On the note of chemicals and hormones and mind control, go do some digging into how birth control affects the female mind and mate selection. A lot of women get off of it and a month later suddenly find their boyfriends and husbands repulsive. A lot of hormonal birth control drugs trick the body into thinking it is already pregnant or just had a miscarriage, that's how they work. Now extrapolate the mental effects from it on a relationship.
Four chemicals are involved oxytocin vasopressin testosterone and estrogen. All of them are present in both males and females with a major difference being how much. In males testosterone is higher and females estrogen is higher. Vasopressin causes the mate guarding bonding and loving behaviors in males and is almost exclusively released after orgasm. Oxytocin causes physical bonding loving and happiness feelings and is release during skin to skin contact AKA cuddling. Estrogen synergizes with oxytocin and is the reason why girls like cuddling sometimes more than sex. Vasopressin synergizes with testosterone and it's the reason why it's so much stronger for boys to like sex more than girls. It also leads to them feeling unloved if they don't get it.
Comment that literally got somebody banned from Twitter: 'Anime is dangerous because it offers men the fantasy of a woman who loves them just for who they are.' Edit: see the traction this gets? It should be posted everywhere until it becomes a meme. I'm telling you. It's too real.
The west no longer grasps the concept that women can be both feminine and badass. In ZZZ there's a cool sword and shield female character who is attractive and considered one of the best fighters in her home. She's confirmed to be straight and desires a cute romance from mangas that she reads in secret. Twitter threw a fit about it because she wasn't a manly lesbian.
Anime girls won't lecture me about the patriarchy or take half of what I own. I'm still hopeful I'll meet a tomboy GF someday, but the anime will suffice for now.
Date a Texas girl who teases the crap out of you. That’s what I did and I put a ring on her. Been together 21 years now and never been happier. Also, she’s further right than I am! She grew up in rural TX, and is amazing.
Art education in Japan teaches you how to effectively make things beautiful. Art education in the West teaches you to deconstruct and reject the idea that anything can or should be made beautiful.
@@samirSch first time I ever heard of Foucault was from an art teacher. I swear those mfers form the backbone of art education, and you can't escape it by moving disciplines either.
@@robinfox4440 The real reason East Asians are getting so successful through Gacha Games, Idol music, Manga, Manhwa and Anime is because they promote Herrenvolk objective beauty standards equally for both Men and Women. I've met Shoujo fans and even Fujoshi who are somewhat sympathetic to preservation of Aryan beauty through eugenics.
The brain chemical you're referring to -- that causes the bonding -- is oxytocin. It's largely responsible for creating bonds between mother and child and fostering feelings of connection between romantic couples. However, adult men produce less of it than women and children do. This doesn't mean that men can't bond emotionally. One, men tend to produce more oxytocin during sex as opposed to during cuddling. Two, men experience the strongest bonds as a result of a different chemical called vasopressin, which is produced during stressful or high-energy situations. Vasopressin bonding is why men form such close ties to those with whom they've fought alongside in battle or competitive sports. It is also how fathers bond with their children during rough-and-tumble play.
In men, vasopressin (very similar in structure) is utilized instead of oxytocin for several functions. Men produce less oxytocin because they simply don't need it for several functions that women do (lactation, labor, orbitofrontal cortex potentiation (neurons that have OXT receptors). Oxytocin is a peptide hormone, it's not solely used as a neurotransmitter, it has several important functions that are unrelated to behavior or mating. It's just that men simply do not need most of these functions. It's still utilized for pro-social interaction, pair-bonding, out-group hostility & in-group preference, et cetera. However, it's less so used for parent-offspring bonding, long-term potentiation of limbic pathways that have to do with mate permanence, and it's wholly unused for neural facilitation of hypothalamic nuclei, driven by threshold potentials in the amygdala. In contrast, to women. The difference (vasopressin versus oxytocin in their function as a NT) is one of the reasons fathers neurochemically bond to their offspring later than mothers do. Mothers produce a lot of oxytocin during labor and continue to do so for up to 2 years later. With men, arginine vasopressin production is more conditional and its peak coincides with when the offspring is a couple of months old and can hold an aware gaze. The argument about the selection pressures that led to this is complex.
@@Wanderer2035 Various sources, including college level biology texts and articles on neurobiology. I am not a scientist if that's what you're asking, but I have had a lifelong interest in the sciences so I try to stay informed.
Well, here in Brazil the socialist government already takes 40% of what we make (more if you consider inflation, which is a hidden tax). So getting married with the same BS laws that exists in the US may throw me into nearly total slavery at + 80% of everything taken away. As some wise internet sage once said: "the juice isn't worth the squeeze".
Because they are cute, and have actual personalities, that do not consist of "Allow me to be as in-your-face as humanly possible." That, and when they date boys, they date them because they genuinely like/love them, and not just because being with said boy would bring her material benefits.
"Actual" personalities? Aren't those personalities are coded as tropes just to make the men (reader) happy as escapism? Like the tsundere, kuudere, childish, tomboy, bokukko and even yandere, as long as they "love you" as the reader representation?
@@ryuumajin Depends. There are a lot of series that resort to only that, but some of the most praised characters tend to break that trope. In recent shows, we got both Frieren and Momo who are both not coded as tropes from what I've heard about them. Would need to watch their respective shows to make my own conclusions, however. Though from media I have consumed from Japan, the female characters from My Little Monster each are pretty distinct. I wouldn't really be able to put any of them into a singular trope with how they were done. There is also then those from Eighty-Six, which break the mold yet again
@@ryuumajin Yes, actual personalities. Just because a character may be representative of a particular archetype or storytelling trope, doesn't necessarily mean they're shallow, unlike the overabundance of real, western women who are nothing more than materialistic, consumerist 304s looking for a meal ticket and out only to serve themselves and their own hedonistic pursuits. It's actually quite pathetic that there's an abundance of fictional characters that possess more substance, even if they are cliche, than too many real people.
IRL females wait at the finish line and pick up the winners. Anime females join the boy early on before wealth and fame and take the Hero's Journey with the boy as he grows into a man. This is why anime girls are so fascinating to men.
@transcendentsacredcourage dated a light esdeath version once. Doesnt matter what she looks like. You dont want her. The best part about her is she doesnt exist.
The thing is western media has shamed men for not wanting to date an overweight woman and regularly depicted men as trash While in anime we largely see a man being able to lead and not be shamed for simply being a man which is why I mostly watch anime
It's even worse. Fictional women in the West are designed intentionally ugly *to spite men.* They're designed out of hate. Why would men enjoy something that explicitly hates such a natural & healthy male desire, that bring to appreciate feminine beauty? Despite all their claims, Western media doesn't seem in value anything feminine. They just encourage women to be men.
And Shounen and Seinen are geared towards men, they embrace what teenage men and adult men want. And the thing is it is popular with men, and women. Shoujo is a little bit more niche, while Shounen is mainstream.
Because she's softer than you. She's quieter than you. She doesn't yell at me. She doesn't call me an idiot or tell me to shut up all the time. She listens to me. She's nice to me. She doesn't make me feel like the only thing stopping her from being happy... is me.
There is no truth in flesh, only betrayal." "There is no strength in flesh, only weakness." "There is no constancy in flesh, only decay." "There is no certainty in flesh but death.-Creedo Otakusiah.
@@superdarklink I aspired to the purity of the blessed machine. Your kind cling to your flesh as if it will not decay and fail you. One day the crude biomass you call a temple will wither and you will beg my kind to save you. But I am already saved. For the Machine is Immortal!
cause anime in general is honest. it's pure in it's artistry instead of doing stupid crap in an attempt to prove a point that no one cares about. AKA it's simply based. the rest is just a consequence of this.
@@trainenthusiast5199 I bet you just watch whatever gets recommended to you in the new and/or popular sections. Not even the companies who fund the trash anime series actually expect people to like and watch them.
Hey leaflit. I'm not a neurologist but I have studied it a bit. The biggest misunderstanding about dopamine is that it's not a pleasure hormone. It's an ambition hormone. You lose your dopamine when you achieve pleasure. I hear so many TH-camrs saying the phrase " you are getting a dopamine hit" that's false. You are more likely getting a endorphin hit or serotonin hit. Oxytocin is only released when your brain knows it's having "s8x". Gooning doesn't release oxytocin, your brain knows when it's touching itself. Oxytocin aka "love hormone" doesn't lower dopamine. But gooning will lower dopamine. That's why when boys watch "corn" while gooning they lose their dopamine aka "desire ambition". That's why after a person goons, they lose all desire to talk to others or interact with the opposite gender. I hope this clears some stuff.
While I'm sure lowered dopamine is one reason, I almost feel like the shame could be another reason. I just find it hard to believe that people who goon don't want to talk to the opposite gender because their body doesn't desire it. That'd almost be make me believe there'd be a correlation between gooning and homosexuality. I think gooners have plenty of desire, but a lot of fear and shame.
@@GriFFonRec4 People have been gooning for millions of years now yet were still procreating. We forget that throughout history, a large percentage of people never had kids/procreated. They were traditionally killed off or even, never married and had kids. Isaac Newton, Plato and a whole lot of other very famous people never had kids. The sadder thing is that, many of the more famous engineers/scientists didn't have kids which kind of says something about that archetype. Interestingly, there are a LOT of old, very prominent historical figures that either never had children or even, never got married.
@GriFFonRec4 Just because for you it's hard to believe doesn't make it not true. 2nd you are confusing the words desire and ambition with "wishful thinking". They have alot of wishful thinking. But no desire to accomplish the goal otherwise it would have been accomplished. Last, Gooning doesn't release oxytocin. Therefore no correlation to homosexuality.
Women are actively trying to be less attractive to men. They could win this little competition easily if they tried, but they have been told they are some kind of royalty their whole lives. Now most men don't care and have lost all hope in women. They dug this whole all on their own and anime had very little to do with it if anything at all.
Anime Girls will never talk down to you, will never sexually, physically or verbally abuse & harass you when you’re at your most vulnerable and will never take you to divorce court where the judge will side with her and allow her to take everything you have worked hard for.
@@Ieatpaste23 However Tsunderes are generally liked or disliked amongst anime consumers The hitting is one of the many reasons why they are disliked, Mostly disliked. Only male tsunderes I known are seen done good cause they behave from a place of respect and dont generally abuse others for lols or on frantic emotional outbursts. Example Miles Edgeworth from ace attorney, He is a descent example.
YES; Femininity is wonderful and amazing and i hate what the west is trying to do to it. Also, lmao. Trying to figure out the mechanics of the real world is just Science, you're doing science.
@@MadMalkavian I'm a Christian, that was literally what I thought of! A lot of the world makes sense if you have an understanding of early Christian and 2nd temple theology and look at the world with your hermeneutic.
Not everythi in the world is science because not all truths can be proven. That's what makes atheism cringe, it's just obsessed with proof when it's obvious there are a million truths in the world that can't be proven.
I'm so glad that there still exists a modest lady out there. I have been reverse slut shamed two different times once by a woman and another guy. They found it completely baffling that I hadn't slept around with a lot of people. I told them I'm waiting for the right person, not because of religion or stuff like that, I just personally value sexual intimacy as something important. I might as well have been speaking alien to them, I was a wierdo in their eyes.
Same. I grew up in a religious community that valued sexual purity, not creepily so, just considered it a virtue, and at the time I made a religious vow to remain a virgin until married. At home, however, I remember my mother giving me a very secular argument for why it's a good thing. Your virginity is something special, something you can give only once. And you should give that special something only to someone you consider worthy of it, partially because you value them, and partially because you value yourself. Would you want a woman, who so cheaply sold the thing that is the ultimate act between a man and a woman to some random person? Of course not. And that's how I view it. Sex is something special, the ultimate act of bonding and love between a man and a woman, and it's something special, a present that is meant for my future wife, and no one else. On a related note, my mother always said (though these days that's not true) that every woman is someone's future wife. So you should treat all the women you date the way you would want any man your future wife is with right now, to be treated by them. And this is something I don't see with other people anymore. People don't value one another, or themselves anymore.
@StarboyXL9 Thanks, I'm not concerned with their opinion. I just find it concerning that now adays you're looked at as a wierdo freak by your peers because you're 25 and haven't screwed 5 - 10 people already. That was normal a few decades ago. Society has started to shame people for not being a slut or a F-boy.
