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There’s a girl in his phone who doesn’t have to feel confused because he’s going out of his way to call, text, invest in her and prove his love for her , and she knows he loves her , but there you go , he can’t even reply your messages, he can’t even call you , or text , he goes weeks ignoring you , and your guessing whether he likes /love you , sis , let it go 💔,
If he's playing with you, hes most likely playing her too because it's his personality that is probably narcissistic. That other woman is just another form of supply for money, attention and or validation.
But what if he's very present takes you on dates, but is emotionally manipulative and coercive.. he won't take accountability but wants to take you only take you out to make up for it? No gift, money and no accountability..
The first part when he said after sex he just a abandons you and leaves immediately, is a big sign he’s just using you, if a man can’t cuddle you or kiss you during and after sex , that man is using you
@@shani.ninetythis part right here. ☝🏾 They do the cuddling, holding, kissing, and all that and still ghost/use you. So, you can’t use that behavior as an indicator that he won’t use and ghost you (speaking from experience).
3:00 dont take it personal when these narcissistic men dont like you because they're are deeply insecure and dont even like themselves. Go no contact forever.
as INNNNNNN. this got it. bc why would you even need the attention of someone you don’t have honest intentions with unless you’re deeply insecure and unsatisfied with yourself?
Men abandon their own children, and wives who are diagnosed with terminal illnesses. These are facts backed up by statistics. Ladies, if you chose to be involved with men, just understand their nature first.
Everyone, please start raising your sons better. Teach them not to play games with women. All of these "signs" are really just men not respecting women in general. Treat people how you want to be treated. You don't like how it feels when people play games with you, so why would you it to other people?
@@LastdayoneYep. I saw this in a Sicilian family. The parents had 2 daughters and a son. He was the baby of the family. When HE grew up he kept telling his very little male family members that they are so good looking and that they’re going to be heartbreakers one day. And this was coming from the spoiled, entitled narcissistic son, who of course got the royal treatment from mom. This is precisely the reason men think it’s good for them to use women, be macho, and lie to women all the time. They literally create chaos, destruction, and broken women. LADIES GO 4B like the smart Korean women are doing. It will save your emotional well-being, mental health and physical health!! After all the lies and long relationships I’ve been in, I’m sick and fed up. I’m not even attracted to males anymore. Life is SO much better being stress free and you will live a longer, happier life without an XY in your life, hurting you!!!!
WHO CARES!!!!? whoever these men “love or like some much “ let those girls have him! Let them play with his mind, use him and drain him dry! Stop worrying about stuff like this and live your lives! I hate how this kind of mess is pushed onto women constantly! Society wants us to constantly be focused on men! What men want, and what men need! Men’s happiness is on them! Men say they cheat even when they’re happy- they just get bored and want variety- so even the ones they “want” suffer. If someone is making your life chaotic- remove them! SIMPLE
Y’all notice this shit is never geared towards men their brethren they always telling us women what to do when they need to go tell this shit to these awful ass men!!
Or even he MARRIED ALREADY HAVE WIFE AND KIDS YOUNG OR OLDER LEAVE HIM DON'T BE FRIEND' with them no IN REALITY THEY WANT ACCESS WHEN THEY WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND GOING OUT WITH THEIR FEMALE FRIENDS AND TRAVELING. THAT'S NOT MEN LEAVE HIM. RUN AWAY AND GET THE POLICE IN
When my depression started creeping up on me I told my then boyfriend how I was feeling, he said he'd call me, I waited on that call for days, only for him to drop a text like nothing happened and that's when I realised that man doesn't love me like that.
I called my ex crying about something that happened in my family and he was on the game and he didn’t drop that controller for a second to give me his full attention. 😭 he literally sat there and just “listened” while I was balling my eyes out and I’m not someone who cries often so I was in a super vulnerable state. I ended up hanging up because he made me feel so uncomfortable that I was crying and he was just basically just sitting there. That’s when I knew 😭😭
This video is so great but hurts my feelings because I’ve been through all this things, the sad part is there’s a girl who he’s going to treat so well, and I’m not her 💔
They are highly narcissistic. All women should know traits and tactics of narcissists. They're all the same. Go no contact forever. They only want control over you and deplete your energy.
Even his uncle calls him a bum yet he was concerned his mom was "giving away Uncle Al's cat" because she wanted the cat to come out to this country place for awhile and be free. He said that to me to try and bother me 😂.
That could mean that you are friend zoned as well. Many men just like females energy but they aren’t actually into you. If a man likes you, you will know. If you are confused, he doesn’t like you.
@@AmericanDreamerworst!!!! Thats why i always ask them for help before getting married and sleeping with them. And they only do it for a short time. Because they only want Sex, i always win. The one who loves to pay will stay Because He is able to take care of me and children when iam pregnant
The part of seeing you only at night , he doesn’t want people to see both of you together , he takes you only to private places , where people don’t see you , he walks either ahead of you or behind you , but never holding hands or showing public attention to you , Gosh , I’ve been stupid 🤦♀️
@@ysl23addidasqI had a lot of guys that did that to me 😭 and I feel like an idiot and I regret getting to know them there was all like that like she said
I agree: you're not stupid. Its sick and you probably wouldn't treat people that way, so why would you expect someone to do that to you. Incredible what users some people will be. Calculated.
I think people forget that narcissists will make all the time in the world to lovebomb you whenever they really need something from you.. That could last any period of time and can start anytime you see a red flag and call it out
Even a husband can do this to you. I’ve never felt more rejected and abandoned than by the man who he himself wanted to marry me. And honestly he doesn’t even use me for sex he actually is very insecure. I’m confused all the time and his hot and coldness is so sickening. It’s as if I’m an inconvenience to him and there’s another. It’s as if he forgot about me yesterday and today and everyday and I’m the problem. Then he disrespected me and literally have me his back so many times to the point I exploded on him. Then this man child played victim and said he wanted a divorce. I left so quickly. I’m now in another country and soon will be finalizing this divorce. Ladies if it’s confusing he’s not the one. Even if he doesn’t use your body even if he marries you even if he provides. This is the lamest relationship I ever had. Thank God I only washed 9 months. Peace ✌🏽☮️
If women just dont open their legs to a man or your wallet ,you will see his character.They fake ones will fall away so fast ,you wount have to guess if he is using you or not!!!
