46:31 No, you are not Wrong Its Schizophrenia Dysyphoria thats makes most of the Alphabet soup Medically they can scan for male brain patterns, Female Brain Patters and Bisexual Brain patterns What the Twrans Commity on Twitter was mad at Rowling for was she agreed with the judge to have a prisoner requesting transfer from Men's Solitary (Convicted rapists and assaulted of multiple women) to Women's General cause he realized he is Trans(and an idiot..he'd mysteriously die in women general populace just as fast as men's general populace) They did a brain scan to she if he had female brain, what they found was a male brain with Schizophrenia and Psychologist concluded he was socialpathic and had Identity Dysyphoria so judge rsjected his Transfer to Women's Solitary (So dont get any mysterious holes or cut up and strung up in general population) Deer Girl on Twitch Safety just in thinking she is a Deer is ID Dysphoric.....so is Chris Chan who is likely socialpathic as well
I had one who had 2 terrible both before and after me, she picked them, I chased her, So she has a 100% of picking assholes, and one of each of those tried and the second one succeeded to grape her. The last guy probably Deleted her, but her experience is not the consensus and if she hadn't been the problem in our relationship she would be alive and happily married, so yeah some of it is on who women are picking. The absolute trash like Tate seem to get a lot of stupid women, meanwhile the smart ones get a good guy and stick with him.
Yeah kind if. All my friends are half a continent away or further, no luck with women, and I am working on my degree. WGU is more my speed and having the GI Bill certainly helps.
This. Some women work hard at a career, make 100k per year, then refuse to marry anyone who isn't a millionaire. They then discover that millionaires don't care one bit about how much money their wife makes, they're in the market for...other things.
@@CantusTropus And then they find out that there are men who absolutely like the idea of a sugar mommy, and they think they're saved. Then they meet those men.
Funny how women put blame on men for being financially unattractive, when in result men eventually would pick math book - figure out that financial success is only for smal minority of people, but we need majority to have families => introduce forced pay gap, now women are below and find burger flipper attractive
The observed tendency of women to prefer a man who makes more money than they do is one of the main reasons for the breakdown of the family. Pay gap basically needs to exist in order for women to be happy in their relationships. Yet all government programs are focused on pushing women into higher education, higher income brackets, and providing low income mothers with subsidies they only get if they are single. Incentivizing the opposite of what society needs. I genuinely feel bad for women who have put themselves through what men put themselves through, pursuing a career not because they want it for themselves but because they think it will help them get a better partner, only to discover as their biological clock is going crazy, that income is only attractive to women, men on average don't give a fuck and the men that do are not desirable. I think this is instinctual to an extent but I think that we could at least try socializing women to have more realistic expectations. We are constantly pushing men to adjust their expectations from women... its reached a point where all men want is a woman who isn't actively repulsive to them and is nice to them and that desire is demonized because body positivity means only men accepting less in terms of looks and men don't deserve kindness.
@@WatanukiProductions Woman don't need to be socialized to have more realistic expectations. They only have the expectations they do because they were socialized to think that way.
28:00 "Enthusiastic Consent" means whatever they need it to mean in the moment. It's a common tactic to invent and invoke unclear language to be used as a weapon.
"enthusiastic consent" means anything that allows them to make their ex look as bad as possible, and distract from anything wrong they themselves may have been doing, regardless of what it is by claiming it wasnt consensual. its very convenient for "yes" to not mean yes, because it gives women an easy out for their own bad behaviors. its just good strategy to always have a plan B... in a competitive scenario, not in a relationship. thats the problem, they see relationships as inherently adversarial. only using men out of necessarily, and doing everything they can to "smoothly" get promoted to a "better position" ("better" man) as soon as they get an opportunity. dating is a job to them, nothing more, nothing less.
In theory, this concept exists because they consider to be SA the scenario of a man insisting on the intercourse proposal so much that the woman consents as a means of ceding to pressure. Like "Ugh. Okay. Let's get over with". But this is bollocks. If this kind of consent is invalid, then I have been violated countless times in my life. Where is my victim card?
Feminism started off as a fight for equality that is absolutely a good thing it's just gone too far in the opposite direction at this point and THAT is bad
@@dragonriderabens9761 Equality is not a good thing, it is an evil lie based on envy. The first feminists were literally practicing witches who admitted to hating men and that they had the ultimate goal of destroying "the patriarchy."
@@dragonriderabens9761 No? lol. Equality my ass. You get all the same rights as me and NONE of the responsibilities? No volunteering for firefighting, no forced signup for the draft, no owning land snd whatnot. Sure, women I think SHOULD be able to try, but if they can’t? Well, that sucks. Too bad.
They are several instances where people have come forward and said they were pushed down the trans path when they were just autistic and are just being abused by these people. Also a good number of gay people get pushed to be trans when they are just gay and confused. Which is why people are so upset with transitioning children.
26:00 "Enthusiastic consent" means that it's entirely the man's responsibility to ensure that before, during, and even after the sexual encounter, his partner is actively consenting and enjoying it. It is also his responsibility to immediately end the act if he gets any indication that her consent and enjoyment is wavering, because he's supposed to be essentially reading her mind and she shouldn't have to tell him "no" outright. Even then, this "advice" of always getting "enthusiastic consent" is rubbish now, as women can retroactively withdraw consent and pass accountability for their own regretful decision onto the man by pressing assault charges.
Is it any wonder why men are lonely in that aspect? It happened enough to where there's a stigma around dating women that no matter what you do with them, they'll turn around and vilify you just because they can. And the worst part, a lot of people would take their stance on it.
What? Aw c'mon bro just be a 100/100 mind reader psychic fortune teller with perfect awareness of every possible conceivable future. On top of the 6's of height, salary, abs, and inches. Also the dark triad traits of highly intelligent and successful narcissistic sociopaths. I mean that's just the bare minute bro, you telling me you can't do bare minimum while also not doing saying or being anything on the encyclopedia set length of "icks", isms", or "phobics". It's just the bare minimum bro! The bare minimum! They're not asking for much, just a pittance really.
We had a court case in Sweden where the woman withdrew consent in the middle of the act, and the man, according to court documents, "did two thrusts before stopping" and was therefore convicted of grape.
Enthusiastic consent is a load of BS and as far as I am concerned if a woman is married or in a relationship she has no right to refuse except for medical purposes. Also it doesn't matter if her consent wavers because she ultimatly chose to consent so imo its too late to go back on it now. I think that these laws are insane and should be abolished or at least heavily revised.
As a guy, im tired and over everything. I truly question any affection towards me and categorize it as malicious because i cant imagine people actually liking me
Same. I worked 1 week of a new job with finally decent payment last week, $40/hour, and it suppressed 0.0000 of my permanent depression. Everyone's grateful AF I'm there too and I did nothing yet beyond intro training and signing legal papers
anything more positive than neutral is either a trick or pity. anything worse than neutral is true and/or not harsh enough. the only true value a man can have is purely transactional. this is what it is to be a normal man in modern society. you dont need Andrew Tate to know this, but people like him point it out, and for many men thats enough to listen.
@ thankfully, there are more people (surprisingly, quite a few Vtubers) who are finding out how bad things are and are getting angry about it. So it’s not all bad. the downside is that, like in anything else, real change will take time.
Every time I see the phrases "be a decent human being" or "do better," it's from some social vampire who says and does the most vile things imaginable.
"Can you imagine them talking like this about black people?" They do. Just wait for a black conservative to exist within their field of view and then see the magic happen.
Yup. Also if they aren't black they probably do think that way about black people in general- they just won't admit it. They are racist- or whatever you want to call their bigotry. Only their "race" are people who are in their pyschotic marxist cult.
I thought I knew racists, but even I was shocked when I talked to people further left. Right wing racists have this schizophrenic view where the non-whites are inferior but also brilliantly working to undermine the white state, but left wing racists think black people have no agency and are too stupid to live in society without special help. And the far left starts sounding a lot like the far right when a black person dares to say, "You know, most of these guys on the right aren't actually racist, and they have policy proposals I kinda like. Maybe I'll take a peek over there."
Your take on education cracked me up. Got out of the Army and went to attend school. Only to find ultra feminist man hating teachers who couldn't stand the fact there was somebody in their class with real world experience whose opinion they were unable to shape.
If you're the average dude, you're in the 80%. If you're in the 80% then you're invisible/not human to women. Height means nothing, it's a secondary characteristic. Statistically women don't know the difference between 5'8" to 6'6". They have no concept of it unless they're taller than average.
Which by the way is a preference which only exists in countries that use imperial measurements, there is always a preference for men 5 inches taller than herself, but the specific preference for men over 6 feet is not shown in countries with the metric system. Also as a 6 foot tall guy, I realize I have it better than most guys... and short guys really are treated like absolute shit most of the time, but I'm still not treated like a person by most women.