@StarboyXL9 Thank you, I'm not very concerned about their opinion. I mostly just find it sad and massed up that we have gotten to the point as a society where we are encouraged to sleep around and have a high body count. And if you're not going along with the flow, they see you as some sort of anomaly.
@@heyiammr.3676 Agreed. I have no interest in sleeping around. Virginity is something special and you can only share that with one person, I plan for that person to be my wife.
@@billwilson1225 lol no? The father died for nothing, nose girl ended up a single mom, les "dad" leftnthe family, then was left by it, and fingerless. Nobody there was happy
Honestly, I am just sad I have gotten to this point to where I am even watching videos like this and reinforcing these thoughts in my mind. My biggest fear in life is facing the ages alone.
Sorry it has to be a twit on the Internet who has to tell you this, but man up and be prepared to face the chaos alone. You might get lucky or you might not. Don't let a pathetic fear get ahold of you. Improve yourself not for anyone except yourself.
I’d like to encourage you and say that you aren’t alone, even when it feels like it. God created you with a purpose and loves you more than anyone in this world. You can find comfort, strength, and hope. If you’re open to it, you could try talking to God about your fears and ask Him to reveal Himself to you. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” In Genesis He saw Adam and said “It is not good for the man to be alone.”
unfortunately, the number point to being alone as the inevitable outcome for most unless something drastic happens. My advice to you is comes from an old Norse proverb; "Fear profits a man nothing." Even if it is your fate to be alone (in that you have no romantic relationship), find things that bring you joy and embrace life. Play games if you like, learn to draw or write stories, find some bros out there who have your back and have theirs in turn. Do not fear being alone, because that fear will ruin your life. Instead, embrace life and if Fate favors you, perhaps you will find someone in the end. I know this, because it is the truth I have had to face as well. I have had relationships in the past, but they didn't work out. My present circumstances (which show little sign of ever changing) mean that I am likely never to have one again. I do not know how long I will live, but I know that it is more than likely to be one spent without a lover, even if there were women worthy of loving out there. I have made peace with this, and in making peace, I have liberated myself to find the joys in life that I can have outside of that. Seek joy and affirm your life, don't let it be defined by what you don't or won't have, but what you can do with the life you have been given.
Anime has had no influence on my decision to avoid marriage like the plague. Absurd cost of living, what the state does to our kids, how manipulative the various "ists" out there are, and how intimate the state is with our relationships are however has influenced the decision.
I agree that waifu cope is in many cases a symptom not a cause. I think it can become a contributing factor as well. I agree though. Cost of living and gender war is a big factor
@@Ezekiel_the_roachIt's because current American society is high on its own hubris and a hefty side of denial. Forget the fact that there's a massive gaping hole that is known as the 2008 Great Recession, that never happened! Imaginative thinking and the arts? Hah! The Department of Education and private schools will never focus on that because it doesn't have corporate and commercial sponsorships for money! Remember boys and girls, if a guy doesn't make enough to meet inflation and recession head above water income, he's a loser! Love should always be determined by purely materialistic factors and our society should always reflect this! Remember girls, you are diva god given princesses and should never know the inevitable pain of human life, so you should shatter like porcelain dolls and fall back into the unquestioned sexist cycles of making women slaves by secondhand methods! People don't know better, so either by the fringe fundamentalist Christians or the game playing ultra wokes, they have to oppress and suppress people's urges because they simply "don't know better" unlike the exploitative and disparately filthy rich! Remember, this is reality! Reality is perfect! Relentless optimism for all or else you're a wrong thinker and that's a big nono! If anything, blame the media we consume and let the stupid, uneducated, overworked, yet bitchmade slavish loyal fear and deprivation driven masses lynch effigies before everything falls apart and everyone is made to be pitted against one each other! This century isn't the bright, happy new millennium everyone was hoping for, because the past has never been resolved. Prepare for something that will make the Roaring Twenties look like a tea time banquet. I don't say this simply to strike fear and be edgy. This is a warning. Welcome to the human experience, sometimes it will be nice, other times it will suck. Enjoy it.
This is the single, accurate correct comment. No ammount of ideology can influence social trends as material conditions. Marxists would be proud of your analysis.
Feminism should only be concerned with women's rights. It shouldn't be concerned with the thoughts, beliefs, and values of individuals in society at large. Especially to the extent it's been taken to. This is the same problem with other social movements, too. They've all been co-opted to serve the interests of the ruling class.
Same and About to be 25 myself and I can't even trust women in general I wish life was different I have never dated in my life cuz why bother at this point
Your not alone buddy, I’m there with you. All that I can recommend is be the best person you can be. Always improve, eat healthy, exercise and take care of yourself.
IN THIS ECONOMY!? 😂 But srsly, it should be the bare minimum, but unfortunately it's the extreme exception these days, sadly. Best you can do is be as in shape and looksmaxxed as possible so if you do run across her you will be at your best to possibly have a relationship with and marry her.
When I learned NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming), the first exercise was to write down our personality traits and our favorite movies. They then went on to show how the movies we watched influenced +90% of our lives. Btw, the femenist movement looks like a psyop to destroy feminism... and by proxy masculinity.
Exactly. But I don't think it's only that. I found it strange that all of a sudden in the past decades, almost overwhelmingly, companies from every strata have pulled their backs to market and advocate for more female participation in the masculine-oriented workforce (at least more focused on more "cushy" jobs). I once saw a video essay (can't remember who made it) about the "Race to the bottom" strategy, making half of humanity (women) get into the workforce, thus keeping wages lower or increases slower. Not only wages, by working to double the workforce, there is less vacant jobs, and recently I believe companies have long abandoned needing to actually COMPETE for workers (because the desperate unemployed can't be choosy), and increasing qualification requirements, making upward social mobility harder, etc.. Does all this sound familiar? It's not only a feminist psy-op, corporates have vested interests in all of this too. Alright I'll remove my "tinfoil hat" for now. :P
@@ZergSlayer-dn5zb I mean, it's just true that companies benefit from everyone being in the workforce. The only question is if they are the main force behind it, or just passively support it because it conveniently helps them.
@@goncalocarneiro3043 Part of it is human nature, like Politicians voting for a highter salary for themselves. We have removed the checking factors such as strong families and communities for these malagents of society due to these collectivistic practices.
For me it's something I have been observing on myself for quite a while and I do have to say: It is quite simple. I like anime girls because...they exude a happy & cheerful aura. Something which I rarely nowadays see on real life woman. I think that is also the reason why people can get really parasocial with VTubers. It's because VTuber personalities pretty often just exude happiness and the model just enhances this. Personally, I have been in a relationship for 8 years. Due to outside factors (the lockdowns, family losses etc.) my partner turned extremely miserable. And I think having the experience of being around a woman who is constantly miserable just...makes anime girls with their smiles almost look like a sun (I know, that sounded cringey). They just exude an extremely happy & joyful aura and I think when it comes down to it...that is what most men want. Tldr; It's not about se* appeal. Well, mostly it's not. It's about the aura anime girls radiate. At least in my opinion.
Valid. I see the appeal. I always say I'd prioritize loyalty and kindness, but I must admit, after scraping by in nyc, lockdowns and military right after, would be nice to have mood that isn't perpetually jaded in my day to day.
@@johnx140 Her being miserable is a development which happened just a few years ago. Roughly around 2021. We split up now since a few weeks ago so yeah...
I'm inclined to agree but you should keep in mind that unfortunately EN Vtubers are western women and many of them are depressed asf in real life. Imagine feeling the duality of portraying the personality of a bubbly cheerful anime girl but being a depressed nihilistic sap off camera. That's gotta hurt more than just being honest. Add that to the pressure to perform that these Vtuber agencies exert in their parasitic hording of talent and you have a recipe for depressed women.
@@Awave3 I agree, but I myself also am not parasocial with VTubers. I wouldn't even consider that being a danger for me, so...sadly, your comment most likely won't reach the people who would benefit the most from reading it...
I've met a woman recently that was 27.... she travelled the world.. had a lot (like, a lot) of "partners" .... yet NEVER had a relationship last more than 4 months. She was claiming she wanted a serious relationship... I was looking at her thinking "I mean... that's fine and all, but if none of the many guys you've met all over the world in 27 years was good enough... I don't think you'll ever find someone that is". And even if she found that guy, I don't think she would have the life skills required for a lasting relationship.
It is also the claim that women's brain find different things attractive while they are on the pill and while they aren't. Meaning it is likely very bad to pick a guy while you sleep around using pills, and better to pick one while you are not on pills and are in "normal" frame of mind.
The reality. If she does find someone, it will be a pushover she isn't attracted to. He will agree to marry her, and she will divorce him in short order. If there is a kid involved, it is either from a previous man, or she will cheat during the marriage and it won't be the husbands. This is the stark reality men are opting out of. And they should.
I've always been a bit picky when it comes to the Animes I enjoy, but I have to admit that I've delved much more into Japanese Media over the past few years because of how hard Western media is pushing to get rid of traditional norms.
Because anime women represent traditional women and are badass, charming, nurturing, kind, caring, and exude overall feminine energy. Same as why women are attracted to anime men. Anime men exude strong masculine energy, for the most part. Strong, stoic, firm, confident, indifferent, yet caring etc. If you wanna see the perfect dynamic between a man and a woman watch some of the 50s and 60s movies. Its a Wonderful Life and so on. Understanding attraction isnt hard.
@@longiusaescius2537 As a social darwinist I reject the whole dynamic of gender roles. I would rather want even Women to be active and aggressive like their primitive counterparts who actively took part in hunting
When the guy gets to marriage rates and sexual partners, it's just a giant data showcase that the metaphor of tape losing it's ability to bond might not be so ridiculous despite the sexual liberation movement mocking it out of existence. The notion that you followed up with is basically just a science based rediscovery of this older and very boiled down concept.
Although weebs are often treated online as incels or degenerates, ironically, it has become the best community outside of church for young men to find monogamous women with similar attitudes towards marriage. I met my best friend who later became my girlfriend because I got to know her at an anime watch club I started with my friends in college. Circumstances unfortunately landed us on opposite sides of the country and long distance didn't work out but I feel like anime is the best vector to finding someone else who shares my ideals for a future family, since it's indicative of distain for current western messaging on relationships.
My bf and I met via an MMO and anime is one of our other hobbies. I don't think a couple has to like every single thing in perfect sync, but there's a great country song called "She Don't Like To Play My Kinda Music" that I love to reference: She don't like to play my kinda music, She don't know 'Sunday Mornin' Comin' Down' Or what's so cool about 'He Stopped Lovin' Her Today' Or 'Angels Flyin' too Close to the Ground'. She don't like to play my kinda music, She don't know Hank or even Johnny Cash Yeah, she don't like to play my kinda music So I had to tell that girl to kiss my ass. A lot of girl activities--makeup, shopping, gossiping with other girls, attending girlie-themed social events, etc. exist in a realm completely outside of men. But many male activities--including anime and gaming--exist in the outer ring of society where both sexes exist. (There is a whole internal ring of existence that many women socially inhabit where most men rarely, if ever, enter) so it's a LOT more important that she and he run in the same external circles.
You're right that having multiple sexual partners makes it more difficult to pair bond. I've heard it said that the effect is more obvious in women, but can affect men as well.
Men want FOUR things: Love, loyalty, appreciation, and a peaceful home. Most modern women fail in at least two of those categories. And then they blame the men for it.
its actually men who fail at love and then blame woman for it all of you guys in the comments are losers who just want complete control so you turn to fictional woman and have fantasy's were you just get them without having to do anything (coming from a guy btw) also not trying to say that there arent bad woman but trust me there are far more bad and worthless guys on this planet then woman and you little boys who cant grow up in this comment section are a part of that group.
