Nips, toes, sweat... most judgmental, superficial comments. Thank you so much Mel for actually being authentic. Clearly we need way more of it in this world.
That’s absolutely nothing to worry about, Mel looked fine, I’m glad she didn’t give a shit. Mel’s comfortable in her own skin , and I’d like a body like hers. Open toes shoes, are they kidding ? They need to get real, and if you want to stay in the sun, that’s up to you, let them go into the shade. ( Let them 😉 ) I think these ladies are a little snobby to be honest.
Totally Agree! I love MEL even more now. Talk about uptight and freaking Puritanical. Mel was with all women. She had to cover her nips. Get outta here. How does she work with them? They wish they could be as cool 😎 as MEL!
It’s shocking how women are always the one judging other women. Men wouldn’t care if their male colleague is exposing his toes or is shirtless. Who gives a s* that your nipples are showing during a meeting with 4 other women colleagues in a very informal/ casual environment? Come on.
As I said in another comment, there is nothing wrong with wanting to see a video where the person doing the podcast has cleaner language. It doesn't mean the person who wants that is 'uptight', it just means they want more clean, respectful language and there is nothing wrong with that.
Czech actress Helena Ružičkova was comedian in movies.Obese lady...People asked her questions about her weight. She said me who can dress myself behind a tiny tree? She said with humor: I go to a beach, and throw away my bra, and kids make a tent of it.
@@paulaoneill2389I lived this way in my marriage for 25yrs. I was myself. I refused to be a Stanford wife and pretend to be someone I am not. I was with this man for 3 decades of my life so when you don’t give a shit about what people think as long as your partner gets you this is the most liberating time of your life. I didn’t dress up for him or anyone or at home just be yourselves if you didn’t want to comb your hair or shave your legs or fancy nails etc just be yourself watch tv in the house all day. I love been myself and I hope to get a partner that get me. ❤
My daughter is a tattoo artist, and tattoed all over her body EXCEPT her face. In the beginning I was horrified, people stare at her. But now I am so FREAKING PROUD of her, she owns her own business, purchased her own house, has a GOLDEN HEART, has raised money for the unfortunate, and is socially aware and gives back! She was SELF TRAINED, did not go to college but COULD HAVE with her grades. People judge her by her looks, but she is the most AWESOME PERSON I KNOW!!!!!
The people that work for you are EXTREMELY UPTIGHT! I think this is honestly ridiculous and idk how they are living normal happy lives trying to fit into all these ridiculous society norms. I thought they were going to say some real idgaf stuff but this is absurd. Mel, you are actually the normal one and this has given me the courage to really not gaf because people are going to judge you ridiculously anyway. Love You Mel and please don’t begin to take any of this any way! WEAR THE VALENTINO’S WITHOUT NAIL POLISH. I’m Soooo For It!
All I can think is your team is too uptight ;) I love that you don't care what people think. it's an inspiration to many people that always feel judged by others. Also, I think that playful don't care nature could have something to do with ADHD, because everyone I know who's diagnosed, are more playful and less serious. Thanks for being awesome
I TOTALLY relate to your eye-opening comment re people with AD(H)D being more playful and less serious!!! Thanks for sharing yet another reason we are so fortunate and awesome! 😊
I am here crying Mel. Thank you. ❤️ I was bullied in corporate America and i wasn't a shark. This was so healing. Not the right fit. I found my purpose and I am grateful for the experience and for the opportunity. I learned a lot.
I can’t tell you how badly I needed to hear this entire episode. I’m a self loathing SOB and have imprisoned my 50 year old self since the 3rd grade. Thank you for being real and bringing humor into my day.
Maybe so, but I do wish she would watch her language a little bit. I've watched a lot of her videos now and have noticed more and more that she will let F bombs and the 's' word slip. She can get her point across just as well without the constant 's' and F words. With the language she sometimes uses, my grandmother would be a bit offended by her videos.
You nailed it Mel! I used to worry about how I look till my early 30's, I am 36 now, I have some fine lines when I smile and some adult acne which a couple of years ago I would spend an hour covering it..Right now literally I don't give a shit, I am perfect in my own imperfection!
I love you so much and what you’re saying here about NOT caring!!!! Who the heck cares if your toes are exposed at a meeting!!! What the heck do your feet have to do with your character or what you have to offer? You are sooo GENUINE! I think it’s refreshing! At almost 50, I’ve lived my entire life caring what people think, and listening to you is sooo inspiring and FREEING! I finally don’t give a shit, and it is liberating!!! How you’re being described here is exactly why I LOVE who you are!
Mel, I agree with you!! The person that criticized you with all those cruel things behind a computer is unhappy with themselves. You’re so Awesome and smart and loving and helpful towards everyone. It’s obvious they are jealous and don’t like their life. It’s sad that people waist energy cutting people down!! Thanks for all you do!! You’re so inspiring ❤
Thank you!! I have always cared what other thought because that was what my mother always taught me. She was raised very co-dependent and could never see that it was wrong. She raised me the same way, my father was always very demanding and I was taught to always cater to the men in my family. Never talk like I am smart, because someone may think I think I am better than them. Well I am the only high school and college graduate in my family and I deserve to be free to speak the way I want to. It is not my problem that others are so insecure that they feel put off by my intelligence. I have a bachelors degree in law, I am a paralegal at a very large firm and I should be proud of that not made to hide those facts because it may make someone else feels a certain way. That is not my problem. Your videos and podcast have been so liberating for me. Please never stop speaking the truth. It took me 50 years to embrace who I am. BTW your daughters singing made this military mom cry. She has an amazing voice and hope she shares it with the world.
Being authentic is so important. Connecting on a real level - really needed these days. Yes, there are social norms, however, being free to carry yourself without self critical judgement or from others for that matter, so good for our mental health.