I'm hoping for that grand emotional animal moment that brings it out of me. I'd say it'd take having a gun to my head, but been their done that and somehow logically talked down my green dealer (who unbeknownst to me, did a 180 and suddenly meth didn't make you erratic, in his mind). Just calm hit my cig explained that we never had issues in the past, so no reason to presume there would be in the future and that I got where he's coming from however we both know that if something happens right now, it wouldn't be good for either of us. Never got green or talked to that dude again. Fuck that.
I remember seeing a talk by a psychologist,I think Jonathan Haidt, in which they discussed the idea that we treat young boys as though they are defective girls. Best example is how young boys in general are way worse at sitting still and paying attention to a teacher for long periods.
Feminism IS equality. The misogynistic fascists have just co-opted the term to make themselves appear more numerous and their radical views more normal. This is like members of the KKK calling themselves "conservatives".
Go to Ukraine and watch how men should serve without a deadline in the army with no exceptions and die while defending borders(with limitations to leave the country if you don't like it, with limitations to work or even get treatment in hospitals). At the same time, women can live and not have to serve, they can leave the country. I just want to warn you to value your rights and not let anyone restrict them as long as you can.
@@mistahjenkins4826 Feminism *is* about equality. It was a movement to give women *equal* rights to men. But in the past 20 years it's been co-opted by people who hate men.
Well, they seem to apply it to the long nose tribe pretty often Whether or not I agree I'll leave ambiguous, because either take will get someone thrown to the dogs now
Mass loneliness, higher rates of death by self-deletion, higher rates of workplace deaths and injuries, higher likelihood of being a victim of an act of violence, more likely to struggle in school, more likely to die sooner, less likely to get child custody in court, granted harsher penalties for committing the same crimes, makes up 90% of the homeless population, mandatory military drafts, paternity fraud. If these affected women a lot more than it did men they'd treat it like some kind of major crisis.
You know, it's possible this is actually a really big problem a lot of guys are reacting to and watching the entire video, hence the algorithm pushes it up. You think?
Cause. The election proved that, woah, they’re on “the wrong side”. I mean come on, the people in the space who do NOTHING but pander find out the majority isn’t actually for all these stupid things, and are actually for the other stuff, they change their tunes. It’s fact: most people follow the consensus. The consensus “shifted” to say that this one way of thinking is actually popular, so people are now following it. Maybe they always thought this way and merely catered because before it was shunned and now that it’s the majority they let their true thoughts flow, or maybe they’re just trying to fit in. All I know, is GUARANTEED that if the consensus shifted again the other way, ALL these people won’t call out the reality and will follow the popular narrative.
@@ClockworkGearhead don’t kid yourself. Yeah, it’s a problem. A big one. Has been for a long while. But nobody talks about it. But this is objectively the truth: this election proved this was the majority opinion. Most people follow the majority opinion no matter what it is. Before it was “taboo” to talk about this stuff in this light, but now it’s out and people go “not only is it okay to say these things, but it actually gets VIEWS?! Hell yes!” and hop the bandwagon. Guarantee you, even if these people actually believe in this, the second the popular consensus switches back, they’ll shut the hell up or go to the other side. It is what it is.
No girlfriend, no college, very few friends, game anytime i want, DnD every other weekend instead of a bar. Out and about playing shows with my band and performing at dozens of venues up and down the east coast. Thankful for what i have.
I'm so glad I knew what Leaflit is actually like from her other videos because when she deadpan said "it's a patriarchy, men have no problems, suck it up" I would have clicked off the video - it was too convincing 😂
"We need to be more compassionate to them, for our own sake." Yeah don't actually start to care, just put on a show so we can get them on our side. You're saying the quiet part out loud guys!
Yeah that thing about consent also confuse me. Like how do they think men and women interact in real life? Should every move done in very rigid transactional way? Imagine how awkward it is
@@ericaallisoncNot an online thing but a college thing. In that it's school policy at a number of famous schools that 'enthusiastic consent' is the standard. That doesn't mean that that is what the students practice, of course. It is, as others have noted, an easy excuse to explain why a regretted sexual encounter wasn't _really_ consensual.
Drafted and signed legal contracts to engage in approaching in order to then get consent in writing signed and notarized by two independent witnesses in order to affirmatively agree to file paperwork to consent to file paperwork (also signed and notarized by a separate different notary and two more also different independent witnesses) for the consensual encounter, explicitly laying out the precise words times and actions and intentions behind each word and phrase and action and the expected reactions, with the option of drafting further contracts to consent to contracts to discuss consent to further interactions via paid independent 3rd party arbitration. And then they'll still claim post facto that they were pressured and their consent was invalid. Man bad. Bad man! Wrong! Schrodinger's signed consent form.
52:00 I had a coworker esports Smash Bros Melee friend I played Melee with a few times. My God, he was obsessed with categorizing people, even talking to me referring to "white people" as "you people." That was 1 of the last words I ever heard him say. I'm relieved I've never seen him since
Unfortunetly, as a person who for a very long time thought I was trans, thought I was into dressing up and make up and stuff, I realised through lots of therapy and suffering that it was never me but the extreme societal pressure and abuse I've experienced that made me wish I never was a man and made me feel it soo deeply that I lost my identity. Just wanted to tell you that, even though many trans people are indeed just trans, there is a chunk of trans people out there that have been mildly or even heavily pressure by people around them or society in such a way that they may have even lied to themselves to the point of transitioning.
"Guys dont have guns or swords anymore" Lol, sounds like you need to come to TN. I have 4 firearms in my house atm, and more at my family's house next door. This isnt unusual here at all.
20:29 as someone who went through this shit; these people piss me. I spent almost 5 years in a depressive cycle with no SO and no friends, constantly debating if it was even worth continuing. I’d go to work, go home, shower, maybe read a book, and sleep. While one very bad day would’ve sent me over the edge, I think the monotony kinda help calm my mind enough to avoid the worst. I met a great friend group and have gotten a lot better; though sometimes if we haven’t hung out for a month or two. I’m not posting this to trauma-dump or foster pity points; but to point out that even someone who *seems* fine or put together, might not be; below the surface. Asking, “are you fine?”, won’t get any real answer. No one I know would’ve seen it coming, except maybe my little sister. My parents would’ve eat themselves up trying to wrack their brains if they could’ve done anything. If he’s someone you care about, the simplest gesture could be the hand he needed. What helped was one of those coworkers simply inviting me to hang at a cardshop and see a movie with everyone. I even went to one of theirs wedding. The endless monotony is still there, but I’ve got buddies that are going through it with me. It might not seem like much, but it can mean everything to someone who is going through what I did.
“Why isn’t there a leftist Andrew Tate?!” Jordan Peterson was the best they have to a leftist Andrew Tate in terms of their messages about masculinity. But even the left shat on him!
No? lmao. He is hard conservative. Always has been. His teachings are conservative, his views are conservative. The needed “left” stuff they’ve mainly talked about was Joe Rogan, Ben Shapiro, and Tim Pool. Two of which quite literally were always hard democrats for most of their life. But it’s funny, cause they kinda did with TYT and Cenk Uygur. But they did have a lefty Tate, lowkey it was between Destiny and Hasan Piker. Guess what? Those people both are horrible human beings.
Personally I find it strange Tate is even associated with the right. "Hey, be polygamous, eschew family, look out for yourself instead of being a provider" is about as opposite traditional conservative values as it gets. Most of his messaging is leftist in nature.
And now you know why I have bitten _hard_ into the blackpill in terms of looking for love. I also have the triple-whammy of being a man, coming from a broken household, and being born with Asperger's Syndrome. Social communication norms just don't come naturally to me, so whenever I have to communicate, I'm either exceedingly blunt or end up going over-the-top when it comes to emoting.
"If you're going to be like, the original feminist" Feminism has not changed. It's just that the Overton's window has shifted, and so different things have been allowed to enter the public discourse.
@@zxcorp1 The original movement's ideology was the same as it is now: _Push women's cause forward._ It always has been a supremacy movement. It's just that back then, the difference was more pronounced, so the "equality" slogan was actually believable. Now, that the majority of the original points has been fulfilled, it is difficult to argue for "equality" with anyone who's even remotely reasonable and grounded in reality, and so they have to do mental pretzels, trying to explain how "Umm, guys, actually, equality means that we get to do whatever we want, but bear zero responsibility for everything that we do." This isn't some runaway ideology, what you are observing now, has always been a natural and inevitable progression of the feminist movement.
