so powerful and absolute truth. I am still so bound by self condemnation. Please help me Lord for the Bible says whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Give me the grace to see me as You see me. Give me peace this day. In Jesus mighty name. Amen
I’m in the process of a metamorphosis from my narcissist husband whom I have been married to for 6 yrs and 3 he has cheated and treated me as if I don’t exist! I’m in Christian Bible college and try to surround my self with people moving I the direction of God and enjoying life love and Gods purpose for me. This man has had me in bondage and misery for 4 yrs. I settled and lowered my standard because I believe love never feel. But you have open opened my eyes to see that I failed to love my self and Demand to be treated as the Queen I am because he broken and self righteous Thank you
Just hearing this teaching, I feel such a peace and relief. I know God laid this word on your heart for me Pastor and I thank you for delivering it so powerfully. 💜💜💜 It's on point and right on time although I've been on this journey for quite some time now. I am learning that Breaking soul ties is No joke and requires a great deal of patience, faith, self love/care and dedication. It's been 5 years since I separated from my ex husband and 3 years since the divorce and boy has it been a journey. I feel like it's been 10x more difficult for me to break the soul tie and manage these 4 necessities because my children are with the narcissist / toxic person. For me it was extremely difficult to stay true to #1 and block access to my ears because having my children kind of forced me to communicate way more than I wanted to. Seeing how he used the children over the years to manipulate me by speaking to me through them and even as far as to portray himself as "Super Dad" to others to try to blame and bash me for the things they didnt do right to make himself seem more fit as a parent. I mean it was a Hot mess. 🔥 For me #2 (breaking physical addiction) was easy. I had to practice this while we were still married right before the final breakup. I became wiser and stronger over time and had to remind myself of this persons true colors and even when time and space seemed to heal the wounds and I forget who they were and chose to allow them access to me again, their actions helped remind me every time. The more I distanced myself the stronger I became. I'm able to breathe Now that my children are older / no more "babies"! 🙏🏽 🙌🏽 Praise God!! Because I have gained more control over the access this person has in my life. I pray this blesses somebody.
Thank you for teaching on this subject! I am in recovery over the ending of a 36yr marriage with, what I have discovered, is a narcissist. Hearing the things you are saying is confirmation and encouragement to keep pressing into my healing. I have verbally broken soul ties, repeatedly, and have taken notes on your talks, as I thought that the ties were still there ...I now have a better understanding of the 'flesh' and the spirit. Thank you! I have a long way to go to be healed of the PTSD that has been present from his repeated infidelities, abuse, mind games! Even after I found out that he had this "disorder"...I was still going to 'choose to love him' (in sickness and in health...) and I believe now, looking back, that it was GOD'S Mercy on me that my husband chose to leave me! After 2 recent violent outbursts and threats on my life, heavy drinking, DUI's etc, I filed for a restraining order and have gone 'no contact' ever since last October. He has continued to try to get to me, to manipulate me, breaking the order, through my family, email, notes through a business associate...driving by the house repeatedly, even calling MY attorney to tell him how awful I am, how sad he is, that he "loves me but is not "in love with me" ...just typing the words makes me nauseous...and since I am still paying the phone bill, (long story and difficult situation I am in) I am aware of at least 2 other women that he is spending a lot of time talking to, while he is singing his sad victim song to anyone who will listen .... and he just keeps it up...even at the threat of prosecution because he knows it will eventually get back to me and hurt me. I am feeling like I may have to move away, to get this man to leave me alone, to feel safe and to "guard my eyes and ears"! Feeling like I am never going to stop hurting...he has tried to destroy my whole life and my family... my kids and grandkids are uncomfortable, church folks walk a wide circle right now...my heart is broken, I am alone... but I continue to hold my head up...I appreciate your prayers. Bless you Pastor Blakes
@Susan P I understand what you are going thru. I was in a 30+ year situation with my ex-husband. So many similarities. I am praying for you and everyone battling with soul ties. It's a fate that no one should have to endure. I'm being lead to reach out to as many women as I can so we can support each other in this fight against the devil. It's HARD, I know. Feel free to reply to my message if you'd like to contact me further and participate in a healing and support circle. Stay strong and in peace.
Amen, Amen and Amen again. Let's wake up ladies and men and be strong enough to say no to the garbage we allow in our lives. You, sir, are absolutely correct in that The Church doesn't speak on this subject enough, but we as its members "Do Not" obey what we hear. If they start to be too good to be true; they usually are. They are a Clown and not at all funny.
Soul ties are very deep is very important that a man and a woman realize how serious sex can be and how serious our covenant is with each other God never intended for a woman or man to go outside their Covenant and when they do that they bring in soul ties and so we have to be very careful with the mate we choose I chose the wrong mate, this time around God will do it this will be my year of God bringing someone into my Life🤗!!!! I am excited because I waited❤🙏
Love your videos. I'm currently working on myself in all levels..loving myself first and trusting that God will guide and protect me while waiting patiently that God will answer my prayers.
Thank you Mr. Blakes! You are opening our eyes! Some men are going to wonder who opened our eyes, who put the truth in our ears that made us realized how valuable we are! I am not wasting another minute of my energy into someone who devalued me for years with his lies.
