Why Men Should Play Cozy Games
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- ➦ Cozy games have been known about by everyone in the gaming community for quite some time now, with the most prominent figures in the plain being titles like Animal Crossing and Stardew Valley. But, there are so many more out there, and they are life-changing experiences. The genre that brings so much comfort usually only appeals to women and people who have never played any game before, due to their blatant boredom they offer, and the lack of competitiveness alongside that. Men usually play games their entire life, so these games never appeal to them. I'm here to change that, and explain exactly why it needs to be changed.
0:36 A Short Hike
0:45 Sea of Solitude
0:54 Once in Flowerlake
1:03 Abzu
1:15 Summerhouse
1:29 Unpacking
1:51 Stardew Valley
1:57 Venba
2:03 Coral Island
2:09 Homestead Arcana
2:20 Limbo
4:39 Pine Hearts
4:43 Dordogne
4:51 Planet of Lana
4:57 Pikuniku
5:03 Cocoon
5:07 Spirittea
5:13 Toem
5:26 Jusant
5:54 Spirit of the North
6:02 GRIS
6:14 Astroneer
6:22 While the Iron's Hot
6:39 Mineko's Night Market
6:50 Frog detective
7:02 Broken age
7:10 Ori and the Blind Forest
7:37 Forager
7:46 Chicory: A Colorful Tale
8:17 Inside
8:30 Spiritfarer
8:43 Starbound
9:00 Suika Game
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I recently had this realization, that I constantly stress myself by watching intense movies/shows, or by playing games that take a toll on the mind. This video helped me understand that it is okay to take it easy. The world we live in is already putting so much weight on us, but the least we can do is put on some more. Thank you for sharing this video and helping so many of us. Keep it up man !!
I’m always here for all of you. I’m glad I could help you come to your realization and I hope that you make the changes that need to be made to make your life more fulfilling. Thank you!
My "cozy" game is actually Elden Ring and Tekken 7. I've gotten to a point where I've become so good at these two games that I play them while turning my mind off. It's so relaxing for me.
Exactly my point, and that’s insane that you have gotten that good at those games. I’ve never even beat a souls-like 😂
@@joffedy btw, if you don't mind me asking, what's your religion?
I loved the look of games you chose to put on the video so i searched for some names. Maybe it's useful for someone else too
0:36 A Short Hike
0:45 Sea of Solitude
0:54 Once in Flowerlake
1:03 Abzu
1:15 Summerhouse
1:29 Unpacking
1:51 Stardew Valley
1:57 Venba
2:03 Coral Island
2:09 Homestead Arcana
2:20 Limbo
4:39 Pine Hearts
4:43 Dordogne
4:51 Planet of Lana
4:57 Pikuniku
5:03 Cocoon
5:07 Spirittea
5:13 Toem
5:26 Jusant
5:54 Spirit of the North
6:02 GRIS
6:14 Astroneer
6:22 While the Iron's Hot
6:39 Mineko's Night Market
6:50 Frog detective
7:02 Broken age
7:10 Ori and the Blind Forest
7:37 Forager
7:46 Chicory: A Colorful Tale
8:17 Inside
8:30 Spiritfarer
8:43 Starbound
9:00 Suika Game
This video is beautiful, definitely a message that needs to be spoken aloud. I'll admit I haven't actually tried to sit and fully focus on a 'Cozy' game - leaning more towards games that trigger my anger issues 😅 But this video has absolutely inspired and pushed me to download stardew valley - which I only bought so my girlfriend could play it (Go figure huh?)
I really hope more people see this video, it's something a lot of people haven't heard that they need to - me included.
I haven't thought twice about subscribing - Keep up the fantastic work.
I knew it wasn’t just me that has had that experience with cozy games 😂 Thank you so much for the kind words, I hope you enjoy your time. I’ve been grinding out Stardew Valley too within the past few months, it’s a fantastic game made by a fantastic solo developer, no regret in downloading.
Dear TH-cam algorithm, please boost this video
I don’t think it will, it only has a 1.2% click through rate right now, meaning out of everyone seeing it only 1.2% of them have clicked. Like 10K people have seen it on their recommended. I sure hope that changes though
@@joffedy it’s still amazing content, keep it up man :)
@@botnfs4640 I'm very grateful you believe that, thank you very much.
💯 agreed I have Biporlar disorder and have been playing a lot of apex and notest while I play I get really stressed and my mine stars racing, I definitely would start playing more calm games thank you so much.