_"Be like the original feminists."_ What, like Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B Anthony, who directly funded the KKK and said they would rather have their arms chopped off than let black people vote? I mean I know that's what neoliberals *want,* but usually they try to avoid *saying it out loud.*
Man don't need to feeling dump and trauma dump. They really don't. they just need women to stop competing with them, judging them, villainizing them, etc. Men want women for affection. Be affectionate or don't be present. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it anymore. I don't want anything else.
I've said this before, the worst thing you can do is separate people in groups, because is always "That group is bad and my group is great" and ends up dehumanizing the other side while ignoring the mistakes and power abuse that happen on their side. This has been proven to happen again and again, this is why is so important to have friends who don't share your values because the best way to fix this was to make the people of different groups work together so they acknowledge their similarities instead of their differences. But lately echo chambers and intolerance for dissenting opinions have polarized the people more than ever, is not about what you think anymore is about who you are and what you're supposed to think if you are part of a demographic.
THe consent part, well my lawyer told me that I should make sure to bring contracts with me in three fold to be signed at the moment at a notary. ... no... no just no. We are done. I don't care anymore... we are done.
I’m 21 and I’ve never been in a relationship before. Heck, I haven’t even kissed a woman yet. I’m quite shy when meeting new people I don’t know, and I usually don’t feel comfortable enough to approach someone first.
The last woman who touched me gtoped me. Women IRL are 0% like women in anime. They have no remorse, no sense of guilt, no sense of empathy, no sense of uncanny valley putting pounds of plastic surgeries in their faces. I've never met a man creepier than the womanagers I've worked for Please watch How NOT to Summmon a Demon Lord to feel happy looking at girls
Same. Never even held hands. Closest I had to a girlfriend was a girl in kindergarten who said she was going to marry me. The loneliness really hurts, but I'm terrified of asking anyone out.
@@zumato3371 I wish I could say that it's going to get better, but in todays age, I honestly don't know if it ever will get better for us guys. All I can say is this: Don't give in. If you give in, then it means that they win. Live life to the fullest; laugh well; do that thing you always wanted to do but never got the chance. Keep on fighting the good fight.
@Jumpyman_thegamerYT I won't give up. I did that once before, and I won't let it happen again. I'm not happy and don't really have hope for my future, but I'll keep going anyway. Unfortunately the the only thing I want to do but have never had the chance is be in a relationship, but like you said, it doesn't seem like that will happen for guys like us.
You are 21. You have plenty of time. I’m 30 and on the spectrum yet I still managed to find someone. That someone was a 28 year old man who has never been out on a date. You will be fine as long as you have at least something that a woman likes.
In response to the tumbler hierarchy comment. There is in fact an official academic term for it,(yes this is taught in college sighs) it's called "Intersectionality." Or in layman's terms the "Victimhood Pyramid. "
Oppression Olympics Hunger Games Social Justice Thunderdome. There can be only one true oppressed victim identity group who has the perfect absolute moral sanction to say and do anything to anyone and who must be catered to and whose word is now law.
I have a theory of why guys are choosing not to have so much friends as much anymore. It’s because their base needs of having a gf and having sex are not being met first. To a guy, having that kind of love of a gf and having your physical intimacy needs met is more priority than a guy just having friends. So now on a macro scale, all these guys are in the same boat, choosing to not have friends, guys end up friendless, no love, no intimacy, further spiraling down in this hole of misery
Also @45:XX definitely, without giving too much away; growing up in a household where only the sisters were outwardly appreciated and acknowledged by mom & dad, coupled with how poorly guys are treated overall was 100% a factor toward becoming more feminine in general.
The funniest thing about Vaush's take is this: People like him have spent so much time, raising their little army of ideological crusaders, ready to lay their lives on the line for the sake of their cause... But then they noticed that the tool they've chosen to get into power (women, minorities, etc.) is not actually working that well. So now, they are trying to redirect the train onto a different track, to use a different stepping stone to elevate themselves into power. The only problem is, the army they've been raising, has been conditioned _BY THEM_ to be absolutely _allergic_ to the new tool they are trying to use. And so, the army rises up against their masters... Because it is too dumb to understand what it is that the left is _actually_ trying to achieve, and they believe their own lies.
About 10 years ago, consent contracts were a thing among college students. Funny part was even if it was signed, it still couldn't be used in court if an accusation was made. The whole concept was relentlessly mocked online as an obvious mood killer, which only caused the advocates for consent contracts to scream those against the contracts were alt-right, etc.
A lot of us men were raised by women only so we weren't properly socialized because what women say they want seems incongruous with what they actually go for, then the advice we do get is terrible or doesn't work for our individual personalities.
"They're going full Ains Ool Gown", I'm at work and almost spit my coffee on my computer. You popped up randomly on my feed, I'm subscribing for that comment alone.
The foot soldiers have been conditioned to follow marching orders and to only critically examine what their handlers have told them is critical examinations. The handlers themselves are capable of conceptualizing the possibility of self fulfilling prophecies, but they're as much a victim of drinking the koolaid as their followers. They're actually also just following orders while thinking they're the enlightened ones. Just a chain of useful dupes and patsies all the way up, each thinking they're the real masterminds and will stand to benefit come The Revolution. They'll get to live in the mega yachts and drink 300 year old vintage wine with their elite fellow travelers. In reality they'll be given a shovel and told to dig a mass trench together, for the glory of the party and dear leader, then lined up against a wall to be given their free Canadian style healthcare. Or they'll be collectively gathered up by the chuds and eaten. All we wanted to do was play vidya and be left alone, but they forced the issue and brought it on themselves.
I had a family member tell me: "If you're not a liberal before you're 18, then you have no heart. And if you're not a conservative by the time you're 30, then you have no brain." To me, it makes sense. When I was younger, I was taught about compassion for others and being kind and inclusive and "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it at all" kind of mindset. But now that I'm in my early 30s, I still hold onto a bit of that mindset, while also making sure I'm upholding my own principles and morals that I've acquired through my life experiences.
Stoicism is a self defense tool for most of us. Why show emotion or open up when it will be mocked by the women around us. Been married 22 years don't know that I've opened up since the first or second time. I learned.
Horniness and loneliness are way different things. As men, sex isn't connected to emotions the same way it is for women (I mean before they kill it with tons of partners). That's why guys can masterbate to things that aren't even sexual. My pre internet guys know what I'm talking about. 😆
I think this should have been figured out a long time ago, but a corporate, industrial society is not conducing to forging families and relationships at all. Social media accelerated the process.
See the thing is, it could be. However it will take management that actually gives a fuck about the employees and every cog making the corporation run. Instead it's "Well you want to much money, we'll find someone GRATEFUL for the opportunity". As if opportunity payed the bills, especially when said opportunity is getting payed the bare minimum.
@@DistractedGlobeGuy Silence, disgusting Marxist. His repulsive screed was written before the industrial revolution and have no bearing on a world with our level of technology or production.
Yes, it is a primal thing for women to want a guy who provides. It's also a deep primal thing for men to do the providing. I don't know if women actually appreciate it, but it is extremely satisfying and stressful at the same time for men to provide. Some might not even understand this need until they find themselves in that roll.
"It'd be so cute if you hug a guy and you feel the conceal-carry gun on the side... yeah..." -Leaflit 2024 Jokes aside, a reminder that this Shoe video was made waaaaaay before the elections. The writing has been on the wall for years and it doesnt seem to be slowing down anytime soon.
26:23 Yes, a contract is exactly what they mean. However she can still go to the police and get you in a lot of trouble if she wants; signed contract or not.
Since age 12, I noticed the way I was treated was different. People had interest and told me I was cute and asked what my favorite dinosaur is. Since then, I've just been alone, but after a couple of decades, it's the compliments that seem weird
I am lonely, BUT!... My 60-80 hour a week low paying job, and struggle to still afford a lot of things like housing already takes my mind off not having anyone in my life xD Thanks Obama... I mean Joe Biden.
1:20 Actually it goes back to our hunter gather days. Tall men are more likely to be better protectors/ faster runners (so more consistent meat)/really good at picking fruit. So basically it all comes down to it being a physical signifier of consistent food gain and health. Since less nutrients means less growth over lifetime = shorter. Its literally nature saying "this dude doesnt have skip meals 😏"
I was probably better before people on social media started telling me to give in to the black pill or red pill. Now I have to hear I'm too short and too poor to date and I might as well go to some country on the other side of the planet to be treated like a man. I just hate it all now.
Not to be overly cynical, but the only reason society at large is noticing this issue is because the flow of resources is being interrupted. The moment the material status quo is restored it'll go right back to business as usual.
