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Wow! That was beautifully stated Dr. Umar Johnson. This Man knows what he NEEDS in a very well rounded way and a way that transcends understanding multiple generations of people. Big Ups!
@@chrysanthe1297 What doesn't sound right is your hate, jealousy, envy, and bad-mindedness of another highly intellectual Black man! Stop being a disgrace to the Black and overall human race!
For all the men, sons, out there you could love your wife or gf which is ok 👍🏾 but always remember your mother has an eternal print in your life. She will always be the Queen.
Dr. Umar is absolutely correct. These women don’t want to deal with a man raising children let alone live with and assist an elder mother in law. They about experiences, not struggles.
@@copout510 i don’t disagree and I respect it. There’s good and bad on both sides of it but I think your point also reinforces in general the point of the majority of these conversations of late are speaking to the steeper fall of the black woman from grace. I suppose we have come to expect so much from you that the disappointment of the current state of affairs is overwhelming. If we are going to talk about blame I’m of the camp that places the majority of the blame on the black man for allowing it to get to this. Obviously there are other players in the demise of the black family but we waited way too long to draw a line in the sand.
Real man of great Concious and Character! Nuff respect to Dr. Umar! Treasures of Women/wives: Coretta Scott King Betty Shabazz Camille Cosby Amy Garvey Myrlie Evers Maria Cole
@pan-africanisms Men that have Concious like you in what's left of this immoral society are rare like a blood type! Keep winning Boss! Black Excellence!
@nevergiveupbaby1720 Too bad that you have 2 baby mamas, and that you refer to your mother as a clown! Takes one to know one! Go stand and face the corner! Here is your one way ticket to St. Elsewhere forever! Good riddance!
He is a scammer, and he uses single blk women for money. He's also a constant liar and race baiter. He's not related to Frederick Douglas at all. The actual descendants of Frederick Douglas asked him multiple times to stop spreading that lie to people. Umar Johnson is a total fraud.
Hate to burst your bubble, but you’re obviously lacking in the information department and not up to date, but he’s been showing the progress on his page
He's been collecting money for years. He's thrown out multiple opening dates and failed to reach them all. He said renovations were completed last August but somehow need more work done, etc. What kinda progress is that?
Yeah, most of ours are still asleep. They can fool the other asleep folks by being able to talk the talk, but none of them really know what the work is and either way and more importantly, are unwilling to put in the work.
This is a great observation to make/conversation to have with your potential future spouse. I personally was on the other side: It was the neediness of my former partner's mother that added to the reasons I ended the relationship. He made it clear that if we were to get married, his mother would come with him. His mother (who isn't elderly) selfishly made very poor decisions/life choices, and as a result, both her health and finances are suffering. As his potential spouse, the responsibility of taking care of her would also fall on me, and that's not something I'm willing to sign up for out the gate. Unpopular opinion: The vast majority of us have been groomed to believe that our role as adult children is to take care of our parents. No... a child does not ask to be here, and thus, should not be expected to provide for parents out of OBLIGATION. Every adult is responsible for their own life; mothers/fathers expecting their adult children to take care of them ESPECIALLY when they've spent a lifetime of living reckless and making poor decisions, is crazy as hell to me.
I was looking for a comment like this. You are spot on! Too many unhealed adults out here! I also feel like people who grew up in safe and healthy families don't understand the struggles of having toxic/abusive parents who are still alive and still bring harm and dysfunction to their adult children's lives.
@@MeganJai Yes, sis! Parents and family members in general are often our first and worst abusers, and get away with it because of who they are to us. Taking care of your parent(s) is indeed a noble act, and if you are looking for someone who will help you take care of yours, this should definitely be discussed with your potential partner/spouse.
Some people was blessed with a good mother, father or both parents. This is a super real problem. Because someone have a foocked up mother or parent(s) life isn’t over, but failing to self help in attempts every day of living to solve the issue is. Maybe no parent has ever been perfect being a human being. But I’ve heard about the most wildest situations being true (of bad) and it’s not mostly good being the sick person of having to live with the person NOT interested in no kind of help. Solution get help. Even go full blast and first to God
What's his relationship with his kids? That matters more to decent black women than anything. He has a son in chicago, and two daughters in philly. And possibly a child in London with a white woman. No decent revolutionary sistah wants a rolling stone.
