Burned Out OP Is Done Being a Scapegoat for His Wife, Who Uses Him as Her Money Maid. Still, She ...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
I ruined my wife’s life. (u/Constant_Barnacle992 in r/TrueOffMyChest)
15:27 2nd story:
My (47F) pregnant daughter (22F) is going to marry an incarcerated man (29M). How can I go about this situation? (u/ThrowRA-sad_mom123 in r/relationship_advice)
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That daughter is a massive C and deserves to lose custody.
#2. the number of brain dead mommies who snuffle after these jail baits is astounding and disheartening. and sometimes the only reason for someone's existence is to serve as an object lesson for others. but I have seen so many of these beyond stupid girls.
Right??? But of course she called her mom the ever popular buzz word "narcissist"😂
Well said. And if the father doesn't get custody, social services will not only strip OP's daughter of her parental rights, they'll also place those poor kids with loving, and stable adoptive parents.⚠️
Story 1 at last op grew spine and realized his wife is toxic and she only settled for him. Glad he is leaving her for his sake and the kids
Is he actually leaving her? I don't recall him saying he's gonna leave her
He literally said in the end hes just going to stay. Even tho he can get full custody cuz shes a bum.
I believe this is only apart of the story and there is a bit missing where he finally walks away. That said idk for sure and eventually these stories bleed together
@@Kris-wo4pjI think OP's STBX-wife will get full custody, but karma will catch up to her, before too long; when OP's kids gravitate towards boyfriends, who are bums, just like his STBX-wife is, get pregnant, marry the deadbeats, and quit high school, she, OP's MIL, SIL, and her husband will have to get used to being the scapegoats/free babysitters/housekeepers/chauffeurs/money maids. Not only that, OP's SIL and her husband will also have to get used to sharing their house with the loser boyfriends, and their kids will have to give up their rooms, so that, OPs kids can each have a nursery. The STBX-wife, her mother, sister, and BIL will have to get used to doing more of the same, if OP's kids have more little ones, at 18, and 19.⚠️
@@Kris-wo4pj He did update; wife was served divorce papers about a week ago, he's going for full custody.
Luckily in both stories, it looks like the grandmothers will be the key character witness for the fathers.
Story 2: The "daughter" is in for a rude awakening. A BRUTAL rude awakening.
Just wait, when the dude's true colors come to light, she will be crying to mommy and grandmama bear will say, "No, you chose this monster over your own family. We tried to warn you several times that he was manipulating you but you didn’t listen, and now that you see who he really is, you want to cry to me now? No. Your kids will be going to ex-fiance and I will make sure you will never see them. You are unfit to be a mother and you need help. I will help you get the aid you needed but after that, you are on your own. You lost the right to be my daughter after disrespected me, accused of me narcissistic, and even hurt me when you brought up your father. I'm sorry but you have no right to call me your mother when you cut me off. Consider this our last conversation because after this, you are no longer my daughter."
Well said.
Story #2 - PPD can completely change someone's personality, but it doesn't turn them into an idiot. While it may be a component to her behavior right now, it's not the totality of the situation. It's not just her perception and attitude that have changed, but her capacity for rational judgement.
Obviously a guy in prison who has nothing to do all day can focus exclusively on her, plan everything he wants to say to her... the guy is probably very charming, he has the luxury of knowing what their every encounter will be like and the ability to prepare for it in the greatest detail. If she can't see through that, then she is an unfit mother.
The good news is the guy is likely never getting out of prison. The possibility of parole does not mean that parole is assured by any means. The fact that he violated a protective order while committing the crime works against him even more than the murder. It establishes that he has no respect for the authority of the courts, so a parole board will see that and assume that any contingencies or restrictions placed on his release will be ignored, which means he's never getting out. It's not even about the magnitude of his crimes, but rather the pattern of behavior that led to them.
If I was in OP's situation, I'd type up a letter to the guy in prison, with a half a gram of loose cocaine in the bottom of the envelope, and drop it in the mail as if it was from her daughter. The prison will catch that quickly. They will have no way to prove it was the daughter that actually sent it, but she will be removed from the visitation list as a precaution and the kid's father will have the upper hand in a custody dispute. Yeah, it's a slimy tactic, but desperate times...
