the most relatable youtuber everrr!! as a fellow 24-year-old introverted, overthinking & anxious girlie who also never had a boyfriend and lives with her parents, it's so nice to finally watch a creator with a life similar to mine💓 truly a breath of fresh air
you should never be peer pressured into going out if you genuinely don’t want to BUT don’t be scared you’ll be poisoning your body - as long as it’s in moderation you’ll be totally safe 💗 you only live once, spend time doing the things you genuinely love doing!
this is so relatable and makes me feel so seen!!! I was not a very social teenager, or even in college and I always felt so lame and like I was missing out because of it. Once I turned 21 I started going out and having more fun and being social and I have never felt so free and content with my life! Taking the step to do things that feel scary and new and intimidating is so worth it and makes you feel so proud of yourself!! This has been the best year of my life because I decided to stop letting my fears and insecurity hold me back anymore. I never could have imagined that I’d be able to go out and talk to random people, make friends and just let loose and dance and have fun the way that I do now but I’m so happy with myself now that I can and do! I’m proud of you for taking those same steps!! We’re still so young and life is meant to be celebrated and enjoyed🧡🩷
I highly relate to basically everything you said in this video. I am also a more anxious, introverted girlie in their twenties and recently have had these realizations that maybe everything in our lives has brought us to these positions in our lives because of behavior we learned in adolescence. If you think about it most of our beliefs and the way we think have been the direct result from the people and things we listened to growing up. Like you said about the drinking thing and being set on that drinking is bad and "poison", just because you were told that as a child. Fortunately, at this time in our lives we can spend the time trying to unlearn these things we learned consciously or subconsciously. This is the beautiful thing about this age because we can start to work on making our minds think differently than we used to. We can make changes to live a more fulfilling life full of fun and new experiences even if they make us anxious trying them out. Doing this is hard because you're fighting back towards everything you know and everyone that's ever spoke down on you, made judgements, etc. Our brain likes the familiarity of routines and there's a quote on TikTok I've seen recently stating that your brain would rather live in a familiar hell than an unfamiliar heaven. Breaking out of these behaviors and traditions we know so well is very hard but we can do it. Our lives are supposed to change. They aren't meant to stay stagnant, especially at this young. The world is at our fingertips and we should be reaching for it even if we are scared. Being scared in life doesn't mean you cannot achieve something no matter how big or small. We should fight back against the anxiety and do it anyways. Be scared and do it anyways. Because what if everything works itself out and you had fun? It is also very important that we don't dwell on the past. Thinking in the past about the things you maybe didn't do and feel like you missed out on is so painful and isn't healthy to be stuck in. I personally know this and am actively working to get out of this mindset as well, so I know LOL. We should be more focused on the present because the decisions we make today will benefit us in the future. So we should be living in the present for the future. Just remember that you can visit somewhere in the past but you cannot change anything about it. We can visit there sometimes but shouldn't pack a bag and move in there. Overall, us girlies in their twenties can do so much more than we have previously believed in. We can do hard things and we can unlearn the negative thoughts put upon us at a young age. We can grow and we can change anything from our hair to our careers. The world is our oyster and we should learn to live it and to love living. Yeah, the world can be scary but isn't it scarier to think that in twenty years to be in the same spot as today? We should do something spontaneous even if were trembling. Go do something new even if you are scared of what everyone else thinks about it. This is what life is all about. Its about learning, living, experiencing, change, and taking new chances. If we never take a chance on ourselves then who will?
i don’t want this to sound weird but i love your videos so much😭 i look forward to your uploads sm bc i love being able to relate to other girls who are going through similar things in life as me and i feel like since i’ve started watching your videos i have never heard anyone voice the way i’ve been feeling before. it’s crazy because i still feel like i’m at such a young stage in life but also growing up really fast and i definitely get the whole thing with the conflicting ideas of who you wanted to be when you were younger versus trying to become that person now! genuinely idk what else to say but girl u are so real🫶🏽
I love this style of video! As well as all your other content. I can relate to you on a lot of things and i'm so happy you make videos because i am sure they bring so much joy and comfort not only to me but everyone else as well!♥ keep doing your thing girlie. our twenties are the time to reflect and have realizations and just do what we want.