Jesus Christ. I say this for your sake. Not because i judge you in any way, but as someone who believes you know what can help you and i for the better. Not for religious purposes, and even if you don't believe, I'd say it's best to figure what life is all about than to simply live within your own world. I say this for the whole world, you and I, His the answer. Might as well try. Don't simply ignore but seek knowledge. GOD BLESS@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
The relationship thing you were talking about is called "Pair Bonding" & studies have shown for the 'XY peoples is 10 & the XX 5' -Studies said that those were the numbers of complete inability to pair bond on a chemical level
@MadMalkavian Dedication & priority can still overcome a chemical feeling, so not impossible or anything, if 2 peoples really want something to last then they can by just being determined to make someyhing work, but it'd be more difficult cause it's not a chemical motivation, but a motivation of 'the will to persist because one wants something to be despite lack of a chemical "high or bond or instinct". Its not completely "over" for a person who is like this or is the person who is with someone like this, but it's difficult. Anything can still be a success if determined & realistic & dedicated.
I remember some conversations I had that talked about natural beauty and how babies can perceive beauty due to the symmetry of a persons face. They will stare at a person for longer periods of time as apposed to someone not.
This doesn't apply to newborns tho. Newborns are like a blank hard drive. it has no data to reference what "beauty" is supposed to look like. that's why you can't really scare newborns with "scary" things, since they haven't learned yet it is supposed to be scary.
@@DatAsianGuyHumans are not blank slates. That is a myth. Much of our thinking is derived from our biology and the environment just steers it into thought patterns that are hopefully beneficial
16:15 Holy shit yes, as a lover of tomboys myself, we must stop the tomboy genocide! All I want is a tomboy wife who likes to play video games and shoot guns with me, but SOCIETY doesn't want me to have that!
The very same explanation can be applied to why you see so many bland protagonists in romcoms who are (at times painfully) obvious slots for the readers to insert themselves into the story. After all, a girl who loves you for who you are and despite your flaws is the ultimate male fantasy.
Major cap, how to test that? if you get outraged by how "ugly" video game characters are getting I think you might be a little vain and that's an understatement.
@@MelancholicNotActualyAlcoholic There are beauty standards for a reason. If you design a character that's ugly, trying to tell people that you're horrible for thinking so is just mad cope.
@@MelancholicNotActualyAlcoholic "If I get outraged by ugly vg characters?" TBH, I really don't care. It's weird that people seem to try to intentionally uglify everything, but it's not a selling point. That said, I'm also curious as to how well my statement holds up to reality. Figuring out how you would test that seems like an interesting challenge.
Not to mention all the men who see their partner is a positive light only to discover their past promiscuity leads to them cheating again out of habit, and thus creating another broken man who gives nobody else who might be better a second chance out of fear.
Basically anime can make feel a person feel like they are being loved unconditionally, this is specially true for men. Men are always expected to give something that has a long term value (the other problem is that men have very low standards, just by being nice or being just a tiny bit pretty a woman has a chance with a shit ton of men)
As a wedding officiant, anime women are appealing because they're the only source I've found of women being capable of romantic love. Nowhere in the real world or in western media do I see women that are capable of it, it's either materialistic, familial or utilitarian love. Every bride I've officiated didn't want to be a wife, they just wanted a wedding or what the man had to offer.
04:40 That isn't Holo, Wise Wolf of Yoitsu . That is Raphtalia from "The Rising of the Shield Hero". You can see it on the hair style. Raphtalia's hair is more fluffy on the sides. Holo's not.
@@gameon2000 I don't want to be this guy but... Raphtalia is a Racoon dog (A Canid Species), Dog-like with a fur similar to Western Racoon species who had paws instead of fingers of a Racoon. 🤓
Thanks for reminding me that 2D women are awesome and based. Now to go back to coping with the fact that I may very well die alone. Here's hoping a tomboy wife comes along to prove me wrong.
10:00 This is partly why I have chosen to be celibate (and also why I don't regret being really romantically oblivious for the most part) for most of my life; I had many opportunities in college if I sought them out to just have flings with people, and people were wondering why I never was chasing this sort of stuff as a young adult. I don't want to be a man-ho. I've only been with one person before, and I felt vindicated that I chose to be selective. I'm not religious, but that sort of intimacy should be reserved for people you actually care about. It's really saddening to see it become even more commodified and transactional instead of being something special two people (or more I guess if that's something people want) share together.
Anime girls don't cheat on their boyfriends. They are happy to do nice things, without expecting anything in return, but love and appreciation. Not stuck on a super woke extra cancel loop. Most importantly, they don't give it up to every guy they meet. If they hit the guy, it's to keep him from being a creepy perv. Tough love. They don't complain if they start the first date at Cheesecake Factory. No extra baggage, no baby daddies. Strong and independent. Need I say more.
The Degenerates wants to show you about new things of their Tags. But generally, Romance manga have different flavors and they rarely betray the man (Unless its a back story of the first love)
honestly anime females are some of the strongest females in fiction. from strongest firepower, strongest will, strongest intellect, you have it all from different series. it's hilarious feminists thinks anime girls are all depiction of feeble damsels in distress. i've always thought feminists are akin to religious nuts who ignore reality to feed on their own delusions.
@@Ninjaneercat such a sexist statament, a lot of them abuse innocent guys just because of some inoffensive jokes or misunderstandings. also why the boyfriends can't do the same even when they are in the right ? if the boyfriend is a p&rv so why they don't stop dating the degenerate and search for an actual normal man? tough love is BS, it's plain sexism and double standards, sadly the media did an amazing work in brainwashing most people.
@@Ninjaneercat such a sexist statement, a lot of them @bus& innocent guys just because of some inoffensive jokes or misunderstandings. also why the b0yfri&nds can't do the same even when they are in the right ? if the boyfriend is a p&rv so why they don't stop dating the freaky and search for an actual normal man? tough love is BS, it's plain sexism and double standards, sadly the media did an amazing work in brainwashing most people.
@@Ninjaneercat A lot of them @bus& innocent m&n just because of some inoffensive jokes or misunderstandings. also why the b0yfri&nds can't do the same even when they are in the right ? if the b0yfri&nd is a freaky so why she don't give up and search for an actual normal man? tough love is BS, it's plain sexism and double standards, sadly the media did an amazing work in brainwashing most people.
I hope I can find a wife one day but the current mainstream is not putting out women I'm into. Wife, family, building a home, not having above 2-3 sexual partners. More women should learn from this video.
why the decline, because there currently is no benefit for men to get married and risk losing everything they worked for all because his wife who swore to love and obey him feels different
@@theanimemusicnetwork5234 Embracing gender roles that have been affirmed by biology, God, and thousands of years of human history does not make anyone a robot.
@@Marisa_enjoyer Humans have free will and freedom of thought. If you think people are supposed to blindly follow a old tradition just because it's a tradition, that's quite robotic. Where is the rhetoric of "obey him" come from?
@@theanimemusicnetwork5234 Tradition is the collective wisdom of our ancestors, which has been painstakingly discovered through numerous generations. To reject it is frankly conceited, and at the very least should be done carefully and with a large amount of evidence. Now, is there overwhelming evidence that complete equality between both partners in a relationship is a good thing? Absolutely not. It is common sense that the parties will constantly be butting heads and fighting against natural order.
For me, it was growing up watching anime. My mother was a bit of a weeb, so I had bootleg subtitles of things like Tobor, the 8th Man ('63-64), BEM ('68-69) and Dororo ('69). I was already familiar with Sailor Moon when the girls in my classes were still on reruns of Rainbow Bright and She-Ra. This isn't to be hipster or anything, but as a "no, he's avsolutely right." The difference is, I was thrown right in to the deep end and my own status as a weeb was imprinted upon me from birth. That said, 3D women have their appeal to me still. The whole Goth esthetic is just as appealing in 3D as it is 2D, so I went with that really early as well. It's worn down a bit, but like an old and comfortable coat you like to wear now and then; hell, that's not even just a metaphor. I'm actually wearing the old coat now. It's still warmer than a lot of winter coats. Anyways, yeah. The longer you're immersed in something, the more you tend to lean towards them and things like it. Weebs like anime girls for their cute, beautiful, commanding, and many other traits. So it stands to reason we like those same traits in real women. The dyed hair only works when they're not overweight, angry ideologues. Go figure. Edit: The comparison whoever vs Saber is exactly what I mean. Saber is an incredibly masculine female character, even having *_fathered_* a child. Yet she is still an icon of Waifu's because she it a Tiger Mom as well. While still being a firm personality, there is a great deal of feminity in it as well. In the West, we call them Momma Bears instead though. A woman who would care for and protect her children is something men strongly desire in a woman. It takes a *_woman_* to do that though, not a girlboss. A girlboss is only interested in herself.
This is why I much rather watch anime over most western media. Anime portrays masculinity and femininity as good and virtuous, particularly in shounen and shoujo anime.
To be fair, "you think you can get away with mocking people just because you're a little cute" is more of a backhanded compliment. That's not the best example. In the West, that kind of thing can come off as being hostile, rather than friendly. Were you to show that clip to someone not familiar with the show, I think it would be reasonable to find some would believe he is being standoffish and passive aggressive.
0:12 Lol, that's an official Microsoft Windows anime girl (you can see on her hair ribbon the colors of MS Windows Start) - specifically, one of the Windows 8 twins created to promote the Win8 launch in Japan 🤣
15:42 _Anime's female portrayal shows feminine nature in a positive light that feminist media never can or will. In essence, it exposes both the current cultural crisis in the west in both media and public attitudes. When a huge portion of your male population has to look to a foreign medium to find virtuous female portrayals that's a serious problem._ 🥶😰
I was stuck in a Uber today with someone listening to a Viola Davis audiobook. It had all the crap you expected on it, including how “female sexuality is only ever presented to tantalize the male audience. It’s up to me to make her human”. These modern actors actually believe that every female character was just a Stepford wife until the feminists brought their “enlightenment” with them. They can go to the hellhole their politics create for all I care.
The bible speaks of an actual good woman being more valuable than precious jewels. Sadly obtaining precious jewels is easier nowadays. That's why 2D is the better option.
@@Alexandraadftxr7052 I doubt that. Maybe you should read less revisionist history. Men aren't perfect, but they're not as bad as you make them out to be. Did some men do that? Sure, i can believe that. But i doubt the majority of men had nothing better to do with their life besides ruining their marriage. Nevermind the fact that in order to cheat, it takes two to tango. That is, another woman must be willing to engage in said act of helping the man cheat. Ultimately, even if you try to insult men, it would inadvertently also hurt women.
Leaf, since you mentioned diving how brain chemistry affects one’s mind might I recommend a book called Nutrient Power by William J. Walsh. It goes into what nutrients the brain uses to create the chemicals used to regulate our minds and how imbalances in those chemicals link to mental illness like depression, mania, schizophrenia and others. I warn you it’s a dry and technical read but it is very informative.
@@luciussvartwulf6630what's makes this fact funnier is that even AI companions can be nice to men. And those are just algorithms. Imagine being a woman, and geting btfo by a program because you're less polite than a few lines of code.
Simple, most anime is unrealistic, the vast majority of anime depict women as kind, loving and faithful, completely opposite to the monsters that accompany us every day
Off topic, but anime help me get past being medically retired from the army in 2013. In 2018, Violet Evergarden was released. (I suggest it to any one dealing a vet with physical or mental health issues. The show spoke to me of my own issues of lost not being able to serve anymore (after doing it for 21 years) and coming to terms of damage not meaning uselessness. (Violet struggles with both disability and to find purpose again. ) I started watching anime in the 80's and am glad it has more exposure now a days. (Not that I agree with all the types of anime, but I am glad its been a part of my life)
Romance Anime is one of the only reasons I still have a soft spot for love, Western media would've completely killed any interest in love I have with how they describe and portray it.
I prefer anime girls because they just happen to be awesome people that I feel like I can relate to. I don't know what they're personal lives are like. I'm sure they have their off days, they're not always at their best, like all of us, but these are personalities that I just vibe with. I wish I had known them, or someone like them IRL.
I've seen anime girls and women who are military generals, scientists, badass spies and operatives, world-ending catastrophes, etc. But always at their core are very human elements. They lure you in with surface level elements like attractiveness and fanservice, but at some point something is going to give a perspective shift and gives you newfound respect and love towards those characters. Anime has always found a balance between all the different aspects of the human condition, even within one series. I find it refreshingly honest and fun, as opposed to the West contradictory and hypocritical media.