I think it's more about the disruption to power than resources since they're already trying to replace men with foreign labour and have been for decades which would keep the resource flow consistent once completed so it's more that men specifically young rebelling politically enough to swing elections, and or being disenfranchised enough that violence is actually becoming in their best interests as the risks to it are rapidly evening out with the risks of any and all slower more passive and in system efforts, that scares the status quo more than a temporary disruption of resource that it already planned for and in fact weaponizes to keep the populace down.
Still a feminist grifter that unironically holds Vaush's opinions. If that last part doesn't make you rethink her position then that says a lot about you.
@LeaflitAsari at around 46-48 mins in you talking about this reminded me of the rat utopia experiments where a lot crazy things happen in these experiments where they give rats unlimited food and extremely large living spaces, the rats would form cliques based on how much they groom themselves and would have other rats doing things for them and the rat society would eventually devolve and always die out because they would stop reproducing
45:30 the numbers say that there's a overwhelming likelihood of that being the case with male prisoners that have committed SA, at least in areas that transfers them from a male prison to a female one...
39:54 Maybe. Having been in the military though: technical training is basically college courses crammed into a full workday week (or more) so you learn your job. Many people get through that with a better comprehension of the job than most college graduates (at least it seems that way in technical positions). This is purely anecdotal, but the training I've been through & seen through the military is very "sit down & grind it out" while college courses are very drawn out. Which may be a component in how education may cause some men to drop out.
The woman who did pretended to be a guy planned to do so for 18mths I think but at 6mths just noped out cause she saw what she was doing it for that quickly.
No watches are never gonna go out of style. The watch has one job to do and it is a lot easier to look at your wrist than it is to pull the phone out of your pocket and press the button if I just wanna check the time it’s great for that. I thought the same thing too until I start wearing a watch and then I was like oh this is nice.
"Enthusiastic consent" basically means, not like "can i do this?" And she goes *sigh* "yeah sure whatever". That is not "enthusiastic". Enthusiastic is more like looking in your eyes and nodding yes while saying "yes, i want you to do this". Or waiting until she, by herself, decides to straight up tell you "please do this to me" But these people have no idea how romance and attraction works.
1:05 "just be short." agreed! I was very self conscious about my height in my teens, thinking "man... No girl would ever find a short guy like myself attractive... Sigh." Like I was depressed. Eventually, at work & in my youth group I started going through a lot of like, hard to explain. Kinda, ok, so I stopped showing that insecurity & instead acted confident. I went from having not even one girl talk to me when I was insecure, to when I was radiating confidence, having several girls being VERY flirty. The co-workers were crazy aggressive lol. 1 co-worker I'll call "Briana" was my age & was like, too aggressive, really wanting to do some stuff, though I never accepted anything since I was (still am) a Christian PLUS I was dating another girl I'll call "Melissa." Melissa was, get this, 8 inches taller than me! I didn't mind tbh. She must've had an effect on me since prior to dating her I liked short girls, but now I'm into tall girls! "That's nice & stuff but I'm just 5'5" man! You can't relate!" My guy, I am just 5'3", though a spinal injury made me 5'2" lol. If I was able to attract many pretty women at just 5'3" you can. From my experience I discovered women love confidence. Fake confidence until it becomes real! I did that! The girls never even spoke to me before when I radiated insecurity! Even when I'd arrive & start working in the kitchen (Chick-Fil-A in the mall food court) even though I was nearly always the only guy working back there! Those same girl's got super flirty, Briana too much so (if genders were swapped there'd be some police involved, like so "gropey (sp?)." Man). Like it was a switch was flipped! It takes a lot of preparation & whatnot but it works. Fake it until you actually do become confident! Also, these girls were beautiful. I don't treat women like "trophies" or anything, but a friend named Dennis who was taking our order at the mall, when first meeting Melissa (my GF back then) he pulled me aside & whispered stuff to me like "how'd you land a 9-10/10" chick!?" I hate rating people! It's really disgusting to do that. I'd still date were I healthy. I purposely don't date now these days for that reason. I don't think burdening a woman with my illnesses would be ok, plus it'd be painful for them since I'm likely to die by 50-55yo (breath ing good q Never change yourself to fit whatever another finds attractive.
That one commenter: "It's not women's job to change how men are socialized" Even if I were inclined to agree with their original framing, which I'm not, the overwhelming amount of single moms in society today destroys their claim from the get go 😂. According to their world view, it IS indeed "their job" apparently.
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No, you are not Wrong
Its Schizophrenia Dysyphoria thats makes most of the Alphabet soup
Medically they can scan for male brain patterns, Female Brain Patters and Bisexual Brain patterns
What the Twrans Commity on Twitter was mad at Rowling for was she agreed with the judge to have a prisoner requesting transfer from Men's Solitary (Convicted rapists and assaulted of multiple women) to Women's General cause he realized he is Trans(and an idiot..he'd mysteriously die in women general populace just as fast as men's general populace)
They did a brain scan to she if he had female brain, what they found was a male brain with Schizophrenia and Psychologist concluded he was socialpathic and had Identity Dysyphoria so judge rsjected his Transfer to Women's Solitary (So dont get any mysterious holes or cut up and strung up in general population)
Deer Girl on Twitch Safety just in thinking she is a Deer is ID Dysphoric.....so is Chris Chan who is likely socialpathic as well
a lot of these women have had like 1 terrible ex-boyfriend and then made that their entire personality
It's their entire personality because they're always thirsting for that toxic di
100%
Meanwhile dudes are dealing with ptsd from just trying to start a conversation.
I had one who had 2 terrible both before and after me, she picked them, I chased her, So she has a 100% of picking assholes, and one of each of those tried and the second one succeeded to grape her.
The last guy probably Deleted her, but her experience is not the consensus and if she hadn't been the problem in our relationship she would be alive and happily married, so yeah some of it is on who women are picking.
The absolute trash like Tate seem to get a lot of stupid women, meanwhile the smart ones get a good guy and stick with him.
Leaf: 🥲
I'm betting my money on it being their first boyfriend as well and shaped their entire worldview on one specific set of interactions.
No friends, no girlfriend, no degree. I'm feeling called out.
Yeah kind if. All my friends are half a continent away or further, no luck with women, and I am working on my degree.
WGU is more my speed and having the GI Bill certainly helps.
Same all that's missing is 33yo and it's a mirror scenario.
You and 90% of men
You’re better off without the degree. Trust me. It’s not worth being a debt s_l_a_v_e to the government. Worst mistake of my life.
I have a degree but it became useless by AI, probably going to become a plumber. If I have to deal with crap I might as well be well paid for it.
Jordan Peterson is clearly nefarious, telling men to clean their own room is taking women's jobs 😂
😂😂
That's Bill Burr style.
my favorite opinion of his is when he says women have chaotic souls and cant be right about things as a result. truly a modern luminary.
@@kenpanderz mine is the lobster thing
@@kenpanderz So true man.
Women: able to be in workforce
Also women: ummm my man needs to make 5 times as me. I make 40k a hour 💅
This. Some women work hard at a career, make 100k per year, then refuse to marry anyone who isn't a millionaire. They then discover that millionaires don't care one bit about how much money their wife makes, they're in the market for...other things.
@@CantusTropus And then they find out that there are men who absolutely like the idea of a sugar mommy, and they think they're saved. Then they meet those men.
Funny how women put blame on men for being financially unattractive, when in result men eventually would pick math book - figure out that financial success is only for smal minority of people, but we need majority to have families => introduce forced pay gap, now women are below and find burger flipper attractive
The observed tendency of women to prefer a man who makes more money than they do is one of the main reasons for the breakdown of the family. Pay gap basically needs to exist in order for women to be happy in their relationships. Yet all government programs are focused on pushing women into higher education, higher income brackets, and providing low income mothers with subsidies they only get if they are single.
Incentivizing the opposite of what society needs.
I genuinely feel bad for women who have put themselves through what men put themselves through, pursuing a career not because they want it for themselves but because they think it will help them get a better partner, only to discover as their biological clock is going crazy, that income is only attractive to women, men on average don't give a fuck and the men that do are not desirable.
I think this is instinctual to an extent but I think that we could at least try socializing women to have more realistic expectations. We are constantly pushing men to adjust their expectations from women... its reached a point where all men want is a woman who isn't actively repulsive to them and is nice to them and that desire is demonized because body positivity means only men accepting less in terms of looks and men don't deserve kindness.
@@WatanukiProductions Woman don't need to be socialized to have more realistic expectations. They only have the expectations they do because they were socialized to think that way.
28:00 "Enthusiastic Consent" means whatever they need it to mean in the moment. It's a common tactic to invent and invoke unclear language to be used as a weapon.