Wow this really hit for me and solidified some things I've been through and have recently put to rest. The way u articulated in this one was soo perfect. Thanks a bunch
I wish this help was available 24 years ago. I got out of one destructive soul tie by jumping into what ended up being a 20 year struggle with an even more powerful soul tie with an even more deceptive clown in a crown. I knew no other way to get out then but to try to get into another relationship. So grateful God has given me a 2nd chance at the next 20 years. Keep speaking the truth Pastor! Grateful to finally be free!!!! Thank you Jesus!
God is good and always on time!! I'm done with my duties with clowns, this was a blessing to watch missed the live due to work, God has heard my prayer though you, as I walked away a few times & they kept coming back with different strategies even though I tried to be there for them due to a loss of a close family member, this was my 3rd video glad I read my Bible and pray as I was tought by my late, mother pray day in and day out and ask God to show me the way, I want to honestly say I have been doing the work, no more tears or heartache, due to intuition, I will watch all your videos and purchase your books and affordable classes, God bless you and your wife 🙏🏽 and everyone on here , as I've healed in some parts just the soul tie needs to be lifted, I've changed my number the fee was worth it! thank God the notification Bell is on new subscriber! I am a member of Mr and Mrs T Gaskins aswell you all are doing the Lord's work, I'm thankful! Be blessed everyone 🙏🏽💝💛💪🏽
I'm CELEBRATING with you! One second, minute, hour and day at a time sometimes is what it takes to TRULY break free. Of course, with teachings such as this, prayer and just BELIEVING THAT GOD HAS AND WANTS BETTER FOR YOU/US!!!! I did the same thing 7 1/2 months ago and can count on one hand how many times i've even thought about him. Be encouraged Angely AN....you can do this...
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes!!! I lost everything in this demonic relationship. I almost lost my life, my relationship with my children and my sanity. I thank God for you and these teaching. I am starting over from nothing... credit messed, finances ruined and living at my mom's house. Its ok, I can breathe!!!! I was called by God and Satin used this situation to distract me!!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I have only been gone 1 month and my physical life & spirit life is falling back in line. I can hear God again💕💕and I can feel His love all around me. I have a new job and can now operate in my purpose.💕💕
My grandmother mentioned you and told me to check you out on you tube and wow. I didn’t know what a soul tie was so I was curious. This message blew me away and spoke exactly to my current situation that my grandmother didn’t know I was struggling with. God bless you and thank you.
So true about words and guarding your ears!!!🙇♀️👍 My ex-husband has been trying to call me and text me, but I Will Not Engage and have changed my #. I have cut him off completely because I know what a controlling, abusive, narcissist he is. Also been celibate 2.5 yrs. I can do all things through Christ!! 🙇♀️🙏😊
This message!!! Right on time and explains so much of what I couldn’t explain to others who questioned my soul-tie!! Pastor Blakes have been ministering to me for a while and he’s a God send!! Thanks for the empowering word🙏🙏
I continue being impressed by your ability to describe the motto of a narcissist. I can say that Pastor RC Blakes is way ahead in knowledge about the subject than many scholars. Thanks Pastor for your wise words ❤️
God bless you and protect you always 🙏 You've helped me through so much. I can only imagine how many others you've helped!! There's a place reserved in Heaven for you for sure. Amen 🙌
Thank you for this message. I fit into the co-dependent dysfunctional role. I’ve been unconsciously participating in this type of behavior since childhood, that’s 60 years of this behavior. I’ve been to therapy for years and rehab once and none of them hit it right on the topic that you did. I see its a spiritual issue and as of today I am asking for the Holy Spirit to help me overcome this behavior and addictions. My soul has been reaching out for healing for the past year when I “woke up” and saw my current situation and I couldn’t figure out how I got here. Its just been a series of events and situation-ships. I see it clearly. Thanks again for sharing.
Thank you so much for the real talk and no BS. It's very hard to find on this 'touchy' topic. As a matter of fact I ordered your book on the subject even though the total cost was 52$ CAD because importing to Quebec, which is high for me. But this knowledge is desperately needed, thank you.
Hello thank you for your , teachings. They have confirmed alot of how I've been feeling. And although my heart will have to break . I believe it will worth it. I am tired of crying. Begging for attention of someone who does not love me.
Well I've been without "S" going ON 90 days alarm has been Going OFF Lol. Frfr.. My stronghold is The Bible the word "we" have a spiritual connection more so than the sexual connection. Time heals 💆🏾♀️God heals God heals..🙏🏽
Thank you so much lord for goving this man this awareness to help me to understand why the decisions I have been making to end this relationship with the one whom I've let control me and my body and soul. Thank you thank you Amen
I can’t even describe the gratitude I have for such valuable well justified opinions. Blessings!!!!! RC Blakes.... Love who you are and how you guide people for their own good.