> 10:31 Really funny how you mention this considering a few hours ago, I watched a video on how birth control (pills and arm implants, hormones) can drastically change a woman’s behavior and the kind of men they go for in relationships. It’s a two way street for how this happens from the men in comments I read on the video reacting to it but it’s generally the same for how they react- Women gets in relationship with guy while on the pill, as soon as they get comfortable with one another and want to start a family, she gets off the pill, suddenly, she’s not attracted to him anymore and is grossed out, she leaves him, starts acting crazy etc…Now keep in mind, attraction is different from woman to woman; usually whenever they are on the pill before a relationship(even taking after being in a relationship for awhile when not beforehand), they produce low estrogen and from this, they go after low testosterone to average men. While I can’t remember everything from that video, if they get off the pill while in a relationship- if their partner is not particularly attractive to them, or not masculine enough, they will lose interest and the relationship will end. On the contrary however, if the man IS attractive/masculine enough to them, they get even more attracted to him. It’s an educational yet disheartening video and how chemicals from the birth control messes up with your own biological chemicals to practically change you to a different person to how you go into relationships. The worst part yet, who knows the possible long lasting effects of birth control to other aspects of your life or other chemicals in your body that help you function right. If you wanna look at the video itself- it’s titled: Oestrogen Expert: Birth Control Changes Who You Are...Would You Still Love Them If You Came Off It?
I can't believe I dodged this bullet. I got married super early (17) and that was 25+ years ago. If we had a son, I wouldn't even know what to say to him about dating today.
Women do not see a man as human if he is below a certain threshold in looks, which is based on how they value themselves. It has been proven time, and time again with experiments with replicable data. People who advocate that crap usually about "body positivity" and other crap to socially pressure others to see them as a valid option. And like you pointed out, the people who push it socially are the ones who benefit from it.
The whole pair bonding chemical thing is like this. In the olden days, people used to put their skill points into one skill that could become very good. But there was always the risk that you hated it and respecing your points was impossible. Now respecing is still impossible, but people are putting points into skill almost randomly and the chances of getting a good build are way lower. If that makes sense
It's an entire thing in brain chemistry called "pair bonding." Humans are monogamous by design. One man, one woman, husband and wife, mated for life. Having sex with her husband reinforces a woman's love for her spouse, however, with every single sexual encounter with a man, the woman's ability to pair bond decreases, and after four sexual partners (not entirely sure on the actual number but it's around that), her ability to pair bond is completely destroyed.
Matt Walsh and his boomer mindset audience. Then again they also hate tabletop which is my favorite hobby, so I disregard their opinion as much as a Twitter/Bluesky freak.
I’m 45, been married but it’s never worked. Loved and treated the wife like a queen as it should be, but it never mattered I was replaced easily. Since then I’ve tried different methods of being towards women, you can be a great man and you can also be an asshole…in the end is the same result. So I hung it up 5 years ago, and I’m walking the path of life the rest of the way alone. There’s no one out there, no one’s coming, no backup. Sucks but I suppose that’s reality for me, best of luck to younger people, try not to die alone like myself. 👍🏻 See ya space cowboy.
do not worry brother, the mechanicus brotherhood of mars is working on a abominable intelligence of silicium, in about 3 centuries we will finish decrypting the recently rediscovered STC for a certain "Cyberwiffu", a few augmatics implants and a rejuvat treatment should allow you to wait that long easely and in great shape. a few terran decade of indentured servitude to the forge should pay for the operation and give you starting capital for investing. if you are faithfull in your prayer to the forge, your investment should reach the required sum for your very own woman of silicium in about 2 centuries, provided no deamonic invasion happen. praise be the Omnissiah
Anime’s allure invites watchers into an introverted perspective of being, sorely lacking in Western media. Then, it grips attention by clearly, and showing in balance, both disagreeableness and agreeableness. Hence: Goblin Slayer and the Priest.
Why? women and men don't get along anymore and we treat each other terribly. men don't act like men anymore and women don't act like women. Anime girls are typically gorgeous, fit and healthy, feminine, gentle, nurturing, submissive, kind and respectful. Everything a man wants in a woman. We don't make women like this anymore. Same with why women fantasize abt a strong competent man swooping in and sweeping them off their feet.
Anime girls are (organically) written to have visual appeal-whether cute, elegant, or sexy-while having personality and character agency. The West struggles to find that balance with its female characters while doing so without the DEI stuff and making the male character look incompetent in the process.
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@LeaflitAsari Leaflit, I think you'd like a video from Europos on femininity "Corruption of the Feminine: The War on Life"
On the note of chemicals and hormones and mind control, go do some digging into how birth control affects the female mind and mate selection. A lot of women get off of it and a month later suddenly find their boyfriends and husbands repulsive. A lot of hormonal birth control drugs trick the body into thinking it is already pregnant or just had a miscarriage, that's how they work. Now extrapolate the mental effects from it on a relationship.
Four chemicals are involved oxytocin vasopressin testosterone and estrogen. All of them are present in both males and females with a major difference being how much. In males testosterone is higher and females estrogen is higher. Vasopressin causes the mate guarding bonding and loving behaviors in males and is almost exclusively released after orgasm. Oxytocin causes physical bonding loving and happiness feelings and is release during skin to skin contact AKA cuddling. Estrogen synergizes with oxytocin and is the reason why girls like cuddling sometimes more than sex. Vasopressin synergizes with testosterone and it's the reason why it's so much stronger for boys to like sex more than girls. It also leads to them feeling unloved if they don't get it.
Good resource on this is Dr. K. and HealthyGamerGG channel. his video "Let's Talk about Touch Starvation" talks about oxytocin and bonding.
are single? ❤
"Why do men like monster girls so much?"
"Because the monster is on the outside"
Hmm.
and a wonderfull Girl inside......
They also tend to be more forward so there's no kuso tests or other such nonsense to deal with.
I love monster girls
AYO
Comment that literally got somebody banned from Twitter:
'Anime is dangerous because it offers men the fantasy of a woman who loves them just for who they are.'
Edit: see the traction this gets? It should be posted everywhere until it becomes a meme. I'm telling you. It's too real.
That's flipping evil. Spite has killed romance.
Maaaaan. I know it's a joke but it hits closer every time I hear this, and it scares me.
@@talkingtakotaco8611 Given today’s reality, how do you know it was a joke?
That's exactly what i think every time I see this fictional girls
@@talkingtakotaco8611 is it a joke if it's true?
And this is why western companies are attacking anime. It’s really sad
your modern western gynocentric culture attacks anything that benefits men. Any male space.
yes including porn.
@@megarotom1590 they attack them because they cannot compete with them, like a jealous teen in high school.
Gotta make sure men stay unhappy, while also blaming them for everything.
@@robinfox4440 "If I cannot have their marketshare, NO ONE WILL!" at its worst.
@@robinfox4440 they attack cause they blocked the message and giving the west people iddeas mostly the young
The west no longer grasps the concept that women can be both feminine and badass. In ZZZ there's a cool sword and shield female character who is attractive and considered one of the best fighters in her home. She's confirmed to be straight and desires a cute romance from mangas that she reads in secret. Twitter threw a fit about it because she wasn't a manly lesbian.
Hail the king.
Gacha characters have the depth of a puddle of water. Especially Chinese ones. Don't bring that to the anime conversation please.
@@ZielschmerDelusional and factually wrong.
@@komyuta2556 Don't need to be mad at me. You are free to goon and gamble to fund the CCP.
Mikasa is the perfect example of feminine and badass
“Your waifu isn’t real!!”
True, but neither is the pain she could cause me
And neither are the real life waifus...
As I tend to say:
“Your waifu exists, on your heart and mind, she is real in a emotional way.”
you know, because you’re too weak to figure out why you’re a terrible person
Women who actually love me aren't real either, so what's the issue lol.
@@iguanobro9925funny thats what i say
Anime girls won't lecture me about the patriarchy or take half of what I own. I'm still hopeful I'll meet a tomboy GF someday, but the anime will suffice for now.
😅...Yeah after divorce anime got me through dark places
Agreed. Although I stopped caring about real girls all together.
Date a Texas girl who teases the crap out of you. That’s what I did and I put a ring on her. Been together 21 years now and never been happier. Also, she’s further right than I am! She grew up in rural TX, and is amazing.
Oh they will, but will obviously be the villain.
Patriarchy is great. And women need to realize this in the west
Art education in Japan teaches you how to effectively make things beautiful.
Art education in the West teaches you to deconstruct and reject the idea that anything can or should be made beautiful.
"Beauty is opressive".
Anyway, the results of Herbert Marcuse and other MFs from Frankfurt School of thought.
@@samirSch first time I ever heard of Foucault was from an art teacher. I swear those mfers form the backbone of art education, and you can't escape it by moving disciplines either.
But somehow we are taught Morals are Objective
Look at their hypocrisy
@Leopold2DidNothingWrong that's the exact opposite of what the post modernists teach....
@@robinfox4440 The real reason East Asians are getting so successful through Gacha Games, Idol music, Manga, Manhwa and Anime is because they promote Herrenvolk objective beauty standards equally for both Men and Women.
I've met Shoujo fans and even Fujoshi who are somewhat sympathetic to preservation of Aryan beauty through eugenics.
Even the masculine women in anime have charm and a cute side to them. Especially when dealing with a guy they like.
Tomo Aizawa, Sailor Uranus
@@harlleygurrola8394 Uranus heh heh heh
Pretty much every woman in Black Lagoon in a nutshell.
Erza from Fairy Tail ❤️💯
Tomo-chan is a girl! Is a great example of this
The brain chemical you're referring to -- that causes the bonding -- is oxytocin. It's largely responsible for creating bonds between mother and child and fostering feelings of connection between romantic couples. However, adult men produce less of it than women and children do.
This doesn't mean that men can't bond emotionally. One, men tend to produce more oxytocin during sex as opposed to during cuddling. Two, men experience the strongest bonds as a result of a different chemical called vasopressin, which is produced during stressful or high-energy situations. Vasopressin bonding is why men form such close ties to those with whom they've fought alongside in battle or competitive sports. It is also how fathers bond with their children during rough-and-tumble play.
In men, vasopressin (very similar in structure) is utilized instead of oxytocin for several functions.
Men produce less oxytocin because they simply don't need it for several functions that women do (lactation, labor, orbitofrontal cortex potentiation (neurons that have OXT receptors).
Oxytocin is a peptide hormone, it's not solely used as a neurotransmitter, it has several important functions that are unrelated to behavior or mating. It's just that men simply do not need most of these functions.
It's still utilized for pro-social interaction, pair-bonding, out-group hostility & in-group preference, et cetera.
However, it's less so used for parent-offspring bonding, long-term potentiation of limbic pathways that have to do with mate permanence, and it's wholly unused for neural facilitation of hypothalamic nuclei, driven by threshold potentials in the amygdala. In contrast, to women.
The difference (vasopressin versus oxytocin in their function as a NT) is one of the reasons fathers neurochemically bond to their offspring later than mothers do. Mothers produce a lot of oxytocin during labor and continue to do so for up to 2 years later. With men, arginine vasopressin production is more conditional and its peak coincides with when the offspring is a couple of months old and can hold an aware gaze. The argument about the selection pressures that led to this is complex.
It also lowers men's testosterone. So never before competition, or the battlefield boys :D
How do you know this?
@@Wanderer2035 Various sources, including college level biology texts and articles on neurobiology. I am not a scientist if that's what you're asking, but I have had a lifelong interest in the sciences so I try to stay informed.
@@Wanderer2035 I don't want to offend you but your question "How do you know this" made me laugh :D
A drawing isn't going to cheat on me, accuse me of abuse, then take the kids, house, and 40% of my pay every month.
Plus, they'll never change their personality or opinions, unlike irl 304s.
Make that 50%
Well, here in Brazil the socialist government already takes 40% of what we make (more if you consider inflation, which is a hidden tax).
So getting married with the same BS laws that exists in the US may throw me into nearly total slavery at + 80% of everything taken away.
As some wise internet sage once said: "the juice isn't worth the squeeze".
Unless that's exactly what the drawing wants you to think...
thats true until the tags ntr shows up
>10 minute long video explaining why anime women are great and the reasons why people like them
Based
Why and HOW are you everywhere???
@@jesusofbulletsman isn’t in the rabbit hole, he’s digging it
@@jesusofbullets His quest to breed with pippa takes him to many places.