"enthusiastic consent" means anything that allows them to make their ex look as bad as possible, and distract from anything wrong they themselves may have been doing, regardless of what it is by claiming it wasnt consensual. its very convenient for "yes" to not mean yes, because it gives women an easy out for their own bad behaviors. its just good strategy to always have a plan B... in a competitive scenario, not in a relationship. thats the problem, they see relationships as inherently adversarial. only using men out of necessarily, and doing everything they can to "smoothly" get promoted to a "better position" ("better" man) as soon as they get an opportunity. dating is a job to them, nothing more, nothing less.
In theory, this concept exists because they consider to be SA the scenario of a man insisting on the intercourse proposal so much that the woman consents as a means of ceding to pressure. Like "Ugh. Okay. Let's get over with".
But this is bollocks. If this kind of consent is invalid, then I have been violated countless times in my life. Where is my victim card?
Feminism and its consequences have been a disaster for humankind.
Feminism is the ultimate result of patriarchy.
Feminism started off as a fight for equality
that is absolutely a good thing
it's just gone too far in the opposite direction at this point and THAT is bad
@@dragonriderabens9761 No it didn't. Read any early feminist think tank writings, and you'll find that's absolutely not the case.
@@dragonriderabens9761 Equality is not a good thing, it is an evil lie based on envy.
The first feminists were literally practicing witches who admitted to hating men and that they had the ultimate goal of destroying "the patriarchy."
@@dragonriderabens9761 No? lol. Equality my ass. You get all the same rights as me and NONE of the responsibilities? No volunteering for firefighting, no forced signup for the draft, no owning land snd whatnot. Sure, women I think SHOULD be able to try, but if they can’t? Well, that sucks. Too bad.
Instead of constantly villainizing men we need to start listening and understanding them
Batman understands me
@@jinwood witch batman ? i think there has been like 9 of them not including comic book / cartoon/anime
But telling men that "men do the most murder" is super relevant to non-murdering men!
@@smikethehandicappedfriend Christian Bale Batman.
That is a two way street. I’ve had 5 boyfriends and I would say it’s a 50/50 split on how many of them bothered to try and understand me…
They are several instances where people have come forward and said they were pushed down the trans path when they were just autistic and are just being abused by these people. Also a good number of gay people get pushed to be trans when they are just gay and confused. Which is why people are so upset with transitioning children.
26:00 "Enthusiastic consent" means that it's entirely the man's responsibility to ensure that before, during, and even after the sexual encounter, his partner is actively consenting and enjoying it. It is also his responsibility to immediately end the act if he gets any indication that her consent and enjoyment is wavering, because he's supposed to be essentially reading her mind and she shouldn't have to tell him "no" outright.
Even then, this "advice" of always getting "enthusiastic consent" is rubbish now, as women can retroactively withdraw consent and pass accountability for their own regretful decision onto the man by pressing assault charges.
Is it any wonder why men are lonely in that aspect?
It happened enough to where there's a stigma around dating women that no matter what you do with them, they'll turn around and vilify you just because they can. And the worst part, a lot of people would take their stance on it.
What? Aw c'mon bro just be a 100/100 mind reader psychic fortune teller with perfect awareness of every possible conceivable future.
On top of the 6's of height, salary, abs, and inches.
Also the dark triad traits of highly intelligent and successful narcissistic sociopaths.
I mean that's just the bare minute bro, you telling me you can't do bare minimum while also not doing saying or being anything on the encyclopedia set length of "icks", isms", or "phobics".
It's just the bare minimum bro! The bare minimum! They're not asking for much, just a pittance really.
This is all by design btw. This is social programming done by the super elites like Bill Gates trying to force depopulation
We had a court case in Sweden where the woman withdrew consent in the middle of the act, and the man, according to court documents, "did two thrusts before stopping" and was therefore convicted of grape.
Enthusiastic consent is a load of BS and as far as I am concerned if a woman is married or in a relationship she has no right to refuse except for medical purposes. Also it doesn't matter if her consent wavers because she ultimatly chose to consent so imo its too late to go back on it now. I think that these laws are insane and should be abolished or at least heavily revised.
As a guy, im tired and over everything. I truly question any affection towards me and categorize it as malicious because i cant imagine people actually liking me
Same. I worked 1 week of a new job with finally decent payment last week, $40/hour, and it suppressed 0.0000 of my permanent depression. Everyone's grateful AF I'm there too and I did nothing yet beyond intro training and signing legal papers
Same here dude. Anytime someone outside my family shows anything positive to me, I automatically assume it is either a trap or has a catch.
anything more positive than neutral is either a trick or pity. anything worse than neutral is true and/or not harsh enough. the only true value a man can have is purely transactional. this is what it is to be a normal man in modern society. you dont need Andrew Tate to know this, but people like him point it out, and for many men thats enough to listen.
@ thankfully, there are more people (surprisingly, quite a few Vtubers) who are finding out how bad things are and are getting angry about it. So it’s not all bad. the downside is that, like in anything else, real change will take time.
I alone
Every time I see the phrases "be a decent human being" or "do better," it's from some social vampire who says and does the most vile things imaginable.
"Can you imagine them talking like this about black people?"
They do. Just wait for a black conservative to exist within their field of view and then see the magic happen.
So true
They are the MOST racist people you’ll ever see
They get called uncle toms😢
Yup. Also if they aren't black they probably do think that way about black people in general- they just won't admit it. They are racist- or whatever you want to call their bigotry. Only their "race" are people who are in their pyschotic marxist cult.
I thought I knew racists, but even I was shocked when I talked to people further left. Right wing racists have this schizophrenic view where the non-whites are inferior but also brilliantly working to undermine the white state, but left wing racists think black people have no agency and are too stupid to live in society without special help. And the far left starts sounding a lot like the far right when a black person dares to say, "You know, most of these guys on the right aren't actually racist, and they have policy proposals I kinda like. Maybe I'll take a peek over there."
Your take on education cracked me up. Got out of the Army and went to attend school. Only to find ultra feminist man hating teachers who couldn't stand the fact there was somebody in their class with real world experience whose opinion they were unable to shape.
1:08 but Men aren't considered human by women if we're under 6 feet
34:30 Ferb, I know what we're gonna do today!
If you're the average dude, you're in the 80%.
If you're in the 80% then you're invisible/not human to women.
Height means nothing, it's a secondary characteristic.
Statistically women don't know the difference between 5'8" to 6'6".
They have no concept of it unless they're taller than average.
Which by the way is a preference which only exists in countries that use imperial measurements, there is always a preference for men 5 inches taller than herself, but the specific preference for men over 6 feet is not shown in countries with the metric system.
Also as a 6 foot tall guy, I realize I have it better than most guys... and short guys really are treated like absolute shit most of the time, but I'm still not treated like a person by most women.
@@WatanukiProductions
Maybe you've just never been outside the US, but they want men of 180 cm or more.
@@WatanukiProductions In Metric system countries it's just in metric. 190cm is the standard I've seen. This isn't avoidable.
The most soul crushing moment of my life was when I turned 30 and didn't receive my wizard powers. Maybe I'll get them at 60.
I'm hoping for that grand emotional animal moment that brings it out of me.
I'd say it'd take having a gun to my head, but been their done that and somehow logically talked down my green dealer (who unbeknownst to me, did a 180 and suddenly meth didn't make you erratic, in his mind).
Just calm hit my cig explained that we never had issues in the past, so no reason to presume there would be in the future and that I got where he's coming from however we both know that if something happens right now, it wouldn't be good for either of us.
Never got green or talked to that dude again. Fuck that.
Was not whit 80?
Bro I got them before I turned thirty.
you need to engage in semen retention to get magic powers. this is basic stuff man, keep up
I noticed I got better at my job after I turned 30. Maybe the "magic" is just subtle
23:34 and then in a hilarious twist, they choose the bear, but its a heavier hairy gay man that shows up and saves them
Hire this person !!
I remember seeing a talk by a psychologist,I think Jonathan Haidt, in which they discussed the idea that we treat young boys as though they are defective girls. Best example is how young boys in general are way worse at sitting still and paying attention to a teacher for long periods.
feminism was NEVER based on equal rights and equal care. Rachel Wilson has a book called Occult feminism that goes over it
Feminism in its entirety is occult.
Weren’t woman and children the most eager supporters of big brother in 1984? I could be mistaken but I’m pretty sure I’m right
@@jasonrichardsondvi177Yes, but I wouldn't use a fiction book as evidence when talking about a real life movement.
You are absolutely right. Feminism has been evil since the beginning. Full stop. It is just bad.
I believe we should promote equality
Not Feminism.
Feminism IS equality. The misogynistic fascists have just co-opted the term to make themselves appear more numerous and their radical views more normal. This is like members of the KKK calling themselves "conservatives".