Not necessarily true. Men are sneaky. One guy i sas seeing waiting 3-4 months. Just to them have a very suspect excuse to pull away. Men will try anything to get sex.
The #1 indicator that he's into you and loves you is his financial investment in you and in the relationship with you. If he hasn't physically put money in your hand, ask you to stop working a stressful job, pay your bills he isn't into you. I know this may trigger a lot of women so I apologize in advance. Men that invest money rarely abandon their investments. Of course there are other ways to tell if a man is into you or not. A few men recently said to me average unattractive women can't expect men to invest in them, they must go 50/50 or build. No man is going to provide for average looking unattractive women. Chile the audacity. If he's expecting you to pay for dates, expecting you to go 50/50 thus he thinks your average and unattractive.
True but don't let it fool you. A lot of men especially those with a lot of resources feel they can pay a woman to be with them. That doesn't mean he loves you. You're just eye candy to him.
This is very very true!!! 💯💯💯 If he's absolutely not into you, he will gladly go/suggest 50/50 and won't spoil you with gifts, etc. this is not just for Romantic relationships, just in general - people do put their money where they see value!!! If a man is avoiding opening his wallet for you - best believe - he doesn't like you that much , let alone. - love ,- and how he handles money around you is a great tell tale sign!@
Another thing - an average woman is pretty. An average man - is ugly. That's the fact of life, no matter which country we talk a out - just look around! So when men try to downplay women by calling us average , they firstly - project, secondly - they hope that woman doesn't knows her own worth and beauty and will fall for his demeaning tactic and also it is to subtly pit women against one another, exploiting "I'm not like the other girls" tendencies...
They probably know which women are the most insecure they depend on that kind of validation because there's jealous of women there usually more sexy when they dress up so if you have money and nice legs that's two things he does not want you to have so he needs his gfs to dress like geeks so the can feel like the prize in the relationship some of them even want women to be fat It also makes it easier on him to justify cheating because it's more embarrassing if they get caught cheating on a 10 then it is a 6 or 3. I also start to question their sexuality when there not selective with women.
All these ppl telling u how to know something about men.. like thats annoying.. we give men too much weight in relationships. Most of them even if they "want" u... R still not worth ur time... Like im so glad im single... All this "if a man does this" like please. These men out here barely like themselves let alone have space 4 u... If u wanna deal with a man then do it without expectations.. cause believe me u will always be let down..
You just gave the BEST explanation on this matter. The best thing to do in life ,is to enjoy being BY YOURSELF, because no matter how long it takes, men lose interest
BS on the calling advice. I had men talk to me on the phone for hours but didn’t actually want to be with me. They probably just wanted someone to pass the time with or talk about themselves.
Lol i had an ex that called me daily and spoke to me about everything.@NeathSuon. I found out he tells everyone his business. I've learned that a man ca call you daily, take you out regularly, take you to meet his family and still not love you. Ladies live and just be happy❤
@@keyshaw5015 like emotional stuff?! Because usually men don’t talk abt their emotion or insecurities so when they open them up to someone, they def trust and love that person a lot. At least from my experience. All the guys that opened up to me abt their hardships and deep emotional stuff are the one that tend to be clingy and keep reaching out when I broke up with them. Now I’m kinda like a guy in this scenario. Because I have def text, call and spend times with people regularly without thinking long term with them. I think that what people refer to as emotional unavailable I guess
The phone call thing is subjective. I had a guy call me/text me every day, make time, respond promptly for 6 months straight during our relationship.....and make time for quality time and trips. Annnnnd he was not ready or serious about a future together. I even ended up having to block him. Would try to stay on the phone for hours when he wasn't working. The only real way to know whether a man likes you is time. That is all, time and observation.
Yep,..I’ve had this with more than one in the past. These are codependent men. They low key (they don’t usually know it) want a woman to take care of them emotionally because they can’t. They can’t regulate themselves emotionally & they don’t want to be alone. My Dad is one of these men. They will drain the hell out of us emotionally because they are an empty vessel & will only want more & more. And some of these men can be charming, brilliant & high earners too. These men have unhealed trauma they aren’t dealing with. They make us into their emotional Mommies & eventually resent us for it. I used to think this man needing me crap was love🙄🫣
This can even happen if you also have a ring. Men can sometimes also lie with their actions. Doing just the bare minimum to keep you hooked is another sign.
This is not funny. It’s sick how people mock women are out here being used and assaulted by men. Don’t you realize that a man can fake an entire marriage?! There are women who men purposely get impregnable just to trap them and make fun of them afterwards! You better watch out thinking him hugging and kissing on you after some mediocre s3x means something… because often times it doesn’t .
@@basicinfo2022 💯 I had the most amazing secs and after care (cuddles stroking my hair kissing my head holding hands) and none of it meant a thing I could’ve been anyone. Didn’t even want me just wanted some human touch
Absolutely! Definitely invite the men in your life that you trust (most likely family members), to help you during the screening process of meeting a guy! They will tell you if he is being serious and has good intentions. Try not to become emotionally attached until these men that you trust have gotten a good gauge on him…almost like letting them get to know him during what would have been the ‘talking stage’ instead of you and him talking everyday at the beginning 😳 it’s not fool proof, but I’ve honestly learned this lesson the hard way 😅
The truth is, these “exposures” are well known by grown women. We either chose to play dumb or we don’t. When a man plays games, it’s because the woman allows it. But when a woman’s fed up, ain’t nothin you can do about it.