@@kookoo9235 His quest to breed with the characters from Blue Archive
Did you watch the whole thing? He is just another super-religious type saying promiscuity is bad.
Because they are cute, and have actual personalities, that do not consist of "Allow me to be as in-your-face as humanly possible."
That, and when they date boys, they date them because they genuinely like/love them, and not just because being with said boy would bring her material benefits.
"Actual" personalities? Aren't those personalities are coded as tropes just to make the men (reader) happy as escapism?
Like the tsundere, kuudere, childish, tomboy, bokukko and even yandere, as long as they "love you" as the reader representation?
@@ryuumajinbe careful, you’ll hurt their world view lol
@@ryuumajin Depends. There are a lot of series that resort to only that, but some of the most praised characters tend to break that trope. In recent shows, we got both Frieren and Momo who are both not coded as tropes from what I've heard about them. Would need to watch their respective shows to make my own conclusions, however.
Though from media I have consumed from Japan, the female characters from My Little Monster each are pretty distinct. I wouldn't really be able to put any of them into a singular trope with how they were done. There is also then those from Eighty-Six, which break the mold yet again
@@ryuumajin Yes, actual personalities. Just because a character may be representative of a particular archetype or storytelling trope, doesn't necessarily mean they're shallow, unlike the overabundance of real, western women who are nothing more than materialistic, consumerist 304s looking for a meal ticket and out only to serve themselves and their own hedonistic pursuits. It's actually quite pathetic that there's an abundance of fictional characters that possess more substance, even if they are cliche, than too many real people.
@@ryuumajin they still have more in depth personalities unlike modern npc wihmen
7:57 "He killed 20 Goblins in 30 seconds. That means he can protect my children! ... OUR children!" based xD
*DID SOMEBODY SAY GAAAAWWWWWWBLINS?!*
🤣
*Soviet Anthem intesifies*
You see goblin slayer face. Dude is hot af, shows up in s1 to the guild while his armor is being patched. He also take off his helmet at the end of s1
HIS children. That was the focus for thousands of years.
IRL females wait at the finish line and pick up the winners. Anime females join the boy early on before wealth and fame and take the Hero's Journey with the boy as he grows into a man. This is why anime girls are so fascinating to men.
The winner takes it all
The loser has to fall
Irl women treat you like trash.
Anime girl will do nothing, literally nothing at all and still somehow that's a huge improvement to irl women
2d vs 3d. Masamune in 2.5d Dimensional Seduction despite being surrounded by girls who love him, prefers his 2d Manga chicks.
@@rickrakauskas3287
He's trying to avoid children and risk getting put in the system. 😂
You ignore esdeath...but for real usually they will reject people that are like mr grey. Real women love that.
@@adriananic8258
At least Esdaeth is attractive and fictional.
@transcendentsacredcourage dated a light esdeath version once. Doesnt matter what she looks like. You dont want her. The best part about her is she doesnt exist.
The thing is western media has shamed men for not wanting to date an overweight woman and regularly depicted men as trash
While in anime we largely see a man being able to lead and not be shamed for simply being a man which is why I mostly watch anime
It's even worse. Fictional women in the West are designed intentionally ugly *to spite men.* They're designed out of hate. Why would men enjoy something that explicitly hates such a natural & healthy male desire, that bring to appreciate feminine beauty?
Despite all their claims, Western media doesn't seem in value anything feminine. They just encourage women to be men.
And Shounen and Seinen are geared towards men, they embrace what teenage men and adult men want. And the thing is it is popular with men, and women. Shoujo is a little bit more niche, while Shounen is mainstream.
Responded to this, but TH-cam zapped the comment. Honestly don't even know what about it was verboten.
@@Pan_Z
You can never tell whatever it was.
Because she's softer than you. She's quieter than you. She doesn't yell at me. She doesn't call me an idiot or tell me to shut up all the time. She listens to me. She's nice to me. She doesn't make me feel like the only thing stopping her from being happy... is me.
cue confused look on wife's face...
Not gonna lie this reminded me of what Darth Vader thought about Palpatine from novelization of RoTS and it fkving funny lol
Really depends on the anime girl. We could be dealing with a Tsundere.
@@fireflygaming8764 shudders
baka! urusai!
Not wrong. There is a weird trend of wanting to make Women men and Vice versa in Media.
Sure but without thinking the Consequence
They need men to hyperconsume like women, and they need to make women into obedient worker drones.
They need to make ♂️ into hyperconsumers and ♀️ into o6edlent worker dr0nes.
They need to make ___ into hyper consumers and ___ into worker drones.
Blank key: men, women (had to do this because of TH-cam filters)
There is no truth in flesh, only betrayal."
"There is no strength in flesh, only weakness."
"There is no constancy in flesh, only decay."
"There is no certainty in flesh but death.-Creedo Otakusiah.
Jojo approved chest plasma gun has been earned.
FROM THE MOMENT I UNDERSTOOD THE WEAKNESS OF MY FLESH
IT DISGUSTED ME
I CRAVED THE STRENGTH AND CERTAINTY OF STEEL
@@superdarklink I aspired to the purity of the blessed machine. Your kind cling to your flesh as if it will not decay and fail you. One day the crude biomass you call a temple will wither and you will beg my kind to save you. But I am already saved. For the Machine is Immortal!
@@kazuyakanbara1395 So, where do I sign to become techpriest?
@@PhthaloGreenskin I know I'm among my people when dudes are quoting mechanicus priests to comment on why we love anime girls.
cause anime in general is honest. it's pure in it's artistry instead of doing stupid crap in an attempt to prove a point that no one cares about. AKA it's simply based.
the rest is just a consequence of this.
I myself tho hate the fact you have to swim through a shitload of cringe anime with cringe MCs just to watch that one gud anime
Just my opinion
@@trainenthusiast5199 i think you could replace anime here with any entertainment or artform. Not everything can be a "classic"
@@trainenthusiast5199 Sturgeon's Law applies, as always. 90% of anything is garbage.
@trainenthusiast5199 you can always use the tags and skip isekai or harem if it bothers you this much. We know that's what you mean.
@@trainenthusiast5199 I bet you just watch whatever gets recommended to you in the new and/or popular sections. Not even the companies who fund the trash anime series actually expect people to like and watch them.
Anime is pretty aesthetic, just like firearms. Hence the peak of anime girls with guns being peak aesthetic.
Its mostly cause they just mix what teenage boys like in one.
attractive anime girls and fighitng.
@CyberPunkBadGuy don't forget being the commander you can self insert as the only male in the vecinity. That's a consistent.
It's why I play PVE tarkov I don't care but PVP I like all the stuff I can do to my gun within reason or excess
Lycoris Recoil ftw
Same with tanks, but maybe it's because I just watched Girls und Panzer.
Hey leaflit. I'm not a neurologist but I have studied it a bit. The biggest misunderstanding about dopamine is that it's not a pleasure hormone. It's an ambition hormone. You lose your dopamine when you achieve pleasure. I hear so many TH-camrs saying the phrase " you are getting a dopamine hit" that's false. You are more likely getting a endorphin hit or serotonin hit. Oxytocin is only released when your brain knows it's having "s8x". Gooning doesn't release oxytocin, your brain knows when it's touching itself. Oxytocin aka "love hormone" doesn't lower dopamine. But gooning will lower dopamine. That's why when boys watch "corn" while gooning they lose their dopamine aka "desire ambition".
That's why after a person goons, they lose all desire to talk to others or interact with the opposite gender. I hope this clears some stuff.
I lose all desire to interact with the opposite gender after a 2 minute conversation with 99% of them, not gooning.
While I'm sure lowered dopamine is one reason, I almost feel like the shame could be another reason. I just find it hard to believe that people who goon don't want to talk to the opposite gender because their body doesn't desire it. That'd almost be make me believe there'd be a correlation between gooning and homosexuality. I think gooners have plenty of desire, but a lot of fear and shame.
@@GriFFonRec4 People have been gooning for millions of years now yet were still procreating. We forget that throughout history, a large percentage of people never had kids/procreated. They were traditionally killed off or even, never married and had kids. Isaac Newton, Plato and a whole lot of other very famous people never had kids. The sadder thing is that, many of the more famous engineers/scientists didn't have kids which kind of says something about that archetype. Interestingly, there are a LOT of old, very prominent historical figures that either never had children or even, never got married.
@GriFFonRec4 Just because for you it's hard to believe doesn't make it not true. 2nd you are confusing the words desire and ambition with "wishful thinking". They have alot of wishful thinking. But no desire to accomplish the goal otherwise it would have been accomplished. Last, Gooning doesn't release oxytocin. Therefore no correlation to homosexuality.
Thank you for this comment. Super insightful. Willing to hear more if you drop by again!
So women are in competition with drawings and losing? Wow
And men hardly lose because westerners can't draw/write masculine men, and easterns mostly write only betaboys.
Women are just weird. They all want 1% of the men, but are angry if the 99% they ignore, ignore them back.
you know that bell curve graph that "proves" they're "smarter" than mens, it shows why they're losing
And chatbots
Women are actively trying to be less attractive to men. They could win this little competition easily if they tried, but they have been told they are some kind of royalty their whole lives. Now most men don't care and have lost all hope in women. They dug this whole all on their own and anime had very little to do with it if anything at all.
Anime Girls will never talk down to you, will never sexually, physically or verbally abuse & harass you when you’re at your most vulnerable and will never take you to divorce court where the judge will side with her and allow her to take everything you have worked hard for.
Anime girls do all that all the time.
@@Ieatpaste23 lol, when they do those bad things its usually a fetish or the character is just evil, like say Junko or something.
Sounds like you've had a lot of negative experiences. Let go and stay strong, brother.
@@CyberPunkBadGuy Nah, it's passed off as a joke, because it's totally funny to hit men. It's like you guys forgot tsunderes and the prude.
@@Ieatpaste23 However Tsunderes are generally liked or disliked amongst anime consumers The hitting is one of the many reasons why they are disliked, Mostly disliked.
Only male tsunderes I known are seen done good cause they behave from a place of respect and dont generally abuse others for lols or on frantic emotional outbursts.
Example Miles Edgeworth from ace attorney, He is a descent example.
YES; Femininity is wonderful and amazing and i hate what the west is trying to do to it.
Also, lmao. Trying to figure out the mechanics of the real world is just Science, you're doing science.
What she described is a mix of natural philosophy (proto-science) and greek philosophy.
Try to reverse it:
If I were god how would I code the world and ppl to act in a certain way?
@@MadMalkavian I'm a Christian, that was literally what I thought of! A lot of the world makes sense if you have an understanding of early Christian and 2nd temple theology and look at the world with your hermeneutic.
@ZechOfTheWest You mean what ''feminists'' did to it.
Not everythi in the world is science because not all truths can be proven. That's what makes atheism cringe, it's just obsessed with proof when it's obvious there are a million truths in the world that can't be proven.
I'm so glad that there still exists a modest lady out there. I have been reverse slut shamed two different times once by a woman and another guy. They found it completely baffling that I hadn't slept around with a lot of people. I told them I'm waiting for the right person, not because of religion or stuff like that, I just personally value sexual intimacy as something important. I might as well have been speaking alien to them, I was a wierdo in their eyes.
Don't worry, on their deathbeds they will realize you were the smart one in that interaction.
Same. I grew up in a religious community that valued sexual purity, not creepily so, just considered it a virtue, and at the time I made a religious vow to remain a virgin until married. At home, however, I remember my mother giving me a very secular argument for why it's a good thing. Your virginity is something special, something you can give only once. And you should give that special something only to someone you consider worthy of it, partially because you value them, and partially because you value yourself. Would you want a woman, who so cheaply sold the thing that is the ultimate act between a man and a woman to some random person?
Of course not. And that's how I view it. Sex is something special, the ultimate act of bonding and love between a man and a woman, and it's something special, a present that is meant for my future wife, and no one else.
On a related note, my mother always said (though these days that's not true) that every woman is someone's future wife. So you should treat all the women you date the way you would want any man your future wife is with right now, to be treated by them. And this is something I don't see with other people anymore. People don't value one another, or themselves anymore.