I think the word you were looking for was embody! you are so honest and real and I love your vulnerability. I just turned 26 and I feel like I rushed to grow up and now I just wanna be bold and have fun and live life the way I wanna live it instead of living in fear or shame or as if I have to be “cool” and laidback. Like no - I wanna be passionate and emotional and feel things bc this is the only life we get!
I loved this video and you should definitely do more like this! I’m so excited about you posting more!! I relate to this so much. I’m also someone who used to be so strict with myself. I was literally afraid to do anything and felt like an imposter when it came to stuff like dating and going out and having drinks and stuff. This past year I’ve been putting myself out there more and it’s been so fun to create new memories and just let myself have fun instead of thinking that I’m an imposter😭I still find myself holding back sometimes but trying is what matters and being carefree is sooo much fun 💘
As someone who has also been strictly vegan for about 4 years and who recently decided to loosen up on that, I totally get you! Can also literally never see myself eating meat, but it feels so much more free to be able to eat yummy pastries out and about, and get yummy snacks and not have to worry so much about it. Also love that you're posting more! It's been so fun
I loooved this video so much!!! I totally related to everything you said, especially as a fellow introvert myself. I think stepping out of your comfort zone can feel scary, but it can also be so freeing to allow yourself to have fun, and make new experiences!! I would love if u made another video like this, I loved how chatty it was, and it truly feels like we're just on a facetime call! Love how comforting and relatable this was 🥰💓
I feel the exact same way. Going out and socializing with other people and just not caring what other people think has always been hard for me so I find it easier to just stay home. Your lucky to have sisters that will be your support and go out with you.
BENJAMIN BUTTOMING. That sums it up so well. Totally relate. The older I get, the more softer and more open I feel myself becoming. I do feel less and less like I have to decide on one specific identity and instead allow & embrace different aspects of myself. As you said: "Let yourself be, who you are RIGHT now, in this moment." I am also in my mid twenties and in the process of healing my teenage girl wounds, by doing things, that I would have loved to do back then.
i’ve been following you on tt since summer 2022 and i feel like ive always related to u the most out of everyone i follow. u are such a girl’s girl and such a bright light in this world
I used to be the same way as you, I never took an interest into drinking or partying until I was 20 (which is kind of late when you're European) and there was a lot of pressure around it and I realized one day I actually wanted to try it out with the right crowd and it has been a fun journey! I like going out but if i didn't at least i would have known that i had tried it and that I wouldn't be missing out on that aspect of life.
Aw I loved this video!!! Its a realisation I feel like we all need to come too especially with the current "wellness" era online! We are so influenced by others we need to remember to listen to ourselves and what our bodies want! Loving all the youtube videos you have been posting keep them coming girl x
You perfectly explained the thoughts and realizations I had a couple of years ago (I’m 27 now). I think many if not all of us have to go through this part of “growing up” which is separating a bit from the ideas that our parents projected onto us and we are really becoming our own person (not to say that we don’t necessarily love our parents but we have to go through that in my opinion). I hope that makes sense.
i feel like you crawled inside of my brain and spit out everything that i have been thinking recently!! especially the vegan thing too like ive been vegan for 6 years but now sometimes i just want a sweet treat & to be chill! like u get it xoxo
Ik I already commented but I feel the need to say this, I am the exact same way. My mom had substance issues, so for my whole life I had this fear and anxiety around people who drink or do any substances. Now as a 21 year old, I’m a homebody who is petrified to go out and have a drink socially. I feel like I can’t, I am overanalyzing every single move I make in front of people as well. I feel like everyone can tell I’ve never gone out like that before. I’m constantly overthinking how will I get home and is this person next to me weird? Luckily, I have two best friends that I love and so I do have times where we get to go out somewhere new. But still, I work from home and mainly hang out with my family. I just wanted to say, thank you so much for your content, I really relate so much. And I hope you know you’re not alone.