I mean I was ghosted and the bar was so low all I thought was ‘well atleast he cuddled me after and didn’t leave straight away’ what a clown I’ve been 😂
If a guy needs to lie to a woman to get her then he's pathetic and weak and deserves all the shame for creating trauma on another person. He thinks he just took her body but he actually destroyed a part of her that she will never get back. This is why alot of women play game's and it's because of past trauma that a guy caused because he lied to her.
All true! I was dealing with a man started off doing all the right things, then he started being distant so I did the same then he would text and ask why I hadn’t called him like he wanted me to chase him. Needless to say I watch Ace and others so that wasn’t happening.
If u wanna know if a man is into you listen carefully to and trust your instincts… simple! Your spirit man won’t lie to u that if something doesn’t feel right, it ain’t right. - Advice from a woman :) you’re welcome
Thank you so much for compiling this valuable video! Wish I knew this AGES ago! 😂 Thanks ago for this great public service!!! God bless you.💐🌷🌺💐🌷🌺🌹🌷💐🌺🌷💐
I had an ex that was stationed in South Korea while I was still stateside. I ran up my bill almost 300 dollars talking to him, he called almost everyday sometimes multiple times a day, he even offered to pay the bill and he sent me money consistently, if he wanted to he will.
That's what I'm learning. Just use them, keep replacing them once they become stagnant. Always have back up men doing for you. It's all a game, you just have to play in your favor now. 🤷🏽♀️
@@Aliyers Yeah it’s seems to be this way, but I’d rather stay alone than become lonely and thirsty. Its ok to sit back and check yourself before checking a situation ❤️😁
@Aliyers that's really not worth the hassle... are men so wonderful that you have to keep dealing with them and even have back ups etc.? Look up decentering men
So what if a guy calls you! But at the same time of day! Only when he is at work..(delivery driver) but never in the evenings or weekend! I’m thinking he has a gf or something! That’s why he only calls when he is on his own in his van. Can’t get caught then. It’s very suspicious.🤔
This happened to my friend recently. He works from home and would only text her from 9 to around 5. Turn out he lives with his gf and at 6 she came home from work lmao. The gf found their snap when he was black out drunk
The problem is that a lot of women don’t love themselves, they don’t really know the person and to top it up they don’t care about their own health, signs of self hate Sleeping with someone that you don’t know ( a stranger, a person you meet for less than 5 years) Texting ( because you don’t value your time ) Having superficial conversations. Don’t ask from the jump an STD and an Eliza test. Signs of self love Ask from the jump what intentions he have with you Not saying what type of men you want Not sleeping until marriage Asking critical questions values, beliefs, morals, religion, politics, life vision, life goals or dreams, perception of people, perception of self, roll in marriage, roll in as a father, family goals. Ask for an STD and Eliza test from the jump be done every month until you get married so the relationship must be 7+ years to get married to that person because it takes up to 5 years to show HIV and AIDS on the Elisa test. A lot of women don’t value their body so they sleep with a boyfriend or a random and then they go to heartbreak and problems for they lack of self love on top many of them end up with AIDS because a lot of men are sleeping around not only with women but with other men. So don’t give wife privilege to a boyfriend and wait until marriage and make a conscious decision with who you are having kids and putting your life at their hands. Forgot to add no texting just make sure he call you all the time and if is a text must be because is a necessary, the reason is because you will hear his tone of voice how invested is he on you how much time he stays on the phone is not a problem to call at any time ( obviously you know not call on his working hours)
Its so simple once you learn how to love yourself. But I mean REALLY love yourself. Bc before that you will desperately look for that type of love on other people. And the more out of reach a person seems, the more you will want them to love you. But when you replace that search for external love with pure internal love, honey, everything changes. You KNOW you dont need that man who seems great but is not that into you to love you back, bc you already do and his validation is not needed. Let him go find the girl he actually wants and open the door for you to be loved by another man the way you know you should be loved
But what if he's very present takes you on dates, but is emotionally manipulative and coercive.. wont let me get a point out and he won't take accountability but wants to take me out to make up for it? No gifts, money and no accountability.. but all in my face and dont want me to date other men!?
Sis , He’s not good for you , I’ve had an ex like who acted the same as you described , that’s Narcissistic behavior toxic men don’t want to commit to you , but they don’t want you with anyone else , just because a man keeps coming back to you doesn’t mean he loves you , a toxic man will breadcrumb you with no real effort … when a man truly loves you , he will invest in you emotionally , financially ,and in every oda aspect, and when a man truly loves you , you won’t have to question it , you will know …
I love watching these videos because they are informative. I’m not in a relationship nor looking, but this is good info for when I decide to get back out there after fully healing. 😊
All these comments are so comforting (?)I don’t know if it is the right word to say, of course it’s sad to read the bad experiences you guys had, but the thing is, makes me feel that I am not alone. I wish we could have a group chat to share experiences and advice about relationship or even life… ❤️
I just broke up with a guy who LIED the entire relationship. I found Uber receipts, strip club texts and discussions from him and his buddies, he mentioned that he wanted to stay in more (for money because we’re planning for the future). He blocked the women he talks to and unblocks them when we’re not together. He’s very manipulative and argumentative (sometimes scary and aggressive). He talks to me all day at work and we’re always at the others apartment… idk when he found time for other bitches, but he planned trips behind my back. Watches porn and the Kardashians lol. I asked him what he liked about me and he couldn’t come up with ANYTHING 😅 that was the last straw. Not one kind word
My ex husband uses the that’s crazy when ppl call him with problems or his other thing is I don’t give out advice but has no problem asking ppl to including me to pay for food etc. and I used to cuz I didn’t want my kids to see him hungry or without basics. But he used that to manipulate me. And when I called him out on it I got the oh you think I’m manipulating you. 😑🙄I just kept it moving.
Theres just different kinds of guys. Ive been in the talking phase with a couple of guys can called them up with a problem like car issues and they came to help.