@StarboyXL9 Thanks, I'm not concerned with their opinion. I just find it concerning that now adays you're looked at as a wierdo freak by your peers because you're 25 and haven't screwed 5 - 10 people already. That was normal a few decades ago. Society has started to shame people for not being a slut or a F-boy.
@StarboyXL9 Thank you, I'm not very concerned about their opinion. I mostly just find it sad and massed up that we have gotten to the point as a society where we are encouraged to sleep around and have a high body count. And if you're not going along with the flow, they see you as some sort of anomaly.
@@heyiammr.3676 Agreed. I have no interest in sleeping around. Virginity is something special and you can only share that with one person, I plan for that person to be my wife.
Can you think of a single piece of western media that portrays having children in a positive way? I certainly can't.
Only ones from the child's perspective or in foster care
Last of Us 2, ironically enough.
Despicable Me.
@@billwilson1225 lol no? The father died for nothing, nose girl ended up a single mom, les "dad" leftnthe family, then was left by it, and fingerless.
Nobody there was happy
@@billwilson1225 That's almost as funny as the entire plotline of that game. Good one! 😂
Honestly, I am just sad I have gotten to this point to where I am even watching videos like this and reinforcing these thoughts in my mind. My biggest fear in life is facing the ages alone.
Get used to it, society isn't changing any time soon
All you can do is do your best, try to find a good community and be grateful, loving and loyal when you find the person for you.
Sorry it has to be a twit on the Internet who has to tell you this, but man up and be prepared to face the chaos alone. You might get lucky or you might not. Don't let a pathetic fear get ahold of you. Improve yourself not for anyone except yourself.
I’d like to encourage you and say that you aren’t alone, even when it feels like it. God created you with a purpose and loves you more than anyone in this world. You can find comfort, strength, and hope. If you’re open to it, you could try talking to God about your fears and ask Him to reveal Himself to you. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” In Genesis He saw Adam and said “It is not good for the man to be alone.”
unfortunately, the number point to being alone as the inevitable outcome for most unless something drastic happens. My advice to you is comes from an old Norse proverb; "Fear profits a man nothing."
Even if it is your fate to be alone (in that you have no romantic relationship), find things that bring you joy and embrace life. Play games if you like, learn to draw or write stories, find some bros out there who have your back and have theirs in turn. Do not fear being alone, because that fear will ruin your life. Instead, embrace life and if Fate favors you, perhaps you will find someone in the end.
I know this, because it is the truth I have had to face as well. I have had relationships in the past, but they didn't work out. My present circumstances (which show little sign of ever changing) mean that I am likely never to have one again. I do not know how long I will live, but I know that it is more than likely to be one spent without a lover, even if there were women worthy of loving out there. I have made peace with this, and in making peace, I have liberated myself to find the joys in life that I can have outside of that.
Seek joy and affirm your life, don't let it be defined by what you don't or won't have, but what you can do with the life you have been given.
Anime has had no influence on my decision to avoid marriage like the plague. Absurd cost of living, what the state does to our kids, how manipulative the various "ists" out there are, and how intimate the state is with our relationships are however has influenced the decision.
I agree that waifu cope is in many cases a symptom not a cause. I think it can become a contributing factor as well. I agree though. Cost of living and gender war is a big factor
@@Ezekiel_the_roachIt's because current American society is high on its own hubris and a hefty side of denial. Forget the fact that there's a massive gaping hole that is known as the 2008 Great Recession, that never happened! Imaginative thinking and the arts? Hah! The Department of Education and private schools will never focus on that because it doesn't have corporate and commercial sponsorships for money! Remember boys and girls, if a guy doesn't make enough to meet inflation and recession head above water income, he's a loser! Love should always be determined by purely materialistic factors and our society should always reflect this! Remember girls, you are diva god given princesses and should never know the inevitable pain of human life, so you should shatter like porcelain dolls and fall back into the unquestioned sexist cycles of making women slaves by secondhand methods! People don't know better, so either by the fringe fundamentalist Christians or the game playing ultra wokes, they have to oppress and suppress people's urges because they simply "don't know better" unlike the exploitative and disparately filthy rich! Remember, this is reality! Reality is perfect! Relentless optimism for all or else you're a wrong thinker and that's a big nono! If anything, blame the media we consume and let the stupid, uneducated, overworked, yet bitchmade slavish loyal fear and deprivation driven masses lynch effigies before everything falls apart and everyone is made to be pitted against one each other!
This century isn't the bright, happy new millennium everyone was hoping for, because the past has never been resolved. Prepare for something that will make the Roaring Twenties look like a tea time banquet. I don't say this simply to strike fear and be edgy. This is a warning. Welcome to the human experience, sometimes it will be nice, other times it will suck. Enjoy it.
This is the single, accurate correct comment. No ammount of ideology can influence social trends as material conditions. Marxists would be proud of your analysis.
Feminism should only be concerned with women's rights. It shouldn't be concerned with the thoughts, beliefs, and values of individuals in society at large. Especially to the extent it's been taken to. This is the same problem with other social movements, too. They've all been co-opted to serve the interests of the ruling class.
I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I want a trustworthy, kind, and positive attitude, marriage wife , Is that too much to ask for
Same
You're doing the right thing. Monogamy is superior.
Same and About to be 25 myself and I can't even trust women in general I wish life was different I have never dated in my life cuz why bother at this point
Your not alone buddy, I’m there with you. All that I can recommend is be the best person you can be. Always improve, eat healthy, exercise and take care of yourself.
IN THIS ECONOMY!? 😂
But srsly, it should be the bare minimum, but unfortunately it's the extreme exception these days, sadly.
Best you can do is be as in shape and looksmaxxed as possible so if you do run across her you will be at your best to possibly have a relationship with and marry her.
When I learned NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming), the first exercise was to write down our personality traits and our favorite movies. They then went on to show how the movies we watched influenced +90% of our lives.
Btw, the femenist movement looks like a psyop to destroy feminism... and by proxy masculinity.
Of course, we need more workers for the machine, comrade!
Exactly. But I don't think it's only that. I found it strange that all of a sudden in the past decades, almost overwhelmingly, companies from every strata have pulled their backs to market and advocate for more female participation in the masculine-oriented workforce (at least more focused on more "cushy" jobs). I once saw a video essay (can't remember who made it) about the "Race to the bottom" strategy, making half of humanity (women) get into the workforce, thus keeping wages lower or increases slower. Not only wages, by working to double the workforce, there is less vacant jobs, and recently I believe companies have long abandoned needing to actually COMPETE for workers (because the desperate unemployed can't be choosy), and increasing qualification requirements, making upward social mobility harder, etc.. Does all this sound familiar? It's not only a feminist psy-op, corporates have vested interests in all of this too. Alright I'll remove my "tinfoil hat" for now. :P
@@ZergSlayer-dn5zb I mean, it's just true that companies benefit from everyone being in the workforce. The only question is if they are the main force behind it, or just passively support it because it conveniently helps them.
@@goncalocarneiro3043 Part of it is human nature, like Politicians voting for a highter salary for themselves. We have removed the checking factors such as strong families and communities for these malagents of society due to these collectivistic practices.
Spoiler alert: Feminism was ALWAYS a corporate ploy to bolster the workforce and enslave women.
For me it's something I have been observing on myself for quite a while and I do have to say: It is quite simple.
I like anime girls because...they exude a happy & cheerful aura. Something which I rarely nowadays see on real life woman.
I think that is also the reason why people can get really parasocial with VTubers. It's because VTuber personalities pretty often just exude happiness and the model just enhances this.
Personally, I have been in a relationship for 8 years. Due to outside factors (the lockdowns, family losses etc.) my partner turned extremely miserable.
And I think having the experience of being around a woman who is constantly miserable just...makes anime girls with their smiles almost look like a sun (I know, that sounded cringey).
They just exude an extremely happy & joyful aura and I think when it comes down to it...that is what most men want.
Tldr;
It's not about se* appeal. Well, mostly it's not.
It's about the aura anime girls radiate. At least in my opinion.
Valid. I see the appeal. I always say I'd prioritize loyalty and kindness, but I must admit, after scraping by in nyc, lockdowns and military right after, would be nice to have mood that isn't perpetually jaded in my day to day.
Bro... Maybe leave he girl behind? It's been 8 years and she's still miserable? Not worth it.
@@johnx140 Her being miserable is a development which happened just a few years ago. Roughly around 2021.
We split up now since a few weeks ago so yeah...
I'm inclined to agree but you should keep in mind that unfortunately EN Vtubers are western women and many of them are depressed asf in real life. Imagine feeling the duality of portraying the personality of a bubbly cheerful anime girl but being a depressed nihilistic sap off camera. That's gotta hurt more than just being honest. Add that to the pressure to perform that these Vtuber agencies exert in their parasitic hording of talent and you have a recipe for depressed women.
@@Awave3 I agree, but I myself also am not parasocial with VTubers. I wouldn't even consider that being a danger for me, so...sadly, your comment most likely won't reach the people who would benefit the most from reading it...
Femininity is its own strength and I’m tired of people acting like it isn’t
I don't believe in masculinity or femininity
i believe in radical darwinism
I like women, but I don't want to take in the risks that comes with a relationship
That risk doesn't exist with anime women
The risk is not worth the effort irl
We are two, human..
The juice ain't worth the squeeze
Preach on my brothers keep true to your waifus!
I've met a woman recently that was 27.... she travelled the world.. had a lot (like, a lot) of "partners" .... yet NEVER had a relationship last more than 4 months. She was claiming she wanted a serious relationship... I was looking at her thinking "I mean... that's fine and all, but if none of the many guys you've met all over the world in 27 years was good enough... I don't think you'll ever find someone that is".
And even if she found that guy, I don't think she would have the life skills required for a lasting relationship.
It is also the claim that women's brain find different things attractive while they are on the pill and while they aren't. Meaning it is likely very bad to pick a guy while you sleep around using pills, and better to pick one while you are not on pills and are in "normal" frame of mind.
Good. It honestly sounds like she deserves being alone at that point.
The reality. If she does find someone, it will be a pushover she isn't attracted to. He will agree to marry her, and she will divorce him in short order. If there is a kid involved, it is either from a previous man, or she will cheat during the marriage and it won't be the husbands.
This is the stark reality men are opting out of. And they should.
@@ZedRen-s8g
Exactly why I'm staying single.
@@transcendentsacredcourage
And I left out the absolute worse she can do _if_ it is his child, because the site auto-deletes it.
I've always been a bit picky when it comes to the Animes I enjoy, but I have to admit that I've delved much more into Japanese Media over the past few years because of how hard Western media is pushing to get rid of traditional norms.
I find anime girls to be relatable, funny, relaxing, very sociable, feminine, and so much more.
Cute & funny.
Don't forget the ones who can fight. A waifu like Fenrys is pretty well ideal.
Because anime women represent traditional women and are badass, charming, nurturing, kind, caring, and exude overall feminine energy. Same as why women are attracted to anime men. Anime men exude strong masculine energy, for the most part. Strong, stoic, firm, confident, indifferent, yet caring etc. If you wanna see the perfect dynamic between a man and a woman watch some of the 50s and 60s movies. Its a Wonderful Life and so on. Understanding attraction isnt hard.
Tsundere? When did they become nurturing.
Not always
Its their physical appearance alone that makes them preferable
Same for Bishonen Men
They exude the Herrenvolk ideals
@Leopold2DidNothingWrong Belgian W username
@@longiusaescius2537 As a social darwinist I reject the whole dynamic of gender roles. I would rather want even Women to be active and aggressive like their primitive counterparts who actively took part in hunting
It’s not hard, you just need to remove feminism and his effect for the last 100y
When the guy gets to marriage rates and sexual partners, it's just a giant data showcase that the metaphor of tape losing it's ability to bond might not be so ridiculous despite the sexual liberation movement mocking it out of existence. The notion that you followed up with is basically just a science based rediscovery of this older and very boiled down concept.
Once again, man must rediscover fire, as we are blinded in our hubris.
Although weebs are often treated online as incels or degenerates, ironically, it has become the best community outside of church for young men to find monogamous women with similar attitudes towards marriage. I met my best friend who later became my girlfriend because I got to know her at an anime watch club I started with my friends in college. Circumstances unfortunately landed us on opposite sides of the country and long distance didn't work out but I feel like anime is the best vector to finding someone else who shares my ideals for a future family, since it's indicative of distain for current western messaging on relationships.