You’re welcome, a few good recommendations right now are Balatro, Suika Game, Stardew Valley, and Superliminal. That’s what I’ve been into heavy. Hope you enjoy your time!
This hit quite close to home. I've personally never been interested in the competitive genre of games. Yes I have played them from time to time if my friends invited me, but they were never something I'd play by myself. I just didn't see the fun in spending countless hours shooting people to rank higher , I've always found the most enjoyment in calm games where I can do what I wanna do and at my own pace, like: Minecraft or Scrap Mechanic. Absolutely fantastic video!
Thank you so much! I'm glad you could relate to what I'm personally going through and how growing up is evolving my palate as time goes on. I'm at the point now where I don't even know why I ever played competitive games to begin with, and sort of regret never turning to the cozier side of games sooner.
@@joffedy At least you've done it now, better late than never!
@@starlight.productions That’s it right there
really awesome video!!! i’ve been trying to get my boyfriend to play more “cozy” games and we’ve both been having so much fun!!
They are so enjoyable, and thank you for watching!
I just found your channel like a hidden gem mine. This video really made me realise how competitive games don't really make me happy in the long run. That's why i started playing Minecraft as my comfort game again, it still has a little bit of excitement but still doesnt have add that much toxicity to my life. Thank you for this video.❤
You're very welcome. I think competitive games will always have a place in the community, but as time goes on there is definitely going to be a shift in the genre that becomes the frontrunner of it all. More and more people will start to rely more heavily on games that make them happy and provide them with a true escape from the trials and tribulations of life, which competitive games can often not provide. I'm glad you found something within yourself after viewing a piece of content I created, and I more than appreciate your kind words. I also hope to see you around here again soon. Thank you!
As a man who has played almost solely cozy games for years, you are speaking facts
Got any good recommendations I didn’t mention or show on screen? I’d love to find some more hidden gems.
@joffedy Viva Piñata, as well as Viva Piñata Trouble in Paradise, are some of my favorite games I have ever played, even though they're actually quite old now. It's basically a garden simulation game where you grow plants and tame piñatas (basically animals), and the only real threat is Professor Pestor and the Ruffians, who show up once you progress and aren't that hard to stop. It's targeted to children, however, I still love it anyways, and It's available on xbox 360 (but I think it's backwards compatible with newer xbox's), and I believe there is a pc version, although I'm not sure. I'm not good at explaining things, so I would suggest researching it to understand it better.
@@C6H14O7 I definitely will look more into it! I remember seeing it when it came out years and years ago, but never dove deeper into it
Great video! You've got youself a new subscriber
Great to have you!
Great video, friend. I never even thought about what some of these games is doing to me. WoW is my cozy game - I’ve been playing with friends for 10 years now and the music, art, and gameplay loop always feels like home.
That’s awesome to hear. So many people are coming here and talking about their favorite cozy games, and most aren’t even a part of the category. I’m so happy that most of you are finding comfort in everything already. It’s a great thing to hear. Thank you for the kind words, and I hope to talk to you again soon.
5:40 really hit home, I really love “no love in the house of gold” thank you for including their music in this amazing video😓
Thank you so much for watching!
Me and my clean 25 years of not playing competitive games: uh, no, I don't do nor have ever done any of that stuff, for the reasons cited in the video above. I just noticed it when I was still a kid, I guess... I'm a woman though.
I'm REALLY good at games though, gaming has been my main hobby since I was a little kid. I've got all achievements for both Hollow Knight and Hades. I just... Feel like challenging myself, at my own pace from time to time, rather than competing online constantly... But only when a game is so good that becoming masterful at playing it feels like a reward in itself.
That’s an extremely healthy way of looking at it. I appreciate you telling your side of the discussion it’s very interesting to hear. I’m glad that you can find so much fulfillment already without having to make much change to your preconceived routine.
That was a very good video. I love that you started with this very good verse from Bible and finished with Solar Ash. We are all allowed to feel deeper than we're taught. That's good we have videos like yours pushing us to break the chains and get cozy :)
I just feel as though there isn’t enough positivity out there and will never be. I want to change that narrative as much as I can, in any way I can. And I also want to get rid of the disconnect between audience and creator, we are not just that, we are all just people walking the same Earth. And while we are here, we might as well try to enjoy and live the most fulfilling lives we can, because if not, then what’s really the point?
@@joffedy I've just shared your video on my discord server. I'm looking forward for your next videos buddy :)
@@theMautheus Thank you man, I look forward to seeing you back here again soon!