As a recently married woman,when I met my hubby, he was intentional from the get go- calls,punctual,etc and he is still the same. Brings flowers, spends time, opens doors,calls and texts daily,etc. Get a man who doesn't play games. From the get go when I told him I wanted to get married,he smiled. Told me nowadays men not getting married. Introduced me to his family and co workers and I was not ready 😂. He did propose in front of my mom and his family one day. Statistics per World Economic Forum predict by 2030, 45 percent of women ages 25-40 will be single and childless...
What if he proposed We’re married And I’m still confused This shit hurts so much more Out of 2 years being married our recent year was so tough I’ve never been lonelier
I was actually approached by a man who only called at a certain time of night or during the day from work. He even asked me if he could call me at work on my break. I knew then that he had someone. I told him that I don't court at work. I stopped answering his phone calls. He got the message and stopped calling. Took all of a week to smoke him out.
To be honest that's not true either. One guy was extremely cuddly and attentive. However he just wanted sex. He waited 3 months to obtain, and then bounced. Men will do anything there is no limit with them.
I use to have a bus friend and he said he went to visit an after 12(in the morning)woman and I said what’s that and he told me. It’s good to have mail friends.
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Inconsistency is low key rejection. Stay Unbothered and Keep it Moving 💅
true
And who cares.. let them go on about their lives. Because that behavior is being shared with others/ trust that.
THE ACCURACCYYYYYYY!!!!!! ❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️
Women like u gone be in and out of relationships that will never last.
@@Sicxestsmsthat's great Felicia
There’s a girl in his phone who doesn’t have to feel confused because he’s going out of his way to call, text, invest in her and prove his love for her , and she knows he loves her , but there you go , he can’t even reply your messages, he can’t even call you , or text , he goes weeks ignoring you , and your guessing whether he likes /love you , sis , let it go 💔,
If he's playing with you, hes most likely playing her too because it's his personality that is probably narcissistic. That other woman is just another form of supply for money, attention and or validation.
That’s why I will either stop entertaining him or give him the same energy he’s giving me
But what if he's very present takes you on dates, but is emotionally manipulative and coercive.. he won't take accountability but wants to take you only take you out to make up for it? No gift, money and no accountability..
@DivaDivine88 you're getting below the bare minimum. Sounds like you're in a narcissistic fog where they confuse you and drain you.
@@DivaDivine88 he doesn't want you! Next!
Ladies either leave men alone...or treat them the same way😂
@@sherrita8582 🎯🎯🎯
Exactly!
Yessssss
Yessss don’t stay and complain
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The first part when he said after sex he just a abandons you and leaves immediately, is a big sign he’s just using you, if a man can’t cuddle you or kiss you during and after sex , that man is using you
Then you shouldn’t be sleeping with him, clearly you slept with him too early hoping you have a magic peach that will hypnotize him into loving you.
Even when I was used for sex (silly me told a male aqqaintence i fancied him) he cuddled me after for ages but he still ghosted me
@@shani.ninetyyou live and learn and we have all been there . I just learned to walk away when/if I’m being used
@@socol76 saba
@@shani.ninetythis part right here. ☝🏾 They do the cuddling, holding, kissing, and all that and still ghost/use you. So, you can’t use that behavior as an indicator that he won’t use and ghost you (speaking from experience).
3:00 dont take it personal when these narcissistic men dont like you because they're are deeply insecure and dont even like themselves. Go no contact forever.
as INNNNNNN. this got it. bc why would you even need the attention of someone you don’t have honest intentions with unless you’re deeply insecure and unsatisfied with yourself?
Men abandon their own children, and wives who are diagnosed with terminal illnesses. These are facts backed up by statistics. Ladies, if you chose to be involved with men, just understand their nature first.
Everyone, please start raising your sons better. Teach them not to play games with women. All of these "signs" are really just men not respecting women in general. Treat people how you want to be treated. You don't like how it feels when people play games with you, so why would you it to other people?
Nah girl if you treat people the way you want to be treated people will use you anyway
@jayythomason998 Child bye. Leave people alone then
Very true, this should be common sense!
Well their mothers are telling them they’re the prize 😅. I’ve seen it in my own family. They raise their sons to be men they would complain about
@@LastdayoneYep. I saw this in a Sicilian family. The parents had 2 daughters and a son. He was the baby of the family. When HE grew up he kept telling his very little male family members that they are so good looking and that they’re going to be heartbreakers one day. And this was coming from the spoiled, entitled narcissistic son, who of course got the royal treatment from mom. This is precisely the reason men think it’s good for them to use women, be macho, and lie to women all the time. They literally create chaos, destruction, and broken women. LADIES GO 4B like the smart Korean women are doing. It will save your emotional well-being, mental health and physical health!! After all the lies and long relationships I’ve been in, I’m sick and fed up. I’m not even attracted to males anymore. Life is SO much better being stress free and you will live a longer, happier life without an XY in your life, hurting you!!!!
People who use people end up disabled and sick and end up in 100% worse situations than wht they did to you...God wins.. karma
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@monaj33 Not always true but I wish it were.
I believe it
Yes
And they do!!!
A lot of us need to take ,lack of clarity , mixed singable and confusion as the biggest sign that a man doesn’t love us , let’s stop being delusional
So Sad, He Lied!!!
WHO CARES!!!!? whoever these men “love or like some much “ let those girls have him! Let them play with his mind, use him and drain him dry! Stop worrying about stuff like this and live your lives! I hate how this kind of mess is pushed onto women constantly! Society wants us to constantly be focused on men! What men want, and what men need! Men’s happiness is on them!
Men say they cheat even when they’re happy- they just get bored and want variety- so even the ones they “want” suffer. If someone is making your life chaotic- remove them! SIMPLE
This!
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn u better talk that talk🗣️🗣️
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn great advice
Amen!!! Decenter men!!!
Y’all notice this shit is never geared towards men their brethren they always telling us women what to do when they need to go tell this shit to these awful ass men!!
Stop giving him access if you aren’t married.