I don't see the matter about Dr Umar living with his old mom. I think his right to look after her. I think his right to look for a wife who would accept to live w/ his mom. It's how we treat our parents in the African cultures.
Well in the African culture especially Mother in law it’s a huge problem. The African mother in law DOMINATES and Rules her Son as he bowed to his mother’s needs and wants compared to the Wife. I lived in West Africa for Eight years and I was experienced HORROR stories with African mother in laws, especially with their SONS. It’s a COMPETITION and reaps TOTAL MISERY-for the Wife.
@@kreativeforce532 Nope! The African mother in law LOVESSSSSSSS to compete rather than co-operate. Please I beg don’t talk your RUBBISH to me because I KNOW THE DEAL. Usually, the African mother in law is the Daughter GREATEST Heartache. You are embarrassed because I am exposing the BLOODY Truth.
@@kreativeforce532 Lie, it’s will Always a Competition for the African mother in law. She feels like she does not need to co operate its her SON . End of story
Yea, Dr. Uhmar is correct about its, some people put the mother in law out of the house for the mate. But most woman don't want to share there spouse with another woman !!!
@@Footballer85749 SMH, guys like him especially with his popularity don’t commit. He has two daughters, by two different women, and the kids are 10 years apart. Marriage minded men would had tie the knot with one of those two ladies in an effort to provide their child a solid home.
This is real zealous men need zealous women.... the average eve is too wrap up in babylon.... however there are some sisters that's ready do this thing
African Proverb👉If your wife and mother was drowning on a boat--Who would you save first-The African man said his MOTHER because he can ALWAYS get another WIFE.
Facts!!!! I think most people would agree that you should help your parents or be a support system for them & show love to your parents but once you make a commitment to a woman & child, there should be appropriate boundaries between parents & their married kids. A wife & children shouldn't have to worry or feel threatened by the relationship their spouse has with their parents because it should be compartmentalize.....meaning, your mother is your mother & that is a type of relationship & your wife is your wife & that is its own relationship. Both have a place in your life. But, the way Dr. Umar is speaking & based on other things he's said, if I were a woman dating him & we were talking about or sharing ideas about what marriage means & looks like to us, I would be incredibly concerned & already feel like there is no point in taking things further because I'd be uncomfortable with how he understands his relationship with his mother & the type of boundaries they have. With "mama's boys," it sounds like there could be some emotional incest going on. No healthy, self-respecting woman wants to deal with that.
Bingo! He talked about selfish women but anybody who was listening closely, drawing inferences & thinking critically would conclude that Dr. Umar is selfish too!
😅Heyy I don’t blame Dr. Umar if you can’t even do this simple assignment how can you be his wife. At least he is a man that knows what he wants and what he is looking for in a wife. Unfortunately, I don’t think there are enough revolutionary black queens out there who go hard for their people just like there aren’t a lot of black conscious Kings. Maybe that will change soon enough as more black people start to awaken to who they truly are and their history.
Wow I’ve never seen the interviewer before lol he looks nothing like I expected. The mind is so interesting 😂😂 I imagined a caramel complexion l man with locks and glasses 😭😭 idk why. Reminds me of Covid mask wearing. Your brain just be making stuff up for no good reason.
How old his he ? Why he is not in a commit relationship? Where is his family? I would love to see him in a loving normal relationship. At least to set example.
He's not talking cate of his mother. Umar lives off of her when he's home and lives off her section 8 housing and benefits. Everyone in North Philly knows this.
Is Umar a man of the bible. As referenced in the good book. You should have one wife. All this polygamy is not of the bible. If you disagree please reference.
And you calling yourself a momma's boy at 50 years old speaks to his mentality and the lack of growth in my opinion. People suspect Umar still lives with his mother when he isn't traveling all over the place. Sounds more like a dependant than being close.
Yes 💥💥💥🫡🫡 i know male friends whom suffer cause their ONLy criteria is looks.....Ooh they gonna get that drama....😂 Maturity is vital in making good choices....no lies
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Wow! That was beautifully stated Dr. Umar Johnson. This Man knows what he NEEDS in a very well rounded way and a way that transcends understanding multiple generations of people. Big Ups!
Grown men who care for their elderly or not in good health mothers are rare like a blood type!
Nuff respect to
Dr. Umar!
How can he take care of his mother and still tour. That don’t sound right
@@chrysanthe1297
What doesn't sound right is your hate, jealousy, envy, and
bad-mindedness of another highly intellectual Black man!