I relate to this so much! I went to Michigan State and I really regret creating these like fake rules for myself (not going out/drinking) because I feel like I really missed out
I relate to this soooo much but thankfully partying isn't a norm during my younger years (I'm 27 lol) where I came from. Drinking with friends is, but not exactly parties. I've made many online friends who also don't drink so I know I'm not alone about that so don't feel peer pressured abt it! There are many hobbies where you can be social without drinking!
being a teenager is not at all perfect(well maybe for others lol ) but I just cannot wait to get out and live my life the way I want to without feeling judged by girls in my school. but lately it feels like things are just the same everyday and I keep losing motivation for anything. i wish I could get the courage to try more things. its just so hard
22:10 I am 35 and single and so totally tired of being single and ready to mingle and have fun as long as I can still drink Dr. Pepper. 22:56 bakery is my favorite thing
lovee this video so much!! this is literally my entire thought process in one video. i loved how you explained with future anxiety and regret in the past i'm gonna remember that🫶
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the most relatable youtuber everrr!! as a fellow 24-year-old introverted, overthinking & anxious girlie who also never had a boyfriend and lives with her parents, it's so nice to finally watch a creator with a life similar to mine💓 truly a breath of fresh air
your active youtube era is making me so happy
you should never be peer pressured into going out if you genuinely don’t want to BUT don’t be scared you’ll be poisoning your body - as long as it’s in moderation you’ll be totally safe 💗 you only live once, spend time doing the things you genuinely love doing!
yes THANK YOU for saying this bc this is exactly the mindset I’m trying to have!!!🫶🏻💓💓
@@lavendercashewmilklatte just finished the vid while eating my little vegan dinner, plssss more of this style i love them sm
having your sisters (or trusted friends) as a safe space to explore is >>>>>
You talking about alcohol and partying sounds like your talking from my diary it’s so nice to have a TH-camr that I actually relate too
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who’s been feeling this way!! sending lots of love!!🫶🏻🫶🏻
omg same! I've literally journaled about adopting my parents opinions/ beliefs before, and this felt so validating!
this is so relatable and makes me feel so seen!!! I was not a very social teenager, or even in college and I always felt so lame and like I was missing out because of it. Once I turned 21 I started going out and having more fun and being social and I have never felt so free and content with my life! Taking the step to do things that feel scary and new and intimidating is so worth it and makes you feel so proud of yourself!! This has been the best year of my life because I decided to stop letting my fears and insecurity hold me back anymore. I never could have imagined that I’d be able to go out and talk to random people, make friends and just let loose and dance and have fun the way that I do now but I’m so happy with myself now that I can and do! I’m proud of you for taking those same steps!! We’re still so young and life is meant to be celebrated and enjoyed🧡🩷
I highly relate to basically everything you said in this video. I am also a more anxious, introverted girlie in their twenties and recently have had these realizations that maybe everything in our lives has brought us to these positions in our lives because of behavior we learned in adolescence. If you think about it most of our beliefs and the way we think have been the direct result from the people and things we listened to growing up. Like you said about the drinking thing and being set on that drinking is bad and "poison", just because you were told that as a child. Fortunately, at this time in our lives we can spend the time trying to unlearn these things we learned consciously or subconsciously. This is the beautiful thing about this age because we can start to work on making our minds think differently than we used to. We can make changes to live a more fulfilling life full of fun and new experiences even if they make us anxious trying them out. Doing this is hard because you're fighting back towards everything you know and everyone that's ever spoke down on you, made judgements, etc. Our brain likes the familiarity of routines and there's a quote on TikTok I've seen recently stating that your brain would rather live in a familiar hell than an unfamiliar heaven. Breaking out of these behaviors and traditions we know so well is very hard but we can do it. Our lives are supposed to change. They aren't meant to stay stagnant, especially at this young. The world is at our fingertips and we should be reaching for it even if we are scared. Being scared in life doesn't mean you cannot achieve something no matter how big or small. We should fight back against the anxiety and do it anyways. Be scared and do it anyways. Because what if everything works itself out and you had fun?
It is also very important that we don't dwell on the past. Thinking in the past about the things you maybe didn't do and feel like you missed out on is so painful and isn't healthy to be stuck in. I personally know this and am actively working to get out of this mindset as well, so I know LOL. We should be more focused on the present because the decisions we make today will benefit us in the future. So we should be living in the present for the future. Just remember that you can visit somewhere in the past but you cannot change anything about it. We can visit there sometimes but shouldn't pack a bag and move in there.