There it is🎯🎯🎯🎯
Or even he MARRIED ALREADY HAVE WIFE AND KIDS YOUNG OR OLDER LEAVE HIM DON'T BE FRIEND' with them no IN REALITY THEY WANT ACCESS WHEN THEY WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND GOING OUT WITH THEIR FEMALE FRIENDS AND TRAVELING. THAT'S NOT MEN LEAVE HIM. RUN AWAY AND GET THE POLICE IN
That doesn't make sense. How do you get married without him first having access.
@@silkvanilla Don’t get married then.
Even when married and he still don't commit or do for you, make your plan and wait for a real man. 💯
When my depression started creeping up on me I told my then boyfriend how I was feeling, he said he'd call me, I waited on that call for days, only for him to drop a text like nothing happened and that's when I realised that man doesn't love me like that.
Ya … sorry
Maybe he was the cause of your depression. I hope you moved on and are doing better now.
Thats legit where I am right now. It doesn't feel good at all...
True but you need a professional
I called my ex crying about something that happened in my family and he was on the game and he didn’t drop that controller for a second to give me his full attention. 😭 he literally sat there and just “listened” while I was balling my eyes out and I’m not someone who cries often so I was in a super vulnerable state. I ended up hanging up because he made me feel so uncomfortable that I was crying and he was just basically just sitting there. That’s when I knew 😭😭
This video is so great but hurts my feelings because I’ve been through all this things, the sad part is there’s a girl who he’s going to treat so well, and I’m not her 💔
And then he's going to cheat on her.
Treat yourself well. Love yourself . Don’t let society make you feel worthless. These men aren’t prizes to win. Keep your head up.
You are someone’s treasure too. You just have not met him/ ain’t seeing him yet. Have faith!
when you love yourself and treat yourself right you won't accept anything less it's the best repelling for these cowards
So sorry baby ❤😢
I’m so shocked at how men pretend just to use women
Some men are the OG gold diggers
They are highly narcissistic. All women should know traits and tactics of narcissists. They're all the same. Go no contact forever. They only want control over you and deplete your energy.
Even his uncle calls him a bum yet he was concerned his mom was "giving away Uncle Al's cat" because she wanted the cat to come out to this country place for awhile and be free. He said that to me to try and bother me 😂.
Yes ı'm speechless..
It's like they are inherently evil
I dont chase, I replace!
Simple Really!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
10:00 if you want to know of a man is into you, call him with a problem , a guy who loves you will fix your problems
That could mean that you are friend zoned as well. Many men just like females energy but they aren’t actually into you. If a man likes you, you will know. If you are confused, he doesn’t like you.
true....makes sense why my ex always got so weird whenever I needed help....
@@AmericanDreamerworst!!!! Thats why i always ask them for help before getting married and sleeping with them. And they only do it for a short time. Because they only want Sex, i always win. The one who loves to pay will stay Because He is able to take care of me and children when iam pregnant
This is the only one advice here that is truthful.
I AGREE
The part of seeing you only at night , he doesn’t want people to see both of you together , he takes you only to private places , where people don’t see you , he walks either ahead of you or behind you , but never holding hands or showing public attention to you ,
Gosh , I’ve been stupid 🤦♀️
I’ve had this happen to me I was so naive. I finally woke up and walk away from people that are like this towards me
Been there too, you learn and grown.
No. You are not stupid. You just didn't have this wisdom. Now that you know, grow from it.
@@ysl23addidasqI had a lot of guys that did that to me 😭 and I feel like an idiot and I regret getting to know them there was all like that like she said
I agree: you're not stupid. Its sick and you probably wouldn't treat people that way, so why would you expect someone to do that to you. Incredible what users some people will be. Calculated.
My dad told me once, if a man loves you he will move mountains and cross rivers for you.
I wish I knew all this a long time ago , thr redflags are actually more visible now than before , I was soo deluluuu
Most women are, my love.
Bruh!!!! I needed this 10 years ago when I was naive, and thought I was a princess in a fairytale movie
Sure way to know: If you have to wonder-at all, then he just isn't that into you.
I think people forget that narcissists will make all the time in the world to lovebomb you whenever they really need something from you.. That could last any period of time and can start anytime you see a red flag and call it out
This video is all facts 🙌 ladies be careful men will go to any extent to pretend but their actions and time will tell u all u need to know
Even a husband can do this to you. I’ve never felt more rejected and abandoned than by the man who he himself wanted to marry me. And honestly he doesn’t even use me for sex he actually is very insecure. I’m confused all the time and his hot and coldness is so sickening. It’s as if I’m an inconvenience to him and there’s another. It’s as if he forgot about me yesterday and today and everyday and I’m the problem. Then he disrespected me and literally have me his back so many times to the point I exploded on him. Then this man child played victim and said he wanted a divorce. I left so quickly. I’m now in another country and soon will be finalizing this divorce. Ladies if it’s confusing he’s not the one. Even if he doesn’t use your body even if he marries you even if he provides. This is the lamest relationship I ever had. Thank God I only washed 9 months. Peace ✌🏽☮️
If women just dont open their legs to a man or your wallet ,you will see his character.They fake ones will fall away so fast ,you wount have to guess if he is using you or not!!!
Not necessarily true. Men are sneaky. One guy i sas seeing waiting 3-4 months. Just to them have a very suspect excuse to pull away. Men will try anything to get sex.
True, only desperate woman give man money and free sex 😴😴
The #1 indicator that he's into you and loves you is his financial investment in you and in the relationship with you. If he hasn't physically put money in your hand, ask you to stop working a stressful job, pay your bills he isn't into you. I know this may trigger a lot of women so I apologize in advance. Men that invest money rarely abandon their investments. Of course there are other ways to tell if a man is into you or not. A few men recently said to me average unattractive women can't expect men to invest in them, they must go 50/50 or build. No man is going to provide for average looking unattractive women. Chile the audacity. If he's expecting you to pay for dates, expecting you to go 50/50 thus he thinks your average and unattractive.