Yes pastor...you're absolutely right...after breaking SOUL TIES...& trusting in GOD'S Grace to break sex addiction..even if it's in a marriage with the narc...FATHER GOD.. OPERATES the MIRACLE..HE takes every crave ...away...even if you can't get away from the narc...GOD gives us HIS FREEDOM that no one can take away...from us..HALLELUJAH..AMEN
Round and round the Lord knows you keep putting your self in the same old situation ship cáll soul ties u ur own problems u stop talking to your self time for rehab thankfully to you out of love helping me
Thank you so very much Pastor Blakes! You are a blessing. I’m so glad I found you a few months ago! God bless you and keep imparting wisdom through you!!
Hi keep fallen into this type relationship. I been healing with God showing me the rite way. Can you help me Pastor. I found I am pregnant 9weeks just like the lady early. And I am confused about keeping it. So I have one more week. God will punish me but I really did not want no soul tie through the baby. Help me. Danielle
R.C. Blake’s .Jr your Ministry and your books ,videos are such a blessing to me your teaching helped me spiritually mentally and emotionally I am truly grateful that I could listen , I sometimes go back reflect if needed when needed you message helps remind how to refocus stay connected with God the encouragement and your prayer helps remind me how renew my mind every message that you have thought me so much I am a middle age woman wished I could hv know about your teaching before my younger Life I to hv falling in the past and still sometimes Face challenges of the enemy trying to attack me and sent me back in the wrong direction but I think God for his grace and mercy I am so blessed I know now “..Thank You for your words of wisdom your prayers your encouragement your leadership and you’re teachings and writings you have definitely made a difference to me and my daughter My God continue blessing you and your ministry and your family I truly believe that you were chosen by God thank you and may God bless you in your journey Your teachings and your ministry throughout the whole world much love and peace unto you .🙏🏽
Thank you for the knowledge Pastor. I am in the process of breaking my soul tie. I have 2 women who are my mentors during this time. I also have recently started going back to church after this VIRUS. GOD BLESS YOU 💖💖
Good afternoon Bishop, I'm shouting!! This is the day that the Lord has made and I will rejoice and be glad in it. I will forever be grateful . Thank you for this lesson on this topic (Soul-Ties). I finally builded up enough courage to face the truth and join in. I'm accustom to fighting. I thought I had purged this spiritual attack, but it came back. Bishop, I survived COVID and a STROKE, by the grace of God. Being Religious didn't school me, even some of my Christians couldn't help. So, I 'm Trusting God heavily do what is needed. I received this message.I Jesus name. AMEN.
Wow, I really needed to hear this message. So grateful to God for using you to deliver this word of hope, deliverance and freedom. God bless you . Thank you so much
Thank you so much for all this information about healing the soul...that is where true healing happens! Sending you many blessings in return...Namaste!
I was feeling a tad bit down for some reason and this video, your message cheered me up. Your delivery is Awesome and you speak FACTS yet some things you say have me cracking up! So real though
I've wasted 5 years of marriage thinking it was real you are making so much sense. I blocked him on everything He won't change and I I am healing day by day as long as I stay away from him.
Soul ties will take you further than you intend to go and make you stay longer than you intend to stay. I thank God for delivering me from soul ties. Trust me it wasn't easy, but God broke the chains that had me bound! Thank you Pastor Blake's for your words of wisdom.❤
You prayed?
What I love is that you address how guilt keeps many of us trapped so we try to hold on to the individual we were never intended to be with in hopes of redeeming ourselves with marriage this here has Satan written all over that thing ...”REPENT AND MOVE ON “
You are 100% right!! Been there, and it is a slippery slope. REPENT AND MOVE ON!! 👍👍👍
1. You have to take ownership of your ears. Block access to your ears from his words (written or said) (changing phone numbers, blocking,etc.)
2. Break physical addiction to sex in the mind AND the spirit (the mind have to be preoccupied by something meaningful to distract the flesh) Replace that person with goals and vision. Busy yourself
3. Your spirit must filled by the Holy Spirit. You need to be controlled by the Holy Spirit to overcome the désires of the flesh
4. Purge your heart of all the residue
Wow!
"It's how much time you spent after learning better."
R.C. Blakes just came for me.
Hi welcome friend sister.
Yes!! That spoke very loud to me!!
What!!!!🤦🏾
Please pray for me and complete deliverance. I’m doing everything I know... 💔
I’m praying for you
After 5 years of abstinence I fell in the trap again but got out of it quite quickly because I am stronger. I am still very angry after myself cause I am better than that. I have been better than that in the past as well ! I find this so difficult! Thanks to your videos I am getting stronger !
Strawberry plane You are not alone..Stay strong Everyone and Focus..Keep God 1st.👁👀👻👂🏾 Amen✔
I'm in the same boat... over 5 years of abstinence now, I thought it cured me from lust only to find out that I fell for the 1st man really chasing me and playing mental games... I feel ashame but like the pastor said, we're only humans and make mistakes. I see now how that I need to take my spirit and faith to the next level so next time I don't fall for a temptation. And I can do it only if close to God and with the knowledge of how men try to manipulate, which I didn't know before. I was naive and uneducated on the subject, but not anymore.
@@GoldChocobo77 Same here. I was celibate for seven years, and thought I did all work to avoid another toxic situationship. Then I fell into a trap on and off for 2 years. I thank God that he took out me out of this in June. Now I realize this has been the pattern in all my prior relationships. Now that I know the truth about this, I can work on breaking the cycle. So despite my hurt, I praise God that I can now be truly free.