Go to Ukraine and watch how men should serve without a deadline in the army with no exceptions and die while defending borders(with limitations to leave the country if you don't like it, with limitations to work or even get treatment in hospitals). At the same time, women can live and not have to serve, they can leave the country.
I just want to warn you to value your rights and not let anyone restrict them as long as you can.
That's why we need something new; Equalism. Equality for all.
@@mistahjenkins4826 Feminism *is* about equality. It was a movement to give women *equal* rights to men. But in the past 20 years it's been co-opted by people who hate men.
The problem is they define "equality" as "getting even" for things that never happened to them.
I wonder how someone who thinks "all men are inherently evil" would feel if that same line of logic was applied based on race...
Oh they also spout off about how all gentiles are inherently evil, and especially the white ones.
Well, they seem to apply it to the long nose tribe pretty often
Whether or not I agree I'll leave ambiguous, because either take will get someone thrown to the dogs now
Nah, they do that too. Guess to which ones?
I always respond with "oh, you hate black men?"
Mass loneliness, higher rates of death by self-deletion, higher rates of workplace deaths and injuries, higher likelihood of being a victim of an act of violence, more likely to struggle in school, more likely to die sooner, less likely to get child custody in court, granted harsher penalties for committing the same crimes, makes up 90% of the homeless population, mandatory military drafts, paternity fraud.
If these affected women a lot more than it did men they'd treat it like some kind of major crisis.
Seen lots of Vtubers reacting to this recently. Flooding my algorithm outta nowhere
You watch one TH-cam sends them all
You know, it's possible this is actually a really big problem a lot of guys are reacting to and watching the entire video, hence the algorithm pushes it up. You think?
Cause. The election proved that, woah, they’re on “the wrong side”. I mean come on, the people in the space who do NOTHING but pander find out the majority isn’t actually for all these stupid things, and are actually for the other stuff, they change their tunes. It’s fact: most people follow the consensus. The consensus “shifted” to say that this one way of thinking is actually popular, so people are now following it. Maybe they always thought this way and merely catered because before it was shunned and now that it’s the majority they let their true thoughts flow, or maybe they’re just trying to fit in. All I know, is GUARANTEED that if the consensus shifted again the other way, ALL these people won’t call out the reality and will follow the popular narrative.
@@ClockworkGearhead don’t kid yourself. Yeah, it’s a problem. A big one. Has been for a long while. But nobody talks about it. But this is objectively the truth: this election proved this was the majority opinion. Most people follow the majority opinion no matter what it is. Before it was “taboo” to talk about this stuff in this light, but now it’s out and people go “not only is it okay to say these things, but it actually gets VIEWS?! Hell yes!” and hop the bandwagon. Guarantee you, even if these people actually believe in this, the second the popular consensus switches back, they’ll shut the hell up or go to the other side. It is what it is.
the grift. vtubers have lonely male audience so they react to content that sympathizes with lonely males. they don't actually care
Having the AI Waifu apps next to Hallow (a Catholic Prayer App) is CRAAAAZZZZYYY!
No girlfriend, no college, very few friends, game anytime i want, DnD every other weekend instead of a bar. Out and about playing shows with my band and performing at dozens of venues up and down the east coast. Thankful for what i have.
C.U.L.T. = city urban liberal type, everything we do we blame you for
Like Newtypes from Gundam except in reverse
I'm so glad I knew what Leaflit is actually like from her other videos because when she deadpan said "it's a patriarchy, men have no problems, suck it up" I would have clicked off the video - it was too convincing 😂
"We need to be more compassionate to them, for our own sake." Yeah don't actually start to care, just put on a show so we can get them on our side. You're saying the quiet part out loud guys!
💅: "Men do most of the murder"
🗿: "Which men specifically?"
Huh first time I've seen people think about men. We are not ok.
Usually thoughts about men are about his money and utility
You said too much; we’re supposed to tuck it all in.
@@ultradoritoman let me speak yo Eminem spoke his mouth and eventually they liked it
@Zomboknight I’m sorry king. You know I support. But thems the rules. We’re only allowed about 5 words. My tear ducts evaporated from lack of use.
@ultradoritoman lol same bruh oh wait WE'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO TALK WITHOUT USING ALL CAPS IT'S FEMININE TO DO THAT
First discovered Shoe back in 2013 and never would have imagined that Vtubers reacting to shoe would become a genre on TH-cam 😂
Finding her stuff as a teen helped me realize just how unreasonable other lefties are. How is the unhinged one more rational by far
Yeah that thing about consent also confuse me. Like how do they think men and women interact in real life? Should every move done in very rigid transactional way? Imagine how awkward it is
I honestly feel this is an “online issue” I’ve never seen this happen first hand or have talked to a guy irl who has had this issue.
@@ericaallisoncNot an online thing but a college thing. In that it's school policy at a number of famous schools that 'enthusiastic consent' is the standard.
That doesn't mean that that is what the students practice, of course. It is, as others have noted, an easy excuse to explain why a regretted sexual encounter wasn't _really_ consensual.
Drafted and signed legal contracts to engage in approaching in order to then get consent in writing signed and notarized by two independent witnesses in order to affirmatively agree to file paperwork to consent to file paperwork (also signed and notarized by a separate different notary and two more also different independent witnesses) for the consensual encounter, explicitly laying out the precise words times and actions and intentions behind each word and phrase and action and the expected reactions, with the option of drafting further contracts to consent to contracts to discuss consent to further interactions via paid independent 3rd party arbitration.
And then they'll still claim post facto that they were pressured and their consent was invalid. Man bad. Bad man! Wrong!
Schrodinger's signed consent form.
Turn based combat sounds good. Cue the RPG battle theme please.
Leaflit is the solution, clearly.
52:00
I had a coworker esports Smash Bros Melee friend I played Melee with a few times. My God, he was obsessed with categorizing people, even talking to me referring to "white people" as "you people."
That was 1 of the last words I ever heard him say. I'm relieved I've never seen him since
9:25 Imagining Leaf getting frustrated at being gaslit by her AI girlfriend is sending me into endless fits of laughter. XD
Unfortunetly, as a person who for a very long time thought I was trans, thought I was into dressing up and make up and stuff, I realised through lots of therapy and suffering that it was never me but the extreme societal pressure and abuse I've experienced that made me wish I never was a man and made me feel it soo deeply that I lost my identity. Just wanted to tell you that, even though many trans people are indeed just trans, there is a chunk of trans people out there that have been mildly or even heavily pressure by people around them or society in such a way that they may have even lied to themselves to the point of transitioning.
"Guys dont have guns or swords anymore"
Lol, sounds like you need to come to TN. I have 4 firearms in my house atm, and more at my family's house next door. This isnt unusual here at all.
The US don't hold most of all the men in the world though.
Is this a segue into asking her to react to _The War on Normal Guys?_
My first thought was “she loves a man who conceal carries, doesn’t she?”
20:29 as someone who went through this shit; these people piss me.
I spent almost 5 years in a depressive cycle with no SO and no friends, constantly debating if it was even worth continuing. I’d go to work, go home, shower, maybe read a book, and sleep. While one very bad day would’ve sent me over the edge, I think the monotony kinda help calm my mind enough to avoid the worst. I met a great friend group and have gotten a lot better; though sometimes if we haven’t hung out for a month or two.
I’m not posting this to trauma-dump or foster pity points; but to point out that even someone who *seems* fine or put together, might not be; below the surface. Asking, “are you fine?”, won’t get any real answer. No one I know would’ve seen it coming, except maybe my little sister. My parents would’ve eat themselves up trying to wrack their brains if they could’ve done anything. If he’s someone you care about, the simplest gesture could be the hand he needed. What helped was one of those coworkers simply inviting me to hang at a cardshop and see a movie with everyone. I even went to one of theirs wedding. The endless monotony is still there, but I’ve got buddies that are going through it with me. It might not seem like much, but it can mean everything to someone who is going through what I did.
“Why isn’t there a leftist Andrew Tate?!”
Jordan Peterson was the best they have to a leftist Andrew Tate in terms of their messages about masculinity. But even the left shat on him!
No? lmao. He is hard conservative. Always has been. His teachings are conservative, his views are conservative. The needed “left” stuff they’ve mainly talked about was Joe Rogan, Ben Shapiro, and Tim Pool. Two of which quite literally were always hard democrats for most of their life. But it’s funny, cause they kinda did with TYT and Cenk Uygur. But they did have a lefty Tate, lowkey it was between Destiny and Hasan Piker. Guess what? Those people both are horrible human beings.
Personally I find it strange Tate is even associated with the right. "Hey, be polygamous, eschew family, look out for yourself instead of being a provider" is about as opposite traditional conservative values as it gets. Most of his messaging is leftist in nature.
