This is what I wish we were taught at a younger age. Not giving a fuck is about focusing on the things that matter, not about trying to be cool. So many things you care about end up not mattering at all and the worst part is that while you spent your time worrying about those irrelevant things, the things that actually mattered in your life like goals and health get neglected. Fantastic video as always.
I swear TH-cam knows what I need right now in my life. I got too focused on wanting to spend time with this girl I met at my gym and I've been finding myself getting wrapped up in my own mental fantasy and I've been feeling as if I'm spiraling a little, I need to withdraw and bring myself back to the other disciplines I've had previously
Been there myself, my friend. Often when we are still young & lacking awareness, we can't help but follow our natural urges as men, "To procreate as much as possible" so we got helplessly dragged into temptations by our penis, especially to those of us who only got the first tease/taste of pussy, it becomes addicting to borderline fantasy inducing. I've personally wasted 5 years of my 20s chasing pussies, and being brutally honest, I've never been more miserable and directionless in my life even when I have them. Because I felt my life was going nowhere exciting/immersive except to just wake up, eat and have sex every f*cking day. Men need & must have self-driven priorities & conquests in life, thats how we truly become fulfilled & satisfied with ourselves, and in the end the women we were chasing before, will present themselves before us & desire us even more because we have become what they're looking for in a man
Don't give a fuck is what one needs to deal with the increasingly toxic societies we are in. Invest your time and spend energy for yourself be it for your self improvement or development are what is truly worth in today's age. For those who reads this comment, have a great day!
This couldn't have came at a better time for me. I just finished setting a part of my home up for at least a whole week focusing on doing art and fight my artist block, and then I saw you uploading this message. Thank you.
Im currently breaking all my weightlifting PR's in my room, organizing my music librairies, sorting my written drafts & preparing to move back to Europe 🇪🇺. We're all gonna make it brah!! 💪
I'm proud of you men. I don't know why this channel popped up in my recommended but it's pretty good shit. I've already been doing pretty much everything this guy talks about but I'm glad there's a voice for men who might have strayed off course.
I am not advicing this, but surviving drug addiction makes you not give a crap about anything anyone says about you. Again. I am not advicing drug addiction. Alcoholism is more way more acceptable.
It's all self awareness, respect,and control of oneself, indulging isn't wrong over indulging is but no indulgence isn't always bad or wrong either, being a pessimist or optimist isn't being realistic
Like always, keep up the good work my guy. Its thanks to you and other creators that I have made myself more of an empowered man due to the content you guys make.
When shit happens my empathy is out there I like to understand the event and people involved but when it comes to my social obligation to care I'm just going to dismiss it and say yeah it sure sucks for them but It has nothing to do with me
a big truck collapsed in front of your place and you get disappointed that someone mention it with some sadness . We care about him but we dont have to help but we cant go physically help him or people we dont know. or we would have to help everyone with all our time. But at least is big enough to worth mentioning
I always grab fck lots of attention. I am so good at it. Ans if i seek the aggressive approach, but the violence is not really necessary than i do all my best to show I am not fck paying not a single split second to something. It's devastating power.
If you gotta use all those words and get emotional towards someone like that and you can't keep it simple by giving silence or a simple "yikes" you need to put down the weights and pick up a holy book and get your spirit strong not your body
I've always thought that I'm the only one who thinks in this way. People really talk about worthless shits which won't make any contribution to their lifes. If they'd talk about interesting topics, I'd understand them. But they talk about boring stuffs like these things matter. Worthless topics -> worthless talks -> worthless actions -> worthless beings.
On the accident part I disagree with your response but it's your view on life I can't challenge that. You did tell your mate how to go about it if it impacted him so much but having such a platform and sharing what you prioritize in this matter, will not a lot of men start to approach things based on what you have shared? A lot of men who do not have much of a male figure in their lives who turn to this channel for such as I have read in the comments once in the past? will they not take your word as gospel? Are you not here to restore and not to destroy? And if you do not care about the gentleman in that accident this maybe mean that you do not care about us your audience? Numbing one's self against the misfortune of strangers will soon affect those who are close to us and if that is the result, what you have been doing on this platform will result to naught. No you did not tell us to approach it as you did but persons will run with it all the same.