Sadly as a woman of color if I went to a store looking like crap, I might get followed. We have to acknowledge that not all of us can completely free ourselves from social norms without major consequences in this nation. At the same time, I do believe we must find places to show up as a true authentic selves😊
You daughter has a gorgeous voice!!! As for your video after yoga, you looked like you had just left yoga, thanks!!! I love that you are your genuine self in videos, meaning sometimes you look like a real person does at home and don't feel the need to always have coifed hair and makeup. Thanks for keeping it real. 👍
@@JennyGastonI relate. I will go to the mall with my husband of 31yrs and didn’t give. Shit. I had flip flops and my hair was messed up with nice scarf and earrings with basketball shorts and T-shirt but I knew that I own my house, I had the best job at children hospital and money in the bank to get whatever I wanted if I wanted. My parents were hard working and raised me with Morals and respect and values and if anyone judge me I didn’t care because I had my shit together. Didn’t shave and was not perfect lady Barbie like these guys want us to be 24hrs. All these male coaches online pushing for females to be sexually enticing and well out together in the house and before you go to bed and in bed and morning when you prepare breakfast lol that shit is unrealistic and that is why we have so much mental health issues in marriage that are fake expectations.
Mel Robbins is my spirit animal! I think this is why I'm not invited to meetings at work. 😂😂😂 I just don't see anything wrong with any of the moments they were all 😮about.
Big takeaway is to ask, what do I value? Why do I get worried about what others think when I am doing something that I value? That’s huge. Thank you ❤️
I resent how your staff takes such enjoyment in finding such fault in your actions. I hope they have your sense of humor and confidence as they age!🤔🤨😍
I lost confidence when I lost a lot of hair and was ill but have recently hit record again. I agree it’s important to let people see you not being some impossible perfect ideal all the time. It’s been hard though.
Holy crap!! I live barefoot as often as possible! I am a Massage Therapist & Reiki Master. When will we evolve beyond antiquated "nipples & toes must be covered" male demeaning women, thinking???!!!! I am so happy Mel rises above this nonsense! I am truly shocked at these corporate women and their boxed in ideals. Hopefully Mel will help them to ease up and see how free REAL WOMEN can be in their own confidence. Hugs to you all!! I am still trying to get this!! Love, love, love YOU, MEL!!!!! Be.YOU.tiful.
We absolutely love you Mel for not being afraid to be yourself at all times. In fact, this is one of the sexiest traits you have. You are definitely a heroine to me for helping me to learn how not to give a s--t what other people think of me and being more thoughtful about what I really care about. ⭐️
U being u is what we luv about u and please don't stop cussing. A wise older woman once told me "it's none of my business what u think of me" and since she told me that, I live by that. Thanks for being real!
I listened to this today while working out and I LAUGHED OUT LOUD sooo many times!! It is a freeing escape not to give a $hit about what anyone thinks about you!! It took me a minute, but I am at a point in my life where I CARE NOT!!!
I love whats happening here in this podcast. So it's completely refreshing to see beautiful grown ass women keeping it all the way real, being completely honest with one another and not taking huge offense and getting mad at their friends or coworkers for telling them how they really feel or what they think. I love the acceptance and I love you Mel Robbins not only because of you as a person but bc of your embracement, courage and being so transparent for other women who desperately need these things in their own lives, including mine. Thank you ladies!
I love the advice you gave Dr Amy! She deserves to be recognized for her accomplishments. I think she felt undeserving and self conscious about the title. She should be proud if it!! Please don’t censor yourself to conform to society’s “rules.” We need more authentic people in the world! Open toe shoes and sunbathing at lunch should be acceptable behavior!!
Love you Mel. More people need to be raw and real as you are ❤ I'm raw and real and some people just can't handle it. Its not like we are disrespecting anyone or hurting anyone. We are just real and down to earth. Totally agree with you. It's so freeing.
Your daughter’s voice is truly a gift to the world! Thank you for such a great episode. It has me reflecting on who I am and how I present myself to the people around me. Now, I’m off to caring about the stuff that matters. Thank you. ❤
Honestly I just love how real you are Mel and see nothing wrong with what this lady is bringing up that you did. Keep being your real self Mel. Some people just overthink everything.
I love that you are you and that gives everyone else to be "real" which as women we have been told to shut it down, look a certain way, don't be to smart etc Women think they have to be perfect and wait until everything is in perfect place. meaning we never do the things we want to do. Be you Mel
Mel, this episode really shows me why I Love You So Very Much!! I love how real you are. I love that you dont give a shit. I love your confidence. I love your channel and all of the life changing things you share with the world to help us to do better and feel better about ourself. It all makes you a beautiful person. Social media has a huge problem. Not much of it is real. Everyone is so focused on the outside appearance that it's disgusting. I have watched,.listened and met a lot of beautiful looking people but they are not kind, they are arrogant, they look perfect on the outside but you can tell inside they are not happy. I laughed so hard as your employees told you the things you did wrong. I loved your expressions because I would have probably had the same ones. The things people are concerned about these days.....I too find it freeing to not "Give A Shit!" Its amazing. It took me until the age of 54 to figure it all out. I have more peace and joy in my life. Life is difficult enough as it is, why care about all of this shit too!! 🤷♀️ Thank you. ❤
I LOVE all the REALS of Mel Robbins. I identify with not being perfect and I love learning from (and listen more to) someone who is authentic. Like a best friend. Thanks for being you Mel Robbins.
Wow! How can you relax and be free! I must break a few rules too. I think about living more than making errors. This is getting hurtful. So many love you Mel. We have your back. It’s amazing how judgemental some people are. Life is worth living without worrying about not always appearing perfect. Thanks for keeping it real Mel! 👍😊 THANKS FOR LOVING YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT! Great role model on air.