@@Heavenleerev truth is it's normal to fall sometimes, but we need not beat ourselves up, get back up and keep growing 🙂 Life is a constant learning!
I have a Vision ... Getting my life straight, get healthy for a “healthy relation”, not now, in the future. Thank you Lord. I cannot turn a clown into a king in my life. I submit this to be my truths to the Holy Spirit!
I’m getting healed by Pastor R.C. Blakes teaching and ministry!!
No contact=not hearing those negative words of manipulation any longer
This was amazing!! I took notes and will be going back to them over and over. The best part for me is the self condemnation. I was asking myself this morning why do I keep getting into this toxic relationship soul ties. I just got my answer. I don't Restore my soul to accept God's forgives and stay in a place of condemnation so I never get to a point of believing I deserve better!! Well......I am going in hard on step 3 for sure~!
"Diabolical bondage you call love" - PREACH!
Jesus Jesus Jesus, The Word and Prayer, Soul Tie, Sex, Drugs, Tell God the Truth, When I started telling the Truth, God delived me after Years Years Years. I finally said Lord Jesus I Love Sex, and Everything else and If You don't Help Me I'm gonna keep doing ir. No it didn't stop overnight, but it did Stop, I one day said I haven't had sex and other things, Five years had passed, Want he do It, Yes Jesus Christ will do it, Thank You Jesus that while I was in Sin, Jesus Died for Me. Amen
I've been homeless before. I thought I was helping someone. Now knowing of the narcissist, I'm free. Now I must help myself. Thank you pastor. Please pray for me to stay focused.
Yes....I've had to flee from the Narcissist...I was fortunate that it did not make me homeless...but it could have, I was lucky. I'm sending love to you Terri. My name is Terry also. May God bless and keep you and make you stronger as you heal.
First let me start by saying, THANK YOU! It was no mistake at this very moment that you came up. I broke the Tie last night from a narcissistic toxic 8 years of mind control. Tysm 😢💗🙇
Wow this is so true! I lost myself and I have had to forgive myself over and over again! God has freed me from this sick world and I had to ask Him for forgiveness and He has given me that!
Fighting this is the hardest battle ever especially with children the manipulation tactics are on a whole different level
@Miss Love I agree totally. I am in the same situation and the struggle is so hard. My children are suffering, too, and it breaks my heart. I pray for your strength. Feel free to contact me for support. We all need to help each other. Stay strong.
So true..Its aggravating😔
Unfortunately I had 2 kids with a demonic person my kids are a wreck. I walked away from all the above. My life and sanity depended on it. I'm here for my kids but they ignored my warnings and went with a man that literally tried killing me through emotional and physical abuse. My own parents and sister supported this. My kids went to live with him because he gives them money and let them do whatever. So I walked away from them all. I was delivered and everything is falling into place
I LOVE how you give it to US straight forward! No need to water it down or nurse it! You are saving souls out here 🙏🏽🙌🏽
Recently my narcissist husband moved out and filed divorce acting like 4 years of marriage is nothing. This video has opened my eyes and Im blessed to have come upon R.C. Blakes videos. I need to heal and somedays I can barely cope. I gave him every part of me and lost myself. I still love him and I married him for better or worse so divorce was never my option.
6 weeks out of a narcissistic abuse situation and it is the hardest issue I have ever dealt with. But you, Pastor Blakes, have been the biggest help. Following you on TH-cam, Periscope, and watching any and all videos you have. Thank you so much for your words and direction! Life changing for me.
Just what I needed to hear today..... another confirmation from God through you.
Woooooowwwww.
"I dont care how much you polish that crown, or how nice of a throne you have for him, You cannot turn a clown into a king." 😮😮😮👌🏻🙈🙉🙊
TALITHA KUM!! Get up and WALK guurrlllll!!!!!!!! Sweet Lord, God bless us all!!!! In Jesus name, Amen, Amen, Amen!!!! Thank you 🙏🏻😇❤
P.s. 🙋🏻♀️ YES! I can testify that one of the links is self condemnation!!!!! I was caught in a rage of sadness and anger towards myself for allowing this to happen when I found your videos!! Its so relieving to hear this ish and know I'm not weak and crazy!!!! God Bless you! Keep um coming! 🙏🏻
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First one was overt.... I almost took my life. it took me 5 YEARS to get him out of my system because I couldn't accept it or forgive myself. Then in comes the second, a covert... he had a different face... one that was going to help "heal me" BS!!!!!!!!! If I didn't have the knowledge and strength I do now I prob wouldn't have been able to get out and it prob would have killed me. Almost 10 years spent on 2 lizards. No more! Pastor you are SO spot on!! Thank you.
Lack of self love builds a cathedral of confusion...You must take back your heart and soul!>> rebuild your temple of divine infusion!!! 👌🏻❤🙏🏻
Pastor you are such a blessing, i thank God for using you to touch so many of us who have been dealing with this for years and not able to understand what and how soul ties can influence your live/mind.