This is why I play cozy games, it helps me mentally, ever since covid hit its been hard even. Was in college at the time when everyone is on Zoom and that's when my anxiety took over. After covid, it made it hard for me to talk to people in person. I just got used to staring at a screen. It sucks, people see me normally but in the inside my anxiety would be going through the roof. Calm relaxing games like Stardew Valley, Coral Island, and many other cozy games and some regular games help me cope. Especially when it is with my friends.
Take care of your self bois, especially your mental health!
As a person that has had crippling anxiety so bad to the point where I’d go into full blown panic attacks during the middle of in person classes at school or anywhere in public, I understand all of that more than ever. I look for the comfort in everything because I have always needed to, if not I’d let the anxiety get the best of me 9/10 times. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope you have a blessed life.
I'll be back in a week, when this has over 250k views
That would be a dream come true, I hope to see you there.
I love stardew but I often find myself rushing through it and trying to be as optimal as possible. It’s wild how you can take a clam experience and over gameify it to make it stressful
I completely understand what you’re saying. It’s very important to be aware that we all do that, and just slow down. I find myself often rushing through even cozy games just to complete everything I have to, and it doesn’t ever fully fulfill me.
These games are so beautiful that it's a pity that their names are not shown (please someone write the names of these games)
0:36 A Short Hike
0:45 Sea of Solitude
0:54 Once in Flowerlake
1:03 Abzu
1:15 Summerhouse
1:29 Unpacking
1:51 Stardew Valley
1:57 Venba
2:03 Coral Island
2:09 Homestead Arcana
2:20 Limbo
4:39 Pine Hearts
4:43 Dordogne
4:51 Planet of Lana
4:57 Pikuniku
5:03 Cocoon
5:07 Spirittea
5:13 Toem
5:26 Jusant
5:54 Spirit of the North
6:02 GRIS
6:14 Astroneer
6:22 While the Iron's Hot
6:39 Mineko's Night Market
6:50 Frog detective
7:02 Broken age
7:10 Ori and the Blind Forest
7:37 Forager
7:46 Chicory: A Colorful Tale
8:17 Inside
8:30 Spiritfarer
8:43 Starbound
9:00 Suika Game
Sorry about that, I'll be sure to put them all in the description!
@@joffedy OMG HE DID IT ACTUALY
Thank you so much man, This video is a my favourite type of video to watch or make. I appreciate your work man, Keep it up. I appreciate your words and ideas, they're so rereshing to see.
Thank you so much. I put my heart into my creativity, I’m so glad it resonates with you as much as it does.
Stumbled upon your channel with your minecraft Xbox 360 video. And was quite pleasantly surprised with your content man! Good video ideas and great narration! You’ve earned a sub.
P.S great Bible verse at the start! God bless you man! And quite Excited to see what you post next! 😎
Also just a few of my cozy games are minecraft of course! 😂 battlefield 1 and hotline Miami!
Thank you so much. You’re one of the only people that have not only mentioned it, but showed your own beliefs toward it. It’s so nice that I’m growing a community around me of people just like me little steps at a time. I appreciate your acquaintance, and I’ll be praying for you. Hope to talk more again soon.
@@joffedyNo worries!! And It’s hard to find TH-camrs that are open about their beliefs! So thank you for that! :) and I’m sure you’ll get many more like minded folk!
And ditto! I’ll definitely be sticking around! 😎🤙🏻
@@Darkobserver0 To be a Christian is to not only be proud of what you believe in but to also not cower in fear at the thought of speaking openly about beliefs. I want to be the hands and feet to lead people to a better life
@@joffedy couldn’t have said it better myself! it’s not always an easy road but it’s sure worth it. God bless and have a wonderful week man! :)
this video is pure art from the sound design to even just the visual level nice work!
Thank you so much, you are the first person to point out those specific parts of the video, and those are the parts that I worked the hardest on, that’s the biggest compliment you could possibly give me.
Commenting for the algorythm, great video!
Thank you so much! That really means the world.
Hey I love the videos. I hope your channel gets more traction because you are quite unique and very wise.
Please though, don’t forget the rest of the verse at the beginning of the video.
If you think it becomes a problem, respectfully I think you miss the true message behind it. Not trying to attack you, but that tends to be a miss conception that people tend to have when it comes to
Seeking first the Kingdom of God.
I’m not sure what you’re getting at? What do you mean if I think it becomes a problem and that I’m missing the meaning behind it?
@@joffedy Ahh I’ve had many people take anything I say about religion in a terrible light.
Usually an instinctual reaction instead of reading what I say.