I am dying of laughter in the gym, ppl are looking and everything… I needed this laugh this morning. I had absolutely no motivation but this is so helping! Thank you Mel! ❤
I spent most of my life hiding, camouflaged myself so I didn't stick out and have negative feedback and look foolish, I was depressed and practiced self preservation by being invisible.. I'm now 54, overweight, colour my hair blue, pink or purple because I don't care now, I'm a Reiki healer, I found that people smiled and say positive things about my hair, if I can make just one person smile for the day then I'm doing my job ☺️ if they are happy, I am happy 😊 you do you boo❤
Came over for the photo and it did not disappoint!! Saturday I wore a top to the farmer's market that I love but never wear because it doesn't work with a bra. It def pushed my comfort zone as I felt I could see my nipples more than I'd like. I wore it, got a complement and lived to tell the tale here! Wooohooo! Giving less f*cks every day!! Love you so much Mel and team!
Thank you for being you Mel and being a true version of yourself! Love “spending time on what matters and going out not all done up!” 🥰 Oh my gosh!! Your daughter is amazing!!!! 🥲🥲🥰 Congratulations Mel!!!
Good for you Mel! I’m 74 years old & not happy to say it took me to age 60 to stop worrying about what other people think of me. As a lifetime empath, I’ve been a kind, loving supportive & successful person but self acceptance was my challenge. Life is soooooo sweet once you stop the constant worry. I’m sorry you have to work with judgmental people.
As a naturist I'm shocked that other women are shocked by seeing another womans nipples, and through a top at that! Good for you going against the grain Mel and being you x
I LOVE this about Mel - too many people only show the glamorous version of themselves. Reality is what we need to see. I can tell Mel does this because she’s trying to help herself first and her listeners if that works for them!
i feel really uncomfortable and find it hard to believe how much HER STAFF were judging and getting her to conform to their norms. mel wasnt wearing PJs at the audible meeting, nor was she nude by the pool. the q that crosses my mind is: where does the judgement end? or does it?
Dear Mel, to be honest, I watch other people on TH-cam even though I know your name for some years now. You got me TRULY inspired by saying SO much wisdom finishing this podcast. You really touched me. Am 56, soon I turn 57 and yes, I do not give a SH about my age. In life I DO care about daring to be ME !!! It has been my major struggle. Part of me is a strong lady, part of me is HSP …. No need to explain, I guess. I LOVED your final quote and it is SO much true ! What is the point of having a ‘circle’ in life and you do not dare to be yourself, then indeed that circle IS a cage 🙏🙏🙏. I definately keep this in mind as I continue my growth in life. Big thanks ❤️🌟❤️
I realized something eye opening. I beat myself up sometimes for saying dumb or cringe things but seeing Mel do those things is endearing and lovely! The ones who look back are the employeees looking petty for pointing out “mistakes”
Mel, you looked awesome in the picture. In the military the commander determines the uniform of the day. I think in this situation you are the commander, dress as you want.
You guys are so right …it’s way better seeing what we’re listening to as well here on TH-cam 😂. I am learning so much from your podcasts and no words will describe how grateful I am for real humans like you . Thank you so much ❤💚💙
I love listening to Mel. She is such a force for good and for surviving and thriving. I love her zesty personality! It is the vivacity and personality of Mel Robbins that makes her so special and attractive. Safety and conformity lead to MEH. She's not out of order.
I think telling Dr. To use her title as Doctor. SHE Earned it! And she's a woman that had to work even harder! Men still have it easier. So good for you to tell her to embrace her title! ❤
I worked from home today and really needed a little company so I put this podcast on for company. You are all now my favourite co-workers. I laughed so hard and worked really hard too. Thank you xx
This was terrific, Mel! And I just loved your team being on here with you. This was the first time I've listened to the Podcast on TH-cam, and it was awesome! It adds so much to be able to see your faces as you talk. Thanks for doing this!
Do we really want to live in a corporate world that is based on such shallow judgement? I remember being chastised for wearing white shoes after Labor Day. Our societal 'norms' are a bunch of made up rules that keep us from being our authentic selves. Go Mel🎉
OMG I absolutely LOVE YOU Mel!!!!! Love how real you are & your employees can be honest with you about things you do & you don’t get mad or offended! You are amazing, awesome & the Best Mel! I could watch this podcast over & over!!!!❤❤❤❤
My favorite phrase is: "What you think of me is none of my business" what I think of me is my business" and I had to learn to love myself, and that is what I do.. First I had to learn what Love, happiness, peace and harmony REALLY mean. "Try it" hagd...
I love Mel . She is so real and some people can pull all of this off ! Some people can't. The open toed shoes thing is so dated . At some point in the past, women would not be see without stockings on, now ,women never wear stockings. I would be a Mel any day over a stick in the mud boring person. Mel rocks ! Its what makes her a success! Altho, i do love your team ! I think you all work together well. Its all about success ! And Mel is that ! Love you and how much you help me !
The more i hear you explain how you are focused on what really matters,and how you overcame the hurt,i so admire your wisdom. Your a beautiful strong teacher!
If this is considered bad, - and OPEN TOES bad, because..? 😀 You've gotta move to Norway, Mel. ;-). Toes out, sun wear and all. And your post sauna pictures? GREAT! We are humans, not painted dolls. Everybody is taking about the pressure on looks - and you make it REAL, and help removing ingrained shame about natural body functions. That does not mean we cannot clean up, but kids out there ar having DEPRESSIONS because of pimples. Mel, you are doing the work to let people off the hook. Well done. Out of the sauna you do not look like shit, you look like a person coming out of a sauna. YOU allow that. As far as I can see, you are a GREAT role model for people of all ages. Women shamed to NOT show their toes? Where does it stop? You make life real in a society mad about Kardeshian look, and pressure on body look and body dysmorphia. WONDERFUL. Mel. You are letting go of the shaming of women, men and being a normal human being. In my book, this is the way to go. BIG hug.