Add videogames to that. Remember the couple who got married IRL from WoW?
The problem is that it has become mainstream and attract alot of insane tourists. just look at MHA or Dandadan
My bf and I met via an MMO and anime is one of our other hobbies. I don't think a couple has to like every single thing in perfect sync, but there's a great country song called "She Don't Like To Play My Kinda Music" that I love to reference:
She don't like to play my kinda music,
She don't know 'Sunday Mornin' Comin' Down'
Or what's so cool about 'He Stopped Lovin' Her Today'
Or 'Angels Flyin' too Close to the Ground'.
She don't like to play my kinda music,
She don't know Hank or even Johnny Cash
Yeah, she don't like to play my kinda music
So I had to tell that girl to kiss my ass.
A lot of girl activities--makeup, shopping, gossiping with other girls, attending girlie-themed social events, etc. exist in a realm completely outside of men. But many male activities--including anime and gaming--exist in the outer ring of society where both sexes exist. (There is a whole internal ring of existence that many women socially inhabit where most men rarely, if ever, enter) so it's a LOT more important that she and he run in the same external circles.
You're right that having multiple sexual partners makes it more difficult to pair bond. I've heard it said that the effect is more obvious in women, but can affect men as well.
Men want FOUR things: Love, loyalty, appreciation, and a peaceful home.
Most modern women fail in at least two of those categories.
And then they blame the men for it.
Correction, modern women fail in at least six of those four categories.
its actually men who fail at love and then blame woman for it all of you guys in the comments are losers who just want complete control so you turn to fictional woman and have fantasy's were you just get them without having to do anything (coming from a guy btw) also not trying to say that there arent bad woman but trust me there are far more bad and worthless guys on this planet then woman and you little boys who cant grow up in this comment section are a part of that group.
@@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
They just fail in general.
Jesus Christ. I say this for your sake. Not because i judge you in any way, but as someone who believes you know what can help you and i for the better.
Not for religious purposes, and even if you don't believe, I'd say it's best to figure what life is all about than to simply live within your own world. I say this for the whole world, you and I, His the answer.
Might as well try. Don't simply ignore but seek knowledge. GOD BLESS@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
Also, if you DO get married, remember to slap a password and lock on every videogame account you have.
Y'know, just in case they want to "prank" you
Actually, hide the games and controllers. Women could be tempted to destroy all of it and then accuse you of being a child for playing videagames
It's impossible to not have password on PC storefronts
Now I understand why my father hid his playstation in the attic
The relationship thing you were talking about is called "Pair Bonding" & studies have shown for the 'XY peoples is 10 & the XX 5' -Studies said that those were the numbers of complete inability to pair bond on a chemical level
You just made me sad
@MadMalkavian Dedication & priority can still overcome a chemical feeling, so not impossible or anything, if 2 peoples really want something to last then they can by just being determined to make someyhing work, but it'd be more difficult cause it's not a chemical motivation, but a motivation of 'the will to persist because one wants something to be despite lack of a chemical "high or bond or instinct". Its not completely "over" for a person who is like this or is the person who is with someone like this, but it's difficult. Anything can still be a success if determined & realistic & dedicated.
@MadMalkavian I understand though, we just have to make do with what 'is' because it is 'now' in which we are all living in this time of uncertainty
@FranzPaskov thanks bro. That was a much needed ray od hope.
12 and 8 technically, but still
I remember some conversations I had that talked about natural beauty and how babies can perceive beauty due to the symmetry of a persons face. They will stare at a person for longer periods of time as apposed to someone not.
They will also stare at something that look out of the ordinary like when their is metal on the face
This doesn't apply to newborns tho.
Newborns are like a blank hard drive.
it has no data to reference what "beauty" is supposed to look like.
that's why you can't really scare newborns with "scary" things, since they haven't learned yet it is supposed to be scary.
@@DatAsianGuyHumans are not blank slates. That is a myth.
Much of our thinking is derived from our biology and the environment just steers it into thought patterns that are hopefully beneficial
16:15 Holy shit yes, as a lover of tomboys myself, we must stop the tomboy genocide! All I want is a tomboy wife who likes to play video games and shoot guns with me, but SOCIETY doesn't want me to have that!
the tomboy to trans due to hypnosis meme has been made real.
@avroarchitect1793 It is truly one of the greatest tragedies of our generation.
The problem with tomboys in our generation is that they all go feminist and trans. I'm sorry to disappoint you, but that's the often reality
The very same explanation can be applied to why you see so many bland protagonists in romcoms who are (at times painfully) obvious slots for the readers to insert themselves into the story. After all, a girl who loves you for who you are and despite your flaws is the ultimate male fantasy.
And it's a fantasy because it doesn't happen irl 😭 reality is so cooked can't wait till the grim reaper picks me up
@christianponce4836 You might have said that as a joke, but preferably not the grim reaper, wouldn't you say. Instead, how about an angel?
I know what you mean about goblin slayer. If I find a girl with the right qualities and values, I won’t care what she might look like anymore.
In my experience someone gets more beautiful or look better the longer you are with them(depends)
Major cap, how to test that? if you get outraged by how "ugly" video game characters are getting I think you might be a little vain and that's an understatement.
@@MelancholicNotActualyAlcoholic There are beauty standards for a reason. If you design a character that's ugly, trying to tell people that you're horrible for thinking so is just mad cope.
@@MelancholicNotActualyAlcoholic "If I get outraged by ugly vg characters?" TBH, I really don't care. It's weird that people seem to try to intentionally uglify everything, but it's not a selling point.
That said, I'm also curious as to how well my statement holds up to reality. Figuring out how you would test that seems like an interesting challenge.
@theOtherLukeVT probably through some specialized test involving several people.
Not to mention all the men who see their partner is a positive light only to discover their past promiscuity leads to them cheating again out of habit, and thus creating another broken man who gives nobody else who might be better a second chance out of fear.
Basically anime can make feel a person feel like they are being loved unconditionally, this is specially true for men. Men are always expected to give something that has a long term value (the other problem is that men have very low standards, just by being nice or being just a tiny bit pretty a woman has a chance with a shit ton of men)
As a wedding officiant, anime women are appealing because they're the only source I've found of women being capable of romantic love. Nowhere in the real world or in western media do I see women that are capable of it, it's either materialistic, familial or utilitarian love. Every bride I've officiated didn't want to be a wife, they just wanted a wedding or what the man had to offer.
How is it possible for you to know that? I can't imagine many women baring their innermost thoughts to strangers.
With mindreading powers like yours, you're wasted on officiating weddings.
@@snipermagoo, it's also possible to talk with them.
@@seriouscat2231 And figure out in minutes what their fiance couldn't in years? Like I said.
@@snipermagoo, nothing like you said. Some people know some things better than others.
04:40 That isn't Holo, Wise Wolf of Yoitsu . That is Raphtalia from "The Rising of the Shield Hero". You can see it on the hair style. Raphtalia's hair is more fluffy on the sides. Holo's not.
Raphtalia is a racoon, Holo is a wolf-like goddess (well, actually more of a fox-like or coyote-like, but huge af 😂)
@@gameon2000 I don't want to be this guy but... Raphtalia is a Racoon dog (A Canid Species), Dog-like with a fur similar to Western Racoon species who had paws instead of fingers of a Racoon. 🤓
Thanks for reminding me that 2D women are awesome and based.
Now to go back to coping with the fact that I may very well die alone. Here's hoping a tomboy wife comes along to prove me wrong.
10:00 This is partly why I have chosen to be celibate (and also why I don't regret being really romantically oblivious for the most part) for most of my life; I had many opportunities in college if I sought them out to just have flings with people, and people were wondering why I never was chasing this sort of stuff as a young adult. I don't want to be a man-ho. I've only been with one person before, and I felt vindicated that I chose to be selective. I'm not religious, but that sort of intimacy should be reserved for people you actually care about. It's really saddening to see it become even more commodified and transactional instead of being something special two people (or more I guess if that's something people want) share together.
Anime girls don't cheat on their boyfriends. They are happy to do nice things, without expecting anything in return, but love and appreciation.
Not stuck on a super woke extra cancel loop. Most importantly, they don't give it up to every guy they meet. If they hit the guy, it's to keep him from being a creepy perv. Tough love. They don't complain if they start the first date at Cheesecake Factory. No extra baggage, no baby daddies. Strong and independent. Need I say more.
The Degenerates wants to show you about new things of their Tags. But generally, Romance manga have different flavors and they rarely betray the man (Unless its a back story of the first love)
honestly anime females are some of the strongest females in fiction. from strongest firepower, strongest will, strongest intellect, you have it all from different series. it's hilarious feminists thinks anime girls are all depiction of feeble damsels in distress. i've always thought feminists are akin to religious nuts who ignore reality to feed on their own delusions.
@@Ninjaneercat such a sexist statament, a lot of them abuse innocent guys just because of some inoffensive jokes or misunderstandings. also why the boyfriends can't do the same even when they are in the right ? if the boyfriend is a p&rv so why they don't stop dating the degenerate and search for an actual normal man? tough love is BS, it's plain sexism and double standards, sadly the media did an amazing work in brainwashing most people.
@@Ninjaneercat
such a sexist statement, a lot of them @bus& innocent guys just because of some inoffensive jokes or misunderstandings. also why the b0yfri&nds can't do the same even when they are in the right ? if the boyfriend is a p&rv so why they don't stop dating the freaky and search for an actual normal man? tough love is BS, it's plain sexism and double standards, sadly the media did an amazing work in brainwashing most people.
@@Ninjaneercat
A lot of them @bus& innocent m&n just because of some inoffensive jokes or misunderstandings. also why the b0yfri&nds can't do the same even when they are in the right ? if the b0yfri&nd is a freaky so why she don't give up and search for an actual normal man? tough love is BS, it's plain sexism and double standards, sadly the media did an amazing work in brainwashing most people.
this video gives us information that everyone knew until the year 2000 or something
I hope I can find a wife one day but the current mainstream is not putting out women I'm into. Wife, family, building a home, not having above 2-3 sexual partners. More women should learn from this video.
Make that not above 0 sexual partners. No hymen, no diamond.
why the decline, because there currently is no benefit for men to get married and risk losing everything they worked for all because his wife who swore to love and obey him feels different
"Obey him"... Do you want robot or a human being as your wife?
You had my agreement until that ‘obey him’ part.
@@theanimemusicnetwork5234 Embracing gender roles that have been affirmed by biology, God, and thousands of years of human history does not make anyone a robot.
@@Marisa_enjoyer Humans have free will and freedom of thought. If you think people are supposed to blindly follow a old tradition just because it's a tradition, that's quite robotic. Where is the rhetoric of "obey him" come from?
@@theanimemusicnetwork5234 Tradition is the collective wisdom of our ancestors, which has been painstakingly discovered through numerous generations. To reject it is frankly conceited, and at the very least should be done carefully and with a large amount of evidence. Now, is there overwhelming evidence that complete equality between both partners in a relationship is a good thing? Absolutely not. It is common sense that the parties will constantly be butting heads and fighting against natural order.
For me, it was growing up watching anime. My mother was a bit of a weeb, so I had bootleg subtitles of things like Tobor, the 8th Man ('63-64), BEM ('68-69) and Dororo ('69). I was already familiar with Sailor Moon when the girls in my classes were still on reruns of Rainbow Bright and She-Ra.
This isn't to be hipster or anything, but as a "no, he's avsolutely right." The difference is, I was thrown right in to the deep end and my own status as a weeb was imprinted upon me from birth.
That said, 3D women have their appeal to me still. The whole Goth esthetic is just as appealing in 3D as it is 2D, so I went with that really early as well. It's worn down a bit, but like an old and comfortable coat you like to wear now and then; hell, that's not even just a metaphor. I'm actually wearing the old coat now. It's still warmer than a lot of winter coats.
Anyways, yeah. The longer you're immersed in something, the more you tend to lean towards them and things like it. Weebs like anime girls for their cute, beautiful, commanding, and many other traits. So it stands to reason we like those same traits in real women. The dyed hair only works when they're not overweight, angry ideologues. Go figure.