Stop being a disgrace to the Black and overall human race!
Let’s hope Dr. Umar finds a woman as committed to the cause as he is!
A woman that's committed to scamming?
TWO women!....but hey, women today don't mind sharing!👀🤣
He’s not finding a woman who’s willing to partake in cringe polyamory at his old age
@@nevergiveupbaby1720 lmao facts. Older bw are too bitter and jealous. Not all but most are.
No self respecting black woman getting with this bum 😂😂😂
One Queen Dr Umar!
I agree with Dr Umar! Brilliant!!👏🏽👏🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
Thank You Sista, We are Building the Blk Community!!
I’m with you Dr umar
Thank you Sista!!
For all the men, sons, out there you could love your wife or gf which is ok 👍🏾 but always remember your mother has an eternal print in your life. She will always be the Queen.
Get help Norma Bates
@@grammargeek9771
I’m a woman I’m not a man.
😕.
@@mariambaraka3353 Norma Bates is Norman Bates’ mother. Please reread what I wrote.
@@mariambaraka3353 Norma Bates is Norman Bates’ mother. Please reread what I wrote. You can read right?
@@copout510 Ah I see those two names can get confusing.
Dr. Umar is absolutely correct. These women don’t want to deal with a man raising children let alone live with and assist an elder mother in law. They about experiences, not struggles.
@@copout510 if you say so
@@copout510 you seem to be personalizing the matter. I thought we were all speaking in general terms. But I’ve heard you.
@@copout510 i don’t disagree and I respect it. There’s good and bad on both sides of it but I think your point also reinforces in general the point of the majority of these conversations of late are speaking to the steeper fall of the black woman from grace. I suppose we have come to expect so much from you that the disappointment of the current state of affairs is overwhelming. If we are going to talk about blame I’m of the camp that places the majority of the blame on the black man for allowing it to get to this. Obviously there are other players in the demise of the black family but we waited way too long to draw a line in the sand.
Real man of great Concious and Character!
Nuff respect to
Dr. Umar!
Treasures of Women/wives:
Coretta Scott King
Betty Shabazz
Camille Cosby
Amy Garvey
Myrlie Evers
Maria Cole
Those women/wives are gifts indeed!
Thank You Family!!!
@pan-africanisms
Men that have Concious like you in what's left of this immoral society are rare like a blood type!
Keep winning Boss!
Black Excellence!
He made two black women baby mommas no respect for him 🤡
@nevergiveupbaby1720
Too bad that you have 2 baby mamas, and that you refer to your mother as a clown!
Takes one to know one!
Go stand and face the corner!
Here is your one way ticket to
St. Elsewhere forever!
Good riddance!
Committed not only for you caring for your Mom, but the other woman too.😅
Behind the scenes before the full video is crazy 😂🤦🏽♂️
I love Dr. Umar! He is an amazing man!
Thank You Sista!!
Christ is amazing.
He is something...the word isn't amazing
@@GenesisGunn 😂🤣😅
He is a scammer, and he uses single blk women for money. He's also a constant liar and race baiter. He's not related to Frederick Douglas at all. The actual descendants of Frederick Douglas asked him multiple times to stop spreading that lie to people. Umar Johnson is a total fraud.
Beautiful said. Now stop scamming your own people and build that school you promised.
Hate to burst your bubble, but you’re obviously lacking in the information department and not up to date, but he’s been showing the progress on his page
He's been collecting money for years. He's thrown out multiple opening dates and failed to reach them all. He said renovations were completed last August but somehow need more work done, etc. What kinda progress is that?
I was talking with my brothers about this and their answer is "the women married them not the family".
tis the european way. such a woman wants a "white" wedding for a reason.
In reality marriage is all about social relationships between families, so that's very wrong
Yeah, most of ours are still asleep. They can fool the other asleep folks by being able to talk the talk, but none of them really know what the work is and either way and more importantly, are unwilling to put in the work.
Deep! ✊🏾
Thank You For All The Support Brothers and Sistas, Peace and Pan-Africanism!!
Stop impersonating
This is a great observation to make/conversation to have with your potential future spouse. I personally was on the other side: It was the neediness of my former partner's mother that added to the reasons I ended the relationship. He made it clear that if we were to get married, his mother would come with him. His mother (who isn't elderly) selfishly made very poor decisions/life choices, and as a result, both her health and finances are suffering. As his potential spouse, the responsibility of taking care of her would also fall on me, and that's not something I'm willing to sign up for out the gate.