I also may have forgotten to say what I was trying to.
Seeking the kingdom of God is the next part of the verse you quoted at the beginning of your video.
It’s important and isn’t far from the topic of your video.
@@johnmcwick1 Oh, I’m aware of that that’s my fault. I did that on purpose, to not seem pushy toward religion as soon as you open the video up. My goal is to always take the word of God and use it in a way to where it introduces people to Christianity and how amazing and uplifting it can be for your life, without just shoving it in your face and having a whole preaching session because some people have sour spots toward religion and Churches in their past. I don’t want to ever even get close to stirring up any bad feelings toward it, so I just quote the main sections that can relate to every day problems that everyone may have. Then, I let the audience take it from there. If they find it enlightening they should take it upon themselves to go seek out more of the word on their own journey, I just open the door for that journey to begin.
@@joffedy that makes sense and I think is a wise approach to the situation. I advise the use of the whole verse but do what you are lead to, I don’t know the intricacies lol.
Regardless I love the videos and you have given me a lot of hope I really needed today. I pray God blesses your channel to reach more people.
@@johnmcwick1 I’ll be sure to take your advice. I think you are right, I just get nervous around situations like this and never know what is the truly the right way to lead people to God without turning them away. I appreciate the advice, and I appreciate the compliments. Glad to meet you, I hope to see you around soon.
how is your tiktok so unserious like the fnaf video and then this beauty just exists on your yt
Soon both will have serious and unserious parts alike. I'm glad too see that people enjoy both sides and I hope to see you around soon in all the upcoming posts!
wonderful video. just perfect.
Thank you!
Thank you, for making this video.
Thank you for sitting through it, that means more than anything to me.
Great video. Hope it gets the attention it deserves
Thank you! Hope to see you around!
100%, games should be relaxing ESPECIALLY for adults. This is a great video!! Could you tell us what the games shown in it are? I would love to play them all!
0:30 - Sea Of Thieves
0:42 - A Short Hike
0:45 - Sea Of Solitude
0:54 - Once in Flowerlake
0:58 - Minecraft
1:04 - Abzu
1:24 - Lightyear Frontier
1:30 - Unpacking
1:57 - Venba
2:06 - Coral Island
2:10 - Homestead Arcana
2:20 - Limbo
4:43 - Dordogne
4:52 - Planet Of Lana
4:57 - Pikuniku
5:04 - Cocoon
5:08 - Spirittea
5:13 - TOEM
5:28 - Jusant
5:54 - Spirit of The North
6:16 - Astroneer
6:22 - While The Iron’s Hot
6:35 - Supraland: Six Inches Under
6:40 - Mineko’s Night Market
6:51 - Frog Detective: The Entire Mystery
7:12 - Ori and The Blind Forest
7:37 - Forager
7:47 - Chicory: A Colorful Tale
8:09 - A Little To The Left
8:15 - Inside
8:34 - Animal Crossing
8:42 - Starbound
9:00 - Suika Game
10:36 - Solar Ash
That’s pretty much all of them. There are a few I had to leave out because I recorded them from Steam demos that aren’t available anymore, and I can’t get the names of at the moment. Out of all of them I’d recommend Suika Game, Sea of Thieves, Stardew Valley, and Animal Crossing as some gateway games to get you into the genre to begin. Also, Balatro is a great one that came out recently that I didn’t include in the video. Thank you!
@@joffedy Thank you SO much, I also recognized SpiritFarer and Gris in there just in case somebody wants to take a look at this list
@@AliceValentine Oh yes my apologies, I'm not even sure how I just grazed over those two.
Im entirely not religious, but you popped off with this one. a conversation people arent ready for
You don’t have to be religious at all, and I will never ask anything of any viewer. Either way, most religions have very positive messages morally that just hearing about and following the rule books of, will make you a better person. I only include messages like that in here because I am proud of what I believe in, not because I’m trying to pressure anyone into anything. And, because no matter what you believe in, some messages will help everyone.
cozy games are good but theres also healing in agitation. frequently keeping the mind and senses sharp is healthy. all in moderation.
I feel as though we shouldn’t just solely play one genre or the other as well, but adding the cozy game genre to your catalog will make you enjoy your other games that drive you crazy now, so much more, as your mental will have those breaks that are much needed, and the distance from those games will make coming back to them that much better.
Very well put!
Thanks!
What is the game at 4:45? great video!
It’s called “Dordogne”. And, thank you!
does the stanly parable count?