And now you know why I have bitten _hard_ into the blackpill in terms of looking for love. I also have the triple-whammy of being a man, coming from a broken household, and being born with Asperger's Syndrome. Social communication norms just don't come naturally to me, so whenever I have to communicate, I'm either exceedingly blunt or end up going over-the-top when it comes to emoting.
"If you're going to be like, the original feminist"
Feminism has not changed. It's just that the Overton's window has shifted, and so different things have been allowed to enter the public discourse.
@@zxcorp1 The original movement's ideology was the same as it is now: _Push women's cause forward._
It always has been a supremacy movement. It's just that back then, the difference was more pronounced, so the "equality" slogan was actually believable.
Now, that the majority of the original points has been fulfilled, it is difficult to argue for "equality" with anyone who's even remotely reasonable and grounded in reality, and so they have to do mental pretzels, trying to explain how "Umm, guys, actually, equality means that we get to do whatever we want, but bear zero responsibility for everything that we do."
This isn't some runaway ideology, what you are observing now, has always been a natural and inevitable progression of the feminist movement.
_"Be like the original feminists."_
What, like Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B Anthony, who directly funded the KKK and said they would rather have their arms chopped off than let black people vote?
I mean I know that's what neoliberals *want,* but usually they try to avoid *saying it out loud.*
@@DistractedGlobeGuy Or like Beauvoir, who said that "Every intercourse between a man and a woman is 🍇".
Man don't need to feeling dump and trauma dump. They really don't. they just need women to stop competing with them, judging them, villainizing them, etc.
Men want women for affection. Be affectionate or don't be present. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it anymore. I don't want anything else.
I've said this before, the worst thing you can do is separate people in groups, because is always "That group is bad and my group is great" and ends up dehumanizing the other side while ignoring the mistakes and power abuse that happen on their side. This has been proven to happen again and again, this is why is so important to have friends who don't share your values because the best way to fix this was to make the people of different groups work together so they acknowledge their similarities instead of their differences. But lately echo chambers and intolerance for dissenting opinions have polarized the people more than ever, is not about what you think anymore is about who you are and what you're supposed to think if you are part of a demographic.
THe consent part, well my lawyer told me that I should make sure to bring contracts with me in three fold to be signed at the moment at a notary.
... no... no just no. We are done.
I don't care anymore... we are done.
I’m 21 and I’ve never been in a relationship before. Heck, I haven’t even kissed a woman yet.
I’m quite shy when meeting new people I don’t know, and I usually don’t feel comfortable enough to approach someone first.
The last woman who touched me gtoped me. Women IRL are 0% like women in anime. They have no remorse, no sense of guilt, no sense of empathy, no sense of uncanny valley putting pounds of plastic surgeries in their faces. I've never met a man creepier than the womanagers I've worked for
Please watch How NOT to Summmon a Demon Lord to feel happy looking at girls
Same. Never even held hands. Closest I had to a girlfriend was a girl in kindergarten who said she was going to marry me. The loneliness really hurts, but I'm terrified of asking anyone out.
@@zumato3371 I wish I could say that it's going to get better, but in todays age, I honestly don't know if it ever will get better for us guys.
All I can say is this: Don't give in. If you give in, then it means that they win. Live life to the fullest; laugh well; do that thing you always wanted to do but never got the chance. Keep on fighting the good fight.
@Jumpyman_thegamerYT I won't give up. I did that once before, and I won't let it happen again. I'm not happy and don't really have hope for my future, but I'll keep going anyway. Unfortunately the the only thing I want to do but have never had the chance is be in a relationship, but like you said, it doesn't seem like that will happen for guys like us.
You are 21. You have plenty of time. I’m 30 and on the spectrum yet I still managed to find someone. That someone was a 28 year old man who has never been out on a date. You will be fine as long as you have at least something that a woman likes.
In response to the tumbler hierarchy comment. There is in fact an official academic term for it,(yes this is taught in college sighs) it's called "Intersectionality." Or in layman's terms the "Victimhood Pyramid. "
Also sometimes called the progressive stack.
Oppression Olympics Hunger Games Social Justice Thunderdome.
There can be only one true oppressed victim identity group who has the perfect absolute moral sanction to say and do anything to anyone and who must be catered to and whose word is now law.
She is married and had a child. Made a joke that no one would know she was pregnant, while she was pregnant 😂
She was just eating good.
The Algo finally showed me your stuff a couple weeks ago and it's been great.
Also the Monki flip was an excellent choice.
I couldn't stand that Fuckers face anymore after staring at it for over an hour while editing and that's what I had easily on hand
Every time I think I am lonely, I remember that some people use AI as a relationship partner and suddenly I don't feel as lonely anymore.
I have a theory of why guys are choosing not to have so much friends as much anymore. It’s because their base needs of having a gf and having sex are not being met first. To a guy, having that kind of love of a gf and having your physical intimacy needs met is more priority than a guy just having friends. So now on a macro scale, all these guys are in the same boat, choosing to not have friends, guys end up friendless, no love, no intimacy, further spiraling down in this hole of misery
Also @45:XX definitely, without giving too much away; growing up in a household where only the sisters were outwardly appreciated and acknowledged by mom & dad, coupled with how poorly guys are treated overall was 100% a factor toward becoming more feminine in general.
The funniest thing about Vaush's take is this:
People like him have spent so much time, raising their little army of ideological crusaders, ready to lay their lives on the line for the sake of their cause... But then they noticed that the tool they've chosen to get into power (women, minorities, etc.) is not actually working that well. So now, they are trying to redirect the train onto a different track, to use a different stepping stone to elevate themselves into power.
The only problem is, the army they've been raising, has been conditioned _BY THEM_ to be absolutely _allergic_ to the new tool they are trying to use. And so, the army rises up against their masters... Because it is too dumb to understand what it is that the left is _actually_ trying to achieve, and they believe their own lies.
TL;DR they made the problem they’re now trying to combat due to their culture of scapegoating.
"CASTING BUFFS" Probably the most hilarious thing I`ve heard all day XD
About 10 years ago, consent contracts were a thing among college students. Funny part was even if it was signed, it still couldn't be used in court if an accusation was made. The whole concept was relentlessly mocked online as an obvious mood killer, which only caused the advocates for consent contracts to scream those against the contracts were alt-right, etc.
A lot of us men were raised by women only so we weren't properly socialized because what women say they want seems incongruous with what they actually go for, then the advice we do get is terrible or doesn't work for our individual personalities.
11:46 I feel attacked by literally having your video being played in the background meanwhile playing classic WoW. xD
"They're going full Ains Ool Gown", I'm at work and almost spit my coffee on my computer. You popped up randomly on my feed, I'm subscribing for that comment alone.
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they never understand that they are making a self fulfilling prophecy when it comes to creating monsters.
The foot soldiers have been conditioned to follow marching orders and to only critically examine what their handlers have told them is critical examinations.
The handlers themselves are capable of conceptualizing the possibility of self fulfilling prophecies, but they're as much a victim of drinking the koolaid as their followers. They're actually also just following orders while thinking they're the enlightened ones.
Just a chain of useful dupes and patsies all the way up, each thinking they're the real masterminds and will stand to benefit come The Revolution.
They'll get to live in the mega yachts and drink 300 year old vintage wine with their elite fellow travelers.
In reality they'll be given a shovel and told to dig a mass trench together, for the glory of the party and dear leader, then lined up against a wall to be given their free Canadian style healthcare.
Or they'll be collectively gathered up by the chuds and eaten.
All we wanted to do was play vidya and be left alone, but they forced the issue and brought it on themselves.
You’re getting my sub just because you’re being sympathetic. Thank you so much for acknowledging that these problems are real.
I had a family member tell me:
"If you're not a liberal before you're 18, then you have no heart. And if you're not a conservative by the time you're 30, then you have no brain."
To me, it makes sense.
When I was younger, I was taught about compassion for others and being kind and inclusive and "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it at all" kind of mindset.
But now that I'm in my early 30s, I still hold onto a bit of that mindset, while also making sure I'm upholding my own principles and morals that I've acquired through my life experiences.
Most ppl, including children, also instantly disregard a person who says men can be women. Rightfully so.
Stoicism is a self defense tool for most of us. Why show emotion or open up when it will be mocked by the women around us. Been married 22 years don't know that I've opened up since the first or second time. I learned.
Horniness and loneliness are way different things. As men, sex isn't connected to emotions the same way it is for women (I mean before they kill it with tons of partners). That's why guys can masterbate to things that aren't even sexual. My pre internet guys know what I'm talking about. 😆
My sister calls Shoe a pick-me then flounders when you ask her to explain how lol
3:29 WHY!? Why can't women like this be real!? Why must they only exist as anime characters on my screen!?