I would like to personally thank you as a man of God for standing in and filling in the gap for some of us fatherless daughters like me who really need words of wisdom and encouragement. Please keep teaching us🙏🏾
God has annointed you to help set those that are captivated, and bound by the desire to be loved so strongly that they loose themselves, and become deceived by the spirit of lust. You can only be delivered from bondage by the Holy Ghost. I commend you for allowing the Lord to use your experiences to help others whom are where you've been. I believe when we seek the Lord with our whole heart we shall find him. He will heal our souls.
It's good to be reminded that the sick part of us accepts the terrible treatment that makes us even more sick
Lately that person coming over trying to get in my place 🏡 Pastor you are so right about 🙏🏾 keeping your ears and your eyes covered until I get stronger. Blocked them in every way 🙏🏾 My dopamine got to get strong 💪🏾
You’re one of the realest Pastor, that I’ve heard in a long time. I appreciate your boldness in speaking on sex. Thank you!!!! I pray that God blesses 100x over for pouring into us.
Thank you for being so frank. God forgive me for making another mistake with the wrong man. An emotionally abusive man with many narcissistic traits. I thought he was from God because I met him in church. But if he was from God he'd never have treated me the way he has.
Wolves now like to blend in with the sheep, so Satan is sending them to go into the church and blend in with the sheep.
I am so glad to see you say the words "of God" I had never heard that until just a year ago. I can remember many times throughout my life asking God to please send me a good man. When He was right there all along, I just wasn't paying attention. I know it now, that God is breaking my heart to really get my attention and keep it this time.
Crown on a clown! Yes!
These snakes hide in the church. It's their perfect hideout.
That's the mistake we make thinking because they are in church they are good I know about that I've been there the Devil wears PRADA 😃😃😃😃
Pastor you are so right about everything you said. If only I heard you before...would have saved me from a lot of agony.
Pastor... You are speaking to me with this one and I going on year no contact but the aftermath is overwhelming. I so grateful for your words. Bless you.🙏
This is first class teaching Pastor Blakes. This ministers so deep. I need to register, and this needs to be shared. This is a liberating message.
God bless you mightily. I'm praying for your continued increase in Godly wisdom, and Godly prosperity in the spiritual and physical areas of your life 🤗🙏😊
Ask yourself about your mind set when entertaining these soul ties. Especially if you're attracting different bodies but it's still the same person. Be single love yourself and heal. It gets easier over time you will make it. I'm a survivor of narcissistic parents, sister, ex husband and 2 lovers. You'll be blind to it if you've been around narcissist demonic ppl your whole life. Men need to hear this as well.
RC my brother you so right I enjoy listening to you it makes me stronger thank you
Some people have no conscience! I feel so bad I dissappointed my self by giving in to his manipulation and lies !
Just wanted to pop in and tell you I really enjoy all your videos. You are so wise, and the things you say make people think. Helpful and informative. Some have given Chase to deeper thought level under a perspective that this mind hadn't quite thought of. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. Praying God protects and blesses you and your family in this crazy viral times.
My body is healthy, 7 years nothing fasting and prayer has done it for me!!!!😊
This brought a lot of clarity help to my situationship. Thank you so much pastor Blakes for impacting our generation. God bless you immensely. Pls keep doing what you are doing.
I need to get some of your books to educate my young adult children. Thank you
Always appreciate your words! I think the hardest part for me when I was stuck in this cycle was understanding I was a “joke” to them as you put it. It can be hard to accept that when you’re already feeling down and out. Bless you :)
Yes! Seeing myself through his eyes has been the biggest blow to my ego. All this time I was coming from a genuine place and making an earnest effort, but he knew from the beginning that he was only there to destroy me.
You are amazing. God created you always be grateful for you. 💛 People who are mean to you are only showing their characters. Its not a reflection of you. Peace love and many blessings good one. 💚
15 Minute Workout amen!!! Omg always coming from a genuine place. It’s heartbreaking to realize people will see that and take advantage. We’re good hearted :)
Shannon Bey 😭😭😭 bless you!
This is so powerful and absolute truth. I am still so bound by self condemnation. Please help me Lord for the Bible says whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Give me the grace to see me as You see me. Give me peace this day. In Jesus mighty name. Amen
The holy Spirit, the word of God, the blood of Jesus breaks these soul ties.
This is the first time I saw this message but when I saw your name I thought it was my name. It looks really similar 😂 .
Yes is true ... it is just missing the e...lol. mine is pronounced, cane ya. Be blessed and stay strong
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I’m in the process of a metamorphosis from my narcissist husband whom I have been married to for 6 yrs and 3 he has cheated and treated me as if I don’t exist! I’m in Christian Bible college and try to surround my self with people moving I the direction of God and enjoying life love and Gods purpose for me. This man has had me in bondage and misery for 4 yrs. I settled and lowered my standard because I believe love never feel. But you have open opened my eyes to see that I failed to love my self and Demand to be treated as the Queen I am because he broken and self righteous Thank you
Plus fasting.
Just hearing this teaching, I feel such a peace and relief. I know God laid this word on your heart for me Pastor and I thank you for delivering it so powerfully.