This is why you are such a big name, making so much money and they work for you. You are real, you show us what is possible just being ourself. Keep breaking the rules and leading the way for us ❤
This is just what I needed to hear. I started my own positive journal. I put in quotes that inspire me. "You alone are enough, you have nothing to prove to anybody." By Maya Angelou. "We delight in the beauty of the Butte but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty,". Both quotes are from Maya Angelou, they both remind me of my own personal journey and growth. These lessons are vital. I picture people in my life as animals, if we were all meant to be the same life would be boring. But comparing fish, to birds, to animals that live in water and comparing them in a race is unfair because they are built differently.
OMG, I recently started a new job & needed to hear this!!! Apparently this showed up in my suggested videos for a reason. Thank you, Mel, for being you!!
Mel, you truly are amazing. I recently found you and haven't stopped watching you! I can't believe you used to live in MA. We were practically neighbors.
The photo of Mel after yoga is totally priceless!!! That is the most I've laughed ever during the 100+ hours of watching the Mel Robbins Show. Just love that you have jettisoned the uber vain thing. You're the Best, Mel.
I think those ladies have a bit of pucker in their b-holes. Keep being you. Every response they gave seemed to be based on what society thinks, what other people think, and not coming from a sense of freedom. I say you keep being you. You're fabulous.
😂😂😂 Real conversations with real humans. I love how all these ladies have different opinions and are comfortable sharing their “should and shouldn’ts” regardless of the severity of judgement. Hearing the thoughts behind the judgements or lack of caring what people think, offers great insight at how everyone experiences the world in a different way. Each lady gave me a chance to think about their perspective and ask myself what would I do/think/feel … and at the end of the day, would the thoughts/feelings bring peace or unnecessary stress. Great exercise in exploring some of the hidden joy-killers I bring upon myself for unnecessary judgment on things that do not matter. 😅😂
I think it's absolutely great! Being in that form is absolutely liberating and the fact that you have enough confidence to sit like that whether by yourself or with a group of people is very encouraging. I am so proud of you and I encourage other women to embrace themselves the same way that you have.
I love you Mel! Keep being you! Your realness and authenticity is what we need in this world right now. Watching your videos has helped me to be more comfortable in my own skin and also the best ME I can be and i really appreciate that. ❤ Im an African American female working in corporate america right now and you touched on some real struggles we have in this kind of work environment. As I step into my role as a mental health provider, which is my passion, i know that what ive been learning from you will also help me be a better provider to my patients and I can also pay it forward. Love ya! You are beautiful, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. ♥️
I love this podcast, accidentally ran into it and I'm enamored with Mel's perspective..she seems like such a real and down to earth person who you could hangout with and be yourself 100%
I watch Mel Robbins because of the funny things you make those things that we all do in regular life, normal and funny and make us feel less of a freak because we don’t talk to about these things that we all do these things but we don’t talk about them, but we feel bad about ourselves When we look like shit and we feel like shit and we don’t want to see people but you’re like fuck it this is real. I didn’t want to show up today and look what happened when I did and you can do it too. I mean that’s the best type of encouragement there could possibly be.🎉❤😂
BOY OH BOY...loosen UP MY FRIENDS! None of this is crazy. As we mature and come into ourselves we have the power to be authentic and not care about rules and what other people think. Be Free Mel!
Mel Robbins, omg I adore your approach! I appreciate your courage. You are so brave to portray a real woman with emotions and the freedom to do what you want instead of what other people want. I think these females are incredibly dogmatic. You are not harming anyone; those women should not shame you. why should you be one of 100000 other women who shows them only in perfect appearance....please do not listen to them, please continue to be real!!!!
One of the reasons I listen to Mel is because I feel like she is honest and real when she communicates and shares with us.
Nips, toes, sweat... most judgmental, superficial comments. Thank you so much Mel for actually being authentic. Clearly we need way more of it in this world.
Omg those ladies are way to sensitive! Love how real Mel is! Makes me love her even more! Thank you for being transparent and super down to earth.
That’s absolutely nothing to worry about, Mel looked fine, I’m glad she didn’t give a shit. Mel’s comfortable in her own skin , and I’d like a body like hers. Open toes shoes, are they kidding ? They need to get real, and if you want to stay in the sun, that’s up to you, let them go into the shade. ( Let them 😉 ) I think these ladies are a little snobby to be honest.
Totally Agree! I love MEL even more now. Talk about uptight and freaking Puritanical. Mel was with all women. She had to cover her nips. Get outta here. How does she work with them? They wish they could be as cool 😎 as MEL!
I agree, Mel, you help me so much how to live my life FREE.
It’s shocking how women are always the one judging other women. Men wouldn’t care if their male colleague is exposing his toes or is shirtless. Who gives a s* that your nipples are showing during a meeting with 4 other women colleagues in a very informal/ casual environment? Come on.
As I said in another comment, there is nothing wrong with wanting to see a video where the person doing the podcast has cleaner language. It doesn't mean the person who wants that is 'uptight', it just means they want more clean, respectful language and there is nothing wrong with that.
Mel is the goat. It’s very clear she has reached a freedom to be herself, in a way that others can’t imagine.
I really apire daily to get to this level of not giving a shit genuinely xx
Czech actress Helena Ružičkova was comedian in movies.Obese lady...People asked her questions about her weight.
She said me who can dress myself behind a tiny tree?
She said with humor:
I go to a beach, and throw away my bra, and kids make a tent of it.
🐐 is right.😊
@@paulaoneill2389I lived this way in my marriage for 25yrs. I was myself. I refused to be a Stanford wife and pretend to be someone I am not. I was with this man for 3 decades of my life so when you don’t give a shit about what people think as long as your partner gets you this is the most liberating time of your life. I didn’t dress up for him or anyone or at home just be yourselves if you didn’t want to comb your hair or shave your legs or fancy nails etc just be yourself watch tv in the house all day. I love been myself and I hope to get a partner that get me. ❤
My daughter is a tattoo artist, and tattoed all over her body EXCEPT her face. In the beginning I was horrified, people stare at her. But now I am so FREAKING PROUD of her, she owns her own business, purchased her own house, has a GOLDEN HEART, has raised money for the unfortunate, and is socially aware and gives back! She was SELF TRAINED, did not go to college but COULD HAVE with her grades. People judge her by her looks, but she is the most AWESOME PERSON I KNOW!!!!!