You are taking this matter a bit superstitiously my friend I don't care about the man because he is not my priority, and most importantly I can't do anything about it because his circumstances are out of my control, that is why I said it is tough luck because accidents happen all the time to us all. If you question my level of pity/sympathy/empathy towards him, truth be told, I'm just indifferent, because his problems are not problems that I care about, and again more importantly, I can't do anything about it. I have my own priorities and so have you. I can't be in many places at once. My audience is the sole reason why I'm doing this in the first place. If I don't care about them, I would not keep making content and eventually write a book to try to save men's lives? Like I said in the video, if you DO CARE, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Like I did with this channel because I CARE about young men whose hit rock bottom and getting kicked while their down, and I don't want them to kill themselves because of it. Like I mentioned, in the end it is your own choice, what you prioritize. Just make sure you don't get derailed from your own direction that you chose or get juggled around with circumstances out of your control and getting nowhere. We only have so much mental bandwidth to occupy our minds with every day, so make sure they are worthwhile to your life If my perspective is identified as cold in your view, I have no problem with it, I can't please everyone in the end. I speak my mind and that is genuinely how I think of it. If the men in my audience would want to follow me or not it is completely their own choice, because I never force anyone to do so.
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True, and I admit that this is something I'll need to keep reminding myself, because nowadays everything in this world wants people's attention.
@@VenomLeon in a world where everyone is over exposed, the coolest thing you can do is maintain your mystery.
This is what I wish we were taught at a younger age. Not giving a fuck is about focusing on the things that matter, not about trying to be cool. So many things you care about end up not mattering at all and the worst part is that while you spent your time worrying about those irrelevant things, the things that actually mattered in your life like goals and health get neglected. Fantastic video as always.
no, you had to feel the consequences yourself or you would not have believed it.
My family doesn't matter also in that sense right?
"Not giving a fuck is about focusing on the things that matters not looking cool". Well said.
@@samfisher9413 It truly was. It was fantastic!! I will keep tht one for ...a long time. Tysm! 🤍
In other words, you will stop caring when you have something important to focus on.
I swear TH-cam knows what I need right now in my life. I got too focused on wanting to spend time with this girl I met at my gym and I've been finding myself getting wrapped up in my own mental fantasy and I've been feeling as if I'm spiraling a little, I need to withdraw and bring myself back to the other disciplines I've had previously
Been there myself, my friend. Often when we are still young & lacking awareness, we can't help but follow our natural urges as men, "To procreate as much as possible" so we got helplessly dragged into temptations by our penis, especially to those of us who only got the first tease/taste of pussy, it becomes addicting to borderline fantasy inducing.
I've personally wasted 5 years of my 20s chasing pussies, and being brutally honest, I've never been more miserable and directionless in my life even when I have them. Because I felt my life was going nowhere exciting/immersive except to just wake up, eat and have sex every f*cking day.
Men need & must have self-driven priorities & conquests in life, thats how we truly become fulfilled & satisfied with ourselves, and in the end the women we were chasing before, will present themselves before us & desire us even more because we have become what they're looking for in a man
This channel is gold
This is an indept explanation of "an idle mind is the devil's work shop"
Don't give a fuck is what one needs to deal with the increasingly toxic societies we are in. Invest your time and spend energy for yourself be it for your self improvement or development are what is truly worth in today's age.
For those who reads this comment, have a great day!
I know now why I felt holding back without being honest to myself to others. Honesty equals integrity...but at the cost of more enemies.
This couldn't have came at a better time for me. I just finished setting a part of my home up for at least a whole week focusing on doing art and fight my artist block, and then I saw you uploading this message. Thank you.
Im currently breaking all my weightlifting PR's in my room, organizing my music librairies, sorting my written drafts & preparing to move back to Europe 🇪🇺. We're all gonna make it brah!! 💪
@@asparrow9876 organizing your music libraries? How so; Are you talking about CD’s, Vinyls, notation sheets, or mp3s?
@@freckleheckler6311 mp3 files and folders
I'm proud of you men. I don't know why this channel popped up in my recommended but it's pretty good shit. I've already been doing pretty much everything this guy talks about but I'm glad there's a voice for men who might have strayed off course.
I am not advicing this, but surviving drug addiction makes you not give a crap about anything anyone says about you. Again. I am not advicing drug addiction. Alcoholism is more way more acceptable.
Most underrated TH-cam channel for men.
Definitely wished I had this mindset a long time ago, even before I was in the military. Better late than never though. Thanks for sharing sir👍🏿
It's all self awareness, respect,and control of oneself, indulging isn't wrong over indulging is but no indulgence isn't always bad or wrong either, being a pessimist or optimist isn't being realistic
This is the best male development TH-cam channel
Like always, keep up the good work my guy. Its thanks to you and other creators that I have made myself more of an empowered man due to the content you guys make.