True but don't let it fool you. A lot of men especially those with a lot of resources feel they can pay a woman to be with them. That doesn't mean he loves you. You're just eye candy to him.
@@tamz-b1h men don't love women, they use us. At least if he has resources she can benefit from it.
@@tamz-b1h they don't love women, they use women. At least if he has resources she can benefit from it.
This is very very true!!! 💯💯💯 If he's absolutely not into you, he will gladly go/suggest 50/50 and won't spoil you with gifts, etc. this is not just for Romantic relationships, just in general - people do put their money where they see value!!!
If a man is avoiding opening his wallet for you - best believe - he doesn't like you that much , let alone. - love ,- and how he handles money around you is a great tell tale sign!@
Another thing - an average woman is pretty. An average man - is ugly. That's the fact of life, no matter which country we talk a out - just look around! So when men try to downplay women by calling us average , they firstly - project, secondly - they hope that woman doesn't knows her own worth and beauty and will fall for his demeaning tactic and also it is to subtly pit women against one another, exploiting "I'm not like the other girls" tendencies...
If you have to wonder he is not the one!
A guy pretended to like me just me exploit me financially , why do handsome guys do this, they are the biggest gold diggers
They probably know which women are the most insecure they depend on that kind of validation because there's jealous of women there usually more sexy when they dress up so if you have money and nice legs that's two things he does not want you to have so he needs his gfs to dress like geeks so the can feel like the prize in the relationship some of them even want women to be fat
It also makes it easier on him to justify cheating because it's more embarrassing if they get caught cheating on a 10 then it is a 6 or 3.
I also start to question their sexuality when there not selective with women.
No decent man would take anything from you. He shouldn’t even know you have money for him to exploit.
Unattractive ones are worse
Never give a man money unless he’s your son. If they ask tell them you have just enough to pay your bills and buy your grandma medicine.
@@InayahEleven yes! 😹😹
I'll be single for the rest of my life. Been single for 15 years already. Never going to put myself through this shit again.
I feel ya! It’s so unfortunate that relationships aren’t truly valued and people waste so much time playing unnecessary games.
Single by choice going on two years this October 🎉
I can Relate!!!!! Been Single for 8 years!!!!!!!!!!!
All these ppl telling u how to know something about men.. like thats annoying.. we give men too much weight in relationships. Most of them even if they "want" u... R still not worth ur time... Like im so glad im single... All this "if a man does this" like please. These men out here barely like themselves let alone have space 4 u... If u wanna deal with a man then do it without expectations.. cause believe me u will always be let down..
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You just gave the BEST explanation on this matter. The best thing to do in life ,is to enjoy being BY YOURSELF, because no matter how long it takes, men lose interest
This 🙌🏼
BS on the calling advice. I had men talk to me on the phone for hours but didn’t actually want to be with me. They probably just wanted someone to pass the time with or talk about themselves.
Or Attention!
Absolutely
It’s easy to know the difference. Is he opening up to you abt certain stuff esp feelings or it’s just surface level talking?
Lol i had an ex that called me daily and spoke to me about everything.@NeathSuon. I found out he tells everyone his business. I've learned that a man ca call you daily, take you out regularly, take you to meet his family and still not love you. Ladies live and just be happy❤
@@keyshaw5015 like emotional stuff?! Because usually men don’t talk abt their emotion or insecurities so when they open them up to someone, they def trust and love that person a lot. At least from my experience. All the guys that opened up to me abt their hardships and deep emotional stuff are the one that tend to be clingy and keep reaching out when I broke up with them.
Now I’m kinda like a guy in this scenario. Because I have def text, call and spend times with people regularly without thinking long term with them. I think that what people refer to as emotional unavailable I guess
After sex he goes straight to the bathroom and cleans himself up and doesn’t bother to clean you up , merde this happened to me , recently , 🤦♀️
My children's father used to do this. I felt so used and nasty. Like he couldn't get in the shower fast enough.
I must tell you, I have never had a man clean me up, not even my husband and we’ve been married 31 years 😂!
Why would he clean me up? I’m an adult, I can do that myself.
Wait so if he doesn’t give you a towel then he doesn’t like you?
@@JayTheGreatest895it depends on where it lands lol
The phone call thing is subjective. I had a guy call me/text me every day, make time, respond promptly for 6 months straight during our relationship.....and make time for quality time and trips. Annnnnd he was not ready or serious about a future together. I even ended up having to block him. Would try to stay on the phone for hours when he wasn't working.
The only real way to know whether a man likes you is time. That is all, time and observation.
Yep,..I’ve had this with more than one in the past.
These are codependent men. They low key (they don’t usually know it) want a woman to take care of them emotionally because they can’t. They can’t regulate themselves emotionally & they don’t want to be alone. My Dad is one of these men. They will drain the hell out of us emotionally because they are an empty vessel & will only want more & more.
And some of these men can be charming, brilliant & high earners too.
These men have unhealed trauma they aren’t dealing with.
They make us into their emotional Mommies & eventually resent us for it.
I used to think this man needing me crap was love🙄🫣
This can even happen if you also have a ring. Men can sometimes also lie with their actions. Doing just the bare minimum to keep you hooked is another sign.
I’ve experienced this recently and the truth is a hard pill to swallow but it’s actually liberating ❤🎉
Ladies if After sex 😂, he just ignores you and turns to the side , sis you’ve been used
Even if he is affectionate after, he can still be using you because he wants intimacy without commitment. It can still be fake love.
@@basicinfo2022facts 👏👏👏
This is not funny. It’s sick how people mock women are out here being used and assaulted by men. Don’t you realize that a man can fake an entire marriage?! There are women who men purposely get impregnable just to trap them and make fun of them afterwards!
You better watch out thinking him hugging and kissing on you after some mediocre s3x means something… because often times it doesn’t .