The people that work for you are EXTREMELY UPTIGHT! I think this is honestly ridiculous and idk how they are living normal happy lives trying to fit into all these ridiculous society norms. I thought they were going to say some real idgaf stuff but this is absurd. Mel, you are actually the normal one and this has given me the courage to really not gaf because people are going to judge you ridiculously anyway. Love You Mel and please don’t begin to take any of this any way! WEAR THE VALENTINO’S WITHOUT NAIL POLISH. I’m Soooo For It!
Oh and everything they said hasn’t stopped you by far.
Being your authentic self has got to be the most liberating experience ever, despite social norms and expectations. Thank you Mel for leading the way.
Totally 💯 ❤
Be free... Always.
All I can think is your team is too uptight ;) I love that you don't care what people think. it's an inspiration to many people that always feel judged by others. Also, I think that playful don't care nature could have something to do with ADHD, because everyone I know who's diagnosed, are more playful and less serious. Thanks for being awesome
Lol I might want to think so too but they are a great balance for her. I love them all
I agree I have adhd and am playful and can act goofy ….
Hmmm
Never considered that theory..
Maybe true!
Yeah, jeez, who knew Mel's team is so uptight? Yikes. Seriously, OPEN TOED SHOES?!!!
Yes absolutely, I love Mel, she’s being her self, get over it ladies your too critical.
I TOTALLY relate to your eye-opening comment re people with AD(H)D being more playful and less serious!!! Thanks for sharing yet another reason we are so fortunate and awesome! 😊
That’s why we love Mel! She is real!! ❤ That is how she connects with real people!! Mel, please don’t change!!! 😘
Exactly. Her being "polarizing" pushes away the people who can't handle her and attracts those who fiercely admire her😁❤
Mel you are ruck! I like you so much and appreciate your amazing humility. ❤❤
I am here crying Mel. Thank you. ❤️ I was bullied in corporate America and i wasn't a shark. This was so healing. Not the right fit. I found my purpose and I am grateful for the experience and for the opportunity. I learned a lot.
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I can’t tell you how badly I needed to hear this entire episode. I’m a self loathing SOB and have imprisoned my 50 year old self since the 3rd grade. Thank you for being real and bringing humor into my day.
Talk to Mel!!
You are never to old to Start living youre best life!!! You go ❤
You are never to old to Start living your best life!!! You go ❤
I'm very self conscious how I look and what people will think.
Mel you have the RIGHT attitude. Do not give a shit what anyone else says. And your team needs to keep their judgments and opinions to themselves.
Maybe so, but I do wish she would watch her language a little bit. I've watched a lot of her videos now and have noticed more and more that she will let F bombs and the 's' word slip. She can get her point across just as well without the constant 's' and F words. With the language she sometimes uses, my grandmother would be a bit offended by her videos.
Mel, you are amazing!!!
You nailed it Mel! I used to worry about how I look till my early 30's, I am 36 now, I have some fine lines when I smile and some adult acne which a couple of years ago I would spend an hour covering it..Right now literally I don't give a shit, I am perfect in my own imperfection!
Great! You sound smart,young lady!& beautiful going with your life!🧚♀️❤️💪🌹
We love you Mel 💕⚡️ please never change your authenticity. This world needs more!
Mel, we love your authenticity! ❤
I love you so much and what you’re saying here about NOT caring!!!! Who the heck cares if your toes are exposed at a meeting!!! What the heck do your feet have to do with your character or what you have to offer? You are sooo GENUINE! I think it’s refreshing! At almost 50, I’ve lived my entire life caring what people think, and listening to you is sooo inspiring and FREEING! I finally don’t give a shit, and it is liberating!!! How you’re being described here is exactly why I LOVE who you are!
Mel, I agree with you!! The person that criticized you with all those cruel things behind a computer is unhappy with themselves. You’re so Awesome and smart and loving and helpful towards everyone. It’s obvious they are jealous and don’t like their life. It’s sad that people waist energy cutting people down!! Thanks for all you do!! You’re so inspiring ❤
Thank you!! I have always cared what other thought because that was what my mother always taught me. She was raised very co-dependent and could never see that it was wrong. She raised me the same way, my father was always very demanding and I was taught to always cater to the men in my family. Never talk like I am smart, because someone may think I think I am better than them. Well I am the only high school and college graduate in my family and I deserve to be free to speak the way I want to. It is not my problem that others are so insecure that they feel put off by my intelligence. I have a bachelors degree in law, I am a paralegal at a very large firm and I should be proud of that not made to hide those facts because it may make someone else feels a certain way. That is not my problem. Your videos and podcast have been so liberating for me. Please never stop speaking the truth. It took me 50 years to embrace who I am. BTW your daughters singing made this military mom cry. She has an amazing voice and hope she shares it with the world.
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Because I’m smarter than YOU FF!!! 😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love you Mel!!!
Being authentic is so important. Connecting on a real level - really needed these days. Yes, there are social norms, however, being free to carry yourself without self critical judgement or from others for that matter, so good for our mental health.
Normalize showing the reality of everyday life and stop glamorizing social perfectionism, sooo love this! Authentic living ❤
Sadly as a woman of color if I went to a store looking like crap, I might get followed. We have to acknowledge that not all of us can completely free ourselves from social norms without major consequences in this nation. At the same time, I do believe we must find places to show up as a true authentic selves😊
@@JennyGaston can I repharse : completely free ourselves YET
You daughter has a gorgeous voice!!!