If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.
Well spoken 🎖️
Amazing. Every sentence hits home, we are all victims of this mass psychosis, we must stop and get to work and enjoy our lives
Love your channel. Good work mate
Thank you mate 👊
100% truth
solid content. keep up the good work.
stay on the path gentlemen.
a just found a gold mine thank u for content !
Loving the content!! *salute*
Oh wow! I was not expecting such quality.
When shit happens my empathy is out there I like to understand the event and people involved but when it comes to my social obligation to care I'm just going to dismiss it and say yeah it sure sucks for them but It has nothing to do with me
beautiful . Absolutely beautiful . Gonna binge your rest of your videos rn
Lol I like this guy🤙
Good vid broski
Everybody gangsta until mechanich from Escape From Tarkov showes up.
Respect to your vocabulary 👏 👌 🙌. Why you do not have IG page
Moral of the video:- Mind your own business.......
a big truck collapsed in front of your place and you get disappointed that someone mention it with some sadness . We care about him but we dont have to help but we cant go physically help him or people we dont know. or we would have to help everyone with all our time. But at least is big enough to worth mentioning
This is a really good video
Thanx!!!
You should put these in writing please
Preaching to the choir.... Heard all this way before
This channel is my life
End Times... Lovers of self. It is written
Can a Make video on how to Respond to a Insult
Pretty much
I always grab fck lots of attention. I am so good at it.
Ans if i seek the aggressive approach, but the violence is not really necessary than i do all my best to show I am not fck paying not a single split second to something.
It's devastating power.
That was gangsta 🎓🙏
I fuckin love this guy now, I wanna be friends 🤘.
welcome to my life, facts
Put these videos in writings please🙏
Agreed.
No talking on leg day
If you gotta use all those words and get emotional towards someone like that and you can't keep it simple by giving silence or a simple "yikes" you need to put down the weights and pick up a holy book and get your spirit strong not your body
I've always thought that I'm the only one who thinks in this way. People really talk about worthless shits which won't make any contribution to their lifes. If they'd talk about interesting topics, I'd understand them. But they talk about boring stuffs like these things matter. Worthless topics -> worthless talks -> worthless actions -> worthless beings.
#respect
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On the accident part I disagree with your response but it's your view on life I can't challenge that. You did tell your mate how to go about it if it impacted him so much but having such a platform and sharing what you prioritize in this matter, will not a lot of men start to approach things based on what you have shared? A lot of men who do not have much of a male figure in their lives who turn to this channel for such as I have read in the comments once in the past? will they not take your word as gospel? Are you not here to restore and not to destroy? And if you do not care about the gentleman in that accident this maybe mean that you do not care about us your audience? Numbing one's self against the misfortune of strangers will soon affect those who are close to us and if that is the result, what you have been doing on this platform will result to naught.
No you did not tell us to approach it as you did but persons will run with it all the same.
You are taking this matter a bit superstitiously my friend
I don't care about the man because he is not my priority, and most importantly I can't do anything about it because his circumstances are out of my control, that is why I said it is tough luck because accidents happen all the time to us all. If you question my level of pity/sympathy/empathy towards him, truth be told, I'm just indifferent, because his problems are not problems that I care about, and again more importantly, I can't do anything about it.
I have my own priorities and so have you. I can't be in many places at once. My audience is the sole reason why I'm doing this in the first place. If I don't care about them, I would not keep making content and eventually write a book to try to save men's lives? Like I said in the video, if you DO CARE, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Like I did with this channel because I CARE about young men whose hit rock bottom and getting kicked while their down, and I don't want them to kill themselves because of it.
Like I mentioned, in the end it is your own choice, what you prioritize. Just make sure you don't get derailed from your own direction that you chose or get juggled around with circumstances out of your control and getting nowhere. We only have so much mental bandwidth to occupy our minds with every day, so make sure they are worthwhile to your life
If my perspective is identified as cold in your view, I have no problem with it, I can't please everyone in the end. I speak my mind and that is genuinely how I think of it. If the men in my audience would want to follow me or not it is completely their own choice, because I never force anyone to do so.
@@Forged88 respect. Thanks for the clarity.
Better the old fashion video style
Move on mate, people evolve
4:35 the cringe is running through my veins
2nd
Damn the poor guy just wanted to strike up a conversation about something that might be relevant the Mr. Alpha Male here, no need to be so rude
Man I was born not giving a fuck, my wife says “And look at you, you don’t give a fuck!” And I make sure in convey the message thoroughly 😆
I envy you mate 👊