Understanding How to Manage Anger in Motherhood - Amber Lia & Wendy Speake Part 2

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  • You can manager and overcome the inevitable anger that erupts in motherhood! Jim Daly and John Fuller talk with Amber Lia and Wendy Speake authors of Triggers: Exchanging Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Reactions. You can find their book on our store here: bit.ly/2RRmenH
    Also joining the discussion is Jim’s wife Jean. They discuss why there is an epidemic of angry moms and the most common external and internal triggers for most moms. They discuss how moms can better respond when their children disobey, whine, complain and how to better cope with exhaustion, all the noise, and all the mess through spending time in prayer and scripture.

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  • @lovetha4484
    @lovetha4484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Favorite line « my child DARES act like a child ». Very good point and reminder.

  • @annezehring9006
    @annezehring9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is one of the best videos I’ve ever listened to. It’s late at night and I was washing dishes while listening. If I could like this 1,000 times I would. This change has already started in me, thank God, though I have a long way to go. Thank you for doing what you do. So many of your videos have encouraged me.

  • @jezreelgve
    @jezreelgve ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This podcast is so timely for me. Today I really reached my breaking point wondering Lord how do I help my three year old son how do I parent him joyfully…..

  • @aracelivargas4346
    @aracelivargas4346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am crying right now listening to this as I am cleaning the kitchen, exhausted. Because my story is similar to one of the ladies. Relate so much, bringing memories back that are so touching to me.
    My 1st son was colic, my 2nd and 3rd were as well although not as bad as the 1st one. Were was this information when I needed it at that stressful mami times.
    Thank you for sharing because there is struggling moms that need to hear this. Thank God he was always there and I didnt realize it till later. Jesus is the way. He kept me sane thru this momlife

    • @CP-gq5fw
      @CP-gq5fw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      prayed for you! prayed for your babies too!

    • @angelwings2721
      @angelwings2721 ปีที่แล้ว

      I WISH I had a kitchen to clean.v

    • @rosenjoroge7833
      @rosenjoroge7833 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is lovely, am a new mum and am learning alot, Thank you

  • @mrsstacyhomemaker3827
    @mrsstacyhomemaker3827 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this. I have a newborn daughter that is a lovely little one and a two year old daughter that is also a really sweet and easygoing girl, but I find myself expecting the toddler to behave perfectly sometimes to keep things quiet enough for the newborn to sleep. It didn’t start out as feeling angry, but when my toddler screams as I put down her sister to nap, I find myself yelling back sternly and in a threatening tone now and I hate it about what I am. It surprises me how I can be so tender and understanding, yet flip into expecting so much from my sweet little girl.

  • @latoriarichardson6754
    @latoriarichardson6754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can relate (2:32). It's more peaceful when I'm not focused on my home being 100% tidy 24/7 and just live and let my children live too!

  • @racheltevaseu6508
    @racheltevaseu6508 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you..I'm a single widow of 3 teens 14,16,and 18...it's hard when you're also trying to manage with my health as well..sometimes I feel as if I'm by myself. T his was very encouraging..thanks Wendy. Thank you Focus.

  • @ingemarais2624
    @ingemarais2624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my word, thank you so much for this, i'm in tears, thank you for this. I don't feel alone anymore.

  • @pdtate6590
    @pdtate6590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much please keep encouraging us mom's we need the support😁.

  • @CP-gq5fw
    @CP-gq5fw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Enjoyed watching...such a necessary conversation...thanks FOTF!

    • @iceblue112
      @iceblue112 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Debbie Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her... ...husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." Sounds to me that if I my wife asks for help I would help her because I love her. And again - Matthew 18:15-17 "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you.

  • @sejalkothari6687
    @sejalkothari6687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so very powerful.. thank you 🙏

  • @margueritemoir7227
    @margueritemoir7227 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so so much for sharing this!! It has been such an encouragement.

  • @christelle1982ful
    @christelle1982ful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Thank you so much!

  • @123Karliz123
    @123Karliz123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just requested this book to my public library! I'm third in line hopefully it won't take too many months to have it in my hands!!! :)

    • @BickyToya
      @BickyToya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i know you commented this 3 months ago but if you ever want a book for cheap check out Thiftbooks

  • @hlengiwendaba8345
    @hlengiwendaba8345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m married for 14yrs and my children are 12 (boy) and 9 (girl). Thank you for this topic as a child of God I want to live Gods Word in every aspect of my life. I really needed this. Thank you. God bless you.

