I totally disagree! Your in a relationship not in LLC. One account 😮 our money,our debt, our future!!!we talk about the future and not asking permission to spend our money it comes down to respect
So my girlfriend and now wife makes $80k more than me and for 6 of the 8 years of her schooling we both just lived off my income alone and we treated it as our money. If we wanted to buy something that was unnecessary we always discussed it first but more so when she was in school and we had just my income to budget with.
Suze Orman is my idol! And in my opinion she is correct. Always have your own money and checking account. Both are contributing a percentage based on how much they earn. That’s fair.
This is really bad advice. When you get married, I don’t believe you become one, but you do become one team. Combining finances & budgeting together, forces you to work & plan together, it is difficult at first, but it gets easier & it brings you closer.
I disagree if they are married. This would work if both partners make the same or similar amount of money but suppose the wife makes $100K and the husband $30K. The husband would have less free money to spend however he wants. That is not fair. They are unequal and marriage partners should be equal. You are one when you marry. Now your plan is fine for unmarried couples living together, but I must admit, I don't think unmarried couples should be living together.
Exactly this makes no sense. It falls apart when there is a big disparity in the income. Because lets say they want to save for a vacation, the partner with less money will struggle to save whereas the other partner won't. This will bread resentment which could easily turn into divorce.
When both partners make very different amounts of money they will be able to afford different amounts of things. That's just how it works. That's why it's often helpful to try to get with somebody who's similarly financed as you otherwise you'll run into these issues. What if you want to plan a vacation and the person who makes a lot more wants to sit in first class but the person who makes less can't afford that. Does that mean the person who can't afford it has to bypass what they've worked so hard to afford because the person who makes less cannot? I think that's where you start to run into money problems, especially if the woman is the one who's the significantly higher earner
I do not agree with this advice. I’ve seen it too often where 1 person is forced by some situation outside their control into sacrificing their career over some family crisis and the other person that’s still earning starts using their money as a tool to control and abuse their significant other. Can happen because of childcare or some other family situation. Sometimes there are situations out of your control where you are just trapped. The only right way is co-mingle everything in one pot shared by both.
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I started watching her show when I was 12 and I was mind blown, it was so cool. My parents thought I was an old person trapped in a child’s body lmao.
I totally disagree! Your in a relationship not in LLC. One account 😮 our money,our debt, our future!!!we talk about the future and not asking permission to spend our money it comes down to respect
So my girlfriend and now wife makes $80k more than me and for 6 of the 8 years of her schooling we both just lived off my income alone and we treated it as our money. If we wanted to buy something that was unnecessary we always discussed it first but more so when she was in school and we had just my income to budget with.
What if one partner doesn’t work? Or doesn’t want to?
If they don’t want to work, they don’t want to put effort into anything. If that’s the case, why would you want to be with that person?
2 minutes I will never get back
Suze Orman is my idol! And in my opinion she is correct. Always have your own money and checking account. Both are contributing a percentage based on how much they earn. That’s fair.
This is really bad advice. When you get married, I don’t believe you become one, but you do become one team. Combining finances & budgeting together, forces you to work & plan together, it is difficult at first, but it gets easier & it brings you closer.
Great advice, has worked for us for many years - just keep talking about money and have clear goals.
Fair if both works and with no kids. If the lady needs to have kids, or parents are sick or different circumstances, it won't work.
Why would someone support their spouse to take care of the inlaws. This wouldn't benefit the person or their kids, in laws aren't family.
I disagree if they are married. This would work if both partners make the same or similar amount of money but suppose the wife makes $100K and the husband $30K. The husband would have less free money to spend however he wants. That is not fair. They are unequal and marriage partners should be equal. You are one when you marry. Now your plan is fine for unmarried couples living together, but I must admit, I don't think unmarried couples should be living together.
Exactly this makes no sense. It falls apart when there is a big disparity in the income. Because lets say they want to save for a vacation, the partner with less money will struggle to save whereas the other partner won't. This will bread resentment which could easily turn into divorce.
100% agreed
Lmfao the dude needs to step up and quit mooching off his hard working wife. Yall cray cray! Apply yourselves men.
When both partners make very different amounts of money they will be able to afford different amounts of things. That's just how it works. That's why it's often helpful to try to get with somebody who's similarly financed as you otherwise you'll run into these issues. What if you want to plan a vacation and the person who makes a lot more wants to sit in first class but the person who makes less can't afford that. Does that mean the person who can't afford it has to bypass what they've worked so hard to afford because the person who makes less cannot? I think that's where you start to run into money problems, especially if the woman is the one who's the significantly higher earner
If she had a show again I’d pay for whatever streaming service it was on.
But she might tell me not to lolllllll
Don't
Beautiful ❤thank you🎉
I do not agree with this advice. I’ve seen it too often where 1 person is forced by some situation outside their control into sacrificing their career over some family crisis and the other person that’s still earning starts using their money as a tool to control and abuse their significant other.
Can happen because of childcare or some other family situation. Sometimes there are situations out of your control where you are just trapped.
The only right way is co-mingle everything in one pot shared by both.
Terrible advice.
@@z040880 Why?
Absolutely fair otherwise people easily getting lazy ass and no appreciation
I disagree, 50/50.
I agree 100%
Or...you know...just combine everything. Because you are legally one entity...
False
@@z040880 Get divorced and find out.
@@z040880oh its very true.
Uhm nah. I’ll match 30% of the wage earner that earns the least- that’s our monthly expense.
Terrible advice
She’s evil