Overall, us girlies in their twenties can do so much more than we have previously believed in. We can do hard things and we can unlearn the negative thoughts put upon us at a young age. We can grow and we can change anything from our hair to our careers. The world is our oyster and we should learn to live it and to love living. Yeah, the world can be scary but isn't it scarier to think that in twenty years to be in the same spot as today? We should do something spontaneous even if were trembling. Go do something new even if you are scared of what everyone else thinks about it. This is what life is all about. Its about learning, living, experiencing, change, and taking new chances. If we never take a chance on ourselves then who will?
i don’t want this to sound weird but i love your videos so much😭 i look forward to your uploads sm bc i love being able to relate to other girls who are going through similar things in life as me and i feel like since i’ve started watching your videos i have never heard anyone voice the way i’ve been feeling before. it’s crazy because i still feel like i’m at such a young stage in life but also growing up really fast and i definitely get the whole thing with the conflicting ideas of who you wanted to be when you were younger versus trying to become that person now! genuinely idk what else to say but girl u are so real🫶🏽
I love this style of video! As well as all your other content. I can relate to you on a lot of things and i'm so happy you make videos because i am sure they bring so much joy and comfort not only to me but everyone else as well!♥ keep doing your thing girlie. our twenties are the time to reflect and have realizations and just do what we want.
I think the word you were looking for was embody! you are so honest and real and I love your vulnerability. I just turned 26 and I feel like I rushed to grow up and now I just wanna be bold and have fun and live life the way I wanna live it instead of living in fear or shame or as if I have to be “cool” and laidback. Like no - I wanna be passionate and emotional and feel things bc this is the only life we get!
I loved this video and you should definitely do more like this! I’m so excited about you posting more!! I relate to this so much. I’m also someone who used to be so strict with myself. I was literally afraid to do anything and felt like an imposter when it came to stuff like dating and going out and having drinks and stuff. This past year I’ve been putting myself out there more and it’s been so fun to create new memories and just let myself have fun instead of thinking that I’m an imposter😭I still find myself holding back sometimes but trying is what matters and being carefree is sooo much fun 💘
As someone who’s older I’m glad you’re branching out ! It’s never too late but always better when you’re in your twenties 🎉
I’m gonna take this video as a sign I need to step out of my introvert comfort bubble, please keep posting I’m loving the content!
As someone who has also been strictly vegan for about 4 years and who recently decided to loosen up on that, I totally get you! Can also literally never see myself eating meat, but it feels so much more free to be able to eat yummy pastries out and about, and get yummy snacks and not have to worry so much about it. Also love that you're posting more! It's been so fun
I loooved this video so much!!! I totally related to everything you said, especially as a fellow introvert myself. I think stepping out of your comfort zone can feel scary, but it can also be so freeing to allow yourself to have fun, and make new experiences!! I would love if u made another video like this, I loved how chatty it was, and it truly feels like we're just on a facetime call! Love how comforting and relatable this was 🥰💓
I really like your videos.I felt so understood with everything that you said.
And btw you have really beautiful eyes
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I feel the exact same way. Going out and socializing with other people and just not caring what other people think has always been hard for me so I find it easier to just stay home. Your lucky to have sisters that will be your support and go out with you.
my new comfort youtuber!! so glad that this was posted right before my cozy fall night at home!!
oh my gosh THANK YOUU🫶🏻🥹💓
please keep posting videos like this they are so fun and i love how it feels like a facetime call!!
BENJAMIN BUTTOMING. That sums it up so well. Totally relate. The older I get, the more softer and more open I feel myself becoming. I do feel less and less like I have to decide on one specific identity and instead allow & embrace different aspects of myself. As you said: "Let yourself be, who you are RIGHT now, in this moment." I am also in my mid twenties and in the process of healing my teenage girl wounds, by doing things, that I would have loved to do back then.
You really have such a good attitude towards life, your videos always put me in a good mood!!🙏🏼 keep going!!🫶🏻
i’ve been following you on tt since summer 2022 and i feel like ive always related to u the most out of everyone i follow. u are such a girl’s girl and such a bright light in this world
love this kind of viedeos!!! thank you for being the realest and touching on topics that are so essential for young girls
I used to be the same way as you, I never took an interest into drinking or partying until I was 20 (which is kind of late when you're European) and there was a lot of pressure around it and I realized one day I actually wanted to try it out with the right crowd and it has been a fun journey! I like going out but if i didn't at least i would have known that i had tried it and that I wouldn't be missing out on that aspect of life.