  • @partyof5118
    @partyof5118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen!!!!

  • @jamillygouveia5699
    @jamillygouveia5699 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The only thing that I missed in this podcast is a word for women that are not mothers yet. How, why can/should we choose this caos?
    I am a stepmother, i don't have kids myself but i see anger in me, I hate it and these moments really get me to think If I want to be a mom.

  • @scdavis1438
    @scdavis1438 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where can I get this book now? I see it’s so longer available online? What a timely manner in which I found this podcast!

  • @kristinyaekelnegley3978
    @kristinyaekelnegley3978 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay, biting my tongue. I know husbands are tired too. But if they like it so tidy, can’t they help pick up too?

  • @kristinyaekelnegley3978
    @kristinyaekelnegley3978 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmmm, I wonder why the mess in our home makes a mess out of us.😆

  • @kmckenney1311
    @kmckenney1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anyone know of any podcasts specifically for Dad's and patience and how to be a Godly leader?

  • @natashariley4315
    @natashariley4315 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is all good for two parent homes. But how can I be enough as a single parent?!

  • @angelwings2721
    @angelwings2721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unmet needs and no breaks.
    Most moms realities.

  • @DisciplesHeart
    @DisciplesHeart 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These conversations need to reach every household and the only way they ever will #Titus2Mandate I just uploaded this and encourage everyone to watch my most recent video.... "It's not a me or you problem, It's an I (eye) problem" and the the only solution is within us all #Luke17v21 #2Corinthians13v5 that is evident and made public this very moment. Yet most ignore #2Chron7v14 and keep going in the wrong direction. It's truly a the end of the age #Matthew24Warning each of these scripture and prophecies are fulfilled today and everyday the unfolds.

  • @christyzn7095
    @christyzn7095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So I’m hearing..if you have the money (to pay for extra help) and an extra room, for a quiet space ... you’ll b better.. many moms don’t have that luxury.. can we please talk about Jesus and how we need only HIM

    • @queenwifemomdaughter2970
      @queenwifemomdaughter2970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She literally said "Its not a specific formula its Jesus" Maybe you should listen to it again and hear the main points and not focus on the examples. Don't miss the forest for the trees.

    • @victoriacharles9950
      @victoriacharles9950 ปีที่แล้ว

      We need Jesus obviously as Christian’s first but faith without works is deas

    • @victoriacharles9950
      @victoriacharles9950 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dead

    • @user-wz7uz5uh7c
      @user-wz7uz5uh7c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your quiet space can just be to step outside for a few minutes. Doesn't have to be another room. Apply what you can to your life.
      Jesus is the answer. Not the materialistic things.

  • @singersunite9785
    @singersunite9785 ปีที่แล้ว

    All women are angry, specially single mothers, that’s untill they feel desired, soon as a single mother gets attention of a man all that deep dark anger goes away, the only problem is her children get demoted, and her attention becomes more important than her children, I see this so many times

  • @sierra4883
    @sierra4883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Husband can help clean up too.

    • @iceblue112
      @iceblue112 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not so I will treat your comments as if they are serious. Just because it says in Titus that women should be busy at home(NIV) or work at home(ESV) does not mean they should be the ones cleaning the home. It does mean that they shouldn't sit around all day doing nothing getting drunk(also in the passage you pointed out). Submission for a woman is not letting the guy make all the decisions without the woman ever talking, submission is allowing the husband to lead the family with the wife stepping back, when there are 2 opposing views on a subject. But there should be dialog and discussion between the couple. Finally, You should take up your grief with Lisa Harper yourself, and not a general post on a youtube video. Matthew 18:15-17 "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you."

    • @DisciplesHeart
      @DisciplesHeart 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iceblue112 well said. You should harvest your comments and put them in articles or blog. It's something I do a lot

    • @iceblue112
      @iceblue112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DisciplesHeart Thanks for the encouragement. Man this was from a year ago does time fly. I see the original comment was edited from what it said in the first place. Lol

    • @DisciplesHeart
      @DisciplesHeart 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iceblue112 it's media and anything other than face to face communication that is communion can be manipulated and that is the very definition of witchcraft. This is why we are warned not to consult with any9ne other than Holy Spirit... but who can say they truly listen to His voice and do what He says trusting it's right? Answer #Matthew7v13t14

    • @sierra4883
      @sierra4883 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DisciplesHeart who are yall responding to?