Because you don't go outside.
At least, that's the problem for me.
I think this should have been figured out a long time ago, but a corporate, industrial society is not conducing to forging families and relationships at all. Social media accelerated the process.
See the thing is, it could be. However it will take management that actually gives a fuck about the employees and every cog making the corporation run. Instead it's "Well you want to much money, we'll find someone GRATEFUL for the opportunity".
As if opportunity payed the bills, especially when said opportunity is getting payed the bare minimum.
@@Kspice9000Dodge V Ford and its consequences...
It *was* figured out a long time ago. _Capital_ volumes I-III were published in 1867.
@@DistractedGlobeGuy Silence, disgusting Marxist. His repulsive screed was written before the industrial revolution and have no bearing on a world with our level of technology or production.
People were still going at it like rabbits with 12 hour 1930s workdays.
Definitely all social, not economic and structural
54:56 - Professor Lando probably has a vid for that if you wanna learn more.
Yes, it is a primal thing for women to want a guy who provides. It's also a deep primal thing for men to do the providing. I don't know if women actually appreciate it, but it is extremely satisfying and stressful at the same time for men to provide. Some might not even understand this need until they find themselves in that roll.
"It'd be so cute if you hug a guy and you feel the conceal-carry gun on the side... yeah..." -Leaflit 2024
Jokes aside, a reminder that this Shoe video was made waaaaaay before the elections. The writing has been on the wall for years and it doesnt seem to be slowing down anytime soon.
I feel like they’re gonna double down
What you’re describing here 26:30 is “The Love Contract,” another Chappelle Show skit.
IIRC it was an actual thing as well, and the contracts got thrown out in court because "they were signed under duress."
8:58 The AI "girlfriends" are literally just erotic roleplay tools. I know from experience.
Idk why but I just got into watching your reacfions and it is now an addiction
26:23 Yes, a contract is exactly what they mean. However she can still go to the police and get you in a lot of trouble if she wants; signed contract or not.
Since age 12, I noticed the way I was treated was different. People had interest and told me I was cute and asked what my favorite dinosaur is. Since then, I've just been alone, but after a couple of decades, it's the compliments that seem weird
I am lonely, BUT!...
My 60-80 hour a week low paying job, and struggle to still afford a lot of things like housing already takes my mind off not having anyone in my life xD
Thanks Obama... I mean Joe Biden.
1:20
Actually it goes back to our hunter gather days.
Tall men are more likely to be better protectors/ faster runners (so more consistent meat)/really good at picking fruit.
So basically it all comes down to it being a physical signifier of consistent food gain and health. Since less nutrients means less growth over lifetime = shorter.
Its literally nature saying "this dude doesnt have skip meals 😏"
I was probably better before people on social media started telling me to give in to the black pill or red pill. Now I have to hear I'm too short and too poor to date and I might as well go to some country on the other side of the planet to be treated like a man. I just hate it all now.
Not to be overly cynical, but the only reason society at large is noticing this issue is because the flow of resources is being interrupted. The moment the material status quo is restored it'll go right back to business as usual.
I think it's more about the disruption to power than resources since they're already trying to replace men with foreign labour and have been for decades which would keep the resource flow consistent once completed so it's more that men specifically young rebelling politically enough to swing elections, and or being disenfranchised enough that violence is actually becoming in their best interests as the risks to it are rapidly evening out with the risks of any and all slower more passive and in system efforts, that scares the status quo more than a temporary disruption of resource that it already planned for and in fact weaponizes to keep the populace down.
I fucking love Leafs chaotic mind.
28:56 wait. Looks at notes. That sounds familiar. "The long nose cries out in pain as he strikes you." If you know. You know
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lmao. Good ol yews
>pickme
>married
I guess she got picked
Still a feminist grifter that unironically holds Vaush's opinions.
If that last part doesn't make you rethink her position then that says a lot about you.
@LeaflitAsari at around 46-48 mins in you talking about this reminded me of the rat utopia experiments where a lot crazy things happen in these experiments where they give rats unlimited food and extremely large living spaces, the rats would form cliques based on how much they groom themselves and would have other rats doing things for them and the rat society would eventually devolve and always die out because they would stop reproducing
45:30 the numbers say that there's a overwhelming likelihood of that being the case with male prisoners that have committed SA, at least in areas that transfers them from a male prison to a female one...
calling peterson a bad person and quoting vaush in the next sentence is wild
hoe_math has a good video on the enthusiastic consent thing called the Mystery Zone, might be interesting to watch and react on stream sometime.
"Dudes carrying weapons are hot."
Most based taked of this video, ngl.
" 'Please say yes' does that happen?" You just gave me flashbacks to my first ex. It happens, and it's fucking creepy
39:54 Maybe. Having been in the military though: technical training is basically college courses crammed into a full workday week (or more) so you learn your job. Many people get through that with a better comprehension of the job than most college graduates (at least it seems that way in technical positions).
This is purely anecdotal, but the training I've been through & seen through the military is very "sit down & grind it out" while college courses are very drawn out. Which may be a component in how education may cause some men to drop out.
Swords canes and capes are what i call drip
The pillows yellow just because it's old and we don't wash it.
The woman who did pretended to be a guy planned to do so for 18mths I think but at 6mths just noped out cause she saw what she was doing it for that quickly.
26:30 yes, how dare you be intimate with your love one? be miserable like me!
4:55 they went out of fashion in trenches of ww1 where they were too unreliable and difficult to carry compared to wrist watches
@39:00 You are actually correct. You're on to something there. I've seen videos and articles talking about how boys learn differently than girls.
No watches are never gonna go out of style. The watch has one job to do and it is a lot easier to look at your wrist than it is to pull the phone out of your pocket and press the button if I just wanna check the time it’s great for that. I thought the same thing too until I start wearing a watch and then I was like oh this is nice.
"Enthusiastic consent" basically means, not like "can i do this?" And she goes *sigh* "yeah sure whatever". That is not "enthusiastic". Enthusiastic is more like looking in your eyes and nodding yes while saying "yes, i want you to do this". Or waiting until she, by herself, decides to straight up tell you "please do this to me"
But these people have no idea how romance and attraction works.
1:05 "just be short." agreed! I was very self conscious about my height in my teens, thinking "man... No girl would ever find a short guy like myself attractive... Sigh." Like I was depressed.
Eventually, at work & in my youth group I started going through a lot of like, hard to explain. Kinda, ok, so I stopped showing that insecurity & instead acted confident. I went from having not even one girl talk to me when I was insecure, to when I was radiating confidence, having several girls being VERY flirty. The co-workers were crazy aggressive lol. 1 co-worker I'll call "Briana" was my age & was like, too aggressive, really wanting to do some stuff, though I never accepted anything since I was (still am) a Christian PLUS I was dating another girl I'll call "Melissa." Melissa was, get this, 8 inches taller than me! I didn't mind tbh. She must've had an effect on me since prior to dating her I liked short girls, but now I'm into tall girls!
"That's nice & stuff but I'm just 5'5" man! You can't relate!" My guy, I am just 5'3", though a spinal injury made me 5'2" lol. If I was able to attract many pretty women at just 5'3" you can. From my experience I discovered women love confidence. Fake confidence until it becomes real! I did that!
The girls never even spoke to me before when I radiated insecurity! Even when I'd arrive & start working in the kitchen (Chick-Fil-A in the mall food court) even though I was nearly always the only guy working back there! Those same girl's got super flirty, Briana too much so (if genders were swapped there'd be some police involved, like so "gropey (sp?)." Man). Like it was a switch was flipped!
It takes a lot of preparation & whatnot but it works. Fake it until you actually do become confident! Also, these girls were beautiful. I don't treat women like "trophies" or anything, but a friend named Dennis who was taking our order at the mall, when first meeting Melissa (my GF back then) he pulled me aside & whispered stuff to me like "how'd you land a 9-10/10" chick!?"
I hate rating people! It's really disgusting to do that.
I'd still date were I healthy. I purposely don't date now these days for that reason. I don't think burdening a woman with my illnesses would be ok, plus it'd be painful for them since I'm likely to die by 50-55yo (breath ing good q
Never change yourself to fit whatever another finds attractive.
That one commenter: "It's not women's job to change how men are socialized"
Even if I were inclined to agree with their original framing, which I'm not, the overwhelming amount of single moms in society today destroys their claim from the get go 😂. According to their world view, it IS indeed "their job" apparently.
Yeah it's the whole "we don't need men" yeah until there's a war to be fought, or when they need a new Starbucks built. Crazy
It was a delight to see the Hallow app make an appearance in your video. I hope you stick with it or the non digital version. God bless