As for your video after yoga, you looked like you had just left yoga, thanks!!! I love that you are your genuine self in videos, meaning sometimes you look like a real person does at home and don't feel the need to always have coifed hair and makeup. Thanks for keeping it real. 👍
@@JennyGastonI relate. I will go to the mall with my husband of 31yrs and didn’t give. Shit. I had flip flops and my hair was messed up with nice scarf and earrings with basketball shorts and T-shirt but I knew that I own my house, I had the best job at children hospital and money in the bank to get whatever I wanted if I wanted. My parents were hard working and raised me with Morals and respect and values and if anyone judge me I didn’t care because I had my shit together. Didn’t shave and was not perfect lady Barbie like these guys want us to be 24hrs. All these male coaches online pushing for females to be sexually enticing and well out together in the house and before you go to bed and in bed and morning when you prepare breakfast lol that shit is unrealistic and that is why we have so much mental health issues in marriage that are fake expectations.
Mel Robbins is my spirit animal! I think this is why I'm not invited to meetings at work. 😂😂😂
I just don't see anything wrong with any of the moments they were all 😮about.
My favorite quote of this episode: “you are you 100% all the time”
I don’t see a problem with the sun bathing. You go, Mel!
You are freaking Mel Robbins! I seriously don't think your shoes matter AT ALL! I just came across your content and I absolutely love you!!!
Big takeaway is to ask, what do I value? Why do I get worried about what others think when I am doing something that I value? That’s huge. Thank you ❤️
I resent how your staff takes such enjoyment in finding such fault in your actions. I hope they have your sense of humor and confidence as they age!🤔🤨😍
I lost confidence when I lost a lot of hair and was ill but have recently hit record again. I agree it’s important to let people see you not being some impossible perfect ideal all the time. It’s been hard though.
Holy crap!! I live barefoot as often as possible! I am a Massage Therapist & Reiki Master. When will we evolve beyond antiquated "nipples & toes must be covered" male demeaning women, thinking???!!!! I am so happy Mel rises above this nonsense! I am truly shocked at these corporate women and their boxed in ideals. Hopefully Mel will help them to ease up and see how free REAL WOMEN can be in their own confidence. Hugs to you all!! I am still trying to get this!! Love, love, love YOU, MEL!!!!! Be.YOU.tiful.
We absolutely love you Mel for not being afraid to be yourself at all times. In fact, this is one of the sexiest traits you have. You are definitely a heroine to me for helping me to learn how not to give a s--t what other people think of me and being more thoughtful about what I really care about. ⭐️
U being u is what we luv about u and please don't stop cussing. A wise older woman once told me "it's none of my business what u think of me" and since she told me that, I live by that. Thanks for being real!
I listened to this today while working out and I LAUGHED OUT LOUD sooo many times!! It is a freeing escape not to give a $hit about what anyone thinks about you!! It took me a minute, but I am at a point in my life where I CARE NOT!!!
I absolutely LOVE that you don’t give a shit!! You are real and AWESOME!!
I love whats happening here in this podcast. So it's completely refreshing to see beautiful grown ass women keeping it all the way real, being completely honest with one another and not taking huge offense and getting mad at their friends or coworkers for telling them how they really feel or what they think. I love the acceptance and I love you Mel Robbins not only because of you as a person but bc of your embracement, courage and being so transparent for other women who desperately need these things in their own lives, including mine. Thank you ladies!
I love the advice you gave Dr Amy! She deserves to be recognized for her accomplishments. I think she felt undeserving and self conscious about the title. She should be proud if it!!
Please don’t censor yourself to conform to society’s “rules.” We
need more authentic people in the world! Open toe shoes and sunbathing at lunch should be acceptable behavior!!
Don’t ever change. You are so awesome. Your staff is great!
This episode is so timely. Thank you. Caring a little less what others think. It's a process.
Love you Mel. More people need to be raw and real as you are ❤ I'm raw and real and some people just can't handle it. Its not like we are disrespecting anyone or hurting anyone. We are just real and down to earth. Totally agree with you. It's so freeing.
Your daughter’s voice is truly a gift to the world! Thank you for such a great episode. It has me reflecting on who I am and how I present myself to the people around me. Now, I’m off to caring about the stuff that matters. Thank you. ❤
First 20mins in and I can't stop laughing. Thank you Mel for being authentic. 🙏
Honestly I just love how real you are Mel and see nothing wrong with what this lady is bringing up that you did. Keep being your real self Mel. Some people just overthink everything.
I love that you are you and that gives everyone else to be "real" which as women we have been told to shut it down, look a certain way, don't be to smart etc Women think they have to be perfect and wait until everything is in perfect place. meaning we never do the things we want to do.
Be you Mel
Mel, this episode really shows me why I Love You So Very Much!! I love how real you are. I love that you dont give a shit. I love your confidence. I love your channel and all of the life changing things you share with the world to help us to do better and feel better about ourself. It all makes you a beautiful person.
Social media has a huge problem. Not much of it is real. Everyone is so focused on the outside appearance that it's disgusting. I have watched,.listened and met a lot of beautiful looking people but they are not kind, they are arrogant, they look perfect on the outside but you can tell inside they are not happy.
I laughed so hard as your employees told you the things you did wrong. I loved your expressions because I would have probably had the same ones. The things people are concerned about these days.....I too find it freeing to not "Give A Shit!" Its amazing. It took me until the age of 54 to figure it all out. I have more peace and joy in my life. Life is difficult enough as it is, why care about all of this shit too!! 🤷♀️
Thank you. ❤
I LOVE all the REALS of Mel Robbins. I identify with not being perfect and I love learning from (and listen more to) someone who is authentic. Like a best friend. Thanks for being you Mel Robbins.
Those who matter don't mind. And those who mind don't matter! Keep it REAL! Stay true to YOU!! Thanks Mel and Team!
Thank you, I needed this reminder!
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Wow! How can you relax and be free!
I must break a few rules too.
I think about living more than making errors.
This is getting hurtful. So many love you Mel.
We have your back.
It’s amazing how judgemental some people are.