Unpopular opinion: The vast majority of us have been groomed to believe that our role as adult children is to take care of our parents. No... a child does not ask to be here, and thus, should not be expected to provide for parents out of OBLIGATION. Every adult is responsible for their own life; mothers/fathers expecting their adult children to take care of them ESPECIALLY when they've spent a lifetime of living reckless and making poor decisions, is crazy as hell to me.
I was looking for a comment like this.
You are spot on! Too many unhealed adults out here!
I also feel like people who grew up in safe and healthy families don't understand the struggles of having toxic/abusive parents who are still alive and still bring harm and dysfunction to their adult children's lives.
@@MeganJai Yes, sis! Parents and family members in general are often our first and worst abusers, and get away with it because of who they are to us.
Taking care of your parent(s) is indeed a noble act, and if you are looking for someone who will help you take care of yours, this should definitely be discussed with your potential partner/spouse.
“It’s over.”😂😂
Real man
Good information 👍ℹ️
Some people was blessed with a good mother, father or both parents. This is a super real problem. Because someone have a foocked up mother or parent(s) life isn’t over, but failing to self help in attempts every day of living to solve the issue is. Maybe no parent has ever been perfect being a human being. But I’ve heard about the most wildest situations being true (of bad) and it’s not mostly good being the sick person of having to live with the person NOT interested in no kind of help. Solution get help. Even go full blast and first to God
What's his relationship with his kids? That matters more to decent black women than anything. He has a son in chicago, and two daughters in philly. And possibly a child in London with a white woman. No decent revolutionary sistah wants a rolling stone.
You don’t know what a revolutionairy sistah wants haha. Which one do you know.
He said he only has two daughters with two black women.
@@grammargeek9771 He's not being truthful. I've been following his story since 2010.
I don't see the matter about Dr Umar living with his old mom. I think his right to look after her. I think his right to look for a wife who would accept to live w/ his mom. It's how we treat our parents in the African cultures.
Well in the African culture especially Mother in law it’s a huge problem. The African mother in law DOMINATES and Rules her Son as he bowed to his mother’s needs and wants compared to the Wife. I lived in West Africa for Eight years and I was experienced HORROR stories with African mother in laws, especially with their SONS. It’s a COMPETITION and reaps TOTAL MISERY-for the Wife.
@@daphnesmith1686 only if you want to compete instead of co-operate.
@@kreativeforce532 Nope! The African mother in law LOVESSSSSSSS to compete rather than co-operate. Please I beg don’t talk your RUBBISH to me because I KNOW THE DEAL. Usually, the African mother in law is the Daughter GREATEST Heartache. You are embarrassed because I am exposing the BLOODY Truth.
@@kreativeforce532 Lie, it’s will Always a Competition for the African mother in law. She feels like she does not need to co operate its her SON . End of story
where da revolutionary queens at?
Everywhere!!!
Everywhere and nowhere
Funny he said African people are selfish he wouldn’t say women! I caught that
He MUST pander to women; he is the hotep steve harvey.
Yea, Dr. Uhmar is correct about its, some people put the mother in law out of the house for the mate. But most woman don't want to share there spouse with another woman !!!
That's just the excuse. But continue thinking all parents are mother/father of the year candidates.
I see him and Ann Coulter getting together.
The dude has two baby mamas who are ten years apart and he’s close to 50.. what’s he waiting for…lol. Folks be eating his words up ..smh
I think you misunderstood things... that's why he said most sisters think it's an act and aren't committed enough
@royalcapitalfx9814 4 kids though? Wouldn't he vet them?
@@Footballer85749 SMH, guys like him especially with his popularity don’t commit. He has two daughters, by two different women, and the kids are 10 years apart. Marriage minded men would had tie the knot with one of those two ladies in an effort to provide their child a solid home.
@@shawn_and_onesometimes it’s the woman who runs the guy away from her past trauma
@@marvinwashington2600 Then he needs to choose better and stay out of other folks relations until he can live what he’s speaking on…
This is real zealous men need zealous women.... the average eve is too wrap up in babylon.... however there are some sisters that's ready do this thing
I’m woman number 2 Dr. Umar … I got you 😉
I like dat
yo wife come 1st before everyone once yall married not yo parents doc wrong on this one
African Proverb👉If your wife and mother was drowning on a boat--Who would you save first-The African man said his MOTHER because he can ALWAYS get another WIFE.