Edit: The comparison whoever vs Saber is exactly what I mean. Saber is an incredibly masculine female character, even having *_fathered_* a child. Yet she is still an icon of Waifu's because she it a Tiger Mom as well. While still being a firm personality, there is a great deal of feminity in it as well. In the West, we call them Momma Bears instead though. A woman who would care for and protect her children is something men strongly desire in a woman. It takes a *_woman_* to do that though, not a girlboss. A girlboss is only interested in herself.
Fictional characters are much more friendly than most people met in real life.
This is why I much rather watch anime over most western media. Anime portrays masculinity and femininity as good and virtuous, particularly in shounen and shoujo anime.
Even if American cartoons and comics are more popular than animanga now, I will always prefer anime girls over big mouth girls
To be fair, "you think you can get away with mocking people just because you're a little cute" is more of a backhanded compliment. That's not the best example. In the West, that kind of thing can come off as being hostile, rather than friendly. Were you to show that clip to someone not familiar with the show, I think it would be reasonable to find some would believe he is being standoffish and passive aggressive.
0:12 Lol, that's an official Microsoft Windows anime girl (you can see on her hair ribbon the colors of MS Windows Start) - specifically, one of the Windows 8 twins created to promote the Win8 launch in Japan 🤣
Ok hands down… your takes on this video have you made you #1 on my favorite TH-camrs list.
15:42 _Anime's female portrayal shows feminine nature in a positive light that feminist media never can or will. In essence, it exposes both the current cultural crisis in the west in both media and public attitudes. When a huge portion of your male population has to look to a foreign medium to find virtuous female portrayals that's a serious problem._ 🥶😰
I was stuck in a Uber today with someone listening to a Viola Davis audiobook. It had all the crap you expected on it, including how “female sexuality is only ever presented to tantalize the male audience. It’s up to me to make her human”. These modern actors actually believe that every female character was just a Stepford wife until the feminists brought their “enlightenment” with them. They can go to the hellhole their politics create for all I care.
Except they don't stay in hellholes they create, they flee and like locusts ruin other places they move to.
The bible speaks of an actual good woman being more valuable than precious jewels. Sadly obtaining precious jewels is easier nowadays. That's why 2D is the better option.
"Sexual liberation was a disaster" yeah.. Read Marcuse and understand that it was by design. 😂 We're headed down a dark path.
Noticer. ✡️ beware them
Society needs useful morons.
Why? Men were always able to sleep around, and enjoy themselfs. Why is it only a problem when women do it?
@Alexandraadftxr7052
Many reasons. Do some research. If guys explained it to you, their comments would get deleted.
@@Alexandraadftxr7052 I doubt that. Maybe you should read less revisionist history. Men aren't perfect, but they're not as bad as you make them out to be. Did some men do that? Sure, i can believe that. But i doubt the majority of men had nothing better to do with their life besides ruining their marriage. Nevermind the fact that in order to cheat, it takes two to tango. That is, another woman must be willing to engage in said act of helping the man cheat. Ultimately, even if you try to insult men, it would inadvertently also hurt women.
Leaf, since you mentioned diving how brain chemistry affects one’s mind might I recommend a book called Nutrient Power by William J. Walsh. It goes into what nutrients the brain uses to create the chemicals used to regulate our minds and how imbalances in those chemicals link to mental illness like depression, mania, schizophrenia and others. I warn you it’s a dry and technical read but it is very informative.
Its because a solid majority not all of women have made it hard to achieve the dream these days. Now men use the fiction to create their own vision.
Genjutsu
I really like Pax's content. He's helped me make sense of a lot of things over the years.
He helped me "notice" and convert to Catholicism.
Honesty and loyalty, put simply.
It’s simple. No arguments. No drama. No exploiting. No cheating.
Just 1950s house wife.
Women should take notes but when will they ever do…..
>all you have to do to get a man to love you his whole life is be nice to him
>most women fail this simple task.
Because women have been seduced by the path of selfishness and hedonism.
@@luciussvartwulf6630what's makes this fact funnier is that even AI companions can be nice to men. And those are just algorithms.
Imagine being a woman, and geting btfo by a program because you're less polite than a few lines of code.
@@luciussvartwulf6630 Not even nice. Just don't be an active detriment to my life.
i miss feminine women in west
Me too
3:02 not true, they based it from old disney renderings with some japanese aesthetics (see minky momo) hence the big eyes
Simple, most anime is unrealistic, the vast majority of anime depict women as kind, loving and faithful, completely opposite to the monsters that accompany us every day
Based
ouch lol.
I could say the same thing about men.
Off topic, but anime help me get past being medically retired from the army in 2013. In 2018, Violet Evergarden was released. (I suggest it to any one dealing a vet with physical or mental health issues. The show spoke to me of my own issues of lost not being able to serve anymore (after doing it for 21 years) and coming to terms of damage not meaning uselessness. (Violet struggles with both disability and to find purpose again. ) I started watching anime in the 80's and am glad it has more exposure now a days. (Not that I agree with all the types of anime, but I am glad its been a part of my life)
Romance Anime is one of the only reasons I still have a soft spot for love, Western media would've completely killed any interest in love I have with how they describe and portray it.
I prefer anime girls because they just happen to be awesome people that I feel like I can relate to. I don't know what they're personal lives are like. I'm sure they have their off days, they're not always at their best, like all of us, but these are personalities that I just vibe with. I wish I had known them, or someone like them IRL.
Anime females are beautiful and practically perfect in every way. I love them.
I've seen anime girls and women who are military generals, scientists, badass spies and operatives, world-ending catastrophes, etc. But always at their core are very human elements. They lure you in with surface level elements like attractiveness and fanservice, but at some point something is going to give a perspective shift and gives you newfound respect and love towards those characters.
Anime has always found a balance between all the different aspects of the human condition, even within one series. I find it refreshingly honest and fun, as opposed to the West contradictory and hypocritical media.
God is the great game designer and most people go against the meta
I don't think I've ever heard it put so succinctly.
> 10:31
Really funny how you mention this considering a few hours ago, I watched a video on how birth control (pills and arm implants, hormones) can drastically change a woman’s behavior and the kind of men they go for in relationships. It’s a two way street for how this happens from the men in comments I read on the video reacting to it but it’s generally the same for how they react-
Women gets in relationship with guy while on the pill, as soon as they get comfortable with one another and want to start a family, she gets off the pill, suddenly, she’s not attracted to him anymore and is grossed out, she leaves him, starts acting crazy etc…Now keep in mind, attraction is different from woman to woman; usually whenever they are on the pill before a relationship(even taking after being in a relationship for awhile when not beforehand), they produce low estrogen and from this, they go after low testosterone to average men. While I can’t remember everything from that video, if they get off the pill while in a relationship- if their partner is not particularly attractive to them, or not masculine enough, they will lose interest and the relationship will end. On the contrary however, if the man IS attractive/masculine enough to them, they get even more attracted to him. It’s an educational yet disheartening video and how chemicals from the birth control messes up with your own biological chemicals to practically change you to a different person to how you go into relationships. The worst part yet, who knows the possible long lasting effects of birth control to other aspects of your life or other chemicals in your body that help you function right. If you wanna look at the video itself- it’s titled: Oestrogen Expert: Birth Control Changes Who You Are...Would You Still Love Them If You Came Off It?
I’ll check it out. It’s currently an interesting topic to me.
You also.left behind chemical disruptors in water, plastics, processed food, and post partum depression.
I can't believe I dodged this bullet. I got married super early (17) and that was 25+ years ago. If we had a son, I wouldn't even know what to say to him about dating today.
Coming from an ugly person. The only time that I have heard the argument that beauty is subjective was from my fellow fugly people.
Women do not see a man as human if he is below a certain threshold in looks, which is based on how they value themselves. It has been proven time, and time again with experiments with replicable data.
People who advocate that crap usually about "body positivity" and other crap to socially pressure others to see them as a valid option. And like you pointed out, the people who push it socially are the ones who benefit from it.
The whole pair bonding chemical thing is like this. In the olden days, people used to put their skill points into one skill that could become very good. But there was always the risk that you hated it and respecing your points was impossible. Now respecing is still impossible, but people are putting points into skill almost randomly and the chances of getting a good build are way lower.
If that makes sense
You could think of past partners as horcruxes also, you leave a bit of your soul behind with each one, further adding to the 11:20 conversation.
It's an entire thing in brain chemistry called "pair bonding."
Humans are monogamous by design. One man, one woman, husband and wife, mated for life. Having sex with her husband reinforces a woman's love for her spouse, however, with every single sexual encounter with a man, the woman's ability to pair bond decreases, and after four sexual partners (not entirely sure on the actual number but it's around that), her ability to pair bond is completely destroyed.
@@JMObyx
It averages around 4-5 partners. And keep in mind that women admit to double and triple digits these days.
I've been watching anime since 1990
I now believe I'll probably never stop
What crazy person wouldn't like anime girls
Twitter freaks, they are the defination of crazy. Redditors too.
@@balazsvarga1823 Redditors are way more diverse there's MANY weeb Redditors. They're just all in the NSFW subreddits
@@balazsvarga1823 fair enough
Radical leftists, progressive college students that think they're always right. blue haired nose ring gay lesbians.
Matt Walsh and his boomer mindset audience. Then again they also hate tabletop which is my favorite hobby, so I disregard their opinion as much as a Twitter/Bluesky freak.
Feminism in western view is all about making much profit as possible and making as much as equel as possible without thinking the consequence
True, it’s funny how American culture is so toxic and yet their cartoons and comics are the best pieces of fiction ever created
This explains why feminism is constantly attacking anime and telling women not to watch anime!
Wow ,a traditional relationship that lasted for hundreds of thousands of years is still the best,fucking surprising 😂
I’m 45, been married but it’s never worked. Loved and treated the wife like a queen as it should be, but it never mattered I was replaced easily. Since then I’ve tried different methods of being towards women, you can be a great man and you can also be an asshole…in the end is the same result. So I hung it up 5 years ago, and I’m walking the path of life the rest of the way alone. There’s no one out there, no one’s coming, no backup. Sucks but I suppose that’s reality for me, best of luck to younger people, try not to die alone like myself. 👍🏻 See ya space cowboy.
Maybe you're just a lousy husband?
Wake me up when humanity finds a way to put Doki Doki LC characters inside a robot
do not worry brother, the mechanicus brotherhood of mars is working on a abominable intelligence of silicium, in about 3 centuries we will finish decrypting the recently rediscovered STC for a certain "Cyberwiffu", a few augmatics implants and a rejuvat treatment should allow you to wait that long easely and in great shape.
a few terran decade of indentured servitude to the forge should pay for the operation and give you starting capital for investing.
if you are faithfull in your prayer to the forge, your investment should reach the required sum for your very own woman of silicium in about 2 centuries, provided no deamonic invasion happen.
praise be the Omnissiah
@@arthurborlet That's some rad Marketing Tattict, if evere see one. I'm in. Glory to the Omnissiah! 🙏🏻
You bring Monika into the physical world and I am going to have to punish you.
Saori is okay though. Girl needs a real hug.
@@zerosen1972 Sayori is the best, no doubt about it. But Monika wouldn't be so much of a threat in a physical, un-hackable world, so...
Sorry bro, 10 min ago i just told Monika in the Monika after story mod that i can't wait for her to appear in our reality@@zerosen1972
Anime’s allure invites watchers into an introverted perspective of being, sorely lacking in Western media. Then, it grips attention by clearly, and showing in balance, both disagreeableness and agreeableness. Hence: Goblin Slayer and the Priest.
Why? women and men don't get along anymore and we treat each other terribly. men don't act like men anymore and women don't act like women. Anime girls are typically gorgeous, fit and healthy, feminine, gentle, nurturing, submissive, kind and respectful. Everything a man wants in a woman. We don't make women like this anymore. Same with why women fantasize abt a strong competent man swooping in and sweeping them off their feet.
Anime girls are (organically) written to have visual appeal-whether cute, elegant, or sexy-while having personality and character agency. The West struggles to find that balance with its female characters while doing so without the DEI stuff and making the male character look incompetent in the process.
Eastern art education: you draw hot girls!
Western art education: you start world wars!
as a german, i'm going to laugh quietly about this
Anime promotes responsibility and purity while western women gather partners in the hundreds 😑