Life is worth living without worrying about not always appearing perfect. Thanks for keeping it real Mel!
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THANKS FOR LOVING YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT!
Great role model on air.
I am dying of laughter in the gym, ppl are looking and everything… I needed this laugh this morning. I had absolutely no motivation but this is so helping! Thank you Mel! ❤
Wow! Your daughters singing moved me to tears! Stunningly beautiful ❤️
I teared up when Kendal sang - and I’m not even an American!
You are inspirational, Mel.
I spent most of my life hiding, camouflaged myself so I didn't stick out and have negative feedback and look foolish, I was depressed and practiced self preservation by being invisible.. I'm now 54, overweight, colour my hair blue, pink or purple because I don't care now, I'm a Reiki healer, I found that people smiled and say positive things about my hair, if I can make just one person smile for the day then I'm doing my job ☺️ if they are happy, I am happy 😊 you do you boo❤
Came over for the photo and it did not disappoint!! Saturday I wore a top to the farmer's market that I love but never wear because it doesn't work with a bra. It def pushed my comfort zone as I felt I could see my nipples more than I'd like. I wore it, got a complement and lived to tell the tale here! Wooohooo! Giving less f*cks every day!! Love you so much Mel and team!
Wonderful podcast. Thank you, Mel. And your daughter singing the National Anthem brought me to tears. Thank you for all you do ❤
Mel you are a freaking rockstar! I love love love this episode! I love how real you are! You’re a true inspiration. And cheers to not giving a sh*t 🥂
Mel you're awesome! You crack me up. Not only because you are real....but because you help the rest of us to be so as well. Thank you for all you do!
Huge ah ha moment!!!! “If you look at the people in your circle, and you’re not inspired, you’re in a cage…..”
Thank you for being you Mel and being a true version of yourself! Love “spending time on what matters and going out not all done up!” 🥰
Oh my gosh!! Your daughter is amazing!!!! 🥲🥲🥰 Congratulations Mel!!!
the last 5 minutes of the pod was by far the most profound i ever heard by mel.... bravo
OY VEY!!!! You go, girl! You taught me "LET THEM" and I am forever in your debt! Don't care if your toes are funky or not:)
Good for you Mel! I’m 74 years old & not happy to say it took me to age 60 to stop worrying about what other people think of me. As a lifetime empath, I’ve been a kind, loving supportive & successful person but self acceptance was my challenge. Life is soooooo sweet once you stop the constant worry. I’m sorry you have to work with judgmental people.
As a naturist I'm shocked that other women are shocked by seeing another womans nipples, and through a top at that! Good for you going against the grain Mel and being you x
I wonder if they shame women for nursing in public by their actions/looks.
I LOVE this about Mel - too many people only show the glamorous version of themselves. Reality is what we need to see. I can tell Mel does this because she’s trying to help herself first and her listeners if that works for them!
Love you Mel.❤ AUTHENTICITY is the new confidence builder. I resonate with you do deeply. 😆🤣
i feel really uncomfortable and find it hard to believe how much HER STAFF were judging and getting her to conform to their norms. mel wasnt wearing PJs at the audible meeting, nor was she nude by the pool. the q that crosses my mind is: where does the judgement end? or does it?
Dear Mel, to be honest, I watch other people on TH-cam even though I know your name for some years now. You got me TRULY inspired by saying SO much wisdom finishing this podcast. You really touched me. Am 56, soon I turn 57 and yes, I do not give a SH about my age. In life I DO care about daring to be ME !!! It has been my major struggle. Part of me is a strong lady, part of me is HSP …. No need to explain, I guess. I LOVED your final quote and it is SO much true ! What is the point of having a ‘circle’ in life and you do not dare to be yourself, then indeed that circle IS a cage 🙏🙏🙏. I definately keep this in mind as I continue my growth in life. Big thanks ❤️🌟❤️
Thank you so much for what you do and who you are Mel. You’re helping me change my life ❤
I realized something eye opening. I beat myself up sometimes for saying dumb or cringe things but seeing Mel do those things is endearing and lovely! The ones who look back are the employeees looking petty for pointing out “mistakes”
Mel, you looked awesome in the picture. In the military the commander determines the uniform of the day. I think in this situation you are the commander, dress as you want.
You guys are so right …it’s way better seeing what we’re listening to as well here on TH-cam 😂. I am learning so much from your podcasts and no words will describe how grateful I am for real humans like you . Thank you so much ❤💚💙
I love listening to Mel. She is such a force for good and for surviving and thriving. I love her zesty personality! It is the vivacity and personality of Mel Robbins that makes her so special and attractive. Safety and conformity lead to MEH. She's not out of order.
Wow! I’m reading comments and every one is supporting you on this Mel!! Wow ❤
I think telling Dr. To use her title as Doctor. SHE Earned it! And she's a woman that had to work even harder! Men still have it easier. So good for you to tell her to embrace her title! ❤
I wouldn't have thought twice about it. It's awesome that you appreciate your body including your toes!
I worked from home today and really needed a little company so I put this podcast on for company. You are all now my favourite co-workers. I laughed so hard and worked really hard too. Thank you xx
This was terrific, Mel! And I just loved your team being on here with you. This was the first time I've listened to the Podcast on TH-cam, and it was awesome! It adds so much to be able to see your faces as you talk. Thanks for doing this!
Do we really want to live in a corporate world that is based on such shallow judgement? I remember being chastised for wearing white shoes after Labor Day. Our societal 'norms' are a bunch of made up rules that keep us from being our authentic selves. Go Mel🎉
This episode makes me love Mel even more! Love all your content ❤
OMG I absolutely LOVE YOU Mel!!!!! Love how real you are & your employees can be honest with you about things you do & you don’t get mad or offended! You are amazing, awesome & the Best Mel! I could watch this podcast over & over!!!!❤❤❤❤
Really shows how much superficial BS the world worshipes! Good choices Mel!!😘
My Absolutely Fricken FAVOURITE video you’ve put out Mel Robbins ❤️❤️❤️❤️
WOW WOW WOW.... you don't know how much you inspired me at this time of my life THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! MEL
My favorite phrase is: "What you think of me is none of my business" what I think of me is my business" and I had to learn to love myself, and that is what I do.. First I had to learn what Love, happiness, peace and harmony REALLY mean. "Try it" hagd...