@@basicinfo2022 💯 I had the most amazing secs and after care (cuddles stroking my hair kissing my head holding hands) and none of it meant a thing I could’ve been anyone. Didn’t even want me just wanted some human touch
They just have lust
This content literally reopens wounds of heartbreak for me.
If these guys are on here having to make content on here about he don't like you, then listen up. Men know other men.
Facts
Absolutely! Definitely invite the men in your life that you trust (most likely family members), to help you during the screening process of meeting a guy! They will tell you if he is being serious and has good intentions. Try not to become emotionally attached until these men that you trust have gotten a good gauge on him…almost like letting them get to know him during what would have been the ‘talking stage’ instead of you and him talking everyday at the beginning 😳 it’s not fool proof, but I’ve honestly learned this lesson the hard way 😅
The truth is, these “exposures” are well known by grown women.
We either chose to play dumb or we don’t. When a man plays games, it’s because the woman allows it. But when a woman’s fed up, ain’t nothin you can do about it.
Call him with a problem if you are unsure about him . If he cant help you or only half ass. He is not into you. Forget him❤
I mean I was ghosted and the bar was so low all I thought was ‘well atleast he cuddled me after and didn’t leave straight away’ what a clown I’ve been 😂
Omg girl🫂🫂😭😂
If a guy is making you confused you should probably let it goooo. That's not a serious man.....
If a guy needs to lie to a woman to get her then he's pathetic and weak and deserves all the shame for creating trauma on another person.
He thinks he just took her body but he actually destroyed a part of her that she will never get back.
This is why alot of women play game's and it's because of past trauma that a guy caused because he lied to her.
That's me one of woman
All true! I was dealing with a man started off doing all the right things, then he started being distant so I did the same then he would text and ask why I hadn’t called him like he wanted me to chase him. Needless to say I watch Ace and others so that wasn’t happening.
If u wanna know if a man is into you listen carefully to and trust your instincts… simple!
Your spirit man won’t lie to u that if something doesn’t feel right, it ain’t right.
- Advice from a woman :) you’re welcome
He calls all the time
All day every day, I block him? He calls private, he text consistently, but when you know a fella is full of dookie! You know.
6:16 facts!!! My baby makes me feel confident, loved and that I’m the only one in his life! ❤
Damn I needed this years ago😅😅
Thank you so much for compiling this valuable video! Wish I knew this AGES ago! 😂
Thanks ago for this great public service!!! God bless you.💐🌷🌺💐🌷🌺🌹🌷💐🌺🌷💐
Ur welc sweetheart ❤
Stay celibate until he shows you who he really feels wiyh consitent, reliable friendship.
The 3rd guy cracks me up but it's true walking behind you and not wanting to hold your hand is wild 😂😂😂
I had an ex that was stationed in South Korea while I was still stateside. I ran up my bill almost 300 dollars talking to him, he called almost everyday sometimes multiple times a day, he even offered to pay the bill and he sent me money consistently, if he wanted to he will.
It’s even sadder when you married this man. And he wasn’t like this before…..
That's what I'm learning. Just use them, keep replacing them once they become stagnant. Always have back up men doing for you. It's all a game, you just have to play in your favor now. 🤷🏽♀️
@@Aliyers Yeah it’s seems to be this way, but I’d rather stay alone than become lonely and thirsty. Its ok to sit back and check yourself before checking a situation ❤️😁
@Aliyers that's really not worth the hassle... are men so wonderful that you have to keep dealing with them and even have back ups etc.? Look up decentering men
So what if a guy calls you! But at the same time of day! Only when he is at work..(delivery driver) but never in the evenings or weekend! I’m thinking he has a gf or something! That’s why he only calls when he is on his own in his van. Can’t get caught then. It’s very suspicious.🤔
@@MusicMusic22223 yes there’s someone else in His life
U already know the answer to that..
Block him. If he comes by don’t open the door. Ghost his ass. You don’t have to
to explain shit to him.
This happened to my friend recently. He works from home and would only text her from 9 to around 5. Turn out he lives with his gf and at 6 she came home from work lmao. The gf found their snap when he was black out drunk
1:16 why is he always screaming!! 😱
Because he is sick of our outright stupidity. We just keep going back, let down after let down.
LITERALLY BOL cuz I ALWAYS say that every time I see him!😂😂😂 Why do a lot of these male coaches think they gotta scream?
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@@KeniLuvthey tired of the hardheadedness
Your hair looks beautiful 😻
Thank you for helping us, i was waiting for this topic ❤
same
The problem is that a lot of women don’t love themselves, they don’t really know the person and to top it up they don’t care about their own health, signs of self hate
Sleeping with someone that you don’t know ( a stranger, a person you meet for less than 5 years)
Texting ( because you don’t value your time )
Having superficial conversations.
Don’t ask from the jump an STD and an Eliza test.
Signs of self love
Ask from the jump what intentions he have with you
Not saying what type of men you want
Not sleeping until marriage
Asking critical questions values, beliefs, morals, religion, politics, life vision, life goals or dreams, perception of people, perception of self, roll in marriage, roll in as a father, family goals.
Ask for an STD and Eliza test from the jump be done every month until you get married so the relationship must be 7+ years to get married to that person because it takes up to 5 years to show HIV and AIDS on the Elisa test. A lot of women don’t value their body so they sleep with a boyfriend or a random and then they go to heartbreak and problems for they lack of self love on top many of them end up with AIDS because a lot of men are sleeping around not only with women but with other men. So don’t give wife privilege to a boyfriend and wait until marriage and make a conscious decision with who you are having kids and putting your life at their hands. Forgot to add no texting just make sure he call you all the time and if is a text must be because is a necessary, the reason is because you will hear his tone of voice how invested is he on you how much time he stays on the phone is not a problem to call at any time ( obviously you know not call on his working hours)
This is beautiful sis 👏👏, 100 hundred percent accurate 👏❤️🔥
thank you love
Damnnn why he yelling lol.