Aw I loved this video!!! Its a realisation I feel like we all need to come too especially with the current "wellness" era online! We are so influenced by others we need to remember to listen to ourselves and what our bodies want! Loving all the youtube videos you have been posting keep them coming girl x
girl i want you to know you are not alone!! i just turned 24 and I have never went out on halloweekend. but i totally relate to the fomo
You perfectly explained the thoughts and realizations I had a couple of years ago (I’m 27 now). I think many if not all of us have to go through this part of “growing up” which is separating a bit from the ideas that our parents projected onto us and we are really becoming our own person (not to say that we don’t necessarily love our parents but we have to go through that in my opinion). I hope that makes sense.
She has been popping off with the cozy fall vlogs and I’m not mad about it ❤
Love this video so much!! Literally so relatable
I feel like this is so relatable. I love how honest you are xx
this felt like a podcast episode and I loved it!
i feel like you crawled inside of my brain and spit out everything that i have been thinking recently!! especially the vegan thing too like ive been vegan for 6 years but now sometimes i just want a sweet treat & to be chill! like u get it xoxo
Love how active you have been!!
Ik I already commented but I feel the need to say this, I am the exact same way. My mom had substance issues, so for my whole life I had this fear and anxiety around people who drink or do any substances. Now as a 21 year old, I’m a homebody who is petrified to go out and have a drink socially. I feel like I can’t, I am overanalyzing every single move I make in front of people as well. I feel like everyone can tell I’ve never gone out like that before. I’m constantly overthinking how will I get home and is this person next to me weird? Luckily, I have two best friends that I love and so I do have times where we get to go out somewhere new. But still, I work from home and mainly hang out with my family. I just wanted to say, thank you so much for your content, I really relate so much. And I hope you know you’re not alone.
i love the more frequent vlogs!
loooove you posting this much!!
Perfect timing, I was just looking for something to watch to motivate me! Thank you!♥️♥️
As a fellow anxious girlie I relate so much!!
I just found your account a few days ago and I love your videos, this is so relatable!
Keep being you you are your own special person love watching your videos thanks
I relate to this so much! I went to Michigan State and I really regret creating these like fake rules for myself (not going out/drinking) because I feel like I really missed out
Its crazy how you descibe how i feel right now! ❤
I absolutely love you mostly this much! ❤❤❤
I relate to this soooo much but thankfully partying isn't a norm during my younger years (I'm 27 lol) where I came from. Drinking with friends is, but not exactly parties. I've made many online friends who also don't drink so I know I'm not alone about that so don't feel peer pressured abt it! There are many hobbies where you can be social without drinking!
loved this !
this was posted just in time to do my makeup!!!! love it
hahah YAYYYY love that!!🫶🏻🫶🏻
being a teenager is not at all perfect(well maybe for others lol ) but I just cannot wait to get out and live my life the way I want to without feeling judged by girls in my school. but lately it feels like things are just the same everyday and I keep losing motivation for anything. i wish I could get the courage to try more things. its just so hard
you should start a podcast!
Good morning happy Monday morning to you and I enjoy your channel and you are amazing supporter
The way we are actually the same person is scaring me
ILY ❤
Your video was so interesting to me (I‘m 15 years old and probably about to make all those memories and already have made some haha)
22:10 I am 35 and single and so totally tired of being single and ready to mingle and have fun as long as I can still drink Dr. Pepper. 22:56 bakery is my favorite thing
Podcast when, book when
great vid
I love you so so much my beautiful princess. If I met you in person I would give you a hug to show how much I love you ♥️ 😊
Where is your hoodie from? Also love your videos so much! 🫶🏻😊
It’s from old navy!! And THANK YOUU🫶🏻🫶🏻
1:29 it’s ok that you don’t drink. Don’t drink either. Would love to date you. I was in a Halloween parade last night.
your videos are always the first thing to show up on my TH-cam! Immediate click! :))
Never been this early
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10:44 that burp was a 6. Don’t be sorry about burping that is natural. Where are you black joggers from.
Did you grow up religious?
lovee this video so much!! this is literally my entire thought process in one video. i loved how you explained with future anxiety and regret in the past i'm gonna remember that🫶