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It's on point and right on time although I've been on this journey for quite some time now. I am learning that Breaking soul ties is No joke and requires a great deal of patience, faith, self love/care and dedication.
It's been 5 years since I separated from my ex husband and 3 years since the divorce and boy has it been a journey. I feel like it's been 10x more difficult for me to break the soul tie and manage these 4 necessities because my children are with the narcissist / toxic person. For me it was extremely difficult to stay true to #1 and block access to my ears because having my children kind of forced me to communicate way more than I wanted to. Seeing how he used the children over the years to manipulate me by speaking to me through them and even as far as to portray himself as "Super Dad" to others to try to blame and bash me for the things they didnt do right to make himself seem more fit as a parent. I mean it was a Hot mess. 🔥
For me #2 (breaking physical addiction) was easy. I had to practice this while we were still married right before the final breakup. I became wiser and stronger over time and had to remind myself of this persons true colors and even when time and space seemed to heal the wounds and I forget who they were and chose to allow them access to me again, their actions helped remind me every time. The more I distanced myself the stronger I became.
I'm able to breathe Now that my children are older / no more "babies"! 🙏🏽 🙌🏽
Praise God!! Because I have gained more control over the access this person has in my life.
I pray this blesses somebody.
Thank you for teaching on this subject! I am in recovery over the ending of a 36yr marriage with, what I have discovered, is a narcissist. Hearing the things you are saying is confirmation and encouragement to keep pressing into my healing. I have verbally broken soul ties, repeatedly, and have taken notes on your talks, as I thought that the ties were still there ...I now have a better understanding of the 'flesh' and the spirit. Thank you! I have a long way to go to be healed of the PTSD that has been present from his repeated infidelities, abuse, mind games! Even after I found out that he had this "disorder"...I was still going to 'choose to love him' (in sickness and in health...) and I believe now, looking back, that it was GOD'S Mercy on me that my husband chose to leave me! After 2 recent violent outbursts and threats on my life, heavy drinking, DUI's etc, I filed for a restraining order and have gone 'no contact' ever since last October. He has continued to try to get to me, to manipulate me, breaking the order, through my family, email, notes through a business associate...driving by the house repeatedly, even calling MY attorney to tell him how awful I am, how sad he is, that he "loves me but is not "in love with me" ...just typing the words makes me nauseous...and since I am still paying the phone bill, (long story and difficult situation I am in) I am aware of at least 2 other women that he is spending a lot of time talking to, while he is singing his sad victim song to anyone who will listen .... and he just keeps it up...even at the threat of prosecution because he knows it will eventually get back to me and hurt me. I am feeling like I may have to move away, to get this man to leave me alone, to feel safe and to "guard my eyes and ears"! Feeling like I am never going to stop hurting...he has tried to destroy my whole life and my family... my kids and grandkids are uncomfortable, church folks walk a wide circle right now...my heart is broken, I am alone... but I continue to hold my head up...I appreciate your prayers. Bless you Pastor Blakes
@Susan P I understand what you are going thru. I was in a 30+ year situation with my ex-husband. So many similarities. I am praying for you and everyone battling with soul ties. It's a fate that no one should have to endure. I'm being lead to reach out to as many women as I can so we can support each other in this fight against the devil. It's HARD, I know. Feel free to reply to my message if you'd like to contact me further and participate in a healing and support circle. Stay strong and in peace.
@@raral4631 I would love to hear from you...
Amen, Amen and Amen again. Let's wake up ladies and men and be strong enough to say no to the garbage we allow in our lives. You, sir, are absolutely correct in that The Church doesn't speak on this subject enough, but we as its members "Do Not" obey what we hear. If they start to be too good to be true; they usually are. They are a Clown and not at all funny.
Delane Hopkins Not at all funny!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Soul ties are very deep is very important that a man and a woman realize how serious sex can be and how serious our covenant is with each other God never intended for a woman or man to go outside their Covenant and when they do that they bring in soul ties and so we have to be very careful with the mate we choose I chose the wrong mate, this time around God will do it this will be my year of God bringing someone into my Life🤗!!!! I am excited because I waited❤🙏
Sex was only meant for husband and wife. As we focus on our body and health to eat right we still have fast and not let just anyone enter our body
Love your videos. I'm currently working on myself in all levels..loving myself first and trusting that God will guide and protect me while waiting patiently that God will answer my prayers.
Thank you Mr. Blakes! You are opening our eyes! Some men are going to wonder who opened our eyes, who put the truth in our ears that made us realized how valuable we are! I am not wasting another minute of my energy into someone who devalued me for years with his lies.
Thank you Bishop! You’re truly a blessing! I love you and Lady Lisa Blakes
i got my breakthrough after listening to this. thank you pastor. You have helped me to set my soul free, God bless
Wow this really hit for me and solidified some things I've been through and have recently put to rest. The way u articulated in this one was soo perfect. Thanks a bunch
Lollll when he said “come on over” I hollered! Smh
I wish this help was available 24 years ago. I got out of one destructive soul tie by jumping into what ended up being a 20 year struggle with an even more powerful soul tie with an even more deceptive clown in a crown. I knew no other way to get out then but to try to get into another relationship. So grateful God has given me a 2nd chance at the next 20 years. Keep speaking the truth Pastor! Grateful to finally be free!!!! Thank you Jesus!