I’m not trying to make excuses but as someone who has an autistic partner, who struggles with emotional communication, it’s not so cut and dry. 😭😭
@@asiahenry4056 Run the other way. Unless you’re also on the spectrum you have set yourself up for failure.
@@TH-camUzername What makes you say that?
@@user-kp3rc4eq8x Don’t take my word, do your research.
Why you with him
Don't be with someone who use their disability as an excuse
@@user-kp3rc4eq8x Do your research, there is a ton of information out there about the situation that she is in. She’s wasting her time
I hear you but people don’t need to scream at us to explain something. 😮
All the trauma dumping men do to women - yet, you dont think he’ll call and do it? Interesting.
I knew someone like this and I stopped wasting my time and moved on
Its so simple once you learn how to love yourself. But I mean REALLY love yourself. Bc before that you will desperately look for that type of love on other people. And the more out of reach a person seems, the more you will want them to love you.
But when you replace that search for external love with pure internal love, honey, everything changes. You KNOW you dont need that man who seems great but is not that into you to love you back, bc you already do and his validation is not needed. Let him go find the girl he actually wants and open the door for you to be loved by another man the way you know you should be loved
But what if he's very present takes you on dates, but is emotionally manipulative and coercive.. wont let me get a point out and he won't take accountability but wants to take me out to make up for it? No gifts, money and no accountability.. but all in my face and dont want me to date other men!?
Sis , He’s not good for you , I’ve had an ex like who acted the same as you described , that’s Narcissistic behavior toxic men don’t want to commit to you , but they don’t want you with anyone else , just because a man keeps coming back to you doesn’t mean he loves you , a toxic man will breadcrumb you with no real effort … when a man truly loves you , he will invest in you emotionally , financially ,and in every oda aspect, and when a man truly loves you , you won’t have to question it , you will know …
He still doesnt like you. That's obvious.
Lady in the white shirt, why are you yelling?! 😂😂😂
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Because yall not listening 🙉
I love watching these videos because they are informative. I’m not in a relationship nor looking, but this is good info for when I decide to get back out there after fully healing. 😊
yall aren't running the same game back on these nikkas? lol
we need better men
Thnku for this video Sony ❤️I love you 😘
Withdraw. Retreat. And let passport bros deal with this. 🕊🕊🕊😅
I think the responses from the men are true for the most part.. but does it really include unhealthy men who need to heal from childhood trauma?
All these comments are so comforting (?)I don’t know if it is the right word to say, of course it’s sad to read the bad experiences you guys had, but the thing is, makes me feel that I am not alone. I wish we could have a group chat to share experiences and advice about relationship or even life… ❤️
I just broke up with a guy who LIED the entire relationship. I found Uber receipts, strip club texts and discussions from him and his buddies, he mentioned that he wanted to stay in more (for money because we’re planning for the future). He blocked the women he talks to and unblocks them when we’re not together. He’s very manipulative and argumentative (sometimes scary and aggressive).
He talks to me all day at work and we’re always at the others apartment… idk when he found time for other bitches, but he planned trips behind my back. Watches porn and the Kardashians lol.
I asked him what he liked about me and he couldn’t come up with ANYTHING 😅 that was the last straw. Not one kind word
My ex husband uses the that’s crazy when ppl call him with problems or his other thing is I don’t give out advice but has no problem asking ppl to including me to pay for food etc. and I used to cuz I didn’t want my kids to see him hungry or without basics. But he used that to manipulate me. And when I called him out on it I got the oh you think I’m manipulating you. 😑🙄I just kept it moving.
Dang I needed to hear this lol
Theres just different kinds of guys. Ive been in the talking phase with a couple of guys can called them up with a problem like car issues and they came to help.
You look like Beyoncé in that hair ❤️😄🔥
As a woman, if i find myself wondering this....the answer is probably that he doesn't
1:53 Classmate!!! Speak on it!!!
Or grown men can be honest about what they want instead of blaming women for not reading between the lines
As a recently married woman,when I met my hubby, he was intentional from the get go- calls,punctual,etc and he is still the same. Brings flowers, spends time, opens doors,calls and texts daily,etc. Get a man who doesn't play games. From the get go when I told him I wanted to get married,he smiled. Told me nowadays men not getting married. Introduced me to his family and co workers and I was not ready 😂. He did propose in front of my mom and his family one day.
Statistics per World Economic Forum predict by 2030, 45 percent of women ages 25-40 will be single and childless...
Lol 😂😂😂 he doesn’t want to be found
3:00 she spoke factsss
7:00 dude went off tbh he hit all the points
Boujee style to the world 🌎
Damn this hits too deep
What if he proposed
We’re married
And I’m still confused
This shit hurts so much more
Out of 2 years being married our recent year was so tough I’ve never been lonelier
Trust your instincts and intuition.
You are still on time. Soon it will be very hard to get out. Do it while you still can.
3:00 factssss😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂
Every time I want a text I just manifest it
#NatalieClarice. My relationship coach, I love this 👠💎👑💪🏿🙏🏿 woman
I was actually approached by a man who only called at a certain time of night or during the day from work. He even asked me if he could call me at work on my break. I knew then that he had someone. I told him that I don't court at work. I stopped answering his phone calls. He got the message and stopped calling. Took all of a week to smoke him out.
Watch how he treats you after sec is so real !!
To be honest that's not true either. One guy was extremely cuddly and attentive. However he just wanted sex. He waited 3 months to obtain, and then bounced. Men will do anything there is no limit with them.
@@ramunebradfordtake2710 I was treated like that, I meant it in that way x
..sayless💯
When a man love bombs lmao
what if he gives you mixed signals but stalks you physically? what does that mean?
They played games thinking they like me but they dont so tired of this
I just stand in the corner where I’m safe in loved. 😂😂
This is wild
He walk like that w his baby mama lol
I use to have a bus friend and he said he went to visit an after 12(in the morning)woman and I said what’s that and he told me. It’s good to have mail friends.