Definitely, any game can be comforting for anybody. In all different types of ways.
What's the game at 1:11? Looks so beautiful
It’s called Albatroz, releasing sometime this year on Steam!
Liked this video a good bit, but i notice a good bit of people that do similar content also are religous in some way i find it odd its so common, even the one who started this revival of this content is, nothing wrong with faith i just think it shouldnt be so forced on, or am i thinking wrong, i dont have much social experiences with people of religon, so not sure how to address things if im not a believer of such, all i know is i am a human, somehow we exist, but i cant say any human religion is real because of the sheer universe there is, no religon can be real until we know its real, all we can have is faith of it being real, but it takes away from what can be seen by our eyes as real, we have a planet, we have other planets, we cant set foot on them too easily but they are there, and other planets exist too that could have life, what is their reality?, life is too complicated, but our efforts of living should be appricated, they dont last forever, and if your life will be making content like this, to inspire others, to give others faith in life, then that's your gift to humanity, i thank you.
I know exactly who you’re talking about when you bring up the style of content. I only wanted to sort of take inspiration from that when it came to the thumbnail though, otherwise it’s all completely my own thoughts, my own beliefs, and who I am completely as a person. I am 100% open and honest when making these as I value that way more than the normal structure of TH-cam content that is popularized right now. I have been talking like this in all of my recent new videos because I saw faults in what I did before, I was too disconnected as a person, trying to hard to just be an influencer and not a person. Also, I completely understand your stance on religion, the world is so complex, you could sit here all day and think about all the different possibilities that could be out there when it comes to outer space and whatever else, but it’s important we take everything we have in front of us as it is and use that to determine our own beliefs off of all of that. We will only truly know what is true until after death. I try my best also to not pry and push anything onto anyone because that’s not the way to spread religion, you’re never supposed to shove anything down anyone’s throat and you are completely correct for saying that, and I’m sorry if you felt that way about this video. My main goal is to just help people be better, live happier lives, and to grow genuine relationships with everyone because we are all just people, I’m not just a person behind a screen, and neither are you.
what is the building game at 1:17? thank you
I’m actually not sure anymore, I’ve been looking for it because I really enjoyed it. It was a Steam Demo in the Steam Next Fest about a month back and I can’t recall the name.
It's called Summerhouse :)
@@lionellendt Thank you 🙏
@@lionellendt thank you
Ik this is weird but Sleeping dogs is the cozy game for me 😅
@@ImTheConqueror No, I completely get it, I have a bunch of weird games that wouldn’t normally be called “cozy” that are cozy to me too.
I love stardew valley
It’s the best
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Fuck that. We’re not more important than birds. We’re just another animal.
Be respectful. There’s no negativity here on this video, so don’t bring any.
@@joffedy grow up dude. I stated an opinion.
@@SuperMurph1991 It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Either way your entitled to your own beliefs and I'm not here to argue.
@@joffedy well I believe "fuck that" isn't that serious and if you want to exist on the internet you need to grow a thicker skin.
@@SuperMurph1991 I believe if you want to exist on this Earth, you need to understand human interaction to a greater degree and drop all of your hostility. We are all just people with our own beliefs and lack thereof. I would never personally speak in any tone that could ever come off as derogatory toward anyone’s religion, as it’s all I’ve had to already deal with my whole life, I feel for them, I can step foot in their shoes. It’s not a matter of be being a strong human being, it’s a matter of you needing to learn and gain a new perspective. Even if you don’t think it’s that serious, to some it may be. Just be more positive, that’s all, and that’s not a lot to ask. You seem hurt, and you’re propelling your pain onto others. And, I’m sorry to say it, but that will never leave you fulfilled. Trying to be a genuine, well mannered, respectable human will, even past religion. Do me a favor, before you respond to this, gain a new perspective, hold back your tongue and anger, and just be…nice.
disliked, i hope your games become uncomfortable.
Disliked, I hope your comments become uncomfortable.
@@FineSugarSwine Disliked, I hope your replies become uncomfortable.
disliked, I grabbed your IP and I am heading to your house right now
Not cool man.
REALY REALY Great Video, I Subscribe !
But whats the name of the game on 1.23 Min and on 1.14?
Not sure about the one at 1:14, but I remember not enjoying any other parts in it besides the part I showed in the video of the driving. The other at 1:23 though is called Lightyear Frontier and it comes out March 19th.
@@joffedy Allright Thank xou very much
@@joffedy Allright Thank you very much
@@vollidioten-hauptquatier2781 Not a problem at all!