Your heart has to break for your soul to heal...I felt that in my soul 🙏🏽
God is good and always on time!! I'm done with my duties with clowns, this was a blessing to watch missed the live due to work, God has heard my prayer though you, as I walked away a few times & they kept coming back with different strategies even though I tried to be there for them due to a loss of a close family member, this was my 3rd video glad I read my Bible and pray as I was tought by my late, mother pray day in and day out and ask God to show me the way, I want to honestly say I have been doing the work, no more tears or heartache, due to intuition, I will watch all your videos and purchase your books and affordable classes, God bless you and your wife 🙏🏽 and everyone on here , as I've healed in some parts just the soul tie needs to be lifted, I've changed my number the fee was worth it! thank God the notification Bell is on new subscriber! I am a member of Mr and Mrs T Gaskins aswell you all are doing the Lord's work, I'm thankful! Be blessed everyone 🙏🏽💝💛💪🏽
You are doing so well‼️
Yesterday I deleted him from all social networks, I was afraid of how I would feel but today I feel freedom and lightness. Thank God!
I'm CELEBRATING with you! One second, minute, hour and day at a time sometimes is what it takes to TRULY break free. Of course, with teachings such as this, prayer and just BELIEVING THAT GOD HAS AND WANTS BETTER FOR YOU/US!!!! I did the same thing 7 1/2 months ago and can count on one hand how many times i've even thought about him. Be encouraged Angely AN....you can do this...
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes!!! I lost everything in this demonic relationship. I almost lost my life, my relationship with my children and my sanity. I thank God for you and these teaching. I am starting over from nothing... credit messed, finances ruined and living at my mom's house. Its ok, I can breathe!!!! I was called by God and Satin used this situation to distract me!!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I have only been gone 1 month and my physical life & spirit life is falling back in line. I can hear God again💕💕and I can feel His love all around me. I have a new job and can now operate in my purpose.💕💕
Im so thankful for this teaching. Im ready to change my life, im tired of being tired. Thank you pastor
My grandmother mentioned you and told me to check you out on you tube and wow. I didn’t know what a soul tie was so I was curious. This message blew me away and spoke exactly to my current situation that my grandmother didn’t know I was struggling with. God bless you and thank you.
This was so so good! Right on right on!! Caught the live 🙏✝️
Lord. This is beautiful!! I path... i am living this Today 🙌
Powerful and very informative. Thanks a lot. May the good Lord bless you more abundantly. You're an answer for such a time like these.
So true about words and guarding your ears!!!🙇♀️👍 My ex-husband has been trying to call me and text me, but I Will Not Engage and have changed my #. I have cut him off completely because I know what a controlling, abusive, narcissist he is. Also been celibate 2.5 yrs. I can do all things through Christ!! 🙇♀️🙏😊
This message!!! Right on time and explains so much of what I couldn’t explain to others who questioned my soul-tie!! Pastor Blakes have been ministering to me for a while and he’s a God send!! Thanks for the empowering word🙏🙏
I continue being impressed by your ability to describe the motto of a narcissist. I can say that Pastor RC Blakes is way ahead in knowledge about the subject than many scholars. Thanks Pastor for your wise words ❤️
This ain't nothing but the gospel truth!☝🏿Smart man up there!
😂😂😂he's funny too!
Thank you for shedding light and guidance on this very serious subject Pastor Blake. This is a very powerful message.
God bless you and protect you always 🙏 You've helped me through so much. I can only imagine how many others you've helped!! There's a place reserved in Heaven for you for sure. Amen 🙌
I watch all your clips Pastor! It's such a blessing to know about this topic that I go through. Thank you so much
Thank you for this message. I fit into the co-dependent dysfunctional role. I’ve been unconsciously participating in this type of behavior since childhood, that’s 60 years of this behavior. I’ve been to therapy for years and rehab once and none of them hit it right on the topic that you did. I see its a spiritual issue and as of today I am asking for the Holy Spirit to help me overcome this behavior and addictions. My soul has been reaching out for healing for the past year when I “woke up” and saw my current situation and I couldn’t figure out how I got here. Its just been a series of events and situation-ships. I see it clearly. Thanks again for sharing.
Thank you so much for the real talk and no BS. It's very hard to find on this 'touchy' topic. As a matter of fact I ordered your book on the subject even though the total cost was 52$ CAD because importing to Quebec, which is high for me. But this knowledge is desperately needed, thank you.
Thank you for the Help. RC Blakes. ,Jr
Hello thank you for your , teachings.
They have confirmed alot of how I've been feeling.
And although my heart will have to break .
I believe it will worth it.
I am tired of crying.
Begging for attention of someone who does not love me.
Well I've been without "S" going ON 90 days alarm has been Going OFF Lol. Frfr.. My stronghold is The Bible the word "we" have a spiritual connection more so than the sexual connection. Time heals 💆🏾♀️God heals God heals..🙏🏽
Thank you so much lord for goving this man this awareness to help me to understand why the decisions I have been making to end this relationship with the one whom I've let control me and my body and soul.