I'm with ya Mel. When I need my sun, I need my sun 🌞
The only place I dont want to see open toed shoes is in a professional kitchen.
I love Mel . She is so real and some people can pull all of this off ! Some people can't. The open toed shoes thing is so dated . At some point in the past, women would not be see without stockings on, now ,women never wear stockings. I would be a Mel any day over a stick in the mud boring person. Mel rocks ! Its what makes her a success! Altho, i do love your team ! I think you all work together well. Its all about success ! And Mel is that ! Love you and how much you help me !
Thank you Mel for being so authentic and for real conversations that make us think deeply 👍💪.
The more i hear you explain how you are focused on what really matters,and how you overcame the hurt,i so admire your wisdom. Your a beautiful strong teacher!
This made my day while I was working and doing chores around the house! Love you, Mel! You’re so funny and awesome!💜😂
Mel keep being you. That's why we love you. Please don't change
If this is considered bad, - and OPEN TOES bad, because..? 😀
You've gotta move to Norway, Mel. ;-). Toes out, sun wear and all.
And your post sauna pictures? GREAT! We are humans, not painted dolls.
Everybody is taking about the pressure on looks - and you make it REAL, and help removing ingrained shame about natural body functions. That does not mean we cannot clean up, but kids out there ar having DEPRESSIONS because of pimples. Mel, you are doing the work to let people off the hook.
Well done.
Out of the sauna you do not look like shit, you look like a person coming out of a sauna. YOU allow that.
As far as I can see, you are a GREAT role model for people of all ages.
Women shamed to NOT show their toes?
Where does it stop?
You make life real in a society mad about Kardeshian look, and pressure on body look and body dysmorphia.
WONDERFUL. Mel. You are letting go of the shaming of women, men and being a normal human being.
In my book, this is the way to go.
BIG hug.
This is why you are such a big name, making so much money and they work for you.
You are real, you show us what is possible just being ourself. Keep breaking the rules and leading the way for us ❤
YOU ARE perfect just the way you are, regardless of people drowning you in their opinions and judgements.
This is just what I needed to hear. I started my own positive journal. I put in quotes that inspire me. "You alone are enough, you have nothing to prove to anybody." By Maya Angelou. "We delight in the beauty of the Butte but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty,". Both quotes are from Maya Angelou, they both remind me of my own personal journey and growth. These lessons are vital. I picture people in my life as animals, if we were all meant to be the same life would be boring. But comparing fish, to birds, to animals that live in water and comparing them in a race is unfair because they are built differently.
OMG, I recently started a new job & needed to hear this!!! Apparently this showed up in my suggested videos for a reason. Thank you, Mel, for being you!!
Mel, you truly are amazing. I recently found you and haven't stopped watching you! I can't believe you used to live in MA. We were practically neighbors.
The photo of Mel after yoga is totally priceless!!! That is the most I've laughed ever during the 100+ hours of watching the Mel Robbins Show. Just love that you have jettisoned the uber vain thing. You're the Best, Mel.
I think those ladies have a bit of pucker in their b-holes. Keep being you. Every response they gave seemed to be based on what society thinks, what other people think, and not coming from a sense of freedom. I say you keep being you. You're fabulous.
😂😂😂 Real conversations with real humans. I love how all these ladies have different opinions and are comfortable sharing their “should and shouldn’ts” regardless of the severity of judgement. Hearing the thoughts behind the judgements or lack of caring what people think, offers great insight at how everyone experiences the world in a different way. Each lady gave me a chance to think about their perspective and ask myself what would I do/think/feel … and at the end of the day, would the thoughts/feelings bring peace or unnecessary stress. Great exercise in exploring some of the hidden joy-killers I bring upon myself for unnecessary judgment on things that do not matter. 😅😂
I think it's absolutely great! Being in that form is absolutely liberating and the fact that you have enough confidence to sit like that whether by yourself or with a group of people is very encouraging. I am so proud of you and I encourage other women to embrace themselves the same way that you have.
I love you Mel! Keep being you! Your realness and authenticity is what we need in this world right now. Watching your videos has helped me to be more comfortable in my own skin and also the best ME I can be and i really appreciate that. ❤ Im an African American female working in corporate america right now and you touched on some real struggles we have in this kind of work environment. As I step into my role as a mental health provider, which is my passion, i know that what ive been learning from you will also help me be a better provider to my patients and I can also pay it forward. Love ya! You are beautiful, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. ♥️
I love this podcast, accidentally ran into it and I'm enamored with Mel's perspective..she seems like such a real and down to earth person who you could hangout with and be yourself 100%
I watch Mel Robbins because of the funny things you make those things that we all do in regular life, normal and funny and make us feel less of a freak because we don’t talk to about these things that we all do these things but we don’t talk about them, but we feel bad about ourselves When we look like shit and we feel like shit and we don’t want to see people but you’re like fuck it this is real. I didn’t want to show up today and look what happened when I did and you can do it too. I mean that’s the best type of encouragement there could possibly be.🎉❤😂
BOY OH BOY...loosen UP MY FRIENDS! None of this is crazy. As we mature and come into ourselves we have the power to be authentic and not care about rules and what other people think. Be Free Mel!
Mel Robbins, omg I adore your approach! I appreciate your courage. You are so brave to portray a real woman with emotions and the freedom to do what you want instead of what other people want. I think these females are incredibly dogmatic. You are not harming anyone; those women should not shame you. why should you be one of 100000 other women who shows them only in perfect appearance....please do not listen to them, please continue to be real!!!!