Facts!!!! I think most people would agree that you should help your parents or be a support system for them & show love to your parents but once you make a commitment to a woman & child, there should be appropriate boundaries between parents & their married kids. A wife & children shouldn't have to worry or feel threatened by the relationship their spouse has with their parents because it should be compartmentalize.....meaning, your mother is your mother & that is a type of relationship & your wife is your wife & that is its own relationship. Both have a place in your life. But, the way Dr. Umar is speaking & based on other things he's said, if I were a woman dating him & we were talking about or sharing ideas about what marriage means & looks like to us, I would be incredibly concerned & already feel like there is no point in taking things further because I'd be uncomfortable with how he understands his relationship with his mother & the type of boundaries they have. With "mama's boys," it sounds like there could be some emotional incest going on. No healthy, self-respecting woman wants to deal with that.
@@copout510 Honey bun you have not Traveled. You are uncultured. TRUST MEEEEE
@@copout510 Just based on your MENTALITY alone tells me you are UNCULTURED SWAN. In addition, Read and Travel . ✌️
I thought he was already married from those pictures he posted
That was a fake wedding, from his block parties.
Why do you plan 2 have 2?
Umar bunny hopping more than Bugs Bunny.
I don't know. The mother has to go unless she can't physically and mentally take care of herself.
What cause is Umar supporting only himself..
The cause known as "hit the cash app. "
Look at Mr. Getting it dun over here guys 😂😅😂
Bingo! He talked about selfish women but anybody who was listening closely, drawing inferences & thinking critically would conclude that Dr. Umar is selfish too!
Lol.
Why you laughing 🤣
@@yangasidziya3245 .. at this point is laughable
Grifter is exactly what this guy is... Because he knows how speak some truth lace with a pound of nonsense...
Humanity matter...
😅Heyy I don’t blame Dr. Umar if you can’t even do this simple assignment how can you be his wife. At least he is a man that knows what he wants and what he is looking for in a wife. Unfortunately, I don’t think there are enough revolutionary black queens out there who go hard for their people just like there aren’t a lot of black conscious Kings. Maybe that will change soon enough as more black people start to awaken to who they truly are and their history.
So it's not that easy to marry within the race huh?
Wow I’ve never seen the interviewer before lol he looks nothing like I expected. The mind is so interesting 😂😂 I imagined a caramel complexion l man with locks and glasses 😭😭 idk why.
Reminds me of Covid mask wearing. Your brain just be making stuff up for no good reason.
How old his he ? Why he is not in a commit relationship? Where is his family? I would love to see him in a loving normal relationship. At least to set example.
How sway. You touring and taking care of your mother. 🤔🤔
He's not talking cate of his mother. Umar lives off of her when he's home and lives off her section 8 housing and benefits. Everyone in North Philly knows this.
I thought he already married 2 women? What happened to her?
Where school Dr umar Nonsense..?
I thought he got married to two women a couple of years ago?
That was a fake wedding!
😂😂😂😂
Wait...or 2? Lol
He needs sister souljah
He should've already have been married if he was serious about black women. Dude is a pandering contradiction.
Is Umar a man of the bible. As referenced in the good book. You should have one wife. All this polygamy is not of the bible. If you disagree please reference.
Umar's dream woman is the Cherry Hill snow bunny 🐰 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thought his choice would be "any black woman". Confused man.
Why is a 40+ year old unmarried man trying to tell women what to do and how to be to get married? 🤡
Elders have experience and 40+ is halfway to elderhood in years.
And you calling yourself a momma's boy at 50 years old speaks to his mentality and the lack of growth in my opinion. People suspect Umar still lives with his mother when he isn't traveling all over the place. Sounds more like a dependant than being close.
You are too americanized
We are black not African
Melanin.
What are you debating this PETULANT issue. DAMMMMMMMMM
This dudes mentality is wrong. If you look at it like Wife vs Mom off the bat, then you've already failed.
Yes 💥💥💥🫡🫡 i know male friends whom suffer cause their ONLy criteria is looks.....Ooh they gonna get that drama....😂 Maturity is vital in making good choices....no lies
If you are old and your friends are old too that’s embarrassing
Commited to anything? This other brother is not bout it, Dr. Umar dont waste time on this dude no more please.