Story 2 - what, is OP's daughter Nicki Minaj?
Bruh, story 2 gonna end with the fiance with custody and the daughter wondering what happened
MY BLOOD WAS BOILING AT STORY 2, WTF IS WRONG WITH THAT WOMAN??😨😨
Narcissists gonna narcissist.
Story 2: look, im usually a proponent for second chances.
But this is the worst way to go about it. She either is throwing caution to the wind or shes having a severe mental breakdown
Lol they really had to dig through OPs past to find out about this ED struggles huh?
The message to take from that part is, no matter what OP does, it’s not enough for her. The problems are 100% her
Omg, I hope OP can keep the grandson out of the daughter's life because what a train wreck!
Edit: OP stop calling it "charges". Thisan has been convicted, they are his *crimes*.
I hope so, too, because if the father doesn't get custody, placement with other families, through closed adoption will be doable; in fact, the daughter's kids SHOULD be placed with stable adoptive families, and they would have better lives. ⚠️
Story 2 is wild to me first of all the daughter is clearly stupid how the hell you going to throw away an engagement for somebody that's behind bars that's in jail for stalking and murder I'm not saying anything about the mother but I have to hearing this story I would have felt like I felt as a parent
Not only is the daughter stupid, she's also naive.⚠️
And secondly how the hell do you fall in love with a man that's behind bars😂 when it comes to love women do not make the best decisions
Go to court, take the children away from her
Story 1: is the OP Will Smith by any chance?
So story 2 is gonna be on Love While Locked Up.
Not only that, it'll also be on Pain Of Separation From Her Children.
Oh the poor baby she only has to cook. How lazy is that
She has it made why would she change
She is using you, making you feel bad for calling her out
Ahhh the typical I can fix them the 2nd story
Story 3: this is not gonna end well
Not at all. I wonder if OP has a life insurance policy on her daughter. Also OP needs to change her Will (or make one) have it protected in a trust for the grandkids.
i wander what was story 3 about?
@@sa-n-ka OP’s daughter fell in love with a murderer
@@Madison-fl4lq no that was story 2 not 3
He put her on a pedestal so all she can do is look down on him now. Not surprised he came from a single mother household .
women just hate stability
Agreed.
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Nta,
Think of your children,is she being a mom?
“He took a plea deal!” So he’s guilty.
My heart hurts M's (OP) grandson, and baby #2; when D (OP's daughter) gets thrown in prison for child endangerment, and social services takes the kids away from D, M's grandson will be bounced from one foster family to another, while baby #2 is placed with a stable adoptive couple, the moment, OP's daughter gives birth, next, after aging out of the foster care system, the grandson will stay with a girl whose mother is also a dumpster fire, have a kid with her, and care for their kid with the help of roommates, while getting his GED certificate (after his baby mama self-deletes), then, move with his kid to another state to keep her away from his egg donor (OP's daughter), find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, work two jobs to provide for his one-parent household, rely on neighbors as his support system, because he won't have his dad, OP, or other reliable relatives in his new state to help out; the only family the grandson and his kid will have is each other, and to avoid making the same ₱*&§-poor choices OP's daughter is making, OP's grandson will need to steer clear of potential new partners, be super-vigilant with whom he lets get close, and whom he trusts, concentrate on raising his kid, and creating a stable home environment for her, as a good single parent.⚠️
Okay the daughter who left her fiancé for the criminal which reminds me of a story that happened here. A single mother of 4 or 5 kids fell in love with a criminal who brutally murdered his first wife and asked her father a pastor to speak for him at a parole hearing. He did and helped her boyfriend got released. They got married and a few years later he tied her up took her to the basement. Then one by one shot all of her children in front of her before shooting her. All of her children died but she survived. Now, she has to live the rest of her life knowing she was the one that brought a dangerous murderer around her innocent children and lost every one of them because of it.
That's a sad story.😔
@@danacarter9147 it was sad to watch, especially her weeping at their funeral.
@@goldenhoney7478 I agree with you 💯%.