Thank you thank you
Amen
I can’t even describe the gratitude I have for such valuable well justified opinions. Blessings!!!!! RC Blakes.... Love who you are and how you guide people for their own good.
THANKS FOR THE LESSON
Ownership of our ears,words are spiritual,, exactly what I was saying to the guy claiming to care for me,,
Yes pastor...you're absolutely right...after breaking SOUL TIES...& trusting in GOD'S Grace to break sex addiction..even if it's in a marriage with the narc...FATHER GOD.. OPERATES the MIRACLE..HE takes every crave ...away...even if you can't get away from the narc...GOD gives us HIS FREEDOM that no one can take away...from us..HALLELUJAH..AMEN
Round and round the Lord knows you keep putting your self in the same old situation ship cáll soul ties u ur own problems u stop talking to your self time for rehab thankfully to you out of love helping me
Thank you so very much Pastor Blakes! You are a blessing. I’m so glad I found you a few months ago! God bless you and keep imparting wisdom through you!!
so grateful for all you share! Thank you and may God bless you and Lisa and your children always! :) Thanks so so so much!
Thank you and God bless you for these words of encouragement.
Hi, my middle name is Evangeline!
May The Lord be with you🙏🏿
@@KingofgraceSARA and you also.
Your teachings are a blessing to woman old and young. God bless you with even more wisdom to share so that we continue to grow.
Hi keep fallen into this type relationship. I been healing with God showing me the rite way. Can you help me Pastor. I found I am pregnant 9weeks just like the lady early. And I am confused about keeping it. So I have one more week. God will punish me but I really did not want no soul tie through the baby. Help me. Danielle
Thank you for being a positive influence on people who haven’t had that influence in their lives. Your work means the world. 🕊
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ɨ ʟօʋɛ ʊ tօօ.... ɢʀɛat talk
This was Gods timing. I'm grateful for this video. Thankyou for making it and thankyou Holy Spirit for guiding me. Might subscribe also.
Always a blessing to hear these messages.
R.C. Blake’s .Jr your Ministry and your books ,videos are such a blessing to me your teaching helped me spiritually mentally and emotionally I am truly grateful that I could listen , I sometimes go back reflect if needed when needed you message helps remind how to refocus stay connected with God the encouragement and your prayer helps remind me how renew my mind
every message that you have thought me so much I am a middle age woman wished I could hv know about your teaching before my younger Life I to hv falling in the past and still sometimes Face challenges of the enemy trying to attack me and sent me back in the wrong direction but I think God for his grace and mercy I am so blessed I know now “..Thank You for your words of wisdom your prayers your encouragement your leadership and you’re teachings and writings you have definitely made a difference to me and my daughter My God continue blessing you and your ministry and your family I truly believe that you were chosen by God thank you and may God bless you in your journey Your teachings and your ministry throughout the whole world much love and peace unto you .🙏🏽
THIS needs to be taught more. Thanks for saying this
Amen and amen! I certainly appreciate the straight talk. It leaves no room for guessing and confusion.
Thank you for the knowledge Pastor. I am in the process of breaking my soul tie. I have 2 women who are my mentors during this time. I also have recently started going back to church after this VIRUS. GOD BLESS YOU 💖💖
I agree 100% with you Pastor Blake and I thank God for you not holding back!! I pray God's best blessings on you, your family and your Ministry. 🙏
Excellent video Pastor RC Blakes... I learned so much... We love you more.... You and Lisa have a great ride...
Good afternoon Bishop, I'm shouting!! This is the day that the Lord has made and I will rejoice and be glad in it. I will forever be grateful . Thank you for this lesson on this topic (Soul-Ties). I finally builded up enough courage to face the truth and join in. I'm accustom to fighting. I thought I had purged this spiritual attack, but it came back. Bishop, I survived COVID and a STROKE, by the grace of God. Being Religious didn't school me, even some of my Christians couldn't help. So, I 'm Trusting God heavily do what is needed. I received this message.I Jesus name. AMEN.
I’m Free 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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All of this is so true. This speaks so deeply to my soul. I appreciate your ministry and telling the truth.
Wow, I really needed to hear this message. So grateful to God for using you to deliver this word of hope, deliverance and freedom. God bless you . Thank you so much
Thank you! Once again. God bless you for this message!
Thank you for this word!!! Amen!!!!!
Thank you so much for all this information about healing the soul...that is where true healing happens! Sending you many blessings in return...Namaste!
Great lesson and received .
This was one of the most incredible words for me to hear right now at this critical moment in my life. Thank you 🙏🏻
I was feeling a tad bit down for some reason and this video, your message cheered me up. Your delivery is Awesome and you speak FACTS yet some things you say have me cracking up! So real though
I've wasted 5 years of marriage thinking it was real you are making so much sense. I blocked him on everything He won't change and I I am healing day by day as long as I stay away from him.
GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR FOR THIS MESSAGE!!! I'M PRAYING GOD WILL REMOVE ME FROM THIS SOUL TIE RELATIONSHIP IN JESUS NAME🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